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SCROTES MADjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 08:15 AM
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MINDSET SHIFTjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:48 PM
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LIES MEN TELLjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:35 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 09:23 AM
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FDS MEMESjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:12 PM
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COUCH CREATURESjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 01:10 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨jetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:05 PM
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LEVEL UP BRO! jetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:16 AM
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COCKHOLM SYNDROMEjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:55 PM
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STRATEGYjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:13 PM
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NAH, SISjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:04 PM
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NOTHING BUT FACTSjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:43 AM
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NAH, SISjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:30 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 09:47 AM
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DISCUSSIONjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:08 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEjetpatch/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:47 AM
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More fool them. First born girls are most likely to be gender non conforming. They are more likely to get extra testosterone in the womb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:56 AM
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Trying to raise your status through vocab or accent is pretty universal. Most people do indeed do it without realising. Most of us notice this in our mum's first of all. I actually did this when I came across a home invader in my house. And weirdly it did actually work. My posh voice scared him off and he walked out the front door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:27 PM
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There's a huge number of women who want to settle down in their twenties. You only hear about women who don't want that because they have the time to be writing articles and posting on reddit rather than engaging with people irl most of the time. If you want to meet that kind of woman you need to start having that same sort of social life so you will move in the same circles.
/r/askFDS12/07/20 10:03 AM
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No, in fact it's probably a good idea to look for personality traits like that rather than shallow stuff. But you can't expect someone to stay fixed forever even if they seem really sure right now. All relationships are a risk. Just make sure you have an internal locus of control.
/r/askFDS12/07/20 09:58 AM
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This is how mob justice actually silences and oppresses women. Unfortunately there's a push by woke people to claim women actually benefit from men going on a rampage and it's part of our privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 09:02 AM
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That account also told people not to report child porn and other raped to the police but to just let their admins know. That's an illegal action in many countries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:30 PM
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She's a dumb socialite who never managed to hold down a job in her life. She was in a country she couldn't be extradited from but left because she's never had to do something she didn't want to before. She is definitely not an intelligent secret agent. She spent years phoning up the victims personally and threatening them, all they had to do was record her phone calls and they'd have had all the evidence they needed against her. She was very lucky that didn't happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:56 PM
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Oh, I think she was a sexual sadist too. If you look at what some of the girls said she was getting off on the abuse as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:51 PM
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This won't work in every country. In the UK they'd just give him a paracetamol and send him back home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:01 PM
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They don't need a reason to ban, they've shown that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:48 PM
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Yes. Just saying on another sub that Reddit has likely left FDS up because we represent a clear demographic advertisers can sell stuff to. They want us here to make money out of us. Let's take our money elsewhere, where we're respected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:34 PM
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Concentrate on work, save your money, buy a place then get a sperm donor or adopt. If the right man comes along then great but don't waste your dreams hanging all your hopes on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:45 PM
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Either that or very easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:43 PM
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I probably did. Scratches his arse then touches everything. Hence why 50% of beards have fecal bacteria in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:42 PM
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After they ban subs they look where else the users were posting and ban them with no good reason. This is why all subs should go private now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:20 PM
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They have a Twitter account rGenderCritical You can keep up to date with what they're doing next there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:48 PM
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Aimee Challenor is now a mod of numerous subs, including subs aimed at teens. https://www.feministcurrent.com/2019/07/24/why-is-aimee-challenor-still-advising-stonewall/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:12 AM
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The woman who made Giggle is pushing it fiercely at the mo. That app users face recognition to keep men out. I've not used it yet. Anyone else tried it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 11:24 PM
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Think of all the hygiene procedures and hair nets and stuff you have to abide by just to bake cakes. Think about all the precautions and disposable equipment your doctor has to go through to just take one test. Any one here done the drive through covid 19 test? How would sex work even happen if they had to follow basic work place health and safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:24 AM
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Men irl don't even have these beauty standards, they are actually far less picky than women. These things are just used online to try to knock women's confidence so they will be more open to dropping their standards. Nah, mate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:46 AM
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You know all those times you said you'd walk the moment a man laid a finger on you ... Yeah, that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:19 PM
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People without financial freedom can't have reproductive freedom because they can't choose to have a child they know they can't provide for. Reproductive freedom cuts both ways. The right to have as well as not have children. Stop using women as political/religious football and start trying to give them real choice by raising them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:09 PM
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Oxytocin. Makes you treat some scumbag guy likes he's a blood relative who's actually important or something. This illness is often cured by childbirth, but then it's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:59 PM
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Not going to be popular but I feel this bad hygiene thing is a biologically male trait. They all go through it at some point as teenagers and some get stuck there. Even my male cousin with OCD went through a whole year of being a scumbag before going back to being hyper organized and clean. I guess the teen years is when their brains want to learn how they are supposed to present as attractive men in the culture they are in so they reset their self care habits to zero. The trouble is our society…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:53 PM
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Even if you believe in cutting out chemicals and hyper cleanliness soap is one of the most mild things you can use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:43 PM
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She had a bath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 09:31 PM
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Part of the problem with critical theory is that privilege doesn't always give an advantage in the long term or lead to better outcomes. Often privileged people are lazy, entitled and ignorant so don't do well without a helping hand. This is why immigrant groups generally do better than the local population even through they face much more prejudice and barriers to success. Most highly successful self made business people have big psychological hang ups about not being good enough and that drive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:16 PM
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Lots of women use their kids as a shield between them and their partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:31 PM
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No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 11:05 PM
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Better take him to the fertility clinic and get him tested then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 10:58 PM
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To be fair I'm not great at conversation so I'm happy to be a sounding board for this type of thing. One of my best friends actually tagged on to me purposely because I'm a good listener and would sit and hear all her drama. She is very serial monogamous so there was lots of good stuff. But, yeah, they aren't going to leave unless they are pushed so I never get emotionally involved unless there's actually abuse or crime going on. If you take a side it pushes the two of them together and then you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 06:45 PM
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Even his crush is unrequited. If he can't find any takers now how does he imagine that will change when he's living in a motel. Wasn't there a story of a guy who left his wife to start things with his work crush and she turned round and said she only liked him as a friend and he'd misread the whole thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:55 AM
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Thankfully this BS becomes a lot less common once you are only seeing your friends once a week for a couple of hours because you all have jobs and lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:43 PM
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It's sad men base so much of their self esteem on sex and then are born so unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 12:40 PM
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That tweeter account is a goldmine. Great going guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:43 PM
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Also people who take care of themselves also take care of their minds. Chasing either men or women or basing your self esteem on who will screw you are not healthy mindsets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:24 PM
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You could actually write a great sitcom on this material. And you could film it with social distancing because none of these guys is getting near a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:54 PM
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Women aren't wasted by who they sleep with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 04:52 PM
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Never imagine it's only one group who do this. Everyone's at risk. There are rad fems at the moment covering up an abuser in their mist. Believe all women doesn't apply to their friends it seems. But that's exactly why predators get away with it for so long, they are always nice to most people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 07:13 AM
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There's even differences within the West. The British are known for being far more breast obsessed than the rest of Europe. Some countries have bare breasts in advertising with no issues. It's to do with climate and covering up. Men often fetishise what's hidden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:53 PM
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Any man looking at them. Probably more men in a week get killed by other men just because someone thinks they looked at them funny than are killed by women in a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:22 PM
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They only don't mind if we do it to them because we're not a physical threat. And then you are even starting to see the guys in reddit posting things like "A woman once pinched my arse on the bus, men get raped by women too!" So while they don't mind and aren't scared they will 100% still use it against women just for point scoring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 04:20 PM
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Urg, party person. Reminds me of the BBC makeup artists calling Gary Lineker party hands.🤮 You just know they are going to turn up with party sized equipment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 08:20 AM
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Hmm, women aren't idiot children and men aren't super intelligent evil geniuses. That's actually really insulting to women. If you are trying to steal someone's boyfriend thinking that makes you better than her then you are a LVW. You make yourself low value by basing your value on what a man will fuck, which is pretty much anything. It isn't about being strung along, it's about what you consider important in your life which gets you in that situation. If you value yourself and other women over …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:58 AM
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To be fair I knew a guy who kept "points" for everything he did for his girlfriend so he could use that to call on her to do things for him. Basic stuff like seeing a film she wanted to see but he wasn't keen would be a point to him. He was pretty surprised when he reveal his system and she didn't care about his points and told him to stick them up his arse. Many men already operate on a mercenary relationship basis so assume women will do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 07:20 AM
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Juno is morally terrible though. American baby farming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 06:40 AM
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The better version of this is my lawyer friend who made a female profile so he could view other straight guys and work out the best way to redo his real profile for the better. He found out very quickly men are really rude and mostly weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:34 PM
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I've seen kids on social media saying they have a kissing fetish. They don't see it in porn so they think it's not normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:59 PM
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Err, Neanderthals were skilled, intelligent people with bigger brains than the average man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 09:57 PM
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Nah, it's about investing in your partner. This guy is literally telling the guys replying that they are low status for taking money off their working wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:34 AM
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Most likely she's being groomed and trafficked by her older boyfriend so it's not her great mind which is making the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:26 AM
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It's weird that the US has so many more serial killers than other countries. I wonder if that's down to porn use or due to a culture of nihilist macho violence like mass shootings. Or something else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 07:20 AM
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Reminds me I've had this for ages and never posted it. https://imgur.com/a/chJ3tdP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 11:24 PM
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My sister nearly had a fit during Devil Wears Prada. It's funny because I saw it before I saw it with her but I didn't get the problem with it but when I was sat with her it was as though I read her mind and knew exactly what she saw in it before she said it. "This film is so shit. So if you work hard and do your job well you are a bad person and your useless, snobby hipster friends and boyfriend, with jobs they can only do because they have other funds, will dump you? Dump them first and keep t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:56 PM
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If he's not dating a pickme now then that's not what he's looking for. We've all dated dumb shits in our past. However I'd keep an eye out for him criticising your behaviour in case he's being sneaky and thinks he can mould you into a pickme. But that goes for all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 08:20 AM
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I was like this without any trauma. I really don't think it's helpful to assume there's only a subset of damaged women at risk from this mindset when actually we all are. My nan said her whole life that the moment a man hit her she'd be out the door in an instant yet when my grandfather hit her for the first time, in their 70's, she stayed, laughed it off. A couple of weeks later he tried to rape her. You don't know what you would actually do until you are in that situation. Mostly women will al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 07:29 AM
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That's a red flag. As soon as you see it get out. I have a friend who is similar. She is under 5 foot but a very front leading person and every guy she attracted wanted her because he had low self esteem and she made him feel like a big macho man. All of those relationships became abusive because she could never fit with their idea of what she was. They were all lefty academic men who she went with because she looked up to their intelligence and apparent kindness. She's recently found a decent p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 10:08 PM
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I think women don't understand just how many bots OLD companies allow to target men to fake how many women actually use the site. I remember that cheating site had more bots than women on it. Then, of course, real women get the blame for those companies playing men for fools. I'd say as long as someone's not rude about it it's allowable because the problem is just so bad at the moment. But then I don't use OLD anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:41 PM
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Just another power trip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 09:25 PM
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They are also shutting down the medical transitioning of children because the outcomes have been so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 04:41 PM
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Imagine having a deposit for a house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 08:12 PM
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Call it zero waste sex then it's woke. The only thing you are wasting is your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:39 PM
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More like Am I the only one here who's ... cold?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:34 PM
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Infantisation. My dad says that to me. You say it to a naughty child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:11 PM
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Intersectional feminism. Black women get pulled up and killed by both racist police and police who want to chat them up. The second lot are also a real problem and need to be dealt with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:07 PM
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Fuck therapy. Get angry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:58 PM
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if I meet someone who makes my dick hard or strokes my ego next week, I'm out. I'll even abandon my kids. Then I'll be back in 2 months begging you to take me back. Corrected
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 02:40 PM
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You should always have a front door which locks on closing. If you're worried about being locked out get a hidden key safe. My aunt with 2 teenagers had a front door they needed to lock every night and they were burgled 3 times in 2 years because my cousin's always forgot to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:20 PM
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UK journalist India Knight's husband has just been to court on child porn charges. She's always seemed like a highly sensible and principled person to me. I'm pretty sure she's standing by her man.😤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:24 PM
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I think simply a high value man is simply a man who really adds something to the lives of other people around him rather than just taking or being absent. I really wouldn't worry about looks if I were you because men really have zero idea about what women want. Just keep clean, healthy and fresh, dress smart. The best tip is wherever you go see how everyone is dressed and just dress slightly smarter than the norm.
/r/askFDS16/06/20 07:36 AM
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Or maybe his mother was completely normal but he's always been super needy and attention seeking so read his mother as being cold because she could never give enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 10:01 PM
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Men use OLD to hook up so don't spend much time looking into who they're dating. They take what they can get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:37 PM
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🚩🚩🚩 Trust your instincts. Your mind knows what this guy is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:14 PM
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I don't know what these men assume guys did 50 years ago when only weirdos viewed porn. Did those guys have a whole spiritual struggle about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:59 PM
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Yep, you will always be able to find a man who'll screw you. Also the sky is blue, just in case you ladies didn't know that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:44 PM
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You can definitely get emotional back pain. You tense your muscles due to stress or repression and it pulls your back out of sync. This guy is obviously clenching in his feelings. The more scared he gets the worse the damage gets. Deal with shit at the time it arises and you save yourself a lot of trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:40 PM
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Or just walking, like men do to their sick wives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:35 PM
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They don't even get it wet in the shower.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 10:09 PM
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Seeing defund the police crowd is saying we can replace police with social workers, teachers and therapists. What do all those professions have in common? Make woman fix their mess. It won't work. You can't make an addict give up their drug, they have to choose to. You can't make men give up their violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:31 PM
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Insecurity. Usually because the husband is not trustworthy. My cousin was like this with her ex and his previous girlfriends. He cheated on her and abandoned her after 7 years as a forever girlfriend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:27 PM
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It's not a sexual orientation. I doubt agree with that. It's nothing to do with objectification either though. You can objectify someone's personality or skills too. I have a friend who went mad over someone because she objectified his intelligence, she felt she wanted a slice of it, and that whole thing went down hill pretty quickly when she got over the objectification phase and realised he was ugly with a terrible personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:43 PM
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No one's saying anything to do with abstinence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:14 PM
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I've literally never fancied someone on looks. I fancy them and then their looks become attractive. I mean there's probably some sub conscious judgement going on because I don't go with super ugly people but I've never looked at a man and thought "I have to have him".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:13 PM
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And this is exactly why you get taken advantage of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:16 PM
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Wouldn't it have been worse if you didn't see that until after you'd married him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:57 PM
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My mum swears that it was because she didn't live with my dad before marriage that it turned it to be a shit show. Men can easily put on a good front to fool you if you don't live with them for at least a couple of months. If a lot can go wrong that's a good thing. It's better to find out before you get married. Those relationships wouldn't have magically worked if you'd not lived with them. You'd just have been trapped. If you don't want to extend the commitment set the date and then move in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 05:55 PM
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Emotional intimacy = soul sucking and free therapy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:57 AM
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Not much different to AGPs enjoying sex with men for the validation alone. Please, please tell me I'm a worthy person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 10:42 AM
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Frankly it's funny women buy this lad act. The husband obviously isn't threatened by this big dick guy in any way at all. He can tell he's a joke and a weakling. That's probably why he feels sorry for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 09:26 AM
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LPT: don't use r/itsafetish as a dating app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:50 PM
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"someone's son" Bad women. Don't you know you are supposed to mother and sacrifice your happiness for fully grown adults. She's someone's daughter. I guess that doesn't matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 09:45 PM
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Frankly I think women try so hard to be nice and good that they often won't see the negative consequences of that behaviour unless they actually experience it in their lives or someone close to them. I mean how can being nice and kind and giving be a bad thing? But that's how you create deeply miserable spoilt brats who cause pain for everyone around them. Tough love works but it doesn't make you feel good immediately. It's work with a long term payoff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:56 PM
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Keep it clean and you can be a HVM.
/r/askFDS09/06/20 07:03 PM
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The male version of pramfaced
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 09:01 AM
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You're so much better than women who have seen my style of shit a million times and will call me out on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:42 PM
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Did it seriously never occur to you that you don't fancy him? You went straight to some made up reactive sex drive BS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:40 PM
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I bet people take him up on that offer as well. Too many women have a saviour complex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:23 PM
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That's the trouble with this quote and others saying to cut toxic people out. 50% of the time it's a toxic person saying it as an excuse for their behaviour or to avoid responsibility. For most people isolating yourself is not a good thing and people saying mean things actually drives you to be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 01:26 PM
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One of the reasons is that men will often go out with a beautiful woman to own her as a status symbol so he can show her off to other men even she's not actually his type. Good looking, sociable women are always at risk from this type of man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:25 PM
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Frankly a lot of people never date in the traditional sense, they hangout. I wouldn't worry too much about it. In fact you probably just have less bad habits than many people your age.
/r/askFDS08/06/20 11:52 AM
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A woman who takes care of herself is one who makes sure she's well fed and doesn't put her health at risk by shaving Right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:00 PM
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Yep. They immediately see any critism of culture as racism even though many of them completely believe there is such a thing as rape culture like it's their religion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:51 PM
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You say we need radical feminism for this but you try to have a discussion about this issue on the rad fem subs and they freak out. This just used "yes, all men" as though it's a serious argument when you have complex structural, cultural issues and a whole community supporting the behaviour. You have the wives if these rapists seriously arguing their 40 year old husband was manipulated and seduced by a dumb 13 year old. I even had one American argue that all the white people who covered it up w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:03 PM
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https://unherd.com/thepost/the-british-imitation-of-america-goes-well-beyond-race/ Basically in America it's all about trying to own the Christian right. They have to beat the big baddie, they can't think for themselves outside of that narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 08:01 AM
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I saw a guy who was transitioning say the other day he felt he was going to miss the best dating times for both sexes. He really convinced himself women suddenly started jumping on men after they got to 40 (while of course women only get chatted up in their 20s). Poor guys, that dream life is always just over the horizon. I wonder if this is a common belief. These younger men actually think they can sit back until they're middle aged and life will just happen to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:27 PM
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I have a feeling all their friends are actually his friends. She's been purposefully isolated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 10:00 PM
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She got groomed then picked up by another manipulator who saw she was vulnerable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:58 PM
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This aged like men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:09 PM
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Does anyone have a link to all the named paedos? I keep hearing Clinton, Trump, Prince Andrew over and over but the others are all still being hushed up even though apparently they are also political leaders and powerful people. It's almost as if the big famous names are being used as a distraction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:09 PM
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But they obviously have that same sense of humour. Other ways will suit other couples.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:02 PM
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I'd say "love language" is a far bigger red flag here than someone never having been in love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:00 PM
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I've never known people in relationships do that. If they split costs then one pays for one date and the other pays for the next. If some guy was insisting on splitting the bill every date I'd be eating the steak and lobster to make sure I'm getting my money's worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:56 PM
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Russia also has a higher divorce rate than many western counties so the traditional roles are not even creating stability. It's nearly 70% in Russia while in the UK divorce is at 40%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:43 PM
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As we can see happening in the west, all over reddit, right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:41 PM
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Men: why has my wife stopped having sex with me? Women: I'm not a paedophile, I don't find big babies attractive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:36 PM
17

