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FDS MEMESFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:10 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:07 PM
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FDS MEMESFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:22 PM
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FDS MEMESFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 04:18 AM
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#KickHimOut2020FabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:04 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 11:21 PM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:03 PM
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DISCUSSIONFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:09 PM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:21 AM
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FDS MEMESFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:44 AM
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FDS HUMORFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 12:46 AM
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PICKME CULTUREFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:19 PM
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DISCUSSIONFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:07 AM
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#JustLVMThingsFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:36 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:01 PM
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#JustLVMThingsFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:58 PM
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LEVEL UP BRO! FabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:16 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:59 PM
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#JustLVMThingsFabledAngryVillager/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:33 PM
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Which is a fair enough point and I'm sorry you went through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:55 PM
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Not sure how this is pickme behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 07:49 PM
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Affleck gives me similar vibes. Degeneracy runs in the family Also Rose McGowan called Nostril Beard Hair Ben out during the Weinstein scandal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:00 PM
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Had a YouTuber send an "artsy" dick shot once I stick to this sub for online interactions now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 09:33 AM
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Ben is going for "I showed u my nostril hairs, pls respond" energy, Matthew Perry probably has Olive Garden stains on his polo shirt, and Franco aptly looks like the neighborhood alert for a registered sex offender moving into your area... But like jfc they sure like grooming others but not themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:50 AM
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Matthew Perry ☠️☠️☠️ RIP Chris Pratt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:42 AM
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He just needs to yell the entire time and answer everything in caps. Insta hire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:11 AM
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I want to print and frame this now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:11 AM
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Tinder single divorced dad pfp, Hollywood predator version
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:08 AM
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I did the duck laugh meme out loud 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:06 AM
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That NSFW tag 😂☠️ (I didn't add it, but I love the subtle diss)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 07:02 AM
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Serious relationships only, but no marriage... So, bangmaid? Too many caps screams anger issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:47 AM
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Well, I just got treated like shit by the dudes lol Worse than the better looking ones, but that's anecdotal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:15 AM
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selfish privileged white women Pretty much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:30 AM
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Natalie Portman was sexualized at age 12 by grown men She didn't quit, but it did shape how she had present herself and what kind of scenes she refused to do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:24 AM
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It is also interesting to see how many people insist that women in our 30s are “delusional” for choosing single life over subpar men or blaming us for being “too picky” in our younger years. I was definitely not picky. I saw one good trait, fell in love with that and their "potential", and suddenly a butt fucking incel could be an Adonis to me. Anyway, from my understanding as I've also been called butt fucking ugly, scrotes should be happy I've taken myself out of the dating pool? You know, unl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:18 AM
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I'm not sure what to say, other than I really feel for you. What you said the other day about re-traumatization was something I couldn't put my finger on until you mentioned it. But it helped me figure out why I get so heated sometimes. And that realization helped me calm down. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:01 AM
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Nope. Kids come first. Children are a privilege that must be protected - not a right, not an extension of one's self, not secondary. I'm not saying they don't deserve romantic love and that men aren't unfairly biased towards them, but this is selfish and entitled. So, I should feel sorry they aren't strong enough to not subject their kids to LVMs? The love for their children isn't strong enough? I feel sorry for the children, not so much the mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:55 PM
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Tells you what he thinks of the kids... I don't know if I feel sorry for women who subject their kids to men like this for the sake of "love"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:20 PM
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Poor man's Reddit gold 🌟🏅🏅🏅🏅🏅🌟 Congrats! And give your kitties a squeeze for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 10:10 PM
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"this 19 year old I've known for several years is my true soulmate"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:25 PM
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OP of that thread, if you're reading this - yeaaahh, a little miffed you called this place a dumpster fire, but I still believe you deserve better. If you stick with this man, please follow the legal advice everyone gave you. But no amount of logic or pleading will make him feel or think differently of you or your worth. You have to decide if that is something you can deal with for the rest of your life together, as short or long as it may be. If you threaten to end things and he changes, that c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:23 PM
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I know, it made my shriveled Grinch heart go putt putt briefly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:15 PM
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"lawyer up" "This isn't fair" And validating her part in building his business up. I think they aren't outright saying "leave him" because everyone knows there's kind of no point in that sub? I mean if it's come to the point you need to ask Reddit for relationship advice... Better to list why and let them come to their own conclusions. Edit: wow that thread is getting downvoted hard 😬😬😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:12 PM
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"I need a woman to help run my kingdom" Also scrotes: "I built this by myself from the ground up."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:39 PM
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my aunt because she said I should have responded “thank you you too!” It's infuriating when loved ones say this kind of shit. And I hope the guy rots in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 06:31 PM
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Not sure where you're located, but if reporting to higher ups don't work, I would report both to both the licensing board (as an assistant I'm assuming he still has some kind of license or at least certification) and Department of Labor for unsafe work practices. He needs to have it on record, even if he's "sorry".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 09:34 AM
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Venting here has helped me. And regarding your other comment above, I'm sorry you weren't being heard and respected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:23 AM
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Wth that's psychotic I'm sorry your brother was trying to take advantage of your grief, that's awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 08:21 AM
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Is it just me or does it feel like you're being re-traumatized and read victimized when people refuse to listen to you and take you seriously? Sure feels that way sometimes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 05:43 AM
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Comments were telling her to check up on him as he is probably depressed and not be so mean to him. Similar excuses my sister made because her husband didn't feel like getting her anything for Mother's Day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:36 AM
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“Is it because I voted for trump?” Is that what he said to his ex-wife, too just lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:33 AM
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the breakup needs to be really horrible otherwise It was mutual and they were still friends lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 04:21 AM
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Oh don't worry, my sister knows he had no part in any of it lol weirdly enough, lying is one of the things he doesn't do and I'm very blunt with my sister Edit: to also clarify he didn't tell me that, he told my sister 🤦‍♀️ like wow dude, you're still her husband!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:30 PM
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Are those Avatar characters? Wasn't the dude a LVM? Seems fitting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:40 AM
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This one always makes me laugh 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:06 PM
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I want to start off by saying I'm not a holiday person. But I know it's important to the ones I love, so I get into the spirit of things. Such an easy way to make them feel happy! I dropped off flowers and a balloon the other day, handed them off to my sister's husband (hoping he'd "remember" to get her something). Today I Ubered enough pancakes to last two days and feed the whole family. I will have to scrimp a bit, but I wanted my sister to feel special, because it's important to her... Appare…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:57 PM
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You weren't kidding about the article babying men. But still a good, insightful read. Masculinity has historically been all about the three P’s: protector, provider, procreation. The more you protect, the more you provide, the more you fuck, the more of a man you are. Looks like today's modern man only wants to do one of those.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:37 PM
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Dirty... Feet... Not the grossest thing I've heard of, but... Did he get bored of his other degenerate stuff??? What's next, lint in belly buttons???? Just so weird 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 10:12 AM
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I got surgery and the ex got a cold. He was bundled up in my bed with panadol and juice 😂 Why is this so common??? Not to mention women are more sensitive to pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:39 AM
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I love your cats 😩💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 06:33 AM
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That could easily be my sister posting. In case my brother-in-law was going to "forget" about tomorrow, yesterday I dropped off flowers and a large tacky balloon ("HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY" in big letters) while my sister was at work and while he was home. I can't believe she thought her coworker was clever for buying herself a gift on mother's day. "I didn't know I could do that!" I was like "omg, that's only okay if you're single!!! You deserve better!!!!" 😭😭😭 It makes me sad because she's pretty su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:00 PM
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absolute worst of his situation with terrible decision making. A given, since he took you for granted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:23 AM
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I'd subscribe to that podcast. "FDS LVM Tales: the Yam Guy™"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 08:53 AM
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Aren't you wasting time by commenting?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:40 AM
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I'm sorry I have to ask... Yam guy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:35 AM
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I'm happy for you! I don't wear makeup out of laziness and discomfort lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 07:21 AM
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Same. Just a pickme mean girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 06:14 AM
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"ya both wrong" libfem devil's advocate She's a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:14 AM
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I think she needs less attention and more mental health support 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:12 AM
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I'm guessing his dick is small, too. Women his age aren't gonna say "size doesn't matter."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:08 AM
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I used to like dad bod. Now I'm indifferent. I love it when men lie about "body positivity" being only for fat women. Why else is dad bod a thing? Why are their leathery faces considered aging gracefully? They have less of an excuse than women for being fat, biologically speaking. I know sometimes you can't help what you're attracted to, but these fat or flabby dudes expecting fit women with little to no blemishes... Maybe they should stop watching so much porn. I'm all for women and FDS holding…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:02 PM
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Besides Disney as a kid, I could not tolerate romantic films or novels. I don't think there's anything wrong with liking them, I just find them boring as the main plot, versus a sub plot. I tried writing a romance novel, but the protagonist was turning into a violent misandrist, so I had to shelve that. I always Mary Sue my characters...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:52 AM
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Is having your window peaks look like (Coppola's) Geriatric Dracula in now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:46 AM
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Met when 18. Suuuuure. And no, you two don't have similar values. Jfc. Honestly, would not hesitate to plaster his face all over town with "pregnancy fetish" in big captions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:20 AM
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Whenever I see or hear about a man wearing a scarf indoors, I will always think of Tom Brooks from 90 Day Fiance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:56 AM
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I used to think they were awful for being mean to Homer. But I get it now. I wonder how many LVMs were influenced by that show growing up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:43 AM
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I felt the cringe hard
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:35 AM
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You know, maybe she has a point. How should we treat men? Saddest thing I saw recently was a WGTOW asking MRAs how they could help them. How about we don't help men? I think that's a start.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:31 AM
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The guys in their mid 20's looked as old as me. They hit the wall early.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 08:54 PM
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That's pretty much my constant mood tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:41 PM
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Sometimes I see compliments where they say the guy looks younger from the face gains, but I think "no, he still looks the same age"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:27 PM
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I feel horrible for her, but laughed at her description... I was so confused, I just froze for a moment. What is this? I wondered. It was one of the strangest dicks I had ever seen—sort of two-toned, darker on the bottom than the top. It looked like some weird chess piece, like a slightly flaccid bishop. For a second I actually thought the tech dude was asking me for medical advice. Had his dick been injured?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:02 PM
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While I'm flattered people say I look young, I think I look exactly my age lol Men age like shit. And they feel so entitled to women who are out of their league because they think ugly is handsome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:32 AM
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I refer to mens skin as "pork crackling" because its true So accurate and almost too good for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 07:15 AM
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You're right, that sounds a lot more accurate 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 05:26 AM
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Neurotypicals should be able to express themselves better. Are you serious?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:28 AM
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LVM's version... Words of affirmation: talk is cheap and so are they Quality time: sex or you doing chores for him Physical touch: sex Acts of service: you cooking, cleaning, and giving him bj's. Otherwise you should be grateful he drove you to a restaurant where you guys paid 50/50. Receiving gifts: he'll get you gas station confectionaries and you'll get him a PS5, otherwise you're a good digger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:18 AM
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Maybe we should just put a curfew on men 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:26 PM
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Zero effort. He has some health issues (welcome to the club 🙄), but it's not hard. I'm pretty broke still NGL but I think I'm going to buy my sister flowers for Mother's Day even though it goes against my rule for holiday gifts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 10:18 PM
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OLD is a cesspool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:46 PM
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"Cold and calculating" I don't even remember what the subject was. I do remember his comment, thinking I wasn't being manipulative, and that I was feeling tired and apathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:34 PM
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I love this. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:15 PM
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My sister said her expectations are too high and she'll try to not be disappointed if her husband forgets (AGAIN) to get her something this year :/ "because he's going through a lot of issues" fuck him lol Who isn't??? At least admit to my sister that you won't because x, y, z instead of "forgot because I was overwhelmed" God fucking beta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:54 PM
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Lmao that's a familiar scene 😂 my oldest had a bit of the pica, but somehow he lost the taste for plastic wrap. Thankfully. The youngest however...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:13 AM
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Not that I recall; I got rid of it as a precaution after reading an online article about salt lamps and cats. The cat I had at the time tried to "lick" flames off a candle once, so...he wasn't a bright boy, but very sweet and gentle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:12 AM
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LMAAAAAAOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:31 AM
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I had to get rid of mine because of my cats 😔 They're so pretty, tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:20 AM
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Also I know it's a sketch and there's overlays in that, but what's going on with his head? It looks like you're looking at his chin from below, but a muscular triple chin. Bad art, dumb message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:53 PM
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Probably Apex or Call of Duty, hella demanding and stressful, please have some sympathy smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:50 PM
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The person who made this must have some kind of brain injury cuz it's hella dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 03:04 PM
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As a slave to two cats, I can quite happily say I’d rather live with animals that shit in a box than with a man. Animals that shit in a box > Animals who piss all over the toilet seat and don't wash their asses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:52 PM
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Told a guy once that I liked trying different foods and he told me to stop bragging. Was it the yam guy? 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 08:54 AM
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His voice and mannerisms are so feminine, and it turns me off. Like if I had met him under any other circumstances, I would have assumed he was gay. Which is fine of course, just not something I feel attracted to. He also mentioned his ex was emotionally abusive and honestly, in my experience any time a man says his female partner abused him, he was actually the abuser. You're gonna end up his emotional tampon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:46 PM
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Nurse at work was talking about his girlfriend isn't the one. Likes her company, but meh feelings. Like, break up then, bitch??? And neighbor talked about how he hasn't had sex in ages, but he's not attracted to his gf and how she keeps on getting fatter. He's unemployed currently and smokes and games all day with his gf's friend 🤔🤔🤔 Both these dudes ugly. Just why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 07:37 AM
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I kinda want this as a tattoo.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:36 AM
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I actually think it's a woman, sadly. Late teens / early 20's. Middle class. Woke libfem. Not quite enough vitriol for that spicy manlet flavor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:12 AM
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I’ve never even heard of a male domestic abuse victim who wasn’t either the victim of a male abuser I only know one personally. But he's an illegal immigrant and he wants to be there for both his bio and step-daughter, as he's the only one working. Edit: Otherwise, everyone I knew / know is a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:02 AM
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Thank you 😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:52 AM
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...This all sounds like men oppressing men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 04:51 AM
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The alpha thing is a myth, too, the guy clarified / recanted Sounds about right tbh cause none of them are alpha lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:21 AM
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Rule 6 in the "About" section of this sub. Linking the post or mentioning the sub can create brigading. Brigading can get this sub banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:21 AM
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"male" OLD profiles that are actually just information/warnings for other women about TRP tactics (i.e. set the gender as male and orientation as straight so only women looking for guys will see it) I might do this, I got compliments from ladies on my "scrote call out" bio when my profile on OKC was still up lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:15 AM
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I remember one guy was saying he makes his bed every morning because of him and it's like lolololol Hopefully he's at least making them wash their ass cracks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:13 AM
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Did he have the Walmart ring on him when she dumped him or was he "working on buying it"? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:11 AM
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The Red Pill, pick up artist / fuck boi cult who worship Jordan Peterson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:06 AM
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I hate how I've done the work for dudes like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:03 AM
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Kind words would be appreciated. Eat shit Also is he really trying to gaslight Reddit???? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:53 PM
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It's a rope. My way of saying I can't take reading this stupid shit anymore. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:50 PM
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girl my boyfriend hasn't gotten me a ring, a proposal or a promise. i'd just be happy to get one at all 🤣 don't matter if it's fake or real, it's the thought that counts 🪢 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:03 AM
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Everyone knows block / ignore is the obvious answer, but I would've been tempted to reply, "venmo me $200 for emotional rehab first"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:51 AM
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I would not have a single ex At least man wise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 02:28 AM
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I'm applying less standards than men do for women and most still come up short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:33 AM
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In high school, during art class, two boys at my table were talking. They were saying, "be nice to the ugly ones, sometimes they get hot. Haven't you seen Jerry Springer?" They subtly started being nicer to me 😭🤣🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 11:17 PM
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I mean the audacity of women not wanting to be simps to LVM/NVMs 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 08:34 PM
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The tech guys here (30 to 50s) are revealing their incel nature. I think FDS is spreading.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:56 PM
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The men in my Reddit city sub say most of the police wives are lying about the domestic violence 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:46 PM
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POS scrote and pickme asshole 🤢 In positions of power...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:49 PM
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It's okay, I get downvoted sometimes. Especially when I first started posting lol But, I say stupid shit every so often. Have an upvote, but try not to take the downvotes here personally :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:17 AM
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Usually LVM have LVM friends and even they're like 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:12 AM
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"if the genders were reversed" As if When that happens, the dad usually plays video games all day and smokes weed and barely "babysits" Also... EVEN HIS GUY FRIENDS ARE LIKE LET IT GO, MAN... How do idiots make so much money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:03 AM
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I'm tired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:59 AM
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Slaves to their hormones, but the more logical sex. But when women are hormonal... 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:39 AM
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They probably think they're being cute and to make themselves appear a lot more harmless. Haven't had to do it in person, just phone calls. Oh, another favorite of mine was to tell them their voice was so high pitched my ovaries were shriveling. And yes, I know engaging is bad, I don't anymore 😔😔😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 12:04 AM
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Turning down a manlet is violent misandry smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:32 PM
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Better to ignore them obviously, BUT if you're feeling feisty and you have no financial or social repercussions, ask them when their balls are gonna drop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:21 PM
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"he was too ugly to do that to me" I feel that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 11:16 PM
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Beautiful flowers! Makes me wanna buy myself some...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:49 PM
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Men killed my drive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:45 PM
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This article doesn't seem to mention it, but she was also pregnant at the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:51 PM
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I hope your ex is rotting in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:09 PM
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Considering it's Russia, I'm surprised he was convicted at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:05 PM
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HVW and HVM, you're a good momma ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 07:40 AM
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Does he "help" you with putting the bed sheets on, too? My boys love doing that 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 04:59 AM
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The pickme brass knuckles I feel so bad for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:41 PM
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Raising their kid(s) virtually as a single parent while the forever boyfriend smokes weed and plays video games all day. What a prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:27 PM
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Ooof. I didn't realize there were more pages... My spelling isn't terrific, but Facebook is another beast. It's always the "livelaughlove" types who idolize the Joker and Harley Quinn 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:42 PM
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Wait until they live together and get married. He'll go from wanting to put in extra effort / a decent amount of his share to barely pulling the bare minimum, because she keeps on expecting less from him. I have never know a man to become more invested emotionally, physically, socially, etc through this type of "fairness". It would be nice if they did, but the SO and mom subs wouldn't exist if that was the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:22 PM
2

