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| 1 | BPD and male doctors. Why you should never see a male psychiatrist.What do you mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:41 AM |
| 1 | BPD and male doctors. Why you should never see a male psychiatrist.You more than likely already know this, but talking about it, while necessary, does cause you to relive it. So, it is actually taking energy from you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 03:32 AM |
| 28 | BPD and male doctors. Why you should never see a male psychiatrist.Every time you write about this, some detail is mentioned and it makes it that much more heartbreaking. I really hope you're doing OK now. I had a similar experience with the police. They completely mishandled my case, and I raised hell. There's a full review of all the detectives going on with the police right now because I flipped out and had proof of their bullshit. A director of the police where I live was finally caught for raping girls between the ages of 7-14 over the past 30 years in the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:09 PM |
| 4 | This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things.My little brother still slept in the same bed as my mom up until she passed away. He was 5 at the time, but still, totally coddling him. It's that type of conditioning that makes it so difficult for women in general. My mom was conditioned to believe that she needed a boy to be of value. So when she finally had one she was hellbent on keeping him happy, even at the cost of her daughter's happiness. That's why it's not just picking the right guy, but raising them correctly too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Posting Low Effort Memes and Screenshots makes you a LVW [Controversial]Glad this is brought up, as I've been wondering this myself lately with the serious crack down on all things deemed inappropriate for FDS. Shouldn't half of the Flairs be taken away? The FDS humor flair, for example, gives the idea that you can leave memes. What exactly constitutes FDS Humor? There isn't a lot of clarity around a lot of the Flair, which I think leads people to think they can post something, that isn't actually deemed appropriate or worthy of FDS. Just my two cents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 11:05 PM |
| 18 | If he wanted to fix his mental health, he would...Be careful of the men that go to therapy. There are men that use it like it as a manipulative tool just to make them seem more sensitive and well-rounded. Also be aware of WHY they go to therapy. Anger management? RUN. PTSD due to some type of military/police situation? Teleport the heck out of there Star Trek style, block, and delete. Also, if you're in intensive therapy, you shouldn't be dating, man or a woman. You're already in a vulnerable state, you should be improving yourself, not trying … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 10:44 PM |
| 64 | This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things.Italian men can be the same way. They're giant, very emotional, babies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:35 PM |
| 42 | This is from an Indian account but as a North African I can relate so much. They don’t want us to question things.It's the same reason that they don't want assault victims to speak out, really anyone who's been abused. Men don't want their patterns of behavior known. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 05:30 PM |
| 39 | With no disrespect to other religions, I do NOT get this. At all. It’s a no from meHere's another idea. Get rid of the husband, and you won't need the other wife to help with all the other chores? Maybe just get a cool roommate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 02:38 AM |
| 1 | Stop asking why he did that—start asking if it’s acceptable to youIf you have to ask yourself if it's acceptable, it means it's not acceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Beach bodies 😍🏖️🌊The first one is really attractive. More so than the second. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:44 PM |
| 2 | After Bill Cosby's release from prison, Mickey Rourke shares frightening allegation on Instagram | PhillyVoiceThis just reminds me of how Howard Stern went on a talk show and tried to start saying 'wow, Weinstein and those guys are creeps' after having a huge public radio show where he regularly degraded women, rated them by their looks on a 1-10 scales, and often asked them to take their clothes off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Beach bodies 😍🏖️🌊I see what you did there.... Me with my dyslexic mind took that literally... equipment. Geez. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:25 PM |
| 15 | Men who catcall on the street 🥱Did you see the Netflix special where this bird was actually trying to mate with the hosts head? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:19 PM |
| 39 | Do you think men who are into petite women are creepy lvm?I had a baby face up until I hit 30, and then I finally started to look like I was in my late 20's. Lot of men mistook me for a younger woman. I am short and built like a gymnast. So I had all sorts of guys making up weird fantasies about me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:17 PM |
| 59 | Cry me a river.The guy I filed a police report against claims there was a 'misunderstanding' when he was trying to start talking to me about sex, and then started to harass me when I said I didn't want him to walk me home... He also has a girlfriend btw, apparently for the past 2 years. Any guy I've spoken to afterwards and told the story to says, no matter what, no guy brings up sex with a girl that they aren't thinking about fucking. At all, it's how we test the waters to see if we can get with you. So messe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:14 PM |
| 24 | FDS to the rescue!I cringe when I think that I used to do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:12 PM |
| 4 | Got a new, better paying job in May and wanted to reward my hard work. No one treats me better than I treat myself.I couldn't message you privately, but wanted to just say. Please be careful with the info in this photo. People can you part of that serial number to look up the diamond, see how much it's worth, get your info, and potentially come after you. It's not hard once they get the number and can manipulate people on the phone if they call into thinking you're them. It happens, a lot. I'm saying this because I work in cyber-security. You'd be amazed at how easy it is for people to get your details from … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/21 04:12 PM |
| 11 | Leveling Up your friend group in your 30s?Honestly, just do your hobbies and you might find friends that way. Don't try too hard - stick to your principles and keep your boundaries. The more you like yourself, the more your feel less of a need to pour your heart out to people. I've calmed down a lot it seems since finding FDS and realizing I was right, the whole damn time, and just let men/society break me down. I'm in the same boat regarding friends, all my college acquaintances are nowhere to be seen, but I couldn't care less. I have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:28 AM |
| 17 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.For women in particular, this is definitely true. Living alone also helps you to keep your boundaries and recharge when you need to. There's nothing like just being able to be left alone, cook what you want, wear what you want, have the temp the way you want... Also, I did the math on how much money I spent going out vs. just eating at home (because of shitty roommates). I was actually paying the same as renting my own place and then some while living with roommates than if I had just gotten my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 03:16 AM |
| 1 | NvM “forgets” his gf is taking an important test, gets naked and thinks it’s funny.Hmm, must not have a cold shower or a bathroom, I guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:50 AM |
| 32 | Bill Cosby released after assault conviction overturned by Pennsylvania Supreme Court - just when we thought things couldn’t get any worse...🤢That statement is a slap in the face to black women everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:44 AM |
| 15 | Bill Cosby released after assault conviction overturned by Pennsylvania Supreme Court - just when we thought things couldn’t get any worse...🤢Somebody needs to explain to me what their 'logic' was. I truly don't get it... how the fuck did this happen? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 02:43 AM |
| 7 | Anna Bey speaking FDS truths yet againI disagree with her saying you need to set boundaries. If you get to the point she's talking about, that guy ins't worth it to begin with. You should be setting boundaries from the start, not halfway through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:41 AM |
| 3 | Anna Bey speaking FDS truths yet againI just made a comment about him being a weirdo in another post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:40 AM |
| 7 | do men just turn into complete POS when they hit 50 or is it that generation?Yea, and what do we get? Nest and house arrest, if we even get a nest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:38 AM |
| 16 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyA guy who doesn't wear decent underwear. I guy I dated last summer stayed at my house and slept in his undies. He genuinely had holes in them, they looked as though he'd owned them since he was a teenager. The next morning, he even threw them out in my bedroom trash can when I was out of the room. He threw out his FILTHY OLD HOLED RIDDLED UNDIES in my BEDROOM TRASH BIN. It was horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:24 AM |
| 9 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyWas it Leonardo dicaprio? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 12:28 AM |
| 24 | My cat being more supportive of me recovering after surgery, then my ex of 4 years whom I have 2 kids with during our whole relationship and me raising our children. I love this kitty.While he is cute, more importantly, I hope that you are healing well, and feeling better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:50 PM |
| 4 | FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY JUNE 26 2021LVM and Cats: The “Low Maintenance” Myth Cats are not low maintenance animals! In fact, no animals are low maintenance. So many scrotes like purchasing or adopting cats with the assumption that they are low maintenance and a fool proof way to get an animal companion. These men get a cat, give it low quality food, don’t play with it properly, and fail to socialize it properly as well. They also want a cat but refuse to clean after it and take care of it properly such as filling up its food and wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:44 PM |
| 29 | Why Do So Many Incompetent Men Become Leaders?This was a simple, yet good read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:39 PM |
| 45 | How men act when they find out I'm on FDSJust people being dumb. There's a lot of harsh realities on here. And many who are here have said the same thing. It's hard to come to grips with the fact that you stayed when you shouldn't have. Nobody is proud of being a pick-me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:34 PM |
| 52 | How men act when they find out I'm on FDSThe Karen at the bottom left corner made me laugh out loud. KAREN!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Japanese artist Jasushi Takahashi made the biggest GPS drawing by crossing 7162 km in order to propose to his girlfriend.What about Helvetica? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 05:28 PM |
| 43 | Japanese artist Jasushi Takahashi made the biggest GPS drawing by crossing 7162 km in order to propose to his girlfriend.LOL, I was going to say in cursive, but Kanji would be way worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Are we surprised? Porn actresses aren’t considered human to most men.Gotcha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 02:28 AM |
| 1 | A hot Aussie soccer playerp.s. this guy's name is David Peacock. Given your comment, I find it both ironic and fitting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | A hot Aussie soccer playerI found him! It's hilarious that his name is actually David Peacock after all the Budgie talk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 02:25 AM |
| 38 | Guide to: Being a High Value WomanI agree with this. Yes, it seems like high standards, but everyone is a bit different. I know that I was just thinking of this, just this week, how am I actually a HVW. Just because I am on FDS? What should my principles be? This is a great starting point and comparison. Like we've all been saying, there are HVM who are in trades and have their own businesses, i.e. own an electric or plumbing company. I went to college but I don't 'collect degrees'. I get the actual experience with something I'm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 2 | Are we surprised? Porn actresses aren’t considered human to most men.As someone who got stuck going down that rabbit hole to begin with, I agree with this. You do lose sight of what has been happening and get caught in the negative cesspool of male hatred by always looking at these kinds of posts. Would it maybe be worth it to have a day where things can be shared as examples of 'things to watch out for' or 'why you need to practice rules #such and such from the handbook? Maybe make it more positive or informative? The Handbook is good, but some people might need… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/21 02:13 AM |
| 22 | FDS's stance on dating outside of your social classAs someone who came from a weird mixed social class. I.e. I grew up poor the first few years of my life, then moved in with my grandma and it was more middle class, then my adopted parents stepped in who were loaded. I realized I wanted more so I got myself into a private college prep school and got myself into college and associated with 'higher class' people after my adopted parents passed away. So, I can say that it really depends. If you're trying to date up, be prepared to grow and do the w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 08:06 PM |
| 12 | How to deal with the fear of rejection when flirting with men?Rejection happens, but the biggest lesson is learning to not chase the guy to prove yourself afterwards. Then you're being desperate and they'll use you. Also, that's what guys do, and then they post those stupid bitter and resentful sob stories about how a girl wouldn't go out with them. Everyone has the right to say no to anyone who asks them out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:38 PM |
| 44 | Was watching Good On Paper (Netflix), and THE RESONATION OF THIS BIT!Everything she says, in each bit, is FDS gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:36 PM |
| 90 | Hating cats... a red flag or the biggest red flag?Notice that if you press men to tell you why they hate cats, they will immediately compare them to dogs. The qualities of dogs that they usually deem superior are: loyalty, obedience, and, above all, unconditional and undeserved love. Now I love dogs too, but do those answers remind you of anything? Although it is possible to just not like cats, when you ask and a man does respond in this way, it is very telling of what he actually believes in/how he views how things should be. There are also so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Some things that have worked for meYour description made me realize this is what I do. This is painful. Thank you for posting this detail. It's really helpful. Would you mind making a post on this? I think as far as women go, fawning is probably a very normal response in abusive relationships and something that we need to watch-out for. Edit for post request. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 04:00 PM |
| 19 | The Incels are DeCLaRiNg WaR on Us Again 🙄😒Just, why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 3 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.I have an aunt who says that. She's also manipulative as they come, so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:48 PM |
| 6 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.That's when you stand up for yourself and your response, 'it's just who I am', and leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:44 PM |
| 7 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.Limbo Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | A hot Aussie soccer playerOh, Footy means Rugby. Rugby is also called Football sometimes, obviously not in the US, but in the rest of the world, I believe? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:40 PM |
| 54 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?One 🤡 negged "what's with the outfit, why are you dressed up like this! It is just a bar. Chill, girl." What he was saying, 'I'm really insecure and not on your level, let me cut you down a little bit'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 8 | A hot Aussie soccer playerSad..... but still laughing that I now can see how it looks like this guy is smuggling a Budgie or 3. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:34 AM |
| 16 | A hot Aussie soccer playerI was just going to ask what his name was. His budgie and thighs and calves and... he made me forget my own name... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:31 AM |
| 327 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?Have you ever gotten the comment that you smell too 'fake' or had a guy complain about you smelling too clean which then made them self-conscious? I had a guy complain I was too clean once. It was in my pick-me days of doing walking coffee dates. We met up after he got out of work later, he worked in trade. It was so dumb, he wouldn't just meet me on the weekend when he could clean up, but decided to give me grief for being presentable when he wasn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:30 AM |
| 59 | Why are so many men so unhygienic and disgusting?Soooo glad I just put my tea down before reading this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Lee Byung-Hun.When a man is so attractive that you know, regardless if his children would be a boy or girl, they'd be stunning either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:24 AM |
| 7 | A hot Aussie soccer playerSomehow I missed this comment at first. Cracked me up, girl! Smuggling budgies. I'm stealing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Peep those thighs, Ladies! 😍🥵I'm not the biggest fan of tattoos, but man... *shivers*... That 3/4 sleeve is perfect, and those quads are stunnnnning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:21 AM |
| 5 | Peep those thighs, Ladies! 😍🥵and duh booty... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:20 AM |
| 7 | A hot Aussie soccer playerSoccer or Rugby? He does not look like a soccer player, at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 02:17 AM |
| 8 | Some things that have worked for meThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:26 PM |
| 3 | It's that time of the week again! Mods will be posting pictures of hotties for your reviewing pleasure!A young Sonny Bill Williams of the Blacks Rugby team. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | It's that time of the week again! Mods will be posting pictures of hotties for your reviewing pleasure!I can't even quote it because it made me shudder in disgust, but your description of how women don't talk about men, but men talk about women, if solid. Not even Melissa McCarthy in Thunderforce was that crude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:06 PM |
| 12 | Some things that have worked for meI didn't know that was a response. Do you have an articles/resources for further info on this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 10:01 PM |
| 211 | “Keeping the peace” just passes the problems onto another woman to handle. Stop the bullshit dead in its tracks when you can.FDS reads my brain again. Thank you for posting this. I was wondering if it was only me. This caused a lot of anger for me. As I'm sure a lot of the Mods have seen from my past comments and posts. When you aren't acknowledged, supported, defended, or get any empathy (not pity, not sympathy) from the other women in your life that you are supposed to be able to lean on, it's maddening, and even more devastating than the abuse from the men at times. At least it was for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 07:49 PM |
| 96 | Some things that have worked for meSet boundaries early on - I'm naturally a people-pleaser so I used to compromise on my boundaries a lot. I used to be terrible at saying no - be it in dating, relationships, friends, and also at work. I now keep a journal of what my boundaries are and what I want from dating / relationships. If he's asking for something that is not in line with that, I simply refuse. If he keeps pushing and pestering, I cut him off. I find that usually implementing boundaries just leads to more respect from the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 06:39 PM |
| 204 | For anyone who says 30+ women have hit the wall, this queen begs to differ (credit: @ihopeyousuffer3 on Tik Tok)Nice. I love that the niece made the video. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 05:29 PM |
| 37 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!Extremely rare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 05:26 PM |
| 5 | The author said both positions were “totally reasonable.”I fail to see why he isn't also paying for her pass. This is a classic selfish and cheap guy move. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:27 PM |
| 87 | Daily reminder on how our culture works. Remember; you can never be strict enough, don't be afraid to vet, vet, vet!I've heard an alarming similar story, second hand, but from an ex boyfriend when he was at his friends house. He actually called the police he the minute he left the house and reported the abuse, as he was pretty sure that the dad was assaulting his 12 year old daughter. He never found out what happened to the girl, and he wasn't the best guy, but I was super proud of him for calling the cops to report the creepy guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 24 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)I was thinking this too. It's never that you just do it to yourself. It was convenient for the husband, but now it's probably bothering him that there's a loss of identity somehow. He could have been cheering her on to have her own thing the whole time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 03:44 AM |
| 27 | "He never seemed to mention that he could only live those dreams because his wife was at home with the kids." I don't think many men even consider the perspective of their wives giving up their own life for them. ('Humans of New York' if you want to read the rest)Sometimes I think FDS reads my mind. I was just thinking about this type of situation today. This could have been me when my ex started to talk about maybe wanting a baby, and then in the next 5 minutes, without thought, started to talk about his career trajectory. But, we'd just discussed a week before how he'd chill for a year so I could get more established in my career, buy a place together, and we could grow in unison. This woman's could have been my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 03:40 AM |
| 68 | Don't Be Coerced Into Birthday BS by Friends' LVM Husbands and BoyfriendsI heard about this type of thing from my ex a few years ago. His group of friends are pretty well off, and their wives have high-fashion tastes. This guy was so cheap that he actually sent a Venmo request to everyone so that he could buy his wife a designer handbag that he didn't want to pay for on his own, not that he couldn't afford, but didn't want to pay for. Mind you, he'd already pushed a weekend getaway for her birthday as a group. My ex and this guy were life-long friends so he figured h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 03:33 AM |
| 7 | Iliza Shlesinger’s Ex-Boyfriend Lied About Everything—So She Made a Netflix Movie About HimJust the beginning alone is FDS gold. Girls asking out guys? It's so true. And the grandma story? How many times have their been different versions of that on here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 03:21 AM |
| 53 | If you say "I pay for my own dinner so that I don't owe the man anything" then you are admitting that you believe women are obligated to sleep with a man if he spends money on her.I used to do this more out of safety than equality. Now, I know it's more he can buy me dinner if he's asking for my time, and asking me to essentially vet him over dinner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 03:12 AM |
| 7 | Dr. Jess just out there spewing straight facts as usual.Yea, that was disturbing. You're wife 'gave' you daughters? Clearly he did not pay attention in science class when they taught you how babies are made. Who the hell is he, Henry VIII? Like it's his wife's fault that he didn't have sons? I don't think so... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:59 AM |
| 32 | Almost allowed others to convince me to approach him but I found FDSThis happened to me recently. Guy acted interested, then didn't, then I saw him out in the wild twice and he got weird. Then he was getting transferred and the last week or two he was hovering around me like crazy to try to talk to me, instead of just talking to me, even after I tried to start a convo with him more than once. Adding Clarity: by trying to talk to me, I mean getting awkwardly close, mimicking what I was doing to try to get me to talk to him, overall just being weird, instead of ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:55 AM |
| 12 | Apparently Reddit does not think that ADVOCATING CHILD MURDER violates their Terms of Service. This is from our "satire" sub (basically just a bunch of incels pretending to be us and saying outrageous shit to try and get us banned)Wow, just wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:50 AM |
| 23 | Worried about coworkerMmmmm, I'd say something now. A co-worker did this for me with my ex, and it was huge for me. It meant a lot, and it's one of the reasons things started to click for me when I was questioning if I should leave him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PRIt is literally basic math and science learned in high-school. Rarely is it at the collegiate level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:45 AM |
| 2 | Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PRThis is awesome! I was going to say, the only time I've ever seen women wanted for trade-work ,and even just cleaning, it was some crappy wannabe startup when I was in college where they wanted the women to do the jobs in kinky outfits so that the 'clients' could watch while the women did their electric etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 02:44 AM |
| 113 | Doing "boring manly job" is actually really fun! Talk about male PRIt's amazing how easy 'men's jobs' of electrical, plumbing, etc. aren't actually that difficult. Welding in particular is best done by women because we are far more accurate and thoughtful. We pay attention to the details. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:45 PM |
| 48 | I’m home free!This. My mom didn't do this, and it took years in court for the judge to finally catch my 'dad' in a lie and then things fell apart from there for him. But only after my mom got dragged through the mud by the legal system. Show the police, document everything. Call an attorney and get a consultation for advice on how to handle this. Make sure to talk to more than one, you'll get a more flushed out idea of how to handle things by talking to multiple attorneys and getting various insights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Pinky Strikes Again - if women came with instructions...I don't have TikTok and I can still see all her videos. She's a true gem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Celibacy > LVMs, by farYou guys start all the funny trends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Block and Delete: People Know Because Their Texts Turn GreenI'm going through this now with an aunt. I've blocked her on and off for a while. I'll literally only call her when I'm bored. It's sad when it's someone that you used to strongly associate yourself with, but have realized they're just toxic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 05:22 PM |
| 7 | Thank you FDS - a story of conditioningI used to fall for it all the time. And, because of terrible social conditioning, I would apologize and move my stuff. It's the little things, the tiny aggressive tactics that get you to bend to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 05:06 PM |
