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They're told that this is the hottest way to have sex and that women love it too. The women can be showing every indicator that they're in pain, can have tears streaming down their faces, but they're also moaning exaggeratedly and faking exaggerated orgasms. This shit warps minds. Yup exactly. This is why I dont get why women defend porn how it is now. Absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:16 PM
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How can they enjoy themselves when the other person clearly isn’t? I don’t think I’ll ever be able to fully understand that It all comes down to dominance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:12 PM
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This is why they so badly want to make the distinction on "hebephile" or whatever it is instead of pedophile. Pedophile has such a negative connotation they want a new word that isnt as bad. Dont let them, its all pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:51 PM
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He said that *ape was still cheating I swear its so disgusting but they see it as another man "taking her" and their ego cant help it so hes equalling the playing field by fcking other women. Definitely dont want to be with someone with those control and dominance issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:39 PM
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Well if men want to act like dogs and then compare everything they do to the primal level of dogs they can be treated like dogs too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:35 PM
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Does I dont know maybe not having sex and waiting even come into their brain as an option? No? Also yes, women are objects to claim by pissing and shitting on them. If men have such egos like that then they can be single away from women cause all theyre doing is more harm. No thought of her losing trust by getting raped then the one person who was supposed to be there for her making her lose trust in him too. No thought of how that would effect her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:27 PM
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Men also are the ones who make fun of women for having those same emotions "over emotional" "crazy" "hysterical" ect. Its not only men who get shamed for having emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:12 PM
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Yup so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:26 PM
5

Hey, I DMed you but just noticed your bio said to reply to your comments instead. Any way we can DM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:18 PM
22

Thats why they also think porn and onlyfans is empowering too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:01 PM
30

Exactly, why does vulnerability align / equate with sexual domination for some men ? Every orifice must be claimed like they are Armstrong on the moon !? Because by "vulnerability" it really means her ability to give him all the power and control and be as submissive as possible. I hate how they want to put their dicks in every orifice too, domination thing and why I only put it in my vagina.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 04:00 PM
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"Suck my dick" is an insult everyone uses for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:57 PM
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Its manipulation lol, by "vulnerability" they mean ultimate submissiveness and having power over her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:48 PM
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Its just reflecting all the disgusting porn thats ruining everybody's mind ugh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 03:41 PM
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Yeah it was really weird, they had a sub/dom relationship like an actual ddlg fetish while they had kids. I saw it on here a while ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:39 PM
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Most men simply have no concept of anything beyond “I want this right now so I should have it.” So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:30 PM
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I bet he was subconsciously jealous of her success and independence and that was the start of his obsession with seeing her with a baby Yeah maybe youre on to something there.. Never thought of it like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:28 PM
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Yup exactly. He didnt care one bit he literally said "how can someone expect someone to have a nice day when you treat him like this?" He wants mommy to still be nice and never dare say a bad thing to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:13 PM
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Ikr I think I remember reading one where she had to ask to go to the bathroom, pretty sure they had kids..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:17 PM
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"You know men need to see what theyre working with, its not fair to surprise them with something they may not like. Be upfront about it!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:47 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:42 PM
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Shes 13, she'll learn eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:08 PM
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kink" who will beat you because clearly you're a dumb sl*t an I hate this. They go on about not slut shaming yet they let men slut shame them while theyre fucking. How is calling women sluts and whores during sex not slut shaming? Literally calling you a slut/whore for having sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:56 AM
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I got into arguments with people about this on twitter.. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:20 AM
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Yeah of course gay men can be misogynistic, I was just saying as in objectify in a sexual way. Women are the ones mainly being objectified. I had a theory that men are homophobic because they dont want other men to objectify men like straight men do to women.. I was responding to the comment that said they think men are visual but just lazy. I think that excuses men and isnt really true, men just like objectifying they arent any more visual than women and its not an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:19 AM
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Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:06 AM
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Eh I think it could be possible tbh. Thats why posting nudes is Imo dangerous, anyone can find them and they are on the internet forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:56 AM
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I dont like that, like who said women owe men anything just because they paid for a date? Theyre paying for your time and for you to give them a chance on the date. Nothing else. Maybe we need to eliminate the mindset of men thinking women owe something just because they paid for a date instead of perpetuating it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:29 AM
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Yeah thats what Ive noticed too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:25 AM
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"her personality (how submissive or naive she is)." And thats what they think womens personalities are. This post is spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:50 AM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:46 AM
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Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:45 AM
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Lots of people mistake this sub for just wanting high status men, a lot of people think a HVM is just someone with money looks and status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:43 AM
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Also, porn is NOT needed to masturbate, but they've fried their brains on it already, so they've become physically unable to masturbate without. This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:11 AM
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Pretty sure there's a book on it sigh i miss my feminist subs The ones that got banned? Maybe we can make another FDS style sub more focused on feminism than dating, where only women can comment. Id help make it if anyone wants to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:07 AM
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the power imbalance between men and women in porn is a huge part of the appeal to them Exactly this. I never ever got why women say its empowering to women when its very clearly not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:03 AM
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Exactly, if he really cared about her he would do those things to make her happy. Really not that hard at all. This was in 2018, I wonder if theyre still together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:00 AM
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Your professional therapist told you that stuff?? all of that just showed me that we often seek advice from people with either more issues than we think we have or that have an agenda. This is what Ive always thought tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:21 PM
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If that was a couples therapy thing I dont think theyd say "oh yeah just break up" and lose their clients. I honestly wouldnt trust couples therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:16 PM
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Lmaoo yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:03 PM
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Beyonce is a big pick me honestly. But she was groomed by jayz so..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:00 PM
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Yup, they only like that women give them sex and clean and cook for them. Anything else is a burden. Thats why they dont like buying dinner or gifts or doing anything for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:00 PM
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They will excuse sexual assault and other forms of abuse by saying things “oh, I thought you liked when I did that” or “I didn’t hear you say no” or “I have so much passion for you I can’t help myself”. Men are not stupid and underestimating their intelligence is one of the most harmful mistakes we can make. We have to keep this in mind and always stay one step ahead Especially this. There was a tiktok a few posts back of a scenario where the guy starts choking her and then says "well I thought …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:44 PM
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Men never want to be responsible for being manwhores. They always blame the women because of them not being able to control themselves. Like the "temptress" thing, no its youre fault for being so easily controlled by your dick. They dont like that so they shift the blame onto women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:22 PM
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Porn exaggerates it and makes it normal and acceptable, then the new generations being raised on porn who otherwise wouldnt be like that are conditioned to be like that because its the only sexual content theyre seeing. Men jacking off to all that violent porn against women starting at 8 are going to be conditioned to see women that way even if they wouldnt have before. It also makes thier brain think theyre having sex with those women but theyre not which makes them crave variety and promiscuit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:03 PM
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They do. I was watching a youtube video about some guy who posts non consent fetish videos on youtube and in the comments there were some men who were replying to people arguing that "women do it toooo" "women can have these fetishess tooo" when people were saying how scary some men are. I doubt those men walk around being physically scared of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:59 PM
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In both your case and OPs I dont think its even a BDSM thing. Its literally rape and attempted murder. This is why normalizing and excusing this shit is not okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:17 PM
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"You dont get to have that. If you are a man, women are gonna want respect from you. If thats a problem for you, stay in your mothers basement. You dont have any right to expect a woman to share her time with you if you arent going to respect her and the fact that she is a woman and wants to be respected as a human being."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:10 PM
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I used to be in fandom. A lot of the girls there do talk about liking the abusive parts of the character. Its not okay. If hes attractive then like the actor, not the character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:58 PM
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Yes this is the sex advice that women really need. Honestly put your pleasure before his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:55 PM
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They just objectify men the same way straight men do to women.. And theyre more feminine and well groomed cause they want to be like women do. Men are just more likely to dehumanize and objectify whoever theyre attracted to. Nothing to do with being visual, its just an excuse to objectify people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:25 PM
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Yeah they obviously fake it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:16 PM
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If a guy ever tries this send him out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:15 PM
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People can have different types but yeah that body language is off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:13 PM
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This is 100% some guy who has a stepdaughter fetish writing a fake story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:53 PM
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Omg what??!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:09 AM
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Are they really not embarrassed to fuck a fake vagina?? That sounds so awkward and embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:05 AM
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Imo I feel like him using videos and pictures of you still makes them objectify women, just this time its only you and you get to be his personal pornstar. Still effects the brain the same. Eh. Not my thing Ig.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 09:48 AM
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Hes a pedo and a rapist wow. Im so sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 01:50 AM
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Literally just a lie they made up so they can continue to objectify women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:50 PM
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I fcking hate when they do this more than anything jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:48 PM
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Oh but women cant be shallow, only men can!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:21 PM
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They went to private schools?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:51 PM
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This is what Ive been saying. If the statistics were reversed men would never let women in any sort of position of power, they already did anyway. So if men keep acting like this they shouldnt be in any positions of power cause they cant control themselves to not abuse it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:51 PM
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Wow and they call themselves the superior gender.. raping rats??!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:45 PM
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Yup I dont watch music videos either. They all objectify women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:38 PM
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It definitely does effect us subconsciously. I try to avoid songs with lyrics like those as much as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:33 PM
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Ive always thought this, I hate graphic rape scenes. Its just not needed. Ive seen reviews for TV and movies and men actually get off to these scenes. I havent really been watching movies or TV shows in the past 3 or so years, only certain netflix shows and movies that I know doesnt have anything like that in them. It desensitizes people to violence against women. Of course if you even mention that its not okay people come out with their freedom of expression shit just like they do with violence…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:23 PM
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because they have no personality themselves 🙃 So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:34 PM
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The ego boost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:16 PM
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Shes 22 and hes 27. That right there is all you need to know that hes using you as a hot young girl to fuck and thats it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:02 PM
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I feel the exact same as you do. " Also, are men able to love like women love? " No, I really believe they cannot. When I was younger I always said I wanted a guy who loved like women do lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:58 AM
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I can't stop laughing at it. I didnt know if I was being insensitive to you but I burst out laughing at this for like 3 straight minutes, funniest thing Ive seen all month tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:44 AM
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Yup its literally just so people can go "See FDS is making men want to kill themselves!! They should be shut down for being a hate sub thats causing depression in men!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:01 AM
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So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:43 AM
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Going to individual therapy might be better Imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:41 AM
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Or shes just in denial, I dont like calling random people sociopaths for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:27 AM
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Hes a pedo. Hes still obsessed with teenage girls on tiktok. I bet if you go on his porn history its all "teen girl"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:25 AM
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Dont take it personally. Im sure they do it to every woman they match with hoping theyll find a pickme who will accept their trash behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:13 AM
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So he read about the struggles and abuse women go through but instead chose to make it all about himself and how much of a victim he is for being ashamed. Well imagine what women have to go through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:51 AM
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I would make sure he puts in a ton of effort when he finally gets a chance. I would expect a thoughtful wonderful special evening out, music, candles, incense, massage, tons of foreplay and conversation and then amazing sex. I've had quality long-term lovers that have done this much for me every time we ever had sex. Damn that sounds amazing lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:03 AM
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Yeah the doing overly romantic gestures for men was always weird to me. But wow " Men are the ones who have to make grand romantic gestures, women don't, because women aren't the ones who have to prove themselves different from any bum on the street. " This is so true and I could never say why it felt weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:54 PM
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Yeah exactly what I was thinking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:31 PM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:22 PM
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That annoys me so much, girl and "chick".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:57 PM
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Exactly what happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:33 PM
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I have no idea but it annoys me so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:18 PM
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I know all they're doing is playing pornos in their head of me and thats the only reason they're even talking to me. Makes me want to scream. Or die. Yup I relate to that so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:15 PM
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Yup exactly. Theyre just too brainwashed by porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:44 PM
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If its unhygienic then most men are unhygienic and they need to shave too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:42 PM
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or to get an ego-boost from sexually torturing us. So true..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:36 PM
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Basing from the anal porn, the appeal of doing anal on a woman is because she doesnt like it and doesnt get pleasure from it. They like that she will sacrifice being in pain just for his pleasure only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:35 PM
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Also just look at the porn titles theyre so fucking gross and dehumanizing. I have no clue why pickme "sex positive" women are okay with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:26 PM
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But what about Jolene...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:22 PM
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Wait they did?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:20 PM
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A man who goes to strip clubs is nothing but a degenerate who enjoys the objectification of the women there. 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:18 PM
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"especially with my SO but I did not press it because I was embarrassed. I had been really brainwashed by sex positivity back then, and I thought if I wasnt comfortable with certain things I was a bad feminist or a prude" This is exactly what "sex positive" libfems do. And its horrible. No youre not bad or crazy for not wanting to go to strip clubs, its not normal and its objectifying to women. Id consider it cheating too. You should really stop being friends with them. Friends who keep pressuri…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:12 PM
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Those titles are so gross. And people say this shit is normal. Its the farthest thing from normal and this is how men view women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:04 PM
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Youd still see a guy who canceled dinner plans? In OPs post he switched the dinner date to a coffee date which is a red pill test to see if they would still go on the downgraded coffee date. Someone who plays those games is not worth being with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:53 PM
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Theres one called dead eyes and its about porn stars who are drugged up so much, disassociating or so traumatized they look dead inside (their words) and they get off to the women not liking it but having to do it anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:44 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:16 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:12 AM
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So true. I was thinking it was because they feel some type of way about what they do so they convince everyone that theyre so cool and empowered for it when theyre really not and they secretly know that, they want to bring other women down to their level so they feel better about their choices.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:59 AM
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This is so true Ive been saying it for so long. I hate that they coerce teenage girls (and women of any age) to put up with and do this sht. Makes me so mad and then they call it "feminism". "Its not consent if theres only one option" Yes exactly. These people promote kink and having sex on first dates and ONS but dont ever say "but its okay to not be into those things, you can have your own boundaries" but they dont ever say that now do they.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:56 AM
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Both sides want women to be a certain way, the left wants women to be their way and if theyre not then they gaslight them into believing theyre a terrible person. If you (as a woman) have a differing opinion to them then (not liking porn, disagreeing with sex work being empowering, not wanting kink to be promoted to teenagers with no other option ie. saying its okay to not like kink) suddenly youre a anti women, anti feminist puritan who wants to oppress women. " Women not wanting to be used and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:47 AM
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They think theyre so original and progressive when they do this and being sexually submissive like.. Do you not know anything about history? Cause its the same sht that has been happening for all of it. Youre not original or progressive, its regressive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:56 PM
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Wow I never thought of that but thats probably what it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:32 PM
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True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:33 PM
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Yup. Peak fertility is 25 I think so if that were true men would be more attracted to 25 year olds not 18-21 year olds and making up an excuse. They only like really young women because they want someone naïve, vulnerable and less confident which younger women are far more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 09:32 PM
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Exactly lol. I bet men couldnt live without their video games or porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 08:09 PM
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Never held the door. Didn't pay for dates.. Was awful with sexual stuff and refused the idea of going down on me and wanted blow jobs. But he was generally a nice person. Sorry but nice people dont do this stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:41 PM
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Honestly thats probably exactly why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:25 PM
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Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:09 PM
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Honestly its really anything from liking certain music to a certain drink they make fun of anything women like or do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:36 PM
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God theyre so fcking annoying. Thats why I dont even go on any other subreddit besides this one and would never ask their advice for anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:35 PM
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Honestly I dont really care at this point the reason they want porn gone I just want it gone, as long as the next generations arent being raised watching violent porn rape scenes then Im fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:48 PM
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Exactly lmao..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:46 PM
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Whats up with these husbands and boyfriends willing to basically pimp out their wives and girlfriends. No kid wants mommy to be a porn star.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:43 PM
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Because they like that women dont like it and it doesnt really give them pleasure. Men have a thing about wanting to fuck women but also wanting them to not get any pleasure from it. Usually when men talk about anal I call them gay for it, shuts them up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:38 PM
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Yeah I like your idea, if someone made those jokes on me Id for sure flip it back on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:36 PM
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And also less likely to stand up for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:29 PM
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That is literally rape. I would file a police report and never step in the same building as him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:26 PM
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They like it because they know women dont. They dont want women to feel pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:24 PM
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For sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 02:23 PM
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Save the walking for when youre already in a committed relationship. Dont go on walk "dates" (I dont consider it a date) with men youre not official with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:46 PM
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Damn, so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:39 PM
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Then he goes on about how women are just so hard to understand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:30 PM
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I dont get how men think women are so hard to figure out.. Theyre really not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:20 PM
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So true. I dont get why people like to pretend kinks come from no where as if someone who likes to call black people the n word and treat them like a slave doesnt reflect how to see black people and it just comes out during sex. Same with wanting to abuse women and same with the incest/pedophilia kinks. They obviously fantasize about it for a reason. Because theyre actually into that and see women/poc as lesser/actually want to act out their pedo/incest desires but cant legally so they opt for p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:14 PM
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Interesting or what most relationships are like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:52 PM
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Well how about she stays over a male friends house until 3am and see if hes okay with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:46 PM
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Not even just that but like.. so? He sees you as a hot and shiny object? Congrats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:45 PM
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Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:40 PM
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Idk but being against porn is apparently sex negative too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:37 PM
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Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:35 PM
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How do they do that so fast?? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:45 AM
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Is she gay? Why would she follow a woman because of her body then..? I hate women who try to act like men in this regard like.. Its not cool to disrespect your own gender because you want to be a cool girl/one of the boys. Men know youre disrespecting your own gender and dont really respect you for it, they see that as pathetic. Men would never disrespect their own gender like this for female validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:43 AM
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" I just wish it wasn’t this easy for men to access half naked women 24/7. It can’t be healthy. " Its definitely not. And I dont really get why women do that either. I mean its probably for validation because they feel insecure or attention honestly. I use this photography app where you upload photos and people will vote for them and sometimes women will just upload their super low quality taken with their phones full on nudes with their face in it and everything. Weird to me lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:32 AM
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What type of porn do they say theyre into? Just curious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:18 AM
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How tf is he gonna spend all this money on her on a fcking coffee date lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:14 AM
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I always thought it was because they see simps as being submissive to women ie. treating her nicely instead of playing red pill games and disrespecting her while also getting her to still chase him so he feels powerful and in control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:10 AM
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Simp rights
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:08 AM
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Wow all of this is so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:04 AM
4

