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very true. i havent had sex in over 4 years now and i couldnt be happier about that. no health problems, no drama, no nonsense. wish i had known all these things when i was a teenager. i would have kept to myself until marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/22 10:53 PM
7

totally agree. considering how much money men owe for all the medical problems they've given me, and to top it off they wasted my youth, i think i deserve more than a few dinners. i deserve to be treated like a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:32 AM
16

i'm done XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:28 AM
4

just.... unreal... wow....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:26 AM
20

100% EXACTLY on the medical bills... men have costed me 1,000s of dollars over their degeneracy....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:23 AM
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i havent used a dating app since i found FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 05:22 AM
4

i'm so sorry for what you're going through. we are here for you. one thing that helped me was reading FDS because i realized it wasn't just me who was the problem, its men in general. everyone's experiences were so similar to mine that i was able to see the larger pattern. once we know what men are, we can navigate their deceptions better. being conscious is painful, but worth it. i will pray for your safety and well-being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:26 PM
3

i think men just want our self esteem to hinge on what they say, good or bad. the more independent we become and don't need them, the worse they feel and the more they lash out lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 11:23 PM
21

all of my exes wanted to get married more than i did lol i dumped them. ​ yeah, the other day i hired someone to help me move my furniture into a storage unit. he literally told me, as if he were straight out of the 17th century, that me lifting furniture would damage my uterus and cause me to be infertile. couldn't believe it lol its 2021 and people still think women can't do physical labor or it will damage their lady parts. so unreal. feels like we're in the twilight zone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:57 PM
13

took the words right out of my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:46 PM
151

Elon Musk demanded his ex wife have blond hair and he still dumped her for someone who ended up dying her hair black anyway XD its never good enough for men. if you aren't already his dream girl straight out the gate, don't even bother with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:44 PM
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in my experience, all men are just as abusive, regardless of height. i actually prefer short men because i'm super short and its easier to kiss them (as well as other physical stuff), but it doesn't even matter. they all suck. tall, short, skinny, fat, muscular, toned.... they are all abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:41 PM
5

those women need to find freedom in themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:06 PM
3

i agree. they claim its a biological urge they "can't help"? well then the logical conclusion is to remove them from the gene pool. this is the only eugenics i would ever support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:05 PM
4

most people in bdsm have been abused, usually sexually. that has been the trend i've noticed when i was in that community. thats why they generally have no sense of boundaries and will usually violate their subs boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 05:03 PM
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yes, i agree. i'm really tired of the "they just can't help it!" argument. no one is born a pedophile. its not a sexual orientation. its a form of abuse. abusers can always help themselves, they just refuse to and i refuse to empathize with them. if your "condition" requires the abuse of others, thats more to do with male supremacism and patriarchy than any kind of biological determination.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:59 PM
5

totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:57 PM
2

exactly, they are basically asking the world to enable their shit which will only strengthen those fucked up neural pathways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:56 PM
7

they are everywhere all around us. male supremacism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:52 PM
2

"shall" 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:51 PM
24

good you kicked that trash to the curb. now you can focus focus focus on your whats most important, building up your daughter instead of an ungrateful man-child. i'm so sorry you went through this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:49 AM
77

yes, they always cheat on the new girl. they never change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:47 AM
1

omg beyond true lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 10:32 PM
0

what about my comment was antagonistic? stop trolling and stop gaslighting me. blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:11 PM
5

its a mystery to people who have no incentive to pleasure women 9_9
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:10 PM
2

or you could just believe women. you basically just confirmed what i said. the g-spot exists. it may be different for some women, it may not exist for some women, but it does EXIST and probably does for most women as most women i've spoken to about it also confirm it exists, and mostly in the exact same place mine does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 09:09 PM
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why do men keep denying our own pleasure centers exist? what is the point of that? just ASK WOMEN ffs 9_9 so fucking enraging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:21 PM
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26 people liked my comment. clearly it exists for some people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:19 PM
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amazing how men keep telling us it doesnt. wonder what narrative that could serve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:16 PM
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whats your point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:16 PM
3

it exists. i'm a woman. i would know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:16 PM
3

please keep telling me what i do and don't experience 9_9
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:15 PM
7

have you considered getting off social media? at this point i wont even date a guy with social media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:44 AM
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G-Spot (doesn't exist) mmmmm kay you just lost all credibility here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:41 AM
20

yes, people take for granted how much exercise and good diet can improve their sex lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:39 AM
1

right? XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:01 PM
1

i lol'd hard lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:00 PM
3

ooo thats a good way of putting it XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:58 PM
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"they will despise you for it and resent your better fortune". yes i'm remembering when after i dumped my LVM he basically tried to guilt trip me about the fact that i encouraged him to get a new bed and a new couch. made it out to be i was some gold digger when in reality he was a 34 year old man still sleeping in his childhood twin bed which was LITERALLY BROKEN IN HALF so it destroyed my back when i tried to sleep over. so i said hey could you get a new bed so i dont die? he just got a box sp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:57 PM
1

exactly yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:53 PM
1

what the FUCK did i just watch lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:52 PM
6

omg i cant with handmaids lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:50 PM
5

and even then most of the time they don't care about that either lol they literally just do not care at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 11:49 PM
2

actually my ex roommate's ex bf was like that but after 5 years of her not improving he kicked her out and started seeing someone else. and i dont blame him. she used everyone. only time i've ever encountered that though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:40 AM
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wow... dude sounds so creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:40 AM
2

wow... unreal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:37 AM
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yep, women are more capable of self analysis <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:35 AM
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well at least it was a dude who pointed it out XD nice to see some sane dudes out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:33 AM
1

just jealous male things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:30 AM
1

most likely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:29 AM
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the entire internet is being purged of any free-thinking websites, groups, youtubes etc. facebook banned all Brighteon links on their platform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:29 AM
1

same <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:25 AM
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yay so excited :D
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:25 AM
2

wow, i hate this planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:01 AM
5

holy shit...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:01 AM
5

yep, men are psychos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:00 AM
3

absolutely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:00 AM
2

good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:59 AM
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yeah they lie lie LIE. when they say "its not you, its me" they really do mean that lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:59 AM
2

accurate lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:57 AM
15

yep, they almost always go back to the ex they talked massive shit about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:31 AM
12

99% of men do this unfortunately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:30 AM
7

emotional ammo yuuuuuuuup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:30 AM
5

love it <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:27 AM
10

the kicker is when you do become their living sex doll, they dump you anyway. because you being a living sex doll is boring 9_9
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:20 AM
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i feel this deep in my bones lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:18 AM
6

lol when they say "you deserve better" basically admitting they are total shit and don't want to improve XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:17 AM
3

OMG THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:16 AM
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we should change the meme to feature a man throwing a fit (as men often do lmao)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:15 AM
7

riiighttt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:13 AM
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lol i remember reading one review from a dude who claimed his wife left him after reading the book. i was like YAASSSS QUEEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:13 AM
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i love Lundy Bancroft lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:11 AM
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women are allowed to not trust men right off the bat :) part of having healthy boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 04:10 AM
2

so much wisdom <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:21 PM
1

saaaaammmme. throat coat is BOMB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:20 PM
2

honestly i'm glad he's not propagating his narcissistic psycho genes. and that i just dont have stick around for his abusive dismissive callous behaviors <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:19 PM
13

same honestly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:17 PM
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yeah i think a lot of LVM brag about being LV because they want other LVM to enable them. they constantly need approval from other males. men like this will not attract mates easily. maybe they don't want to. my theory is they are secretly gay if they care more about male attention than getting that pussy at any cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:50 PM
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men used to build actual houses for their families. this is the world we live in now, where a man won't even have the basic decency to mow the lawn and take out the trash. unreal. time to take out the TRASH ourselves by dumping them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:44 PM
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my dad literally takes 2 hours to clean the fucking stove. it takes me 15-20 minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:43 PM
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and then they act like women are unreasonable for not wanting to fuck a lazy piece of shit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:42 PM
15

oh and on top of it all, i wanted to dump him for getting a vasectomy (because i wanted children at the time) and he expected me to wait on him hand and foot after getting a completely elective surgery and acted like i was an unreasonable evil bitch for not wanting to stay with and be a servant to someone who i felt was no longer compatible with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:40 PM
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one time i was about to go swimming with my bf at the time and i accidentally stepped on some weird tiny shard of metal, which hurt really badly so i didnt want to get into the pool for fear of getting an infection until i got the shard out and it healed. i asked my bf to go to the store and get me some tweezers, anti biotic ointment and bandaids (because he had none of those 9_9 already exhibiting lvm qualities right there) and he acted like it was some big fucking deal that he couldnt go swimm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 05:38 PM
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"free fuck meat fodder", straight and to the point lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:16 AM
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good you're figuring it out now. when you post that stuff you make yourself a target to predators. never show men your hand. men want mystery. just a fact <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:15 AM
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jeez, i thought it was bad in the myspace days when i was in my 20s... its so much worse now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:14 AM
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well said! don't worry, most people don't figure this stuff out, but you did ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:13 AM
27

yep, emotionally mature men seek out emotionally mature women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:11 AM
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they're too busy wanking in the basement to porn to learn useful skills lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:09 AM
1

interesting take. well, telling men that women are human hasn't worked thus far, so there must be some other way lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:14 AM
5

yeah they basically do it as a way of telling you "you're not allowed to your autonomy, individuality, etc. i control everything in your life and you have no say."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:12 AM
6

yeah its for sure a weird thing to fixate on. he probably does it with other shit too. i had one guy get super controlling and abusive over how much soap i was using the shower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:11 AM
1

exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:09 AM
25

good idea!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:07 AM
15

i love this <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:03 AM
18

ikr? XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:03 AM
34

describes my abusive mother to a T. she was constantly throwing away all our toys while we were at school. we would come home often to find we no longer had any toys. often our favorite toys would also "mysteriously disappear" as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 08:01 AM
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yep, he was shit testing her to see how much she'll put up with. he wants to make her look like an asshole if she tries to kick him out over some jars. thats his intention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:59 AM
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yeah, be civil towards men, not women lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:57 AM
40

YUP. immediate red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:56 AM
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it sounds like she was drinking overnight tea infusions and using the jars to let them brew overnight. thats what i do, and its a common thing among green witches. basically he knows she thinks this is important and he wants people to enable his abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:56 AM
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this is the foundation of liberal feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:51 AM
12

you are a genius.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:48 AM
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omg yes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:47 AM
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"but haven't found anything that excites me" in other words no one is biting and he's getting rejected left and right lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:45 AM
9

i initiated everything with my last narcissistic boyfriend. yeah, he wanted to get married, but he was also fucking abusive, controlling and a porn addicted gamer loser. never again. REAL MEN approach you and put in the goddam effort and don't literally chase you down the street or block the door when you try to leave them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:26 AM
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how are we supposed to communicate with people who continually gaslight, dismiss, redirect and derail EVERY FUCKING CONVERSATION?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:23 AM
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often times they just want someone to vent to, not real change because real change is confusing and scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:21 AM
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exactly. what are we supposed to communicate to them? "you are abusing me". like they give a shit? lmao unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:19 AM
9

wow, not even a phone call from this dude. he can fuck right off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:19 AM
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why do we have to do all the communicating? its fucking bullshit. if a dude really cared he would take initiative to text you on your goddam BIRTHDAY of all days 9_9 unreal. we shouldn't have to remind them to have basic human decency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 03:18 AM
2

stopped dating men over 1.5 years ago. happier than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:22 AM
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there are places where male circumcision is just as brutal, but its much rarer and its a huge distraction from the fact that its considered a rite of passage for men, whereas for women its considered a means of social and physical control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 11:50 PM
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because they are literally mutants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:14 AM
7

too real lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:14 AM
62

what the fucking fuck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:14 AM
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i thought the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:13 AM
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why did I put up with it for SO LONG? because its like the boiling frog scenario. its so insidiously slow that you don't realize its happen until it becomes totally outrageous and you're looking at your life in totality. most of the stuff they do can be waved off as something they did in isolation, but when you start to see patterns is when you realize how fucked up all of it is. that can take awhile to see. and they plan it. they plan every moment of it. they love torturing us and gaslighting u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:12 AM
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wow.... thats a good way of putting it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:08 AM
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it seems to me that guys like this would have cheated anyway, so they are just looking to blame their wives as an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:08 AM
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a lot of lingerie is made of lacy fabric, which is extremely irritating on my skin. i can't get turned on wearing that. i don't even war lacy bras. they aren't for my comfort, that's for damn sure. actually most underwear in general isn't for our benefit and actually harms our bodies. (yeast infections, bras causing breasts to sag even more, etc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:04 AM
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lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:01 AM
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its like they think they can just snap their fingers and we should bend over 9_9 like no dude, you actually have to give us a reason to have sex with you, BECAUSE WE'RE HUMAN BEINGS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:00 AM
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so true. its never mens fault 9_9 so ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:34 PM
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exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 04:33 PM
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not sure who that is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:02 AM
3

exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:02 AM
3

i know right? its the total opposite. women are naturally and rightfully choosey for various reasons. most men aren't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:00 AM
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i think it was this one https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ggRH2K12LbM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:59 AM
6

what really gets me is the guy claims to have been single for ten years and never thought to maybe do some self analysis. naw, its just all women lmao yeah ok. i'm willing to bet he throws himself at women and they reject him because he's simply a piece of shit. there's no shortage of good women out there lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:53 AM
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absolutely. its a manipulation tactic and its part of breadcrumbing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:23 PM
6

i love your posts <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:22 PM
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this is why i will never date another engineer. they are so disconnected from the real world its fucking scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:21 PM
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they will intentionally get us high/drunk for that reason, to rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:20 PM
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ive cut out ALL male friends in my life and online. i only have one gay male friend now. thats it. thats enough. and even he's depraved, but at least not towards me 9_9
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:20 PM
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thats awesome <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:16 PM
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the religion is patriarchy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:19 AM
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wow... go figure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:18 AM
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seems pretty sadistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:18 AM
13

and yet i bet he's still cheating on her and doesn't pay attention to his kids lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:17 AM
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thats honestly scary. but also i think men look down on customer service people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 08:15 PM
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lmao so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:36 AM
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its also worse than the pain of being fired and having to find a new job lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:36 AM
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thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:35 AM
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thank you <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:38 PM
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exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:36 PM
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they literally believe everything they see on TV lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:35 PM
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this one tradfem told me "you can be fired by your employwer but your husband will always love you and take care of you" lol i died laughing. like no, men cheat all the time and will replace you for a younger model, but you can always just FIND A NEW JOB if you get fired lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:33 PM
8

theres this one meme i've seen going around: NOT ALL MEN. you're right, Gomez Addams would never do this lol so accurate. he worships Morticia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:26 AM
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so true. never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:26 AM
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men are pretty offensive lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:25 AM
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i think for the most part men only care about sex in so far as it boosts their ego and their image with their bros. basically i think men care more about male approval than their female partner's sexual satisfaction, which is why they dont want to put in any effort. as long as they are getting off and looking good to other MEN thats what they care about. its part of the male self annihilation imperative i've been talking about. think on this, does a genuinely straight male not give a shit about …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:22 AM
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its probably some incel dudes downvoting you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:18 AM
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yes, it eliminates a lot of confusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:14 AM
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Lundy Bancroft is always a good one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:12 AM
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yeah i noticd that. we can't think a celeb, who is totally unnattainable anyway so its just a fantasy, is hot, but they are allowed to creep on literally every woman they run across. gross. at least we got standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:00 AM
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"who castigated me for indulging in sex, with them at the conclusion of the act". yep, this has happened to me as well with several men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:57 AM
5

my 20s in a nutshell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:23 AM
8

reminds me of my pickme roommate who fucked a guy in his car in public after going on two dates with them, and then he mysteriously goes silent and she wonders why lol like gee i wonder XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:21 AM
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honestly i'm almost 35 and my life is just starting to get gooooood lol my 20s were a trash fire. thank fuck i'm out of that hellscape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:15 AM
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men genuinely dont think we're human let alone have a choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:14 AM
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beyond true lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:13 AM
49

