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| 10 | What changed when you started giving back the same energy you got?Doesn’t work on Instagram unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 01:22 AM |
| 31 | The dating subreddits have become a cesspool for incels, and a bullying ground directed at women and it's sad.TESTERICAL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 06:01 PM |
| 10 | Sometimes I go through my social media and remove all the guys who ignore me, never reply to me, but keep watching my storiesI’m continuing conversations.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 04:46 AM |
| 25 | Sometimes I go through my social media and remove all the guys who ignore me, never reply to me, but keep watching my storiesThey never slide back into the DMs with me. Sometimes they do block me in retaliation 😂 they’re in their 30s, too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 11:56 PM |
| 7 | This is what breeding with a LVM will do to youWhat the fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you like it when a guy plans an elaborate, multi-course first date, or does it make you feel nervous/uncomfortable?Oof I might need to refresh myself on that. He had wanted to talk on the phone for like half an hour once a week but I wasn’t feeling it, that was before he wanted to set up a zoom call to watch the sunset together. I definitely wasn’t feeling that. That’s why I said no to all the phone calls after the first one. Gonna say no to the date too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Do you like it when a guy plans an elaborate, multi-course first date, or does it make you feel nervous/uncomfortable?Yeah wow I had no clue. I’m almost glad you said this cause I was not wanting to see the guy, partially because when we talked on the phone I got a used car salesman feeling. Like someone who’s very slick. He talked fast. Interesting to hear maybe my instincts are telling me this for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?Westernized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:43 AM |
| 7 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?I wish I was brave enough to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:31 PM |
| 10 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?Idk but the guy that inspired this post was Asian 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 101 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?Their obliviousness is insane. Imagine not brushing your teeth and then going on a date. 🤢 they’re so used to watching porn ladies while they’re unbrushed & unshowered that they don’t even stop to think that real-life women will actually react ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:27 AM |
| 17 | Tip - if he reschedules even once for your first date, there is a 99% chance he is using you as a backup.Yeah like im already in my bath/bed and have my fluffy slippers on by that point. Fluffy slippers > men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 19 | Tip - if he reschedules even once for your first date, there is a 99% chance he is using you as a backup.Some statistics showed once that 40% of the men on dating apps are already in relationships, and from looking at the Instagrams of some of the guys I matched with, this is absolutely true and the number may even be higher. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 02:31 PM |
| 47 | Tip - if he reschedules even once for your first date, there is a 99% chance he is using you as a backup.Most of mine don’t even bother canceling, they just unmatch me or don’t show up. 😂 But this was a few years ago, I guess they weren’t acting quite as badly back then.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:41 AM |
| 16 | At first it looks like a good answer, but then you realize the first part is about him, the second part is about you helping HIM achieve HIS goals (!), and the third part is a hastily assembled mishmash of Good Qualities he put in at the last minuteThere’s always that one percent :( maybe :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:19 AM |
| 55 | At first it looks like a good answer, but then you realize the first part is about him, the second part is about you helping HIM achieve HIS goals (!), and the third part is a hastily assembled mishmash of Good Qualities he put in at the last minuteBecause 99% of these guys don’t want to connect with anyone, they just want to use you as a free escort and/or a texting buddy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 01:01 AM |
| 21 | At first it looks like a good answer, but then you realize the first part is about him, the second part is about you helping HIM achieve HIS goals (!), and the third part is a hastily assembled mishmash of Good Qualities he put in at the last minuteWell yeah, it’s not so much the third part that struck me as weird, rather that the first two parts were all about him and it seemed like he just put the last part as a last-minute addition to make it seem like he values those traits. Nothing wrong with wanting someone who is fun and curious etc - but i don’t buy it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 12:40 AM |
| 74 | Tip - if he reschedules even once for your first date, there is a 99% chance he is using you as a backup.Welllll his first suggestion was for me to go immediately over to his apartment, so I don’t think Covid safety has anything to do with it lol. I also made it clear before this that I like to go out, so at this point I think he is just deliberately fucking with me. The next suggestion will be to communicate via carrier pigeons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 12:10 AM |
| 142 | Tip - if he reschedules even once for your first date, there is a 99% chance he is using you as a backup.At least he pretended to respect me enough to ask for dinner. Another guy first asked me to come directly over to his apartment, then when I declined suggested a walk in the park at NINE IN THE MORNING, then suggested a FaceTime. A FACE TIME. Because that’s “easy” according to him.... and I must want something easy, right? It seems that way, right?? Bro skipped right over the drinks suggestion because apparently he can’t even drop $15 on a drink. I can’t. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 12:02 AM |
| 2 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.He wanted you to be able to lift and carry him? No offense but that is extremely rare for men and honestly sounds like a fetish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 09:34 PM |
| 5 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.Every guy prefers tiny women. Tall guys just happen to be more desirable than short guys, so it’s easier for them to get the women they want. Then the short guys & tall girls are left having to settle for each other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:15 PM |
| 4 | The bigger a dude, the nicer he tends to be. I don't even care about height from an aesthetics standpoint, but I don't date short men because they usually have a Napoleon complex and terrible personality.Yeah they like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 11:14 PM |
| 53 | 84/100.... he thinks he’s so slick 😂 (he asked me “Netflix and chill or night out” along w other questions and I played along for the lolz)I am supposed to be partially flattered because that is, according to him, “better than most”, but he left those lacking 16 points so that I feel like I need to win his approval and become, possibly, eventually, a 90… Or perhaps possibly even a 95?!!!! 🤯🤯🤯 i can only dream of being that high up on Omer’s scale ........ sigh....... maybe one day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 62 | 84/100.... he thinks he’s so slick 😂 (he asked me “Netflix and chill or night out” along w other questions and I played along for the lolz)I think he is a baby PUA (he’s over 30 so that’s weird but) because his “put her down subtly so she feels like she has to win your approval” tactic is not subtle AT ALL. I’m prob just gonna unmatch, but the evil part of me kinda wants to make plans and then just not show up. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 06:23 PM |
| 32 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️Omg i actually am a Gemini 😭 that’s probably why I didn’t get hired ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:03 PM |
| 24 | Bumble BFF is full of pickmeishas, MLM scammers and wannabe “influencers” 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️🙋🏽♀️I once had a job interviewer asking me about my sign, super weird | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:18 PM |
| 49 | It’s okay to have preferences. Ladies, don’t let unattractive men shame you for wanting “Chad”.Yup. At least he had muscles, something modern men conspicuously lack. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:09 PM |
| 25 | Men: Marriage is till death do us part, not till "I don't feel like it anymore". Time to get off your entitled high horse.LITERALLY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:05 PM |
| 4 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEYeah once a long time ago I told someone I was being physically beaten by my bf and he said “I’m sorry your relationship is toxic”. Implied it was my fault too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:29 PM |
| 8 | If he gets a boner when you cry, RUN. That is a Pavlovian response from watching too much violent abuse porn. He has literally trained his brain to be sexually aroused by women's pain.A guy I dated once used to tell me “cry! Cry!” during sex as he hit me. I’d fake crying. He turned out to be a bona fide psychopath. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:19 PM |
| 27 | 🤪🤪 male redditors are so funny 🤪🤪Sadly we have all probably met several of them. Without even knowing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.The sad part is I’m 100 times more confident than I used to be — seriously. I feel like no matter how hard I try and how much progress i make, I’m still going to be so far below the average woman in terms of self-worth that it’s hopeless. (I also don’t try to skate on my looks.....like, I really do put effort into conversation, and try really hard to be a good conversation partner, which is in itself a challenge because i used to be very socially awkward and anxious. I know a lot of men complain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.Oh that’s genius :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.I need to be brave enough to do this. I have a lot of fear of looking cheap/greedy/ungrateful .... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.It’s been weeks and I canceled on him before (because I was genuinely very sick) and felt bad about it, so in this case I don’t think it was the case. But yeah I’m not very interested in meeting guys at this point, because it’s such a pain and also expensive lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.I hate that I never know I’m being manipulated until it’s over. I’m so stupid and I seriously never learn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.True the wording does matter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:14 AM |
| 2 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.Ok I’m still way too nice I guess. Like it’s just part of my personality and I need to change it. A guy could probably straight up laugh at me and mock me and I’d apologize. (And I’m MUCH BETTER from where I was a few years ago, so you can imagine.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:14 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.It should, but they still expect me to split the check more often than not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.I have no idea how I’d say this. Like what combination of words I would use. Im sure you say it fine, but I know the way I’d say it would come off super weird and awkward and they would be freaked out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.I assume too but recently it changed and men began paying way less often. I must be getting uglier without realizing it or something. Yeah, I think he was just cheap maybe, cause he was still trying so hard to talk to me afterwards (after my vibe and demeanor changed for the worse) despite the date being over. He even lunged in for a hug at the end and made me bump my head. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.Ok. How are you upfront about having him pay? Like, do you say as you sit down at the table that you expect him to pay? I’m sorry that’s such a stupid question I seriously don’t know what to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:07 AM |
| 0 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.You probably look like a normal female human and not a giant so subconsciously men see you as more feminine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.I’m girly too :( maybe it’s because I’m tall and that makes me look less feminine? I hate my height but I can’t change it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:04 AM |
| 9 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.You’re right, it’s definitely my fault for even offering .... I am just way too nice. Ugh. And ofc they take advantage. They don’t deserve me 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:58 AM |
| -1 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.Technically for this date he didn’t invite me there, he asked me to “show him one of my favorite places”, and this was not a very expensive place. I guess I should’ve picked a dive bar lol But yeah, I agree. I don’t know why men complain about women getting free meals when there is no guarantee of that at all even if you’re literally a model, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:53 AM |
| 2 | Tinder Gold. 1300 likes.Probably. 😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 06:20 PM |
| 4 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Yeah I told him he needs help w his alcohol problem and I have no interest in meeting him. He really thinks I’m dumb cause he replied “lol alcohol problem? Quite the opposite, I never drink that’s why I was so ill the next day after this one time drinking.” LOL WHAT. I then unmatched him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 4 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.OMG what a rude asshole. I feel like I’ve met so many guys like this. They’re apt to push it as far as they can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 05:08 AM |
| 6 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Yuppp. And absolutely not. I told him he needs help for his alcohol problem and when he’d read, unmatched 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 11:02 PM |
| 2 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Genius | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 6 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.You were right! This fucking clown. He finally texted me. Turns out, apparently he DID drink too much and was so hungover he couldn’t be bothered to text. 😂😂😂 that’s such bullshit. I literally broke my nose yesterday and would’ve texted him to cancel (I was still gonna go because a broken nose isn’t that serious). And he drank too much and was too ill to make it to his phone?? Lmao. https://imgur.com/a/vIWGbaQ The amount of guys who have used “oh I had a really bad hangover” “I drank too much” a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:16 PM |
| 6 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Can’t believe this. What a coward, too. Of course he was sooo apologetic after the first time, the better to lure you in again so he could screw you over a second time. They take true pleasure in it. Second chances aren’t the end of it, either — give them a second chance, and they’ll ask for a THIRD chance. MY clown is asking for a third chance. Turns out, apparently he drank too much and was so hungover he couldn’t be bothered to text. 😂😂😂 https://imgur.com/a/vIWGbaQ The amount of guys who have… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:15 PM |
| 5 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.It’s literally all of them. Men have more Machiavellian/dark triad traits, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:13 PM |
| 3 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Truth!!! ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:12 PM |
| 8 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.This fucking clown. Turns out, apparently he drank too much and was so hungover he couldn’t be bothered to text. 😂😂😂 https://imgur.com/a/vIWGbaQ The amount of guys who have used “oh I had a really bad hangover” “I drank too much” as an excuse is honestly shocking, I have gotten this multiple times and it not only is a really bad excuse/lie, but it makes me think that you have an alcohol problem. This guy is nearly 30. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:11 PM |
| 7 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.This fucking clown. Turns out, apparently he drank too much and was so hungover he couldn’t be bothered to text. 😂😂😂 https://imgur.com/a/vIWGbaQ The amount of guys who have used “oh I had a really bad hangover” “I drank too much” as an excuse is honestly shocking, I have gotten this multiple times and it not only is a really bad excuse/lie, but it makes me think that you have an alcohol problem. This guy is nearly 30. I broke my nose yesterday and was still going to show up. And if I’d needed to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 10:10 PM |
| 29 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Yup it’s called the Y chromosome 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:04 AM |
| 80 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Yeah he probably would have given her a monologue about himself, followed by going back to his place for 20 seconds of thrusting 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 17 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Truth!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:24 PM |
| 18 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.He probably forgot he used that excuse before | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:23 PM |
| 18 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Not before y’all meet for the first time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 11:23 PM |
| 81 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Time for me to go get my whip and chain. Buckle up boys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 185 | I have never had a man treat me with kindness or respect after I did these things.Yup. I think the part that hurts most is knowing I’m the backup option, not the girl who’s someone’s first choice. (The one the guy switched me for) I’ve never been anyone’s first choice tbh and it kinda fucks you up after a while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:50 PM |
| 4 | 🚩 RED FLAG ❗️🚩 making you live up to the “cool girl” personaOmg hahaha I went on a date with a guy who spent the first 5 min telling me about this “materialistic” girl who he’d gone on a date with previously, who wanted him to take her to a fancy place. He then suggested that we go to a “shitty bar” (yes he used that exact word). Yeah wow, I love shitty bars. I especially love being negged by you explicitly suggesting that we go there. I declined and after the date I blocked him. 🤡🤡🤡 Bonus - he “jokingly” asked me if I was a sex worker! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 12:11 AM |
| 18 | Men are most attractive in their 20sYeah absolutely! It’s like they think a couple cheating on each other’s partners makes it more hot or sexy. I bet those writers have never been cheated on, they were probably the ones doing the cheating in their real lives and wanted to mirror it in the story theyre writing 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡Sorry to reply to two of your comments in a row lol but same. Never been able to come from sex and I learned to fake orgasms because I’ve discovered that if I don’t, men are disappointed and hate to have sex with me. I don’t care about not coming during sex cause it still feels rly good but men care A LOT for some reason. I’m physiologically abnormal too, nothing down there is normal, I’m broken | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 3 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡Same. I’ve never been called tight and it’s a ... situation down there with my labia. I’m so jealous of everyone else on this thread and I’m getting flashbacks of guys making fun of me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Flashback to when my exes would ‘compliment’ my labia by saying they were ‘perfect porn star lips’ and I actually thanked them proudly 🤡You must be very attractive. Guys can’t get hard with me half the time. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Since people keep complaining about how wrong and immoral it is to have a "binary rating system" (LVM/HVM) I'd like to propose a ten-point rating system so that at least we're not "worse than the manosphere" 😘Damn I didn’t know so many men considered me a 1-3. 🙁 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 10:23 PM |
| 2 | Was secually assulted by husband, told to seek counceling because "he needs to understand he is hurting you!"That guy poster would 100% sexually abuse his daughter if he had one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 91 | ✨ mood ✨And your favorite position can never, ever be missionary. 🙄 No it has to be some weird gymnastic reverse cowgirl shit. I fucking love missionary sorry not sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 12 | Not having Snapchat has been such an unintentional blessing 🙏 📵They do this w everything. I told a boyfriend that I was literally traumatized by my ex forcing me to do certain sexual things. Like mental hospital traumatized. Shortly after I told him, he was complaining about me “doing it for him but not for me.” Disgusting. So just because an ex abused me when I was too naive to say no, means you think you should get to as well??? Pay attention. A lot of men’s whining is just code for “I should get to abuse you.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:56 PM |
| 62 | Do men that dont watch/dislike porn even exist?No. They’re like babies with candy, unable to control themselves. Go visit no fap subforum and see how few of them can last even a day lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:46 PM |
| 18 | Imagine being this mad about having to put in effort to start a relationship. And of course under a woman's comment saying "this can go both ways" they ask, "are you fat?"Lmaooo it’s so dumb. “Tuck you in” geez now that’s reminding me of my mom is it supposed to be seductive?! Although I’m sure it works sometimes, in which case these pickmes are not only endangering themselves but setting the bar super low for everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:25 AM |
| 26 | Imagine being this mad about having to put in effort to start a relationship. And of course under a woman's comment saying "this can go both ways" they ask, "are you fat?"I’ve never gotten a message like this. I have gotten guys asking to come over to my house for the first meeting though! 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?All in the name of convenience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:53 PM |
| 2 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?What signs made you realize it wasn’t a date but a “cattle call”, as you put it? I’m pretty obtuse and I’m concerned that I would miss these signs myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:52 PM |
| 2 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?What a psycho. He can find where you live too, if he has your real number. So be careful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 13 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?I totally agree. It’s violation and endangering us in the name of bRaNdiNg. Of course I’m sure men wouldn’t see the problem with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:50 PM |
| 16 | Blocking and Deleting Closes the Drawbridge to Your CastleTHe other person gets notified if you unsend an insta message? WHAT????? Are u sure about this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:48 PM |
| 14 | If your partner does this, RUN in the opposite direction. This is abuse and a power play.What a loser! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 18 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysDefinitely. I blocked and deleted after his last message (not shown here but was some lame excuse about playing cards with a friend and losing track of time lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 01:26 AM |
| 14 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysHis loss I guess, I’m definitely not going to see him now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:19 PM |
| 12 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysYeah this is what came before, I apologized for having to cancel because of a work thing and he said I owe him, so I’m sure he was gearing up to cancel in turn. https://imgur.com/a/t6Jceg5 At least I had a decent reason to cancel, though, not being hungover, and I was the only one who apologized :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:56 PM |