This is such great advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:01 AM
21

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:48 AM
23

Bingo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:47 AM
27

Wow..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:31 AM
10

For sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:26 AM
69

This. They really just cant let women live their lives, always have to find something to bring us down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:25 AM
28

It's so evident that they want to take the lead, and for us to follow like baby ducklings. Hell naw This has to be it, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:21 AM
37

Women shouldnt settle for a guy who wont cheat because he cant rather than he doesnt want to because he actually loves you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:22 AM
10

When did that happen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:15 AM
65

Im the same age and was about to comment. They dont like skinny anymore, its about being as thick as possible..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:09 AM
44

I also don’t think most men engage in critical thinking or introspection so they don’t even bother to question what they actually like, they just see what’s most valuable around them and then do whatever it takes to obtain it. So true..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:08 AM
13

Cause then that would mean she would be too powerful and they wouldnt want that lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:26 AM
20

Aw thats really sad.. I remember I talked someone in the same situation out of it on reddit through dms a while ago. He was a real degenerate. I hope she takes the commenters advice. Can you send me her @ through DMs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:08 PM
45

Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:06 PM
34

I feel like them watching porn where women are getting beat and slapped around makes them build up so much violent tendencies towards women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:54 PM
1

Ariana Grande hasnt done that for years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:42 PM
17

Youre right but "Bimbo" is a trend on tiktok. They call themselves that and put on that voice and stuff as an "aesthetic".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:39 PM
20

I dont like the infantalizing herself (the baby voice) but you can still dress feminine and be against objectifying women ect. I dont really like the idea that women have to dress and look masculine to be taken seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:37 PM
3

Honestly I dont mind the way she looks but that voice is awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:34 PM
29

Exactly! Guys who even want that in the first place are LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:27 PM
42

This. And also hes addicted to porn. He could be dating one of his favorite porn stars and still be obsessed with watching porn of other porn stars and Ig models or whatever. Men like that objectify women and will keep objectifying all women no matter what. Reality is that men dont respect women who do anything for them, they see that as not respectable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 09:22 PM
77

Is he holding his wife?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:19 PM
30

Beyond delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:59 PM
39

Yup. I cant stand the women who say its okay and normal. Insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:49 PM
16

If it were a wife who fucked her husbands best friend in the next room from their kids everyone on reddit would lose their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:47 PM
98

I hate how theyre so fcking violent "choking and railing" Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:23 PM
114

Exactly. I hate when people say "Well this woman likes it so its okay" so fckn annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:09 AM
79

Ikr. They dont have the mental capacity to understand though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:08 AM
85

Yup. I see its pretty trendy to like bratz now, a lot of women will have them as their profile pictures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:07 AM
65

This is so true, I never thought of that. ​ "They want to at least cause us some harm" Is spot on, thats why they like beating women during sex now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:03 AM
14

Yeah I stopped using social media almost a year ago, way better for your mental health.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:00 AM
46

Damn.. I wanna see if people would say yes to kicking their husband/dad in the balls as hard as they can for 1M
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 03:59 AM
27

Great response. And I just find it insane that they think women being as sexually submissive as possible is somehow progressive and innovative. I think theyve actually lost braincells from being choked too much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:40 AM
22

Misandrist!” Thing is theyll actually call you anti feminist and sexist for it which makes it worse Imo, as if not being okay with men wanting to hit women is somehow against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:38 AM
81

With this post the usage of cumslut instead of just slut gives away that he watches porn, its a very porny term. He just watches porn with women with eyeliner and associates that with "cumsluts" cause thats the type of porn he watches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:33 AM
114

Seriously, I was watching a video of someone reading tweets and one man tweeted out that wearing baggy mom jeans and having bangs makes a woman look like a whore.. All it gives away is which type of women they like to watch in their porn. Baggy mom jeans are more conservative than skinny jeans but suree..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:30 AM
268

Not that regular slut shaming is okay but the usage of cumslut instead of just slut just shows he for sure watches porn with women with winged eyeliner..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:28 AM
40

Woah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 01:24 AM
97

Didnt you know? Getting slapped and thrown around and calling men "daddy" while he chokes you and calls you his little cockslut is empowering! Wanting respect and to not be objectified is really anti feminist and puritan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:21 PM
34

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:11 PM
43

Hes doing it on purpose to make her suffer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:01 PM
16

Cause they want to be the biggest and strongest and feel "emasculated" when a woman is taller, youre right its pathetic and theyre very fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:58 PM
49

Its beyond pathetic and men know it too. If the roles were reversed men would never sell out women just to be able to get on their knees for women, they would never and dont even do it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:13 PM
81

and of course cant use condoms bc that’s wasting their precious sperm so it’s a sin. They better not jerk off then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:08 PM
29

I just wish women like this could perform their self-hate in private. This is why people like this should be shamed Imo. It helps to not promote this disgusting shit to impressionable teens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:56 PM
32

Theyre just as bad as the men in my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:54 PM
10

Revenge buyout?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:53 PM
10

I never believed they were the same but Ive seen that narrative a lot and it just doesnt make sense. Theres a clear difference between men and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:52 PM
13

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:49 PM
-1

Eventually I understood that society makes man show off skinny pretty wifes, but they actually wanna grab that fat ass and jiggle it like it's jelly cake. Skinny shaming ngl..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:42 PM
10

Wow I never thought of that but its so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:37 PM
18

I commented these videos on another post but here: On this youtube channel, he interviews homeless people almost all of the women are prostitutes either being pimped out or doing it on their own. In one interview someone said rapes happen all the time and one time one of the women got killed and left in the middle of the street and the person who did it wasnt found. The reality of street prostitution: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2g6flckl-SY https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=17s7rf_5Cfk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:35 PM
7

and FOSTA (Allow States and Victims to Fight Online Sex Trafficking Act of 2017), Wow you support victims of sex trafficking?!? You bigoted SWERF!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:30 PM
28

Libfems and woke types are obsessed with "consent," Well they are the same ones that basically pressure women into kinky sex by making fun of vanilla sex all the time, and they glamourize sex work to underage girls so..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:24 PM
13

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:21 PM
20

I just had a fucking aneurism from this libfem bullshit. Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:20 PM
21

Of course, someone could make a fake ID, get a burner phone, and be sure to be quick about their crime. But knowing what we know about men- how many will put that much work in? Few Men will do a lot to commit crimes if they want to. They just cant be bothered to do much else. Have you seen the manipulation tactics on red pill? Theyll put work into something if they get what they want out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:19 PM
10

Taylor swift plays into the madonna whore complex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:10 PM
5

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:09 PM
175

Mens biggest fantasy, a "feminist" secretly liking to be choking on dick being submissive and saying they secretly love the patriarchy. Great job. He got to put that feminist in her place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 06:41 PM
8

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:28 AM
13

Maybe they would be more prudent in their sperm management if they knew they would be tied down for 18 years, like we are. Oh yeah they would. If they actually had real consequences for their actions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:27 AM
8

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:00 AM
100

Pedophilia is why. And a need to feel "dominant" and wanting the woman to be as submissive as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:00 AM
81

Eh, was she trying to roast herself too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:53 AM
21

Maybe recommend her to read some books on the FDS book list? This guy is disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:41 AM
120

I just imagine this guy on dates and he asks the women "Do you wanna kiss" and they go "Oh uhh.. I dont know.." As a way to say no politely and he took that as all women dont know if they want to kiss a guy or not lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:40 PM
10

Can you explain what being trauma bonded with someone feels like? You dont have too and Im not trying to be rude or anything, I just want to know what to look out for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:28 PM
19

Yup Im skinny too and its "Men dont like flat women"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:27 PM
27

" Men on reddit claim that being 'fat' or 'overweight' is what makes a woman ugly and any woman who is thin is attractive??? " Because they want all women to be weaker than them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 11:24 PM
44

Fuckboi language thoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:20 PM
166

Real shocker. Thanks for posting though. Some men like to believe men are more moral, at least science confirms it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:16 PM
5

Celest the abolitionist 🔥 (@misogyny_in_music_) • Instagram photos and videos This is a great instagram account, he also moved in with a 15 year old when he was 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:13 PM
5

I know Im in the early 20s too. I just now think of girl as being underaged. And Its my pet peeve when people use "men" and girl instead of women, seems condescending or porny tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:46 PM
79

" Never stretch even one boundary. It will only lead you to worse life " This. 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:31 PM
342

Most men feel this way for some reason, at least hes honest about it. When men admit they feel like this I just hope it gets more women to notice how inherently fucked up they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:18 PM
17

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:29 PM
103

Im glad people are realizing its not okay/normal and to leave him. If she asked this on reddit everyone would tell her being insecure is her issue and its normal and all guys do that and to not break up over "every small thing"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:11 PM
52

Uh wtf.. Ew I hate the word "chick" so douchey and dude bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 03:03 PM
8

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:32 PM
7

I agree 100%. But reading girl instead of women is kinda weird, not a personal attack on you or anything I just find it kinda weird Imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:25 PM
4

Why should we empathize with fkn rapists? Like??? Men don't even empathize with women who haven't done anything wrong so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:17 PM
4

" he rapes because it’s the only thing he knows " " men have been conditioned to only see women as objects " They think this yet still defend porn and rape kinks?? They think theyre so progressive yet theyre so regressive and honestly have worse takes than a lot of men have. I seriously dont know whats wrong with them and why they have this incurable need to pander and suck up to men at any and all cost, at least if youre doing that dont fucking call it "feminism".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:14 PM
75

“hebephiles” (pedos with a dictionary Pedos who want to avoid the word pedo because it has such a negative history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:48 PM
2

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:37 PM
3

Youre right. I think there was a thing where they chemically castrated rapists or pedophiles and the same percentage of them went on to reoffend as normal sex offenders. Also its very feminist to shut down women when their opinions dont align with yours, way to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:29 PM
15

Exactly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:18 PM
13

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:06 PM
11

On their website it says at the top " A Supposedly Feminist Website " Is that intentional or..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:00 PM
51

she said she set out to “have sex like a man would have sex.” They say this then want men to choke them, make her throw up, call them slutty cockhungry whores and call men daddy. How is this having sex like a man? Having sex like a man would be caring about your pleasure only and being the dominant one. Ive seen a bunch of women like that say the same thing and no honey.. Youre not having sex like a man lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:53 PM
19

Exactly like how do they not see that? He would feel inadequate if she even suggested that she go to a male strip club to get turned on first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:46 PM
19

Him coming home to them is like him going to a breakfast in bed hotel, fuck with other women during the day then go home to a nice clean home, dinner served up, a nice made bed and wake up with breakfast being served and repeat. Your comment was hilarious and unfortunately accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:42 PM
17

Wow thats so true and I never thought of it that way. I never bought the fantasy thing either. It doesnt matter if its just a fantasy, its still telling of how you actually feel/view women. Like rapists obviously fantasize about raping women but if he just says he has a "rape kink" people would apparently think nothing of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:39 PM
24

sex as something you take from women Its so true that they see women/sex that way, I never thought of it like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:36 PM
94

I seriously dont get why these feminist women are MRA just calling themselves "feminists". There are so many issues concerning women that could be payed more attention to why tf are you trying to help male sex offenders- Insanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:28 PM
5

Wow, thats next level controlling and entitlement. How did that come up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:06 PM
48

Lol theyre just mad women can live without men and they cant live without women. In a men going their own way sub they literally obsess over women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:04 PM
2

Because they want women to feel miserable and insecure like they do, misery loves company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:41 PM
12

Ikr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:40 PM
7

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:40 PM
12

It doesnt taste good, it doesnt make you feel better, Thought I was the only one who thought this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:39 PM
22

Yeah I bet hes one of the "sex positive" feminists that think its empowering for women to get beat during sex ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:44 PM
15

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:42 PM
9

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:35 PM
75

Shouldve spit it in his mouth or face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:18 PM
21

There is one! Its called "Fifteen Million Merits" from the first season.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:17 PM
35

And there's why I am disgusted by most modern men and won't go near them...they truly do it to themselves. They wonder why women won't hook up with them. There's why. If a man said 'I love choking and beating women and seeing them hurt and struggle' most people would be furious. But it's ok when he adds 'but it turns me on' to the end?? All of this is so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:14 PM
16

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:14 PM
78

I seriously dont get why women defend porn how it is now. How do you look at that violence, humiliation, objectification and dehumanization against your own gender and think yeah thats okay! For male approval? Imagine if the roles were reversed and all women got off on torturing and choking men and throwing them around like objects they would get that sht shut down so fast and they sure as hell wouldnt pretend to like it for womens approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:13 PM
31

I dont get the freedom of speech argument. Its not speech a drawing or writing its an action being filmed. If prostitution is illegal why isnt filmed prostitution? Just because its on video doesnt mean that anything goes or child porn would be legal and thats not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:09 PM
25

There already is the most perverted porn imaginable out there. Everything that can be made right now has been. Id honestly want porn with violence to be outrighted banned. If people make underground illegal porn then whatever, it still wont be as popular as it is now that its legal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:06 PM
61

And then they get the confidence to say that women arent funny and men are soo much more funny. " I’m sure most women have had that phase of feeling bad for not laughing or feeling like it’s rude but no. Men literally do not spare us. Some men go as far as stifling their laughs if we say something funny because they don’t want women to know we’re funnier than them. I’ve met men that solely only laugh at other men’s jokes as if it’s comedic gold. When a woman tells a joke it’s crickets and I’m ti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:49 PM
18

