Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!

witchingsauce · 2021-03-01T02:01:52+00:00

The shrug emoji is always a red flag. Lol A man should want to try to impress you. Instead positioning himself as the prize joke is telling. Screams he doesn’t give a damn//not interested in you but he’ll take your attention and sex cause why not. What a slap in the face. Block and delete!

blerty567 · 2021-03-01T00:38:46+00:00

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voodo2020 · 2021-03-01T00:42:15+00:00

drink? No? If not, what should we do instead? Sex! I’ll buy you a cup of tea/coffee! He is showing you that he thinks you as a $4 prostitute..block and delete

Interesting_Day1188 · 2021-03-01T01:32:22+00:00

All I could think of was Titanic...

'Paint me like one of your French girls....'

LOL

pisces45789 · 2021-03-01T00:55:29+00:00

This covid thing really works as an excuse for this kind of behavior.. This guy texted me on Tinder yesterday, invited me to his place after 15min of conversation, i replied that i dont visit strangers on 1st date but we can meet in public, he never responded 😂😅

kaoutanu · 2021-03-01T03:02:47+00:00

I'd be so tempted to say "It sounds like you're not in a good place to be dating right now, so I'll have to pass. Good luck with your walks!".

But really - block, delete, ghost. Don't train him.

throwaway32132134 · 2021-03-01T01:31:54+00:00

There's this field I know....🙂 I'm sorry seeing "walks" as one of the options is hilarious to me. 😂

skyerippa · 2021-03-01T04:41:14+00:00

You can paint me? Oh sorry I didn't realize you were hitting me up for a commission I thought this was a date... but sure that'll be $400

Jiou112 · 2021-03-01T03:00:53+00:00

AH 😂 Some men are just out there waving those 🚩🚩

janeaustenfan99 · 2021-03-01T04:14:16+00:00

He just wants delivery sex, using Bumble like Seamless.

Colour_riot · 2021-03-01T05:05:10+00:00

This is why I don't do OLD. Their mentality shifts - they think that it's just a numbers game.

And it's also sort of true that it's easier for them to find women who are traumatized / insecure that they will fall for that shit (then they use her and dump her and then wonder why they're single).

Just focus on yourself and wait for the dates that come irl. Make female friends or join a group.

Even the LVMs who ask you out through a social channel are afraid of getting a reputation for being cheap etc and they will at the very least ask you to dinner (although if you already know that they're LVM don't give them a chance!!)

warinmymind94 · 2021-03-01T06:49:38+00:00

Covid is not an excuse for low value "dates". Lvms are trying to use it to pass off walks and Netflix and chill or cheap drink scenarios. Block and delete. A HVM would plan out a dinner OR send you an egiftcard or ubereats to get a meal and you could do a phone call/video chat then.

blerty567 · 2021-03-01T01:12:00+00:00

Dang, why does it say there are 11 comments on this post but I can only see 5? 🤔🤔

redwineandsolitude · 2021-03-01T03:25:35+00:00

THEY ARE SO UNORIGINAL. Okay, so you’re telling me in the future everyone’s kids will be asking their parents, “Where did you first meet?” And everyone will say a resounding PARK/STARBUCKS/COFFEE/FIELD!

Prudent_Butterfly164 · 2021-03-01T00:42:42+00:00

Drop him. He seems like an inconsiderate asshole

Summerisle7 · 2021-03-01T03:25:50+00:00

You should have blocked him the second it became clear he had no plan for a date. It’s not your job to help him plan anything. And you certainly didn’t owe him an apology! What on earth

sugaredberry · 2021-03-01T04:55:49+00:00

Max cringe omg hope you blocked and deleted

Lavender_flow · 2021-03-01T20:00:26+00:00

Sis. You need to excude abundance and confidence. You come off as abit desperate and needy. Which LVM love. You need to adopt the FDS mindset because you are still stuck in the pickme mindset. Your comments scream "pickme! Pick me! Love me" You need to love yourself first. I'd suggest working on yourself and your confidence and not date at all. If a guy is being like this. Fuck him. You need to realize these men aren't shit. Dick is abundant and of low value. You want to be some losers fleshlight he can ejaculate into for zero pleasure for you? No you don't. There is nothing wrong with being single. Find yourself. Be strong and grow confidence and you will start attracting a different kind of man. It will take time. But who the hell wants to date these crusty fuckers? None of the men you have talked to would ever get you what you want or need. Let's face it. Most guys today are looking for easy sex (which they are horrible at) and the large majority with girlfriends wank to porn and instagram models and cheat on their girlfriends #livingthedream being single is not shameful.

blerty567 · 2021-03-01T00:45:21+00:00

Notice how he listed dinner among the things he normally does. But I’m my case, he suggested not that we get dinner, but that he come straight over to my house. It’s like he was throwing in my face that I’m not good enough to take out.

ariaa126 · 2021-03-01T06:06:03+00:00

Paint him..? Is he planning on paying you commission? I’m pretty sure that will cost him more than dinner

Equal-Ear2312 · 2021-03-01T13:46:21+00:00

A stranger... Wants to come over...? This guy really wants to burn all the important steps that make dating... Well... Dating.

thelightsource12 · 2021-03-01T18:58:05+00:00

Paint me like one of your French scrotes

blerty567 · 2021-03-01T20:03:22+00:00

Its like a game for him! He's dodging all the chances you gave him to be decent and come correctly. The he seals the deal with some extra disrespect by saying you can paint him.

Davina33 · 2021-03-01T20:04:35+00:00

Cheapskate predatory twat. He just wants to come over and get into your knickers. They are so see through.

2021-03-01T00:38:46+00:00

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Title	Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!
Author	blerty567
Upvotes	292
Comments	79
Date	March 1, 2021 12:34 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/luv66s/tries_to_make_me_make_plans_then_says_its_too/
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