Nothing is going to change because she's okay with him not caring about her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:38 AM
6

Lol we all know just how much 😉 And even tho everyone but him is doing the work, he's going to be resentful and bitch to his gaming buddies 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:34 AM
3

Apparently his parents are former alcoholics. I think she gets info from them... The update before the one I posted above... Update: I’ve been up since 11:00 pm last night, reading all of your comments, researching and trying to figure out our next course of action. His mom is still here and I snuck away and talked to her for a few minutes while he was in the bathroom. She has been thinking the same and worried. I’ll be talking to him tonight about our best plan moving forward. First and foremos…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:44 PM
7

Imagine if she called him 3 in bum clothes and 3.7 in nice clothes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:53 PM
15

She still sounds like she's in denial. I don't know how he's supposed to get better if he still doesn't really care and she's martyring herself on his behalf. Edit: Maybe she's trying to tackle one issue at a time, but she hasn't even acknowledged the gaming and weed issues either. Assuming he does get his alcoholism under control, what does she really think is going to happen to those?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:49 PM
45

Time to get reusable pee pads to put under a couch cover, I guess 🤷‍♀️ And adult diapers. He smokes weed all day and games and drinks... Gee, where have I heard this before. Edit: this update 🤔 Last Update: We just had a good talk. Everyone can sit here and tell me to leave, but at the end of the day, you don’t know my husband and you don’t know me. He is not to the point of needing to to the hospital for withdrawals; he binge drinks beer a few nights a week. There are different levels of alcoho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 07:20 PM
2

I go between being annoyed to feeling pity and guilty over being annoyed back to annoyed again... it's hard to watch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 06:10 AM
24

Ugh. That edgy pickme reminds me of my former coworker (who had some diagnosed conditions) - same mannerisms, same look. She had a NVM boyfriend who was abusive. She told me she was a shit person who didn't deserve better. They both have an unstable sadness in their eyes, but I could be projecting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 05:04 AM
304

Vrooooom vrrroooommm clown car!!! 🤡🚗💨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 04:39 AM
24

"Women do this, too." I know some scrotes and pickmes are breaking their arms from patting themselves on the back from their libfem logic. Context is important. I know I'm not the only woman who has asked or explained something nicely 10 times, then firmly 5 more times, then blow up. I could draw a diagram, men would still be obtuse and put the mental load on me. These scrotes (LVM, obligatory NAMALT) are just so lazy at best and covert narcs at worst. You'll go insane trying to reason with them…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:08 PM
34

God, the audacity pisses me off so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:56 PM
14

It should be "forgive them if it helps you". I hate that shit. I sure as hell don't see men doing that for women very often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:33 PM
15

Wasn't she also his mental rehab? She's raising 4 kids, not 3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:53 PM
6

Imagine if women made this a thing as much as post nut clarity is. Both men and women would be putting up a fuss. But so many women just find post nut clarity acceptable 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:49 PM
2

There is one, but not associated. They hate this FDS. The sub is pretty much dead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:47 PM
47

I mean I think it has a nice ring to it 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 07:19 AM
307

What if I drain their bank account and max out all their cards. Then I'm bored with them. Is it post broke clarity?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 03:33 AM
72

Ohh nooo Anyway... 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:38 PM
91

I knew what I was doing when I clicked on the title, but I clicked anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 10:16 AM
11

I wonder how they feel about men with manflu
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 04:47 AM
2

Tuck that puppy right up his taint and cross em real tight. I might steal this line 👀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:20 PM
36

My LVM ex has only lady friends because they're the only ones who'll listen to his bullshit and he doesn't feel emasculated for pouring out his incel whining to them. Basically, he loves being an emotional tampon. I don't trust men. Period. Until proven otherwise. But I love this list, a great description of the variety of scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:12 PM
25

BDSM, making being a serial killer trendy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:19 PM
68

Omg I was like "he's trolling, what an asshole" 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:44 PM
18

Tf You probably treated her better than any LVM has ugh Sorry you went through that :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:37 AM
24

I see her posting on the SO or mom sub in 10 to 15 years tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:13 AM
29

Should just get "NAMALT" tattooed on her forehead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:39 AM
27

I had a coworker who picked her nose I worked briefly with her, but I loved her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:47 AM
213

Why are they even bitching... The husband is on board 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:19 AM
63

The Fuck. I was making excuses for him constantly - to myself and others. Sacrificing myself - hoping that someday it would be my turn. Hoping that he’d notice or care. Except he never did - and now I know - that is my only job to care for and prioritize myself. That hit close to home. It took me a long time after my fiance's death to realize he was abusive. I was making excuses for him constantly. I am glad you're reclaiming your life. Makes me happy when I know the ladies here are finding some…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:42 AM
50

I don't believe in astrology - BUT... If my friends do, I entertain them and look stuff up to talk about with them. I put myself in the shoes of someone who does believe or enjoy it. I take a polite interest. I don't go on rants the way men do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:08 AM
195

They look 30 in their 20's lol They just age horribly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:22 AM
968

"If men and women are equal, then I should be able to punch women!" They already do. I never understand the point when they say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 12:34 AM
16

They see women setting boundaries and refusing to be treated as furniture as militant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:24 PM
6

I just remember reading it in an article. I stopped watching the show because the LVMs (mostly Mayo guy) were getting to be too much 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 08:50 PM
21

He deep down knows he was a POC with Rose because no woman will cry just for asking her about past lovers! Minor typo, I think? 😅 I couldn't watch more than one episode of him. He's so gross and entitled. I saw men defend him because the dude has a medical condition???? Is it any wonder Rose only dates women now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:03 PM
29

My kink is misandry, I thought Reddit was kink friendly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:42 PM
94

"every day, we stray further from god's light" Tf am I in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:50 AM
11

LMAO love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:34 AM
44

Honestly, smart move. You're swimming through mountains of shit and when you think you find the diamond, it's really cubic zirconia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:51 AM
12

I think most women are "demisexual" but not most men imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:45 AM
8

It was actually invented by people on a roleplay forum to justify why their character didn't do horny roleplays but now the asexual community uses it. I had no idea that's how it came about; interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:44 AM
17

And noodles soggy af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:13 AM
94

My love language is misandry 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 12:50 AM
43

What they cook is usually spaghetti
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 11:31 PM
43

I mean u ain't wrong 💅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:52 PM
108

"Just checking this site out." Profile is a couple years+ old
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:23 PM
8

They ask these questions often when OP has addressed it already, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:19 PM
11

Edit : Disclaimer for lurkers, I understand we take women's experiences at face value. But this isn't really an advice sub for specific situations. It's an advice sub for strategy and a support sub for women who experience abuse. I've given men the benefit of the doubt for so long, I'm okay with giving women the benefit of the doubt instead from now on to make things even (unless there's something reaaaally glaring I can't dismiss.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:18 PM
7

"TINDER DATE TO MY TASTE!! 🔥This happened last summer and yes we are still dating 😂💙💦 Now I can clean here everyday" 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:19 PM
6

Omg thank you, I'm going to try this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:17 PM
44

If she's treating you like a child, then stop acting like a child. And the audacity to ask for emotional support 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:13 PM
5

I upvoted lol 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:03 AM
78

"I'm ugly and broke, but want a hot bangmaid who'll pay the bills and do all the chores while she works on all my goals for me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:43 AM
35

The children being demolished is an Adam Sandler reference, I think Edit: everyone please don't judge me for knowing 😔😔😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:39 AM
35

Lmao yeah that podium makes for great imagery 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:52 PM
26

And the usual mental gymnastics to explain off the LVM behavior into a positive trait that doesn't exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:31 PM
48

I wonder what the problems are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:13 PM
3

....that shower curtain used to be clear lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:09 PM
14

I think he's too lazy to physically keep up (with traveling) Probably why he can't get hook-ups either Dude needs to work out and ditch his wardrobe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:25 PM
262

"I have trouble forming emotional bonds without nutting" is that the same with your guy friends, bro, do ya nut one with them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:59 PM
57

For peace of mind, door security bar. Baseball bat flashlight to keep in your car and/or home. There's also flashlight tasers. Keychain that emits loud noise or one with pepper spray. They make some pepper sprays so the assailant gets dyed in the process. These are items I can order in the US at least, not entirely sure about the UK 😓 Glad to hear your kitty is with you and that you're getting your own place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:15 AM
3

Sort of. It was a slow ghost, then block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:16 AM
282

I love that she's wearing a dress / shirt with scales (scale like pattern?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:32 AM
14

My ex-friend offered me a key to his place. In front of his girlfriend. Who didn't have a key. Honestly, I was really confused why he was offering. As an afterthought, he also offered to my then boyfriend. In front of his girlfriend. Don't worry, she dumped him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:29 AM
64

When they forget chores, they're "simple" But being a man-hoare involves very "complex" emotions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:27 AM
19

That guy was dripping with "m'lady" vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 12:24 AM
172

Show them AITA threads and ask for their "unbiased" opinions. They out themselves pretty quickly. Don't make it clear what answer you'd prefer to hear, appear very open to "both sides".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:47 PM
6

Spelled it that way because I think it's a Always Sunny in Philadelphia reference (filled with LVM / LVW characters)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:45 PM
4

Yeah, I loved the comments. Didn't always agree with them, but the interactions were a big draw. It wasn't always polite or nice, but there was something about the way people brought up subjects that made me think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:42 PM
9

Ok is there someone on Etsy who can make these for me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:57 PM
5

I mean they've been waiting their whole life to get laid, yet 3 months enrages incels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:02 PM
8

They see one comment mentioning "I like abs" and suddenly it's like the hundreds of posts that say "I dated ugly dudes, they treated me worse" don't exist lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:54 PM
9

They truly can't wrap their heads around that this is their fantasy, not ours. I guess they're mad because they can't get Chad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:32 PM
9

I don't remember exactly, I was still pretty libfem back then, but I recall the vague feeling "this is getting ridiculous and stupid" even for libfem me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:26 PM
179

So, the Incel thinks a good looking guy who's a ho is a HVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:41 AM
5

I dry / wipe on my pants honestly, unless I really know the person 🤷‍♀️ Especially if the house has kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:52 AM
48

Maybe it was Mark Shrayber or someone else at Jezebel, but I remember them saying in the article comments that at Cosmo they would just come up with the stupidest stuff for shits and giggles while drinking. (I do not read Jezebel anymore, this was a loooong time ago.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:42 AM
6

Is it possible they were wiping on their shirts? At least the ladies. Cuz they probably don't want to touch a towel other people touched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:58 PM
3

Like they're not young teenagers or old boomers. Why are they using emoticons beyond plain smiley faces???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:54 PM
25

I read something about the adrenaline rush of knowing he's going to abuse you gives them those shark eyes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:51 PM
5

I like those, but the men who do don't like it for the same reasons I do. It's because the scrotes heavily identify with the male lead. Even Dan Harmon was telling off misogynists the show wasn't theirs to claim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:44 PM
24

"I am always happy and nobody believes me." But then said, "My ex said I am always happy and excited like a puppy." He was not happy deep down. His acting was really bad and I don't know why everyone buys it. Because he's dorky? Some of you familiar with my whining may recall a guy who said I didn't earn the privilege of knowing about his problems after he got mad at me for not knowing about them. This was him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 10:40 PM
11

They couldn't even make it biodegradable??? It's not a useful product and it causes more problems. And the gloves are weirdly huge... I guess for pads? Still... Packaging looks more in style with condom or lube boxes, to boot. I'd be embarrassed if I was dating or married to one of these guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:22 PM
12

Are you asking if him having a variety of friends is a red flag? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:03 PM
14

God I almost choked on my lunch LMFAO This is the part that really made me laugh His hand's like a Romanian woman trying to seek sanctuary at an 18th-century French church
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:43 PM
41

"died accidentally" = "I never had the intention to stop because I wanted to get off" Edit: The Grace Millane part had an article from a woman who went on a date with the killer afterwards. She listened to her gut, noticed the red flags.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:40 PM
93

I wonder how many of the men's suicides are "murder suicides"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:10 AM
18

These dudes make me feel masculine. Took me a while to realize I'm just an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:36 AM
18

It's a lot of mental gymnastics to avoid thinking about how her husband is annoyed by her feelings rather than being sympathetic to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:27 AM
11

Anthony is one of the most instinctively empathetic persons I know. Like my face scrunched up at that. He's "sensitive", not "empathetic" just lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 08:08 AM
68

If they use the dog filter, you know they'll be insufferable and dumb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 04:39 AM
48

Can't say I've ever had a woman harrass me, at least. Not that I can remember. Men have been a mixed bag. Some dudes get so pissed when you give them a look like you're having really painful gas when they approach 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:54 AM
31

"What lies between your thighs is genesis, how dare he spit upon scripture." Damn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:32 AM
20

I feel irrationally mad the food was disrespected like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:59 AM
67