30 something men who date 20 something women are 'predators'.. and they're normal Fixed it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:09 PM
83

I'll take my stock out now. Sorry I'm cynical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:43 PM
16

Young men at 21 are often VERY immature and have serious commitment issues driven by dating app culture, hookup culture and porn. Men in their 30s and 40s are the same but with worse teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:59 PM
40

I know a few HVM so I don't think they are that rare. They are generally boring, dull, safe people though which is not going to appeal to some women on here looking for an Instagram lifestyle with a Hollywood plot. I think the it's the exciting HVM who is the real rarity. Excitement doesn't come without risk which means probably red flags you aren't acknowledging. There was even a post yesterday where someone was complaining their date didn't know any restaurants unlike their ex who knew all the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:28 PM
3

I'm guessing both these men made themselves so unappealing their SOs went off sex altogether then decided the problem was they just needed a women who liked sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:33 AM
13

If you have a fit of jealously and start calling your SO names you are clearly the arsehole, it's not even a question. It says a lot about how men user the automatic anti women mindset of reddit to fish for validating replies which let them think they can act however they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:29 PM
11

The vast majority of people have empathy. It isn't special. It isn't a solely positive trait. Calling yourself an empath is about as healthy as staying with an arsehole because you believe they are your twin flame. It's pretending you don't have ultimate control over your own feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:01 PM
22

Smugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:34 PM
6

Yep, I had that with my first boyfriend. He thought his ex hit him because she just loved him too much then thought because I didn't hit him I didn't love him. He then became emotionally abusive to try to make me so angry or jealous I'd snap but I never did so he dumped me. I think possible he was undiagnosed ASD, he was non verbal until he was 5 years old, so had trouble reading emotion which made him attracted to people who acted out and constantly paranoid about what people were thinking abou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 05:19 PM
22

Attachment styles I'd just another astrology type label people can attach to themselves after a crappy online test. The truth is attachment type is very flexible and changes through your life. It also responds hugely to environmental and you might have attachment problems with one person but not another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:17 PM
193

"Once it's boiling put your hand in and give it a squeeze"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:51 AM
7

Frankly some of those people will actually appreciate you being outspoken and different to them and then some really won't but there's only one way to find out which is which.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:12 PM
7

Cancelling is one of those things which only work if you believe in it, like voodoo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:37 AM
25

Innocent men get killed while others walk around with 13 felonies just looking for the next one and no one does anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:35 AM
22

Why are men trying to push loyalty as a thing now rather than commitment? I wonder 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:33 AM
26

Sorry but it is in fact quite clear in Islam that if a woman can't get 4 male witnesses to say she was raped then she is by default an adulterer and therefore should be killed. This is 100% a systemic problem in Islam written in the holy text, so can't be challenged, which other religions and cultures don't have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:53 PM
31

If real she was indeed definitely dating down and made a correct assessment, taking the money out of the equation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:35 PM
9

Joan Collins is was saying that Paul Newman used to hold his face in a ice water every morning. It's funny because when actresses do stuff like this they are considered weird and insecure but all the time there's actors, considered to just be naturally good looking, doing the same thing. With the ice he wasn't really fighting aging as such but puffiness, the kind of puffiness which comes from drinking or staying out or night. When I look through my OLD it's that same puffiness which is a real ki…
/r/askFDS28/05/20 12:16 PM
6

Not just you https://hbr.org/2016/06/are-u-s-millennial-men-just-as-sexist-as-their-dads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:42 PM
24

Just want to add that the most terrible thing about these bums is they will also demonize older women right in your face. And if you’re enough of a pickme like I have been, you’re going to join in. They’ll say, “I don’t go for older women, because they’re jaded and cynical.” Men are way bitchier than women. Prove me wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:18 AM
86

Probably because the father lusted after teens too. Men will let horrible things happen to their loved ones to protect all men's sexual rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:55 AM
6

If women stop using OLD then they never have to ask a guy his height. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:24 PM
78

Male rapes are mostly committed by other males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:21 PM
27

I don't like this argument. Men don't get to tell you want to do with your body even if that wax their balls. Would you let Jessica Yaniv tell you what to do with your body? If a man told you to get a particular haircut, on your head, because it turned him on you'd be out the door like a shot. Why is pubic hair better? If anything it's worse because it's even more personal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:49 PM
28

I've said it before but my matches look like a rogues gallery. They look so bad it's enough to turn you off the whole sex completely. Not just ugly, they actually look ill, like they are dying of something. Like they have been enslaved down a mine for 30 years when in fact they have been working in a comfy office for 7. There's no need for this, they can look better. For some reason that doesn't occur to them and they prefer to get less matches then whine about women doing it wrong. If women are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:25 PM
27

What did that other woman do? Exist as another women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:07 PM
49

They are just as scared of being stalked by a man who takes a compliment weirdly as women are. They know what other men are like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 12:06 PM
50

Frankly I'd be fine with marrying a less intelligent man if he could do stuff I can't do. So long as he at least had practical intelligence and wasn't screwing up basic shit all the time and causing trouble. But then I'm an introvert and I can go days without talking, women who need sensible conversation in their lives everyday will have a different perspective. Edit: I guess I feel a couple can work if they complement each other rather than matching.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:32 PM
110

Most western counties with lower ages of consent have extra rule on top of them which means old pervs wouldn't be able to screw children. The low age if consent is to protect teens having relationships with other teens. Spain used to be quoted the example by these paedos as they had an age of consent of 13 (which itself came from them having a culture of arranged/forced marriage). However Spain raised its age of consent to 16 after research showed the vast majority of those sexual relationships …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:32 PM
32

All this tells me is there scale means any women they call a 6 is out of the league of 99% of men. Good to know going forward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:40 PM
37

There are many cultures where all men rape as part of life and it's never fought against by the adult men even if it's every single boy being raped. Funny that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:32 PM
5

And fetish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:14 AM
74

Huge numbers of people had bad childhoods. The vast majority are good people. Many are great inspiring people because they decided to change the world so what happened to them is less likely to happen to someone else. Unfortunately a minority try to make other people deal with their problems. Then you also get many bad people who had great childhoods, they are just so spoilt they think their wants should come before everyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:29 AM
13

Men are far more bitchy than women. Prove me wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:19 AM
125

All men are sluts or wish they could be. They are projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 09:45 PM
1

If you don't want a traditional diamond ring ... get a coloured diamond ring. Get a synthetic one and own De Beers. If you get synthetic sapphires you can basically have any colour in the rainbow. In fact don't even bother waiting to get married they are so cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 07:35 PM
11

Probably not the most PC answer but I'm loving it. It's definitely driven down any productively I had though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:58 AM
20

No one's going to build a shrine to your martyrdom. Stop doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 06:55 AM
31

Most of them are too lazy to be predatory. They are opportunists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:08 PM
24

I've enjoyed all my one night stands but to call them empowering is laughable. Is choosing to eat a whole cheesecake to yourself empowering? That's an enjoyable exercise of personal freedom too. Anyway screw empowering, such a measly word. I want my own power. It don't want to be empowered by anything or anyone else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 11:23 AM
67

Always the dead eyes. 👁👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:35 PM
25

This doesn't work really because no woman is responsible for a man loving her, as any women who's had a stalker will know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 05:29 PM
14

I think more likely it'll be like the autogynephiliacs who pressure their wife to have a kid, fakr breastfeed it once to get off and then ignore the kid for the rest of it's life because screaming babies don't affirm anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:45 PM
18

You need to find someone independent and self sufficient now if you want them to be that in a relationship. The trouble is too many women want to feel needed. They think that makes them safe. They think if a guy needs them they won't cheat or leave. Sorry but with men the penis comes first and survival comes second. Even if he was relying in you for a kidney transplant he would still cheat on you. Men only stay because they want to stay, you can't bribe them into it. So any relationship is alway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:28 AM
6

I'm reading this post and all I can think is "the bar is on the floor". Take this drivel to 2X and harvest the upvotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:05 AM
10

Yep, even psychopaths cry at movies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 09:03 AM
16

Yeah, it's the orgasm which helps not the sex. Natural pain relief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 08:59 AM
10

Sexual arousal lowers disgust dramatically, for both sexes. This is why so many people end up with nasty fetishes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 08:58 AM
9

When he says “you’re gonna end up alone" ... but you're a self assured introvert who fucking loves being alone. Weep guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 07:57 AM
99

When people say what's the point of marriage in the modern world. Even if you don't share any of your property or finances a wedding is the clearest way of saying to everyone "we two are a couple". So many idiots say "but I don't care about other people, our love is between us and we know how we feel about each other". You all know he's caring about other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:47 PM
13

Incels are now calling that "reverse-rape", which is apparently just as bad as rape. https://twitter.com/ObjectUK/status/984157072769024000?s=19 Even wanting to be left alone is considered extreme man hating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:40 PM
11

I'm pretty sure every single one of their mods has XY chromosomes. They kicked the last female mod out for saying that males had an advantage over women in sports. Only delusional opinions allowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:32 PM
13

Yep, hate clicks and going to the comments to furiously argue against the article creates profit for the site. The Guardian has been operating on this model for a decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:24 PM
9

I put £100 on her having some kind of Liz Jones style disordered life and personality disorder so in real life men avoid her like the plague and then she over compensates in her writing. Example of Liz Jones type style behaviour here for those who don't know, https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2056875/Liz-Jones-baby-craving-drove-steal-husbands-sperm-ultimate-deception.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:22 PM
18