"damn... i thought that was such a good neg... surely she should have lowered her standards" XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:11 AM
52

probably his bald head ya lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:09 AM
117

men know when women are settling lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:09 AM
189

lmao they know. thats why they neg lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:07 AM
66

exactly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:07 AM
132

men can't even tell teh difference between women, let alone age, let alone care XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:06 AM
189

i really don't get it... who honestly "loves" dad bods? I can see settling on a dad bod if the guy was otherwise HV in all other ways, but actively seeking that out? i don't think thats a thing... is it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:04 AM
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i'm in my 30s and it was awful when i was younger... i can only imagine how bad it is now with things like tinder. i can't even imagine being an early 20 something with tinder now...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:34 AM
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exactly. i want to get on OLD just to do this too lol i doubt i'd go on any actual dates considering the scarcity of HVM though lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:37 AM
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yeah i stay the fuck off tinder. that shit is DANGEROUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:35 AM
10

wow... block and delete. what a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:35 AM
2

i'm so sorry you went through that...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:31 AM
6

porn has really destroyed the nobility of men. it was already on its last legs of course. men haven't been so great for a few thousands years now, but porn really put the last nail in the coffin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:31 AM
3

lmao true dat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:29 AM
6

i think men look down on dogs more than we do. because men hate nature, especially other animals. a reminder of where they once came from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:23 AM
2

maybe nature isn't so evil after all lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:22 AM
6

thats awful. i hope you're doing better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:18 AM
7

i remember one time i was about to go swimming with my ex bf. right before i got into the pool i stepped onto this metal shard that i guess was laying near the edge. i didn't want to get into the pool because i thought it would be infected and in my pain i asked him if he could go to the store and get me some bandaids and tweezers to see if i could get it out (it was still lodged in my foot). he acted super fucking annoyed like i was the biggest piece of shit ever for having the audacity to acci…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:16 AM
6

our species has fallen so far from grace...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:12 AM
3

my grammy and grandpa <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:11 AM
2

yeah same... they are only as HV as they appear to be... the rest is illusion. i logged out of reddit after reading her comment last week... it made me feel hopeless...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:01 AM
2

i know, its infuriating. my speculation is that at some point some genetic mutation of a psychopath came up in the population and managed to propagate their genes through violence and it spread from there. its really hard to say. a lot of marxist feminists speculate its more related to environment. an interesting video i saw on this idea i watched recently, might explain the issue better, it was probably quite similar to these war-faring chimps. chimps are naturally pretty peaceful and suddenly …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:00 AM
1

my mom explained to me from a young age how to care for my skin and to never wear makeup because it makes your skin worse. i took her advice and i looke 10 years younger. most people think i'm a teenager lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:56 AM
2

yep, they project their self hatred onto others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:52 AM
1

yes, this was explained to me by a biologist. he said that the Y chromosome is degrading as time goes on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:51 AM
1

god its amazing how early they start being pure evil... unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:50 AM
2

wow... i'm so sorry. thats awful :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:50 AM
3

exactly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:48 AM
3

i've experienced it all too many times. thats how i know lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:47 AM
22

Yeah i honestly feel like vomiting after reading this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:43 AM
79

Wow.... I'm re-evaluating my desire to attract a partner after reading this... There really is no way of knowing if a man is HV or not....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:41 AM
23

Wtf.... This is terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:36 AM
35

It's because they are secretly gay and want to impress their dudebros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:34 AM
8

Wow what awful "friends".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:32 AM
19

Exactly. We shouldn't be worrying about whether dusties are intimated. That's a good thing because we weed them out. Instant LVM repellent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:29 AM
21

The thing I've realized is that it actually doesn't take much effort for women to look 10x better. Like today i literally just curled my eye lashes and put on lipstick. That was it. Instant transformation. I usually don't do anything but the bare minimum of washing my face, brushing my hair and brushing my teeth. But all i did was curl my eye lashes and put on lipstick and BAM. I was amazed at how little i needed to do to level up. I think a lot of women don't realize it's the subtle things that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:26 AM
16

Men are masochists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:17 AM
55

It's because men are biologically damaged. Once you realize that, everything makes sense. It explains their self annihilation behavior. They intentionally drive women away, degrade women, project their inadequacy onto women, because they know they are inferior in every way and hold very little biological value except as a genetic buffer. The Y chromosome is literally falling apart. An actual biologist told me this. Men know they are failing at existing and they project their self hatred onto eve…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:16 AM
45

It's so fucking disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:10 AM
140

Yeah we all know he'd fuck whoever is available in a heart beat. Men hate themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:09 AM
66

I fucking hate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:08 AM
149

Men fuck women they aren't even attracted to. That's how much they hate themselves. That's how little self respect they have. This is why we don't fuck them right out the gate. Not only is it degrading to us, it is enabling men's externalized self hatred. Toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:07 AM
5

Yep that's why i don't believe their little "safe, sane, consensual" mantra. It's a smokescreen. These people love the degradation of non consenting individuals, even children. Disgusting people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:03 AM
15

3d printing 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:15 PM
8

Women like this fuck the rest of us over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:12 PM
8

It's all the same exact tactics. They are so predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:11 PM
8

It's probably not. Chances are he was abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:09 PM
35

I love her. What a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:07 PM
63

They don't want to get it because they simply don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:06 PM
130

Amazing how anything can be turned into a kink these days 😂🙄 maybe we should start saying "my kink is emotional intimacy and mutual sexual satisfaction " and men will start taking our pleasure seriously lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:05 PM
13

Yeah they are probably trying to figure out if shes easy to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:03 PM
4

👑👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:03 PM
22

Who cares how he feels? He's a misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:00 PM
21

Best comment of the day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:56 PM
26

They do. This one guy was actually paid to take me to homecoming for some reason. I ended up canceling the date because i had a bad feeling about and then later it was revealed to me that he wasn't even into me. I was so relieved i didn't go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:55 PM
39

Men have tried this on me several times. Pretending to have the same beliefs as me to get in my pants. As soon as i rejected the real monster reared it's ugly head and the guy always revealed himself to be a racist misogynist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:53 PM
11

I'm thinking if someone would want to lock it down that fast they would probably lock it down with anyone. He probably just cares about his image and the fact that he'll be more socially acceptable with a gf. Which means she's a placeholder until dream girl comes along, nothing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:50 PM
7

Yep it's a shit test. He's doing a push and pull bullshit too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:48 PM
19

I had a guy do this to me once. He initiated almost all sexual contact and then later when he was dumping me blamed me for it like i was somehow overly sexual and all i cared about was sex. He was the one who wanted it. It's a form of gaslighting, redirecting, projecting and guilt tripping which are huge red flags for a personality disorder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:46 PM
22

It sounds like he's trying to pressure her to get serious because he knows she'll only put out in a relationship. He's gonna pump and dump guaranteed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:43 PM
63

He lied to you through omission. He's done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:42 PM
12

He just wants to pump and dump. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:40 PM
31

This couple clearly practices bdsm because she initially assumed the text was about their relationship. Huge red flag right there. This woman and her husband sexualize abuse and have no problem with it. Not even sure why she made the post since this is perfectly in line with bdsm community behavior. These people are sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:39 PM
52

Yes i thought child molester immediately. This man will let other men abuse this child. Fucking sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:37 PM
25

This little girl is gonna grow up thinking dick and attention is the most important thing in the world, and that's the worst thing about this situation. That her mother doesn't give two shits and just wants people to enable her staying with him so it doesn't have to eat at her conscience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:36 PM
28

I can't believe this shit... Unfucking real. I would never let that racist fuck anywhere near my children. Guarantee he's an abuser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:34 PM
28

Children spill juice. He's acting like it's some affront to his humanity. What a trash fire of a human being. This is why if i had kids i wouldn't even bother letting a new dude into my life until they are already grown. Wouldn't want my child abused by some racist clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:15 PM
32

Nice. Yeah you need to make yourself scarce. That's the only way men respect women, when we make it clear they aren't our whole world. You seem to be doing well. Keep it up! 💗👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 07:13 PM
4

Exactly and this is what i don't get. Why is society spreading the narrative that we need suffering and abuse for growth when we could have just... Had good parents who taught us good boundaries to begin with? I think if most of us ask ourselves the source of our poor boundaries it will always go back to some sort of childhood trauma or something our parents did/didn't do to us. The whole "suffering is necessary" narrative let's abusive people off the hook. It's a form of internalized victim bla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:53 PM
33

One thing to remember is that when you avert your eyes first, that is signaling submission. This is something i learned when i studied performing arts, you don't have to look people in the eye. You can look just past them at something right behind their head and they will still think you are looking at them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:47 PM
23

Male validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:36 AM
14

Best comment of the day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:32 AM
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I absolutely do NOT think my LVM experiences were "worth it" or necessary for "growth". I would never wish what I've been through on anyone and i hate the whole narrative that has spread throughout society (especially in the New Age movement) that suffering is necessary for development and building better boundaries. I think that narrative is total bullshit and i wish i could take back every single bad thing that happened to me so that i could just be carefree again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:02 AM
7

I wanna know too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:57 AM
4

What is normal is whatever works for you. You shouldn't feel pressured to participate in more sex than you want. Likewise, you should only entertain partners who meet your desires.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:56 AM
3

I've wasted so much life on that quest. I'm lucky i figured things out now so that i can spend the rest of my youth focusing on myself and doing what makes me happy. There's always an upside to being single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:03 AM
3

Every day is hard but it's a little less hard than the last. 🖖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:01 AM
5

Saaaaame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:58 AM
2

Awww thank you. I feel honored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:58 AM
4

You are such a badass 😍 I'm gonna do this next time someone tries this shit on me again 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:57 AM
3

https://youtu.be/NzLS5hUMdQo https://youtu.be/9wxI4KK9ZYo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:18 PM
21

FDS is the only good thing that has come out of the internet in my view lol the internet has been so damaging and toxic to humanity (one of the worst male inventions ever if you ask me) that it would be super ironic if this internet community was patriarchy's tipping point lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:09 PM
6

Love your username lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:07 PM
31

Fucking abusive nut case. Things like this are why i dumped my last bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:06 PM
38

I've been going through this exact shit. The feelings of longing. It's because you're addicted to love/intimacy. Your addicted to that oxytocin or dopamine rush. I know it sounds ridiculous but it's a real thing. Just keep in mind that those nagging feelings that you NEED NEED NEED someone are false. They are a chemical reaction in your body. You are only human and not immune to these things so don't feel bad. The best thing you can do is just stay single for awhile and hang out with female frie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:01 PM
6

In my experience they have all been tall. But i think they weren't socially desirable for other reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:50 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:49 PM
52

FDS is a response to peak patriarchy. Patriarchy is in its downward spiral. It's self annihilating and self cannibalizing, a lot like capitalism. This shit can't continue indefinitely and we're finally standing up and taking no more shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:47 PM
3

Your last two points are spot on. No doubt! Yes I've read that the embarrassing story thing is also a tactic but i don't recall anyone ever using it on me.EDIT: OH WAIT! Now that i think of it, someone did!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:33 PM
4

My mother is the same. I know your struggle. Just know that you are strong and you are not alone. HUGS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:30 PM
5

I'm so sorry you went through that. We're here for you, sister. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:29 PM
3

I fucking can't 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:26 PM
4

💗 you never know with these dudes. Better safe than sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:25 PM
37

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:24 PM
35

LMAO 😂 honestly men say we are the complainers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:24 PM
22

Please don't get into this man's car. You don't actually know him and you will be putting yourself in danger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:52 AM
8

Indian men will assume you're a prostitute if you smile. That's what my Indian professor told me. He told all his female students "if you ever go to India, don't smile. People will be very confused." I heard a similar line when i went to France. They specifically told us not to wear short shorts because that's what prostitutes where and we don't want to get accidentally mistaken for prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:49 AM
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Women literally get burned alive or acid thrown on them in India. They get raped if they try to go to the bathroom in public (because there are no restrooms). Yeah such a bastion of equality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:47 AM
12

Interesting how most rapists are straight men so they don't exactly have incentive to rape another straight man lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:46 AM
18

My ex bf said same shit "i work in stem and have never seen sexism in stem ". Yeah because you're not a woman, bro 😂🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:45 AM
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The level of shit men are putting women through on a global scale is bat fucking shit insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:42 AM
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The thing is, usually women have plenty of evidence of rape. It's just that police don't give a shit, interrogate the victim into dropping charges, and juries have no empathy for women. Often the evidence is overwhelming. There could be eye witnesses, video evidence of the crime, DNA evidence, etc and still no one believes women because no one wants to. And even when they do believe women they then roll out the rape apology with "it wasn't that bad" (saw that everywhere with the Brock Turner cas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:40 AM
7

Sounds a lot like grooming. Creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:32 AM
6

That is a totally appropriate reaction, love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:30 AM
16

I heard this one woman complaining about how a guy she was seeing kept dipping out on dates to go take long hot baths lmao poor woman was so confused. Like c'mon, girl! He just doesn't think you're that important lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:28 AM
10

A guy tried this on me with chores lol basically it's a tactic to make themselves seem busier than they are. This is to promote a scarcity mindset in you. Chances are he was on a date with some other woman or watching porn 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:27 AM
6

Oh wow that's one i forgot to mention. The first message proposing marriage. I got a similar paraphrasing on OLD like ten years ago. Googled the message and found it in a PUA forum. Got the EXACT same message a month later from another dude. Google it and see what comes up 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:25 AM
7

Oooo yep. Pretty typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:23 AM
5

Glad i could be of service 🖖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:22 AM
8