It's weirdly frustrating that her garbage story was supposed to make this video more meaningful and romantic. Don't ruin good food like that 🥲 "He pumped n dumped me, but I begged him to stay. Now here's this amazing gnocchi while you think about that." 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:43 AM
92

That dish looked delicious, but the story was garbage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:27 AM
32

They don't want their car scratched lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:58 AM
36

I haven't really noticed. If I'm wearing a backpack, they tend to be more mindful (I guess they assume I'm a kid????) Cars hate all pedestrians here equally, I think lol When they're being assholes, like almost hitting me, I will walk even more slooooow to cross the street 🐌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:43 AM
10

"I love your small breasts" I... Never thought they were small until that day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:39 AM
1

Oh no Anna no 😰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:42 PM
1

I think about the dudes (strangers) I've checked on to see if they were okay / alive. I don't expect their time or attention. So weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:11 PM
183

That mom sucks. If you see the boy again soon, hopefully you can praise him. They sometimes absorb what strangers say. "I remember you! Maybe you don't remember me. You were so helpful when the toys fell the last time you were here, I'm sorry you didn't get to finish helping your sister. You're such a good brother to her."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 10:09 PM
3

He will shame both anyway One for being a whore and the other for not being one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:41 PM
18

Why did I have to see an ear with built up earwax being tweezed out before I had a chance to hit close lol 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 08:36 PM
30

If my kink is triggering fragile male Redditors, it's hate speech 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:54 PM
36

I'm so lazy, I just play with my phone, read Reddit, and go "uh huh hmm yeah uh huh" and tune them out. I don't want no convo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:48 PM
1

Okay, thank you for your reply (and other the other two people who replied, too)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:55 AM
7

? A lot of them don't respect boundaries, despite all the wokeness. I used to be a part of the scene and left for that reason. It's fine if they wanna do that, but so many are pushing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:46 AM
1

Is it different from a vegan woman feeding her cats meat based proteins? Genuine question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 04:30 AM
91

"men aren't allowed to express their emotions" cried the soy boy as he filled up his lady friend's DMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:07 AM
87

Rejection from women can turn into violence What sad sacks of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:03 AM
31

Unicorn hunters are annoying. I think I found the least amount on the HER app, but you deal with the usual weirdos who are on other sites. Lots of bi-curious / bi-questioning women there, too. I think most "established" lesbians are afraid of having their heart broken again with someone who's not sure, so I don't blame them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:26 PM
39

I guess that's why even tho I was always doing more work to make up for the slack, my male coworkers who stared at their phone constantly got paid more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:47 PM
56

Anyone got annoyed with the poly and BDSM crowd on the HER app?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:18 PM
6

Stop before you tempt me into being more audacious 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:00 PM
28

In practice, straight men use this aspect of feminism to act like the biggest pu**sies in the world. Ain't that the truth 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:33 PM
27

Like why do we need them Oh don't forget, they still want to be the "alpha" and have you act subservient 🙄 While they put zero effort into being an adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:30 PM
13

Bi-women or bi-questioning women seem to be welcome there And yes, the lesbian one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:13 PM
11

I don't think I'm allowed to link, but "LBL" and the last L being Lesbians
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:12 PM
45

I think women in general dealt with the pandemic better because they already had to dissociate before it happened
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:50 PM
23

I don't have any tips, but there's a sub for "late bloomers" that might be helpful in case you don't get many responses here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:31 PM
41

Women get so much hate for treating men the way women have been: disposable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:06 PM
6

I understand they're victims and in the fog(? Not sure that's the right term) and even though I was the world's biggest pickme for a decade... I didn't even have one child with them, because I had two conditions: stable financially and as a couple. When you think of children as a right and an extension of yourself instead of a privilege and their own individuals, it's incredibly selfish. Those children deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:00 PM
16

It really hurts their feelings when you don't "communicate" properly about wiping their ass, yanno?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:40 PM
4

These same "gentleman" also piss all over the toilet seat, what a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:38 PM
3

The guys who say this are so useless in life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:30 PM
4

"his cheating hurts him as much as you, stop playing victim"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:43 PM
2

I'm Japanese 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 05:21 PM
77

If I was more audacious, I'd probably be in jail
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 09:12 AM
2

When bored, I used to send gay porn Edit: I've since just don't really allow or deal with LVM in my life anymore, just to be clear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 08:45 AM
16

I like that you tore into him 😩👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:52 AM
121

If I was a total sociopath, I'd want a slave, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:37 AM
61

If most of the women he's dating aren't enjoying the date.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:36 AM
41

"Japanese women are superior to white women" Lol ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:29 AM
143

They still think they're the prize when they come crawling back lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 07:18 AM
17

Mine died thankfully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 06:15 AM
73

I am bisexual and I can't muster any attraction to men anymore. I think "butt crumbs". I like posting here because I know no one is going to lose sleep over me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 04:07 AM
4

Actually juuuust a cat with some issues (luckily under control now.) I figured since cat urine is so much stronger, it should work on human urine and Google seemed to confirm it 😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:17 AM
1

Lol ty
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:13 AM
56

This is why I'm not dating right now. Maybe ever. Those are the same questions I asked myself when I matched with women. It's why I deleted my profile, even though it was for friends only. I knew some would develop feelings eventually and I knew women would give it their all for a LVW like me. Like how I gave it my all to LVM. I wish LVM were as considerate as LVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 12:42 AM
28

The woman with the bob looked slightly uncomfortable for a brief moment 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:13 PM
22

I think I'm going to buy this book, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:42 PM
58

You don't understand, men are always logical and rarely they're allowed to be emotional. Toxic feminity has emasculated men beyond repair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:41 PM
45

Is this a way to... "take the word back" and "own it"? I'm getting too old for this shit, man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:36 PM
3

Sidenote: TIL I give off sociopath vibes to white men on the street? 😬 Could be covid, but women and other men don't go out of their way like that 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:31 PM
5

Why is he still standing? When sober anyway... Like I'd see red if some dude was doing this to my sister or friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:18 PM
5

The husband should have gotten rid of Sam as a friend. But at the very least... Don't offer the guy alcohol or let him near your pregnant wife??? If anything happened to her, he'd either blame her for feeling emasculated (all you, buddy) and/or go "I don't understand how this happened." He's so useless as a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:04 PM
10

To quote someone else who summarized her post history... OP wrote in a comment that the reason why he wasn't supposed to drink was because another time when he was drunk he 1) started eating from her bowl without asking 2) put his hands under her shirt without asking her and 3) after she went to bed opened the door and stood there until her husband dragged him away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:57 PM
27

I think we should do "therapist" for "professionals" like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:55 PM
121

Off topic, but do you find a lot of guys are assholes about PCOS once you tell them? Even had one guy joke to me, "oh are we gonna have mutated babies with flippers?" 🤡 Also happy cake day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:46 PM
115

It's like saying "but how did your crying make HIM feel after he hit you????" Not that extreme, and while I get her intention of not antagonizing anyone, her gaslighting makes her so fucking stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:31 PM
26

Alcoholic Carpet Pisser guy could use that diaper, tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:28 PM
3

Women FOUGHT for what support they have. If you want help fighting your own gender, then stop trying to tear us down for fighting back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:26 PM
249

"he isn't distressed until he's called out" C'mon lady...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:23 PM
149

She had more balls than her brother. But why a "next time"? Why not now? I know there's going to be idiots feeling sorry for the stalker because of the gas station confectionaries and his prey animal energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:16 PM
56

Inorite Weak af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:14 PM
53

What in the world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:10 PM
5

It's depressing how we know these kind of dudes exist because we've met them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:59 PM
5

I'm sure there's normal bi men out there but why are so many cheaters or narcs????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:56 AM
23

At least babies and toddlers wear diapers 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:49 AM
2

There's a sub for gaming addicts who want to quit. Honestly, I'm impressed. Sounds like bare minimum stuff, but I'm just happy there's something productive men are doing. Many seem to realize how they weren't there for their families. It's just really nice to see in contrast to other subs. I'm quietly rooting for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:42 AM
62

I don't know why she doesn't make him sleep on that floor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:28 AM
124

Rub his face in it But enzyme cleaner should help for those curious (I have a rescue with minor health issues)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:07 AM
2

I didn't, I feel left out now 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 06:13 AM
10

men can't do anything properly I lol'd 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:51 AM
35

Pickmes sure love having their looks rated on a scale of 1 to 10 by incels tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:41 AM
2

Omg I thought you were talking to me, was like, so confused 😂😂😂 sorry for the misunderstanding And sorry you had to deal with dudes like that 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:37 AM
1

What 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:33 AM
21

A mix of both in that sub imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:47 AM
99

Speaking from a US perspective - whatever one's stance is on the death penalty, those same people who are more outraged by false rape accusations don't seem to care about the innocent men (and I think only one woman) freed from or possibly on deathrow. I don't really understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:39 AM
32

I didn't even need to put the hint there huh 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 12:08 AM
6

He's a walking crime against humanity omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:14 PM
36

You probably get this a lot, but I love seeing your username pop up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:12 PM
92

When I posted the "he was too unattractive to treat me like that" image macro, I got a fair amount of shadow banned comments calling me shallow and ugly lol felt bad for the mods for the extra work tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 11:00 PM
271

There's a sub full of divorced dads and incels in denial where they call women in their 30's "post wall" and shit on single mothers. The kind of divorced boomer dads who won't hesitate to hang around subs with vulnerable teenage girls. Not MGTOW, but filled with them. They consider themselves the good ones that got away. (Hint for those of you curious) I was not surprised to see it still around... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:52 PM
3

The best take I’ve seen on “sapiosexual” was something like, well yeah, not liking to fuck stupid people isn’t a protected class?? It’s not special? Lol well like if a dude goes "what's obama's last name?" most women aren't going to go, "goddamn zack you're so stupid, make love to me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:35 PM
31

It's okay, I laugh at it now, too. Some dudes never leave the incel mindset even after "leveling" up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:08 PM
56

One ex told me he was overwhelmed because he had to make dentist appointments for his kids and a vet appointment for his dog. Mind you, he was allegedly very wealthy, so it wasn't the money. This was after he mocked me for saying it was overwhelming to clean my place and his and that's why I didn't want to visit so much. I had my own issues I was dealing with, too, but he really didn't care. He then called me selfish to not realize he was struggling emotionally. But I said I always asked how he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:38 PM
46

Let's be fair, they were probably gross and lazy before they found a bangmaid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:26 PM
82

Many gfs/wives are still their secretaries and event planners. Reminding them about their medications, appointments, what groceries are needed, etc. So many tech guys (and I suspect men in other fields) scoff and say they can do all these things. They can't, at least on time or correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:02 PM
7

F that man, I loved Lisa Frank stuff when I was a kid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:57 PM
50

They think they're being HV when they do this. But they make you do all the work instead of team effort. Or it's just part of the love bombing process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:55 PM
195

Why would the lovely ladies here want advice from a LVM on attracting LVM? We don't want LVM around, but they still keep on wanting to be here with us Die mad, scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:52 PM
11

Damn asserting dominance 😳😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:38 PM
20

Thank you for being a responsible mom!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:37 PM
57

I did this when I was younger because I didn't think much about it until my mother scolded me 😔 But then she'd excuse my brother leaving piss and shit everywhere (including the floor) and made me clean up his messes...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:35 PM
22

Ivy was my favorite. The episode with her "plant children" made me sad for her, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:06 PM
48

You're right. The mothers are confused, but they raised them this way - that they can ignore her requests, because she'll do nothing and clean it up herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:56 PM
70

They'll complain and resent you if you ever do this to them. But when they do it, they're just "socially awkward" or you need to "communicate" better lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:53 PM
6

I feel like this thread has destroyed your appetite 😂😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:43 PM
52

"I'm just looking for friends, not a boyfriend, my fiance died" "You should get over it already" Me months later grieving and then this dude getting sympathy decades later lol I do understand losing a parent is different than a significant other, but there's no expiry on sympathy these losers get 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:07 AM
240

We're telling them. But then we're labeled as sexist... Or in FDS' case, a hate sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:45 AM
7

Was he proud when he washed the dishes, too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:07 AM
21

Omg I almost forgot about him 😂 That's like final boss LVM "I can cook"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 06:00 AM
7

LOL I didn't want you to feel singled out 🥺😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:59 AM
22

This sounds like my brother 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:15 AM
16

I think the Reddit post I got that from said it was bourbon, not soda 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:14 AM
9

Sweet potato (yam)? Inspired by another user's comment 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 05:13 AM
5

LMAO it's okay tho we were all the 🤡 once or we're working on it 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 03:53 AM
18

Dude my mom eats those to take "healthy shits"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 02:25 AM
28

Those kinda dudes want gfs but none of the responsibility of being a decent human being
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:38 AM
21

LVM may offer to bring you to an appt, but will need you to provide directions and will then zone out on his phone at the hospital. So true. I had to print out the directions for both mine and the LVMs' doctor appointments. One LVM was so useless the doctor would talk to me about his treatment. I always went to my appointments alone after drop off because they were too busy (which I was fine with except on one very specific occasion with a different LVM - which he then blamed on me somehow.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:37 AM
15

You made him waste perfectly good pasta smh 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 12:30 AM
14

He definitely didn't like al dente lolol but gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:33 PM
18

Omg yes 😂 And the dude in question in my case hated adding spices, but couldn't taste the teflon he managed to cook into the dish 🤔 Sometimes I wonder if bland taste buds mean insufferable men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:31 PM
11

I don't know tbh but I do know you'll be labeled a sociopath or mean person if you neg a guy back just as hard or harder than them I'm starting to not give a shit about their feelings. Guess I'm becoming a dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:11 PM
34

You don't understand. That's gourmet stuff. Especially when they cook it too long on high heat in a teflon pan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:09 PM
41

It's almost like HVMs actually see women as human beings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:44 PM
76

Their cooking isn't even that terrific to boot most of the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:32 PM
43

I was having severe trouble breathing. I thought covid. Got tested, wasn't covid. I was struggling to do chores and asked for help. Chores, cooking, & groceries were mostly my responsibility because he paid rent, utilities. I was only asking for help because of my breathing troubles, otherwise I wouldn't have. He cheated on me. And when his ONS ghosted him, he expected me to comfort him. I don't think I've had a single boyfriend take care of me when I was sick, in my entire life. They've ranged …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:08 PM
15

"god given" didn't the bible also mention something about plucking their eyes out for sinning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 09:05 PM
11

I want to see someone post this fr tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:54 PM
13

Men who hate this sub are mad we aren't throwing them parades for the bare minimum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:53 PM
60

They always complain how they're not psychic but expect women to be lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:25 PM
15

Cheap, dumb, and entitled. His love and affection is only his dick?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:17 PM
86

I'm not their rehab, they can get it from the libfem pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:10 PM
6

Does anybody else go "sus" or cringe whenever a man (or woman) describes themself as an "empath"? It seems like it's more about how they feel about someone's actions rather than feeling the other person's moods or welfare or being considerate of them. It's like guys who describe themselves as "sapiosexuals"; they crave something they don't really have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:08 PM
2

I used to wonder why a lot of these dudes seem to smoke weed. I'm not against weed, per se, but I learned excessive smoking can impair empathy. Especially if you pair it with a SSRI. And if they're assholes already or what little empathy they had was keeping them in check... I personally don't encounter this with women so much. I think they probably need to care less while scrotes are the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:35 PM
7

The response I was looking for lol 😩👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:30 PM
5

They didn't go ahead with the male birth control pill because .. drumroll men were suffering the same bad side effects as women on the pill Just lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:26 PM
3

The best use of #NAMALT omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:24 PM
151

The only time men give women they're not attracted to a chance is because she's a placeholder and they treat her like trash and resent her love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:14 PM
51