No.. only that 50/50 is bs and he should pay/provide because it shows he cares about you. That doesnt mean he has to make more or that you should be dependent on his money at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:55 AM
141

Lmao so this counts as child porn but their "teen" porn doesnt?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:48 AM
6

Nice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:46 AM
4

What did his skin look like??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:40 AM
4

So accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:38 AM
14

Call me by your name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:36 AM
20

Wasnt he also with 14 year olds? and Im pretty sure he admitted to being a pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:28 AM
16

Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:25 AM
12

Wow congrats! Really proud of you! I hope you left/are gonna leave him, glad you found FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:22 AM
21

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 11:13 AM
27

it feels “wrong” or counterintuitive to “take advantage” of a man Hes choosing to pay, no one is forcing him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:58 AM
25

I just wanna know what his skin looked like.. Not washing your face at all wouldve been better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:49 AM
36

who literally have two wrinkly dough like things dangling between their legs Lmao imagine if ball cosmetic surgery were a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:12 AM
14

marketing of clothes and cosmetics to women Has. Not. Changed. How so?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:47 AM
63

Yeah thats why they oppressed women in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:44 AM
30

Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:43 AM
47

They knew being in the womans role was awful and they were so paranoid women would make them do what they made women do for decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:42 AM
7

I think telling on them when you can is the best choice, Id for sure want to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 12:33 AM
98

"All porn geared towards men is the same, violence and domination. If you ever see any that’s sensual or loving, it’s women-directed or focused. Think about that. There are literally trillions of pornographic images on the internet and every one geared towards men celebrates pain, objectification, or humiliation. From the soft core like Playboy to the worst fetish stuff, it’s just violence on parade. Even in hentai, their perfect cartoon fantasy girls are being raped. Vulnerability is not enough…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:34 PM
1

Thats a really good point!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:07 PM
4

past countless "you gonna work cause it's MY time to sit at home" profiles I hate that men think when women were staying at home they were just doing nothing all day. Ive heard men say that women who stay home have it easy because theyre sitting doing nothing all day. If hes gonna sit at home hes also gonna be doing all the housework and cooking lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:06 PM
10

gender rendered him completely incompetent Oh but I thought men were superior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:50 PM
11

Yeah your last point is really true. The original video says prostitutes and Im guessing the people who said they like "sex work" arent prostitutes, probably cam girls or have an onlyfans. I would show them the two videos I linked and see what they think about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:16 PM
12

Exactly but you dont see men in thongs shaking their ass and making an onlyfans lmao. If it were empowering they would do it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:13 PM
86

Shes right, men will act polite and smile in your face and then talk about you like this with their boys during locker room talk. Just this time it was on a podcast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:10 PM
8

What is it with men and wanting to literally eat ass? So fcking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:36 PM
8

Hes been watching too much teen porn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:32 PM
6

What happened?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:25 PM
7

Damn my parents never let me go anywhere without them at that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:13 PM
7

Um.. as gross as that is women in their 20s typically still would look like that also so doesnt excuse why they specifically go for 18 year olds. "She will be into experimentation" translates to "I can pressure her and convince her to do anything I want"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:11 PM
4

I think men have a weird ego thing where they see women who dont give them attention or arent nice and sweet as a challenge, then once they get her they get bored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:01 PM
24

The titles are soo bad and dehumanizing I dont know why women go along with it. The titles either refer to women as "teen" "c.unt" "s.lut" "w.hore"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:56 PM
13

Notice how they love to assume that powerful women like to be degraded/dominated in the bedroom. I hate this so much and Ive seen people play into this stereotype so much ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:52 PM
8

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:50 PM
17

Abusing women sexually and porn is just another way for them to feel above women. Like the comment below says it has to do with men knowing women are superior and hating that so they find any way to degrade us so they can feel more powerful. Either its forcing us to stay as housewives or objectifying and dehumanizing us or convincing society that abusing women sexually is normal through porn. Its all a way to make them feel above us because theyre so insecure. Men using sexuality against women t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:48 PM
10

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 04:41 PM
31

Lmao the men prostitutes have to fuck are repulsive and you know they ask them to do some degenerate sht. That girl that typed the first message obviously doesnt know sht. Why are men paying for sex instead of getting it for free? Either because they want some nasty ass sht that no woman would do for free or theyre so repulsive they cant get any on their own. I used to watch this youtube channel where a guy would go around the streets and ask homeless people questions and most of them were prost…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:09 PM
133

Plus the pen ink
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 03:03 PM
96

"Didnt have to work" They couldnt work even if they wanted to. They were forced to cook and clean and stay home cause thats all they could do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:59 PM
10

..What?? Can you DM it to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:01 PM
48

And this is why you shouldnt date men who are addicted or at risk of getting addicted to porn. Theyre not gonna stop once you have kids and its irresponsible for that stuff to be around the kids. This new generation raising kids while the fathers all have porn addictions is definitely gonna have a huge negative effect. Imagine growing up and realizing dad has been jacking off to degenerate porn(probably all of the step incest and teen porn) for hours everyday while you were around..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:56 PM
49

True. But Id rather them keep making these comments willingly instead of just hiding it or only talking like that when theyre with their bros. More women need to know how men truly think of them, as if porn wasnt enough. Side note I still really cant believe women see men getting off to " dude who gets off to seeing a women's head pushed in a toilet while she's gangbanged from behind?" and has no problem with it. Seriously insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:24 PM
28

Every human devastation, tragedy, evil or crime against humanity is sexy in porn. This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:42 PM
41

There was a study that said that men seeing women in porn caused them to be desensitized to female pain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:40 PM
12

Honestly, me too. We can DM if youd like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:31 PM
58

It's just such a random thing to claim??? It's like if women all collectively decided that men can't sing or something like that. Lmao this sentence was funnier than anything Ive ever heard a man say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:07 PM
41

Women are plenty funny, you’re the one who can’t laugh at anything that isn’t a rape joke, Kyle. So fcking true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 02:04 PM
3

Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:32 PM
11

Same but she probably knew people would come after her saying that all guys blah blah and she should just accept it and not shame him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:25 PM
7

There are definitely men out there who will treat you with the respect you deserve. Youre still so young and I hope you can leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:23 PM
5

Oh no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:19 PM
2

Wow thats sad. Did you message her to check out FDS?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:50 AM
5

Its a cycle, they want to continue making money off of women so they give advise that will keep them in a bad situation where theyll keep needing them as a relationship coach and keep going back to them giving them money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:48 AM
2

Lmao so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:43 AM
5

Wow really good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:22 AM
5

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:16 AM
7

So he knows its wrong but still decides to treat you that way??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:12 AM
14

But.. they could still do it as men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:11 AM
3

Jfc, he should be an ex friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:07 AM
70

Lmao I got a DM of some guy saying "you know youre a misandrist right?" for saying something about men watching porn while he had a bunch of porn on his account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:04 AM
17

Even if it didnt just mean sex its still really weird IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:50 AM
7

Is this a 12 year old?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:24 AM
5

One strike and youre out baby dont care if I sound crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:51 AM
31

Im starting to think its because theyre sexually attracted to their cars
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:12 AM
4

Lmao it really does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:02 AM
13

B-B-But she should do everything for him without ever saying a word
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:52 AM
25

Yet they convinced themselves theyre the superior ones lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:51 AM
21

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:46 AM
53

People go on about not slut shaming yet think its fine to call women whores and sluts during sex just for enjoying/being into sex. Imagine having to be called a slutty whore everytime you have sex with a man, definitely not healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:45 AM
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It started out as meaning a guy who would pay for porn, lets be real they only make fun of men watching porn when they pay the woman for it. But most people use it as any guy whos nice or respects women now or treats their girlfriend/wife nicely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:40 AM
84

Ive heard guys say this so many times. I also saw some quote about men taking their anger out on their wives/gfs on them during sex and he was talking about anal sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:35 AM
3

Wait whats that from??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:30 AM
2

What does STBXH mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:13 PM
9

men don't seem to see, realise or care that there's a problem with porn and that it's not normal sex and that it's usually degrading towards women. Oh they do. Thats why they like it. They know its degrading to women, I mean its hard not to when the titles dont even call women "women" its more like "sl-ut gets c-unt hole destroyed" in all the porn titles. Theres no way they dont know that its degrading to women. When I was in highschool I knew like 2 boys who said they didnt watch it. Not sure a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:08 PM
8

True
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:47 PM
25

but I don’t understand why men are never the subject of these pieces. Why do they never depict the torture/sexual abuse of men, if its all about art and message? This shit makes me so mad, they have no problem painting women in this way but never do it to men then call women over sensitive and overreacting when they rightfully have a problem with it. Funny hows theres none of men getting their balls sliced off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:27 PM
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"It's acting. Okay. but it turned his stomach to see acting of a fictional torture scene on this show though. But swap the genders and it's watchable? It's suddenly not disturbing, it's fun? That doesnt make sense." Men dont see women as human. They want to torture women and get off to it but would never in a million years let that happen to men. Ive always said that men tell women theyre overreacting about being mad that women getting tortured is on the front page of every porn site but if it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:18 PM
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Men HATE it when women have confidence or an ego or "entitlement" and want to humble women so they know their place. They really just hate women. They dont want women to be happy or be treated to what they deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:12 PM
4

How did you know? Just wondering cause I knew this guy who always insisted he was straight but I swore he was bi too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:03 PM
13

Theyre not obsessed with anal for nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:02 PM
7

You know the saying that if a guy is too loud about his homophobia he might be hiding something.. I really believe that could be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:02 PM
11

I hope they broke up. Thats so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:00 PM
7

He is watching some weird fetish porn. Or the most popular category on all porn websites, teen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:49 PM
8

but when I was 23, guys were still excited to see boobs. They didn't give a shit about lingerie or pubes. I wish it were still like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:48 PM
6

Child sex dolls? Oh but I thought porn was enough to hold them off? Guess not, who wouldve guessed. After they get tired with the child sex dolls theyll move on to real children. The child sex dolls are absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:46 PM
17

Theyre pedos but are too afraid to break the law so they do it the legal way. By getting someone of age to pretend to be a kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:38 PM
24

Ive noticed some guys prefer women who are beautiful but dont know it. A lot of them want a woman whos humbly or "naturally" beautiful without putting in obvious effort. They dont want women who know theyre beautiful and women who make more of an obvious effort to get done up maybe remind them of someone whos confident and high maintenance and they hate that. Its really fucked up. Not trying to get you to change I just see this a lot and it annoys me so much and I wanted to vent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:17 PM
23

people are coming forward as ex members What went on in that group?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:36 AM
68

Jfc what decade is she living in? Sounds like the early 1900s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:07 AM
32

Same, Im college aged and its why Ive always put off dating since highschool. Boys my age are seriously fucked up. Really makes me sad I couldnt experience normal young relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:54 AM
39

Literal animals lol. But somehow thats an insult to animals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:29 AM
150

Disgusting, literally no words. I actually started contemplating life. ​ I saw some other post where a woman was giving their toddler a bath and the father went in the room right next door to jack off to porn and accidently bluetoothed it to a speaker and it started blasting through the house. The post was from the guys POV and he was writing it off as some accidental funny oopsie.. I think in the same post he mentioned how his wife didnt like him watching porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:34 AM
336

"Whats something thats incredibly misogynistic but everyone seems to ignore?" Porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:28 AM
303

And shes way out of his league..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 03:24 AM
27

Yup absolutely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:43 AM
262

If the dating an 18 year old didnt already scream pedophilia the "wearing pigtails with scrunchies and wearing stockings" does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:43 AM
35

I think this only applies when the person being angry is on the receiving end of abuse or mistreatment. I wouldnt want to be in a relationship with a man with clear anger issues having to walk on eggshells. Thats abusive Imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 01:03 AM
11

They know its pathetic and gross and creepy but they dont want to stop and they hate that women will judge them for it so they convince women it normal and guys just cant help it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:47 AM
46

Yeah theyre just mad that women judge them for that sht. So they have to manipulate them into thinking its okay or normal because they know theyre fucked up and creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:43 AM
32

They are more concerned with keeping women “in their place” So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 12:27 AM
50

A different ex looked up at me while he was going down on me...and he fucking winked. HE WINKED. This still haunts me. I’m scarred. Omg lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:54 PM
44

Men who say that are 100% rapists or fantasize about it. No one normal is thinking about raping people so often that they can say "I could have raped you but I didnt"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:43 PM
31

you can't turn a hoe into a husband Lmfaoo true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:36 PM
65

" or forbid you to use your safeword because then you will be known as “fussy,” " Ive seen other women whove said youre seen as lame for using the safe word and so they didnt even when they wanted to. Ive seen someone else say that they felt pressured not to and like they couldnt actually speak up or set a boundary because of the obvious power imbalance. This is why I say in theory BDSM COULD work but it doesnt really. And thats not even mentioning the disgusting want of men to even get off to a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:40 PM
190

Never fck with a guy into hentai. Its so fucked up. And yes you can dump someone for any reason you want, including watching hentai.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:30 PM
2

This!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:25 PM
7

Id for sure break up on the spot I dont give a fuck thats so disgusting. I will not tolerate sexualizing kids or kid stuff in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:01 PM
33

Right? Which is why I dont get when men make fun of girls for liking justin beieber or boy bands and kpop like.. would you rather them listen to this sht?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:35 PM
6

Yeah true but I think people are meaning the 70s- 90s or even early 2000s...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:17 PM
17

Yeah I was the same except I did start out with vanilla porn but eventually as it got more extreme I pictured myself as being the dominant one. And like you said men do have a choice they just dont want to because they can get away with convincing women that they need it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:55 PM
10

Wow that actually makes me want to throw up. I cant believe most people see nothing wrong with how violent porn has gotten. It absolutely effects the way boys and men see women. I remember when I watched porn I tried to look for vanilla porn and you really had to go digging to find it. Its definitely not what boys and men are seeing on the front pages when they go on those websites or on trending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:52 PM
6

There were obviously always bad men and LVM but I feel like back then it was easier to find some good/more innocent guys than it is now. Maybe not though but I feel how popular abusive porn has become has made them a lot worse and made the chances of finding someone decrease. Someone else said below " Porn is a massive contributing factor to the way that young boys are socialised to see us- an 8 year old may start with curiosity and softcore porn, by the time he's 20, he won't be able to get off…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:48 PM
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So true to all of that. My theory as to why they do that is basically "if you cant beat em then join em" They know men objectify them, dont value intimacy, watch porn of women getting tortured ect. and subconsciously think men wont ever change so they pretend to like it or be into it too or copy that behavior as a way to cope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:22 PM
9

Yup, they only do it because its the legal way to live out their fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:15 PM
39

Also can we stop acting like daddy kink is normal? I had an older man beg me to call him daddy and ask me to wear little girl skirts and call me his sweet little girl. He also talked about how young I looked and sounded. Literal pedos that just want to do it the legal way. I physically recoiled thats so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:13 PM
18

I've heard staff refer to little girls as 'bitches', and 'cows' pisses me off to no en What..??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:03 PM
25

Most men I've met are either pedophiles or close to And this is what happens when all cultures are obsessed with men being so alpha and manly at all costs and in turn wants women to be the opposite weak, small, naive and submissive. It makes men become obsessed with being in control and having power making them become obsessed with younger and younger girls. The teen porn being one of the most made categories doesnt help either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:00 PM
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This. They dont care about personality or anything. They just want young pussy and someone easy to control and have power over. They like being the older, bigger, more mature and stable one in the relationship because it makes them feel powerful and in control and like a big strong man. They like that it feels like an old man with a daughter because theyre pedos and like that dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 05:48 PM
2