Such a good book 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:20 AM
7

That's hilarious lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:19 AM
3

Just more proof lmao men tho 🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:18 AM
8

I see. Yeah typical future faking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 08:17 AM
20

Omg.... That's so awful. Glad he's out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:21 AM
9

Good for you! We're here if you need anything. Stay strong! Get your family and friends to help you pack and move so he can't stand in your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:19 AM
15

Yes yes a liar and a sneak and it will escalate to worse shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:19 AM
10

I'm sorry to say but he is gonna Gaslight you on this no matter what way you go about it. I know your already moved in together but he's not gonna change. Just cut your losses. Don't stick with him just because you've already invested. If you invest any further you're just wasting your life. Men who watch porn will categorically not stop. He will continue lying and being sneaky. He will derail and blame you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:18 AM
2

For men anything but Netflix and chill is too much to ask 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:13 AM
2

That's like the bare minimum a guy can do. Women need to stop being so fucking desperate. Be the example for your friends by not settling 💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:11 AM
8

Queening it 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:09 AM
9

LMAO guarantee his real name isn't Eric 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:08 AM
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I don't know why but men constantly think I'm wearing eye liner when I'm not. I don't wear makeup at all and haven't for many years. It's like men don't understand faces at all 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:06 AM
6

Sounds rapey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:05 AM
14

Lol time is not passing you by girl! You're only 20 💗 my skin was shit too when i was your age. Now people are constantly complimenting me on my skin. You'll get through it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:04 AM
45

I think the reason men do this is because they are hoping we'll react the way THEY would react, which is to try to prove themselves or one-up others who don't like them. Basically these men are just projecting. It's pathetic. It's how they would react, not us. They can't fathom that women don't think like them i guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 04:01 AM
21

Yes the triangulating you by complimenting other women in front of you is a big one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:59 AM
10

Yes, rushing you into a date is also a PUA tactic. Can't believe i forgot about that one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:56 AM
23

Sounds similar to gaslighting. Like "you are so sensitive" when your calmly and rationally confront them on something they do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 03:54 AM
6

LMAO yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:37 AM
31

Internet porn addiction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 02:36 AM
9

That's terrible. It's possible i encountered that one but can't be sure. it seems related to the complaining about exes tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:58 AM
14

Yes exactly. It may not intentionally be PUA, but most of it is abusive or objectifying either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:31 AM
19

I love your username
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:30 AM
12

Nice! I'll have to update the post with the term later. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:30 AM
29

Yes, all of this actually happened years before FDS was even created. I was very naive and huge pickme back then. But i was already starting to document this weird behavior from men. Thank goddess i found this community 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:29 AM
5

Thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:28 AM
7

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:28 AM
53

Absolutely! I had a PUA texting me from a bar asking me "wyd". I just said "why aren't you having fun?" Lmao then i told him I'm reading a book on psychology 😜 after that he didn't contact me again for awhile lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:27 AM
54

So very true. This is actually the only time i ever did this and i had been on a date with him previously. But yes, absolutely. NEVER let a dude you don't even know / hardly know pick you up at your place. Never get into his car under any circumstances. I haven't done it since. Way too risky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:09 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fclvwc/some_pua_tactics_ive_documented/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:17 AM
7

Most PUA tactics are pretty standard fuckboy tactics already in the FDS handbook, but there are also others I've documented over time that maybe i can do a post about later. I'll tag you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:28 PM
20

Exactly.he wanted a booty call nothing more and expecting him to put in effort weeded him out. FDS is working 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:39 PM
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Changed the date at the last second? That's a PUA tactic. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:36 PM
5

😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 07:35 PM
9

They need to go back to the 19th century.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:31 PM
6

Good points
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:29 PM
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I think it's fine as long as you don't allow the earlier time of the date to end up in a prolonged date. So just because you have the whole day ahead of you doesn't mean you let the date drag on and on. Always keep it 2-3 hours max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:28 PM
29

Yep if he really likes her he'd be absolutely ecstatic about seeing her again and impressing her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:27 PM
25

Yep time to move on. He's done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:25 PM
62

It's stressful because his favorite porn actress has no expectations of him 😂🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:25 PM
36

Yeah lol like try having a kid, planning a wedding etc. This dude is useless. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:24 PM
71

You don't have to love them less, but you can show it less by not babying him, not doing his housework, not buying him more gifts than he buys you, not doing him favors when he's perfectly capable of doing things himself, etc. And you don't have to be mean about it. You just have to withdraw. He will notice and pursue you harder if he is HV. If he's a LVM he'll abuse you and guilt trip you over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:21 PM
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I like the fact that she said she only remains friends with an ex if she feels they add value to her life, and i like how she recognizes that just because you have sex with someone they ain't shit 😂 yeah she still has a little pickme but her overall life advice on leveling up was spot on 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:16 PM
6

LMAO exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:05 PM
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He is right in a sense though, pussy is queen and should be worshipped. Just not how he actually meant it lmao men in the ancient days realized our bodily power and literally thought we were goddesses because of our life giving abilities through our bodies. Now they take it for granted that pussy is just available and free 🙄 https://youtu.be/ZGIkGbs1VEc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:29 AM
3

I like how he was found the asshole. Still some hope for humanity 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:26 AM
14

Guarantee you this guy has done everything possible to convince this woman she is his gf without actually saying it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:23 AM
12

Yes i feel like guys who offer coffee are probably casting a wide net and you're probably his 5th date that week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:12 AM
6

Too true. Values are just as important as the basics .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:08 AM
114

Well ya know, when you're a little god you get the idea that your little peepee is the most important thing on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:03 AM
69

"You better be a dime" 😂 i asked the guy if he was mentally ill after he said that to me and i got no response lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:01 AM
138

Something tells me they knew what you meant and sent those messages as a way of violating you on purpose knowing you don't like it. Never underestimate their depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 03:00 AM
24

To be honest i didn't like how she went after him in the end, but overall i liked the message of the movie, which is that if he's not communicating with you, he's not worth your time, married men aren't worth your time, and men who won't offer you a ring aren't worth your time. Also that even if a guy does everything right and offer you a ring doesn't mean you have to say yes if you don't feel that chemistry. Overall i think it was a good movie about how we should be allowed to our standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:23 PM
27

Yep nothing can replace self love. I think we will find the more validation we get from men the more we need because it's externalized locus of control not internal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:19 PM
27

Male self annihilation imperative right there. Dude doesn't care if his own offspring die. He's clearly not invested in his own genes. Yes, the wife MAY or may not be overreacting, but there's nothing wrong with taking preparative measures to prevent your kids from being ill. There's nothing "doomer or prepper" about this. Also the whole credit card comment sounds like something an mra troll would say lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:14 PM
22

Yep we're just more resilient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:56 PM
35

Exactly. To them they equate feminism with not wanting to be abused, which is only partially the definition. But in their minds they have a right to abuse us and we're depriving them of rights by taking back ours 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:55 PM
63

They create patriarchy, then blame us for wanting to be free of it because they no longer get a free slave. What's even more insulting is they don't even have to put in much effort to impress us. Just equally share chores, raise kids and find the clitoris. But they refuse to be responsible for the responsibilities they've WILLINGLY taken on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:54 PM
83

The thing is we've BEEN coddling them. For like thousands of years. Because we get killed if we don't 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:51 PM
2

Yep, this is info men have actively been trying to hide from us. I mean male scientists of course. I read a paper on it in my sexual politics class when i was getting my sociology degree. The amount of shit men take credit for is absolutely absurd, but just like with anything else they've literally taken credit for what our reproductive organs have been doing and completely leave that info out of health literature INTENTIONALLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:10 PM
9

If they don't want the advice they don't have to take it. That's what's so stupid about it. These are a handbook of suggestions. No one is holding a gun to these women's heads (except, ya know, men who rape, murder, coerce etc) 🙄 apparently saying no is the equivalent of abusing men. This is why liberal feminism is a men's rights movement. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:06 PM
12

Right wing men want us to be personal property. Left wing men want us to be public property. It's all property in the end, only difference being who accesses us, but we can never not be accessed, otherwise we are always at fault for having any sort of agency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:03 PM
8

The terms "liberal" and "conservative" have been so warped over time they are virtually meaningless. It basically just means "frigid bitch" in man lingo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:02 PM
5

The least they can do is go back to shaving so they'll at least be consistent. They can fuck off with turning 2nd wave analysis of beauty standards into yet another fashion trend. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 04:01 PM
20

This is why Gail Dines says in her lectures women don't wanna be feminists anymore. Because feminism has been redefined by men to mean being a free prostitute with zero discernment and zero boundaries and zero self respect. Most women don't wanna live that life but feel pressured, ESPECIALLY in academia, to make themselves as available as possible. So feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:59 PM
13

Really... Talk about a pickme. She just sounds bitter, like that's some sunk cost bullshit. She's in too deep and doesn't wanna give up on being a sexual vending machine just yet for fear men won't like her 🙄 would be sad if it weren't actively harming womankind as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:57 PM
9

Consent is just so important, but only if you consent to what men want you to do, which is being sexual available at all times 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:55 PM
19

Yep never underestimate men's ability to obsess over women. Totally going their own way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:54 PM
6

The verge 😂 totes legit social science right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:52 PM
17

Wowowowoweeee what a garbage dumpster fire of a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:50 PM
6

💯 analysis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:49 PM
8

Because they all know they are garbage and the very type of men they are gaslighting us about lol 🤡🌎🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:48 PM
8

Yeah that's insane. To think just a few months ago i still sort of had this mentality. Now it's a big fuck no from me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:47 PM
7

Yes, i could be mistaken, but i remember reading somewhere that while the Y sperm are faster and stronger, they also don't last as long as X sperm. So basically if the male ejaculates into the female right before she ovulates, you stand a better chance of getting a girl baby because the Y sperm will have died away by the time egg begins to descend. Whereas if he inseminates right after ovulation, you stand a better chance of getting a boy baby because the X sperm is slower. It could also very we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:43 PM
10

Yep prime example of FDS principles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:27 PM
12

Yeah that's totally worked out for me every single time lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:27 PM
15

Bet his response was to throw a rage fit, derail or devalue lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:26 PM
14

Yep that's exactly how we weed out these fuckers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:25 PM
31

A HVM will know immediately if you're what he wants for life. Only LVM think they gotta "test the water to see if you're worth the risk ". Delusional psychos. Stingy male who won't invest in his partner, let alone future offspring. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:25 PM
37

Yes apparently it's our job to literally put our lives at risk with rape, stds, pregnancy or all of the above just so a dude can determine if we're worth the price of an ihop meal. Men are fucking canceled. 🤡🌎🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:23 PM
13

More proof men want a free prostitute. Disgusting broke males really think they are entitled to a woman's body like she is not even a human being, just a buffet to be sampled and he'll skip out on the check guaranteed. Fucking scum bags. These same disgusting delusional males really expect us to give birth for them too. Know your worth, wyms. Dick is abundant and low value. If he dips out because you won't put out before 3-6 months, he's simply not for you and you shouldn't spend one moment mopi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:21 PM
7

Reasons i don't date goth dudes anymore 😂🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:17 PM
3

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:07 PM
4

Great analysis. What it comes down to is these men hate themselves, otherwise they would have better standards for themselves. It screams lack of boundaries, and then these mra's wonder why they get screwed over by screwed up women. Now we're being encouraged to lower our standards to the same? No thank you 😂🙄🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:06 PM
3

Somehow "be choosey" is equated to desperate males who females won't touch with a ten foot pole 😂🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:03 PM
12

Love to see women starting with FDS so young. Keep those standards high, young lady! 💗👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:58 PM
11

Best comment of the day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:54 PM
16

Because women can't possibly be right about anything unless it's in agreement with catering to men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:54 PM
28

Imagine having the option of a self cleaning sex organ for sex (vagina) and instead opting for the far more difficult, painful, illogical, unclean, medically unsafe option?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:53 PM
12

Men know right away if you're the one. If they ghost and come crawling back it's because his preferred woman was not available and you're his backup. They will move on again quickly once you let them back in. Don't let these clowns take advantage of you. You saw how he basically fell in love with that blonde at first sight. The other girl meant nothing to him once he found greener pastures. A man who sees you as a backup will never settle for you long term. He'll always be looking for someone be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:51 PM
4

Absolutely. I've cut out all pickmes and male orbiters. I only have one male friend now. All others have been blocked and deleted. All pickmes have exited my life.no more toxicity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:43 PM
11

It's actually the time of ovulation, not just sperm, that determines sex of the child. Men are so fucking delusional and love to take credit for every bit of labor we do, including our bodily functions 😂 dude really thinks it's his "spiritual" connection that determines the sex of the child, not the time of ovulation that determines which sperm survive to inseminate lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:37 PM
9

No man genuinely wants to cuddle a woman he doesn't know or love, trust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:32 PM
12

Good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:29 PM
12

👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:26 PM
21

Indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:25 PM
16

Here's an idea. How about men stop fucking us. But we'll never see them take the most reasonable action to prevent birth ever, will we 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:21 PM
21

They say lesbian like it's a bad thing 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:16 PM
19

In my experience giving advice is usually a bad idea unless you know the person is already into self analysis (like most people in this group). Anytime a female friend has asked me for advice and i was honest instead of enabling her on what she wanted to hear, i was made out to be a villain and "negative" and "not a supportive friend". Well ya know what? I'm not going to support behavior that is harmful and destructive. I stopped associating with that person because she also didn't care what hap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:12 PM
17

Lol go figure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 01:02 PM
43

Wow honestly surprise vice of all websites would publish this 🤔 maybe the tide is finally turning?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:10 AM
16

Same lol i did a double take
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:31 PM
8

Lol thank God this wasn't real 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:28 PM
10

I'm sorry Wtf did i just read? 😂 men tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:27 PM
54

Actively trying to discourage you from being independent.... That's scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:26 PM
25

Whoa... That's a big NAW, SIS from me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:25 PM
7

Yep whenever I'm in there i already have a list of questions I've prepared ahead of time so i can fully understand my condition and my treatment options. think LVM take the time to do that? Hell naw 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:24 PM
13

Lol so no analysis. K 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:22 PM
31

We gotta start shaming these fuckers. Tearing them a new one 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:14 PM
147

DELUSIONAL MALE 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:14 PM
1

💯 analysis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:12 PM
6

Some internet famous atheist guy who said he had a "horrible date" because he showed up to the girls house to pick her up and her dad GASP was there 😱😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:11 PM
97

Exactly. It wasn't about the condom. The condom was am excuse to rape her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:34 PM
23

I'm in my 30s. I've dated men 20s-40s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:27 PM
16

Much of porn has what's called "the male gaze", meaning it's filmed from the perspective of the man doing the fucking so that male viewers can feel like they are living the fantasy. So that means it doesn't show much of the male pornstitute's face or body and the viewer is intentionally directed to the objectification of the woman's body. Porn is insidious. It lacks any accountability on men's part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:21 PM
11