I love it when they say they don't want treatment because they'll lose their "unique personality" I mean if that personality is douchebag...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:13 PM
18

It doesn't matter where we go in the world; people won't hesitate to blame the victim and will chant #NAMALT if we point out the problem. You will face less resistance if it's race or religion, but men? I don't know about hope. I'm just learning to disassociate. I'm tired of women of all political leanings holding the hands of these man babies and brutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:24 PM
8

Exactly. And there's a big difference between a controlling abusive SO and someone who's being lied to / gaslit. One ex was always accusing me of cheating / talking behind his back and I woke up crying and confused once, because he kept on harrassing me angrily about what he "found" on my laptop I let him borrow. He didn't find anything, because there was nothing, but he was trying to bait me into admitting something. Turns out he might've been the cheating one, which will surprise no one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:00 PM
31

Those are the most gorgeous orchids ever 😩😩😩💞💞💞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 07:19 AM
44

His outfit? Sweatpants? Really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:56 AM
204

She shouldn't even bother to confront him. Just start gathering evidence and take him to the cleaners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:49 AM
190

And lobotomy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:03 AM
83

"AITA" No hun you've gone waaaaaaaaay past the asshole mark This complaint about her "hygiene"... Dude, she's allergic, give her a break??? It sounds like she's showering or bathing, just not using anything with fragrance. She's not a dude and I doubt she reeks like OP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 02:02 AM
44

Not the best phrasing, but what brought this question on was the Franco / Rogen scandal and I've been listening to too much true crime lately. Are they both really that charming? One is considered good looking and the other goofy? Isn't that what their charm is all, really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:30 AM
116

The audacity of these scrotes 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:01 AM
51

Abusive men can come in all age differences. But the ones who did the most damage? The two who were 20+ years older than me. I met one while still grieving the death of my fiance over a year later. I excused a lot of his behavior ("he was there for me when I was crying, how can he be a bad person?" "Nobody is perfect" Etc) Dude lied about being married. Cried about me leaving him when I found out. I stayed a while because 🤡🤡🤡 I'm an adult. Yes. Should I have been dating? No. Was I an idiot? Yes.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 10:21 PM
4

My ex, introduced by my bff, still talks to him. I don't hold it against her, that's her business. But she vents about him complaining about how he invests so much in women to get nothing, how his dates keep ghosting him (wish I had listened to my gut on our first date lol), etc. I blocked him. Not at first, not because I wanted to hear from him, but for my friend. It's not something she asked, just in case for whatever reason. She's been there for me and overall this dude ain't worth losing her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:55 PM
508

Same dudes who expect sex for coffee lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:35 PM
15

You'll never see these same men ask for evidence when it comes to male celebrities making claims
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:49 PM
32

One dude was like "I wouldn't touch her with a 10 foot pole" and I wanted to ask him if he could even reach for that pole cuz he looked as short as me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:11 PM
2

*rant* A while back, overhead a conversation between a doctor and her patient. She described a lot of symptoms that made me think, "oh, PCOS or diabetes. Insulin resistance maybe?" The doctor was like "a blood test won't prove anything" or "change your diet." The patient said she worked out a lot and was eating well. Was still having problems with her weight. No one wanted to believe her. I was mad for her. Eventually she gets it checked to see if she has a tumor. One week later, doctor tells he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:56 PM
17

God, the "communicate" thing. That just triggers me. They always assume first the women aren't communicating and give men the benefit of the doubt first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:52 PM
55

The Facebook comments in one post were filled with butt fucking ugly men commenting on her appearance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:22 PM
58

Yet he doesn't want a vasectomy hmmmm So many men suck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:20 PM
30

Facebook is where I got told I'm sexist (by libfem women) because I was defending one woman because said she felt afraid of men when walking by them (I forget where, gym, pool?) This woman herself acknowledged she knew all men aren't bad. Also it was a group where they said they're secure with themselves and aren't so jealous about their boyfriends and husbands following hot women on Instagram / Onlyfans, even boasting, "I oogle them, too!" Like if that's how you feel, ok. But why are they more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:18 PM
19

Lol I think I see some of you calling him out. Please know I love what you're doing 😩👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 07:30 AM
22

Well, if it makes your dad feel better, sometimes it still looks like they have them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:17 AM
47

It doesn't sound like it from her post history. Her parents even gave them money. It's really sad, I see her trying to constantly better herself and asks for advice on leveling up. She seems like a really resourceful and kind woman. She's more competent than I am. It's so heartbreaking...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:51 AM
29

I get the feeling she's going to "accidentally" get pregnant with a second kid and feel even more trapped by this deadbeat golddigger scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:23 AM
39

Same, sis, same 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:28 PM
79

Sort of, but very subtle imo They tore into her husband, at least
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:27 PM
126

"emergency" like your laziness is an emergency, dude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:12 PM
232

"I hope this makes sense" Fuck no it doesn't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:09 PM
11

Man, I remember the silent anger from an ex when I said I didn't give a shit Sean Connery died.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:21 PM
9

Why are men so weak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:17 PM
14

Sexual market value I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:12 PM
5

He mentions her name on the birth certificate.... Like what else did he expect the hospital to do? I know why he mentions it (she's the "mom" and needs to be involved), but it's still stupid no matter way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:44 PM
51

God can we sterilize these men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:40 PM
164

It's one of many reasons why I hate weebs, this kind of idiocy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:47 AM
3

My Lyft driver tonight is a guy I "ghosted" 😬😬😬 He doesn't seem to recognize me thankfully, would've been awkward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:42 AM
48

Loved that reference 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:38 AM
77

"I want hookups only" Could've saved himself that scrotes alphabet soup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 02:37 AM
61

God, I hope so, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:48 AM
25

Sometimes. But why take that risk? A good portion won't admit publicly they want to or have fucked real animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 08:39 PM
17

Honey, "society" isn't blocking a shower door in your house, just go use it once a day. ☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:10 PM
15

Sounds like an entitled narc with brain damage Surprised he isn't dead yet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:04 PM
13

Source? This is all that I could find
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:32 PM
49

Wow. One of my exes basically said that line on our first date. Then he tried to intimidate me into "admitting" I thought his voice was ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:51 AM
5

She sounds awesome 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:30 AM
6

The Atlanta shooting. All the Asian guys on my Facebook talking about how it's a racism issue, not a sexism issue. Like they don't want their gender brought into it, but he's white, so they wanna focus on that instead or the shooter's religion. Venting here because I don't know where else I can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 07:20 AM
80

I'm not talking just about her love feelings We know you don't give a shit about her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:33 PM
77

"Why do I invest so much and end up alone?" - my last narc ex who emotionally abused every woman he's been with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:31 PM
28

God the dudes are always so hideous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 07:25 PM
45

Why would women want children with men who are weekend warriors or babysitters at best? Why can't these men see that? Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:50 PM
12

The Mosuo seem pretty happy for a matriarchal society. The societies they talk about are patriarchal in nature still, hence the men whinging like little bitches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:49 PM
11

Blech dude needs to wear sunscreen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:47 PM
2

I gave him some benefit of the doubt, too, but it just doesn't make sense. Dude only told because of "nice guy" syndrome and I've dated men like that. It's so they can feel good and justified about what they did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:44 PM
90

If they have "entrepreneur", it means they're jobless or running scams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:27 PM
27

I'll be honest, you're right. The more I thought about it, the more his story didn't make sense. Why not ask the mom what her daughter's instagram was? Or just ask the daughter for dog pics? Because asking for pet pics is really harmless. He sounds like my ex who would come up with these elaborate lies and go "haha gorsh, I'm just so silly, teehee" 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:39 AM
18

Like Reddit slang is already cringe, but captain makes me laugh just lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:34 AM
74

"I'm so funny and adorable, stupid innocent! 🥺👉👈"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:00 AM
44

I mean, wouldn't that include the RP ladies who call their husbands "captain"? lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:53 AM
37

It's because it's their kink and they're assuming it's ours
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:41 AM
18

Yes, he's absolutely right, I am one of many alt accounts of the one of the mods. To keep up the facade, I even occasionally give myself warnings. I also love creating posts that get scrotes mad and have to do extra work filtering out the shadow banned males. In fact, I am also the shadow banned males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:40 AM
92

What pisses me off (besides the obvious) is how he makes a joke about seeing the nudes, like he's so funny and cute. Barf. I don't think he actually intentionally set out to look for nudes, but he KNEW he was going into fishy territory once he hit the Reddit page. He's a goddamn male Redditor, afterall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 02:36 AM
18

They already are lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:13 AM
18

I stopped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:11 AM
7

Listen to her vent if you still want to be her friend. I've found attacking the guy doesn't help. Continue to remind her she deserves better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:06 AM
22

I wanted to ask about the plant, too, but felt bad :X
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:43 PM
133

Why is a rough childhood an excuse for rape???? I hate people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:41 PM
59

I'm sure you're already getting shadow banned comments from butt hurt scrotes 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:39 PM
13

Nice DSLs bro, I can see why you're trying to overcompensate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:35 PM
27

Like this dude just needs to say "I'm an incel and I hate women" instead of those mental gymnastics
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:57 AM
34

When has this ever worked? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 12:39 AM
78

Is he high? Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:55 PM
3

$100 original price??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:25 PM
18

I have to admit, I do have a huge ego and I'll talk shit about anyone 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:23 PM
18

Whoops. It was Peter Thiel who had a vendetta against Gawker (that owned Jezebel) and he bankrupt them. It's been a while 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:57 PM
13

And she's teaching her daughter that this is okay 😕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:48 PM
33

I'll be honest, I'm not seeing that contempt and loathing in his eyes. He looks too lazy to muster those feelings, in addition to chores or taking better care of his gross beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:30 PM
33

I hated that site, but read it anyway during my college years out of boredom lol Maybe I've just changed, but I could've sworn Jezebel was more balanced back in the day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:27 PM
31

Yeah, this isn't the Jezebel I once knew. Wonder if Univision's "revenge" buyout had to do with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:26 PM
31

Just remember women are the more materialistic sex, tho!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:21 PM
30

Or even aired it out 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:21 PM
37

I wouldn't mind as much if their set up looked better and they kept it dust free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:17 PM
32

The Asian waifus to be, too 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:16 PM
19

Santa Clarita Diet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 03:58 PM
29

That was goddamn beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 09:27 AM
46

Too clean to be realistic 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 08:37 AM
18

Why are guys who use boomer emoticons after making a stupid ass comment so beta?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 12:59 AM
35

"shadow banned" Sometimes dudes, sometimes new members who are still going through the filter This one was a new member, I think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:24 PM
41

And he's not like the dudes on My 600lb Life who are abusive / have a fetish Is it any wonder they leave the dudes once they've lost the weight? Like the woman whose stitches burst open because her husband wanted sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:50 PM
34

"when" lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:20 PM
56

I think so, too, and I'm a huuuuge pessimist. (But ladies... Don't be the rehab for these guys.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:19 PM
119

I have high testosterone (health condition, born biologically female) and they're just entitled. Even "soy boys" lack empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:17 PM
95

I'm glad he's asking for help, most wouldn't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:00 PM
45

Gotta show 'em women being mommy bangmaids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:53 PM
36

Why are men so stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:17 AM
1

Sus username 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:07 AM
8

Warm bath with bath salts and chamomile tea. Or just a warm bath if I don't have those on hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:33 AM
520

They talk about equality and 50/50. But can't handle when women say, "stop treating us like shit." If we did to them what they do to us...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:51 PM
39

I stopped trying to date MTF women for this reason. Often crossing boundaries, getting weirdly possessive early on, and treating me like a therapist (without reciprocating).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:44 PM
18

This cat is indoors only but acts like he was outdoor all his life 😩😩😩 He is one of the dumbest cats I've ever had and wouldn't survive an hour out there... I love him tho The things we do for love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:23 PM
26

I don't look at their sub. Once was enough. I love it when i̶n̶c̶e̶l̶s̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶d̶i̶s̶g̶u̶i̶s̶e̶ MGTOW reply to my posts 😂👌 Must be hard being so oppressed, poor men 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:07 PM
77

Never thought I'd have to frantically chase after my cat pantless in front of the neighbors 🤡🤡🤡 LVM cat 🤡🤡🤡 Jk I love him very much but 💀🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:04 PM
13

I'm Asian, so I feel it. You're not a narcissist lol Just tell them all to fuck off and why. My family fears me / is annoyed by me for this reason because I don't hold back and give it to them straight 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:00 PM
25

Men will still pretend to be your friend or treat you like a backup option. They can be nice, but as your "friend" has displayed, he is not "kind".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:54 PM
45

In public. Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:44 PM
607

I don't even do that to friends. So rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:42 PM
38

Only the most insecure and pitiful men are doms. Women varies, I've met some absolute trash, but nowhere near like the men being garbage each time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:41 PM
85

Why would he tell you he had feelings, too, if nothing was going to happen? I'm sure he was telling nthe truth, but for him to pull that move makes it sound like he wanted you to pine after him. What's up with the world with breeding these kinda weak ass men? Good for you on taking out the trash 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:09 AM
63

Edit: be careful of wokecels that will try to guilt you into dating people you don't want to. Mostly from observation, but omg this. I know we want to support women as much as we can, but we don't have to do it with our bodies. Also why is the surprise husband / boyfriend always so fucking ugly lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:39 AM
67

Sounds like a red piller
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 07:20 AM
3

Vanicream for moisturizer if Cerave doesn't work for you (it never did for me.) Use a serum for other targeted issues in combination with it. Only use face wash if you're removing makeup, grime, or just really oily. I wash my face with only warm water. I think too many people are using cleansers when they don't need to. It doesn't matter terribly what kind of pillow case you use as long as if you change it daily. People say I look young. I think I look my age. Edit: just wanted to add my skin is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 06:12 AM
203

He expects you to chase him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:19 AM
39

Only boomers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:05 AM
54

So, the sex isn't working anymore. And 50/50 worked because his exes were engineers! Not making minium wage. He sounds like a passive aggressive bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 04:03 AM
46

Inorite? I get this comment / compliments and I'm wearing makeup lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:35 PM
158

She needs a different roommate (but also reality check.) Never date an Amazon guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:18 PM
401

"oOoOoOh, bE cArEfuL LiFTinG wEiGhTs, oR uLL LoOk LiKe a mAn" "Well one of us should at least"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:12 AM
19

"walk like a queen"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:39 AM
53

I could just be getting dementia and my filter is broken 😔 I was passive a looooooong time but now I'm like "MMMMM WANNA FIGHT HUH"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:05 AM
86

I need tips, too, because I've made a store manager fall down to the ground and cry and made another yell at the top of his lungs. I'm too confrontational.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:36 AM
10

I feel like it might make me cry (have not seen it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:50 AM
32

When women confront men on why they were abusive to exes, we're not letting him "move on to become a better person" or are making a big deal out of nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:41 AM
47

Do we live in the same area lol Ours has fragile male syndrome and are "woke"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 07:13 AM
10

Dude on the left looks like a rehydrated mummified potato lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:36 PM
21

Omg I thought of them!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:25 PM
28

I come from a culture where generational housing isn't unusual, but since the gf can afford a condo for the mom - honestly, this lady [mom] needs friends other than her son. Unless it's a money issue and/or health issue with the parent, he should be single or stop being a momma's boy. Your partner shouldn't have to feel like the third wheel. That's what often happens when the attachment is that strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:24 PM
9

I've been mocked for it - but they were tech bros, so we know they're disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:13 PM
34

He's playing games on his phone, too, most likely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:11 PM
29

It's from a certain sub where they call their husbands "captain" 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:10 PM
24

He always looked like a pop-eyed goldfish to me lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:03 PM
44

#notallcrows Jokes aside, it's a good analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:00 PM
46

