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| 3 | 50/50 relationships will never be equalmore than that they actually think they're doing you a favor lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 10:41 PM |
| 19 | Non libfem feminist subs, are there any?there are literally none besides this one and it's sister subs everything else gets banned that's part of why the mods are so strict here when we said reddit literally hates women we mean it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Non libfem feminist subs, are there any?thepinkpill.co | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 10:36 PM |
| 154 | Wish I found this sub before being baby trapped.sending you lots of hugs op. i hope you get tf out of there soon. make sure your bc is on lock and can't be tampered with. fyi there is an organization that sends free pills to women in countries where abortion is illegal https://www.womenonweb.org/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:40 PM |
| 7 | I'm alone in my real life when it comes to FDS mentalityit's tough but the way i see it is that we are being the leaders and breaking generational curses. be proud! the growth of this sub is a testament to the fact that you are not alone and there are many women seeking this information and know that something is deathly wrong. more and more will wake up but unfortunately many will first have to experience suffering to do so. some of the older generation perhaps is stuck in their ways but it may also be they don't want to admit certain truths because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 04:31 PM |
| 18 | intro from a FDS fan and crone-ywhat an amazing inspiring read! thank you so much. the crone wisdom is very much needed! and so lacking esp in western culture. so i love that you used that phrase. your love story sounds beautiful and i'm glad you are also honest about the nurse/purse but at least he had you set up where you don't have to work now that's how it should be. and i think it's amazing you were able to avoid having kids given the area you grew up in i have heard there is a lot of pressure. imo that was the first stag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:36 AM |
| 15 | Ex texted me? Why do they always comeback?dopamine hit, triangulation, validation, make himself feel better after a rejection from someone else, boredom, it's a game to them just to see if you'll reply, take your pick | /r/askFDS | 30/05/21 02:16 AM |
| 13 | How do I raise my self esteem after past rejections?low self esteem is a cognitive distortion. i would do a worksheet such as this one to write out your negative thoughts specifically and challenge them to come up with a better response (there are more if you search 'challenging cognitive distortions worksheet if that one doesn't speak to you). once you get things out objectively you will see how untrue it is. we all have innate value as human beings, you have value just because you exist without any conditions. and there are plenty of people who… | /r/askFDS | 29/05/21 02:48 PM |
| 18 | Single? Happy?!?you really summed it up perfectly. i'm hoping to skip all those steps of marriage/divorce trauma by learning from those women ahead of me such as yourself who have already experienced it and just live my life for me now. i don't want kids so there is no reason to i would only have married for $ before anyway that's not even worth it now and if i do change my mind on kids i'll get a sperm donor. there is literally nothing i need men for if i want one i'll have a bunch of boyfriends they treat you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Why do I feel this in my very soulthank you for the explanation! makes sense i'm definitely going to start doing those exercises i wish this was talked about more smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 19 | Anyone else find certain shows/movies infuriating now that you've found FDS?i literally can't watch or listen to any mainstream media now music etc. it's all terrible it's subconscious programming i just listen to audiobooks/podcasts and read whenever i get a glimpse of what's on tv or hear songs when i'm in stores it makes me cringe i can't stand it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 34 | FDS STRATEGY SPOTLIGHT: SATURDAY MAY 29 2021love this idea! my fave is being an 'immovable mover' by u/CatherineWinkworth it is such a paradigm shift that i believe would help sooo many women i think one thing that blocks a lot from doing it though is we have this fear that if we don't capitulate we will be left, abandoned etc. due to childhood programming or media/cultural influence but the exact opposite is true. people end up liking you more and want to impress you and actually give you more value. the only ones who don't are those who… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:38 PM |
| 23 | Men have waged psychological warfare on us through the manosphere (incels, pick up artists, red pill) the big porn industry (bdsm fetishes etc) and toxic liberal feminism (pro sex work agenda). A message from FDS: strong women are uniting and WILL NOT BACK DOWN. The sisterhood is only STRENGTHENING.loving this energy 💯💯💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 33 | Men have waged psychological warfare on us through the manosphere (incels, pick up artists, red pill) the big porn industry (bdsm fetishes etc) and toxic liberal feminism (pro sex work agenda). A message from FDS: strong women are uniting and WILL NOT BACK DOWN. The sisterhood is only STRENGTHENING.well said. they want to cherry pick which lets face it men have always done with religion anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:40 AM |
| 8 | Aristotle may have been a Scrote. Taken from my friend’s college text book.yup. too bad woman is literally god though and these scrotes project their inferiority bullshit onto us. unfortunately most famous philosophers of the past were raging misogynists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | What would you do in this situation?good. and if he contacts you anywhere else escalate i.e. sending a formal no contact letter ONCE in writing so you can make a paper trail to file a restraining order it sounds extreme but you never know who these people are or what they're capable of. | /r/askFDS | 28/05/21 11:42 PM |
| 5 | What would you do in this situation?repeatedly violating boundaries is the sign of an abuser full stop also he is only doing this because you rejected him so he got his ego crushed and now that he's faced narcissistic injury has to double down after being triggered. | /r/askFDS | 28/05/21 10:54 PM |
| 3 | Why do I feel this in my very soulwhat i mean is that their hormones are the most stabilized out of anyone and yes hormones do effect emotions including men it was a study if i find it i will post the link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:48 PM |
| 98 | Men have waged psychological warfare on us through the manosphere (incels, pick up artists, red pill) the big porn industry (bdsm fetishes etc) and toxic liberal feminism (pro sex work agenda). A message from FDS: strong women are uniting and WILL NOT BACK DOWN. The sisterhood is only STRENGTHENING.i sure hope so. my hope is that women are intentionally or not committing mass lysistrata and there will be a tipping point. i feel black pilled in a lot of ways but there is still part of me that tries to stay optimistic we won't fall down into a total misogynistic dystopian hellhole. there is an idea in spiritual communities called the 1% effect meaning if 1% of a population meditates it can change the whole world. i believe there is truth to this and that if just 1% of women grasped FDS princ… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:43 PM |
| 30 | Why do I feel this in my very soulthank you! i don't plan on having kids so that adds reason #7864367 to the list lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:33 PM |
| 14 | Why do I feel this in my very soulomg... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:39 PM |
| 74 | Why do I feel this in my very souldoing a quick search on the menopause sub it shows a lot of results for women saying they had uterus prolapse :-/ wtf so fucking scary and no one tells us this bullshit?! i wonder if it is more likely and/or only happens if you've had kids? i don't have the heart to research more right now lol and yes it does seem really freeing! the most rational people in general are post menopausal women as their hormones are more stable than pre menopausal women and all men it's totally a super power but i c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:10 PM |
| 80 | Why do I feel this in my very soulumm can someone explain the pelvic floor crumbling because that sounds scary af is that really a part of menopause or is it hyperbole its such a taboo topic no one talks about it sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 28 | I'm disgusted by male sexuality - what do I do?I hear that so hard, these scrotes have even ruined lesbian sex because their misogyny runs rampant in that too since it's for the male gaze. It's truly disgusting. I wish I had more advice to give other than it sucks but it sucks lol and sounds like internalized homophobia/misogyny perhaps? At least that's how I feel I've always been bicurious and made out with a few women but I feel so put off of that now because of these pornsick losers ugh. Maybe you could get some more perspective over at /… | /r/askFDS | 28/05/21 02:40 PM |
| 41 | I'm disgusted by male sexuality - what do I do?There is an entire movement about this the subreddit got banned it is called febfem (female exclusive bisexual I believe it stands for) you may want to look into that | /r/askFDS | 28/05/21 02:29 PM |
| 28 | Nayyirah Waheed’s poem ”From”i can't justify having kids for this reason, you're either raising another victim or oppressor. it's unethical no matter what imo. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:52 AM |
| 14 | I failed at following FDS principles and I was assaulted on a date.Yw. I actually forgot another one, this is what I used when I was having a lot of panic attacks after some stuff I went through it was the only thing that really calmed me down alternative nostril breathing https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8VwufJrUhic this was more for an emotional thing not so much the physical trauma but I know different things work for different people so wanted to drop that link as well. Best wishes with your healing and fuck that loser to hell | /r/askFDS | 28/05/21 02:08 AM |
| 42 | I failed at following FDS principles and I was assaulted on a date.I'm so incredibly sorry. Please be kind to yourself. I highly recommend TRE (trauma releasing exercises) it's a gentle way to release trauma stored in the body it's the way animals naturally do it. It may look a little silly but you will get some relief. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FeUioDuJjFI also if I'm not in a place to do TRE there is something called the butterfly hug that you can do anywhere in public etc to comfort yourself it stimulates a similar effect to EMDR as it uses bilateral s… | /r/askFDS | 28/05/21 01:22 AM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Check-indoes FDS have any custom awards? i think that'd be fun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 11:10 PM |
| 15 | FOMO on dating this summer triggering negative emotionsI hear you, it's tough. Feeling those emotions, not trying to resist them but instead letting them flow through you, feeling them (including a good cry if you need to - always makes me feel better) and accepting them is how we heal and grow. You are in the process of forging yourself, a phoenix rising from the ashes. That solid inner core you have always had deep down is being excavated, dug up by getting through all the loneliness, pain, and self doubt. You will become a new person. It's always… | /r/askFDS | 27/05/21 11:00 PM |
| 14 | Boyfriend yelled at me while driving for forgetting something. He is also obsessed with punctuality, should I end things?you already know what to do, you say so many times in your post. if you need permission/validation here it is. always listen to your gut. | /r/askFDS | 25/05/21 09:53 PM |
| 6 | I'm often overwhelmed by the depth of the pickme mindset and patriarchal conditioning that I am trying to undo. How do you ladies focus on taking small steps at a time?I relate it's seriously a lot of emotionally exhausting work. I need to take my own advice more but the key is really self care and doing fun stuff that has nothing to do with sex/dating/relationships/men. Get your mind totally off of it and do something else. You NEED breaks. If you don't you will burn out. This type of deep emotional work is not for the faint of heart. It's a grief process and that is part of it. Making time to do the deep work but then fill up your own cup. I've read a lot of… | /r/askFDS | 25/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 12 | Not sure if this was hoovering but regardless, I failed yesterday.it could have been worse. block him before he contacts you again because most likely he will and more frequently now that the door is open. although some narcs just get enough supply from realizing you will still take their calls usually it escalates probably wants to sleep with you or use you for free emotional labor/triangulation with whoever he is trying to extract his next hit from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:52 PM |
| 10 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsi know pathetic lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 10:49 PM |
| 12 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsthank you <3 <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:53 PM |
| 14 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsBut I also thought they would be nicer and would be less likely to cheat if they thought they got lucky by getting someone waaay out their zone. I was wrong so badly lol. They actually seem to be more likely to cheat. It’s like it inflated their ego and they begin to think they can get the same luck again, so cheat. exactly this. sorry to hear about what your pos ex did these depraved losers know no bounds and have zero conscience. disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 09:10 PM |
| 19 | Why you shouldn’t date down or give out sympathy chances - the manipulative strategies of low status men.so true. i settled for my ex and it was that much worse getting betrayed because i never even wanted to date him to begin with lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:59 PM |
| 31 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsewww i hated feeling his disgusting fat gut and man titties. made me miss my asshole ex with a 6 pack and a huge dick. this dude also felt entitled to pretty women but looks if carlos mencia got pregnant and et had a baby. people would literally ask him how he 'got me' and would be confused when we were together. one lady at the store while he was buying me a bunch of shit said he must be a 'confident mother fucker' once his coworkers heard from my ex jealous friend that he was giving me a bunch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:52 PM |
| 34 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsthanks frankly it was traumatic. it gets even worse because he was cheating and moved back in with his kids mom and i had no idea 🤡 and i was still fucking him because i felt sorry for him not realizing he was fucking her and cheating on her too with me and all these other waitresses and even a girl from reddit 🤡🤡🤡 which i found out by finding his reddit account where he also claims to be a pickup artist 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 and also isnt over his other ex girlfriend 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 i could go on but frankly it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 146 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmssorry to hear that. i only wasted around 3 years on my ugly troll and at least i was getting paid and not working but that comes with downsides too although it was nice to just sit on my ass during a year of the pandemic. but i was so grossed out by the end having to have sex with him i had to get drunk every time. never again. learned the hard way not to be financially dependent. i was a sex worker before and never had that kind of disgust. it hits different when you feel like you don't have a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 775 | I’ve been wondering why so many unattractive scrotes are wandering into my dmsthe ugly ones are the most entitled too lmao. women are also brainwashed into thinking ugly men will treat them better so it's a recipe for disaster. ask me how i know 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 02:53 PM |
| 36 | Dating someone with a deceased ex.if you are the first person he has dated since she died he will use you as a therapist and practice then move on and given his behavior he's 100% not over it. don't do emotional labor he shouldn't be bringing her up often one convo is enough and you had two... he should have said it once so that you were aware that's it it's not your job and you shouldn't be talking about exes anyway dead or alive | /r/askFDS | 24/05/21 02:30 PM |
| 8 | Society needs more childfree HVWlmaoo this is me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:37 AM |
| 10 | Society needs more childfree HVWi'm also so glad i didn't have kids with my ex like.. thank my lucky stars everyday 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 5 | Society needs more childfree HVWdefinitely one of the best feelings is knowing one never 'got you' because that's how they literally view it, disgusting. you'll never get me with your unworthy seed ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:35 AM |
| 9 | Society needs more childfree HVWthat's my nightmare. as i get closer to having to make the final decision of whether or not i want kids and have those 'what if' thoughts even though i've always been resolute (the finality of it makes you question though) i know i'm making the right decision because i just could not imagine living that kind of life. or getting divorced and having to be tied to some loser scrote forever ughhh if i did want them i'd use a sperm donor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:33 AM |
| 161 | Society needs more childfree HVWi agree and understand your point but at the same time i don't like the idea that if you don't have kids it means you have to dedicate your life to others there seems to be this trope of having to become this selfless saint to make up for not having kids and it rubs me the wrong way. i feel like if someone does want to be a mentor great but just because someone doesn't want kids doesn't mean they have to justify it by serving kids in other ways. it's perfectly fine to want an adult life free of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:29 PM |
| 19 | Do not choose a shitty man to have kid withyou're better off with a literal sperm donor than to be tied for life to a lvm. hope you find healing op <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 100 | Want to meet men? Walk down the street with a saucy grin and carrying an extra large pizza box. /si've also noticed this!! it's like carrying any sort of big prop is an easy way to make conversation? it's annoying af lol they all make the same kind of 'jokes' too smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 12:57 AM |
| 8 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.easier to make a separate account and then you can turn off pm's too it's peaceful bliss! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 14 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.never got this argument. i could have 10 boyfriends and a husband tomorrow if i wanted. they are idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:24 PM |
| 6 | We hit over 160k! Thanks for driving traffic here, scrotes.always great to hear from a mature queen. congrats to all your success proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:23 PM |
| 5 | I have never been spoiled :(easiest way is to subtly let them know that it's what you expect, make space for them to be able to do so, and positive reinforcement when they do then don't reward bad behavior by sticking around, performing emotional labor etc. i'm not really dating anymore but when i was it was very clear that if you weren't doing that i'm going elsewhere it's really that simple. also say you're exes spoiled you and that's what you're used to doesn't matter if it's true or not they will want to compete and on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:04 PM |
| 127 | I'm an escort and camgirl. The FDS Podcast made me realize I need to quit.been there, you're not alone. the funny thing is that you actually get more money from men if that's what you want being a 'civilian' and not having sex with them lol they have such internalized madonna/whore complexes of who deserves what. idiots. you'll be ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 08:01 PM |
| 35 | SEX POZZY MYTHS BUSTED : Why women struggle to emotionally detach from casual sex despite their best efforts. Male semen contains a concoction of chemicals designed to enslave her to the man she had sex with.trustyourperceptions is gold... reading her stuff will make you literally never want to have sex again lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 10:59 PM |
| 47 | How do you find out about his porn habits?honestly they are all trained to lie the only way you will know is by snooping | /r/askFDS | 21/05/21 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Long time lurker. Need help.this is literally the definition of mindfulness. meditation would help you sounds like you are having a lot of intrusive thoughts. a simple exercise you can do is when you realize you are thinking these thoughts (which is what mindfulness really is, meditation is just a concentrated version of it) say in your head or outloud "i reject that thought". you will literally have to do it over and over again hundreds if not thousands of times per day but it goes down a lottt over time even fairly quick… | /r/askFDS | 21/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 21 | Tricking women into sex work is the Patriarchy's new strategy for keeping us out of the workplacethanks for the citation i had heard it a bunch around here but wasn't sure who originally said it! not surprised lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 81 | Tricking women into sex work is the Patriarchy's new strategy for keeping us out of the workplacethe right wants women to be private property, the left wants women to be public property. since the right's strategy is failing they're going for the left's now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 31 | Is this normal in American culture?American here! > It's exclusive if you're having a 2nd alone together meeting. this is not the expectation at all in American culture and it's assumed you're seeing others until there is a convo about exclusivity plus after 2 dates that's like... super soon > He wrote a very kind message the next day but it implied that he had understood the invitation to a group activity to be a sign that I was not interested in a possible romantic relationship with him. Does that seem like a reasonable assumpt… | /r/askFDS | 20/05/21 09:53 PM |
| 23 | What's the point of The Wall?Patriarchy as psychological warfare: demoralization is their most effective tool they still want you available to them they just want you to feel terrible enough about yourself to settle instead of being alone because your options are 'dwindling' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 01:47 PM |
| 2 | How do I get over a Gaslighter?On pining and searching (replace death with breakup as it applies to any loss, reminds me of your op about grieving the life you wont have I totally get that its so tough!) “In this phase we are acutely aware of the void left in our life from the loss. The future we imagined is no longer a possibility. We search for the comfort we used to have from the person we have lost and we try to fill the void of their absence. We may appear preoccupied with the person. We continue identifying with the p… | /r/askFDS | 20/05/21 02:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over a Gaslighter?Oh good I hope you get lots of healing from it. And that is totally normal it is part of the grief process it's calling yearning and searching/pining she talks about it in the book too also mentions it in this vid around the 6 min mark: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BXf6f1lh93I The fact that you are feeling this way means you are processing the emotions it will 100% get easier promise <3 especially doing the grief work | /r/askFDS | 20/05/21 02:02 AM |
| 9 | How do I get over a Gaslighter?I'm so sorry. I understand what kind of betrayal and trauma that is. It is truly devastating and earth shattering and I hope you are taking care of yourself. Know that you won't feel this way forever and that things do and will get better. I couldn't recommend this book enough (linked on amazon but I like using booksprice.com to find a cheaper used copy of stuff). I've used it for more than one breakup and am going through one now (also with a gaslighter unfortunately) and still use the principl… | /r/askFDS | 19/05/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on intuition from an FDS Newbiei preprepared for what i thought was going to happen even though i could have done a better job i wasn't totally blindsided and had set myself up to not be totally fucked. it also helped me mentally even tho it was still a tough situation. i am very thankful for that. i wish i had listened more but what can you do? my intuition has saved me so many times i just wish i had listened EVEN MORE. as women we are conditioned out of listening to it when it's the most powerful tool we have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 08:03 PM |
| 55 | Why do they only do this to me?it's because you're not hanging with people on your level and they recognize that and try to bring you down. | /r/askFDS | 19/05/21 06:49 PM |
| 42 | My aunt had FDS principles for decades. I used to think she was a crazy spinster. Now I realize that she is right about everything.#Goals your aunt sounds awesome. I bet it was even more of a feat being in an Indian community and resisting all of that social pressure as I have heard there is a lot of it in Indian culture. Curious if she was in the US or another western country or in India? Because I feel like that would make a difference of her being able to go her own way? Even though people still get pressured and such in places like the US doesn't seem like there is nearly as much ostracizing although from what I have re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 04:51 PM |
| 162 | Men hate us both for being “high maintenance” when we’re young and “not taking care of ourselves” when we’re oldreminds me of the cool girl monologue. (sry for weird formatting not sure what happened) Men always say that as the defining compliment, don’t they? She’s a cool girl. Being the Cool Girl means I am a hot, brilliant, funny woman who adores football, poker, dirty jokes, and burping, who plays video games, drinks cheap beer, loves threesomes and anal sex, and jams hot dogs and hamburgers into her mouth like she’s hosting the world’s biggest culinary gang bang while somehow maintaining a size 2, be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 01:21 AM |
| 2 | How to look more HV on OLDbetter pictures really are the key you don't need expensive stuff just a good quality camera (even a lot of the iphone ones are good now but dslr is better maybe you have a friend with one) you can also go to nice areas that you don't have to pay for and take pics look at anna bey she fakes the f out of her pics just poses in front of random expensive buildings and townhomes lol not saying you need to do that but you get the idea also look up 'golden hour' and try to take your pics then i would … | /r/askFDS | 18/05/21 01:03 AM |
| 12 | Settling because you want kidsi'm childfree but if i wanted kids this is the route i would go, and if i change my mind this is what i'm doing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I used to and still feel scared of embracing my feminine side because it feels unsafe. Has anyone else felt this way?*hugs* yes to be frank in my experience it's worse when you live in a not great area, better living in a higher cost of living area/nicer neighborhood although it can happen anywhere it's greatly reduced the better your zipcode is. also things like driving vs taking public transport i agree with other posters a big dog is the best deterrent lol. also learning about body language predators can subconsciously pickup on who carries themselves like a victim they've done studies on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:09 AM |
| 3 | How do I surround myself with HVW?I made a previous post about this you may find helpful: "It takes roughly 50 hours of time together to move from mere acquaintance to causal friend, 90 hours to go from that stage to simple 'friend' status and more than 200 hours before you can consider someone your close friend." and commented: I think sometimes we feel that making friends should come super easy as soon as you meet people which is even a feat in itself these days, but it takes time! In my experience anyone wanting to rush a fri… | /r/askFDS | 17/05/21 12:58 AM |
| 14 | "A Victorian magazine asked spinsters why they were single and some of the answers were brutal."all of them sis, all. of. them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:35 AM |
| 3 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..thanks sis and yeah she is of great character so kind and generous (to a fault honestly) which is why it was super difficult to end the friendship i was gutted over it for a long time tbh. i hope she takes everything i said to heart and keeps raising her standards bc she deserves it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:59 AM |
| 14 | I'm done with dating.exactly. i feel like this is the logical conclusion most reach after enough dating. i'm thoroughly convinced those who haven't just haven't gotten there yet and i find hvm to be an oxymoron. if anything a scrotation is the best way to vet anyway because they mostly filter themselves out and it's way easier because you can compare behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:56 AM |
