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| 4 | Thoughts On This “Men Paying On Dates For Them To Look Out For Entitled Women” article??Weird misogynist logic: "you lose all value once you hit the wall to all men but the shallow, meaningless veneer of a relationship with a guy obsessed with teens will at least be better than being alone" as an argument against something that you called wrong but is pretty much completely unrelated to it. Way to admit you're basically a patriarchal robot whose only argument is that men are too shallow to actually truly love women for anything besides youth and using this to scare women and girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/22 05:50 PM |
| 17 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.I see mod activity so there's somebody around. Also, it was super-privatized, never deleted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/22 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.Hello darkness my old friend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/22 11:25 PM |
| 20 | Sad that more women will never find FDS now that it’s on a new platform.Same. It's so spooky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/22 09:06 PM |
| 113 | The Bar Is In Hell. The Audacity Is Sky High. I'm Scared For My Generation.OMG. This reminds me. A while back I was very sleepy and there was a horrible noise outside. So, I put on my handy-dandy noise cancelling headphones and then ended up - out of morbid curiosity - putting on a streamer. He was a swedish gamer that was basically looking up cursed stuff on Wish. One of the things he looked up was wedding stuff. And, guess what? He laughed hysterically and went on about something like "imagine someone getting you a goddamned 2$ ring that will turn green. This is some… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How to spot a Deadbeat DadHonestly at this point I'm half convinced that many or most men that make a piss about their ex keeping them from their kids are overcompensating for the fact that they never made any type of meaningful effort for their kids, and they're being a massive drama king about the natural consequences of it in order to cover up them making almost no effort before or expecting surface-level crumbs once every few weeks to entitle them to the status of a "good dad." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/22 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Vetting Professional Men: Six Things to Keep in Mind#3 to infinity and beyond. I notice people rushing too much to normalize insecurity because it seems to be considered mean to see it as a red flag or at least a bad sign. I might be biased, but almost across the board, confident, humble men I've known were always just cooler and kinder people all around...it isn't that I will bash an insecure guy over just being insecure, but that I think it's just highly improbable that someone insecure has their priorities in order and has a clear, defined, se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Do certain areas or physical spaces in public trigger you?It's because our bodies, minds are just being rational and when we feel that thrown out of whack around someone, it's meaningful. Like the others say, it is a setback and you'll bounce back. However, I advise maybe looking into stuff like eustress and resilience. Maybe it's off color to suggest, but...essentially, it's a burgeoning field of research that shows someone is actually able to condition themselves to handle high-stress/flight situations more, including on a physiological level. Sugges… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 05:04 AM |
| 1 | PSA: Wanting a man capable of providing for you when you eventually birth and raise children is not being a GoLdDiGgErAmen to that. If anything, such men illustrate more "digger" behavior than almost all the women they accuse of being a gold digger (usually their only evidence being endless audacity anyway). Why? They go into a relationship for 1, maybe 2 reasons, and not primarily to build a life with someone they deeply connect with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/22 03:54 AM |
| 69 | The real reason why dating market is full of 🤡 and why 50-50 is such a 🚩Yeah, maybe I'll make similar posts there! I've been beyond happy with my dating life since forever (I've always listened to my gut) but I absolutely suck at translating that into advice anyway so I probably should post my vendetta-against-society vent posts on a sub like that. Well. If I have any in the near future. Prepping for a Japan trip with my bf soon. I've been procrastinating. 🙈 Anyway, well said. Honestly it's a bit too depressing (in the "I wish I could bleach it from my mind" way) fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/22 02:30 AM |
| 155 | The real reason why dating market is full of 🤡 and why 50-50 is such a 🚩Oh and let me add, I find it fascinating that it's become normalized to accuse women of being a gold digger, or other similar moral judgments that are extremely open-ended and abstract in concept that can easily be thrown at almost any woman randomly. When this happens to women, they are more likely to backpeddle and try to overcompensate to prove that they aren't anything like that. Also, trying to question some's character in such a way is actually a known redpiller manipulation strategy in or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/22 07:28 PM |
| 379 | Thoughts On This “Men Paying On Dates For Them To Look Out For Entitled Women” article??I find it more disturbing than anything because "entitlement" in its modern usage is extremely loaded, and imagine the 50-50 women that would just go along with it, thinking, "oh, that's so cute of him!" only to be insta-demonized by a guy that basically just shit tested her. Projecting entitlement onto a woman's passivity/acceptance of something is just super creepy. Women are already trying to show that they aren't entitled, making themselves smaller and more accepting of anything even if it's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/22 03:51 PM |
| 107 | "policing of emotions"?not sure if I misunderstood but IMO it's a valid reason as it seems like a massive failing of his heart? Like...I can't even understand why he just outright said it on the first date. Was he trying to spin it as if she was insane over it? Like, it makes him sound absolutely terrible. My bf cried like a baby when he found an old stray tomcat he had been feeding for a while had fallen asleep on a pillow on a bench outside, which he didn't know about...and died like that overnight. I also cried. We… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 11:30 PM |
| 133 | Post where Will Smith was describing an out of hand party he threw for his wife, who clearly didn't want it. Obv gotta blame the woman for not being "grateful" for his "thoughtfulness".I realize that since blatantly hating on women has become less politically correct, 1000000s of misogynists have simply flocked towards neurotically policing women over mostly imagined microaggressions like this. So, a woman can ask for a small, simple party...a literal narc can ignore her request and force on her an insane party full of people she doesn't care about....and the entitled woman haters will go, "oop! She did a booboo! She can NEVER be pleased! Will is just an ANGEL BABY! How dare s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Living With MenWtf, I theorized this before but 7x???????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Hot Take: Marvel/DC Superhero culture is doing to men and boys what Disney did to women and girlsTbh the reason why so many men were so triggered by Turning Red is that they're obsessed with young girls and how they behave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/22 05:10 AM |
| 1 | BE ALERT: Men on TikTok are fantasizing about ways to hurt women on imaginary dates.Yep. I think this dynamic is why I lost faith in there being any kind of notable force of goodness among men. I don't expect perfection, but it's like they look at two very different things...one thing that can traumatize, disable, etc., someone for the rest of their life...and another thing, that can't, then they insist they're as bad as one another! Holy. Shit. There's millions of men that hate FDS more than a murderer. That should tell you the whole story. There's even studies showing that me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/22 09:33 PM |
| 38 | Do you sometimes think whether you come across a single and compatible HVM who likes you back is beyond your control more than anything else in life?Eh, I hard disagree with that. Unless I misunderstood she's outright saying (sexual/romantic) love is the biggest decider of happiness and imo I think that's a very Pickm, or at least very un-FDS, thing to say as it implies that it's deterministic despite being mostly entropy, and centralizes the pursuit of love in a woman's life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 08:50 PM |
| 103 | Do you sometimes think whether you come across a single and compatible HVM who likes you back is beyond your control more than anything else in life?Agreed. I met one a cute one while ago (2 years ago?). I don't talk about him for privacy reasons - FDS super fans are feral - but, yeah, I'm in love and happy. We're planning a trip to Japan soon. He's been there and wants to show me his favorite places and the places I've always wanted to go. I've had so many amazing experiences with him that I'm like, "uh-huh, if this doesn't work out I'm gonna throw in the towel." It's weird but it's like this soul-caressing sense of satiety....I'm just in m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Why do men pretend women don't go for looks?Well, they're right in the sense that women will settle more gracefully than a man and won't throw 1000$s at Onlyfans or spend inane amounts of time staring after college boys like men do school girls. More men than women, however, see animalistically wanting someone as true love, which is really, really dumb. There's actually a notable study. Ok. So. You might have heard about the Tinder swipe study. It's infamous. NVMs love to spam it. It shows women barely swipe and men swipe all the time on … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/22 05:54 PM |
| 136 | Update on my most recent post. Digging into OP’s comment history only confirmed to me what I already thought; he isn’t a good partner to her & she deserves better. I seriously doubt she doesn’t fake cum with him because she sounds v turned off. He asked some1 what a clitoris is. Is this April fools?He wants to be like a boa...but HOW?! Seriously, send help. What are these logistics? Just gonna assume he's trolling to preserve my last brain cell, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/22 07:13 AM |
| 558 | I have a feeling there’s more to the story than what was said here. I also have a feeling the wife rarely ever gets an orgasm from her porn-sick husband. Why did you marry her if you thought she was too vanilla? Because you had a Madonna/whore complex and now you’re playing the victim in bed?This happens because men like this are used to systems in which dispense them infinite amounts of novelty and freakiness; porn, games, etc. They then look at women and expect women to dispense an exciting script to them--even a woman who is completely disinterested in it and are completely honest about it from the get-go. "Fuck one another like we're cheating..." lol, yeah, hello pornsickness. Imagine how much he'd flip out if she turned out to have an actual kink...and it turned out to be peggi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 08:43 PM |
| 1 | I have no words for the way other subs invalidate womenThis is male martyrdom 101. A guy does what vaguely appears to be an altruistic thing and people compulsively think he can do no wrong; a woman nearby is now forced to shut up and accept whatever happens in spite of context clues showing it's ridiculous. Truth is, the majority of guys in such a situation would have sex with the "roommate" if she was willing. Why? It's basic logic to them. Women are bashed if they aren't complete cucks/clowns about it. And let me venture a guess: the guy in OP lo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/22 06:33 PM |
| 187 | Woman finds out her boyfriend earns significantly more money than her, wants him to contribute more for their rent and take her on a nice date.Lol, serious himbo energy. It almost makes me feel bad about my roasts of men here but then I remember, a guy with balls of steel like this one are rare as hell anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/22 11:46 PM |
| 88 | Is there even a bar anymore?There's two wings of it; the underdog effect (people emphasizing and rooting for underdogs/low status people more)...and then the idea that anyone on the power hierarchy can actually play with this and temporarily posture themselves to be on a similar level to someone, or just below. There are so many weird borderline incel type men that are god-tier at this and even many of the mainstream reactions around low status men ("give him a chance!") are based in the fact that people give them the bene… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 07:15 PM |
| 115 | This man really saw a woman’s standards of “has a job, showers daily, and has all his teeth” and came to the conclusion “nah, asking too much, men just can’t meet that”. If we lower our standards, there’s always someone trying to push them even lower.Want a tell for "NVM doing some hivemind NPC shit"? He was trying to argue with a woman that isn't present and who was joking about it. Seriously creepy shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 06:39 PM |
| 253 | This man really saw a woman’s standards of “has a job, showers daily, and has all his teeth” and came to the conclusion “nah, asking too much, men just can’t meet that”. If we lower our standards, there’s always someone trying to push them even lower.There's men out there that have sent death threats to women with a standard of "floss twice a day." Lol. When a guy like that says, "be more general", he actually is projecting. He sees women as replaceable and cardboard cutouts. He would treat his gf like he would hundreds of millions of other women. He gets bothered when a woman indicates anything specific at all because it's a signal that she - a resource/object to him - is not accessible to the NVM hive. He is reacting in order to bully her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 06:36 PM |
| 415 | Is there even a bar anymore?Some people are so dumb tbh. Like, weird guys basically can play them like a fiddle when they just lower themselves and play innocent for a second. The bar is in hell because they expect the worst from men (even if they don't admit it) and then clap and holler, "omg, this stranger asked to objectify and use me! He's soooooo special and self-aware!" Btw, there's some very interesting research on the subject of people immediately trusting and emphasizing with someone that feigns low-status "I know… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/22 05:10 PM |
| 20 | Red flag: The man who disagrees with everything you have to sayI agree with the other person. Even for women that want to be more open...a guy that literally has the audacity and poor opinion of someone to accuse them of lying is too far gone. Even at my most insecure, I never had the audacity to declare "LIAR!" at someone, not even someone I felt lukewarm about, when they complimented me. It is so deeply disrespectful and reeks of a guy prioritizing his self-perseveration over other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 02:02 AM |
| 7 | I’m not sure where to startUm, warning, you should take down the link and censor it ASAP and repost it, there's a lot of bad faith people orbiting this space and you should give no identifiable information. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 02:27 AM |
| 39 | Just a reminder of the FDS handbook about the benefits of being high maintenanceSorry to be a devil's advocate, but is the high maintenance part not catering to a NVM's whims and attention-seeking? You were just living life and busy, which is the irony here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:03 PM |
| 221 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24Also let me add...I saw a little bit of that post and can confirm, the guy admits he expects his guy friends to lie/protect him, and that guys friends just do that because they are male and that no male would be honest and tell the truth because it wouldn't serve their friends' greed. Yep, toxic masculinity is totally a myth (/s). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 04:13 AM |
| 399 | Scrote high off confidence from “self-improvement” demands his female friend stop telling his hookups he’s sleeping around. Molly for president 2k24A while back I was in a group and...ok, I find it hard to mince words because I have the tact of a platypus IRL. There was this guy that flirted with me in private and had gotten excited because I had made a somewhat spicy joke around the others. I shrugged him off in the most conclusive way ever and weeks later, a very relevant topic came up and I randomly made a quip about him trying to flirt with me privately and it failing horribly. Nothing too mean, mind you, I stayed with the facts. That n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 03:40 AM |
| 75 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringActually I was more thinking about that story of a group of longtime, older friends buying a mansion together and mutually agreeing "no men." I am well aware a lot of women will overprioritize men. Does this happen in almost all cases where women try sticking together? If so that would really just f'in suck. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/22 12:21 AM |
| 249 | epidemic of women buying homes or trying for a baby with no ringStuff like this is why I wonder I don't hear more about women - especially young women - getting homes with friends, etc. It seems so much more practical in the scheme of things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 10:25 PM |
| 67 | “Girls have it easy” since fucking when??? • @cayleecresta on TikTok roasting a musty loser for minimizing the female struggle & also devaluing women for simply not cooking for his entitled ass. Although that app is full of groomers and weird men, I’m thankful there are HVW on that platform as well.Oh...it also stands to mention, men of this ilk are often insistent that women have done nothing for society or at least haven't done anything meaningful. They regularly shit on motherhood and caring for others as being unworthy of respect in spite of demanding it. I've seen many even make jokes belittling cooking as being a dumb person's thing ffs. They almost never actually celebrate or respect such things in other people and, let me tell you, it shows. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 06:05 AM |
| 101 | “Girls have it easy” since fucking when??? • @cayleecresta on TikTok roasting a musty loser for minimizing the female struggle & also devaluing women for simply not cooking for his entitled ass. Although that app is full of groomers and weird men, I’m thankful there are HVW on that platform as well.In the meantime, women statistically suffer almost all of the worst consequences of being in a relationship (even in nonabuse situations), women pick up the lack with more invisible type labor, etc., so you get very damning statistics including stuff like even women in 50-50 type relationships still doing more work outside of a 9-5 job than men. Men are more likely to look at something that isn't strictly transactional and go "why the fuck should I do this? What did she do to deserve this?" Ther… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 05:42 AM |
| 64 | Women are always held to a morally higher standard than men. Men can coerce women into sex by paying for dates or even guilt trip them on 50/50 dates but God forbid women "use" men for a free mealI really want to get to know what actual "literally I just want to be with a guy to steal his money" women think about this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 03:15 AM |
| 54 | Every year on International Women’s Day, Google searches for International Men’s Day spike…Tbh stuff like that is pretty much glitch in the ma(n)trix tier, exposing these men as being disingenuous fucks that don't give a shit about abuse and only cry about men in any context abuse is brought up because they just want to derail it and sabotage victims actually getting help. It's a power play, not a genuine concern. In your case, I'm pretty sure the men that said that must be abusers themselves, it's so weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 11:30 PM |
| 17 | Imagine All the Productive Things She Could Be Doing with Her Time Instead 🤦♀️As a gamer, I find this dumb all around and I'd find it doubly dumb if I had to get spoonfed the solutions in tiny hints by my bf in a way that is carefully infantized as if I'm incapable of figuring it out myself or looking it up (also it's implied in OP she pretends she didn't look it up). The girls here note that it's literally just like toddlers being given tiny hints by grown-ups and they're right. Moreover, it's not "playing with him", lol. I've played with people. It's 10x better than wat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 01:22 AM |
| 206 | A page I follow on Facebook just posted this. Can we not encourage this, please?Ah yes, it's the season of Pickmes being proud of being used like furniture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | You know how you feel about a man within the first 5 seconds of meeting himNVMs try to optimize the ego/power trip of gaining access to a woman, but this is still secondary to the priority: sex. They want to snuff out the power and humiliations of the female gaze so they can feel amazing over every "conquest" as if she is an object. Most of these men never really respected womens' desire, seen as a direct assault on their entitlement as well as how they frame sex (like pizza; bad pizza is still pizza) as just being some one-sided win. The priority is saying whatever is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/22 07:31 AM |
| 62 | This is why you never stay with a man who expresses interest in anal. What he really wants is to hurt and humiliate you.Lol, it'd be funny if instead of being weak and submissive and conforming to mostly male-driven kinks, sex-pozzed feminists would have actually gone the egalitarian route. "Oh? You want anal? How about I try it on you first and see how you like it?" 👁️👄👁️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/22 06:08 PM |
| 38 | Pickmeisha hall of fame 😂🤦🏻♀️Does this clownery ever work? Seriously. Keep seeing these women go on and on, but not so much the success stories of the men actually treating them proportionally . Or...it's something like him throwing her a dandelion he picked out of the sidewalk on her birthday and her finding it super amazing and romantic. Oh. Bonus points if treating him like a king entails nothing meaningful besides doing all his chores and cooking for him and forbidden sex...things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/22 07:27 AM |
| 58 | I left a perfectly good man because FDS made me believe I could do better. And you were rightOh, this is a total tip of the iceberg situation. Literally the dude was struggling with doing basic things like getting a present for his mom or TALKING TO HIS DAD. Obviously his shortcomings didn't just affect you but involved others in negative ways. It was only going to get worse with age. It's why I double down on the idea that people are delusional when they talk about nice guys. It doesn't matter that much unless he can actually show he's thoughtful and conscientious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/21 04:53 PM |
| 34 | Men cannot be trusted with an idea like polyamory and its popularity shows how naive and desperate women have becomeI love how she's trying to make the most of it...no, it's awful that she even stayed to begin with. but she actually started having fun. I want all Pickmes in relationships with dumbasses that ask for an open relationship to instantly find a 10/10 6"8 guy to date. That's pretty much the only thing that would send a message (besides breaking up with them). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/21 11:22 PM |
| 18 | Mod appreciation postYeah, I wish the mods managed their optics better and simply got another conservative from another country. American politics remind me a lot of the "illusion of choice" at grocery stores (i.e., massive amounts of products are simply corn-derived). Now there only seems two options even though I have so many different opinions. It's exhausting and I wouldn't be surprised if it was a policing mechanism to keep the public confused, angry, and ironically easier to control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 07:26 PM |