| 35 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysFunny part is I’m several years younger than him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 44 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysApparently (according to his reply, which I did not reply to lol) he was in his friends backyard playing card games and lost track of time?? What a way to get blackout drunk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 07:27 PM |
| 76 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysThank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 07:12 PM |
| 244 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boysI cackled after sending it. Old me would have felt bad and guilty but like how else am I supposed to respond LOL. This was already after I apologized to him for canceling earlier in the week because of work, and he said I owe him, but I don’t think so now lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 159 | I’m sick of being canceled on because 30 year old men somehow still can’t pace themselves with alcohol and act like frat boys(We were supposed to have our first date tonight but I felt he was gearing up to cancel with that hungover comment.) I’m the biggest lightweight EVER but I don’t get hungover because I pace myself, drink lots of water and never drink to the point where I’m slurring words. If anyone’s curious, this is what came before it - I had to cancel our last date because of a work thing - https://imgur.com/a/t6Jceg5 Thus I’m pretty sure he was just taking a lame excuse to cancel in turn. 🤷🏼♀️ At least I ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:37 PM |
| 0 | Let's discuss: my walmart is locking up condoms and pregnancy tests! This upsets me, these items need to be easily accessible. They literally page an employee to family planning for the whole store to hear and make you checkout asap.I went to buy condoms once “just in case” and had to ask an employee to unlock it. I heard her and her friend laughing behind my back as I walked out (and yes, they were laughing at me, because she was trying not to snicker the whole time she was unlocking it) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 11:55 PM |
| 238 | For those of you looking for signs of him being "Just Not That Into You": this is it!Today I learned no one has ever been genuinely interested in me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 11:04 PM |
| 7 | For those who deleted dating apps, how did you get over the fear of missing out?There’s nothing to miss out on, trust me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 10:57 PM |
| 21 | I’ve noticed a pattern: When guys ask you a ton of random questions and then the questions get less and less random.Lmaooo I wish I’d thought to say this!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:31 PM |
| 21 | Guy begs and pleads with me to keep him entertained during his flight 🤣Maybe he was trying to induce my maternal instincts. Extremely misguided of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 8 | Guy begs and pleads with me to keep him entertained during his flight 🤣Exactly! I spend enough time looking at screens, I’m not going to chain myself to one so you can have some in flight entertainment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 8 | Guy begs and pleads with me to keep him entertained during his flight 🤣You speak the gospel truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:42 PM |
| 12 | Guy begs and pleads with me to keep him entertained during his flight 🤣It’s sooo pathetic. Like .... even a small child can entertain themselves during a flight if they have a coloring book | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 34 | Guy begs and pleads with me to keep him entertained during his flight 🤣He’s 33! 😭😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Came across this today I have no wordsThanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Came across this today I have no wordsWhat book? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:01 PM |
| 2 | Lmao so basically I have to pay for both of us or you will LITERALLY run away, potentially get caught and sent to jail for committing a crime (theft)? ‘I got a feeling’ I would prefer to do almost anything, including cleaning my cat’s litter, rather than go on a date with you...thieving POSOmg psychoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Someone FedEx this dude a mirrorWhat post are you referring to in your first paragraph? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:03 AM |
| 6 | Lmao so basically I have to pay for both of us or you will LITERALLY run away, potentially get caught and sent to jail for committing a crime (theft)? ‘I got a feeling’ I would prefer to do almost anything, including cleaning my cat’s litter, rather than go on a date with you...thieving POSI’m confused, this first guy changed the locks in his apartment so he could adjust the heating and thermostat?? I’m so befuddled lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | RED FLAGS DONT LIE. Also: Research your suitors!Was it Kamil 😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:32 AM |
| 2 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!“Block them and move on” Have you ever experienced blocking a guy on a platform like text/Instagram (so not just unmatching on dating apps) and they track you down and ask you why?? I’ve had multiple guys make new accounts to ask me why I blocked them and it’s kinda freaky to say the least. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 12:16 AM |
| 5 | Men are perfectly capable of identifying body shaming when it happens to men. They just don't care when it happens to women, because they see us as their property. When women critique male bodies, we are upsetting the power dynamic in which men are whole human beings and women are consumable objectsI’ve been called shallow sooo many times for wanting a man who’s taller than me. (I’m nearly 6 foot). I got torn apart for daring to prefer a guy be simply an inch or two taller than me, so I don’t feel like Brienne of Tarth next to him. God forbid a tall woman would actually want to feel feminine for once. But on the flip side, super tall guys can obsess over 5’2” girls all they want, of course. THAT is perfectly ok! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Why are men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 5 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Yup :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 19 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Do some women fall for it? I mean I have extremely low self-esteem, but even I am not going to invite some random guy over to my house — especially for the first meeting, because he could literally rape me. Do some girls actually do this? Serious question. (I guess they must because otherwise these guys would’ve picked a different tactic) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:10 AM |
| 6 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Why is the real question. I guess because it’s fun to show me how much better he is than me, and how much better he can do? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:04 AM |
| 53 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Nobody wants to try to impress me. Every conversation with guys is like this lately. I guess I give off the vibe that I’m worthless and not to bother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:03 AM |
| 26 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!I don’t use bumble. This is Hinge, which is supposed to be the best... lol! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:37 AM |
| 56 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!The funny thing is, I bet they could get sex more easily from plenty of horny girls, if they just treated them with a bit of respect first. It’s like they self sabotage, so they can say that no girls will sleep with them.....well of course no girls will sleep with you, even super horny girls, because you insult them in the first few messages! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:35 AM |
| 30 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!If he was trying to impress me, he would probably ask me out, no? I am the one messaging them ... so to me, it looks like I am the loser who is trying to impress them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 19 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Dang, why does it say there are 11 comments on this post but I can only see 5? 🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:12 AM |
| 49 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Notice how he listed dinner among the things he normally does. But I’m my case, he suggested not that we get dinner, but that he come straight over to my house. It’s like he was throwing in my face that I’m not good enough to take out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:45 AM |
| 49 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Maybe that’s all I am worth tbh if this is the kind of messages I get ... I can’t help but think that. :/ He made such a big thing of not drinking that I was sure he was gonna suggest we grab a bite, he even said he normally does a bunch of things including “dinner”. He literally said dinner right in that list of things he typically does. But me, no, I don’t get dinner. I’m not good enough for that. No, I get him suggesting that he come directly to my house so I can paint him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:43 AM |
| 120 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Yeah unfortunately I get a lot of guys basically trying to show me how little they think of me. This other guy asked about my hobbies and seemed very very skeptical, like “oh you do ___ huh, really” and when I explained them he never replied (I’m telling myself it was because he was intimidated lol). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Good thing he told me not to send anything “too graphic” or else I would’ve sent him a full image of my private parts! Thank GOD he stopped me!!!My Instagram is also sufficiently revealing, if you want to see my body (lots of bikini and gym pics). But noodle arms guy wasn’t content with that no, he was really trying to determine every facet of my physical body before deciding if he wanted to risk a date with me. Good thing I blocked him before he started asking for a full, LIVE video of my body to rule out photoshopping out any scars or stretch marks or whatever he’d deem offensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 07:22 PM |
| 15 | Hint that I come straight over to your place and then ask me to decide the plans? BlockedHe was! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:01 AM |
| 205 | Hint that I come straight over to your place and then ask me to decide the plans? BlockedOr girlfriend. And yeah, that’s the case most of the time. I swear, half the guys I’ve bothered to vet via social media have had girlfriends lurking in tagged pictures. One of them actually went to the trouble to hide his Instagram story from me after he posted a pic with his girlfriend, little did he know I have a second account ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 182 | Hint that I come straight over to your place and then ask me to decide the plans? BlockedHe was also three inches shorter than me and barely average looking, you’d think he had the sense not to be acting like the type of guys who could potentially be successful in ordering girls to their place! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 94 | Hint that I come straight over to your place and then ask me to decide the plans? BlockedBefore blocking I told him he should find a different p**** delivery service cause that’s not me and I’d be getting dinner with someone who had the guts to ask me out 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:09 PM |
| 13 | As the weather gets colder, walk dates are no more. They have been replaced by requests to meet at a stranger’s house for the first time.I want to print out this comment and distribute it to every girl/woman on earth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 05:17 PM |
| 141 | One guy said:” I wouldn’t have answered it. That was dry.” So what was she supposed to do? Add an emoji?🤨Yeah, not even a question mark? Match their energy and suddenly they get sooo sensitive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Yes. We don't owe men anything.What is the A spot? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Yes. We don't owe men anything.Same lol. I hope their dicks fall off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Comeback queenI prefer men who either finish in 10 seconds or get soft and cant finish. Being pornsick is hawt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:40 PM |
| 1 | "Jokes"I bet he watches father/stepfather - daughter porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 1 | I saw this on another site and just had to share it here. Holy f.It probably already itches from all the shit in it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 11:27 PM |
| 3 | She needs FDS (also her friends are rubbish)I agree, this is fucking sad and the people calling her stupid have clearly never been in a situation like this let alone been gaslit and manipulated without having the benefit of “amazing girlfriends” to cheerlead them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 09:53 PM |
| 15 | Don't let them trick you, BDSM was never empowering.How can I even prevent this in the future? This one sided shit happened to me in every relationship I’ve ever been in and it took me years to realize it’s not normal ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 18 | Is it just me or is there a mild conspiracy to make women lower their standards of physical attractiveness?I don’t think they are but if having a six pack is unhealthy for anyone it’s more so for women than men, who are supposed to have a lower body fat percentage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:30 AM |
| 8 | Mood for 2021Lol reminds me of the guy who I asked if he was back in town, he said he would be in a couple months. Fast forward to a couple months later, I texted him again with a comment about his story (in my town) and he didn’t reply... A week later he asked ME if I was in town. I said yes and never heard from him again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseI have encountered these men. They tend to be really hot.... the ugly ones feel like they need to lie about wanting a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 3 | online dating...Except unlike fake bags, the fake good men have a not insubstantial chance of injuring/maiming you eventually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:17 AM |
| 12 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens?The regret can be bad sis. I’ve had it myself. All that wasted time, etc. Good thing to remember is you’re here now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:13 AM |
| 62 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens?Lol and it’s so dumb like do they expect us to be hurt by this?? Oh no I have disappointed Brad #325 From Tinder 😰😰😰 however shall I cope | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:56 AM |
| 182 | Raise your hand if you’ve been personally asked to fly/drive across the country to meet a man. Do some pickmes actually do this? Is this a real thing that happens?You may have spared yourself more than humiliation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:31 AM |
| 20 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usProjection, they’re the ones who cry divorce rape | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 17 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usCheese dick 🤢 Too accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:59 AM |
| 10 | The sooner they get their robots the better for usBy that do you mean men love being rejected? Or doing the rejecting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:59 AM |
| 47 | 🤮 this is the way he speaks about his wifeWtf that audio in the second one made me cringe with how passionate and strained his voice was ?? Like the pure impotent anger ?? It reminded me of me yelling at my dad when I was like 12. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:55 AM |
| 16 | This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this?What tribes are these and where can I join | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:51 AM |
| 4 | This is so disturbing. Who even thinks like this?“Sex is a basic human need” .....didn’t a large percentage of men not even get to pass down their genetics in the prehistoric days because Chad was getting all the girls for himself 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:50 AM |
| 77 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.This is always their excuse. Can’t look at you the same since we started dating, because you’ve switched from “whore” to “Madonna” in my mind. Can’t look at you the same since we got married. Can’t look at you the same since you birthed my child. Men are dysfunctional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:43 AM |
| 12 | Kelly Stamps video on a date who “forgot” his wallet at a dinner, forcibly followed her home, Venmo’d her back the next day, and then requested half back when he realized there wouldn’t be a date 2Yeah I’m a recovering pickme and even I wouldn’t have ever asked a guy out ... for a walk date no less 🥴 She even was making excuses for it like “it’s so fun and chill and you don’t have to commit to an entire dinner”. Hmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 08:11 PM |
| 6 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeIt doesn’t even work. It makes the entrance messed up and the canal crooked and makes sex painful. Source : had it, never had children tho. Just an ex who complained that (i guess related to my tall figure and wide hips) I was too loose compared to the 5’0” 17 year old Asian girls he was used to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:53 PM |
| 34 | Same, Queen. No more walking on eggshells or living in fear always anxiously anticipating the next outburst.And fawn, which explains trauma bonding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:42 PM |
| 19 | Same, Queen. No more walking on eggshells or living in fear always anxiously anticipating the next outburst.This was my entire dating life 😔 every time, the scent of being abused gets more and more ingrained into me. Men can smell it on me. I’m scared to start dating again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:42 PM |
| 6 | This is a hard but important lesson to learn.A lot of guys can only get turned on by girls they don’t have an emotional connection to. Madonna whore complex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 10:01 PM |
| 4 | There is always societal pressure to be ~attractive to men~, but breaking down this standard to the individual guys themselves takes a lot of the pressure off. The average guy is not worth pleasing.This is so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 12 | There is always societal pressure to be ~attractive to men~, but breaking down this standard to the individual guys themselves takes a lot of the pressure off. The average guy is not worth pleasing.Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 10 | There is always societal pressure to be ~attractive to men~, but breaking down this standard to the individual guys themselves takes a lot of the pressure off. The average guy is not worth pleasing.Yes. They’ll start fixating on elbows and earlobes. And you’ll end up getting toe surgery like Cristina Villegas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:38 PM |
| 82 | There is always societal pressure to be ~attractive to men~, but breaking down this standard to the individual guys themselves takes a lot of the pressure off. The average guy is not worth pleasing.If the girl is a virgin they will treat her worse because she doesn’t have experience and thus low expectations 🤫 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:46 AM |
| 7 | DONT TELL MEN ABOUT PAST PARTNERS, ESP WITH OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE THEY CANT HANDLE IT.Hehe story time ! My ex was sooo annoyed that I did threesomes with my first boyfriend. I was traumatized from them and he’d basically forced me into them, but did my second ex care? No. He whined about how I did threesomes with the first guy and not him. Then he claimed he was joking. Lol, if I’d agreed to a threesome he wouldn’t have been joking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:22 AM |
| 18 | DONT TELL MEN ABOUT PAST PARTNERS, ESP WITH OTHER WOMEN BECAUSE THEY CANT HANDLE IT.My ex was sooo annoyed that I did threesomes with my first boyfriend. I was traumatized from them and he’d basically forced me into them, but did my second ex care? No. He whined about how I did threesomes with the first guy and not him. Then he claimed he was joking. Lol, if I’d agreed to a threesome he wouldn’t have been joking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:21 AM |
| 16 | Why do these questions rub me the wrong way?Men are soooo paranoid about fat. My ex would freak out if I gained even 3 lbs (my BMI was 19-20) because he was scared I’d balloon and magically stop being skinny — even though my mom is super thin. Lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 10 | Anyone else see this on r/tinder? No. Just no.Not promiscuous. But emotionally vulnerable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:16 AM |
| 49 | Why are all the stories of women buying houses with their boyfriends nightmare fuel?YES! Oh my god, my psycho narc sociopath ex said he loved dogs and hated cats because dogs were so loyal and obedient. He also said he loved me because I was obedient. The red flags were flying, but I couldn’t see them because I was a naive inexperienced teenager (which he also loved). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:40 AM |
| 4 | Do not let him gaslight you! You're not crazy, it's your intuition saying something's up, follow it.What? Like you can just put someone’s email into the tinder signup and it will sign you in to their existing account?? It can’t be that easy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Do not let him gaslight you! You're not crazy, it's your intuition saying something's up, follow it.Years ago I cheated on a much older ex to get back at him for forcing me to do threesomes. Men on Reddit blamed me for what happened after (the ex beating me) and said I was monkey branching. I did it to get back at him; not to find a new relationship!! Idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:30 AM |
| 4 | Do not let him gaslight you! You're not crazy, it's your intuition saying something's up, follow it.Wow he sounds so full of contempt and condescension. He literally hated you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:22 AM |
| 16 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthI have unresolved childhood trauma but I don’t treat people like this. It’s something about the male brain | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:17 AM |
| 22 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthYup the strongest behavioral conditioner on the planet. They do it on purpose, scrotes are so manipulative it’s sick. Imagine if they put that brainpower to use to actually help the world, no they’d rather hurt people with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:09 AM |
| 11 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthThat’s such a turn off 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:07 AM |
| 7 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthHe would’ve said that no matter what you said lmao what a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:07 AM |
| 8 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthA guy once faked an emergency to leave after sex and then blocked me everywhere. He could’ve just left, I wasn’t exactly begging him to stay, but I guess he wanted to fuck with my head the most?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Grimes talking about having unprotected sex with Elon Musk is horrifying yet painfully relatable: a "sort of tragedy", "sacrificing your body and your freedom", "capitulation", profound commitment"Uh oh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:36 AM |
| 28 | Clueless scrote in the dating over forty whining about how his "date" wasn't an "adult" because she didn't want to talk about his dick after only 1 "date". Then has the NERVE to advise the rest of us that he did HER a favor and DOING US a favor by putting PSA in the subject line.Reminds me of my parents giving me the talk lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 02:08 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, I present to you, The Scrotes of PPD: Where Male “10s” are 5ft6 and 58 years old, racial discrimination is unfair to men only, and Adriana Lima is Ugly and Masculine. Screeeeeaming at the delusion 🤣🤣Gal Gadot ! No way her ass isn’t big enough. /s (and yes I have heard this) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 12:14 AM |
| 1 | A tale from the vault: The one time my narc ex ate poisonous berries right after I told him they were poisonous and he blamed me when he got raging diarrhea 🤦♀️They’re like three year olds Did yours do that demented childlike laugh too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 1 | The comments on this are so sad...He is fucking that friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What... the FuCK? 🤡😳Yup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 06:13 PM |