| 13 | Thank you FDS - a story of conditioningOoph, I completely relate to the 'I got this' mentality. That's what I thought with this guy. Like, oh, he's a bit insecure and doesn't want to make the first move, I got this. And then immediately recoiled. There's no reason for me to go out of my way that much for a guy that can tell that I am interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Blocking ex on OLD?I'm mildly alarmed that your sister said he probably didn't notice. Men notice. And I bet that he swiped right intentionally. Your sister needs her head checked. If she knows you've been abused and this is her reaction, she's got something going on that is causing her to make you feel less than. It's intentional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 02:28 AM |
| 20 | Went on a date marathon and it changed my perspective for the betterI always find this difficult because gym time is later in the day for me, so I usually can only do one or two a week, if I am actually looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:48 PM |
| 44 | Realizing how low my bar had been set…Proud of you! I just posted a small win too. It's crazy how setting boundaries and having respect on the smallest thing shows a guy's true colors reaaaaaal quick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:44 PM |
| 25 | Thank you FDS - a story of conditioningI just have to learn to actually lose interest with the ones that trigger the feeling of familiarity to past situations. I mistake the familiar abuse with 'comfort', if that makes sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:33 PM |
| 49 | Celibacy > LVMs, by farI absolutely am! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 120 | Celibacy > LVMs, by farLOL, I love her pronunciation of the word embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Seemingly HV until you find out how he wants to raise your childrenThis is great advice. Thank you for posting!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.Thank you for keeping this sub in check. It's posts like this that will help to keep things civil and keep this place going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | How much debt are you in as a direct result of a LVM ex?It's not so much debt as it is just money lost. It's sickening, but I am posting this so that other women who are lurking and debating leaving who are younger than me, and questioning not advancing their career, going to get a second degree etc. because of a guy... I actually did this a few months ago, and the number nearly made me puke... If I'd taken the jobs, not dated long distance, not had to pay for all those trips etc... combined, I would have had well over 600k, at the least. I would hav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:35 AM |
| 28 | Got a 🍤🤏 pic once due to my activity here, but today I woke up to my first hate-spewing PM.The 'thanks bro' at the end of your post cracked me up. I've received a tiny peen pic, and some PM hate mail. All PM's were written like they were from the Revolutionary War writing a great novel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 05:08 AM |
| 6 | Gillian Anderson in "The Fall"Don't men have nipples because they start out as being potentially assigned as female, but then gender is determined and they don't get breasts, but the nipples stay? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:45 AM |
| 2 | That's why.This. I was not happy in my 20's either really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:34 PM |
| 11 | Just to make you laugh - why you shouldn't be sad.It's the mini microphones that get me. So ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 12:40 AM |
| 1 | What do you ladies think ?I don't compliment men unless I'm actually dating them, and by dating I mean I've known them for a bit. If you compliment a guy you're trying to date, or still vetting, they'll take it as you're DTF right then. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 21 | Apparently even ancient Rabbis didn’t have time for thirsty dudes and their nonsenseI went to a Catholic University, we had to take a number of classes on religion. This was one point that came up in multiple lectures. I thought it was funny that the professors were like, ladies, if you want a man, get a Jewish guy for this reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/21 04:18 PM |
| 34 | “Abuse Happens.” A reality check for anyone who still believes the legal system favors womenThat is horrible. I'm so sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:34 PM |
| 58 | “Abuse Happens.” A reality check for anyone who still believes the legal system favors womenThe detective that I worked with when a guy was criminally harassing me for saying NO basically told me a similar story. Detectives are assholes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 10:33 PM |
| 34 | Have any of you experienced worse street harassment since lockdown?If a guy uses that old tired comment of 'hey beautiful' or something along those lines I always say 'I know' and give them a look of surprise, like I don't know. The guys always look seriously confused and have nothing to say. One time a guy told me I looked sexy, and without skipping a beat I said. "Yea, I know. You think I put this on because I felt like being ugly today? I'm amazing" and then just kept walking. The guys jaw dropped, and he just stared and watched as I walked away. It just goe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 08:27 PM |
| 86 | Have any of you experienced worse street harassment since lockdown?This has been happening to me too. I got cat called at 10 TIMES in one day this past week, all in a manner of 2 hours on a long walk to get out of the house. One guy was on a bike and kept whistling at me, which I did a pretty good job at pretending like I didn't even notice him. He was so desperate for my attention that he not only nearly got hit by a car as he rode into traffic, but also then nearly flipped over his bike, and then almost ran into a light post. All while not watching where he w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:53 PM |
| 18 | FDS perk #358961 - Seeing through their BS and manipulationGood for you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | FDS Success in the wild.it's all about the peepee... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:11 AM |
| 19 | All it takes for a woman to be reduced to an object is too much eyeliner | Arwa MahdawiI cut off my hair during Covid. I looked up how to cut your hair into a bob, and just went for it. It looked amazing, but nearly all of my male coworkers, including my boss, started to hit on me and tell me 'how much they liked my new haircut', i.e. fetish for women with short-hair. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 11 | Have you noticed how much better the quality of your sleep is after cutting all contact with a LVM or simply sleeping by yourself?Yes, someone posted something about this back in January I think? Once I dumped my ex and cut off all contact, my mood and life changed drastically. The same for when I started to date again and dumped the NVM that I had met via OLD last summer after talking to him for nearly 2 months, I finally met him, and boy, did he change after just a week or so... I knew I needed something more in my life when I actually felt unenthusiastic knowing we'd have plans or a date that night. Once I dumped him, I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Pickmeishas in Psychology, courtesy of Dr Robert CialdiniI remember this. It's a great book. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 01:57 AM |
| 34 | TIL: The Left Hates Women Having Reproductive Choice with Their Whole Being. Their new tactic is to smear Sexual Selection as “TERF and Nazi propaganda” with doctored screenshots. Did You Know Not Having Sex With Men You Don’t Want To is Eugenics?Bad Jews! Bad! (complete and total sarcasm). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:46 PM |
| 3 | If he isn't putting effort into celebrating your life, leave him behind. Men like this exist.Batman is also my favorite. I am SO jealous!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 10:45 PM |
| 7 | CURRENT RELATIONSHIP STATUS: IN THE AIR/ POTENTIAL COUGAR.SAAAAME | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:11 PM |
| 11 | Hell naw - CAREFULLY choose who you breed withMine was raising my 40 something year old ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:26 AM |
| 2 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them.I was just thinking, collectively they make over 300k. Depending on where they live, that's more than enough for a maid to come by multiple times a week, to have dry cleaning for all their laundry, and to have food delivered. In NYC and San Fran, there are services that find people to do all this for you. My ex has a cleaning lady come 3 times a week, but he makes all his own food, or goes out because he makes so much money that it's actually more convenient to have someone else do things for hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:25 AM |
| 3 | So guys do expect you to be a live in maid just because they earn more than you do. Nevermind the fact that if he lived alone he would still have to do them.Uhm, sounds like he got into a relationship with someone he shouldn't have then if he's so pissed off that she's got student loans. Maybe he should have leveled-up instead of looking for a free maid? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:22 AM |
| 2 | FDS mEmBerS aRE fEmCeLsThis, I've been saying this for years. It's not hard for me to get laid. Hell, even the smokin' hot rugby guy at the gym has checked out my hinnie once or twice. I could get that if I really wanted it. But why don't I? Because it's not what I want, and I know he's not actually interested in all of me, just my beautiful booty. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:19 AM |
| 42 | The macho sperm myth: The idea that millions of sperm are on an Olympian race to reach the egg is yet another male fantasy of human reproduction. Really interesting read/listen about biology and reproduction!Someone should post this in response to that OLD ad that women peak at 21.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:16 AM |
| 7 | Abandonment issues will keep you in a toxic relationship long past it’s due date...This was the story of my life until maybe a year before Covid. And then Covid proved I don't really need anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:13 AM |
| 15 | Dating coach says to implement a 3 month no kissing rule. Thoughts?This just gave me a flash-back to pre-covid. I was on a 'break' from my ex and trying out dating again, I had a date, one night for each weekday. FOUR out of my FIVE dates forcefully kissed me and each time I was like, uhm, I didn't ask for that... One guy actually threw my up against a wall in an alley and shoved his tongue down my throat and I had to push him off of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Worst proposal ideas 💀I love this girl for how she posted went over these - she's funny as hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:10 AM |
| 88 | Why age gap relationships ain’t no good 😀👎🏼BLAH! 20+ year age gap!?!?!?! SO gross..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 12 | This is why I don't take ugly as an insult when scrotes get mad. We are so much more than how fuckable men find us.She's gorgeous. Just saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:06 AM |
| 10 | At least the cat won't care about the hair between your legs 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️Notice that this man doesn't have a beard anywhere close to the image on his shirt... Also, having a guy with a beard go down on you is gross. My own personal opinion, but still, yuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 02:05 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else’s tastes in music changed after finding FDS?LOL - pretty much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on matchmaking services?It's how it feels when you do it and you know how these things work. You might as well be a mail order bride to these guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 01:50 AM |
| 24 | I’m reading “Life and Death” by Andrea Dworkin. She’s telling it like it is!I think of this every day. There are still old posters/signage from WWII near where I live, and there's a memorial to the women who contributed to the war efforts by taking on 'male' jobs. It's amazing how all these men forgot that women were literally building the ships, planes, guns, etc. that helped us win the war and save the world from Nazis... I've never heard of a woman who was happy to become a housewife once her husband came home. Only of how hard it was for him to adjust... because app… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:22 AM |
| 24 | Thoughts on matchmaking services?Don't do it. All the men that use those things are men who are basically paying to find a young wife and have someone else do the vetting/work for them. I signed up for this once, years ago. The only guys I ever got were Indian guys who were gross, frumpy, maybe had decent jobs, but were definitely right off the boat and looking for a classic pure white chick. Also, they don't go with what your preferences are. I'm really active, and this guy looked like he'd never stepped into a gym a day in hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymExactly!!!! I've had guys do this to me with stock trading too. Like, NO! Go read a book, go online! I taught myself, so can you, jerk! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 5 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymAnytime I've told a guy I was long-distance runner and, before hurting my leg, and did marathons sub 2:45, very, very few men would workout with me, or just told me I was a liar. Only two ever took up the offer. One was a total baby, just hovered near me the whole time we worked out and wanted me to train him. It was annoying he made me miss out on half my workout. The other just oogled me the whole time - it was weird and uncomfortable. Even if we were dating, having your dude make commentary b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymGirl, people doing squats on the bosu ball at a rack is the worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymditto. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:25 PM |
| 5 | Foolproof vetting strategy: take him to the gymGURRRL!!!! This post is e-v-e-r-y-t-h-i-n-g. I gotta vent - since you're a gym rat, you will appreciate my angst for this one guy at my gym. He's initially looks like a conventionally attractive guy. And he actually does fairly challenging workouts, they are at times nearly identical to mine (although I'm still lifting much lighter right now because I'm still re-gaining strength after getting Covid). But this guy does not, ever, at all, not once, wipe down anything that he touches. He also NEVER… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 8 | Walked out on my Toxic FamilyI've done this same thing to my family. You're not alone, and it's well worth it in the end. Bad people, are bad people. There's no changing that. You'll be amazed how quickly things turn around and get easier for you once they're totally out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:02 PM |
| 5 | Gym CreepAgreed, more so with the other response on how the guy's mind immediately went to 'she's scare of my big muscles'. It's true, why would be immediately go to fear as the reason she's not interested in him??? It's a bit telling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Gym CreepThis is a really, really good point. I'd definitely tell management and specifically make that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 02:12 PM |
| 6 | I'm tired of men thinking that being ' strong ' means suppressing ur emotions !This is so not true. Do you know how many of the men I've known have called me to cry about shit that's not even serious? If anything men use crying as a tool to manipulate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 89 | Gym CreepEw, roids.... so he's got even teenier, tinier balls than a short guy would already have too. EW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:04 PM |
| 32 | (kinda) Red flags for dog ownersWhen a guy you just met with puts the responsibility of the dog on you. The guy doesn't know you that well, yet he expects you to cater to his animal. It shows he doesn't respect you. It's a power move to make you take care of his dog. He's also basically subliminally saying that you are less than the dog, but he owns it, by making you take care of it. And/or, he's trying to automatically throw you into care-taker mode, by luring you in to take care of the dog. Dogs are both bait and status mark… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:57 PM |
| 341 | Gym CreepThis just makes me mad for you. What a moron this guy is. Scared of guys with big muscles? Then why would you be AT THE GYM? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else find certain shows/movies infuriating now that you've found FDS?I noticed this too! I just started to watch a lot of Asian shows. I'm halfway through Rise of Phoenixes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else’s tastes in music changed after finding FDS?Yup. I get especially agitated listening to songs from male musicians singing about women tearing their hearts out, or being so seductive etc. That and songs by women that are clearly pick-me type songs that are mourning a relationship that was clearly shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:45 PM |
| 7 | What the frog just came across my timelineThis was definitely her boyfriend. And clearly, if it's right in the center, it was someone who knew that they could take their time and had access to them for a bit. I shudder to think how many times I've had guys tell me they wanted to knock me up without actually saying that, both with words, or with their actions. This girl needs to get out of that relationship, asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:44 PM |
| 13 | Is Internet Misogyny Seeping Over IRL?It absolutely is. There are a number of straight, white, and very attractive men that I am acquainted with that, in the past two years, have suddenly become increasingly more sensitive and 'victimized'. It's total bullshit. They really are acting like they've been wronged and left out because they're not in control. Which doesn't mean that they're being left out, it means that they're not in charge, which is sad that their idea of being 'included' is to be in charge. It's all or nothing with the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 20 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈Your comment just triggered some serious PTSD flashbacks to some saggy balls I saw on a guy 4 years YOUNGER than me. So saggy, and dark... so wrong. *shudders* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:31 AM |
| 10 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈Same! Except for a few times recently where the fit guy has felt intimidated, but I also think Covid has just ramped up the nutty-ness of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:29 AM |
| 8 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈This meme is actually the story of my life. I like meat on those bones! And, it just looks stupid when you're a woman that's stacked dating a scrawny man. Just can't do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:26 AM |
| 7 | Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!!Girl, you dodged a bullet. He looks sloppy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:12 AM |
| 5 | Men into extreme adventure sports/hobbies, red flag?I agree with this, having gotten into long-distance running. But, the OP is right. I could afford to take a break, and could enjoy a weekend just with my guy. However, if the guy is an adrenaline junkie, I see that as a warning sign. Anytime I meet a guy who feels the need to do these extreme things and is addicted to the thrill, means he's trying to make up for something, or he's battling some kind of inner demon. If you can't take a weekend to be with your woman doing something other than extr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Possible interesting red flag of pickmeisha or LVWThis is accurate. My best friend in college only hung out with her mom, who was hyper religious, and extremely jealous/catty of me when I started to do long distance races and got into amazing shape. She shame me for being a certain weight, but then turn around and tell me to flaunt it. Just a vile manipulative woman. I didn't catch on until I started to live on my own, and my my best friend started to talk about people she'd been friends with in the past and how they were mad at her for no reas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:59 AM |
| 6 | The loneliness of leveling up.Thank you for writing this. This particular thought has been on my mind a lot lately, and how things will be as life go back to 'normal'. I got rid of or lost all of the 'friends' I did have when I broke up with my ex right before Covid. They were toxic - really, they only enjoyed having me around because I was wasting my life waiting on a crappy guy, so they could look at me, give "advice", and then use me as the example of, at least I'm not like her. So, they weren't ever real friends. Because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else noticing the huge amount of married women that have some kind of OCD or germophobia cause of their LVM husbands??I assume that he does. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 11:37 PM |
| 12 | Yet another scene of Covid restrictions lifted and men GO FUCKING NUTS because starved of female attentionI've used to wear headphones a lot. I stopped wearing them recently on walks. I had no idea that I got cat-called at, honked at, etc. this much, or maybe it's just Covid. The walk home is barely over a mile from my gym, and it was like every other block someone was honking, yelling out the window etc. It's nuts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 10:06 PM |
| 31 | Men think that they can use any woman for their sexual gratificationI've noticed there are a lot less women that go to the gym. I'm an avid gym rat, and won't give it up. But there are absolutely significantly fewer women than before the pandemic. I've thankfully only had a few creepy moments. The majority of them were Middle Eastern or Indian guys that would make creepy gestures or try to get my attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 09:58 PM |
| 29 | In a world full of disappointing pickmeishas, I’m thankful for creators like her. Been watching her journey since law school and I love how open she is about having high standards on tiktok, a platform where that isn’t usually welcomed.I love how she articulated this. I can't tell you how many times I've gone on dates with guys who make LESS than me, and try to claim that I'm a gold digger for expecting them to have their lives together. Not even expecting them to pay for everything, just expecting them to be self-sufficient. Also, she's right 300k isn't that much these days. Where I live, I make 6 figures, and it's not much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:55 PM |
| 25 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail"OOph, no truer words were spoken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 14 | Period.I dated a guy who seemed ok, until he told me he met his ex wife when she was 16 and he was 25. He said she lied about her age, but he found out that she really wasn't 18 and kept the relationship going anyways. My obvious response was, why is a 25 year old guy dating an 18 year old? When you're that young, that's a big age gap. He tried to blame her, and I wasn't having it. I walked. It's not OK, even if she did lie, and he found out later, or was suspicious that she wasn't of age, he shouldn't… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:48 PM |
| 1 | It's just a myth that attractive people have terrible personalitiesThis. I dated/know a few really attractive men, and if you aren't nice to them, they get nasty real quick. They aren't used to be told off or having any hold them to a standard. A guy I know threw a hissy fit when he was asked to clean-up after himself once, where I can't remember. He was so used to people doing things for him that he was insulted that someone asked him to clean up, and then when was insulted when they said that he was messy. Just because you are a 10 out of 5 and dress nice, do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 06:28 PM |
| 3 | The plastic surgery industry thrives based on the insecurity of women due to the demands of the patriarchy.I just envisioned my ex when you wrote this. This is almost, verbatim, a story that he told me once... no lie. Went to the gym to lift, then immediately went to Wendy's to reward himself and claimed the girl behind the glass was ogling him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:31 PM |
| 9 | Anyone else noticing the huge amount of married women that have some kind of OCD or germophobia cause of their LVM husbands??I was just thinking of this today because of a situation I got put in. And it's nice that it's acknowledged. I started to finally calm down on my OCD cleaning just the last two years. It was the only control I had in my life, and then it just became a habit. But my 'safe' space, aka the guy, there's a guy that never puts anything away or wipes anything down. I've had Covid not once, but TWICE, and the first time I felt like I was dying. The hospital actually took care of all the bills my insuran… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 127 | And they aren’t treated well either!Even more so than this, that if their is an 'average' looking gf or wife, the guy openly talks about her looks, such as... 'yea, but she's a good girl' or 'but man she can cook' or 'but I know she's loyal'. As though, at least those things make up for her lack of beauty, in their eyes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts about incelsThis is really well put, thank you for posting this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | It’s okay to have preferences. Ladies, don’t let unattractive men shame you for wanting “Chad”.Lol, this just reminds me of Dead Pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:33 PM |
| 6 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."First - gas-lighting doesn't suit you. You're admitting that he's cringe worthy and then saying that he isn't? FDS principles make it pretty clear what a red flag is, and nearly every other statement this guy makes in relation to women is a red flag. Second - coming and promoting a guy as HVM for 'staying with his wife when she was sick'... we've all seen posts of guys who 'stayed' with their wives while they were sick. If you weren't there, you don't know if he actually was of use. Third - the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:33 PM |
| 3 | Tired of being shamed for wanting my own big houseThank you for posting this. I was looking into buying a big old beautiful Victorian home and my aunt gave me so much crap for wanting everything you listed. I even already have an idea of what the wall coverings/paintings will be for each room, what my library will look like, and how I want my gym to be setup. It makes no sense that a guy can have a big house just so he can impress chicks that he wants to have sex with, but a woman can't have a big home to truly enjoy it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 6 | Here's a tool my therapist provided me with to keep myself grounded during dating!Thank you for posting this. At first you might think it's too harsh or wild. But then when you sit down and think through scenarios that brought you to put what you put down, you can't deny why it's there. I did this because of another post a few months back with a similar concept/idea. It's worked miracles as far as understanding your boundaries, enabling you to learn that you really should trust your gut. When you think you should say no and speak up for yourself, you should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 03:22 AM |
| 10 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."Noooo, you are trying to validate a guy who hangs out with white supremacists and thinks Trump is a good thing. My opinion of you is pretty set. : ) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 02:46 AM |
| 9 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."Or maybe it's your delivery, because your written remark was rather snarky. Claiming he supports FDS principles, when he actually doesn't, at all, is bullshit. He believes in women being home-makers - indentured servants, mothers, no career, and sub-servant to their husbands as this is part of the greater... 'hierarchy'. He's stated this in many ways, in many interviews. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:22 PM |