Was it about wiping his ass being gay lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:21 PM
48

That's when lazy dudes tell you statistics aren't relevant because it's not in their favor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:36 AM
18

I don't think it's necessarily victim blaming - really depends on tone, intent, context. To me, it's like acknowledging an issue and taking the initiative to start dealing with it. Maybe it should be rephrased to "you attract what you allow"? But I "attract" weebs and guys with cougar/MILF fetishes, so 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:05 AM
94

They should sit while peeing anyway, less likely to splatter everywhere Plus I like having the lid closed, just feels weird otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:43 AM
298

"Cleaning isn't hard." crowns toilet rim with piss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 09:32 AM
8

Why would women need him anyway lol more money without his "expertise" 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:29 AM
17

Who are these absolute morons that say "communicate better"? She listed everything she's done; direct and indirect. Are they trying not to comprehend on purpose or are they that goddamn stupid?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:49 AM
4

It doesn't make sense. The "owner" claims she was just an admin and they got rid of all mods. If it was just one mod who was fabricating lies, why all of them? And why not state the real reason why the mod was removed then? Hard to really tell on this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 12:03 AM
35

The "owner" on her FB page is claiming she's an admin and they have a new mod team lol Her story doesn't make sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:44 AM
41

Did that group get banned or did they rebrand? I can't find it Was gonna report the group
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:21 AM
83

Except we're a hate sub 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:56 AM
29

And I bet most didn't wash their hands 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:32 AM
44

I like/liked a lot of Joss Whedon's work; but I was like "another one???" when his ex-wife talked about his "woke feminism" I hate how problematic the industry is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 10:17 PM
52

Do these guys want us to throw a parade for them not raping women or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:20 PM
36

And when both men and women think you're overreacting - just shows the bar is really low. Everyone thought I was crazy for being upset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:30 PM
144

Saying, "I could have slept with you, but I didn't." My (ex) best guy friend asked me out when I was having a mental breakdown. I said I'd give it a chance. I spent the night; we didn't sleep together. He sounded so proud of himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 07:19 PM
42

Good! This is harming and disrespecting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:53 PM
166

But we are HVW, we'd never date a man who still stalks their ex, so let's hold ourselves to the same standards. 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 06:50 PM
17

"change is bad, unless it's you" We all know he wants her to stop "nagging"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 01:41 AM
4

I couldn't find a link to back up that claim tbh, 30+ for religious holidays https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/business/2013/06/08/countries-most-vacation-days/2400193/ Best I could find 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:53 PM
189

I don't take anyone with an anime / manga avatar seriously And ofc she's paying if she's dating weebs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:43 AM
6

I'm not familiar with the process, but you're right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 04:37 AM
87

Wow. Men like that are why I would ever to go to prison. I'm truly sorry he was never held accountable and for the pain and injustice of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:31 AM
40

I honestly thought he was in his 50's until I read the article
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 02:02 AM
33

I was legit more confused than frustrated. But now knowing the type of sub it was posted in, it's a lot more clear now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:33 AM
46

I am confused. Is she being sarcastic in the end? She already sounds done with him and keeps on listing why he's a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:15 AM
10

I like how respectful the professor is in approaching the subject. I hadn't heard of the Adam being a hermaphrodite theory before, which is interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:06 AM
15

They can never handle the negs and sarcasm back and call you a bad person 😂 (I don't deal with them anymore)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 12:00 AM
29

Surprised she's 33. New to dating?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:53 PM
13

He's going to do it again tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:49 PM
140

Hope other inmates give him a warm welcome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:47 PM
3

I think it's important to never forget. Because when / if you get a nasty DM or whatever, you'll remember, "this is what peak performance for them looks like" 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:31 PM
1

Oh, yeah? My cat treats my face like a trampoline when I'm sleeping cuz he's hungry 😤 Jokes aside, while I love cats, your doggo honestly sounds amazing. My cat will offer his belly to anyone and go inside their home for pets and food 😂 In his defense, he did try to protect me from my ex when I was crying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:28 PM
6

Just realized I misread your comment 😂 But the men can finally see what it's like trying to rehab a pile of buttcrumbs 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 09:26 PM
19

I didn't even make it into the will (because he was lazy and didn't write it.) His mom got a lot of my belongings and my money that I gave to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:13 PM
131

I had an ex who purposely tried sabotaged my weight loss. When I confronted him, he gave me puppy dog eyes, like it was supposed to be cute he was afraid I was gonna leave and he did that shit. Pickme phase hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:56 PM
22

I hate beards and long hair on men because of this association
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:53 PM
22

TW: domestic abuse / violence This is what he looks like (when he was younger?) And the woman has been through hell, I'm glad she got out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:42 PM
18

That man is disgusting and dumb. Weird they never use that logic for women. Especially for those in FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:32 PM
56

I hope Elon is on it, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:27 PM
54

Even if the girl isn't "conventionally attractive" (but still usually better looking than these incel types), they'll still approach and treat her like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:26 PM
2

I thought my cats were weird for liking cornbread. I guess it's normal lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:21 PM
7

I wanna stop but I can't 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:44 AM
2

I have not tried that 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:44 AM
47

Ffff dark but I lol'd 💀😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 11:01 AM
64

Why am I addicted to corn bread right now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:36 AM
84

It always has to come from a guy 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:33 AM
183

When she fills out forms, does she put "slave" under "occupation"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:23 AM
14

Ooofff. But... On the bright side, he won't take years off your life 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:01 AM
123

Is he "nice" or is he "kind"? Kindness is shown through action and consideration. He got annoyed with you for being upset. Edit: I want to add, since he seems big on "investing" - he should invest in you. Flowers are a very small and affordable price to keep his biggest investment happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:01 AM
36

"#(insert cause here)" They tend to be emotionally lazy and hate women 🤷‍♀️ lots of woke tech guys have this in their OLD profile They are instantly a little too agreeable to everything you say early on (there's a difference to being on the same page and a difference to putting up a front) when they're sad a misogynistic celebrity dies they talk about Amber Heard too much without doing the research they use Reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:26 AM
106

string of exes I'll trust women, because a lot have been in my position, but men? Not anymore. They don't get the benefit of the doubt. Especially if he describes them all as "batshit".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:19 AM
4

Don't date dudes who make it their identity, is my takeaway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 09:34 PM
6

That's really rude of a host wtf no, his addiction isn't her fault, but she's not embarrassed??? It's a good thing you're taking a break from them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:46 PM
13

HE EVEN HAD THE AUDACITY to tell me that he can't wait when I become a dentist so he can be a stay at home dad, so he can also play video games......?!?!?!?!!? A gold digger who wouldn't even do chores or actually parent. You dodged a bullet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:44 PM
12

He won't understand. Block and delete. It won't be a wake-up call. There's rarely a rock bottom where they have an epiphany. He'll just learn to hide it better next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:41 PM
14

Wow those downvotes. I "game", but I didn't take offense at this just lol If it becomes your identity, there's usually a problem 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 08:20 PM
30

The one game I'm interested in... Yeah, I play too much. But I always make sure chores are done. It doesn't interfere with my life. I don't have a lot of sympathy for men. They think the addiction is great. They don't want to stop. They honestly don't think they have a problem. But cry when they can't get girls who understand their "hobby".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:50 PM
36

I don't think it's ageism or sexism. It's because you listen and don't blow them off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 06:20 AM
67

That bath looks like a pink smoothie 😩💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 05:22 AM
92

"HVM" on OLD - "I don't hit women, I have a dog, and here are some hashtag causes I'm passionate about, but I do nothing to contribute" You wade through mountains of shit to find the cubic zirconia at the bottom of the heap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:23 AM
124

He's a good guy, but is he a good boyfriend? Would you be happy with dating a guy who isn't romantic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:16 AM
56

I told my friend, "why would I want to do worse? He dresses like he lives in North Korea. If I'm going to date again, women only. Thank you, but no thanks." I don't like doing it, but I will insult their "pick". Then they'll stop suggesting. It's annoying when you tell them you're just not interested in dating anymore or at least at the moment 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:10 AM
114

Or don't post them publicly at all? Cuz it's a good way to get a stalker on your route 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:00 AM
9

You ain't wrong. I just expect it from influencers who make money off controversy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:59 AM
14

If they do, it's shallow lol You know what, good. I don't care anymore 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:48 AM
93

It's like... Bro you weren't treating her like a queen before when she was your bangmaid and sugar momma 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 01:40 AM
31

Tbf, I praise my dad for things he has done for me, because it displays his character.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:33 AM
76

Adoration. That's supposed to be everyday. I'm guessing he treats her like furniture the rest of the year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:25 AM
7

Inorite I'm loving her decor style
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:22 AM
123

"I forgot" = "I don't really care" Yes, people forget things. But Reddit men just don't care. It's "empowering" to let these scrotes be lazy 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:22 AM
117

"just for the memes"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:16 AM
45

It's "toxic feminity" lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:15 AM
55

If they are okay with it, fine. IDC. Their lives. But why do they expect all women to be okay with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:14 AM
101

Plural. Kids. Just why produce more offspring with this loser? Chances are he wasn't great the first time around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 12:02 AM
63

So true. There's a part 2 with his reaction. I hope divorce papers are included.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:39 PM
155

He accepted her fixing his shitty cleaning job, but now can't tolerate her attitude. Honestly, just admit you're cheap and lazy. If the gf is reading this... YOU DESERVE BETTER OMG Edit: ...And he has weekends off, but doesn't have time to take her out??? Because he's busy gaming?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:33 PM
64

You know, one of the top comments was some like, "she could've gotten him something nice on Valentine's day, she chose to be petty instead." 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:29 PM
105

I'm glad she told off the idiots in the edit 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:12 PM
23

My brother-in-law was a SAHD and was almost about to talk about how unappreciated SAHDs are in society... but I must've been rolling my eyes HARD, because he stopped 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:07 PM
25

I will trust single moms (yes, there's some bad apples), because most women usually give it their all. Good men are hard to find. And if these women didn't want him... And they have the audacity to bitch about childless women like me not wanting to give them a chance? Been there, done that, they suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:58 PM
87

Even the dudes without kids and don't want them "ever" refuse to get them. And the male birth control didn't take off because of the "side effects". The side effects which were the same ones women get on BC 🤡 The more logical sex at work lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:53 PM
17

Dated 3 of em. They're so lazy. My friends are like "the single dads I know aren't like this" uhhh that's because you didn't / don't date them 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:49 PM
11

Some / most women. All of the men are trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:41 PM
33

I don't need to listen to women who say I'm being too harsh when all they do is complain about their husbands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:36 PM
30

Especially sad if the woman is working, too, and he still doesn't do his fair share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:31 PM
3

I mean that's probably accurate too somehow LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:20 PM
17

Happy Valentine's day! Your cat is adorable btw 😩💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:13 PM
9

You know, I don't go on those subs full of butt crumbers and message them. I let them reeeee in peace 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:05 PM
141

Dude, that's gross. Baby emoji after writing milf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 09:03 PM
2

I love everything in this pic That plant in the background looks really familiar. What is it called? With the yellow bud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:53 PM
116

Men expire sooner, so I'm guessing his gf is gonna take out the trash soon 🥰🥰🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:50 PM
36

That's how I imagine the shadow banned men who reply to me and I laugh.... Ps sorry mods looks like I gave y'all extra work again 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:26 PM
13

One of my favorite things are the small details. I like the orange spattered dots; it fills up the empty space nicely. It's really cute, thank you for the drawing 💝 Happy Valentine's Day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:42 AM
38

Aren't these the same dudes who act like they have the flu when it's a cold? Ty next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:35 AM
218

"are you a laxative, boy, cuz you're irritating the shit outta me" But nah... block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 05:13 AM
20

I love yellow roses. Floral sunshine. And lol that cat plushie is adorable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:32 AM
22

Makes me think of that mom sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:28 AM
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I think these situations are always difficult. When you're in the pickme phase, you'll ignore, push back, or maybe feel resentful. There's another post here about Valentine's. "I got you these flowers because you're awesome and deserve this and more." Friends getting friends gifts and reminding them that they can do better. It mostly has to come from them reaching out about it imo because that's when they're ready to start to the work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:05 AM
23

He even says "child" wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:51 AM
21

How did you change? Was it because someone pushed FDS on you or did you go looking? Edit: I should say FDS lifestyle / standards, not necessarily the sub itself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:47 AM
16

Boss move 😩👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:36 AM
27

Damn and people thought I was shallow with my last post lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:23 AM
4

Is he mentally ill????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 01:06 AM
305

I like he's asking if it would be "too cheap" because he wants to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:01 PM
68

It's what I was thinking. I've "dated down", you know, looks, income, etc. I thought I would be treated better. You know, not be "shallow" as men are. Ironically, the better looking ones treated me better in general. The LVW in me likes/liked to joke "if I'm going to be treated like shit, he might as well be hot" 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:34 PM
66

That's a good point about the joke, I have to admit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:42 PM
80

It's almost like being a rehab center for them is an obligation. But they're great catches if they don't hit you 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:08 PM
14

Congrats!!! 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:06 PM
129

So many men laugh and have argued with me about the 100/100 vs 50/50 phrasing. "That's not mathematically possible." I then explain "you both should be putting in 100% of effort. Not half assing it." "But 50/50 is 100%" They refuse to see it any other way. This is one of the reasons why they're lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:42 PM
3

This is a weird pickme take on "snitches get stitches" 😕 Wives don't always know. Sometimes they only suspect, but they're gaslit into believing they're crazy. There's always the possibility of backlash. You just move on with life when that happens. Whether or not it's revenge, it doesn't change the fact you're also possibly helping someone. You won't know until you try.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:27 PM
12

Every cop I matched with before quitting OLD would always bring up BDSM or their handcuffs 🤔 kept in touch with me so I knew he was ok lmfao. I love that "lmfao" at the end That was great you put in that effort into helping another woman out, though. Also kinda scared a cop is this stupid (or relieved?)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:14 PM
14

Me, too. I only believed mine because I was actually separated once before (both of us were just too lazy to fill out the paperwork.) When I confronted him, he cried, insisted the marriage was all just for their (16 year old) son because he has (high functioning) autism, etc and asked if I was gonna dump him. He didn't even apologize. I was dumb and didn't officially dump him until a few months later. Because I felt bad for a fat, ugly, 50 year old man 🤡 Still friends with the ex-husband, though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:04 PM
12

They are now engaged 🤡. They're... Engaged... Not enough clown emojis to express my disbelief
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:54 PM
7

If she's not a borderline narcissist, one day she'll realize you were not the bad guy and feel bad about chewing you out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:50 PM
91

The story is complicated, but that's sort of how my bff and I met 😅 That guy isn't in our lives anymore lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:04 AM
12

My friend started the tradition; like you, she wanted me to know I deserved better. She also said "no homo" in case I got the wrong idea 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:11 AM
303

I'm ordering Wendy's for Valentine's hot damn 😩👌💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:57 AM
39

🤡💢 It's unconstitutional, but the fact they're even trying..... Just wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:56 AM
44

My bff is with a HVM, but she always gets me Valentine's Day presents because she knows guys won't lol and I gift her in return just because I got her this for this year, it looked unique, better than the stuff in the grocery store https://www.normanloveconfections.com/?gclid=CjwKCAiAjp6BBhAIEiwAkO9WuufpY0OjH21_xjXN94_Qz2Q5Tf6e_zc6zAxeeQObyDLE8rxD-VEtJBoCvaEQAvD_BwE Edit: just noticed I'm an apprentice, but I think I'm a LVW if anything 😂 appreciate the flair upgrade tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:42 AM
287

My ex expected me to comfort him when he cheated on me and the woman ghosted him, so I'm feeling this 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:37 AM
44