| 3 | What’s the best story you have about “ownership?”Lol I dated one. He holds blackmail material over me to this day and after we broke up he wanted me to get my vagina sewn up so I could never have sex with anyone else ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:58 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best story you have about “ownership?”My ex wanted me to get my vagina sewn up so I could never have sex with anyone else ever again and only do anal with him. I think I win this thread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Men suck sometimes lolFirst one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:52 AM |
| 1 | Men can turn on you at any moment, even if you're famous.Yup. I thought I was some odd girl out until I learned that 2 of my friends have been beaten severely by men ... and that’s just the heavy stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Why did I have to fall in love with a horrible, selfish liar?They will always blame you for “fucking it up” even if they literally murdered someone. Manipulation | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Asking for men to pull their weight is MaNiPuLaTiOnYou get hit, screamed at, denied sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:51 AM |
| 3 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?Oh dang I read that wrong 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:42 AM |
| 3 | He asked me to split the bill on our 3rd date“Is that hard for you?” Ew what a condescending ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 11 | Guy I was dating attempted to ghost me after I got sexually harassedYup. He saw you as damaged goods after that one small thing. And nothing physical even happened to you... best believe if it had, he’d have ghosted straight away. I left the house once at night, and my then-boyfriend told me in anger (aka in honesty) “don’t come back after you got all used up by several guys”. Meaning don’t come back if you’ve been gang raped because you’d be damaged goods. They really show how they think of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Is it just me or there’s something off with this post? It gives me major pickme vibes. Like how can you feel this way about a guy you’ve known for two seconds??Oh dear I remember posting that Dr Suess quote on my FB back in the day. Spoiler the guy turned out to be abusive ( and Dr S was a shitbag as well) 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:42 AM |
| 20 | LVMS and “post nut clarity”I had to beg my ex to cuddle with me after sex. He seemed so bored and annoyed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:40 AM |
| 18 | What... the FuCK? 🤡😳No it’s unfortunately very common. They can’t feel pleasure with normal vaginas anymore (hers isn’t even normal it’s got vaginismus which means it’s tighter than normal). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 11 | Subtle red flags to watch out forUh oh .... There’s a lot of pictures of me in my feed 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:33 AM |
| 10 | Where's the lie?Lol funny sorry, at one point my sadistic ex came back asking if I’d want to have anal sex with him!! How delusional can you get? Why would I want to all of a sudden have sex with someone who abused me years ago, in a way that doesn’t provide ANY pleasure for me?? WHY? They’re delusional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:17 AM |
| 12 | Where's the lie?It’s a nightmare out there. Guys who want to shove wine bottles (the big part not the stem) into you. Guys who want threesomes. Guys who want anal. Guys who want to film sex. Guys who want you to film yourself having sex with someone else. And I use “want” but sometimes it’s “expect” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | I believe there is some truth to it for sure. Any thoughts ?Wait so if your friend comes to you asking for advice about her relationship you straight up block her?! Lmao cold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:12 AM |
| 7 | My wish for 2021 and beyond is that more women realise that they don’t have to put up with callous, selfish behaviour in their relationships.🙄When it BENEFITS them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 01:10 AM |
| 11 | Do you get stressed out when guys are too eager?Yes!! That’s what I thought too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 09:30 PM |
| 6 | Why do men have such shit self care routines?“Buttery teeth” 😨😨😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | This is SO hard for LVM to wrap their minds around.What movie is it ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:55 PM |
| 7 | I think the f*ck notTruth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:15 AM |
| 2 | My friend sent me this pic of a pickme throwing herself at her boyfriend (who just told the pickme he was in a relationship). How much do you wanna bet he still cheated with her a few days later?Apparently. The funny thing is his gf is a professional model. This girl looks like a toad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:01 AM |
| 14 | My friend sent me this pic of a pickme throwing herself at her boyfriend (who just told the pickme he was in a relationship). How much do you wanna bet he still cheated with her a few days later?“Brake”s my heart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 12:47 AM |
| 20 | This is an AD I always see for Hinge (OLD). Hinge is showcasing, encouraging, and promoting LVM behavior. Stay away queens.The same faces. Over and over. It begins to feel like a level of Hell... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:07 AM |
| 29 | Ofcourse you find it attractive for a girl to be insecure because it is easier to use her. I have heard many times scrotes saying that they want an insecure girlfriend because it is easier to manipulate her.My first bf told me he loved that I was “humble.” (I had a raging ED and self harm scars on my body) Predictably, he used my insecurities to force me into doing fucked up sex acts for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 12:03 AM |
| 9 | Sorry that a part of my body that’s designed to feed my babies is unattractive to you /sOH MY GOD I just looked that up. Horrifying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:56 PM |
| 10 | The child actor in the pictures is 12 year old now, she was around 7-8 when the movie was released. But look at the thousands of men "excited" At her being a beautiful pre-teen because she's a female..... There are a lot more pedophiles than we can guess. Gross gross gross.Yup. I’m sure it’s at least 80% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:54 AM |
| 5 | Girl wants to send her boyfriend nudes but feels self conscious, predictable replies ensueLol there’s a huge chance he’ll leak them or at least use them for blackmail material. I have a psycho ex who’s done this to at least two girls (including me), holding them for a rainy day... not sure if he’s leaked mine yet, I think he likes to hold it over my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:49 AM |
| 19 | having sex with a LVMLmao you just know they’re used to either too much porn (that’s a given tho) or Pickmes faking 10,000 orgasms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 07:07 AM |
| 32 | As if all women exist to look pretty for him, this guy asks his gf's sister to shave her legs! The audacity!I can’t find the original post, did it get deleted? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 12:49 AM |
| 4 | "If he wanted to, he would. He didn't because he did NOT want to."Oh right ok makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 04:41 AM |
| 16 | "If he wanted to, he would. He didn't because he did NOT want to."But like right now, I want to text him and I’m not. So... isn’t that kind of the opposite of what you’re saying? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:49 AM |
| 5 | I’m a part-time writer, and I saw this on a romance book sub. I hope it gives you ladies a laugh! For some reason, I feel like this is what a lot of men have to offer. 🤔🤣🤣 (and, usually not even the fitness part)I’m 5’10” and 140 lbs so maybe I’m biased lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 09:19 PM |
| 2 | I really hope she will get away from him... He honestly sounds like a lunatic.Go Lundy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:49 PM |
| 44 | I’m a part-time writer, and I saw this on a romance book sub. I hope it gives you ladies a laugh! For some reason, I feel like this is what a lot of men have to offer. 🤔🤣🤣 (and, usually not even the fitness part)He can lift her. That’s above average right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 6 | if that ain’t the truth. we need to start looking at cheating as the man’s defect and not what the woman was lacking.I see you’ve met my ex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 6 | out in the wild...couldn’t be me 🤮🤮Good friends are such a blessing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:28 AM |
| 6 | Umm, no. She's not attracting anything. He's just a pervert. So sick of media making women's appearances the problem.It was super large, in fact so big it dragged on the ground and tripped the men, which was unfortunately their fetish :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:37 AM |
| 23 | This poor girl.No wonder everyone is so fucked up nowadays. (Read: men) the human brain is not designed for this level of dopamine spikes and access to porn and the consequences are going to be ugly. They already are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:32 AM |
| 17 | This poor girl.Another reason porn does nothing for me. They’re so gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:31 AM |
| 28 | This poor girl.When you can feel it getting softer and softer and eventually they just stop entirely and you go to the bathroom and try not to cry :))))) (old memories) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:30 AM |
| 9 | This poor girl.I bet he doesn’t fuck her as often as she’d like. No need to wonder why. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:28 AM |
| 15 | Umm, no. She's not attracting anything. He's just a pervert. So sick of media making women's appearances the problem.Instructions unclear, wore a potato sack outside and got “sexy potato” harassment comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:27 AM |
| 14 | Umm, no. She's not attracting anything. He's just a pervert. So sick of media making women's appearances the problem.Because guys wish they could be like him and marry their adopted daughters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:27 AM |
| 6 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itBean-shamer. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:23 AM |
| 7 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from it😂😂😂 you BEAN SHAMED HIM!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:23 AM |
| 11 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itYeah they would literally murder the woman in that case. But women should be expected to be fine with a guy who basically doesn’t have a dick. Please. Even the god damn Bible says that a wife AND a husband should both “do their duty” to the other, meaning the husband should be expected to be able to fuck his wife. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:22 AM |
| 5 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itLmao I would sure mind. And I’m sure most women would. Such a pickme line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:20 AM |
| 7 | We create life and they mock us for the marks resulting from itMy ex used to rag on my small boobs all the time. Finally I snapped and made a comment about his dick (which wasn’t even small). I was terrified, thought he was going to punch me in the head. They’re so fucking fragile and hypocritical. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:20 AM |
| 19 | I used to seek validation and closure from my past relationship. A very wise HVM told me “if he’s telling you who he is through his actions listen to him and drop him, sis!” No truer words spoken. Lesson learned. Moving on...I’ve had to beg every guy I’ve dated to treat me like a human being. Not worth it anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:18 AM |
| 10 | I'm having some flashbacks...Not gonna lie, I’ve been on the right side of this (although more in my own head than saying it aloud). When I was a teenager, mostly, arguing with my parents. At that time I was a super angry kid and I knew I was wrong, like it was obvious to me, and I got defensive to drown those thoughts out. These guys are older than teenagers, so they FOR SURE know they’re wrong, and get defensive so they don’t have to address their wrongdoing. Gross. I grew out of this shit at 15. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:17 AM |
| 13 | The kid doesn't have 'game', he's being a nice human being.100%. Bet he doesn’t even check in on his mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:15 AM |
| 118 | Don't have kids with LVM.Even in my darkest pick me days, we’re talking getting surgery for some dude, I would’ve never had kids without being married. Why do some women do this? Are they just desperate for children?? But some are super young, not close to infertility ... I don’t get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:14 AM |
| 13 | I ignored all the red flags and let a POS dull my intuition to cheat, use and abuse me for 2 years. Never again.Wow I hope he gets mistakenly captured and tortured by the Mexican mafia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:12 AM |
| 1 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseNo worries. They are indeed bad in bed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseI’m on anti depressants :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:15 PM |
| 2 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseI’ve had sex with lesbians, I’m pretty sure I’ve had every flavor of oral out there. It’s just not my thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 06:14 PM |
| 10 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseUm, what? I was talking about the two X chromosomes user, but go off. Sorry I’m creepy?? You’re clearly tracking my comments to other users, I’d argue that’s more creepy :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:01 AM |
| 90 | out in the wild...couldn’t be me 🤮🤮This comment made me want to shove your ex husband’s head in the toilet. How disgusting of him to blame you for “punishing him for being honest.” Glad you got out. What did prompt you to leave in the end if i may ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:34 AM |
| 13 | out in the wild...couldn’t be me 🤮🤮100%. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 04:33 AM |
| 16 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseDo you mean to tell me that some needle-dicked scrote told you that your preference for big dicks is proof you don’t have good sex?! Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Men: “Just give us a signal you’re open to being approached!” Women: “Ok, how?” Men: “Ask us out”If I can ask, what kind of games did he play? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 02:46 AM |
| 19 | Men: “Just give us a signal you’re open to being approached!” Women: “Ok, how?” Men: “Ask us out”Kind of confusing how they claim they can’t read signals and need 13 of them, but the next moment they think we’re craving for their dick because we say hello lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:06 AM |
| 49 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseReverse cowgirl 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:06 AM |
| 19 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseThank you. I’d even suggest it’s a bit sexist, telling women what they are and aren’t permitted to prefer. On two X chromosomes, someone once told me I’ve clearly never had good sex and I’m just like, dude, yes I have, I think I would know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:05 AM |
| 11 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseNo, that’s not what I meant haha. I haven’t been seeing guys lately and basically been staying celibate for a while because the current state is so disappointing. Not all of these examples are super recent experiences, in fact most are from a while ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:38 PM |
| 28 | The disappointment of heterosexual intercourseI don’t like oral. I have had it from men and, yes, women. I know how to give myself an O but I prefer (good) PIV. (Most of the time the PIV sucks.) I agree with you about the winter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 61 | Men: “Just give us a signal you’re open to being approached!” Women: “Ok, how?” Men: “Ask us out”And that hot women are gonna walk up to them in the street and ask them for a coffee ... their treat of course ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Men: “Just give us signals that you’re receptive to being approached!” Women: “Ok, how?” Men: “Ask us out”?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:55 PM |
| 30 | Even Tumblr knowsOh, you’re wrong. I’ve seen Reddit posts where women are asking for something........for RESPECT and EMPATHY and CARING. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:39 PM |
| 8 | This is why I don’t want kids (at least not with a LVM). I can’t imagine not being able to do my hobbies... I’d wilt like a dead flowerHe probably already is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 09:08 PM |
| 73 | This is why I don’t want kids (at least not with a LVM). I can’t imagine not being able to do my hobbies... I’d wilt like a dead flowerFull article here - https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/273615/ This is just an aside, and potentially kind of mean, but I noticed how well spoken Susannah was, whereas the guy they interviewed right after her had his sentences riddled with countless “um”s. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:42 AM |
| 77 | Oh Holy HellYup. Having an abusive father is actually way more likely to result in an abusives man than an abusive mother. - Lundy Bancroft | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:56 AM |
| 114 | Oh Holy HellThey only care about your feelings when it negatively impacts their life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 05:55 AM |
| 8 | The “Arrangement” 🤣This is 100% a joke... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 4 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.But you’re missing something here. The post was told from the guy’s point of view — he’s not gonna include any extra, unnecessary information that makes him look worse. So who knows if she’s tried to say “no” to him before and got punished for it by screaming, throwing things, taking away sex, etc. She probably got to the point where she was so beaten down she was too afraid to say no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.I hope !!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:29 PM |
| 9 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words.*a female stranger | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:27 PM |
| 13 | My friend has been using OLD recently and told me 10 men in a row have asked her for a PARK DATE. I AM GOING TO SCREAM!!!!Nightly walks to girls’ houses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:17 PM |
| 21 | Poor woman, awful husbandThey go into so much detail. Talking about whether a woman is “tight” or “loose,” how her labia looks, how down she was to do various degrading sexual acts, whether she might be down for a three some. They ALL do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 35 | THE BAR IS SO LOW ITS UNDERGROUNDHe probably tells her he wishes she were thicker and had bigger boobs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:51 PM |
| 42 | Actions speak louder than wordsSame. They think we’re crying to manipulate because that’s what they’d do. Projection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 09:38 PM |
| 1 | On a post about a woman getting into a car accident and her boyfriend not giving a single fuck - a great example of how women are expected to stay in relationships that aren't serving them in any positive way.Wow love how everyone is blaming her for being “dramatic” and “not communicating her needs”. As though a grown adult man wouldn’t know that he’d be expected to show a little concern after his gf was in an accident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 04:20 PM |
| 3 | On a post about a woman getting into a car accident and her boyfriend not giving a single fuck - a great example of how women are expected to stay in relationships that aren't serving them in any positive way.Where’s the OP? I want to read it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 01:51 AM |
| 17 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.Yeah def don’t tell anyone. And for gods sake not a boyfriend!! They can beat you bloody and abuse you mentally for months and then say “she has BPD” and suddenly you’re the bad guy, not them. Source: happened to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 10 | “It doesn’t matter if he cheats as long as you know he loves you” - a friend of a friend. Can she be saved?She def doesn’t “cheat” on him because it’s different for women apparently She comes from a culture where men are macho and jealous and women are ... domestic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else notice this?*it’d be okay because he would then cheat on her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:20 PM |
| 21 | Heck yes!! I love seeing people stand up and say no to memes that objective woman’s bodies. :)Fun fact sometimes men bond by gang raping women! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:16 PM |
| 8 | What happened to dating (and men) in the past years?PoRn pRiDe!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | What happened to dating (and men) in the past years?99.8% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Women with an "attitude"This is a good way to get beaten up by one of those guys. It’s clever, but it’s TOO clever. They won’t be able to stand it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:09 AM |
| 19 | Girl slides in dm and drives hours to go meet a guy she saw on tik tok . I hate how women “shooting their shot” is becoming popular & normalized on social media. Ladies lesson to be learned is to never chase a man! We unfortunately know how this will end😶Yeah that made me go WTF. I can’t imagine a scenario if I posted a selfie THAT I TOOK, someone relied to it with “wow”, and I’d reply “yeah sorry I don’t look very good” ... that makes NO SENSE. Even as a self hating cringey AF self-deprecating 15 year old I wouldn’t have done that. How did she fall for a grown man doing it ?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:05 AM |
| 18 | Girl slides in dm and drives hours to go meet a guy she saw on tik tok . I hate how women “shooting their shot” is becoming popular & normalized on social media. Ladies lesson to be learned is to never chase a man! We unfortunately know how this will end😶And it’s probably gonna last one minute at most! Back in the car you go girlie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 02:04 AM |
| 3 | For 3 years I had hope in changing my LV husband. I gave him his last chance 2 months ago and I’m finally leaving.I was legit gonna message you cause i think I know this guy 😂 up until you said you don’t have kids: the guy I know has a kid. thank god you don’t! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:54 AM |
| 3 | This is so good, I had to post it hereOr only love their mom, hence why they look for a mommy girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:52 AM |
| 7 | This is so good, I had to post it hereLol. Your question is incredibly naive. A lot of guys are like this believe it or not. Men can fuck women they hate, it’s no problem for them ... an emotional connection / caring is NOT necessary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:51 AM |
| 5 | This is so good, I had to post it hereI had an ex who told me the exact same thing. It’s so messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Just like nature intendedWhat subreddits? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Why did he ask these questions?That’s scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:25 AM |
| 8 | Why did he ask these questions?Lol my ex did! Abusive psycho who nearly killed me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:24 AM |
| 52 | LVM out here “cooking” dog food and frozen broccoli on “dates.” I’d literally rather go to the field.THEY ALWAYS DO THIS!! They want to feel chased, so they kind of try to twist it around so that we’re asking them for a date. It’s bizarre | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 04:02 AM |
| 10 | Stay away from Portland. There's nothing for you there.Bumble | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 03:59 AM |
| 9 | If a man brings this guy up on the first date, run for your f*cking life.He reminds me of my covert narc ex tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 03:55 AM |