| 59 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.And also I have my own experience. My current boyfriend when he was 21 was ripped to the nines and a kickboxer--his body was completely, utterly nuts and he could have easily modeled. Probably was 5% more bad boy too. And...guess what? I don't feel like I missed out on anything. He's trim and cute now (he's in his late 20s), more secure, stable, with so many silly, heartwarming stories to tell. He's fully baked and...that's a good thing. He talks about being angstier back then and guess what, I'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 01:07 AM |
| 94 | The nerve to be jealous that he didn't get the 'peak hot' version of her, what a shame for the poor woman.men like that are completely and irrecovably broken., there is no saving them because when they're 40 they'll be still obsessed with facetious novelties--while the women they shit on for having sex with a hot guy in their youths...probably don't give that many fucks over it and are waaaay more vulnerable and open to a heartfelt relationship than these twisted guys. Watch; some of these guys will find a virgin yet still be unsatisfied and unfulfilled with her in the long-run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 458 | And y’all are still using OLD?Honest question. Why do men think that it's in any way rational for any woman to date a guy like this? It's crazy when I see them acting like zombies like this are good options. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 12:48 AM |
| 312 | If ever in doubt, ladies, read this.Stuff like this is why I say the default way men see women is psychopathic. Like, I can't even begin to comprehend messing with a guy I disliked for any personal gain--I don't care if I get a million dollars, I wouldn't sleep with him or lead him on. Not even if he had a good dick. And it's not "confusing". These men see women like objects to use, eat, and abuse. That's it. Pickmes are dangerous because they pretend these men are just bad seeds when...it's the entire forest. About time we set a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 07:15 PM |
| 297 | This just in ladies, lazy proposals are the pinnacle of romance and just the best!Tbh a lot of Pickmes have to overcompensate and manufacture their own validation because their boyfriends don't at all give a shit about them as individuals and it shows. A lot seem very proud of how horrible their boyfriends are and seem to use this to virtuesignal and brag a lot, like, they're getting a hit of the catharsis of "I'm not like the other girls" in being happy with being treated exactly like he would treat hundreds of millions of other girls. It's dystopian tbh. Like. Don't get me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/21 01:36 AM |
| 55 | "Not all men" love how he openly admits men can't actually love it's just about sex and how good you look.Tbh men are more ruthless about women than FDS ever was about men and to this day I'm still shocked by this reality we live in? And how people don't seem to acknowledge it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 08:12 PM |
| 276 | it’s the lack of self awareness that offends me at this pointIs it me or a disturbing amount of guys act like NPC beggars from Oblivion and that's 99% of their personality? Like. Hundreds of millions of them. Manifests out of air "Please, can you spare a crumb of pussy?🥺👉👈" "no" "b-but it's to feed my family!" "wait, WHAT?!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 12:36 AM |
| 4 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Hah. Got an email showing men responding to this and complaining like I actually want this to happen. It's like they don't get it's to show how messed up it is to adopt the language of social justice to manipulate and guilt trip women into being ok with stuff like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 05:40 PM |
| 260 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Lol, a woman can wear one of those claw devices in her vagina meant to deter rapists and then have sex with him. Her body, her choice, am I right? 👁️👄👁️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:30 PM |
| 8 | The “Wonderscrote”: How men function like corrupt corporations and literally say whatever they can to maximize how accessible women are and make themselves look as good as possible.https://blogs.lse.ac.uk/politicsandpolicy/doubt-is-our-product/ I previously removed it as I feared that was why it was removed. Oops. Might re-add. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 06:31 AM |
| 9 | The “Wonderscrote”: How men function like corrupt corporations and literally say whatever they can to maximize how accessible women are and make themselves look as good as possible.Yeah, though thankfully I don't think a mod actually manually took it down--at first I thought that happened but then I realized it probably was because I accidentally added in a word that got nuked by automod. Not fully sure what I removed that ended up making me able to post again. 😵 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:31 AM |
| 18 | The “Wonderscrote”: How men function like corrupt corporations and literally say whatever they can to maximize how accessible women are and make themselves look as good as possible.Also, I wanted to repost this comment from Emergency-Feed8216 as it's absolutely genius and has great further readings on the subject. "You are to scrotes what Erin Brockovich is to toxic water corporations. I'm sure this ties into neoliberalism in more than just an analogous way if we look at how regulatory capture by corporations (aka, "public-private partnerships" with regulatory agencies as cover for legal graft) is used to shape societal attitudes in sweeping ways. For example, toxic corpor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 03:44 AM |
| 2 | The “Wonderscrote”: How men function like corrupt corporations and literally say whatever they can to maximize how accessible women are and make themselves look as good as possible.Is there anywhere else on reddit to post it? Asking because the mods just removed it without telling me why and I keep on mulling over how I broke the rules, wondering if I need to rewrite a part or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 02:35 AM |
| 74 | How are we meant to know?"That only happened probably because women are so heartless they refused to give him sex. Don't blame him, blame women." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 07:52 PM |
| 118 | How are we meant to know?It's times like this that I wonder how most men would react if their friend confessed about being raped by another man. Probably cringe and then avoid him, if not straight up joking about it...or internally combust. 😬I don't think MRAs generally give any fucks about victimization statistics proving that men hurt other men more than women do tbh, because that'd destroy their entire victimhood narrative and would force them to point fingers at men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 06:55 PM |
| 351 | How are we meant to know?The amazing part here is that this is still way, way, way, way less fucked up than victim blaming women for being assaulted or raped...because, guess what. Having your money taken from you is less traumatizing then getting physically abused like that. There's a reason why there's neuroscientific studies coming out about these things actually deeply impacting women's brains on a structural level. Ngl, it's kind of disappointing that so many men can't even begin to "understand" the difference. Wel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/21 06:40 PM |
| 409 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.That reminds me of a sub dedicated to hating on "entitled" women. I remember a post with men talking about some witch whose husband threw a party to celebrate her becoming a doctor. They called her evil and proof that women should be treated like trash because there was no way he was doing this of his own free will and must have manipulated him and whipped him into it. Even though there was no words from her. These monsters doxxed her and wanted to destroy her life and "save" her proud husband. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 07:24 PM |
| 771 | Men really out here thinking having a wife is being "romance scammed" in a thread about a "girl" on bumble potentially robbing a guy.Lol, let me also note about how this is a guy being bitter and keeping score. It's been years. Years. And he has nothing substantial to actually say about the state of this relationship; no mention of abuse, neglect, etc. Nothing disingenuous actually appears to be happening. She hasn't seemingly acted out. He's really into her. Ah, yes, Redditor philosophy is where you label any relationship you don't like as being fake and a scam, and any woman being cherished is her being a Machiavellian demo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 05:49 PM |
| 146 | This was so wild I couldn’t not share🥲 Thankfully most people were advising OP to ditch him.fat fax: if a guy's gf had slept with each one of her male friends that guy would feel cucked as fuck. Wouldn't be surprised if people are trying to manipulate her into feeling like it's ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 10:51 PM |
| 47 | What’s the standard trade for the entire human being I pushed out of my vagina?Omg, and let's not forget, she doesn't even mention the emotional support being reciprocated. It's so oddly ominous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/21 04:20 PM |
| 53 | Do not date recovering porn addicts, this post is another example of the misery and pain dealing with a pornsick man. So many scrotes defending him in the comments🤢I agree. It's a very doomy sentiment but in life there's just more men than women that are just walking abysses where caring and generosity go to die and rot. A lot of people feel entitled towards women basically sacrificing themselves to basically serve as communistic brood mares for these men to feed off of tbh, as if this will cure them. It won't. In fact, contrary to what people say about them about being more sensitive and caring, insecure men are generally worse partners and more dangerous… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 11:36 PM |
| 26 | anyone here ever just declared war with a man?No. I've never entertained men that annoyed me so much...and mind y'all, I'm not some pacifist queen sent to bless this cursed Earth, I'm quite outspoken--it's just wars of attrition put me off. Men adore getting reactions out of women after all and even spending hours upon hours trying to war with a guy is a bit Pickme, as that's the ultimate acknowledgment that what he's doing has value and influence in your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 05:51 PM |
| 70 | If someone does not meet your standards, it is better to just not date them at all, rather than date them and try to change them into the person you actually want to date.Ah, yes, the energy of men that want to sow the next crop of starter wives. This is one of those things that really exhausts me as, like exorcist said, it's "controversial" despite the truth being that it's immoral and unethical to go into a relationship and want to change them. I do not want to date men I am not authentically into. Why, yes, a thing that limits incel access to women! Of fuckin course people hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 03:01 AM |
| 5 | It’s not funnyI barely understand this entire comment chain - no offense - though I agree that female projection is indeed a thing? Adding detail to what a type of projection is in context isn't hate speech, arguing otherwise is just to promote an unrealistic expectation of a hugbox. Projection isn't some sort of bad word. Labeling trends to expediate the process of discussing them isn't necessarily hate speech like 80 is getting at. I regularly see women projecting the warm way they see people and life onto … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:08 AM |
| 105 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSOk, bit of a tangent but does anyone really have the energy to man hate when they're just strolling outside? I pretty much just do my criticism here and then go live my life, using what I've learned as needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:14 PM |
| 64 | ❗️PSA: Please DON'T apologise to your narc abuser after being discarded. They'll use it against you. Ex posted this after I bawled my eyes out writing apology letters for him yesterday. I'm feeling so bitter & hurt right now. Gonna sage the house with FDS podcast ep 28 playing in the background now.I'm sorry, but...why are you still reading what he posts? You shouldn't be seeing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:07 PM |
| 19 | Thoughts?Maybe it's some sort of weird fetish of hers? 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:35 AM |
| 5 | I just remembered something my Nex said at the beginningImagine if you had said, "no, you weren't my first, I lied to you" and then walked out of the relationship. I bet he would have been destroyed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 06:50 PM |
| 52 | My gripes with dating menTbh I think it's fascinating because we all know if women behaved like men in terms of sexualizing and obsessing over gorgeous male pornstars, models, etc...men would despise it and be far more controlling over it than women ever were. And, the dead-eyed masses would magically protect the insecurity of these men far more than they ever did to women. It's just blindly protecting the status quo of the patriarchy. We'd see abuse and murder rates of women spike up much more because that's just how i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 06:16 PM |
| 118 | If a man is willing to sleep with me too soon then I stop finding him attractive.Honestly, same. It's weird because for a while I never even really realized how disgusting male desire is (as it exists in society) and then everything clicked. From sexualizing innocent situations to framing women like objects (which often leads to them being awful at sex), the whole pedo thing, to lacking any restraint and using porn, it's just soulless. It reminds me of a drolling, derp-eyed man grabbing junk food off a conveyor belt and stuffing it in his mouth for hours and hours. No sensua… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 183 | 'Money can't buy happiness' is a lie women are sold which compels them to seek fulfillment in romantic relationships instead of investing in their education and careersAlso in that vein it's probably why what men have a very baby-like view of ethics/morality. Like, it's not uncommon for the following sentiment to be approved by men: "Expecting a man to pay for dates is EVIL ABUSE" Huh. So...it looks like being a scrote is the ultimate privilege in the world. That wasting 20$ is traumatic to them... 🤯🤯🤯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 07:13 PM |
| 377 | 'Money can't buy happiness' is a lie women are sold which compels them to seek fulfillment in romantic relationships instead of investing in their education and careersSometimes it feels like women is society's designated virtuesignallers that are supposed to hold the burden of an idealized world on their shoulders while everyone else (read: men) is allowed to act selfishly and greedily. I mean, financial stability is literally a green light if you look at the studies on the subject...it's like people only "get it" if you bring up "children born into poverty." And then suddenly poverty is a bad thing you should avoid at all costs. Interesting how women are sup… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/21 07:11 PM |
| 45 | How do you feel about video games?Same; I play about 1 hour a week and have gamed starting with Morrowind and Age of Empires when I was 12 (was that healthy? no, lol, I should have gone outside). From years of my observation...the gamer community is a dumpster fire. Watching Pickmes try grappling with them is tragic comedy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 05:10 PM |
| 34 | Even gay men get sick of hook up cultureI'm glad you brought this up; there's so much statistics showing disturbingly high rates of pedophilia in the (male) gay community too. Unfortunately I get the sense that not many gay men are warning the others about how boys can be exploited by older predators in the community. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 06:47 AM |
| 95 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Oh, also, to OP's point about children: has nothing to do with children, everything to do with narcissistically controlling women. I think a funny thing about this "time is running out!" thing is, if taken seriously, that the actual rational response is the opposite of what they claim (aka, lowering your standards); since men's love will explode when you hit 25, you're better off not having biological children with anyone and...either never dating men or only dating hot, rich guys you can actual… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 12:28 AM |
| 181 | If, according to MRAs, women are useless after 25 🙄. Then why would any woman ever sign up for the 18+ year commitment of raising children with them?Eh, it's kind of funny in an extremely morbid, karmatic way. Look. These are the same men talking about men killing themselves out of loneliness; I'm not surprised massive amounts hit 35 and have massive crises because their male "friends" give no shits about them outside of convenience, while they feel lonely with the women they manipulate (if they are able). See. In dehumanizing women over something women literally have no control over...they basically subjugate themselves to a life based arou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 11:12 PM |
| 36 | How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM?Ok this is gonna sound very trite and duh, but, well, it's just this: money is just money. It's not necessarily a loss, because you won't repeat it and learned from the experience; you will naturally adjust and spend your money more wisely (even in ways beyond men) in the future, which in turn will make the loss naturally correct itself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/21 03:42 AM |
| 61 | Rewatching Parks & Rec for the first time in years and WOWWW Chris Pratt's Andy is low-value af 😳This; I used to really like Andy many years ago, now I don't, but I think he's still significantly better than most real life male losers, who tend to lack that goofy, hammy warmth and be a lot more bitter. Andy seems to have an earnest enthusiasm for life and people deeper into the series, something I see most lazy guys lack--I can imagine him actually being a doting and engaged father+husband and not so much a dead-eyed porn or game addict as...well, that's simply how he's written. Having a ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 10:52 PM |
| 11 | Set your account to not allow followersThankfully it's just a follower and he hasn't said anything, so no real harm. Just is awkward as heck being reminded of who lurks here. It also helps that this account is my FDS throwaway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | Men want to believe porn is empowering to women so they can to consume it without guiltI've noticed this too. Always is fascinating to watch "single career women" basically be treated with scorn by massive parts of the manosphere, as if a career woman did something bad in being older and single and it's also it's own self-proliferating schadenfreude mechanism too like...this woman is suffering and she deserves it because she didn't become a broodmare at age 17. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 04:05 PM |
| 48 | Set your account to not allow followersOof, wish I knew about this sooner. Just got followed by some sociopath abusing his gf, who he has no empathy for (his exact words) and can't comprehend that he should leave her as he keeps virtuesignalling about wanting to be better (but not being better). I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of male abusers frequented here tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 5 | listening to Gotye song “Somebody that I used to know” after discovering FDS made me laugh at the whiney scrote lyrics ..He sounds like a narcissist too; going from "feeling lonely in your company" to feeling awesome because of her, to being glad it was over but whining about her acting like they were never nothing, despite him having issues with getting over his ex--he lied about getting over her, and lead her on. And I get the sense that it's not so much that he hurts at not knowing his newest ex anymore, but that his ego is wounded that she conclusively wants nothing to do with him anymore. The songwriter might… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 05:42 PM |
| 5 | FDS, why is it that men are such psychos about women having standards and boundaries? Our super fans in particular are just nuts.Tbh, they don't talk about how to keep vulnerable and victimized men safe from other men or talking about what might lead to it at all bc that'd mean admitting it's mostly a male issue. What I see way more often? Men joking about it and fetishizing it way, way, way more than women (because they imagine it's an attractive woman doing it). And, men not saying shit about it. I notice them suddenly caring if the rare woman actually shrugs it off or makes light of the abuse; to them, it's real only i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 12 | FDS, why is it that men are such psychos about women having standards and boundaries? Our super fans in particular are just nuts.Reminds me about my actual-trying-to-understand post I made when I was a FDS baby about paying for dates. The DMs I got? "I'm about to become homeless!!! I can't pay for dates!!!!!!" So we have a bunch of scrotes barely surviving yet still having the audacity to police women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 04:09 PM |
| 13 | FDS, why is it that men are such psychos about women having standards and boundaries? Our super fans in particular are just nuts.That's absolutely the type of thing that makes me so hellbent on FDS and spreading it--I don't care to suspend my disbelief because ambiguity is now THE enemy for women. It's dystopian that now we have men and handmaidens acting like men are entitled towards women's bodies, and that women should give themselves away to men they don't even like. The default is now emotional manipulation. How no one sees it for what it is, male greed that has gotten so out of control that it wants to conscript and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 03:40 PM |
| 59 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneit's from "Women marry who they can. Men marry who they want", a quote which is a huge talking point I see from men. Translation: they think women are opportunistic and disingenuous, while men are actually the ones authentically marrying who they really *want* or love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:01 AM |
| 34 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneLet me add something too: I guarantee y'all that many of those people have no issues with other traditions that take money that people feel are special. It's just they don't value what women themselves find special, so they think wedding rings are evil. Imagine if something was needed for a family tradition, like...a fresh, big Christmas tree for the whole family that was 500$ (idk, imagine they were in short supply/needed to be imported). Imagine a man throwing a hissy fit over it being too muc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:45 AM |
| 48 | The controversy on engagement rings shows how far liberal feminism has goneHave you seen those men claiming that men marry who they "want" too? It's really nuts what they will claim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 12:19 AM |
| 84 | That’s why you should always demand proof, don’t just accept their wordsWho wants to make a bet that if/when she divorces he will start telling everyone she knows that she's an evil gold digger? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 09:52 PM |
| 83 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?Honestly, men have insane resource guarding issues about porn. What are those? Dogs getting vicious when you at all "threaten" their toy. Porn basically destroys the decision making prefrontal cortex (this is found in neurological studies) and I'm not surprised that many of these guys become dead-eyed, depressed, and incapable of experiencing reward and happiness from actual close connections to people that isn't based in lizard-cocked hedonism. Their obsession with porn has basically made them … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:21 PM |
| 54 | What's coming next? Do you think things will get better or worse?I'm sorry, but I see things only getting worse...well, I think a lot of women will start waking up, but I think men will get worse. I've seen many become a lot more transactional-minded and obsessed with any source of dopamine they can find and a general lack of coherent moral integrity that isn't based in delusional forced egalitarianism. Also, it isn't that I think men are destined to be bad...it's just that redpillers/bad men in general are often psychopathic manipulators. Many women-weary me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I told a man he needed therapy last night.Imagine a woman that says she's been sexually assaulted 5 years ago on the 2nd date and says it'll be a few months before she'll be ok with being touched, that she's open to it. 2 years later, it turns out she still doesn't want to be touched--and this was true even before that assault. She insists, "well, there was a *chance* I would have been ok with having sex." She, before all else, wanted to be in a relationship with someone who wasn't on the same page as her, and not feel pressure to escal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:03 PM |