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:05 AM
2

I always thought men having daddy issues doesnt get recognized enough. Everyone talks about their mommy issues when guys have serious daddy issues. "Simp 4 daddy is the real problem" Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:03 AM
1

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:02 AM
1

Unironically yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:55 AM
28

Wouldnt that uh.. cause serious medical complications..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:58 AM
29

Every minute human variation is just another porn category to the average Coomer. “Deaf? Wow, I haven’t jerked it to that category before!” So true. I cant think of anything that isnt a porn category for them. You know, rule 34 and all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:56 AM
66

Beyond misogyny at that point its just pedophilia and rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:54 AM
28

is there any man who hasn't watched this stuff??? Asking myself the same thing too. But I dont believe so unless theyve never been to any porn site, cause videos like this trend on the front pages and are the most popular categories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:53 AM
24

I was gonna say the descriptive word of "cute" was pedophilic in the context of talking about porn stars and then I saw the website and was genuinely shocked holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 12:51 AM
41

But calling men “daddy” while being choked during anal sex is totes normal. It’s like upside down world. Yup I hate it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:03 PM
14

Honestly I was shocked too. When I started dating I didnt even know most guys expected it and how its so common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:02 PM
17

Yeah but hookups and dating are different. If youre trying to genuinely date a guy and thay all expect sex on the first date now thats a bit different than two people agreeing to just hookup or have a ONS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:59 PM
3

Samee, Ive always hated the talk about treating him like a "king" ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:28 PM
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Yeah it might be a generation thing but most guys my age expect sex after a first date. I was talking to friends and they said it was the same for them. Ive never actually went through with it though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 07:00 PM
6

Ive always said this. Porn now is soo fucked up. How do you see jailbait incest violent rape porn with titles like "young slut get ass destroyed" and the " help step bro im stuck, no step bro what are you doing" rape incest pedo shit and still look at your daughter in a healthy way? I seriously believe they cant. And thats what most men are watching because thats whats getting millions of views on the front pages. "Forced" is also one of the most popular.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:37 PM
8

Men these days are completely ruined, like they were even worthy of redemption to begin with, now they're all just sex-crazed savages. Yup. Thats whats put me off dating with them. Really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:22 PM
8

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:17 PM
56

Men get sympathy and everywhere it’s like “wah why don’t you care about men’s mental health everyone care about men!” Exactly I hate this. People claim no one cares about mens mental health yet like you said people mock and call women crazy and never take then seriously ever. While men DO get sympathy and get to have excuses made for them and are of course still taken seriously. Same when I was watching someone talk about a male sexually harass another male and they said "if the genders were rev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:15 PM
15

How do you teach her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:56 PM
13

"fakefems" is such a good name for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:46 PM
73

And "people are allowed to have preferences (except women) (cause women arent people)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:04 AM
1

baby boomer mothers encouraged their sons to cry a bunch, Did they? I always thought they enforced gender roles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:59 AM
52

But Its biology for women to seek out the best mates because its a better environment for offspring to grow up in and better genes to pass on ;)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:38 AM
9

More like call him daddy dom, get tied up and slapped around and take it in the ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:32 AM
18

Narcissism in men is rampant. Most of them are tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:30 AM
1

Lmao I kinda love that youre talking to him like a child and he goes along with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:38 AM
17

Not only do men objectify women, women do it too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:34 AM
15

Its up to the woman to set their boundary of what theyre comfortable with. Anyone can have any boundaries they want. Just find someone compatible who will respect you and your boundaries. Not liking a pic isnt the end of the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:26 AM
73

Bringing kids into it is awful. Fucked up dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:02 AM
6

Lmaoo same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:22 PM
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Its clear they just hate when men show women their worth and value. "She should be afraid of losing you" says it all. They want to make women so insecure and desperate for them. He tries to degrade her by saying shes washed up, not worth that much and not all that. Still dont get why they care so much about someone elses life and relationships though. Shows that they really cant handle a confident, successful woman and cant handle even more when other men appreciate that and respect + love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:45 PM
24

Sex for them isn't about mutual sexual pleasure. It's about power and wanting to see themselves as someone a woman submits to. This exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:37 PM
28

Yeah the advice about dating a 30 year old guy is bs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:36 PM
53

They see women as inferior subconsciously or not. They think women dont know what theyre talking about and take men more seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:00 PM
3

This. Never let getting called a prude or anything like that get to you. They just use it to make her do whatever he wants
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:36 AM
2

I think so too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:30 AM
4

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:18 AM
7

That judge is so annoying. Always makes excuses for the men and blames the woman. Full on humiliated her at the end for no reason. Of course she doesnt wanna give up going on vacations to come home to a guy who cant stop smoking, makes her cook things that she cant smell without gagging and clean up after him while having sex on demand. Hmm wonder why that marriage didnt work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:46 AM
13

People make you feel like a weirdo if you’re not online dating. Yup, I tried it for a few weeks then deleted it. Everyone acts shocked when I say I dont use OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 04:14 AM
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Exactly, I really believe it will too. Effects are already showing. Living/growing up in such a hypersexualized pornified culture is damaging to everyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:49 AM
5

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:46 AM
22

Yeah I do too but I dont love being objectified and only used for sex which is what most guys especially on tinder are doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:45 AM
7

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:26 AM
30

Lmao I recently came across Hasan and was wondering what was up with him. He would joke about being single like he was some ugly incel or something. I stopped watching him though cause he made a few comments I didnt like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 03:16 AM
5

Holy shit. Tell me shes leaving him and taking her kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:36 AM
6

I swear men have a blue balling fetish. I never got their need to CONSTANTLY see hot objectified pornified women 24/7 when they cant jack off. Not only when they can actually jack off but in public and basically every hour of the day. On tv, on posters at their work stations, in video games, in movies, on social media, on billboards, in advertising, walking down the street, on their clothes, some even get tattoos of it. It must be a weird power play where they have to feel as manly and alpha as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:35 AM
4

So true. People think its not effecting them because theyve never knew what it was like to not be effected by them. Do you have those studies btw?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:09 AM
23

Really? What age? Im young and theyre all still selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:27 AM
49

Porn has ruined all of their minds. Its specifically whats put me off of dating for so long. Theyve all seen the worse and nothings special or new anymore. Theyre all desensitized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 12:23 AM
18

I hatee this. People say it with ted bundy all the time. If a guy ever said to me that ted bundy was a "genius" Id assume he wishes he could be as manipulative and get away with sht.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:37 PM
10

They just want someone to stay in their shadow and wait on them hand and foot so they can do whatever they want and get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:10 AM
7

Can you find her on facebook or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:08 AM
6

"Thank you, next" Blocked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:49 AM
41

Yup. Probably just likes staying in and gaming while she cooks and cleans up after him. Clearly using her. What person doesnt like going on dates or doing anything with their gf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:37 AM
50

She was pretending to be a cool gf and now actually realizes she wants more. If this guy cant deal with women wanting their bf to treat them right then he should be single. Men who think women should just give give give and never expect or be "entitled and needy" (in his words) to anything shouldnt be in relationships if they cant maintain them. They hate women wanting more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:25 AM
20

Well he deserves to stay in and eat mcdonalds all day, alone. With no gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:14 AM
3

Yess Ive been trying to find a way to word it and you did it perfectly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:03 AM
7

“I’d look at hot girls with my partner! I’m not jealous and insecure!” But you are a doormat. Would he look at hot men with her? I doubt it. Maybe hes just jealous and insecure. Side note I hate when even other women objectify women. Beauty standards are so high for women they get judged by everyone men and women constantly. Its so fcking annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 04:01 AM
9

Dont forget nagging too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:56 AM
22

Not the worst song out there right now (ahem positions by ariana grande) but I feel like celebrities can feel lonely too. I like the song ngl. Plus he donated money to a covid charity and did a song (Stuck With You) and featured other peoples videos during quarantine so its not like he did nothing. And I dont even like him lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:42 AM
24

Lmao so true. She looks like a dried up raisin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:40 AM
29

If a guy says hes "nice" or a nice guy thats a red flag Imo. If they have to say it rather than people just noticing that about them then its weird and Id take it as manipulation into portraying theyre a certain type of person when theyre not. Just what I noticed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:36 AM
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People love gaslighting actual confident women who set their own standards into believing that theyre actually the insecure ones for wanting any attention or love. I see this when people say if you cant handle your bf/husband watching porn/hanging out with other women then youre the insecure one when really its the women who dont set those boundaries who are too insecure to set boundaries or think they deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:30 AM
44

Yup, definitely misogyny vibes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:25 AM
19

Honestly Id dump the guy for sure. But first Id ask if hed be willing to go to a male strip club lol. Then Id dump him, even if the answer was yes. Objectifying women for fun isnt cool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:24 AM
13

That last sentence is so disrespectful. And the point of a relationship is to get to know someone.. No offence but it seems like this guy doesnt really care about you, I mean just because a guy pays for you doesnt on its own mean anything. He has to show thought and wanting to make you happy ect. It just feels like he wants a woman to stick around so he throws cash at them without actually caring about you as an individual. Sorry if I got too deep of course I dont know everything about your rela…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 03:16 AM
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Lmaoo so accurate. So glad more women are catching on to this lol. This is probably my favorite tiktok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:53 AM
17

A guy who wants to make you happy and satisfied will definitely do the bare minimum of planning and taking you out on dates on your birthday and valentines with no problem. Theyre out there. You deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:42 PM
39

“Chore-play is the best” When the new generation raises kids and all their jokes are porn based.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:36 PM
10

Do they actually think their partners are cheating when they did? That just seems weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:24 PM
21

Yup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:11 PM
15

Do they think the same doesnt apply to men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:11 PM
156

Ugh I hate them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:05 PM
153

I could never imagine sleeping with a man who does not want to. Thats where men and women are different. Men want power/dominance and women want to be desired/have real intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:04 PM
204

Some comments were saying it was "her duty". They dont even hide their sexism anymore. Women dont owe men sex no matter what, I thought we moved past this already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:02 PM
19

Exactly. Its a rabbit hole of the most disgusting porn they go down then never come out of. I swear theres a correlation between pedophilia and beasitality. I was watching a youtube doc called "dont mess with dogs" about furries running a illegal porn ring and all of them were both into animals and children. I saw the same with Shane Dawson, he said he was into children and animals at different times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:57 PM
3

Do you have that article?? I had that idea but have nothing to back it up, it makes perfect sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:55 PM
21

Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:07 PM
31

So true. Them watching so much fucked up porn ruined their minds and now theyre too cynical causing them to be emotionally dead and not value intimacy. Their only goal in life is to be as AlPhA as possible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:05 PM
17

What.?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:57 PM
95

They want people to think the only people against porn are religious nutheads because then it normalizes porn to everyone else and makes people think its fine and the only people who are against it are crazy religious people with no scientific reasoning. Its a marketing strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:13 PM
7

Guys dont care as much about being used for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:09 PM
12

Women dont use reddit /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:08 PM
7

Either way this is most guys mindset and how they think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:06 PM
9

Also why its better to stay away from guys who do ONS and party/go on tinder for hookups.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:02 PM
64

What is with the cannibal kinks lately?? Cannibalism on a rise On the topic of kinks, theres definitely a correlation between a guy who has kinks and him objectifying women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:57 PM
18

the cognitive dissonance it takes to be straight but absolutely fucking hate women is mind blowing. Id just ask if theyre gay then. They hate more than anything to be called gay and think that hating on women makes them more alpha and cool when it should be seen as gay. If you hate women so much then go date men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:40 PM
8

Yet theyll be on the floor sobbing if someone kicked stomped their balls.. smh overreacting dicks everyone knows it doesnt feel like sht. So dramatic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:27 PM
14

Was it in the early or late 90s? Weird question but I always thought Cosmo was a preteen magazine so Ive never bothered to read it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:40 AM
21

Lmao what if the writer was writing those as a joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:38 AM
27

"Noticing someone is good looking is different from finding them sexually attractive" Ive noticed women can differentiate the two but men cannot.. So for men it isnt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:33 AM
13

Yup I was thinking the same too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:25 AM
59

Honestly shes a pick me. Look at her MVs, she objectifies herself and other women for male attention. Isnt her newest one her making out with two other women in a pornified way?? Having a guy pay for you and buy you stuff doesnt excuse them of other pick me behaviors see: sugar babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:22 PM
37

Lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:14 PM
6

Yup exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:08 PM
9

Yeah but still, a grown man should not be dating or sleeping with someone under 18.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:28 PM
8

Seriously???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:19 PM
4

Yeah true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:15 PM
3

Lmaoo what?? Did he tell you or did you noticed something was popping??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:10 PM
29

I mean if theyre attracted to your neck now theyll be thinking about choking you half to death anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:06 PM
11

Its gonna be the new trendy sex position in 2 years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:03 PM
3

I always just called them look diggers or pussy diggers. Trophy diggers could work too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:56 PM
22

No they dont believe it. Ive never heard of guys who are with the obvious gold diggers complain about them, its always the guys who dont and couldnt even afford to have them. On a different post on here someone else said that men make fun of the kind of woman they secretly want and I believe that, theyre just jealous they could never afford a hot young gold digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:54 PM
8

First sentence. Please show me where, cause Ive never seen such a couple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:26 PM
13

THIS. Its also really not about "not shaming people" and accepting people because if it were they would not shame other women for not being into it. Theyd write articles about how not being into any kinks is fine and okay but just doing judge others who are BUT they dont. They make fun of boring vanilla people. Im not saying kinks are okay but it just shows its not actually about accepting everyone and "not shaming them" but rather forcing women to also play out these kinks for men instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:11 PM
15

On top of that its them promoting it to teens and even pre teens. Id consider it grooming them to be okay with men treating them like this. Not only do they do that but they actively shame women and girls who arent into it by calling them boring vanilla prudes, which I would count as coercing women who just want to fit in or be accepted and coercing the to buy into doing this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:05 PM
34

They think theyre progressive but theyre really teaching women to ignore their survival instincts to please a man sexually. You cant "shame" or "disempower" him or say anything mean. Its literally come full circle with teaching women to be as submissive and spineless to men as possible. Its regressive as fuck. Teaching women theyre "bigots" for standing up for themselves or putting themselves and their safety first. With mens track record of abusing and raping women why are they encouraging wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:55 PM
7

Ikr. Like do they not think? If someone was really into kids but its obviously illegal, whats the next best thing? Acting it out in a legal way. And theyre obviously not gonna say theyre actually into kids of course theyd go with "oh Id NEVER do it in real life its just a fantasy for me :)" because who tf would admit they actually want to fck kids? Theres just no way a man who is into age play isnt a real pedo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:50 PM
17

He could lie and trick you, you'd think it's just a play, then he would eat you. Exactly. I dont know why they wouldnt think someone would lie to manipulate them. Like do they think a real rapist/cannibal would be like "no Im not like those other guys who only fantasize about it, I fantasize about it and actually want to do it one day" like no..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:44 PM
12

Lmfaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:22 PM
41

Maybe thats why the pro kink women are not all that bright, all their braincells have been cut off due to being choked nearly half to death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:19 PM
104

Every rapist has a "rape fetish/kink" before they actually raped someone. Same with murderers and cannibals. I dont get how people are supposed to differentiate between people who fantasize about it and will go on to actually do it and people who wont. Im sure as hell never trusting a man with any violent kinks, I dont know why they do. Dont they have any survival or self preservation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:14 PM
37

Yup soo true lmao. I always thought it was a misery loves company thing where they want to being all women down to their level so they dont feel as bad and other women cant be seen as better than them because they all do the same things or something. Or maybe they know too many men have fucked up feitishes and instead of admitting its wrong they try to convince themselves its okay because thats easier than admitting most men are beyond fucked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:11 PM
30

