| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 44 | How are you leveling up?I took two massage courses in an attempt to learn new skills and started going to the gym. I’ve lost 5kg since the end of last year. Of course there are men who mentioned they don’t see any difference but I brush them off and not take whatever they say to heart. I’m planning to take up a new skill this year as well to continuously improve myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/22 01:22 PM |
| 3 | Let’s hear your clever responses to “How are you still single?!”“Why can’t I be single?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 07:20 AM |
| 125 | Men knows they’re saying hurtful things to youHe has a beer belly which he insists it’s because of bloating 😪 I let out a laugh and tuned him out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Bikini waxing?Same here it gets really uncomfortable in the humid climate. I go for sugaring because it’s easier and takes lesser time to groom. I can forget about it for another 6 weeks before the next appointment instead of trimming every other week. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 07:21 AM |
| 47 | If You Have to Confirm Plans, Cancel Them Instead.Yes this is what I do too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 06:30 AM |
| 14 | Cancelled a date today 😌 My first unmatch block delete!!What a loser! Congrats for not wasting anymore time with this LVM!! I’d have unmatched him the moment he said “grandma mode”. Hobbies like this take time and commitment to really hone the skills needed. I bet he doesn’t have any interesting hobbies that requires such skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/21 03:24 AM |
| 14 | How do I set boundaries in the situation?Have you read the handbook? They have some tips for first dates and boundary settings. You might want to take a look at it first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 01:01 PM |
| 6 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩Yes, exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 02:15 PM |
| 133 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩It’s warm and humid where I’m living so it’ll be more like sweating in my nice outfit instead of enjoying the cool air conditioning of the restaurant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 02:05 PM |
| 561 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩He literally used this 🥴 face! As if to say “whoopsie!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:34 PM |
| 602 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩I’m really glad for FDS for exposing this trick of theirs. If it weren’t for this sub, I’d be holding onto that paper cup like a clown on Thursday 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:30 PM |
| 134 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩Because I live in the eastmost side of the country and the good places to eat are usually in the central or northern part. And I didn’t want him to fetch me as I didn’t want to reveal where I lived before meeting him. Good thing his mask slipped so I didn’t waste my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:29 PM |
| 47 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩It’s motorcycle actually. I don’t live in the US and owning a car is really expensive here. So it’s either public transport, taxis, or motorcycles which are the more affordable mode of transport. However I don’t trust being a pillion to someone who I barely know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:22 PM |
| 61 | Surprised by his decent behaviour, and then… the mask slipped 🚩By bike I meant motorcycle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/21 12:19 PM |
| 53 | "WIFE 💍"Yes I’ve noticed this. And once they included that title on their bio, suddenly their whole profile revolves around their relationship. Not just married women, even those who are just bf/gf have this on their bio. And some women I noticed, actually started changing their hobbies to match with their SO, eg. Started going to the gym with the SO for “gym dates, car wash dates, etc”. Sis, what happened to your previous dinner dates?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 08:43 AM |
| 45 | "No one likes a know-it-all" and other stupid things LV's say. Comment your own!“I respect you.” Proceeds to disrespect me and continuously push my boundaries. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 11:25 PM |
| 3 | Finally met my HVM 🥰I got angry and then I saw the flair. Good one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 07:58 AM |
| 25 | I feel like I saw my Past Pickme self standing in front of me in line today... Thank God for FDSBut how??? Is his butthole bigger than the whole toilet that he can literally cover the inside and outside of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 07:52 AM |
| 16 | Have you noticed how much better the quality of your sleep is after cutting all contact with a LVM or simply sleeping by yourself?This! I no longer stay up wondering what I did wrong or how to get him to stop his silent treatment. I’ve stopped crying myself to sleep and turning up to work with puffy eyes. I’m more well rested after cutting contact with him and when I occasionally dream about him, I even reject him subconsciously! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 01:53 AM |
| 30 | It's the edit for me ~~~Yikes, what a gold digger (him). What’s worse is the pick mes in the comments talking about their $300 engagement rings from Etsy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:12 AM |
| 125 | Let's see how many of these we can come up with.. I'll go first. "He says he wants a woman to have long hair because it's feminine, meanwhile he's balding." 😂🙈He wants someone to take care of the household chores, but he won’t marry her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:57 PM |
| 10 | There is no limit to male depravityIt’s really upsetting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:47 PM |
| 12 | There is no limit to male depravityThat’s horrible! I’m hope it didn’t turn out badly. They just want to intimidate us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:40 PM |
| 17 | There is no limit to male depravityAnd yet, some people still choose to blame the victim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 10:27 AM |
| 28 | There is no limit to male depravityHello fellow countryman! I didn’t realise the numbers went up to a thousand. The screenshot that was circulating around was at 245. How sickening! Regarding the telegram group, that’s not even the first one to be exposed. I’ve noticed such chat groups has been popping up periodically in recent years. It’s like nothing can stop men from being depraved. You report one group and another similar group pops up a while later 😕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:02 AM |