| 9 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."No, he actually hasn't. Claiming that women aren't happy because they aren't married or don't have children until it's 'too late' and claiming that a career over motherhood is ideal. He openly talks shit about women over 30, and he fraternizes with white supremacists, not to mention supports Trump. Don't be on this board if you're going to promote a man that supports women being subjected to mistreatment at the hands of authoritarian idealists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:00 PM |
| 11 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."You're missing something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 09:44 PM |
| 60 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."Oh, he absolutely is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 90 | Don’t Let him Skip the CourtshipYea, grab something at the grocery store on the way back.... like food to make him his god damn dinner after he tries to bang you at 2PM. No thank you, sir. Noooo thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 09:08 PM |
| 202 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."Uhm, excuse me, this goes against all the things that Jordan Peterson says about women always being happy to be married. This must be fake news. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:56 PM |
| 25 | A forced “Yes” is not consentThis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 08:52 PM |
| 5 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?This is me all the time. If I start to act feminine I feel way too vulnerable, and men can smell that from 10 miles away. Also, showing femininity attracts a certain type of creep, that wants you to be a 1950's housewife. Anytime I do get dolled up, I get approached by the same type of gross finance Brooks Brothers wearing bro. And what sucks is that I love pearls, I used to wear them all the time, but they're associated with hyper femininity. Anytime I wear pearls I feel like I'm a magnet for h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:51 PM |
| 14 | How to detach from men you have crushes onWhen I was much, much younger, I would do this with military guys because they had the same standards (or so I thought) that I did. So I was like, oH My GOSH, mY eQuAL!!!! We CaN MaKe EaCh OtHeR sO mUcH BeTtEr!! That was amplified by the fact that I don't have family, and was really just looking to belong, which military is notorious for taking in the lost of the world and pretending to give them a place to 'belong'. Turns out they were actually not that great, ever, and just hella good at manip… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:48 PM |
| 4 | How to detach from men you have crushes onI needed this today. There was a guy that I was vetting for a while, and he's turned out to be waaaaaay too sensitive and fixated on him looks/how I make him 'feel'. And by 'feel', I mean basically doing the thing were he wants me to be his mom and only talk to him like he's God's gift to mankind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:43 PM |
| 57 | It’s okay to have preferences. Ladies, don’t let unattractive men shame you for wanting “Chad”.Small hands is a big thing for me. I dated a guy last summer who was 6'2", but he and I nearly had the same size hands. It felt so awkward, like I was holding the hand of a child. Also, being fit is big for me. I am a gym rat, I can't accept anyone who doesn't get that and doesn't workout either. I can't stand a guy that wants to date me and then expects me to be his personal trainer. That's not how it works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 384 | A forced “Yes” is not consentIt's sad that this guy has to compare consent in these ways, giving someone money, vs. sexual assault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 05:01 PM |
| 11 | Chinese women's "Womb Morality"... Standards are apparently eugen_csThank you China for doing what I've been saying should be the normalized for years. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 03:08 AM |
| 16 | Johnson gets itI've had a few guys ask too, or imply that was what they wanted. Friends either rolled their eyes or got annoyed that I told the guys no or just left. It's a power play, or a way to try to trap you. I don't get why more women don't see that. My older sister waited 13 years to get married to the guy she'd been dating. And it's just because they finally figured they should. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:41 AM |
| 145 | Ready to commit and then they bail (AKA THE REASON TO DATE MULTIPLE MEN AT ONCE AND PROPERLY VET)Thank you for posting this. This is what that ladies on here need to see. Good for you for walking. That guy clearly thought that you being an alpha meant you were all for doing all the work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 16 | The strength to leave/claritySomeone just posted a statistic from a private investigator this week that 90% of the time when a woman suspects something is happening with the guy she's with, she's right. Just take that fact to help you make your decision. Either way, if he's starting to be nasty/mistreating you, you're already putting up with too much. He's got a problem, let him go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:49 AM |
| 9 | Does Anyone Else Do an "Arm's Length" Calculation in Public?Same. I adopted this mindset after living in a bad neighborhood for a few years. Now I do it because I was harassed, so I'm hyper vigilant, and also having Covid twice, I'm more aware of how close I am to people, as I still don't want to be too close to anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 01:47 AM |
| 11 | I’m not sorry I have physical standards, die mad scrotes 🖕🏽🤷🏻♀️This is why men are trying to control women, to make the irrelevant men seem relevant, because they know when they are deem unworthy. It's like how thinner guys/guys who can't get bulky gravitate towards me because I am built like a gymnast. They assume that if I have their bay-behs that my genes will balance out their chicken leg genes and they'll finally get to vicariously live out their dreams of being a sports star by having a megalith male child with me. How do I know this? Because 3 of the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:56 PM |
| 47 | Redditors having a meltdown over FDS 😂Daaaang. Saving this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:45 PM |
| 4 | When the scammer scams himself trying to scam you 💡 😱😱😱This is great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:44 PM |
| 15 | If you’re a pedophile, just say thatAll my gf's who are tall got shit, and had a hard time dating. I'm the shortest in my family, and I get crap for it, but being smaller, I have more options for guys, so, I'm all for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:43 PM |
| 8 | Angry scrote texts me from another phone number after I blocked and deleted him because we’re not a match...I just imagined the phrase word salad being said in a very haughty manner, like word saw-lawd, and it made your comment that much funnier. p.s. I saved your comment, because it's just too funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:38 PM |
| 32 | Angry scrote texts me from another phone number after I blocked and deleted him because we’re not a match...I was going to say, he talks a LOT about your looks... This boy clearly wants to bang you, and he is obviously the one with the 'split personality'. Also, this is the most manipulative text. Talk about desperate. No man writes this much dribble if he isn't desperately seeking to win/get laid/look like the 'good guy' to make you feel guilty to bend to his will. Men are so gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:35 PM |
| 105 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.I had an Indian-American guy offer to 'take care of me' if I quite my job and moved in with him after 2 months of talking just on the phone. He said I'd only be responsible 'for the house'... I said, cool, pay me $10,000 a month and $20,000 up front if you want me to be your personal assistant and house servant. Disgustingly, he was impressed with my 'business mindset' and actually considered it. That would mean he could write up a contract and essentially get ownership of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 46 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.It's across all cultures, and I've actually had MOC be more aggressive and cruel lately, more so than white men, because they feel it's their turn and the attention is owed to them. The guy I reported to the police was a Latin guy, and the guy before him that stole my number from the company's directory was black. Both I turned down politely, both came after me acting like I was racist for saying no, and both harassed me to no end. The black guy started to claim that I was a Karen and had done a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:26 PM |
| 12 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathI've done this at the gym. I forgot I had in headphones and started to do a little dance. It was funny, because the only other woman in the gym was doing the same thing. Masks make life more relaxed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 06:11 PM |
| 33 | Dear Scrotes: cope and SEETHE. 😎✨Manlets, lol... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:21 AM |
| 30 | Dear Scrotes, children aren’t trophies 🏆 🙄First of all, Bob, you work in Accounting. Calm down. LOL. Just lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 02:11 AM |
| 39 | What the actual fuck. 🤡This has actually happened to me with my ex. I was ripped when we met, then I got 'soft' aka still sexy, you just couldn't see every muscle in my calves/thighs/abs. Then I got injured and got a little more weight because I had to have surgery and was barred from any workouts for 3 months. There were some comments here and there, but my ex met me when I was super fit, so I felt they were justified. And I also hated being chubby too. But then I started to get back in shape, and the commentary abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Ooops, it's my biological imperative to be attracted to fit, atheletic, good dick game menUnfortunately, the most attractive thing I've seen in a while is really disrespectful. So, while he is nice to look at, I immediately think, his apartment must be so disgusting. He also wears the same damn hoodie to the gym everyday. I can only imagine how it smells. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 5 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"In college I met a woman who was Katherine the 14th. She still lived in the same family home from the 1600's. I've never met anyone since who's not royalty or a guy who's name goes that far back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Selectively Ignoring What You SayThis happened to me on New Years. A guy was texting ME, asked what I was doing. All I said was that I might go to this cool outdoor bar at midnight near my house, but that's it. He then goes 'oh, well I already have plans, so I'll take a rain-check'.... I immediately said, OK, that's cool, but I didn't ask you to come hang out. I don't know you. I'd like to talk on the phone first and keep chatting via text if you don't mind, have to be careful with Covid. He got nasty and tried to tell me I jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:23 AM |
| 263 | Men still harass us no matter what we wear cause it doesn't change what they know we have underneathI was just thinking of this today. The mask hides my emotions, it feels like I have more privacy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 6 | Always ask a guy when he got tested for STD's - AND always get testedMy sister went through a 'hippy' phase after high-school. She moved to live with my aunt for a few months to just get out of town for a while. Three months later, she's back home, and what does she find out? FIVE of her friends that she'd sleep with regularly had HIV.... FIVE. Moving away and getting new friends saved her life. This is why I am terrified of sleeping around. If a guy has a problem with getting tested, he isn't worth the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:15 AM |
| 2 | My gynecologist told me the REAL reason she shortens IUD strings- it's because men try to remove IUDs with out their partner's consent.I got off the pill 8 years ago and it's the best decision ever. It did nothing for me, other than make my hair get thin, and make me gain a bit of weight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:09 AM |
| 3 | I don’t want to live on this planet anymoreHow do we report her for child porn? Because that is exactly what this is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 5 | This bio is sadI see the word Anime and I know he's immediately a swipe left. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:19 PM |
| 39 | TW:-Suicide. I was really disheartened when I saw the Dublin video posted here of a girl being pushed under the train. I saw this today and it gave me hope. Props to the young lad who ran immediately and grabbed her by the leg. Side note:- another reason why Tiktok should be banned.That guy knew something was up too, he looked back, and he RAN. That's a decent human right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:16 PM |
| 34 | Some kind scrote reported me to Reddit Care for my last post. I guess I’m supposed to in crisis because I’m alone? Granny has some words for you.I love this granny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 6 | Just got attacked by a man on the street for not talking to him.And this is why I went to the police when a guy I turned down wouldn't leave me alone. This is unacceptable. I am so sorry he hurt you. This is assault, so he can get jail time. You need to call the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:14 PM |
| 3 | Another Valid Reason Women Are Refusing To Procreate With Pornsick Scrotes : in the U.K. there was over 9 million attempts to access photos and videos of children suffering sexual abuse in April last year alone. Britain is the THIRD largest consumer of live- streamed child abuse world wide.Not if they're using a VPN. But you're right in that, a lot of times, these people do have connections, which is how they get away with it. Every-time you hear a sex traffickers story, it involves some sort of officer, public official, someone in power that's helping to keep the whole thing going. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 05:02 PM |
| 26 | Thinking about the time a youtuber inadvertently showed men's entitlementNone of the commentators got this at all. I actually wanted to work in manual labor, and I got turned away from 3 different trades- welding, landscaping, and general construction. I had connections in each field, but all of them, once they actually checked into who worked at the company, and who I would be an apprentice to, they were overwhelmingly sex offenders. My friend's dad in particular who was an ex Marine was all about 'equality' and then he found out a co-worker full on beat and raped a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 6 | Ain't nothing without a woman though, woman to woman, I just wanna see you GLOW! ✨Her song Venom is pretty fierce too. Edited to add some of the Venom Lyrics: "They will never wanna admit I’m the best here For the mere fact that I’ve got ovaries It's a woman world so to speak Pussy you sour Never giving credit where its due cos you don’t like pussy in power Venom" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:21 PM |
| 0 | Do not take that condom offHerpes, girl.... herpes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:13 PM |
| 9 | Do not take that condom offI do the exact same thing. It makes no sense not too. I had a guy go and get an STI test, and he was surprisingly cool with it, and happy that I asked him to. Somehow me telling him to get the test made him feel more like he was more desirable because I was assuming he'd had more partners or something? Meanwhile I'm just asking because I'd been with the same guy for 7 years, and I don't trust nooooobody. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:12 PM |
| 148 | Another Valid Reason Women Are Refusing To Procreate With Pornsick Scrotes : in the U.K. there was over 9 million attempts to access photos and videos of children suffering sexual abuse in April last year alone. Britain is the THIRD largest consumer of live- streamed child abuse world wide.LIVE STREAMED child porn, ladies... That means the children are actively being tortured and people are OK with it, someone could stop it, before or even while it's happening, and they DON'T. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 18 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.I would have taken pictures, saved the texts and reported him to someone higher up than the police department. Guaranteed this is normal behavior for this guy. This is also why I broke up with two military guys I dated. Both went to war zones, both came back and tried to choke me out and rape me. Both got into BDSM and/or sadomasochism, and both told me that our 'vanilla' sex life wasn't enough after they got home from war. One of them wanted to beat me, and told me that he knew it was wrong, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else noticing how hilariously bad male posturing is these days?This is spot on. While I do live in a very nice neighborhood, that's pretty much young family land, babies and marriage is still not appealing. Anytime I've gone gone to the local restaurant, all the dads are sitting at the bar drinking beer and watching sports, and by the sounds of the conversations they have, they do it a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else noticing how hilariously bad male posturing is these days?Oh, there have been creeps in the building where my gym is, for sure. I reported one. But this guy, I just can't take him seriously. The other guy was flat out harassing me. This guy is just a goon. I know I should always be diligent, but like I said earlier, I just can't take him seriously. When I see gym guy I just think of a little toddler that's mad that they can't have a cookie. I'm also realizing that as the gym is the only place that I actually frequent, all my encounters are around that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:03 PM |
| 7 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩There are no words... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:17 PM |
| 66 | Anybody see thisSome guys even post the woman's name and location with the image. Edit to add: This is why women need to know everything about the law. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:10 AM |
| 30 | Remember ladies, the lOgiCaL sEx really will stick their d*ck in anythingLadies, this has been the answer all along. Maybe this is the key... we start a competition of "what can you put your dick in?" to weed out the complete and total morons! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:02 AM |
| 32 | Remember ladies, the lOgiCaL sEx really will stick their d*ck in anythingI laughed, so hard, out loud, to this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 39 | So older men with nothing else to offer but money expect younger women to date them Just Because?Yea, when I was on an OLD, multiple 50 year old guys messaged me fucking filthy messages. And, AND, they included pictures of their TEENAGE children in their profile!!! WHO DOES THAT!? One put up a photo of his son like, half of this is me... do you get it? Like, this is how hot I used to look, you should want me. SO gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:56 AM |
| 41 | "Division of labor imbalances in marriage are a form of spousal abuse...make him earn his right to stay married or divorce his ass."Nice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:53 AM |
| 19 | Anyone else noticing how hilariously bad male posturing is these days?And actual skill. Do you know why I never attempt a cat eye, because I can't get them to be even! Ever! lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 11 | Anyone else noticing how hilariously bad male posturing is these days?LOL. I rolled my eyes once and he got SO mad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:40 AM |
| 80 | Anyone else noticing how hilariously bad male posturing is these days?The ones whose personalities are only the sports teams they like are equally bad. I hate that 'watching sports' is actually considered a hobby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 08:05 PM |
| 43 | Anyone else noticing how hilariously bad male posturing is these days?Savage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:57 PM |
| 25 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩Didn't France just finally get a consent law? Didn't they not even have one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:54 PM |
| 60 | The anime obsessed🚩🚩I don't know why people don't get that some guy had to sit down and DRAW OUT HOURS WORTH OF IMAGES of CHILD ABUSE to create that type of content. And discuss with a panel of people WHAT THE WHOLE VIDEO WOULD BE. The creator of that content was thinking about that concept for months, if not years. Then put it on paper, for public viewing. They thought out every little detail, because they 'edit' and change things in the creation process. That, is f*cked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:53 PM |
| 13 | CoMmUNiCate they say because obviously she is the problem 🙄Uh, he's also targeting his cousin clearly. If he tries something on her and then he says, well she willingly allowed me to take her photos etc. etc. then they'll blame her for being a 'tease', or whatever. Also, he's doing it to make her feel less than, and to overall just be a douche. Each guy in the comments saying she's nuts is just saying it to cover their ass. My male relatives are all pretty attractive, and I don't go around offering to take their photos for a photo-shoot on my personal p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:48 PM |
| 10 | “He has Bi Wife Energy”This is disgusting. I hate social media for promoting this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’HAHAHA!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 3 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’Or the declining birth rate is because of the 'roids that you're on 'bro'. Those muscles are not natural looking, at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:13 PM |
| 45 | A group of boys harasses and assaults a group of girls minding their own business.You can tell the kid is a little b*tch too because of his immediate 'uh-oh' reaction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 146 | Anyone else noticing how hilariously bad male posturing is these days?YES!!!! There is a guy at my gym. Conventionally handsome guy, well dressed, but smaller legs, so not my type, but decent upper body. Before I'd probably be flattered and appreciate his gaze and not pay attention to the warnings signs. But, after seeing a lot of big warning signs, i.e. seeing him not put away his big boy weights, not wipe anything down, blatantly staring at my butt and boobs, and most of all - how he treated the gym staff for asking him to do both things, I am so disgusted with … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 07:02 PM |
| 214 | Multiple red flags in the original post, but this follow up though..and they say we are the emotional ones 🤔A 28 year old guy THREW THINGS at a teenager. The police need to be called. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:13 PM |
| 8 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)I know a few people who've worked in Hollywood, and these guys definitely get all kinds of juice and hormone treatments for these roles. It's easier for them to get away with than pro-athletes because no testing needs to be done for ethical reasons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)When they love you for you, then you can consider it. Ah, double standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:27 PM |
| 5 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)Also, his wife is 7 years older than him... sooooo, take notes, scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:25 PM |
| 13 | No, it's not 'tacky' to call out old men for their obsession with chasing much younger women.Glad to see that I am not the only one who thinks Chrissy Teigen sucks. Also, what happened to her deleting Twitter? Why isn't it staying that way? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:21 PM |
| 144 | Love yourself firstLoving yourself is primary, loving someone else is secondary. Dang - that's the queen's word right there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:14 PM |
| 13 | This Queen is Tired of The Dad Bod PropagandaI'm 5'1" on a good day, 150lbs, built like a gymnast and regularly get confused to be lighter because I'm muscular and have a 'desirable' body shape. Men and even medical professionals can't believe I weigh 'so much', because I look 'so small' which is stupid that even doctors tell me that. As long as you're appealing, people make up and/or perceive that you weigh less than you actually do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 26 | This Queen is Tired of The Dad Bod PropagandaSorrynotsorry, pussy ain’t charity. I'm stealing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 37 | This Queen is Tired of The Dad Bod PropagandaThe worst is probably the belly fart, where their stomach is so gross and fat that when it presses into you, because they're all sweating and the sweat covers their gross fat belly, it makes that gross noise. Sometimes I think memories like that are the reason that lobotomies were invented. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 25 | This Queen is Tired of The Dad Bod PropagandaI have said this, and I've been given sooo much shit for it. It takes 3 months for women to look the way that men do after a month of working out. It's actually bullshit that men are fat or soft. Women have to actually WORK at it. Men just have to go pick things up and put things down and then not drink 6 beers every damn night. And this is coming from an avid gym rat. It is in fact significantly easier for men to not be fat. I have had many boyfriends who were in decent shape that then started … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 9 | I can't think of anything I could say that would be better than her responseLol. I love Bianca Del Rio. There should be a video of her reading dumb tweets from guys like this and just roasting them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:51 PM |
| 15 | I can't think of anything I could say that would be better than her responseDaaaaaannnnggg... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:49 PM |
| 22 | OMG I am legit dying rn. Maybe because talk about "dad bods" has been trending on FDS lately but look at the ad that showed up for me while I was scrolling through our lovely subreddit 🤣🤣🤣🤣 "I'm a 2X dude, *CLASSIC* dad bod"Some people also confuse dad bod with the guys who's abs billow out, instead of having the flat washboard abs. If you need a visual, think rugby player abs. I think it's cute. But this leads a lot of guys to confuse my preference for liking Dad Bods... definitely not the same thing, ever. Also, the two times I tried to date a guy who was fat, they were always the most abusive, manipulative, creepy guys. One full on stalked me, until he found out my roommate worked for the state and was friends o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:45 PM |
| 20 | There are a gazillion anti FDS subs. It’s amazing. 🤩💐😘Like Cardi B's performance of WAP being talked about on Fox... Thanks, bros! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:39 PM |
| 32 | What happened?I've gotten into 3 disagreements at the gym because guys have been getting more demanding and inclined to believe that they are entitled to everything. In my 20 years of being a gym rat, I've never gotten into a disagreement at the gym, ever, until this past year. I'm seriously concerned for my own safety, and those of the women I know once everything goes back to 'normal'. The sexual assault rates will go through the roof, guaranteed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 14 | Let's Have Fun!In all sincerity, I am really OCD, and generally men just get int he way and suck at actually actively participating. So, I like to do things alone a lot of times. But, here's some things I've done in the past with an ex or would like to do that might be OK. Hiking. Bowling, darts, pool. Learning how to play black jack from a pro. Roller Coasters!!! Cliff jumping. Learning how to stunt drive/do 360 turns, drift, etc. Drawing class. Weight lifting course. Read a book together (I did this with an … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Henry VIII's wives if they'd never met himThis genuinely made me laugh out loud this morning. Look at how much more relaxed they all look too! lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 9 | Can anyone else also not partake in romance movies/books anymore?I watched Legally Blonde the other day, and that one was surprisingly OK. She had a girl power moment, but her relationship with the Luke Wilson was still odd to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:26 PM |