So insidious that these ads normalize this when it's NOT FUCKING NORMAL. I hate this world .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:17 PM
25

Hmm i wonder what could possibly be the source of all this sudden ED in society out of seemingly nowhere that wasn't happening before the advent of the internet 🤔🤷‍♀️😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:16 PM
8

That whole speech he gave was bullshit. He was buttering you up. Why wait until after he's dating someone new and just so HAPPENS to bump into you in public to tell you? Because he was never thinking of you to begin with until you were actually in his line of sight. He's simply an opportunist. Nothing more. I bet he asked that girl on a date right after fucking you. He probably hasn't even cut her off after admitting to you he's stringing her along. Men disgust me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:11 PM
4

LMAO unreal. These men have such audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:02 PM
2

Lol did she go on a date with Eric Murphy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:01 PM
61

Absolutely. I can tell when a guy is psycho just by looking at him now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:59 PM
73

Just to put it into perspective, I've only had ONE guy from OLD take me on a meal date... Out of dozens of data over the course of 7 years, only one took me on a meal date. That's it. It was a nice Cafe in my home town. Not fancy, but a thoughtful spot. He paid. He wasn't rich. Lived in a small apartment. These dates are not too expensive. The dude just has to be willing to not buy his next video game or pack of cigarettes to be able to afford you. So next time you doubt whether this makes them …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:57 PM
8

Yes it's narcissistic. But beyond that, a confidant self respecting person doesn't need the validation of others, and low self esteem is very unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:42 AM
88

I was once in a relationship with a guy who paid attention to everything i said. Anything i liked he would buy me gifts because he paid attention to what i said i liked. But he was also constantly pushing my boundaries and trying to get me to have sex when i wasn't ready. He would also use everything i said against me. Abusive LVM will listen when they have an ulterior motive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:20 AM
1

Yep, never get crushes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:36 AM
1

Even rejecting him isn't worth your time. He'll see even that as an opportunity to Gaslight and take advantage of you. This dude promised you nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:34 AM
3

Exactly. It won't even be a question. There won't be any second guessing. People don't seem to get this. If he's being confusing, if you're trying to figure him out, just don't. It's a waste of time and he doesn't like you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:32 AM
2

Exactly. He doesn't care. Didn't make effort to see you? Then no amount of messaging even matters at this point. Block and delete. He's done. He had his chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:31 AM
22

I agree with this. There's been some posts I've seen that contradict a lot of anthropology I've studied and play more into male centered evolutionary psychology BS, which is easily debunked (i have a degree in anthropology so this shit irks me hardcore)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:52 AM
10

My same experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:46 AM
6

Lol i always got tons of guys liking my profile. If you buy the tinder gold you can see who likes you and for me it was always hundreds a day. That being said, none of them were worth my time or attractive. The few i did match with, they took zero initiative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:44 AM
26

Omg so true. I work in customer service as well and you just can't be honest. He just wanted her to stroke his ego.,what a fucking sadist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:14 AM
29

Amazing how they just brag about being garbage. Disgusting delusional male. What a psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:13 AM
12

Yes, i think in time the rose tinted glasses will come off and she'll lose all feelings for him and wonder why she even felt bad, it'll just be a bit. It always happens though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:10 AM
10

Hanging out with female friends and prioritizing your needs and interests will help, but it's going to hurt for awhile. I mean is only been a couple of weeks you can't really expect to be fully healed. Some people can get over shit quickly, but don't pressure yourself to be one of those people if that's just not how you feel. It's ok to feel down, just don't feel down forever, you know? And it might be best to hold off on dating until those feelings of sadness and vulnerability decline. It will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:09 AM
16

Yes i get hit on all the time where i work. It's increasing over time lol the happier i am, the more men take notice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:06 AM
26

Lol tell that to the men who still think I'm 17-22 even though I'm in my 30s 😂👌🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:04 AM
11

We just want men who aren't fucking narcissistic sociopaths 😑🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:01 AM
11

Right. So marry someone you don't like. Also implies have sex with someone you don't like. Sounds about right in terms of male logic. Men sure hate themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 02:00 AM
15

LMAO i love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:48 PM
31

Most women don't even want an ideal man. We just want a normal guy who acts decent and doesn't dehumanize us. I think most women will settle on a dudes looks and income if he even met the bare minimum requirements, but they won't. So why should we settle 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:47 PM
6

I think it's more trying to say there is no ideal man because all men SUCK. Like they are basically admitting it lol and we had fun until we died. Nice 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:45 PM
2

I love this channel. Great social commentary.too bad the videos are so few and far between.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:06 PM
2

Yep. Some women will do anything for a LVM to pay attention to them... It's sick. I would feel bad for her if she weren't enabling his shit. He also runs a lucrative blog with her nudes. She's fully aware of his depravity and doesn't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:55 PM
7

According to fds wiki your flare indicates you are either a possible troll, you've demonstrated pickme behavior in comments, or you're account is too new to determine if you're legit. Over time your flare may change and i think you can contact mods to change it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:48 PM
3

Sick fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:46 PM
7

It's weird how people don't understand this doesn't have anything to do with love. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:45 PM
13

Bet he watches porn after she leaves too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:45 PM
25

Most women know if they don't put out most men will dump her and they are willing to settle instead of waiting for a high value male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:44 PM
7

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:43 PM
4

This was just sad to read....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:42 PM
13

Most men do this too... It's disturbing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:42 PM
1

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:40 PM
10

He needs her, but can't think of a single thing he loves about her except the things she does for him. TYPICAL lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:38 PM
7

Not worth it then. You can't truly vet someone in those circumstances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:20 PM
2

You're coming from a place of lack and scarcity which makes you vulnerable to being taken advantage of by even the nicest seeming guys. Don't date a guy just because he seems nice. If you aren't attracted you aren't attracted. However, it couldn't hurt to go on one day to see if there's any chemistry. If you don't feel anything after that your always next him. It's not your job to make yourself available just because good men are rare. Men need to work for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:18 PM
8

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:15 PM
10

I think they will probably be on board with the fuckboy explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:14 PM
32

And the domestic labor gap. And the emotional labor gap. And the orgasm gap 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:13 PM
20

Yeah one of the hardest things i had to learn in my 20s was just to stop giving a fuck what people think in general. It's hard but has helped me so much in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:12 PM
25

Yep. And those men have a choice too. They can either choose to pay or not, and she doesn't have to entertain the ones who don't because that's her choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:09 PM
12

Great point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:07 PM
12

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:05 PM
6

Just love when they bring out the fake confusion like they are surprised when you don't wanna talk to them after they abuse you 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:39 AM
79

Good example of breadcrumbing, gaslighting and and fuckboy behavior all rolled into one. Love these posts where wyms level the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:37 AM
4

Now that's an affirmation 👌💖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:34 AM
7

LMAO 12 year old humor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:45 AM
9

Best comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:44 AM
9

It's pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:44 AM
3

D E G E N E R A T E 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:43 AM
14

I love this post. So inspiring. And really shows how they always reveal themselves eventually as long as we keep our boundaries strong and healthy. They do the work of revealing themselves for us. Never reach out. They always come slithering back and then it's our turn to ignore, block, delete just like they did to us. That's what they get. Nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:54 AM
6

Thanks 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:21 AM
2

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:04 AM
1

Exactly, queen 👌 you don't. You want someone who puts in the effort. Men like this exist which is why we can't keep lowering our standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 02:03 AM
1

Yep. He won't care what the obstacles are or what he has to do to get the girl. It's not even a question to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:53 PM
23

Who does these comics? They are so true 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:09 PM
5

Absolutely. My own grandfather fell in love with my grandma at first sight. FIRST SIGHT. They know..never fall for the "I'm so confused" bullshit act. Men even today have told me this, that they want a wife they fall in love with at first sight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:07 PM
9

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:05 PM
4

Totally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:04 PM
7

🤮 men who do whatever their mommy tells them 😑🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:58 PM
6

Yes, he's just not that into you and likely never will be. Men know from the first moment on they want to marry you. You were not that woman for this particular man. Somewhere out there is another man and you fit his ideal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:56 PM
10

It's not your job to change his mind. The only thing you can change is you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:54 PM
11

The best way to make them regret it is to ignore them by moving on 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:53 PM
11

The greatest way to prove (to yourself, not him) that you're not damaged goods is to work on leveling up and just focusing on yourself and what makes you happy. Also realizing that the vast majority of women are higher value than men just by existing. Remember, we are always biologically more valuable than men, just from a purely logical scientific stand point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:51 PM
3

I think a lot of it is just a matter of seeing patterns of social reality. So like you didn't get any closure directly from him, but there are lots of tells through his behavior that give away his reasoning. Studying the red flags in the handbook really helps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:49 PM
67

Yup. Frankly i think any male with a ton of online friends is a huge red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:47 PM
5

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:45 PM
6

Yeah just block and delete forever. You're better off. Sorry you're going through this. We've all been there. It's typical fuckboy territory. Just keep cutting these lvm off before you sleep with them and you'll be ok 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:40 PM
3

He sounds like a garbage human being to be honest. Not someone worth your friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:38 PM
5

You did the right thing. He wants to use you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:35 PM
6

Exactly. No sense in waiting around for someone who is being confusing at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:34 PM
10

Exactly, she needs to keep the scrotation going. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:32 PM
33

Yeah sounds like he's not that into you, so time to move on. Sorry, it's just a shitty thing we gotta accept sometimes. That's why we gotta guards our hearts *hugs *
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:31 PM
3

Don't text him at all unless he texts you first. And ya take a step back and focus on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:30 PM
100

That's why i think (unless the person has a legit reason to be on the internet, such as an online business) real men aren't online. They are focusing on real life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:29 PM
5

She knows she's living that queen life now and can have any man she wants. She looks better than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:24 PM
64

I fucking can't 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:23 PM
8

I don't even wanna know... 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:19 PM
30

I'm of the opinion it's a choice either way, especially after seeing the hell my bff went through with her ex husband who was addicted to video games and hentai. He knew what he was doing was wrong. They were even in counseling together. Ultimately he just didn't care enough about her or his children to stop. I would go over to their house and would feel my heart breaking for her seeing him ignore his own daughter who was trying to play with him, hearing my friend tell me her husband wouldn't to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:13 PM
11

She looks gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:00 PM
16

Yep, even if he's not a rapist, he's a dude who will not protect you, will disregard your concerns and then will blame you when something bad happens to you. He has a self annihilation imperative because he actively drives away the women who would help him to propagate his genes. No woman who isn't a mentally ill pickme would go near this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:57 PM
18

Yeah sounds like something a gaslighting abuser would say to get you to lower your boundaries so you'll get in the car with him and then he can drive you to the secondary crime scene.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:54 PM
29

And not at all a rapist lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:53 PM
8

Wow.... Imagine not understanding why women don't want to meet up with rapists....fucking rapist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:53 PM
1

Only HVM I've ever met was my grandpa. Very few men meet the criteria these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:50 PM
1

I'm not on tinder lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:48 PM
2

I think the important thing to keep in mind is that we are all human and very few people are actually in perfect health. For instance, i look perfectly fine from the outside but i actually have uterus fibroids. No one would know because i function perfectly well in society, but i would need surgery to be able to get pregnant. I think there are a lot more HVW out the with similar problems to us than we know of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:47 PM
2

No joke lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:47 AM
3

Thank God my own father makes fun of dudes like this. He was just mocking them to me today 😂 my dad is still a perv in other ways though 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:46 AM
3

Someone email all these men's relatives. Chances are they are abusing some kids in their own family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:40 AM
3

So glad you refused to bake. That was clearly a shit test. Your boundaries are strong af 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:39 AM
5

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:31 AM
6

Yep, it's not how much they make necessarily that makes them HV. It's what they spend their money on and what they invest in. A poor man can be super HV as long as he's always putting his wife and children before himself. That's what really counts at the end of the day, although having a lot of money does help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:30 AM
6

They do this so you can't leave. It's abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:28 AM
2

Good point 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:27 AM
4

It was the exact same thing for me growing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:26 AM
2

Some dude hit my car today, then blamed me, and when i got mad and started yelling at him for blaming me for what was clearly his fault, i felt ashamed and apologized to him when i shouldn't have. So yeah I'm working on it too 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:24 AM
6

Imagine what else he's lying about. Not only that, he's stingy and blamed her for it. Gaslighting is a form of abuse. Derailing and redirecting is a way of avoiding accountability for his actions,which is a typical narcissistic abuse tactic. A HVM won't have an issue spending the money on you. He'll do what he can afford, sure, but he'll still manage to go all out with what he has to offer. Put it this way, $3k for all his toys could actually get her a really nice ring at another retailer, it wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:02 AM
19

Yes, my grandmother had numerous health conditions and my grandpa was there for her until the very end. He waited on her hand and foot and he was happy to do so. He even had an intercom system set up in the house and always carried a walkie talkie at all times to stay in constant contact with her whenever she needed anything (this was before cell phones obviously). HVM recognize that women are simply worth it. They don't even think to question it. Whereas most men would leave their wives in a he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:46 AM
2

I mean... These aren't really something you can help... You are managing them the best you can right? You're not acting like a LVM who refuses to go to the doctor to even get diagnosed... I noticed most women are on top of these things and working to better themselves in terms of health, unlike men. I don't see how this would effect your partner negatively, especially if you are being upfront about it in the beginning. Maybe I'm missing something, but is there any way this would ever negatively …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:41 AM
18

😂 honestly most of the women i saw in there were 10s. Like they could actually be models.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:38 AM
3

😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:42 AM
5

Yeah it's unreal how fake that shit is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:42 AM
5

"Omg I'm such a soft boi" act 😂🙄🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:40 AM
3

If you pay for the app you can change your location to another part of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:39 AM
4

He's telling us who he is lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:38 AM
31

I was gonna say rate all the women honestly (7-10s) and the men honestly (0-4) lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:36 AM
13

GORL, your vagina is beautiful. never talk about yourself like that XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:07 AM
11

that probably makes more sense than my closeted gay explanation lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:06 AM
30

"who's 10 then???" probably a hentai character XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:05 AM
9

same. love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:05 AM
10

yep, they're are negging her lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:05 AM
10

i think there are just so many women out there who want validation due to their socialization... its sad really. she doesn't need it and should know she's beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:04 AM
17

love your username <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:02 AM
16

best comment of the day XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:02 AM
14

yuuuuupppp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:01 AM
21

closeted gay men. only thing that explains why they think other men are more attractive than a woman who looks like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:01 AM
7

she's gorgeous and could easily be a model.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 03:00 AM
32

show me an interesting HVM and then we'll talk. dummies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:58 AM
7

precisely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:39 AM
20

exactly thank you. women had far more social contribution than men overall too, its just that we didn't lord it over them. women have always viewed everyone as equally worthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:39 AM
19

