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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 51 | women shouldn't make men wait for sex proved with "data and psychology"I once had a dude try to persuade me to have sex on the third date and when I said I don't want to be intimate with someone I barely know he responded he "needs to have sex to build intimacy" I have never rolled my eyes so hard in my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/22 04:07 PM |
| 33 | Have any of you had an actual relationship from tinder?Funnily enough, my 3 best friends have met their boyfriends on tinder, only two of them exhibit signs of being hvm but you never know. The longest relationship of these three has been for six years with the one who unsurprisingly is the lvm one (he doesn't want to get married) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 11:07 PM |
| 20 | Scrote’s own 16 yo daughter knows her dad is a creep. Call out the scrote no matter who it isWhat a powerful young woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 01:05 PM |
| 4 | Another red flag from Chris Pratt’s captionOh god no this is even worse than the previous one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 10:39 AM |
| 114 | All the red flags rolled into 1 little red pill incel ('I'm dominant, blow your back out, women cheat on nice guys') the women in the comments having a field day bc he's using a shower curtain as a bedroom curtain + no curtain rod. All jokes aside the fact that this has 50k+ likes is frightening....At least he's self aware about being toxic haaa 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 12:23 PM |
| 11 | WHAT IN THE PICKMEISHA DID I JUST READ? 🥴Thats a lot of words for "I don't know how to use make up" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/21 09:21 AM |
| 4 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menYes I am! Fully agree on all your points Just found the situation a bit disheartening so I think I might take a step back and evaluate why I feel the way I feel first ☺️ | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 11:27 AM |
| 4 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menI think I will do exactly that next time, he's not worth thinking he actually impacted my day in some kind of way 😅 my condolences for your ex saying that, they really do all say the same shit. And no I will not be fucking him literally or any type of way lol. Thank you sis ♥️ | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 11:26 AM |
| 6 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menYou hit the nail on the head. Thank you! | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 11:24 AM |
| 4 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menWhy not though? | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 11:23 AM |
| 6 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menI didn't even think of that it's such a double standard wtf😅😅 probably wants all the benefit of a relationship without the actual label | /r/askFDS | 03/06/21 11:22 AM |
| 8 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menTrue i meant that he ended it you know | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menWorddd thank you! | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 07:13 PM |
| 7 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menWill do! | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 03:31 PM |
| 32 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menDid exactly that today, that's why I wrote the post bc I had just walked out of there. Thank you! | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 16 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menThank you!!!! | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 9 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menThank you so much for your response! I appreciate all the open minded different perspectives. I am actually from Europe and have only recently started dating multiples and i have to say it really creates an abundance mindset and I am not willing to give that up yet until I find someone I actually like or decide to invest that time into myself and my self improvement. Thank you for getting me out of my head everything looks brighter now | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 03:30 PM |
| 22 | Guy stopped talking to me in the talking stage after I told him I'm seeing multiple menWow thank you hearing it like this put it into perspective so much! I had the exact same feeling about the whole thing but had started to doubt my feelings about going not wanting to go exclusive and wondering if I was wrong due to his reaction. But fuck that I know my feelings were right the first time around. Intuition is key I am sticking to what I want and I am Standing up for myself. Thank you sis really | /r/askFDS | 02/06/21 03:27 PM |
| 40 | Just found out my manipulative, abusive ex still follows me on Spotify and apparently there is no way to block him or make him unfollow me.You can make all your playlist private! Also you can turn off the feature where people can view your recently played artists or the song you're currently listening to. It's the closest thing I did to block him on there | /r/askFDS | 17/04/21 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Am I being ghosted?This is called stone walling | /r/askFDS | 08/04/21 05:58 AM |
| 15 | How to Maintain Boundaries During Relationships with Men (EW YUCK)That's some queen shit. Very inspiring!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 4 | How does FDS stand on kissing on the first date?Where I live there are not many cases currently. Okay thank you so much! | /r/askFDS | 09/03/21 02:57 PM |
| 3 | How does FDS stand on kissing on the first date?About sex I know, I just wanted to make sure I don't give too much of mtdekf right away :) thank you! | /r/askFDS | 09/03/21 01:56 PM |
| 9 | Question “How do you split house chores with your boyfriend?” and her answer starts with “I do the bigger chunk on chores, after all I am the woman and the housewife at home” ... miss me with that bsFellow FDS Bulgarians unite ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:26 PM |
| 9 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Paint me like one of your French scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:58 PM |
| 10 | How did he move on so quickly? How can I do the same?You are not alone. I was in the same boat for months in end, but trust me as time goes on you will think of certain moments and you'll be like.... Wait... Did I really allow him to talk to me that way? Did I really allow him to gaslight me and make me feel so low about myself constantly? And as you remember all this stuff objectively without the rose colored glasses you will realize you would never want such a piece of shit in your life. I was also blocking, unblocking, checking every single gir… | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 08:14 AM |
| 2 | I want to date multiple men but they are all trashThat's true. I just broke it off with him so ✌️ time to focus on myself. Thank you for being so honest! | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 06:19 PM |