| 7 | If you weren’t convinced of how far men will go just watch this. This is why it’s advised to follow most if not all of the FDS rulesThat hairline is even taller than me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 02:35 AM |
| 80 | A treatise in favor of casual snoopingI agree! If your intuition is telling you something is amiss, you’re right 99 percent of the time. And IMO men aren’t very smart at hiding things so doing a quick search will uncover his hidden girlfriend or wife whom he’s still together with but had told you they broke up because she was crazy etc etc. They’ll be quick to deny and gaslight you about it, but don’t be fooled! Wished I had cut him off earlier the moment I saw hearts on his “ex”’s contact name 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 05:28 AM |
| 10 | Dumped my LVM thanks to this sub! 🍾🎉Congrats queen! 🥳🥳🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 10:38 PM |
| 8 | Patterns Of Thinking And Behavior Often Displayed By AbusersThanks for putting together this list. Wish I had seen this 3 years ago when my NVX displayed most of these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:23 AM |
| 19 | I saw this on Popular lmao wtf?The title itself was cringe... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:59 AM |
| 19 | Today, I broke up with my boyfriend.Unfair and unreasonable? UNFAIR AND UNREASONABLE? Sis if you were to use those words on him he would’ve gaslighted you to the moon and back! You have nothing to feel guilty about! Block and delete him and whenever you feel like getting back together, remember how he had treated you all these while. I’m so happy for you for being able to leave him. Take this time to heal and focus on yourself. You deserve the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 03:40 AM |
| 6 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”This NVM is simply an animal hater. I hope he got roasted in the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 09:55 AM |
| 106 | Pickme Narcissistic Women Who Look Down At Single Women Are the WorstI hear it everyday at work. My colleague will always be asking me “what are you doing with your life?” whenever the topic of marriage and children gets brought up (she’s constantly switching between saying marriage is a trap and children are a blessing). We’re of the same age. I will always say “I’m enjoying life.” and would ignore her judgemental comments whenever I tell her I’m going out for workouts, dinners with friends, and facial appointments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:47 AM |
| 4 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.The comments were satisfying to read. He couldn’t trap her and was upset she was living her life while he was stuck with a child he forced her to have boohoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 11:57 AM |
| 2 | ✨✨The FDS Apple podcast channel is up! Go give it a follow!✨✨Subscribed on Spotify!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:15 AM |
| 27 | Men aren't stupid, men think WE are stupidOh wow same. He would say that he didn’t have space in his phone so he deleted our texts and photos. A few weeks later he would forget about the lie and mention that he actually has a lot of space left in his phone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 02:35 AM |
| 14 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Paint him..? Is he planning on paying you commission? I’m pretty sure that will cost him more than dinner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:06 AM |
| 14 | Can someone break down this guy's motivation for posting this?Oh no! Anyway... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:32 AM |
| 56 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.I’ve yet to find a guy who’s hobbies go beyond gaming, gym or Netflix. Watching Netflix is not a hobby, it’s the modern equivalent of being a couch potato. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:16 AM |
| 6 | I took it all.Good! Take them all! I bet he only bought like 10% of the things in the apartment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 09:14 AM |
| 45 | Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids.Her husband did also say that if she were at home more this could’ve been avoided but his salary could barely cover one person’s expenses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:10 AM |
| 189 | Wife threw cheating husband and friend out of her house and proceeds to divorce him intending to get full custody of kids. Commenter decides to blame HER for not being home to look after the kids.I’m don’t think it’s just the males on Reddit. Ever since I found FDS, I realised that even men in my irl social circle have such similar thinking and it’s off-putting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 07:08 AM |
| 8 | Red Flags ExplainedMy ex did every single thing in here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:57 PM |
| 41 | Chanced upon this tweet this morning. There is no such thing as 50/50 in a relationship. Working women are still expected to care for the children and the house while working full-time.He does the bare minimum and she’s grateful for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:54 AM |
| 59 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?Men will never apologise for their wrongdoings. Instead, they’d gaslight you into thinking you’re the one that made them do such things and you’re the one who’ll end up apologising to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:50 AM |
| 25 | hOw dO i NoT eMbArRaSs mY HuSbAnD aBoUt hiS bUtT CrUmBsI threw up a little in my mouth 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:43 AM |
| 22 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.This is awesome! Such a queen 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 7 | Valentine’s Day Should Include Self Love 💗 How Do You Plan To Show Yourself Some Love This Valentines Day?I’m thinking of booking a massage and maybe visit the museum I’ve been wanting to go to for a while now. Basically spend some me time as I’ve been really busy with work lately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:44 AM |
| 16 | Social Media and including your partner in your display picture: Pickmes usually have this habit... are your thoughts on this?I notice this too: the women will put the man in their profile pictures on all their social media accounts, and when you look at the men’s profile, their picture would be of themselves or some random item. Never with the women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:21 AM |