"his prey was able to feed the most people and he was the one the tribe most depended on to survive." anthropologically speaking, thats most likely not true. if you look into hunter-gatherer studies you will find that in our indigenous past it was women who most likely provided the majority of the food from gathering. hunting back then, especially large game, was very dangerous. men could spend weeks tracking prey only to come up with nothing, whereas women knew the land and were able to gather …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:35 AM
15

men are fascinated by animal sex and i will never understand it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:26 AM
21

It's because most of those men are closeted gays. It's a gay male validation sub. Only thing that really explains it if you really think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 12:49 AM
26

$6 is literally "i don't give a fuck about you." Why even propose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:17 PM
4

Your username cracks me up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 11:16 PM
12

Exactly. He had so many other lazy options that he could get away with much easier and couldn't even be fussed to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:40 PM
15

Fuuuuuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:39 PM
6

Globalized capitalism at its finest, eh? 🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:38 PM
41

There are far classier vintage rings of high quality that he could have got her for very little money but he didn't even go to the effort of giving her that... Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:38 PM
28

Disgusting friend enabling him 🤬🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:36 PM
24

Unreal... So sorry you went through that... Glad he did you the favor of removing himself from your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:35 PM
16

Delusional male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:31 PM
12

Truth 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:29 PM
93

Bet he'd still fuck her in a heartbeat. Because men truly do not believe in their own so called standards. Men hate themselves more than anyone else at the end of the day. It's why they put out for anything on two legs.... Sometimes 4.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:28 PM
65

This dude is not even her looks match... Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:22 PM
6

I mean i still love it but yeah pretty much lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:20 PM
8

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:18 PM
1

Just Amazon lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 08:17 PM
17

I saw a Japanese With Yuta video where he surveyed women on the street and they overwhelmingly preferred skinny toned men over big muscular men 😂 not a single woman in that interview wanted to date a huge muscular dude and it was evident that the ideal male body type in Japan is thin with a little bit of muscular definition at best. Women want men who take care of themselves, not men who gorge on junk and then try to make up for it by getting jacked lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:35 PM
3

Great analysis 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:31 PM
6

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:30 PM
10

That's actually a very good way of putting it. Women always just wanted equality and men have managed to get us to completely flip gender roles instead 🤔 the only difference is they refuse to do any domestic labor but still expect to be treated like the woman in terms of what little perks we do get in these traditional roles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:27 PM
26

It's typical of narcs to believe anyone calling them on their shit is "abusive"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:18 PM
31

Male entitlement. To patriarchal men us ignoring them is the equivalent of them murdering us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:11 PM
56

Men really think being ignored is the worst thing which is why we should keep doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:10 PM
13

The men in the comments either really think they are funny or are ironically showcasing the exact reason mgtow is banned lol imagine having that little self awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:09 PM
14

"Intimacy noises" then why not just have actual intimate sex? You don't get intimacy noises from pressuring someone into doggy or oral 🙄 unless the woman fakes an orgasm. Men are so delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:07 PM
12

That's powerful 💐👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:05 PM
27

I hate these men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:04 PM
20

I mean I'm glad he feels bad and doesn't want to do it again (regardless of the reason at least he understand there are consequences), but it's amazing how he's already been groomed into a predator... I don't think this behavior will stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:57 PM
20

Exactly...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:56 PM
12

Even the attractive ones shouldn't get a pass on this in my view. We shouldn't be making exceptions just because someone might pass on their attractive genes or give us a better orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:54 PM
17

Most men are narcissistic. This is mainly due to their socialization under patriarchy, which conditions them to believe they are each tiny little gods. It's delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:50 PM
19

Not to mention Aiden was a jerk and controlling and wouldn't let her set the pace of the relationship. He was not a HVM either 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:47 PM
7

What a piece of shit. Glad you are getting rid of him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:45 PM
64

If any of those guys were worth her time they would have asked her out. It wouldn't be a "mystery" in the first place. Asking a guy out has never lead me to anything productive. The 90s fucked us over with that propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:40 PM
3

Same. I'm getting some elegant af pajamas and a satin robe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:33 PM
14

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:32 PM
1

Why not date someone with an already established career then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:30 PM
43

They like the idea of subjugating us, plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:29 AM
5

I HVM who wants you WON'T put his career before you. Maybe he never wanted you to end it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:28 AM
15

Youd be surprised how many men genuinely don't give a shit about their own daughters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:23 AM
17

Men are only good for one thing. Dick. And even that can be replaced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:22 AM
16

Buying new pajamas lol no more sloppy old shirts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:22 AM
11

Omg....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:19 AM
16

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:19 AM
46

I agree. I mean i do think most men are not as intelligent as women overall, but i think they know exactly what they are doing. They just don't think they are human. I do agree with the overall message of the post though. Don't even bother, wyms. Fuckboy is not worth your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:18 AM
22

Damn that's a lot of hours of your life wasted... So sorry 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:13 AM
98

Be a side chick. Twice. Did they choose me? No. Visit a guy cross country. Twice. They never visited me. Big surprise. Moved for a guy. Twice. Did they ever move for me? No. Never again will i lower my standards, compromise myself by giving up my power, or self harm in this manner again. And it is self harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:13 AM
134

No one should be packing their husband's lunch. Wtf? He's not a baby, he can do it himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:10 AM
13

Oof...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:08 AM
35

was thinking the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:20 AM
23

i was once in a LDR where the guy already expected me to have 4 children for him after only a month of talking... obviously dumped his ass lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:19 AM
30

because they know they are trash. thats what it comes down to. like who is going to get offended by some shit that doesn't even refer to them... unless it does lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:17 AM
30

meanwhile venus symbol is getting removed from pads because anything associated with female is "offensive" XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:16 AM
10

this one cracked me up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=85HT4Om6JT4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:16 AM
14

what it all comes down to is they resent us for focusing on each other because they know it means we don't need them <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:15 AM
1

i know right XD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:12 AM
2

what always helped me when i was feeling like shit was listening to youtube videos or podcasts about narcissism. understanding why and how the abuse happens was a really enlightening way to spend my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:56 AM
1

exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:54 AM
32

Reminds me of Gone Girl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:58 PM
78

Wtf... I'm so sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:57 PM
25

😂💀 "seem clean"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:55 PM
69

Disgusting weak male picking on women. Sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:54 PM
22

Oof.. Just reading the title i can't go any further. Already feeling sick 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:54 PM
6

I think it's also related to narcissism because a healthy ego doesn't get injured by rejection or lack of validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:53 PM
12

Exactly. These are the dudes who also won't defend you when their mom or bros talk shit. I've experienced it first hand. Shy men SUCK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:51 PM
7

It's just proof that these men who use us DO think of us as their gfs, they just want to keep our self esteem low by keeping us in the lurch. These dudes have harems of women they view as their property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:49 PM
1

It all changes when you realize your gut is part of your brain 😜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:47 PM
4

LMAO i love that show 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:46 PM
1

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:45 PM
2

Have you noticed that Instagram got rid of the ability to see other people's likes? I think a lot of women were finding their husband's following porn accounts and men complained lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:44 PM
1

Women haven't increased in height nearly as much as men... Firstly men deprive women of food, secondly men have purposely selected for smaller women. Men have essentially bread humanity to have a height differential that otherwise wouldn't exist. No, short genes haven't been bred out. Men are just artificially skewing the height differential with their nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:40 PM
7

I know right? I was so dumbstruck i couldn't believe it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:33 PM
4

I second the Playlist. No one has any idea how much Katy perry helped me when i broke up with my narc ex 😂 love that queen https://youtu.be/k0BWlvnBmIE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:41 AM
4

I know it's hard but the best thing you can do is focus on yourself. Keep doing what you're doing. You're not failing. You haven't contacted him. Stay strong. It sucks but i promise you in a month or two you'll be feeling significantly better and the rose colored glasses will come off. Don't date in the meantime. I know you're lonely but men can smell vulnerabilities and will target you even harder in this state. My recommendation is to hang out with female friends more or spend more time with f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:38 AM
4

That's what i was thinking. It seems like their schedules just don't work so that in itself is a good enough reason to maybe end it if it continues like that indefinitely. It doesn't have to be a judgment towards either of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:32 AM
3

Yeah as long as he's consistent and continually making effort and reaching out to her first i wouldn't automatically dismiss him just because not-set-in-stone-plans fell through one time. Of course she should keep the scrotation going but shouldn't automatically rule him out just yet. On the other hand if this becomes a pattern then something is truly up and she can next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:30 AM
2

It my opinion the logistics of the relationship don't seem to be working and probably can't continue if you or him are constantly leaving town. He doesn't sound bad... Yet. He did have prior plans and you did ask him last minute. But also he should be the one asking you... So maybe something to consider. If it were me i would try just not contacting him again until he reaches out with solid plans. It's his job to do so after all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:28 AM
8

Too true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:25 AM
9

Exactly. Love can grow over time but men know from the beginning if they wanna marry you and commit. It's our job to always be vetting, even in marriage, keep vetting him, never show you are equally devoted. Always be willing to get up and walk out if his dedication falters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:23 AM
21

I was thinking the same. If we value them more than they value us we are giving our power away. You should always be willing to walk away if a man doesn't treat you like the queen you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:21 AM
8

No joke 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:19 AM
8

I can't with this sub today 😂👌💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:19 AM
8

💀🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:18 AM
17

Hair reaper 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:18 AM
63

At least Bobby Hill was a good bf who was very kind, generous, loving and wholesome towards his cute gf... Something tells me this dude is not 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:17 AM
5

Whoa whoa whoa whoa WHOA.... Is this REAL? No way... Lmao Better things to do... Like working out, plastic surgery, leveling up in general? I'm guessing no 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:16 AM
21

Just a couple thousand years ago men and women were virtually equal in height on average. 5'2 was considered "tall". I've studied archeology and 6'0+ dudes were an anomaly in our human evolution until very recently after the advent of male civilization. Basically these tall dudes took control and kept short ones out of the gene pool. Like this has actually happened and is continuing to happen and somehow that's our fault even though for the first 200,000 years of our evolution women were actuall…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:10 AM
4

LMAO too true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:05 AM
6

Thanks for reminding me to drink water lmao i needed that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:04 AM
45

What a degenerate projecting his bullshit onto you when he doesn't even know you 🙄 that is the exact guy who will bitch about his ex gf and then go back to her 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:04 AM
21

LMAO yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:02 AM
17

💯😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:02 AM
47

Yep. People tell you who they are. They might say it a certain way to ease the uptake, but poison with some sugar on top is still poison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:01 AM
25

LMAO exactly. Damn...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:59 AM
19

Doesn't know how to delete it 😂 never have i heard such bullshit in my life lmao 🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:58 AM
40

It's weird how so many men prey on virgins and still haven't figured out that most women's inner labia sticks out from puberty onwards. I remember when mine first started to develop. I freaked the fuck out. I was only like 14. I was a Virgin. I think men know better because most of them have coerced a virginal teenager at some point. This is just propaganda they spread as another user mentioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:54 AM
43

Jesus probably flipped another table when he saw that shit 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:52 AM
56

Lots of incest in there though 🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:52 AM
62

Men's depravity knows no bounds...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:51 AM
49

Omg exactly... He was basically advertising his children to the sharks online. Fucking vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:50 AM
43

Wow, does he spend time gazing at this children's undeveloped vulva? How pedophilic. I hope people know who made the meme and have reported him to the police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:49 AM
51

I think these dudes use shyness as an excuse but it's really just LAZY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:48 AM
18

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:47 AM
36

I can't believe i used to think like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:47 AM
28

This is the type of dude who will not stick up for you when his mom or friends act like shit towards you, let alone stick up for his own goddam offspring should the woman make the mistake of procreating with him. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:47 AM
57

That was cringe... I remember when i went to a karaoke bar with my sister a guy came up to me and introduced himself. He wasn't particularly attractive but i felt flattered this guy was approaching me and shook my hand and wanted to talk to me. After introducing himself he suddenly asks "would you be interested in going out with my friend over there? He thinks you're really attractive ".... I was so shocked and disappointed that this dude had sent his friend over to ask me out FOR HIM? Like Wtf?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:44 AM
6

Glad i could help. I know how hard it can be. Growing up in high school i always got rejected by boys because i wasn't white enough (I'm a brunette with olive skin and regularly got rejected for blondes and red heads). I realized that these men were not worth impressing in the first place. When it all came down to it i may not have been their ideal but they were still willing to take my attention and emotional labor when blondie rejected them. Men aren't as choosey as we think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:34 AM
4

This might sound stupid, but have you considered how you do your hair? I've watched some of these glamourdaze videos on YouTube which basically describe what kind of clothing and hair style and even glasses you need to wear in order to complement your face shape. Here's an example: https://youtu.be/4tQt8olD3Mw Obviously those examples might be dated (unless you're into the vintage look), but i think it's a great example of how just the smallest thing such as the shirt you wear or hairstyle, can …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:26 AM
22

I think what really helped me in being truly OK with my looks and not caring what other people think, was reading feminist theory and realizing that men don't actually have the standards they claim to have. I think there was a funny meme that summed this up perfectly awhile back. It was a picture or a dude fucking a pile of fall leaves lmao ultimately men say their ideal woman is a hot compliant model Virgin, but will they hold out for one? No. Men will fuck anything with two legs... Sometimes 4…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:19 AM
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I guess it depends on the context and what you plan on getting. Like for instance, Anna Bey got a nose job, but from what i understand she didn't really get much else done except for that. She had a clear end goal in sight, which was "i want this nose job and that's it and I'm willing to shell out the cash for a really good one so that i don't need any further surgeries ". Overall i would say she looks markedly better and less tired now that she has one. She looks great. And really it was the on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 02:07 AM
2

You're contradicting yourself. You say you follow the handbook religiously but then admit to going out with him again when you had issues with him from day one. That doesn't make any sense. This is why i recommend reading the handbook again. It sounds like you're not open to critique or advice. In which case i have to wonder why you even made the post. I'm disengaging because this is a waste of mine and others time. Follow the handbook or don't, but don't be surprised when things don't work out …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:56 AM
2

Because your comments indicate you don't want to be rejected by this fellow when he clearly doesn't think highly of you based on what you yourself described in the post. I'm not being condescending. I genuinely think you need to reread the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 01:51 AM
2

Best comment of the day 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:52 PM
2

Her eyes are probably rolling so far back seeing this shit online lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:52 PM
2

No Affleck, you should feel shame. Jfc 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:52 PM
1

Oof... That back tattoo. I've seen some classy Phoenix tattoos and this is not one of them lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:51 PM
4

Well there's your answer. He doesn't make you feel good about yourself. He made you feel bad for having a different opinion. But also you should only be relying on yourself for validation. Not others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:49 PM
2

I think he's shit testing her. If she goes back now he'll get the hint that she's ready and ripe for abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:46 PM
3