Someone posted this page of Helen Lewis's Difficult Women on Twitter and I feel it's relevant. https://imgur.com/a/ON8agDw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 08:02 PM
19

In the UK 50% of teens have suffered violence in relationships, that is higher than any other age group. Younger men are more sexist not less. https://hbr.org/2016/06/are-u-s-millennial-men-just-as-sexist-as-their-dads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:51 PM
67

Why always the constant conflating access to porn with being able to masturbate? Are men really so stupid they don't know the difference?
/r/askFDS10/05/20 09:56 AM
8

Trying to lower the bar in our minds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:43 AM
2

1, ok bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:22 PM
2

No more training wheels after 30. I've been attracted to plenty of guys who had traits I wanted for myself but sadly once I'd leant it the attraction disappeared. You can't build a relationship on that basis, it doesn't last. You need to like the whole man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:48 PM
14

All those men saying women should vet better would be vetted our of the gene pool themselves if women were a tiny but tougher.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 01:40 PM
25

2x need to be put out of its misery. It's supposed to be a place to promote female interests but just makes us look stupid then bans it's own mods for saying men shouldn't compete in women's sports. I'm pretty sure it has majority male mods now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:52 AM
27

Exactly. He should be making her meals to save her time in the evening. What woman wouldn't offer to do that for a man working full time while she was at home? It's not something you should even have to think about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:49 AM
18

Just tell him it must have been his side chick's bad cooking. Because we all know that's going to be going on in situations like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:47 AM
8

Bland
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:46 AM
14

Basically all black men. They don't even have to be Chads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:59 PM
41

Seriously one of the simplest signs someone is really attracted to someone else is they can't keep their hands off them. If you're actually having sex with someone and they don't want to touch you there's something else than physical attraction going on. This is something pickmes might also recognise in their relationships with taking but not giving men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 01:37 PM
4

I'm not due where not liking women selling nudes fits in with a bad side of her. That won't gain approval of men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 08:41 AM
75

She should call up the wife and see if she'd want to co-parent. Better than bringing up a man baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:08 PM
39

It's not great to find out your SO has a secret family, and it's you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 10:06 PM
89

Why give a whole speech about women you hate if you're look to attract women? We all know men don't get approached very often on OLD. It's not like he's fighting off the fatties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:59 PM
30

Especially when research shows the majority were groomed and abused as children. Their ideas about sex are literally coming from paedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:14 PM
24

It's really weird. They must know logically it makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:11 PM
26

Financial abuse. He won't let her have enough to save so she can't leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:25 PM
102

Don't drag other women, even if it's to make your friends feel better. If they vent just let it go and don't affirm. If you don't feed it attention they might start looking for the real problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:48 AM
7

Movies are generally plotted so you have flawed people learning to become better. Mostly they won't have high value people as leads or they'd be no story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:20 PM
15

🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:04 PM
25

She doesn't even seem all that in love. She's just a people pleaser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:03 PM
10

Stephen King endings are the worst. Many are so shit they are worse than IT just by being so dull.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:50 PM
25

I'm assuming really she only likes micro dicks because then she can pretend it's not really happening to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:42 PM
27

Don't ever buy the lie that men are meant to be providers. This is the reality in most countries, even a lot of the West. Women do most of the physical labour and men's main aim is to get a woman worker to keep their house and raise their children while they sit back and relax.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:38 PM
8

This reminds me that in some African counties men really believe witches have stolen their penises even when it's clearly still attached. Something freudian in that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:35 PM
27

They can love themselves very much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:31 PM
6

Just a note, there are whole co-parent meet up sites full of guys like this. https://www.coparents.com/ https://www.coparents.co.uk/ Just ... why not do it the healthy way? Proper sperm donation is not that difficult to access. I think a lot of these people really actually want another partner around for when shit goes down, maybe they even fantasise they'll fall in love, but won't admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:00 PM
20

He is kind, just not a niceguytm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:33 PM
24

He's always had psycho eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:00 AM
3

Frankly the type of man not watching a lot of porn will be a man expending his energy on other stuff and also has found other ways to relax. Those are 2 things to look out for. Once you've found a man simply not bothered that much about porn then you are one step away from him being porn free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 02:05 PM
388

Why not just say "rape".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:42 AM
21

Yep, but also 99% of actually making a prank funny is judging the person you're doing it do and how much shit they can take without it upsetting them. It's the thoughtlessness which is really cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 01:21 PM
2

I suddenly realise why they call them beta men. They are just the test men until the real man comes along. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:54 AM
28

Because women don't date unless they actually want a relationship. Men pretend to look for a relationship when they just want sex. Then the relationship happens and they have to make excuses to get out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:43 AM
10

Did he though. Generally men with secret lives have secret bank accounts and savings too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:40 AM
38

So basically he's larping as a fuckboy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 07:48 AM
82

Bird's custard was invented by a man whose wife was allergic to eggs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:03 PM
6

I'm going to use my psychic powers to reveal what was going through his dad's head. Perv Dad: Me me me me me me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 02:06 PM
30

If he wants revenge for MGTOW being quarantined then he needs to attack the mean old police and prosecutors who keep catching terrorists radicalised but that sub and other MRA subs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:09 AM
18

This are pretty normal feelings after a breakup no matter how attractive/ugly the person is. Most likely she rejected him so now he's obsessed when he didn't care enough in the actual relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 10:24 AM
31

Beards are just another way for men to be competitive with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 07:48 PM
20

I'm pretty sure men are more likely to cheat with someone fatter than their SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:39 PM
33

And it's ugliness almost entirely created through lifestyle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 08:34 PM
18

Just put the whole boyfriend in the washer dryer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:56 PM
9

One thing you could do is start sending more time with each other's families. If you marry someone you get their family thrown into the bargain. If you can't get on with them that's something you need to know.
/r/askFDS07/04/20 01:13 PM
42

Give it 10 years and we'll have most of a generation of women suffering with brain damage and the men who did it to them will be like "those women are so stupid/crazy therefore men are superior." In the UK 65% of women in prisons have brain injuries from abuse already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:45 PM
10

Unless they can guarantee their content is sfw then they should be 18+ only, credit card for proof. There was an effort in the UK to get just porn only sites to do this and they refused. So much for being responsible. Social media sites like reddit could still have under 18 content running along side or restricted access if they wanted but for some reason they want kids to see the adult stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:52 PM
41

This sort of thing makes me wish "believe women" was replaced by "hear women". The issues in modern marriage or sexism existing shouldn't be a surprise to anybody.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:47 PM
20

Cooked tea date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 03:39 PM
273

My feelings here, and I don't think it's a reach, is that he's never had a girlfriend his whole life because he's a creepy weirdo who randomly inserts the image of himself naked into friendly conversations at work just to see people's reactions and judge them (or get off on them).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:37 PM
9

Especially older women, porn has changed a hell of a lot in over the last decade or so.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 11:02 AM
112

My grandparents' marriage lasted because they beat up their kids instead of beating up each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 08:13 AM
10

Yep, their arse itches, they scratch it, then they touch everything. Some have fecel bacteria all over their bodies from this habit. https://www.cambridge-news.co.uk/news/uk-world-news/poo-beard-faecal-bacteria-how-14959212 This is why you should always was your loose fruit and veg when you get home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:49 PM
1

It's pretty common in men. Some actually say wiping your arse is gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:45 PM
4

I have IBS, it's far more common in women than men. If I have to spend 10 minutes wiping that how long I'll spend. I never think, "it just happens nevermind" and stain my underwear or sheets. That's disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:44 PM
3

Just wiping would be a start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:42 PM
2

The trouble is I've seen multiple posts like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:41 PM
9

I'd take them to the small claims court and sue them for the cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:38 PM
11

The trouble is many campaigners can't accept unforeseen consequences (which always happen) so refuse to admit that anything but their outcomes predicted 20 years ago are happening. What educating young children about sexuality means is that in many schools children are being pressured to come up with and stick to a sexuality when they are 11-13, long before many would have any fixed idea. So because they feel nothing much or don't know they are labeling themselves asexual, pansexual, incels or e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 08:24 PM
22

Yeah, this is a quite recent internet meme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 01:49 PM
3

Seriously he's a great guy who would not only do anything for her but anything for anyone needing help. But nobody's perfect. I think he really believed it wouldn't happen to him, this was a few weeks ago before the big rise in cases. At least he stayed at home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:57 AM
1

The main thing is having a strong bone structure which you can then make look a variety of different ways with lighting. This woman has that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 09:55 AM
20

My aunt's husband worships her and is possibly a HVM. Two weeks ago he gave her covid-19 because he wouldn't admit he had anything more than a cold so didn't self isolate, coughed over everything in the house. (Both now doing fine)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 09:32 PM
4

Apparently there was a panic buy on Just for Men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:35 PM
7

More risk adverse, biologically That means sensible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 07:29 PM
14

All that tells me is that these people have no idea how modeling works. I've met plenty of models who are fugly in real life but look great on camera. And we all know most people are the opposite way round.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 01:00 PM
6

Unless they've been groomed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:56 PM
26

If it's just business due to poverty then why do 80% of prostitutes say they were sexually abused as kids? It's nothing to do with desperate, people still make moral choices when they are desperate. These women were taught to associate sexual exploitation with attention and material rewards from a young age and that behaviour just carries over to their attitude to making money. Men are re-abusing already traumatised women and those women are desperately trying to say how wonderful it is because …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:52 PM
57

It's strange how now 99% of men think watching other people have sex is normal when 100 years ago it was considered something only for weirdos and perverts. It's like the ultimate LVM activity, being so low value you stop even trying to having good sex and reprogram your brain to get turned on by watching others do it instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 12:43 PM
3

My cousin was a pro swimmer and she wouldn't go out with other swimmers. The muscles are too hard, no padding, uncomfortable to cuddle. She always went for rugby players.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:50 AM
1

Who said anything about personalities? Stop bullying other women to score points. If you like Muscle Marys you do you. It's a plain fact you're in a minority among women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 11:48 AM
2

J Crew have a 70% off sale every so often and sometimes they send a further 20% of code round to subscribers. Edit: it's also worth looking for brand like J Crew when net a porter have their 70% sale as sometimes they have different things or cheaper prices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 03:00 PM
5

Calvin Klein was a big surprise to me. Their cut is really good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:58 PM
2

As a warm skinned European I love uniqlo. It's a shame though they had a couple of years when they first opened up in Europe where they did really bright and quirky colours as well as their neutrals and muddy tones but they haven't for at least the last 5 years (I check for yellow ultra light down stuff every year) even though bright colours and neons have on trend for most that time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:58 PM
421

Funny how her partner started losing interest in anal pretty much as soon as it stopped hurting her. You hear that a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:43 PM
86

I imagine it could be as pleasurable as taking a really big dump. But you could just eat lentils for the same effect and avoid stds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:42 PM
3

In the past a man showing defined muscles was a sign they were a poor manual worker. No wonder so many women find that look meh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:01 PM
33

What principle do they want you to reject, don't date men you aren't compatible with, don't date arseholes, like yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:20 PM
17

And also don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:17 PM
20

Which is why they're dumb because if they were really good at manipulating they'd just fake apologise and carry on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 01:16 PM
39

In the UK they are banning partners from maternity wards to prevent this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:49 PM
33

Paedos who are attracted to teens age actually more likely to be psychopaths than those attracted to kids. They are more dangerous not less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:39 PM
10

You don't need experience with men, trust me. As for puppy love you can get that at any age. Look at all the old men who start acting like teenagers over younger women. If anything it's to be avoided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 09:34 AM
87

"I'm not attracted to situations which aren't all about me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 06:04 PM
114

Male hegemony. It's just a way off making women feel shit so they stay down. Every time a woman dosen't go for a good job or settles for a crappy man because she has no confidence a man benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:29 AM
61

See also gender non conforming women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:05 AM
40

I think the difference here is she sees the cleaning up as part of the cooking and he doesn't (probably because he's not the one who does it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:53 AM
89

That's actually really bad for the daughter as well, that's the main reason I'd avoid even socialising too much with any guy's kids until some kind of commitment. So many men do this, have a string of women come into their kids lives, act super close like a second mother then disappear and it's terrible. They just don't think. On the other hand on some pickme subs they have regular posts from women crying their boyfriends won't introduce them to their kids because they want to play this move the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:51 AM
7

The thing is that men's want for sex has always been a large part about wanting attention and validation. So now they are all so shit at getting sex or even talking to women they've found easier ways to get those things buy stealing your time via your OLD and SM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:25 AM
13

The human penis is also built like a pump to pull the the last guy's sperm out. There's a correlation in great apes between female sexual availability and male testicle size as well. The more female are free to have sex with who they want the bigger they males testicles are to produce more sperm to flood the last guy's out. So chimps have pretty much a free for all and have huge testicles gorillas have a harem society and small testicles and humans are inbetween the two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 08:13 AM
9

I think a lot of burglars, muggers and other people who commit material/property crimes actually do it for a sexual power kick above their need for money so the first time they find a woman or child they can and get away with it rape they do it. Never think those guys are better than men who get convicted of sex offences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 05:10 PM
11

What's accidental grooming? That's like saying there's such a thing as accidental rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 09:43 PM
8

Most married women in my family would expect their husbands to sacrifice their lives to save the dogs, let alone the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 07:06 PM
15

I think it's pretty normal for the sense of smell to become enhanced during illness just like during pregnancy. So this guys and arsehole and stupid. Her could have worked out it was a side effect rather than taking it personally and having his precious feel hurt. His post is actually a great example how men use psychobabble against sane women. I feel it was her insecurities speaking. It's best to avoid this sort of language, be blunt and stick to facts because it will be used against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:51 AM
13

Her lost his first wife now he's going to push his daughter away too just to make his sex life a little easier. His second wife will have a kid then get fed up with him within 5 years then screw him over for all he's worth. He will die poor and alone ... and still smell like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:40 AM
36

You don't have to imagine it. Guys are out there doing this stuff every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 10:37 AM
11

If he really cared about her why would he be so keen to torture her with his presence. He can't play her anymore and so is now trying to play strangers on the internet. I literally leant nothing about this woman during the entire post. You get more personal info about his flings. She really holds no interest for him except as a challenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:49 PM
11

The easiest way to keep a conversation going is to ask people questions about themselves. Don't worry about not having enough to say, listen. The more you learn from others the more you'll have to say yourself.
/r/askFDS24/03/20 09:33 AM
19