| 74 | Women have been shamed and bullied into staying silenct and tolerating shitty, dangerous behavior so they don't look like a "Karen". Why is there no word for men who misbehave in public, much less men who creep out women?I remember when youtube autoplayed a clip of a let's player playing some game with the name "Karen." Unlike the male or other annoying/meme names, he got threats and abuse and by the end he was absolutely flabbergasted at the hostility. Yes, he didn't act differently at all. Let's just say the memory stays rent-free in my mind. :I | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:13 AM |
| 8 | You should NEVER give ugly men a chanceFunny thing about that. There was a study actually showing the uglier the man, the harsher he rates and sees others--the hotter, the warmer. Also, fun fact...this is the opposite for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 04:01 PM |
| 47 | Incels convinced society they just need sex and that’s the biggest con ever: The Rage of the IncelsI wonder if incels actually value being able to get with a woman that'd open her legs to 5 billion other men because...well. She has no standards, so, she'd literally say yes to any man. It's really bizarre seeing how they cannibalize themselves with their inability to acknowledge this or how they would prefer some sort of value or weight being there. I doubt all of them just want sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 04:28 AM |
| 29 | For The Lurkers And FDS Members Who Wonder Why Men Are Banned Here....This is pretty much it. People that have to question it are being outright delusional about the state of things? Imagine 100s of "a man paying for a date is you abusing him and raping his wallet"-- emotional manipulation from narcissistic men with control issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 05:22 AM |
| 7 | Tell me you blame women, without telling me you blame women.Let's call a spade a spade here: he is just spewing this because he wants women to act in the way he wants, and invent some virtuesignalling motive for his ends. Like, holy shit, he's acting like homeless people should be thinking about dating or that it's impossible for homeless women to actually be targets for predators. There's also women that date down and it turns out the men are often less happy, while the woman on average does way more childcare and work outside of work. Manipulating wome… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:27 PM |
| 21 | Tell me you blame women, without telling me you blame women.Honestly I get the impression that he's an incel that wants women to adopt homeless men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 04:20 PM |
| 184 | ..did anybody see this?That poster is being really emotionally manipulative! Wow. I don't see "men should literally just kill themselves" here, yet he tries morally dunking on us: "Haha! You say men are creeps! Well, maybe we should ALL DIE THEN!!1111" Even though, aside from the meanest criticism, FDS has always been more towards self-improvement for men. I find it extremely interesting that pedo-dad took the martyr approach too "it takes me effort and convictions to not throw myself on hot teens uwu". Not saying the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-inWhy do my comments keep getting deleted by a mod? It's freaking me out. I was asking if I broke a rule or if I was being too Pickme and...I kind of need to know so I don't do it again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 05:41 PM |
| 287 | Left-wing men are just as misogynistic as right-wing menat the risk of being presumptuous, I feel like left-winged men are also more likely to be of the sort to use their depression as an excuse to neglect their children (aka be an absentee father) and play games all day and other subtly shitty things.😬 To be fair it's absolutely evil genius bc that type of shit works sooo much, you're framed as a horrible person if you question it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 09:42 PM |
| 3 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with using a man as a cash cow.I agree more with that read--OP basically insinuated that the men she was talking about has no qualms with being manipulative and greedy, therefore it's validated to treat them similarly. And for me I thought - if genuine interest just isn't there - that'd involve manipulation and purposefully leading someone on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with using a man as a cash cow.Hm, ok, might get downvoted to oblivion for this...does this involve deception though? Telling someone seemingly earnest that you're, say, in love, leading him on for months, etc., only to have the ulterior motive of his money for example sounds like the type of thing a NVM would do. I agree with being completely open and guiltless to accepting leverage and gifts from men though, just don't see the point of redpiller-esque subterfuge when there's so many willing cash cows out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 05:36 AM |
| 15 | Men on Reddit hate FDS because they know they’re LVMHonestly at this point stuff like that is hilarious but it's also deeply terrifying. What type of creature do the have to be to lurk for things that hurt them and then be such a control freak that they have to harass randoms over it? Digital self-harm frl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 04:09 AM |
| 147 | Women are crazy because they’re people?Funnily enough there's studies actually indicating the opposite; that men are way more likely to overrate themselves in most ways, be more Machiavellian, be less prone to changing/adapting for other people's sake, and generally more confident *and* narcissistic. Oh. Also, to be greedier than women--it's noted that men are more likely to want and demand more in experiments, even to excess. Are these studies monolithic? No. But they're way more legit than some Jabba the Hutt twitching at women say… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Don't accept shitty behaviour just because "every man does it"!!!That's exactly why I don't at all trust people that whine so much about communication. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Don't accept shitty behaviour just because "every man does it"!!!tbh it's stuff like this that will make FDS continue to explode in popularity. Yes, libfems, it's very sex positive for his feelings to be 100x more valid than yours and you not being allowed to be as depraved as he. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 05:31 AM |
| 30 | No, an abuser does not "lose control." He is perfectly in control of his faculties when he is abusing women. He knows exactly what he's doing. The first time an incident like this happens, walk away, block and delete, and never look back.100%--this was an MRA (yep, you heard that right) in my distant family. He abused children repeatedly and then when the police came around he put on a façade of friendliness as if he wasn't screeching and banging the walls before. Thank god he finally got jail time and disowned from his family. He loved talking about how women choose bad boys and how he was basically God with how goodly he was. :| | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 02:54 AM |
| 15 | Stop saying porn ruined men. It's a lieit CREEPS me out a lot that they are crying so much about that in response to a post full of so much details and soul and pain and...little talk about fantasies? It's so telling about how demented they are. They think they can vomit their demons out of them with "it's just a fantasy" as if it's some monolithic fact and as if the mind has no influence upon behavior or action or how a man sees things, and suddenly that makes them beyond all reproach. I've seen a lot of men say stuff like that in o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 9 | Stop saying porn ruined men. It's a lieWow, I think the educational thing might be a new porn apologism talking point. Got a DM from a guy that supposedly "agreed" with my anti-porn post but then rounded back to "b-but porn is educational! it taught me to have sex!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:16 PM |
| 19 | Stop saying porn ruined men. It's a lieok, lemme add something nasty. the "click" is opportunism. The majority of men would rape a woman if the men around them were doing or encouraging it and she was in a position of weakness (i.e., they're soldiers in a 3rd world village). The moment the reluctant one feels like his status is hurt by not doing a bad thing...he'll do that bad thing. But, oops. Men don't want you to think that! Most mens' primary impetus to observations like yours is to defend their status--public relations work for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/21 04:04 PM |
| 7 | I’m really effing tired of the ‘give a short man a chance’ propaganda.Don't get me started on how there's actual government statistics on short men committing more violent crime on average. It literally is like they have to pretend that they automatically overcompensate for their...shortcomings when in reality short men are no better. The reason why men attack womens' desires is this: Unlike the criticism of men, most of the criticism of women isn't backed by statistics or studies. Even when it is, it isn't stuff actually ethically or morally wrong. So, manchild N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 05:26 PM |
| 10 | When he says "You're so insecure"...Yep. The irony here is that most of the "she's just insecure" people would probably start screeching if we lived in a world where most women got off to tall, hot Jason Momoa clones. Suddenly the short men that get hurt by this are 100x more valid and justified and their "insecurity" has value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 01:40 AM |
| 11 | It isn't "classist" to want a guy who is financially stable. Some FDS followers are working class women. I cannot think of anything more privileged than telling women who have known poverty, that it is shameful to want a man who won't drag them back to poverty level.Honestly I think this is one of the biggest mysteries in these topics. There's so many people harassing others that don't want to date bums...but...like...can they compute that this means this might lead to more children being born into poverty? Isn't this objectively worse than the Mind Crimetm that is not wanting to date a bum? It's like a lot of people these days are living in some social justice cuckoo land. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 06:08 PM |
| 8 | The guy is 55!!! 🤢I doubt he actually genuinely cares about her (i.e., if she was his age he wouldn't have idealized her like this). It's pretty much a given that unless she's a final boss Pickme, she will probably be traumatized by her "father figure" suddenly coming out and wanting her. I've seen this from other young women before; they treat older men humanely and personably and then it turns out the old men see them sexually. Turns out the older men never really treated these younger women humanely, more like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:12 PM |
| 6 | ‘Women love cheaters’ according to Donavon Sharpe’s red pill podcast- tell me then Donavon if we just LOVE cheaters why do you men go to such extreme lengths to hide it and gaslight us? Surely you would be flaunting it in our faces and admitting it because we love it- amiright?I find it interesting that so many men don't understand how manipulation works, and how Pickmes work either...or stockholm syndrome...or low self esteem... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 05:37 AM |
| 24 | Suble Translation - Find a b*ngmaid who loves you enough to unfold 3x her own baggage on herself with the hidden slice of P*** addiction 🤡💩 LMAO what they gonna do when they can't find?? 🤣 Sis go 🧱🗑️looks like a NVM drew this that feels entitled towards someone mommying him and being his therapist while bringing significantly less issues to the table. It undercuts the theme of this to say "Everyone has baggage" and have some very toxic stuff (secrets, an addiction, trust issues, stress) that can lead to someone being an awful partner...be given to one side while the other side seems like a wounded angel. Like. Wut. Get therapy, not a partner. Some of those issues should be addressed ASAP. T… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 08:50 AM |
| 73 | I find it hilarious that that most men, including MRAs, prefer watching porn and playing games over helping their suicidal or depressed male friends, then want to bitch about women not dispensing therapy to cure "male loneliness". It's like they CAN'T accept men are failing other men 🤣OH. LET ME NOTE. I also found studies on how same sex female friendships are likelier to be deeper. There's more "best friends" and stuff like that too. It's noted that male friendships tend to be significantly more activity based, and less consistent. Think about "shoulder to shoulder" men v. "face to face" women. I think this gives the propaganda about the "haha women hate one another" an even WORSE, insidious edge. Yes. Women might be acting more "catty" towards one another sometime. But it's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:06 AM |
| 86 | I find it hilarious that that most men, including MRAs, prefer watching porn and playing games over helping their suicidal or depressed male friends, then want to bitch about women not dispensing therapy to cure "male loneliness". It's like they CAN'T accept men are failing other men 🤣What shocks me is the...proof. It's everywhere. It's not even hard to find. Yes. I had a few studies. But there's 1000s. I mean. I scapegoated porn/games a bit too because, well. It's a stand in for "pursuing stuff that gives instant gratification" instead of "putting in emotional labor/actions to maintain meaningful friendships". I just can't spend all day clarifying everything, lol. We all know most men watch porn and will die for it, anyway. Even on nonfeminist (not necessarily anti) websites… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:02 AM |
| 81 | The Tiger King v. Carole Baskin: The “hate” surrounding Carole is worse than you think. It’s really a microcosm of how ACTUAL corrupt, evil men in power with greedy, hypocritical agendas, manipulate low IQ scrotes all over the world into hating powerless women.Lol I can tell I really triggered a lot of dumb lurkers with this one even though I can guarantee you most of them don't know shit about Eric and still think it's right to hate Carole as much as people do. 🤣 So many men have made Carole into the demonic goddess of hate porn is absurd given that so many seem still under the delusion that it's about morality or ethics. It isn't. And believing otherwise is fucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 09:44 PM |
| 82 | Don’t Let him Skip the CourtshipOk. So. Imagine hanging out with your friends and...walking. Imagine going walking, with no activities, no food, no nothing. Imagine that this is every single week. Imagine planning a "special" occasion on a random day and it's just another walk. Imagine it going for months. Scrotes should try imagining being incapable of playing games, eating, drinking, whatever, with one of their guy friends and instead imagine frolicking with him in the park next to Taco Bell every week. Not even any activiti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:35 PM |
| 33 | Even LVMs who ride buses know they're a poor choice to be a father :)I'm firmly convinced men are obsessed with anything that men do for women t b h. Because I can't stop hearing about men whining about guys that do this or that for women, like giving up their seats, but then it really just rarely happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 07:27 PM |
| 57 | Let's talk about the martyrdom of nice guys, and how we're gaslit into ignoring red flags. “Men are monsters; it’s entirely your fault if you actually think men are not monsters and you end up being burned, though. Oh. But bum porn addict nice guy Carl has no other options…he will NEVER hurt you!”Oh and side note...let me say something killer: that men want women to lower their standards and arbitrarily date any stray, as if this is at all a safe dynamic, is actually them implying that they actually think extremely highly of women. That, they genuinely think a random woman would be a positive influence on a vulnerable man. The punchline is how many of the men saying this...are misogynists, yet they appear to think higher of women's value in dating than they do men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 68 | Women Experience More RejectionOooh, I have some tea for you. “On the other hand, our finding that older men who have low or medium spouse/partner support are not different in depressive symptoms from their peers who do not have such support” “...older women with unsupportive spouses/partners appear to be worse off emotionally than their peers who lack spouses/partners. As discussed, women are more likely than men to be disappointed and negatively impacted by a low-level of support from their spouses/partners, although they t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 09:37 PM |
| 4 | How to tell if it’s genuine or if it’s lovebombing?Think what's especially shaking here is the fact that my friend is so lowkey, sweet, and borderline Pickme. She was basically what guys insist they want. :/ She feels embarrassed at dinner dates and wants to go have fun. She would have loved going to the arcade or something to play games with him (he's also a gamer), she even expressed what she loved to do...but he gave no shits and seemed to arbitrarily go along with what he thought was right over and over again. Fuckin' Panera. Shoulda staked … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:25 PM |
| 66 | Peyronie's Disease (Permanently Bent Penis)Honestly the fact that men get so triggered over this makes me lose even more faith in them. Like, my faith is in hell right now. Men. You're the one that failed this man by simping so hard for porn and addictions to masturbation. That's it. The fact that you get mad at the woman rightfully bringing attention to it tells us how little you care about other men. If you care, go find the science and spread how dangerous this shit can be for vulnerable men. Women being "bitches" about it only happen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 10 | How to tell if it’s genuine or if it’s lovebombing?Aw, this was lovely to read. Lowkey, seems like a lot of women are wired to give the benefit of the doubt to surface level nice guys. I remember my friend finally showing me the texts between her and her bf (after the break up) and...I was completely horrified they had been together for years. One word answers to everything. "k". "yes." "fine." "no." He was a stoic guy in person...a short, ugly guy with a perpetual puglike poker face, and my friend was more in love with him than a pug lady would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 06:54 AM |
| 73 | No, men are not alright. They are becoming more violent against women.Confession: I sometimes worry if maybe speaking out about a few things is for the worst because, well...if the oft violent and abuse apologist manosphere is anything to go by...you know many men will perceive being questioned by women as violence that begets violence. One of my theories relates to how MRAs actually tend to actively simp and support stuff that science has actually shown to harm men's mental health...because, simply, other men support it, and the dominant narrative for such critic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 03:35 AM |
| 11 | Real HVM shitYeah, where's the appeal? It's like a regular date...except there was no real planning about the locale (she had to go there) and it probably was more $$$ than dinner. Not at all surprised someone as posturing as Elon did the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:38 AM |
| 152 | Pickmeshas, assemble! (Seriously, they love their psychotic jail lvms.)Y'know normally I'm not one to hate on women that passively don't take action in terms of fucked up men...but I'll make this one an exception. I kind of want to see a post documenting the sort of insane and perverted final evolutions of Pickmes. i.e., women that turn a blind eye to their husband's abuse of their/her children, serial killer fetishists, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 09:00 PM |
| 25 | Found on fbHmm...does anyone else get the feel that it's also a situation where guys find exactly what they see and look for? There's a lot of weird men that can't at all perceive women's agency/character at all (imagine the guy that doesn't at all perceive a woman having a job and/or doing stuff at home and childcare as "work" or "effort", and he only counts it when he himself does it) in the way he feels it's a fact. So basically you have a ton of men having no standards or looking primarily for whether … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 05:03 PM |
| 26 | The Wall is So Threatening Because it Suggests a Sudden Shift from Beautiful to UglyMm. That description of a witch is super appealing though. Maybe I should dump my bf and ascend to the mythical throes of spinsterhood with a 100 black cat familiars to do my evil will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 01:41 AM |
| 99 | She thinks not wanting a ring that was meant for someone else and was found on the GROUND makes her “materialistic” y’all I can’t anymore 💀Honestly is it me or Pickmes always have this dichotomy going on? This woman is actually being hurt by her bf's lack of effort and the fact he did more special things for his ex, but she keeps on posturing she doesn't care because she's obviously insecure and fearful of what people might think. It's like Pickmecompensation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:01 PM |
| 94 | Taking a lady out on a date used to be a privilege for men. When and why did it become a "nuisance"?after reading up on neuroscience and the hormonal reward centers of the brain, I feel like the modern era with the easy accessibility to all sorts of scintillating pleasures and distractions have fried maaaany men's ability to see wholesome parts of human existence as being anything besides a chore. A normal decent man wouldn't constantly see his wife's joy as a chore. This is a fact. NVMs love to feign victimhood but the most ironic thing is almost none of them even try at all. They are incapab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:28 AM |
| 223 | How did you guys feel when your ex treated the next better than he treated you?Please stop. You should probably go to femalelevelupstrategy instead to figure out how to work through this and forget about this guy at the bare minimum because at this point you're a broken record and it's genuinely terrifying how obsessive you're being about this man. I've seen you post this same exact thing several times now. Apparently it's been over a year since he's left your life yet you're still terminal about him. Most women here felt bad for a little while but ended up ascending above… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 09:48 PM |
| 4 | Can we just take a minute to appreciate this man.Oof. I hope the mods just reinstate it. We should just have it for a tag for cool things that men have done. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:25 AM |
| 136 | Post complaining about women wanting 6 figures, 6” d, 6 pack. I initially thought it was an FDSer setting him straight but, it’s a man 😂Real talk, I feel really bad for Pickmes because there's basically millions of them but men seem completely incapable of acknowledging them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:57 AM |
| 39 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢Well, I will give her this: I too am interested in what she used because that was a great transformation. 🥺🥺🥺 Ok. I kid. Mostly. Admittedly I think she kind of wants to be used. She's like an unholy nanny fairy. A part of me kinda hopes she'll at least find a guy that actually finds her helpful willfulness quirky and charming, rather than a vulnerability he can exploit. We all know that hardly happens though. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 292 | Nahh, she went on a second date with this guy 🤢Honestly why do Pickmes think acting like a house elf from Harry fuckin' Potter is a valid mating strategy Like. Ok. Go be way more giving than your boyfriends want to be for you. Totally fine, I guess. But there's a point where you're groveling and LITERALLY caressing their poo-shoes that any woman should feel ashamed of. Seriously. Why are they like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:47 AM |
| 24 | The biggest danger to a woman's life is a manA woman who has suffered a nonfatal strangulation incident with her intimate partner is 750% more likely to be killed by the same perpetrator with a gun. This involves fetishistic strangulation, right? Welp, the BDSM community just got even more terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:23 PM |
