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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Why won't guys use the word "date"?I can’t go to Fds anymore :l should I just wait then? | /r/askFDS | 11/10/21 10:49 AM |
| 2 | Additional share about my guy friend, the abuser...my heart arches when reading through the abused girl’s storyreally appreciate your sweet advice girl! But since girls help girls..I think If I can support other women, I’m willing to consume my energy even though I know that preserving my peace is really important! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 12 | If your friend (or bf) sexually harassed somebody, would you still be friends with them?This....I’m getting VERY confused because of my other mutual friends who seem to be still keeping friends with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 03:27 PM |
| 10 | If your friend (or bf) sexually harassed somebody, would you still be friends with them?True, I was trying to come up with the best idea to support this girl and convince my friend’s gf that he’s wrong as I wrote in the post...I thought this post might be able to start a good discussion if there is anyone who faced the similar issue before and successfully handled the situation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Additional share about my guy friend, the abuser...my heart arches when reading through the abused girl’s storyPost (There seems to be no private info on this account, so I hope it’s ok to share it here) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:55 PM |
| 46 | If your friend (or bf) sexually harassed somebody, would you still be friends with them?I will do, thank you! I deleted him from my contact list..and I’m carefully watching who cut him off and who didn’t after seeing that post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 02:22 PM |
| 21 | If your friend (or bf) sexually harassed somebody, would you still be friends with them?The reason why I didn’t just post this to askfds and delete it after getting an answer as usual was because I think it’ll be a good discussion about having standards when it come to choosing friends and people around us..! The post is on @ehcatz if you’re interested (There’s no personal info on this account, so I hope it’s ok to share here) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | I’m game! (He only had his picture, fake name and age! Nothing else there)He looks like a mold lmao he paid $30 to just message me and without a profile..! What a confidence eh..simply blocked him lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:44 PM |
| 3 | I’m game! (He only had his picture, fake name and age! Nothing else there)This app has mandatory fields where you have to fill it out with your education, job, salary, hobby, and etc etc. But weirdly this guy left ALL empty whereas I had an essay about myself. Ugh, isn’t it a common sense that he has to provide with his information as well if he ever respects the other part? Btw, he is the one who even PAYED and unlocked the conversation. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 04:43 PM |
| 1 | South Korean women and their crusade against patriarchyKorean mens are soooooo smoooool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 12:21 AM |
| 65 | Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!!Send it to her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 10 | Should I confront my fwb?Just leave him with no words | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 06:01 PM |
| 2 | A guy said “to go bed with me” to my prude friend who doesn’t speak English well and she’s now confusedI really really appreciate it!!! I will not use that word to my friend | /r/askFDS | 16/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 1 | A guy said “to go bed with me” to my prude friend who doesn’t speak English well and she’s now confusedI appreciate it!!! Thank you | /r/askFDS | 16/05/21 11:47 PM |
| 14 | Vow to yourself “never again”I like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 07:58 PM |
| 75 | Guys who leave you at a party or a family gatheringHa a guy invited me to his best friend’s wedding and left me during the whole afternoon..I had to leave, not because I don’t understand or something but because literally, I had nothing to do at such a small wedding and too embarrassed uh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:45 PM |
| 141 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?REPORT HIM! Find his linked in plwase please girl DM me too I’ll report him everywhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 08:22 AM |
| 6 | How to bring more women to FDS or Reddit in general? I am so sick of seeing the lopsided misogyny on this site.Let’s invite them! | /r/askFDS | 02/04/21 10:24 PM |
| 20 | So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me?Maybe he got the surgery to make his D firmer lol It must be painful then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 3 | I finally broke up with my abuser — thank you allI’m so proud of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:53 PM |
| 97 | I'm getting so frustrated with the number of drinks/coffee/walk dates I'm being offered and would love to discuss this phenomenaThey just never get a response. Period. They will only be able to get a cheap date with a pick me that will accept literally anyone without boundaries.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:20 PM |
| 3 | My mom is a high-standard QUEEN 👑Respect! ♥️♥️♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 06:09 PM |
| 21 | George Clooney is a reminder there's no such thing as an HVMThey (LVM) tend to have a miserable end..like no actual love or respect around him. From his wife, children, neighbor, fans, or friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 64 | PSA: Healthy Friendships With Men Are Rare & Almost Impossible 🗣I can confirm this! I was too innocent that I thought ‘no, my friendship is special! I’m not like other women” LMAO I’m in my late 20s and I don’t think I can ever trust men or fall in love with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:19 PM |
| 2 | LVM trying to find the right key for the lock.Report him!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 03:02 PM |
| 19 | gIvE nIcE gUyS a ChAnCe waaaaaaahYou should all report him so he can never use the app again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 02:53 PM |
| 21 | Finance bros are the jesters of the Scrote Serfdom...ALWAYS. manga and anime stuff..lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:44 PM |
| 14 | Would probably sprain my thumb from the force of that block and deleteJust block and fucking delete. Gross. He must be a fucking virgin that doesn’t have a mirror. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:35 PM |
| 82 | Don’t Dress Up for a Man on the First DateI was once having a terribly busy day and this guy asked me out for a ‘hangout’. I told him I’d be too busy so I don’t know if I can make it. He said “it’s ok, we can grab a quick coffee”...I was gonna just decline the ‘coffee hangout’ but when I checked my msg, he said he was already there (30 mins early) waiting for me. Well..I had a stuff to get done. I was late for 30 mins and showed up in my jogger pants and hat with no makeup. I had 0 time and didn’t want to put any energy, money, or effor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:28 PM |
| 33 | Decline alcohol on a first date!I just block and delete if he ever asks “what’s your favourite drink” lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:15 PM |
| 41 | has anyone else developed an avoidant attachment style in romantic contexts with men because of misogyny?Me too sis, me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:27 PM |
| 18 | How early on should I reveal to a man that I haven’t been in a relationship?Never tell them | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 12:30 PM |
| 17 | Hurt by a new guy after my long-term relationshipJust dump. You should have just simply blocked him. Do not explain your standards..no, playful way is much worse! Just delete and block! I’m a bad texter = dump, I’m extremely busy = dump. Always. | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 12:28 PM |
| 21 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.Spain oh my god.....I'd want to join | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:11 PM |
| 5 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.Wow that’s awesome! I’d love to have one irl tankyu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:46 PM |
| 61 | Instead of marriage, and romance. I kind of just want a sisterhood for life.I highly highly recommend this movie, “Green Fried Tomato” to you..This was my favourite movie for some reason since I was young, and now I realize what the reason was!! It’s about 2 women opening a cafe to live their life (after one of them escaped from her abusive husband). They didn’t really have special skills but their neighbors loved and helped them much..their first menu was fried green tomato! :) you’ll love it and I’ve always wanted to have this kind of life if I don’t find a HVM in my … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:04 AM |