Also "lack of social support". Seriously I just had my my mum shout she'd cut me at a supermarket checkout because I told her to self isolate. This is the reality of female social support, you deal with all the shit and still look after each other. Women don't have strong social support networks because we like each other more. It's because we give social support, a lot of it and that means sometimes we get it in return.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 02:29 PM
26

Just old fashioned midlife crises. Most millennials don't get middle age starts at 35. They think they are different to every other generation somehow. The only change is that previously nearly all of them would have been married with kids at the point they started to regress and want to be teens again but now the many who are perma single have nothing to rebel against and no one to care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 08:34 AM
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The thing is feminism shows that women don't need men. Research shows marriage causes a drop in life expectancy for women. Why should women chase something they don't need and is unhealthy for them? It's up to men to prove to women why they are personally valuable and useful to have around. Even just being a decent human being would be a start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 04:16 PM
6

You're having a midlife crisis, dude. It's not unusual.
/r/askFDS22/03/20 08:30 AM
1

Most dictators have been short guys. Some react real bad.
/r/askFDS21/03/20 08:50 PM
13

Personally I prefer shorter men. It's a personal prefer like anything else. I feel the term manlets refers to an overall whiny, self defeating attitude some short guys have. Even though I'm attracted to short guys I'm at the moment avoiding them because so many are obsessed with and have toxic low self esteem about their height which means in a relationship they need constant reassurance, which is draining, and can lead to bad behaviour such as cheating to feel more attractive.
/r/askFDS20/03/20 09:32 AM
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Yeah, it's not a matter of convincing a woman then you can sit back, do as you like and rely on her trusting you or being in love with you. A HVW will walk if you lie and cheat now or if you lie and cheat in 5 years. Also it might just be she's not in a good mental place to commit or she's just not that into you and there's nothing even a HVM can do about that.
/r/askFDS19/03/20 08:05 PM
6

Read
/r/askFDS19/03/20 09:25 AM
19

Sure. Mums who play candy crush aren't like that. It's just men.
/r/askFDS19/03/20 09:16 AM
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But some things are clearly fast more addictive than others. You have many more alcoholics than spinach addicts. Sensible people avoid the high risk activities and substances.
/r/askFDS19/03/20 09:16 AM
10

Here's the list of those additional illnesses they keep talking about. http://imgur.com/a/kaaAh36 If you don't have one of those you should focus on not spreading the virus rather than not catching it. I've seen someone say you should act as if you are already infected and don't want to pass it on. So you wash your hands before you deal with people or money, not just afterwards etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 08:26 PM
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It's all about winning. When they know they are in the wrong and have no answer they lash out then apologise, the original problem gets forgotten and then they can carry on as before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 08:13 PM
3

Women are attracted to men. They are just attracted with all their senses rather than leering like men. Hell, I even like squeezing their spare tires when lying in bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:47 PM
3

Here's one. https://www.webmd.com/schizophrenia/news/20040802/schizophrenia-linked-flu-during-pregnancy There's loads of different papers on different viruses if you Google it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:05 PM
15

That's what the game is about. Manipulating overly kind women into sleeping with guys like that. The only good thing about it is it gets people in the habit of talking to each other, everything else is vile. Even the PUA clubs eventually become bro meetups where men just have a chat no one is chasing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:14 PM
8

I misread that as "Dick Disappointment Rules" first and thought it was satire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 12:55 PM
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Also viral infections during pregnancy can lead to schizophrenia in the child. Avoid getting pregnant now and women already pregnant need to self isolate. The effects on babies was obvious with zika but we won't know what the full effects of coronavirus are for years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:01 PM
5

I'm pretty sure on the list of things people regret on their death beds losing touch with friends makes an appearance but having relationships doesn't.
/r/askFDS16/03/20 07:50 PM
1

Frankly I think this is what most diaries are, just in a less structured way. Most people don't think diary writers are additionally self concerned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 05:46 PM
24

The thing is once a murderous man has become obsessed with you it's probably already too late. Even if you can get rid of him somehow it's just another woman who's going to suffer. Some say we should focus on stopping men offending with therapy or education but there's no evidence that works, they don't want to be better. The best thing is to lock them up to keep them away from innocent people, this an area where the leftwing is dead wrong and anti-female. Prisons save lives and abusive, violent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:39 PM
15

And western men idolise Japanese women as submissive yet the Japanese government has to bribe them to get married and have kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:30 PM
20

More people he thinks he owns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:19 PM
18

Never trust a skinny chef. Seriously, irl you can set through this guy. And his food is underwhelming at best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 02:16 PM
1

Idk but the opposite seems to be true. It's usually the most feminine women who have an issue with low self esteem and body image. It'll be Stacy crying on the changing room floor that everything looks horrible on her because she's fat while actually fat girls are trying the same stuff on thinking they are killing it. My sister used to be a model and we dread events where she has to dress up because she has a full scale melt down everytime. The funny thing is she is really judgemental of other's…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 10:02 AM
4

Everyone hates photos of themselves but I do give that also diminishes. You get a "that'll do" feeling that's pretty rare otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 09:52 AM
6

Pfft. Who has time in their 20's or even your 30's to worry about being a failure? Those are your hard graft years. If during that time something isn't working out you change direction. Someone *emotionally supporting" you to continue doing something which isn't working out when you still have your whole life ahead of you is a bit dumb and a waste of time for both of you.
/r/askFDS15/03/20 11:13 PM
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I do think there's a hormonal aspect though. I have PCOS and when I let my diet slip I get waves of thinking I'm God's gift when I look in the mirror. It changes your view of fat especially. When you have extra testosterone you see any extra bulk as strength rather than unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:12 PM
12

In the top 20% of males ... by volume
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:09 PM
28

Doritos and mountain dew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:01 PM
4

I know women who started families in their late 40s, so what. Fertility clinics say the split between whether it's the man or woman's fertility which is the problem in whether a couple can conceive is 50/50 up until the menopause. Old men going off with younger women does not cancel out their problems either. https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2019/05/190513081409.htm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:25 PM
57

One "he may be a sadist". You think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:59 PM
16

Younger men are actually more sexist https://hbr.org/2016/06/are-u-s-millennial-men-just-as-sexist-as-their-dads
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:10 PM
23

It drives me crazy that every female character has to supposedly show vulnerability to be likeable. All humans are vulnerable, men only like that fact to be spelled out with women so they don't feel inadequate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:30 PM
8

Amputate the whole man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:53 PM
1

Most likely halfway through the conversation he realised he was in the wrong but would rather his SO and baby be miserable than admit it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:45 PM
3

In the UK it's quite common woman won't breastfeed because they see their breasts as a sexual organ and feel they are abusing their child somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:44 PM
12

I think it's quite believable a religious man could truely believe women and their bodies are evil and corrupting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:36 PM
24

In the Tudor times skinny legged British men used to put fake calves down their stockings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:21 PM
39

Wouldn't work for me. I use it to make inspiration/environment boards for my writing so right now I'd be getting a lot of bronze age pottery and statues of women with their tits out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:16 PM
65

Won't come off without his key ... or bolt cutters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:27 PM
65

Mantrum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:56 PM
84

The myth women like bad boys comes from the fact women don't want needy saps. “A part of why sometimes a woman likes ‘the bad boy,'” Perel counters, “is not because she likes the man to be a predator. But it’s because ‘the bad boy,’ as you described, knows to take care of himself perfectly well, thank you, and so he frees her from having to feel responsible for him, for having to worry about him, from having to experience his anxiety. And because he can let go in his pleasure, it frees her up to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 03:52 PM
4

My question would be does he leave dirty dishes on the counter because he plans to wash then in one go or load the dishwasher or is it because he expects them to disappear and be magically replaced in the cupboard with clean dishes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:42 PM
1

Probably because they are desperate for male attention they make sure they look beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 01:01 PM
20

Men kill each other everyday because some guy looked at them funny but women aren't supposed to react to those aggressive stares at all. Is there any more extreme double standard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:56 AM
9

Deciding you're made for each other while on holiday away from all your real life responsibilities is also a bad move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:55 PM
47

We should farm them for hrt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:30 PM
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In swear men get a male version of PCOS when they eat crap but no doctors care because no one is pushing those guys to breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:45 PM
61

He says he doesn't want to beat around the bush but then ... he does. That phrase in a new red flag. Freudian phrasing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:17 PM
6

Feet aren't a sexual body part either but I know if a man asks for pics of them he's a perv.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:03 AM
3

A smug, shit eating grin with no give back when they get praise is also a bad sign, needy emotional vampire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:23 PM
27

Just remembered that these incels want sex on demand and for rape in marriage to be legalised as a so called traditional value but in most traditional societies men are actually strictly controlled when they can have sex with their wives. In Judaism it's like two weeks of the month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 04:57 PM
24

And then he had an angry wank and cried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 10:14 AM
70

The reverse of this is that women don't love other women enough. They are taught to hate and despise older women and fear becoming them. This means wisdom and progress gets lost each generation. You see this with libfems literally telling older women they disagree with that their opinions don't matter because that will die soon and then the libfems will be able to do whatever they like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 12:18 AM
46

Nevermind vetting him, take the animal to the vet and get him put down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:16 PM
51

Bird's custard was invented because his wife was allergic to eggs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 11:42 AM
5

If he's that much of a mummy's boy now then any woman he marries is going to be mummy no.2.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 04:01 PM
22

Generally when men marry out the parents forgive them, the daughters aren't so lucky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:59 PM
11

Kidults, a 26 year old man can't stick up for himself to his parents, get rid. The beef thing is just nonsense and even if it was a concern she previously ate it and doesn't eat it now. The parents just don't like her, maybe it's racism or maybe they want an innocent village girl they can use as a free maid, and the boyfriend will know that. I also note not a single person in this story gives a shit about that poor woman being shipped over to marry a man in love with someone else. No wonder his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:57 PM
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People need to pay attention to if they aren't chemically compatible. If you don't like each other's smell that's a pretty basic red flag you missed at the beginning and you will never be able to get over it. You can't change your DNA. Most likely she has the same problem with him but ignored it for the sake of being nice and non judgemental but no man is going to ignore it to be nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:37 AM
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I believe research backs you up. Men drop all their standards for a one night stand while women do not. https://www.livescience.com/2678-realities-night-stands-revealed.html This means most women can have their pick if they have casual sex and we all know that the demand is far higher than the supply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 10:34 AM
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Idk, I know a woman who did this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:15 AM
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Is been pointed out on gc that most women on reddit don't have obviously female user names because they know it will cause them to get harassed by random men. However men pretending to be women often do because they want that attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:56 AM
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I don't know about the rest of the world but in the UK being drunk is an aggravating factor not a mitigating one. I you commit crime drunk then you are extra at fault because you should know the effect it has on you. Same with cheating. I mean it's a moot point in the UK because many Brits can't have sex at all unless they have a drink in them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 11:06 PM
4

It certainly happens both ways. I've seen a sex therapist say she thinks it's 50:50 the man or woman complaining about lack of sex so not like the stereotype.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:10 PM
13

Yep, the OP doesn't sound like a provider to me. If they were 99% of mothers would be providers. This is just physical demonstrations of affection. No one is relying on the OP to prevent them going hungry because they are giving their time running her house or bringing up her kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:24 AM
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Keeping LVM away is the main positive value of a period to be fair. Female chimps will literally take the blood off their friend and put it on themselves to get some peace from males. I've been meaning to post about it in the period sub for a while because most women there are depressed about even having periods. Everyone thinks it's only a negative thing but if you were living in a group with a hundred horny men 24/7 like our ancestors did then 5 days when you had a good reason to avoid them al…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:27 PM
3

Small dog/napoleon syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 03:47 PM
34

Violence always escalates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:17 AM
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Can he actually cut her out. As a wife of 30 years she should be entitled to half of everything under the law. He can only cut her out of his half.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 10:13 AM
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They also want relationship benefits without offering anything. They to drain you emotionally like a vampire. They probably have no human touch in their lives except what they get from chasing women on OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 09:42 AM
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Probably the same one who's deleting women scientists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:44 AM
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It's for men who want to do nothing then moan about the consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:36 AM
11

Personally I prefer shorter men but I avoid them because so many have a complex about it. I'm thinking of only dating short men from short arse countries where they grow up as normal and don't have this obsession.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 11:16 PM
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The thing is that the rich never used to work these hours. The trouble was they couldn't justify their position in society so the created the narrative that they were at the top because they were smarter and worked harder than everyone else. They first did this by calling the poor stupid and lazy but they got their bluff called by the middle classes and they now have to work themselves to death just to keep the facade up. https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2019/09/meritocracys-miserabl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:43 PM
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Personally I think if you don't have time to find a relationship you don't have enough time to give to a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:14 PM
13

Rigg’s friends call her “the man whisperer”. Perhaps because she’s very close in age to her brother, perhaps because she spent sixth form at the smart boys’ boarding school Cheltenham College — “Needless to say, I got to understand the male psyche pretty well.” About 60 per cent of her clients have been married before. And she only deals with men who are serious about finding a new relationship. “If someone wants to meet a different woman every night, that is not going to happen through me. That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:13 PM
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In her discreet office in Mayfair, London, Olivia Rigg is explaining how she gets the measure of her male clients. Has an interior decorator done their home? (“You can always tell.”) Do they have photos of family on the wall? How gracious are they to waiters? How do they behave on the tennis court? Rigg calls herself a “consultant”; wealthy men hire her to find them a girlfriend or wife. She charges £20,000 for six months. It’s not uncommon for her to be offered a million-pound “success fee” if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:12 PM
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I'm pretty sure I just have abby new posts pop up in my timeline so whether they are upvoted or not doesn't effect if I set them. It would be a shame if we lost the memes as I think they are some of the best. Maybe set up a trollFDS sub and send that content there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:42 PM
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My mum says "love is just the excuse people use when they have run out of all other excuses for their bad behaviour."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:40 PM
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I don't know. Posted something unpopular I guess. I often post with humour and expect people to get it but there are no such assurances on the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:38 PM
7

Currently reading Superbetter which is a book about how to use game dynamics to improve yourself. If only some of these whining gamers would put together a game which made men high value rather than bothering women they could actually get a good relationship and get rich at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:32 PM
45