| 104 | Of course they only want this (and a bangmaid) 🙄Again I don't know what to tell them when they're bragging about being happy with nothing but then men want to whine about there's a massive crisis of men not being happy. Can they at least make up their minds? 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 7 | I “ built a man up” and now I know why a lot of women refuse to do so anymore.blessed karma. 🙏 yeah I'm sick of people getting away with this shit lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:32 PM |
| 5 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Yeah that's what I referred to! I felt like in that moment he was my spirit animal. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 17 | "Women in a nature setting are to be conquered" (and yes, this man is married)Is Joji that bad? All I know about him is he cringed when Ethan said this, sings songs, and has a freaky past persona he's aggressively trying to shed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:01 PM |
| 7 | PUAs still alive in 2020, compliments mean nothing.https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/f1jf7c/humble_lil_warning_guide_about_avoiding_pickup/ is a write up I did a while ago on the subject. It's a bit complicated, but my take away is that it involves getting the woman situationally into a moment where she feels like she's the one making the first move despite him, say, carefully getting them closer to the bed. When she pulls up to your house, give her another false time constraint: tell her you have to get to sleep early becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 30 | PUAs still alive in 2020, compliments mean nothing.Also keep in mind a similar tactic is to make the woman actually feel as if he isn't interested in rushing sex while subtly getting her closer to it, creating a fake sense of security and interest. Fucked up shit for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 05:50 AM |
| 12 | Flexing on Instagram?I don't think any of us should make a hobby out of making randoms jealous, especially if it's just with our bodies. All you're gonna maybe succeed at is maybe making a few of them touch themselves. Up to you if you're into that, but are you really in a good frame of mind that doing this would be that good for you? It has winning the battle and losing the war vibes in terms of validation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:06 AM |
| 62 | Women don't get more emotional support than ment b h the morbid part here is that even if men were being emotionally supported less it's because men are failing their buds. Men could be around guys 95% of their formative years yet find a way to blame cringing at one another's emotions and shaming them...on women. Tomorrow they could hug and cuddle their guy friends. But they don't care about their bros enough. That's it. There's no greater conspiracy here. This is why there's 1000s of male lurkers here that believe in "oh woe men aren't care… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:28 PM |
| 76 | I hate how LVM behavior is coded as "benign/good" in popular movies"The myth of the male bumbler" is such a beautiful read on this. I think the underbelly of this is the fact that it's coded as lovable and beautiful for women to be ok with it and not say shit. I remember the single time I actually saw Reddit mobilize to protect a woman hurt by her bf's porn addiction and demonize the PORN ITSELF (not even the guy himself), is was when she didn't say shit and deliberately starved herself to look more like his favorite petite, tiny models. He posted it too. If sh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 3 | Gosh! I feel bad for the girl. She is too much into it while the guy wants to run offYeah I mainly disagree with the "wasting years of her life" angle, because I see a similar trend with envisioning the non-perp/victim party must have done something wrong angle done constantly elsewhere on Reddit. The evidence kinda points to the woman manipulating him for a long-time as well. Though I agree with the other bit; I'm still a bit biased towards the woman over, say, maybe other stories with awful guys using similar tactics...because there's still a good chance her entire future and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 11 | Gosh! I feel bad for the girl. She is too much into it while the guy wants to run offWhile I think it's always wrong to threaten suicide to manipulate someone like that this is one of the occasions where it actually does make sense as it might be a reflection to how sick the pressure society puts on her is (which would be cool to have a discussion about as her pain and desperation is valid)...still, he states that he has actually been forthright for a long time and she consistently has threatened him, and while it does seem mean of him to just wanna sweep her under the rug, feel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:35 PM |
| 191 | Man once again panicking after getting a reality check about open marriagesThe marriage is just the convenient closet of her life and her dates are the living and bed room as well as the rest of her world. RIP LVM. ⚰️⚰️⚰️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:23 AM |
| 38 | How much do you think a man should spend on an engagement ring?I don't think anything - besides the ring being at least 1000$ and well-made, well-fitted, with an aesthetic reminscent of her, and beautiful - should be set as long as the man is high effort/investment through the relationship? And it depends on the woman too. The point with ring costs is that bragging about how cheap a ring is, is basically virtuesignalling over your fiance possibly not finding you worth a good ring which is far more problematic than wanting a gorgeous, high-status ring. There… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:34 AM |
| 29 | The problem with liberal feminism and "sex positivity" aka selling your self online when people say "it isnt hurting anyone" when in reality these people are hurting other women by proxy. -Thoughts?It's weird but I've actually seen mostly girls trying to paint prostitution in a warm light. Not sure if I'm imagining things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:23 PM |
| 45 | Any other ladies who had LV fathers who affected how they looked at men and what kind of spouse they potentially want?My father was always morose and withdrawn, and super short and an alcoholic. I'm basically only drawn to happy, secure tall men that I have good chemistry with. Don't care if I'm shallow, lol, it just makes me more comfortable. Yep. I'm basic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 14 | Red/Green Flag Opinions in Liked MediaTbh I've noticed guys in mass related her pretending to be nice as being as bad to Joe being aggressively abusive to animals and people. Creepy shit, that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 17 | 😂 they're watching us 👀More like he probably has an entire catacomb of skeletons in his closet. 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 11 | “You helped him become the man he was supposed to become, so he could get the wife he wanted”https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/1926/07/the-russian-effort-to-abolish-marriage/306295/ is my fave, it has passages straight from that time and I think was written in the 1920s. It basically didn't just knock off my pants but exploded them because seriously...it isn't every day you actually see what happens when men are given more, uhhh..."freedom"... I'd dig up more history but to this day I'm actually just genuinely astonished that this even happened. It's one of those things that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:39 AM |
| 17 | “You helped him become the man he was supposed to become, so he could get the wife he wanted”That reminds me of something funky. I was told by a guy once that women should be like pokemon trainers to a guy, that men are usually only great because a woman was involved...I still can't really compute this. Look, I told him that most of the time the guys end up monkey-branching...that there's literally accounts from 100+ years ago, like the Soviet Union (lots of this stuff came out when they relaxed marriage laws--society almost exploded and 10000s of criminals were created...yeah...I'm not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 262 | Reddit in a NutshellI've seen Redditors call women who prefer big dicks sociopaths. This is the real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:36 PM |
| 76 | this is amazing 😂😂😂😂Oh god. I hallucinated for a second and read "my cock wants to talk". Also where did these dude's sense of shames go? Seriously? Do they just not at all see you as being human? I'm sure many of them would start feeling bad if people laughed at them irl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:47 AM |
| 156 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!Lol, even if I was anti-FDS I'd be disgusted by the fact that the majority of redditors exhibit more functional hatred and disgust about FDS than shit that actually has hurt people or children, or advocates for abuse (yes, a man paying for a date isn't abusing him, stop bastardizing the concept of abuse) and murder. Literally a sub that produces women that will basically be as real as Maleficent to the world, without any harm done either besides apparently acting despicable. Really just reminds … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:25 PM |
| 1 | If anyone else feels this way about my earlier post, I apologise you guys.Eww. I'm sorry that happened to you. IMO if FDS were to get destroyed from the inside out (in some alternate, more crazy timeline) it'd be from that sort of cult/crab-like mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 22 | Please check the guy’s family background/upbringing before dating seriouslyOh no, I agree, and I for one am not conflicted about it; saying a person is awful because they were born to the wrong "type" of people I can't condone. Parallels to the sorts of men who'd condemn a woman as having daddy issues as if it defines her entire existence and...well, puts too much blame for arbitrary factors upon her. Of course it's fine to just wanna stay away from a man with a bad family, that's not really the problem to me here. Making people born to bad circumstances beyond their c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:10 AM |
| 4 | Straight from the horse's mouth, what garbage low value mgtow 'men' thinkFun fact: agreeability and submissiveness, basically what's celebrated the most among women by redpill and MGTOW incel types, is likely the highest correlated trait in women to promiscuity, which they obviously hate. Really gives a nice robust flavor to MGTOW hypocrisy like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Straight from the horse's mouth, what garbage low value mgtow 'men' thinkMaybe it'd explode their micropeen egos if they knew women being bitches to them doesn't mean they're bitches to the people they actually love. I knew a psycho from my extended family, he behaved a lot like those MGTOW types in his rhetoric. When a person was too scared to associate with him he'd assume that person loved nor cared about anything and was a bitch/asshole to everyone; he had this same rant for everything, that everyone must run away screaming from the bitch that didn't like him. Mi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 04:24 PM |
| 3 | This was just so ridiculous I had to post itMissed opportunity was sending Bobby from King of the Hill. 🤣 Still a work of art though from a..hhem...slutwhore dead-frm-cancer NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:47 AM |
| 86 | I’ve been seeing this post all over ig lately...not sure what to think about it. Thoughts?Judge or not, I find it weird how so many people just can't admit that a person's room can reflect so much of their personality or at least their priorities and ruling passions. It's not 1:1 or anything but look. Sneakers. Game system. TV. Filthy carpet. Plain bedding. Nothing on the walls at all. This says a good amount about this guy. We don't get depressed by bedrooms where there's a mattress with no cover on it on the floor and nothing else in it for nothing either...it is just unsettling. S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 03:22 AM |
| 62 | Man gets dumped for a literal cucumber. You love to see it 🤣Based and cucumberpilled. 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 01:06 AM |
| 42 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?I remember getting quite salty when I realized this myself. Yup, it's super satisfying . But still. I doubt it really is about logic to them as it almost sounds like them mentally "erasing" any empathy they might have for such women, in spirit shutting them up and also saving brain space. If it was logical they'd actually be, y'know...not acting like woman are robots that do linear black and white things or have douche-vision...or never be confused as to whether or not their bf's actions are nor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 07:41 AM |
| 57 | What advice have *men* given you that aligns with FDS?Trippy question, love it. I think I've heard one from a partner. Not sure if it is FDS or Pickme of me to acknowledge but: I want you to take for granted having your needs fulfilled...because you deserve it. Despite having done way more than I hear 99%+ of guys doing for their partners, he literally acted like it was just as easygoing as clouds in the air and it also made him...just, happy and smitten, visibly. I think a key is that he took the initiative; didn't have to ask, he did stuff becaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 07:14 AM |
| 23 | The magical brick wall that women hit when they hit 30 that makes them suddenly unattractive lol 😂 even if you hit the gym in the regular and get that Botox. Meanwhile men got limp dick and a receding hairline. So tired of their shit.Ok, serious talk...why do men like that who literally have such miserable lives they browse FDS for hate porn and excuses to be triggered even have the audacity to think their opinions matter to anyone here? Like if I browsed redpill subs or some shit I'd feel like literal shit if I spent my time bitching at randoms there..I'd feel bad....because at the end of the day no matter who they seem to be I don't wanna actually harass them? Same with guys irl? I don't want to automatically label them LV… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:45 AM |
| 126 | This 55 year old man has aged like fine wine. Notice him choosing an age appropriate partner. One with grey hair and not even botox?I like how this man who does the most "simpy" things by men's standards is also a beloved icon and so many people think he's cool. Interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:52 PM |
| 40 | Pickme's gonna pickme. "Your feminism isnt inter sectional enough". Do these pickmeisha's even know what feminism truly means? Feminism incorporates the position that societies prioritize the male point of view, and that women are treated unjustly within those societies.I think the crux here is that there's actually not room for "everyone", tolerance is a good message but it's completely lost on predators and abusers, who you basically end up covering for when you call for acceptance...because again who listens to the scripture about acceptance? ALREADY the most agreeable, probably already less cruel people...who try to be nicer and more understanding...especially women. This is literal statistics (especially political belief gender differences+personality aver… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 168 | This makes me mad in a weird way that I don’t know how to explainHe's hurting too because she's an inconvienient, ugly (to him) object that he has to baby sit that he no longer really cares about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:45 PM |
| 8 | Thing is...as most of us can attest, this isn’t even an unpopular opinion. Dude straight up says in the post making women feel loved feels like work. Yikes.I mean, the genre parallel'd as the masculine equal to romance (if not porn) is action. Action is full of action (sorry). And work. And people doing crazy things, going to places, doing insane fight moves, concocting dastardly plans all the time. Isn't like these characters are actually in-universe actually enjoying themselves that much anyway. Lots of young boys and men end up fantasizing about exciting lives...even if it might not have violence, just some replacement for that agency and import… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 09:54 PM |
| 10 | Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah”This, the religion thing is so legit and it's like a fun (well, clown) house full of distorting mirrors. :/ What you said about the idea being off limits sums things up pretty well; everyone and the woman started sperging out when someone pointed out that he probably honestly doesn't care and called her a pickme and a Karen. It's like systematically women in horrible relationships want to whine about their neglectful partners, but in as optimally cool and passive way as possible so they aren't a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 05:12 AM |
| 15 | Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah”Not to mention, I find it incredibly LV, maybe even NV as it's pretty toxic, behavior to complain about your partner like that? Of course he's not totally without fault and a perfect "victim"...and it's funny, though it's still passive aggression and basically conscripting the masses into their petty drama...thereby normalizing the "cope and not being a Pickme by bitching about my neglectful bf...but it's also just cute and he's amazing" narrative she's apparently playing. It's so yucky all arou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 03:49 AM |
| 46 | Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah”Clicked the link h20 posted and I severely regret it; she's attacking someone that pointed out him not caring, and everyone in the comments is lynchmobbing the naysayer as BEING THE PICKME HERE??? God, save them. But tbh at this point I think my sympathy kinda just ran out for her. She really just doesn't give a fuck how much her bf cares. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:24 PM |
| 184 | Just more proof of men being trash, the most he said was “yeah”Not sure if it's just me but holy mother of geezus, there's a new layer of existential dread to Pickmes actually...knowing what wrong is going on with their bfs not caring at all who they are or say...then they just go on to complain about it...as if they plan to deal with it forever. God, this is depressing. How did things get so bad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 10:40 PM |
| 8 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?At least it's implied we at least eat while in some nice clothes. The leisure suit life 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:37 PM |
| 19 | For sh*ts and giggles, what was his zodiac sign?Geez, I didn't expect to be so thoroughly roasted as being superficial, lazy and boring here. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 07:39 PM |
| 12 | Men of Reddit: “Daily porn use is the only thing that stops me from raping women”Wasn't able to find everything but found some I referred to. https://www.pbs.org/kued/nosafeplace/interv/sanchez.html for interviews, it's so morbidly fascinating to me. There's also https://www.npr.org/sections/goatsandsoda/2017/12/16/570827107/in-interviews-with-122-rapists-student-pursues-not-so-simple-question-why which colloborates rapists having a poor view of women, but also that they have little remorse. https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/ab.20250 I think this is the one tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:40 PM |
| 53 | Men of Reddit: “Daily porn use is the only thing that stops me from raping women”"Bullying women into sexual relationships is a very easy thing without porn" these days: bullies women into sexual relationships and research notes that overusing porn excaberates this tendency, psychiatrists and case workers in prisons note that it's apart of recovery to ban use of porn because it makes sexual offenders relapse more, almost all rapists use porn, especially hardcore forms, and didn't see their victim as being human around the time of the rape, and tended to possess worse views o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:26 PM |
| 105 | Every day on relationship_advice...https://twitter.com/JennyENicholson/status/1287417928497815553 is another *chef's kiss* one straight down to the fuckin' age gap, hah. Still genuinely horrified the few times I actually went on AITA...y'know I actually expect to see some women being awful but almost everything had men being objectively the immoral asshole. Oof. And, y'know, it really makes you think...considering that Reddit is overrun by men that are generally pro-men...yet the majority of stories on those subs still genuinely … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:28 AM |
| 29 | So when it’s the man getting abused, suddenly he’s not interested in abuse kinks? Also notice how no one in the comments said anything about the age gap.I think the extra layer of idiocy involved is the fact that a) the sudden pain actually makes the girl temporarily tighter so, wow, I wonder why it's so popular and b) the fact that people seem incapable of grasping how much women will just give in to what men want, not for intrinsic purposes of pleasure, but just to appease and get by...and how many women will cope by thinking it's about being open-minded and empowerment. Saying it's "mutual" rarely captures the reality of the situation. Almost… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:32 PM |
| 9 | Do HVM expect ladies to initiate convos just as much as they do?Think they'd want reciprocation in the effect of genuine engagement when you two do talk. In your case I don't think at all he's trying to communicate he wants more. While it can be normal for men to sometimes just drop off in effort, it's usually a bad sign. With quarantine all you two really have are conversations and now he's going cold turkey? Hmmmmm. My bf has consistently sent me a lot from day one 2 years ago. Sure,I like sharing sentiments and funny things, something inspiring, sometimes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:20 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Hm...not sure how you can be here and not consider breaking up with a guy like that. It sounds horrific tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:44 PM |
| 25 | Reminder: When a woman wants a man to initiate, she's looking for him to demonstrate interest, confidence, attraction, effort, investment, and capability. When a man wants a woman to initiate, he wants to put in less effort.Oh yeah...it's very much something like "A starving beggar [repping most men] acts is more likely to do stuff convienient for him in the moment...than who he would be at his best". Opportunism reigns. And tbh I don't think the "beggars" really know what it is all about but of course they think it's a nice thing, and of course they just think it isn't fair nor nice that they have to "put in the work." But it's a bit like...how people often complain that men do all the work in the world even if in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:11 PM |
| 58 | Reminder: When a woman wants a man to initiate, she's looking for him to demonstrate interest, confidence, attraction, effort, investment, and capability. When a man wants a woman to initiate, he wants to put in less effort.I see stuff like it's great for their ego too...yeah, that isn't a good look because that's so shallow! They don't care about the character it takes to approach a man...if anything it's sometimes normal to think less of assertive women. 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:07 PM |
| 15 | Queen shittytIdk, I think that's kind of how society is set up more than her directly trying to get his attention (possible though not as likely). Pretty normal for people to mistake, even see, looking hot as being the best revenge or strength. Looks sometimes just speak far louder than words. We're all used to, or have seen, women's pain being devalued or deplatformed for the way they look...and we all have eyes. She's breathtaking. With that said, yeah, it's quite superficial. From within the cage looks li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:18 PM |
| 59 | New Queens: please read-I don’t think I’m ... pretty, smart, sexy, cool, enough for.... (you need to be in the start of a self love journey before you can make a decision girl) Omg, I wish I could just program a bot to spam r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy at these girls bc I don't wanna be a broken record. Huge part of my own life handbook is simply being a happy, fulfilled person with healthy self-esteem and a stable situation before dating. It's like people wanna jump from 0 to 100. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 04:11 AM |
| 87 | He's already threatening to lose interest?!He wants a baby but apparently he's gonna lose interest? ☠️🤡🥀👶☠️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 09:29 PM |
