I was watching a video about the Armie Hammer situation and in the comments people were defending him saying it was just a "kink he hasnt murdered anyone yet". Some of the people defending it were women. Literally anything can be excused as a kink now. These things are telling of something much deeper. If a guy gets off on torturing and keeping women as slaves then its safe to say he doesnt see women as equals or as people or respects them.