| 12 | NVM afraid to be judged like he judges single moms, cry me a river. The *last* interaction I will ever have OLD, 7 months clean and a much, much happier life without it!Paul paul paul, you’re on Tinder because you’re hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:46 AM |
| 188 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!drink? No? If not, what should we do instead? Sex! I’ll buy you a cup of tea/coffee! He is showing you that he thinks you as a $4 prostitute..block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 12:42 AM |
| 81 | I found out my boyfriend paid for pornhub premiumDump him sis and find a guy that doesn’t enjoy seeing women get raped etc with his ‘PREMIUM’ account....wow what a porn addict | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 04:28 PM |
| 24 | Ex LVM downgraded to ZVMHow are you sister, how’s your health and your feeling today? I’ll pray for you! Always remember that you’re not alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 6 | A guy wanting to have a date AFTER the lockdown...but also not text me often, could be a married man? a fuck boy? or am I being too paranoid.That’s true. He’s done nothing for a year while I deleted him! I just deleted and blocked him again and his last text was “I run several businesses so I was really busy.” LMAO 😂 Ok busy boi, bye again! | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | A guy wanting to have a date AFTER the lockdown...but also not text me often, could be a married man? a fuck boy? or am I being too paranoid.I appreciate your answer...I really needed to hear this. You’re 100% right. I’d just delete and block him again then! 🙏 | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 2 | A guy wanting to have a date AFTER the lockdown...but also not text me often, could be a married man? a fuck boy? or am I being too paranoid.**summary** A guy on OLD wants to meet up AFTER the lockdown but wouldn't text me often. I blocked him a year ago but he showed up on the app again, asking If I'm back in the city. (I went back to my home country.) Should I give him the benefit of the doubt? | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 07:07 AM |
| 2 | Languages of Love on BumbleFood is also a swipe left | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:09 PM |
| 18 | confusing ghosting situationExactly, a guy that I’ve known did this to me for a year lol he was very excited in the beginning like he would make a plan every 2-3 days. Later he told me that he was seeing other girls..! He still messages me to string me along but bye boi. | /r/askFDS | 13/02/21 02:18 AM |
| 10 | Not sure if this is allowed here, but more women should know about comphetWow. Yes...I wanted to say this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 11:46 AM |
| 61 | Not sure if this is allowed here, but more women should know about comphet.....this hit me hard but so true....I find myself can’t really fall in love with men anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:44 PM |
| 13 | The whole TikTok account is her SO saying “Bitch, what’s for dinner?” And she gets mad at people in the comments 🙄Somebody pls leave a comment to save her..sigh.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 88 | Hope this one hasn't been posted yet 🤣This is sad if a guy made this for his gf...wait, it’s more sad if this is made by a girl dang.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:49 PM |
| 72 | What to believe? Bio? Or description? Answer: none.When men say “It’s not my dog”, 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 06:36 AM |
| 3 | I’m genuinely curious about this random guy on OLD. Ok, I’m the independent woman. But you sound like you’re planning not to add any value to my life. Then why do I even need to date you? I don’t need you!It’s their way to manipulate us. When guys ask what kind of men I’m attracted to, I say “a man that I can trust and rely on.” And they shut up saying the word “independent” like magic lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 12:15 PM |
| 15 | I’m genuinely curious about this random guy on OLD. Ok, I’m the independent woman. But you sound like you’re planning not to add any value to my life. Then why do I even need to date you? I don’t need you!That’s also true. Can’t imagine how worse this man would be in real life if he couldn’t stop himself from putting that line to his dating app profile..lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:21 PM |
| 37 | I’m genuinely curious about this random guy on OLD. Ok, I’m the independent woman. But you sound like you’re planning not to add any value to my life. Then why do I even need to date you? I don’t need you!He’s using the quote to find a girl that thinks being a free bangmaid is feminism 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 02:04 PM |
| 51 | I’m genuinely curious about this random guy on OLD. Ok, I’m the independent woman. But you sound like you’re planning not to add any value to my life. Then why do I even need to date you? I don’t need you!Yeah I always run if they ever mention the word “independent” lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 01:54 PM |
| 47 | If a man insists you pay, do it and leave. Paying for yourself is worth knowing he's trash and that there's no reason to continue ANYTHING with him.I say “Oh I think I left my stuff at my place” and leave right away saying “I gotta go find my stuff bye” Don’t pay for somebody who wasted your time and energy for a shitty free date | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:50 AM |
| 5 | They can never leave us alone!Reported and blocked! Men follow us to the end of the planet really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 5 | They can never leave us alone!Lol somebody ask him to send HIS selfie and personal info | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 9 | Ladies, is it true love if you settle for the boring man of your dreams who hated you when he first met you, after you beg him to consider dating you for a third time?Sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 8 | Another one from Facebook. 🙄🙄🙄No just cut his dick, pack his money and leave | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 10:08 PM |
| 29 | Have you guys read this? "Unattractive women need FDS"Lol I dont even feel a need to explain myself...if a woman is young, pretty and dumb pickme, thats the worst scenario to be used for sex legit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 06:56 PM |
| 20 | Vetting: advice needed please. He is very devout orthodox Christian. Liturgy for him was at 0700 today. To make it clear, he seldom forgets I just don’t tolerate this behavior.Looks like he is using you for sex and you know it sis...you don’t have to and shouldn’t explain yourself multiple times again and again...if he puts you in the situation where you have to say “I said I feel used for sex”, you are 200% being used | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:02 PM |
| 24 | Ugh I’m sick of dumb OLD profiles of broke menwords have power!!!!!! This!! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 18 | Ugh I’m sick of dumb OLD profiles of broke menLol dang yeah I’m tired of that shit too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:11 PM |
| 55 | Ugh I’m sick of dumb OLD profiles of broke menYeah, please be a GROWN ass man...not a STILL GROWING BOY 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:24 PM |
| 52 | Ugh I’m sick of dumb OLD profiles of broke menLike hey if you’re looking for a girl that enjoys SiMpLe things in life, why do you try super hard to figure out if this girl is rich or not? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:15 PM |
| 46 | Just wanted to give praise & power to the pussyClap clap I’m proud of you sis!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:35 AM |
| 3 | This is why we shouldn’t meet a LVM who puts less effort than how much this guy does to his real doll.He even brought a big party for his marriage to this doll lol....... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:31 AM |
| 115 | This is why we shouldn’t meet a LVM who puts less effort than how much this guy does to his real doll.This guy does literally anything and everything for his real doll 😂! His instagram is full of photos of him changing her wigs, makeup, dresses and accessories everyday and bringing her to a fancy dinner, trip, bubble bath etc...he does provide, clean, cook and everything for the doll and never asks for 50/50 lmao! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 4 | How to rid yourself from pick me friends?Nobody can save her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:55 PM |
| 59 | I don’t understand men who hide important stuffs on their OLD profile(divorced, kids, height etc) and claim that they aren’t insecure about itHe is height fishing her lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:42 PM |
| 3 | Finally figured it outYup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:38 PM |
| 56 | I don’t understand men who hide important stuffs on their OLD profile(divorced, kids, height etc) and claim that they aren’t insecure about itI wear heels often and I don’t want to date a guy that is 20-25cm shorter than me lmao...... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:50 PM |