| 3 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..(I'd dare say she'd even make you take a few steps back in your own self progress from the anxiety alone she'd induce). thanks sis and yes this is very true i would get worked up just hearing about her bullshit and even if it's 'better' now i just know it's still going to be something and i do. not. want. to. hear. it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:43 AM |
| 3 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..yes the longer i'm on this journey the more i detach and let people make their own mistakes i'm done trying to save people and i feel like most women won't get it EVER honestly :-/ i give you props for still being able to be friends in those type of situations but have the boundaries of not getting involved it's not something i'm able to do at this time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:42 AM |
| 27 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..oh god. this girl was with a dude forever who went to jail for murder but claimed he 'was framed' and she believed that bullshit. my friend had childhood trauma as well. smh so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:38 PM |
| 9 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..i'm so sorry. i hope you get some peace/clarity around the situation. i understand wanting to leave things on a high note if possible and not wait until its just degraded to the point where you're left with a bad taste in your mouth. although i feel like things soured toward the end i still have mostly positive feelings towards her despite the problematic stuff and i feel good about that. if your friend doesn't have self awareness and isn't acknowledging the issues that seems like a bad sign goi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:31 PM |
| 11 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..that's interesting i hadn't thought of the pd aspect but there could be some truth to that. i just thought she was like super codependent (even though i now see the whole concept of 'codependency' as problematic in and of itself but you know what i mean). she has definitely had trauma though. does a lot of therapy, support groups etc. i think it's genuine but i also don't believe she is in a space where we could be friends again i don't feel safe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:29 PM |
| 5 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..thank you i appreciate that. i feel guilty and it's hard myself to accept the whole impermanence concept because part of me does wish we could still be friends but based on her past behavior i just can't do it. we have gone times without communicating before and i gave her more chances and this was it. i'm sad but i'm glad it has ended on a positive note at least and i do think that i helped her see things differently and she helped me too in her own way so i'm glad to have had her in my life as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:27 PM |
| 38 | I'm done with dating.i feel the same. the whole thing said on this sub about basically the vetting never ends is fucking exhausting to me i don't want to do that. single with a scrotation is the way to go if anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:24 PM |
| 10 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thissis that sounds terrible.. you can change your life just take baby steps that is no way to live a lot of people who end up divorced say its less work because 50/50 custody means they actually get a break | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 11:18 PM |
| 10 | This is why I’m okay with not getting married or having children. I’d much rather be out experiencing life and enjoying myself than have to deal with thisbeing childfree/marriage free is a cheatcode to life for sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:08 PM |
| 13 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..i'm so sorry. its just a terrible thing to go through. i couldn't imagine a friend that goes that far back! i felt this way just because we had gone through a lot of stuff together over the past few years we had known each other so with that much more history it's even more excruciating making those tough decisions. she would also emotionally dump on me and then do the same shit which was very draining. maybe she will come around you never know. from someone who has done sw you go either directi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:56 PM |
| 9 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..yeah i don't think i'm going to be friends with her again or anything but i genuinely wish her the best she deserves it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:54 PM |
| 28 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..i hope so too. she is a genuinely sweet person which is why i also think she gets taken advantage of bc she has like zero boundaries. sounds terrible but i couldn't understand how she had never gotten sexually assaulted with all the dangerous situations and people like legit predators she put herself in until i realized she just fucks them they don't even 'have' to force themselves i felt terrible thinking that but its the truth. i had a real scummy landlord my ex would deal with for me and he m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:51 PM |
| 27 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..i thought about it honestly and i just don't think so. too much has happened she was also kind of weird with my now ex boyfriend and honestly even tho i think she has improved she is still probably not to where i am (i'm not saying this in a conceited way i still have a lot to work on but i didn't even realize how little self worth i had back then i just knew better than to pay for dudes shit lol) because i feel like i've grown like 10x now with fds etc. and i think it would just end being the s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:48 PM |
| 13 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..yes this is where i'm at it's like even if she caught up to where i was then i didn't even realize how little self esteem i had it's like coming up from negative gazillion i feel bad but that's the truth :-/ now i have actual self worth if and she's just coming up from the abyss we're just on different wavelengths | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:47 PM |
| 5 | My former pickme friend reached out and apologized and said I was right over a year+ later..oh snap haha. and yeah that is what i'm thinking too :-/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 2 | alright, I am ready to hear itwell its just like if you want to move on fully move on... hearing someone who went back to their abuser for the 100th time only makes you think about it too instead of being glad you're gone and living your best life. it might make the self loathing worse because their shares will reminds you of it. i'm not discouraging you from going i'm just telling you what i've seen/experienced from being in similar groups it can help in the beginning because there are people you can relate too but it can b… | /r/askFDS | 13/05/21 02:35 PM |
| 18 | Alt Right Pickmesfrank answer if interested: i'm white and when i went blonde people really did treat me differently it was bizarre. there is such brainwashing into what being blonde means it really does change how people perceive you and i found myself changing in response to that as well? like people just assume all this [mostly positive] stuff about you and you just kind of run with it because it benefits you. and i wasn't even conservative in a conservative area so i imagine the effect is 100x in places wher… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 02:33 PM |
| 2 | alright, I am ready to hear itgood. just keep in mind sometimes those groups can be crabs in a bucket too and eventually you want to move on from them as well. depends on how healthy the group is. and yes they will do that | /r/askFDS | 13/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 3 | alright, I am ready to hear itAlso this: >So when I asked him tonight how that was going he started to fly into arage and threatened to hit me over the head with frying pan and screamedat me to shut up shut up over and over again. He sounded crazy andweird. is literally a domestic abuse situation and he is manipulating it to be you because he KNOWS what it is. why the fuck would you stay another fucking second | /r/askFDS | 12/05/21 08:52 PM |
| 3 | alright, I am ready to hear itmental health > money you can always make more money but you can't take back the psychological damage of staying with someone you don't want to be with and the longer you stay the easier it is for him to reel you back in. you are abusing yourself at this point because you know you have the means to leave but are choosing to stay so you can buy a bigger place? that's literally fucking insane this dude is awful and there's a difference between being frugal and being cheap frugal would be renting a… | /r/askFDS | 12/05/21 08:48 PM |
| 13 | What's up with him?because he wants to put his penis inside you, because he wants to keep you as a raincheck/warm lead to put his penis inside you later. men are simple they still want to stick their penis inside you even if they are rude, even if you are rude, even if they hate you and literally want you to die. men are simpleeee | /r/askFDS | 12/05/21 08:28 PM |
| 186 | Message to all scrote lurkers: No woman wants to date "used goods"!every time a man has sex his dick gets a little thinner remember that ladies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:14 AM |
| 8 | This song gives FDS vibes and has hundreds of lines to live by daily.beautiful imagery as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 15 | Theory: “Tradwifes” and “pickmes” on social media are CIA psyopi legit knew a woman who said verbatim 'i dont need any rights i just want to cook and take care of the house' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:42 PM |
| 20 | Why do men always have a sob story?because it works for them and it's easy to do in order to manipulate, women are more sympathetic and they take advantage | /r/askFDS | 10/05/21 06:58 PM |
| 32 | “He has Bi Wife Energy”eww what? gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | You CAN teach an old dog new tricksWelcome! Glad you're here sis 💞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:42 PM |
| 20 | Mother’s Day PSAThe day after mother's day is one of the biggest increases in users for Ashley Madison.. but I'm sure that's just a coincidence 🙃 link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Why The Codependency Model Is Harmful To You | Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Sex/porn addictionbeautiful! thanks for your reply. and yeah i agree. it's tough because sometimes people think when you say things like that you are being dismissive of them and their trauma but the point of recovery is to... recover! not stay stuck in 'recovery' forever... but that is what the whole disease model does and it's really bad because it actually makes it worse because you dig your heels in even deeper by identifying it more and more. of course feel your feelings there's a time and place for that but… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:27 PM |
| 7 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’If a man doesn't want to financially support at least 3-5 babies and a stay at home wife there is something wrong with him and/or he's not mentally stable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:22 PM |
| 41 | “Woke” libfem men just ain’t it...yeah at this point at least the conservative dudes are more honest about their misogyny woke 'feminist' men are honestly the worst and i find them to be the biggest predators because they use it as a shield and to get women's guards down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:19 AM |
| 63 | My longterm bf (9 years) broke up with me mins after couples counseling and starting seeing someone the next day.its really tough but know it gets better. browsing the exnocontact subreddit in moments of weakness helps. making new goals helps. crying helps. this book helps (she has a youtube too). posting here helps. exercise helps (especially rigorous cardio/hiit type stuff). it's just a bunch of a little things that come together day by day as you get through it, which you will. there is also an app called 'i am' that is affirmations (this is on ios not sure about android) and there is a selection called… | /r/askFDS | 08/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 186 | Liberal feminism won’t change anything – it only validates the way men behave nowstop birthing their babies, stop fucking them, stop giving them emotional support asking men nicely to stop has never and will never work you have to stop giving them what they want that's the only thing that will make them change | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 69 | The men are projecting again!! Why does it bother them that women are 30 and single?they don't understand the more 'pressure' there is the more we're just going to go the opposite direction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:53 PM |
| 14 | What happened?and it's going to get worse. put safety and self preservation first. they've been stuck inside more glued to their porn than ever before plus less ways to 'release' it with social outlets being close and more women opting out of the dating market even if temporarily due to covid but for many it will probably be permanent. or at least they're on dating apps instead where they don't have to give lvm the time of day where as before in bars clubs etc. they can at least be in the physical presence of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Why The Codependency Model Is Harmful To You | Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Sex/porn addictionAwesome, I hope it's helpful. In what ways do you feel like narc victim support groups are harmful? Similar to coda and the like? I watched some videos but never got super into those although sometimes I find some of the content creators to be a little off but I always figured that was part of their abuse or "fleas" as they say but even that terminology seems problematic. And yeah I feel like we're totally brainwashed into this whole victim blaming thing and also feeling sorry for predators like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:51 PM |
| 0 | How a HVM actually grievesI disagree, he was emotionally distraught. But that's fine. My point is they don't just move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 05:08 PM |
| 15 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lieyeah i can't unsee the cutting line it looks botched | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 15 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Liecircumcision desensitizes the head because it's always exposed so i think that's a factor it changes the way they have sex plus having a foreskin is like wearing a ribbed condom its an extra textured layer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:26 PM |
| 19 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Liethey really do tell on themselves with their racism so pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:23 PM |
| 18 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 9 - We Like Big Dicks and We REFUSE to Lieshrodinger's femcels amiright? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 11 | Discussion: A Shrinking Society in Japanwhy do you think there is such a push for cloning and womb implants? they would rather do that than actually help women they hate women they are hoping technology will replace us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 14 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”It just accelerated what was already happening. I find it annoying everyone is using Covid as an excuse for stuff. Like when the market collapses which it will they'll say it was Covid too but no one remembers just before this whole thing started was the inverted yield curve which has predicted every other recession before this. But hey it's convenient and they get more money from the gov't bailouts this way smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 20 | Discussion: A Shrinking Society in JapanI've read quite a few things about what's going on in Japan and it seems they are doing everything except trying to change their extreme salaryman culture. Making love hotels and PSAs trying to get people to have sex more but won't address the elephant in the room. Dumb af and you know a man came up with that shit thinking it's going to work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:19 PM |
| 4 | Why The Codependency Model Is Harmful To You | Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Sex/porn addictionUgh that's horrible but that is what happens. It's a mindfuck because they'll say you can't control other people but then say you are responsible for your own actions so people end up blaming themselves for anyway for staying etc. it's what I did. Those groups are straight up dangerous especially for women because that is who is composes most of them anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:11 PM |
| 9 | Why The Codependency Model Is Harmful To You | Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Sex/porn addictionGood for you for seeing it for what it was I wish I did even though I had a very subtle intuition about it that felt wrong like I was hurting/blaming myself I didn't listen because everything else surrounding it and me said this was the solution. I fell for the trap and stayed in for years and I think it really damaged my psyche it took a long time to undo all the brainwashing but it's also part of our culture so I think it was partly breaking free from that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:29 AM |
| 13 | Why The Codependency Model Is Harmful To You | Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Sex/porn addictionYeah it's really fucked up, he also left part of the AA money to his mistress. It's all a big scam. Not to mention all the predators and the people who protect them there. It's "cult-lite" and the same methodology is used in al anon etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:49 AM |
| 50 | Why The Codependency Model Is Harmful To You | Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Sex/porn addictionI totally agree. This whole thing was dreamed up because the inventor of Alcoholics Anonymous was an abusive cheating piece of shit and they had to invent a syndrome for his wife Lois they used to be called 'co-addicts' then the terminology changed. It's all a bunch of victim blaming bullshit. Also going to link this book as I do when this topic comes up for anyone stuck in this trap that wants to get out: Codependency Conspiracy: How to Break the Recovery Habit and Take Charge of Your Life. Goi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)🙌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)Thanks sis and yeah we need to really drill it in that settling is the worst thing that we could possibly do. It's something that took me a long time to internalize myself that single is the much better alternative and if you don't have that mindset at all times in the back of your mind if someone turns out to be a lvm you'll lose it's something I wish I knew so much earlier but didn't have the self esteem to implement even if I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)😊🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:15 PM |
| 8 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)i'm so glad you defended those little girls. stuff like that sticks with people they will remember that. i agree about having a phrase ready bc in those situations it's hard to think straight many times bc it's just so shocking can barely process it. and with the other scenario it's so sad yet true that it's actually women who are the gatekeepers of patriarchy :-/ they train us to self enforce to make it easier for them it's more common in older generations but it's still prevalent in the younge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:14 PM |
| 2 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)this is exactly what my ex did. i haven't been able to read that book it'll make me too depressed/mad along with another one in a similar vein recommended by fds-er | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:11 PM |
| 13 | The lie of "The Wall" is just male projection of loss of control over an entire population of women.something i've been thinking about a lot lately is if all these scrotes wanna talk about bIoLoGy one thing is that if older women weren't valuable why don't they die off after menopause? if there is no use for them other than reproducing there would be no evolutionary need to stay around. there are plenty of other species that die after procreating. there obviously is a larger reason why they are needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:08 PM |
| 11 | The single demographics in the US and why young men are angryi googled and found a different link yay. and that was great! love her gives no fucks attitude. and how she mentions they're all rich too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:59 PM |
| 8 | The single demographics in the US and why young men are angryugh i signed up for an account and it still won't let me read the article! fuck the ny times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:50 PM |
| 10 | Settle or bet on myself?girl if you're reading these subs you already know the answers, choose yourself!!! also some thoughts on your other worries as someone who lives in the us: will I be good enough for these HVM? I am a WOC & I am not a stunner; but very well groomed & smart; well read, well spoken yeah don't worry about that. the us is a weird place though. it's more racist than other western countries but don't let that get in your head and keep your options open vet the individual men for their views vs the gr… | /r/askFDS | 05/05/21 02:41 PM |
| 34 | The single demographics in the US and why young men are angryi wonder how they're going to classify me because i'm going to be single with like 10 boyfriends once the scrotation is complete ;) but seriously this is enlightening and although i think there is a lot to be said about ageism and women i think there are a lot who just can't be bothered also once again proves men don't actually want a patriarchy they just think they do bc if they did the results of this would be even more skewed note how the smallest proportion of single women is 30-49.. i'm gue… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:23 PM |
| 23 | Banned from other subs just for being a member of FDS?yep they also hate fds users over at broken mom it's important to be martyrs with lvm in peace lol. best to make a separate account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 9 | What even is this logic???once again proving that men are the biggest gold diggers on the planet, they invented gold digging, and they feel zero guilt about doing said gold digging | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:44 PM |
| 36 | FDS view on splitting bills?splitting bills while you're living with and presumably fucking a man is soft pimping. you are literally subsidizing his life and he gets sex.. and you're not married.. if we're living together you're paying for everything period | /r/askFDS | 05/05/21 05:35 AM |
| 36 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)hey 👋 girl 💁♀️ heyyyy 👁️👄👁️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:44 AM |
| 9 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)✨❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:52 AM |
| 3 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.They don't sis. That's the thing. They probably know you don't mean it either and are just doing so to be polite yet still taking advantage. That's why you need to stop!!! Practice in the mirror or with a friend or whatever if you need to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:04 AM |
| 20 | How do you avoid spending lots of money on dinner dates? I never know if the guy will pay or not. And we usually end up splitting.Literally stop offering.. learn to sit with that anxiety and if he asks to split it say you'll get it next time and block him on the way out. it's really just a matter of not giving a fuck and realizing you deserve it but most of all if you are still offering even 'meekly' even if you don't 'mean it', they will take you up on it and that is I hate to say it your fault. I think learning to sit with the anxiety and just let the check sit there will help. They are counting on that too. But seriousl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:56 AM |
| 9 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)Yw sis glad it was helpful! 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:47 AM |
| 44 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)Love it! 💕 Random compliments are my favorite thing. edit: Especially in front of scrotes they get so mad when they aren't centered in it and you can tell they feel left out lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:37 AM |
| 53 | Patriarchy as Psychological Warfare Part 2: Demoralization - aka the Patriarchy's #1 Most Effective Tool (and what to do about it)Why yes ☑️ they are! Thank you 🙏 so much for noticing! 👁️ I only wish I remembered 💡 to put one in the title! 🔑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:35 AM |
| 51 | Her quote says it all.Acquitted Texas man who shot prostitute after she refused sex was just ‘protecting himself from theft’: court | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 13 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.i never cared about marriage, falling in love yes marriage not really. would only marry for $ but now that's not even worth it after learning more of the realities and being financially dependent on someone without being married was horrible i couldn't imagine that x10 plus you going to court to get rid of them ughhh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:18 AM |
| 85 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.the blackpill we all need tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 23 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.so the worst of both worlds -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 65 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.same. i feel like a lot of women are these days i feel like there is going to be a tipping point soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:14 AM |
| 18 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.horrible smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:13 AM |
| 16 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.I would've thought it'd be higher tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:13 AM |
| 50 | 20% of women in China regret getting married. Only 7% of men regret getting married. 73% of divorced are initiated by women. Marriage has always been an institution meant to benefit men. More and more women are realizing this.I feel like there is a similar thing happening in the US with baby boomers and their kids although the cultural pressure isn't as high it's still there and they are still entitled AF and don't understand how different things are now economically technology etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:12 AM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Check-InJust feeling sad today. I wish things were different, that men weren't who they were and that the romantic dream they sold us was actually true. I think I'm grieving all the lies, deception and brainwashing. It makes me so angry. Why did I waste so much fucking time on these losers who didn't even deserve to breathe the same air as me. I fucking hate them. I never want anyone else to go through what I have. It's not worth it. I just wish I realized it sooner. I also hate being back at home becau… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:07 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-In"just lucky I guess" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 12:03 AM |
| 55 | My husband has admitted to watching porn again and I have no idea what to do about it.i mean refusing to ever sexually gratify this man ever again is the bare fucking minimum. gtfo | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 52 | Mini rant: how you gonna be a misogynist but broke??this is the hell that liberal feminism has brought. they want all the benefits of patriarchy without being *actual* patriarchs it's so ridiculous. they also say they want to go back to the days of even more patriarchy but these idiots don't understand it'd just be the same rich dudes with a million wives while they're literally slave labor. lmaoo. libfem has given them the chance to get women they never in a million years would otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:43 PM |
| 3 | Childfree women, how do you go about dating with FDS principles?Women as a *collective* have children, one does not literally have to have children for this mindset to apply but because of the fact that we are the sex that gives birth and therefore have all the corresponding socialization, expectations, biological differences etc. It's bigger than just the individual woman it's about us as a whole and how to proceed within that context. Therefore 50/50 still makes no sense no matter what. It's like would I suddenly expect to go 50/50 once I've reached menopa… | /r/askFDS | 01/05/21 10:02 PM |
| 11 | Thanks to FDS to make me realise I don’t need to be married by the age of 25'too late' at 22? smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 16 | How to deal with betrayal and being lied to by someone you loveI'm dealing with it right now too, and I've dealt with it before so I know how it works. It really just takes time. It stings a little less each day. Even though there are moments of overwhelming feelings that may even feel more intense than before, the overall average is lower over time. If you can look back to when you first blocked him to now you can see it's already gotten better, and it will keep getting better. Then one day you wake up and you realize you haven't thought of him for a while… | /r/askFDS | 01/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 27 | What would a man do?Yep, this is exactly what I'm doing. Childfree, casual rotation dating no exclusivity/commitment ever again and maybe no sex we will see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:27 PM |