It sounds like you need to read the FDS handbook again. You need to focus on your own life and being OK with being alone before you can date otherwise men will smell your desperation and take advantage of your vulnerability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:46 PM
2

Never offer to go dutch. Men don't respect a woman who offers to pay. In any case, he sounds like a jerk. There are plenty of ways to disagree with someone without being harsh or condescending. Women do it all the time. He sounds emotionally immature. Next. Also just my opinion, the making out thing seems too soon if you've only been out with someone a few times. Making out signals sexual interest, and getting touchy feely like that shouldn't be done until later. We shouldn't be sleeping with th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:44 PM
5

He will use your income against you and probably refuse to pay for dates eventually since you have more money. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:36 PM
5

But he is abusive... He basically just revealed that by equating what you said to abuse, because it is and he knows it is and he knows what he's doing. Glad you got out. Always remember, gaslighting is ABUSE. It's designed to make you doubt your reality and it's a form of psychological torture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:19 PM
6

Beyond true. Since when did explaining ever get you anywhere? Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:15 PM
2

And Leslie Gore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:14 PM
3

Almost like they tell on themselves 🤔😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:11 PM
6

LMAO 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:10 PM
2

Good point lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:10 PM
3

Was thinking the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:09 PM
6

Yeah she dodged a bullet with those soggy genes lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:09 PM
11

"Born a part of it" 😂💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:09 PM
13

My ex male bff recently told everyone that he rejected me because i "went ballistic" over him playing video games with his nephew. No, actually i rejected him because he consistently chose male validation over my concerns at every turn. He had already moved on before the video game shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:08 PM
3

🤡🌎😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:05 PM
8

More proof mra's are gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:05 PM
2

I thought the same 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:04 PM
9

Probably showers once a week at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:03 PM
15

LMAO so accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:03 PM
5

20? BULLSHIT 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:02 PM
10

He understands. He just feels threatened, so he's gaslighting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:00 PM
5

Love this comment forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:58 PM
9

Excellent response. And men would harass us either way. We're not about to enable them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:55 PM
6

😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:49 PM
1

I would say just don't entertain her shit. If she brings up her relationship woes, change the subject or grey rock.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:48 PM
3

Yep they always turn it around on us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:46 PM
3

Even if he doesn't stalk you he can still send the manosphere in your country after you by doxxing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:45 PM
8

Yep. It's because they know what they do to us, which is why they are so scared we'll turn it around on them. Their biggest fear is that we'll treat them how they treat us. They are fully cognizant of their own evil. That's why they need to Gaslight us into submission, they are afraid we'll fight back one day. Is also why men want abortion illegal. Women choosing to abort an unwanted male fetus is somehow the equivalent of men committing gynocide in their minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:43 PM
5

Just soft boi things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:39 PM
7

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:38 PM
11

I'm guessing a lot of them are teenagers who got beat up by a girl in high school at some point because he was constantly antagonizing her. I saw that plenty of times in high school, dude bullies the girl throughout the school year and finally after exercising all other options she loses her temper and puts him in his place with one punch to the face. The coward then usually backs down because he has no fighting skills or is afraid of getting hit again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:36 PM
10

Yep, even a man equal in size to a woman will still be stronger because of his life long conditioning and hormonal development.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:34 PM
19

Consequences never seem to apply to abusive men who hit first though 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:33 PM
5

True equality would be no one hitting anyone. Men are delusional. They want to keep the status quo intact and use feminism to justify it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:31 PM
17

No lol i have these fuckers blocked 😂 blockanddelete2020 I think it's because valentine's has past. If they contacted before then, they'd be expected to commit to doing something that night. 🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:27 PM
17

This is also why we should avoid bdsm. They will use it against us if women continue this libfem shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:25 PM
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Love it 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:18 PM
5

Exactly. That's one of the reasons i intentionally sought out a union job. They can't just fire me for no reason or accuse me of something i didn't do to get me fired. There has to be an investigation to prove I'm shit 😂 haven't been fired from my job yet lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:17 PM
6

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:15 PM
45

Welcome to Queendom. Population: you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:15 PM
6

Yeah and think how much money was spent on the statue just to purchase it.... Then more was spent too investigate it... I think we want to desperately invest more into something we've already heavily invested in for fear we've wasted our time and feel buyers remorse, than if we had just gone with our gut to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:13 PM
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Yeah my bff went through the same thing with her ex husband. She already divorced him and is still searching for proof he's garbage... Like what she already knows wasn't enough? You already got the divorce? I mean i get it, we've all been there. But time to move forward. Betrayal sucks though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:11 PM
6

I think penis size is important and there's nothing wrong with that standard. It's obviously not the most important thing, but it's an important standard nonetheless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:06 PM
5

In my experience none of those predicted dick size. I've met some very small butt men with very big dicks. Like totally out of proportion to their entire body dicks 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:02 PM
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My ex bf, was tall, really big hands and the correct finger ratio. He was also uncut. But did he have a big penis? No. One of the smallest I've seen. There is no way to tell ladies. It wasn't unusable though, which is why the relationship continued.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:57 PM
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In my experience this doesn't work. I've dated a few stubby hand guys and the penis was at least average and it was fine. I've only run into one micro dick and i don't think this criteria would have helped me. Sorry to say but this isn't really a thing i think. Wish it were that easy though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:53 PM
18

Damn... 15 years ago 😂🤡 More proof coomers are degenerate. What a sad waste of life. Men love self annihilation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:44 PM
31

Wow.. I'm dumbstruck... Even in my worst pickme days i could never see myself doing anything that insane...unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:41 PM
11

Good point. I used to do this too. I should implement that 10 minute rule as well. We should never make ourselves too available to them in any capacity, whether it's in person, on the phone, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:36 PM
112

Men really believe they are more logical than us. It's unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:34 PM
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Sounds like my ex roommate lol she was throwing herself at these dudes and expect not to come off as clingy? Like OK... The lack of logic is astounding.... Anything to get that male validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:33 PM
12

He raised that son. There's a reason he's degenerate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:30 PM
3

Yeah they conveniently aren't on the phone when you're not around but suddenly on the phone when you are? That's called not being interested in me. And these dudes really expect us to stick around. Unreal 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:28 PM
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Every man I've ever been interested in has been a breadcrumber. I have far more respect for the men who just outright rejected me because they didn't think i was attractive for one reason or another (even if those reasons were misogynist) than i do for a man who sees a woman he doesn't even like but uses her anyway and pulls that breadcrumb bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:26 PM
13

I think he passed the consequences off onto the son once he realized there might be a DNA test to determine maternity. Let's face it, the dude hates his children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:24 PM
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Even when i didn't have a crush on someone and thought i was going in completely neutral, i developed one after the sex. It's a waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:22 PM
15

I'm fine with calling the men "h*es" and "thots" though lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:20 PM
44

"H*e culture"? You mean self harm? I mean i guess some people are genuinely into NSA sex, but why call it a "culture"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:19 PM
10

My ex in a nut shell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:09 AM
5

Wonder if it's my ex bf lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:09 AM
6

Cool. I don't like giant man babies who don't know how to make a woman orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:08 AM
57

Guarantee the father raped her too and that it's just as likely it's his baby as it would be the brothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 08:08 AM
27

Lol communication is so haaaard when you have so many plates spinning 😂👌🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:55 AM
35

Not to mention he's most likely on his phone all day anyway 🙄 no excuse for these clowns not to respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:54 AM
19

Yep if we can do it so can they. They just don't care and it's part of their breadcrumb bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:53 AM
13

Exactly. Healthy ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:10 AM
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Pffft i don't see anything "unethical" about this sub or the FDS handbook. This sub advocates for women's boundaries, full stop. We're not hiding anything. We even tell women to be honest if they are dating multiple people. And it's none of men's fucking business how many people we've slept with. Why are men allowed to demand this? Fuck that noise. Pickmes can fuck off if they don't like this place. Your language is completely acceptable. They don't wanna be referred to as animals? Then they can…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 05:08 AM
23

Male self annihilation imperative at work again. Unreal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:59 AM
3

It really is like a movie. Felt like i was in Single White Female 😂😭😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:55 AM
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I'm right there with you. I was feeling suicidal and alone and now i realize what i can do to avoid these men and that i don't have to be alone to avoid abuse because i have all these tools at my disposal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:51 AM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:50 AM
33

Men take up every space possible and leave nothing for us. I'm done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:50 AM
35

Honestly i studied about narcissism for YEARS on my own since 2015 when i got out of an abusive relationship. It did help a bit but nothing has helped me the way FDS has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:48 AM
77

Wtf... Unreal...🤡🌎🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:02 AM
37

I feel your pain 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:01 AM
95

Wtf... Have the incels infiltrated lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:01 AM
45

Wow he must be desperate to be going after someone he hasn't seen in like a decade or more. What a loser. It would have been nice to date him if he had put in the effort to be a nice person and get to know you, but instead he opted for the lazy route and ruined your childhood image of him. It would be sad if it weren't so pathetic. Nothing is sacred to these males, not even innocent childhood friendship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:28 AM
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Yeah this GIRL (not gonna call her a woman because she's fucking immature) spent 2 years talking shit about her ex, finally broke it off after 5 years with him, moved in with me because i had a spare room. As soon as she was in, her Instagram account went from a vintage cutesy account to a an e-thot bdsm prostitute account with serial killer worship posts. I was SHOCKED. Like Wtf. She immediately started meeting psychos on OLD, one of which hacked my computer network for her after fucking her in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 03:18 AM
6

You did the right thing. I'm no longer making space for women in my life who aren't already pinkpilled. The last female friend i lived with basically ended up being an insane scammer who used me as life raft until she found the next dick to hop onto. I'm really sorry you went through that. I'm adding you to my white list in case you need someone to chat with. I know it's hard. You're doing great already focusing on yourself. I'm sorry those others weren't there for you. It sucks doing everything…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:42 AM
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Sick...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 02:36 AM
2

It probably has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:51 PM
34

I was laughing so hard when i saw that tagline lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:50 PM
12

That's what he gets. Block and delete. He had his chance. And trust me, that shy sweet shit is always an act. You can weed these fuckers out by keeping your boundaries high. After awhile they can no longer keep up the act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:50 PM
22

Yes if she starts dating too soon she may inadvertently lower her standards for that fix. We've all been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:48 PM
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It takes time. That's really all you can do is just work on yourself until you stop caring about them. My advice is to spend more time with female friends and family as much as possible. I think you will find that community of women will bring you lots of peace of mind. It might take awhile but you will learn to love your new found freedom and independence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:47 PM
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Amazing analysis. Thank you 🖖🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:44 PM
71

LMAO best comment of the day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:43 PM
121

I mean he's allowed to his DELUSIONAL standards, but he better be the same 😂🤡🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:43 PM
20

That's what i would do lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:41 PM
17

I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:41 PM
18

Disgusting male
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:40 PM
16

I've been saying this for ages 😂 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:39 PM
14

What always happens is the new girl sees through his shit and he expects you to be his backup. Fuck that noise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:32 PM
20

Yes as most men are. They always think the pastures are greener. If you want to know how stupid i was, i was actually the girl he cheated on his first ex with. Dunno why i expected different after becoming official with him. I was bound to get cheated on as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:20 PM
3

Lol exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 09:18 PM
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But he's not your ideal guy. He is inconsistent, unstable and doesn't want a relationship... At least not with you, because most likely he's been pursuing other women. I've noticed that guys who go to study abroad usually do so purely to fuck foreign women, not because they want a cultural experience or unique education. Before my ex left me to study abroad in Germany he had already turned on his dating profile and changed his location to Stuttgart a week before he even left. These men are trash…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 08:12 PM
2

No, you just caused unnecessary drama instead of taking the time to be intellectually honest by asking me for clarification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:38 PM
3

I mean i liked the self reflective aspect of the show and the fact that the characters did ultimately reject a bunch of fuckboys and had to learn to stand up for what they wanted, but overall they all basically settled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 07:33 PM
3

Exactly! I've been saying this for awhile. I love sex and the city but it is not a positive representation of good relationships on that show lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:58 AM
3

That's awesome! 💗👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:57 AM
3

So true. Love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:52 AM
13

I feel the same lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:49 AM
10

I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:49 AM
10

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:49 AM
22

That's some grade F negging. Men aren't funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:48 AM
20

He sounds like a 4 year old 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:47 AM
17

Yep, same. And rapey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:36 AM
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Not even fucking surprised. I've said it before and I'll say it again, i fucking hate weed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:35 AM
4

Put it this way, paying for a ticket to the museum or an art show probably costs less than ihop, but will he make the effort to be classy? Hell no 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:32 AM
3

Because people are averse to self responsibility and delayed gratification apparently lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:30 AM
2

Thank you. I don't understand why my comment was so controversial. I never said never masturbate again. That would be ridiculous obviously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:28 AM
3

I never said "never masturbate".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:27 AM
6

Date, time, place, meal, extending the date, trying to change the date, etc. Let's say he asks you on a date and sets it for a Wednesday evening. Simply tell him you're not available that Wednesday. Tell him you're available some other days. See how he reacts. If he's truly interested, he'll work around your schedule. If he's a narc he'll either get frustrated and try to coerce/guilt trip you, or he'll drop off the face of the planet and never follow throw. But what about when you're on the date…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:20 AM
2

Yes. It's very high school mentality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:12 AM
1

💯👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:09 AM
5

Exactly. A wall is a boundary. Nothing wrong with that 💗🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:08 AM
7

Omg EXACTLY. I'm the same way. I've cut off 90% of people's just by turning my Facebook off. You think any of these people bothered to text or call me after? I think the fuck not. One was even a very close friend, got pregnant, had a baby shower and then had her baby and DIDN'T TELL ME until i texted her months after the baby was born. I sent her a picture of a dress i thought she'd like and then she just sends me this picture of her new baby as a response. I was like WHAT THE FUCK? The other we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:06 PM
3

LMAO yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:01 PM
8

Exactly. And even if a dude is strapped for cash, he can find nice clothes second hand or at places like Ross and Burlington. It's not hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:01 PM
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The thing is we don't even have to spend the money. There are always less expensive alternatives (walk outside instead of gym) but it's the fact that we put in way more effort in general that they just do not put in and expect to make up with a $15 ihop meal 🙄🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 06:00 PM
1

I mean i don't spend nearly this amount on my appearance but i guarantee i spend way more than the coffee date he wants to take her on lol I invested in an electric razor 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:58 PM
15

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:54 PM
2

D I S G U S T I N G. P A T H E T I C 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:44 PM
2

Yes i think she should get a restraining order.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:42 PM
2

Please block all his family members, friends and any mutual acquaintances. I promise you he will send all of them after you. Just block all of them right out the gate. Unless you absolutely require these people in your life due to work or financial obligations, there is no real reason to keep any of them around. Your social circle may get smaller but it doesn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:42 PM
2