| 6 | Which one is he doing sis?He is getting blocked. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 12:41 PM |
| 22 | I Need the FDS Opinion on This... Fathers Should Not Be Cuddling with Their Nude Teen Daughters. Right!?You are not crazy at all! I remember when I got perverted messages from a married Indian guy on Facebook group..I made a screenshot and posted it, most of guys except for a few girls there said “Maybe he was just looking for a new friend” lmao a 45 years old married guy with children is messaging univ girls to be friends with? No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:57 AM |
| 33 | I Need the FDS Opinion on This... Fathers Should Not Be Cuddling with Their Nude Teen Daughters. Right!?Those are the people who will be totally ok even if they aCciDenTaLly had sex 😂 cause they have seen it and worshiped it million times from porns! They don’t want to feel guilty of having such a gross dream so they try to protect the father unconsciously! Their favourite line would be “BuT, what if ~~~”, “It’s none of our business”, “If she didn’t like it, she would have ~~”, “NoT aLl Men” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:36 AM |
| 17 | Engagement rings are a scam just get me a ring pop 🤪🤡Lol what a poor engagement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:05 AM |
| 15 | 90 days fiance: When Rose stood up to big ed and showed her courage. She also says to ed to change is behaviours so he doesn't hurt other women. She is really a true queen. I hope she finds a good man who is kind to her.Ewww gonna throw up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:37 AM |
| 79 | This idiot made one of his dating profile pics the “crazy hot scale” 🤮🙄🤮🙄Lol as if he is a thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 02:29 PM |
| 2 | Imagine you man inviting you out to dinner on you ANNIVERSARY only to demand you pay half. And she cooks dinner for him 🤦🏼♀️Ye and they say “I can cook I guess” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:32 AM |
| 5 | "I'm hurt but it's okay."Damn sad life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:39 AM |
| 45 | Shera7: What to do - if he is trying to rush you into bed...Omg I literally love everything of this video loooool the rabbit loooool omg so funny and so cute I will definitely use this tactic when needed thanks!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:54 AM |
| 51 | Imagine you man inviting you out to dinner on you ANNIVERSARY only to demand you pay half. And she cooks dinner for him 🤦🏼♀️I never cook lol Everytime they ask about cooking, I say my ideal type is a man that cooks well since I am suck with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Lol I got a message from a desperate LVM!Lol he will have to sew a brand new dick into his rotten fish body too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:27 AM |
| 30 | That’s what you get for dating someone your kid’s age.There there, did you not know women are visual creatures | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:22 AM |
| 12 | What are some strategies and tactics to put off intimacy for as long as possible?This | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 146 | men knowWe all know and that is why we are here refusing to even go on the cheap first date with you anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:05 AM |
| 63 | Why do I fight for relationships I don’t wantIt is because we as a human being crave a deep connection..! And most of them are not that human :p This is basically why I am seriously considering turning into a lesbian really | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:03 AM |
| 12 | Disgusted they marketed a mens shirt to women so its easier for her to clean it, they even show him gamingThis reminds me of a pickme on Instagram who cooks 24/7 for her game addict hubby 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:40 PM |
| 9 | Lol I got a message from a desperate LVM!What a loser :’( only ppl who get mad and sad here are either LVM or pickmeshia! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 15 | Lol I got a message from a desperate LVM!They can never leave us alone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:25 PM |
| 29 | Lol I got a message from a desperate LVM!Their low IQ and EQ prolly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 16 | Lol I got a message from a desperate LVM!Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:17 PM |
| -4 | This is a fresh look compared to the horrendous bios written by LVM’s.This is like an instruction though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:09 PM |
| 1 | This is a fresh look compared to the horrendous bios written by LVM’s.I really like the queen energy of her but I wish FDS deletes this post since it can educate LVMs :S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 11:41 AM |
| 5 | This is a fresh look compared to the horrendous bios written by LVM’s.PLEASE DONT EDUCATE LVMS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Imagine getting proposed to with a £2 ring from AliExpressCanadian guys are so cheap...for real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:45 AM |
| 19 | Negative reviews of FDS on YouTubeK im on my way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | I can’t see FDS chatroom anymore! What happened?Thats ridiculous..! If we look at how there are a bunch of female hating subreddits and chatrooms.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I can’t see FDS chatroom anymore! What happened?Okie, what happened tho? I didnt know there were scrotes pn the chat :S I feel like I shared too much about my provate story there then | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | I can’t see FDS chatroom anymore! What happened?Oh thanks!!!! I miss chatting with all of you guys | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | My sister-in-law just left her abusive relationship and is feeling a certain way...I highly highly recommend you and her to watch the movie “Green fried tomato” to cheer up sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 03:16 PM |
| 19 | How can I know if a guy is dating me because he wants western citizenship?Idk if it is that worthy nowadays..I mean if he can’t speak the language anyways, it is nothing??? Idk..yeah maybe just say you chose (or going to choose) your Asian citizenship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Men who say “makeup is false advertising”. What is the FDS view on this ?I don’t care what they think..I do what I want! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Guy is calling me honey on tinder, is that a red flag?Get off Tinder please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Red flags in KoreaThey are cheap af and they are hopeless mommy bois lol they think women are their slaves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:47 PM |
| 13 | Need I Say More?Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 02:46 PM |
| 26 | Kick him out sisGeez...what a hobo lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:26 PM |
| 32 | I’m out of words. She is going to be applauded in the black community for doing this. It just goes to show how we raise black girls to be providers, and boys to be receivers. Imagine paying for 6 grown men on your birthday... Well, as long as you’re happy sis. 🤷🏾♀️Ewww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 06:22 AM |
| 19 | FDS has ruined my lifeSingle(x) alone(o) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 06:51 PM |
| 58 | I was only looking up a face mask when I came across this trash. What are your opinions on people who wear the PH logo on their clothes, phone cases and I guess now mask etc...?Yes it helps me to save my precious time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 11:09 AM |
| 12 | She says that Successful women have a harder time getting successful men. She says that those men are rare first of all and they don’t want to date you because of your achievements. They want you to be HOT as fuck and pure joy to be around . Thoughts ?I thought that the more successful men are, the more they’re HVM, but it wasn’t necessarily. I know a lot of doctors sleeping around with 0 investment and 0 respect towards women. But also, there are lots of broke men who try to interview women to see if they can “use” them and not provide. I’d say HVM is a man who respects women and knows how to make his woman happy with the right way. He would try to figure out how THEY can make their woman happy by providing, supporting better and being loyal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 7 | FDS turned me gay♥️🥧🧡🏃♂️ I totally totally totally feel you. The best love in my life was also my best female friend and I know I can never have that kind of strong emotional connection with anyone again, especially with a man in this chaotic world.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 11:50 AM |
| 21 | So sweet! This man just set the bar a lot higher for me. I guess this video has been around for months, but it's my first time seeing it.This is so wholesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 11:46 AM |
| 18 | Always look into a man’s background before meeting them like this (it’s free):100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:28 AM |