| 5 | Wife gives him a sex coupon and the first thoughts that cross his mind are abuse and humiliation.I know right?! Why would you want to ACTIVELY TRAUMATIZE someone you claim to love? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 18 | This is grossThey don’t grow up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 10:05 PM |
| 14 | This is grossI hope you went somewhere immediately after he said that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 10:04 PM |
| 2 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogYup. My HV grandpa would save bugs ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 05:37 PM |
| 6 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogI didn’t. I don’t want to let him know what parts of himself are going to be off putting to sane women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 07:07 AM |
| 6 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogExactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 01:53 AM |
| 7 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dog100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:34 PM |
| 14 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogAlready did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 12 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogAbsolutely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:33 PM |
| 8 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogI don’t have the video; it’s one of those Instagram ones that disappears immediately. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 11:09 PM |
| 18 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogDoubtful. I don’t even have any evidence, it was a disappearing video (Instagram). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 09:25 PM |
| 122 | I feel like this guy raised a red flag by sending me a video of him hurting/annoying a dogMy male friend said it was funny .... considering blocking him too. I honestly just think all guys are like this. They find pleasure in hurting things that can’t easily hurt them back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 09:11 PM |
| 3 | I love when men say “you look like you don’t take yourself too seriously” /sThat’s terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:58 PM |
| 30 | On HingeWhy did I just get a flashback to freshman orientation “share some fun facts about yourself to the class!!” No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:54 PM |
| 57 | Oh of course, no problem. I believe what you’re looking for is a free whore? I hate it here. Marriage seems unattainable with what this internet has allowed me to see.“Please don’t be mean!!!” Dude knows he deserves it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:54 PM |
| 36 | paultrick over here is full of red flags 🚩🚩We aren’t. Men are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:53 PM |
| 7 | Sean Connery’s death has inspired the manosphere to start saying the quiet & implied part of their whole ethos out loud.Is this the guy who beat Madonna? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:52 PM |
| 15 | He thought threatening me was romantic.What the hell that is terrifying. I hope you’re far away from him now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 07:50 PM |
| 3 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️What kinds of things did you do for your ex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.He did way worse to me, I just recalled this incident today though. Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | According to scrotes, "Biology" only applies to them.I think I was kind of raped by my ex? We were having normal sex and he pulled out and put his dick in my ass. We had had anal before and I started to say “you can’t...” (meaning you can’t put it back in my V after it’s been in my ass because I’d get an infection) but he thought I was trying to STOP him because as he kept fucking me in the ass he said “it’s too late I’m already inside” :/ Is that rape? Or like ... he thought it was rape?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 4 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.Probably more like 75% but I’m a pessimist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:18 PM |
| 2 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.Yeah, they feel bad for the little boys but not the women because deep down they think it’s all women are good for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:16 PM |
| 2 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.Fuck :( I’m so sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:15 PM |
| 6 | About a third of college men would force a woman to have sex if there were no consequences, study reveals.Yup, Brock Turner the rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Boy becomes a douche after woman refuses to share her ig for privacy reasons. The level of entitlement this scrote has is unmatched.This is the same mood as when they say they’re done talking and you don’t reply... so they block you so you can’t respond. As if you were going to. 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:13 AM |
| 5 | This is why you don't give second chances to LVMs and have kids with them. Nope.The ironic part is that given what we know about pregnancy hormones, he likely WAS getting some at home....or, more accurately, he probably wouldn’t fuck her because her pregnant stomach turned him off. Disgusting (him, not her) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:09 AM |
| 5 | This is why you don't give second chances to LVMs and have kids with them. Nope.Or living together, or married ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Listen to your brain, listen to body. Remove all stressful elements from your life.I’m confused about the last paragraph. How does the trauma bond keep you safe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:06 AM |
| 10 | Men with an impossibly long list of "preferences" don't actually require a potential girlfriend to meet every single one, they just want the opportunity to devalue any woman who might date them, and an excuse to always keep one foot out the door looking for someone betterLiterally what is the point of trying to be in a relationship anymore lmao. It seems like an overwhelming percentage of men just want to emotionally beat you down and destroy you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 02:05 AM |
| 84 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.I’m 5’11” and my 6’4” ex told me not to wear heels because I was “too tall” in them lol 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 133 | They will ALWAYS find a way to blame women for their misogyny.Yup. It’s just biological. Funny how guys love the “biological” excuse for wanting to date teenagers but god forbid we have a biological reason to want to feel protected. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 10 | Sante | Relationship Coach on Instagram: “Most men are deeply frustrated by women. They don’t understand how to love these “illogical”, “irrational” beings. Women don’t stay true to…”Just go on the relationships advice subforums and see the women asking “how can I communicate better that I don’t want my partner to insult me / neglect me / belittle me? I’ve told him but he still doesn’t seem to understand!” Girl.... :/ and what’s worse is, sometimes people will still put it on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 03:53 AM |
| 49 | Romcoms may have tried to twist our perception of healthy relationships but this lady schools all nice guys into thinking otherwise.Ikr. This makes me scared | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 03:46 AM |
| 9 | I mean...🤷♀️Is this Alexander Ludwig? He looks so familiar 😳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:00 AM |
| 3 | Remember that LVM/NVM are the rule and not the exception--anyone who tells you otherwise is a pickme. Men ghost us all the time, it's only fair to give them a taste of some eQuAliTy rIgHt nOw sInCe wOmEn hAvE aLl tHe DaTiNg AdVaNtAgEsI know a lot of guys will use that whole “men not feeling empathy” fact as an excuse for their lack of empathy. But what if you’ve been in a relationship with a guy for years, and he still doesn’t seem to feel empathy for you? That would be a bigger red flag than a guy simply not feeling empathy for you after a couple of dates, no? Because by that time you would expect him to have a deep emotional connection with you...and he still doesn’t give a shit! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 3 | Reason #473726 to never entertain a coffee date. No response even necessary just block and delete! This poor woman. Porn/sex addiction is real and it’s prevalent, and easy to hide.AMALT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:08 PM |
| 2 | You shouldn't have to beg for respect. Never *love* a man who would disregard you like this.They find it fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 28 | Reminder: Never EVER build a man up. He will throw it all back in your faceThey get stepped on every day and thrown out when they develop too much wear and tear! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | You don't owe anyone a chance. You can end an interaction/relationship WITHOUT having to justify your decision.Lmaoo yes whenever we leave they cry and beg and plead but when they leave us and we do the same? They’re cold as ice lol. It comes so easily to them and they take advantage of women’s caring natures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:32 AM |
| 8 | 🙄 also, why do men insist on calling us “females” tf*preteens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:16 AM |
| 16 | Ariana Grande’s New Song “positions” 😬I hated that, ugh. Typical self absorbed pick me who delights in “snagging” taken men and feeling superior because she got them to give up their girlfriend for her. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | “Don’t You Miss Sex??”Aw the poor turtle I’d feel bad for it and carry it ... turtles are nicer than men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:36 AM |
| 5 | “Don’t You Miss Sex??”Omg was it like skid marks? Or like a lump of actual shit? How big? Imma need deets 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | Do you give men the benefit of the doubt when they cancel/reschedule dates last minute?Those aren’t my hearts! They’re the hearts that appear when someone else (in this case him) likes a message! 😨 (on Instagram) I’m like, you think I would do that? 😅😅😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 08:45 PM |
| 111 | What hard lessons did you learn over the years through dating?Story time!! I had a boyfriend pretend to break up with me once for a joke. He texted me saying maybe it’s not working out and that he’d call me in 15 minutes when he was off work. I spent that 15 minutes shaking and crying. He called me to say he was joking. It didn’t even bother me that much at the time because I was soooo relieved. But I see now how cruel it was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:59 AM |
| 7 | Uh, sure guy. Men are victims more than women 🙄🙄Oh dang that makes more sense. They didn’t have to phrase it in such a confusing way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 12:49 AM |
| 7 | Uh, sure guy. Men are victims more than women 🙄🙄Violence being something verbal and/or reactive had never occurred to me. Idk. Seems very misleading. I just can totally see guys taking that study and running with it to say that women are actually more abusive lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:00 PM |
| 6 | Uh, sure guy. Men are victims more than women 🙄🙄For real ?? That’s disgusting wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:36 PM |
| 2 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?Ignore them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:15 PM |
| 22 | How does a HVW deal with catcalling?100%!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:14 PM |
| 7 | Uh, sure guy. Men are victims more than women 🙄🙄Rates of female perpetrated violence are higher than male perpetrated violence ... really? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:04 PM |
| 7 | How do you have standards for dates during Covid? Do we just not date right now?Yeah a guy lied to me about having antibodies. Can’t trust them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 01:17 AM |
| 1 | What made you question or doubt if your abuse was abuse?Did he say you were always being a victim or “being victimized” or “playing the victim”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | What made you question or doubt if your abuse was abuse?Oh my god. What a monster. I’m so angry for you I’m glad you got out!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Don’t text firstWhat if no one thinks you’re super hot (because you’re not)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:31 AM |
| 3 | John Cena was with his ex-girlfriend, Nikki Bella, for over six years and didn’t want to marry her. John has now married his next girlfriend after dating for two years. Ladies, if a man doesn’t want to get married HE’S NOT THAT INTO YOU.Lol same my ex was 31 and I was 18 when we dated. He kept pretending I was a child. A literal “child”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:29 AM |
| 19 | This poor girl, her column each week is like "why are men awful when I allow obviously awful men to consistently and repeatedly disrespect me?" hope she discovers FDS soon““I might actually just go to sleep,” he texts me five minutes later, and I just say, “No worries,” because how can you get annoyed at someone you’re not supposed to rely on? But then he says: “If you send me a nude, I might change my mind.” I take a selfie of me with my top open so you can see my boobs, another with the camera balancing on the radiator with me bent down in front of it. “Damn,” he said. “I’ll let you know what I’m doing in a bit.” WHAT THE FUCK? I’m screaming men actually do thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Fifteen minutes? I’m lucky if I get 5 minutes before they either cum or get soft. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 01:59 AM |
| 17 | The torture, rape and murder of Junko Furuta. The men who did it are walking free today after mostly 6-9 year prison sentencesThe last one kills me. Women almost never do shit like this ... when a woman tortures someone it’s like a once in a century event. But somehow it still “counts.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 12:34 AM |
| 3 | LVM hate to be treated the same way they treat women.Don’t forget ATTITUDE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:39 AM |
| 20 | The huge contrast between the hobbies/leisure activities of guys and girls I knowUgh I totally didn’t mean to make this judgey to people like you (and me when I’m feeling particularly depressed) :( I’m sorry! It was meant more of an observation of the women I know in general vs the guys I know in general. Not all of them, all the time. But, I also think the difference here is that you are motivating yourself to change and have compassion for yourself, as well as self awareness, whereas a lot of the guys who do these hobbies don’t have that level of self awareness. They also … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 23 | Ways to tell you’re being kept as an option or a backupWhat do these look like exactly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Ways to tell you’re being kept as an option or backupWhy isn’t my post showing up :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:05 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020No clue. I looked through your profile too and saw well thought out replies and certainly nothing that would cause this label. That’s absurd | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020Why are my posts not showing up :( anyone else having this problem? It’s been like a day ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Not always. One of my most physically and mentally abusive exes was also one of the most gorgeous guys I’ve ever seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Damn I’ve heard the snowflake comments too. At least he wasn’t calling your pussy loose and pressuring you to get a surgery to tighten it. Been there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Woman gets negged by her husband and is wondering if she’s overreacting for being upset.Then he would just tell her her vagina is too big because she wants that. They always find a way to make it our fault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:16 PM |
| 25 | Easiest way to get to know how shitty a man is?Years ago, I told my now-ex that a guy slapped my butt on the street at night. He got annoyed and asked why I didn’t yell at the guy / retaliate in some other way. I was like ??? Because i don’t want to get stabbed or punched in the face?? I’ve never known what to think of this ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 09:30 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020Same :( it’s so annoying when my friend doesn’t reply for 2-3 days and then I get hit with the “so sorry I thought I replied!!” Or “I just got a new phone sorry” ..... I’m done with replying straight away too. Maybe this time I’ll forget to reply 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 66 | Imagine finding out this is what your husband thinks of youSome men like to cuddle after sex? Honestly at this point I’m convinced HVM don’t even exist lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 09:18 PM |
| 6 | please take the time to watch this 1 minute video on reactive abuse.Can’t leave the room during an argument (wherein they’re insulting you) to get some space because it’s “disrespectful” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:04 AM |
| 3 | are men ok lolRussian men are .... not fun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:23 AM |
| 4 | Fuck dudes I’m not dating againIsn’t that just all men in general? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 04:14 AM |
| 10 | Wtf why are men literally obsessed with anal sexLmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:18 PM |
| 15 | Wtf why are men literally obsessed with anal sexMy ex threw a tantrum over this one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:17 PM |
| 4 | Washed up LVM/ZVM logic as to why they prefer to marry women in their 20’s when they are pushing 40. It is truly mind boggling. As a woman in my early 20’s who has been approached by these type of old men, I find this vomit inducing. 🤮They literally ask you about anal on the first few messages on dating apps. Everything is going normal and then you get hit with the anal interrogation. So gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:10 PM |
| 6 | Reason 1 out of 30,000No 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 09:08 PM |
| 9 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayWhat did he say about your body hair? I may have had a similar experience... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 09:04 PM |
| 2 | Don’t Let Men Dictate Your Life DecisionsMy ex told me that watching me give birth would make me disgusting for him forever. I’m not sure he and your partner are the same species 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Love when men get praised for the bare minimum...on a post about a husband making jokes that got his wife upset and irritated while she is in labor.What are they like?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:23 PM |
| 5 | Love when men get praised for the bare minimum...on a post about a husband making jokes that got his wife upset and irritated while she is in labor.Yeah my ex told me he wouldn’t wanna be in the room when I gave birth to his child. Because he’d never be able to look at me the same after that. That always disturbed me. You bet my life I woulda been in the room if he’d been in pain and struggling, but for him to do the same for me was too icky | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:22 PM |
| 2 | This is how you should treat a guy who cancels just two hours before and treats you as a second option for a first date 👋🏼😊Oh the cologne and the nice shirt is DEFINITELY optional lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:09 PM |
| 5 | This is how you should treat a guy who cancels just two hours before and treats you as a second option for a first date 👋🏼😊He has you as a backup and turned out not to need you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 4 | When the trash takes itself outAnd BO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 5 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Wow something exactly like this happened in the ballet world. A few male early 20s ballet dancers were talking about gang raping ballerinas and sharing their nudes, it was a whole thing. Happens in every single industry .. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:51 PM |
| 61 | Ladies, if you’re lucky enough for this guy to ask you to get a drink, you’d better bring a stopwatch! You’ve got one hour!The “crack open” thing is so cringe. No thank you. 🤮 I’m not your fucking project | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:38 PM |
| 5 | Well since she's doing all the work anyways, and u r just uselessly on the side, she might as well ditch ur ass and be in a relationship with her self or find a HVM. But yeah, you just "hang back"... pff...They only want equality when it benefits them lmao. Yeah I’ll cook your dinner, now go build me a house and go to battle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:35 PM |
| 21 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???Teenage boys are legit psychopaths. Men in general suck but between the ages of like 13-23 the empathy center of their brain hasn’t finished fully developing. Willing to bet that the most wartime atrocities throughout history were committed by this age group. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 7 | Im so tired of this shit, it’s like these girls have no purpose outside of sexually gratifying their partner, being the “cool gf” is their personality. It’s so pathetic, what’s worse is the number of likes and the comment section full of Pick Ames agreeing???I remember being 14 and my friend told me she sucked a male friend’s dick because she was bored. I was disgusted and later believed something was wrong with me for being disgusted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 8 | The latest low-effort date: “Come out with me and my friends”That guy was negging you ... in a way... like he was the bold one by literally moving to sit next to you and talking to you?? If you don’t mind me asking, how did you respond to his advances? Like where did he get off calling you “bold”? I’m sorry that is so annoying to me. And as it says in the handbook, coffee isn’t a date, but if a guy’s asking you for coffee he probably doesn’t see you as a friend if you know what I mean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 7 | The latest low-effort date: “Come out with me and my friends”I would disagree but then I remember I know a girl who’s done 3somes with random guys she just met. So. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:17 AM |
| 84 | I started swiping on women, just for a change, and I realized how low our standards have gotten for guys.They also look like alpha serial killer traits 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:56 AM |
| 40 | The latest low-effort date: “Come out with me and my friends”You went on them? Wasn’t it awkward as hell? I think I’d have a panic attack having to meet 4 guys at once | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:32 AM |
| 132 | I started swiping on women, just for a change, and I realized how low our standards have gotten for guys.They read an article about hunter eyes and how “intimidating faces” look more masculine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 3 | "I'm kinda sad that I didn't live in a culture where scrotes could groom and sexually exploit me in my developmental years.... anyway I'm gonna get that empowerment by prostituting myself (for free) in my 20s" 🙄 I'M DONE WITH THIS LIBFEM BSThey either cum in 20 seconds or can’t stay hard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 20 | My sister taught me that every woman cannot be saved, and I have to accept it we all should.Agree. Women aren’t always victims Some women intentionally go after taken guys to feel more desirable, like “if he leaves his girlfriend for me, or risks their relationship to fuck me, that means I’m valuable.” It’s gross and hurtful behavior. I would never do this to another woman, but maybe that’s because I know so well what it’s like to be cheated on. I’ve had a woman like that tell me ”maybe if your pussy was tighter he wouldn’t have cheated.” Absolutely disgusting. And probably true, too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:32 PM |
| 6 | Always start as you mean to continue when it comes to dating! Don’t let men lowball you.I wonder what she looks like. My guess is she is either a model or looks somehow worth the effort to them. When i’ve told men I’m not into meeting up for coffee/drinks, they either argue or stop responding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 3 | Always start as you mean to continue when it comes to dating! Don’t let men lowball you.Yup, this has happened to me too... so lame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 8 | How do we avoid men that we gotta one day throw in the trash? Is vetting enough? Part of me worries about the breadwinner thing for this reason.Ugh like the pharaohs who took their pets “into the afterlife” with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me or commenting on anyone's appearance in a negative way is just the lowest trick ever?I’ve been told not to wear heels because I’m too tall 😂 he’d probably steal my heels to give to you lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:42 AM |