| 83 | How do I nicely say I want to go on a dinner date? This guy just proposed an ice cream date?so everyone is telling you not to go through with it, but since you asked and you may do it anyway here you go: first of all, don't worry about 'nicely' "how about ice cream after dinner?" if you want to be 'nice' you can make a joke about you'll be too hungry otherwise and will eat up the whole store or something and then if he says eat beforehand you know he's cheap and block/delete or my personal favorite but it's not 'nice' - again, don't give af about being nice. being nice =/= being respec… | /r/askFDS | 29/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 8 | Might be the worst pickme I've ever seen. Knowningly marries a SEX OFFENDER & defends him while complaining abt her life "But a thing he did 15 years ago in his own home, without violence or solicitation, that many men also do on a regular basis or the "barely legal" category wouldn't be so popular"very true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:38 PM |
| 49 | Might be the worst pickme I've ever seen. Knowningly marries a SEX OFFENDER & defends him while complaining abt her life "But a thing he did 15 years ago in his own home, without violence or solicitation, that many men also do on a regular basis or the "barely legal" category wouldn't be so popular"This is some of the most disgusting shit I've ever seen. Knowningly marries a sex offender, has the audacity to complain about her life being ruined and all the 'anxiety' and 'trauma' the registry is causing the FAMILIES of the offenders, then makes it out like he committed some victimless crime because he was merely consuming CP. I have a loss for words. I didn't even know if I wanted to post this because I'm so pissed off and I know there is an influx of negativity on the sub people complain a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 11:13 PM |
| 13 | I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymoreSomeone linked a youtube vid a bit ago I think it was in the level up sub asking female supercar owners what they did for a living as inspo. There was a disproportionate amount of psychologists it was weird... This was also in Dubai and idk something about it just felt off like they were getting rich on these people's problems. Probably rich miserable housewives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:54 PM |
| 22 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 8 - Disney Presents: The Princess and The BumIt was mentioned in the podcast that it was low key traumatizing to realize these fairy tales weren't true and I 100% agree. People blame us for being so 'naive' but wtf are we supposed to think we're fucking kids brainwashed by evil corporations so that we'll give free resources to undeserving scrotes. It is traumatic, it is evil and calculated. I can't stand that shit now. Like words can't even describe the damage it does. It's not low key traumatizing it's high key traumatizing and without th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:51 PM |
| 10 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 8 - Disney Presents: The Princess and The BumVery interesting analysis. I just started reading WWRWTW and it makes me look forward to (but also be slightly disturbed by) reading these stories and their origins/symbolism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:47 PM |
| 23 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 8 - Disney Presents: The Princess and The Bumoh god that's even worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:44 PM |
| 2 | Introduced FDS principles to friend. Resulted in a fight - need some insight!Unfortunately they never seem to realize it until it's too late, especially when they are deep into being pickmes which it sounds like OP's friend is. Another one we'll see posting on broken mom in a few years getting martyr pity points :-/ | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 10:38 PM |
| 10 | Beauty Standards Are Bullshit by Karolina Zebrowska. A look into historical beauty standards and how 'beauty standards' are all...well...bullshit.Lol I'm sure some regret it. One girl definitely has that overdone look it really doesn't look great it's very obvious it doesn't match the rest of her face. Another one she objectively looks much better but I still think she should have waited. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:32 PM |
| 14 | Beauty Standards Are Bullshit by Karolina Zebrowska. A look into historical beauty standards and how 'beauty standards' are all...well...bullshit.they paid for it as gifts -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 29 | Beauty Standards Are Bullshit by Karolina Zebrowska. A look into historical beauty standards and how 'beauty standards' are all...well...bullshit.at my school the girls started getting nosejobs at 15/16... it was bizarre i'm sure it's even worse now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 08:20 PM |
| 38 | Introduced FDS principles to friend. Resulted in a fight - need some insight!Probably because she feels like what she's doing now is working for her, there's no motivation to do anything differently. Most people don't want unsolicited proselytizing it makes them defensive. They are usually only open to new ways of thinking when they are in emotional pain and they realize something needs to change, otherwise what's the point? In their mind it's fine and new ways of thinking is scary because it's unknown and a lot of time there is a fear it will push people away. Brainwash… | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Rant + seeking your opinions: these FDS-approved YouTubers aren't actually feminist and are really just preaching that a woman WHO BEARS CHILDREN for a man deserves to be protected/provided forYeah.. one of them is explicitly anti-feminist, posted a variation of this meme. Then she got arrested recently for scamming her followers and now her channel is gone lol. She actually had some good advice for a certain type of dating but I definitely wouldn't call it "FDS" style. I know when there was another problematic Youtuber people were complaining about the mods said they weren't going to scrutinize every channel but she eventually got taken down. I've watched all of them except Greta and… | /r/askFDS | 28/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 7 | Strategy: 40+ FDS women - the long-game.you can spread it without an outbreak but it's less likely/more difficult to catch. it's called shedding edit: it's also easier for men to pass to women than the other way around due to anatomy differences | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:29 AM |
| 9 | Strategy: 40+ FDS women - the long-game.so happy for you & congrats on the place that's the worst/saddest part of scrote life to me women who give up their passions and interests for men :( they really don't bring anything to the table and if they do they take so much more than they give not worth it at all casual dating if anything for me from this point onwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:23 AM |
| 7 | Women, Especially Trauma Survivors, Don’t Need Further GaslightingI want to scream whenever I hear the nOt aLL mEn bullshit, it's collective gaslighting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 01:14 AM |
| 18 | Paying respect to the original. This slogan was 🔥 before libfems stole it and ruined it.I remember first noticing this when everyone had those 'ramones' shirts but no one knew who they were lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing out there like FDS for recovery and self-preservationOh ok so you've read it already awesome. Yeah there is sooo much info in there I want to reread it myself eventually. With astrology there's so many different traditions and modalities but in general I find it helps me because it's really about understanding the subconscious mind and symbols/archetypes are the language of the subconscious. You may be interested in checking out evolutionary astrology the whole premise of that school of thought is that the soul is here to evolve and learn so takes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 6 | There is nothing out there like FDS for recovery and self-preservationSorry to hear that. I hope you find something that works for you. The one that I feel like is in between more modern day therapy and the woo stuff is somatic experiencing, it's science based but it's all about getting back into your body. There are therapists who do somatic therapy but you can also be a somatic experiencing practitioner and not be a therapist. The main difference between the patriarchal stuff and traditional feminine healing modalities is patriarchal is all about being in your h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing out there like FDS for recovery and self-preservationYes even the phrasing is problematic. "I am" is the most powerful statement in the English language. It's an affirmation every time one says I AM anxious, depressed, codependent one even identifies themselves that way at the start of every meeting (I'm level_up_always and I'm an alcoholic etc.) It's really problematic. A lot of what you are saying about not having it become your identity, labeling, not staying stuck is what they talk about in the book sounds like you have a good head on your sho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 59 | 🙄What to do when he texts you but the texts have turned boring and/or too low effort?🥱lol love the emojis, may i also suggest this amazing website for even more emoji fun? https://kevingal.com/apps/emojipasta.html and yeah totally they will either stop bothering you are more than likely double/triple text and put in some effort. silence is the best message you can ever send because their brain fills in the gaps you don't even have to do anything it's the best wait, need more emoji! and 🙇 yeah totally 😠 they will 🤗♀ either stop bothering you are more than ⬆ likely double/triple … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 02:05 AM |
| 22 | Using "political lesbian" as an insult is a homophobic and misogynist slur.refusing to be public property for low effort scrotes = political lesbian? ummm ok i seriously can't with these losers and their projecting. we are not ruled by our genitals like you are get a fucking life. they can't fathom being single > being with a lvm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!i feel so much more at peace now that i've decided to do neither. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:37 AM |
| 13 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!unfortunately the biggest guardians/indoctrinators of patriarchy are usually other women, that's who teaches us and are the other crabs in the barrel keeping women down. it's taboo to talk about but that is who we really need to get the message to not men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 5 | Who you decide to marry is the most important decision of your lifeSorry to hear that. I think if someone really wants kids they're better off with a literal sperm donor for this reason. I don't think you can ever vet someone enough to know whether you want to be tied to them forever you just never know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:18 AM |
| 29 | There is nothing out there like FDS for recovery and self-preservation“therapeutical industrial complex” Wow this is a great phrase. I feel like I have been posting this book a lot along with the other codependency conspiracy one but it really seems to be coming up on this sub frequently so linking again! One Nation Under Therapy: How the Helping Culture Is Eroding Self-Reliance I really think there are a lot of women waking up to the reality and the lies we were fed. It reminds me of this meme I saw where it says something like you work in a cubicle 40 hours a we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 16 | There is nothing out there like FDS for recovery and self-preservationFunny there have been quite a few posts lately about codependency and the 12 step groups al anon etc. so I have already linked this book but will link it again: Codependency Conspiracy: How to Break the Recovery Habit and Take Charge of Your Life I thought the groups were helpful at first but it's really just the social element. The dogma is actually really harmful especially to women. We need the opposite of being told we are powerless. Coda/al anon was made for people to stay in relationships … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 12:07 AM |
| 99 | Who you decide to marry is the most important decision of your lifei would add who you have kids with perhaps even more so. usually this is the same person but it's not always. you can get a divorce and if you don't have kids you can pretty much walk away scot-free. once you have kids or if you're not married and you have kids you are pretty much tied for life. child support ends at 18 but you are still the kids parents and will have to be around for weddings, childbirths, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 29 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!that would be cool, if someone wants to start it just msg the mods first bc i think they need to be approved to be associated with the fds label. i did find out after searching there is actually a childfree womens sub it's just not that active. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 103 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!It really is so true about the left wanting women to be public property while the right wants us to be private property. In general reddit leans left (although we all know they harbor some extreme right groups as well) and I think a lot of it is they are mad we aren’t falling for the bullshit of hookup culture and offering ourselves up on a silver platter to be eMpOwErEd it’s like they literally feel like they are losing out on what should be a publicly available resource in their opinion. By op… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:58 PM |
| 78 | Why do women get so much hate for simply NOT doing shit?!There should really be a childfree women sub I know there is an antinataliast one already | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 01:52 PM |
| 125 | Level up or die offthese scrotes think this is eUgEnIcS when it's literally just nature. who wants to mate with someone that is going to produce a child where their life is going to be that much harder? it's just cruel. no one is perfect but your womb isn't a fucking charity. choose the best possible mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 07:24 PM |
| 9 | Does anybody else feel like men use them?Welcome to patriarchy they all do even if it’s just getting you to ‘smile’ god I hate emotional labor with a passion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 04:40 PM |
| 13 | Why I am now avoiding pickmes at all costs from today forwardthat's the other thing with pickmes they are people pleasers and don't have their own boundaries she should have just been honest with you that she wasn't feeling up to the trip you gave her outs but she felt like she 'had' to go through with it that benefits no one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 04:03 PM |
| 4 | C-PTSD therapyI haven’t read it but she had some videos on it that I watched and it seems in line with few for the most part from what I’ve seen you make lists of your deal breakers things like that and stick to them she is really into boundaries and non-negotiables so if you’re thinking about getting it I’d watch the vids she has first and see bc she puts a lot of the info on there I think there is two one is a workbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:07 PM |
| 2 | You don't owe your family marriage and grandkidsThanks so much for sharing! Def some bad ass ladies 😎even telling you to get a sperm donor, love it. I wish more women would share this info like you said you did some pickme stuff but in the end you had that foundation and maybe those voices in the back of your head so that even though those things did happen it reduces the damage. I think that’s another thing we need to realize is a lot of women need to see for themselves and make their own mistakes (I know I did... a lot lol) but at least wit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:01 PM |
| 24 | C-PTSD therapyit's surprisingly really really hard to find a therapist who is actually educated in this stuff. they usually have to specialize in it or have a personal interest beyond just being 'trauma informed' because that is very broad. this is a very specific type of abuse that many don't understand even therapists. i watch a woman on youtube who is both a therapist and lawyer (she also wrote the book 'getting past your breakup' that is recommended on this sub a lot) who talks about narc stuff and especi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 01:18 AM |
| 36 | How do you deal with regret?yep and still dealing with it. i have ways to cope but there are hard days still. i think what helps me the most is looking forward to the future and knowing that i will never waste time like that again. i won't have to be middle aged and older taking care of some dumb scrote. i can live my life 100% for me and make things even better. and i won't have to sit around wondering what if because i know the true nature of men. its better to learn this now than after being married for 30 years. that i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 01:05 AM |
| 16 | Should I end a relationship over porn when he says he's quit?either check his phone/computer on the sly or if you don't want to do that ask if you can check his phone/computer his reaction should tell you what you need to know although there is always a chance of him lying. if the sex life drops off it's probably bc he went back to it. it's a yellow flag imo that he stopped bc you wanted to not because he sees the harm but frankly men have much less empathy than women so that's kind of to be expected honestly. i wouldn't want to spend my life looking over… | /r/askFDS | 25/04/21 12:56 AM |
| 5 | You don't owe your family marriage and grandkidsWow you’re so lucky to have had people be so honest with you like that. I feel like a lot are the opposite and it’s a crabs in the bucket thing where they want others to be just as miserable as them or somehow it makes them feel better in their own decision making if others do it. If there is anything more specifically they said as to why that you feel like sharing I’d love to hear | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Conflicting beliefs with my therapist about 'all men'That’s awesome to hear it helped you I want to get back into it I only did a little then covid happened and everyone is online and I feel like that’s the kind of thing that needs to be in person or at least I’d prefer that if I’m going to pay a pretty penny for it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 10 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 7 - Where TF are the High Value Men...is Online Dating Dead?!Ooo I didn’t think of that but that is super true it applies to all aspects of life in a way it’s like a form of manifestation if you’re into that kind of thing even if not it’s still effective! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Any other shattered women finding FDS “late” in life?Good for you. In a lot of ways staying in the rooms for a while observing helped me see that I didn’t want to stay or want that life but it took me a while to realize that glad it only took you a year! Some people never do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:00 PM |
| 3 | Any other shattered women finding FDS “late” in life?Yea I totally agree in the beginning it can be helpful to have a name for it but I think a lot of people get in too deep and then blame their “disease” (another problematic paradigm) for everything I think it creates a lot of learned helplessness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:50 PM |
| 3 | A big thank you to this amazing subbaby grand piano is pretty bad ass don't you love it when you can finally do all those things you couldn't with your ex? it's the best. congrats! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 30 | You don't owe your family marriage and grandkidsFor sure. The pressure is still here even in the supposedly liberal us I can't imagine what it's like for people in other countries/cultures/religions. You don't have to follow the lifescript! You don't have to get married or have kids! It's so freeing there is a reason why we are pressured to do so it benefits everyone else but the women themselves that's why they need to brainwash us. If it was so great they wouldn't need to put propaganda everywhere saying it's the best thing ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:05 PM |
| 13 | Any other shattered women finding FDS “late” in life?Yes I relate a lot to this. I tried to figure things out for a long time. I spent my 20s doing the whole codependent thing too. In a way coda/al anon etc can be helpful but they can also be problematic because they teach you how to tolerate and put up with bullshit even though they say otherwise ("you can be happy if the alcoholic is still drinking") like yes to a certain extent but that is more for survival you need to get tf out of there! Plus I've found that behavior is contagious you see peo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 02:27 PM |
| 43 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂it's literally violence to them it's so bizarre | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:51 PM |
| 29 | My favorite part of being an FDS mod... 😂What's up 👏💰 scrotes this 👈🔥 is female 🚺🚺 dating strategy we 👨 use ❌ however the 😼 fuck 👀😠 many 💯👨 emojis we want 👉 we 👶🏃 also 😛 don't give 🚨💯 a fuck what you whiny ass 💯 porn sick 😨😭 limp dick addicted melted brains 😴 think because 💁♋ your 🍑🙄 only 👁😤 thoughts 😤 are 🙏 about your 👇 mediocre dick go 🏃 cum 💦🤤 and ♂ cry 😭 in 😉 your waifu pillow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 6 | The phrase "SWERF" is corporate propaganda. The porn industry is attempting to shield itself from scrutiny by hiding behind the very laborers that they exploit. Sex workers are a class of oppressed, marginalized, exploited workers, not human meat shields for protecting industrial interests.the only industry where women get paid more than men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:07 PM |
| 54 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 7 - Where TF are the High Value Men...is Online Dating Dead?![paraphrasing] "it was funny because when I said my last bf 'totally treated me like a princess' something different happened" this is so true and I recommend everyone do this it really works it's the opposite of telling people about your trauma which we say not to do here. they really do treat you way better because they are like competing with some invisible man! make up shit if it isn't true figure out what you want and say your ex did it. i only did this for financial stuff before but going … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 10:04 PM |
| 4 | Conflicting beliefs with my therapist about 'all men'hey op i know i already responded to your post but i replied to the poster above with this link and just realized you may be interested in this book too. i don't think you're in the us but the principles should still apply. you are right to want independence! One Nation Under Therapy: How the Helping Culture Is Eroding Self-Reliance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 5 | Conflicting beliefs with my therapist about 'all men'Also we are conditioned by society to perpetually be in therapy. When I analyze it, it’s actually pretty obscene. We pay to share our innermost traumas with a complete stranger who may not understand or validate our experiences. Most therapists are not even well versed in personality disorders nor are they trauma informed. The field of psychiatry is also historically racist and patriarchal. Some fail to understand how deeply entrenched misogyny is and others don’t understand things like racial m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:41 PM |
| 6 | Conflicting beliefs with my therapist about 'all men'even if that's true then what you're just supposed to suffer and put up with it? fuck no! i'm white and pretty sure i probably do a lot of things subconciously i'm not aware of that may offend people of other races and we're just differently culturally i don't expect them to just sit around and put up with me because of that even if i try to be aware of it the facts are the facts. i feel like that is an excuse which actually enables their entitled behavior even more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:38 PM |
| 18 | Conflicting beliefs with my therapist about 'all men'the problem is with the institution of therapy/psychology/psychiatry itself, and i say this as someone who has done a lot of it. it is part of the patriarchal structure. we actually don't need other people to heal us, all healing is ultimately self healing. capitalism has commodified and separated us from this fact. having someone to witness us or bounce thoughts off of or give a different perspective is nice but not necessary. a lot of people these days also don't have friends they can talk to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 6 | Black women and weaponsFyi if you only want a particular group to comment on this post you can use the social group strategy flair. Didn't want to comment otherwise only to say that if you are in a marginalized group it's not and never will be 'fair' and the 'rules' don't apply to you so focus on offense instead of defense and self preservation first and foremost!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Guess what, my lovelies. I still like good abs... And I can not lie...i have the ios app so not sure if it's the same but click the top left that shows your avatar > settings > account settings (click username) > wait a second for it to show up > under 'blocking and permissions' unclick buttons for 'allow chat requests' and 'allow direct messages' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 5 | They fought to the death for our rights, died in childbirth, survived domestic violence, outlawed divorce rape, got us our own bank accounts just to VOLUNTARILY tie yourself to a lvm? Our ancestors made these sacrifices so that future generations could be different. Break generational curses/trauma!I see your point this was just the premade meme on imgflip unfortunately! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:24 PM |
| 7 | They fought to the death for our rights, died in childbirth, survived domestic violence, outlawed divorce rape, got us our own bank accounts just to VOLUNTARILY tie yourself to a lvm? Our ancestors made these sacrifices so that future generations could be different. Break generational curses/trauma!I didn't even realize it wasn't an option to not 'settle down' until recently. I had already realized years ago I didn't need to have kids and that was a relief and is still against the grain in many respects, but now? Scrotation for life and being 100% selfish and women centered. I still always thought I'd get married even tho I'd do it for [big] money lol now I don't even want that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:22 PM |
| 5 | Patriarchy as psychological warfareI also think bdsm is being pushed so that if you engage in it 'consensually' and later are abused the legal system can use that against you to discredit you, along with all the corresponding trauma of course | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchy as psychological warfareSo glad you got out of there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Patriarchy as psychological warfareI totally agree and I think a lot more of it is made to manipulate women than we are made to believe. In fact moreso than men. We are the ones who give life after all they need to convince us to do so and make the romantic dream real as well as demoralize us enough to settle enough to procreate with a lv scrote. And even if not literally procreate spend unpaid labor caretaking them because that's literally what our economy runs on.. it's crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:16 PM |
| 7 | They fought to the death for our rights, died in childbirth, survived domestic violence, outlawed divorce rape, got us our own bank accounts just to VOLUNTARILY tie yourself to a lvm? Our ancestors made these sacrifices so that future generations could be different. Break generational curses/trauma!Thank you for sharing. Seeing the wasted potential is always so heartbreaking. I'm glad that your mom could be honest with you, it sounds like thanks to your grandma. Thinking about someone's uterus rupturing I didn't even know that was a thing eeeek :( I'm curious if you plan on having kids yourself? And it really wasn't that long ago I think we take for granted a lot that we have today like it's been around more than it has it explains a lot of the behavior of our older relatives that I think … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:11 PM |
| 12 | Further proof that women can be happy staying single as they age. We can't say the same for men, as they will not be able to survive without women.being at peace and doing whatever tf i want in my golden years sounds so much better than caretaking some nasty scrote why would i want to do that? they always end up having more health problems, expect you to be nurse and secretary etc. but we're sold that as 'growing old together' it's such a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:29 AM |
| 8 | Further proof that women can be happy staying single as they age. We can't say the same for men, as they will not be able to survive without women.#goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:27 AM |
| 27 | Oh Look, Another Murderous Rapist Radicalized on The Reddit ManospherebUt FdS iS jUsT aS bAd #REDDITHATESWOMEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:25 AM |