| 76 | Another woman (and everyone who agrees with her) gets torched for being a big ole meanie to her shitty ex-husbandThis is insane. Another situation where the person who's done objective wrong gets exhausted and briefly becomes the underdog in the situation and he's suddenly the one that needs empathy and care...AND IT IS HER RESPONSIBILITY? THE ONE HE BETRAYED? AND APPARENTLY WE ARE NOT ALLOWED TO FEEL EMPATHY FOR HER BEING CHEATED ON? I swear to god, people are without principle. You see posts about cheating pretty often and the way people comment, they really act like the cheaters should be punished someh… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 03:44 AM |
| 27 | Desperation of a LVMHmm...why do you feel yourself still talking to him? I think it's cool that, despite everything, you're still able to feel empathy for him but in this case he really did dig his own grave--the gravestone would be labled "got fucked by fucking." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 71 | Caption:’This is why I don’t take her out anymore’ bf complains of her taking a picture of her food 🙄I like how apparently here negative social media (in which you cattily bitch behind a person's back about their actions while continuing to date+punish them) is applauded and praised, but then happily taking a picture of your aesthetic food to post online is somehow evil and insidious. The hypocrisy is fucked up and makes it look like the guy has ego and control issues. Ngl this is a huge stretch but it reminds me of how the worst thing ever back in the day was Twilight. It was barely toxic comp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:47 PM |
| 4 | The Spark: Do you think it exists? If so, what is it?I feel a spark with my partner on/off and have for about 2 years; I usually feel a nice, hot, sizzling fire between us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:18 PM |
| 24 | The Spark: Do you think it exists? If so, what is it?Do you feel a spark about people in general? The spark is a tenuous thing because I think it just means something different to people...maybe it's you melting when you see him smile. Not everyone is excitable or supr receptive. Women here sometimes say that a lot of the guys that they felt a huge spark with turned out to be duds, but the spark made them overrate how special they thought the guy was. In other situations there's fuckboys that are good at just making many women feel that way about … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 06:16 PM |
| 20 | When trash identifies itself 🗑I think it's some weird ego protection thing. He probably vaguely has heard of hook-ups being soulless and he's so dumb that pretending a hookup isn't a hookup makes him better than the other men. in other words, yes, nothingness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Where are you queens going if FDS is banned?It's in the sidebar and it's sometimes posted here in a thread by averagetohot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:01 PM |
| 26 | Where are you queens going if FDS is banned?The discord; kinda seems like the one place to actually discuss stuff, and also probably the easiest place to strategize if we wanted to make another sub somehow if this sub gets hammered 😱🔨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:56 AM |
| 23 | Comments on the 'wholesome meme' of the gaming neckbeard. Apparently, we're now even entitled for expecting the dusties to go at least 50/50 on chores and bills and owning up to their responsibilities.Honestly it was incredibly depressing. Even that meme with the two people mutually having their own fun hobby and "being alone together" was a million times better. I think the comment in that thread with a person noting that "I hope he takes accountability of taking care of the house with her!!" and a person saying "hold up, that isn't the dream" pretty much sums up the collective desires of those people. They might not admit it always but there's plenty of women that are perfectly chill with v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 05:57 PM |
| 34 | « ’Being wiser’ often means being compliant and doing things you don’t want to do. This makes you a female doormat. » LabowskyLol I was called immature and "too young to know better" by other women when I advised my friend to not be friends with her abuser after breaking up with him, of whom being around makes her feel like shit. Apparently the wise decision out of their mouths was to, uh...not "throw away" a "connection" and "emotionally support him until he comes crawling back"? I don't get it. What good is grace and love when it's blind? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else feel between a rock and a hard place sometimes?Hmm, I'm pro fairytale ending which has actually worked out for me--so far. I think just in general understanding that the fairytale ending doesn't have to include a guy (I think it'd be good to visualize other ways of contented-ever-afters+consuming stories that reflect them) and having pretty staunch boundaries, and never really letting yourself slip into complacency. Complacency is so sneakily insidious--not saying any of us would get so bad, but...geez, if it doesn't make once good people do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:59 PM |
| 27 | Men are making fake dating profiles just to waste our time. Also proof that men have no hobbiesLike I don't get it, why do you need to get revenge against people for just being attracted to attractive people? Just real bottom feeder behavior, that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 08:57 PM |
| 32 | Anti-feminist LVMs want to mass brigade pro-female subredditsI feel similarly. Like...I don't bother even hating men tbh. I just feel disappointed that they seem systematically incapable of understanding that maybe they really need to turn their attentions to scruntinizing how over-sexed and creepy many guys are instead of thinking they're just the minority and women can easily avoid them when...in reality, they can't. Peer pressure and beliefs actually have a huge effect; there's studies on how aggressive sexual behaviors among men go up when the group p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 10:48 PM |
| 14 | This lady knows how to treat a piece of shit cheater.Rock Bottom*** Gary is an eldritch deep sea creature. No offense to the snail called Gary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 09:49 PM |
| 46 | PickMeisha Shames Women for Not Fixing Their Man a Plate. The comments erupt.Lol, if a woman scampered to get my man food randomly he'd be so fuckin creeped out by it. What type of world do these Pickmes even live in? Not to mention the guys that are so lizard-brained they'd go along with being babied by a female stranger as if they have no pride or principles. Are men dumb fucks that need to be treated like a pet dog and fed or they run away with someone waggling bacon in front of them?...isn't very kosher but, ok, Pickmes, if that's how you see men. Again the problem i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 04:37 PM |
| 17 | Potential Love Bombing? Manipulation maybe?Sheesh, that's not just red flags, that's a red sea. =.= Really don't bother...though I will dissect it so you know the specific bad signs for future reference. So, I'm lenient enough towards the idea of a guy having some insecurity issues. I started dating when I had more issues and ended up doing well...but, I wanted to be my best me for a partner and I conducted myself confidently despite myself. Didn't whine about myself. Didn't act like I kept on losing everything. Had a growth "get better!… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 08:24 AM |
| 10 | There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time.This was heartbreaking to read. I've been helping my friend that has been dealing with this issue and she finally recently cut off her most recent abusers (two family members) who were consistently harassing her and sending threats to her, basically aggravating the prior trauma my friend already had as well as worsening it. My friend was 100% explicit with having issues and mental health problems (i.e., ADHD, PTSD, etc.), but she still was relentlessly kind to other people. Towards the end my fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | What FDS is criticized for: What you may be misunderstandingThis was a great write-up. And lemme add that it does come down to intent...almost none of us actually derive pleasure from abuse, which let's be honest, is what the RP and "incel" circles usually praise. I've seen countless posts on their sites praising stuff like rape, cheating, and violence. In the meantime it's normal for a man to be more offended by a woman's bad attitude than those things; FDS being the "worst" sub on reddit proves it. The bar is sooo much lower in terms of women being bad… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 05:58 PM |
| 27 | I cringed 😬Still sitting here at a loss as to how anyone can stay in such a relationship. How do you every day be treated with such disgust by your supposed "love" and not be heartbroken? I'd be backwards running away from that relationship instantly. I wonder if he uses porn and if he liked sex earlier in their relationship... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 05:43 PM |
| 23 | TRP is high beta fuckboy game. They only get pussy without commitment because they lie about their intentionsMy thoughts exactly. Honestly TRP is so thoroughly in the sphere of reducing life itself to some sick game and getting ill-gotten "wins" against women...I don't understand how they can even have such pride in basically being the skeevy fantasy ratmen of real life. Like, whatever, do cool things in reality, get some pride and get a back scratcher to pat yourself on your hairy back. But feeding BS to people to just get your way--that's alpha?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:47 AM |
| 7 | Do you want kids, and why/ why not?Short answer: nope. I was raised in a warlike, abusive household, neglected for weeks on end and had a very unhappy childhood. I used to cry constantly about other people's ills when I was a kid and tbh, I don't think I'd be able to handle the idea that my child could live an unhappy life. In earnest I'm still recuperating from most of my life being so unhappy and empty, but as I've dipped into my 20s and made up for lost time, if anything, the prospect of having a child has simply gotten more a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:35 PM |
| 34 | Idiot at r/nicegirls tries to shame woman who called him out on his noncommittal fuckboy nonsense and he gets dragged in the comments insteadNice girls looks like such a dumpster fire, omg. This is an example of a girl being EXTREMELY not appeasing and not nice but she's acting in a way that triggers people so she just goes on that sub? And it's over wanting a date because she is sick of wading through a million guys that, quite frankly, are fuckboys pretending to be nicer than she is? Who ARE wasting her time? What is fuckin wrong with that sub? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 147 | "Women are less attractive at 30+" Another proof of the misogyny of Reddit, commented on his thread where he is bashing his girlfriend, but he let the comment I quoted slip, got down voted and then that comment is just a cherry on top. I hate these men so much.Yikes. Just imagine saying, "He isn't a catch by any means, no one wants a guy below 6 feet" in regards to a guy. It'd be considered hate speech and you'd get death threats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 06:20 AM |
| 12 | I think my problem is that I want someone who will be attached to the hip with meI'm a bit like you and tbh there's maaaany men that keep up that time and effort indefinitely and even ramp it up as they grow more in love, but - like Sage succulently said - what helps is keeping some boundaries and distance, living your own life, making sure you police your mind space so it doesn't fairy dance around a new man. Make sure you have friends you're enthusiastic about - or, idk, a pet - that you talk to often. I've found success in someone I feel like I could be attached to the hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Do all men have the Madonna/Whore complex? I’m convinced men just see me for sex and always will.Tbh what boxes does that guy even fulfill? He seems like he fails almost all FDS boxes. Also beware of guys you immediately have great chemistry with. It's fuck-boy magic; they're used to cultivating that specific (especially sexual) charisma. In this case if he just cares about sex the chemistry seems like one big lie. Also beware of potentially hurting your mental health by seeing guys that obviously see you first as a sexual prospect. This is preachy buuuut I'm just putting yourself in your s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Man who was rightfully put on a sex offender registry for dating an underage girl as an adult gets fawning sympathy from “male advocates” who are mad our “gynocentric society” won’t let them date 14 year olds.Sigh. MRAs are impossible to take seriously. Even the meanest female subreddits are nowhere on par with the evil and - well, literal - psychopathy and degeneracy put on a pedestal there. They actually are advocating and defending textbook immoral and damaging shit directly. The commenter admits people are hurt and abused by it but he doesn't appear to give a fuck because it's women. Wut. This isn't even a "victim" sort of thing, you literally broke the law, and objectively the subject of being p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:25 PM |
| 59 | Proof is in the pudding. Don’t try and build a man.In history it was actually well-known - not even just from feminist circles, this was regular - that when poor men move into the public sphere of influence and get status, confidence, and/or more money he will probably trash their faithful wives and children to marry someone new. I find it weird that there's this myth of male gratefulness to women that genuinely love "broken" men with nothing going for them. It's false. At the very least, she will be punished for her hard work and love while he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 07:47 PM |
| 11 | How can I attract HVM when I don’t meet the general standards myself?Totally the obvious but you should peruse r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy before this sub; my own ethic is that someone shouldn't date unless they're happy with their life and themselves, and generally confident tbh. Your vulnerabilities are less your disabilities and more that you've poured so much into the idea of getting a man when...that really wouldn't help you at all. Even a good man could be a negative liability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Everyone in the comments agreed with this post. There is no hope.I don't think the girls here constantly expect a guy to pay for their entire lifes or anything. Just tends to be a bit of a bad sign when a guy expects dates to be transactional and 100% egalitarian all of the time--relationships are not intrinsically egalitarian...women for example deal with far more risk, and actually do need to make sure that the man is really interested in her--and men that are more interested in women actually tend to pay for dates more than the ones that aren't as interest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 50 | The bar is so low on advice subsYeah I do. I think AITA is doing it better because it basically forces people to actually find an asshole in the situation because otherwise Redditors tend to force themselves to be egalitarian and not label things or look for negatives. There's apologists but usually the majority say what's right. Elsewhere? People seem to live in this bizarre bubble where glaring incompatibilities should be worked through while seemingly supporting the idea of "true love." The reality is that we've just all be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 07:08 PM |
| 105 | Broke Dusty gifts a woman a basic drawing of her ass as an anniversary gift. HVW exposes the low effort. Pick me’s and LVM try (but fail) to defend mediocrity. Another day in hell.That's sooo awkward. Does she store her personality in her ass? Is that the significance of this drawing? Why does she want to put her asses on her wall? Why is this a good thing? Is she ok? What makes this worse to me is that I have received a drawing as a gift from my SO. It took him days, it looked so skilled and intricate I literally thought he had it commissioned from a hardcore professional artist--it was all done in finepoint ink (so, yes, it was basically drawn in blood and sweat), and w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 04:13 AM |
| 25 | Globally, Women’s subordination (Unpaid Labor) is Worth $10,900,000,000,000. "India has the largest gap: Women there spend almost six hours a day managing the home; Indian men spend a paltry 52 minutes. The smallest divides are found in Sweden, Denmark and Norway." Link in the comment section.Geez, what is it about those Nordic countries? And Canada. I wonder how differently the boys grow up there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 03:56 AM |
| 12 | Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men.Also a vaguely concealed attempt at making sure as little people as possible see it. 😅 mission accomplished. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 08:06 PM |
| 73 | Things seem to be taking a negative turn here. Please, let's focus our energies on building each other up and IGNORING trash men.I think part of the issue is that people seem to use this as another gender critical sub, including WGTOWs so some are doing as MGTOWs basically do. Some don't even have dating experience with men. I know it's a bit controversial and I know not dating IS a legit strategy but if you make digging up NVM stuff a hobby and you never intend to date it's probably time to move on and defocus your locus of being away from men altogether bc the losses you accrue supersede the gains >.> \hides under blank… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 06:53 PM |
| 83 | Vera Wang, 70 years old. What wall???Geez, I want a full list of her diet, skincare, and general lifestyle routine! 😭 Doubt it exists though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 03:20 PM |
| 54 | Their is always a part of me that wants to be nice and give ugly guys a chance..Do me a favor--gently slap your pity off a cliff. It'll be a mercy kill. First of all, men are never quite grateful, often use women they find ugly as training wheels, and effectively no reason to take pity on them as they're basically the same as any other man. It's also immoral and cruel to date out of pity. I mean, it'd hurt me if I learned my man dated me out of pity. Saw me as a charity case. Duh. That's one backstab to the ego and heart. It is not nice to give people you find offputting a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 04:22 AM |
| 18 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!Hmm...helped me find more peace and vent a bit. My fiance is a cute, kind, spunky and successful man that I met about 2-3 years ago and it was nice finding out he showed a lot of green flags (aside from being overprotective--still monitoring this!), but I had some issues in terms of, well, the idea of losing him. This is natural and not some warning instinct; I am anxious by nature, I feel this way about friends too. I was crying about the concept of bad things happening to my parents or even st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:54 PM |
| 5 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣Where are my propane and propane accessories so I can explode that fake Hank Hill? Also TFW you don't even know who Skylar is 👀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:12 PM |
| 6 | I broke up with my BF, I thought was a HVM, because of things he said 7 years ago (Screenshots)??? God that's crazy. Hell yes, you made the right decision. There's a difference between being a person who can grow and just being made of assholery tbh. It takes a soulless person making a concerted effort for years to think the way he did. Doesn't just seem like little baby "just being a boy" shit, seems elaborate and insidious t b h. Can you tell us a bit more about how he usually behaves? What does he usually say about women? Looks? Etc. Where do you get the "agreeing with what you say" im… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 04:00 AM |
| 20 | Thank you Carrie ❤️That's so bonkers to me tbh; I like my perky lil' tits. I like running and not having my tits bitch slapping me in the face. I like not wearing bras. Sometimes I wonder if those people not believing you just don't really fully conceive women as being humans with agency outside of being a pretty thing. =_= | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:35 PM |
| 6 | Am I the manipulator or the victim in the relationship..?Honestly y'all are past the point of no return and past it pretty long ago, you're doing some advanced calculations trying to find a culprit in a case that's basically been broken a long time ago. Obviously seems like you two dislike one another on a few levels. You physically abused him, he sounds like an asshole. Being weaker doesn't matter. The behavior in rough times and the present speaks far louder than fluffy plans. Erase the wistful dreams and words. Both of you will go through much, muc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:04 PM |
| 31 | Telling men that I don’t have a Snapchat saved my lifeWhy do you hand out your Instagram like candy to men that want to see more? Man, I don't get it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 06:01 PM |
| 9 | Going to a guys house at 2am....I'd so love a world where snuggling actually meant snuggling. Siiiigh. I curse my simple desires for a simple world. =_= | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 01:30 AM |
| 30 | Going to a guys house at 2am....Tbh a lot of women really are that naive, especially Pickmes....they have the most optimistic views. They're not unlike children. Lots of the guys lie about their real intentions, exploiting ambiguity and burying them behind code words, trying to culture that naivety in their targets. People whine about some women having to know better but it's men that have the advanced strategies on playing nice for sex. I mean, pegging most men as what he is - sex depraved by default and untrustworthy - is no… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/20 12:01 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020I know this is a slightly bit off-topic, but might as well shoot. So....I have a problem with missing people. Not even men, actually--just girls I used to be friends with years ago that because of life we had to go our separate ways. It's so bad that each time I remember them I just feel pain at them being gone instead of just appreciating the memories. I wish that I could still live life alongside them and do cool things with them. Sometimes I even have nightmares about missing them. I don't ev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 01:47 AM |
| 73 | MoodPffft...for some reason I thought she was ferociously jump roping down some stairs and I was like "WORK IT, GIRL!" for a second. Sometimes I question my sanity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 08:53 PM |
| 185 | Take a seat, Declan.my brother tried to literally choke me to death when I was 10, I was abandoned and locked in a room for weeks as a child with no one to talk to. I have never said this shit to anybody besides my best friend and my fiance (which he hasn't used against me) and now you guys. I can't believe people use completely unrelated baggage to justify being a flaming pissant. I mean, my baggage taught me to treat the people I love well...because I want to make them happier, and not suffer like I suffered from… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 11:49 PM |
| 16 | What are the most desperate texts you’ve gotten this quarantine? 😂Omg, 5 years?? It's all so mild but...5 years really elevates it to demon-tier Lvm shit. Incredibly creepy. You just know he thinks of himself as a nice guy too. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 02:55 AM |
| 10 | When a relationship you thought had a real future ends, and the man comes back after the fact realizing how much he messed up, apologizing, etc, how do you ladies keep it moving?hm, what was specifically the hurtful thing? And what sort of attitude did he have about it? Was he trying to get back at you for something? Sorry about asking--I can tell maybe it's a sensitive topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 08:39 PM |
| 148 | Thought I’d make something.It's kind of morbidly funny when you notice when they run out of stuff to criticize here after covering how entitled and evil it is to expect men to pay for dates that they start judging FDS women for ever getting into a bad relationship or having any mildly bad experience with a man (aka, being the majority of people women). It's like a paradoxical Ouroburos of stupidity. You could solely have been molested by an old man when you were a little girl and 100% they will blame you for it or develop… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:55 PM |