| 6 | Is it just me or commenting on anyone's appearance in a negative way is just the lowest trick ever?Because they are encouraged to view women as a bunch of traits to pick apart ... also because they lack empathy and self awareness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:41 AM |
| 34 | 'THIS IS PARIS' Paris Hilton documentary on YouTube...shows how she was manipulated and pressured into filming sex by an older man at 18Same thing happened to me. Same age gap, same ages and everything, except I didn’t even know I was being filmed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | I'm tired of viewing men as the enemy.Same, well I’m a few years older but still in my 20s and I’m fucking exhausted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:53 PM |
| 3 | Just a reminder to women that cellulite isn’t this evil thing that only ‘fat’ people have. Most women, including well known celebrities have cellulite.Mine told me my elbows were gross :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 30 | Demands we know how to have a conversation. Can't carry one himself.Ugh I hate that it’s so unattractive when a guy wants to sit back and be chased. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Reminder to not have casual sex. These degenerates don't give a shit about you. (PS this is from r/ steroids. Wanna bet these dudes are ugly, aggressive losers with roid guts and ED?)Ummm what’s wrong with going to the gym? Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020Omg BRILLIANT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Theory: Why would men search for someone in real life when they can just jerk off at home?This was my last relationship in a nutshell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Awkward dating stories? Or: Guys watching too much porn during quarantine has made OLD worse than ever!😨🤮🤮 did you run? I would’ve run into the friggin ocean. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 5 | Quarantine beards are a tragedy .. from Ryan Gosling lookalike to Ryan the Hobo. Why do they all do this??That’s not his actual name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020He’s in a country where they don’t have those sorts of laws, and he’s rich as fuck. I mean really rich. He isn’t really interested in me because I’m too old for him but every once in a while he gets bored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:16 PM |
| 9 | UGH!I hate it so much. As a teenager I always used to crush on my teachers ... those were the good days. The real world of dating is bleak, dark, and empty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 9 | UGH!What German guys are so hot don’t ruin my fantasy 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 10 | UGH!U tryna smash bb?😏 Puuuke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:14 PM |
| 22 | Are we all the same people experiencing the same thing?Mine would smell of poop sometimes when i got too close to the butt area to give him massages 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:12 PM |
| 15 | 'Why don't women just tell us "no"? They complicate it all so much' (found on twitter)They really don’t 😂 found this gem https://imgur.com/a/iiGo7B2 They have zero shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:09 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 18 2020The entitlement of some guys! During his last Hoover my nex hinted that I should fly to his country to work out, because gyms are unsafe/closed in the states! Like really? Sure lemme just grab a $1000 plane ticket and travel to a foreign land where I know no one other than him. He really thinks I’m gonna do that??? Jesus. I can’t block him because he has a ton of nudes and sex videos/material on me that he’d release in that case; but thankfully he hasn’t texted me since I said no to the flight a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:47 PM |
| 3 | I spent WEEKS chatting with this scrote only for him to drop this bomb. Time to unmatch and move on.Yeah they’re like 5 year olds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 30 | I spent WEEKS chatting with this scrote only for him to drop this bomb. Time to unmatch and move on.Every time a dude tells me he’s in an open relationship (seems to happen a lot these days), I instantly lose attraction no matter how appealing he was before. Maybe it’s because I am very empathetic, maybe it’s because I was cheated on in the past, but I HATE the idea of being “the other woman.” No thank you. Just makes my vagina clamp shut. Those poor girlfriends. Also — I bet this open relationship is just open on his end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 2 | Online Dating 🤪I would’ve guessed he was like 20, but honestly a lot of guys under 30 (!) talk like this. It’s such a turnoff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Found this on instagram.. ladies, don’t let lvm bring you down. 💋This! Mine is rich, nearly 40 and still taking advantage of 20 year olds. 🤮 he uses the threat of revenge porn to keep his exes in line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:36 PM |
| 18 | This what they think when they invite you out for coffee. Stay woke ladies.You think coffee dates are bad, what about the men who invite you to their house/rooftop for the first meeting to “share a bottle of wine”? 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Deleted all my dating apps after this. This guy sent me a picture of a plate of pasta that he cooked and had some weird purple lights in the background. I asked him why I told him I had some like that but for my plants. He had to steer the conversation and make it sexual 😖Had both ... never had an orgasm from sex. Some of it felt incredibly good (the straight sex lol) but no orgasm. I think I am broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 7 | Do you need dates to be confirmed at least a day in advance? Also, how do you know if a date is actually confirmed or not?Lol yea he just messaged me asking if it’s “possible to push it to next week”. I blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:15 PM |
| 11 | One, data is never 100% secure, two, all the pics you send will be SFW and he will be grateful, or he will be erased.When they try to put it in but you can feel it going soft and they keep desperately thrusting as it turns into the consistency of an over cooked noodle 😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 17 | Reminder, it's never your fault when a man hurts you.And must have spyware installed on her phone and computer and record all her phone conversations. Happened to me ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:20 PM |
| 8 | Is it LV behavior to ask a guy for his Instagram before meeting up?Yeah ugh that makes sense. I use a lot of modeling pics and my best pics so guys already don’t think I’m real. I never heard of a woman whose profile was TOO attractive to get dates, but here we are 😂😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 10 | Guys who swear a lot seem low value to meOuch :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 24 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.When they put you down for being book smart and claim they’re street smart. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 4 | Ladies I just don’t get certain behavioursIf you’re seeing other guys does a dude want you more? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:28 PM |
| 7 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.I think you just have to accept it honestly. Men are wired differently (worse) from women. I wish I was gay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 29 | From removeddit, this guy's comment on a post by a pregnant woman who's husband is buying nudes and sexually talking with other women. I worry what he said is true: men will always feel something is missing in a monogamous LTR, even the faithful men who do try not to stare or are porn-free.It is true though, there often is no point ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 09:24 PM |
| 25 | Reddit in a NutshellOr when they talk about how tight vaginas are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 08:59 PM |
| 6 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollI’m unemployed lol. And i wish my food showed up on me. I would give up my metabolism to have curves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:26 AM |
| 7 | I messed upThe way he responded is icky, sis. “We don’t HAVE to do it again UNTIL you feel comfortable”.... right there, in that sentence, he’s both implying that he’s taking mercy on you by not MAKING you do it, and also implying that there will be a point at which you eventually do feel comfortable with it. I had a sociopathic ex who would use the exact same wording and he beat me very badly and almost killed me. Don’t be me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 22 | I messed upThe way he responded is icky too. “We don’t HAVE to do it again UNTIL you feel comfortable”.... right there, in that sentence, he’s both implying that he’s taking mercy on you by not MAKING you do it, and also implying that there will be a point at which you eventually do feel comfortable with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:22 AM |
| 6 | Written by a man.Yeah except all the girls they’re picturing look like supermodels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 11 | Deleted all my dating apps after this. This guy sent me a picture of a plate of pasta that he cooked and had some weird purple lights in the background. I asked him why I told him I had some like that but for my plants. He had to steer the conversation and make it sexual 😖Same. Women are so beautiful. I wish I liked lesbian sex 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 9 | Bad luck in dating and just life in general. Female perspective. Also just venting.Are they super hot? And/or are they really good in bed? Not saying you’re not, but guys care about these 2 things more than they’ll admit. A hot girl who does anal/3somes with her bf and also treats her bf like shit, is immeasurably more valuable to a man than a plain, loyal girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:12 AM |
| 39 | What would you do if...That’s so gross. I’ve had guys tell me “you’d do it too hehehe” but um no I wouldn’t eat my own pussy. I mean... it’s just creepy. And also, the fluids?! 😨 it’s like autocannibalism | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:07 AM |
| 7 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollOmg that feeling whenever you put on heels and instantly find yourself looking basically down on top of people’s heads 😭😭😭 and somebody HAS to make a comment about it. Tallest girl in my class from grade 3-HS senior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 3 | It’s a wrap!!!!I can totally relate. It’s like the dating world is divided into narcissistic abusive men who date weak women with low self esteem (me) or weak men who date “bad bitches” who abuse them ans demand to be catered to all the time. (The first category is much larger than the second) The ones with normal self esteem who aren’t psychos are single | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:51 AM |
| 16 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollSame girl. I’m Nearly 6 feet tall and this shit just makes me hopeless of ever finding a guy who isn’t just settling for me. Guys do not “love tall women.” Sure some have fetishes, but given the choice, the majority of men will go for a woman who displays sexual dimorphism trait of being small and delicate. Given the choice between two identical women, one tall and one short, the short girl will win 80-90% of the time. Also, doesn’t it suck when a guy is shocked by your weight?! I’m 140 and an e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:43 AM |
| 16 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex dollMale psychology in a nutshell. Guys themselves have told me this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:41 AM |
| 12 | On an article where they asked men to describe their dream girl, this scrote described his ideal sex doll5’2” ....FFS. I hate being six feet tall. I hate being a huge lumbering broad shouldered giantess who can’t wear heels unless she wants to get laughed at. That’s all. Rant over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 6 | The thought of having a son terrifies me. Dating in the future will be dreadful for the new generation.Yeah you aren’t supposed to start having sex when you’re 14 for fucks sake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:38 AM |
| 5 | Hating on your own gender to make men like you...And refers to women as “females” 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂Or a push-up bra. My ex once told me that wearing a push-up bra is lying and said I shouldn’t wear it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:31 AM |
| 19 | That's word diarrhea if I've ever seen itFACTS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:28 AM |
| 17 | That's word diarrhea if I've ever seen itI did, I’m a ghost now oooOOOooooOOO 👻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:28 AM |
| 92 | Because marriage it's a torture, of course. Way to ruin happy marriage photosSame. I think I’ll never get married tbh. Every bf I’ve had acted like I was committing a serious crime by asking them not to fuck other people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 4 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂What about the LVM who won’t even let their gfs post pics of them on social media in case the pics somehow get back to the girls they’re cheating with 😂 couldn’t be my past self!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:24 AM |
| 3 | the only appropriate response to when you hear someone say this 😂They are so jealous abusive and “macho.” Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 65 | Your weekly low effort negging OLD-er. Block and deleteRight. As soon as you unmatch you’re gone from their list. That’s why I waited to see him typing before I unmatched. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:15 AM |
| 30 | Your weekly low effort negging OLD-er. Block and deleteSo many of them are! Even barely above average looking ones are using other people’s photos. Like wth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 70 | Your weekly low effort negging OLD-er. Block and deleteRight before i unmatched him he replied like “haha wait no I was just joking pls forgive me obviously you’re real”..... gone 2 seconds later 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 35 | Your weekly low effort negging OLD-er. Block and deleteOnce you get the “verified” check mark, things don’t get any easier. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 12:57 AM |
| 6 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesWait, you’ve been stitched meaning you had a vaginoplasty after giving birth?? I had one too (I haven’t had kids though) and I noticed I can’t have sex as comfortably after the surgery. Even normal dildos hurt now. Is it more dangerous/harmful/etc to try to “stretch it out” with a girthier dick now (vs before, with a non-stitched vagina)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:53 AM |
| 6 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesI’m scared of getting raped if I try to leave once clothes are off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 10 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesWait, those things ARENT a symptom of a disease?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:44 AM |
| 11 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesI’m legit scared that once I’m at that point I won’t be able to stop it and they’ll just rape me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:40 AM |
| -3 | I’m Declaring Our Right As Women to Have Specific Penis PreferencesSame except I probably have a giant vagina cause the guy was like 6 inches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:39 AM |
| 7 | So a women looking for love on a dating app is creepy but a man looking for sex isn’t?An ex told me once it was creepy that I thought of him when I masturbated and that I should watch porn like a “normal person” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:26 AM |
| 6 | Why do people post questions/ask for advice on relationships that are clearly red flags?THIS!! Many of these people are doubting their own sanity. It’s crazy making, especially when you’re being manipulated by a smarter person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:16 AM |
| 4 | Why do people post questions/ask for advice on relationships that are clearly red flags?Sometimes people need to hear someone else saying “leave him he’s abusive” in order to justify leaving. And sometimes these people don’t have family or friends to open up to without judgment so internet strangers are their only option. Also- some people have been treated like shit their whole lives and literally don’t know that it’s not normal to be abused. Or that certain things even count as abuse. Don’t be so quick to judge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:15 AM |
| 28 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.You summed up dating culture. Just act super cynical and sarcastic and never ever take anything seriously, or else you Lose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:07 AM |
| 20 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.Men only like girls who don’t want them! The more kindness you show them the more they will demand. Source: an ex who would scream at me if I didn’t make him his breakfast or fold his laundry properly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 44 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.I agree. I like sex as much as the next girl but this crazy hookup culture is gross and dangerous. People see each other as basically a dick or a vagina which happens to have a person attached. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:04 AM |
| 16 | Found on FB......what the actual fuckThey literally smash the controller when they lose a game. My ex put holes in the wall. Anger is also an emotion! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Trying to understand trauma bonding and why don't women don't leave when abused.I’m screaming this is so fucking accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Finally ready to date ... but dating sucks right nowCan’t you get oral STDs from that? Maybe I’m weird but I don’t even like it that much. Prefer intercourse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:02 AM |
| 4 | Finally ready to date ... but dating sucks right nowAlso, I have a suspicion that a lot of the attractive guys were able to lock down a quarantine gf so that’s why they aren’t on the apps right now lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 5 | Finally ready to date ... but dating sucks right nowAs a fellow creative person, I feel you. Your art will never let you down the way a man can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Finally ready to date ... but dating sucks right nowIf it makes you feel any better, I probably look older than you lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:17 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in dating/looking for a serious relationship?What makes them LV besides their appearance? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Is there any point in dating/looking for a serious relationship?Yeah makes sense. But it sounds bad but I’d never want to date the guys she does because they’re old and to me they’re ugly. I’m way shallower than she is, so a beer gut and balding head are an instant turnoff for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 3 | Is there any point in dating/looking for a serious relationship?She’s pretty, but has gotten way too much plastic surgery and can act spoiled and princessy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:38 AM |
| 6 | Meanwhile, he’s still active on OLD, and *trying* to sleep with other women.Well their entire culture is extremely misogynistic. But why because of WW2? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:11 AM |
| 5 | Meanwhile, he’s still active on OLD, and *trying* to sleep with other women.This doesn’t happen if he only opens it on his side | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 10 | Meanwhile, he’s still active on OLD, and *trying* to sleep with other women.I put up with this for far too long. He would sleep around, give me STDs and I could do nothing. Typical Russian male | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 4 | Meanwhile, he’s still active on OLD, and *trying* to sleep with other women.I feel like this will happen to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 8 | Is there any point in dating/looking for a serious relationship?Same. I’m isolated and the pandemic has basically shut down any semblance I could have of a normal social life, and I already have social anxiety lmao. A girl I know gets $6000 bracelets from her boyfriends on the regular and I haven’t even been able to get a guy to buy me a drink 😂 at least I’m used to it ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:50 PM |
| 9 | Can we normalize dating multiple men at once?Same. I wasted too much of my perky boob years being loyal to cheating assholes who didn’t deserve it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 20 | What comes to your mind when a guy says “looking for a girl that doesn’t cheat”.And if you do take a year to stay single and mourn the relationship, they say you’re psycho. Can’t win. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 33 | What comes to your mind when a guy says “looking for a girl that doesn’t cheat”.This is what EVERY man wants lol. Some of them get it, too. In Russian society it’s normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:40 PM |
| 16 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYThat post made me physically ill. Glad she’s not getting the augmentation. That surgery is extremely dangerous anyway. Side note - I wish I’d had the intelligence to post on reddit when my ex wanted me to get a surgery. I probably never would’ve gotten it. (Actually, if I’d never joined reddit and started lurking I would have never realized my first relationship was abusive, years later. Why am I so stupid?) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 11:39 PM |
| 4 | Boyfriend mad she did things to her rapists she “hasn’t done with him”Yeah it can fucking HURT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:03 AM |
| 19 | Some of the stuff I dealt with before I leveled up..this dude really knows not to treat a lady 🥵He was fucking Kim, you know that right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 55 | Is it crack?The “don’t whine” really boils my blood. He’s trying to act like your dad lol. Not cute Also. 25 is old for SC?! Fuck i still use SC 😨 I’m 24 but dang I’m scared of being “too old” for anything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:57 AM |
| 20 | I liked you better when you were miserableSame girl. I’m a target for users/abusers/sociopaths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:52 AM |
| 27 | A conversation that makes me so angry, the bs I used to take from my ex pre-FDS.Yes because it’s sooo easy to change your breast size via $8,000 implants and everything that comes with them like the risk of breast implant illness, ruptures, ugly outcome, recovery time..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:50 AM |
| 48 | Why fwb is just LV cheatingEvery relationship I’ve ever had. Sick of this shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 83 | The social stress of being unwed is the real woman killer 🙄What a genius. Can’t even use the correct form of “bear” . Probably because he’s far more familiar with “bare” aka naked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 18 | This is why I’m tempted to delete OLD forever 😂I know right. And since they’re such losers I automatically feel like I have to tone myself down too. They’re like “just chilling today what’s up” and like ... what I was ACTUALLY doing today was working on a new novel as my first is on submission, but now I feel like that would intimidate them and they expect me to just be like “yeah just chilling wbu lol” it’s so dumb omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:23 AM |
| 30 | This is why I’m tempted to delete OLD forever 😂(Click image for full pic) The producer guy at the top may seem ok but he didn’t ask me any questions and just kept answering mine lmao bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 11:46 PM |
| 2 | This sounds like a fake line, but maybe I’m jaded ...Did it? I unmatched yesterday, so.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:02 PM |
| 10 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.Yeah they either finish in 20 seconds or their dick is so ravaged by porn use it won’t even get hard. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 06:37 AM |