| 14 | Oh Look, Another Murderous Rapist Radicalized on The Reddit Manospherecan confirm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:20 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Ini read a post today that was teens talking about how much they dislike fds and calling us a particular slur that is banned from this sub. i think it's ridiculous that women are so indoctrinated today they fight more for everyone else than themselves, and that having a women's only space is bIgOtRy. i hope they learn but i have little faith they are so deluded so young :-/ in other news someone close to me had a dude break up with them after she stated she wanted more communication he said he was… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 12:02 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inthey say that wifey shit because they know it gets your panties off men will drag their sorry dicks across glass halfway around the world to get pussy traveling hours means nothing. he just wants to sleep with you if you don't want that keep the dates starting/ending earlier in the day and don' let him come over but rest assured he is going to guilt you that he 'drove so far' to be able to spend the night tell him to get a hotel for HIMSELF if he wants to whine and don't let him talk you into go… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inone time i literally barked that was hilarious they didn't know what to do lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:47 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inomg lol this is the type that needs to be blocked while you're still in the middle of the date! the audacity of these scrotes smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:47 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inhell nah. he pays for everything always and forever you need someone on your level or higher | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inyeah save your energy pickmes bring down the collective if they actually want to change great but i'm not preaching to someone who doesn't want to hear it or even trying more than once after they pretend they want to change and go back to the same shitty behavior they'll learn eventually or go down with the ship it sounds mean but we have to practice self preservation first and foremost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:43 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inyeah is really sad i love her youtube videos i hope she gets help or figures out what's going on.. i'm glad her channel is still up for now maybe she forgot about it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inteecino is an herbal coffee blend that's pretty close to the real thing they sell it online and at whole foods | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:36 PM |
| 85 | They fought to the death for our rights, died in childbirth, survived domestic violence, outlawed divorce rape, got us our own bank accounts just to VOLUNTARILY tie yourself to a lvm? Our ancestors made these sacrifices so that future generations could be different. Break generational curses/trauma!Wow, thank you for sharing with us. What a sad yet beautiful story. Rest in peace Rose - we do these things for women like you 🙏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 51 | Oh Look, Another Murderous Rapist Radicalized on The Reddit ManospherebUt fDs NeEdS tO bE bAnNeD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Patriarchy as psychological warfareyeah and there is also this condescending undertone to the whole thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 09:47 PM |
| 193 | They fought to the death for our rights, died in childbirth, survived domestic violence, outlawed divorce rape, got us our own bank accounts just to VOLUNTARILY tie yourself to a lvm? Our ancestors made these sacrifices so that future generations could be different. Break generational curses/trauma!This is something I've been thinking about a lot lately. I feel like I owe it to all the women who came before me to be different. I wonder how many of them would think we are crazy for even such things as choosing to get married when we don't have to. They had a very different view of it than we do today. But how much have things really changed? Yes they have improved but marriage is basically still being low or no paid a bangmaid. Why choose that life voluntarily? Or even worse living with a m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 08:56 PM |
| 22 | Patriarchy as psychological warfarethat's a great thread. and yeah it is so weird you are told constantly you are 'free' but you really don't feel that way at all. there is enough to maybe feel like you're free but you know you're truly not because you have to be constantly vigilant. because even if you do exercise those freedoms you know you will be victim blamed if anything goes wrong (being out late at night, going to a bar alone, first date with a stranger etc. etc.) i fucking hate it. and call me a conspiracy theorist but as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:12 AM |
| 51 | Men Are Visual BShow are they so visual when they can get a boner and cum to anything that moves? lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:01 AM |
| 6 | Guess what, my lovelies. I still like good abs... And I can not lie...yeah i don't think we should manufacture attraction even if it's possible for what you stated, they end up treating you like shit because they know they're ugly and they're insecure and need more validation and simultaneously get a big ego thinking bc you're with them they can punch above their weight even more. they should but will never view us like we view them so best thing is to just date who we're attracted to and if they don't like it they can start looking for pErSoNaLiTy first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 03:00 AM |
| 10 | Guess what, my lovelies. I still like good abs... And I can not lie...user settings > chat & messaging | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:56 AM |
| 14 | Guess what, my lovelies. I still like good abs... And I can not lie...^^^1000% this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:55 AM |
| 20 | Guess what, my lovelies. I still like good abs... And I can not lie...me too. my last ex was fat and ugly and i gave him a chance after my previous one with a ripped amazing body wasn't that great. never again the ugly ones are even worse. i hated feeling his disgusting fat stomach on top of me i was way too hot for him and he knew it yet was still entitled as fuck. he would sweat on me with his disgusting pig face. i would fantasize about feeling my exes abs and muscles on top of me to get through it lmaoo. 'chads' from now on it's not worth it ladies i felt like… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:48 AM |
| 7 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic?i am starting to feel that way now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:38 AM |
| 18 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic?its truly disgusting and fucked up. they actually get off on the modesty aspect more. madonna/wh*re complex to the extreme. i was a sexworker with literal [solo] porn on the internet and my ex bf would choose to jerk it off to my innocent (fully clothed, nothing to do with sex) vanilla videos on youtube instead. they're such fucking weirdos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:37 AM |
| 8 | Why is everything related to female identity made pornographic?totally agree it all grosses me out so much now i can barely watch anything and i don't haha it's great. no tv, movies, shows, anything like that just the internet that i choose to see, podcasts, and books. even seeing some stuff on this sub is triggering sometimes but it is what it is for the most part i have my blinders on and i like it that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:35 AM |
| 9 | PSA: Ladies, don't post self identifying content using the reddit account you participate in FDS with. And PLEASE don't cross post in beauty subs with your face!best to have a separate FDS account then you can also turn off chat/pms and post in peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 02:31 AM |
| 28 | Patriarchy as psychological warfarethank you! i may do that need to meditate on it more it's so pervasive that it can be hard to identify bc we're so used to it. i didn't even realize i was brainwashed into liking ugly guys because they always show hot guy = asshole, ugly guy = nice until i saw it posted here. that is totally what my ex was and i'm so disgusted with myself lol. it was literally my exact line of thinking too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:58 AM |
| 80 | What's the WORST COSMO ADVICE you've ever seen on the topic of dating, sex, and relationships?why oh why did i have to go back to their shitty website. Fact: Going on a Walk Is an Excellent Date Idea I just... and i archived it to not send them more traffic but if you notice the url is 'best free date idea' cosmo die and go to hell kthxbye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:52 AM |
| 19 | Patriarchy as psychological warfareI haven't but I think I saw her interviewed for it a while back actually. Makes total sense to me - same tactics because they are effective unfortunately :-/ but I think/hope more people are waking up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:39 AM |
| 2 | how to not be upset that no one wants meYou're welcome I hope they are helpful. Maybe it's time to switch therapists if it's been a year remember they work for you not the other way around so perhaps another modality would suit your needs better or just finding a different therapist. Also fyi the worksheet page I linked was mostly for radical acceptance here is another source with more general dbt worksheets that go into the other skills. There's also more on the dbtselfhelp subreddit. Good luck and come back and update us! | /r/askFDS | 20/04/21 12:30 AM |
| 43 | What's the WORST COSMO ADVICE you've ever seen on the topic of dating, sex, and relationships?i saw an offer for a subscription on the freebies sub and almost got it because i thought there might be some redeeming stuff there but i went on the website and just browsing around made me sick to my stomach. i can't believe i used to read that bullshit and i was so young!! wtf. but now i wish i got the sub so i could send y'all material lol. ugh such garbage!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:26 AM |
| 2 | What's the WORST COSMO ADVICE you've ever seen on the topic of dating, sex, and relationships?not surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 12:21 AM |
| 4 | Dreams about my exDreams are your subconscious it's actually a good thing it means you are processing the grief/loss. Even tho it's can be distressing it's about going through the emotions so you can come out on the other side. Grief is a really misunderstood thing we think those signs mean something like we should get back together or aren't over it but it's the opposite. I hope you can find a friend to talk to when I was really lonely I did support groups and that helped a lot they are happening online right no… | /r/askFDS | 19/04/21 11:30 PM |
| 9 | Should I cut my losses? In need of advice.So he abandoned you after a miscarriage (him saying he cares doesn't mean he does fyi), is a diagnosed cluster b personality disorder, won't help around the house, is cheating on you and will keep cheating on you, told you himself he's 'not sure about you' which means you're a placeholder. He's probably waiting until the business gets successful so he can get the girl he really wants. Don't fall for the sunk cost fallacy. You are not going to get any money from that business I'm telling you righ… | /r/askFDS | 19/04/21 11:25 PM |
| 5 | Something my coworker said that git me thinking ( upset)literally why i want to lose weight. it's what i was thinking too when i read op's post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 08:31 PM |
| 33 | how to not be upset that no one wants mehey, i'm glad you're here. some suggestions: reduce suffering by practicing radical acceptance/radical self acceptance. it's pretty self explanatory the premise is radically accepting everything that is. right now you are both suffering and in pain. you can reduce the suffering by accepting so that just the pain will be left instead. it sucks, it's not fair, and i wish it wasn't this way but as the saying goes 'pain is inevitable suffering is optional'. Radical Acceptance is a Prerequisite for C… | /r/askFDS | 19/04/21 02:57 AM |
| 14 | Azealia Banks continues to be the broken clock that is right twice a daylmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 12:18 AM |
| 2 | And that’s okay! A queen doesn’t need a man 👑i don't think so because i just googled it and nothing pops up as him being gay but i could be wrong still learning about her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 09:17 PM |
| 9 | And that’s okay! A queen doesn’t need a man 👑true dat just learned about catherine the great and plan on reading her biography shortly (although she was married to a 'king' but he couldn't get it up lol) she had many lovers and was strategic/utilitarian with them just like men have always been and continue to be yet she is the one with a 'reputation' eye roll.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 09:02 PM |
| 14 | Sharing my life plan and rebellion against the Lifescript for women.check out ablation it is a procedure which reduces or in many cases eliminates your period. a hysterectomy for non medical reasons can have unintended consequences. since you're already sterilized it should be easier to get. | /r/askFDS | 18/04/21 03:38 PM |
| 50 | The “ideal” women are those that are easy to manipulate. Studies show human frontal lobe matures at 30 YEARS OF AGE (the number used to be 25 though). Is it a pure coincidence that its the same with the mythical “wall” for women???🙄i actually feel at 30 how i thought i was going to feel at 25 self esteem wise etc so this makes sense to me. i finally feel like i have my head on somewhat straight. and of course they would lie about this so you can settle and get trapped into a marriage/babies with a lvm and stay bc of inertia/sunk cost fallacy like we just talked about in another thread. plus they further mindfuck you by saying you're damaged goods for being divorced/single mother so you just stick it out. horrible. i'm so g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 11:33 PM |
| 9 | Staywithmeisha?Wasn’t the exact same but I stayed for financial reasons and it sucked. I have comments dating back over a year knowing this relationship wasn’t going anywhere and that if I wasn’t financially dependent I’d be out ASAP. It was torture. In the future I’ll still have financial demands but never be dependent again. I think it’s just inertia besides the sink cost fallacy that’s already been mentioned. I’ve learned to leave earlier I was on/off with my ex before this one for 5 years 🤡 this one was 3 … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration datethank you so much i appreciate that <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 9 | A guy I went on a date with has suggested we sit in his car twice. Am I crazy to think that's a red flag??always listen to your intuition you already know what the answer is. we are just trained out of listening to it bc it benefits men. | /r/askFDS | 17/04/21 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Looking for a particular post about being childfree> women are expected to be endlessly self-sacrificing and happy about it it's so bizarre isn't it. it's like 1984 they didn't just want you to tolerate big brother they wanted you to *love* it. and what mom doesn't have bad days anyway even if that was her life's dream? yet men are expected to complain like it's cute or something. > I do worry sometimes that, beyond just criticizing me for it, people will persecute me for my childfreedom. me too. learning about the concept of 'unwomen' in the ha… | /r/askFDS | 17/04/21 04:05 PM |
| 18 | Epiphany: Imagine if dating made your life easier (like it does for men)that's why i demand getting my bills paid bc it's never going to be equal that's the least they can do if they don't like it they can fuck off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:02 PM |
| 8 | You ever feel like the women who are happy with their men are kind of just...dumb?i think that's most relationships today tbh. also semen really does have a sedating effect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 34 | Just found out my manipulative, abusive ex still follows me on Spotify and apparently there is no way to block him or make him unfollow me.that is ridiculous you can't block people. i'd make a new account and see if there is any easy way to transfer your stuff. a quick googling of 'transfer spotify playlists to new account' shows a bunch of stuff | /r/askFDS | 17/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 4 | Ladies, don't suppress your anger!So sorry you got mind fucked like that. I hope you can forgive yourself. It wasn't your fault it was that sick fuck's fault and society's for brainwashing us. I'm glad you're here and can learn the truth and heal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨true plus the way their hormones work (testosterone makes them angry, violent, limited empathy while they release much less of the bonding hormone oxytocin compared to us) & the y chromosome deteriorating i have little hope lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:31 PM |
| 50 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:15 AM |
| 51 | Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩❤️👨yes i've had a lot of experience with men and it just isn't worth it. part of me feels there is a teeny chance but my standards are so impossibly high now that i don't think he exists bc i see the true nature of men i just would rather focus on myself. i even feel like saying there is chance is still bullshit bc i can't unsee/unlearn what i know so just deprogramming still i think. i may have a [detached from] scrotation in the future we'll see. i def knew i was never going to be monagmous again… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 04:15 AM |
| 3 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreeoh geez. they never change do they? and playing the victim as a grown ass man is so pathetic. i hope you can protect yourself and reduce the damage from him as much as possible that sounds like such a difficult situation. hopefully he'll be more focused on his new situation and give you a break although these fuckers love to triangulate. and yes turning lemons into lemonade! we need to hear from other women so we can learn and do better for future generations. so much of this stuff is left unsai… | /r/askFDS | 17/04/21 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreethanks for posting i appreciate hearing from an actual parent about this issue. i can totally see how it would make you appreciate the freedom that you do have more, i've thought of that a lot like i'm not taking advantage of it. another thing is i've heard about people who feel really motivated by their children and get their life together or feel more ambitious/strong because of them being the driver and that made me think... i'm so sorry you have such a shitstain as a sperm donor and what you… | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 102 | Ladies, don't suppress your anger!i feel like this is so important. it's been said that depression is anger turned inwards. i'm inclined to agree with that statement and think that is the cause of a lot of depression among women today - we don't feel free to express our anger. anger is so important. it's showing us that we had a boundary violated. it is to protect us. we've just been conditioned to view feeling anger as bad because when men are angry they act on their anger. women can feel angry but not be violent like men are. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inlmao maybe you have a good case of RBF 🤷♀️ wm get intimidated pretty easily i've noticed bc 1. wymmnnn scurrryyy 2. poc scurrryyyy smh also i forgot to mention i hate the whole sapiosexual label too my eyes could not roll any further into the back of my head with that bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 6 | Helpyes! it's literally just a fact. and once i changed it everytime i saw it it like gave me a little poke of emotional pain in the moment bc i was reminded it would just cause more pain down the road. so i hope it's just as effective for you as it was for me! sidenote reminds me of this cartoon haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 10:15 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inyes it is misused am too lazy to type it all out but here is the explanation from a therapist i respect https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugOy_asXwk0 (starts at around 7:00 to skip intro) tldr; it's a meaningless new age word that doesn't mean anything that most therapists don't use and people actually mean empathic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:23 PM |
| 5 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreeFreedom is the biggest thing for me as well. Being tied to a lvm for life (bc lets face it things aren't over when they turn 18) is my literal nightmare. Not to mention all the horrific stuff that can happen healthwise that no one talks about which we honestly should because people have no idea but I think the women who have had these things happen are ashamed and embarrassed and it's honestly fucking terrible we need to help them. They feel like they're alone a lot of the time that is the fucki… | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 09:07 PM |
| 6 | Helpother people have given great suggestions on the actual logistics but in addition i'd like to recommend the limerence and exnocontact subreddits browsing those helps break the spell when in a moment of weakness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:59 PM |
| 8 | Helpyes this is exactly what i did with my previous ex that i had a hard time being no contact with. someone i was in a support group with suggested i change his to 'person who causes me pain' and it really worked because it was so true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:58 PM |
| 3 | Single motherhood. No need for a man.If I did have kids this would be my path but I'm pretty sure I'm childfree. I wouldn't tell anyone until you're actually pregnant. People can be really negative and judgey. They won't understand. And you don't need a dad to find a role model there are plenty of ways to do that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inyw! fyi if you can't find it it's in settings > chat & messaging | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inlmaooo wut | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InSocial justice spheres have a lot of this too. I'm a woman of color, but the deep hate white women have been getting over the last few years (stemming from calling out racist actions that need to be called out but spreading to hate towards anything woman) feels pretty intense because I don't see the same towards men. I appreciate you saying this because I have definitely felt the hate. Before I left my liberal area I was targeted three times in a period of months after living there for 3 years a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:12 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Ini'm so sorry. you've been through so much. your current situation really doesn't sound healthy at all. can you get into therapy? make sure it's someone who specializes in csa/trauma they're mostly doing online now depending on where you are. also somatic experiencing can be very healing beyond talk therapy bc the memories are stored in the body. the book 'the body keeps the score' goes into this more. just start by knowing that you don't need to do everything at once and healing takes baby steps… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inthey're so dumb lol. and if you're just looking at it from a financial perspective most extremely rich men are married to very average women. any man who is just going for looks isn't even high value. don't you love it when they tell on themselves? also you can turn off your pms i recommend it it's so peaceful :) you can still msg people just have to do it first i have in my profile to leave a comment if they want to chat. works for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:44 PM |
| 5 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreeIt's so crazy how we're told we can hAvE iT aLl when no one can. Look at how many of the subs moms are on where they say they can't even take a shower, or they haven't gotten a haircut or a pedicure in years. While their husbands lives don't change at all. In fact they avoid the home even more. It's such a lie from the libfems. Having children is a huge sacrifice esp if you don't have help from a partner which lets be honest most of them are useless. So many times I see moms who get divorced the… | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InI find it ridiculous that on both the childfree and marriagefree subs they have rules where you essentially can't talking about gender differences (no mIsAnDrY) when it's clear that the main people who benefit from marriage/children are men. The reasons why people don't get married/have kids is very different for each and no acknowledging those differences take out basically the crux of the whole conversation. Instead those subs are reduced to shallow level bullshit for the most part instead of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 5 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreeThanks for your perspective. Those are pretty much the same reasons that I have. Also besides global warming learning more about men and taking the wool off my eyes it seems like having kids you're either raising a future perpetrator or victim. I question if it's ethical to do so in either case. You can't shield male children from patriarchal conditioning no matter how hard one tries to raise a 'hvm' and you can't protect a female child forever or shield them from the internalized misogyny. Feel… | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreeAgreed re: more scared of having the kids with a man vs having kids lol. Lurking the singlemothersbychoice subreddit is fascinating. Who wants to raise kids and a husband? I've read enough horror stories on breakingmom aka brokenmom. Just skip the last step if you're so inclined. | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 07:22 PM |
| 16 | Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration dateI spent my 20s trying to figure out what was wrong with me and spent all my time reading endless self help books, therapy, and support groups. Now I have self esteem but debt and no career (thanks sexwork!) so I feel I'm going to spend the next decade getting my finances in order. So in a way it's good and I'm so glad I never had kids with any of my exes but on the other hand the people that talk about their 30s being better because they finally have money is a bummer bc that isn't my situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 04:06 PM |
| 14 | Looking for a particular post about being childfreeI also think I subconsciously observed what my mom went through not just with having kids but with marriage as well. I remember asking her what her favorite moment was in life expecting her to say giving birth and she said traveling instead lol. She stopped when she me my dad. That gave me a clue. I'd also ask a lot if they regretted having kids. They would say no but I think I realized then it wasn't for me because I couldn't imagine why someone would want to. And I 100% agree I'd possibly be m… | /r/askFDS | 16/04/21 04:02 PM |
| 62 | For those of you in a relationship with a HVM, how long were you dating before he said ‘I love you’?frankly most men know they want to marry you within 6 months, nevertheless 'i love you' - listen to your gut. he also could have told you he's never said it to anyone else before so you'll have low expectations and it seems to be working since you're giving him an out bc of it. and him just doing what he's supposed to do and being considerate =/= 'feeling loved' or thinking he loves you that's just basic. | /r/askFDS | 15/04/21 04:28 PM |
| 85 | Amazing that the men who love me tell me not to date and stay away from men.honestly i feel like men subconsciously lose respect for you for even giving them the time of day because they know deep down how terrible they are as a species | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 33 | Plan B, abortion, and adoption are not convenient alternatives to pregnancyfrom what i recall basically it's the whole eUgEnIcS argument and also saying these people aren't fully consenting bc there's a financial incentive so they wouldn't otherwise. here's a vid on the lady behind it if you're interested https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kkERSYPLzqc it's mostly women with iuds and long term birth control so not even permanent most of the time. so yeah i don't see the problem either we should have more of a problem with the alternative.. edit: and here is the website for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:29 PM |
| 96 | Do men that dont watch/dislike porn even exist?just being real - i don't think so. they literally can't study how porn has effected the brain because they can't find any men who haven't watched it. and i see other commenters say there are religious anti-porn men out there which honestly i have to LOL about because you know what state consumes the most porn? utah. these men lie constantly because they don't want to risk it otherwise and the ones who are the most vocal are usually the most depraved. maybe there's an incredibly small percentage… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:06 PM |
| 11 | Plan B, abortion, and adoption are not convenient alternatives to pregnancyall of this. also getting off birth control was hell for me and i'll never go on it again. i also don't think it's healthy to trick your body into pretending to be pregnant for years on end so things are more convenient for men. i plan on getting fixed and never telling any scrote then using condoms if i ever have sex again which is a big if right now lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:00 PM |
| 61 | Plan B, abortion, and adoption are not convenient alternatives to pregnancythere's already a program that offers drug addicts to be paid to get sterilized. it's ruffled some feathers but i think it's genius. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:56 PM |
| 6 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂for sure. i hope you will stick around - reddit skews younger in general and i think this sub does too so it's great to have perspectives of more mature women. i especially like hearing about the ways dating culture has changed as well as what has stayed the same. welcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:32 AM |
