This is so good, I had to post it here

HaveNoIdeaWhatToPick

November 3, 2020

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Title	This is so good, I had to post it here
Author	HaveNoIdeaWhatToPick
Upvotes	2049
Comments	47
Date	November 3, 2020 7:49 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jn6c9n/this_is_so_good_i_had_to_post_it_here/
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Omg this happened to me.

I was “fuck buddies” with a guy for years. He couldn’t keep his hands off me, but didn’t want to be in a relationship with me. All we did was have sex.

Years later we got together as boyfriend and girlfriend. As soon as we became “official” he completely lost interest in sex. He told me I couldn’t satisfy him, I’m not exciting enough, he was watching porn multiple times a day, he said he wasn’t attracted to me anymore and was cheating on me... even though he said he was deeply “in love” with me. He didn’t have a problem being attracted to me when I wasn’t his girlfriend.

He openly told me he thinks he has a madonna-whore complex because the exact same thing happened with his ex before me. As soon as he falls in love with a girl, he completely loses all attraction for her.

He can “only get off with girls he doesn’t give a shit about” - his words.

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I completely agree with you. I've truly learnt my lesson now. When I was younger I dated the first man 10 years older than myself something I wasn't used to BUT gradually he was grinding me down womanising, making lewd comments about women when he was with me and passing demeaning comments about me, watching porn and wanting to have sex outside or dogging.

I was in my 20s when I met him with zero flaws yet after 4 years enough was enough and I started feeling like half a woman broken and ugly. I knew I had to get rid of his ugly ass before I lost myself completely. I did this just before Christmas. From him laughing at me making me feel stupid, demeaning and making me feel like a piece of meat, he started ringing my phone off the hook trying to get me to reconsider our failed relationship. I moved on from him mentally long before I left him. There was no going back. He was the epitome of cheater, liar, munipulator, oh and shit in bed. Only love kept me with him as I didn't find him sexually attractive when I met him. Good riddance to bad rubbish and for the first time in years I enjoyed great sex with a real great guy.

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