This. This is how most men are thats why the porn titles always have some sort of "wrecked" "abused" "destroyed" even when its just with average women. It shows how they really want to treat women, and its in all of the most common/popular porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:01 PM
24

"broken" as in past the age of grooming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:56 PM
42

Theyre actually insane wow. i mean whats the point of killing a random pedestrian for no reason? Theyre unevolved and violent as fck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:50 PM
205

If hes not doing anything for your birthday, anniversaries or valentines day just leave. Its clear he doesnt care about you anymore and is just wasting your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:37 PM
6

He was a pedophile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:57 AM
2

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:40 AM
4

Are the spices whispering to her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:30 AM
2

They know theyre the more emotional gender lol thats why they had to take the focus off of it by calling women the more emotional ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:20 AM
5

There are whole entertainment genres dedicated to humiliating, torturing, and demeaning us (porn, rap music, country music, etc). Every adult comedy movie makes us the butt of the joke, every other genre makes us a prize to be won and owned. We're expected to shut up and take it as men rape us, humiliate us, gaslight us, deny us autonomy as people. We're expected to raise, parent, housekeep, on top of looking exactly like what society wants while doing everything men do. If we crack, ohh we're c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:17 AM
1

I mean incels exist.. Also people still use whisper?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:13 AM
6

"The booty call is a wonderful thing—it's like orgasms on demand!" Yeah for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:08 AM
5

I mean the phrase booty call is just him calling up a prostitute for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 05:07 AM
4

Also they forget coercion exists. Just because someone agrees to something doesnt mean they actually really wanted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:56 AM
6

Its actually insane that so many people believe and think this sht is okay. Actually unbelievable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:52 AM
6

Shallon Lester is honestly awful and I have no idea why this sub likes her at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:45 AM
9

at's not even close to true these people are really acting like all you can have is some kind of Mormon sex or beating people and cutting them with knives. Get help! I hate this people think in either two extremes, either passionless starfish sex where the woman just lays there bored until its over OR getting beaten and being a submissive slave like..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:29 AM
6

I’d have to look, but I’m pretty sure I’ve seen an article that called going down on a woman without expecting PIV a kink Really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:22 AM
2

True.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:12 AM
5

I- This sht used to be seen as serial killer in the making sht. Wtf happened??? Why do you INSIST on defending any sexual fetish?? Your sexual fetishes so say something about you and how you really feel IMO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:09 AM
28

Is this Beyonce? Im pretty sure she was groomed by Jay Z.. Wasnt she under 18 when they met and 18 when they started dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:04 AM
-1

Yup. Especially female rap music. But thats always why I kinda disliked Beyonce, all her MVs were very porny, but literally all of them are now so
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:03 AM
10

This sub is anti-kink and BDSM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:56 AM
6

Yeah but I mean hes getting it without putting any effort in so why would he? Women need to stop giving a f about these guys cause they dont either. They see you as an easy lay that they dont have to put any effort into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:40 AM
1

I mean isnt it the same when women are submissive though? Like what the dom does to them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:37 AM
17

Women should do this more lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:36 AM
9

She "loves" deepthroating but is sore days after and doesnt cum from it? Shocker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:33 AM
5

"She shouldnt care about costs if she loves him" He would be willing to spend more money if he loved her. And I bet hes still expecting her to be his maid. Why is it always on the woman to prove that she really loves him while he does nothing for her? Why is it never the man that has to prove his love? (speaking generally not on this couple specifically).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:10 AM
2

Why is she laughing like thats funny..??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:19 AM
10

Yess same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:18 AM
8

What movie?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:05 AM
11

I stopped during the pandemic and havent dated around since, do guys say anything about it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:03 AM
47

Theres no reason men shouldnt like pubic hair. Its a sign of sexual maturity. They didnt have a problem with it in the 70s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:58 AM
11

homewrecking fetishes What?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:39 AM
29

I was arguing with a guy about how prostitution shouldnt be needed and he literally said its the same thing as flipping burgers..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:34 AM
3

before the advent of the internet, my mother told me to never take "dirty pictures" of myself a Was it common to take nudes before the internet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:32 AM
33

I recently started using this photography contest app thing where you upload your photos you took to different categories and people vote for them and going through them I sometimes see some random woman upload their very amateur low quality nudes taken with their outdated phone, sometimes with their face in them. They look nothing like even the "artsy" professional taken ones and Im just like.. why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:30 AM
9

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:15 AM
4

Yeah same here, never really got it tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:03 AM
23

How would foot binding make the vagina feel tighter? I always thought it was cause men just liked to see how far women would basically mutilate themselves just for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:01 AM
8

Id still count that as sex unless its just making out. Bjs and handjobs or whatever still count as sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:56 PM
16

Yup for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:50 PM
29

Ew why are you even talking to this guy??? She is not ugly or fat in any way wtf. I feel like guys think theyre the only guy in the world lol. They think if they think something then all other men must think it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:36 PM
26

Your last paragraph is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:22 AM
80

Theyll be communicating in porn categories soon since thats all theyll be able to comprehend .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:11 AM
33

Was there really a thread like that? Someone should do a "What are men good for?" thread and it would be crickets. Theyre not good for anything anymore. The outrage would be hilarious if it wasnt so sad and hypocritical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:08 AM
13

I was just scrolling through a instagram account that posts all about men in music being rapists and pedos with proof. Crazy and I dont trust any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:56 AM
6

Cardi B is a major pick me. And no I wouldnt get anything for a guy on Valentines day, just feels weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:40 AM
8

Imagine if they were reversed, men wouldnt last a week but they still tell women theyre being over sensitive or emotional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:29 AM
47

Yeah men dont like it because it obviously gets in the way of them getting whatever they want but no I dont care anyway. Its okay to be selfish, almost every single man is and no one gives a fck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:21 AM
14

Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:18 AM
8

Women give things to men on Valentines day.?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:23 PM
7

No, if anything Id much rather just adopt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:19 PM
1

Only thing I would change is act unbothered, dont act mad or aggravated. Thats the reaction they want, specifically this guy. Its a power play and they want to make you upset/mad but if you act unbothered they know they cant effect you. Someone else said to just smile and pay but block him right there and leave. Youre comeback is good I just wouldnt act or sound mad while saying it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:57 PM
19

Exactly why Ive always said imagine if the majority of porn was women getting off on men being beaten humiliated and tortured they would make it illegal in a heartbeat. Also do you have the link to the art project? Sounds interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:57 PM
52

"men NEED porn because it's BiOlOgY for men to want variety" Lmao pathetically sitting at home jerking off to a video of two other people fucking on a screen is not natural. IF anything actually going out and getting women to have sex with you in real life is more natural that that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:27 PM
5

Uh ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:07 PM
5

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:48 PM
8

Yup exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:41 PM
21

Eh I feel like this is just excuses. The kind of person to have sex with over 400 women in the first place already didnt value intimacy. It doesnt matter how many people you sleep with, it doesnt make you automatically not value intimacy. Thats on you. Men just look for excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:18 PM
33

I shouldnt be shocked at the audacity but I am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:38 PM
98

Honestly thinking about what kind of porn each man watches makes it real easy to never take or accept their shit ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:32 AM
4

Porn isnt real life, shocker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:24 AM
15

Yeah Ive noticed this too and it annoys me so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:13 AM
43

incels do. Its not just incels its every man. Men everywhere judge women on their appearance all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:56 AM
137

Cant she take a hint? He clearly doesnt like you very much. Move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:27 PM
42

When they demand me to get them a drink, I get them water, nothing else. Can they not get up and get it themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:29 PM
318

I FEEL like men do this thing where they find a woman hot and then turn it around in their head to she wants to fuck me and then find some small excuse as to why to justify it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:56 PM
61

Theyre so delusional. But I feel like they just think of any excuse for x woman wants to fuck them like "she looked at me for more than 2 seconds" or "She slightly smiled in my direction!" to justify them thinking of her in a sexual way or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:44 PM
6

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:31 PM
44

Amateur is even more weird to me. Like it seems creepy and pervasive and too personal. Like they have a fetish for creeping on random couples sex lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:26 PM
14

Yeah theres still porn but you can report it, not sure if it does anything though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:24 PM
18

Exactly. Scrotes are watching sexual content from pre-pubescent girls and young teens all day, and developing paedophillic tendencies which are becoming mainstream. You should make a whole post about this and how men are only viewing women one way because thats all they see of women. You worded it really good. Its so true and I wish more people realized this. Social media like that is doing harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:17 PM
62

It really would, someone should do that though cause Im tired of these jokes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:12 PM
30

Yeah everyone complains that the sub only advises people to break up with everyone when really its just them repeating "work it out! communicate!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:01 PM
4

apparently calling yourself a slut, I really do not get this at all. They want to remove the shame of women doing sex work and stop slut shaming yet call themselves and let men call them sluts and whore for what? Enjoying sex or being a sex worker? So basically theyre still slut shaming while preaching about not slut shaming. So I can kink shame them all I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:50 AM
7

I was waiting for someone in this sub to talk about Trisha lol. I think Moses is definitely the best guy she dated but I just watched her recent frienemies podcast and she said he didnt make out with her until 4 months into the relationship yet they were having sex, didnt get her a birthday present and doesnt cook for her when shes cooked for him but he was talking about how much of a good cook he was lol. I think there were other things but either way Im happy she finally found someone good for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:24 AM
14

I thought that type of porn was really illegal. But anyway if they excuse killing cats and dogs surely they could write off killing humans for erotic purposes is okay? Most serial killers do it for sexual reasons so I dont get this whole idea that "if its for sexual purposes then no its okay" when that should be even more alarming if theyre getting off to it sexually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 06:01 AM
5

Honestly same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:54 AM
14

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:41 AM
11

Yet they can state that they prefer big boobs or ass and everything else from race to haircolor ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:27 AM
3

poly pockets?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:07 AM
6

ignoring the fact that he treats you like shit, and therefore does not care about pleasing you. Thisss. He cares so much about pleasing her but what about youu, someone hes currently dating. Unless he still likes her more than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 05:04 AM
6

Also just because they didnt text something doesnt mean it didnt happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:57 AM
6

Then wouldnt all women be masculine and into masculine things? lmao Also this is a very sexist and opressive thing that men and women think. That women arent their own people and theyre nothing without a man and cant have opinions/personality outside of being with a man. Women have their own personality and definitely dont automatically change their whole personality and opinions after fucking a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:29 AM
3

Well dont you know only women are supposed to be hairless barbies, only men get to be human. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:51 PM
2

but for real, it's hilarious how they're so used to putting all women in a category so their brain damaged minds can grapple with one concept at a time. Being able to hold multiple, competing views of women makes them burst a blood vessel. Thiss. They group women into different sub categories and then think theyre all the same. Probably why they complain that women are so "complicated". They never realized each woman is an individual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:48 PM
2

I noticed that too so annoying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:45 PM
1

I remember I used to watch a channel of this guy who made awareness of stuff like CP and child trafficking but not in a conspiracy way. A bunch of women came out and said he had pedophilic and sadistic desires and manipulated and coerced them and was cheating on his wife with them.. projecting guilt is totally real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:42 PM
1

Its perfectly reasonable for them to do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:37 PM
3

Theyre delusional and paranoid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:34 PM
5

They can break up with women for being on a "male hate group" yet watch porn torturing women and thats not considered women hate? And she has to stay with him because women cant have standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:47 PM
2

"you bitches wait till january 6!" Theyre literally proving FDSs point. Like is women dare have standards then were gonna make them pay! How is that not proving the point of why FDS needs to exist and more women need to follow it to not end up with these controlling ticking time bombs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:44 PM
12

"Let me guess. In order to fuck you, I need a truck and 6 figures". "No, you just have to be decent. Clearly you don't make the cut". He was so angry that I had to walk to a different neighbourhood They love to disrespect women but can never take it when its done back to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:32 PM
7

Right? Theyll call women "too dark" or "too fat" while in the same sentence complain about how women call men too short or too broke. They can be picky about looks but women cant be picky about financial stability
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:30 PM
6

Exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:20 PM
21

"Cause you're a woman" Ironically enough, women arent meant to do anal sex. Men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:20 PM
8

Yup. I dont get it either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:17 PM
15

Of course it would permanently damage your asshole. Its literally not meant for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:17 PM
11

Well if only anal turns him on he should go fuck men then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:15 PM
7

How did she react??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:14 PM
9

EXACTLY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:11 PM
16

Id just tell them to go fck men if theyre into anal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:05 PM
11

They were horrified I even mention anal on them Exactly. Because they know its degrading and they of course dont want anything in their ass because its gay, Its gay to want anal either way. Receiving or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:04 PM
21

Im sure they like it because women dont get off on it, in the porn Im sure what makes it hot is that she looks in pain. Some men dont like women having pleasure during sex or enjoying/wanting sex. Its a power thing to make them do something painful that they dont enjoy just for them. They know women dont get off on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:59 PM
6

This. Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:57 PM
15

Women arent supposed to like anal sex. Its not made for sex, theres literally a vagina that was right there. Anal should only be for gay men, they have a prostate women dont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:55 PM
14

Its not like they care about womens mental health AT ALL. So why should I care about theirs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:49 PM
5

I think he was pornsick. You think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:43 PM
18

Imagine not being able to sexually function because of porn lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:41 PM
10

Yup but unfortunately women are still putting up with this sht and having babies with anyones who is able to cum inside them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:39 PM
27

Yup so true, I think there was a study somewhere that said watching porn makes the brain think they actually had that sex with that pornstar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:36 PM
22

I hate them lmao I was talking to some guy and he literally said that women are like spoiled children now a days because they sit around and get taken care of while the husband does most of the work, I was like "In what world?" Id love to live in a world like that but this one aint it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:30 PM
17

EXACTLY. Men thing feminism is women wanting to be superior to men and wanting men to worship them but thats really because they know without feminism thats what men expect of women. And they would never be able to handle it if women expected what men to out of relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:20 PM
31

Yup theyre the ones who act and think theyre superior and better than women, constantly disrespecting them and then are surprised when women hate them for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:02 PM
7

Thats so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:54 PM
24

men are superior yet cant dress themselves, cook or clean after themselves yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:49 PM
13

No idea who this guy is, what games did he play with his wife?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:43 PM
18

The first page was good but the rest.. no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:40 PM
54

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:25 PM
4

Got game? The only game they need is being their age. Pedos would be happy with any chance they can get with a underage girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:22 PM
5

Cause they cant handle anyone especially women thinking anything bad about them. They wouldnt last a week being a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:07 PM
3

Yup exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:43 PM
11

Exactly for that to even come to their mind is 100% a danger sign.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:23 PM
6

Well since men already use "women are too emotional to be in positions of power" as a reason me thinks that they would 100% throw it back in all womens face to guilt trip them into doing whatever they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:17 PM
14

Well why didnt he see her like that before they had a baby? Now all of a sudden he respects her too much to degrade her but not before that? And I really dont get women who are into that. I cringe everytime. Youve gotta have no self esteem. It also continues the idea that women are w/hores and s/luts for liking/wanting sex which is disgusting to me. I hate that people seemingly want to get rid of the religious, backwards idea that women are dirty, temptress, c/ckteasing, s/luts or whatever for w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:54 PM
5

Lmaoooo so true though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:31 PM
18

Lol theyre just mad that their boyfriends wont propose to them at all so they call anyone who at least gets proposed to ungrateful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:28 PM
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" Here’s an example I saw the other day. A guy didn’t want to go down on his girlfriend because she didn’t shave down there. Girl became upset and basically said she didn’t want to have sex if he wouldn’t go down on her. Most of the comments in response to this post we’re defending the man because he’s “entitled to have preferences”, and calling the woman sexually coercive, essentially implying that she was manipulating him by withholding sex and that was abusive behavior. " I HATE how many peop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:59 PM
30