| 50 | Concrete initial steps for decentering men from your life#2 is so important. i feel like a lot of us want relationships bc we feel like we can only do/experience certain things within the context of romance with another. it's just not true. and you can also literally have romantic, emotional moments with just yourself. think about it when you had those moments before it's not like that person jumped into your brain and gave you those feels, it was you all along. and lets face it he probably wasn't feeling all squishy and romantic to the depths you wer… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Mary Wollstonecraft on "the wall", A Vindication of the Rights of Woman (1792)i've heard that about france before, interesting stuff | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Women’s bodies are not put on this Earth to be bought and sold under an artificially created capitalist systemwell there at least needs to be a floor so we don't have survival sex workers. the truth is always somewhere in the middle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 10 | Women’s bodies are not put on this Earth to be bought and sold under an artificially created capitalist systemor at least realize that performing femininity is just that - performing and that it's not real. we're too attached to it. i'm saying this from a pragmatic perspective that most users won't do this bc they like the perks that come with it. and a lot of also internalized the norms themselves so they 'feel good with it' even if alone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 11:01 PM |
| 14 | Women’s bodies are not put on this Earth to be bought and sold under an artificially created capitalist systemi became a sex worker bc i felt like i was stupid and would never amount to anything. it was also the 2008 crash and it felt like the world was collapsing. in fact i was really smart but didn't have any self worth. it's not as cut and dry we need to start by instilling women with self esteem early. i blame my shitty parents but they didn't know any better either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:59 PM |
| 4 | Where to meet hvm IRLsmh fucking pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 10:16 PM |
| 80 | FDS isn’t about finding HVM. It’s about decentering men from our lives and centering ourselves instead.yeah i'm not even dating right now and don't know if i ever will again. my standards are ridiculously high and i'd rather be alone than with someone who doesn't meet them. i still post bc i like the community and i've had a lot of dating experience as well as seeing the dark side of men bc of sw so feel like i have something to contribute but dgaf if i never go on another date again. and the irony is i know that bc i'm in this place thats how i will meet someone but either way never being monoga… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:34 PM |
| 9 | Where to meet hvm IRLthey def do i had men message me because of being in WOMENS meetups as in they look for the womens ones specifically and just spam message everyone | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:22 PM |
| 6 | All the emotional labor, organizing and managing being pushed on the woman, who would have known? This is why multiple partners are not beneficial for women, instead of one man baby, she now has two of them.why would you live with two men living with one is already terrible enough smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 06:19 PM |
| 78 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂girl i'm only 30 and feel the same way lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:29 AM |
| 28 | I'm so proud of you ladies for sharing and normalizing FDS concepts on tiktok, Instagram, and other social media 😂wow! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 02:28 AM |
| 10 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.yes exactly and that's great you can be honest with yourself now i think a lot don't because they feel ashamed i know i am. it's hard to admit that kind of stuff. and then in your situation the whole colorism 'exotic' thing just adds to many other layers to the conversation... i was a sexworker so not exactly the same but i liked the benefits of not working a 9-5 feeling like i was better than people who went to college and worked regular jobs when i could make more money than them etc. we need … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 01:56 AM |
| 26 | Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care.pickmes and liberal feminists are worse than the men that uphold the patriarchy because they know what it feels like yet still continue on. they also follow the crabs in the bucket mentality and encourage other women to keep the bar low. and just because many of us here are former pickmes doesn't mean they still aren't the problem they need to wake up but many don't because they like the benefits that come with being a handmaiden. even if they're brainwashed into it just because it's not someone… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/21 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Sis... you defending him or your ego? Just stop. Sick of reading these posts loljesus christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:07 PM |
| 7 | Sis... you defending him or your ego? Just stop. Sick of reading these posts lolI've seen those as well as the 'alternatives' apparently they are filled with men instead lmaooo is anyone really surprised? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 09:06 PM |
| 90 | Awakening to the Problems of Liberal Feminismgender is a social construct but sex is biology. the fact that we deny this now and it's considered hate speech is literally big brother/thought crime coming to life. liberal feminism is cancer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:28 PM |
| 32 | Excellent Advice, FDS Energy all the way!its so disgusting that they literally do that to keep the woman trapped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 20 | Excellent Advice, FDS Energy all the way!sometimes i regret not getting married the times i had the chance to but turned them down bc i'd be better off financially but then i feel like it's low key traumatizing and the stress must age you a lot... now i don't think i ever will doesn't seem worth it at all even for $$ i value my peace and freedom more. and if you're not going to have kids it doesn't make sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:15 PM |
| 11 | This is just sadAt least don't put your blinders on like so many women do they won't even look at another man lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 27 | "Your mother works very hard. Harder than I do."Wow I'm so sorry to hear that. I wish your mother peace and good health. Crazy how ingrained the cultural conditioning is. And yes here is to undoing all the negative programming. Hugs <3 > it's a tragedy looking at them and understanding that an intelligent, resourceful woman like her was just vampirized by a guy who had no business considering himself in her league. This is the hardest part, seeing all the lost potential. It's part of why I don't think I'll ever get married and frankly might n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:15 AM |
| 12 | "Your mother works very hard. Harder than I do."Thank you <3 yes feel like I'm correcting some generational karma not just with her but all the women who came before I think a lot of us are on this sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:03 AM |
| 6 | Wealthy heiress asks for advice about assets/retiring with broke LVM, scrote calls her old and tells her to have babies with said broke LVM. ON FINANCIAL FREEDOM SUBREDDIT.Bummer she’s a lost cause mesmerized by mediocre dick case study only you tried 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:18 PM |
| 9 | Wealthy heiress asks for advice about assets/retiring with broke LVM, scrote calls her old and tells her to have babies with said broke LVM. ON FINANCIAL FREEDOM SUBREDDIT.Yeah we’ll see her on broken mom in a few years being a classic martyr victim as usual but won’t leave bc he’ll take her money classic story let her some never learn 🤷♀️ dickmatized and blinded by love she has the money to waste and it’s hers to do what she wants unfortunately best thing at this point is to show as an example to others of what not to do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:16 PM |
| 28 | Wealthy heiress asks for advice about assets/retiring with broke LVM, scrote calls her old and tells her to have babies with said broke LVM. ON FINANCIAL FREEDOM SUBREDDIT.Yes literally worth millions on reddit asking for dating and financial advice lol common sense ain’t so common | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 26 | This is just sadFor sure. That’s why I think you’re even single after you’re married but I know that isn’t a popular opinion 🤷♀️ you can vet until you’re blue in the face but IMO they all cheat so there’s no point in feigning loyalty for someone who will never be loyal to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:06 PM |
| 33 | Thoughts on Anna Bey?She’s kind of a poser. She lives a decent life but it isn’t as extreme as she portrays. She used to be an escort and cashed out with a mid range finance guy so comfortable but not a baller or anything like that. So yes she has money and married well but is a bit of a hypocrite take what you like and leave the rest and take everything with a grain of salt personally I find it cringe that she is essentially shaming women for not being “elegant” and “conservative” when she was anything but and isn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:59 PM |
| 61 | Wealthy heiress asks for advice about assets/retiring with broke LVM, scrote calls her old and tells her to have babies with said broke LVM. ON FINANCIAL FREEDOM SUBREDDIT.Hypogamy never works 🤦♀️ sis needs a divorce and a sperm donor smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 80 | This is just sadThat’s why you’re singled until you’re married as in like literally... until the ink has dried you’re single sis that’s what your tax return says that’s why you are we need to stop deluding ourselves!! Even being a “fiancé” doesn’t mean much can still leave at any time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-ini don't follow celebrity culture a lot but he gives me creeper vibes feel like he'll have a metoo moment in the future tbh.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:17 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inlisten to your intuition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 35 | So now women must help men who struggle with lust?! 🤮 This is why i unfollowed theses guys, they want to seem HV when they're not. The comment section is just full of nonsense some even used the "Testosterone excuse", "biology" (just to name a few)and all sorts of crap to back it up!> Men are LoGiCaL > We can't control our peepees it's nAtUrAL we have this uNcOnTrOlLaBlE lust choose one scrotes because no one believes you anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:58 PM |
| 113 | Have any of yall experienced that “look” on dates?normalize leaving in the middle of dates i.e. saying you're going to the bathroom then leaving/blocking for safety reasons don't actually let them know you're leaving tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 95 | Have you ladies seen this? This gorgeous, married woman has been fighting her EX in court because he wants their embryos from the time they were in love, to be born.Yet according to wikipedia "Loeb filed a lawsuit for custody of the embryos in a California Court, but he later dropped that lawsuit when the court demanded that Loeb identify two women who had abortions after he had impregnated them." Why the fuck doesn't this shit surprise me anymore. It's never about morality for these hypocritical scrotes. Power, control, and money that's it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 01:02 AM |
| 30 | How to reciprocate being treated wellLiterally just by saying smiling and thank you they get joy out of pleasing you that’s it... | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-injust means you're officially one of us you've unlocked level 1 of fds congrats sis 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:24 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inbecause the y chromosome is deteriorating and they know it. this is the extinction burst bc they're hanging onto their last legs... it's projection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inyes we all have masculine/feminine energy and the key is balance anyone who is too far on one side isn't... see 'alpha' dudes and tradwives lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 9 | A rant about how inherently sexist arranged marriages are.marriage in general has always been designed to benefit men. women had to fight so hard to get child support/alimony laws because they would be left destitute. even marrying a man who makes way more than you doesn't even seem to be really worth it and that is the only time i think it could even be slightly worth it financially. if they're making less than you it's literally like you paying them seriously wtf is the point? if you want kids a sperm donor is a better option. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:14 PM |
| 11 | A rant about how inherently sexist arranged marriages are.wow.. that's so incredibly sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 12 | Progressivism is just as rife with cool girls and pick-mes as conservatism.i used to be in those circles they are delusional and care about mens feelings more than womens safety it was insane.. they'd just give a bunch of excuses about why they are the way they are like i literally do not care what the reasons are i care wtf they're doing to women!! infuriating. its what made me step back and worry about myself and fellow women only. they take advantage of our compassionate nature i used to be a bleeding heart but no more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 8 | How to answer “what brings you to this app?”'dating or friendship' = fuckbuddy with no strings attached who will still act like a girlfriend fyi and yeah never tell them what you're looking for because they'll just pretend to be that to get what they want. | /r/askFDS | 09/04/21 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Standing up for women has never been popular, which explains the backlash against FDS. It's worth it because I can already see our culture changing. More and more women are choosing to be bold, have non-negotiable boundaries, and speak up unapologetically.i think you might have the best username i've ever seen on this sub bahaha and yes i totally agree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:39 AM |
| 50 | The secret strategy they don't want you to know about - aka do as I say not as I do. Ever wonder why women are so encouraged to find their 'one true love' and 'soulmate' while men are constantly watching porn and looking for the next branch to swing to? But we're supposed to put our blinders on.yesss have fun and post a scrotation report those are always fun to read :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:25 AM |
| 31 | You can't have it both ways. They've always needed us more than we need them. Never forget it.:-/ reminds me of how it used to be a common trope on the redpill sub to choose girls with eating disorders because she'll stay skinny and you already know she has low self esteem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:23 AM |
| 47 | Would also love to have more conversations about how we can be more intersectional and open to discussions about race and feminism ❤️so as far as my own experience i was a 'privileged' sex worker who knew to a certain extent that things were different for other races but not in any type of comparison to how i do now. the other interesting thing is that even among privileged races there is still additional layers of intersectionality/privilege. for example i am white and customers liked that i was american and would put down the other white eastern european women and also refused to pay them over a certain amount while we got … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:18 AM |
| 129 | The secret strategy they don't want you to know about - aka do as I say not as I do. Ever wonder why women are so encouraged to find their 'one true love' and 'soulmate' while men are constantly watching porn and looking for the next branch to swing to? But we're supposed to put our blinders on.things are so backwards now. sure lets exchange bodily fluids and i'll be your personal bangmaid while i don't ask what who or what you're doing nor have a conversation with you about my needs because wHaT iF i DoNt GeT pIcKeD?!? libfems/patriarchy have really pulled the biggest con in history convincing us to give all the benefits of marriage with none of the risk on their part and making us think that it was our idea and we're so liberated because of it 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:51 AM |
| 41 | The secret strategy they don't want you to know about - aka do as I say not as I do. Ever wonder why women are so encouraged to find their 'one true love' and 'soulmate' while men are constantly watching porn and looking for the next branch to swing to? But we're supposed to put our blinders on.try it you have nothing to lose! and even if you do want to get married it's honestly the quickest way lol triggering all their competitive instincts they will hurry up and try to lock you down asap. i was the happiest with a scrotation before i stupidly decided to be exclusive with my ex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:37 AM |
| 102 | The secret strategy they don't want you to know about - aka do as I say not as I do. Ever wonder why women are so encouraged to find their 'one true love' and 'soulmate' while men are constantly watching porn and looking for the next branch to swing to? But we're supposed to put our blinders on.Unless you really want kids marriage/monogamy just doesn't make sense. Especially considering the nature of men and how the vast majority are cheating (yes porn is cheating and most men watch it). But when I tell women this they tell me they want to be monogamous and feel weird seeing other people. Note I'm not even saying fucking other people just dating!!! (but of course if you want to have sex too that's your choice) Is it weird or are you just conditioned to feel like you're doing something … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Loss of Identity and MarriageI hope you’re able to find yourself again that is really heartbreaking. You deserve to have your own life and identity outside the kids make his ass watch them and do your thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Loss of Identity and MarriageI love this post! Congrats on all your progress that’s amazing and such an inspiration keep shining sis ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 11:06 PM |
| 4 | I feel like I can’t trust men anymore and I won’t trust one that says he loves meIf I had to do my 20s over again I would not be monogamous to anyone and just serial date and have a scrotation these is beneficial for many reasons esp if you don’t fuck them | /r/askFDS | 07/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 14 | Scrote that I dated 23 years ago feels entitled to my emotional labor & tries to stalk me on InstagramThey’re so fucking entitled. Whenever I read stuff like this I feel like the only response to these messages is to send a cash app request for all the free therapy then block regardless. Glad you came to see the light and found this sub! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:55 PM |
| 14 | My Year of FDSHaving him pay for you is truly when things become “50/50” because that’s when things actually become equal. What libfems think of as 50/50 is actually subsidizing him. Don’t pay a man to be with you bc that’s what it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:14 PM |
| 1 | I'll take my chancesAh sorry to hear that I’m very familiar with the whole al anon things that’s tough drinking is no excuse for bad behavior tho sometimes those groups were helpful othertimes toxic. Have you been on the al anon sub? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:43 PM |
| 71 | Sorry but no, withholding sex isn’t a real thing because nobody’s entitled to your body under any circumstances. In her BIO she calls herself a psychologist. 🤡jesus christ. another reason not to get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:46 PM |
| 1 | I'll take my chancesdon't settle! and if you are at least have a scrotation of multiple men if you're going to do that at least have different ones who meet different needs that way you will at least be satisfied. but no one person will complete you that's why we need to be whole within ourselves first and foremost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:42 PM |
| 1 | I'll take my chancesthis sub will say yes. personally i say no as in what you see in fairy tales doesn't exist. there can be men who treat you well if you keep your standards very high and leave at the first sign of bullshit but there is no prince, and there is no one who is coming to save you. soulmates are a myth created to make women procreate and marry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I'll take my chancesi know, but realize it's bullshit! even if you do change him he will take those changes to the next version who only knows him as the new and improved version of himself because being with you he is still reminded of his old self and he can't deal with it. turn that mothering energy inwards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:21 PM |
| 23 | You can't have it both ways. They've always needed us more than we need them. Never forget it.aka why they're trying to make womb implants a reality. they're just hoping the technology will be perfected before we wake up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:18 PM |
| 311 | You can't have it both ways. They've always needed us more than we need them. Never forget it.They want you to feel worthless but still want access to you. Make it make sense?! They just want your self esteem to be low enough to get what they want. Sometimes the only way to win the game is not to play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:47 PM |
| 10 | Reason #6567 why being single is better than settling.womens intuition is so powerful and yet so dismissed. its tragic. i think it's making a comeback tho as the patriarchy is on it's last legs and the feminine will rise again. or at least that is me being optimistic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | BEAUTY - Do you think it is worth it for women to pursue it?i think it's a good strategy but it's important to not to be attached to it and recognize it for the bullshit that it is. that way as your looks fade or you decide not to keep up with things anymore you will still have a core sense of self not reliant on beauty norms. even fds promotes wearing makeup because it's an easy low effort strategy. men invented this game that most of us didn't even know we were playing. if we can learn the rules we can use them to our advantage and win but only if we d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:03 PM |
| 33 | Caught his Tinder notificationwe decide to stop being monogamous because they never were in the first place | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:15 PM |
| 157 | There is an INBREEDING SUBREDDIT where men discuss having children specifically for the purpose of having sex with them. Just when I thought Reddit couldn't get any worse...this is why i don't think men should be able to have children via surrogate. it's so creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 193 | Man wants girlfriend to move in with him & his two kids, expects her to give him all the rent from her one-bedroom apartment since "she can only rent it out because she's going to be living with him for free"men are the original gold diggers who invented marriage to secure their own resources/capital/political ties/legacy don't think for a second they haven't lost this pimp mentality most are just not as obvious about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 03:03 PM |
| 139 | Be ruthless now, or you may be stuck with the NVMyes, guard your womb ladies. better to have no children at all or go to a sperm bank than be tied to a scrote forever. they don't deserve to have a legacy and the more of us refuse the better and maybe they'll actually step up and improve their behavior if there are actual consequences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:58 PM |
| 3 | Can't believe I never realize this before - it was my dad who first told me about 'gold diggers' and formed the negative image in my mind and the subsequent resultsYes I've been in therapy for years now not dating at the moment and maybe/probably never again I have a very different mindset now x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:14 PM |
| 3 | "Men are the true romantics"Ah ok yeah date but even then I don’t date unless I’m getting paid as in like real money which is more extreme than this subreddit here we just want guys to pay for dates for me that’s the minimum I don’t even hang out with male “friends” unless they are paying and that’s totally platonic as far as non platonic goes I may be physically affectionate but we’re not having sex unless I want to as in you look like a Greek god 🤷♀️definitely not fucking or even kissing anyone I’m not into but things l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 10:13 PM |
| 2 | "Men are the true romantics"Aw thanks it wasn’t easy lol. I wish I had learned things sooner didn’t have anyone teaching me growing up so learned the hard way now I try and help my sister. We are out there! And this sub is always here too. Hope you’re doing ok during this lockdown as well ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 10:08 PM |
| 6 | "Men are the true romantics"I’m not sure what you mean by invite you like asking you out on dates? I may have sex again but I’m only fucking the hottest sexiest chads as the Incels would say lol only if I feel like it the rest can buy me dinner and think they have a chance 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 5 | "Men are the true romantics"I was pretty ruthless after being cheated on before and just went for money and not looks as much this last relationship but when this ugly as fuck dude still cheated on me and thought he was the prize I was done lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:46 PM |
| 15 | "Men are the true romantics"Well not sure if I’m the right person to ask bc I’m pretty black pilled lol so my answer would be they are all non monagmous and men don’t love the same way women do if they’re even capable of it all and they know what bullshit to say to make it sound like their dicks don’t run their lives the only way they think they’re in love is if some part of you is always unattainable whether it’s your vagina or your heart or monogamy/commitment. I know for myself I’ve 100% been in love with two people at … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 08:08 PM |
| 64 | Divorcing LVM ex husbandSometimes they don't divorce because they are lazy but they also like the triangulation of still being legally married. I would bet a pretty penny that once the divorce goes through their relationship will end bc you are no longer there to triangulate with. Even if you guys aren't talking the fact that you are still tied legally is a way for him to keep the other girl anxious needy and dependent wanting him to prove he loves her by getting a divorce and the fact that he is not makes her crave it… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 07:03 PM |
| 20 | "Men are the true romantics"once you get to a certain mindset its not even a game tho. i'm literally not monogamous don't give a fuck what they think and they have to please and impress me to even be in my presence. i do not care otherwise. once you don't actually care it's not tiring because they are just there to entertain you and that's it. but if you have to fake it then yeah it's exhausting. it's not playing hard to get it's being hard to get. and they'll never win so they just give up or chase forever either way who … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 06:42 PM |
| 13 | "Men are the true romantics"haha get your heart broken enough and you'll get there. and i thought i was ruthless before, nah. i'm on a whole nother level now thanks to fds. i had the money part down but didn't have the respect now i have both and give zero fucks!!! get em girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 05:18 PM |
| 49 | "Men are the true romantics"aka why i'm never being monogamous again. let them constantly try to win you over. but it's not happening scrotes. they never appreciate it they just lose respect for you. they love it when you're mean to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:47 PM |
| 56 | Ladies how do you handle bills in marriage/long term relationships?Splitting bills is for roommates. If I'm splitting bills with someone were not fucking and I'm seeing other people period. 50/50 is paying someone to date you. And yes that includes dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 4 | Shower thought: Liberal feminists are the gender equivalent of the racist folks who claim to be "colorblind" to race.to be clear i wasn't disagreeing with you just adding to what you were saying and i agree we are all at different points and i think it is part of being in solidarity with other women to recognize that to lift up others who may not have those same advantages. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:53 AM |
| 11 | Looking for online support resources for women with financially irresponsible spousesThere's a 12 step program for partners of gambling addicts (sounds like that's basically what he was doing) https://www.gam-anon.org/ usually it's mostly women at least it was in Al Anon the partners of alcoholics version She could also just do regular Al Anon and/or Codependents Anonymous meetings there are women specific meetings but again it's mostly women in these groups anyway don't think I need to explain why lol https://al-anon.org/ & https://coda.org/ I have my gripes with 12 step progra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 19 | Shower thought: Liberal feminists are the gender equivalent of the racist folks who claim to be "colorblind" to race.yes - of course intersectionality is a thing but it's ultimately about gender first. men have *been* putting their gender first above anything else and dividing the rest of us so that we won't unite because being the bearers of life we have the ultimate power and they know that so they have to keep us separated. if women realized our common struggle as women and what it means liberation could be had so much easier. but instead we get stuck infighting on all these other issues. and men benefit fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:31 AM |