| 141 | Has it always been this way?Back “in the days”, men had to do more physical labor, so they had better bodies. They were stronger and manlier and had more testosterone. This is a fact, lol — men today have less of it. Also, up till the late 1900s, men dressed well. I mean look at the dudes in suits in the 50s, the men with their fancy clothes and shoes in the 1700s/1800s. That really helps you look better. Now they just throw on a greasy tee and saggy shorts, ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:57 AM |
| 26 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.Most girls (most humans) do like sex, so uhhh this doesn’t really hold up here :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Would you date a man who plans to beat his children?Yeah this happened to me and I hated my father soooo much through all of my teenage years. Like that’s just icky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 10:31 PM |
| 26 | Why can’t her friend just leave on her own???Definitely. The mention of the redhead friend’s curves, as well as the “I just can’t with him” aka (poorly) trying to mimic a feminine way of speaking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 10:31 PM |
| 17 | New rule: you aren't my husband? No sex.I wish I were you, tbh. I like sex so much. It’s a curse :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone else not find the concept of “dad bods” funny at all? I feel like it’s just another way for men to excuse their lack of care of their own bodies and looks, and keep the focus on women having to look good. The pics of dad bods gross me out so much.Same I’m super tall and strong (just naturally I don’t even work out my upper body) and it’s so unappealing to see a dude with narrower shoulders than me, small delicate hands and pale noodley EVERYTHING. And of course men have called me shallow for wanting to date a guy taller/stronger than me lolll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else not find the concept of “dad bods” funny at all? I feel like it’s just another way for men to excuse their lack of care of their own bodies and looks, and keep the focus on women having to look good. The pics of dad bods gross me out so much.Yea I feel like I could arm wrestle them. Such a turnoff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:09 PM |
| 9 | What made this individual think that any sane woman would swipe right?The smart ones will pressure their gf into a one sided open relationship where they can sleep around but she can’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Don’t act like you’re any different boyI’d love to be called a 9, my ex told me I was a 7 lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Don’t act like you’re any different boyThat’s natural and the way it’s supposed to be, but hookup culture is treating “catching feelings” like they’re a disease . Literally catching STDs is not looked down upon as much as catching feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:02 PM |
| 6 | Don’t act like you’re any different boyIt’s supposed to work that way! It’s our culture today that fucks it up like “oh sleep around but dont catch feelings”. That is unnatural so of course it’s hard for us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 09:01 PM |
| 6 | Guns don’t kill people. Men kill people.Lmaooo I saw someone post about how prison is SEXIST because 90% of prisoners are men. Wow I wonder why!! Maybe it’s because men commit more violent crime? Naaaah couldn’t be! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meI don’t follow him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 06:50 PM |
| 5 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meThat’s true, I’m way too naive and always have been. I’m trying to stop but that just makes me bitter and angry 24/7 and incapable of trusting anyone. Sucks either way lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Pickmeisha friend starting to irritate meShe’s not, from his insta stories he’s in Europe and she sends me snaps of her day 24/7 (she’s in the US) so I can’t see them even being able to meet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 01:17 AM |
| 11 | Just another 3 decade age gap. Nothing new under the sunI hate how all these types of articles use “we”! It’s so cringey and condescending | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, we have to keep talking about how as women there is an engrained expectation that we should starve so that others always have a full plate. -Everyone eats or no one eats-I’m screeching | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, we have to keep talking about how as women there is an engrained expectation that we should starve so that others always have a full plate. -Everyone eats or no one eats-I think I have that. Sometimes I catch a glimpse of my face in the mirror and I realize my brow is all scrunched up without me even realizing! Then I have to consciously relax my muscles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | You don’t own me and you never will :)But it’s also true that men will commit only if they think you’re the best they can do. If you act like you have options & let them know this, they might consider committing, but if they don’t consider you attractive enough, they won’t. I don’t even know if there is a point in women like me following these guidelines when all my past relationships have had me accepting open cheating (on his side) because I knew the guys could do SO much better than me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 07:54 PM |
| 3 | Found an old cringey pickmeisha conversation of mine. Long but worth it.Yea he was into that. He called me a little child during sex 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Found an old cringey pickmeisha conversation of mine. Long but worth it.Yeah i feel like he was actually trying to make me afraid to say anything whilst performing the whole “communicate with me” shtick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:02 PM |
| 3 | Found an old cringey pickmeisha conversation of mine. Long but worth it.Ugh I’m so sorry I hate when you have to act nice out of fear !! It’s so frustrating. I do too. Mine even asked me to fly to Europe to see him and I had to make up this whole money problem situation where I literally can’t lol. It’s been years and I’m still afraid to tell him no... wish I could tell him what I really think of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Found an old cringey pickmeisha conversation of mine. Long but worth it.Nah, this was a rare moment of bravery. I was proud of myself too, but I eventually gave up on fighting back and just went along with it. Until I cheated on him out of desperation, basically let him find out, and then the shitstorm really started. Beatings, torture, etc ... a sadist’s dream! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 04:52 PM |
| 7 | Found an old cringey pickmeisha conversation of mine. Long but worth it.Yeah and the worst part is I felt so bad. He didn’t feel bad at all for what he did to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?Nice ... thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?Thanks !! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 12:28 AM |
| 2 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?Yes, 70. No it irritates my skin for some reason . And yes :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:02 PM |
| 20 | Found an old cringey pickmeisha conversation of mine. Long but worth it.If I outed him, he would out my nudes in a heartbeat, he’s already threatened to.... hopefully soon he gets too old for naive young ladies to want him! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:02 PM |
| 2 | Do you girls find it funny how days, weeks, months can easily go by before you ever see a guy that’s even slightly attractive enough to take double take?How do you not have wrinkles?! 😭 I have forehead lines and the beginning of marionette lines and I’m 24. I wear sunscreen .. it’s so depressing lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Will this ever end? I know I’m enough, that I would rather be single than with an LVM. But I feel sick w loneliness—I live alone and we’re a communal species. The lockdown is fucking me up. I re-downloaded OLD in a moment of weakness and this was the first guy I matched with. JfcMy ex would’ve been fine with being a perpetual cuddle buddy without wanting sex from me ..... EVER! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:25 PM |
| 10 | Say it louder so the boys in the back can hear.And yet no man I’ve ever met is like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:22 PM |
| 70 | The sheer audacity...You just know there will be so many pickmes swiping right who don’t give a fuck that he’s in a relationship and even like it, the idea of being beautiful enough to “take” someone’s man 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 11:18 PM |
| 16 | Any stories about how toxic exes are doing years after?He’s thriving, everyone loves him and he has 100s of friends. Still single at nearly 40, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 10:28 PM |
| 1 | I read this, and I don’t doubt this in the slightest bit. I’ve been in similar shoes like this.tHiS iS Man HaTe and MiSoGyNy!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:59 PM |
| 2 | I read this, and I don’t doubt this in the slightest bit. I’ve been in similar shoes like this.Same! He kept saying he didn’t want a relationship but then when I tried to leave and do my own thing he needed me to come back and do his cooking for him, lol. And forbade me from sex with anyone else 🙄 sure sounds like a relationship to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 1 | I’m so sick of LVM and OLDI was talking to a guy online and mentioned a horse nearby me that I was attempting to make friends with, and I’d gotten some apples to feed it. Then he asked to see a video of me feeding the horse an apple .... is that weird? I don’t have a cameraman following me around :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:56 PM |
| 26 | Apparently “the white man” is who taught black women to value monogamy.I stayed loyal to my ex for years despite knowing he was openly fucking other women all the time, I’m sure this dude would have LOVED me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 68 | I don’t know who needs to hear this, but please don’t take a felony charge for your man 🤦♀️Wait how can someone get charged for being in the car when their bf shot someone? And get 20 years for that if she didn’t even do anything ? Tf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:27 PM |
| 55 | I don’t know who needs to hear this, but please don’t take a felony charge for your man 🤦♀️Classic men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:26 PM |
| 2 | if they do you tit, do them 'TAT'The guys in his life won’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | if they do you tit, do them 'TAT'Yup. An ex of mine has my nudes and basically holds them over my head, knowing his country doesn’t have laws against them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 28 | The men are realizing, we are leveling up. Their 2 hour long conversations, about a book they read in 2001, no longer interest us. Filling up their egos, no longer interest us. Being with them, while they suck up the energy of a whole room, no longer interest us.One of my exes claimed he enjoyed Lolita. (A great book)......Then he said it was a love story. 😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:15 PM |
| 9 | Woman buys her husband an Apple Watch for their five year anniversary. He gets her...Reddit gold. 🤡My ex gave me sex for my birthday because we so rarely had it. 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 16 | He went from compliment to negging so fast I got whiplash!Lol once a dude told me “nice butt, I hope you have brains to match” and I just said “no I’m dumb” 😂 I refuse to dance for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:32 PM |
| 37 | He went from compliment to negging so fast I got whiplash!At least he got my name right 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:43 AM |
| 107 | He went from compliment to negging so fast I got whiplash!Maybe I was too snarky but how is someone else with a verified check mark this stupid, clearly he knows what it means lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:32 AM |
| 5 | Help me break my Pick-me urges!Aren’t you nervous about getting close to your date? I mean, for me that would be more worrying than sitting next to strangers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 5 | Has this already been posted? LolInstructions unclear, did squats and it didn’t help my glutes but now my quads are so massive I can crush men’s skulls between them! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:47 PM |
| 39 | Has this already been posted? LolAnd then in response to this, they say “you can’t change your height but you can get a body like that through working out” Lmao no you can’t. Let’s see a woman get, through working out: Bigger boobs, a smaller waist if she’s already slim, a big booty if she’s born with a flat one, get short and “petite”. IMPOSSIBLE. Like yeah, you can build a bit of a butt and be in shape, but you can’t change your entire friggin BODY SHAPE and go from Apple to hourglass ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:28 AM |
| 12 | Never tell a guy you’re dating about your trauma / past abusive relationshipsFuck I’m sorry. Can relate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:57 AM |
| 7 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?Oh shit. I’m fucked. My work on loving myself hasn’t even gotten me to a normal amount of self esteem, I just hate myself slightly less than I used to, and have cracked down on the amount of self deprecating jokes I make (that make others slightly uncomfortable lmao). Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 03:42 AM |
| 65 | Never tell a guy you’re dating about your trauma / past abusive relationshipsAnd if you don’t have exes or are inexperienced best believe they’ll shame you for that too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:25 AM |
| 39 | Never tell a guy you’re dating about your trauma / past abusive relationshipsOr you were forced/threatened into it. But men don’t pay attention to that, lol. All they see is “waaah he got to fuck you in the ass so why not me!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 02:08 AM |
| 47 | Never tell a guy you’re dating about your trauma / past abusive relationshipsIf their bfs were great then maybe this shouldn’t be posted at all because it’s wrong? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 01:45 AM |
| 34 | Never tell a guy you’re dating about your trauma / past abusive relationshipsUgh how shitty. Added this one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 70 | JFC...Scrotes mad but trigger warning felt more accurate.This is how most men feel about women deep down, they truly and deeply hate us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:18 AM |
| 16 | How do you ladies respond to questions about your body count/last time you had sex?This. My ex knew I’d been forced to do 3somes by my first boyfriend and that it traumatized me. Guess who eventually started asking for threesomes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:02 AM |
| 5 | I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world?Wow talk about delusional. Calling herself a famous model, is she serious? I’m actually a model and I wish I had 1/10th of her self esteem. https://imgur.com/a/vwXZbsw She seems to have a mental illness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:55 PM |
| 14 | I've seen this image posted around before with various captions, but this one upsets me the most. If this girl's FATHER is placing so much value on her sexuality, how does she stand a chance with the rest of the world?...There are other ways to orgasm? And mine is definitely not an innie :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:52 PM |
| 7 | If he only wants a housewife clap your hands 👏🏼👏🏼They really think we’re gonna be into this shit lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:48 PM |
| 14 | Woman's 'nightmare' as stranger from dating app she deleted turns up at her work“I explicitly told him that I would NOT tell him, and that it would be my worst nightmare for someone to just show up at my job.” Y’all he literally showed up at her job BECAUSE she told him it would be her worst nightmare for him to do that. I have no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 7 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.I also hate that phrase it gives me the creeps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 9 | Since they always want us taken while they remain single...Wasted 3 years of my life in a relationship like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:35 PM |
| 20 | What was the biggest/most shocking FDS revelation for you?Same. Ive had 2 bfs and they were both abusives. I always thought I did something to make these men beat/scream at/insult/throw things at/cheat on/refuse to have sex with me. But maybe men just suck. How do abusers “sniff out” someone’s abusive past? How can they tell that someone’s been abused before? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 11:33 PM |
| 14 | The double standard is astoundingBecause they think we exist for their sexual satisfaction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:17 AM |
| 6 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Mine forced me to do 3somes with him and talked about other girls in bed and claimed it was BDSM 😂 “no boundaries, in or out of bed”. Ewww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:23 PM |
| 17 | Watch out for the Peter Pan’s!Probably their hatred of feminism or something like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 24 | THIS 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼Same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 8 | The double standard is astoundingYup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:16 PM |
| 64 | The double standard is astoundingSame. I hate my body so much because of men. I miss being a kid and not caring as long as I felt healthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:15 PM |
| 48 | The double standard is astoundingI’ve got the opposite body type and men go out of their way to let me know how unattractive I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:14 PM |
| 14 | When men think your options will dwindle without their golden penisHow old is he? I’m living at home at the moment because of covid 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 08:13 PM |
| 49 | Flirting in 2020.Thirty years old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 10:12 PM |
| 29 | I’m choking-Yeah my ex freaked out when I said the word “ovaries”. Like a 12 year old scared of cooties. Ridiculous and sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 09:01 PM |
| 10 | Benevolent Sexism ! Do give this a readUgh this would totally happen to me. I’m not very social and rarely smile, hate small talk. Etc. They would eviscerate me. Why does everyone have to be a hyper energized bubbly extrovert | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:57 PM |
| 15 | "She cheated on him, omg what a b*tch!" vs "He cheated on her, yeah well ALL/MOST men cheat"That happened to me and he almost killed me, do not recommend! 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 22 | "She cheated on him, omg what a b*tch!" vs "He cheated on her, yeah well ALL/MOST men cheat"I’ve been cheated on and always was told to shrug it off and deal with it. I eventually accepted it. Every man will cheat on me because I’m not good enough. I cheated on an (emotionally abusive and sexually coercive) ex once a long time ago and in response he beat me, whipped me, raped me, punched me, and tormented me emotionally for months, he only stopped (a bit) when I tried to kill myself out of guilt because I felt so horrible about it. I thought I deserved it and was the worst person on ea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 4 | Sorry, I'm on a low carb diet, I don't need your breadcrumbs!What’s breadcrumbing in this situation? Ive only heard of it in relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:47 PM |
| 5 | NVM expects me to drive 8 hours to hang, proceeds to neg me..He is the next step in fuckboy evolution | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:42 PM |
| 3 | NVM expects me to drive 8 hours to hang, proceeds to neg me..Men ask me to do this all the time! It’s crazy. It really has done a number on my self esteem because I always think if I were actually attractive or seemed worth the effort, they wouldn’t expect me to take every step lol. Recently my ex asked me to fly to Europe (he used the excuse that there are gyms there, but guess who else is there). They’re all entitled and insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 08:40 PM |
| 12 | When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime.Then all men are pedophilic, sadly. I don’t know any men who would prefer a 25 year old to a 15 year old. Every single man would prefer the 15 year old (if all else is equal, lol). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 05:37 AM |
| 4 | “Girl he is the SWEETEST, sometimes he just doesn’t text back bc he’s busy you know?? We aren’t even official but he wants to move in w me, he’s THAT into me.”Women wanting decency and respect is crazy to men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:01 AM |
| 27 | We all know why.The one second to right is pretty decent looking IMO. Or he would be if he weren’t making that stupid face. But the others look like 15 year olds who lift less than I do 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:00 AM |
| 13 | So lazy, so boring....these Hinge profiles send me into a comaMore like Cringe 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:16 AM |
| 14 | So lazy, so boring....these Hinge profiles send me into a comaAnd food! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:43 AM |
| 63 | So lazy, so boring....these Hinge profiles send me into a comaThe “overly competitive about everything” one is so common, it’s like a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 8 | Deleted all OLDMen will never work on themselves 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:35 PM |
| 5 | "Men age like fine wine" Sean Penn, 59, and Leila George, 28 just got married. There are no words.100%. Most men would marry 14 year olds if they could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:29 PM |
| 8 | Sneak attacksDude! I’ve been saying this for years!! Men have become more feminine in the “bad” ways — (bad for men to be not bad for women to be) e.g. more physically soft, weaker, shyer, lazier, and wanting to be chased. Again these are not inherently bad traits but in men they are a HUGE turn-off. I want to date a man, not a feminine boy. They also seem very resentful and entitled, lacking any of the “good” feminine qualities (being kind, warm hearted and empathetic). I’m younger than you (20s) but I’ve n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 11:27 PM |
| 11 | Reminder: He’s looking to conquer you. Be selective with who you invest your time, body, and emotions withThe self awareness is NONEXISTENT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 03:40 AM |
| 68 | Men on dating apps increasingly unattractive?Men don’t bother to work out or take care of themselves because it’s “feminine” to put effort into your appearance. They laze around watching porn, at work and playing video games. They don’t need to fight off lions or toil in the fields anymore. So the majority of them don’t bother to be fit and just “embrace the dad bod,” and wait for girls to flock to their chubby out of shape selves. Women, on the other hand, actually put in an effort despite the fact that biologically it’s harder for us to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:27 AM |
| 5 | Girl drives from California to North Carolina for a guy she met off Bumble. He ghosts her as soon as she gets home.I personally think he’s very attractive, but some of the things he was texting to the girls(all caps “I LOVE FRECKLES”) came off extremely childish like are you 10 lol calm down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:21 AM |
| 17 | Girl drives from California to North Carolina for a guy she met off Bumble. He ghosts her as soon as she gets home.Men won’t fear being exposed, did you see his reaction video? He’s full of glee at going viral as the fuckboy of the century. His fellow guys will just respect him more after this. Being exposed as a “simp,” on the other hand — now that’s scary to men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Smells like projection in here.Oh that’s true. Unless they’re an ass man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 10:32 PM |
| 43 | Smells like projection in here.Yeah I’d rather be treated like shit by a handsome guy than an ugly troll who can’t wipe his ass, all things being equal lmao. Of course it’s best if they’re not abusive at all, but I don’t know if these men exist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 04:15 AM |