| 29 | Dump him, sis 😩What unholy witch god do I have to pray to in order to imbue that girl with some self-worth and to smite that guy? SHE. IS. NOT. EVEN. SURE. IF. HE. LIKES. HER. God, what makes these girls this way? It's sad. Edit: also let me add the absurdist touch...I have very, very low self-confidence but never in my life did I let myself be treated like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:17 PM |
| 9 | We need to stop calling rich HVOmg, that's exactly what I remembered too when I saw this thread!! There were girls in that thread calling others Pickme for not spiritually sucking the cock of the rich guy. Huge wtf moment. The ex clearly shows an extreme version of how guys orbit and keep girls on the leash by lovebombing, liking facebook posts, etc...even when they aren't dating. I wouldn't be surprised if the ex was a narcissist as well. Telling the boyfriend he's being stupid for being insecure is just...yikes. Granted, th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/20 07:10 PM |
| 6 | Is it a Pickmeisha thing to do to get super excited about marriage and a future with a man?Hm...I'd consider eloping--because my family is warlike and I'd feel embarrassed being the center of attention even if just my fiance and I's friends were there. I'd want the money to be put towards a wild month long honeymoon. Now that's way more Pickme then being excited for a wedding, hah. I only just started feeling interested in marriage because I'm with a seemingly marriagable man too...90% of my life I was super averse to it which was an excellent strategy...being excited about holy matri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 10:08 AM |
| 13 | 🧐Is Terry Crews really that cool? I'd hope! I love his vibes and his commercials but don't know much about him personally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:00 AM |
| 10 | I’ve had enough of guys like thisIt's also like a cat bringing a dead bird to you and being proud of it. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 04:24 AM |
| 5 | I need some perspective on why behavior from men bothers me SO much.That's definitely spooktacular. Ex-Halloween. 👻❌ Honestly the only guy that talked about his exes (past relationships or friendships) that I knew of was a major fuckboy and tbh I'd be put off like heck if a guy was trying to impress me with this. It's like...a negative-sum gesture. "Oh look, me attractive to other women, that means I'm a huge catch." No, I'm just side-eying you. Overcompensating plus possibly being calculated. If they're shitting on exes to a potential partner then that's likewi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 02:57 AM |
| 31 | I’ve had enough of guys like thisWhy is it that they seem to passive-aggressively want to push these sort of stupid memes on women? That's so random. I can't imagine being such a bloody bitter wanker that I'd do this to men with offensive male-hating memes--like I'm trying to belittle the target...and it isn't like I feel that strong of an obligation to protecting their feelings either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 02:35 AM |
| 69 | I’ll just leave this here...👀🤫Women don't think of it like that because we aren't an NPC hivemind on par of what a depraved band of sociopathic teenage nerds would manufacture as a value system to make themselves feel like rat kings--we tend to be more intelligent. What, we don't get it? Ok. Men are of no value if they're below 6"0, unhealthy, lack a good job, have no social status. This is only Biology, am I right? We want the most fit DNA and good father for our children and someone to protect us. Silly men think this is m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 12:53 AM |
| 2 | Asking WhY dIdn't YoU cOmmUNICate is another way to victim blame women for assault. Apparently, if you don't provide men with a comprehensive list of sexual behaviors you don't like ahead of time whatever they do to you is your fault because abuse is normal.honestly, what the fuck, THAT SHIT WAS ASSAULT. DO WE NEED TO COMMUNICATE JUST SO WE AREN'T CHOKED??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 05:10 AM |
| 58 | False logicMe too. I personally call it costume logic--like a more minor version of gaslighting. I think one of the worst ones I've seen all the time is an offshoot of the date=sex assumption; "it's vile and manipulative to not be comfortable with having sex immediately, the girl is using it as a bargaining chip for commitment." This is a highly popular one I've seen Reddit LVMs use...and I use LVM to describe situations where I'm 100% sure a man is a flaming shithead. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 05:04 AM |
| 31 | Completely willing to ignore all the things men demand from women: I hope she gets pickedAlso let me note that there's a literal shadow conglomate of millions upon millions of men that would manufacture means of sadistically tearing down women and reducing them to their looks--while also perceiving the vague, often unchased preferences and desires of women as being the biggest transgressions in the world because, quite frankly, they're stupid babies with the depth of a plague-infested swamp and who aren't fit to live in this complex world. There's good reason why "but you're fat...w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 139 | Completely willing to ignore all the things men demand from women: I hope she gets pickedTbh I'm not sure if these girls understand that when girls actually try dragging guys for this thing...it's usually in response to guys trying to judge and rate womens' value for how they look explicitly (you see this here as well; mix of girls that care and don't care about these things but still want to give men a reality check that women still perceive their flaws in a negative light in many cases). The difference is "men looking bad is a thing too" and "wow you are 4 pounds overweight or thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:52 PM |
| 20 | Sex Workers telling lies to male clients to drum up business. Imagine having self esteem this low.What I find interesting here is that sex workers seem to embody what men think they spite; women that conflate financial gain with intimacy but they seem to ignore this altogether. She clearly is trying to work and manipulate her LVM slaves in a far more cognizant way than the average woman that vaguely and often unknowingly finds agency in a man better than a stale couch potato. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:55 PM |
| 15 | Men check FDS and feminist subs to criticize women and post their posts in subs like this. Where there are guys that say that every woman saying she was raped is a liar. That rape is a lie. And still has more than 600.000 karma... No comments... 🙄It's so transparent that where have all the good men went is an hidden incel cope sub tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 07:57 AM |
| 138 | Michael Buble, who is 12 years older than his wife, has disproportionately angry body language toward his wife in livestream video leading fans to wonder if she is being abused.That's scary...not sure who these people are but in some of the videos she looks scared briefly and all the rough elbowing and tugging is scary and while he's reading the book he seems apprehensive and pissed off. I hope she gets help. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 01:42 AM |
| 40 | This guy who I met doesn’t believe a girl like me could have anixety or other mental illnesses simply because he thinks I’m attractive.No, I mean even just as a casual person to chat with you shouldn't really engage with people like that as it's just not good for you. There's millions of potential people to talk to that could bring more good into your life. Negative value friends or acquaintances are a thing and FDS isn't a venting box for women that willfully stick around awful men despite knowing better. But maybe I'm projecting; I would be horrified if I spoke to a person like that and I wouldn't understand sticking around a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:33 PM |
| 91 | This guy who I met doesn’t believe a girl like me could have anixety or other mental illnesses simply because he thinks I’m attractive.Honestly in the future you need to stonewall mega pricks like him instantly like the toxic waste dumps they are as engaging in conversations with them is always for the worst. He's such an enraging individual all around--straight down to thinking people who commit suicide deserve it. What in the sociopath... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 10:15 PM |
| 140 | Thoughts?Super awkward situation, but owing to how he lied and covered up winning a free flight and the fact that he ACTIVELY asked her to pay for the actual costs he betrayed her trust. It'd be different if he said he got free tickets and she offered to front some of the cost of the hotel. Kind of surprised there's even any confusion as to who's in the wrong here...but I'm guessing he probably feels like he did her a favor and her getting mad makes her the asshole or her snoops. Which aren't good either… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 07:24 PM |
| 78 | HVMs won't ever tell you to shut up <3What's heartbreaking is that people would gatekeep relationships as being something where you must be secretly resentful and bitter towards your partner--that you should be annoyed by them talking or else you're a blind idiot. Honestly what the fuck is this hellish clown world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 12:12 AM |
| 17 | Do NOT believe men when they say they like being approached/pursued! It's a lie!Also I'm reporting you. I hate reporting people that disagree as I like (well, more substantial than this here...) discussions about how to handle things here but you seem like you might be a man and seem to blatantly disregard the handbook. You don't even seem sure of why a woman should do as you suggested. I'm sorry if you really are a woman and this is a tactic that you've seen pan out in a good way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 11:54 PM |
| 12 | Do NOT believe men when they say they like being approached/pursued! It's a lie!Hm. Why? Do you see this method working a lot? Do the guys genuinely appreciate and put in effort into the girls that chased them? Or do you just say "you should pursue" for just the sake of it? Aka, if you feel something, you should go for it minus being discerning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 11:47 PM |
| 17 | I try to imagine the things I'd acomplish in life if I had the self esteem of posting for everyone to see I can do the bare minimum, brag about it, and think ladies will line upActually there's a Netflix show called Ugly Delicious, everything in the trailer looked 10000x better than this slop pile. Oof. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 05:44 PM |
| 339 | As if being single is a disease 🙄What gets me is that she says it straight: she was in an abusive relationship and...he doesn't seem to give a fuck at all, his takeaway is "whew, I triggered her, but nothing I did was wrong, maybe I just didn't say it in an optimally manipulative way." He's a fall's away from being a sociopath and doesn't seem to care at all about her. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Request for adviceYeah what the other said. I'm afraid I can't yet read minds, I don't know who he is. A man's value doesn't bank on him pursuing available women blindly (that'd make him a LVM if he just chased anyone available). Catch yourself if you feel that you're entitled towards a - seemingly - decent man's passions, it's a graceless road to go down to label courteous men that just aren't into you as LVM primarily because they just aren't interested in you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 51 | Should you ever forgive? If so, how do you forgive without lowering your standardsErm. What was the mess-up? If it was getting a date wrong that's one thing, if it's cheating then throw the whole man into a shark tank. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 07:29 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/4/2020Hi guys! How much is too much in relation to your partner worrying about your safety? I'm moving to work in a very good job (not away from him; we're temporarily LDR, even now) for a season in a place that's basically relatively dangerous. I.e., 2-5x as likely to be raped and/or murdered, than the national average, etc. My fiance got a bit flighty and looked up some statistics of the area...and of course mostly he's of the frame of mind I should be more informed to defend myself (even researchin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 12:22 AM |
| 8 | Should I ask my HVW friend to dump him?Eh, the only way it pokes a LVM hole like that is if the rest of his actions are a result of that subserviance; people pleasing rather than genuineness. Some weird sex stuff that at least isn't that harmful...and I don't think it's that good to always push the narrative of men=dominant and women=submissive, it works in terms of life and relationships (i.e., chasing, being proactive and adaptive), though there's some unusual fluidity to a personality that doesn't necessarily come from a bad place… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 08:21 PM |
| 22 | Pick me does wifey shit for her LVM, and he responds by complaining 🤡Yeees...I sure love my "slings and arrows of outrageous misfortune" paragraphs so I know when I see someone else doing it, lol. I also agree with that communication translation of yours. Rn he sounds so angry and I'm second-hand spooked. >.< | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/20 07:22 AM |
| 26 | How to make males feel weak?I'd avoid even getting near men like this, but tbh I've seen the head to toe judgey look and laugh work like a cyanide nightmare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 05:58 PM |
| 25 | Daily reminder that men are seven times more likely to leave a sick partner than women are. Also, what a major asshole (full text in comments)For some reason for a second I read "ban" as "ban from life itself" 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 04:38 AM |
| 3 | Any real life experience with men changing for the better?I think it's less being negative and more pragmaticism? We're all free to hope that a man can be a better person but it's a waste of time or even risky to act like this (i.e., put ourselves in periphery to "projects") or encourage others to give awful people a chance. Also don't be too spooked by stereotypes like negative Nancy. I'm pretty optimistic irl and people actually see me as being positive, but I have no qualms damning bad behavior. Maybe disassociate a bit and focus more on people that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 12:40 AM |
| 49 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!"If I show for more than a week..." Welp. He hasn't changed at all. He chases pick-up tricks peddled in a gutter. Bandaids to fix the broken dam and river of poison that is his entire existence. Now, here's what keeps him fucked. Toxic, ruins other person's life, pretends that things are going well while he's cheating and still seems happy about fucking that 29 year old, thinks calling himself an asshole and giving flowers is sufficient, still feels entitled to her, can't grasp the gravity of hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 07:05 AM |
| 11 | The Biology argument is in our favorLol, it's ok. Sometimes I have Pickme vision too and then my lazer-mode activates. I'm not sure if much late-term relationship stuff is talked about in the handbook tbh so I wouldn't be surprised if I get some things wrong. I usually go by intuition and my own values. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:48 AM |
| 9 | The Biology argument is in our favorWait...are you referring to everything regarding stuff like household bills and stuff? I agree that date stuff should be 100% taken care of by guys. I'll go check the handbook in the meantime. In my relationship my man foots all the bills, but I do notice a lot of girls here doing different things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:42 AM |
| 23 | The Biology argument is in our favorHmm, I think the girls have different approaches to later on finances and I don't think it's set in stone whether or not a man has to pay for everything in terms of relationship finances. My interpretation is a) being true to your own standards and b) finding a generous, kind guy that is happy and willing to be the main provider...let's see...a crude example would be a woman that has a pregnancy complication and as to recover for many months. The man has to care for her in her recovery and the n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 04:36 AM |
| 5 | Remember ladies, you don't need to explain your value to LVMs. If you are ever in a conversation where you have to explain why you are a prize worth investing in, you have already lost.Makes me wonder if we should have a public list of harassers so we all can block them. Not saying that'd stonewall all the assholes but there's many of the same LVMs that dedicate their lives to screeching at women--I see the same names repeated in posted DMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 02:51 AM |
| 2 | What do you all think of men’s rights activists?https://imgur.com/a/2nvt1BQ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:18 PM |
| 5 | What do you all think of men’s rights activists?I'm guessing there's a 50/50 chance you're a man; mods, ( u/marbleslab) this person tried posting to the MRA sub saying they outnumber FDS. And I'm sure you're trying to bait us but...dude. You're being a major creep pretending to be someone you're not. If this is what MRAs are...scoundrels that dig for shit...then we have no reason to even think of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 10:12 PM |
| 37 | Attention has an expiration date. He supposedly was going through a rough time and didn't text for 2 weeks, but somehow texted 15 minutes after I unfriended him on Instagram. They're insanely lonely right now, and need a penpal.Lemme note the funniest thing here...he responded instantly which probably meant he was lurking heavily through IG. Yes. What a rough time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 09:28 PM |
| 10 | He offered the password to his streaming service?Ok, what the heck up is with those mutual friends? Why didn't they tell you? Well, besides that, excuse me while I nope through the ceiling...how can anyone be that absurdly petty? Is this the real life? =_= | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 03:59 AM |
| 16 | “I’ve come to realize how much I love my husband”maybe she's happy...I hope. But it's horrifying to know a woman basically saying, "he's amazing for not abusing me and I'm not deserving of him!!" makes everyone's hearts dance in joy--look at this fairytale romance! Man. So scary that it makes Satan look like drunk Santa. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/20 08:11 AM |
| 10 | Just another reason to ditch the apps and non-verified OLD. These dorks are out there “chadfishing” because they’re so obsessed with FDS and can’t cope.I feel like we shouldn't even shine any spotlight on these dudes, we'll never date any anyway. They're so dumb they operate like some NPC hivemind and actually genuinely have to make up straight-up lies with no intent or basis other than to bait and illicit a reaction. This all is but a game and long con to them. Look here. They're being drama clowns over...the concept that someone might lash out when they're insulted...and laughing at it even though it's incredibly normal and anyone would be sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 12:10 AM |
| 57 | Look at the LVM and pickmes in the comments bragging about how cheap their engagement rings are. What an amazing sign of commitment and devotion when he’d rather spend more on himself than on you!We live in such a weird culture. So many people are obsessed with not being pretentious they'd use everything as a soapbox - including their own "loves" - to...pretentiously...act like their breadcrumbs are diamond dust. What is this ego BS? I'll never get virtuesignallers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:31 AM |
| 11 | My Kink is Someone Actually Giving a F*** About MeThis is absolutely stating the obvious but I'll have you know you do have a say in the matter...that you can try curving your thoughts away from idealizing men. Part of why I am wired this way is because I don't bother building castles around the ideas of men in my mind and always just focus on reality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 70 | My Kink is Someone Actually Giving a F*** About MeSame. Never have crushed on someone I haven't known and had a deep connection with for many months first--might as well as saved my life 9 times! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:18 AM |
| 19 | As u/circecircus beautifully posted earlier, HVM don’t begrudge women from being selective and picky. This here is the mentality of the average alt-right LVM male on Reddit who will call FDS a hate sub and blame everything wrong with society on women and minorities. Steer clear of them!What gets me about "traditional values" is that it's like half the guys with them are also traditional degenerates. I remember being hit up recently "You're a young virgin that looks like an angel--I know of many wealthy, sweet, and virtuous older men (40s) who's done sleeping around and breaking hearts that are looking for a gorgeous traditional girl such as you to settle down with. Want me to pass their contact on?" I questioned him and the "virtue" and "sweetness" of these rich older men owin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:59 AM |
| 21 | As u/circecircus beautifully posted earlier, HVM don’t begrudge women from being selective and picky. This here is the mentality of the average alt-right LVM male on Reddit who will call FDS a hate sub and blame everything wrong with society on women and minorities. Steer clear of them!Probably a primordial, goopy blend of twisted, blitzed pornsick hormones, monomania, oppositional defiant tendencies, crab mentality, dysfunctional upbringings, and just sucky lives all around...all made infinitely worse by being thrown into the filter blender of their internet spaces, spun round in round in gnarled tangles. Stagnancy can be a bit of a plague (imagine how bad modern society can be for isolated people), rotting perceptions and ways of experiencing until vulnerable guys find somet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:36 AM |
| 30 | As u/circecircus beautifully posted earlier, HVM don’t begrudge women from being selective and picky. This here is the mentality of the average alt-right LVM male on Reddit who will call FDS a hate sub and blame everything wrong with society on women and minorities. Steer clear of them!This reminds me a lot of some random comment on a HIIT youtube video from a woman, "wow, he's so handsome!" annnnd she was bombarded by dozens of triggered, screeching guys making catty passive aggressive insults towards her...and then some making massive political rants with the same hivemind/NPC-like talking points as this lunatic. When will they learn? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 03:18 AM |
| 48 | Just saw this. Being abused during sex isn’t empowering. It’s killing women all over the world. Stop believing that you like it rough, you didn’t know you did until he suggested it.That's horrible...like...if this is what men's sexuality looks like and it gets people killed and abused, why is expressing it more important than people's lives?? The only truth here is that it's actually genuinely dangerous and needs to be stopped. (and isn't expressing sexuality more of a stereotypical liberal thing? It's like they're randomly pointing fingers at this point: oh look, people actually having any semblance of human compassion over entitlement...ew, libs will be libs) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 07:31 AM |
| 38 | CEO of Reddit releases 2019 Transparency Report on r/Announcements. Guess what the Scrotes are mad about? 😂Also looking at this again and of course the one fact is being downvoted a ton...and they're insulted by someone who says something as creepy and lowkey abuser-vibes as "When I tell you to do something, you better do it. Understand?" Wtf. He sounds like a psycho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 06:41 AM |
| 56 | CEO of Reddit releases 2019 Transparency Report on r/Announcements. Guess what the Scrotes are mad about? 😂I remember going there once and seeing them happily and gleefully celebrating a rape--unanimous support. Didn't have to look for that shit, found it immediately. That said everything that needs to be said tbh. There's shifty gray areas like FDS with a lot of different facets but nothing actually advocating for harm or celebrating harm...and then there's just...hell demon circlejerks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:58 AM |
| 74 | CEO of Reddit releases 2019 Transparency Report on r/Announcements. Guess what the Scrotes are mad about? 😂Men lack nuance: case # [countless number lost to the ravages of time] | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:56 AM |