It's been shown that men think a meeting is 50:50 men and women when it's only 75:25. Anything over that and they think there are too many women. Men literally want to see less women in their world. This is the same in the arts. Even in plays, shows and films which are targeted at women the complete cast will usually be 75:25 - 70:30, the extras will also be in the same ratio. This happens partly, again, because if the ratio gets get more equal than that the men in charge will feel there are too…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:14 PM
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"But I'm in love, I can't help that."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:54 PM
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Going out with a married man is to having a real relationship what babysitting for a couple of hours a week is to being a mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 07:52 PM
7

3 very important things. Without the first we'd starve. Without the second we'd die of infection. Without the third we'd never have been born in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:24 PM
5

There's a really good series (so far) going out in the UK on ITV this week called Flesh and Blood. The main plot is all about whether the mother of the family is going out with a real HVM or a LVM who is a con artist trying to kill her for her money. In the sub plots one daughter is a pick me who thinks she's in love with a LVM cheating husband who is leading her on while the other is maybe married to a HVM but the relationship is in trouble. Then the brother is a LVM who has spent all his famil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:21 PM
7

This is it. When rich men marry poor women they expect them to be 100% faithful and mostly they are. Rich women can't expect the same respect from poor men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 05:05 PM
5

You can complain to the shops and manufacturers. Marks and Spencer's were selling a Pornstar Martini and feminist groups got them to change the name to passionfruit martini. I think they did a lot over social media too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:57 PM
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Men are like cats in that respect. They find the person who hates cats and then try to sit on their face (this comparison might need some work).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:15 PM
6

I think it's actually really rare for women to like built guys. I've even known pro sports women who've told me they would never date a guy in their sport purely for body reasons. They want someone they can rest their head on without knocking themselves out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:12 PM
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The human male is a hunter just like a pomeranian is a wolf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:53 PM
11

When unofficial you should only be so loyal that you wouldn't kill them at a wedding after they've taken food and drink from the hosts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 03:27 PM
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Pornstar is a pretty wide range. What if they mean Ron Jeremy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:58 PM
21

Oh no, it's all just percentages and risks, it doesn't say one particular relationship will work just because of the races involved. I came across a few other articles though which say that black women outnumber black men so if black women will only date black men they are setting themselves up to be competing for a man. This maybe also has the effect of spoiling black men who know they will have a pool of pick-mes waiting for them as soon as any relationship hits trouble. The problem is a lot o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 05:06 PM
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That's funny. Black women and white men have the lowest divorce rates out of any ethnic pairings. Black women have a lot going for them when it comes to keeping a relationship going even if it might be harder to find that good relationship to being with. Don't believe the anti-hype. https://www.discovermagazine.com/the-sciences/interracial-divorce-the-matrix-of-sex-and-race
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:40 PM
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The class dynamics in The Devil Wears Prada are also horrible. Working hard for a living and doing your job well is bad but loafing around doing self-mastabatory artistic stuff (which almost always has to be funded by someone else) is good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:15 PM
20

The trouble is most screenwriters are LVM so that is the kind of movie we'd get. Someone once said "writing a screenplay is the middle class version of playing the lottery" which is true. People work crappy jobs and see their script getting made as their way to win a millionaire lifestyle rather than seeing it as a career with commitments, working hours and skills you need to learn. LVM are exactly the kind of person attracted by this dream and on top of that they get to give their lead characte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:10 PM
10

You'll like Uncut Gems for the ending then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:02 PM
12

I reading a post by a dominatrix that she found it really hard to get a guy who would just clean the house and not be constantly needy. She usually had a live in slave all the time but had to root through thousands of thirsty, creepy and weird applications to find him. Those men always like the idea of being submissive but in practice it's just something else they can't keep up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 02:11 PM
7

(In his pics)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:28 PM
1

Maybe he means blankets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:23 PM
17

This is no good for me, I eat my trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:01 PM
2

The thing is that even if you have different standards why get pissy about someone stating theirs? If your Nigel is a HVM but doesn't measure up to other women's standards that's a great thing because you have less husband chasing pick mes to worry about. It's because women are so scared about managing the male ego. They know if their LVM gets butthurt over something they read on social media it's them who is going to get the brunt if their sulking and anger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:35 PM
2

This is so dumb because if you were going to buy one of those sandwiches you'd obviously pick the one on the left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:51 AM
44

"Vaginas are gross, I can't put my fingers or mouth there but I am desperate to stick my most precious body part, my dick, in there as often as possible."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:22 PM
142

How is fingering demeaning? Because you are doing something for a woman rather than just using her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:19 PM
11

My old boss divorced her abusive husband thinking she could make a clean break. No way, he was getting disability and insurance payments in every month much higher than her salary (parasitic lifestyle) but that didn't count. So she ended up working herself into ill health paying him alimony for a decade on top of all the money he had. Then of course as soon as her payments stopped he immediately made a miraculous recovery and got a job and a new wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:17 PM
8

In certain countries it's sensible to get any live in SO to sign a renter's contract so he can't say he paid towards the mortgage or bills and so is entitled to a share.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:12 PM
18

Parents can't stop kids seeing porn once one single kid in their school has an unblocked phone. I wonder if in the future the only way to control it will be to give criminal charges to adults who take the parent locks of tech, like we charge adults who buy alcohol for kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 11:00 PM
76

Literally even the girls in porn gag and cry. Men get off on them not liking it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:57 PM
19

"My husband and I have two children under 8. For the first two years of their lives they woke up often in the night to feed or nightmares etc. I tended to 99.9% of every nighttime waking. During those back to back years of terrible sleep- I would ask to sleep in on the weekend. Without fail he would not set an alarm, the kids would end up waking me. I couldn’t go back to sleep as they are loud. I would ask “please set an alarm and take them OUT of the house so I can sleep.” He never did. And I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:52 PM
6

I think the talking about niche interests thing is also a bit weird. If you want to have a conversation with someone you put some effort into including them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:19 PM
17

Image from r/natureislit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:13 PM
25

Ben Affleck is one of the few male actors where I know people who actively will avoid watching a movie if he is in it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 04:07 PM
82

She even admitted she'd been groomed into it by one partner and couldn't make it work with anyone else. People are looking to justify not dealing with their mental shit by declaring it's just a personal preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:56 AM
9

Yeah that's pretty much what most flashers look like. That's pretty much what most men in Hull look like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:04 PM
9

Amy Winehouse's favourite song was He Hit Me and it Felt Like a Kiss by The Crystals, nuff said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:38 PM
17

Sounds more like what one of those cat girls want. Just add doritos and mountain dew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:12 PM
24

One sign you partner is sexually coercive. They have a penis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 02:15 PM
7

https://www.reddit.com/r/PinkpillFeminism/comments/f6qe1y/yep/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:31 AM
5

It has always been like this unfortunately. These murders happen somewhere every week. They are getting more publicity now because there's been a big reaction against the reporting style.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:29 AM
14

"up to a third of the weight of your pillow could be made up of bugs, dead skin and house dust mites and their feces."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:39 PM
17

This is less like throwing a property away and more like flushing a big scab he's left on the bed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 11:36 PM
7

The main thing to avoid getting with a guy like this is to walk out away the first sign of any controlling behaviour. The trouble is many abusers are smart enough to hide that at the beginning of the relationship so you have to over react at those little things and be prepared to walk at any time. No man with an external locus of control is safe to be around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:08 PM
15

r/itsafetish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:53 PM
34

I've actually seen quite a few women saying they use FDS to find a relationship but will still have one night stands because they know nothing will come off them. The problem is women having casual sex and believing a man will eventually fall in love with them and it will turn into a beautiful relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:51 PM
21

It's been pointed out on other subs that it's quite common for transmen to actually start their posts with "Err," or "Umm," because their female socialisation is still stopping then from just coming out with what they have to say, even online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:12 PM
42

Don't stand for any controlling behaviour. Don't kid yourself it's sweet, don't kid yourself it's because he cares about you. It only means he has an external locus of control and will therefore not control or take responsibility for his own actions but does expect to control yours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:40 PM
39

I've seen some kids on reddit saying they gave a kissing fetish because they want to kiss but so many young people don't now. They don't see it in porn so they don't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:13 AM
7

Quite a lot of people have internalised class based self esteem issues as well. Steer clear of them as they will will always try to drag you down to what they think is your appropriate place. No one needs to be humble and worthy to be a good person. Many humble people are arseholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 10:32 AM
2

My point is that he's just playing a game. A proposal is literally just two people planning to get married. It's nothing more than that. If he says he wants to get married but hasn't proposed he's just stringing you along because one thing shows the other isn't true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:10 AM
48

They are always highly controlling. They think their family belongs to them and they don't have a right to a life without them. Sometimes they can't even comprehend their SO and kids have a life independent of them when they aren't around and if they did that would make them even worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:35 PM
55

The day after valentine's day was also a pick me massacre on Reddit. Next year, February 15th, we'll have to have an eye bleach posting day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 11:21 PM
30

I don't know why engagement is seen as such a big deal. Maybe because that's the most commitment many have had nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:27 PM
18

Funny that in my mum's generation where most people are pretty comfortable in their housing and financing no one ever moves in with their new SO. Even when they marry. If you aren't planning to have kids then why sacrifice your own space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 07:25 PM
27

These guys are always highly controlling even if they aren't abusive. It's criminal the media and people who support these guys cover that up so people don't know what warning signs to look out for and people continue to die.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:27 PM
9

She threw the wrong thing away though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:59 PM
4

Some one posted something on this sub a couple of days ago ago the lines of "relationships with women are actually harder day to day but it's far easier to find someone who's just a decent human being that washes."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:54 PM
43

More women having standards will help all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:16 PM
0

I work in accounts. The hands down best way to grow your career in accounts is to move jobs and companies every couple of years. You will get nowhere sitting in a corporate office waiting for them to deem to promote you, getting a 3% raise every year if you are lucky. Especially in accounts where you often have a team of 5-10 people to one supervisor, all of whom will want their chance to move up before you. Anyone can do basic accounts admit, you definitely don't need a degree in it, you won't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:49 AM
9

Nice guy in the Daily Mail today ... set his kids on fire But he was a great dad, honest. (Family annihilators always turn out to be controlling in relationships no matter how cute they look in family pics or how much of a fun mate they were)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 10:23 AM
16

Someone on GC posted stats that for university educated women divorce rates in the west were only 20%. The figures are screwed because you have a few people who get married 4 or 5 times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:50 AM
22

I'm pretty sure that's how 1984 starts and it doesn't work out well. I mean if you want a rat cage on the face go for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:14 PM
1

No, but no weight lose had been proven to be yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:37 PM
2

Frankly I think it would be a pretty normal reaction to miss your friend who's suddenly with a guy all the time, not necessarily toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 03:35 PM
6

At least narcissists engage with their kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:59 PM
43

The thing is this is a very middle class traditional family. For 90% of people 100 years ago men had to help out in the house and women had to do some paid work (and the kids worked to) to survive. Only the rich men could sit back and do nothing but then the wife would also have help from servants. The idea ordinary women could do all the housework alone only really came in in the 1950s with labour saving tech. It's not traditional, it relies on modern tech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:31 AM
10

Install a squatting toilet and see how long he lingers then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:10 PM
22

Sounds like a great relationship. They've been seeing each other since high school. That's commitment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:26 PM
37

I'm sure they had a great time, plenty to laugh and joke about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 07:24 PM
121

don't use FDS, it's evil. Just find a teen with low self esteem and manipulate them like I did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 01:03 PM
15

I don't know how it is in the US but in the UK there is a big cultural difference between how much black guys look after themselves compared to other men which part of the reason they get chased.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:57 AM
12

But but but they are also nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 08:31 AM
20

I believe the police station has a whole team of people who could reach out to this scumbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:39 PM
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Funnily this is a very western thing. In most developing countries even though there's misogyny men are used to single sex spaces and mostly just ignore them. I think is because western men are used to being centred and praised for doing basic stuff in mixed sex spaces all the way through school. Teachers even admit to using girls to control the boys in their classes. Men then see women as their cheerleaders and supporting actresses rather than people who have separate lives, much of which which…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 07:04 PM
171

"Just lucky I guess"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 06:56 PM
13

If a man tells me I'm really interesting I see that as a red flag because I'm not dating to provide entertainment and no one is interesting after you've known them a few years, no one. Those things you find quirky while dating become irritating in a relationship. If interesting or entertaining is the main lure it won't last. I assume that works the other way. I mean personally I couldn't be with someone with a small world view or small mind. That's not necessarily boring, it's a compatibility is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 04:40 PM
20

Whining. Seriously you don't need to be a mind reader to know a man is insecure, they go on and on and on about it via the medium of moaning about minor shit they should ignore. In the 00s it was even super common for seemingly sane guys just to randomly come out in conversation they were insecure about something just because they didn't like it. Such as "I don't like girls with long hair, it makes me feel insecure." Lady boner killer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:11 PM
52

You can always tell when guys have a problem with their height ... because they never shut up about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 03:06 PM
14

Yep. Women become attracted to more masculine men when they are fertile. It's about getting the good genes. This is why the pill can be dangerous. It can make women attracted to men who they would otherwise avoid. https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/intimately-connected/201901/do-contraceptive-pills-affect-attraction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 02:49 PM
8

50% of rapists don't ejaculate during their raping either. Are we're supposed to feel sorry for them too. There are a hell of a lot of men out there who don't care about sensual pleasure, you can tell by how bad they are in bed. They get a kick out of power and ego instead. That's their choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:29 AM
11

In ancient Greece they sometimes referred to love as aphrodite's disease and there was a particular river you could bathe in to get rid of it as though love was a lice infection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:22 AM
50

https://hbr.org/2016/06/are-u-s-millennial-men-just-as-sexist-as-their-dads More accepting of sexism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:17 AM
38

Also if you look at women who were declared the most beautiful at that time not one seems remotely attractive now but they were all very rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:12 AM
5

It might be he's fussy or has intolerances and is embarrassed by it. A lot of people don't want to be that person making a fuss in public. It can be tough finding things you can eat sometimes. I'm more likely to strop than not eat though. Did you check he has teeth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:47 PM
16

Just realised my cousin's a valentine's day baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 08:09 PM
30

When they swab men's hair they usually find faecal bacteria because they scratch their arses then scratch their heads. Men are great for building a strong immune system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:23 PM
21

1950 came around again quick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:09 PM
7

Have you seen Jim & Andy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 12:37 PM
2