| 2 | I want to date multiple men but they are all trashThank you ❤️I gave actually been working on that and I'm finding a lot of like minded girls where I live and it's helping. We're all done with men's shit lol | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | I want to date multiple men but they are all trashTrue I will try that you're right, it just sucks bc at this point I did become attached so now it's hard to let go | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 1 | I want to date multiple men but they are all trashIt a weird situation since he just graduated university and he doesn't know what he wants to do supposedly, so he doesn't want to commit and hurt me in the end is what he said which books down to me being just convenient at the moment 🙃so yeah you're right | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 07:23 AM |
| 33 | Never again, thank FDSYou best believe I send this to every single one of my friends. It gets funnier every time I look at it omg. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:43 AM |
| 10 | ...or will he?My eyes are bleeding | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:24 AM |
| 8 | How do we slow down our own sexual impulses?How is that possible during lock down though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:37 PM |
| 13 | Excessive liking of model photos on Instagram?Lolllll why does that feel even worse, the irony | /r/askFDS | 16/01/21 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Excessive liking of model photos on Instagram?That's honestly a very good analogy thank you so much. Should I see what happens further on, or just block / delete? It seems harsh fml | /r/askFDS | 16/01/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | Excessive liking of model photos on Instagram?Because he specifically has told me he doesn't like it without me ever mentioning it before | /r/askFDS | 16/01/21 02:06 PM |
| 17 | Should I keep the convo as a reminder?You can archive it! That way it's not at the top of your list but you can still access it when you need a reminder. I'm so sorry you're going through this stay strong love ❤️ | /r/askFDS | 10/01/21 09:25 PM |
| 17 | Depressed ex won't stop calling. How to stop feeling scared and guilty?Sis, you are absolutely doing the right thing, just seeing his number in your call log gives you anxiety! This guy used to make you feel so crappy and now he's not even on your life anymore and is ruining your day. Don't let him have this power over you, he does not deserve your concern or empathy please focus on yourself! You basically answered your question yourself because you said you would really like to keep him blocked! Changing your number might be a good option honestly :) sending love,… | /r/askFDS | 05/01/21 12:28 AM |
| 11 | If you ever think about going back, draw him and write what you hate about him.Excuse me your ex has a very striking resemblance to mine and its FREAKING ME THE FUCK OUT 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Let's start off the new year well queensThank you queen!! I will definitely check those out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Let's start off the new year well queensI know right 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Let's start off the new year well queensI am so excited as well! Thank you! Also happy new year :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:13 PM |
| 5 | I'm upset I didn't leave sooner and let the abuse go onYou're right, no need to stay in the past, I will let myself feel angry if I need but there is no use dwelling and over thinking when I really have no control over his actions. Just over mine so I will choose to deal with it the right way and grow from it. | /r/askFDS | 30/12/20 07:56 PM |
| 7 | I'm upset I didn't leave sooner and let the abuse go onAlso the second paragraph reslky resonated with me, sorry forgot to add that. You're so right. I am capable of love, growth and being strong. Sending love! | /r/askFDS | 30/12/20 07:54 PM |
| 9 | I'm upset I didn't leave sooner and let the abuse go onThe exact thing to be honest you're completely right. They all act in the same pattern (but then again so do we). It's like we handed over all control and they could discard us over and over again as they please, but I am trying to remind myself that I needed this experience in order to learn and if it wasn't him some other LVM would have gotten the job done because they prey on every whiff of insecurity. You're a big inspiration for giving all of that love to yourself and completely shifting th… | /r/askFDS | 30/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 10 | Reminder before coming to earth, your soul picked your beautiful body. You have a soul mate, it's you. Show her the love she deservesAbsolutely beautiful and so true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Comment here to become an approved userRequest to comment | /r/askFDS | 30/12/20 11:12 AM |
| 22 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?A Marshall Bluetooth speaker. In return I got an h&m hoodie and a fitness tracker (after I had already bought myself one so now I have two). That's for Christmas and my birthday combined since they are close together. Facepalm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Starting them earlyI can no longer watch any romantic comedies for that exact reason. I cringe too much. Have you tried watching sex and the city recently? Just don't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 11:20 PM |
| 3 | LOUDER for the people in the backWish I saw this six months ago | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 09:18 PM |
| 11 | No thanks, been there done that. Time to level upAlso the way she's literally licking him? Like yes babe, it's so sexy when you emotionally abuse me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:23 PM |
| 7 | Lol @ these men pretending to be women 😂 they really think we can’t tell 😭"vagina lily" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:20 AM |
| 14 | Ah yes, we're responsible for your insecurities and perversion and definitely not youI like how he talks about them saying they are "a beauty he can never OBTAIN" as if we're something they can possess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 03:29 PM |
| 3 | The Abusive Man in ArgumentsIt's like im reading my future with my current boyfriend. It's making me want to gag. Im going to leave soon im getting there. I never found a truer way to describe the things that are going on besyeen us because you really just can't put into words what's going on. Thank you for this. I'm going to read this every day so I know my feelings are valid and I was right all along | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:19 PM |
| 50 | Where's The Lie Though?Men don't wanna see you put on make up and take care of yourself bc then "YoUrE TrYinG ToO HaRd for other men" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 12:01 PM |
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