| 20 | Something I noticed....In my experience, If they have a genuine interest in getting to know you, they will naturally ask so many questions..but if they don’t see you as a potential serious relationship partner, they will just talk about themselves as if you’re their penpal friend..but for me, keep throwing too many questions like a job interview at the beginning of the conversation is also a huge turn off, so idk...you can vet them by listening their story first and then see their actions more! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 05:27 AM |
| 12 | Covid is getting to me. Are there any resources I should look into that you'd recommend?Me too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 04:11 AM |
| 13 | Past FWB wants to make amends and be friends again cause he missed me. Trust has been broken after how we ended and I wanted a relationship, but he didn’t. I left the situation and didn’t contact him for 2 months. He reached out last week.He is already LVM just block and delete him..his intention is very clear here sis you will 100% regret that you even opened the door right away again for him as if you have been waiting so desperately the whole time for him ti comeback anytime | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:07 AM |
| 11 | Past FWB wants to make amends and be friends again cause he missed me. Trust has been broken after how we ended and I wanted a relationship, but he didn’t. I left the situation and didn’t contact him for 2 months. He reached out last week.Hey, he is trying to play you again and you are “educating” him 😂 stop stop!!!! “No netflix blahblah and phone conversation” hey sis, we aren’t supposed to beg this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 02:04 AM |
| 122 | Saw this and instantly thought FDS.I love her energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | All the LVMs are here attacking women who reject a cheap coffee and walking around “hangout” 🤣 comments here are soooo funnyy *link in the comment*https://www.reddit.com/r/Bumble/comments/jdssoh/when_youve_had_the_wrong_header_in_one_of_your/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 11:42 AM |
| 5 | I’m really curious...is “showing a bad financial situation” a thing on OLD in Canada? My male friend said “Maybe they’re trying to show you that they’re money smart” it’s not attractive to me at all and I don’t think I’ve seen this kind of profile from other countries..Looooooool you made my dayyy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 10:54 AM |
| 60 | The ONLY acceptable 50/50A real man here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/20 04:38 AM |
| 3 | I’m really curious...is “showing a bad financial situation” a thing on OLD in Canada? My male friend said “Maybe they’re trying to show you that they’re money smart” it’s not attractive to me at all and I don’t think I’ve seen this kind of profile from other countries..OMG looooool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 09:32 PM |
| 2 | I’m really curious...is “showing a bad financial situation” a thing on OLD in Canada? My male friend said “Maybe they’re trying to show you that they’re money smart” it’s not attractive to me at all and I don’t think I’ve seen this kind of profile from other countries..oh yeah I've seen the "down to earth" so many times on their profiles.....and I could never interpret it perfectly I guess..does it mean their spending habit is not too much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 07:25 PM |
| 30 | I’m really curious...is “showing a bad financial situation” a thing on OLD in Canada? My male friend said “Maybe they’re trying to show you that they’re money smart” it’s not attractive to me at all and I don’t think I’ve seen this kind of profile from other countries..I don’t want to imagine ha...! This guy is 40M geeeez he had the audacity to send me a message :’( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:37 AM |
| 26 | I’m really curious...is “showing a bad financial situation” a thing on OLD in Canada? My male friend said “Maybe they’re trying to show you that they’re money smart” it’s not attractive to me at all and I don’t think I’ve seen this kind of profile from other countries..Hahahahahha hobo hahaha 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 11:36 AM |
| 1 | I’m really curious...is “showing a bad financial situation” a thing on OLD in Canada? My male friend said “Maybe they’re trying to show you that they’re money smart” it’s not attractive to me at all and I don’t think I’ve seen this kind of profile from other countries..His favourite things: walmart, free food, getting stuff on sale and he is looking for a girl who will get marry to him and truly advocate for him..!!! I GENUINELY wonder if this sounds attractive anyhow(maybe it sounds honest and humble?) to Canadian girls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 10:13 AM |
| 7 | Men on Reddit are MAD at these tweets yet fail to understand that these girls are trolling and are repeating excuses and lies men tell women when they cheat 🤣Loooool that suck part killed me 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/10/20 06:53 AM |
| 35 | No one wants your used up Cheeto chodeThis is so true..and it doesn’t work very well! It causes hair loss too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | We should be wooed and we’re not made to woo-ShakespeareIs it wrong with being with younger guys? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 08:55 PM |
| 12 | are British men actually gentlemen?Third...????? Geeeeez?!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 12:15 AM |
| 6 | are British men actually gentlemen?Dang....😟 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:08 PM |
| 2 | are British men actually gentlemen?Oh man...i thought it would be different | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 06:04 PM |
| 14 | are British men actually gentlemen?My god..there’s no difference at all then :l where do we have to go? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 05:32 PM |
| 17 | are British men actually gentlemen?Oh god tell me more about it????? I thought that there must be a reason why UK is regarded as a country of gentlemen :S | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:49 PM |
| 5 | Real HVM shitI totally agree with you..the thing is that there are still stingy and frugal rich men out there trying to get into womens pants with zero investment! It happened to me lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 11:13 AM |
| -2 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?Well there are thousands of posts on LVM’s behaviours on this subreddit??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:06 AM |
| -2 | What posts do you enjoy seeing on FDS and what would you like to see more of?I don’t understand why my posts don’t show up anymore whenever I post it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Here comes a job interview again (on OLD)Do you see my post on this subreddit? For some reason, it seems like they made my post invisible lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Here comes a job interview again (on OLD)Do you live with your family? Which city in your country are you from? Do you live in downtown? Are you an international student? Etc etc, it’s just a huge turn off when a guy is SO obsessed with these and I think I’m not gonna answer him anymore lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Why do men always try to turn the conversation into something sexual? I(28F) got matched with this guy(35M) on Bumble yesterday and this happened.Oh god I googled ew | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Why do men always try to turn the conversation into something sexual? I(28F) got matched with this guy(35M) on Bumble yesterday and this happened.What does “junk in the trunk” actually mean here? english is not my first language and I don’t understand | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Why do men always try to turn the conversation into something sexual? I(28F) got matched with this guy(35M) on Bumble yesterday and this happened.Even with a duck picture...? Maybe I’m being too sensitive when he is just trying to be funny? :l I cut off men if their intention of using OLD seems shallow...I need you guy’s opinions! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:56 AM |
| 9 | Guy asks people with expensive car what they do for a living. Her response is 💯. I wish this for all the HV sisters here!Marrying broke men is like having 2 full-time jobs. If a guy is rich, women can have some least brake time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:29 AM |
| 0 | Top 3 things you look for in a partner?Rich and not frugal, loyal, good cooking skills | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:52 PM |
| 68 | These scrotes ain't loyal, but we knew that. 🙄 Here's an idea: how about you tell your GIRLFRIEND she's beautiful, not me. Boy bye. 😤I ALWAYS make a screenshot and send it to their wife/gf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 06:49 PM |