| 49 | WHY YOU SHOULDN'T SEND THAT PARAGRAPH - Two things that aren't fundamental to men: critical reading and understandingnot sure if everyone would agree here, but IMO you should be able to be friends with someone if there was no romantic/sexual attraction...to even consider them a possible partner. Most couples would never even like one another as human beings without the "love" connection or being the right gender. Sobering. Couldn't imagine dating anyone who didn't return my paragraphs with paragraphs or who I didn't have a lot of fun with. I mean...so far I have no LVM horror stories of my own personal life be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 05:00 AM |
| 79 | i was told to lower my standards...againNGL, I think you should cut her off. I'm pretty accepting in terms of Pickme (and male, as long as as they never mention anything sexual) friends but there's a level in which they're just fucked up and trying to drag you down. This is just straight misogyny, implying that being cheated on is better than being happy, independent with friends and cats. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 11:22 PM |
| 7 | Can we talk about how Greek Mythology was full of LVM and pickmes ?Also, somehow, a Jerry Springer fan fiction. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 04:32 AM |
| 33 | Making this thread to prove male shallowness: What physical features you have no control over has a man criticized on you before?Back in grade school dozens upon dozens boys made fun of my skin color, saying it was fake and made constant stupid jokes about going to the tanning salon. I've light rosy-blond hair but have shiny bronze skin...well...it's actually natural and I'm mixed...and I religiously use sunscreen. =_= | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 09:02 PM |
| 34 | "Real Men" need to look in the mirror before opening their mouths smhTrue, though I feel like that in itself has a short half-life because it seems to show a degree of naivety/being sheltered rather than really being able to ward off guys (plus there's being flirty, friendly, validating, etc., which attracts attention too; I'm not sure if that dormmate was like that). Chasity implies intent rather than being sheltered. Lots of girls have been with guys but never once had an orgasm and think it's just normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 10:08 PM |
| 307 | "Real Men" need to look in the mirror before opening their mouths smhYeah. Well. That's funny. In order to be a beautiful woman and chaste in my experience (and not just barely legal), you have to practice extreme strength of will and...well. Actually realize it's a huge mistake to be friendly and flirtatious constantly or else every boy and married man in a 1000 miles radius will think you're into them. To be able to reject 100s+ of men will have you called entitled, conceited, and a frigid bitch. When you're that dreamy submissive girl chances are you are also … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:17 PM |
| 31 | Name Some Ridiculous Pickmeisha Songs or Lyrics You’ve HeardDefinitely ABBA's Take a Chance on Me. Basically sung by a lady as she frantically chases down a fleeing and terrified man, telling him even if all the "pretty birds have flown" but she's still free and that she'll do her very best to prove herself even when things are a struggle, that all he needs to do is "test" her out, that she'll always basically be orbiting around him. BIG oof. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 08:46 AM |
| 21 | What? Just no. Dont do it.Welp. Wondered where the sense went. Turns out there was no sense to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:55 PM |
| 76 | What? Just no. Dont do it.Annnnd people be upvoting this unhealthy stuff. This is basically hedonism...she's already crazy about him, he obviously is used to this kind of thing. Good chance she's gonna get her heart broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:36 PM |
| 59 | Be honest, your HVM isn't perfect. No one is. Let's list things they do that aren't deal breakers, but would be nice if it were different.Hmm, my fiance can be cocky--not really with me aside from his confidence, but just in general, he's a big man with big masculine energy. Juxtapose that against his impeccably high standards for himself. It's nice in some ways, he's always eager and high-effort, treats me like a queen, though he doesn't know when to relax and feels like he's nothing if he can't give me everything (which includes what I thought were just "dreams"). His perfectionism isn't a big issue now but sometimes I wonder if… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Some of them are _married_ to these men, smh.Yeah I see hints of that too, just is depressingly obvious they're trying to brush it off as nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 18 | Some of them are _married_ to these men, smh.Why are the girls laughing it off like this is cute?? It's more disturbing than anything, really going to show the guys don't really give a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:08 PM |
| 73 | Men who walk in front of their partnersHonestly that was a blood red flag---probably far more than most of the red flags I see on here (including not paying for dates). It's crazy for me for a person's partner to just physically distance like that, also a solid sign they're embarrassed of you in some capacity or don't give enough fucks...and/or he's that socially lobotomized. I'm still at a loss just reading these things. How were these even relationships? Seems like some sort of weird hostage situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 01:15 AM |
| 64 | On “Choosing Beggars” sub. A 22 year old pretty girl with the most basic of requirements being roasted by LVMs. Reddit is a cesspool of raggedy ass losers.I know!! Sure, it is a bit annoying to see a person be picky, but sometimes it's like they want to push the agenda that people should settle for what they definitely don't want with...complete sadistic glee. I don't get it. Like. Wtf. Settling is far worse to me than being picky. Total assassination when someone finds out they are arbitrarily loved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:36 PM |
| 116 | On “Choosing Beggars” sub. A 22 year old pretty girl with the most basic of requirements being roasted by LVMs. Reddit is a cesspool of raggedy ass losers.Also bonus clown points for bitching about how women live on "easy mode" while celebrating being totally apathetic about a woman's work ethic and character, solely thinking she's deserving of making any kind of mate choice or being treated well based off how she looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:12 PM |
| 359 | On “Choosing Beggars” sub. A 22 year old pretty girl with the most basic of requirements being roasted by LVMs. Reddit is a cesspool of raggedy ass losers.These aren't even high standards, she's not even talking about rare traits. It's less about unreasonable standards and more "you're only allowed to have standards/types if you look like a model or else it's triggering." It's genuinely absurd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Why I have zero sympathy for any man that gets falsely accused of rape:I feel the same. OP is spewing the same exact shit that the manosphere does all the time, victim-blaming with a playbook of largely assumed or imagined offenses. Sure. I trust falsely accused men less than others (and that bar was on the floor already). She's even right about not owing someone sympathy--that's queen as fuck. But there's something inhuman in assuming victims deserved it by doing something wrong...yikes forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 08:04 AM |
| 9 | You can't fix stupidMan...this stuff just depresses me. I like giving out benefit of the doubts but this just...well, it might not seem like a huge thing, though it really describes how heartless most guys are--most would circlejerk in the same manner, feel as cold as sociopaths about her, and blame her for being stupid and this being deserving of her being leaked and abused. A stupid action warrants a cruelty to men...and they are so shallow they cannot understand how violating this is or how dangerous it could be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 06:37 PM |
| 21 | Has any dude that says he “speaks sarcasm” ever turned out to be HV?Sarcasm can be focused on things other than people (I've seen it used hilariously well at otherwise spoiled and loved pets - Jenna Marbles is a great example) which IMO isn't that bad, but if he feels the need to warn others then he definitely feels he can sassassinate them. Hard pass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:36 AM |
| 21 | LVM thinks he’s meeting up with two women from a dating app to “hookup”. Ends up getting ROBBED; obtains physical and egotistical bruises.Those are LVW, violence and thievery shouldn't ever be praised even if it's towards someone degenerate like him. What is this post even trying to get across? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 03:05 AM |
| 99 | They really lack self awareness....at my (male dominated) jobI feel like the most popular past-time in the world to men is objectifying and rating women, and the second most popular past-time is pretending they're not like this.😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 10:18 PM |
| 8 | I just joined reddit and this sub and I get such weird DMs from women mad when I say something nice 😂 most people don’t do this but it’s just funny because I just joined>5 years >-37 karma Wow that's...incredibly spooky. I'm guessing "she" literally spends her entire time on here harassing people in DMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/20 09:59 PM |
| 3 | I follow Jordan Peterson, and not sure why the hate on FDS?The men = rational rhetoric is dangerous as fuck and JP should stop shilling it. So, so many male abusers and degenerates nest themselves into it, they can be acting crazy and violent and still believe they're "rational." Or just sadists. Lots of LVM also do the same and have nested rationalizations they tell themselves (i.e., imagine a guy's life is falling apart and his mental health is terrible, women are rationally the last of his worries but we got millions of these guys choosing to be obse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 07:49 PM |
| 22 | What do you think of the theory that rape is incel coping mechanism?Nope. Interviews done on rapists actually reveal that they're much likelier than any other type of criminal (murderers included) to show no remorse or even feel no accountability for what they do--and unsurprisingly tend to have a much lower opinion of women. It isn't like they're saying "no women wanted me and I was desperate." Many try to blame the victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 12:29 AM |
| 18 | Humble lil' warning guide about avoiding pick-up tactics (I see red flags from dates here all the time)Yup, feels like a lot of the slip-ups are that towards the FDS handbook, though I don't mind reminding girls of why to cohere to it and when to skedaddle before spending 3 months vetting someone. Time-saving. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 03:04 AM |
| 51 | 20 dark psychological tactics undercover LVM will use to manipulate you into thinking they’re seriousHe mentions being enthusiastic in person but going veeeerry cold /blunt in text and taking them on nice dates then pulling away to cause them to chase. Ok....wow, that one I feel like we need to actually publicize more here. I see it constantly from girls on here asking for advice--warm dates, cold texts. At this point I do believe it is a more publicized manipulation tactic than it seems. Scary thought but now it's out in the open. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 03:40 AM |
| 16 | Ladies, lay off Pickmeishas. We need them!Same. I hate the training wheels culture, it's inhumane. Plus indulging Pickmes also enables LVM to stay as bad a they are, it's not the other way around in most cases. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:11 AM |
| 33 | No HVM will have a “work wife.” That’s bullshit y’all.Wait...that's actually a thing? Excuse me while I nope through another dimension where I get my fucks to give crazy situations like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:36 PM |
| 53 | Pick me ! Pick me ! I'm better than the other girlshttps://old.reddit.com/r/unpopularopinion/comments/f06h3k/nsfw_i_dont_care_if_my_boyfriend_watches_porn_and/fgsi7s6/ this comment is just...magnifique. Just wanted to highlight it. 😘 The reply is funny too. "B-but not all studies." But what studies? We have hundreds, including brain scans of the proof. God, the stupidity is hysterical. I actually feel like that's how a lot of guys rationalize it; it is bad, but me needs to be addict to be damaged. So much like the cow-eyed smoker that can barely… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 05:29 PM |
| 47 | Sums it upActually more like they'll rage at abused women (never the abuser), shame women for being too open to options, imply that women ruined society for not being discerning enough in mate selection in the past and propagated with "bad genes", and basically imply women should actually have standards. And then when women actually straighten up...choose wisely, do men they don't want a favor by not wasting their time...it's-- from the swamp you hear a cankerous cacophonous caterwaul: RREEEEEEEEEEEEEE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:12 AM |
| 60 | She waited 9 years for this... it’s not so much the diamond size, it’s more the fact that it obviously doesn’t even fit properly!Amen. Thicc bands save lives. I will never argue that fancy rings are everything (I prefer absurdly fancy adventures) but looks like that tiny thing is trying to choke her finger!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 02:13 AM |
| 77 | Just because a man is tall, handsome and successful does not mean he is not a low value nightmareTHEY DID IT IN A RANDOM GARAGE ON CARDBOARD??? WHAT IN THE ASDGVHJKL-- Hhem yeah. Tall men can also have Napolean complexes...because they just can't stop "conquering". -.- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 01:50 AM |
| 21 | Trolling will not be tolerated. Trashing FDS and FDS mods will also not be tolerated. This is a support sub.I mentioned about how it's possible for healthy men to actually stay aroused even after finishing and I got attacked by a coterie of LVM claiming that I obviously am a femcel and have never had sex. I deleted it cuz I don't wanna deal with DM shit but I found it quite funny because...I was referring directly to my fiance. Those guys really think everyone works like them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 22 | If y’all could live in any decade then what would it be and why?Actually, this one. I make all sorts of horrible terminator and future disaster jokes that need to be sentenced to death-by-Schwarzenegger but I do love the field of artificial intelligence in general, the recent advancements, and the mass availability of...well, everything. Certain parts of the culture as well (i.e., memes). I'm the happiest I've ever been in 2020 too so I'm quite biased. Though I do acknowledge that societally things have gotten quite worse on some levels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 05:24 AM |
| 14 | Fact: it's unnatural for men to not chase. The hypothalamus region associated with sexual pursuit is 2.5x larger in men than women.Do you think it was way easier to spot a fuckboy back then because gossip tended to get around about promiscuous men? They stayed in their towns before they got globalized and threaded into the matrix of the internet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 03:28 AM |
| 7 | Fact: it's unnatural for men to not chase. The hypothalamus region associated with sexual pursuit is 2.5x larger in men than women.It's from the book I referred to - the Male Brain - which seems properly verified in the scientific community, but that's just the scientist that thoroughly untangled the mess, though the neurology I refer to I found elsewhere. The "preoptic" area in the hypothalamus regulates mating behavior, kinda funny cuz in stuff like little animals it encourages mounting behavior. X is one that makes the reference to the size early on (this is well-known in the scientific community), though later on it's m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 03:09 AM |
| 22 | Woman engaged to “gamer” does all the household chores and works full time but her fiancé can’t be bothered to come down for dinner she prepared because he’s playing Fortnite. The worst advice subreddit on this entire website blames her.Oof. "I don’t really feel like getting married or not really has anything to do with the solidity of a relationship in the least, and therefore should matter." TBH people are out of touch with reality and the costume lies and distractions covering up of this is huge problem with modern day relationships. How a person positions themselves has a feedback loop with what they feel, think, and appreciate. It might not be always that simple or gray, but if a person chooses to do one thing over spend t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 05:08 PM |
| 9 | "Where's Hypocrisy?" (The king of LVM.)Hah, I feel like like outing cheaters is chaotic good while revenge porn is chaotic evil as a hobby. Your friend o' friend sounds cool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:07 AM |
| 33 | A sexual predator hired by schools to take children’s pictures tricks an underage girl into taking up skirt photos. Users from r/MGTOW victim blame and discourage her from taking any further action, citing no laws have been broken.Ah yes. Another episode of men going their own way by trying to manipulate women. Like, if a man had been genuinely violated in that way I'd have sympathy and would want the bastard that did that to him to be tried. Why can't the manosphere even have an ounce of compassion for (female) victims? They so often defend demons. It just genuinely scares me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 07:00 AM |
| 55 | Sis was wondering why she got ghosted by a guy that seemed really interested; this was her follow-up to the first date.Excuse me while I hold a tiny viking banquet and funeral for a fellow sis. I feel kinship with her because I also make embarrassingly hyperbolic food jokes but she's squandering her dorkiness. 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 06:45 AM |
| 317 | Working as a Postpartum Nurse has raised my standards tenfold. Here’s why.God. Sobering. :/ Also...makes me honestly wonder as to the true intent of the men whining about custody laws and making a huge fuss over how unfair they are. There's many that do this, but then most men these days seem incapable of caring for children as evidence shows and solely are there out of obligation (I bet next week they'll be patting themselves on the back for how "wonderful" they are). The bar is melting into the floor and is going to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 09:17 AM |
| 64 | Boyfriend of 2 years said he doesn't love meWait...so he has said "I love you" or something like that before and he went full psycho and did a take-back and act like love is impossible because of difference? Sweet baby christ on a baby cow, what is WRONG with that guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/20 02:23 AM |
| 34 | The truth about pickmeishasBeautifully spoken. Honestly I never get angry at Pickmes besides when they're hurting others with their toxicity. I usually just feel bad. A keen wow, girl, I damned hope you're right and you'll be ok. Most stories of the girl being a "Pickme" type end horribly because they're the ones that betray themselves the most. Defense mechanisms like ballistas line their brains, directed outward yet also inward, hard to breach. I figure a lot of them as fragile as their hearts can be, could actually be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:22 PM |
| 47 | All of these men are telling OP she’s being selfish for wanting a a sexually attentive partnermassive word essay from a man telling her she's selfish - 40 year old self-described as being in a dead bedroom Omg. That's hysterical!! It flows, like - abet disgusting - poetry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:22 AM |
| 4 | A shining example of why FDS' amoral view about cheating is brilliant and sensibleEr...might be more outta the loop then in my grade school formal I thought was a costume party...but I don't think FDS encourages cheating on someone who you established exclusivity with--that's what cheating essentially is. Girls on here usually condemn it and spending months around LVM on purpose despite knowing better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 09:06 AM |
| 10 | Does being with someone less intelligent make you a pickmeisha?I feel like HV kinda means being a good, genuine person more than anything else--this usually involves being conscientious about life too which entails trying harder than normal people usually. On the other hand, there's so many high effort assholes out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/20 02:17 AM |
| 13 | ePiC pWn MY BOI! The best part is a highly upvoted comment, “minimalism is awesome” lmao. Nah dude you’re just lazy and broke. The average redditor is a LVM so let’s stop concerning ourselves with all their MRA trash subreddits and what they have to say about women. They are not on our radar.Oh, and I find it funny that they say "happy." Dudes are always whining that men suffer an extreme mental health crisis...depression, suicidal ideation, most are "lonely." Now THAT isn't funny, but implying they're happy with basically being poor squatters alone in their own home betrays the many men that just aren't happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:45 PM |
| 20 | ePiC pWn MY BOI! The best part is a highly upvoted comment, “minimalism is awesome” lmao. Nah dude you’re just lazy and broke. The average redditor is a LVM so let’s stop concerning ourselves with all their MRA trash subreddits and what they have to say about women. They are not on our radar.I can sit back and be happy most anywhere (I love outdoor backpacking adventures with my fiance so I actually mean this) it's not a virtue. Trying to reclaim what most successful people would walk in and feel disgusted or put off by into something fantastic is genuinely stupid. That house looks like some drug addict's hovel...them getting that reputation isn't random. It shows a severe lack of conscientiousness and worldly desensitization to beauty (aside from when it's attached to sex), perhaps… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 09:40 PM |
| 11 | Y’all get ready, lurkers are coming to FDS, again.Gosh. Mountain Dew sounds like such a beautiful-tasting drink but turns out it's this fizzy sugar-roofied abomination. Always disappointed when I see the name 😓 ⛰️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 05:03 AM |
| 38 | The bar is set so very low for men. Remember that!"Humans are naturally social creatures." Who said I'm human? terminator sequence initiated. fuckboy annihilation protocol engaged *.\* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 12:57 AM |
| 20 | PSA from one of our LVM lurkers 😉I find it interesting they do this...I mean. Step back. Imagine their schema of the world; they're basically indirectly supporting that women should be extremely picky and take as much as they can from men because regardless of what the reason is, men are temporary and their love is no more than a wimpy wretched weed that lives as long as the soil is fertile, and cannot be trusted to have actual integrity. This is basically what they are saying. Take note and laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/20 07:36 PM |
| 20 | Coffee datesI see the beauty. Eating can get awkward and just sipping a hot, or chill drink and relaxing in some hipster containment center seems cute--can pave the way more for conversation. Dinner is relatively high commitment. Higher risk, higher reward...though it also puts the man more in the position of wanting to impress which might sound good on paper but might just end up with him misrepresenting himself more. Maybe guys would act more "natural" during coffee dates as maybe to them there's "less to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 07:09 AM |
| 20 | Proud to be a Judge Judy ass bitch 😚Mods!! Please make me Judge Judy Ass Bitch!! T_T I'll lay down the law!! (tfw not sure if joking or not) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 08:14 PM |
| 163 | No more ride or dieYes!! This is just so insidious in nature because the outstanding pressure is to lower your standards (even past "being treated well"); it is NOT a virtue to give anyone a chance. Love isn't some charity drive or gas station rest stop until you finally your human Sangri-La to monkey branch ingloriously and drunkenly off to. Not sure if it's something like political correctness or Disney-washing or what...it's just so common to justify this. To encourage people coming apart on the seams, full of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 08:05 AM |