No, thinking that will protect you from making the same mistakes. It's a good thing. She's so stupid, it seems like the relationship has stopped her maturing as a person. She is stuck as a confused 25 year old but in her 40s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:20 AM
3

I find therapy in these cases never leads to anything good. They just learn to blame their behaviour on others. Sit talking for years about how misunderstood they are. I've seen my mum's pick-me cousin at 50 turn to her mum at 70 and say "my therapist says all my problems with men are down to you." as if she hadn't had decades to work her own shit out. What she needs is to admit to herself she has wasted her time and energy for 20 years and cut her loses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 09:16 AM
16

The thing is they do have at least a little self esteem because they think they are better than the man's wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:28 PM
14

I showed the article to my mum and she told me she had a friend do almost exactly the same thing and it basically ruined her whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:27 PM
38

They acted like they could no longer masturbate without porn. Which is particularly dumb because men spend far longer searching for the right video than actually masturbating when watching porn. It's fast more efficient at getting advertising messages into men's brains than getting them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:17 PM
17

Nipples are made for things to come out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:11 PM
2

Best not to even think about the spell casting market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:53 PM
9

And twin flame is the same as a soulmate, but you both hate each other. 🤦‍♀️ How romantic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:52 PM
12

She's desperate. Men can smell that a mile off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:41 PM
8

I can't look at my OLD updates anymore. They look like a rogue's gallery. I don't know whether I'm getting a message from match or interpol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:24 PM
6

The thing is they know they don't get matches. They moan about it all the time. But why don't they improve their profiles? I'm surprised there isn't a big business selling that kind of service to men because they clearly need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:21 PM
4

Men wank, more news at 11.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 12:03 AM
77

This is exactly it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:50 PM
179

Reverse cowgirl is the most efficient way to break a dick. It's a crap position which means he's looking at your back and you're looking at his feet, no fun for either, but it's in porn a lot so men want to do it. I guess if the dick snaps it snaps.🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:49 PM
24

This is more a case of the grass is always greener. Most single men aren't getting laid all the time. Most are desperate to get into a relationship. You never see men writing about their happy single lives. Young people now are having less sex than ever even though we are all liberated because most people are much more socially isolated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 08:40 PM
3

I know, I assume I'm already a carrier. I thought that was clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 06:37 PM
8

My whole family has cold sores regularly but I've never had one in my life so I have to assume I just have lucky genes which stop me getting symptoms. So I'm not worried about oral herpes but that makes genital herpes seem like a much bigger threat for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:34 PM
31

I nearly had a co worker die at work due to sea food allergy. This isn't funny to me, I would leave that guy. She wasted a whole year of her life on him. I feel that people confuse food intolerances which just give you the shits or make you feel crap (yes, I do have these myself) with these really bad allergies which can make you go from OK to dead in 15 minutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:13 PM
11

Up to 5% of men are paedophiles (will abuse minors given the chance rather than the psychological jargon definition) while only up to 3% of men are gay and 2% AGP. So there are likely more male paedos than gay men or trans women. Think how large LGBT are as a group and their influence on our society then realise there's a group just as large having a similar size unseen influence. No wonder they gave so much protection on twitter, reddit and discord. No wonder such a large number of nice guys wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:24 PM
13

I remember one day time tv talk show did an episode about men sulking and one guy sulked and didn't speak to his wife for 3 years. They asked her how she knew he was sulking and there wasn't something seriously wrong and she said a couple of days in he actually spoke to her and said "by the way I'm sulking over such and such, just so you know." God bless her she just ignored it, took the piss and got in with her life around him but it's fucking evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 11:53 PM
10

To be fair once you know what to look for they are easier to find. I have two cousins who have managed to settle down with guys really similar to my HVM uncle after going through a bad boy stage. The main problem is these guys often come across as a bit boring when you meet them even though they are smart and obviously they aren't much of a challenge because you don't have to chase them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:11 PM
19

Maybe he's testing just how much she'll put up with so he can do even worse stuff to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:06 PM
3

Well men still have their main pillar of the patriarchy, violence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:04 PM
3

And cooks, cleans and does emotional labour. She's his second mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 07:00 PM
3

Just to prove you don't have to have sex to be in a serious relationship with a man, get used and be fucked over by him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:59 PM
6

A lot of genetic problems are recessive genes so you can have one bad copy and the other healthy gene from your other parent will override it. This is why inbreeding causes problems, because you are more likely to get bad genes from both sides. So in theory a younger person will have fewer mutations so fix the the problems the older person has. However this likely doesn't apply to using gametes from different ages in fertility treatment because males and females get different damage to their gam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:55 PM
7

Older fathers are more likely to have psychopath kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:39 PM
4

I have a close extended family on my mum's side and I love it. We all live within a 3 mile radius of each other and meet up at least once a week. I do think nuclear families can be pressure cookers from a child's perspective and having grandparents and aunts you can run to when you fall out with your parents is a real lifeline. In some countries you can literally just go outside and hang when you have issues at home but in a cold and rainy country you need other houses you can go to. From an adu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 06:30 PM
15

I'm in the minority here but I do actually know a few women who have done well in marriage over decades. In all cases the husbands still absolutely worship them but are also very practical men. I mean my uncle is one and he not only does anything my aunt asks, still takes on on holidays as a surprise, let her retire from her part time job by working a few more years himself but if I need any help he'll also come out and help me and any other member of my aunt's extended family. He's been to my r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:56 PM
29

It's just easier than actually dealing with their problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 05:24 PM
3

He probably had death grip developing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:24 PM
21

Yeah, I was going to say, not anymore. Men have actually managed to screw up one of the main pillars of the patriarchy by hating women so much. Now women have their choice of men in most places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:10 PM
19

Like those endless moans about how women should give men complements because it's so rare. It's always some girl said I had a nice shirt 20 years ago and I still think of it never a women said I had a nice shirt 20 years ago so I took her out to dinner and we're still happily married They drain your emotional resources, are very grateful, then fuck off to drain the next mug.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 04:05 PM
28

Half of them are 14 and see a whole lifetime of hitting women ahead of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:55 PM
91

If a man's idea of fun is going to see poor women naked as through they are animals in the zoo he probably isn't the one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:53 PM
122

Cheating men are only honest when they get fed up dealing with their guilt so they off load it on to you to deal with instead. He basically tells her as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:50 PM
11

If your relationship is low vibrational you need new batteries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:45 PM
61

Furry porn is obviously designed to groom kids. The scene is full of paedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 01:49 PM
13

Yep, these guys always make the same mistake and end up alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:31 PM
15

If he wants the virtual girlfriend experience surely there's an app for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:33 PM
34

They've always been that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:31 PM
106

The thing is he probably never really considered your friend before you gave him a chance. Then his ego went through the roof because one woman liked him, he decided he was God's gift and could get all the ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:28 PM
133

The independent scene is even worse than Hollywood. That's where Weinstein built his power and not one person in that set called him out. They cock worship bullies and make shit films they have to drag even their mothers to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 11:21 PM
10

A manipulative man is better at propaganda than Hitler G.L. Lambert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:57 AM
19

Not just that. Ha has real power in the industry. He can make careers. He can keep them on the books when other people might move onto the next, younger thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:34 AM
18

Well I don't think domestic violence is ever ok, that's why you get your sister to take care of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:32 AM
5

She's actually extremely under reacting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:16 PM
13

r/itsafetish crossover episode
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:12 PM
4

I actually read a good book about writing romance novels which takes writers to task about such things. She tells stories of wannabe writers confused why they can't get published and she tells them "you just have the guy be horrible to her all the way through and then they fall in love" and they're like "but that's what a romance novel is". It was The Straightforward Guide to Writing Romantic Fiction by Kate Walker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:43 PM
7

The classical romance novels work because the hero appears bad at the beginning but then is secretly good. The modern novels he appears bad at the beginning and he is bad but it's all because he's been hurt, poor dear, and needs to be healed by twu wuw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:39 PM
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The trouble is the modern ones are all about women meeting arseholes and curing them through the power of being nice. Austen and the Brontes were much tougher and smarter. Jane Eyre straight up walks out and tells him where to stick his polycule ideas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:21 PM
6

What does she mean she's a "stickler for detail"? Does she have their lives on a schedule or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:46 PM
7

To me him asking that counts as a proposal. She should just set the date and tell him to be there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:22 PM
12

Being a loner in the kitchen is normal, you have your own rhythm. That's why one person cooks one day, the other the next. If you just have the man help out while you cook then they always going to act as your sous chef following orders rather than doing something for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:20 PM
27

This is why such men think women can only make sandwiches, that's all they get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:15 PM
58

Men want women to communicate so they can apologise and then carry on doing exactly the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:10 PM
38

These communication experts don't seem to realise talking isn't the only form of communication. Throwing his dinner out the window could also be an effective way of showing him her feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 06:07 PM
7

Her kid will be one of those secret babies and his other kids will only find out they have a half sibling when they are all adults, if at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:46 PM
5

He's compartmentalised her and his family. The box she's in is the fun girl box, which doesn't include a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:42 PM
16

That's it, ask a member of the sex who can't even dress themselves what you should wear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:36 PM
2

Well he's got nothing going for him so putting other people down is his only way to feel good about himself. Edit: he's probably dumped that girl because he can't have respect for anyone who'd put up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 01:30 PM
24

He wants a biscotti too? I'm strictly a 3 dates before baked goods girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:36 PM
8

r/suddenlyessexboy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:35 PM
10

It they're that bad why would you want to date them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:46 AM
1

Buying illegal drugs hurts a lot of people. There's no fair trade cocaine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:22 AM
15

Burger King don't pay enough for regular infills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:25 AM
3

What was he in prison for? Don't the people he hurt and scared matter at all?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:24 AM
27

At the feminist conference I went to they said men look up to older, successful men and want to become them. Men don't think they hit the wall because they themselves love older men and their image. Young women are told they are better than older women and should despise them even if they have done wonderful things or are wildly successful. They don't want to become those older women, they fear it and try to remake womanhood from scratch. This means they don't listen to the people who can help t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:30 PM
17

I think it's a pretty common fear at the moment but attraction to little girls really isn't a majority male trait. But remember paedophilia is a paraphilia like agp so men can learn it or be groomed into it online so you need to strict with your SOs about porn usage and mindlessly agreeing with random men they chat with on the manosphere about dodgy stuff which might be the thin end of the wedge. Also kids are far more likely to be abused or killed by step dads than their biological dad so there…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 10:15 PM
22

I just read an article which said "women today prefer the sexual power of Pamela Anderson to the purity of Pamela Andrews". I thought "what countries is Pamela Anderson running now?" Most men think she an idiot and a joke because she's good looking. She constantly suffers from stalkers and crazy guys coming after her. What power does she have from femininity? A women considered the most beautiful, most sexy in the world. She had nothing but trouble.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:44 PM
25

Kissing is considered a fetish among young men now but slapping, strangling and spitting is normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:01 PM
10

LVM aren't always gross, many are highly charismatic, good looking and manipulative. If people don't even realise this basic fact they need to shut up about their Nigel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:29 PM
5

I'm a woman and when I've had one night stands I wanted to kick them out the front door the next morning and never look at them again but the guys were always clingy. I think there's a certain kind of respect you lose for a man when you've seen them in their most animal state and so you need to build up some different kinds of respect for them before you sleep with them to avoid the good feelings disappearing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:58 PM
7

Or "so how are you going go prove to me you're trustworthy?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:50 PM
17

You have to know the place. There's a difference between a heavy driving pick up point and a place where groups of friends go to hang out and chat or where business people go to relax before an early night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 03:08 PM
9

My sister doesn't believe in marriage (purely because she's the highest earner and has her own house, she's very cynical) and she's doing very well in her long term relationship. I think making sure you still date and have both time apart or at least not focused on each other and special time with just the 2 of you is very important. She is very strict about him supporting her, she does that kind of thing without thinking so he never has to remind her. He still often surprises her with how much …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:26 PM
14

Men can also switch form HVM to LVM and vise versa if the situation changes so you need to see them in different environments. No man has to be low value, they choose to be because it's easy. One good thing about FDS is it encourages all men to act better so the more women who use it the more HVM there are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:32 AM
24

People need to earn a praise post. 5 normal, female focused comments before you can go on about how wonderful your Nigel is (which of course is a sneaky way of saying how smart you are for finding him). Oxytocin is a drug, and often not a positive one. It creates living bonds but it also keeps women in toxic and abusive relationships. It also makes women more competitive and jealous for their SO or kids. This means when you are in love you want to show your SO off and tell everyone he's better t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:27 AM
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I was at a talk about women's issues in the factual media and one of the speakers was a single mum so interested in those stories particularly. She said it was really noticeable that campaigning, lefty, goodguy men loved writing and making documentaries about poverty (poverty porn), benefits and food banks but not one of them would talk about child support or men sleeping around and not paying for their kids which actually created a lot of those problems in the first place. The government, that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 11:00 AM
41

Basically, don't compete, let the man come to you. This would work...if you were a naturally beautiful female. Unfortunately most women are not this and definitely not for very long. Doesn't mean they aren't attractive or have good qualities, they just have to work at it, same as all men have to work at it to get female attention. Haha, they really have not only no idea about women but no idea about other men either. Or maybe it's a reddit thing, these guys sit indoors all day online and never v…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 09:07 AM
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Is he neurotypical? I've known a few autistic men come out with stuff like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:54 AM
21

Never house share with a couple because they will always pull you into their pretty arguments and then gang up on you rather than sort out the tiniest problem you have with either of them. If you bed share with a couple that's the same but 10 times worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:25 AM
7

That's the thing with social mobility, some people have to move down so talented poor people can move up. Middle class under-achievers are just calling their trailers a lifestyle choice now to sooth their egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:21 AM
15

There are even some who will even spend all day calling him out and screaming and crying about their feelings but they still stick around and put up with it so he won't ever change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 12:05 AM
20

Men's fun kills them. Stupid accidents, bad driving, bar fights, drink, drugs and crap food. They just want to offload their conscious on to a woman like you're Jiminy Cricket. Don't do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:42 PM
5

This is just beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 11:32 PM
44

We don't need to know these pronouns. We know all these guys think about is me/me/me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:49 PM
10

If you look up the definition of twin flame on new age websites it's basically like finding a soul mate but you hate each other and row all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:40 PM
8

There was research done which showed that people are always less happy after they have kids unless they are over 40 when they become a parent. Also 50% of the time a women can't conceive it's the man's fault so finding a younger, healthy man will up your chances considerably.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:38 PM
16