| 8 | Shower thought: Liberal feminists are the gender equivalent of the racist folks who claim to be "colorblind" to race.they're all so insufferable i can't even bother listening to their bullshit anymore and i stopped arguing a long long time ago. the only thing i do now is help my sis because she still has some of those beliefs from our upbringing everyone else i'm just like you're an idiot keep doing that eventually you'll realize it's not working for you or maybe you won't meh people only make changes when they're in enough pain to motivate them to do so. also side note but both of my recent exes were poc and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:24 AM |
| 9 | Just picked up a second-hand copy of The Gift of Fear!! Just the foreword has me hooked!I literally have this book in kindle, audiobook, and paperback lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 01:16 AM |
| 5 | ladies who quit hormonal birth control, share your experience hereit was literal hell. i went through withdrawals that i can only compare to what a drug addict would go through even tho i've never had that experience it's the closest thing to it. literally thought i was losing my mind like psychotic. i knew i had to stay off of it even tho i almost went back on it just to make the symptoms go away. i am very against birth control taken for casual reasons now i don't think we are meant to trick our bodies to pretend to be pregnant for years and years on end to … | /r/askFDS | 03/04/21 08:09 PM |
| 25 | So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me?idk sounds psychosomatic to me... maybe you didn't really like him as much as you thought. our bodies are very intuitive and we want to get the best possible mate with the best genes could've been telling you something you didn't consciously realize. you may have consciously liked him and checked all the boxes but subconsciously there may have been other stuff going on and he would have been better as a friend sometimes those wires get crossed (even tho i don't believe men and women can be frien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:42 AM |
| 10 | Starting NCdon't think we can link subs directly here but just remove the spaces the r /exnocontact also the no contact rule by natalie lue kind of boring and repetitive but gets to the point, additionally 'getting past your breakup' by susan j elliot has a whole chapter on nc and the rest of the book is great too overall better than natalie lues book if you're looking for something more comprehensive on breakups she also has vids up on youtube https://www.youtube.com/c/GettingPastYourPast/search?query=no%… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 12:37 AM |
| 42 | Forcing men to invest in us will force them to be pickyhow romantic /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:15 PM |
| 77 | Bhadbhabie apparently just started an onlyfans and she made over $1M in just 6 hours... what’s worse is that she just turned 18 last week? And she thinks it’s a flex bc it broke the onlyfans record... Lord this is just so disgusting in so many levelsJust kind of over this world in general at this point it’s all just so depressing and this is coming from a former swer. They don’t realize what they’re getting into and that it’s not worth it at all. But most likely these celebrities are also getting paid to promote these sites and/or get a better cut of the commission that’s what all the porn stars do when it comes to cam sites things are not what they seem. Hell pretty sure Beyoncé got paid to mention onlyfans in that Megan the stallion remix… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 06:31 PM |
| 152 | VOX recruiting on reddit for more libfem bullshit. Tell us how you split the bill 🤡🤡🤡 Also bonus for age gaps, poly, and throuples! 🤡🤡🤡Anyone who thinks they don’t have an agenda at this point is blind and/or stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Last red flag: would you do my pedicure?my pickme ex friend actually *did* give this loser a pedicure and told me how nasty his feet were. fucking puke. that was one of the last straws of why i couldn't deal with her anymore. at least you didn't do it, so glad you got out of there! and my ex meets girls on reddit to fuck don't meet men on reddit they're predators. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 04:15 PM |
| -34 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?girl that was two years ago you have no idea what you're talking about op is acting ridiculous | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 14 | You love to see it.someone posted this podcast episode on a different sub: https://soundcloud.com/wlrn-media/wlrns-22nd-edition-the-politics-of-love-sexuality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 3 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?bc you need more than fds and if you were actually following it you'd know role reversal is bullshit and don't put your emotions on me manage yourself 'scary' lmao get it together | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 09:06 PM |
| 93 | You love to see it.just learned about political lesbianism today actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:42 PM |
| 2 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?troll or just very mentally ill. posting about role reversal proposals -_- op read the handbook like 100 times and get therapy for your bpd dbt is good | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 08:41 PM |
| 19 | "Dr." Emily Morse advertises herself as a "Doctor of Human Sexuality" and Sex Therapist...but is not actually a Doctor or therapist.....of ANYTHING. Is the entire sexology industry a SCAM?thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 44 | "Dr." Emily Morse advertises herself as a "Doctor of Human Sexuality" and Sex Therapist...but is not actually a Doctor or therapist.....of ANYTHING. Is the entire sexology industry a SCAM?"scroteology" is more like it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:46 PM |
| 229 | "Dr." Emily Morse advertises herself as a "Doctor of Human Sexuality" and Sex Therapist...but is not actually a Doctor or therapist.....of ANYTHING. Is the entire sexology industry a SCAM?i feel like that whole field exists to pathologize women and make them feel broken for not catering to male bullshit. highly recommend orgasm inc (trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TUY-iTf2T1A) for anyone interested in this topic it's about how they tried to make 'female sexual dysfunction' a thing when it's a made up disease making women feel broken for having normal sexual responses or lack thereof. like if you have three kids and a manchild husband of course you're not going to be rela… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Dating detox/detoxing from romantic propagandathanks for all the recs! will be checking those out for sure. it's so true things always happen when you least expect them and esp when you're in that high vibe place of focusing on goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Dating detox/detoxing from romantic propagandasame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 6 | Dating detox/detoxing from romantic propagandai was into that for a while. it works because the whole premise of it 'working' is that you are just giving into the patriarchy and being the best handmaiden/fucktoy you can be. and were choosing that voluntarily. sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Dating detox/detoxing from romantic propagandaps may i have your permission to make this as a separate post? screenshot and i'd take out your username i feel like more people need to see this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Dating detox/detoxing from romantic propagandayou're welcome sis. it's literally everywhere and once you realize you can't unsee it -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 02:18 AM |
| 8 | Dating detox/detoxing from romantic propagandathe only way to win is not to play | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 02:17 AM |
| 5 | Dating detox/detoxing from romantic propagandawish i could upvote this 10 million times! summarizes things perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 02:01 AM |
| 10 | Dating detox/detoxing from romantic propagandai wish you were my mom! my parents are still married which is supposed to be the 'dream' but the way he speaks to her is just so patronizing (also overhead him talking about how i can 'be a real asshole' today so i'm extra salty lol there's a reason i haven't talked to you for years and felt like i had to be in sw and dependent on men instead of live with you!!! ugh) anyway enjoy the award haha and we are almost username twins :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 01:14 AM |
| 2 | Help identifying PickMeisha-like behaviour and help to correct it?yeah i think so many of us are but in a way it isn't even being an 'addict' because it's natural ultimately our bodies are trying to make us reproduce we have all these brain chemicals etc. we just have maladaptive behaviors so now i try not to label because i feel it can be damaging but at the same time having a name for that kind of stuff helps. you're welcome! | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 12:48 AM |
| 2 | Help identifying PickMeisha-like behaviour and help to correct it?i see. well one thing i have done is made a literal list with my boundaries it sounds like you already know what one is about the texting stuff and wanting to flirt - so you can figure out a boundary there that works for you. a lot of times you don't know it's a pickme thing until you do it and it doesn't feel good but if you can think of ones you know you have done in the past and want to correct. is that what you mean? also this is a dating plan from my previous therapist may be of use to you … | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 2 | Help identifying PickMeisha-like behaviour and help to correct it?i feel like it's getting in touch with your intuition you know when something doesn't feel right there is also this almost eager drug like effect that feels 'good' in a way but like feening (can't spell that word?? haha) for another hit | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 12:24 AM |
| 32 | Having extreme dislike/hatred for the new woman? Justified or unjustified?you can still be for women as a collective and think someone is a shit head for doing something shitty pickmes lower the bar for everyone pity them from a distance feeling your anger is how you move through it i'm really sick of this narrative that women have to be the bigger person and never be angry 'focus on ourselves' etc. yes i get that to a point but you're allowed to be pissed at someone! its your emotional guidance system teaching you lessons for the future | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 12:19 AM |
| 12 | A (seemingly) HVM gave me his number. Now what?i'd wait a day or two - normally it's better if they get yours, so i would do something to put the ball back in his court. "hey it's x now you have my number, just so you know i like men who call :)" or something to that effect. if he doesn't call after you stated your preference he wants you to pursue | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inex bf on reddit talking about 'the wall' - i'm the one who told him about it lol (out of being vulnerable and insecurity) and now he preaches it like he's some kind of badass player i feel so gross and that i created a monster meanwhile of course he was telling me it's not true yada yada when i was pissed about him wasting my time i just can't even.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 16 | If you are reading this message, It was meant for you. Stop stalking your ex on social media.its literal torture | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 2 | I want to contact a man from OLD that I spoke to a few years ago, but I'm unsure how to go about it.if you've never even met him he is not high value you have no idea who this dude is.. i think you've built him up way too much in your head sounds like limerence i'm sure there are a lot of people who will chime in and say not to but maybe if you message him it'll get it out of your system that's kind of how it works with limerence just prepare yourself | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 06:28 PM |
| 33 | Should I be disappointed for not receiving anything on Valentine's Day?cOmMuNiCaTiOn strikes again! nah you don't need to 'communicate' men know exactly what women want from vday.. so yes disappointment is warranted | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 06:24 PM |
| 5 | I can’t seem to get over the guy I never dated. Although he’s blocked and deleted, how can I truly let go?usually if the response is disproportionate to the situation it is about something else/deeper related sounds like the push/pull triggered abandonment and self worth issues that have little to do with him (helps me to detach realizing it's not about them) but have been brought out of you by the situation | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 06:08 PM |
| 9 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive Clientsthe fact that if you read a lot of escorts websites and they have 'hygiene etiquette' listed with specifics should tell you everything you need to know about this topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 16 | Since following FDS I have low/no libido! I rarely find a man attractive these days. Anyone else turned off from most guys?yeah i just feel disgust more than anything. i think it's normal. | /r/askFDS | 18/02/21 03:36 PM |
| 63 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?most men in general aren't attractive why do you think they have to convince us to date uggos constantly? smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Katherine McPhee is pregnant with this 70 y/o man. She is 36. What do these two even remotely have in common? Just ew.embarassing af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:44 PM |
| 8 | Society needs to stop perpetuating the myth that women should settle for unattractive men because they'll be "nicer". Women should be allowed to date whoever they want whether men like it or not.What I did and check my post history to see how that turned out -_- never again chads from now on lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 46 | Field ReportLove reading a scrotation report of mature queen! Fascinating. I am thoroughly convinced online dating is a massive timesuck and brings out the worst in people. IRL is much better. OLD really doesn't save time the way people think it does because it takes so long to find anyone decent and ime it's so demoralizing it makes the whole experience awful when it should be fun. I was actually just watching a video today about dating for older women after checking out some of the recommended youtubers a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 12:33 AM |
| 122 | Why do we only tell women not to go outside after a certain time? Men don't even have to think about this bullshit.I'm so sorry. I was attacked a few months ago too and my now ex told me not to be out after dark... it was literally 5:30pm and dusk. Fucking scrotes fuck them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 09:23 PM |
| 98 | Why do we only tell women not to go outside after a certain time? Men don't even have to think about this bullshit.enforced monogamy is a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:12 PM |
| 9 | if a man uses the term “simp”, cut him off. men lose it when they see a woman genuinely being loved.don't you love it when they tell on themselves. only thing he is talking about is her looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:47 PM |
| 59 | Why do we only tell women not to go outside after a certain time? Men don't even have to think about this bullshit.assaulting* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 125 | Your Future in an Age Gap Relationshipthese scrotes have no qualms about leaving you as soon as anything isn't to their liking we need to do the same. they have zero sense of loyalty she's done enough. you can still love someone from afar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 4 | The moment when a ZVM realizes he’s Zero Value 🤦♀️😂lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:06 PM |
| 9 | Never take a man at face valueI dumped a dude for not getting me ubers back from dates and we never even fucked lol. It's the bare minimum if you sleep with them literally just basic respect -_- I fucking can't with these scrotes. This is why we need to stop fucking them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:05 PM |
| 9 | Never take a man at face valueI had something happen like that with my boyfriend before last who was with me while I was an escort. I got a gift from a client it was this glass swan thing with a rose and I thought it was so cute and sent him a pic just to share (yes I realize this was tmi now but at the time he knew what I was doing and I was just sharing like I would with a gf about my work day) he got sooo mad and I didn't understand why lol now I do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:03 PM |
| 37 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inidk if you're a spiritual person (apologies if you're not) but a phrase that has always helped comfort me is "rejection is God's protection" - sorry you're feeling sad friend it will be ok and yes good idea to make a separate account! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:57 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InYeah I think a lot of people just don't know as it was only in that one post when that flair was announced. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InFeeling *slightly* better regarding my breakup- as in still in fight or flight and ruminating a lot but at least it's not 24/7 and I've been getting short reprieves here and there (so it's like 23/7 instead lol). I started listening to 'Psycho-cybernatics' and that has been good. I just still feel so blind sighted but at the same time beating myself up bc I should have known. I did have an idea tho and had been preparing myself to move for months if not longer. Actually more like a year or two. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:17 PM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inthere is also a 'fds book review' flair i believe edit: it is 'book report' | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:09 PM |
| 18 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-Inwhy am i not addicted to corn bread? lol i was just talking about this bc i just learned in my new city there is a old mill nearby that used to process corn from like 1700-1800s something like that and it's really cool uses the water power from the river to grind the corn the whole building shakes. apparently it only stopped producing in the 50s! and i've been watching a youtube channel where the dude recreates recipes from the 1700s must now make this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bGxZFMlQ-Bc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:07 PM |
| 28 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check-InSeeing people comment in the 'social group strategy' flair discussions not a part of that social group is super cringe and patronizing. Maybe they aren't all aware of this rule as I saw it when the flair came out but perhaps it should be added as an auto mod message whenever someone uses that flair. People should be able to talk about their social group without having others chime in "as a __ person not a part of this group I think... " ugh. I know they think they have good intentions but that's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:52 PM |
| 20 | Missing cuddlingi literally rub my own arms, massage my neck, hug myself etc. and it helps. i feel like it releases similar brain chemicals. sounds cheesy until you do it and realize it works lol or at least takes the edge off. just did it now as i was typing this and i already feel myself relaxing. as far as the fantasy stuff all the media is designed to keep women in a hypnotic trance thinking about romance. being aware of this alone can really reduce a lot of suffering. also check out skin brushing may help … | /r/askFDS | 16/02/21 04:12 AM |
| 10 | Anyone deal with Maladaptive daydreaming and has successfully broken the habit?music is designed to put you in a trance esp romanticized music so in that respect it's working as intended. i think it's evil tbh. i can't even listen to the radio anymore. i go into fantasy almost instantly even if it's a negative fantasy. mindfulness and being in the present has helped me the most. i was having trouble with this today actually while driving and i just kept focusing on the sights around me, the next tree, the next house, trying to notice each detail. it never is perfect that i… | /r/askFDS | 16/02/21 04:09 AM |
| 27 | How do you handle insecurity and jealousy with dating?listen to your intuition. | /r/askFDS | 15/02/21 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Why do I still cherish idea of soul mates?i firmly believe that even if you're 'not into fairy tales/princes/marriages' the brainwashing goes so far, wide, and deep into our subconscious it's literally everywhere we can't avoid it as were not even consciously aware of it. my personal belief is that in this life women are meant to realize our own masculine energy/principles/drive within ourselves and vice versa - the soulmate is symbolic of that and seeking it outside. so to balance we get in touch with both. also when you see disney mov… | /r/askFDS | 15/02/21 01:53 AM |
| 4 | Giving this multiple dating thing a serious shot - looking for advice.i've always liked the concept of 'a pair and a spare' - you have the guy you really like, the backup you like but not as much as the first, then the spare who is just in the background when one of the others comes off and you can replace one with. then obviously when one disappears you get a new spare etc. etc. worked for me. now if i date again i'll just do as many as possible lol but i've passed this pair and a spare concept along to many women and they have had success with it as well. | /r/askFDS | 15/02/21 01:50 AM |
| 6 | Did my attachment style change?it can definitely switch we can even have different attachment styles to people at the same time. kind of a mindfuck tbh. sounds like you were traumatized right there with you sis. sending healing thoughts your way. therapy is good but i feel like sometimes we recommend that a lot and it has it's limits especially the cerebral kind. i'm getting into somatic experiencing because i've come to realize the trauma is literally in my body all the talking in the world won't get it it or it will but onl… | /r/askFDS | 15/02/21 01:47 AM |
| 28 | What’s the most important thing you’ve learned since discovering FDS?sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.wow this explains a lot thank you for taking the time to type out all of this. there is more to the story that i haven't put on reddit bc frankly i'm embarassed that i stayed after - even if mostly for financial reasons. anyway i will definitely be checking out that book when i feel stronger mentally to handle reading something like that. thank you again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Happy valentine's day my queens! I can't give you flowers in person so I painted some flowers♡♡♡♡ This is for you!!Happy Galentine's Day sis! Thank you I love it <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.hmm i didn't think it was that extreme after my previous ex i read why did he do that (couldn't finish it tho tbh too upsetting) but you may have a point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.i appreciate that reflection. i just want the pain to stop ugh. it's like that fight or flight feeling on repeat definitely triggering abandonment wounds wish it would go away even tho i know what it is more than i did before it still fucking sucks. oh yeah re: no contact i already am had to tell him to give my keys back to old landlord he wouldn't respond asshole. that was it tho never ever speaking to him again did no contact with my other ex and it is the best and thanks again <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:08 AM |
| 1 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you so much <3 i believe in empaths and spirituality and have been trying to really receive the energy of fds sisters so i appreciate the connection so so much. i'm looking on the meditations page now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 12:38 AM |
| 3 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼i appreciate you saying that. its so easy to forget or not even realize in the first place the condition that makes us feel this way. he counted on it too and played into it because of some of my own bad behavior. fucking awful. and i'm SO GLAD i never got pregnant. so so so glad. drinking a beer as we speak lol. i've done a lot of therapy but need to do more and different modalities i think, something deeper. i've been drawn to somatic experiencing i think that's what i need to do next because … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 11:31 PM |
| 30 | Probably posted before, but it's truenever have i agreed with something more in my life don't settle. thinking that being out of his league helps any really doesn't as you feel even worse after. trust me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you sis <3 sigh im so sick of crying its exhausting. i had to do this type of recovery before so i have an idea of what lies ahead and i know it won't be easy but at least i somewhat know what to expect doesn't make it any easier in the moment tho. just trying to stay focused on the light at the end of the tunnel. new beginning for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:50 PM |
| 3 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼thank you so much for the inspiring and kind words brought a smile to my face. i really did leave a lot behind as i literally moved and only brought suitcases with essentials everything else is gone. feels like starting fresh. definitely don't plan on dating for a long time if ever. i can't take the emotional pain if this were to happen again and unfortunately i feel scrotes are hardwired to be this way. sigh. i'm ready to find happiness and fulfillment within myself. and yes having this subredd… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you so much <3 yes i moved pretty quick was going to stay another few weeks but i just couldn't take it. being betrayed like this [again] is seriously traumatizing i don't think i can take anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you sis. yeah it's not worth it at all. he thought he was justified in doing what he did because of the $$ literally stated as much basically on reddit. just sick. looking forward to my new life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.they really are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:36 PM |
| 3 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you so much i sent a message <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 10:35 PM |
| 7 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.yup. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.appreciate the kind words <3 *clink clink* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 06:58 PM |
| 10 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you sis. yeah i had felt so guilty for how i treated him and of course he would point it out too and play the victim and make me out to be the bad guy so much gaslighting. if i hadn't found his reddit account i probably would still be questioning/feeling bad about myself but at least i can 100% confirm he's a piece of shit and it wasn't my fault. i was totally honest with him (mistake #70987987459728) and he used it against me meanwhile... ugh. i just regret wasting so much time, energy, y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:45 PM |
| 31 | Gonna pull up to the Drive Thru and get a Frosty just to cool down from this BURN 🤣#REDDITHATESWOMEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.appreciate it friend <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:54 PM |
| 31 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:53 PM |
| 74 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.he was an actual boyfriend but when we broke up i was going to replace him with an sd. and definitely will be focusing on the financial stuff i never want to be in this position again. i'm totally out of the adult industry now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 11 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.the girl he was referencing liked him bc of his job that's why (heavily fetishized and a profession NOT recommended on FDS another mistake i made) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:23 PM |
| 7 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.i think he's a sociopath honestly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you sis <3 i have been partly blaming myself but after seeing all the awful shit (i saw more today i was able to see some deleted comments) it's even worse than i thought so whatever i may have contributed doesn't even compare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 2 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you <3 i can't believe i let that loser breathe the same air as me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:12 PM |
| 9 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you that is comforting <3 when i look back i feel that way as my pos previous ex led me to my new one but now i can hope it will lead me to even better things honestly to meeting my true self. i'm glad you had something positive come out of something awful and i hope the same for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:11 PM |
| 10 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.you're very right. i need to focus on myself and my own financial well being first and foremost. thank you for reminding me of my username lol and it is very true i have been leveling up in all aspects of life. just thought it would be different. i feel very grateful i have family to back on or else idk what i'd do. definitely guarding my heart and never giving it away again. they don't deserve it. only my kids will if i ever have them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 81 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.i truly do not believe male love exists it's only lust | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:52 PM |