He wants an argument. That's the only reason he's asking what the problem is when you've already stated it. You told him. He doesn't care. It's that simple. If he cared he'd work to better himself instead of bothering you. He is looking to Gaslight you because his ego is injured. Nothing more. It's typical narc shit. Visit narcsite.com if you wanna understand these men better. The website is run by a diagnosed narcissist names H.G. Tudor. He explains thoroughly the reasons behind why they hoover…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:39 PM
9

Yep, we aren't anti sex. We're pro HEALTHY sex and HEALTHY communication and HEALTHY ego. A healthy ego asks "will this harm me?" An unhealthy ego asks"what can i do to get attention and validation at any cost to my well being and the lives of others?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:34 PM
1

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:31 PM
15

"Overvaluing pussy".... Never have i heard a more self hating phrase. This girl hates herself, full stop. Any woman with half a brain knows that her vagina is ALL most men value 🙄😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:30 PM
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I think a lot of them are super young and it won't hit them until they are in their mid-late 20s that they fucked themselves over by willingly giving away their power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:28 PM
8

I wish i had this sub 15 years ago before compromising my health and safety to men. It's not about being promiscuous, it's about the fact that no matter how liberated we think we are, men will use it against us to harm us in any way possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:27 PM
12

Yep, use the "no test" on the first date. You will know immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:25 PM
1

The first guy i met on tinder was using a fake name. I figured it out by googling his phone number and address. They really think we are so stupid that we won't figure these things out. They leave it all out in the open. It's unreal. Because when we do figure it out they think they can just Gaslight us. No need to cover their tracks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:22 PM
1

Absolutely. They assume you are damaged goods if you use OLD so it's best we not use it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:19 PM
8

Well maybe they should LISTEN if they want us to talk. And ya know, do something about it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:16 PM
5

Shit 😂😂😂😂 i think this is my new favorite artist 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:58 PM
5

It's a land of criminals... You think the offspring of such historical criminals will turn out any better? That country genocided indigenous people...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:56 PM
2

Yep, if he's being confusing it's because he's not serious and never will be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:52 PM
7

Yep she has no power. Exactly. He already has her groveling and they barely know each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:51 PM
8

Don't do anything. Focus on your life and doing things you love. It's not your job to get him to like you. He most likely won't contact you when he gets back. Oh well. He's a fuckboy. Just because he's being nice doesn't mean anything. It sounds like you are attached to someone who doesn't give a damn about you, otherwise why would you feel guilty for moving on? If you really want, he can stay in scrotation, but i wouldn't take him seriously if i were you and i would continue to see other people…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:50 PM
6

Good point. Welp I'm 35 now and happy alone so whatevs 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:45 PM
10

I see tinder tanking soon and i can't wait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:43 PM
2

My thoughts exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:42 PM
7

I know right? If that was my first time using tinder i would have immediately deleted the app for being rapey lmao The AI is getting more sophisticated 😂🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:41 PM
7

Wow just being straight up that they are a free prostitution app, huh? 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:40 PM
11

Porn is like eternal rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:38 PM
1

Stop masturbating (for awhile until your brain resets) first of all. You don't need to. There's no physical necessity for it. If you require porn to get off... Stop getting off. That's all i can really recommend except to maybe raise your consciousness on the matter. Read a book such as "Pornography: Men Possessing Women" by Andrea Dworkin. I mean as women we should be able to understand that we are getting off to other people exploitation when we use porn. Do we want to be like men in that rega…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:37 PM
5

What a scum bag. 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:32 PM
27

Keep an eye out for your cat at the local shelter website. I guarantee you he doesn't care about that cat and will surrender it when it becomes a burden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:30 PM
8

I genuinely don't think men have any real political beliefs. They just say what they think we will agree with or what will make them look cool and deep to their dude bros.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:25 PM
3

Yes some women really are that desperate and make tons of excuses for these men. It's insane. What you're describing isn't even unique. It's very common. Men do it because they can get away with it and keep us in the lurch. That's why we just need to stop. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:20 PM
29

I would post straight on face pictures, no body showing, and get pedos in my inbox all the time. These men have no shame. I stopped posting photos entirely and turned off social media because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:17 PM
28

"I'm not saying you deserve to be sexually harassed.... But you do " lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:15 PM
54

"420 friendly"= I'll get you high and try to rape you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:10 PM
76

Yep. Can confirm. The ones you have to instruct won't listen anyway. Better to just find a man who cares about your pleasure and works to get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:05 PM
20

So true. They create their own problems and blame everyone but themselves and their own inaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:03 PM
1

Yep. They portrayed that in orange is the new black. Her fiance abandoned her super quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:58 PM
2

Well FDS does say to guard your heart and never reveal your true emotional depth to them. So i guess we must gotta see them as second to everything else in our lives. And that's ok. A man should exist to enhance our already great lives, not be the crux of our happiness. It's a difficult concept to grasp onto because we've all been brainwashed since birth to believe in romance, which is a modern concept, not something evolutionarily inherent to our species. Spend time with men because they are fu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:56 PM
2

So true. Their hypocrisy knows no bounds. My dad just threw a tantrum because someone ate his crackers and didn't replace them, but he does the same shit all the time. And yes, he's fucking 5 years old lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:51 PM
2

I don't understand... Why are men so shitty? Like yeah no one is perfect and we all fuck up... But how is anyone THIS shitty holy fuck...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:49 PM
109

They are the same men who won't pay their bills but have no problem buying a VR system. Scum bags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:47 PM
193

Men invented these rings. Men came up with the concept. Men expected women to give in to the hype of it for profit. And we're to blame 😂🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:47 PM
20

T H A N K Y O U 🤡🌎😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 03:46 PM
86

I'm fucking irate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:36 PM
51

Wow.... Enraging.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:36 PM
1

You described it perfectly. I think that's why a lot of them gravitate to video games and other escapist activities. They can't sit alone with their thoughts or self analyze.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:30 PM
2

Exactly. Waste of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:28 PM
2

Saaaaame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:27 PM
9

the copying thing is so creepy too... i never understood it. all the energy they put into mirroring others they could just put that energy toward developing an actual personality... its so inefficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:19 PM
12

its totally normal and thats how people should be. you're good. sex should be sacred between people who care about each other because it is a very risky act and women put so much more at risk by engaging in NSA sex. plus in my opinion, sex with someone you care about just feels way better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:17 PM
15

there are times when i fantasize, but when i really think about, the idea of actually getting with someone makes me cringe... just can't even fathom it anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:16 PM
10

they believe everything they see on tv lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:15 PM
13

Yep, so many parents enable their sons to be garbage by letting them free-load. He needs to learn consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:08 PM
17

To be honest i think it's a bit late for him. And it's not your responsibility. It should have been your mother's job growing up (and fathers job, but we all know how that goes 🙄). Im working on my teenage brother right now. I feel like if it's before age 20 you can maybe still salvage them. But then again my brother always had empathy and was capable of self analysis. It's hard to say and i guess it depends on the person, but i feel like if he hasn't figured out women are human by age 25 he's a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:05 PM
44

I'm 34 and laughing my ass off at these delusional males who think I'm 17-22 lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:59 PM
33

She has a very queenly facial structure, ie looks like an actual grown woman. So shocking 😂 Men tho 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:58 PM
19

Omg yes... So disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:55 PM
9

This is good advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:54 PM
9

I've had guys try it on me. I left the date. One guy wanted to take me home after promising to take me to a movie. He took me to ihop instead, so i gladly ate the food and then left at his suggestion of going back to his place lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:52 PM
2

He has to hate women to treat women as disposable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:51 PM
6

I love your username 😂👌💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:50 PM
23

Yeah i agree. Especially because people assume the guy is single because he fucked up with an ex wife lmao and there's the concept of the mid life crisis in which men are seen as desperate losers trying to relive their youth. There's not really a mid life crisis phase for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:48 PM
18

In some countries i think this is the case, but i think the "empowered single woman" idea is pretty prominent in the west.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:47 PM
71

I've lost all of my sex drive. It gets easier the longer you are alone. I can't even really fathom being desperate enough to lower my standards for sex anymore. Celibacy is our #1 ally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:42 PM
56

I've been ostracized my entire life since kindergarten. I got used to being alone. Only in high school did i attempt to make a social life and failed because boys were pure evil and the girls worshiped the ground they walked on. I was always astounded when a female high school friend was willing to backstab me for tiny high school dick. I never settled the way most of these pickmes inevitably did. In my the back of my mind there was always a nagging feeling of "will i be alone forever if i rejec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:39 PM
14

So true. 💯 agree. I've been thinking this for awhile. Im done settling. I've tried again and again and again and it never gets you anything but misery. If you're lucky you won't die or get abused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:33 PM
10

Wtf lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:47 AM
14

They intentionally misunderstand and derail. Once you realize they enjoy arguing is very easy to ignore their antics. It's just basic narc manipulation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:43 AM
7

It's weird even when my messages and chat was turned on no one would message me lmao maybe I'm too based and decucked for this clown world 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:42 AM
9

Omg i feel this in my soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:40 AM
64

It's fucking scary. Dude has probably raped multiple women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:37 AM
24

It's not even women telling each other what to do. It's literally women running their OWN lives. Disgusting delusional males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:36 AM
55

I love what a badass you are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:34 AM
23

Men like this hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:50 AM
28

Yup. The bar is reaching down to hades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:37 AM
22

Probably a man lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:37 AM
28

Yep 10,000 more women are gonna join lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:36 AM
68

How does this place want to run womens lives? No one is holding a gun to women's heads forcing them to take the advice here 😂🙄 telling people to do self analysis is healthy and necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:36 AM
94

Id be scared af if someone pulled that on me. I would assume he's a serial killer if someone tried that on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:33 AM
306

He never planned on taking her to the original restaurant. Guarantee it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:31 AM
50

Men don't believe in their own standards. Pathetic delusional male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:30 AM
3

Nice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:29 AM
4

I'm getting back into my hobbies. I just signed up for a work out class, I'm gonna start running with my dog again and I'm gonna start making plant medicine. I just have to re-organize my cupboards this week. I plan to start collecting herbs regularly. It's exciting. I used to dance and do martial arts but i sustained multiple injuries so I'm not sure how i feel about going back to those things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:12 AM
4

My judo teacher always said women are better at judo because we have greater leg strength. Don't let this fool convince you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:08 AM
3

He can demand hot woman all he wants. That's his personally standards. But he shouldn't expect anyone to want him if that's what he looks like. Reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:05 AM
4

Exactly. This dude has nothing to say about himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:03 AM
5

Exactly. Like honestly looks wouldn't matter to me at all if they just did the bare minimum of being decent responsible people. But they won't even have good personalities so why shouldn't we make our standards more stringent? That's what they get. And it really doesn't take much for a man to look attractive. Comb the hair, shave the face, dress smartly, wash properly and wear deodorant. That's really all it takes for most women to be impressed. Pathetic males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:03 AM
7

Because we live in a patriarchy where men expect to own women like cattle and we have to line up like we're in a slave market for them to evaluate. But ya know, we're the evil ones 🙄😂🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:00 AM
7

I'm thinking the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:39 PM
3

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:37 PM
5

Repeat back what they say to you 😂 i live for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:35 PM
6

Lol wtf? Yeah clearly negging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:33 PM
2

Exactly. An ugly guy can still be a catch if he takes care of himself. An attractive guys looks will go down drastically over time anyway if he didn't put in effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:31 PM
1

Russian grand parents are the best at shaming fashion choices 😂💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:29 PM
3

Imagine missing the point of that interview so hard. Women put in so much effort and still get passed over. That doesn't give men a pass on being shit though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:29 PM
9

Concerning. She's young so i hope she won't move for this male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:24 PM
13

The fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:21 PM
7

Male self annihilation imperative at work yet again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:18 PM
10

Exactly. He's not providing anything for her that she can't do herself. Living for herself would take far less effort than living to try to convince him to live for her. Time to move on. They never change. That's why you gotta find one who is good from the start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:17 PM
3

This why you don't build a man. It's too much work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:16 PM
4

Disgusting male. What a garbage human being. They know full well they are wasting our time and they don't care. They just bide their time until they reach greener pastures, meanwhile our eggs are decaying waiting around for them. Sick fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:10 PM
3

I think i read/ heard somewhere that it was due to masturbating with the same hand over time. Some men have told me that they switched hands regularly because is this 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:08 PM
10

This post isnt about those women. It's about men who lie by omission and probably have other issues they don't want to work through. Because let's face it, women usually do much more self analysis than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:27 PM
12

In my experience even the men who do take steps to get diagnosed and medicated usually don't take other steps to manage their condition or improve their lives. They think the medication is a cure-all and that's not the type of guy i want to date. I would rather be with someone for whom self analysis comes naturally, even if he also needs meds to supplement. That's why i personally think it is a huge red flag, not just if they don't tell you, but also because most men don't care about improving t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:24 PM
8

I've had two men do this to me as well. Sleep deprivation is a torture tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:19 PM
47

💯 it's time we as women got snoopier in my opinion. Let's be real. We all snoop anyway. It's time to stop shaming women over this. I won't be gaslit by another male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:17 PM
10

I totally agree. Great tip. The viagra would suggest he's porn addicted with a death grip. Very important info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:15 PM
21

I went through the exact same thing growing up. Patriarchys primary goal is to strip women and girls of their power in this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:12 PM
2

That actress is married to Adam Nimoy 🖖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:11 PM
6

Keep focusing on yourself and you'll naturally attract high quality men. Men in the apps can sense our desperation. They will assume you are damaged and treat you that way. Work on you and you'll see the fruits of your labor no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:02 PM
3

Totally agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:59 PM
11

I had a partner once who shamed me because my cervical fluid came out after sex lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:51 PM
16

All of this self doubt stopped the minute i read the FDS handbook 💗 before that i had the exact same outlook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:48 PM
43

I'm so sorry you went through that. Never ignore your intuition. If it's a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:20 PM
35

I think if you give up on dating apps you are recommitting yourself to reality. Have you ever found true love on the apps? No. People have been meeting in reality for the past 200,000+ years. You'll be fine 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:14 PM
10

Thank you. If you'd like to know more about it, i highly suggest reading "Origins of the Family, Private Property and the State" by Friedrich Engels. There's also an interesting video i just watched recently that's tangentially related concerning why males of our species are so violent compared to other primates https://youtu.be/fuHzXIKvjhU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:09 PM
14

A tarot expert actually told me that Michael is an extremely low vibrational name lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:03 PM
2

Saaame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:02 PM
3

Lol I've never experienced that. My past partners were mainly insecure about their own body hair. Really bizarre lol like dudes we are all human primates. I mean i guess some guys are pretty hairy to the point of it being disgusting, but these were just averagely hairy dudes from what i could tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:01 PM
3

D I S G U S T I N G
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:59 PM
3

