Many people think that the pickmeisha is the 'cool girl' that's not bothered by the fact her boyfriend/guy playing her feels texts other girls and meets up with other girls or goes out to drink beer with friends while canceling their movie night/date night or ignoring her for hours. She's not bothered because she's chill, laid back and cool. She doesn't mind, she will just do her own thing until he's back.

Except she is bothered. Many of us have or had pickmeisha friends...we all know how they rant to us about their fuckboy, boyfriend or the man playing them. How they text us for hours about how they're done and bothered yet they're not brave enough to text him that and say "well the X,Y,Z you do bothers me" and we all know how they die out of jealousy and cry to us when their non-official-boyfriend goes out with another girl and posts it on his IG story. We all know how they make fake IG accounts to stalk these girls their 'bf' is out with and watch their story.

Pickmeishas just act unbothered towards 'their' man (who in most cases isn't even their man but shared with 5 other girls who are in the same situation as them) but in reality the jealousy eats them from inside and they don't know what to do with themselves. They bend their sexual boundaries (agree to anal and threesomes with another woman) just to please their man who eventually will cheat or replace her anyway.

When they do decide to speak up about how they feel their man will play the victim or brush their feels off and gaslight them or sometimes even leave them. It's what LVM do.

Ask yourself, is it really a healthy relationship if you're scared to talk about what bothers you and how your boundaries are being crossed? it isn't. #BlockHim2020 and refuse to join his harem.

Why HVM won't pick the pickmeishas

Once a woman who is new to FDS messaged me asking "So why do HVM not go for pickmeishas instead of a HVW? the pickmeishas will do anything for them" and maybe pickmeishas are some LVM's dream including MGTOW men.

A question for the women here. Would you really want to date someone who has 0 opinions on everything and just agrees with whatever you say? i wouldn't. I would just prefer to date someone who has opinions that align with mine. It's annoying when someone has no personality and just agrees with you like a zombie.

Most pickmeishas are very insecure and possessive and eventually show it over time. She will act like the perfect girlfriend for 6-12 months then it will go downhill. She cannot find confidence herself so she hopes the men give it to her. She lives for the compliments these men give her just to feel needed and whole. She trades sex for compliments and 5 minutes (or less) of being loved.

The pickmeisha fantasy of LVM

You see many posts (especially on Reddit) about how men want the pickmeishas but truth is, the relationship never stays. That's why you see many posts about how men talk about their wife, who decided to divroce them 'out of the blue' after 15 years of marriage. The relationship always dies, if it's after 3 months or after 20 years. Eventually they leave you.

Every time i see a divorced man with kids i wonder, what was his wife's last straw? no woman is going to have kids with a man she dreams of leaving.

There are 3 types of pickmeishas

Those who only go for hot/rich fuckboys/men who don't want them and try to change him from a fuckboy to a loyal man (which doesn't happen and it she does succeed, he leaves her for a better woman) and they complain about it to their friends. How she did everything for a man (which she would NEVER do for the average man, btw) and he still left her/didn't commit to her.

Those who meet a man who makes them act like a pickmeisha but normally they aren't one. They fell for this man HARD and don't know what to do. They bend their standards and rules for him and he still won't commit to them. And i admit i was one of them too, sadly.

Those who give everyone a chance, regardless if you're below average, average, good looking, broke, rich, had 3 types of STDs or not giving head, she will understand and still date you. She's ALL for equality, she splits the bill and even buys them gifts. She wants their validation, not a specific man's validation but all of them. So to the male lurkers here, would you really want to date a girl that gives everyone a chance? that has no standards? it's so unattractive.

Why are pickmeishas bad to both women and men

Pickmeishas make men think they can make women bend over to them like the pickmeisha will. It lowers men's standards while thinking they actually higher their standards (ex: she must cook for me, must be tidy, must split the bill).

It makes men pass us as crazy when we talk about our feelings and what we want and what bothers us since they're used to the pickmeishas who shut up or they're used to us talking about what bothers us and they don't change it since the pickmeisha talked too and they didn't change and she stayed so they assume we will stay too.

Again, pickmeishas can only pretend to be unbothered and cool for a few months, maximum an year. Your grandmas and mothers do not count as pickmeishas, it was just the misogynistic culture back then and they had to adapt.

Any man who will go through the pickmeisha's phone will find out how she talks badly of him to her friends and how she's done with his bullshit.

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