Well if they use the emotionally connected argument, wouldnt just having a one night stand no emotion thing not be considered cheating? While in a relationship of course. It just doesnt make sense. But Im pretty sure even then if the women in that scenario watched like really hot buff guys only (no porn with women in it) or even just pictures of them he would get incredibly jealous. Especially if she was neglecting him for it and preferred it to having sex with him. Also I hate it when people re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:44 PM
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I feel you 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:31 PM
10

Not even doing that as a wife. Then hes just gonna marry you so he can get someone to be his maid. If hes marrying you for you hell be able to clean after himself and it wont matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:48 PM
26

A few time ago, a judge was suspended for trying to sell his 12-year-old daughter "services" online. The investigation has ruled that he was only writing this out of "fantasy" and that he had no actual intent to do Holy sht.. Even IF he didnt actually do that whoever has this "fantasy" is still beyond disgusting. How do you look at your daughter that way? Shouldnt be allowed to even see her after that. Thats why the fantasy argument is dangerous. Things that should be seen as the beginning stage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:44 PM
24

Yeah I hate when people think its "artsy" to objectify women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:37 PM
11

Any man who has at least 1 functional braincel knows that women who don’t have ‘kinks’ - and this is still the majority of women - would see these things as abuse. Is it though? Honestly Im pretty sure a majority of women at least act like theyre okay with choking and slapping. Still doesnt make what he did okay AT ALL. But I honestly do feel like guys think thats what girls like in bed and if they dont then theyre "boring prudes who are bad at sex anyway"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:18 PM
20

I was watching a video on a guy who murdered his wife because he felt emasculated a couple months ago and the comments were mostly this and tbh it scares me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:58 AM
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" becomes the whole speech of “you haven’t tried it yet, I think you’d like it”. No, because I don’t hate myself that much. " I hatee this. They think all women enjoy being slapped and choked and humiliated and degraded because women in porn and "cool girls" do. Its unfair and ruined sex for me. I hate that men see women like this. They really dont get it either, but just imagine if men were the ones who were expected to be treated like women are during sex. I hate that sex has become this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:51 AM
18

Ask him if he could do it since he expects you to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:42 AM
20

Why do men thinking paying for someone's meal is being taken advantage of? I dont think they actually think that, they just say that cause they know they can guilt trip women into not paying that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:12 AM
4

Well Ive always been to stubborn so Ive always dressed for comfort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:02 AM
30

I always thought the asians are submissive thing came from anime? Im not sure at all though but I feel like guys just saw submissive anime girls and thought thats what asian women are like and it became a thing from there. Or was it always a thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:27 AM
15

Where did he say that? I know he joked about pissing in bottles and leaving them beside the bed ugh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:34 AM
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Imagine if women did this shit. Like women used to pretend like they didnt even shit at all and shes worried about telling him to stop leaving shit in their bed. I cant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:32 AM
6

And their need to assert dominance is power. So when they say rape is about power theyre right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:13 PM
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their sexual impulse IS to have power over women and to dominate them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:11 PM
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I think its about power. Or about power and sex. But as you said even the entitlement to fuck whoever they please is for power. In the end it all comes back to them wanting power over women. Men use sex for power and can use it as a weapon. Thats what the professionals mean. Also Im glad professionals came to see rape as a power play because it is. When people used to think rape was about sex people then victim blamed women for being too sexy so "he just wanted sex" and that it was her fault for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:09 PM
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Doesnt really matter though. If it wasnt her it would be someone else. The man makes the commitment and chose to break it. If he does he clearly wasnt that committed in the first place. Its all on him Imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:58 PM
9

No. Sue him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:56 PM
14

Liberal men call prostitutes demeaning names like whore and slut but they mask it as dirty talk. Vast majority of them would fuck one but never marry one. The same liberal men watch torture porn and it never clicks for them "that must hurt, I feel sorry for her". For them shs's just an object. They still need to be told to do chores around the house, they just don't argue back "that's a woman's job" Wow thank you. This is so true and I feel like everyone needs to hear this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:39 PM
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Yeah I feel like its a difference between feminism and liberal ("new age") feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:36 PM
2

I think if men didn't dehumanize women in the way that they do, makeup would be unproblematic Honestly I agree but not at the same time. I feel like if men dont respect or see feminity as weak then thats their fault. Just like how if they see women as objects. Thats their mindset and not anything wrong with the women but I do see a problem with makeup how it is now. I wouldnt if society wasnt the way it is now. I mean if you havee to wear makeup anytime you leave the house because youre self con…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:27 PM
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They didn’t involve being called a whore and brutalized This is what I never got. They go on about not slut shaming women and yes I agree but they also like to be called a "slut" and "whore" during sex so isnt that still sending the message that women are sluts and whores for having sex? I always hated that. " And I think that’s the greatest loss. What they see as empowerment is actually a loss of self and putting on a show " Men know its degrading and dont see it as empowering but they dont tel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:54 PM
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Whats if thats actually what they mean. They dont care what type of sex the woman wants, if it isnt what men want then its "sex negative"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:30 PM
8

Yup me too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:28 PM
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Its literally just a manipulation tactic for men to get what they want for free. Sad so many women give in cause they know it works
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:28 PM
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"They can’t view sex as intimacy anymore. " so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:05 AM
6

for sure. I came across this account a month ago and saved it: @mansonisabusive • Instagram photos and videos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:20 PM
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Wasnt he the one who dated Winona when she was underage? Yeah I dont trust him either. No way there he wasnt manipulating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:15 PM
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Yup and also, men lie. Of course he would deny it. I really dont trust famous men with groupies they alwayys end up doing shit especially back then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:10 PM
2

Didnt he do songs with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:07 PM
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Cheating is either a power play or theyre truly pornsick and do it for the thrill. Beyonce, Rihanna and others have been cheated on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:05 PM
20

Didnt he have his new girlfriend dress up like her or something and was obsessed with her years after?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 11:01 PM
1

Ariana Grande never really looked underage to me.. In the beginning of her career in like 2014 yeah but not anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:58 PM
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Some say 17 is okay because the AOC is 16 in some places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:51 PM
20

Exactly. I read a story on here about some guy feeling bad he got turned on by a little girl saying "daddy" because he was so used to it being used in a sexual way. When you are jerking off to something so much theres no way those people dont ever really get turned on by animals or kids or whatever because they associate it with a sexual context.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:48 PM
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Boobs a hole of course. Its crazy how they fuck literally anything with hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:46 PM
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Dogpill is 100% of them projecting all the porn they saw of dogs fucking women. Theres no way its not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:44 PM
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yeahh no its about fucking animals and you cant convince me otherwise. I literally watched a youtube doc called "dont mess with dogs" about furries running a bestiality ring and no one knew. But this does confirm that men like "variety" because they get bored and want something new because their brains are so fried they cant look at women as people, only categories (red haired, asian, blonde, goth girl ect.) to please them endlessly chasing the next exciting new thing until nothing works anymore…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:32 PM
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"not only men objectify women women also do it too!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:25 PM
13

But the twerking thats trendy is sexual.. Like shaking and spreading your ass is sexual Idk but it just is. Just like shaking your boobs in a mans face is, of course its going to be sexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:13 PM
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I feel like deep down they feel ashamed of it so they have to keep repeating that its okay and empowering to reassure themselves so when anyone has the slightest criticism they take offence to it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:53 PM
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And theyre pressured into doing dangerous, hurtful "kinks".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:46 PM
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That last comment is soo true. Like Meghan thee stallions new video or the doja cat and saweete one, I keep seeing people post screenshots or clips from those two videos I just cant. They objectify themselves and other women and honestly I see it in female pop music too. Its not empowering at all and I wish it wasnt soo common. Almost all mainstream or popular female music videos are just objectifying and Im sick of it honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 09:42 PM
7

So a bitch is just someone who calls out someone who is disrespecting them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 08:48 PM
7

Maybe he just doesnt want her to convince her friend to leave him/tell her anything bad about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 05:06 AM
2

Yup men are sooo emotional its not even funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:44 AM
2

Yeah thats really sad. Like I said Ive also had two friends who did that too and heard about more stories like that. Women especially ones of the newer generation are definitely into that stuff now too. Its just so normalized in our culture now and I hate it, its in popular songs too (female rap music, male rappers do it too ofc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:34 AM
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Yeah exactly I was like aw what are you doing..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:23 AM
2

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:14 AM
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Aw thats really nice! " he was really present in the moment instead of trying to act out the porn highlight reel in his head " Thats exactly most mens problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:06 AM
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The thing is that rape isnt about sex its about power and dominance. Rapists want to hurt women and have dominance over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:09 PM
2

Get it out of the gene pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:06 PM
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First offence should be life. The woman has to live with it the rest of her life so he should spend life in prison.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:05 PM
4

Yup same thoughts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:56 PM
7

Yeah same at this point its just stupid, like if you dont want a naked picture of yourself online then dont post one online..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:55 PM
7

Yup exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:53 PM
24

Yeah I dont gets whats empowering? I mean theyre still conventionally attractive bodies so its not like a body positivity thing and men have liked looking at naked women for forever. Saying its empowering for women as a whole is weird, maybe for personal confidence but Idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:51 PM
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Literally one of the videos is a man fucking her in doggy style? Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:46 PM
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The difference is the sex they have doesnt involve intimacy, like the guy on one of the last slides said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:24 PM
10

Well with emotional connection that would just be a relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:22 PM
5

Yeah she has a few good ones though. Ive liked her since I was younger but positions is honestly just embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:05 PM
8

Samee. Honestly Arianas a favorite of mine but ugh I hate the lyrics to that song. Embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:00 PM
5

Ive always been picky with lyrics and the message people promote but kept it to myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:59 PM
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Their husbands are broke thats why lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:46 PM
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Right? Now they need to literally torture you to get off, prefer anal to vaginas and then still prefer porn anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:43 PM
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Proud of her for standing up against it and calling it out but Im really not proud of my generation (the same one), the reason this has to be said in the first place is because the majority of women/girls are doing it and promoting it in the first place. I honestly really hate my generation because of how normal porn and violence have mixed and became so normal and expected now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:40 PM
25

Well they cant stick their dick in their masters degree either so whats the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:54 PM
30

Youre lucky you got to experience sex before Ive still never had sex because all men my age (Im 20) just want to recreate porn and Im seriously not interested. Wish it could just be more normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:16 PM
7

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:14 PM
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" I feel like most heterosexual men just fundamentally do not want to listen to women. They see it as weak and emasculating. Because they believe that women are inferior; in their mind, taking any kind of direction from a woman is a direct attack on their masculinity. Hence the kneejerk defensive reaction that most men exhibit when being challenged by a woman. "' This is soo true. As a pre teen I was sleeping over my aunts house and her husband got drunk and she politely asked him to please shut…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 06:03 PM
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They use the "its biology" to prove that they just cant help their bad behavior and all men do it... Until someone mentions women being picky with their partners and having high standards is also a part of biology
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 05:43 PM
8

Yess Ive always noticed this too and I always hated it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:17 AM
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Yup. Makes me sick honestly. They probably just think "well all women like getting slapped in porn so whats the difference"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:01 AM
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I mean it basically already is. I cant believe we got to this point and I have no idea how or why..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:00 AM
15

Men just objectify women into subcategories. Some are into asian woman, black women, white women, latina women ect. They all stereotype each race and objectify them and its disgusting but it fits in with the overall objectification
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:56 AM
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They dont love, thats why. They just like domination over someone and to get free sex and get cleaned up after and cooked for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:35 AM
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I remember a long time ago someone else said that too and it honestly makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:31 AM
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Yup Im sure thats actually true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:27 AM
6

Lmao spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:41 PM
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So true. Also women are called too emotional all the time as reasons to not be taken seriously so how are womens mental health taken more seriously exactly? Maybe in the sense that its a stereotype for women to be more emotional but thats literally it, and its not a good thing since they use it against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:15 PM
3

Yup so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:52 PM
10

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:39 PM
9

Exactly just feels like an excuse at this point. Nothings gonna change if we all just stay the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:36 PM
3

But yet theres thousands of sexualized female video game characters.. Even in kids video games like fortnite. They couldnt handle what women do for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:19 AM
2

They literally cannot handle the attention being away from them for two seconds. This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:12 AM
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They dont actually go on this sub or read the posts, they just mimic what they heard other people say the sub is about. Ive seen people say that this sub is about trying to scam mens money and Ive never seen a post like that ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:09 AM
5

Men talk about women like that allll the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:07 AM
8

Yeah true but Im still so surprised at how unaware most women are I mean its almost everywhere in movies, tv, porn, the "jokes" men make, music, podcasts, radio shows, social media posts ect. Kinda hard not to see tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:46 AM
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I feel like men laugh at how pathetic they perceive women as, they convinced them that being degraded is "empowering" and they eat it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:35 AM
2

Lmao spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:25 AM
4

I absolutely hate the simp thing but I think its died down a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:23 AM
6

Still, men degrade sex workers too for sure. Maybe its their kink to worship sex workers but in everyday life men are not worshipping sex workers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:21 AM
5

Yeah men really dont like women enjoying or taking pleasure in anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:04 AM
3

Fantasy is literally my entire universe Thought I was the only one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:59 AM
2

Soo true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:57 AM
7

Um no she should not have to suck him multiple times to tell that hes pornsick. If he can only get off from bjs then hes pornsick anyway so dont even bother. Normal men will come perfectly fine from PIV because its more natural. Pornsick men will only come from bjs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:43 AM
5

Why would you downplay your job? There was a post on here on why its bad to make yourself small to appease men and I think its an important one. Theres nothing wrong with your job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:30 AM
2

You dont need to be broke for a guy to pay for you. It just shows hes invested in you, you dont need to be dependent on his money, its just like a nice gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:27 AM
5

Thats a really good and important point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:20 AM
4

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:06 AM
14

It definitely is. " If it is the first time and he is very turned on, I would expect a man to be able to finish " exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:25 AM
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Yeah I cant believe its framed as progressive feminism to push women who are uncomfortable to have sex before commitment. Sounds unreal tbh. " or I was being unfair to men " Is all you need to know to realize its not about women or feminism, its about catering to men to make sure they get their own first regardless of if the woman is comfortable or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:09 AM
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Nope I wouldnt do it. Guys who have sex with that many women definitely objectify women and thats clear in how to talked to you. Also whos to say he didnt lie to other women just to get sex from them? And Imo I feel like guys who have had sex with a lot of women are more likely to cheat too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:55 AM
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Honestly youd be surprised, especially with the newer generations. A lot of them are into kinky stuff Id say the majority are. Its in all mainstream porn and people copy it. And they absolutely talk about their sex life to their friends. I feel like dismissing it as a little online thing that doesnt exist in real life just isnt accurate. In my age bracket all sex has become is degrading kinks and detached from any emotions. " I've personally never dated a man who was into that, if you screen the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:48 AM
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Also basically coercing young girls into doing bdsm or kink by the constant narrative that "vanilla sex is boring" "youre a prude if you dont at least like to get slapped, choked, called names, spanked ect.". It made me feel bad for a while and just made me put off sex in my teenage years because sex like that seemed tramatizing tbh and I didnt want to deal with it but Ive seen many young girls or women even get coerced into doing kinks their boyfriends/husbands want or think they should act lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:33 AM
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"Sex has been used as the basis for female oppression for over ten thousand years " Which is why men taking their anger out on women through "bdsm" or "kink" is wrong and sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 03:20 AM
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Same with Winona Ryder and Jonny Depp but I always thought that was really gross that she was so young and he was so old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:48 PM
4

Yup. Its really the opposite though. Women who are secure and confident with themselves dont degrade themselves for male approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:41 PM
14

Like when everyone got so offended over that "Im either having a daughter or an abortion" joke a while ago
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:17 PM
5