Didn't read article, just wondering why a billionaire couldn't find a tux that better suits his girthy figure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:52 AM
185

Fragile Male Redditor syndrome is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:49 AM
39

Rip even men in fiction 😭 Miasma of baked cow pies will forever linger anywhere and everywhere 🥀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:27 AM
95

I'm not letting anybody forget 😔 Because I never will 😔😔😔😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:03 AM
33

It's true. A lot can put up a good front. Def better than "touch is my love language" tho lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:37 AM
29

It's helped me become happy with my decision to stop dating other people and to court myself. I'm tired of building men up - all this time could have been spent on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:26 AM
85

"he doesn't know" It means yes, it means he's too spineless to tell you the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:22 AM
235

Are we supposed to love butt crumbing scrotes now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:15 AM
30

Incel fanfic for their spank bank lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:01 AM
102

Actually, tell him you did celebrate men's day. By cleaning the toilet 😉 Edit: nvm that unintentionally had bangmaid vibes all over it 🤦‍♀️ I mentioned it because men's day is also toilet day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:21 AM
81

Why wouldn't she rather just have kids with Tyrone or Chad from the start? Less steps? People can't always be trusted, but women usually get fed up and leave. Most scrotes just want to get their dick wet. The incel is already projecting the scenario for when his wife leaves him because he couldn't keep up the "nice guy" facade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 02:17 AM
8

I do not 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:21 AM
30

I'm sure the snot from crying really looks pretty 🤦‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:18 AM
197

Never met a guy who calls women "gorgeous, beautiful, etc" before meeting them and getting to know them to be of high caliber. They're always lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:20 PM
24

Lol ty I don't receive DMs from men anymore 🤔 I know I can close them, but eh sometimes they're amusing 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:10 PM
42

For some, the empathy would only last so long.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 11:08 PM
129

Then they'll shame her for it if she actually did it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:46 PM
20

I think so. There's an opposite sex thread where the wife slapped the husband and most are saying: leave her. Some are saying "communication". Not a single one is blaming him, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:26 PM
38

My last LVM ex was a big fan of Sean Connery. When he told me the dude died, I said I didn't give a shit. He's "woke" when it comes to race issues (okay dude with yellow fever) but women? He goes full incel. He was really offended I didn't give a shit, but not concerned over Sean misogynistic nature 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:57 PM
51

"bro just tell her not shaving her legs turn you off, that's so gross" "Wow you told the husband a fact, you deserved to get hit"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:53 PM
87

Guys who say that never seem to apply the standards themselves. They'll happily bang the "exotic" ethnicity. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:30 PM
19

Sounds like the guy is already sending a red flag. Still acting butthurt and surprised after you told him. I would adopt if I could afford it. I'd rather not bear my own children. Too many in the system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:18 PM
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My most recent LVM ex was slapped by his ex during an argument (she was also drunk) in front of his kids because he was "informing" her about something. Everyone came to his defense. He was the most condescending man in the world and would constantly interrupt you. What she didn't wasn't right, but I had more sympathy for her as time went on. He definitely left out information in his stories and I'd coax him to reveal details (or inconsistencies) by fluffing up his ego. Reddit would rally behind…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:13 PM
2

It's a woman??? I guess her kink is being treated like trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:37 PM
294

He could just stop... Dating. Then his partners wouldn't feel like shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:58 AM
7

That's a beautiful idea, I love it 😩💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:55 AM
64

I'm sad mainstream media hasn't really covered it. One of the elderly men, who could have been my father, died from being randomly tackled and pushed down into the sidewalk. Nobody cares about us because we're the privileged, "good minority". Just makes me depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:15 AM
24

Lol that sparkle tho 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:31 AM
7

I was face shamed by incels and called butt fucking ugly 🤷‍♀️ Yet they still have their little spaces (some are still around)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 08:22 AM
5

I was too embarrassed to admit earlier looking at it made me hungry 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:13 AM
10

Ur not wrong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:14 AM
78

"does he hit you? No? Well then maybe it's worth saving" 🥴🥴🥴🥴🥴 tf is this where we are heading smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:13 AM
144

I was reading your responses to that one idiot who kept up coming up with "excuses". Having one love language (apparently bf's is being the typical lame male Redditor) isn't an excuse to treat the girl like she's a placeholder... This is the effort a guy puts into a girl because he's not really into her, she's just convenient. She's communicated a thousand times over. She shows him. She helps him out. She practically does the work for him. And he doesn't make up for it in any other way. I'm glad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:02 AM
41

Did you watch the makeup lady who tells true crime stories by chance? That's how I found out about her lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:50 AM
33

Maybe that's why I got a weird feeling, I didn't even think about how he was phrasing things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:48 AM
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Full disclosure, I didn't watch the whole thing (and my title might be misleading, but I didn't find out about his history until afterwards.) I stopped watching, because even though I thought it was funny, I was getting a weird vibe from the video. I thought maybe I was spending too much time on Reddit 🤷‍♀️ (probably still am) I didn't want to be right about this one; would've been wholesome or cute otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 01:47 AM
30

Glad for you. Anytime a guy complains he paid for everything and did everything the ex asked, I'm always doubtful instead of giving them the benefit of the doubt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:21 AM
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I might be reading too much into this, but it sounds like you're trying to talk yourself into it, but can't, because the emotional burden is always (would be) on you? It will definitely feel forced and the attention awkward if you haven't been treated like you deserved. With that said, I think it's also perfectly fine to not celebrate it. You don't need to improve yourself or well being by celebrating this holiday. You do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:09 AM
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Slightly off topic, but I thought the rock was a biscuit with large brown sugar crystals for a moment 💀 Don't know much about cameras, but it looks nice. I like the wood piece on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 11:26 PM
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"I can't change my height" like yeah, so? If they wanna be "shallow", so can women 🤷‍♀️ Everyone has their preferences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 11:02 PM
2

He's a good guy because he doesn't abuse animals or punch babies or something? Is that the standard?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:59 PM
11

They might blame their social anxiety (which can be legit), but like does it prevent you from planning in advance???? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:51 PM
20

He looks like the guy I came across OKC lol (posted it here a week or so ago and traumatized many ladies, my apologies)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:48 PM
16

Respect. The audacity! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:19 PM
140

Your friend is awesome. Hmmm, wonder why they divorced? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:15 PM
16

He's so stupid, it's unattractive. Water is wet, tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:14 PM
79

I don't get why high libido is an acceptable excuse. I have known many ladies with high libidos who still treat men with more respect than what they deserve. So many men do not do that and their dicks in an acceptable / tolerable excuse. It's not misandry. We're just getting fed up with the bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 07:10 PM
27

Def U.S. Men here are so gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:07 AM
39

Is he speaking from first hand experience of being a ho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:06 AM
35

So weird. If anything, they should be impressed or admire you. But then they wouldn't be LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:20 AM
21

I did not have the best hygiene as a kid. But I wasn't resistant to change, learning. Why can't these assholes? It reeks of entitlement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 08:16 AM
45

Seems like all the male predators are in their late 30's or early 40's in those threads that get posted here 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:52 AM
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They're the only ones allowed to have physical standards 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:33 PM
15

Moses' eyes seem to always looking directly at himself, not the camera or her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:26 PM
18

The blue is the girl / friend and the gray is the dude? I could be misunderstanding
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:17 PM
43

"I wish women engaged more in conversation" - common complaints on certain OLD subs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:13 PM
20

I thought it was the other way around?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:11 PM
40

So glad that dad can recognize this is wrong. If the daughter isn't answering questions about when it started, it started before she was legal. They can't stop her from marrying him, but I hope they encourage her to have a good career before getting married to this guy, so that she can escape much more easily when the time comes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:03 PM
118

One Punch Man wouldn't hit a woman for such a reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:00 PM
19

It used to have a message that something was deleted from your end or theirs. Not anymore. Guess she didn't get the memo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:55 PM
41

Seriously, she's just stupid. Doesn't she know secret convos (incognito) exists on Facebook messenger? They leave no trace, no history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:44 PM
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made themselves look foolish and crazy and WEAK and obsessed with a man who is somehow avoiding the majority of the fallout of HIS indiscretion and lack of self-control Like I doubt his dick is that good and he sounds soooooooo spineless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:35 PM
23

I'm sorry, but I'm more appalled at the shitty tattoo work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:25 PM
392

"I hate the question myself" ❓❓❓❓❓❓❓❓ Why ask it then??? I always ghosted the guys who asked this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:21 PM
28

"I don't negotiate with terrorists" I think that'll be my joke / retort to LVMs from now on lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:09 PM
30

Why in the world does she need to communicate to not being treated like a fleshlight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:06 PM
26

My last ex would say, "why didn't you tell me" when I would finally blow up. Dude was a covert narc. "My exes were all crazy" "My exes always tried to make me feel stupid." I only put up with him because my bff vouched for him. I'm very communicative. They just don't care. They can suddenly hear you tho when it's about sex 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:05 PM
105

"beautiful goodbye" Dude the audacity wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:04 PM
50

Something my dad would have done. He's not this subs definition of a HVM, but he is to me. This makes me happy cry 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:02 PM
8

They look good, tat is dumb, but they look like siblings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:55 PM
8

I wish it was a typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 04:53 PM
82

Butt crumbs 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 09:16 AM
19

I'm treating myself by ignoring the holiday and treating it like any other day lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:21 AM
88

The only thing I disagree with you is that the show is funny. It's just plain creepy without the laugh track and it's the Facebook boomer version of nerdy humor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:51 AM
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This is about a support group / former members, but a quick read should give you an idea https://www.newsweek.com/qanon-casualties-reddit-community-1565501
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:38 AM
77

If it hurts their feelings, it's misandry 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 01:35 AM
92

I'm at the point where living alone seems like a good option. And if I need help? What help anyway? Lol I fix the toilet, I fix the shower, I fix the sink... I can't fix it, then I hire someone. These guys act like Youtube doesn't exist and that they can't learn. I don't crave the company of a man anymore. The last one was so disgusting and the fact my bff defends him... I'm just done. I'm going to try and figure out how to be more independent financially, as I need a roommate to survive. Not go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:52 PM
86

When they do put their foot down, the husband does such a bad job on purpose that she never wants to ask again. I don't understand the women who continue to have children with men like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:34 PM
61

Don't you know? Only mothers are capable of the negative sides of passive / non-existent parenting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:32 PM
29

Why do I get the feeling most of the Qnon losers are men? 🤔 https://www.vox.com/2018/8/8/17657800/qanon-reddit-conspiracy-data
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:30 PM
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They're marginalized because we don't want to be their bangmaids / wallets / fleshlights / reaffirm their fragile masculinity while they treat women like sheeeet. Real men don't care about the sub, because they don't feel attacked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:27 PM
44

There's few HVM that exist. Realistically, how many of us will find that guy? All the vetting, like you said? What HVM do, is what the typical woman does. A lot of time wasted that could have been spent on ourselves. I know this is considered a negative outlook, but it's an important thing to consider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:03 PM
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Women do more, men do less. But out of curiosity, would you say they still want their masculinity reaffirmed but don't have much to show for it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:59 PM
20

That's disappointing. I thought they were at least better than American men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 10:17 PM
38

And for some reason they equate good men with people like them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:18 PM
41

Trying to date women made me realize something: I need to work on myself more. Each time someone was interested, I thought... they could do better. Can I make her happy? Can I add to her life? Will I be a burden? These are not questions LVMs ask themselves. To them, I am obviously not worth any of those things or holding themselves accountable. They take and take. They're gold diggers, they're emotional vampires. Most men ain't worth shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:16 PM
2

This is so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 07:28 PM
48

How is it game to be approached by LVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:18 AM
106

I'm older than him and look younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:09 AM
34

I think we all know lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 02:07 AM
54

Dude has greasy male Redditors vibe. Definitely projecting. But he really needs to take a stand for men, they're so disenfranchised 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:14 AM
42

The guys who complain about women letting themselves go aren't a prize themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:55 PM
8

What a fucking piece of shit. I hope he dies painfully and alone. I'm sorry the system has failed you, that's just god awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:50 PM
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Needless to say, he cried a river when I dumped him and begged me to stay Lol one of my LVM exes did that. When I confronted him about being married, he didn't apologize (right away), he sobbed, "you're gonna break up with me, aren't you?" Dude also loved to push my buttons because he was soooo quirky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 10:46 PM
5

Dude I wanna slug him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:42 PM
38

If they don't care about status, why bother with a label?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:11 AM
60

"I like it when you compliment and reaffirm my masculinity"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:09 AM
69

Sometimes I wonder if they exist only in fiction 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 07:20 AM
164

God I love this show This character is really supportive of his wife, too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:55 AM
25

You dropped a manbaby. You wouldn't treat him like a little emperor and asked him not to be so lazy... The horror, he couldn't do what you were willing or have done for him. Never trust a dude who deletes the messages he wrote in anger and doesn't own up to it. The only advice I can give you is a cliche one. Time heals all wounds. I'm really sorry you had to deal with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:49 AM
44

They shit. Culture is extremely sexist. Foreigner might not see it right away because they're polite and their low, non-threatening energy might be mistaken for emotional maturity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:42 AM
48

Cheap ass pervert
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:08 AM
4

To deflect from the shit they do probably 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 03:35 AM
119

If he claims to be a clean freak... Look behind the toilet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 02:50 AM
15

Never met a dude who was good at it. And the guys who insist on it tend to be insecure assholes. They're the "man", but when I'm not cupping their balls, they keep it in their purses 🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:44 AM
14

They're lazy power bottoms tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:41 AM
15

I'm looking forward to the translation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:40 AM
21

They would rather get muscles than work on their shit personalities 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:35 AM
24

LOL is he getting mad over an imaginary daydream in his head just lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 01:23 AM
61

They think only older women have a higher chance of producing offspring with disabilities, but older men, too - but there aren't health risks just to the baby, but to the mother as well. https://med.stanford.edu/news/all-news/2018/10/older-fathers-associated-with-increased-birth-risks.html
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:19 AM
28

Ffff 💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:13 AM
92

Like Russell Crowe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:11 AM
176

And they're always insecure about their masculinity, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 12:00 AM
75

So, stay single until you find someone with low self-esteem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:52 PM
28

Dated two guys with ED (overweight, old af) and they both made me out to be the problem 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:18 PM
135

He was probably a weekend father before lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:07 PM
68

How many times does she have to say no???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:04 PM
8

I had to teach an ex how to boil water for food 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:35 AM
11

I told one of my exes the 2" of dog hair in his kitchen was gross af and he was really offended 🤷‍♀️ He dumped me for that and other reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 09:05 AM
24

Just why Why tf are they so gross A woman has body hair, they wanna puke But they're baking cow pies between their cheeks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:32 AM
17

Ok apparently it's turned into a debate who's at fault in this bed shitting scenario. Am I crazy for thinking a guy so dumb and gross exists is the bigger issue????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 08:07 AM
21

Lmao Some can change a tire (probably not tbh), but they can't wash their damn asses 😔 Is this really the state of "men" these days?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:07 AM
46

A male friend of mine said he felt little sympathy for her because she should've noticed sooner 🤨 He may have a point, but in her defense, men smell gross and don't realize it. I would just tolerate the odor and not mention anything to exes. But she mentioned in the comments he didn't do this before when they lived together. Is this really a question we need to add to the vetting process? Do you wash your belly button? Do you empty the lint trap? Do you use toilet paper?????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:06 AM
95

If I like insulting men on the internet, that's a faaaar worse social crime than this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:00 AM
59

Does he has a triple chin? But horizontal instead of vertical?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:46 AM
68

I need to reread this book. I don't even remember this quote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:36 PM
54