| 12 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.gah that's awful. i was in a similar phase of denial with my previous ex and went back. i learned this time. just wish i did sooner because there were red flags but at least it was 3 years instead of 5 with the other one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 18 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.truly a piece of shit. i pray karma is real. love you too sisters <3 don't know what i would do without this sub/network of subs right now it's really been getting me through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:50 PM |
| 22 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.so true. i thought i was ruthless before at least financially but these scrotes haven't seen anything yet lol. it's 100% about me now all the time. i haven't decided if i even want to date again ever. regardless i will never be monogamous again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:48 PM |
| 10 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:36 PM |
| 13 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.and he's living with his kids mom calling her his wife i don't think they're actually married but i don't even know anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:28 PM |
| 24 | Y'all, it just hurts so so bad. I found out my bf was cheating on me by finding his reddit account where he also says awful things about me.Btw it's a sprinkling of awful things and simultaneously showing off by talking about how hot and good in bed I was. Makes me feel even worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:23 PM |
| 7 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼i'm sorry you went through something similar. its truly terrible. i'm not sure what i'm going to do after this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:43 PM |
| 2 | How do you date when you are in the 1%?i hear you. perhaps there is a high end matchmaker in your country, that might be your best bet. also looking into matchmakers here in the usa that are very high end as a lot are actually global and they may have men in their database from your country, worth a try and you can get the best of the best since you have the funds. i saw you wrote you want to stay in your country too but due to your circumstances it may limit you a lot maybe you could be open to have a more global/jet set lifestyle a… | /r/askFDS | 13/02/21 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Bf almost said “ I love you” but stopped midway . What should I do?i wouldn't. there is no point really. you already know that he does - you didn't mishear it. men aren't the same as women the verbalization comes last. actions speak louder than words. i get it's hard tho. there's also chance he could be using it as a manipulation. if that's the case he may be counting on you to bring it up so that you can be the one to be vulnerable and say it first so that he knows that he 'has you' either way you lose. so try your best to keep yourself contained and wait. edi… | /r/askFDS | 13/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 48 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼thanks for saying this. after finding out my bf was cheating on me the entire time i've been in a lot of mental turmoil and regret. despite my ho ass past i was loyal as fuck to him. hurts like no other. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:50 AM |
| 5 | How do you date when you are in the 1%?what is your goal? after reading your comments i think your best strategy is to never marry NOR being mongamous. just have a bunch of boyfriends/scrotation. | /r/askFDS | 13/02/21 02:16 AM |
| 37 | What 👏🏼 a 👏🏼 comeback 👏🏼 👏🏼i've literally fucked 1000+ men (sw) and i wish i had went to school instead. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:04 AM |
| 3 | Bf almost said “ I love you” but stopped midway . What should I do?men feel scared/vulnerable to say it they have internalized misogyny too they think admitting they have feelings makes them a bitch. often they feel those feelings long before they tell you. i wouldn't pretend he never said it that is being kind of cool girl/pickme imo know that he 'loves you' (my pessimistic black pilled ass ass doesn't believe men can love but they think they do at least) but know in your heart that he does don't fall for the sob story of them being so hurt from the past blah … | /r/askFDS | 13/02/21 01:28 AM |
| 7 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?my guess is maybe they're talking about sex acts outside of piv or maybe just being naked together without sex not sure i get your point tho i'm kind of an all or nothing girl myself sex is sex to me 🤷 i know there is also a thing with some guys where they like jerk off in front of you could be that too but i doubt it just guessing here lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 34 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?don't forgot girth too 😎 my ex had an average dick which was actually the perfect size for me but could've been wider meh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:17 PM |
| 39 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?lmao why is that always the case?! go fuck yourself rob! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 12 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?just make and excuse and leave i think i said i feel sick once lol another time i forgot to feed my cat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:12 PM |
| 11 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?not op but if you're making out and such you can feel how big his hard on is through his clothes just by him being against you etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.ha no worries still a good clapback :-P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:15 PM |
| 15 | Why overt and extreme misogyny is a problem even for misogynists: It results in women being armed with knowledge misogynists never intended them to have (that they are openly hated, and they will be hated no matter what they do), and this activates women’s “jezebel” side.love your username. and i relate to a lot of what you wrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Post-FDS resentment toward familyi can unfortunately relate. i've found the best way to channel these emotions is to help the next generation not make the same mistakes but doesn't take away the pain. it does get better after a while though. you don't need to let it go yet you will when you're ready. don't invalidate yourself! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:02 PM |
| 8 | Post-FDS resentment toward familywow. internalized misogyny is truly a curse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 17 | This is the kind of prompt answers I’m trying to see! Too bad they are few and far between.sApIoSeXuAl men are the fucking worst | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:55 PM |
| 22 | Why overt and extreme misogyny is a problem even for misogynists: It results in women being armed with knowledge misogynists never intended them to have (that they are openly hated, and they will be hated no matter what they do), and this activates women’s “jezebel” side.yeah... if men didn't constantly prove to me over and over they valued me only for looks and any kind of personality as an afterthought i wouldn't only value them for money and their utility - i wish it wasn't true but i'm not going to delude myself at this point it's self harm otherwise. i want a loving relationship but it's not possible. either picking the richest or being alone. i wish soulmates existed but it's bullshit propaganda in order to get women to reproduce. still deprogramming. i th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:46 PM |
| 11 | How to not get obsessed with the dating apps .... help?they're literally designed to be addictive and feed into your dopamine receptors. your brain is making chemicals as strong if not stronger than many pharmaceutical drugs. understanding this can help bring some clarity. not getting stuck in the fantasy either. i recommend getting off of them completely tbh. since there is a pandemic it's a great time/excuse to focus on yourself. can you make a list of other things/hobbies/goals you want to work on? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:05 AM |
| 15 | FDS sisters should understand the concept of a raincheck and include it in our vernacular. It's something scrotes do constantly. Raincheck = keeping you on the backburner for laterhaha i can't take credit learned that word from this sub and i love it! but i definitely think you have a point there with some fds poetry sounds amazing :-P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 02:33 AM |
| 6 | Why do men complain about marriage, when marriage for women is...haha i'm sure! stay mad scrotes! 💅🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:38 AM |
| 7 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.this made me cackle omg 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:06 AM |
| 7 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.lol and what did he do after you said that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:04 AM |
| 26 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.ha! that's awesome. money is important but doesn't replace common sense. i grew up in a wealthy area and i noticed that yes they can hire people and often do because it saves time but they still know how to do things themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:43 PM |
| 11 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:24 PM |
| 28 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.yeah my ex just paid people to come and do the work for me/him lol which is better than nothing but still if you have to rely on another man to do the most basic of stuff you're kind of a bitch tbh even i can fix a sink with the internet no excuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:22 PM |
| 17 | Why do men complain about marriage, when marriage for women is...bUt iTs eUgEnIcS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 83 | This but unironically. Go chop some wood, fix a car, lift some weights. Hell start a business with all the energy you spend hating and lurking women's spaces - your testosterone is getting lower and lower by the minute. At least then you'd have a chance scrote.lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:22 PM |
| 27 | Why do men complain about marriage, when marriage for women is...i can't believe they actually think that lol obviously projecting they can't live without women but we thrive and do way better without them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:51 PM |
| 14 | What to gift my HVM on valentine’s?:D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:42 PM |
| 59 | Why do men complain about marriage, when marriage for women is...yeah i don't get why we have to keep saying we're not gold diggers they're going to call us that no matter what i embrace it who cares lol men are the original gold diggers they invented marriage to keep their gold in the family literally.. we just learned the game and play it better than them because its about attempting to control us (the most powerful creatures on earth) to begin with. of course women want the best possible mate for their offspring idiots -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:00 PM |
| 73 | I/we need your helpholy fuck that's disturbing. i think in general the best thing women can do is have a marriage/sex/attention etc. strike im not sure about the financial stuff as the laws in china are probably really different... women have made waves against pornhub tho maybe something to look at as a case study of how they did it. upvoting for visibility i hope you get some good suggestions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:57 PM |
| 154 | Why do men complain about marriage, when marriage for women is...yep. it's really not worth it at all so if you are going to do it make sure to be hypergamous as fuck so at least at the end of the day you can cry with your fat bank account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:52 PM |
| 74 | What to gift my HVM on valentine’s?valentine's day is a holiday for women don't give him shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 5 | Coming out as a former Cool Girlfor sure, i feel like that is at the core of why fds exists, so future generations of women will be better off including our children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:39 PM |
| 3 | Coming out as a former Cool Girlthat's terrible, so sorry you had to deal with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Thank you for saving me!I'm so sorry. Good. Be angry. Let it fuel you. Women's anger is demonized in society because men are scared of it, means we won't put up with their bullshit and they project thinking we'll be violent because that's what they do. So glad you escaped! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:18 PM |
| 5 | A thank you note for my FDS sistersAmazing! Proud of you sis. We are so resilient as women. Keep being your awesome self <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 13 | Lighting the fuck outta some incense as we speak ✨🔮 💁♀️lmaooo @ begone scrote 😂 think some of us need a firehose full of holy water for all the bullshit we've had to deal with! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:19 AM |
| 33 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!cry me a fucking river scrotes. do they not realize they're the biggest hypocrites on the planet? most shallow creatures on earth. get rekt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:15 AM |
| 39 | "FDS needs to be shut down because they are body-shaming men!" lmao OKAY LIL' BITCH, welcome to our world!there are very few spaces where women can be honest about their preferences. men have the rest of the world to spout their bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:14 AM |
| 15 | Lighting the fuck outta some incense as we speak ✨🔮 💁♀️it's a meditative practice too (candle gazing)! i've been getting into it more lately myself. watching the flame is very relaxing especially in the bath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*true dat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 03:44 AM |
| 50 | Lighting the fuck outta some incense as we speak ✨🔮 💁♀️don't you love it when you can start doing all the things they didn't like once you're free?! enjoy that cinnamon friend! doing some nice relaxing lavender myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 02:48 AM |
| 9 | What is a HVM?yeah me neither, it's definitely something that i was critical of at first and seemed really archaic but i have a more nuanced opinion of it now after learning more about it. obviously depends on the context and other factors too. there's a difference between an arranged marriage where the woman has agency vs literally being forced to marry someone they don't want to. so true re: divorce! people want the wedding not the marriage. i could've gotten married twice and sometimes i regret it mostly f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:55 PM |
| 10 | What is a HVM?yes. and anyone can be hypergamous even if you're rich it just means marrying up. lots of women do who already have their own money/business etc. and just want more. hypogamy never works imo better off unmarried than pay alimony to a man.. plus it messes up the dynamic of a relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:46 PM |
| 44 | What is a HVM?that's sweet. i think there is something to be said about being able to grow in love. seems like western marriages it's the opposite and usually based on lust/honeymoon phase and goes the opposite direction instead of building something together. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 10 | What is a HVM?in hypergamous circles hvm literally is just talking about finances that's why there is such a disconnect there are two different definitions. when i'm on fds i know people mean the whole package elsewhere i know they're just talking about money. i think that's why people including scrotes are confused they think it's all the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*i get what you mean, i mentioned in another thread i wanted a boob job in the past. my ex before this last one offered to pay for it i turned him down. i wanted it to be my decision and not have him influence the type i get size etc. even if he didn't say it directly i would have felt like he had some type of influence. but i would still partly be doing it for societal reasons, but because it benefits me if that makes sense. but if i genuinely didn't want to do it i wouldn't as like i said i tur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 6 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*yeah i wanted a boob job for a while and i like that fake look of high profile implants if i wanted to do it i'm not going to care if someone can tell it's fake lol i'm doing it for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 6 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*agreed i think there is going to be major pushback in the coming years and we will go back to being more natural/have it as a novelty i think people are sick of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:29 PM |
| 16 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*exactly goes for both genders just stop giving women shit when scrotes are out here doing the same thing! but lying about it even more bc you know they'll never admit it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 6 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*the other pictures were better tbh this guy was the cutest out of the bunch. sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 12 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*lmaoo i commented the other day about not dating/sleeping with anyone anymore except if i feel like having some hot chad dick and i felt the incel inside of me 😂 mostly use that phrase to piss off lurking scrotes tbh it's fun :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 10 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*i agree that it makes him look older, maybe that is what he was going for. men don't have the same pressures to stay young. that is ridiculous what your nvm ex did jesus smh they're so dumb he's projecting because he's a fucking freak/pervert thinking those things about other people and i've seen that so much with the breast reduction stuff makes me rage. scrotes give zero fucks they just need their little pee pees to get hard. i think that the best thing for women to do is get whatever surgerie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:25 PM |
| 5 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*yeah i thought he looked cute/younger before it just aged him imo maybe that's what he's going for but.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:21 PM |
| 10 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*interesting, makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:20 PM |
| 27 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*for sure. social media is cancer tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 10:20 PM |
| 35 | Men give women shit for any kind of plastic surgery/improving their appearance meanwhile they're out here giving themselves entire jawlines lol. Do what you want with your body *for you*there were a bunch of others too but this is the only one i saw where the eyes were blurred and i was too lazy to do it to the others but they were just as dramatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 07:30 PM |
| 1 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 12:29 AM |
| 14 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂i think it's hilarious that we got into the wallstreetjournal first praising us then q anon bahahaha but of course it's the 'liberal main stream media' pushing their agenda! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:34 AM |
| 23 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂make a separate account for fds and turn off pm's much more peaceful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:30 AM |
| 41 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂well like they say, leftists want women to be public property while right wingers want us to be private property | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:26 AM |
| 49 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂rejecting them and not giving them free sex/energy/emotional labor is retaliation enough. it literally makes them violent. so disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:24 AM |
| 25 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂huh what. they're literally proud to call themselves apes or gorillas or whatever the emoji is on wsb all day -_- glad you fought the ban! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:22 AM |
| 21 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂thank you, not my phrase originally tho! credit where credit is due - https://i.redd.it/sxtdbrnlebv51.jpg translation: "Menstruation is the only blood that is not born from violence, yet it's the one that disgusts you the most." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:14 AM |
| 44 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂men: give lvm a cHaNcE also men: cHoOsE bEtTeR | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 02:07 AM |
| 11 | Online Dating Field Report: TLDR; no, don’t botheryeah i never got the whole 'it saves you time!' thing it most certainly doesn't it's the biggest waste of time. you can size someone up much easier irl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:49 PM |
| 18 | Online Dating Field Report: TLDR; no, don’t botherold is seriously soul crushing. idk how anyone does it. people are saying it's the only way in a pandemic and maybe that's true but if that's the case i don't think i can do it (never mind the fact that i'm not sure if i want to date at all anymore but i've thought about it). i think it's a good built in break at least until i figure myself out that's how i see it, although i feel anxious waiting i don't want to miss out but i think i need to have more patience and get over my breakup even if i … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:46 PM |
| 107 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂girlll you gold digger!!! 4 for 4?! and here i am just trying to get a mcchicken for my dried up post wall snatch 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:43 PM |
| 303 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂i never got the incel bullshit. it literally stands for involuntarily celibate. even if a woman here chooses not to date anymore it's because she doesn't want to not because of a lack of options we can all get boyfriends/husbands if we wanted its just not worth it for a lot of people but they can't understand that concept because their dicks run their lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 76 | Laughing so hard right now at all the ridiculous conspiracy theories being spread about FDS 😂whattt that was a wild read lol. i had no idea there was so much going on in the background. another reason to adore our fabulous mods. that's the thing they don't realize - we are women first before we are any color, creed, or political affiliation. our experiences are universal because we share something universal as women. they love to divide us. ridiculous how telling women not to have kids with losers is 'eugenics' also interesting that they talk about the whole drinking blood of babies thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 11:38 PM |
| 2 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreno we didn't get married he wanted to in the beginning i turned him down thinking it was too soon now i wish i did because i'd have more to show for the relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:02 PM |
| 1 | I don't think I want to get married anymorenot sure what you mean.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 03:49 PM |
| 6 | And there it ishttps://www.amazon.com/All-Single-Ladies-Unmarried-Independent/dp/1476716579/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:51 PM |
| 11 | No wife experience for girlfriend pricesright?! need a tutorial asap | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:26 PM |
| 47 | Analysis | Britney Spears and the trauma of being young, female and famous in the ’90slooking back now i see how fucked up everything was that i didn't realize at the time. makes me wonder what we are going to see today and think the same thing in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 15 | And there it isi'm reading this book right now was actually going to do a fds style book review post when i'm done. it's pretty good and mostly follows fds principles but the author does glorify some pickme libfem casual sex type stuff but overall its a great read with lots of statistically backed figures. also thought it was weird she is married herself preaching about single ladies but w/e lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:20 PM |
| 3 | My flair got upgraded 😎welcome! yes once you find fds you never want to go to the other dating subs again lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 06:17 PM |
| 7 | The End of Menjust realized i can't link threads here directly but its on nottheonion here is the article: https://americanindependent.com/new-texas-law-fetused-lawyer-minors-abortion-rights/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:55 AM |
| 16 | The End of Menexactly, they know it's bullshit but whole point is so they can waste time arguing in court until the clock runs out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:53 AM |
| 25 | The End of Meni just saw a thing today on the front page about how texas is trying to pass or did pass a law requiring a fetus to have a lawyer -_- but it's really so they can tie up a woman's time until the 20 weeks pass so she can't get an abortion. makes me sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:28 AM |
| 2 | My flair got upgraded 😎hey girl heyyyy 😎😎😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Relationship Accountability Spectrum by Esther Perel.why did this get removed? it was a good post. i think people are taking the criticism of ghosting wrong because if you're with a narc yes ghost but that isn't what they're talking about here. i thought it was more about men breaking up with us than vice versa. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:16 AM |
| 66 | I was lurking on a subreddit and found this "HVM" lmaolol @ six figures 😂 also this might work except for the fact that men love showing off at every chance they get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:12 AM |
| 2 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.interesting i didn't know too much about this.. like a little talking about how ww are 'whores' and 'sluts' because we are sexually liberated or w/e but not quite the paradigm you are using. good to know. and explains some of my past relationships tbh -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 17 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.feminism isn't trash liberal feminism is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:41 PM |
| 9 | I fucked up againbeen there. you're not alone. don't beat yourself up. you are feeling this pain now to learn the lesson so you won't want to do it in the future because you know it will hurt you. so feel it and move through it so you never have to experience this again. it'll be ok sis. keep taking good care of yourself and try to have some fun in the midst of grief in fact you need to have fun or else the feelings are too overwhelming. sounds cheesy but if you want physical affection you can literally sooth yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:53 PM |
| 59 | I can't believe you women expect, nay, DEMAND to be treated with respect> How is it that this mentality for women isn't the majority? because it doesn't benefit men patriarchy in action we are constantly brainwashed and gaslit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Good Men Fridayagreed, i feel like that is part of the process a lot of us go through we first focus more on the men then on ourselves. i really dont give a fuck about 'good men' because if they were actually 'good' they would be defending and protecting other women from terrible men and putting them in their place. instead all the stories are about how they are good to the women in their lives like that's the bare minimum and they should be praised for it? nah. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 29 | I'm so glad for this sub.praise be you found us! and now that you're leveling up eventually you can pass along the wisdom to the next woman who needs a little guidance just like a fds sister did <3 i'm going through a breakup now and have always been bicurious myself so may be exploring that when i'm ready to date again. would be interested to hear more fds type perspectives from wlw. best of luck in your healing journey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:49 PM |
| 5 | I don't think I want to get married anymorethey have to convince us that it's what we want because marriage benefits men, the wedding is for the woman so that is glorified. honestly i think a lot of the desire would disappear if we realized we can throw our own lavish dress up parties and solo honeymoons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 54 | Yo, I think we should stop thinking speaking, breathing and having sex.hvw sex strike, there will always be pickmes giving it away for free. honestly i feel like many of us are already doing this in fds whether intentionally or not and they're still pining after us and mad even when they do have all this easy access to other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 6 | I don't think I want to get married anymoremen always want to get married quickly after divorce/death and women it's the opposite lol if that doesn't tell you something i don't know what will! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 06:20 PM |
| 53 | Yo, I think we should stop thinking speaking, breathing and having sex.we definitely need to have a sex strike. it's the most powerful tool we have. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lysistrata | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:18 PM |
| 27 | Woman asks for the nicest way to approach asking her husband to stop leaving poop crumbs in their bedop should post her question on edit: a certain mom subreddit* that's where all the poop crumb experts are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:49 AM |