It's a choice. They simply don't care. You're not their priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:52 AM
3

Lol love this queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:51 AM
3

You did the right thing. If he will lie and Gaslight about something so obvious, he will fuck with you in other ways. Done and dusted. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:50 AM
7

LMAO don draper 👌😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:46 AM
5

LMAO so true. Men are constantly sabotaging each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:44 AM
7

Lol same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:43 AM
9

Sounds like a hollow empty psychopathic life to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:43 AM
7

He will be back. They all slide into our dms eventually. That's your second chance to use fds and ignore for good. Trust me in a month you'll be over his shit and the rose colored glasses will come off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:40 AM
8

I do the same lol 💗👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:32 AM
23

So true. I wonder if my ex male bff did that when i went to visit him and we were walking around the lake taking pictures of cute bugs and mushrooms 🙄🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:21 AM
30

LMAO so accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:19 AM
6

That's what i was thinking. Future faking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:16 AM
2

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:15 AM
11

Yep he's shit testing you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:15 AM
10

Exactly. They don't care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:14 AM
11

Whatever it is he gave you i PROMISE you he's not as sentimental about it as he made himself out to be lol 🤡 i say if you like it keep it or just donate it if you don't want the negative energy around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:13 AM
25

The impressing friends thing is a big one. Men care more about what other dicks think of them than what an actual warm vagina in their bed thinks them. Patriarchy is homoerotic to the core.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:10 AM
9

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:55 AM
24

Women love men against all the odds. That should really be enough evidence of our queenliness and the fact we are owed respect. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:54 AM
9

I feel the same way. I hear songs like this all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:53 AM
19

I haven't had a bad experience with curved dick (at least not based on it being curved), just the dudes they were attached to really sucked 😂 but they aren't exactly visually appealing to most i would assume lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:38 AM
43

My former boss was a Michael. He got transferred to another store because he had 40+ complaints against him lmao then he gave us a goodbye speech about how hard he had to push us and no one wanted to clap so my other boss started the clapping for him and everyone else slowly joined in lmao it was like an episode of the office 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:37 AM
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I've commented this before on several other posts, but i really genuinely believe most men do not actually care about their offspring. They might put in bare minimum effort at most simply to keep their mate around so they have a free servant for life. And then men see their own m children as servants as well. It's a byproduct of our patriarchal evolution, which has favored psychopathic males for the past 10,000 years. Most of the remaining "good men" were wiped out in the last few gynocides (wit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:52 AM
25

It's weird how these men essentially are bragging to reddit about failing at life. These posts where they straight up ADMIT they are scumbags and then expect sympathy really blow my mind 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:39 AM
28

I thought this too. He gaslit this poor woman to high heaven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:38 AM
46

Yeah the person he divorced was "someone else entirely" because he drove her mad 🙄🤡 Notice how he can't really name anything specific he loves about her, just the things she did for him? Typical male 🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:35 AM
27

Yeah my mother is a crazy b*tch but no one deserves that shit 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:28 AM
5

This sultry fierce queen makes me wanna work out 10x more 😂🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:25 AM
16

Posts like this make me so relieved im child free and single. Holy shit 🤡🌎🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:21 AM
42

It disgusts me when they say "those girls aren't real". Um, ya they are, and you know full well you wouldn't want you own daughter to become one 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:20 AM
21

I hate men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:19 AM
17

Yuuuup. When you give them permission to walk all over you they'll not only make you a door mat, they'll make you the carpet too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:18 AM
19

Nothing is sacred to them. They have a violation imperative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:18 AM
78

My father actually stalked my mother for years after the divorced. I grew up thinking this was normal, but it was also really scary. Every few years he would come by and break down our door. My mother got a restraining order against him. One time he climbed a tree and watched her having sex with her bf through the window. My mother left him without notice for a reason. My father is psycho. We disappeared for 6 months before he found us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:14 AM
103

Literally every man I've known named Michael was a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:11 AM
69

Man baby
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:10 AM
58

Yep the more we enable them the more they get the idea that they would never have to change. No amount of begging and pleading and infinity chances will change them. The ONLY message they will learn is through actual consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:09 AM
25

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:08 AM
12

Imagine 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:06 AM
28

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:05 AM
101

LMAO I will laugh about curved dick until the day i die 🤡🌎
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:05 AM
56

I was thinking the same lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:04 AM
9

Best comment of the day 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:03 AM
48

I honestly hope he's dead before he reaches 45 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:59 AM
1

Human supremacism is based in hierarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:46 PM
2

They are fully aware of their inferiority. It's why they've completely reorganized civilization to their advantage. If they didn't they would categorically fail at everything, and what's sad is they still do after all the work they put in to keep us down. Men just suck and there is basically nothing they can do about it. It's pretty pathetic. And you know women wouldn't mind so much is they just put in the effort to be genuinely better people. But they refuse to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:44 PM
17

i used to not mind bald dudes, but my standards are going UP UP UP after joining this sub lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:50 AM
7

saaaamme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 06:48 AM
19

the entire reason hierarchy exists is because men hate each other and wish to dominate each other and exploit other men. the only reason most men submit to this hierarchy is because the hierarchy preferences males over females. in other words, you could be dominated by other men your whole life, but if you're a male you'll be ok with it so long as you get to dominate women as a door prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:38 AM
10

i go on female-only retreats once a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:31 AM
9

exactly lol she put the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:30 AM
14

imagine being so lacking in self awareness lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:29 AM
29

because its not about her genuine attraction. she just has to be available to him and at his beck and call for it to not be a dead bedroom, regardless of her standards. pure male entitlement. disgusting males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:29 AM
20

exactly. men categorically expect us to be completely hairless. all this woman is asking is that a guy not be TOO hairy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:27 AM
13

X'D hairy backs are the WORST. i like a nice smooth muscular back <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:26 AM
14

whaaaahhhh my penis is bent to the right. LITERAL VIOLENCE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:25 AM
10

almost as if they are... snowflakes :3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:25 AM
21

i gotta wonder how much of the sideways dick is caused by death grip. i noticed most men seem to have it curving to the right (because they wank with their right hand).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:24 AM
18

i just threw up a little bit in my mouth... i'm so sorry you went through that. ive seen some shitty dicks in my time too... ugh... i hate the super long yet thin ones omg...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:22 AM
12

grrrrrrrrrrllllll E X A C T L Y. i fucking hate weird looking penis heads... like wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:21 AM
19

they are upset because they know their dick isn't straight lmao P A T H E T I C
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:21 AM
11

precisely. male self-annihilation imperative at work right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:20 AM
8

best comment of the day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:18 AM
20

it'll be slow at first but i think eventually we'll reach a tipping point where most women are going to stop putting up with mens shit seemingly "out of nowhere" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:17 AM
16

grown men have been bullying little girls online since... well since the internet was probably invented lol pathetic males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:16 AM
24

Total assassination when someone finds out they are arbitrarily loved. this is how i realized my ex didn't even love me. i was literally just someone who was around and he dated me. that was it. it made me feel so worthless knowing there wasn't anything in particular he liked about me. i was just a pussy who happened to be nearby. that was the worst feeling ever. and he immediately moved on when i dumped him. because i never mattered to him so there were basically no feelings of loss for him to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:15 AM
7

i've dated lots of guys with very little hair, a job and a straight penis lol this is like the most minimum requirements ever XD pathetic males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:12 AM
5

my sister's narc ex used lung cancer 9_9 cancer is a really common one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:06 AM
6

absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:05 AM
2

i joined already :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:51 AM
8

absolutely. i wouldnt doubt that one bit. he probably cast a wiiiiiiide net.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:51 AM
5

not just that, but human males are physically more sensitive than females. they succumb much more easily to disease and stay sicker longer. male infants naturally have a higher mortality rate (when you factor out things like femicide).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 03:50 AM
22

Your post perfectly encapsulates what men really think of the "cool girl"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:48 PM
3

You think they really masturbate? Lmao pathetic males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:47 PM
14

That's actually why I'm unsubscribed from all YouTube comment notifications. It has made my experience of YouTube so much better. If i make a good point and some dumbass responds, i don't see it and chances are someone else swoops in to defend my points anyway so it's a win win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:45 PM
51

I know this is going to sound cruel, but i would be skeptical of his claim first and foremost. A typical narcissistic hoovering tactic is to claim "I'm going to die soon" or something similar. So you're right in not responding. There's a very good chance he's just straight up lying. And if he's not, surely he has plenty of other friends and family to lean on during this time. Why reach out to you specifically other than to use it against you somehow? It seems opportunistic. Just my two cents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:43 PM
11

I love your username lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:40 PM
35

I love it 💗💐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:39 PM
3

They already lie about it. May as well shame them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:37 PM
17

I hate my father and he knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:44 PM
18

Rose tinted glasses. She probably thinks she can't get better just because the dude does the basics of watching his crotch in the shower and washing his towels every 6 months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:43 PM
24

That's disgusting. Reason #37765 why i hate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:41 PM
9

I'm sure there's a few following me lol pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:38 PM
29

Well who wants a husband or bf who refuses to talk to them for WEEKS? That's not a relationship lmao that's an acquaintanceship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:37 PM
14

Yeah i have a lot of time on my hands but i don't go into red pill forums because i know it's not for me lol idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:34 PM
25

Theyre just straight up lying. Even most LVM will pay in the beginning at least. It's the other shitty LVM traits that lead them to be rejected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:34 PM
20

I love how they think we need their approval lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:18 PM
32

I'm just honest. I blatantly tell people "most men are porn addicted and only interested in sex ". It usually shocks them lol then it starts a dialogue about society lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 09:16 PM
31

My dad was exactly like this growing up. He'd go on and on about how i should get a gf because lesbians are hot (I'm straight btw) and he even told me how big my mother's clitoris is... When i was 12 years old. He'd make all kinds of inappropriate comments about women in front of me and my sister. He would also pinch our butts but that was kinda a family thing in general. Just a lack of boundaries in our family all around 🙄🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:35 PM
1

Indeed 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:16 PM
4

EXACTLY LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:14 PM
2

💯🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:13 PM
4

I thought so too 😂🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:00 AM
8

ah ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:20 AM
49

because technically speaking they are biologically useless and they know this. in terms of evolutionary theory, men basically only exist as a genetic buffer (to produce variation in the species through sexual reproduction, as opposed to asexual reproduction). basically, scientists have managed to create healthy female mice from two eggs. men basically have no reason to exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:19 AM
22

well ya know, if men say it it must be true. not when women say it though lol i experienced that in college all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:17 AM
6

yep, even posted how much he loved it on facebook and then totally backpeddled on facebook...and didn't delete the original post thinking no one would make the connection or notice lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:16 AM
11

Yeah she could have a spy on her friends list
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:07 AM
9

Ya well I'm a woman and i liked it. Lol 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:03 AM
8

Wanna know how i know it's purely about the female leads? This one anti feminist i knew actually initially LIKED the new star wars movie. Then as soon as the backlash started he totally back peddled and decided he didn't like it because it was a "rehash" of the original films. So what? It's still good in my opinion. It's an enjoyable film. A film doesn't need to be super unique to be good. Many films have been redone over and over again and people still like them. So what? It's just mra propagan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:02 AM
5

Saaaaame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:51 AM
11

Yeah it probably won't be until she leaves the relationship that her rose color glasses come off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:50 AM
46

Only a dude would interpret this sub that way so I'm calling "her" comment bullshit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:49 AM
53

"Ideology is such a weird mix " that's because it's not a rigid dogma. It takes what works and discards the rest. Only cultic people need to strictly follow one particular dogma to feel like they are doing life the right way. On the contrary, we like to think for ourselves. And that girl feeling "guilty", and you kinda need to self analyze. Sometimes that's hard to do. Sometimes it makes you feel like shit. Sometimes you need to ADULT UP and figure your shit out if your wanna level up in life. B…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:47 AM
73

What "gold"? Dude can only afford cake pops 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:42 AM
5

The first dude i met on tinder a few years ago was a PUA. It was weird because he was actually very attractive, worked out, had a great body, cute face, even a cute sense of humor and lots of cute hobbies, a career and his own place car which he kept immaculate. If he had just been genuine i actually would have really liked him. Instead he sabotaged the whole thing by basically sexually traumatizing me. I had nightmares about him for a very long time. Like this dude was haunting me on the Astral…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:25 AM
1

Yeah that's what i was thinking. Pathetic loser probably drives women away in droves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:22 AM
3

I've had many male partners who just used me to get validation from their male friends, being seen as a stud and socially viable was way more important to them than actually being with me to be with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:18 AM
2

Oh no, it actually turns out the girl he was sending flowers to was in a rehab center so she wasn't supposed to have outside contact. I realized that when the driver brought the delivery back. The rehab center refused to accept the arrangement because the patients aren't allowed to have contact with people who might enable them or receive items that could have drugs hidden inside. So sad... I hope she gets better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:17 AM
5

My female manager bought me some chocolate covered strawberries. Way more than a man has ever done for me lmao pathetic males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:14 AM
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It's part of the male self annihilation imperative. Most men hate themselves and would rather destroy themselves (and project that onto others) than learn to love themselves and live authentically. Living authentically requires way more self analysis than they are willing to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:13 AM
16

So true. I'd rather be alone than choose a jerk purely from a place of insecurity and low self worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:12 AM
49

And even then if you do find a guy like this he could still be abusive. My ex ticked most of the boxes on this list and he was still just a gaslighting narc at the end of the day simply because he was an anti feminist. So basically it's a lose lose for women. Either you get liberal feminist men like what the OP describes or you get men who tick all these boxes that you describe and are anti feminist. Rarely ever run into a guy who genuinely respects women and is a responsible adult
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:23 PM
8

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:20 PM
24

Keep in mind valentine's just passed. He just wanted pussy and is hoping you would be desperate this time of year. He's canceled. Next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:17 PM
79

This one guy literally pretended not to know what condoms were lol idiot
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:16 PM
29

Galentines Day is a real thing now ladies 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:15 PM
2

🤡🌎😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:13 PM
3

💯🤡👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:13 PM
8

Dat slippery slope tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:12 PM
1

I got such amazing sleep last night. No joke i went to bed so happy lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:11 PM
3

I feel your pain. My sister just got engaged yesterday 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:10 PM
23

Yeah it's also possible he was just flat out lying to make OP jealous. He probably also has no chances with the flatmate anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:09 PM
112

Disgusting fuckboy probably wanted a threesome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:07 PM
49

My ex tried this on me with Kim Kardashian and i responded "then go marry her" and he got butthurt lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:06 PM
137

It's a PUA tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:04 PM
25

Your friend is a pickme big time. Real friends don't GASLIGHT you FOR men. Unreal. Id be pissed. You did the right thing. Dude like that will cheat, no doubt about it. Fucking gross. 🤡🌎🙅‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:03 PM
9

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 07:52 AM
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