| 9 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤This is an instant dumping reason for me. Like, how DARE he? It’s her money and she’s literally paying for everything else. What is he even good for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 12:08 AM |
| 29 | Ignored and blocked, my dating life is starting to look like a sitcom lolTake a walk at the field? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:53 PM |
| 22 | That's called ~ *growth* ~It’s liberating! I feel like I’m no longer carrying a burden and I can finally be myself again 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 06:01 AM |
| 10 | What is an early sign of LVM behavior that makes you drop someone REAL quick?When he said it’s stupid for people to further their education, unless you’re a doctor or a lawyer in the making, immediately after I told him I was planning to take my Masters in a few years’ time. Never talking about anything beyond the superficial level, insisting that he would share more about himself when we meet but never made the effort to ask me out on a date. Calls me “baby” non stop and whines when I rejected his last minute date invite (2 hours before). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 02:01 AM |
| 55 | "I don't have to do chores, I work" (a rant about cleaning)My dad likes to use the same excuse too. He will say he’s tired from work to complain about having to do chores (he only had to iron clothes, and it’s mostly his own). I would always yell back and tell him that everyone at home is working and his job is pretty much the easiest so there’s no excuse for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:08 AM |
| 19 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.Ewwww 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:24 AM |
| 33 | Y’all... 😂 💁🏻♀️ Merry Christmas Eve!Sometimes I look back at my ex and wonder what did I ever see in him 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 06:22 AM |
| 3 | I just realizedI work with youths and during our monthly activity sessions there’s bound to be a youth asking how old am I. I even get mistaken for a youth instead of a facilitator once. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:33 PM |
| 1 | LVM on television?I almost forgot about this show! I only watched snippets of Ed and Rose and Ed is just 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 03:20 AM |
| 7 | LVM on television?Oh wow so true about the objectification. The guys in the show looked way older and so unkempt. One guy was only 34 but he looked at least 15 years older. Calling women sweethearts and b*tches. I saw a woman in the show who was 50 and looked way younger than most of the guys in their thirties. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:58 PM |
| 15 | LVM on television?Really? I didn’t expect that. I haven’t watched this show in years so I was pretty surprised by how they looked and how they acted. If it’s like this on TV, it just be worse in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 02:13 PM |
| 11 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5A laminated piece of paper... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 08:22 PM |
| 17 | TeeheeI don’t understand why women need to buy a ps5 or any game consoles for their boyfriends. I’d rather buy it for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 11:47 PM |
| 6 | I ignored all the red flags and let a POS dull my intuition to cheat, use and abuse me for 2 years. Never again.I did ❤️. It made me realise that there was nothing wrong with me in the first place. I only started dating after I “lowered my standards” as people around me said I have too high expectations of relationships. The moment I did that, that LVM swept in and destroyed me. I cried more during that one year than I’ve ever had in my entire life. I’m glad that’s over and I’m never going to lower my standards ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 04:16 AM |
| 5 | I ignored all the red flags and let a POS dull my intuition to cheat, use and abuse me for 2 years. Never again.I really wished I didn’t ignore those big red flags right from the beginning. Should’ve left the second he started gaslighting me. Could have saved me a lot of heartache. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:45 AM |
| 3 | BINGO!!I had this experience too! And he had the cheek to complain about being catfished by other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 02:32 AM |
| 156 | On the ground outside...yOu ShOuLd Be ThAnKfUl AnD nOt CoMpLaIn On SoCiAl MeDiA I can complain however I want, Dave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:48 AM |
| 4 | LVM do not like seeing us happy.Thank you. I tried telling her that but my mum won’t kick him out because she feels sorry for him and that he won’t have anywhere to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | Love shouldn’t be hardTHIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 02:02 AM |
| 44 | Thank you, next.“I’m not looking for a girlfriend but let’s do relationship things and I will emotionally manipulate you to thinking it’s your fault whenever another guy shows even an ounce of interest towards you.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else here that don't even want to date (anymore)?Oh SAME. I started off the year talking to a few guys at once on OLD but none of them could hold a decent conversation for long. I realised I’m better off by myself than having to sieve through the choices on OLD who are usually there because they’re “bored” or that their “mum is asking them to settle down”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 03:36 AM |
| 2 | THIS 👇🏼👇🏼👇🏼Same! Would have saved me all the heartaches. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:33 AM |
| 3 | Scrote 30+ year old targeting young 20 year old girlsThere are even guys who unmatched and then requested for a rematch months later. No thanks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 04:41 AM |
| 18 | Share the most cringy date you’ve been on?It was the worst. Last year, I agreed to dinner with this guy from a dating app. He looked cute in photos. The first thing I realised after meeting him was that his photos were at least from five years ago and 15kg lighter. I didn’t want to be rude so I went along with it. Then he asked if I was hungry. I told him I wasn’t that hungry because I was recovering from a stomachache the day before but I could still eat something light. He decided he was not hungry and brought me to the entrance of a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 09:44 AM |
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