| 7 | Notice the age gap... I have no words for this holy fuckI completely agree with this. It's a form of abuse that women need to be aware of. At first glance, yes it seems like misery porn. But the overall message actually puts an emphasis on so many things, this is why you don't tell men what type of BC you're on, when you take it, if you want kids or not. This is why you don't date older men who want to trap you, etc. This is a lesson on knowing your rights. Depending on where this is, it is illegal. If she can get it on video (if it's legal) of him a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Notice the age gap... I have no words for this holy fuckI'm pretty sure that this is illegal? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 10 | Have men buy pregnancy tests when you start sleeping togetherThey got really awkward. All said if I as on the pill, then sex without a condom shouldn't be an issue and pulling out always worked for them (major assumption that there would be no condom), then asked if I was expecting to be a mom. Basically trying to throw it back on me, like I'm trying to trap them. So then I threw it back at the guy, asking if they were expecting to be a dad? If that's why they had sex without a condom. They said no. They then said I should go buy the pregnancy tests becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”Yup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 04:47 PM |
| 1 | 2021 news: you can't call out the porn industry for being trash cause *porn benefits people* cof cofHe'd probably compare notes. My friends dad once said, kids know more about sex than adults do these days. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:49 PM |
| 3 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”No, but I did get fired when I called him out for telling me that 'men need to be told what to do', when I asked why he wasn't giving people proper guidance. Basically saying I was hired to tell him what to do and what needed to be done. The joys of the male psyche. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 2 | 2021 news: you can't call out the porn industry for being trash cause *porn benefits people* cof cofYea, probably because of that line "I know what boys are like, I was one once". That always creeps me out when my friend's dads would say that. I would always think, so... what does that mean, about you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 12 | 2021 news: you can't call out the porn industry for being trash cause *porn benefits people* cof cofOne hand, good job dad. On the other... what would he have done if this were his son? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 79 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEUh, this was obviously in a hotel too. If you ever hear shit like this, tell the front desk, call the cops, get the woman help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 6 | Why... are men ??? 🤢😳His creepy icon matches his post perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Appreciating Mom-isms: My mom's advice and how embarrassingly right she wasThis is a brilliant idea! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Adulthood male circumcisionYea, after him I did. He started to pay attention to his skin because of me. Men are gross. I can't stop saying it enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 10 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”In school? Hell, my last job I was actually told by the VP that I was was hired to act as the buffer between the men on two different teams, because 'boys will be boys' type BS. He didn't appreciate that I then said, well then you're a failed leader then, aren't you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:13 PM |
| 6 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”This makes sense to me. All my girlfriends in college went to an all girls school, and they all went into STEM. Although, I was a lot better with real world situations regarding men being dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 27 | Have men buy pregnancy tests when you start sleeping togetherI've actually done this. It does work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:36 AM |
| 196 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay."those are pictures of my son" yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:30 AM |
| 10 | Appreciating Mom-isms: My mom's advice and how embarrassingly right she wasThanks for sharing this. I was thinking of things my grandmother told me when I was younger. She was an FDS OG before it even was a thing. That girl had game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:27 AM |
| 7 | Saw this on Tumblr and it made me think of this subBeat me to it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:25 AM |
| 25 | Adulthood male circumcisionMen are disgusting... don't know how to wipe, don't wash their dicks... A guy I dated, when we would take a shower together, I noticed that he didn't use body soap, only washed his hair. So, I started to just scrub him down to get the point across, like, dude... this is gross. I don't know how he didn't have terrible body acne. He started to actually wash after that. At least when he was at my place or vice versa. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:23 AM |
| 153 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”Who was that ex-feminist guy who said that men are failing in school because there are too many female teachers? His argument is shit. It's hilarious that men won't become teachers because they were taught it's not a respectful or macho position, same with nursing. But, when it comes to little boys failing, we have to blame the women for doing a poor job educating the boys. Well, take your pick, bros. It's either you become a teacher in a 'woman's job', or you don't and let the women do the teac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:18 AM |
| 16 | [TRIGGER WARNING]-- But where's the lie?I never realized that this is why most men probably can't get off to normal sex anymore. Dang. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 11 | After men in Spain got paternity leave, they wanted fewer kidsMy ex was Spanish, he only had to witness his friends dissatisfaction with parenthood to never make him never want kids. I was never for bay-behs, but it was great that his friends being miserable was like a form of birth control. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Do you run into men demanding your attention and getting angry when you don't give it to them?Yes, yes I have. And that's when I went to the police for Criminal Harassment. Block and delete, girlfriend. He's a nut-job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 5 | How do you deal with the desire or need to be protected?Yeaaaa, I did the whole try something new too. Scam. | /r/askFDS | 05/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Idaho legislative intern reports rape, is ID’d by lawmakerCan you DM me a link to their page? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 45 | Idaho legislative intern reports rape, is ID’d by lawmakerThere should be a petition to have the lawmakers military bennies revoked and booted from the military. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:58 AM |
| 19 | I remember some post/comment where we were trying to think of examples of Rich HVMs in public.. who called this one?!? 😬It annoyed me when Biden referred to a conversation he had with Obama when he first became president. They were at lunch and both joked about how they 'married up'... men know, they do it intentionally. Michelle Obama skipped grades, Barack is barely average compared to her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:19 AM |
| 37 | How do you deal with the desire or need to be protected?All I can say is you're not alone. I feel the same. It's why I would date military guys. But it's a farce. | /r/askFDS | 05/05/21 03:03 AM |
| 1 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!That's awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 07:15 PM |
| 10 | This is how women are silenced today - so afraid of being called "that lady" aka the K word that she's afraid to send an email to her kid's school!I hate the Karen trope. It's literally a creation to put the blame on women to make men look less 'bad'. It's their way to shielding themselves from all the evil they've done. Like what's his face's stunt on SNL. The guy who is married to a black woman. He is just as guilty and fucked as the people he's talking shit about. Somehow, he has a right to speak for black people now because he's married to a black woman. And he's out there talking shit about 'Karen' and white women stealing the 'woke' … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:55 AM |
| 5 | Don’t call him a HVM too soon. Someone who says/does the right things can also be a wolf in sheep’s skin. TW: sexual assaultThat's because that's exactly what they're doing. They are baiting you, to make you look crazy, and to further help them look like they're a saint. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 02:43 AM |
| 47 | Don’t call him a HVM too soon. Someone who says/does the right things can also be a wolf in sheep’s skin. TW: sexual assaultMen don't talk about what they don't think about. I completely agree with you. If a guy talks about how he thinks something is wrong, it tells me he is trying to cover something up. It's a Machiavellian tactic to say the things that are in opposition of what you truly think to appear as though you're a better person than you really are. Like Bill Clinton, for example... all for women's rights, yet hangs out with convicted rapists, cheats on his wife, gets sued for sexually assaulting women... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:23 PM |
| 12 | How to use crushes to our advantageThis. This is everything. Thank you for articulating this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:14 PM |
| 65 | How to use crushes to our advantageI needed this today because I've been single for nearly 2 years, and there's a guy that I finally have a crush on. I've gone on dates with guys that were decent looking (according to my standards) but not my ideal. But, this one guy, he is as close to my idea of perfect as I've ever seen in my 30 years of existence. A word of advice for any of the other ladies on here. Anytime you are interested in a guy, remember he's just a human. I genuinely have just started to repeat to myself in my head an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:14 PM |
| 3 | Three officers resign after arrest of 73-year-old with dementiaOh, it is. A Director of the Police Union in New England was just discovered to be a pedophile. He has been raping girls between the ages of 7-14 for the past 30 years, all while he was a police officer. The only reason he got caught and is going through a trial is because he raped his own grand-daughter, and his wife and daughter are having no fucking patience for his bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | All the proof we need that scrotes are lurking this sub 24/7 in massive proportions 😂Hi fellas, here’s a tip for free: the only thing that will help your ED is to stop death-gripping your dick and jacking off to porn. I screamed laughing like Trixie Mattel to "death-gripping your dick", comment. It is so true. You win the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:33 PM |
| 6 | What are your dealbreakers in terms of looks?FDS truly is full of my people. Rugby body all the way... Ever heard of Dieux de Stade? If not, ladies, you're welcome... Upper body is a main focus for men, but I am all about booty, thighs, and calves. If you skip leg day, don't even look at me. Nice hands, don't have to be big, but nice hands. Also, rugby jerseys have a great fit to them. Guys just look better in a rugby jersey than any other sports wear. IDK what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 46 | Watch The Way Men Treat Women They're Not Attracted ToI just recently got back in shape, and I can tell you that I wasn't surprised at all by the attention, negative to positive, that I got at the different stages of my journey back to my normal. Growing up I was a chubby kid with a bad haircut and weird clothes, didn't wear any makeup until the end of high-school, i.e. mascara, and had terrible self-esteem because I was actually really pretty, but I come from a hyper jealous and narcissistic family. So, I was a threat. The men at the gym in partic… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 04:28 AM |
| 6 | Take your pick, ladies! - *sobs*This is spot on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:28 AM |
| 8 | I will not be a detectiveHe was lying, and it isn't worth it to dig. My ex had been lying to me for years, and he eventually told me, because I didn't ask, and he was trying to use it as bait to get me back. When he apologized for not being 'good' to me, I asked what he meant by that, and he started to give bits here and there, then it became a waterfall. You made the right choice, it's always worse than you think it is too. Just walk away and know you were right, about everything, and more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 16 | I DIED With This! HILARIOUS!!I am going to start ordering french fries on dates now, using them as a distraction and say FRENCH FRIES every single time the conversation starts to get weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | My small guide for the "BIG" event of meeting the family.Thank you for this. It's really kind. It's a really great reminder. Also, is your name a take on Katya the Drag Queen's opening line from Uhnn, Doctor Bitchcraft!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 04:34 PM |
| 3 | My small guide for the "BIG" event of meeting the family.This is such a great post. I've been thinking this for the past 2 years almost, after I dumped my ex. I don't have parents, and any family I do have, I am not close at all. I'm lucky in that I have zero family baggage essentially, i.e. no family to judge or cause issue with any potential SO. However, because of this, I am extremely conscious of who I am dating, and actually ask if they have a plan for their parents elder/end of life care. I am not looking to become anyone's free nurse. My in-law… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 03:11 AM |
| 45 | Recovering pickme progress storyThis is really good for you. There's a guy I'm really into, and still vetting. My aunt tried to push me to get his number and go for coffee. It made me realize just how much of a pickme she is. I explained why I'd never do that, and although she's 30 years older than me, she just goes, I never realized that... dang. The guy I'm into is probably the closest thing that I've ever seen to my idea of perfect. But there's no way in hell that I am asking for his number. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 20 | Recovering pickme progress storyLol, Covid luuuuv. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:49 AM |
| 7 | I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact withThis is happening to me in a different way right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 01:47 AM |
| 4 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateI really am too. The police went so far as to ask for the manager's name as well because they said that with the e-mail he's stating that he knows who the guy is without a name, which means the manager knows the guy is a problem, and as the manager is not firing him for harassing guests, the police are considering him to be compliant and essentially willing to assist or allow the harassment to continue. So if it does escalate, I can actually hold management accountable as well. Also, the police … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 14 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateThis guy also is trying to get his Masters in Psych... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 13 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateMy aunt is a criminal justice attorney, so that's not too far fetched, actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:37 AM |
| 21 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateI just looked that up, I had no idea that this was a thing. I thought it was only until someone effectively was flat out stalking you. I'll be making a call the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 02:06 AM |
| 24 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateYea, but he's a man. So it matters far more than the hard time he's giving me. I can WFH, but the problem is that's where my gym is too. It's also the only place that's allowing people in, as the other places that are close by are in high-rises that are strictly residents only or insanely expensive and classes only. I just want to lift on my own. The gym has always been my sanctuary. It's maddening that this guy is essentially taking away not only my feeling of safety because he is aware of the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:52 AM |
| 61 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateNo, but I am friendly with the building security, who have been pretty decent to me, as well as the cleaning staff. The part that makes it creepy is that I didn't even mention the guy's name in my e-mail to management. I asked for them to just remind their staff that asking to walk a woman that you don't know well home isn't a a good idea. I didn't ask for him to be fired, I just wrote what had been happening, and they immediately knew who it was... specifically, they stated, "no need to explain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | I think I responded too rashly and may have misinterpreted the original post (did she ask him out or try to make a friend?). The comments didn’t let me down, though! It’s sexist now to say men should make the first move /s.No, you were right in what you said. The girl needs to hear it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:22 PM |
| 80 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateAnd of course I got a scrote writing me a message telling me I should be thankful for the 'attention'... edit: have now had 3 different scrotes try to message me about this now. There wouldn't be rules in the employee contracts explicitly against people hitting on, asking out, or dating people who work in the building if they weren't aware of what sexual harassment is and how quickly things can escalate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 21 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateI'll have to double check the laws to make sure it's legal. But it's not a bad idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:48 PM |
| 62 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateThat's what I was thinking too. I hope that they actually take action. The sad part is there was a cleaning lady with a mental disability that they fired because apparently she started to be paranoid and one person in the building complained. I just said hi to her and was friendly and she was fine with me. But apparently, a guy creeping on a girl, trying to find out where exactly she lives, and taking no as an insult isn't as serious... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:43 PM |
| 89 | A NVM is actively harassing me for saying NO to a dateYea, there's no way that he hasn't done this before with the way that he's doing this. And clearly he's been watching the other girl too, if he picked one with such precision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 7 | Perspective shift...This is what I was thinking. If that were true, there'd be a lot more women in charge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:44 PM |
| 9 | Woman objects to being filmed by creepy guy accross the street. Cops side with the creep.The Director of the police union where I live was recently charged for raping 5 girls between the ages of 7-12 over the last 30 years of being a police officer. The only reason he was caught was because the last girl he assaulted happened to be his grand-daughter, and she told her mom and grandmother. There was also another guy, one of the highest paid officers on the force making over 300k a year, who assaulted his girlfriend. He punched her in the face and was not only not charged with anythin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 04:51 AM |
| 7 | For the Military guys, marriage and kids means a bigger paycheck for them. It's not always about love.They want the money, and the legacy of kids to say they accomplished it all. But they don't want the work that goes with it. The wife is there to keep the house so that when he does come home, there's this picture perfect experience so he can say he's a family man. It's all just BS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 04:43 AM |
| 8 | For the Military guys, marriage and kids means a bigger paycheck for them. It's not always about love.I would love to just talk to you in general. I've got some hellish experiences that no one believed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/21 04:24 AM |
| 2 | I think I intimidate women - does anyone else have this problem?Woman here - my cousin had this same problem for years and finally found someone, although a bit younger than him, which I think is why it worked because she was still young and pretty, so she felt she was equal enough? He and I were best friends, and I would act as his wing man on occasion. I've personally witnessed what you're talking about, the women getting intimidated by him, blushing, getting quiet/awkward, or they would confide in me that they didn't believe his interest was genuine. Wome… | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 03:45 AM |
| – | No one is going to feel sorry for youFirst of all, you're not 'behind'. You've got to get it out of your head that it's a bad thing you haven't slept with 100 women. That's sabotaging you. Many women do not like guys who've slept with dozens of women. And actually many like the idea of being able to have a guy who hasn't been with a ton of other people so that they can learn together. Second - you're tripping yourself up by thinking that it won't happen for you, and that you won't find someone else. This lack of confidence is what … | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 2 | “Approaching women will get you arrested”Dating apps aren't worth it. I'd rather a guy come up to me and be normal/respectful than meet him on a dating app. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:54 AM |
| – | A girl that I was close to having sex with last told me she didn’t because she doesn’t want me to leave after ? You think this is bs or is there some truth to how she feelsUgh, 'commands pussy'... anyone who says that line clearly doesn't command anything other than their magic cards. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:52 AM |
| 0 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship7 years seems to be the make or break mark for a lot of people lately. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:49 AM |
| 2 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationshipYou'd be surprised. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Tips on how to get girls from someone who was in a seven year relationship PART 2 :This was a great post. Thank you for writing this. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 2 | A girl I went on a few dates with and slept with a few times who told me from the first date she wants a relationship never initiates contact.I personally hate texting. I'd rather talk on the phone. It's not always that she doesn't like you. It took me 6 years to become a 'texter',and thankfully have reverted back to not being a big texter due to Covid. I was notorious for not responding to friends, let alone a SO for hours or days. I prefer to hear someone's voice. It could also be that she's knows it can seem needy to respond right away, and she's confident enough to respond when she has the time. Not all women need to text all the … | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:38 AM |
| – | A girl that I was close to having sex with last told me she didn’t because she doesn’t want me to leave after ? You think this is bs or is there some truth to how she feelsOr, like, you're, an, idiot. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:26 AM |
| 1 | A girl that I was close to having sex with last told me she didn’t because she doesn’t want me to leave after ? You think this is bs or is there some truth to how she feelsNot at all. It means they're mutually not being clear about what they're expecting out of the relationship, and they just need to say if they want a real relationship from this or not. If he doesn't, but she does, then it's a no go. The OP didn't actually confirm if he really wants to be with her or not. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:24 AM |
| – | A girl that I was close to having sex with last told me she didn’t because she doesn’t want me to leave after ? You think this is bs or is there some truth to how she feelsYou have no idea what you're talking about. Alphas don't have great sexual experience because they don't have meaningful relationships where they actually learn what women want. And how do you even define 'Alpha'? Guys who have long term relationships actually do have more sex, and are far more likely to be able to give a woman what they want because they're actually competent and capable of committing. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 02:23 AM |
| 61 | On a post about a woman saying she doesn't want to get married and be reduced to a "wife" and a "mother". I wish more men would call out the mysoginy of other menIt's true. You level up, they can't control you. More so, as you've seen their bullshit and know all their excuses, are excuses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:51 PM |
| 223 | On a post about a woman saying she doesn't want to get married and be reduced to a "wife" and a "mother". I wish more men would call out the mysoginy of other menI was just thinking about this the other day. I read an article I think 5 or 6 years ago of a guy who talked about how much he loved his wife. And he hated going to the gym with his friends because in the locker room, all they'd do is bitch about their wives. But he had nothing bad to say about his wife. He said he did actually finally chime in about it to the guys, in the form of an innocent question. And his buddies were kind of dumb-founded and struck that this man had a great relationship wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 12 | Don’t trust his lies 🤷🏽♀️I cracked up too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:47 PM |
| 10 | Beware of the type of abuse of men withholding the fact that they are infertileI have fertility issues, and actually my ex did as well. He was only honest because I brought it up and said he'd have to be OK with either not having kids, or having kids by other means. His ex wife was baby crazy. He didn't know he was infertile, they started trying, he did all the tests etc. It was a painful 5 years of trying. I did actually feel for him, as I know he did offer to adopted etc. but she wanted HIS babies. It turned out she was also infertile. For some reason she never got teste… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:46 PM |
| 92 | Beware of the type of abuse of men withholding the fact that they are infertileNOOOOOO!!!!! Seriously!!?!?!?!?!?! What the heck!?!?! I hope his sister beat the crap out of him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:35 PM |
| 51 | Bumble Finally Paid Off...I got my check too. They spelled my name wrong... of course. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 56 | Just. What.Uh.... yea. I always like to know, because I've gone on a few dates with dead-beats who figure out how much I make and assume I'll be their sugar momma, or think I'm too dumb to notice how much their stuff costs. This husband is a loser and an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 9 | Day 1 Shower ThoughtsOh, Velocity is a good one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:31 PM |
| 8 | If you can't find a spouse who supports your career, stay singleYou did the right thing. I wasted 6 years on living my life around a guy who didn't know what he was doing with this career, but was still making significant 6 figures. He claimed he supported me, until I actually started to thrive, then he got worried... and started acting out. He asked for me back and I said, sure, just pay me the $600,000 I could have been making while I catered to you because you couldn't be bothered to support me the way I supported you... dead-air. You always need your own… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:30 PM |