Most probably a transbian. A straight dude with autogynephilia. No wonder he is so butthurt about people being mean to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:32 PM
1

Wait, men have their own thoughts, feelings and emotions? Who knew?🤔🤔🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:30 PM
21

This is indecent exposure. They should get criminal records and put on the sex offenders register for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:26 PM
4

Research in the UK showed most homeless men end up on the street after a relationship breakdown, not job loss, home loss or addiction. There are literally thousands of men living off women with no job or property who are destitute as soon as she kicks him out. The only way they survive is to jump on to the next free ride as quickly as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:13 PM
1

Everyone's got different standards though, that's the problem. The loudest people will do the most calling out, not the smartest or nicest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:09 PM
2

Most men just blow up like a balloon with stick arms and legs when they get fat but some literally get boobs and wide hips.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 03:06 PM
130

Like, not even love.🙃 I like dogs but I still make them shit outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:57 AM
9

What's this nonsense about world governments or sanctions. Developing countries are improving their bottom line all the time. Thailand has mandated education up to 16 which alone has drastically cut child prostitution, not due to education but just giving kids something else to do and keeping an eye on them. Don't be so patronising. No one needs woke. People need practical solutions and they are quite capable of applying them without a white saviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:55 PM
13

I think in one of Tim Ferriss's books he talks about all his friends who married South American women because they were slim and apparently had old fashioned values which meant looking good for their man. Of course as soon as they came to the US and had the same diet and lifestyle as their husbands they all got fat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:46 PM
4

If you look at the stats step-dads should count as a major health hazard to kids on a similar level to measles. There's a big difference in abuse and murder of children between biological dads and step-dads too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:39 PM
4

Pyschos don't get better with treatment, they just learn how to blend in better and offend more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:35 PM
4

Women are naturally agreeable. You show up with your own rules they will at the least put up with you. I'm the same, I don't fit with female culture. Now I just make sure I show up and there's always a talker who wants to find a listener.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:30 PM
9

That's not your fault, that's modern life unfortunately. Facebook used to help but I try to use it as little as possible now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 11:27 PM
20

I was at a feminist meeting today. Julie Bindel said "you might not think rejecting men sexually is a political act but men definitely do" She was taking about lesbians being political but it pretty clearly describes the reaction to FDS by men as well. And to think, we're all thought men were ok with consent and women's freedom. We were fooled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 09:13 PM
17

Any evidence the research is homophobic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:09 AM
71

I've a friend who had to stop doing anal after he found a piece of sweetcorn under his foreskin in the shower. He just couldn't face it again after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:06 AM
55

Remember black man/white women marriages have the highest divorce rate while black women/white man marriages have the lowest. It's not black women who have a problem with holding a relationship together. Rather they are the experts at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:42 AM
66

It's not your job to "handle" any man. They need to get a handle on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 07:39 AM
5

Most women will always blame the messenger first. Only tell if you are happy never to see that person again. Otherwise telling anonymously is still an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:00 PM
7

Seeing as I like short skinny guys I should have my pick. Funny how it doesn't work like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:57 PM
17

I'd say it points to a hormone disorder. I do think men get their own version of PCOS when they carry too much weight but because no one cares about fat guy's fertility it's not been discovered yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:56 PM
9

And if there's one thing lazy, entitled people hate, it's being called out on their lazy, entitled behaviour. Rather than them have a shower all women should wear a peg on their nose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:24 PM
9

Screenplays are mostly written by LVM so they make themselves the heros and then give the hero everything they themselves want. Luckily the industry is crying out for new content at the moment so if any one here has a movie of TV show in them now's the time to put pen to paper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:26 PM
14

I wouldn't say going exclusive after more than a month is fast for men, they are still only dating. My dad proposed to my mum after 3 weeks. The worst parasitic men will try to move in with you and have you cooking their meals in a couple of days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:18 PM
42

They also want a challenge. When she approached him it was a turn off and he had dozens of excuses. When she's off limits she becomes attractive and none of the excuses matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:15 PM
9

No fool like an old fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:13 PM
5

Tell him he'll need a booster seat to drive your car because he's obviously a toddler, having tantrums all the time to get his own way. It's really weird her work gave get a car through. I feel they know she's in an abusive relationship and are trying to give her a means to escape without provoking her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:19 PM
11

Your dad was right. These boys are abusing women's looks because they know full well it has an effect on their self esteem. They want women to have a low option of themselves so they'll settle for a toad. It's called male hegemony, men bully women not necessarily because this will personally benefit them but because men as a group will benefit. All men in society benefit big time from this, not only in relationships but in work and politics as well. Don't trust a man who says he isn't a misogyni…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 12:01 PM
31

Men literally repeat the dangers phrases as each other over and over. If you listen to break up stories women get the same lines from different guys almost every time. This is because they are using language to get what they want, not to communicate. It's not you, it's me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:47 AM
6

The trouble is I know many women who had wonderful childhoods and caring parents as well as boring average lives yet still fell for the love hurts nonsense. I had one woman tell me she ended up dating arseholes in her twenties because she was convinced nice, caring love was childish and naive while fighting all the time and being miserable was grown up, adult, passionate love. People absorb whatever the most prominent narrative in society is as they grow up unless parents or other adults purpose…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:43 AM
35

And let's face it the lack of visible body hair in our culture also comes from women thinking they should hold other women accountable. This generally a negative for women. Does anyone remember when Julia Roberts was photographed with armpit hair and how most women reacted. Most women were saying she was disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:08 AM
40

How about you just find someone you love, are attracted to and want to build a life with rather than just get envy points from other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:03 AM
3

There's also a self sabotaging aspect. Thinking "when I sort out x and why and have z then my life can finally start" but actually your life is already happening and all the opportunities are in front of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:28 PM
7

I think us women really underestimate the value we have and think we're have to be the perfect package when actually men see women as a set of parts rather than a whole. I mean I remember a 5 years ago I was moaning and doing the whole woe is me act to a work college about my weight, communication and confidence issues which I thought would keep me single forever. He literally looked at me and said "yeah but your have massive tits so none of that matters."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:22 PM
4

The average indo-european man has both these wonderful qualities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:02 PM
9

Women used to make the lace which is why their mostly wore it, they were showing off their skill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:59 PM
55

Sexuality liberated ... to say "no!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 01:22 PM
3

He is so desperate it's hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:22 PM
13

I've also seen both men and lib fems say the video should be banned because it's racist and makes some cultures look bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:20 PM
341

Attorneys shouldn't be allowed to ask women that question. That's a law we can campaign for and get made.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:13 PM
14

Frankly all the red flags for rapists could and maybe should applied to men you just dating before committing. Don't meet him in an isolated place alone. Even if you meet just the 2 of you be near something busy and tell someone. Don't let him isolate you if you are out with friends. Don't let him claim ownership of you. Even body language stuff like putting his arm on your shoulder all night is out. Don't let him act like a saviour. Don't let him drive you home when you are drunk, get a cab. Do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 06:33 PM
23

You need to move about to get your system going in the morning. If he was doing all the stuff she is it wouldn't take him so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:08 PM
38

She calls herself whine mom. I feel some people prefer having something to whine about and play the martyr than living a good and happy life. What am I saying, I live in the UK, I know full well these people exist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:06 PM
10

"If you have a baby you can't be the baby anymore."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:34 PM
16

It's not due to depression. Women get very high rates of depression after birth but mothers running out on babies is very rare. These guys are just selfish and spoilt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:30 PM
22

Clearly a kid never traps a man. It doesn't even slow them slightly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 07:28 PM
40

I don't know how it is in the US but in the UK there's also a cultural difference with black guys taking much better care of themselves and making sure they dress well. Then all other guys wonder why women chase the black guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:07 AM
4

Romantic love doesn't exist. It is a cultural myth invented in the middle ages to allow upwardly mobile men to flatter rich women without the husbands killing them. In most cultures women don't expect to fall in love but rather live comes from building a family with someone. Right now you should save, save, save. You can still do all the things you wanted to do without a man but you will need extra funds. Once you have saved enough. Look to buy a small place in a good area for under market value…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 04:10 PM
16

Haha, she did not like the replies. *"You don't know what we've been through together." She sounds like a teenager. No one's irreplaceable, especially to men. The past doesn't matter to them, they are only interested I'm what they can get next. We don't know what you've been through together and why should we care when he doesn't?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 03:45 PM
9

Dick gets validated with a stamp. 🥾
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 09:43 AM
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Women have testosterone too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:43 AM
79

That guy crying over a dead relative a year later, that's because it reminds him of his own mortality. He's crying about himself not the person who died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:35 AM
22

My psychic powers tell me this guy just got dumped and kicked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:31 PM
8

The thing is men follow a lot of the rules themselves. I used to get so mad at men on the internet saying they wouldn't continue to date a women who slept with them on the first date. Of course it shows someone's looking for some sort of magical love thing rather than a real world relationship. They are quite sensible to avoid that even though they are arseholes for taking advantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:53 PM
15

The thing is that as more women start using FDS more men will get their acts together. Men are also taught to act a certain way by our culture and to chase things which won't make them happy to keep them spending, voting a certain way, etc. Conscientious and cynical living is the way forward. Everyone has an education and access to information now. There's no excuse to live an unexamined life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:40 PM
6

Yep, this is exactly the behaviour originally meant by mansplaining. I'd place good money on this guy doing his "you don't want to do it like that" routine to multiple people at that gym. He'll get punched eventually, just give it time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:33 PM
43

It's a jokey question because let's face it humour is the only pull many of these guys have. In fact most don't even have that and will reeeeee with ego hurt at the first friendly poke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 10:23 AM
38

The patriarchy requires a large number of men to die so that the guys at the top can have more. Now we don't have wars they convince men to opt out of life instead. Not that they needed much convincing though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:57 PM
19

Well it is also because a lot of men completely lose it if their partner is more successful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:51 PM
32

If you have unbearable cringe or any bad memories I recommend havening. https://youtu.be/09IDxrXAi2s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:49 PM
45

They should have kept the original ending, its more logical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:48 PM
51

My mum days "love" is just the excuse people use when they run out of good excuses for bad behaviour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:47 PM
1

Sometimes it's because people think feeding is giving love, see most grandmothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:24 PM
30

Any kind of performing arts. Personal boundaries are frowned upon and broken down and many even get into that scene just to screw around. Even the apparently higher class ones. I once met a french hornist who'd travelled the world but was now really excited to have a job in a crappy tv studio doing day time tv work. I asked her why she'd given up what seemed like a dream job and she said "you don't realise how incestuous it is. Everyone screws everyone else. Once I'd slept with half the orchestr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 07:09 PM
22

I once had a UK cop tell me they were all against carrying guns because in the US most cops who get shot are actually shot by other cops. I think crazies shooting their colleagues are a big problem in the military too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 06:44 PM
29

Young people are having less sex than ever. It's in every survey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:36 PM
19

Well they both probably have sleep exhaustion so they might be real tears but not really caused by what she said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:34 PM
10

I seriously don't think I've ever had another women even try to mess with me in adulthood. My only issue has been they want to give me a kick up the arse, they think I'm underachieving but I'm just neurodivergent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:40 PM
27

The commentator in the second link is right. He saw her money as his money so she and her parents buying that dress was meaning there was less in the pot for him to take so upset him even though he want paying a penny towards it. He doesn't make his own money so got paranoid the cash was running out, as happens when you've no regular, reliable income. He's a manipulative parasite and now he has no access to her money and will have to get a proper job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 12:14 PM
2

Let's not have a scarcity mind set. There are plenty enough HVM out there for all the women who want one. Remember most women aren't looking for HVM to build a life with but just want some guy to pick them so they can feel a bit superior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:38 AM
13

It's because old men chasing 18 year olds is purely culture/fashion. The young have a different fashion. In the 1950s teenage models wanted to like they were 25 then in the 1960s it completely turned round so 30 year olds wanted to look 16. If you look at the fashions teen girls are following at the moment it's quite clear it's flipped again. Even in porn in the UK and US searches for milf and step mum have been above teen for quite a few years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:28 AM
94

It's more effective to send the receipts to their mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 01:16 PM
2

And it's been shown that if you look younger on the outside your health is better on the inside too. Most men in their thirties look like they are dying of something because they have wrecked their bodies with drink, drugs, junk food or a sedentary lifestyle. The active ones do drugs and the sober ones become mole people hooked to their computers. No wonder women chase dad-bods, they just want someone not at one extreme or the other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 12:42 PM
3

It's not about buying new. Everyone has a stash of nice clothes and stuff for special occasions and men want women to consider a date with them one of those special occasions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 12:34 PM
83

Does anyone here really believe some men don't know they shouldn't lead with dick pics? They don't send that stuff because they are bad at communicating. It's plain, old fashioned indecent exposure. They post their dick pic or some other vulgar trash text to a women, that alone gets them hard then they toss themselves off on the thought of you horrified. If you reply saying they are scum that just gets them off again. Just report and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 10:18 AM
9

Which is double dumb because the first year of a child's life is the most common time parents divorce. Kids are stressful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:26 AM
14

Fertility clinics find when a couple can't have kids its the man's fault 50% of the time at any age before the menopause. This puts pay to the idea women's fertility acts hugely differently to men's as they age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:24 AM
11

Older men have corrupted sperm (because they constantly recycle it while we're have our eggs from birth) and their kids are more likely to psychopaths and have other personality disorders and mutations. As women age the only real risk is a higher chance of down's syndrome, which can be tested for but even if you have the kid it's by far preferable to a psychopath child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:21 AM
13

Not only do many people over 40 want to start a family but research shows having kids makes you a lot less happy unless you are over 40 when you have them. Really women should have a great time and leave off kids until later too. Most of us are going to live to 100 or more now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 09:16 AM
6

I think that men are very hierarchical and with men that almost always involves sexual hierarchy and abuse usually as well. Basically in a lot of cultures the creeping, upwardly mobile, sycophantic followers of the elite would be expected to offer up their arseholes as well as their lives to keep the best positions. Men basically got being able to get turned on by that as one of their instincts so they didn't get too traumatised by the sexual violence of other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:23 PM
24

A lot of gay men don't even do anal because they can't make it work for them. I even know one gay guy who had to stop doing anal after he found a piece of sweetcorn under his foreskin in the shower. He couldn't face it anymore after that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 11:17 PM
5