| 21 | I made a guy sing in the rain by agreeing to go on a date with him.Amen amen I’m getting a good energy from here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 18 | He couldn't give me a single original thought.Loool a warm, wet bodyyyy I’m dying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:52 AM |
| 29 | And on today’s episode of men are oppressed...Eww I sincerely wanna throw up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:00 PM |
| 22 | My boyfriend seems like he's into bdsm, would this be a redflag?They enjoy seeing a girl crying to death because of their pain... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 4 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolI recently moved to NA as an asian girl and...I avoid foreign men like plague :l they look down on fob girls and they sometimes have a huge yellow fever..I also avoid overseas born asian men too! I guess in general, Asian asian men tend to more focus on “How can I provide better for my future family?” “What does she want? Am I good enough to make her happy?” than “How much does she make?” “How do I make her to pay 50/50 and allow me to free bang her even without a relationship?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolTrue, I just don’t know how to deal with these stupid questions 😂 maybe I just don’t respond to these broke men who try hard to interview me... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 7 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolLOOOL can’t more agree with you loool hahahahahaha you made my day “consultant” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:27 PM |
| 13 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolMen are providers lol it isn’t about being rich but it’s about being responsible and being a man...if they can’t, they don’t deserve a faMiLy! I’m so surprised at how lots of guy have the audacity to mention like “Just looking for somebody to split the rent with” or “I’m a minimalist..it’s not being frugal, but being down-to-earth blah blah” on their profile lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:23 PM |
| 23 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolLol somebody just left a comment like “Pls fucking ban me this is such a stupid mindset! I’m NoT bRoKE” and then deleted it right away so I can’t ban him LOL can LVMs please mind their own business and leave us alone? Geez | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 05:00 PM |
| 43 | How to react when he asks you out for a coffee date 😂We don’t have to educate LVM so they can look like HVM to get into women’s pants...just block and delete them so they can never get to talk to women with that cheep coffee date strategy!!! They ONLY deserve pickmeshias!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:50 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolTrue!!! Tankyu | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:43 PM |
| 13 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolNobody puts in too much effort anymore I feel like...there was a guy who I was talking to on OLD, he sent me a small cute gift to my country..I thought he might be HVM but then I realized he is a huge LVM after he mentioned something like “Women can’t get married if they are not good at cooking...” and “I believe women’s career is so important!” Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:23 PM |
| 17 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolI wish I could, but at the same time I don’t want a guy to make an excuse like “Oh because all the restaurants are closed, I can only cook for you at my place” or “Let’s go to the park to walk!” Lol so.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:20 PM |
| 10 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolYou’re right, ooo I have been blocking and deleting too many guys...countless and I’m not sure until when I will have to do this sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:19 PM |
| 30 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolThat’s what I’m thinking but these days Idk what the hell happened to them lmao I can only assume that these guys who are obsessed with girl’s career are broke af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 40 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolThat’s what I’m saying...! I don’t even do zoom date because for some reason, I get turned off whenever they ask for a video chat or more pictures of me. Idk where and how I can meet a HVM in this pandemic... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Y’all this man is a doctor and still too cheap to take you on a real date. His shrimpy, little self wants to go on a field date, but still feel close 😂Lol doctors are the worst when it comes to dating. They have God syndrome and they think they can control women around them(including nurses). They never stop cheating even until their 90s. They can literally kill the girl if things don’t go well too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:48 PM |
| 1 | A guy who has been begging me to date him said “I’m not that reliable” LOL the audacityIt’s not about being rich it’s about being dependable, honest, and honorable. Never marry a guy who us saying “You can’t rely on me” or who asks for 50/50. LOL That’s not a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 07:27 AM |
| 68 | Look, we’re on Wikipedia! 😂LOL THEY VERY ANGY! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 06:05 AM |
| 7 | He’s been “seeing someone” but they’re “not dating”He is just trying too hard and waiting til you spit that out “I’m looking for fwb!” So he can use you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:51 AM |
| 74 | my LVM narc ex whos an abusive cheater left me in may ..after i finally went no contact two weeks ago and stopped being a pick me begging for him back he hits me up today... i prefer ‘Devil’Don’t even entertain him by answering | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 08:44 PM |
| 203 | These fly out stories never end well and these women never learn....NO NONONONO NO!!!!! even if he says he’ll pay for the ticket, never deliver yourself like a pizza! If he wants to see you, HE should invest his time and takes in the effort to come see you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 161 | If he still uses Tinder, YOU AREN'T EXCLUSIVE NOR OFFICIALShe is already crazy since she doesn’t know her value | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Cooking for a game addict hubby and a child 24/7 and never get to have a meal together...what a poor pickme! Nobody can save herIt would be super hard to be save her if it’s this serious...and she already got married to the guy...she will regret and suffer from her life in deep down her heart though :’( she is raising the baby in this way too sigh I just hope the kid wouldn’t be a daughter because I can imagine how she will teach the kid to become the same gOoD wOmAn just like her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 16 | Is going 50/50 on rent the norm?Dang cheap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 05:12 PM |
| 27 | Cooking for a game addict hubby and a child 24/7 and never get to have a meal together...what a poor pickme! Nobody can save herShe works too lol... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:07 PM |
| 10 | Cooking for a game addict hubby and a child 24/7 and never get to have a meal together...what a poor pickme! Nobody can save herNow we know!!! ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:05 PM |
| 62 | This has to be a joke, can’t believe this is real 😂😂😂Ooof I think this is a parody of a Vietnamese nurse who always serves a food for her game addic hubby lol I just posted her tiktok today here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 118 | Cooking for a game addict hubby and a child 24/7 and never get to have a meal together...what a poor pickme! Nobody can save herShe is a nurse not even a house wife lol.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:34 AM |
| 6 | Zero percent surprised he's still singleI’m not surprised either anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 10:10 AM |
| 99 | The audacity of this LVM to ask me to take him on a date.. OLD is full of them.Broke ass who doesn’t even feel shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:34 AM |
| 3 | Of course they only want this (and a bangmaid) 🙄Yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 04:25 AM |
| 6 | Just a short list of demands from a cross-eyed man. Must be seXualLy oPeN.Upload it pls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 4 | It's confirmed. Some men are demons.Ewwwwwwwww true ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:19 PM |
| 13 | It's confirmed. Some men are demons.Wow this is a good way to filter garbages ♥️♥️♥️ i will definitely try it out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 14 | It's confirmed. Some men are demons.Oooo no sex is a law..! Thank you, what would they say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:01 PM |
| 28 | It's confirmed. Some men are demons.How the duck do we filter these types of garbages? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 01:49 PM |