| 4 | Elon Musk PAID to have the interview of ex-wife number 1 REMOVED from the internet bc she described his abuse towards her!Nope, he definitely wasn't at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 12 | Reproductive StrategyThis is a really important post. There are a few points here that I personally started to practice just this year as I've just gotten back into the dating scene. I've had experiences with guys trying to get out of wearing a condom, to guys intentionally messing with my birth control and their condoms to try to get me pregnant, to guys using my potential infertility (now in question as I have seen a better doctor) as a reason to have sex without protection. A guy I was talking to a few months ago… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:40 AM |
| 25 | Elon Musk PAID to have the interview of ex-wife number 1 REMOVED from the internet bc she described his abuse towards her!Just while he perfects his weird next project for robots that can grow his old man sperm to full term to name after other weird military weapons. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:13 AM |
| 21 | Elon Musk PAID to have the interview of ex-wife number 1 REMOVED from the internet bc she described his abuse towards her!As someone who just got out a 7 year relationship with someone 11 years older than me, I can confirm this. My ex was attractive, and then he hit 40 and stopped trying because he assumed his age made him unattractive or attractive. So he got fat, stopped caring for himself overall, started to smell like an old man (the worst part). It was just weird. I have another ex who was 15 years older than me, and I actually asked him out. I knew him for 2 or 3 years before we started dating. He wouldn't du… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:12 AM |
| 61 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my faceWith the global pandemic this is assault and endangerment of the public. People get arrested for not wearing a mask, spitting is definitely not OK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:47 AM |
| 9 | Boys who believe its the womens fault she was assaulted, deserve to be lonely.How is that even allowed on TikTok!?!?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:45 AM |
| 9 | Caught a man filming me yesterdayI would have started filming and posted it online and gone to the police. Every report against him counts against him if anything happens. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:40 AM |
| 5 | Lol ✨SHOCKING✨ that a man profited off a woman’s idea /sJust like the internet. Idea from a woman, military stole it, never gave her a dime. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 04:31 AM |
| 3 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!LOL. Every-time someone says peepee on here, it cracks me up for two reasons. 1) Men are perpetual children, and do expect to be spoken to in such a manner. 2) It's just funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:10 PM |
| 5 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!Jordan Peterson is a shitty human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:48 AM |
| 1 | A man with self awareness realizing men are the problem? This is rare.I didn't say that. I am saying that it's crazy that 14 year old girls are telling him that they've been assaulted. That's what's sad, scary, terrifying. That 14 year old girls are saying they've been raped, and there are 14 year old boys that think rape is OK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:47 AM |
| 9 | A man with self awareness realizing men are the problem? This is rare.I called out my own cousin for not standing up for me when a guy I dated, a friend of his, was abusive. All my cousin could say was, yea I know he's difficult, mumbled something and just went to get high because he 'couldn't handle it'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:39 AM |
| 1 | A man with self awareness realizing men are the problem? This is rare.14!? This teacher is having FOURTEEN YEAR OLD GIRLS come and admit to him that they'd been raped.... WHAT in the FUCK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Nice guy is confused why woman won’t text him backThis radio host needs to be fired for invasion of privacy and a whole shlew of other things. They do this where I live too and it's seriously just public shaming, gaslight, flat out abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | What should be the dating strategy for child free women?Exactly the same thing happened to me with Covid. The crazy delirious part no one believed me. I woke up half in my PJ's on my living room floor and I have no idea how I got there (no one believed me). My temp was well over 104 for days, but I was so sick I didn't have the thought to call an ambulance or ask for help. It took me 10 DAYS to be strong enough to get to the hospital. When I did they didn't take my temp, didn't listen to me when I told them my symptoms, and just told me to go to the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:23 AM |
| 1 | What should be the dating strategy for child free women?I have had this exact same experience. Thank you for articulating this. I didn't know how to say this myself. It's exactly the same problem I'm dealing with and have been thinking about. Also, it annoys the hell out of me that women get blamed for "missing out" on having a baby. My ex is in his early 40's now, and he all of a sudden told me he was thinking he was too old for a baby, but alluded to wanting one with me when I wasn't ready as I wasn't satisfied with my career yet. Men are more nuts… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:17 AM |
| 3 | “I am a piece of sh*t, but it’s not *completely* intentional”This girl just called me out with this Tweet... This is my last relationship, and I said nearly exactly this same thing to my ex, about himself. His response? Silence. When I asked why the silence he said 'Because it's true, and it hurts. You're mean'.... SO, I'm mean, for telling him what he already knows, about himself, and letting him know that I know... what logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:07 AM |
| 6 | Ditch the LVM and get the Doctorate: A Cautionary Tale.GET IIIIIIIT!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:05 AM |
| 10 | Anyone else feel like the pandemic has really given them the space to Queen it up?Same!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:49 AM |
| 20 | And her comment section was filled with women agreeing!In all seriousness, NONE of the men I know work the full 8 hour days, let alone 10. They're reading sports news, in their personal emails, playing on their phones, shooting the shit via slack, and overall just not doing their jobs. That's why when guys get home to complain how 'hard their day has been'. I don't believe them because I've had access to the apps they have to use at work, I've been in meetings and on projects with them. I know they don't do jack shit the majority of the day. The who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:48 AM |
| 14 | A lot of men need to hear this. They wonder why they have dead bedrooms but dont even tryDang, the title of the article says it all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:29 AM |
| 10 | A lot of men need to hear this. They wonder why they have dead bedrooms but dont even tryLOL! I washed my coffee cup! Where's my BJ!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:29 AM |
| 2 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPI forgot about the pregnancy aspect. That is true, I have to give you that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 33 | Ain't it StrangeI know this is sarcastic truth, but it made me laugh pretty hard. It's so true. If it's real 'work' how come there's no vacation time, holiday pay, healthcare, etc. That's now how strip clubs operate because it's not real work. It's not like being a worker at a restaurant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:25 AM |
| 19 | Ain't it StrangeI had no idea what that was until FDS. It's the dumbest idea on the planet. I don't know how women don't see it for what it is. Also, how the fucked do they not understand that people can take screenshots of them!?!?!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:21 AM |
| 53 | Ain't it StrangeThis is why I hate that European study where they let gender 'be free to choose' their careers and women still 'choose' more feminine jobs. It had nothing to do with the new laws saying women can do this or that. It's the conditioning from childhood and the actual mentalities around it. They expected this to just change automatically. Surprise, surprise, it doesn't work that way when you've been conditioned to believe that you're less than your whole life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 01:19 AM |
| 10 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPI hated SF for this reason. I had never been to the West Coast, and when I got it was exactly what I thought it would be, and like you described. Also, for such a 'woke' city, it's filthy as fuck. There are homeless people everywhere (so much for helping out the little man), the guys were all extra creepy because they thought their 'lib' mindset was appealing, and every other street was dangerous. I asked where to avoid as usually there's a section or a district that you can avoid, but not, it w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 5 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPIt does seem like there's something up there with Meghan. Watching the interview with her, it does seems strange. Her body language is all over the place. And she misrepresented what Harry was told by his family. Yes, she definitely was shunned by the public over in the UK, but she does seem shady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 09:52 PM |
| 4 | Boy moms and their pickmeisha tendencies?Good for you! This is so important!!!!! Who the fuck is that mom!? I am one of 4, with my brother being the youngest. He had more toys than any of us. He'd always get money and gifts from family. Despite having a bad back my mom carried him everywhere, he slept in her bed until he was 5 or 6 (when she died from a car crash), he got allowances when none of my other siblings did, he didn't have to get a job, nothing. I don't want kids, I've known that from a very young age. If I did have kids, I d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Do girls find it to be a red flag if a guy does not have social media?No. I know a few guys you can't have social media because of work. It also means you're far less likely to be on your phone during dates/when you're hanging out together. To elaborate on what someone said below, social media is made to make you feel insecure. There's nothing actual social about it. It's just extremely toxic, and filled with false ideals. I haven't had social media for nearly 7 years, and it was the best decision I ever made. | /r/seduction | 14/03/21 10:51 PM |
| 1 | How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up.Same! Did your's also tell you how much you made him a better person or some crap like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 10:48 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?So, are you into dudes then? Is that why you're taking advice from other dudes? | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?Almost as bad as a bunch of guys saying that only 'bad-boys' get girls. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?.... quoting one part of a while statement, bringing it out of context. Genius. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?That's why I am saying, sit down. Write out WHY you think NICE is what it is by your definition. When you do, you'll come to the see the defining lines. It is a grey area. And a lot of guys fall victim to believing they're the same thing, i.e. nice vs push-over. And it's bullshit, because you do get told the wrong thing, or it's not clarified. The same thing happens with women! We both get played when it comes to understanding what being 'NICE' means. Look at Captain America - yes, sounds stupid… | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 08:28 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?No, it's really not. You just tell yourself that. There's a difference between a nice guy and a push-over. You're confusing the two. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 08:15 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?So, first of all, he's not the original OP... different username completely. Second - I don't hate men. But I despise those that think that the 'bad-boy' mentality gets you girls of value that you'd actually want to keep, which I believe was the whole point of this post. If you don't take a good long hard look at yourself, and keep thinking you're god's gift to mankind (like a 'bad boy' does), you're never actually going to find anyone. Third - I asked what those standards were, if he knew what … | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 08:10 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?A high success rate for what? And no, they're not facts... they're your poor perception of what you think works. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 07:58 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?It is so typical for a man to tell a woman what a woman wants and none of it is actually true, because it seemingly works for other men. Are those men of actual value? Do you look at them and think 'that's a good guy'? The term 'bad-boy' isn't something a woman worthwhile or with any self-respect cares for, or goes for. There's a difference between a bad-boy and a brave man, someone who isn't a coward. People confuse the two far too often. Do you understand what the term 'bad-boy' means? What ex… | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 07:20 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?That literally has no effect on the opinion I gave. You are really stupid. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 07:13 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?Sweetie, there's no way that you get any 'play" (totally creepy term, but matches your persona) from a woman that's sober and willing. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?This may sound ridiculous, but I swear it works, as someone who also suffers from anxiety. Write down on a piece of paper.. 1) What do I have anxiety about? 2) Why do I have anxiety around that specific thing... and keep asking why after each answer. The core reason behind your anxiety isn't always what you generally think. It sounds so stupid, but it's true. I did this when I suddenly stopped being able to perform really well athletically. Now I'm back to my normal routines. But you'd be surpri… | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 06:10 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?That's not true at all. If you're rude to me, I will chew you up and spit you out. I was raised by women only. And I was also taught that a guy needed to be nice and respectful. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 06:05 PM |
| – | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?This is terrible advice. Social media skews what men think is attractive. None of those Instagram girls look the way they do, and anyone that does is usually from plastic surgery that they probably didn't need, but got because some guy got mad that they turned them down, told the girl they were hideous and then the girl was scarred for life and decided to get surgery to make up for it. It's the same for guys, some girl says they're not fit enough so the guy starts to do roids when he looked fine… | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 14 | This guy gets it 🙌🐍What were you wearing? Maybe the snake couldn't have bitten you if you were smarter about your outfit around the snake. You know better... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 100 | It’s more than just therapy. They need to beat the socialization that causes them to be so narcissistic.I was watching a Tedtalk with a fairly well known relationship therapist and she said something astounding. Therapy changed decades ago to not blame the client, so nowadays therapists are trained to not put any ownership on the person so that they don't feel ashamed or attacked, even though a therapists job is to help you see where you've done wrong and how to do better. Whether it's setting boundaries after you've been abused, or respecting boundaries after being the abuser. The few times I did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:13 AM |
| 14 | What do you ladies think?Have you ladies also heard that the current oldest generation 60+ are the ones who started the anti-old people movement back in the 60's? It was in a documentary I was watching the other day, I have to try to find it. It's now ironic because they're wondering why there's no one to take care of them, when they started the practice in the first place. They made the world that we have today where people can barely take care of themselves, let alone a family. How are the younger generations supposed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:16 AM |
| 13 | What do you ladies think?Giiiirll!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:11 AM |
| 40 | THIS Is Why FDS Advises Women To REFRAIN From Telling Potential Male Partners About Past Poor Treatment From Men...From The Horses Mouth On A Video Advising Men How To Game On Tinder. HORRIFIC.Psychologically isn't it a tactic to use with people overall to make you more likable, put people at ease, and make them more inclined to be more open/honest with you? I feel like this is something that is preached even when doing interviews. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:07 AM |
| 15 | Saw this on the front page today. If a man can’t compete with your vibe (most of them can’t) why are you bothering?You have to admit, the 'Thunder Thimble' part is pretty funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:06 AM |
| 42 | Saw this on instagram. This notion seems to be everywhere, even if the people don't blantantly say it. What a time to be alive. 🙃She should have dumped him long before Monica Lewinsky. And she shouldn't have gone after Monica the way she did. That is something I will never forgive her for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 03:57 AM |
| 29 | Beware of misogynistic women, too!She called me out. Should I be proud...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:52 PM |
| 15 | Ladies, if you find yourself in such a situation, you now have the perfect answer.I started responding this way yeeaaarrrss ago, when big butts started to be a thing, because I am built like an Amazon. Funny enough, 2 different guys were up for it. Boo-yaaaaahhh!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 3 | US rep successfully argue against Bill that would provide $6 million in childcare grants. Conservative men want us to be submissive bangmaids, liberal men want us to be their #girlboss bangmaids.I can't read his name, who is this in the video? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:38 PM |
| 50 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesIn the US we have the 'Valor Act' for military personnel. Even if I reported abuse from an ex, they'd get away with it because they're a military vet or currently serving. They were looking to change the laws in my home state after a woman was nearly raped and murdered by her ex, after she dumped him. He stalked her and tried the rape and murder her. They'll write it off as PTSD, but then deny that the guys has PTSD for benefits, and won't make him seek counseling or anything. It's terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:29 PM |
| 9 | Straight from the horses mouth.In my home state, you get divorced everything gets split 50/50 unless there's a pre-nup. I know an older woman who is a doctor, met her husband really young during college. She bought her gorgeous house on the beach for cheap back in the day before my hometown blew up as a place to be. She renovated the house etc. But when it came time to divorce, she had to sell HER house, and split half the proceeds with him... It went for well over one million. She had enough to build her own new house. But i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 59 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactawesome landlord. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 39 | NVM narcissist ex resorts to literal mail after 6 months no contactThat's super creepy. What did your landlord say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture"I wouldn't want a guy who's been sleeping with a friend and then just break that off when he finds me. There's no way that won't cause problems. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:34 PM |
| 3 | DAE find this story fishy? This guy decided to googles his girlfriend’s adult daughter’s username for “dog pics” and just stumbles upon her nudes?? Reddit also marks NSFW posts..Some of the replies are pretty funny butt jokes though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 02:57 AM |
| 16 | They want you to prove you’re worthy to them. If you have to prove to be worthy of commitment- he’s not worth yours.So, TLDR; I'm an unattractive guy who is writing poor dating advice because I want to fuck women that are better than me, more attractive than me, and think I am god. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:44 AM |
| 11 | New to this sub and currently reading why men love bitches after wondering if I haven’t found "the one" because I don’t deserve a manThis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:34 AM |
| 13 | I guess this is my cue to delete bumble cuz I’ve finally seen it allThis is the weirdest description in a Bumble account that I've ever seen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 111 | "A high value man won't wait 3 months for sex"I guarantee that if a girl slept with him after the first few dates he'd turn around and call her easy, trashy, slutty, etc. Don't tell me what to do, but tell me what to do. That's all I got out of any guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 01:31 AM |
| 12 | 😳🤢🤮😡 (At least most of the comments are on point 🙌🏼).That's what I was thinking too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 13 | Just because you’re a rare case does not mean you should encourage others to give it up on the first date. Please- vet your partners before giving them any!This is exactly what I was thinking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:29 PM |
| 64 | What kind of fxcked up country allows this to happen to women? Oh...A guy I was supposed to marry didn't strangle me, but grabbed me by the back of the neck and shoved my face into the mattress. I was slamming my fists into it because I couldn't breath or push up because he was just too strong. I broke free and thankfully never spent a night alone with him ever again. He also used the excuse of that's just how he liked it... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:27 PM |
| 22 | Reminder to vet vet vet.This one time I walked out because it was so bad... and he was overall barely average in personality and looks. Just full-stop said 'Get off'. Put on my clothes, walked out the door. Made sure to lock it (it was a key code) and walked home. I also had the pleasure of telling everyone why I dumped him. It was fantastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:19 PM |
| 11 | This is an important, straight-forward explanation that anyone who may be new here needs to listen to. It may be a hard pill to swallow at first, but really you should recognize this realization as your own freedom from a system designed to oppress you.This! This, this, this!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:15 PM |
| 39 | Just had this DM'd to me. LVM can be found with degrees too.Same - they're far scarier than the attractive guys because everyone assumes they're the 'nice guys'. This has been discussed on this board before... but anytime you give a average or 'ugly' (by your standards) guy a chance, they treat you like shit even more so than the attractive guys. It's like they're making up for lost time and competing with the shitty guys they know to be like 'GuEsS wHaT I dId tO mY wOmEn!?' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:13 PM |
| 3 | To a child dancing in the windThis is so great. Thank you for sharing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:00 PM |
| 14 | I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women?I have changed my taste in music quite a bit. There are so many songs that are pickme-ish from women, or really gross and creepy songs from men. It's kind of sad because I like the beat to a few songs. But overall my preferences have changed. However, I did rediscover 'Virtual Insanity' by Jamiroquai... it's so good and sadly came to fruition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Trauma BondingIf he ghosted you, it's an obvious sign that he not only thinks he won, but he clearly has no respect for you. A guy did this to me thinking it'd ruin me and that he 'won'. He hasn't been able to keep a stable relationship for more than a year or two at a time. And each time he claims he 'gets bored' when it's really that the women start waking up to his abuse. The reality is that he didn't win, and I am actually better than ever. Your ex paused because he probably had a real moment of 'oh fuck'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Trauma BondingI've lived close to a few bases, and the majority of my friends for years were military. However, my general perception of the military overall is no longer a positive one for reasons mentioned above, and because of the last 4 years. It blows my mind that soldiers will hate the military, can't wait to get out. Then they get out, idolize their terrible experiences, and shit on civilians for not respecting them. Their sense of entitlement is so insane - acting like they were a gift from God and en… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:35 PM |
| 12 | I’m tired of guys who say they just want to be friends, yet end up trying to pursue me intimately/(romantically?)Girl, you dodged a bullet!!!! He already had another girl ready to go! What does that tell you!?!?! This story has rapey vibes all over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:59 PM |
| 13 | Trauma BondingThat is a very good point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:56 PM |
| 14 | Trauma BondingTruth! They're all fucked up!! It's part of their training to prove how 'tough' they are to be abusive. I got told that I either 'couldn't take a joke' or that I just wasn't 'tough' enough. No, I'm just not dumb enough to believe that your abuse masked as a joke or a sign of my resilience is acceptable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:55 PM |
| 10 | Trauma BondingGood for you!!! It's scary, mind didn't lose his temper either. His military/intelligence training made it so he knew how to fuck with you, without ever raising his voice. He hated it when I started to call him. It's really scary that he's just that way all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Trying to understand how FDS can be in favor of marriage.It does! Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 41 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.Sounds like Themyscira from Wonder Woman. I'm in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:09 AM |
| 44 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.Damn... that's terrible. I'm thankful for hearing stories like this from other women. I used to feel like I was alone or 'whining' for saying anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:00 AM |
| 24 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.I can't imagine that pain of having your parents, and still having to care for them. I'm so sorry for your suffering. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 41 | Trauma BondingThank you for sharing this. There are so many more women who feel this way who won't admit it because it's just such an incomprehensible pain. We're not stupid, we know what's happening is wrong, but you're so mind-fucked that you don't know how to get away. I'm so glad that you're doing better and found a way to distract yourself. The fact that a guy can drive anyone to thought of suicide is just disgusting. I was ashamed to admit that mine was able to get me to that point, and I'm sure there a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:55 AM |
| 433 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.This happened to me when my mom passed away. I wasn't the oldest, but apparently was the smartest. My dad was just a creepy dead-beat and lost custody of us years before my mom passed. My aunts and uncles called me 'the family pillar' when I was 9 or 10? I think I was 24 or 25 when I finally got sick of cleaning up after everyone after family parties, stopped supporting deadbeat family members, and overall just avoided going back home because I sick of being the adult. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 04:11 AM |