Nothing wrong with being single. Take as long as you need to process the grief and sadness. It's not always a linear path to acceptance, and if you change your mind again - nothing wrong with that either, just do what will make you happy and safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 10:19 PM
66

Every guy I've dated has had a lint trap that looked similar to this, in varying degrees of bad. And they called me stupid 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:24 PM
12

I use it to degrade men. "Oh you think you're kinky, you're just a vanilla starfish." They get offended or amused. The way women have been degraded, I turn back on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 08:22 PM
101

This is why scrotes get uncomfortable when you ask them to explain a bad joke I did this yesterday and the guy just went silent 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:57 PM
43

I think this is the break jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:07 AM
22

Yeah wipe it with sand paper just 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 02:04 AM
71

"you're hurting my feelings" Good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:55 AM
32

I will hear people rant more about FDS than about the pedos on Reddit or claim ignorance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:18 PM
15

You didn't ruin his life. He did. Why should you be a doormat and care?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:25 PM
13

The holy LVM trifecta 😩🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 05:57 PM
64

LOL but aren't those oil stains on his shirt just hnnngg No fatties or good diggers for this Splenda daddy tho 🥴💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:54 AM
49

Lmao because he's that desirable??? 😩👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:49 AM
64

Here's one that showed up in my feed 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:37 AM
151

Yeah the men's grooming habits are nasty af or unimpressive But we still gotta dress up 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 09:00 AM
5

Is your friend attracted to men who make it transparent they're assholes? Doesn't mean she needs to offer her affection, she can say "thank you, goodbye" if she's not ready to "ghost".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:23 AM
22

These dudes are either broke af and/or ugly and over value who their "looksmatch" is when you take everything (including personality) into consideration 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 06:21 AM
42

After Rose Mcgowan's claims, not surprised. Dude is a goth nice guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 12:57 AM
45

92 of the top 500 are controlled by the same guy is probably how
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:25 PM
30

Wrap up an empty PS5 box, fill it with lotion and a box of tissues, and write "lol jk but I am breaking up with you"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:31 AM
31

Christie Smythe took the F train That sums up the entire article
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 07:16 AM
3

They never like it when you throw it back lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:53 AM
13

Her husband might be a lost cause, but she can at least set her son right by making him help out 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:50 PM
9

Guys who use too many emoticons or call themselves "sapiosexuals" or mention they like "intellectual discussions" why are they so stupid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:03 AM
16

🎻🎻🎻🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:51 AM
13

Sounds like I dated the same guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:48 AM
24

She's 12??? You've been taking very good care of her! And I love her coloring, she's adorable 😭💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 10:48 PM
29

I'm glad your cat survived and is still with us! And glad you eventually got out of that situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:47 PM
7

I'm sorry you and your pets had to suffer that awful POS. Also love your username btw 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 09:45 PM
7

Mayo guy comes to mind 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:22 AM
7

I'm sure the ladies begging their situationships / boyfriends / husbands to go to therapy on the relationship subs are saying "therapy is for women" Men are more successful at commiting suicide and his point? It's the system men built and who's to blame in a patriarchal society, hmmmm? 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:44 AM
61

Brilliant 👏👏👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:23 PM
3

lol not really but ty No one's taken me up on the offer 🤔 P.S. to anyone still reading, I have all DIYs, including Christmas / snow falling wallpaper. Just provide materials. I uh accidentally deleted my additional house with my excess materials ☠️ Also have all color variations of toy day items.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:19 PM
3

I don't understand it, it's so bizarre 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 07:36 AM
24

"nothing good would come of it" that means he doesn't find her that attractive anymore and/or she's just a placeholder - ultimately doesn't really love her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:08 AM
16

Welp there goes my dinner 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 04:06 AM
39

I'm showing my age 😩😩😩 smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:53 AM
69

I'd post carefully laminated places everywhere tbh regarding this dude Edit: posters, not places
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 03:44 AM
22

I read his (or her?) short 24 hour post history. He or she is just trolling everybody, men and women lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:42 AM
66

And to not forget their belly buttons and crack when they shower 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:58 AM
236

I instinctively tried to downvote the screenshot because he's so revolting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:46 AM
5

😰😰😰😰😰 What Is this the next step in evolution or something idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:03 AM
14

Any regular FDS commenters here - if you play Animal Crossing, I'd like to give you 4 million bells. We don't have to interact ever again, but if it helps you on your island, I'm happy. Edit: just reply to me here or DM me Edit edit: also I will pay 1 million bells for termite mounds 😗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:51 AM
2

I don't want to post content (I don't really get DMed a lot), but I want to reply to posts (not sure if you need approval for that, but figured I'd ask, I was shadow banned bgor a while on this sub)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:48 AM
68

Would he think it would be cute if somebody threw rocks at his car? 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:47 AM
43

I'm just gonna say if you ever grabbed a lemon out of your pocket and ate it in front of me, I would know to never mess with you 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:43 AM
56

I eat lemons like they’re oranges I eat lemons like they’re oranges Girl what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:25 AM
5

"it was a relationship" 🌝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:20 PM
9

Yup they're just covert narcs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:25 PM
4

God they are so fucking dumb My only hope is these kinda dudes don't breed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:21 PM
10

Lmao he should feel honored he was used like a dildo 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:12 PM
117

"not the hottest, but a 7" 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:54 AM
50

Why they so awful, sis, I just don't get it 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:45 AM
18

Damn I feel left out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:38 AM
162

I show them AITA threads and tell them I'm not sure what to think and want to know their honest opinion. They reveal themselves a lot more quickly that way. But maybe a guy using Reddit at all is a red flag lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 10:14 AM
230

Hey scrote, if you're reading this: if you're actually dominant, you don't need to say it. You're just insecure because of your 🤏🍆 and cuz u ugly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:48 AM
13

A doctor was trying to make me do something but one, I hadn't clocked in, and two, I didn't work his floor... he kept on talking tho Why are they so insufferable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:45 AM
14

Lynette was my favorite tbh 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:41 AM
14

I'm probably going WGTOW, but I was talking to this dude out of boredom. He seemed nice and figured I'd make a friend, even if he made a big deal about being woke with regards to his MtF sister, but thinks playing Cyber Punk is fine. Guess not woke enough. He revealed he has understanding friends (female implied) who don't mind LOTS of non-sexual touch beyond hugging. Like seriously fuck off with that shit. I don't like men or people touching me, period. I tolerate hugs. But that shit is weird a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 09:31 AM
2

This sounds like my sister lmaoooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:23 PM
7

That's still part of the aging like shit thing, so thank you for the input 🤷‍♀️ Edit: Lots of guys who shit on women's looks or say they age like fine wine when it's more like spoiled milk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:18 PM
61

Have you tried communicating, tho? 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 09:57 AM
48

I'm seeing all the guys my age or a few years older / younger - 90% of the time, they look 10, 15 years older. Either they're lying about their age or shit man, they had a rough life. Even the ones 10 years younger look my age. Men do age like shit 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:18 AM
10

Buddy doesn't realize he already is one lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:16 AM
35

Not to sound like a snob, but crisco 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:14 AM
18

"it was a light-hearted comment sheesh" his joke was fine, but your rebuttal wasn't? Most people are scum. Some are more scummy than others. This can be complicated when we otherwise get along with a person. But he sounds dismissive of you, even when you were polite about your disgust. He's not the only gamer out there, male or female. It just might take some time to find the decent / compatible ones. I have found zero ppl tbh with my sense of humor (I'm not saying it's good) that also play the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 04:05 AM
46

He actually made that year long timeline, so it seems even worse because he "didn't expect it to come so soon" (paraphrasing) i.e he reeeeaaaaally wanted to drag it out and string her along 🌝
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:33 AM
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It’s just as selfish for her to not wait for him as it is for him to make her wait. Luckily this comment was downvoted to oblivion lol I'm glad people are calling him out Edit: and a heartbroken TRP guy (different guy from quote above, I think) who calls women "dumpsters" had this gem There should be no deadline. You cannot force a man to marry you when u want. Just like you cant force a woman to have sex with you when u want. That’s rape. The best you can do is inspire him to propose by being t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 01:01 AM
6

So hard for him, poor guy 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:29 PM
42

Ofc she left, he was proposing for a shitty reason and also wouldn't come clean to her 😑 God, the commenters would probably cheat on their forever gfs while she lay dying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 08:33 AM
95

This exactly. I know scrotes are thinking, "damned if you do, damned if you don't" - but dudes who are insistent on this kind of stuff end up being emotionally abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:01 AM
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I'd ask an ex to stop interrupting me. He scoffed and said I wouldn't make it with him and his theatre friends. I replied, "Good! Why would I want to be friends with a bunch of assholes?" He then told me I was very rude and insulting...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:50 AM
9

Not a good sign when a dude is called a "fragile male Redditor" on Reddit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:45 AM
15

"humble brag" flair when they have good news... Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:09 AM
3

That's beautiful 😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 12:08 AM
13

Damn are you me, I relate to this post so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:09 PM
13

"kiddo" Why is he calling a grown woman near his age or older "kiddo" Can we drop the "Mr." from his title and just call him Scrote Epstein?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:07 PM
17

Sorry for giving you guys extra work 🙇‍♀️ I see some of those comments that never make it and I feel bad 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:04 PM
3

I remember there was a post somewhere with the (alleged) faces of the mods / popular users or something. I can only imagine they got it off Discord. I'm not sure about the MRA angle, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:02 PM
31

"I've been abusive to myself" not enough apparently, dude should honestly just die
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:37 PM
90

Pornhub, which said on Tuesday that it had made changes to prevent the use of nonconsensual content, said on Thursday that Mastercard’s and Visa’s measures were “exceptionally disappointing.” Wow they even sound like a gaslighting butthurt scrote Sit on it and jog off, Pornhub 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:32 PM
15

On the other hand, we're supposed to take on "projects" and "build a man" 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:24 PM
78

If a woman goes to therapy, she's a nutjob or batshit crazy bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:56 AM
16

Poor men, that must be absolutely horrible 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:13 AM
5

You know they're gonna have more kids, but he's still "not ready" and she's hopeful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:11 AM
57

I guess that was why I was the emotional punching bag for so many boyfriends because I wanted to help them 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:36 AM
12

"report junk" ✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️✔️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:11 AM
6

A friend made a joke to an ex he'd better not break my heart. Tho my ex denies he was offended, he set his pickme best friend on me to cause drama. He then called me illogical and accused me of starting the drama. For a guy who loves being the "man", he is a fucking little bitch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 06:13 AM
24

It just shows how inconsiderate they are and it drives me nuts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:57 AM
4

Lol he's posting on r/survivinginfidelity now lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:05 AM
199

"Will your Irritable Male Syndrome make it hard to get along with your colleagues when your hormones are fluctuating throughout the day?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:48 AM
31

Lmao yes 😩👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:34 PM
184

Hope that dude is taking himself out a lot then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:27 PM
7

Oh, it used to be available for free. I remember seeing my sister's available on white pages, I think. Looks like they've made it a paid feature now. But in my state, it's public record that's available to anyone at least, on the government website.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 10:36 AM
26

Skip the cages, let's just bury 'em
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:02 AM
169

So glad she kept the PS5
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:19 AM
28

If you know his name, you can legally look up his marriage certificate, thereby finding her name Edit: I'm blind somebody else already said this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 04:09 AM
10

Lol what is "she" a Ferengi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:50 AM
951

Man, I'd screenshot that and send it to his gf What a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:48 AM
28

It’s why we fetishize zombie movies and boast about what we’d do; we’d literally have more control and autonomy and options in that scenario than we do surviving daily normal life. That hit harder than I expected ☠️ But a really well written post. Makes me hopeful one day I'll be less broken if I persevere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:46 AM
2

But he's still thinks he's the "man" huh 🙄 What a scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:54 PM
59

Reminds me of this one player on Animal Crossing on a Facebook group. She had a screenshot of her character in a wedding dress and on the ground outside her boyfriend's in game house was a wedding ring. They have a couple kids together in the real world and she's gorgeous. I could not bring myself to say "he ain't gonna propose." One commenter even chimed in and said, "still waiting for my ring after 40 years" They think this is "cute" and "funny" It ain't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 08:04 AM
24

"I have empathy, I just show it differently." Like no bro, you have LITTLE empathy. If they can put on a front at work, that means they can learn for relationships with women, at the very least. But they don't. And then they want a woman who is warm, unlike them, and get soooo mad when women want the same back. They're "woke" but misogynistic af and emotionally dumb. Why do they think they're a prize, especially when they're ugly and out of shape? This is on top of being stingy af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:54 AM
13

No, you don't need to post your cell online for it to show up. There's some other places, too. I matched with a private investigator and he ran my Google voice number through a database which obviously came up with no info. Also called me sketchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:55 PM
162

The belt is to distract you from his 🤏🍆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:15 PM
12

Think I'll go WGTOW soon 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:06 PM
14

To clarify, that was on his bio, he didn't message me it. He's 38, so how young is he searching???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:03 PM
7

Really proud of you. I love your spirit. I'm sorry you had that dirtbag in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:58 PM
119

7 figures, but carpet instead of hardwood?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:51 PM
24

Had a teacher like my profile. He mentioned "if you're a former student, avoid eye contact, let's forget it..." Like dude why are you searching for women in that age range? 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:48 PM
34

Dude told me I would need to buy him coffee if I wanted to know more about him 🤡🤡🤡 jfc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:41 PM
12

Leave her be. She'll just resent you unless she comes to you herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:38 PM
6

I don't think she's being a pick me. She seems to have set some rules, boundaries. I can't tell if he's a fuckboi / narc, though. I have a feeling if he steps out of line, she won't hesitate to put him in his place or leave him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:37 PM
7

Probably white pages if they had your cell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:26 PM
69

Tech bros, too. But they're socially incompetent for sure and have low empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:37 PM
2

I see her venting on JustNoSO in the future about her husband gaming all day while she raises the kids 🤡🤡🤡 is right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:21 PM
3

And like... He's already "making" a present excuse? How long does it take to make origami? Why can't he do both? I don't know why dating these man babies is so normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:17 PM
1

Lmaoooo 😂👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:15 PM
53

So fucking true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:55 PM
8

I wasn't ready for that last pic either omg 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:24 AM
36

I don't have a problem with minimalism, except your neck is gonna hurt with the TV on the floor like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:18 AM
21

I chortled 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 08:51 AM
25

"looksmatches" Incel needs to stop mansplaining the black pill
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:07 AM
6

Not to mention he neglects to mention they had an open relationship - the poly kind. He posted 10 months ago about other couples. He claims it was purely sex, but that poly post suggested a bit more. And as soon as she started to develop feelings, she came out to him. He neglects to mention that, too. He deflects, diverts, makes up excuses (can't condense 7 years into a paragraph - yet he did) and barely addressed my point to him. Dude is a liar and manipulative. It's just subtle and the people …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:26 AM
4

Sorry, eye roll is for him, not you He's just so pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:09 PM
7

Wasn't even real cheating, looking at his post history ,they had an open relationship 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:52 PM
13

I'm not sure if I have advice or experience that would suit someone with ADD unfortunately. My skin just starts to crawl if I leave a mess there for too long. But the best thing I've found is touching up daily; you'll need to do deep cleans less often. And keeping supplies within reach (just hide when guests are over.) I keep the glass spray on the bathroom counter and I have a sponge in the kitchen specifically for surfaces. I vacuum daily because I have cats (litter, fur.) I use the vacuum for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:27 PM
17

When they say once a week, it really means once a month 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:16 PM
40

Guys see no problem with this and accuse you of OCD if you're grossed out 🙄 Edit: getting tired of my phone auto filling words ffs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:15 PM
47

This is sadly probably the cleaned up version....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:14 PM
32