| 2 | Poor men :(I don’t know, but from conversations I’ve had with exes and men, yes something like this. They see women as objects, either fuckable or invisible, and porn makes it worse. But it’s not all porn. There’s something in the male brain that does this. Women who’ve transitioned to men through taking hormones have reported seeing women more and more as sex objects due to the influx of testosterone. It literally causes you to see women as objects. TL;DR men inherently suck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Interesting video: Most men are gay-ishI feel you. I don’t like it much either, I much prefer actual intercourse. I think it’s an ego thing for them. And fuck those female friends for backing him up that “all women like it.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:43 AM |
| 5 | Interesting video: Most men are gay-ishThey even stick it in colostomy holes 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Am I right to skip this date tomorrow?Yeah the women in my life do this normalizing shit too. It’s ridiculous and why I need FDS lol. My best friend told me to “just let him stay over” when a guy (a stranger) lied and said he’d need to sleep over at my place after we met cause he couldn’t get his car. I told her I wasn’t comfortable with it and she said “just let him stay he seems genuine❤️” .... he wasn’t lol. With friends like this, who needs enemies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Am I right to skip this date tomorrow?We really do, and meanwhile these men are committing heinous crimes without a thought as to the morality and fairness. I genuinely think they don’t have a conscience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:27 AM |
| 3 | At least the comments were telling him how big of an asshole he is.It’s like they want us to be bulimic. Seriously, it’s the only way to eat like a 300 lb man and stay slim. And it takes away the gag reflex, as a bonus. Who cares if it’s hazardous for our health/lives, at least you won’t gag on his dick lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:22 AM |
| 3 | I left because he never took pictures of usApparently I really value this subreddit ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:19 AM |
| 5 | I left because he never took pictures of usOmg why do they lose their minds when we ask them to take a picture of us. They act like their girlfriends are the most vain, narcissistic creatures ever for asking for a picture of us looking nice — and then they turn around and drool over similar pictures of other girls on Instagram. Trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Eye fucked by a 70yo at a rummage saleThey don’t care. They enjoy making you uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Lifelong Celibacy May Be In The Cards For MeI’m kind of in the same boat tbh. Having been in abusive and dead bedroom relationships, I miss sex. A lot. I didn’t even have sex in my relationships! But it’s difficult to get anything casual where the guy is even halfway attractive, lasts more than 1 minute, is safe aka not a murderer/rapist, and doesn’t block me afterwards. (Or hurts me during sex — this is very common). I’m not ready for another relationship, so I will probably have to be celibate for a while too. It really sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:15 AM |
| 2 | Why do I need to give you my name?Men never deserve the benefit of the doubt. I’ve always been a very kind naive person who always saw the best in people .... but I got hurt so many times, physically sometimes. I’m trying to learn that men probably will take advantage of my kindness. They always do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Why do I need to give you my name?Men being singled out in front of other people does nothing. They could literally rape someone and people would just film on their phones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do I need to give you my name?Fuck, I’m probably on that. Thanks ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Why do I need to give you my name?Yeah not every guy but we don’t know which ones. So we have to assume it is all of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:03 AM |
| 2 | Why do I need to give you my name?It is so easy for these pathetic men to fly into rage when we don’t immediately sleep with them. Meanwhile women somehow manage to put up with abuse, mistreatment, parasitic husbands and god knows what else without hurting other people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Why do I need to give you my name?That is frightening. I’m sorry. I hate how we have to keep calm and cool and polite when this shit happens, just to protect ourselves, and even that doesn’t always work. Maybe you should carry a weapon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Poor guysSo true. Testosterone literally makes it SO EASY to build muscle. If I, a woman, can do it, these flabby squishy men have no excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:58 AM |
| 2 | Poor guysIn some ways I think I’d be happier in a pre industrial revolution world. The men wouldn’t have limp dicks from watching porn and they’d actually have muscles. Maybe they’d be smelly, but so would I lol. And my childbearing hips would actually come in use, instead of needing a surgery to fix. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Poor guysJesus Christ that’s sickening. People are living longer than ever but somehow the barrier for “old age” for women is going down and down. MILF should be like 40s. Not fucking 20s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Ugh they want us to do everything even planning the dates...I can’t I can’t“It’s eQuAliTy to be able to hit women” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Ugh they want us to do everything even planning the dates...I can’t I can’tI never experienced any of this. I got a birthday present once, that’s it. I hate being a millennial lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:51 AM |
| 8 | Ugh they want us to do everything even planning the dates...I can’t I can’tMen are getting more and more feminine, whilst somehow still avoiding the kindness that is an inherent part of femininity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:50 AM |
| 3 | I’m so tired of the “all women are crazy” narrativeYeah but if you ever use the term “he” or “him” to refer to an “in general” sociopath, Reddit will remind you that “women can be sociopaths too!!!!!!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Rewatching How I Met your Mother through fds eyes makes me so sad how women are portrayed in mainstream mediaLol one of my exes said he’s like Ted, he was always comparing himself to him. He “just wanted a romantic loyal loving girl.” He forced me to do depraved sex acts, beat me and when he was angry, he asked me to get my vagina permanently sewn up! So romantic. BEWARE OF MEN WHO SAY THEY RELATE TO TED. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:35 AM |
| 9 | Just randomly found it on fb. Ugh.He’d lose the respect and friendship of the women, not the men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:26 AM |
| 15 | Another guy who has never heard of dinnerTHIS! They will usually warn you who they are very early on. And play it off as something cute or quirky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Another guy who has never heard of dinnerWhy do you think there are more LVM on dating apps now than before? (I don’t disagree lol) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:13 AM |
| 3 | A meme for today QueensBecause men are allowed to act like babies all their lives, it’s women who have to grow up and act like adults. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:45 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on wokefishing?A few minutes if we’re lucky... usually it’s less than a minute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 11:14 PM |
| 7 | I guess I’m not a real woman then 🤷♀️I vomited and then drowned in it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 10:35 PM |
| 8 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Google FGM. Or don’t, if you want to sleep soundly tonight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:16 PM |
| 19 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Anal only! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:24 PM |
| 25 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Wow that’s awful, actually much worse than what happened to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 07:13 AM |
| 58 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Hey, at least I didn’t get my vagina completely sewn up (“vaginal obliteration”), which is what my psychotic, even more abusive first ex wanted for me. I seem to have a history of dating problematic guys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:36 AM |
| 27 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Technically it’s not. I can try to use dilators and stuff though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:35 AM |
| 3 | Why am I starting to miss a toxic relationship?Omg my ex told me the EXACT same thing “if you can’t accept this” (him fucking other girls, etc) “then there’s the door.” I meekly stayed because I didn’t think I deserve anything else. And because I couldn’t contemplate leaving him — I’d DIE rather than be without him! But this only went one way. He was was completely, totally ok without me. I broke up with him eventually because he gave me corona via one of his side chicks, but I feel I learned a lesson too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:28 AM |
| 2 | Do not date ugly LVMYMMV, one of my exes was the most handsome man I’d ever seen outside of a freakin Armani/gym advertisement, and he treated me like shit and was abusive in every possible way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:22 AM |
| 236 | What are some the embarassing things you’ve done as a pickmeisha that you promise you won’t ever do it again, now that FDS has taught you better?Got a surgery at the age of 21 to make my vagina tighter because he said it was too loose. Now sex is painful. I think i “win” this thread lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:05 AM |
| 11 | what ways can i test a man to know he would never rape/hurt/attack me?Omg put my two abusive exes together and between the two of them they would check EVERY ONE of these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:04 AM |
| 4 | Can’t believe kids are going to grow thinking bruises like this are okay.And she’s HAPPY about it? Jesus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:30 AM |
| 32 | Eye roll into next yearI swear I’ve seen her profile picture before | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:29 AM |
| 3 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themWow. His ego sounds more fragile than an eggshell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 9 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themBut, for the sake of argument, he could avoid this whole thing by suggesting a date a day or two in the future. Then instead of just declining, it would be fine for the girl to say “no but how about Wednesday” or whatever. Because there’s a modicum of respect in his initial question, because it’s not last minute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:45 PM |
| 5 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themI have a feeling you’re a guy lmao. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 4 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themUgh just saw that, it’s like whiplash cause his first message was so nice. Then as soon as you said you weren’t free, he said “cool” and Nexted you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Guys who don’t have any social media .... do you get suspicious?The website is strange because it reads like a resume. It’s like “I’m (name), a (occupation) and athlete. I managed the ___ and ____ while attempting to qualify for an Olympic team. I have a passion for ___, etc.” Literally a resume | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Guys who don’t have any social media .... do you get suspicious?Definitely gonna keep an eye on that last one. Hey, if he doesn’t engage, he can’t blame me for forgetting about him 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:25 AM |
| 3 | Guys who don’t have any social media .... do you get suspicious?He wouldn’t even tell me what he’s busy with asjdjsk. I feel like I’m annoying him with all my questions https://imgur.com/a/9W4blPL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:55 AM |
| 41 | A tactic LVM use to get you to chase themOmg I also love how he framed it as a test of how adventurous YOU are. So you have to live up to his standards. It’s probably meant to awaken your competitive drive and have you champing at the bit to show him your cool adventurous side. Or something. Also he’s 100% blasting that out to every girl he matches with. Numbers game | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Guys who don’t have any social media .... do you get suspicious?I get the feeling he’s maybe just weird or doesn’t have friends? I asked him what he’s busy with (since he said he’s busy and that’s why he doesn’t have social media) and he just dodged my question?! .... https://imgur.com/a/9W4blPL And fuck I’m sorry that’s so slimy. I hate when dudes pretend to be such good people when they’re in the midst of cheating or fucking someone over. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:51 AM |
| 10 | DO NOT GIVE MEN YOUR REAL PHONE NUMBERCan you elaborate on this bad feeling? What were the first warning signs before you blocked him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 08:55 PM |
| 2 | That makes perfect sense.Most men watch porn every single day. It’s disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 01:10 AM |
| 7 | PSA - No he's not. Stop lying to yourself.My abusive ex wasn’t abused but he sure as hell was a bully as a kid! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:35 PM |
| 4 | notice the double standardI was told that I shouldn’t be over 130 lbs at 5’10” by an ex 😞 because “girls being so heavy is weird” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:34 PM |
| 4 | How do you ladies deal with insecurities regarding how you look?Mine told me the same, same number even, and said I wasn’t pretty. Men really love to destroy us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or are there barely attractive men out there?Oh god i hate the beards. Every guy seems to have grown a “quarantine beard” and they’re all scruffy and patchy and prime ground for catching bits of food. Facial hair looks good on maybe 15% of men and that’s it ... the rest it just brings their looks down so much. Not that straight men care about how they look. Laziness > being “gay” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:28 AM |
| 4 | Is it just me or are there barely attractive men out there?Lmaooo I’m the tall, broad, strong daughter and puberty never evened me out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:26 AM |
| 2 | Please tell me this is not for real...I’ve heard that from an ex almost word for word! He blamed me for making him hit me, almost blind me! Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:36 AM |
| 1 | Please tell me this is not for real...“He said the only person who drives him to this anger is me and he’s never had this problem with anyone else before” (Paraphrasing) OP needs to RUN. Classic abuser line. “You drove me to it” . I’ve heard it before in real life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 05:35 AM |
| 3 | I want to have good sex at least once in my life.You can’t figure out if their dick is too big though (yes this happened to me and it was painful and horrible) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 04:40 AM |
| 46 | The delusion... I’ve only seen men look better in their 30s vs their 20s if they were obese and then lost weightTo say nothing of 40s! That’s when the forehead wrinkles and beer guts really come out to play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 03:55 AM |
| 35 | The delusion... I’ve only seen men look better in their 30s vs their 20s if they were obese and then lost weightWish i could copy paste this to every ignorant man on that thread!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 02:43 AM |
| 5 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMOn all of OLD .... there’s absolutely no one left 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:08 AM |
| 9 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMI feel like the word “spontaneous” will signal to guys you’re down for a late-night “spontaneous hangout” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:07 AM |
| 15 | Signal phrases that suggest a guy is LVMOmfg this reminds me of my ex who said I was being “negative” when I told him I didn’t enjoy threesomes aka watching him fuck other girls in front of me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:02 AM |
| 2 | So, being busty and online dating.I’d suggest playing up other things about yourself and limiting the pictures showing your figure. So the guys who come across your profile know your strengths but don’t fixate on you as a ONS material. I’m the opposite of you, tbh, tall and extremely flat chested, and have no problem attracting guys who do NOT want to have sex with me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:19 AM |
| 122 | Men have no idea how our anatomy worksMy asshole physically closed up after reading this. I may never poo again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 03:20 AM |
| 8 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastHey! I like fish 🙋🏼♀️🐟 :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 01:25 AM |
| 3 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastTHIRTEEN? This is disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?I agree 100%. I could not be happy celibate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 12:00 AM |
| 6 | I miss physical intimacy so much that I cry over it. How do you all handle going without it?I don’t even know what that kind of O feels like lol do you just go hard with the dildo? Sorry if this is TMI you don’t have to answer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:59 PM |
| 8 | Desperation of a LVMGuys who prefer women without sexual/dating experience tend to be predators, I know from experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:06 AM |
| 92 | It’s not worth it in the long runIt’s not prostitution it’s SEx WoRk and is just as valid as being a doctor /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:48 AM |
| 12 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Well that’s at least kind of sweet lol. If only it were true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:47 AM |
| 20 | The media will tell you that no matter how much you improve yourself, whether physically, mentally, or emotionally, you should keep the same low standards, when it comes to a partner. Also notice how it only works one way. It's going to be a no from me.Omg just watched this. That Russian guy was so handsome .... my god. I loved that song she sang at the end too. And isn’t Will like 30 years older than her in real life, crazy how they tried to make him look young lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 02:46 AM |
| 13 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020Why are so many guys so lazy? With how much they whine about never getting laid/getting girlfriends, they certainly don’t put in any effort to try and fix that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:52 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020I’ve found it’s only ever been one-sided for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:51 PM |
| 5 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekNot unless he’s paying me therapist fees 💸 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:27 PM |
| 6 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?This was super helpful. Saved. Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 05:03 AM |
| 4 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekFor a second when I saw this in my notifications I thought you meant this directed at me and my face went :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:42 AM |
| 7 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?You’re so right. This is the most un-Pickme I’ve ever been in my life, so I definitely don’t wanna show you my texts with guys from a few years ago lol. In answer to your last question, he’s extremely attractive (well for me, and my type is very subjective so I’m sure he is not 9/10 for everyone lol) and I find almost no one attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:32 AM |
| 40 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekYea, I genuinely doubt he “went though” anything today cause on social media he was merrily playing the guitar or some shit a couple hours ago lmao. They really do identify themselves easily | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 01:22 AM |
| 8 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekAbsolutely, so obvious! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:39 AM |
| 6 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekGo ahead I’m flattered lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:30 AM |
| 122 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekYeah she keeps texting me frantically making excuses for him like ??? Calm down it’s not even your date? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 29 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekThat’s what i did Lol I sent some lame message like “bye loser blocking u” not the most mature but I did block him immediately after | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:28 AM |
| 10 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekThe diarrhea attack sounds extremely likely too tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:24 AM |
| 67 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekYeah then he responded that I’m the “real joke” like ??? The most messages in a row he ever sent me tbh, was after I called him a joke. Blocked him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:22 AM |
| 72 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekYeah like it was so sensitive of him to ask me at 11 pm the other night if I wanted to “hang out”. Please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:20 AM |
| 112 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekMy friend told me I was too harsh But I’m done with these guys stupid excuses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:19 AM |
| 8 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekDoubt he gets rejected all the time cause he’s got another option for today, he probably puts in more effort with her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:14 AM |
| 53 | An interesting follow up to my last post where I’m “insensitive” for not letting this douche string me along for week after weekMaybe I was too harsh but this guy’s been coyly hinting for me to ask him out for like 2 weeks and basically made me ask him out today, and then he cancels at 8 pm.... obviously he found a better option / hotter girl / whatever and expects me to keep being the backup for whenever he actually needs me. I’m so done lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 12:10 AM |
| 0 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?He won’t because i don’t meet his standards, probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?I know I am! And I hate it. Guys never chase me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 6 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?It was literally “down for a spontaneous hang?” Which idk what that would even mean, especially so late. I am not a booty call for some dude I’ve never even MET 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:35 PM |
| 5 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?I didn’t ghost, he ghosted me after the last message (mine) 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:27 PM |
| 14 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?It’s like they want us to chase them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:40 PM |
| 11 | Feel like this dude is messing with me and trying to get me to ask HIM out?Background - he texted me way too late the other day and I pretended like I’d made plans because I’m not a last minute option. But I feel now that he’s trying to get me to ask him out because he’s dancing around and sending signals like a girl flipping her hair and making eyes at a dude. But in a mocking way. Idk, feels like I’m pulling teeth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:09 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020So sick of trading 5-7 messages with people on dating apps and them eventually ending with “lol” or never messaging me again because something shinier and newer caught their eye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:28 PM |
| 3 | I feel so bad for this girl. I hope she finds us.I’ve been through this, except it was only open on his side. Went on for years and made me want to kill myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 11:12 PM |
| 4 | Hope they get picked!Lmao too accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:29 AM |
| 67 | NVM upset because I wouldn’t come over and fuck after the first date.My ex made me buy him food lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 03:26 AM |