| 3 | She's not the prize, and neither are youMisbehavior? For having an opinion? You're a nut-job. Your word choice just kinda goes to prove my point that you're actually pretty creepy if you see having an opinion as 'misbehavior' like it's worthy of punishment. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 04:02 AM |
| 3 | She's not the prize, and neither are youIt's funny that you're triggered by my opinion. Perhaps it's because you know it's true? Insecurity is having to get 6 different people to meet your different 'needs', because heaven forbid someone get to know the real you and everything about you. Also funny that you think I don't go out or travel. If you were to actually travel to different countries, you'd know that non-monogamy is a form of servitude and/or survival in third world countries... not exactly a very 'woke' or progressive narrati… | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 03:00 AM |
| 3 | She's not the prize, and neither are youProjecting much? | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 6 | Is dick worth it?Tell that to my entire family. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:39 AM |
| 12 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!Coming from someone who made more than all of their ex's with only ONE exception, this is absolutely true. You should not settle. I've had so many guys find out how much I made and immediately turned on me, and/or expected me to pay for everything, while still wanting me to be submissive. There was only one guy I've ever dated that had already saved a fuck ton of money, i.e. was comfortable financially, and had started his own little coffee business which allowed him to continue a comfortable li… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:34 AM |
| 0 | She's not the prize, and neither are youNo - just not a careless, selfish, sex-driven creep that thinks that 'non-monogamy' is 'progressive'... Have fun tasting some other dude's jizz when you go down on one of your sister-wives... because I'm sure you guys are always SuPeR diligent when it comes to having sex with ten other people that are sleeping with 10 other people... | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 02:31 AM |
| 8 | Why men fail to understand emotions of others? TW eating disorders, abuse etcFirst - I am so sorry you went through this. When you share something that personal and painful with someone, it is exhausting in itself to articulate how you feel. It is a maze to clarify the mixture of pain and emotion you're going through. I am so sorry you had to do this alone. Know that you are safe here. I feel safe here, and I've said some stupid stuff that people have promptly put me in line, or gracefully helped me see a different point of view. FDS has been really helpful for me the pa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:16 AM |
| 6 | Trying to understand how FDS can be in favor of marriage.Thank you for posting this. I was just thinking about this last night. Also, can anyone add in how they've gone about talking about Pre-nups? I am absolutely for a pre-nup regardless of how much money I do or don't have compared to the man. Mainly because it is just an extra layer of protection, and I think it says a lot about a person to see how they handle a legal transaction like a prenup as it is so personal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:08 AM |
| 12 | The date bait and switchAnd even if you straight up told him you're celibate (DON'T I'm just making a point) he will still think that means "convince me". If he ever truly gets the message you don't want to fuck he'll ghost faster than casper. 🤷♀ I was just thinking about this today! Thank you for this point. I won't be outwardly telling guys that I am abstaining now, if/when I decide to get back in the game again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:05 AM |
| – | She's not the prize, and neither are youWhen you turn someone into a prize you objectify them, man or woman. You're not monogamous... that makes sense. And yes, I am judging you. : ) Non-monogamy is absolutely disgusting. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 01:50 AM |
| 11 | LmaoDid this, it's terrible. They turn on you because you know their deep dark secrets, gaslight you and tell people you're a terrible person for 'judging them' when you were correctly their poor behavior, which they sought you out for in the first place. The average cost for a therapy session in my city is $200 an hour... 200 * 40 = $8,000 weekly cost (per a 40 hour work week) 8,000 * 52 = $416,000 yearly cost 416,000 * 3 = $1,248,000 - 3 years of being someone's free therapist fee... Let that sink… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 2 | The Kind of HVMI want a workshop in my garage. This is the coolest thing ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:40 AM |
| – | She's not the prize, and neither are youNo, you just didn't write that statement for 17.5 year relationship clearly. Why are you studying seduction if you're in a relationship? Shouldn't you be giving relationship advice and not seduction advice? Kinda creepy. | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 01:36 AM |
| 83 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!All I could think of was Titanic... 'Paint me like one of your French girls....' LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:32 AM |
| 13 | How common is this? You should not be needing marriage counseling right after marriage. Society focuses more on the act of being wed/partnered than they do on the quality of the relationship being established. That's why FDS recommends to vet, vet, vet to keep therapy/divorce costs low later on.This is really interesting. I would love to hear more about your experience on this in a post. I have heard of this in Christianity. My best friend was a Christian, and she had to go to a pre-marriage session at her local church. However, I don't know what was discussed. My last relationship I asked a lot of these questions and was very transparent about everything on my end, my student loan debt, my family, if I wanted kids and how I wanted them to be raised i.e. private or public school, sport… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:30 AM |
| – | She's not the prize, and neither are you... But you're not in a relationship now and your 17.5 year relationship failed. Do your friends understand the difference between confidence and cocky? | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 01:24 AM |
| 16 | NVM afraid to be judged like he judges single moms, cry me a river. The *last* interaction I will ever have OLD, 7 months clean and a much, much happier life without it!This happened to me with OLD too!!! A guy messaged me to tell me how much of a turn off my profile was, then told me all his needs, and then finished with, this is why I am free so we can chat... so much for my profile being a turn off. Like WTF?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:21 AM |
| 10 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.The response from Prudence is so perfect. The TLDR version - you're not that smart either, clearly. How about you so something civil and get a divorce so she can find someone who deserves her? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 166 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.Like that post a few weeks ago of the Victoria's Secret model who is a boss at coding and has nearly 30,000 points on a board where people post their coding questions to get help and all of the comments from the guys were 'what a waste'... Such losers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:12 AM |
| – | She's not the prize, and neither are youThank you for the apology. I'll simplify my response for you with a few questions. Is there a particular relationship that failed because of poor advice from a PUA? Do you not have a lot of confidence and that's why you feel the need to attack someone who has solid advice? Are you just not very well liked and having an ego is a way to convince people that you're worthy of their time, when in reality you're not even convinced that you're worthy of their time? | /r/seduction | 01/03/21 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Dolly Parton is such a bossRight!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:58 PM |
| 1 | She's not the prize, and neither are youThis is a great way to put it. The other thing is that not everyone is meant to for everyone. Some people get that confused all the time. Just because a guy thinks a girl is attractive, and by the broader sense they are both attractive, doesn't mean they'll like one another. Ultimately, you should be able to just hang out together and have fun. If your end goal is a relationship, then you need to be able to know if you can spend time with someone where the end goal isn't just sex, but to actuall… | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 11:58 PM |
| – | She's not the prize, and neither are youYou are very triggered by this opinion, why is that? | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 11:54 PM |
| 17 | She's not the prize, and neither are youPretty sure male coaches do the same thing. And they are a lot more aggressive and essentially tell you how to manipulate women into 'giving in' or doing things that they don't actually want to do... | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 11:50 PM |
| – | She's not the prize, and neither are youWhat does that mean? | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 11:48 PM |
| 8 | Dolly Parton is such a bossIt's also typical Dolly Parton fashion of praising or playing to someone's ego to get them to back off (like she does with men). The lyrics - My happiness depends on you... you could have your choice of men, but I will never love again etc. It is a bit pickme, and people have written about that. But if you pay attention to how she's going about it, she's praising, not putting down the other woman. She's doing it in a way that makes the other woman still feel empowered, while Dolly is the one cle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 16 | Dolly Parton is such a bossI think I heard that they also wanted to put up a statue of her. And he basically said, read the room guys. Covid-19 is not the time to be putting up a statue of me. Also, the fund raising I did wasn't a means for attention, it's the RIGHT THING TO DO. She's absolutely astounding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Dolly Parton is such a bossYep! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:16 PM |
| 28 | Is dick worth it?That's pretty much it. I saw someone made a snarky comment about how I walked from someone with PTSD. Maybe there should be a post about trauma bonding. I've dated 2 guys who've done tours, and the aftermath is never pretty. And generally really shows their true character. Any kind of trauma bonding is a false relationship. It isn't something that should be encouraged. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:16 PM |
| 172 | Is dick worth it?My ex hit 40 and he started to have the old man smell. I would have to leave the room sometimes, it was bad. I couldn't mention it to him that maybe he needed to wash that shirt he'd worn two days in a row because of his hyper alpha ego. Our sex life didn't start to be anything decent until the last year we were together when he had one particular rough tour overseas and for some reason being in life and death made him finally realize how amazing I was. When he came home he made love to me like … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:08 AM |
| 2 | Why is every man on Hinge competitive about “everything”? Oh, to be so vapid and simpleminded. Must be nice!Is he also overly competitive about those sad pubes on his chin? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:53 AM |
| 7 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).My ex was the same in the need for drama! Example - I genuinely just said, hey, that's really nice of you to drive 2 hours to see your friends. I wouldn't do that in that traffic! And he immediately did a 180 and started yelling at my like I was implying he was doing something nefarious.... but it was nice. It makes no sense. He called me boring because I don't go out to raging parties, go out drinking, and have a pretty tame lifestyle. I had my wild days, and even then there was very little dra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:47 AM |
| 3 | There’s nothing empowering about OnlyFans. The consequences of engaging in sexual acts on camera always lie with the woman, which is unfair, but it’s the world we live in (sadly).I just had this discussion with a guy the other day who said the nudes on Reddit were all voluntary. I said, no, they actually could be stolen, or revenge photos from girls who sent it to their BFs... couldn't be better timing to make the point. This is isn't fair. She shouldn't have to be putting up naked photos of herself to feel better, and her husband shouldn't be encouraging it. The blame lies with him just as much as anybody else if he knew and said go for it. Also, whoever found it should… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:41 AM |
| 54 | Only high effort men can keep up with high maintenance women.Why are we always compared to cars? Why? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:32 AM |
| 8 | "Boyfriends are like, 'why don't you liposuction my girlfriend?' Why don't I liposuction you? Look at that big fat hairy belly of yours." LOL I love this plastic surgeon's tiktok!Dang, I've seen his videos before. But I didn't know he was this savage. I really like him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:32 AM |
| 30 | "Boyfriends are like, 'why don't you liposuction my girlfriend?' Why don't I liposuction you? Look at that big fat hairy belly of yours." LOL I love this plastic surgeon's tiktok!Yes!!! This is a classic tactic that guys use to make their faces more appealing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:30 AM |
| 6 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.That is definitely true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...I didn't know he denies the Holocaust happened!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 3 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...He really is a glorified incel. His poor daughter, listening to her is pretty telling of who he is too. She married a Russian guy pretty quick and then divorced him within a year. Clearly she does not have a great role model for a father if those are the choices she's making. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:05 PM |
| 1 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.Yup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 16 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.It's funny, of all the horses and ponies that I've ridden and worked with, minis are always the most fearsome. Tiny trotting terrorists.... Minis, they bite. (Austin Power's reference) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:27 AM |
| 67 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...Oh my god, yes!! Ironically, he suffers from major depression, was suicidal, and addicted to drugs. All things that he's shit on at some point. He just throws out conspiracy theories using data from studies that have nothing to do with comparisons that he makes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:25 AM |
| 46 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.A thought that just popped into my head - probably because riding a horse requires confidence and control over a giant animal. Any thought of a woman being able to be dominant or in control of something bigger than herself is automatically intimidating. Confidence in a woman is terrifying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:15 AM |
| 167 | Why “50/50” is so often still unequal...Joe Rogan is a complete and total waste of space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:09 AM |
| 87 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.I mention any of my hobbies and guys immediately either make the same comment she made, get intimidated, or mock me. I like to study ancient history, neuroscience, the stock market, I love lifting etc. The fact that watching sports and gaming are considered hobbies by the general male populace goes to show that they don't actually understand what a hobby is. Even Cosplay is the technically a hobby because of the amount of creativity and dedication it takes to make those costumes. While sometimes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:07 AM |
| 46 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.That or when you say you ride equestrian that you're a snob, have a ton of money, and/or a bitch with a lack of social skills outside of talking to your horse. I just started to ride again, with my aunt who has a business with horses. People don't get that she actually just breaks even keeping horses, and that all of the ones she does have were rescues. Having horses is a lot of work, and requires quite a bit of emotional intelligence and brute strength to do the chores required to take care of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 05:00 AM |
| 163 | Making a man wait to have sex is a vetting strategy that has NOTHING to do with "purity culture"Agreed. We literally have to deny ourselves of the sexual satisfaction when we might want from another human for the sake of our own safety. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:09 AM |
| 115 | Had to share because it made me crack up! Can’t even offer to but me a whole meal!The phrase that says it all 'or something'... that's what you say when you have an indifferent feeling for something, are not invested, and barely trying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:03 AM |
| 31 | Men seek validation from other men, like x1000000 times more than PickMeishasSomeone showed me his Instagram to try to be like, LoOk WhAt YoUr MiSsing! As I don't have Instagram and his cover photo is him with his 10 'bros'. They were in this long line to fit everyone in the photo, and all his friends are married with 2 or 3 kids. He's the only one who is single and standing all the way at the end by himself. It's sad that men are so insecure that they have to cut others down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:56 AM |
| 5 | We all promiseI would have to agree if this image is a sum of his personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 12:37 AM |
| 4 | How to make a girl feel safe around you ?You two nailed it. Validation and empathy. You minimize my experience, you're saying I'm worthless or wrong. Just because you can't relate, or don't understand in the moment, doesn't mean anything. And if you don't agree, don't be an ass. No one - man or woman - wants someone who's negative and nasty to them even when they just want someone to hear them out. Civility is a lost art. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 10:10 PM |
| 20 | We all promiseSurprisingly, younger guys were always easier to manage than older guys. They weren't nearly as judgmental or vicious in their intentions. And their moms loved me. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:04 PM |
| 11 | How it feels to hear that other women have shared experiences with men/no longer having to gaslight yourself about how you were treated:Oooph, this is a powerful point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 10:01 PM |
| 26 | We all promiseThank you! Also, proof to the Incels that you don't need to 'look like a Chad' to get a lady. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:29 PM |
| 18 | I don’t want the men I used to want anymoreI was going to write a post about a guy. But after a few weeks, I realized just how terrible of a person he was, and he didn't warrant the space my brain, any feelings, or pain. It's not even just about men either, people in general. The pick-mes will knock you down too. Just all around, this a great space for women to realize what they're actually worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:27 PM |
| 56 | If a man abuses you like this it will escalate to physical violence. Leave and don’t let him know your location.That girl better show that to his parents. What an asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 24 | “What you fear, you will want to destroy”This has come up a lot recently with Native American tribes in general fighting for their sacred lands etc. Native Americans know what's up. Why we don't listen to them is beyond me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:08 PM |
| 51 | How it feels to hear that other women have shared experiences with men/no longer having to gaslight yourself about how you were treated:This place is a God send. It's really helping me out a lot. I had severe depression and anxiety, my confidence was shot. It's also crazy to see how angry and resentful I had become from knowing I was right, but having nowhere and/no one to talk to that wasn't a pick-me or just cold-hearted. There are even some messages from a few weeks ago that I am like, dang girl... were you drinking hot sauce that day? Now I'm seeing how I was essentially bullied, gaslight, and lied to not only by men, but th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:05 PM |
| 30 | We all promiseWho is this? Also, is the next line, 'But a Hitachi is."? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:59 PM |
| 50 | If they ask u to go for a walk 🥴LOL, I genuinely said this to someone. Some guy wrote me a text once saying 'Atta Girl'... and I just blocked him. Not your pet, dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 85 | Men seek validation from other men, like x1000000 times more than PickMeishasThis is so true. I had a guy who was really into me, but because his bros were jealous of the fact that a woman of my 'caliber' (as he put it) was showing interest back, they talked him out of dating me. His 'bros' approval was everything, so he ended up going the other way.... He learned his lesson about his buddies after the fact, when they found girls that would put up with them and left him single and on his own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:56 PM |
| 3 | The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter)."I'd say $35 is acceptable" I'd say you pay me $350 for taking up valuable time where I could have been getting something better to eat, fucker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:49 PM |
| 2 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:I really did. I love that you also picked something that looks like something a Scrote would like, aka a gaming type image, and made it into a FDS meme. It's a very WOW type of image. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:44 PM |
| 2 | LVM think simp is a magic word that emasculates other men who are actually respectful to women.This is a really good point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | LVM think simp is a magic word that emasculates other men who are actually respectful to women.You're right. I was thinking that women other than those on FDS would be using that as a key term for men that are HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:58 PM |
| 74 | OLD is mentally drainingThe guys on dating apps are extremely insecure and any of the decent ones drop off and just brave normal dating. It's basically the disposables on any OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:34 AM |
| 45 | I took it all.Screw being petty, that's a fantastic story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:16 AM |
| 40 | Gotta put all the spoons in thereDon't come for me like that. lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:11 AM |
| 45 | LVM think simp is a magic word that emasculates other men who are actually respectful to women.Simp will soon become a key word for men women want... and then all the incels will start crying about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:10 AM |
| 41 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:Made me throw my bra and panties into the wind! mmmmmMALE! AH! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 04:10 AM |
| 20 | How to avoid interacting with men who are far right/hate womenThis just goes to show that they know what they're doing is wrong!!! WHY DO YOU NEED CODE IF WHAT YOU'RE DOING ISN'T BAD!?!?!? What a bunch of fucking babies. We HaVe CODE wOrDs! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:43 AM |
| 69 | I can receive a notification, see a part of the comment, and not even a MINUTE later:I legit was just going to write a post because I just got a chat message request from a guy regarding my movie post. His comment started with, "I can't write on FDS - I'm a male, but...' I checked out his history and he's just disgusting. I love that he didn't say guy, but a MALE. UH, a MALE!!! *swoons*... not.... P.S. This Meme made me crack up - the lil blurb of "me minding my business" made me crack-up so bad. It took me a second to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:27 AM |
| 8 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.that's true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:44 AM |
| 36 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.Men only make dating profiles to impress other men, even though other men don't see them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 25 | Trying OLD if for no other reason than to confirm that it's a cesspool. So many horrible profiles, it's like these guys aren't even trying...but this one from "Jacob" took the cake.you beat me to iiiiit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 30 | I had to hang curtains because I was receiving disgusting texts from my LVM neighbor who could see in from his porch. I hate them, but I hate him more. It's bad enough that he was looking in my windows, but the audacity that he would text me about the "sexy hair flip" that I did "FOR HIM"....The cops response when I went in to report the guy??? Move out of town... this place is rife with drama. Drama, that's what he called a situation where a dude who was stalking me and sexually assaulting others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | What progress and solidarity looks like.Why you gotta call me out like that, OP? But truly, this post is exactly what I was thinking about myself the other day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:26 PM |
| 195 | I had to hang curtains because I was receiving disgusting texts from my LVM neighbor who could see in from his porch. I hate them, but I hate him more. It's bad enough that he was looking in my windows, but the audacity that he would text me about the "sexy hair flip" that I did "FOR HIM"....u/king12807, listen to Phoenix. This happened to me, and a dozen other girls I knew in college. This one creepy guy started to follow me and anyone he thought was even remotely attractive. He had no shame and tried to break down the door to my girlfriends apartment, only after failing to climb through a window to her bedroom, when he knew my girlfriend was at home, drunk, after a party alone. He was trying to rape her. When I went to the police because he started to stalk me, I found out he alre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:18 PM |
| 7 | This man has the audacity to just walk into a woman’s house uninvited! But she fought back!Unfortunately, in my state the law says that you literally need to let the people who break into your home take your shit - you can't defend yourself unless they come after you under the fucked up legal view of 'duty to retreat'. Which means you have to prove that you tried to run before you defended yourself, even if it's in your own damn house. If they come after you, you can only use 'equal force' which means if a giant guy with a knife comes at you, you can't use a gun, even if you're 4'9" a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 05:16 AM |
| 7 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️This came up recently in the news when the owner of the Patriots didn't get charged for getting a hand job, i.e. soliciting a prostitute. But, the woman who touched his old shriveled dick was charged for prostitution. I can see where they're going with trying to decriminalize it and regulate it more. Maybe it's in the hope that it's like what happened in Portugal where they decriminalized drugs, and started to use all the money on their war on drugs for rehab centers? How many lives would be sav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:51 AM |
| 3 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️This statement shows it's that much more painful for people when they're doing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:43 AM |
| 2 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenThank you so much for sharing this. There are some really great videos, one in particular on male predatory behavior in movies. I think it definitely fits in with this post. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wWoP8VpbpYI | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 08:16 PM |