I agree with you 100%. That tattoo is so fcking stupid and inconsiderate of the women who had that happen to them and lost their life because of it. I would never befriend anyone like that either. Alot of people like to defend the true crime community but honestly I watched a video on one once and it just felt like the people were using it as entertainment and like you said gossip and it made me feel weird. But yeah I always knew about edgy 14 year old girls obsessing over Ted Bundy or the Colum…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:55 PM
8

Yeah true but I always thought it was more because they were famous, the men these kids are looking up are random inmates in their state.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 01:38 PM
4

Yeah its gotten way more common now that "sex" has gotten more degrading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:53 AM
3

Yeah exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:51 AM
5

It doesnt do anything for the tree trunks either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:44 AM
10

Ive seen them say stuff like "Its the ultimate form of power over someone knowing you could end their life any moment". Theyre deranged and thats why I hate when women act and encourage other women to try this stupid shit. Its not fantasies to them, in their mind its the only legal way to act out their fantasies. Doesnt matter if its rape, pedophilia or strangling. Theyd do it in real life if it were legal. Its all the same and thats how they really view women, as lesser and below them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:02 AM
4

ItS ThIEr DaRK hUMoR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:59 AM
3

You got called masculine because you enjoy sex?? Are we in the 50s? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:54 AM
14

That reminds me of a post where a woman was saying that she told her husband that she did certain degrading sex acts with hookups that didnt make her feel good because she knew she would never see them again and then he asked why wouldnt she let him do them to her and she said because it would make her look at him differently and would hurt her emotionally to see him like that and he genuinely still didnt get why she wouldnt do them for him. And all the comments agreed and said if you do x y z w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:26 AM
12

I was just thinking after the post showing the top videos on pornhub, they were all degenerate incest, pedophilia and degrading shit. Even if he doesnt watch porn now he once got off to that shit. They all have. Though I remember a post where a guy hadnt watched porn in like 10 years or something and said when he checked out the top videos and he was genuinely shocked at how violent and incesty its gotten so theres that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:13 AM
8

Not me but Ive had past friends talk about their bfs not being into porn or porn style sex/rough and they had to talk him into it because they liked it.. Ive had 2 different past friends tell me those similar stories
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:05 AM
14

I wouldnt go as far to put monitors or whatever but how are you gonna even find out if hes doing sht behind your back if you dont check his phone or computer once in a while? They can hide that sht good for years. Id rather not waste my time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:02 AM
4

So true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:55 AM
19

Men just hate women enjoying things. Everything women/girls enjoy eventually get mocked. Reminds me of how professions become seen as less once women take them over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:53 AM
14

I read someone say that men actually get raped more than women and by women too and said that men are just embarrassed to come out and thats why the statistics are that way. What the internet does to them jfc. Like he unironically argued that women rape men more than men rape women I cant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:50 AM
11

The thing about homelessness and suicide.. women end up sex trafficked, pimped out or as prostitutes if theyre homeless and women attempt suicide more but men succeed more because they use more violent methods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:47 AM
14

"People claim that womens emotions make us less capable of responsibility" Says the gender that cant even be responsible for cleaning up after themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:44 AM
3

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:42 AM
10

Right? Like what do they want all women to give it out to any man who asks? How tf is that realistic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:39 AM
12

And then they act like they can be in positions of power yet women cant because "theyre too emotional". If men cant control themselves and are mindless sex dogs then why should theyy be in positions of power when they cant control themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:35 AM
10

Disgusting but youre right. They are all like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:33 AM
52

They would go on killing sprees honestly. They cant even handle women wanting to be taken out on nice expensive dates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:30 AM
18

This whole post is already a contridiction. "Women dont like nice guys they only like assholes but I have to pretend to be a nice PC guy because women dont like honesty (his honesty being that hes a asshole)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:24 AM
23

Yeah youre right, I just read the post about how women back then couldnt leave abusive marriages because they had no choice and Im like.. Theres women who willingly like being treated like that now.. Seriously what happened? 0 self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 04:03 AM
82

" ommunity hating findom (financial domination) because it's abusive and exploitive (but at the same time they're ok with physical and mental kinks). I just don't understand how they can be okay with one and not okay with the other " Maybe its because theyre sexist and dont want women to really be in any kind of power. Its all "dont kinkshame me" until they kinkshame lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:54 AM
64

Thats awful. Im glad now I never had sex as a teen. I wouldnt have done anything I didnt want to do anyway but damn when are people going to start talking about this problem? This is what you get when porn is as bad as it is and everyone encourages women to do anal and teenage girls are easy to pressure already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:50 AM
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No actually it is different, they have a prostate and women do not. Your last paragraph is so true, thats how they see women. That women are just supposed to do these degrading acts for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:47 AM
21

I never really thought about that and youre absolutely right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:42 AM
13

Yeah well marital rape was legal until 1993 so..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:34 AM
19

They do. They just hate it because that means their wife could leave them and they dont like that. But I dont get why they dont just yknow, treat their SO well. Like its not that hard and it would make her actually want to stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:20 AM
3

What types of negs would he say?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 09:11 PM
1

I dont really get that mindset. If you dont mind could you explain it? Is it because feelings are detached from sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:13 PM
9

Exactly this. This guy sounds so smug. Its so degrading to have those women put whatever that is on and use it to sell a product.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:04 PM
25

so "human needs" should all be free? I mean they pay for food water and shelter..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:01 PM
13

I think using "sex work" while making points against it would help more people see how phony "sex work" actually is. Because if you use "prostitution" they can easily write it off. Also prostitution just means prostitution when sex work can mean porn stars and onlyfans, camgirls ect. and explains why theyre all bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:58 PM
5

When they mean "visual" they just mean they objectify women. Theyre really not visual in anything else. Not even sex because if they were theyd be able to see if theyre actually giving a woman an orgasm or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:52 PM
4

Yup. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:48 PM
18

I cant believe those are the most popular prn videos. Thats so deprived. I dont even think the step sis/bro thing was THAT popular even like 2-3 years ago. What is there obsession with it? Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:15 PM
23

Ive had the best success when I still put personality but just excluded gaming. I feel like putting up bathing suit pictures there were more looking for hookups
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:04 PM
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The porn thing is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:00 PM
4

Ok but looking at her pfp she doesnt have either of the first two.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:38 AM
99

Men.. Are the ones to ask the woman to marry them..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:20 PM
3

I used to lovee going outdoors in the woods for hikes or bike riding or just walking around but I end up getting ticks all the time now so now I dont, If they didnt exist Id go outdoors all the time tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:10 PM
1

Ive never known a guy that uses tumblr wtf..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:26 PM
3

Hows Nicki a pickme?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:04 PM
7

They want them to still look like perfect sex dolls..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:01 PM
9

Men are so jealous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:56 PM
3

So he admitted hes too stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:17 AM
12

Men never cared for the children lmaoo. All they did even "back in the day" was go to work then come home and sit down, read the newspaper and wait for the woman to cook him supper.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:15 AM
42

It also kind of guilt trips her into just giving in and doing it. Ive seen that scenario before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:12 AM
6

I remember unfortunately seeing someone post about how masks are a fetish category now.. pretty disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:07 AM
5

I see that with female celebrities all the time, theres always hate comments picking them apart and then hating on whatever they can think of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:26 PM
24

You should make a full post about this. Ive also noticed women get large sentences for self defense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:18 PM
35

Do they just assume all women wear thongs all the time or..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:27 AM
8

I have no idea who either of them are. How do they portray him as an upstanding citizen when hes done that??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:20 AM
3

Never cheat? I didnt know dogs cheated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:48 AM
3

I love fish and everyone I know thinks its really childish to own fish and that theres "no point because you cant pet or play with them".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:39 AM
13

Ive always hated the association of women to cats. Like the whole "sex kitten" thing is so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:28 AM
12

Can you send me the link?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:58 AM
3

Yeah very true. I also remember reading something that said when men watch porn their brain thinks theyre actually having sex with the women on screen so it effects them in that way too. Not sure if its true though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:57 AM
4

No its not unreasonable at all. If its causing you distress he should make you feel better and just stop, if he cares about you. Also tbh I feel like hes using you as a virtual personal cam girl.. I personally dont send nudes or anything because I feel like it makes the guy objectify me as their personal porn star or something.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:52 AM
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I think they just "dont believe" in them because they dont want to be held accountable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:18 AM
77

someone should make that a subreddit like the notlikeothergirls one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 06:16 AM
4

I dont know why they dont. I mean theyd make more money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:32 AM
3

tiktok porn?? they allow nudity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:18 AM
15

Ikr. I wonder where their parents are too. I remember in the early 2000s there was a bunch of awareness to online predators and people knew not to upload pictures of yourself ect. never mind in bikinis dancing around. I have no idea why parents allow it now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:13 AM
9

Still to this day have never made a tiktok account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:11 AM
19

Crazy how much they hate truly confident women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:10 AM
10

Cause they dont love. They only "love" sex, and getting someone to cook and clean for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:09 AM
3

" Enough with this ''it's okay to be slut,do whatever you want'' feminism because these mottos are the reason why so many teenage girls are depressed now. " Honestly this is probably so true, I know it made me depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:32 AM
3

As a bad thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:29 AM
65

Uh no thanks lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:23 AM
123

Why do they even want to be turned on 24/7? Willingly blueballing themselves jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:20 AM
15

Lmao I just realized thats so true. Theyll take the side of the more emotionless person just cause they think automatically its logical
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:57 AM
3

Yeah they do Ive seen some admit it but I dont think all of them do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 01:41 AM
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The point was he was manipulative and faking it to lure her in, its crazy how some people can be that good at manipulating.. I never even realized all of that was to alienate her from her group
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:31 AM
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https://twitter.com/Awithonelison/status/1351314474175766533/photo/2 He did in another tweet...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:13 AM
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He thinks being anti pedos is wrong and says whore in every tweet. Hes got some fucking issues, kinda wonder what his upbringing was like cause.. https://twitter.com/Rosewind2007/status/1351428992402939905/photo/1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:01 AM
3

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:40 PM
37

And then she probably goes out of her way to prove shes not a "golddigger". I swear men calling women golddiggers is just trying to get them to put in extra to prove theyre not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:30 AM
2

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:20 AM
2

When will people get the idea out of their head that just because something is normal makes it okay. I mean slavery was once normal, so was women not voting and not having jobs, so was smoking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:32 AM
2

Yeah its probably the most shocking thing she thought of to get attention. Like people who do and promote disgusting things to shock people so people just talk about them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:21 AM
1

She always had the ahego face and wore and acted childlike.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:13 AM
0

Shes so disgusting and Ive always been saying this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 06:11 AM
3

Yup this is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:56 AM
1

Yeah for sure, theres a major difference between being dependent on a mans money and having him pay for stuff. Two completely different power dynamics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:54 AM
3

Ive literally seen women say that ugh..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:47 AM
2

Also in porn its the women pleasing the men so they get this ego that women should please them instead of the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:33 AM
8

I dont think they find it disgusting, they just prefer to degrade women and get off on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:21 AM
10

Yeah it desensitizes them to rape too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:15 AM
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Ive seen that quote before and its why Ive always said anal is disgusting and men only like it because women dont get any pleasure from it. Plus look at the way they talk about it like when people use "you just got fucked in the ass" as an insult. But women dont really listen, had one say she does it because she understands that her husband sometimes just needs a tighter hole to fck... Men absolutely take their anger out on women during sex, theyll bottle it up and when it comes to sex theyll ta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:13 AM
10

You just gotta open your mind ya know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:07 AM
12

If a man gets off on torturing women everyday then he does not see women as equals and its a reflection of how he really feels about women. No man who respects women gets off on them being beaten/tortured.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:05 AM
4

Yeah its insane. I recently just posted a screenshot of a tiktok promoting rape porn to kids on tiktok a mainly kids app..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:01 AM
15

Most men share them, collect them in their personal collection forever, send them to group chats with their friends ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:55 AM
5

Like a new iphone upgrade model
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:46 AM
18

I think there was a study that said people perceive women as talking more even when the woman and man talked the same amount
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:25 AM
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Exactly. I just dont see how people can think if a man can only get off to beating women and torturing them how could he ever see them as equals? I seriously believe no man who does that respects women at all. If they did theyd want to treat them with respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:19 AM
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Yeah men 100% stereotype different "types" of women and then make assumptions of exactly what theyre like cause they think women are all sub groups of different types of women who are the same and then put them in a box of what they think theyre like. It goes in with them objectifying women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:04 AM
5

Ew wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 12:48 PM
15

Wtf is an ice queen?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:42 AM
27

Ikr, they always talk about pointing out attractive women but why not point out attractive men too? Hm..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:34 AM
11

Lmaoo I saw one where she talked about going on dates with her bf to the strip clubs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:31 AM
25

So? Are all women supposed to be the same? Women are allowed to have their own deal breakers. Some women dont like cigarettes' and some do. Some dont drink and dont want a partner that drinks either and just cause most people do doesnt mean theyre not allowed to have that standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:26 AM
35

" where I am from calling someone "daddy" during sex is absolutely unthinkable, even for "kinksters" " Really? Even for people into BDSM? I think its the most popular roleplay thing like here even people who arent into whips or anything like that still romanticize the daddy thing.. I always found it absolutely disgusting though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:08 AM
135

No man who respects you does ANY of that shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 11:04 AM
11

Yup I do that all the time lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 10:59 AM
1

Wow it really is because they dont see women as serious professionals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:44 AM
10

Why do they always look at porn of women who are nothing like the ones they are with? Its so weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:57 AM
7

Eh Idk Id love someone whod do anything for me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 03:15 AM
17

She looks way younger than her age too so its even more extra creepy. She looks like his teenage daughter.. so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:37 AM
22

Damn women go through that yet men are always saying women live life on easy mode.. men like that are psychos wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:30 AM
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Do you have the link to the video? Thats crazy. And yeah its really weird that men associate going to someones house with sex, did that guy let his guy friends over his house or is that too gay?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:25 AM
49

My advice would be to ignore them and leave them on read. When you respond they like that because it shows theyre bothering you enough for you to argue with them while they act disinterested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:18 AM
26

I actually read somewhere that on the news they show and talk about more female teachers raping their students than male ones on purpose because "its more shocking and news worthy when a female does it" and it leads people to believe that more female teachers do that stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:43 AM
18

Men take pride in being the superior sex then do this.. I cant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:38 AM
48

I really dont get why men just can never say how they really feel. Its my biggest pet peeve and its honestly so frustrating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:32 AM
6

I usually act unbothered and flip it around on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 03:24 AM
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They just say that cause theyre used to women finally giving in, they dont actually expect to have to find someone else. Thats why women should never fall for this stupid trick. Keep your boundries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 02:22 AM
3

I dont get how people judge if someones smart or not just because theyre attractive or whatever. Its weird to think someone can either only be smart or pretty. I never got it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:29 PM
10

Yeah its like every tiny thing women do is analyzed and picked apart when men can just live normally its so frustrating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 07:19 PM
17

Theres a difference between being dependent on a mans money and not being dependent but him still paying for you because he wants to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:33 PM
13

Yeah probably. But whether intentional or not its going to have that effect anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:07 PM
11

My friend had a relationship start similar, he was clearly not into her and she kept perusing. Im really not into a guy if hes not clearly interested in me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:43 AM
1

Ik thats why I thought it was so weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:30 AM
2

Yeah exactly thats what I was trying to say lol, you worded it so much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:25 AM
9

Thanks for this comment. Made me feel better, Im also skinny with no curves and all guys always have to bring up how thicker women with curves are better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:16 AM
62

Same. Besides it being disgusting anyway I have no idea why someone would admit that on a personal account with their face on it. That girls gonna be known as going viral for liking rpe prn..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:11 AM
8