| 5 | Men hating astrology and tarot, ect.Sorry I’m not too interested in those because I think that’s a bit irrational :’( and my Christian belief may influenced that thought a bit! But I’m into MBTI personality stuff and every time I mention about it lots of guys ask like “Do you believe in that?” Lol so I feel you..having interest in something isn’t wrong at all! The problem is that it seems like guys HAVE TO mansplain how wrong it is to be interested in something that is not their interest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:23 AM |
| 12 | My stbx found my postWhat a narcissistic asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:50 AM |
| 15 | Dating after divorceDon’t ever tell any man about your insecurities and the reason why you got divorced! (Cheating, abuse, financial issues etc) because they would try to figure out “why was she deserve to go through it? I don’t have to put in any effort because she would satisfy with any man who is better than her terrible ex” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:36 AM |
| 26 | Dating after divorceDon’t tell them from the beginning, you can be a target! Find a man who is not divorced...most of the time, the reason why their wife left them is because they are broke (they become even MORE broke and frugal after the divorce) or they are a huge asshole! And any men who JUST got divorced are the most dangerous fuckbois so avoid them like the plague! 🐶👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:33 AM |
| 3 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.So it was true..my male Korean friends rant about how non of asian women(Chinese, Japanese, even Korean) don’t want to date them.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 12:12 PM |
| 1 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.I heard that South Korean men can’t get married because of lack of ability to start a family (financial issue and cooking skills etc) lol so it would be the first country to disappear in the world. Is that true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:54 AM |
| 5 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.It’s not even a wife previleges!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:08 AM |
| 1 | A guy learning Thai and Japanese,thoughts?Like your comments lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:42 AM |
| 41 | And I'd rather shit in my hands and then clap than be in the same room as a dude like this.He doesn’t have any money to buy whores lol so he’s looking for a free bangmaid! Good luck on thay | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:52 PM |
| 11 | I'm so proud of you ladies. Whenever I see a woman on another subreddit who could use our help, I send her a DM invitation. Seems many of you are doing the same! Keep it up, it is our sacred duty to uplift women especially when they have been trampled by patriarchy. Cheers to 100K! 🥳🍻🎉🥂👯♀️🍻🎊Yeah the link address is soooo long so I can’t copy and paste it on some platform like tiktok etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 21 | I'm so proud of you ladies. Whenever I see a woman on another subreddit who could use our help, I send her a DM invitation. Seems many of you are doing the same! Keep it up, it is our sacred duty to uplift women especially when they have been trampled by patriarchy. Cheers to 100K! 🥳🍻🎉🥂👯♀️🍻🎊How to make a link like that outside reddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.Poor thing...seems like she can never be rescued | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:28 PM |
| 6 | The Ben Franklin Effect: people like you if they do things for youYas | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:56 PM |
| 17 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.I dated a white guy before and he was actually better than most of asian men in cooking, house chores, and especially sex lmao and he did not try to control me either...somebody would call me racist but overseas born asian guys are the worst....worse than asian asian guys in many sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 05:23 PM |
| 70 | “I heard that in Asia, if women can’t cook well they can’t get married. Is that true?” he said. And then this conversation. He is overseas born Asian. What a huge turn off.He-Shanghainese-also said “I think women’s career after their marriage is important.” and explained how his father pushed his wife-this guy’s step mom-to start working....dude..I ain’t work and do house chores and cooking for you! Asian women are stopping giving a birth because of this issue! LOL he kept on saying “I’m independent” as well. Well if you’re broke and you’re looking for an independent woman who would work, do 50/50, give a birth, do house chores and cooking for you...you’re definit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | A 29 yo guy says “I’ve only had 1 gf”. What do you think?What is the difference between military men and special forces? :0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:08 PM |
| 3 | A 29 yo guy says “I’ve only had 1 gf”. What do you think?I’m so curious!! What was the reason? For me, I found that most of men who never (could) have a proper relationship until their 30s were either broke, frugal or toooo unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:28 AM |
| 8 | A 29 yo guy says “I’ve only had 1 gf”. What do you think?My ex was narcissist as well..he love bombed me so much. :’( I have been single for a year now. I feel you. Now we know what the red flags are thankfully though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | A 29 yo guy says “I’ve only had 1 gf”. What do you think?Whst happened? Be turned out to be a fuckboy? Could you elaborate more :0 I’m worried actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 09:18 AM |
| 5 | Broke people, please stay out“Still” LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Can somebody send the FDS subreddit link to her pleaseI think If lots of ppl invite her to here, there would be a higher possibility that she’ll actually check out the link 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:49 AM |
| 16 | Can somebody send the FDS subreddit link to her pleaseThere was a comment “What about the wage gap?” And men are laughing at the comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 07:09 AM |
| 2 | We should all be like this!!!!Exactly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 03:57 AM |
| 23 | Fujian girls give money to guys when they get married? Can somebody confirm this? LOLAs I know, guys parents buy a house and a car for the couple and even for girls parents as well when they get married. He is saying the opposite thing. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:19 PM |
| 171 | Lots of broke guys have the audacity to say “I don’t own a home but I want an iNdEPeNDeNt women and at least 3 kids.” on OLD! What can we write on our bio to avoid these cheap broken asses?It seems like there’s a cheap ass man on this subreddit who constantly stalks my post and downvotes it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 220 | Reddit in a NutshellSo many men say they’re looking for independent women none of women are allowed to mention they want financially stable men ha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:23 PM |
| 29 | Reddit in a NutshellOmg you made my day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:22 PM |
| 27 | A guy on OND who never owned a home yet is seeking for a financially Independent woman to give a birth to 5 kidsAny volunteer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Where the fuck are some good Rom-Coms?I recommend the movie “Melancholia” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about more CODES on OLDWhat does BLM mean? I can’t more agree with “Let’s grab coffee” LOL confident men who are not cheap never do that..If I was a guy, I would be too ashamed to offer a cheap coffee date yikes..!!! The audacity. I have never seen any men be hopeless romantic If they claim to be by themselves either. LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 27 | Texting is a time suck, but guys would rather message back & forth for days than talk on the phone. NOTE: I should’ve ignored after his objection to the call. (Sharing as a learning opp to stop communication when sudden bad behavior emerges, no matter how promising it seemed before)Um that guy is probably living with a girl lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:45 AM |
| 4 | Let’s talk about more CODES on OLDOmg omg!!!! True true we need more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:17 AM |
| 3 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?This. This!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 8 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?That's a good one too LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:29 PM |
| 8 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?Oh god I think I've seen it before....It was the worst show I've ever seen ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?ya they no think sis legit.......sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:07 PM |
| 9 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?omg it makes all sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 17 | Money is power. Why financial independence and security is important.Pikachu LOL I like it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 02:05 PM |