| 6 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️Would you mind explaining? Do you mean options as in to actually get out of sex work or do you mean advocating for sex work as a real job where you're in control and it's not just taking any man that comes for services? I'm genuinely just seeking clarity on what you mean. I was under the impression that it was frowned upon regardless here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 07:41 PM |
| 36 | neckbeard brags about how much his wife does while he doesn’t do sh*t, even mentions how daughter “wasn’t even supposed to be alive 8 years ago”She's hiding because she's ashamed, and knows she'll probably get a lot of people being like... you really live with that guy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 06:01 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, What is the worst date you’ve been on?I agreed to a date with a guy I'd been chatting with for a few weeks. AFTER the date, I found out that he had a license to carry and actually had a loaded hand gun with higher power bullets in the car, not secured, not in a case, just under my seat. This is why FDS exists, and why you need to be careful. He was a polished guy, there was no reason for me to think or know that this guy had a gun. He wasn't like an Italian mafioso wanna-be, he didn't say anything filthy, sexual, etc. in the weeks w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:47 PM |
| 12 | This Child Abuse Expert Says Many Abusers Started by Watching Mainstream PornOne of the biggest red flags, and reasons for dumping my last ex is because after he got home from his last assignment, his porn preference shifted. I had been tolerant of it initially because at least I could kind of see what he was thinking about by his search history (because I hadn't found this group yet). But when he got back from his last assignment that was in a really rough part of the world, things got scary. We were talking one day about his depression etc. and he actually said to me t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Males wanna make fun of women going to the bathroom together but...I tried lifting with a friend of mine once. She was obnoxious. I don't know how people workout together to begin with. It's just a distraction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 7 | I'm convinced that men invented patriarchy because they saw how male livestock are treated and they didn't want to be subjected to the same fate.I actually just had this thought the other day when I was recovering from Covid while watching Dr Pol on Disney+. He helps cows give birth and every time it's a bull he's like, ah, oh well. Just feed him and send him to slaughter! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:47 PM |
| 20 | The audacity. You have absolutely nothing to offer any woman. You are not genuine. Your partner would be better off without you and probably your daughter as well.i dO nOt LeiK teH sPoRtSbaLLs uwu Shit dude I don’t care much for sports either but the way you say it, my vulva just made the windows shutdown noise LMAO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 71 | This is counterintuitive. There is no such thing as “safe sex-work” and I’m glad we have her as VP to shut down these sites that ultimately hurt and traffic women. Protecting women shouldn’t be considered “controversial history” 🤦♀️I used to be a big sex worker advocate. But you guys and this whole board have seriously challenged my views on that. So many things that I didn't know where implanted in my brain as 'normal' and basically advocating for shitty dudes who aren't learning how to be respectful people. Once you see it, you can't un-see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenDaang, I didn't know there was a phrase for this. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 36 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".I just laughed and then gagged to this comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:36 AM |
| 13 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".OK, update on Billy the idiot, because I can't help myself. This guy, 'Billy', legit thinks that Senators are not part of their state government. He was saying that it wasn't bad that Ted Cruz went to Mexico during the crisis in Texas last week because Ted Cruz doesn't work for the state, essentially because Senators in general don't work for their respective state... even though Senators are elected by the citizens of their respective state that they represent to make decisions for the state ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:35 AM |
| 16 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".Does he also say to call her Clarice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 3 | There are worse things than dying alone.I'm so sorry for your loss. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 23 | Losing male friends left and rightThat's fear that women are starting to value themselves, and be like men... i.e. do what's in their best interest, not a man's best interest. AH! She's going to be single!? What poor man is going without a blow job tonight because she has values!? *gasp* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:59 AM |
| 10 | I am a victim of sexual assault and this opening from a scrote I matched with on Tinder made me feel physically illDid you respond with, and I'd rather you drop dead? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenBasically. That's a very traditional mentality though, to defeat the enemy, you must become your enemy, from Sun Tzu who is considered to be one of the greatest strategists of all time. A lot of people get that wrong, though. They take it literally, and misunderstand that they just need to understand their enemy. They take it to the extreme, and literally train to be like their enemy, which is why we where we are today. The Art of War is a really great read, for life in general. It's pretty shor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:23 AM |
| 7 | He brought his raccoonsBut the other side of this. If you put out a bowl of water and marshmallows where there are Raccoons, it's hilarious. They will literally scrub the marshmallows away in the water, look at their little hands like... "wtf, where did it go!?" And then repeat. Mildly cruel, but still so funny and cute to watch how they wash their food like a lil' old washer woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 5 | He brought his raccoonsWTF is up with family doing shit for the 'image' of being good but actually treating their family like crap? One of my relatives used to always say 'charity starts at home' but would never actually help the right family member at the right time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:32 PM |
| 17 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenI was trying to find the article/study. I think it was Stanford? They specifically talked about how our military training after WWII and Vietnam shifted significantly to a point that it actually created a far more toxic mindset. I think the study was done in 2008? It was in response to the rise in PTSD and the consequences of war on our vets. The article basically said something along the lines of our military is creating extremists with hyper aggressive views etc. After the findings, the study … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 28 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenThat's when the 9/11 hero mentality came about with the notion of us against them. Also when video games started to become more realistic and violent around war like Call of Duty etc. Even movies started becoming increasingly more violent for younger kids, like the Marvel universe movies etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 78 | Confirmed by Science: Men are less moral than womenI'm not surprised. I've been saying for years now that with the War in Afghanistan, men in general have become even more apathetic and misogynistic. Apparently manhood is relatively fragile and precarious, and when it is challenged, men tend to become more aggressive and defensive. Yes, thank you article for telling anyone with a vagina what we already knew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 09:09 PM |
| 20 | All it takes is attention to detailI agree with you. I just never even thought that was a thing. I didn't know people were selfish enough to do that on someone's big day. I'm a big believer that an engagement should be more personal, you shouldn't need to have an audience. I've heard of doing it on a holiday. But that's the guy being dumb as the 'rule' is if you give the wedding ring as a gift, the wife/fiancee gets to keep it if something happens. Then they get mad that they can't get it back for whatever reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:57 PM |
| 25 | This is it. Today after I talk with my therapist I will tell my husband that I am not happy in our marriage. Thank you FDS for helping me realize I want and DESERVE more.And you will too!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 07:55 PM |
| 21 | He brought his raccoonsAnyone else realize that this guy literally risked her safety by bringing wild animals that weren't vaccinated over, which could have possibly given her rabies? You don't have to get bitten to get rabies... also, there is no cure for rabies, and it's a very, very painful slow death. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:37 PM |
| 312 | This is it. Today after I talk with my therapist I will tell my husband that I am not happy in our marriage. Thank you FDS for helping me realize I want and DESERVE more.My mom left my dead-beat dad, with 4 kids, and started to flourish. She even got a commission for a 250k mural at a really high-end hotel in the city that was huge for her. If you leave, you'll make it. They want you to believe you can't, but the reality is that you can. My ex even admitted to me after I left that he knew I was better off without him, and I'd probably surpass him. It's now coming to fruition. I don't have family, my parents are all dead, as are my grandparents. My few relatives … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:34 PM |
| 32 | Absolute gem I found on a newspaper (2021 published!!) It talks about divorce and reasons for it and as you can tell, the differences between the sexes are, interesting.This deformed body thing really makes me mad. An ex of mine made commentary that I was a cougar and 'looked good for my age'. While, yes, I do. It shouldn't be about how high or low my tits are or if my butt is still nice and firm. First of all - he's 4 years younger than me, so I'm barely even a 'cougar'. Second - he now looks my age if not older because of his terrible habits of drinking, smoking, and partying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:29 PM |
| 3 | LVM interactions with your pets that set off alarms?Ironically enough, I just was out on my daily walk to help me not go insane from Quarantine. There was the cutest, prettiest white kitty that came over and let me play fight with her. She was demanding the play time. I know it's Covid... but she was so pretty, and she wouldn't leave me alone until I played with her. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:20 PM |
| 7 | LVM interactions with your pets that set off alarms?This is a really interesting point. I never thought of it that way. Maybe this goes in line with why men see women as cats and men as dogs? Have you ever heard that comparison? I always hated it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:18 PM |
| 1 | LVM interactions with your pets that set off alarms?HAHAHA! Wow, jealous much? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:16 PM |
| 11 | Ex LVM tries to use me as his theraphistNice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 34 | All it takes is attention to detailI'm so jealous of her Rapier. This is the coolest thing. Can you image putting that above your mantel instead of a diploma and someone saying, "Oh, how cool is your husband's sword!?" And then getting to respond, "Actually, that's mine - for getting my PhD." So damn epic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 05:00 PM |
| 44 | All it takes is attention to detailI've never thought of it that way... that's an interesting point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 40 | All it takes is attention to detailMajor congrats on the MD/PhD goal! Get iiittt!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?You described what I was trying to say. It's amazing how the butterflies everyone talks about somehow seem to coincide with a relationship that is a rollercoaster. The movie the notebook? It just seems so bad, so toxic. My last relationship, we were really comfortable with one another, and what you described is something we both noticed. It was just easy to be around each other; we could ask to clarify what the other meant if something didn't come out right, compared to other people we'd dated w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 29 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?I will admit that’s been my issue for a while and it’s been incredibly difficult to recognize why I’m attracted to someone and what exactly I’m attracted to on a deeper level. I’ve recently met someone who’s wonderful so far, and doesn’t display any of the similarities to the men I used go for; and the emotional roller coaster feels ‘boring’ in comparison. This hit me, it's a really good way to put it. When you find that you're with someone who treats you decently it is boring. It's crazy how we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:17 AM |
| 92 | Do women have bad taste in men, or are men just terrible people?It's like it somehow puts them into the boys club by saying that they can share stories about they treat their woman like shit, or they can relate by degrading their SO. It again goes with the theme, men are just trying to impress other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Potential Red Flag QuestionsIt was more of a sassy response, like and 'I dare you to say something stupid'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:05 AM |
| 35 | Red flags in female friendshipsThe other thing is, you'd hope if there was something wrong, she'd have the maturity to talk to you. Her blocking you on Facebook for no real reasons, and on her phone, but then magically popping back up in your life is a huge red flag that she isn't able to handle any kind of confrontation or hard conversation. That's a really big part of being a good friend, is being able to be up front with one another. She isn't worth it, and while you should feel a bit hurt that she isn't honest. She clearl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:23 PM |
| 5 | 'Meet me in the middle'This is deep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 09:32 PM |
| 9 | Potential Red Flag QuestionsI would ask, why? Is there something about me you don't like? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 9 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectIf it went 'right over your head' that means that he's not good at communicating. Buh-bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:28 PM |
| 3 | I disappointed myselfOnline Dating - I just looked it up online via urban dictionary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:26 PM |
| 71 | "Would you punch a woman in the face for 1 billion dollars?"I don't care who the guy is that she asked. He's awesome and hilarious. Also, I love his mentality. No! We take the loser's money and pay 10 people to punch him in the face, $100,000,000 each, because this man is such a loser! Hats off to you sir, hats off to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:05 AM |
| 12 | “Where’s the 8pack baby?!”I have re-watched this a dozen times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:02 AM |
| 50 | A guy that I'm seeing sent this to me in good humor #niceforwhat?HAHAHAHA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 06:00 AM |
| 30 | "I had literally the best time with you"It probably is. I've never had a guy offer me burger king as a date. Even in high-school, dates were pretty decent. Even in college, we'd either stay in and watch a movie we both wanted to see and order food we liked because we were too poor to go out, or the guys had the money to take me out to my favorite live music, surprise me with a nice breakfast spot... something! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:59 AM |
| 10 | No trousers.Oh, duh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:56 AM |
| 83 | "I had literally the best time with you"The last date I went on, the guy brought me out to dinner that was $300. Using the excuse of nothing is open is a lie. Those high-end spots are open because the people who can afford those places seem to be the least likely to give up their lifestyle for the sake of others. I could be wrong, but a lot of the high-end spots in my city are still open and serving their regular clientele who don't like to cook for themselves. Again, I could be wrong, and other's might have some more insight. Also, n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Wife just got a baby and man child is frustrated that she doesn’t sexually attract him anymore.And he deleted it, like the little bitch that he is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:42 AM |
| 10 | Wife just got a baby and man child is frustrated that she doesn’t sexually attract him anymore.The answer is yes - you are the asshole, bro. And so is your mother. Clearly she forgot what being a mother is like. This screams that your wife has severe PPD, and also isn't feeling so hot about her post baby body. Have some fucking compassion, asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 13 | This 'Loco' SNL Skit With Regé-Jean Page Is Every Single Woman In QuarantineThe only thing that is inaccurate is that there's a serious amount of growth, self-reflection, and realization happening for a lot of people due to the quarantine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 18 | No trousers.Every-time I see your username I chuckle a little bit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:08 AM |
| 36 | “Where’s the 8pack baby?!”I want this girl to be my best friend. I ugly laughed at this, tears and all. It's so good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 51 | No trousers.WHO SAYS TROUSERS THESE DAYS!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:01 AM |
| 2 | How are any of you Christian ladies holding onto your faith?Which goes to show the theme that bible was written by men, for men... which is what everyone is saying, that the bible makes no sense half the time, so don't take it so literally? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:00 AM |
| 13 | The only worthwhile heterosexual relationships are where both people love each other, but the man loves the woman slightly more than she loves him.This happened to me. More that it was also that I was going through a rough time, and this person couldn't stand to see that I had bad days. Now I'm more stable, and I don't act the way I did then. But they just got me at the wrong time. I had been sexually assaulted, I wasn't feeling all that confident, and I just wanted to have my own family. It ruined things a bit, but more so because they saw me as this ideal of something that they didn't really consider that I was a human with flaws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:55 AM |
| 38 | The only worthwhile heterosexual relationships are where both people love each other, but the man loves the woman slightly more than she loves him.I've felt that way when a guy loved me a lot. I felt like he didn't actually want to see who I really was. He just fantasized about the idea of me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:53 AM |
| 131 | The only worthwhile heterosexual relationships are where both people love each other, but the man loves the woman slightly more than she loves him.My grandmother used to say something along these lines to me when I was little. "It's better to be loved than love. Otherwise, you'll always be chasing, wanting, and waiting." Men don't have the capacity to love like we do, so find someone who loves you more than you then. It's better that way. I'm finding that's this is the truth... Women appreciate being loved more than men do, and we'll keep it when we find it. Men on the other hand take it for granted because they're raised to believe they'r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How are any of you Christian ladies holding onto your faith?Are you a troll? God cursed the snake, man, and woman... quote FROM THE BIBLE BELOW... Then the LORD God said to the woman, "What is this you have done?" The woman said, "The serpent deceived me, and I ate." So the LORD God said to the serpent, "Because you have done this, "Cursed are you above all the livestock and all the wild animals! You will crawl on your belly and you will eat dust all the days of your life. And I will put enmity between you and the woman, and between your offspring and he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:45 AM |
| 2 | How are any of you Christian ladies holding onto your faith?I’m trying to stay informed and that would be a vital piece of info given my faith background. Thank you for your comment!! I really appreciate it. What exactly does this mean? You said you're staunchly pro-life for non-religious, but you want to know given your faith background? Are you actually a practicing and are you actually judging because of religion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | #YesAllMenHey, don't come after my cousins like that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 09:27 PM |
| 8 | Out of curiosity, what’s the special flavor of scrote from where you’re from?The Sports bro's who claim that if you don't like sports you just 'don't understand' their 'hobby'.... How the fuck is screaming at a TV a hobby? Also, you masturbate to Tom Brady so much, how the fuck are you NOT gay? The Wolf of Wall Street wannabe 'entrepreneurs' who somehow got into Harvard or MIT even though they they have no common sense, basically act like the Harvard Bro from Goodwill Hunting, and pretend to be liberal of feminists but are actually the ultimate wolves in sheep's clothing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Imagine carrying this losers baby, and he has the audacity to number the toilet paper. 🤦🏻♀️Does your man use baby wipes or wax his ass-hole? Because last time I checked, any man I've dated uses half the roll every-time he takes a shit either because he actually cares about skid-marks or dingle berries. Tell him that next time he complains. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 19 | Ladies, in your experience, what are some examples of sneaky condescending behaviors/words that a LVM will usually throw at you as an attempt to lower your self worth?My ex started to tell me that he thought it was more attractive when women wore 'flowing or loose fitting clothing', after I had just started to feel comfortable with my body against after gaining weight from a surgery that barred me from working out. I had stopped wearing tight clothes for a bit as I got some shitty commentary from guys, but when I started to date my BF I felt safer wearing what I wanted as he was a Special Ops guy, and all I had to do was drop that when a shit-head hit on me a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 09:06 PM |
| 33 | My first date after finding FDSWinning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 09:02 PM |
| 53 | I knew all men were trash long ago, I just wanted to join a space free of Pick-mes because I got tired of being surrounded by women who give me that 'hey! Not all men!' and 'where are you meeting these men cos I've never experienced that' bullshit.This used to happen to me a lot. Men would actively seek me out in strange situations, or make the comment of 'how are you single?' blahblahblah xyz. I assumed other girls got this, but apparently not. That's what happens when you workout 6 days a week and take care of yourself, though. I started to wear shitty baggy clothes after one specific instance. I went out after work to get ONE drink by myself. I used to dress really cute, and with my body I was sickeningly sexy. I knew I was cute, but I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 09:02 PM |
| 170 | I was looking at old anti-suffragette propaganda, and just realized that so much that was said about women is still being said today. In the comments tell me if also recognize any red flags.Wow - 100 years and every single one is still relevant... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:45 PM |
| 3 | Why are men such assholes about women's muscles???It's jealousy and insecurity. Men will generally focus on tearing you down when they feel insecure to keep you at their level. You know you're succeeding when they start talking shit about you, and don't stop talking shit about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:42 PM |
| 39 | A woman's night out with her new boyfriend takes an unexpected turn: Never let this happen.This whole thing made my skin crawl from the start. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’The “African Queen” vibe has always been a thing in African music videos, particularly West African (Nigeria to be exact). Really!? I noticed that Cardi B and Nikki Minaj kind of adopted this. But they're not male rappers, and Cardi B has a rough past. I-would-not-fuck-with-her. And you’d be surprised how African women are also conditioned to put up with disrespect from black men. I can only speak for South Africans, since I’m South African, but the women’s standards here are soooo low. Our da… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 08:29 PM |
| 3 | FDS thoughts on virginitySame! I didn't sleep with anyone until I was 20. He only asked, and I was honest, because his dick was huge and I said ouch. My sisters were both pressured into it at a very young age. It's all relative. You do it when you're ready. Virginity is a joke and kind of disgusting to revere. It's an oppressive measure to control you. Men don't want you sleeping with other men because they know how filthy they are, and they get off to getting you to do shit you don't want to do because they know you're… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:48 AM |
| 13 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’Ok - I'm white, and because this is being brought up, I feel safer saying this. Black goddesses, please comment. I used to complain about how rappers present black women in their music videos. Always as strippers, sex workers, or ghetto gang-banger type women who are just objects. I didn't understand why that was the image that women were OK with and looked up to. It absolutely happens to white women too, but white women it's more of the model, or just the stunning blonde in lingerie where the g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Languages of Love on BumbleI think love languages are dumb because the obvious answer to the question for all men is 'physical touch'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:23 AM |
| 9 | How are any of you Christian ladies holding onto your faith?The bible has been altered for centuries - it was written by old straight men, for old straight men. It's even said in some circles from scripture that has been found that Peter was jealous of Mary Magdalene for being so beloved by Jesus, and this had a huge influence on how women were perceived in the bible. Note, Mary Magdalene wasn't labeled as a prostitute until the 13th century when some guy by the name of Thomas wrote it into the 'newest addition' of the bible. In the Old Testament, Sunday… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:23 AM |
| 7 | I'm not sure he's set his requirements high enough /sI guarantee he's only 5'5". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:13 AM |
| 4 | The BarLOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 12:06 AM |
| -2 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisOnly 80+ for being religious? That's a pretty strong statement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 11:14 PM |
| -2 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisIt's all good. I can take the heat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 09:58 PM |
| 9 | It irritates me how people have more empathy for men over women.... I'm so sorry for all this hurt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 07:11 PM |
| -1 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisI am. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:31 PM |
| -7 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisNah, you're a Spaniard. You're right. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:25 PM |
| -6 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisOk. If you look it up online it even says 37 days. But you're right. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:21 PM |