Aw sorry that happened to you.. And yeah Im not sure either I always thought it was a weird power play thing. I dont get the obsession men have with hair color either its pretty weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 06:08 AM
65

I think they feel emasculated so they have to take it out on the woman to feel like a man again. Ive seen men make an argument thats its understandable and reasonable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:28 AM
6

Someone should do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:22 AM
34

Thats actually illegal though.. Wtf.. minors get in trouble for distributing CP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 04:10 AM
29

I think they want it to be one sided. They dont care if the man pair bonds to the woman they just want the woman to pair bond to them so they have more control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:49 AM
38

To me theyre way more likely to be players, lower their morals for sex (lying to women), cheat, objectify women and are way more emotionally detached ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:47 AM
2

Yeah but thats really the most basic thing to do if you actually care about someone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 03:30 AM
2

Ew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:58 AM
125

I read somewhere that he liked to take brunette women and make them go blonde for him. Extremely controlling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:46 AM
2

Which one has the daddy fetish? Lol and billie plays on my local pop station, I only like her because shes an alternate to pop/hip hop women who wear super reveling clothes all the time, I dont have much of a problem with it its just nice theres an alternative. My sister looks up to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:20 AM
3

Yeah this makes sense honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:37 AM
1

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:30 AM
5

Thats probably why when someone brings up a problem one man did other men say "well its not all men" because they think of men as one or something lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:27 AM
8

Eh I still think theyre just manipulating. They know men at least -were- expected to pay on dates unless they were sheltered from society lol. And they know the world is not 99% equal they just like to say that to try and convince women/poc that everything fine because they feel threatened and dont want anymore progress being done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:21 AM
19

A man who loves you will not hurt you or degrade you during sex.. Thats the difference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 08:03 AM
14

Honestly I never got it either. Its really frustrating seeing other women have so little boundaries and just give in to anything a man asks of them, no self preservation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:58 AM
22

I agree. Also I hate those "help me step bro" jokes that women and men make all the fckn time. Its really not funny and I never found it funny. Its rape and always disgusted me how people ignore that and act like its normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:53 AM
10

Yeah its so easy to coerce women into BDSM because its so popular and they think they need to do it because other women do and thats what men want, that its normal because its in all porn and other women do it, that youre a boring prude if you dont ect. Its so easy to talk women into doing it when they actually really dont want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 07:48 AM
13

Same here but with makeup. I dont wear makeup and no one has ever really said anything about it and it hasnt effected me getting jobs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:45 AM
64

" porn is a reflection of what men really think about women " this is so true. Its not just a "fantasy" it shows a deeper meaning of how they see women. Theres no way you can jerk off to women getting tortured everyday and still think of them equally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:32 AM
16

Yup this is what I always say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:29 AM
109

Is dating a woman thats taller than you seen as a good thing now? Ive only heard negatives and guys saying they wouldnt date a woman taller than them. Im tall myself and was always confused because men go crazy over tall models
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 03:28 AM
10

Exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 12:09 AM
6

Wtf??! And yet men are allowed to push for certain positions/sex acts?? They called her a literal predator?? What is wrong with people?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:30 PM
1

What movie was it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:15 PM
3

vaginal vs clit orgasms feel very different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:58 PM
2

I read something that a vaginal orgasm helps pull in the sperm lol I looked it up: “When a woman orgasms, strong muscular contractions help propel sperm through the cervix and uterus, placing them in the fallopian tube where fertilization occurs,” explains Sherry Ross, MD, ob …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:56 PM
25

Yup and its beyond disgusting. I really cant believe people dont see anything wrong with this type of porn being one of the most common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 10:47 PM
1

Samee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:30 AM
2

Women get the whole "Jealous girlfriend" thing thrown at them and dont want to be that so they brush off their feeling while men would get just as jealous if the roles were reversed. People make it out to be that only women are jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:23 AM
2

I read the average age was 9
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:18 AM
1

Agree with this. FDS is the only place that makes sense to me too. Other places its either full progressive or old fashioned. Its a sane mix on here imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:17 AM
1

Maybe you shouldve asked him if he fears women laughing at him or a group of gay guys 2x his size to group around him and start catcalling him more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:57 AM
3

They only dont attempt it in real life because they know theyd get in trouble by going to jail or being harshly judged by everyone when they found out. Idc the fantasy excuse does not work for rape or pedophilia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:51 AM
1

Yeah but liking that you looked underage implies that he likes underage girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:44 AM
1

Yup so true. I knew a guy who would go on about "fat women" but was attracted to them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:41 AM
2

What decade is this? The 50s? Lmao she was nicer than I wouldve been jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 02:06 AM
2

Then he probably is at least a little bit gay and overcompensates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:35 AM
3

Dont movie theatres have cameras?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 01:05 AM
3

I dont really believe if they actually loved someone they would cheat on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:36 AM
12

Men who stay in relationships when they dont want to just because they havent found someone else yet pisses me off so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:33 AM
4

This is so true. " I've legit had grown men get in my face and start attacking me because I didn't have meat on my plate. I'm not kidding. Wasn't even talking to them " What is actually wrong with them? Thats literally insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:28 AM
1

Aw my rescue dog was afraid of men specifically wearing hats, glasses or heavy boots. Congrats on adopting him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:24 AM
0

Its an AD so its a fake story to try and sell the product lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:14 AM
3

If her saying a few mean words is abusive than what he is doing is abusive too. She snapped one time and by his reaction she clearly isnt acting like that all of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:06 AM
5

She was probably the one taking care of him while he was depressed on top of caring for their kids and doing the housework. He gives her one day to sleep in while she was up all night with the baby and acts like she should now worship him for it. Lots of people would just snap in that scenario.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:03 AM
3

Same, I never got into makeup because I know Id develop like dysmorphia and get really insecure over it. I also feel like a clown with makeup on its uncomfortable lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:45 PM
2

I have 0 problem with them choosing to dress modestly but those religions say men are above women, when men and women marry he owns her, marital rape isnt real, you cant get divorced from a abusive man because divorce is heavily looked down upon ect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:42 PM
4

Reminds me I saw a post of a guy complaining that women dont get off on pleasuring men because they dont get off to videos of men just jacking off while men get off to videos of women masturbating lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:16 PM
5

Yeah but tbf there are certain sex acts that are degrading.. I dont think they mean sex in general
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:03 PM
15

You know him? Set me up girl lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:53 PM
16

Honestly cuter than leo too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:52 PM
42

Same.. I love your username btw lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:39 PM
21

Ive noticed everyone makes up excuses for men being abusive "He was abused" "bad childhood" ect. yet no one uses those excuses on women who are abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:17 PM
3

I love your username lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:05 PM
10

They always say how its "better than working in retail or flipping burgers" then say to not judge sex work while theyre clearly judging retail and other service work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:57 PM
5

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:51 PM
3

Yeah Ive heard that argument a lot too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:29 PM
4

I feel like a lot of them dont like it deep down but know they have no power over men still watching those things so they twist it in their mind to be a good thing and instead of being forced to miserably do that stuff they say its their choice to kind of take back power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:25 PM
7

Thats really disgusting how they just assume all women have onlyfans because its so common now. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:12 PM
1

Right??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:11 PM
5

I actually was watching some video of a documentary of a man and women, he was a stay at home dad and she went on business trips and he was cheating on her and eventually killed her. A BUNCH of men were justifying it in the comments saying he felt "emasculated" and thats what happens like he didnt sign up for that kind of relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:51 PM
3

I dont think theyre worse but I see the point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:47 AM
3

Timmy gets his PS4 taken away for a month.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 10:11 AM
1

Exactly lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:57 AM
2

Exactlyyy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:34 AM
2

I dont either and was starting to believe I was the only woman who doesnt. Still im not going back on this boundary though. I just really hate them for some reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:06 AM
2

If thats how they think of going down on women then they also think its embarrassing for a woman to give bjs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 09:03 AM
1

Well tbf some guys like it when women throw up. I dont give bjs either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 08:54 AM
1

Yeah they can even do it to videos and edit someones face onto a video..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:48 AM
3

It really does 1000%. I feel like people either think its "dead starfish" sex or super kinky porn sex. For some reason people dont think normal sex can be passionate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:25 AM
1

Hm Im glad I wasnt exposed to porn too early, when I did start watching it I only watched and looked for vanilla stuff but as I got more addicted I would imagine myself as the dominant one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:17 AM
2

Lmfaoo it really does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:03 AM
2

I just saw some youtube video of this girl and the thumbnail was some shit like "Kinkster vs Vanilla "*some youtubers name* just doesnt get kink" or something like that its so fcking annoying. They go on about how it should be always consensual yet pressure women into BDSM by bullying them for being "vanilla". If you need to be spit on and slapped to cum thats on you. I seriously believe if you cant get off to normal sex then there is obviously something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 07:00 AM
3

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:55 AM
1

Vile wtf. What was the original prompt? Did he ever get in trouble?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:51 AM
1

Men are soo far gone I cant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:41 AM
1

Nope. Theyve all watched hentai before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:38 AM
2

Its definitely a power thing. They dont want women to initiate because to them it put the woman in control and they dont like that. When women actually enjoy sex to some that means theyre "sluts".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:23 AM
2

Well tbf sending nudes is a more personal thing and could be counted as emotional cheating just like a guy who receives nudes would definitely count as cheating. But usually saying in this case something like "Imagine your gf getting off to a bunch of ripped hot men then couldnt get off during sex with you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:11 AM
3

Hes literally cumming to other women and cant cum during sex with her. Of course she would feel insecure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 06:02 AM
2

Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:58 AM
1

Same. So disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:45 AM
1

Cause theyre pedos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:37 AM
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Probably was a joke a bad one still but if he was joking then thats vile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 05:00 AM
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The things I see are influencers promoting it to their young fans, people pretend like it isnt a big deal, Ive seen people use it as a compliment to other women and young girls like "Omg youre so pretty you should start an onlyfans" and people generally glamourizing it. Its really annoying and Ive seen girls announce theyve started an onlyfans right when they turned 18. Its sad really. Ive never considered it myself but I can see how they can be pressured into it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:43 AM
6

Idk I feel like a guy buying you something that expensive shows he cares and wants to make you happy. Of course its not like that all the time especially ones just looking to buy a hot girl over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:39 AM
15

So sorry you went through that. Ive definitely seen some disgusting stuff and its given me MH issues. It is sick how desensitized they are and the fact that its common is just beyond words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:24 AM
16

Theyre so mad that they get irrational when theyre angry they find a way to blame it on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:14 AM
4

Real straight men love pussy. If a guys into anal and buttholes hes either pornsick or gay. And Ill tell them theyre gay and to fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:46 AM
4

Well I doubt a man would talk like that in front of a female friend. This is what they do when they have the anonymity of the internet or women arent around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:59 AM
4

Yeah probably. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:40 AM
5

I always thought it would be a cool idea for an app if you can post these things they DM women, need to learn that DMing stuff has consequences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:38 AM
2

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:16 AM
11

Yeah really disturbing. There was some comedian and he made a joke something about how when in public he complimented a woman on her hair and she thought it was cute and the joke was about how they (women in general) think its innocent but really he was imagining how her hair would look like on his dick if she was sucking it. Idk that one stuck with me. Like they only see women in a pornified way always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 12:07 AM
1

Is it really that surprising though? The way rappers talk about women I dont expect them to respect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:39 PM
5

Imagine if a woman had "lost faith in the male race, prove me wrong" I wonder what the reactions would be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:20 PM
8

aww boo hoo theyre not allowed to play with their little dicks to pixelated women on a screen cause they cant get any in real life awww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:07 PM
5

Woah really? Howd they even find that out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:48 PM
1

Is there a correlation between finger length and dick size??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:10 AM
4

Didnt he get it reattached and become a pornstar and named himself frankenstein?? I couldnt have made that up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:30 AM
1

Reminds me of the song "In my head" by Ariana Grande.. Ive definitely struggled with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:04 AM
3

Jfc..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:40 AM
7

Im in that age group and so is my little sister and yes its completely destroyed love and sex and romance. I thought the only way to have sex was the woman getting degraded like I just thought that was how all sex was and there was literally no alternative. Thankfully I realized differently before anything serious happened but even the girls would joke and normalize doing extremely degrading things like it was nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:39 AM
3

Women attempt suicide more, men succeed more because they use more violent methods where women use pills which have a low success rate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:05 AM
2

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:31 AM
6

I always noticed this. They go on about consent and no slut shaming then go around calling women prudes and boring for liking "vanilla sex"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:07 AM
-4

Idk why but I recently was watching a video on some tiktok 18 year old girl who just kissed a 13 year old boy fan and people in the comments were acting like it was the equivalent of a man taking sexual advantage of underage girls. It just pissed me off tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:45 AM
8

Woah sorry you dont have to share if you dont want to but how did he hide or what did he lie about?? Ive met guys like that and just want to know what to look out for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:13 AM
4

Agreed 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:51 AM
12

Thats why I wouldnt do anything on camera or send nudes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:46 AM
6

Exactly what I was gonna say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:44 AM
2

Wait whats happening? Ive been gone for a while, why do they need to download content?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:29 AM
3

Yup. I do think any man who watches that stuff is a bad person but everyone wants to convince people theyre not and whatever bullshit excuses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:24 AM
6

Wasnt there the trend of semen on your face is good for your skin? I saw a bunch of pickmes making jokes about getting "facials" then rubbing it in as good for their skin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:22 PM
6

This is why relationships are hard for me, seems stupid but I despise bjs in general and dont do them. Always thought they were gross, Idk if theres something wrong with me but oh well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:20 PM
1

Just saw Mariah Careys new music video and she looked great too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:03 PM
3

Exactly what I was gonna say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:54 PM
1

Yup it annoys me so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:37 PM
2

Someone mentioned the 90s and I was reminded of Madonnas songs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:19 PM
4

Im sorry that happened.. I see people praising her and I remember going on tumblr just to check what it was about a few years ago and a bunch of her fans romanticized that stuff and it made me not like her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:14 PM
3

Uh whyd he bring up Ariana Grande? And whatd he say? Ive never used online dating except as a joke a few years ago. You can meet those types of people in real life and they would hide it too also so I dont really know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 09:05 PM
1

Empowering? How?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:57 PM
2

Same, a fan but yeah.. Tbh I dont even think that song was that catchy anyway. Did you listen to the rest of the album? I havent yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:55 PM
1

I know ughh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:53 PM
2

Apparently her new album was supposed to be about finding love again, havent listened to it yet though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:52 PM
4

Yeah I agree. I was honestly a fan of her but that video was disgusting to me. Im in the STEM field too. That clip of her in the stove was really gross, gave me that stupid "help bro im stuck" joke vibes. I wonder if she knew how disrespectful it is or did it on purpose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:49 PM
1

lmaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:43 PM
1

Yeah Ive always hated this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:37 PM
1

Yeah I used to be a fan but I really dont like the song. Besides the lyrics its just mediocre anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:36 PM
15

Until its a woman thats angry, then it counts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:11 AM
3

Yeah I agree, I used to sit out because of it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:06 AM
15

Even if it was just a minor thing no one has to stay in a relationship they dont want to be in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:01 AM
48

They know getting pissed on is disgusting and degrading. Theyre just trying to argue or gaslight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:56 PM
13

The what..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 11:53 PM
2

Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:16 PM
2

Idk but it feels like men care more about other mens opinion than womens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:05 PM
3

Maybe they know they need women but pretend that theyre so annoying to take back the power in that dynamic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:58 PM
1

Its cause they dont care
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:10 PM
5

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:29 PM
9

Wait what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:05 PM
8

Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:57 PM
16

Lmfaoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:49 PM
7

I dont really think those women were happy back then..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:31 PM
14

They just randomly decided to get rid of the s?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:17 PM
16

Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:14 PM
1

Ew wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 06:02 PM
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