| 5 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?That's a short and good one actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 37 | Do men really think women on OLD will fly 16 hrs to see them?Really? Once a guy asked "Could you please come here to see me? I'll send you the ticket" and he said the ticket part multiple times as if it is a big generous thing. I said "You can't ask a woman to deliver herself to your place with money! I'm not a pizza..! lol" He apologized and etc but it turned out that he is a rich asshole who thinks he can buy anything with some coin. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 18 | Bruh byeIt hurt my fillings sis it hurts hurts! But yeah its 100% true I will save this comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it me asking too private questions or him being insecure? I don’t mind you being bluntI asked if he lives alone or with anybody or pet, and this was his reaction...If I felt like he was attacking me when he said “Did you live alone when you lived in ~~?” (Somewhere in San francisco), is it me being too sensitive or is it him being insecure? Or both? LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 06:45 AM |
| 2 | Should I have said something more? Idk...honestly I didn’t know what to say more. If you were in this situation, would you have asked something more to keep the convo? Or wait for him to say something longer? I might be too sensitive if I think he is putting a low effort?Green green | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:07 AM |
| 0 | Why would men keep initiating contact with low effort? I don’t understandI wish I could..but we’re living in different countries. We’ve never met in real life and we won’t be able to until the travel restriction is over. At least for months. So this convo-about meeting up-was all joking. But it seems like quite lots of men on OLD are texting but with a VERY low effort. I mean if they are going to text like this, why do they even keep initiating contact in the first place? If I don’t respond, they keep texting until I do, so I assume it’s most of men’s habbit that tex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:42 AM |
| 71 | Why do guys act like this? What’s the deal?I think you get attached pretty easily. That guy doesn’t seem interested in you at all..There are some type of guys who would add friends randomly to broad his friend group or because of interest in women(not to a particular woman but to many women). These are the types you should avoid of anyways. I sometimes add male friends that I know if I find them on facebook on my recommendation list but I don’t have any sexual interest in them. Like 0%!!! Don’t response to him even if he replies back say… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 09:08 AM |
| 4 | Oh the freedom.I love her accent and killing confidence and everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 08:35 AM |
| 45 | “Let’s See Where Things Go”In that case, I don’t do sex never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 70 | Ladies, is this the "50-50" or actually fair?Runrunrun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:19 PM |
| 16 | When you witness the birth of the newest FDS member.......????? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:17 PM |
| 2 | I feel like I’ve become extremely pickyHow about California, or Vancouver, Toronto? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:10 PM |
| 6 | I feel like I’ve become extremely pickyAww it’s very sweet of you to say all these for me! Yes I have met some guys who were sweet, offered a relationship or even a marriage etc...but same here, yay for avoidant attachment style, I managed to find a fault anyhow to refuse them and ended up blocking them again. If the guy doesn’t text me for a day, I get turned off and delete them as well. I wish I could find a right person this year. Ever since I broke up with my ex, it has been super hard to find anyone who treats me like how my ex … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 8 | "You wanna go out anyway?"Cute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:45 PM |
| 20 | Interesting DialogueIndeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:00 PM |
| 88 | Which one of you did this? 😂I did LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 06:00 PM |
| 27 | I'm 30 yrs old, and I'm shocked at how old men lookWorks loooool I’m dyinf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 05:46 PM |
| 29 | Dont accept cheap men ladies!🤣🤣💅🏾All cheap men I’ve seen around my friend group are still virgins lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 03:42 PM |
| 13 | Always get a PreNupI wish there was a tip on how to and what to write PreNup | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/20 09:26 AM |
| 15 | I’m so lucky to have my mom (FDS’er by nature). My LV husband keeps using the ‘pity poor little me’ move and this is what my mom wrote me this morning.Wow you have a wonderful mom, clap clap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 9 | Men and women multiple dating are not the same!Thank you, I really needed this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 12:40 PM |
| 4 | 4 ways women can test a guy to see if he is serious / FDS MINDSET TO A TCan somebody summarize it pls | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:42 AM |
| 29 | Could y’all imagine?Oh.....it is like the opposite in my culture. Men beg women to marry them :0..! I’m quite surprised how different it is in other cultures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:13 PM |
| 10 | Could y’all imagine?What does this cake mean? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 06:01 PM |
| 14 | Another LVM to add to the trash pileLol pls upload this to another community as well...such as bumble and onlinedating community! Ppl should know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:28 PM |
| 17 | Really needed this clarification...LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 06:44 PM |
| 17 | 10,000 Km away from home to visit this guy I met online. Did I made the right decision?Girl, you did the right thing! I’m so proud of you! If you ever feel lonely, join our chat room ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 05:11 PM |
| 14 | Celebrating his wife by saying 'she's got low self esteem', while putting himself down at the same time. LVM pur sang. It isn't cute and it isn't funny; it's tragic.Gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 04:58 PM |
| 15 | I told him I’m at hot spring with my family. He asked where my bathing suit is since yesterday. We have been joking casually...now this guy saying I’m a bitch. Is this just a joke or should I be offended?Ohhhh I guess you are right!! Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 08:04 AM |
| 3 | THANK YOUWhere can I find that post? :0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:47 PM |
| 9 | If he's asking if you came after sex, then your pleasure was clearly not his priority! Put yourself first first once and get rid of these losers.If that happens, I leave the house while he washes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:27 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone’s boyfriend pay their rent/bills?He paid for our rent, bought everything I wanted. He brought me to nice places every week. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 06:27 AM |
| 13 | The price tag we can changeIt hit me so hard and I thought I would share this img with you guys! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:48 AM |
| 35 | When a boy just plants the big red flags straight out the gate 🤟Look at those poor bones loool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Confused: a man who made me feel so loved and cherished, but then also made me feel very betrayed. Amazing qualities+ adorable moments but still a lot of disappointmentHe never allowed me to pay for anything and he got me $4000 laptop at the beginning of the relationship. He was entp..watch out! If you know what MBTI is, watch out for entp intp esfp enfp estp guys. Especially entp intp is high chance narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:53 AM |
| 2 | Confused: a man who made me feel so loved and cherished, but then also made me feel very betrayed. Amazing qualities+ adorable moments but still a lot of disappointmentHe got a new gf right after the breakup, and he has been stalking me desperately. I feel bad for her...they just can not be alone since they always look for their supply. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:52 AM |
| 4 | Confused: a man who made me feel so loved and cherished, but then also made me feel very betrayed. Amazing qualities+ adorable moments but still a lot of disappointmentHe must have been a narcissist. They love bomb their partner early on to build a relationship but once they think they got their partner, they get bored easily and quickly. They can never stop cheating, lying etc. I’ve been there. He never stopped contacting his ex and it wasn’t because he truly wanted to go back to her but it was more from his possessive mindset. He used to say “I can get this girl anytime I want her back. She will come back to me if I want no matter what.” It seemed like he fe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:50 AM |