| 0 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisOk, so first, I said days, not month, and it is true. I work for an international company and work with Spaniards, Germans, etc. So, I can say, yes, they do have 30 days plus off for religious holidays, just as Germany, and Italy, and a whole slew of other countries in Europe do. Did you miss the part where I said I dated a Spaniard for 7 years? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 12 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowI'd rather see the interaction to get a read on him and her. Bodily language speaks louder than words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:27 PM |
| 13 | Dating as a woman irl: low effort coffee dates and disappointing sexAnyone who says they're in good shape from practicing a martial art is usually a wannabe part-time practitioner who isn't in shape. Also, he's probably not that tall, and he probably says something stupid filthy, which is why they ghost him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Pick-mes, please stop embarrassing yourselves. I hope she's learned her lesson after thisThis isn't true at all. I dated a Spaniard for 7 years, women in Spain are predominantly pick-mes. Boys wear blue, girls wear pink, type of mentality. The whole reason he started to date me was because I carried my own weight. This is a joke. Spanish women are still very much co-dependent as the country is extremely religious and has 30 plus days a year off just for religious holidays, and that's just for the country, not for your own hometown, city, or province. Girl is crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:21 PM |
| 11 | Wonder Woman wisdom.She was so controversial in her time. I think they intentionally started to tone her down a bit so that men didn't get offended when she was first created. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:19 PM |
| 38 | Mom praising son-in-law for the bare minimum 👏🏻Wtf... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:14 PM |
| 4 | Yet another reminder why you vet men, so this won't be your future. It's way too common. No thanksNot gonna lie though, if dog walking paid more, I'd probably do that too. Dogs are the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:12 PM |
| 6 | Oh really? Hmm.. you don’t say?Exaccccctly.... gurl, those videos blow men's minds! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:31 AM |
| 16 | The guys that say “Not All Men!!” When you look at the front of their Reddit page.I reported this video. How the fuck is this still up online!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:01 PM |
| 37 | For all the moms that have to be the tough/strict/main parent, because dad wants to be the ‘fun’ parent.. You’re being appreciated!How do you do this though? I've always wondered. If there's no boundaries the kids will grow up feral. It's a genuine question, do you know of any books, resources, etc.? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:54 PM |
| 41 | Oh really? Hmm.. you don’t say?And then the guy will idolize someone like Nikki Minaj who has extensive plastic surgery, except for her face, but then turn around and complain how no women are 'real' anymore. It never ends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:52 PM |
| 3 | The contempt some of these men have for their wives is EVIL.Was it on Reddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:29 PM |
| 42 | Posted in a female subreddit... most comments are empathizing with LVM and even excusing their behavior as “competitive”??💀Wow, I'm so sorry that happened to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 306 | Posted in a female subreddit... most comments are empathizing with LVM and even excusing their behavior as “competitive”??💀That's him being afraid that she's getting better and will leave him, because he knows he has no value. To that I say, Buh-bye, jerk!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 2 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢I think I hope so, because that means there's one less of them out there. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:56 PM |
| 7 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢Ya, dude, real sex isn't the same as wanking your pp five times a day, try some cardio maybe. This made me ugly laugh. I haven't heard the term 'PP' in years. I dated a guy who was 38 and said the same thing! Then he tried to shame me as being promiscuous just because I have stamina, go figure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:42 PM |
| 3 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢Isn't there a statistic between men with limp-dick and being sexual predators, misogynists, etc.? I think the article came out a few years back with the Trump 'small hands' thing, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:39 PM |
| 7 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢this... this reaction is everything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 6 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢As someone who's dated someone in their 40's, that is so not true. It's not even just limp dick, it's no stamina! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:33 PM |
| 2 | The Myth That Older Men Are Better In Bed 🤢It's not true. My ex is 11 years my senior, and I taught him everything he knows, no lie. He didn't have a crusty dick, or any of that. But man was he clueless. That's the joy of being from a country that's all about Jesus. I had to explain to him what the shape of a clit was, G-spot, everything. It wasn't even like he was clueless intentionally, he sheepishly asked me all these questions to try to be better, which I appreciated. But damn, it took years to get what I needed. Talk about an invest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:32 PM |
| 8 | The contempt some of these men have for their wives is EVIL.Wait, where was this actually posted so I can go tell this guy how much of a loser he is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:29 PM |
| 255 | Yet another reminder why you vet men, so this won't be your future. It's way too common. No thanksHe actually lives that way? He'll get to it? He's not working! GET TO IT NOW! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:25 PM |
| 12 | Beware of scrotes- you can never be too carefulI concur with this. Even men who are into this type of thing have been abused. A female relative of mine had her own porn collection... but she was a victim of abuse, physical, sexual and emotional by her father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 81 | Your Future in an Age Gap RelationshipNo, he's just gross. My ex also started to 'deteriorate', he was 11 years older than me, and it came down to lack of personal hygiene. He got comfortable and stopped trying, where I did the reverse to try to keep the relationship alive much longer than I should have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:56 PM |
| 96 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.It's because this guy wants Ciara. Guys talk shit about a good woman to try to take her from another guy and then act like the 'saviour' or that they're doing the woman a 'favor' by taking her when she has a 'bad rep'. Another manipulative tactic of the unworthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:52 PM |
| 3 | She's in a "traditional marriage" but works full time AS WELL AS acting like his servant... Someone save this womanShe did the right thing!!! And 6 times!? Jesus... because he didn't get the hint the first 3 times? Also, the colorful words part is not OK. When you tell your WIFE that you can handle it, and then turn around and demand she help, when you said you got it. That's fucked. He can pay for a caterer if he wants to have a party all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 3 | The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: DivorceWhat are you talking about? The system is all for women! Men have no rights! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:07 AM |
| 4 | I feel too valuable to lower myself to online dating apps againYou're right, it's true. Those guys on dating apps are looking for a fast and easy, regardless of what they say. When I was on dating apps for just 3 or 4 months this past year, I was more depressed trying to make a connection than not talking to any guys at all. It's better to follow the advice a lot of people have said here. Start to pick-up a hobby that you've always wanted to start, or something you'd like to try, and you'll find someone you'll actually want to hang out with that way. Even a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 23 | If you are thinking of leaving him...Giving this a bump because women need to see this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:58 PM |
| 12 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.That doesn't suprise me at all. Same thing happened in the US. Trump let the most notable guy off the hook. The SEAL was even turned in by his teammates, which is unheard of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:32 PM |
| 8 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Yea, I wrote a little bit about it in a comment below. I'm trying to build up the mental stamina to get it out in writing for more clarity. It was absolutely brutal. There's a Scottish movie called 'The Sunset Song', and it was like watching my own life. Basically the man goes off to War for WWI and comes back just like my ex did. It shook me quite a bit. It was almost exactly how things happened for us, minus the baby. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 35 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Yea, mine even wrote back home talking about he was afraid of how they'd change him, he could see the brain-washing when he was first in boot-camp. He remained largely unaffected until he went to war. He made me feel like I could bring the world to its knees, it's the only way to describe it. I was everything, I know it. Then he came home from war, and I became his sole target. They are brain-washed and trained to destroy their weaknesses, and I was his weakness. Those are the exact words I got … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 10:04 PM |
| 11 | Background checks workThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 4 | This is not really about dating, but it reminds me of FDS cause of the fact that its a women-only space. Reddit doesn't get it, and think its misandry when its not. This is not a debate sub. Its our space to be ourselves and be safe.This is a healthy mentality! It's called boundaries. You disrespect me, you don't access to me, in any way, shape, or form. Even guys I've just gone on one date with get extremely upset saying they 'never block anyone'. It's such a weird possessive bullshit thing to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:43 PM |
| 34 | Background checks workHow do you search local court records? This is really helpful to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | YikesAnd to that I say, OK, go jerk your dick off to porn. Jerk it raw, and to the point that it no longer has sensation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 3 | On men that use this site against women'Lady, you may be dying, but my dick better be in your vagina when you do so!' Wow, what a winner... That's definitely abuse. I am glad you walked! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:32 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else feel like they're the main one doing emotional labor for their family?Yes, and it's the main reason I broke up with the last 2 men I dated. I would go through something extremely traumatic, my best friend's sudden death, a near death experience, surgery... neither man was there for me for any of those events. BUT, the moment they broke a nail, I had to be there for them. The last one I started to treat him the way he treated me in nearly identical situations, and he actually did see the error of what he'd done, and was really shocked at himself. But it didn't matt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 70 | Why FDS is Crucial if Motherhood is a GoalThis post needs to be a part of a guide to getting married. This should be a part of sex education. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 3 | We all know the saying! If he wanted to...Awe... this is so nice. And what a way to keep the Covid-19 blues at bay!! This is so creative! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:14 PM |
| 10 | Feminist brings receipts on disparate prison sentencing between men and women, especially for domestic crimes. MRAs in Shambles.I think it's the state of Massachusetts, if someone breaks into your house and you defend yourself, but they get out of your house, even just onto your porch. They can then sue you for attempted man-slaughter unless you have a video 'proving' they were inside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:09 PM |
| 27 | A journey to admit that your life won’t be the same after adopting FDS principlesThis is exactly how I feel. I'm so sorry they took from you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:07 PM |
| 2 | I shoveled my neighbor’s steps today for Valentine’s Day. She’s another single lady with kids and this sub has taught me how important it is to help out other women. Tomorrow I’ll get her sidewalk cleaned off.You are the sweetest. <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 111 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Videos games are really just mind manipulation. The US Military actually sponsors/pays for Call of Duty, because they figured out that it was directly influencing young kids to sign up for the military. It was something crazy like an 80% increase in sign-ups or something. I dated a guy who was influenced in this way, and the military destroyed him. The guy I fell in love with died overseas, and a monster came back in his place. All because of a fucking video game. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 70 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.That's because he should want to spend time with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 06:01 PM |
| 4 | Is anyone else annoyed by Justin Bieber's new song Lonely?That's what I thought too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 24 | The misogyny of the Cooling off policy re: DivorceWell this is terrifying. I had no idea this was a thing. This explains why it took so long for my mom to ditch my dead beat dad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 48 | Found in My Girls Group Chat on Valentine's DayAs someone who dated a guy who did have poop problems and didn't do anything about it until recently, I can sympathize if he has real poop issues. However, this guy is probably masturbating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Biggest lie society tries to sell is that women can't live without men while the opposite is true.HAHAHA! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Love a good roast.Aside from the good roast, anyone else think this guy is kinda sexy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:30 PM |
| 4 | Biggest lie society tries to sell is that women can't live without men while the opposite is true.IDK why but this comment cracked me up. The thought of plotting how to have sex with a guy... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Love a good roast.Same! I am tiny too! That's insane that he threatened physical violence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:20 PM |
| 7 | Happy Galentines! Decorated for MYSELF and my HVW housemates, then had lovely afternoon tea! Giving ourselves the treatment we deserve 🌹💃🏼🍒Maybe we should all change Valentine's day into love ourselves day? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:03 AM |
| 2 | My ex reached out to me and I didn't replyThat's really good to know. Thank you for sharing this. I'm sure there's someone who will read your post, and be saved because you shared this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:51 AM |
| 16 | Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)How many of you think that if Cardi B were single and showed interest in this guy that he'd be all over it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:22 AM |
| 2 | For real though.Every-time, a guy says that to me I literally just respond with 'Uh, I know..." and give them a look like, DUH. You can just see in their heads them thinking... oh, she doesn't lack self-worth... that didn't go as planned... I guess I'll... leave her alone... One guy actually responded with 'Oh...' and just turned around and walked away. LOL However, I was thrown off by a group of teenage ghetto black girls that one time ,though. They were cat-calling at me telling me like 'look at that PHAT ASS… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Love a good roast.I called my brother out on this and I think he started to plot how he was going to murder me. He's not an incel, but he's pretty damn close. Lives with a woman 40 years older than him and doesn't pay rent, but 'helps to take care of things'. He is the youngest and the only boy. My family is very much so geared towards the 'value' of men, despite the women all being significantly more intelligent and attractive (not that is matters). My mom coddled him so much. He was still sleeping in the same b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Patron saint of women who don’t want to talk to you on public transitThis is so good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:11 AM |
| 1 | She is still beautiful. There is no wallI was just binge watching Meryl Streep the other day. There was an interview with Graham Norton where she says a director called her ugly, in Italian, not knowing she spoke Italian. She has always been gorgeous. IDK why anyone ever thought she wasn't beautiful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:10 AM |
| 2 | .This truth bomb just blew-up my world. This is how I was living my life Pre-Covid after dumping my ex and it was brilliant. What a perfect way to summarize how to live your life, because this is how men live their's! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Comeback queenA girth girl... this is brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 11:57 PM |
| 8 | My ex reached out to me and I didn't replyRight, I meant that it can be considered revenge porn in some states, I think? It doesn't have to be posted anywhere, it just needs to be shared without consent in some form? Please note, I'm not trying to hassle you on this, more so just give others potentially useful points of information/facts if it happens to them. I'm glad he backed off. Good for you for getting attorneys involved! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 11:56 PM |
| 2 | Women are 6x more likely to end up divorced if they are diagnosed with cancer or MS, than if their male partners were facing the same illness. Credit: IG @wokeblackprincessThis is the reason I loved my adopted dad. He and my adopted mom did not get along that well. But, when she found out she had stage 4 cancer, he not only promised to take care of me, the girl that wasn't his own daughter - that my adopted mom wanted when I was 9. He'd rush to the hospital anytime the hospital told him he needed to be there, he took care of her at home, spoon fed her, helped her change, everything. She was really independent, so she tried to do a lot herself, but he always gave h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.I actually had an ex who told me to mistreat him in the guise of 'you need to be able to take the heat', when we got into a debate over a topic he had no knowledge, but was directly related to the job I had at the time, had articles on, and actually had to do research for in the past. The minute I let loose being 'mean', aka honest, is the moment he turned around and started to say I was trying to start shit. The funnier part is that he was a US Marine. So much for being tough! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 11:32 PM |
| 26 | Reminder: they literally see us as objects to possess and discard (and you should keep your personal business to yourself)And I prefer men that don't have such a delicate, fragile, made of sugar and will melt in a gentle spring mist, ego that they can handle a woman 'with a past' aka life experience. This guy is such a loser. This is the epitome of give me a clueless woman so I can manipulate her to be whatever makes me feel comfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 12 | Man with Cannibalism Fetish is also a Sex Offender. I mean WHAT were the ODDS?!😱How is cannibalism of children not violent in nature? Also, why were some notified and other's weren't. This news report didn't explain that. Was there an app, an news letter, a list of some sort that the parents were a part of that allowed them to get that information? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 10 | My ex reached out to me and I didn't replyI believe that blackmail falls under the 'revenge porn' category and is illegal. No? Depending on where you live? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 11:13 PM |
| 124 | Biggest lie society tries to sell is that women can't live without men while the opposite is true."Think about it, single women do not create groups like incels. They just mind their own damn business." --- preach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Men the Right to 'Veto' Abortions...That part is so messed up... 'no DNA evidence required'. This couldn't be emphasizing anymore that they're intentionally trying to take over our bodies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 62 | If men have anything it’s the audacityI dated down because the guys seemed more interesting. What you say is true - or they just get abusive to try to make you believe you're the one that's not good enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:02 AM |
| 30 | Y'all should try typing "Feminist" or "Feminism" in the general search bar and find out if your algorithm "favors" youI just did this, it's fucked. There's a whole subreddit dedicated to fantasies of raping and torturing Feminists... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:43 AM |
| 43 | 50/50 Relationships are NOT equal. It’s a SCAM, ladies.The part that gets me is the 'I NEVER ASK'... WHAT!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:40 AM |
| 18 | I once tried the sex tricks that was published in Cosmo.ugh, the yeast infection part got me... *barf* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:33 AM |
| 4 | Probably posted before, but it's trueIs this supposed to be a roast for what guys think of women? I feel like this is what guys say all the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 30 | Why do men waste our damn time?yUUUUUP! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:01 AM |
| 5 | This is very sweet.That makes sense. Thank you for explaining this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:00 AM |
| 75 | 50/50 Relationships are NOT equal. It’s a SCAM, ladies.Is he bragging that he has a house slave? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:58 AM |
| 4 | Have any of you listened to the "Something Was Wrong" podcast about psychological abuse?I haven't, but thank you for the recommendation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:46 AM |
| 5 | Help me unpack this post. It rubs me the wrong way but I don't know how to articulate it. Some dude I know posted it, no idea about HVM or LVM in his case.So, as someone who's worked in hospitality on and off for 20 years... I can tell you right now, this quote is bullshit. My old manager was the GM for a strip club before he left because it was just too much for him emotionally. He told me two stories after I coaxed it out of him... Denzel had his people call and specifically asked that my GM provide him with a Alack/Asian woman, tall, lean, like Naomi Campbell, basically. He asked that she have an accent, a bit of an attitude, and pretend to be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:44 AM |
| 72 | Why do men waste our damn time?And any guy that gives dating advice will tell you that you're right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:29 AM |
| 23 | You’re only one pandemic away from being put back in your place (or why feminism will NEVER be over)Things are reversing. I've been saying this for a while, but no one listens... everyone says 'oh it'll get better'. No, it won't. We have to fight. The reason it's reversing is because we started to get comfortable. It's not over. It's like that sign a woman was holding at the Pussy Parade 'I can't believe I'm still fighting for this shit'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:27 AM |
| 1 | DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here.Report him if it's a dating app. I have with things like this and it does work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:25 AM |
| 15 | A man who is not respecting his own health is not ready to be in a relationshipThis happened to me too! I've also had the opposite happen where I've been shamed for being fit. I've dated 'average' i.e. chubby guys because we got along and they were interesting. Then a few weeks in they start bitching when they notice other men checking me out, or I set my limits on when we hang out so I can get my gym time. One guy told me there was something wrong with me because I liked to workout, and started to be abusive about the clothes I wore. I defended myself, and dumped him. But… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:23 AM |
| 22 | A Queen Grandmama.This grandma is fierce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 8 | This is very sweet.This is sad.... but at the same time, maybe it's a way to create a new industry in the UK? A new business idea for a lady here on Reddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:06 AM |
| 13 | This is very sweet.Even better than real ones, they'll last forever. Maybe write something on 'petals' or something cute like that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Men the Right to 'Veto' Abortions...It doesn't say stone, but that's an interesting take on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:59 PM |
| 3 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Men the Right to 'Veto' Abortions...This is so true. The story actually is that they even set her up, like a police sting, to prove she was 'a sinner'. The guy tricked her into sex! Ironic how that part is left out when being taught. My college, the priest (i.e. man) told us that. And then specified, the reason Jesus wrote in the sand is because he was trying to distract the men from looking at the woman that they were forcing to stand there naked for 'sinning'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:58 PM |
| 6 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Men the Right to 'Veto' Abortions...Only if the baby was fully formed. If not, there was only a financial penalty. Even then, it's been debated even in the bible what they meant by 'fully formed'. But, your point is even better than all of them, and what I have said to others. It's the whole premise, of Jesus' in John 8:7, viz. “He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.” Then all of the men walked away. So all them bros can go screw. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Gonna pull up to the Drive Thru and get a Frosty just to cool down from this BURN 🤣Daaaaaang... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:20 PM |
| 10 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Men the Right to 'Veto' Abortions...The bible also doesn't say anything about abortion, at all... soo. Can't even argue that. How would I know? I went to a Catholic University, was taught by nuns, and nowhere in the bible, which we had to study, did it mention anything about abortion, at all, ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 4 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?That's exactly how I interpreted it. After her explained. It makes sense if he meant a bad habit, but he didn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 24 | This is horrible. If dating is hard in my mid-20s what is it going to be like when I’m 30?No joke, my cousin told me, a woman, who is 5 years younger than him, that he would only date younger woman because they're 'too stuck in their ways'. To which I was initially like, OK, are you talking bratty? NO, literally that they wouldn't 'change their minds' to meet his ideas i.e. he couldn't manipulate them..... We don't talk anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:58 AM |
| 3 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼By 'dated' does he mean escorts? And by 'working on himself' does he mean he wished he didn't spend all that money on SW? No way any woman went with that guy absolutely willingly or without some level of disgust. Also, why the fuck is this guy blaming his lack of wealth on women!?!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:45 AM |
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