"mental exhaustion" does he have a mental breakdown every time he's constipated just lol what a little bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 10:14 AM
6

I don't understand why she tried to copyright his suicide note? And allegedly her father murdered someone? Also paid for her lawyers, which kept him broke and jobless? (I don't think I can link to the thread, but it shows up on Google.) https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/volokh-conspiracy/wp/2014/05/15/man-commits-suicide-blames-ex-wife-in-suicide-note-ex-wife-takes-control-of-copyright-tries-to-get-note-and-mans-other-writings-removed-from-internet/ I'm not a fan of men in general, but this on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:07 AM
3

Block and delete. Anything that seems "genuine" is just him future faking or stringing you along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:32 AM
75

"fancy" it's cubic zirconia lol But better he's with a doll than a real person tbh, good for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:05 AM
5

Women are only "more emotional" to them because they're disgusting pieces of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:41 PM
13

I mean good 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:26 PM
23

He doesn't have great comprehension skills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 11:24 PM
7

Why is contesting the divorce an option????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:19 PM
25

I thought maybe it was fake, because of his username and he's just so dumb, but he told someone to fuck off in a reply lol But yeah they ripped him apart 😂👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:15 PM
48

That's how involved he is in both his mistresses' and wife's lives. He's so self-absorbed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:40 PM
64

"I am not blaming her, how do I make her stay when this was her fault, tho" 🥴🤌 Bitch ass LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:33 PM
75

And he wonders why women hate him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:55 AM
861

"WOmeN r VERy shAlLow"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:20 PM
30

Is it just me or do the guys with poor communication skills back pedal a lot? You can have a spine and not be an asshole 🤦‍♀️ Sorry about the LVM, though 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:28 AM
112

The pandemic is an especially good excuse for these guys to talk big with nothing to show for it. This list is pretty good. Another thing is if you're watching out for man babies... On my profile, I mentioned some things I love doing, and when the guy asks, "so, when are you going to [this or that] for me?" Or "I love being [activity where they get spoiled]." That initial response isn't necessarily always bad, but if they tell it to you without offering something in return i.e. "I'll bring the i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:39 PM
6

Sorry about that.. to clarify, you should ask this "friend" why he's simping so hard for your ex 😏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:57 AM
13

I send them gay porn back or images from Reddit's Museum of Filth sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:55 AM
10

Should ask him why he's simping so hard lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:31 AM
8

Thanks for the awards for me posting someone else's art lol jk but I thought I had the artist linked, but it's not working on my phone, at least Yanna Sketches I just discovered her today 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:45 AM
22

You and me both, sis ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:54 PM
34

Oops, I think I messed up in putting the link, but it's Yanna 😅 Yanna Sketches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:24 PM
9

I use it for men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:22 PM
35

What are they, ten
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:01 AM
65

Dude this woman is fucking dumb, no wonder her teen kid got pregnant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:59 AM
4

That's a good question tbh Even if it's him, I doubt he looks away from his computer for more than 5 minutes at a time, a few times at most 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 09:25 PM
4

It is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 08:09 PM
90

When he tells his side after that happens, male Redditors would probably tell him to call adult protective services or suggest they both go into counseling 🥴🤌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:18 PM
134

Inorite??? This lady is WAY too generous. I wouldn't want to fuck this piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:12 PM
1

The people in the comments saying pee is sterile... That's an urban legend. Even if it was - while INSIDE the body - guess what it touches on its way out? And if being peed on isn't disrespectful without her consent, then he shouldn't mind being spat on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:04 PM
3

Wait am I a dude then F
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:29 AM
140

Most of the dudes who complain have bad dandruff, long nose and/or ear hairs, pussy whiskers, take shit care of long hair, dry leathery skin and the list goes on... We'd wish they'd at least try to "trick" us and learned to groom properly 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 06:14 AM
27

Why can't the guy be bothered to learn? Or try in earnest?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:34 PM
59

Is a woman really a gold digger when she's annoyed about a cheap ring when the dude was gifted or bought himself a PS5? Those are the kinda situations people are mad about. They don't take the time to read the comments, I'm not going to take the time to watch their videos fully. I don't agree with everything here and people here don't always agree with me, but I appreciate this sub exists so that younger, naive women don't get treated the way I have been for a decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:29 PM
13

You're right, scrote, some other guy would be better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:21 PM
4

I didn't even think about that lol I just knew people would come in to find something about to critical about and ignored them. They never did address the doctor, just me 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:11 PM
75

I'm in a Covid group for healthcare workers on a certain platform. One (alleged) woman said covid was a scam; a doctor proceeded to attack her appearance. I told him to attack her opinions, not her appearance. I saw his profile picture. He had 3 daughters. I was really disappointed. People started to berate me because apparently the covid denier was probably a fake account.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:58 AM
2

It sounds like maybe he couldn't afford it? But at the same time, he made HER birthday about him. That's extremely selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 08:19 AM
38

They... Have two kids, a third on the way. I don't know if I feel sorry for them anymore if they're this stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:47 AM
7

They're tearing into her hard thankfully
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:14 AM
7

Brad is probably gonna cheat on her 🤷‍♀️ Considering how selfish that family is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:13 AM
10

That's beautiful 😩👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:12 AM
4

I use it after I neg them 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 12:12 AM
98

This dude who replied with the snarky commeby was kicked out by his mom and he's been jobless two years. A week ago made a suicide post. Man, that's just sad. Why do they always love anime
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:35 PM
10

At least he got dogged on by other more literate people tho https://twitter.com/OctavianEssie/status/1326500579825360896?s=19
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:11 PM
35

"make sure you leave the toilet seat up" Yeah really showing WAHMEN 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:22 PM
67

https://www.quora.com/Is-it-a-coincidence-that-the-UN-put-world-toilet-day-on-the-same-day-as-international-mens-day-or-is-it-a-blatant-example-of-institutionalized-sexism 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:36 PM
37

Do people with "law degrees" really write this poorly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 04:23 PM
70

So weak. But women are supposed to smile, it's a compliment 🙄 And if I get physical, I'm just insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:20 PM
43

Is that why I'm getting shadow banned harrassing replies lately lol Sorry for the extra work you all are dealing with :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:51 AM
9

Happy Toilet Day 💩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:10 PM
29

I'd fart back harder after having some dairy 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:34 AM
0

Had a date say I reminded them of Gustavo and that I was scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:33 AM
32

Lol I love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:11 AM
6

That makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:57 PM
3

Bed bug 😂😂😂☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 06:30 PM
22

Really? Because I hate Apple products for being overpriced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:52 PM
24

I'm in love with the cake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:19 AM
35

Guys say I have cleaning OCD. But I think they're just fucking gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:36 AM
3

Their faces, I can't stop laughing 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 07:26 AM
10

Really? Because plenty of FDS posters have said being single is an okay option, too, on the WGTOW sub Edit: to clarify, as an alternative lifestyle to dating and being happy with yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:37 PM
24

Whenever they say something dumb like this followed by "lol" "lmao" "lmfao" I think they're as smart as a bag of rocks and hope they don't breed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:50 PM
156

And they're more than happy to have you pay for everything, instead of doing their fair share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:49 PM
16

I'll probably die single and that's okay 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:48 PM
35

Dude he treats her like this when she's so much better looking????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:17 AM
20

What a moron 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:08 AM
2

Wtf And it almost sounds like he laments being slightly turned off by the smell 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:07 AM
96

As someone working in a hospital, fuck off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:34 AM
6

I'm surprise how many my age (and younger) look like absolute shit. You would think they were 10-15 years older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 10:09 PM
6

"the transformed wife" was this bullshit beaten into her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:57 AM
1

Tinder I personally haven't experienced (I'm usually not on it enough or responding anyway), but Hinge def yes. Seems weird, though. I think they're just lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:55 AM
18

I hate it when they're smoking in their pics 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 02:03 AM
9

Tinder has actually been known to do that Hinge is pretty notorious for this as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:38 AM
7

What are his redeeming traits??? He occasionally treats her like a human being????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 01:29 AM
3

I'm not an expert, but dudes like him are looking for FWB. He's a guy and doesn't want to share. He can sleep with you, but not call you his girlfriend? Then he was only future faking when you guys had those intimate talks. If it's really too soon and he wanted to take it slow, he wouldn't be pressuring you for sex like that. Dude is probably a narc. You are better than him and without him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:43 AM
8

All the libertarian guys I've talked to (here and OLD) are misogynistic, not terribly bright, and awful at having "discussions". Also look unshowered. They're just conservatives who are dumb and smoke weed. The women aren't so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:36 AM
88

"thank you, I think so, too" gets rid of them usually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:20 AM
64

I want to make him cry for other reasons, what a fucking piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 05:01 AM
40

He's a "pick up" artist. So, what does his imaginary list of ONS say about him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:59 AM
9

Pretty much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:35 AM
19

The tech guys are really stingy. I have mixed feelings about coffee dates, but during covid... Why would I risk that for coffee lol And I don't drink, but they still ask to meet at the bar 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:33 AM
79

"I'm too ugly for women" they say this a lot, too If a girl is going to have casual sex and be treated like shit, might as well be a ripped dude 🤷‍♀️ why bother with "ugly" covert narcs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 12:19 AM
121

Why doesn't he... just do it? If she likes it done a particular way, HE CAN LEARN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:20 PM
5

Did you pay or go Dutch?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:53 PM
164

There's a lot of tech men here and less women in my area, but that's all they want. And they get mad when the fit women who have good paying jobs don't want their flabby, crusty asses. Yet we're supposed to feel sorry for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:49 PM
92

WGTOW is starting to be appealing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:46 PM
101

It... sounds fake? That phrase "dress sexily to appease him" screams male Redditor and it sounds like OP is a guy switching out the genders to do a "gotcha" gender bias study.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:59 PM
120

At least lady "gold diggers" usually provide emotionally support, cleaning, cooking, etc. in return for being taken care of. Scrote gold diggers? Just treat you like garbage in comparison and they don't wash their ass cracks or belly buttons. I'm really sorry for the turmoil your family has been through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:56 PM
3

Only know one friend with a HVM. Everyone else is LVM or IVM (intermediate value male.) You'd think in an area where men outnumber women, they'd try harder. Or lower their standards. They want someone out if their league looks wise with a college education who'll moonlight as a bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 06:53 PM
2

Sometimes I feel the same way but I also have a terrible personality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 07:29 PM
8

Dude is there an app that's decent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 01:52 AM
3

I give up :(((((
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:49 AM
35

Beautiful 🥺💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:21 AM
20

And he posts like an incel, why can't he be more original?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 12:03 AM
11

Old as shit dude suspected in death of teenager found dead in hotel :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 08:03 PM
9

You're not "nurturing" if you don't act like a mother who can pick up on non-verbal cues 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:53 PM
31

I've had to become blunt and they don't like it. I'm now a nag. They hear you, they just don't want to put in the emotional labour to comprehend you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:52 PM
22

And you're also expected to fix it 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:49 PM
35

I don't get anywhere in work because of this :( Even had a boss tell me women should be "motherly" But if I was a guy, I think I would have gotten a lot farther sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 07:47 PM
20

Just to clarify, I don't she was the bad guy. The crowd seemed to think so. Makes me mad he was manipulative like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:53 PM
24

"I don't care if you're rich" 👏👏👏 Unfortunate she looked like the bad guy, though. That guy was an ass 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:35 PM
37

I'm sorry he had the audacity to be so stupid and take you for granted. Glad you got rid of that dead weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:30 PM
9

Really depends on the history & context, imo. I don't like it when the other person is assuming things either and I don't consider myself as bad as a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:29 PM
57

Letting someone go (let's pretend the woman was controlling) is one of the least controlling things, to boot. You're acknowledging an incompatibility in both and being possessive and making them stay is a lot more controlling. There's a difference between working out some normal issues and being treated like shit and the two have been confused and normalized. The bar is set so low for American men. And so many don't even bother to stand up to reach it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:25 PM
2

I can't, I'll get too jealous 😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:19 PM
12

Probably because the standard is because they're allowed to "look their age" and women are supposed to "look good for their age" or younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:17 PM
8

OMG HE'S OLDER THAN ME I thought he was in his 20's!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:13 PM
10

I see black and Asian men who age better on average than white counterparts; others kinda all over the place But not better than women, so you're still right lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:12 PM
15

Ok sure that makes it all better jfc 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:30 AM
258

Most white dudes age like spoiled milk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:26 AM
27

Why tf is she going to ask for advice if she's going to be stupid and not listen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 06:23 AM
27

Where's my $100 Like plenty of women don't dress up that way, not that it matters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:03 PM
46

Women he finds himself attracted to don't want to date someone "ugly"? And he's mad? 🎻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:01 PM
42

Good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 10:59 PM
8

Can u taste the smell tho 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:25 PM
1

I'm glad I could enrich your day 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:24 PM
118

What girl wouldn't turn down a date to Apple Bee's with this leathery hunk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 07:41 PM
64

You can pull out belly button turds and they'll still cheat smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:40 PM
36

Lol are you imagining the cheesey, musky dog shit sweat that's trapped in there 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:36 PM
29

Does... She wax the dingleberries off his ass, too... 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:31 PM
86

"My lil' man doesn't know he's supposed to wash his belly button" NSFL (not safe for life)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:14 PM
283

They probably would be in denial or can't tell the DMs apart 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:28 PM
25

"And then everyone clapped"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 06:29 AM
115

I hope she enjoys the nursing home her son is going to put her in 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:48 PM
232

These types like "traditional gender roles", but often aren't sole financial providers lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:53 PM
5

Hey it's LVM poetry at its finest 😩💦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:32 PM
54

I think trying to read that gave me grey facial hair and I definitely want to go to bed early now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:35 AM
24

Do men that rich really waste time on Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 08:46 PM
31

Thank you sir didn't want a cum stained birkin anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 07:26 PM
42

I would print the SS of that and put it on my fridge LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:52 PM
64

Wish I could show 20 year old me this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:50 PM
71

To be single? Good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:48 PM
16

LVM weebs are one of the worst kind 🤮🤮🤮 And they'll complain if she's not a porn star in bed if they actually manage to successfully gaslight someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:37 PM
19

Don't those same dudes buy the latest gadgets lol And when we aren't "materialistic", they're like "you've really let yourself go"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:05 PM
31

Ty i will advise my friend that 😩👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:30 AM
143

Why wasn't my ex "spoiled" when I bought him hair products I knew he'd like because he expressed some concerns to me? Also hand soap scents? No, I was just doing normal gf duties 🙄 Edit: I'm so sorry! I just realized I was putting negativity on your post 🤦 I do love how thoughtful your bf is 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 03:19 AM
27

What if he makes an ass load of money tho, asking for a friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:37 AM
5

Do we have the same sister lol I got chastised by my sister for politely telling a man with diagnosed autism I was tired of telling him to stop flirting, wished him the best, blocked. I was nice to him the entire time. But I was still a mean bitch because I didn't give him a chance??? 🙄 Not hating on him for his condition (he seemed decent), just absurd if I deny my emotions and body to a guy who "needs" it 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:30 AM
6

It's better that way tbh 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:55 AM
10

I never smile in my pictures One guy used this line and I told him the pick up line wasn't going to work He tried to convince me it was a genuine compliment I told him politely I wasn't interested, but I wished him the best of luck He called me an ugly bitch and blocked lol And everyone thinks the ladies here are harsh for ghosting and blocking without a word 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:50 AM
32

How many women has he saved?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:35 AM
11

I like how you get a bird eye's view of the goddamn garbage dump before it zooms in tho LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:12 AM
21

Did someone die on the bed 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:01 AM
142

😂😂😂 No keep going 😩👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:47 PM
70

I bet he calls it "babysitting", too 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:46 PM
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