| 26 | Step 1: Try to sound smart while not actually saying anything. Step 2: Make it known that you don’t know how to plan dates. Step 3: Get blocked.Once a cheap dude said “I like you. I can be pretty romantic. But I need a trigger. I don’t chase a girl.” Dude, bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 01:37 PM |
| 5 | Confused: a man who made me feel so loved and cherished, but then also made me feel very betrayed. Amazing qualities+ adorable moments but still a lot of disappointmentHe is a player and you are a rebound. If he cared enough and he was scared to lose you, he wouldn’t have kept contacting his exes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:26 AM |
| 77 | If a guy confirms a date the day of do you cancel?It means that every other men in that restaurant-not your man-have confirmed the reservation for their dates. Do you really want to be there with him? You should let him know this is not an ok way to treat you... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:38 PM |
| 8 | Dating Advice Needed For a NoviceCut 1 off..I wonder of guy 2 would have a serious problem or if he is THAT much not attractive. No 3 guy, there is a high chance that he is just faking the future and a low effort asshole. So just watch his behaviour carefully! No 4 seems not interested so don’t bother yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:16 PM |
| 115 | His ex showed up on the date and said “we broke up yesterday, good luck, hes an asshole”You should appreciate her that she saved your months! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:32 PM |
| 179 | His ex showed up on the date and said “we broke up yesterday, good luck, hes an asshole”I cut off a man who I started talking on an app when he disappeared during the whole long weekend lmao I told him “The qualities I look for in a partner are different from what you’ve shown, but best of luck!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 3 | My LVM ex lied about his SAT score being higher than mineWhat does lvm stand for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:38 PM |
| 10 | Love-bombing— ladies, if you have not heard of it— do some reading on it. If your gut feeling is wrong, trust it. Excessive affection, adoration, and needs for commitment right off the get-go is a red flag.Oh god this is all I want from a new relationship except for 5 6 7 10 11 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:04 AM |
| 27 | I once called out a young man for being a LVM toward my drunk friend, I only wish I remembered to do this for myself!What a nice friend, I wish I had a bitchy friend like you too lmao seriously | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 04:57 AM |
| 7 | Unattractive guy I was talking to made me feel like shit. Why am I upset about it? Is it an ego thing?It is called nagging | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How do you emotionally less involved?Woow I should do this too. The problem is that I cut off too easily so I’m talking to only 1 now lol...and he is not even living in my country. Sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | How do you emotionally less involved?Wow this helps a lot tankyu Phoenix the best, btw I’m again emotionally SO involved in this guy I just started talking to on online ah... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 44 | Hey young women! I know my balls are old and saggy and I need viagra for my porn addled dick to work - but I prefer my women to be 18-23! No red flags here, just into music and working out. -ScrotesGROSS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:51 PM |
| 7 | How do you emotionally less involved?Wooooow a spreadsheet on each guy, that is a very specific and practical advice. Thank you!!!!! I’m talking to only 1 now since I’ve been cutting off all...(it is really hard to find a one without red flags.) Do you have any example of the spread sheet or the list??? I wish I had a sister like you! I feel like I’ve been too naive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:50 PM |
| 2 | When men ask about your pet peeve? How would you answerWhy would they do this? Are they really animal :S I don’t understand......... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | When men ask about your pet peeve? How would you answerEww I hate that too, that is a very interesting and not cliche answer! Thanksss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 01:52 PM |
| 6 | When men ask about your pet peeve? How would you answerTrueeeee ah I haven’t had any female role model or a friend who knows better when it comes to dating. Sistaaas this helps a lot. I really appreciate this community! I want to ask every single thing lol...Eureka! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:02 AM |
| 19 | When men ask about your pet peeve? How would you answerWOW you are really giving me a wise advice. Yes I shouldn’t show all my cards right away. I thought that was being direct and strong but I should be more wise I guess. Tankyou Zara! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 07:53 AM |
| 83 | Would you simply block a guy like this?Gut feeling is never wrong..don’t ignore it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:13 AM |
| 17 | Even women fortunate enough to not be attracted to me are not safe from having their entire lives invalidated by scrotes.Beautiful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:35 PM |
| 6 | Tips for Writing a High-Value HINGE ProfileI saved your post many thanks I will definitely try it once this pandemic is all over! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:31 PM |
| -5 | Thought i'd finally found someone just to be dumped without warning.I need a summary if the handbook!!!!! It’s my final next week but you are making me want to read da whole book so bad!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:19 PM |
| 39 | dating in 2020Lmao if only they would at least have anything to give | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 03:16 PM |
| 3 | Geez this guy wants me to pay for the first date. Is this common in NA?Are you asian? Yes they tend to hang around the same circles. Especially among asian. I have a group of friends from Hongkong, China, Korea, Singapore. :) I also wanted to make some more friends...If you can be friend of one of them, It might be easier to hangout with them? Where do you live? Maybe we should hangout once this pandemic is over lamo.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 11:46 AM |
| 16 | What a liarIt was just his most I-don’t-want-to-answer question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:30 AM |
| 66 | What a liarLmao that is like the least intrusive question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 07:19 AM |
| 12 | Making A List & Checking It Twice - Maintain Objectivity When DatingI’ll do this!!!! Thanksss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 06:55 AM |
| 7 | What has been your experience with dating a LVM who cannot support himself?RUN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:58 AM |
| 33 | Someone explain to me how women having insanely high standards with men they expect to have children with hurts literally anybody except the males who are crying over not getting their penises touched for free? I’ll Wait.Lol I learn a LOT from this community..dang!!! I should have known here way earlier! Thanks god I’ll never put my guard down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Geez this guy wants me to pay for the first date. Is this common in NA?Shooooot thissss ah thank you for your insight. Yes girls say “Never meet ABC/K/J or CBC/K/J whatever guys!” I honestly have never seen as cheap guys as they are in my life so I’m quite surprised. Could you elaborate on how you hint them you are not going to go out with them if they are cheap? It is kinda hard to know before meeting. For me, if a guy doesn’t offer to pick me up or he wants to have a quick cheap coffee date, I just don’t respond. I’m too busy to dress up for an hour for a coffee.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Geez this guy wants me to pay for the first date. Is this common in NA?Yes oh god now I understand why they HAVE to be on a dating app even though they are born here lmao...for me, I only know few people so this has been the only way to date especially on this pandemic. But geez I have no option..! If I ask where they are from, they always start off with “Oh I’m not westernized though, I’d say I’m very family oriented and blah blah.” But eventually they turn out to be cheap. Sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 07:50 PM |
| 8 | Why I hate datingWhere is the handbook? I gotta read that.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 03:21 AM |
| 1 | Had a horrible week so one of my closest girlfriends who lives a hundred miles from me had these vegan treats sent to me as a surprise (all paid for by her) along with a letter. IF a girlfriend can do it, then men can absolutely do more than just the bare minimum.omg it's so sweeettt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 04:25 PM |
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