| 4 | ClosureI misread this as “because you ain’t shit.” Hmmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 12 | Solidarity and support for our Egyptian Sisters- (r/TwoXChromosomes): Egypt is a hellhole and no one caresLatin American guys can be nightmarish. Their culture urges them to be controlling and “alpha”. I’m avoiding them from now on, can’t risk it again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 13 | He's 'fine' with FDS but misses the point completely. Link in commentsMe too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:25 AM |
| 56 | Pickmeisha Handbook: Watch Porn To Be Like The Women Your Husband Masturbates To. This lame shit makes me sick. I'm glad I never subscribed to this mindset. Other than this sub, this is basically the only kind of advice I used to find on reddit when looking for support about being porn-free.I tried to be a woman like the ones my ex jerked off to, except wait that was pretty much impossible because I’m a tall pale skinny girl with a flat chest and broad shoulders, and he was into short tanned curvy Latinas with bendy gymnastic abilities. Like ok lemme just change literally everything about my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:22 AM |
| 32 | Caption:’This is why I don’t take her out anymore’ bf complains of her taking a picture of her food 🙄THIS. Men can be into the most fucked up shit — BDSM incest bondage rape porn, for example, and you aren’t allowed to judge — but god forbid a woman has the horrible crime of liking a fun, fictional vampire story | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Scrote pretty much ignores a date and then texts oh hey how are you! out of no where. #menactdumbtogetawaywithshitWhy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:14 AM |
| 18 | Scrote pretty much ignores a date and then texts oh hey how are you! out of no where. #menactdumbtogetawaywithshitThey really are! So many men use one word replies when I message them on apps and they expect me to carry the conversation... it’s like they think pursuing a convo is showing weakness or something. They’re such princesses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:12 AM |
| 3 | Don’t make fun of yourself, even jokingly, or guys will jump right on it and try to put you down even furtherMen are so fragile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:56 PM |
| 7 | Don’t make fun of yourself, even jokingly, or guys will jump right on it and try to put you down even furtherSame the hostile lunchroom was the worst :( And yeah I probably should’ve said that but I just said “yikes sorry you peaked in high school” lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 09:35 PM |
| 4 | Don’t make fun of yourself, even jokingly, or guys will jump right on it and try to put you down even furtherHe replied lol https://imgur.com/a/numtIvh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 13 | Don’t make fun of yourself, even jokingly, or guys will jump right on it and try to put you down even furtherHe definitely seems obsessed with peaking in HS, he keeps going on about it - https://imgur.com/a/numtIvh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | If you make the first move he will settle for you even if he thinks less of youDamn I should’ve been born in the 1800s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:11 AM |
| 1 | If you make the first move he will settle for you even if he thinks less of youAll men are like that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Was feeling a little down about breaking up with LVM this morning... then I read r/BreakingMom.... wowI feel this so much. Same with me... I wasn’t good enough even as a 22 year old model, he wouldn’t even have sex with me, imagine if we had babies!! Glad you got out :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:31 AM |
| 69 | Saw this on TumblrI’ve been told to give guys a chance when they’re short, fat, and nearly physically repulse me. A guy would NEVER be told the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 04:58 AM |
| 1 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseWould a HVM say “gorgeous” or “beautiful”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:20 PM |
| 2 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayGod you’re so right ... the tinder subreddit is full of guys opening with a cheesy pickup line and the girl responding with “hahaha ur so funny my panties just fell off ;)” Like what?? I’d feel so weird being so forward and sexual to someone I’ve never even met. Guys will always believe the girls who fall all over themselves vs the girls who don’t. Their self esteem is like steel. God give me the confidence of a mediocre looking man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 05:19 PM |
| 14 | This! And can we please stop having society try to convince us to let a man use us like a walking sex doll in the name of “sex positivity”?Damn I would’ve hated to live in Ancient Greece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 03:18 AM |
| 2 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseYeah that sucks I’m sorry. I’m looking for guys in their 20s only (not 30 year olds like my naive 18 year old ass used to) on dating apps for this very reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 10 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseThanks I try | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 01:08 AM |
| 16 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseGosh no, it’s Williamsburg Brooklyn. A 25 min train ride from where I am | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:36 PM |
| 2 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseNo, why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:31 PM |
| 24 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseThat’s exactly what I was thinking too. He’s probably going to be even lazier during sex than he is when trying to plan a meetup...probably wouldn’t even have sex with me actually but just demand a BJ. No thanks 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:28 PM |
| 30 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseHe wanted you to be like “Nooo don’t leave I will cross oceans for you 😩” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 10:05 PM |
| 27 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseHope I don’t get banned for saying this, but it’s been ages since I even had sex because I was in a dead bedroom relationship for a long time...so although I’m not a fan of ONS, I wouldn’t necessarily be opposed to something like that. I ended my old relationship because I decided I deserved more, but apparently it’s just as impossible for me to get laid as a single woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:50 PM |
| 39 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseHonestly it is hard to obtain for me, but I’m used to being a nun. Yeah I’m not responding. He’s not even that handsome. But very arrogant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:34 PM |
| 103 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseYeah he added “come to Williamsburg and maybe you’ll get laid”. Like I’m a pity fuck? That’s so rude ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 09:25 PM |
| 44 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseIf he wanted to have sex, what would be the problem with meeting near my house so that I could just invite him back there after (if I wanted to, which since he’s sooo handsome and desirable, wouldn’t be out of the question in his mind)? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 61 | He only lives in Williamsburg...is that suddenly really so far away? Did he find a better option and is using this as an excuseYeah I sent him a sarcastic comment and he was like “let me take you on a tour of Williamsburg, I’m not normally big on compromise but I can meet you on the lower east side”.... Like what? It doesn’t even make sense, even if his intention is just to hook up. Maybe his Williamsburg place is actually a murder dungeon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | At what point do you stop a conversation (or, when does it become clear they aren’t interested)?You’re right, I need to get rid of the self deprecating humor that’s the result of years of self hatred ... when I say things like that everyone is probably like “is she ok” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:41 PM |
| 6 | At what point do you stop a conversation (or, when does it become clear they aren’t interested)?True. Thank you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:12 AM |
| 10 | At what point do you stop a conversation (or, when does it become clear they aren’t interested)?I was trying 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | At what point do you stop a conversation (or, when does it become clear they aren’t interested)?When you say women who pursue it, do you mean women who reply like “haha ur funny let’s fuck lol” ? 😨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 02:13 AM |
| -1 | At what point do you stop a conversation (or, when does it become clear they aren’t interested)?Probably not even horny cause he would’ve asked for my snap or something by now, that’s what horny guys tend to do (and then demand naked pics 🙄) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 01:54 AM |
| 4 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?I don’t get it. Like he’s in Maine with a hookup? I’m in New York not Maine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 06:14 AM |
| 4 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?The idea of having sex with gross ugly men repulses me tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 04:25 AM |
| 6 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayMost of mine aren’t suggestive either but I am doing a split in one of them 😂 maybe the other girls are doing splits naked. Who knows. Apparently an endless sea of buttholes is perfectly fine for them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:40 AM |
| 25 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?L’Oreal, because he’s worth it 💁🏼♂️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:34 AM |
| 11 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayIdk maybe at this point they’re only responding to girls’ profiles that have their whole tits out and bio that says “I do anal.” Like I honestly have no idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?I never said I wanted just hookups. I am actually pretty sick of hookup culture. But if it’s that or go 3 months without sex without even knowing if the guy will end up ghosting me (happened many times) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:42 AM |
| 5 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayOh that makes more sense! Some guys have auto likers that will just like everyone. What I don’t understand is the guys who super like me and then send 1 message or just never respond . Like what? Why super like then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:29 AM |
| 22 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayI’m sorry sis. You know it’s a shitshow out there when men can’t even be bothered to keep a conversation going, let alone a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?I have sex toys too. But a dildo doesn’t feel the same as an actual dick and a guy on top of me 😳. Plus I miss the feeling of connection with someone, even if it’s super fleeting. And I was previously in a relationship where the guy would not have sex with me. After like 2-3 months I would have to beg him to, and then repeat the cycle. That kind of decimated my self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:24 AM |
| 7 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayWhat do you mean mass shitting? Like sending obnoxious messages? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:22 AM |
| 14 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?True and that sort of guy would probably be the type to refuse to use a condom :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:41 AM |
| 25 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayIf I unmatched all the guys that did this, no joke I would have no matches. Are my standards just too high? I’m tall and slim, so overweight men 2-3 inches shorter than me don’t really strike my fancy, but maybe I have no choice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:11 AM |
| 71 | I swear men on tinder just swipe right, message me once or twice and throw their phone awayYeah what they really mean is “it’s so hard for me to get a date with an 18 year old 5’2” girl with airbrushed skin, a 40” butt, 24” waist and double Ds who looks like she’s 16 years old and will do anal on the first date.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:58 PM |
| 12 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?I know ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:57 PM |
| -20 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?But I genuinely feel like then I would never have sex at all. It’s been ages and I’m only 24 but I feel like there’s cobwebs down there. Of course, I can’t even get laid now ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:57 PM |
| 19 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?Yeah I hate that grammar mistake too. They never message me first. Well, occasionally. But we matched at like 1 am last night (technically today) so I knew he wouldn’t message me first if I didn’t. If they message me first it tends to go the same old way anyway. As if even replying to them goes to their head! Should I just never reply?? Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:31 PM |
| 35 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?So many men have asked ME to come to THEM...maybe I’m just not attractive enough for them to put forth any effort tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:16 PM |
| 9 | Does he really expect me to drive 100 miles to see him?(And I don’t have a car because I live in the city) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 11:15 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in HellThanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:11 AM |
| 4 | Early signs of narcissism.The ego is more fragile than spun glass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:10 AM |
| 5 | Early signs of narcissism.My ex did this. He would scream at me for a stupid mistake (like not sending him photos immediately) but if he did that it’s no big deal. Asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:10 AM |
| 12 | Did anyone else used to think they were high libido just because that’s what men like?My libido basically has disappeared after being rejected so many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 03:04 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, the bar continues to be so deep beneath the floor that it is in HellI have the same forehead wrinkles when I raise my eyebrows as he does. And I’m only 23 :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 02:57 AM |
| 17 | Boyfriend made me anxious about my breasts and triggered an emotional flashbackI wonder how saggy his balls will be by 70 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 08:52 PM |
| 5 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveSame. Women have bullied me for it and told me I’m always going to be bigger than my boyfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:44 AM |
| 6 | LVM is unhappy that his girlfriend isn't 'open minded' enough to do anal and have a threesome involving him and her 'cute friends.' 🤮Was that me? I don’t remember posting about it (and it was many years ago) but word for word, that’s exactly how it happened. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn’t date men who watch porn? tdlr ans: high chance of being objectified, always feeling used like a sex object, power and control, porn substituteYou’re getting downvoted but this is true ... something like 95% of guys watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:13 AM |
| 52 | Helped someone learn they’re dating a LVM today. Sent her his dating profile and screenshots of our date plans for this weekend.And Adriana Lima | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:04 AM |
| 2 | The Pickme's of Reddit - OG post "My (27F) husband (27M) of two years told me while he was very drunk that he was never really into tall chicks but chose to marry me so his kids would be tall" This was in the comments.Where’s the original post? I’m tall :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:37 AM |
| 140 | Men don’t understand or care about the consequences of their selfish actions. I hate that women will destruct themselves to build up a shitty man.Men are always nicer if they haven’t fucked you/aren’t in a relationship with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 03:28 AM |
| 1 | I FOUND THE PERFECT MAN...but I barely orgasm :/Do other guys make you cum? I’ve never, ever had an orgasm from sex. And I’ve had more partners than you are probably thinking. Not all women have 12 orgasms at a time like in porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 03:16 AM |
| 8 | Pickmeisha surpreme Emily Ratakowski clowns around to entertain her unimpressed LVM 🤡She shouldn’t have to censor videos of her own body just because it’s skinny. My stomach looks like that (not the rest of me tho) and I’m not worried it’s going to give someone an ED | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:21 PM |
| 22 | Not here for almost relationships or situationships🙅Rules for thee but not for me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingThat’s so gross and sad my god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:08 PM |
| 9 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingThe women of the next generation never even had a chance. They’re growing up with Instagram, Tiktok etc, the most depraved porn. I’m 24 but girls who are in their teens right now seem to have it even worse, because when they’re my age the guys they’re trying to date will be completely screwed in the head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingSame! I’m Demisexual so the idea of more than one partner makes me nauseous too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:17 PM |
| 14 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingI feel like a woman wrote the article though? Could be wrong . That’s even sadder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:57 AM |
| 13 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingWhy do they care so much if we do? I don’t even get the feeling a guy wrote the article | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:56 AM |
| 58 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoyingYeah this makes me unreasonably angry like fuck stop telling me what I think. The whole article gave me a bad taste in my mouth...the telling me what my thoughts are, the wildly unsubtle pushing of polyamory, and the swooning over Harry styles (like he’s a good looking guy not a god, calm down) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:11 AM |
| 45 | Why does this seem like propaganda for being polygamous? It’s really annoying“....Which is great” Like ok that’s .... impartial. I got this from the Snapchat news page | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 03:37 AM |
| 62 | Is it just me or are guys more eager than ever to meet up without even a conversation first?The “3 miles guy” then followed it up with “The thing is you only have two weeks because I’m taking a road trip to Los Angeles. I’ll be back at the end of June but I’d rather see you ASAP.” Wow omg only 2 weeks 😰 I’m running out of time oh noooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:55 AM |
| 25 | When you’re one of the prettiest women in the world, but men always have to say a thing about your apparence 🤦🏼♀️And he cheated on her right? Disgusting Wait ....WAIT.... is that the guy whose eyes are way too close together so that he looks deformed? Are you fucking kidding me? Maybe he has vision problems because of that and thought some girl he fucked was Adriana 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 04:29 AM |
| 8 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?Oh that’s a given | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Pornsick boyfriend doesn't find his girlfriend sexy or beautiful because he's "been conditioned" to only appreciate porn stars.Men already think this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:55 AM |
| 40 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madNot necessarily. Sometimes they are no longer even having sex with the wife and she is sexless and miserable and wondering what’s wrong with her that her husband needs to look elsewhere. Shitty feeling for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 06:50 AM |
| 3 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsMakes sense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsDamn it was deleted what’d it say 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:57 AM |
| 6 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsThat seems to be the case but why do you think that is? Like what’s stopping HVM from asking it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:39 AM |
| 2 | LOL what a load of crap. Who comes up with this stuff?Every time he goes to wipe his ass he gets distracted by his willie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:38 AM |
| 2 | nah we heard you the first time 🚯My ex had 300 😔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯Can you search for someone on dating apps?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:31 AM |
| 4 | Red flags everywhere! Can you spot them? I’ve never seen anyone with more baggage than this 🚮🚮🚮🚯🚯🚯Ok without reading anyone’s comments I feel so stupid right now, and like I’ll never be able to date properly, because I don’t see any red flags. No wonder I’ve only been in abusive relationships. I guess I’m legally blind to red flags I’ll read the other comments now and see what I missed lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:31 AM |
| 11 | As the flair say, roast a scrote! Sure let me date someone who admits they are “hard to date” WTF!YUP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:17 AM |
| 0 | How is this gem still single?Bacon is not even that good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 12:15 AM |
| 9 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsThat’s so true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:36 PM |
| 17 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsThank you— it took me a year 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:34 PM |
| 63 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?If he even has sex with her, often they don’t and are cheating on the side while the gf has a dead bedroom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 29 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsTurned 24 today | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:04 PM |
| 39 | Is it just me or is this crawling with red flagsLol I asked him why I seem like fun and he said “because you like to drink and can do the splits” (I’m holding a drink in one pic) ... maybe it’s my fault? I don’t think my profile is slutty though, I’m well covered in every photo :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 11:04 PM |
| 4 | Why Are One Night Stands Being Advertised to Girls as “Strong and Empowering” instead of “Risky and Reckless”?I’ve never had an orgasm despite sleeping with 13 guys, (and some girls who probably knew what they were doing better), is there something wrong with me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 04:07 AM |
| 12 | You can never convince a man to love youYeah same. Seems like a fantasy for a guy to treat me this way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Following ig models/soft porn is a red flagMy ex had pictures of other girls hung up on his wall. I almost killed myself in that relationship because I came to hate myself so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Following ig models/soft porn is a red flagDo any men NOT follow those insta models? Serious question. I haven’t met a guy under 50 who doesn’t. I feel like every man is pornsick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 02:02 AM |
| 3 | The dangers of a "hoe phase"God I fucking hate those articles. They should follow them up with how to wear a diaper articles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 05:35 AM |
| 4 | I hate how common it is for men to do degrading/ abusive shit during sexI literally got insinuated that I was boring on tinder for saying I wasn’t into anal lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 11:01 PM |
| -1 | Yeah right. Stop trying to push my boundaries. I don’t care what your peepee finds “exciting”I guess cause I didn’t want to come off as angry and mean and make him mad. I don’t like to make guys mad cause I’m a fucking pushover. Also he’s asking me to come over now and when I said “no I’m not trying to get coronavirus” he said that’s offensive and he’s not even sick. Bro, YOU DONT KNOW IF YOURE SICK | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Yeah right. Stop trying to push my boundaries. I don’t care what your peepee finds “exciting”I’m willing to be most people (guys) wouldn’t see anything wrong with this. I’d just come off as a bitter crazy girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:05 AM |
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