| 28 | Has your boyfriend ever told you that you have small boobs?Hm...I have delicate A-cup breasts--my fiance has never made them feel less than a goddess's. I've never even bothered knowing anyone who're so dissatisfied with life that they'd judge my chest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 08:03 AM |
| 2 | There is one HVM at our school, and he’s a piece of shit toosame...false flags suck but I'd prefer someone trying to sabotage us over some poor sap living his life and getting harassed for not being easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:16 PM |
| 8 | There is one HVM at our school, and he’s a piece of shit tooAlso, mods, I think this person should be banned tbh. This behavior is just super fucked up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 11:10 PM |
| 13 | There is one HVM at our school, and he’s a piece of shit tooHonestly I don't know what the heck is going on here...you're shitting on a guy that is not giving away his body like a cheap public sex doll as if being averse to casual shit is a bad thing? And you keyed him for REJECTING ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS?? Jesus fuckin christ. Whatever this is, this ain't it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 10:58 PM |
| 103 | Men seem to think that attractive women are *trying* to attract themActually, geisha...there was a study on just that! The hotter the woman, the likelier men think they're more interested in them on average. We don't really need more evidence though, lol. The mental gymnastics are obvious as-is. You're right about faux-narrative and entitlement involved too. It fits directly into the patterns of thoughts revealed from interviews with violence and assault (i.e., rape, etc.) against women--refusal to take accountability, blame on woman, a specific narrative valida… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:54 AM |
| 14 | this may be controversial - should FDS members re-post from MGTOW ?Yes!! There's also subs that do extremely similar things (pinkpillfeminism?) which can easily be used as companions. I'd prefer a more solution, empowering and info-orientated space. I like discussing the tea tho a lot of it simply feels like junk food...ok, soda or alcohol in comparison. Highly addictive, damaging. Overdo it and too much of our mental energies will travel back to these tainted old swamps...only to really bring nothing back besides more irritation and puffs of satisfaction. And … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 15 | this may be controversial - should FDS members re-post from MGTOW ?Backing you up...we shouldn't give the manosphere any limelight other than specifics to protect ourselves in the dating space. Doing so just for hateporn's sake doesn't serve us. When you really dissect them it really comes down to most are no longer operating rationally but grasping for the next dopamine and superiority hit. They're a hive mind or hate cult...at most. There's masses with whole hobbies or lifestyles dedicated into optimally hurting or policing women, and…well. Most worthy to not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 04:25 AM |
| 1 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menThis is also part of why they're so good at gaslighting women in general tbh. They're good at fooling themselves and others with empty platitudes and costume-logic. Learn the signs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | LVMs standards for women vs pickmeishas standards for menpretty, nice things to note about her, specific features are very cute, literal only downside is an awkward (fixable+arbitrary) smile, makeup and hair color...?? v. says nothing nice about him, is a plain sap, no one can even comment about his features because the men on there can't even compute them because they don't care to nor can they 4.5. Alright. Well. Honestly that sub is a case study on how deeply insane mens' sense of "rationality" can get. I've seen it all over the place; them posturi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 11:27 PM |
| 64 | Purple pill debate pickmeisha mod bans me for standing up against a wife beater wtf.So...they talk about not making things personal but they let the most shit-eating, passive aggressive and abuse-justifying comments go under the radar? Yikes forever, that sub's hopeless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:56 PM |
| 28 | Man with crippling low self esteem admits to playing games in order to keep a HVW interested. On her side, she’s probably wondering why someone below her league has the audacity to play hot & cold. Don’t date down ever! DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE SCROTES!I think the distinction here is that it seems objectifying, fake, and also some huge validation kick for him (he sees her as nothing but a trophy). Screams that he'd dump her if she lost her looks somehow (disease, age, weight, etc). Huuuuge gap between that and a dude that actually wholesomely cares about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 08:52 PM |
| 18 | Never let a man cry in front of youYeah--this thread just tips into extreme prejudice and I don't want guys like your brother to be gaslit into thinking their pain is fake or disgusting and shit like that....being emotionally castrated seems like a recipe for disaster (and the evidence is everywhere--with the internet+tech basically raising many people with crippled emotional intelligence). You're right...discernment is key. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 01:24 AM |
| 67 | Pathetic MGTOWs use the wall as a cope to try devaluation women who are worlds out of their league, because they’re bitter."The Wall" is some weird meme loved by rat-men with no power in this world to get a brief burst of control and fleeting semblance of appeal--because otherwise they would have none without pouring 1000s of hours into becoming fake men. The most ginormous giga cope there is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 08:31 PM |
| 94 | Woman goes to relationship advice when her friends rightly tell her that her date refusing to pay is a red flag.Is it just me or does a huge chunk of dudes not want to admit that the more a guy cares about a girl, the much likelier they pay for a date with her? It's just...convenient. I'm not even that into that gender convention myself, it just makes me rise an eyebrow at how supposedly abnormal paying when you graciously asked someone for their company, showing in another way that you value their time. I mean. Imagine the girl doing it then expecting to be treated...that'd sound more like exploitation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 05:37 AM |
| 72 | You guys are like a mother figure to me, I love this subreddit cause my mom never taught me any of thisErm, wait..you're out of the abusive relationship, right? Totally not a mom thing to ask. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:49 AM |
| 20 | The MRAs respond to our post about LVM and blame everything but themselves. Apparently the entire system built and sustained by men is rigged against them. 🙄Eh, honestly everything here just screams crab mentality. Seen the exact same rhetoric when I briefly side-eyed incel circles, the frenzied obsession with being the moldiest banana in the bunch, seeing demons in mere shadows on the wall then scaring the others with it--oh my god, Boy Scouts being less boy? The end is nigh! Though it is kinda sad; seems like their support networks are failing them hard. Many socially awkward men fall into a pit then smack one another or spitball freer people. The… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 11:33 AM |
| 66 | They hate being called outYou acted graciously. Dude went Hulk smash on your boundaries and failed cuz he tripped one of your intuition mines, then acted like he was the victim. :/ Do wish those losers would at least take ownership of their behavior tho. Seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:22 AM |
| 44 | Had to end things with another man today. So, I'm still single and that's OK!Being a devil's advocate for no real reason here...were most of those dudes even that gentlemanly? They seem...crude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:12 AM |
| 64 | Asshole Father eats all his daughters food and the commenters blame the mom!Been seeing this so often lately. Lots of people think they're being Fair and Just, but then so, so many of these situations boil down to this: usually there's a sinful or evil deed done by a man. -->and then there's either attitude, or lack of action from the woman. Wife, gf, friend, victim, etc. The natural response many people...by that, I mean most men...is to proportionally see them as NOT ONLY AS BAD AS ONE ANOTHER, but the woman the most despicable and accountable for "not doing enough". … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:00 PM |
| 26 | Meghan Markle has been triggering the scrotes all week. I’m always amazed at the elaborate narratives they manage to come up with despite all evidence to the contrary 🤔I think he used to be a bit of a party boy? And this apparently is the pinnacle of masculinity to these babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 08:38 PM |
| 39 | Am I crazy of is this type of thinking extremely pathetic? Maybe she's a housewife, but damn. She's posting in the cooking sub praising her husband for eating her food. Slurping up the compliments from male posters.Is this real? Excuse me while I pray to some imaginary meek Pickme gods for her sake. Like it's just...I'm putting myself in the husband's shoes. Trying to be understanding. But, in earnest, I'd feel feel horrified if my wife felt that way. I'm lazing around...she's creating something nice for me and feeling like she's subjecting me to something? This behavior isn't cute, it's sad. Cookholm syndrome. I really hope this woman just has an extreme complex. Maybe she puts her love into it...maybe ot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 06:20 AM |
| 7 | Can a guy who makes significantly less than you be a HVM for you?In theory? To me it might be a problem because in some cases poor men live isolated swamp lives. It's not that intrinsically that's the problem, but the fact that you can't at all trust how a man will change once he explores his horizons and turns out he only arbitrarily chose you. There's infinite horror stories about men that improve themselves then the power kick drives then to cheat and divorce. But still...if the poor man is good person who is conscientious, fights for his family, kind and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 08:28 PM |
| 37 | AW SNAP! Who’d we trigger today?!! [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female dating strategy (+391 subscribers today; 184% trend score)So it's actually r/popularopinion (minus the memes and plus the bitterness)? What happened to them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 07:16 AM |
| 9 | Gay man now terrified of women because of FDS. 🙄 He doesn’t even date women but he’s still mad, because, you know, scrotes gonna scrote.Honestly I think this is a: a fake false flag of sorts meant to karma/virtue-farm. Worst case scenario, we're getting people deliberately making up propaganda to smear us or b: someone who when they dislike someone or a group, for entertainment's or paranoia's sake, literally projects all his issues he's ever had onto them just because one person remotely said something that triggered him B of course does edge into the "literally everyone on FDS is fat sociopathic ogres" that I sometimes see aro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 01:16 AM |
| 4 | Another example of how men think treating women poorly is alpha and enjoy cheating.Hmmm. Maybe we're thinking about it the wrong way? They're mentally ill and I believe they're basically just...playing a sport. I don't think they actually care about society or even other men. Or morals. Those are all just playthings. They want to maximize their hatred for women. They "win" by pissing off women and gaslighting other men, while endlessly manufacturing outrage-porn. Attention whoring by acting like monsters. TRP is just a cult/after school club for manchildren to play games. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 02:52 AM |
| 5 | LVM are TRIGGERED by our 90 day rule 😂😂😂TBH it's always little stuff like this that gets me. One thing if the behavior is astoundingly bad, "hey at least all dudes aren't like this"...it's another if you see shit that makes you honestly believe men are rabied monkeys that blow their shit at everyone if they don't care to wait for a woman who actually values intimacy. Their entitlement is absolutely bananas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 01:19 AM |
| 59 | Another example of how men think treating women poorly is alpha and enjoy cheating.Are they mentally ill? Disabled? Sociopaths? Are they all of these things? Complete hallucination of the woman's sexual history, projection, presumption, to justify being a flaming monkey. If this was posted here by a woman I'd give her a firm verbal slap for cheating. Jesus. Absolutely feeds into my idea that collective delusion defines the manosphere; just because _____ is possible, means you can abuse women and degenerate society all you want. I think it's particularly creepy because they're … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 08:36 PM |
| 21 | Classic LVMCooking can be so cute and crafty, something I feel doesn't need any gender roles...it really bums me out that it must be so degrading because of men that can't let go of the "make me a sandwich" lowbrow shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 11:19 PM |
| 59 | Man reveals LVM tactic of stringing women along for yearsI can't stop being horrified by that...I really hope she's doing ok now. It'd take all my power to even just not lay down and die if the same happened to me (isn't just the virginity; it's years of happiness and security that turn into scar tissue and lies). How do we even tell who's a monster like that when they wear the mask of a good man?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 06:03 AM |
| 13 | Man reveals LVM tactic of stringing women along for yearsHm...as an engaged virgin, I kinda have to disagree. I find virginity novel and special to me personally, but I'd say if I experienced against all projected odds the sheer horror of what she went through...my cope wouldn't be my sentimentality about my first time being validated (which would burn a lot bc of my disappointment), but rather, it being less meaningful. I wouldn't want another girl in that situation feeling as if she had a precious treasure stolen from her and being heartbroken forev… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 05:49 AM |
| 42 | On men willing to work harder for what they can’t have or is not on offer to them. Men will attempt to turn any woman into a sex worker given the right circumstances. But won’t go to an actual sex worker.Oh god. There was a spa/massage place next to my elementary school and my mum always said it was a bit creepy--didn't really understand this at all until I read this post. Suddenly things make sense. :/ How did you become a writer? Sounds so cool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 01:02 AM |
| 50 | If empowering my fellow sistahs is wrong, then I don't wanna be right! 🤣Yikes. Just looked at his profile to block him and he looks like a prize. He goes around stalking FDS members (one just said she loves "doughy boys" and was whipped by him), attacking people, making huge leaps of judgment while spamming "entitled bitch" and posting fortnite stuff all day. He even shits on sensitive people in general too so...I find it interesting that he's trying to pull the "disgusting" card. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 09:01 PM |
| 12 | I(22f) always get ghosted.Yeah...feels like some sorta honey pot or false flag. Well. I'd hope. Cuz this is just sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 06:27 AM |
| 89 | Men always act like men aren’t all sexually opportunistic trash except when they’re trying to explain why it’s your fault you got raped then it’s all “well what did you think was going to happen?!”."Rape culture" clicked for me when I saw how a woman interviewed 100+ rapists in prison and unlike all other types of serious criminals...they overwhelmingly felt far less remorse, and almost none of them felt accountable whatsoever for raping a woman. Oh. They also had a bad perception of women. Big surprise this makes men likelier to be monsters. And no. It's not random that the most outspoken men waggle their fingers angrily at women each time rape is brought up regardless of what information… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 05:00 AM |
| 33 | A real conversation I have literally just hadWhat sort of satanic ritual do I have to perform so these bad boys' balls shrivel up and fall off and they all become amicable eunuchs? We need it ASAP. 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/20 02:55 AM |
| 2 | The bar is at the fooking FLOORIs it bad that as I read the title I heard Gordan Ramsey shouting "the bar is at the fOOKING FLOOR!" I don't even watch his show, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/20 09:12 PM |
| 54 | Another Man lying on the internet that he “accidentally” found out about his girlfriend being an FDS member. These revenge fantasies about dumping a girl after “discovering” her FDS usage are getting less creative.On the 5% chance some of those stories are true, I wonder if they think those girlfriends are wearing masks...and then when they finally take them off their true FDS power level is unleashed and they get instantly eviscerated by the blast. Like. What do they think can happen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:17 PM |
| 61 | Lisa Bonet (51) and Jason Momoa (40) together for 14 years. He said he’s been in love with her since he was 8 years old.Same till it hit me: it's not only incredibly rare for a guy to do this, but the age gap involved is a lot less creepy because there's no fetishization here...she was grown. Wasn't anything like the orange duck-man looking at a little girl and saying in 10 years he'll date her, etc. There's no predatorial, pedophilic and controlling underpinnings of significantly older men implied or even likely whatsoever. That's where much of the creepiness and unease we feel even stems from. I still think it'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 05:17 PM |
| 3 | is your man bi? How to tell if your man is a closeted homosexual or bisexual.Weird. u/themarbleslab (I just see that you've been active; not sure about the other mods), this is a false flag I believe is from a man, ban him just in case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 08:45 AM |
| 6 | Am I being foolish?Cap, pull back from him, recuperate in the FDS bomb shelter or your happy space for awhile. Then you consider whether or not his friendship is even worth anything. I had one ex - things were already weird because it started online - and we had to end it. He wasn't a horrible guy, the friendship was fun (no we didn't goof around; things were platonic)...buuuut when I found a very cool guy that was serious about me I ended up having to cut that ex off after wishing him well. It hurt SOOO much, but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 10 | PPD Man admits that OLD is hyper beneficial for roommate (27F), helped her meet hot, sexy "chads" who are 10/10s. Admits that 27F has endless supply of hot sexy men to choose from. Straight from the horse's mouth... DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM EASILY REPLACEABLE MEN!*women who he isn't even dating or looking to date. Or...maybe he is. Probably. You just know he'd fuck her if given the chance anyway and feel like the biggest man in the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 06:51 PM |
| 14 | PPD Man admits that OLD is hyper beneficial for roommate (27F), helped her meet hot, sexy "chads" who are 10/10s. Admits that 27F has endless supply of hot sexy men to choose from. Straight from the horse's mouth... DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM EASILY REPLACEABLE MEN!Ah yes. Another episode of "frump dude among millions who dismisses women based off their looks traumatized by a more attractive girl than him who dismisses men based off their looks." Riveting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Why is the concept of a man paying for a date so triggering and nightmarish to some men?Thank you. <3 At least the men that get in usually are more bland than damaging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:21 AM |
| 9 | Why is the concept of a man paying for a date so triggering and nightmarish to some men?https://www.reddit.com/r/dating_advice/comments/dgzt0p/dont_want_to_be_labeled_as_a_creep_22_m/ I'm guessing this was...hhem...posted by your troll BF, or you, with a weirdass sense of humor. No, it's you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 10:54 PM |
| 28 | Why is the concept of a man paying for a date so triggering and nightmarish to some men?Another was a poor sap. Has my sympathies. Gonna be homeless and said that's why he can't pay for dates. But...huge "ok wtf you dating and prowling for shit that makes you feel bad now instead of looking for solutions?" Pretty weird. Depraved, starving, lonesome men out there and they spend their time vulturing sites like this. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 10:36 PM |
| 19 | Why is the concept of a man paying for a date so triggering and nightmarish to some men?How did a dude get a flair here? LOL. Reporting you, but yeah, I figure that's an issue as well. The ones that'd string along relatively decent dudes genuinely interested for soulless gain with no genuine interest in them. Kinda like how there's countless stories of when women date men they genuinely care about, but the men don't really put in much of an emotional effort...then later on he bounces to someone he actually cares about, and then he starts spending big to impress her. Makes things ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 10:13 PM |
| 8 | OP's 26 year old boyfriend spends his time on Reddit on r/fauxbait and complimenting insecure girls on r/teenamiugly. According to OP, he does not rate teen boys nor does he participate in adult rating subs. OP wonders whether she's right to be worried about her boyfriend seeking out teen girls.Once got into a spat with one of the jailbait reddit mods, major creep. Surprisingly he was spewing a ton of social justice-y, virtuesignally stuff about the sub (before he begun flaking)....yup...he found a way. That place is one of the few havens for pedophiles on Reddit with fallacies to deflect accountability. Dude even compared being into minors as being the same as being into MILFs, LOL Maybe guys are wired to feel degenerate, fucked up things. Ew, but whatever. It's a choice to poison the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/20 08:34 AM |
| 9 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Explain to FDS what a rapist looks, talks, and acts like. Also provide a full proof way to know they’re not safe to be alone with before you’re actually alone. [Trigger Warning]Awesome post, I love it. Lemme add something. My, uh, marginally overprotective protective boyfriend was kinda trying to make me carry a small pistol (though doesn't have a gun himself; helps that he's probably the strongest man in the country), showing me vicimization police statistics in which the women who had one were actually much more likely to get out of assault situations unscathed (far more than other weapons)? He also told me that it's important to envision myself in the situation befo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 07:54 PM |
| 1 | OPEN Q&A THREAD FOR MEN: Explain to FDS what a rapist looks, talks, and acts like. Also provide a full proof way to know they’re not safe to be alone with before you’re actually alone. [Trigger Warning]Girl here. I think they're mostly liars or trying to degrade/blame women. Apparently many rapists look like regular men and can be "nice". Though bias speaking: when I see them mug shotted they usually look kinda more off then other mug shotted men. Might be media bias, idk. https://www.nsopw.gov/en/ if you wanna eyeball sex offenders. There's also statistics-for-thought; 56% of men are married, but the last statistic taken in a census seems to put rapists at about 25%~ married men. Not that imp… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 07:28 PM |
| 2 | 1926 Soviet Russia's ease of marriage and divorce laws; a societal crisis that's proof most men cannot truly love a woman. (Aka, FDS is right)Omg, thanks to whoever bestowed the gold upon me. Happy people got something out of this. Really thought this was gonna fly under the radar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 09:54 PM |
| 35 | We've been talking for five minutes and he's already asking for nudes. Should have been way more harsh with this guy, but hey, I'm learning.Men be out there whining about women being afraid to have sex too soon as being a soulless bargaining chip, but then literally treat your vulnerable body as some sort of token they make calculations as to when and how they'll be able to ""possess"" it even before you even know what their favorite color or...anything is. Smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 04:54 AM |
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