Which is his hand??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:39 PM
12

That's a scarcity mindset, we don't do that here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 09:29 PM
16

Guys like that will never be ready for anything in their lives and will have to be forced or tricked into everything. Love, work, friendships, responsibility. Be a chooser not a prisoner of circumstance. Choose to be ready for the right thing when it comes to you whether it fits your plans and fantasise or not. Carlos Castaneda was surprised when told by a shaman that women chose their spiritual path but men have to be tricked into it because that goes against gender ideals of men being proactiv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:42 AM
28

Well Prince Charles is the definition of extremely low value but high monetary worth and high status man. Completely useless for anything, except hopefully bringing down the monarchy as soon as he gets crowned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:26 AM
21

He also dumped her because her friends made joke bank notes with her face on and his uptight, snobbish set were so offended they cancelled her for it. But then she was so popular with the public and he couldn't find anyone else so he went crawling back to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:21 AM
19

Oh yes. I know someone who was in her class at school and she had his pic on her wall and chose her uni and subject purely on trying to meet him. Her mum even gave her a Hollywood style make over to get her prince. Edit: not that it's a bad thing, she knew what she wanted and went out and got it. If she can live with it then good on her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:18 AM
34

Like dogs and babies they get upset if their routine is disturbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 10:14 AM
9

Just police their porn usage and it shouldn't be a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 10:42 PM
3

Ahh, poor the menz, they tried, give them a prize. Don't you think there might be a reason, something he maybe wants from her, which means he is trying to cook in this situation when the entirety of the rest of his life he never tried at all? When you go out with someone look at how they act towards people they don't want anything from not just how they treat you. Eventually he will treat you like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 04:00 PM
96

They confuse easy virtue (leading a boring life where you rarely have to make tough moral decisions) with being an actively good person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:48 PM
32

Just want to point out that this whole Harry and Meghan thing is just a distraction from Prince Andrew and Epstein. And it's worked, everyone's forgotten about him and he's going to get away with it. If Meghan is involved in covering that up she's not someone anyone should be looking up to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:29 PM
56

16 year old boys are sexually mature too 16 year old girls aren't sexually mature. If they get pregnant it's highly risky. In countries where child marriage is common being too immature physically is the most common cause of death in pregnant women. Other girl are left infertile or with disabilities due to early pregnancy. Puberty is a process not an on/off button, no one is sexually mature as soon as they get their period. Most women aren't sexually mature until they are 18-20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:56 AM
25

No, they are scared of their own emotions too. Most have an external locus of control to avoid dealing with their own issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:25 AM
86

If you look at actual HVW who have found HVM and how the LVM on reddit talk about these women they absolutely hate them. Being high value means you appeal less to LVM not more. No LVM wants a women who knows herself and her needs because he knows she'll see straight through him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 10:29 PM
15

They have a blank where young kids are concerned to and there's a good reason for that. No person who has seen how differently boys and girls develop can't seriously believe it's all socialisation. Yeah people call baby girls princesses and baby boys monsters but that's not why most boys are monosyllabic at 3 or even 4 while girls can give a lecture at that age. Mothers even produce different milk for male and female babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 07:11 PM
4

Also another thing feminists predicted which came true. https://www.independent.ie/style/celebrity/celebrity-news/feminist-author-germaine-greer-on-meghan-markle-i-think-shell-bolt-shes-bolted-before-36810251.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/20 06:49 PM
28

It was Donald Trump. His hands are just too small to see with the naked eye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 07:41 AM
11

I roll my eyes now when a guy tells me I'm really interesting as a compliment. "Interesting" doesn't last. Everyone is predictable eventually except actually crazy people. I'm not here for entertainment purposes. If I'm seeing someone it's so we can learn if we can live together in any situation, in complete silence sometimes, not to chase off boredom or be a mystery to solve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 09:11 PM
2

Straight off anyone saying any husband is pregnant has a big red flag over their values. It's even worse when men say they're expecting but women should have some pride in their own bodies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 11:15 PM
13

You say you invest loads on your looks. How about saving some of that money and spending it on some confidence or life coaching instead. That's got to be a good investment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 10:58 PM
18

If it is your body language then what you'll notice as you change it is that women will start noticing and interacting with you more before any men do. That's how you'll know you are moving in the right direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:50 PM
13

Men are like "not all men." Until they have daughters then they are like "you don't understand ALL men think the same way. Never trust them. "
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 08:39 PM
10

Because men use sex to boost their self esteem. They just pretend it's all physical for them. If a women actually wants a purely physical relationship and isn't that interested in them they hate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 07:04 PM
1

Financial domination fetish is a thing. Many blokes get hard just by handing over the money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:56 PM
7

Don't patronise women just because you are jealous they have the sense of humor and bravery you lack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:51 PM
118

Often such marriages are more business arrangements than love stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:00 AM
15

Splitting the cost of her ring means he doesn't even wear one. Win win for that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 04:50 PM
6

Yep, while in MRA heaven, Russia, 60% of marriages end in divorce. But apparently feminism causes the breakdown of the family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 09:29 PM
58

Not to even say how creepy that is. If want to fuck your mum go break both your arms and leave women alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 08:18 PM
6

Well done. My sister actually got into banking by doing temping, boring hours of photocopying. She had a relevant degree so when they got to know her and saw her CV they offered her an interview. So remember there is more that one way in, you don't always have to follow the process they want you to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 12:04 PM
20

Someone who bruises easily so needs a guy with padding?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 11:52 AM
10

The sad thing is I know a couple of women who live in countries where they have to have an imaginary husband, 4 imaginary kids, fake ring and fake photographic proof before many men will even consider leaving them alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:44 PM
16

Male hegemony in action.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:40 PM
11

One liberal myth which needs to die is blank slate. Around 50% of personality is inborn. You can't change a man by being a good woman. Most personality traits can be expressed either positively or negatively but the trait itself is always there. So if someone has a bad temper that isn't going to go, they are either going to shout at you or go shout at the wall. If someone has an addictive personality they could be addicted to crack or addicted to the gym but they are going to be addicted to some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:38 PM
11

You don't need experience to date. In fact the less bad habits and assumptions you bring to a date the better. You have to react to a man as they are not react to how the date should go as a cultural ritual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 11:33 PM
10

Men aren't a homogenous mass. The point of FDS is to find HVM. Unfortunately our generation has a shortage but that is not unusual throughout history. In the past it was mostly due to wars though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 11:30 PM
6

As with everyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 11:27 PM
1

Social skills are a skill some people are naturally better at then than others and you need to practise them to keep them sharp. It's a bit of one and a bit of the other. There is a brain type (s type) which is not great at emotional intelligence but good at problem solving. This is sometimes called the male brain however only around 50% of men have that brain type and 20% of women have if so it doesn't explain why the other half of men have similar issues and why one in 5 women don't seem to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:12 PM
10

Also a lot of careers have cultures where they work long hours then all go hard drinking together and screw. Law is one of those. Any kind of performing arts are like that too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:02 PM
3

Funny, engineers are the most likely profession to become suicide bombers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:00 PM
23

Be suspicious of charisma and niceness. I remember asking my sister what her best friend's boyfriend was like when they first started going out and she said "Oh, you know, he's one of those men who is everyone's best mate." very dismissively. He then went on to become abusive. If a person likes everyone it's because they have no moral standards and are not interested in people because they like their company but because they want something else from them. People with morals will always have some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:14 PM
15

Smile or Die by Barbara Ehrenreich is a good antidote to the positive thinking cult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 04:02 PM
23

You can't make this a thing at all if there are unisex loos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 09:25 AM
61

The point of marriage is to share ownership of property. If you and your mate want to buy a house together and raise a kid then marriage is a good option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 04:52 PM
9

Meanwhile I bet the high status guys in that group wouldn't act like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 03:10 PM
46

Add "hate" to the list of words which are now completely meaningless. Men telling women they "hate" is now the same thing as men calling women who won't sleep with them "sluts". And to think I knew so many people in my teenage years who wouldn't ever use the word hate "because it's such a strong word."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:12 PM
71

"I don't think the government should get involved in personal relationships" "I don't give two shits about your rights and future security."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:08 PM
1

US culture is top to bottom more macho and rude (or honest/forward depending on your POV). I don't mean the men, everyone. It's not bad, it's a cultural thing and seems to work in most respects (not the gun loving stuff though).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:59 PM
10

Greeks treat women as second class citizens unless you're their mother, then you're a God.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:54 PM
11

Weirdly the European country with the lowest gender pay gap is Romania. https://ec.europa.eu/eurostat/statistics-explained/index.php/Gender_pay_gap_statistics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:53 PM
10

I think we need to remember they were written in the mental age of their readers. Teens really think their first boyfriend is going to be their true love forever and nothing will ever change so they buy books which reflect that attitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:28 PM
13

100% let him file his nuance claim then counter sue him to oblivion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 07:39 PM
35

They know, they are just pushing their luck. If you are stupid enough to think these men just need educating they are going to use you as a useful idiot everytime. There's only one language these guys take notice of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 07:36 PM
8

Yep, if the politeness and consideration of most women is not enough for you then it's you who have a problem with believing in your own masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:45 PM
10

Does he have teeth?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:33 PM
-10

I don't think that's ever been proven. It's recently been shown that in some careers, such a tech, good looking people are discriminated against because they aren't trusted. Women will turn good looking men down for the same reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 05:04 PM
3

I wonder if this is the reason men keep trying to get Fairytale of New York banned, it shows what most fairytale romances turn into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 04:01 PM
23

Women know the only thing stopping LVM from cheating is opportunity, which is why they end up attacking and trying to undermine and control other women rather than men. This attitude hurts us all, it's not just fun and games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:57 PM
52

I've had a guy dump me for acting like that. He thought his ex loved him so much because she cried all the time during their relationship, hit him and developed an eating disorder. It's crazy what men consider to be love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:11 PM
8

Can't believe you missed "Scouser"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:11 AM
2

100% chance it really, really does matter to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:09 AM
4

White collar corporate workers aren't particularly rich. I used to do that. I make double now I'm contacting. The way to wealth is to take risks and run your own business, but as I say it's more risky than trying to climb the greasy pole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:28 PM
17

Typical controlling psycho trying to isolate and undermine a woman into loving him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 11:13 PM
18

He's just letting her know the whole relationship is just a joke to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:57 PM
31

Nope, there is a scientific basis. Human scent is linked to the same genes as immune system. We most like people with the most different scent and therefore the more different immunity genes to our own. Most inborn disabilities are due to getting the same set of badly working genes from both parents (which are usually harmless if you only get them from one parent). This is why inbreeding causes so many disabilities. If you dislike someone's smell you are likely to be too genetically similar to t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 10:47 AM
40

I had a friend who did this but she was in her mid twenties. The guy was a con artist who'd done this to every girlfriend and turned abusive when she complained. Her parents had to come and spirit her away one day when he was out and pay off the loan themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:56 PM
6

Didn't r/teenagers just clear out a load of paedos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:53 PM
46

Cuckhold is their favourite type of porn (because it's basically a guy watching porn, which is their life). Then they move on to sissification and become agp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 02:41 PM
4

If you leave don't tell him you are leaving. Make a plan in advance and go when he isn't around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:09 PM
2

Google havening. Cures cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 09:37 PM
4

The silence ended too soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:50 PM
21

But who are black criminals hurting? Other black men, women and kids. I understand supporting innocent people but why make heroes out of people not only selfish enough to commit crimes which hurt people but are then dumb enough to get caught. And don't try the criminality stems from environment nonsense, men of all wealths and classes offend at the same rates, just different types of crimes depending what's easiest. Even rich women shop lift at the same rates poor women do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 10:53 AM
2

Some men have a fetish where just sending a DM to someone they think is female will get them off. This is one of those messages.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:33 PM
52

Great tactics from that man. Propose in the place with the highest concentration of taxi companies when your main task is to get her home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 06:01 PM
76

Women: do just that Men: 30% become enraged incels and demand the state provide them with a girlfriend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 08:33 PM
38

It's funny I was listening to the radio and a Muslim journalist who investigates western kids that became terrorists was on and he said daddy issues were the consistent factor he saw in every case. Often the families think their son's radicalisation is an improvement because they finally stop arguing with their father and start playing the part of being a respectful son because the religion demands it, they don't realise it's really got very much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 10:34 PM
21

I tell them it's because I haven't had 20 years of non stop stress from men or kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 09:48 PM
28

If a man having a meal out with is rude to the staff, or even out shopping, I just get up walk out, and leave him there. I even did this to my dad once. He was very confused but it stopped his showing off immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 03:33 PM
11

Why would I want a king. I'm a small r republican.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 08:55 PM
2

This can also be a trait in paedos and groomers. Fred West would tell everyone dodgy jokes or sexual stories and work out whether they were on his wavelength by how they reacted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 02:56 PM
14

There's balance in everything. Often hyper ambitious men, commonly workaholic business owners, have a self esteem issue which means they are constantly trying to prove themselves and that need can never be satisfied. Avoid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 11:11 PM
26

I think it was originally meant to help people meet when they were out and about. So you'd open it in a club and see if you matched any of the guys there and that would maybe start a conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:02 PM
68

They destroy their bodies in their twenties, sometimes even their teens, then expect to age attractively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:00 PM
81

Baldness isn't the problem. I saw Mark Strong the other day and he is bald and still super sexy in real life. It's being bald combined with not taking care of themselves. They look like they are literally falling apart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 02:58 PM
31

I care, my matches are like a rogues gallery. It puts me off as soon as I open the app.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 02:51 PM
15

Men never have enough real friends, that's why men end up on the streets.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 10:12 PM
35

Statistically attractive men are less likely to cheat than ugly guys. Attractive men only do better in certain fields. In some, like tech, they actually get discriminated against.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/19 07:47 PM
12

From going out with a bloke who used to pick fights in pubs I think the source of most bitter guy's anger is paranoia and wanting control. They don't know what people are thinking about them so rather than deciding not you care, like a sensible person, they imagine the worse then blame everyone else for those slights which they have created in their own imaginations ffs. You see this sort of fantasy oppression and enemies all the time in the manoshere. They get to the stage their paranoia is so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 10:12 PM
1

You have to actually meet women and ask them out to be rejected. Most of these guys aren't even doing the first step let alone the second but hate women the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/19 10:52 AM
3

It's negging meets r/ihavesex They want to make you jealous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 10:57 PM
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