| 236 | People defending Armie Hammer as a kinkmy kink is helping women realize their worth and stop giving scrotes free sex, mommy, and maid privileges. men see this as violent abuse however. but armie hammer is just getting his dick wet so why you gotta be a cock blocker??? /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:44 AM |
| 12 | I don't think I want to get married anymorei really think dating only and not having serious relationships is the key. best of both worlds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:34 AM |
| 12 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreit's hard to undo the brainwashing, we're told from the time we're born (disney movies anyone...) that we will only be happy with a prince charming that that is the happily ever after every girl always dreams of. it's not an easy thing to change as the entirety of the human race relies on woman choosing against their own best interests procreating with scrotes that's why they have to manufacture our consent constantly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:32 AM |
| 16 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreliterally every serious relationship i've ever had lol - i've had 3 all spanning multiple years (another big mistake). after the previous one i was so traumatized i knew if i ever got cheated on again that would be it. and it happened again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:30 AM |
| 6 | I don't think I want to get married anymorethank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 05:27 AM |
| 9 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreexactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:07 AM |
| 26 | I don't think I want to get married anymorenot rude, you're right. my ex was latino and it's more of thing in their culture but i think it's actually a form of manipulation and fantasy for them. he was also kind of a little bitch. meh. i know most aren't romantic themselves but do it for us - still i like being romanced but the other poster was right about me doing those things for myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:37 AM |
| 9 | I don't think I want to get married anymoresounds like you have a good proactive approach. for me the premise of vetting a man forever sounds so tiring. i want to be able to relax and be comfortable and secure in a relationship and not have to worry about stuff like that or else what's the point vs just dating (my opinion). but that is also a lot of emotional labor for me and maybe it isn't as much of a burden for other people seems like it may come more naturally for you based off the way your post is written i.e. having a more no non-s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:32 AM |
| 8 | I don't think I want to get married anymorethank you for the kind words very appreciated. i think it's because i know that this is the truth about men but i don't want it to be. i like being in love. i'm straight and enjoy sex. i just can't deal with the hurt anymore. i'll be single and casually date but no boyfriends and no sex (bonding chemicals). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:23 AM |
| 9 | I don't think I want to get married anymore:( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 12:45 AM |
| 5 | I don't think I want to get married anymorewow you really dodged a bullet! i've noticed the same they say they don't want x and end up doing the exact opposite maybe it's projection or something idk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 12:44 AM |
| 21 | I don't think I want to get married anymorethanks. its just so tough, i think a lot of it from the brainwashing that it's something we need and our life will be incomplete without it. cultural conditioning is so pervasive. so true re: children... my worst nightmare is having to sit in court with an ex fighting over kids while he struts around with a new woman in front of me it's something i could see my ex totally doing and it would break me i couldn't handle it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:58 PM |
| 27 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreonce i understood the truth of biology and what it actually means and the differences between men and women and how incompatible and irreconcilable they are that was the black pill | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:46 PM |
| 24 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreI'm not talking about being polyamorous, just dating multiple people without commitment, no sex (understand why the chad comment sounds confusing I just mean if I ever do want to have sex it wouldn't be with those I'm dating). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:44 PM |
| 17 | I don't think I want to get married anymorevery true thanks <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:32 PM |
| 24 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreif or when i date again i will never be monogamous to anyone ever just a constant scrotation for my own entertainment or if i want some hot chad dick lol. i had already decided on this before my breakup but am more convinced now than ever that it's the way to go. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:30 PM |
| 37 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreyeah.. my ex gave me a lot of money and i didn't work for a few years but i didn't play it right. i had already determined i'd only marry for money but that doesn't seem to be worth it anymore. i'd pay to take away the emotional pain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 10 | I don't think I want to get married anymoresorry to hear that friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 13 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreyep :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 50 | I don't think I want to get married anymorethanks :) i've spent a lot of time alone and learning to enjoy my own company which has been great, but there is still a separate part of me that needs to get over the romantic stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:39 PM |
| 14 | I don't think I want to get married anymorei hear you for sure the main if not only use/benefit of men is as a protection racket from other men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:38 PM |
| 89 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreexactly. at what point is it not self harm? if we have the same thing happen over and over again and everything points to this being the truth and still do it... that would be insanity in any other context but when it comes to relationships were just supposed to put ourselves up on a silver platter? nah. > Even the ones who seem to be HV are probably cheating. this is true and i wish it wasn't so bad you have no idea. men are only as faithful as their options. yeah i'm hoping that i will b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:36 PM |
| 129 | I don't think I want to get married anymoreyeah, and even when people say they know good men like their father/brothers etc. i feel like that isn't the full truth because you only know one side of them - you don't know what they've done or what they're like in an intimate relationship even if you've seen it because there is always private stuff we will never know. (not saying your dad specifically is a bad guy or anything just making a point - i was watching a video yesterday where the woman was saying how much she loved men talking abou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:31 PM |
| 29 | I don't think I want to get married anymorethank you, yeah just feeling extra sad today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 148 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.everyday i am so thankful i never had kids with my exes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:18 PM |
| 18 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.literally cheating and they all do it and don't view it that way it's so fucking gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 12 | The REAL reason men are on dating sites often isn't to find a date.what they do is literally sit jerking off talking to 'real' women while watching porn so it's the combo of it being real validation while they get off elsewhere then you've served your purpose rinse and repeat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 26 | Am I the only one who doesn't like to block?Sigh. I feel like whenever threads like this come up (or the ones where people talk back to scrotes with slappy comebacks etc) there are always a bunch of people who come in and say that we should be unbothered and not care etc. but it's normal! And human! Especially as women coming into their own power personally I think it's a phase we all go through where we like to see them squirm and get revenge it's a way of expressing anger and rage and claiming back our power and that's ok! If you were s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:07 PM |
| 1 | I don’t even have anything to say but I am disgustedFYI this is very common in the porn biz. Lots of 'guys with camera' who wanted to do 'pov' style. Guess who the actor is?! 🤡 So you can hire a girl to fuck you on camera but women can't do it themselves (not that they should but you get what I mean) patriarchy in action. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 32 | The misogynistic undertones of "you're not a REAL feminist"This was definitely true for me (ww in a first world country). I was incredibly naive and didn't understand the nuances of intersectionality classism etc. Hence falling into the whole glorifying sw as empowering etc. because if it is for anyone it's the privileged even tho it's still bullshit just slightly less bullshit. Frankly most of what I learned about what REAL feminism is came from black women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Example: Saying the Stanford Prison Experiment reflects human nature when not only were the subjects all male, the only woman mentioned in the experiment (the scientists wife) is the one who put a stop to it.didn't know this... explains a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:13 PM |
| 6 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.lmaooo this is awesome. also good job landlord looking out for ya! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Conservative women call submission to men a sign of strength & character, Liberal women call submission to men liberation and empowerment. Conservative men will abuse their wives and call it their right as a husband, Liberal men will abuse their wives and call it a kink.based af | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 9 | Just saw a post about a young lady wanting to change her negative mentality on men. I believe since it's men who cause this they are the ones who should change it. I did not go out of my way to see them as predators, they did it to themselves. They can undo it.the reason humans have a negativity bias is that it keeps us safe - assuming the worst and nothing happens is better than the inverse and getting hurt/killed. now in our modern society our lizard brain can use this against us where its not necessary but when it comes to men we need it even more bc it's literally brainwashed into us to give them the benefit of the doubt puke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Is this just an American thing?i agree with others that it's global but i think you have a point in that there is a certain overromanticised version that is connected to america via the media brainwashing that kind of permeates through the whole culture in a different way than other places | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:06 PM |
| 34 | Flex your support system while datingugh! :((( so fucking twisted. and also i honestly wouldn't even tell them about bad relationships or treatment from men either - every single one was lovely and treated you like a queen they literally get the idea that if you were treated that way at all whatsoever before they can do that to you too even if you were the actual victim. sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:53 AM |
| 67 | Flex your support system while datingdef most important to set the tone/foundation imo is never tell men about your trauma ever!!! it sets you up to be viewed like a victim unfortunately it's not dishonoring your trauma to keep it private it's self protection. also i listen to a podcast where the host refers to himself as a 'peak performance coach' i think that's what i would do/use! maybe even for real ha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 01:41 AM |
| 8 | Against my intuition and at the advice of the community, I tried Bumble BFF to make friends. My results.and it deleted my third fucking post going to message the mods about this you can't even link to sister subs wtf. anyway check out the top sticked post in my history its about making friends with science backed info - long story short friends take a while to form and it usually takes consistently and many hours over a period of time 50 i think it is from the study | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 05:16 AM |
| 10 | Vasopressin Receptors and Male Bondingwe're doomed lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 07:03 PM |
| 9 | Why do men ALWAYS settle down with the next girl after me?ouch. but a hard truth i needed to hear today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Lies I've been telling myself, and how this sub is helping me realize my self worthi relate a lot to what you wrote. you are not alone! glad you have found us here. and you made the right move have a separate account for fds not just for stalker exes but lurking scrotes. welcome! we are in this journey together <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:50 PM |
| 14 | I’m 39 and for the first time in my life I broke up with someone that I have strong feelings for because they weren’t treating me the way I deserve to be treated.the premise of the movie swingers.. its so true! highly recommend to anyone looking for a good breakup flick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:07 PM |
| 12 | I’m 39 and for the first time in my life I broke up with someone that I have strong feelings for because they weren’t treating me the way I deserve to be treated.i'm sorry. even tho it was the right thing to do doesn't mean you still can't be sad. i really think the best strategy for women is to never be monogamous ever and always have a scrotation (yes... no matter what don't come at me morality police it's what they do) it protects your heart and keeps you happy. not talking about sex either just always dating multiple people. wishing you the best and keep leveling up <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 81 | There's an all-women African village. They wanted to escape abusive husbands, old pedophiles, genital mutilation, and so on. Now, many living there don't even want a husband at all anymore, and work together in their village. It's a facscinating short documentary well worth the watch.i saw this a while back and it was great. heartbreaking stories. we shouldn't have to be abused to want to live in community with other women either it should be normalized. i also love the one of the village ruled by women (edit:typo) and they just invite them over to fuck when they want it or bring them food then basically tell them to piss off and don't take them seriously while all the crone elders are making the big decisions lol it was awesome think it's been posted here before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:39 PM |
| 2 | Ex bf's brother told me to date tall guys lolalready got a mail order bride so yeah definitely has issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | A nuclear family structure doesn't benefit modern womeni think the actual term for it is cohousing or co-housing. it's definitely an option! these people bought their house and it is in the deed the whole community agreement etc so different than a commune i believe you can look up this term either on craigslist or whatnot or with a real estate agent if you're interested! the people i talked to that lived there loved it nice lesbian couple but there were all sorts in the community young old gay straight but i think sometimes they have certain themes… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:01 PM |
| 2 | So many young girls develop eating disorders due to sexual harassment from young boys. Little boys are not innocent.you're right i just hate it sooo much i love dressing feminine too but can't do that either sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:53 PM |
| 6 | So many young girls develop eating disorders due to sexual harassment from young boys. Little boys are not innocent.personally i don't really think so although i get your point for others. i only get catcalled for having a big butt. when i'm wearing a long jacket i don't get cat called at all. the only other time i do is when i'm blonde. i've experimented with my look a lot to see what people react to and honestly adjust and live my whole life to avoid it. it's terrible. obviously everyone is different just my experience i love to eat so i would rather not have to lose the weight. maybe i'm just not as attrac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:18 PM |
| 20 | Dating in NYC is just 1 huge game of "choose your LVM"never offer to split the bill idk why people do this. i don't say shit i don't mean and men are confused these days and think that it's what you really want. nah | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:14 AM |
| 36 | If women are naturally golddigging, hypergamous, shallow wh+res like the scrotes say...how come we can't just blame mUh BioLogY like men do?i do use this argument. cheap men make my pussy dry up. it's biology scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:12 AM |
| 44 | We'll make our own rules now, thankslike how they condition us to be mongamous before marriage with zero benefit while they're fucking everything that moves and even if they're not still have a million rain checks and always keep their options open no matter if single or married? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:11 AM |
| 62 | A nuclear family structure doesn't benefit modern womeneven reading this post enraged me thinking about all that stuff because it's so true. i wonder often what the biggest fuck you i can give to society is. i think it's not having kids. i've literally had people tell me to my face i have to in order to 'carry on the white race' like i didn't think that was actually real lol (this was a few years ago now i see way more of that) if i did really want kids i think i'd use a sperm donor never going to be monogamous again. maybe sexually monogamous but i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:30 AM |
| 19 | A nuclear family structure doesn't benefit modern womenin my area there are a lot of community housing situations that are similar to this i went to one for a party and they had a huge kitchen and did community meals once a week taking turns and a large game room type thing etc. but they each had their own townhouse with it's own amenities like a regular house. this is in the united states albeit a very progressive area. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:27 AM |
| 16 | Internet pushing me to do porn?!its nothing new just the medium has changed, sw has been glamorized in the media since forever. now they're realizing people don't care about msm as much and the internet is where it's at, along with the affiliate program as another poster mentioned they literally have a financial incentive to pimp out fellow women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:22 AM |
| 46 | So many young girls develop eating disorders due to sexual harassment from young boys. Little boys are not innocent.it doesn't end either. i'm trying to lose weight now because i'm sick of being cat called for having a big butt. i'm not even overweight. (5'5" 135lbs) now my goal is to be the lowest weight that is healthy for my height so my butt will be unnoticeable (115 lbs) i got made fun of constantly, now these girls are getting surgery to get the body that i wish i didn't have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:29 AM |
| 70 | Poor Gent’s Mean Ol’ Wife Won’t Make Love to Him :( Ah, but Wait! His Post History Implies Mr. Sexless May Not be So Sexless After All 😱 Who Would’ve Thought?!?!reading shit like this makes me never want to get married or have kids. imagine working 24/7 around the clock raising this man's children and he complains you're cold and frigid never having had to 'work in a day in your life' and wanting to cash out with a redhead. fucking puke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:42 AM |
| 4 | The Transcendent Nature of Womenits really gross and disturbing they literally think they're going to breed their own offspring into some weird sex slave robot makes me want to fucking puke. we need to stop them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:11 PM |
| 57 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.yep. and unlike men we'd rather be alone than with a lvm while they settle until they get their dream girl in the meantime using women for sex, domestic chores, and emotional labor. no more. be prepared to be lonely :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 09:05 PM |
| 70 | Shouldn't this be obvious? Literally what women are expected to do everyday + more. Considering the amount of upvotes/comments however the bar is in hell.they really really do. i can't begin to count the number of posts i've seen where a guy says they're doing this stuff and why aren't women throwing themselves at them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 06:02 AM |
| 2 | Why Are Some Men Obsessed With Barely Legal Girls?they like the idea of breaking a naive/innocent person | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 05:11 AM |
| 5 | Are there even any HVM from my erahvm is an oxymoron | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 12:10 AM |
| 5 | Men say that we are the hysterical, needy ones...men: we're so lOgIcAl also men: no one wants to touch my pee pee so therefore you deserve to die | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 3 | Damn. Please leave him!!!cOmMuNiCaTiOn right ladies?! she just needs to try harder and stop being such a frigid bitch! doesn't she know that's just fAnTaSy?!? /s it's so unbelievable how we can know in our heart and intuitively what we need to do (she knows this is killing her soul and needs to leave like.. yesterday) but the social conditioning to be rIdE oR dIe makes us rot from the inside out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:56 PM |
| 5 | Why a man taking drugs is an immediate disqualifier (yes, even cannabis)i think partly this is because for so long weed was demonized and literally classified as being in the same class as heroin so when people realize that it's bullshit they go to the other extreme and think it's harmless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 11:48 PM |
| 3 | Is pickmeism actually an unhealed inner child?i think it's both - collective programming reinforced in childhood. however i think sometimes the idea of the wounded inner child puts the blame back on the person themselves when i think part of getting over the programming is rejecting it in its entirety although i understand the sentiment of reparenting i just think that after a while it can just be stuck in a victim loop - and this is coming from someone who did tonsss of therapy on this topic as well as aca meetings where the inner child is… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 08:16 PM |
| 17 | *NSFW* There’s a trend going on in the gaming subreddit about old gaming ads that were sexist/extremely misogynistic. More proof that the media has been teaching boys from a young age that’s it’s okay to view women as objects/servantsi thought this was just going to be the vibrator one i saw... its so much worse jesus fucking christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:55 PM |
| 7 | I swear, why are male “feminists” always so terrible? 🚩 Married scrote with woke tags ON HIS TINDER PROFILE is still, painfully, a low class scrote. Remember, this guy always swipes right, because you’re worth it! 🤮pickme trap with plausible deniability -_- it can even 'help' his wife protect her ego/stay in denial if she's that type which face it most likely is because they target women like that sigh :-/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | How to spot a cheating mansure :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 1 | Someone here recommended drawing your ex and the reasons you left....I ran out of space.you can turn your pms off if you want it makes reddit so much more peaceful! who cares what bitter lvms say they're triggered only bc they recognize these traits in themselves. you're channeling your anger in a healthy productive way instead of lashing out in violence like men do all too often they could learn a thing or two! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Just Divorced!Amazing!! You have a whole new life ahead of you!!! Proud of you sis <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 26 | Is it just me or is there a mild conspiracy to make women lower their standards of physical attractiveness?i mean it's not a mild conspiracy it's literally what patriarchy is most of our ancestors are women - aka this means a smaller amount of men impregnated multiple of the women. the powers that be could always have their pick but after a while they realized that when the men below them in the patriarchal structure don't get access to women they 'storm the castle' - so they added this system where men are able to access women via capitalism, marriage/legal structures etc and porn part of which incl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 01:57 AM |
| 2 | FDS Art Therapy - I drew my ex from a 5 year situationshiplmaooo this image is healing me 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:38 PM |
| 19 | In this society, we are all pickmes by default, we have to unlearn it, and this work is hard. FDS is life outside the caveso fucking true! we've internalized it so deeply but i think many of us felt from a deep intuitive place that something was wrong - hence seeking out forums like fds knowing that something wasn't right even if we couldn't exact place it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 8 | Where does the idea that women will end up cat ladies and pass alone come from?this has been my experience as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:32 PM |
| 16 | Where does the idea that women will end up cat ladies and pass alone come from?it's a reimagined archetype of the witch - another figure of the feminine that has been demonized throughout history. archetypes always have a polarity/duality to them, the witch archetype is one of empowerment (hence it being so smacked down/suffocated by the church etc.) the shadow side of this archetype has been twisted into scaring women into settling vs being alone willfully as a positive thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Love makes you look weak to men.i think we watch the same youtube channels lol i enjoy reading this commenter she's had some great posts. and it's so true. men don't understand how women can love a man but not necessarily respect him because for us it's about feelings. men do not love in the same way their love is respect they don't actually love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 12 | The reason why lvm find FDS so threatening is being denied access to your womb, finances, emotional labor or mere presence is enough to make them go off — they’re projecting.😄 💖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:07 PM |
| 13 | How to spot a cheating manDefinitely sounds like a red flag to me, glad he's your ex & happy cakeday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 05:12 AM |
| 29 | How to spot a cheating manyes! there is a youtuber i love to watch who is both a therapist and a lawyer and she talks about how a lot of lawyers don't understand personality disorders and how to handle them when it comes to fighting cases esp in divorce and custody issues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 06:19 PM |
| 5 | Men always say "we are abused too" bullshit, they are never as abused as much as women are.it really is, i got emotional writing it out honestly. it's something that's been on my mind lately. i feel like i need to take the opportunities given to me and progress in a way my female ancestors only could have dreamed of - like i owe it to them. i'm sorry you had a similar set of modelling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:30 AM |
| 124 | How to spot a cheating manI was also raised very patriarchal, and was told since birth that certain things were only achievable via a man, even if I was deeply ambitious when young. Also former swer, I relate to this a lot and it's not just exclusive to sw but I think that is how a lot of us end up in it because we want to be ambitious and achieve and see the patriarchal programming and it seems like the best way to maximize and work that ambition in it's own fucked up way Also wanted to add some additional points from m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Men always say "we are abused too" bullshit, they are never as abused as much as women are.me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 12 | Men always say "we are abused too" bullshit, they are never as abused as much as women are.when my mom met my dad she was traveling the world, and had just booked a trip to africa. he made her cancel it. she still has the nice camera she bought for the trip. besides a trip to the mexican border she hasn't been out of the country since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 09:26 PM |
| 25 | Men love spending money on women they loveit's so true. they will literally spend their last dollar on you, give the shirt off their back, even get money from *other women* to spend more on you if they want you. not saying it's right but it is what it is. a man who doesn't spend money on you doesn't care about you full stop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 31 | "All the Time I Wasted Trying to Please Indifferent Men": Former Bloomberg journalist leaves husband for Pharma Bro Martin Shkreli - who then dumped her through his lawyersthe whole story of 'broken man healed by woman who falls in love because she healed him' is literally brainwashed into us from birth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | Apparently besides being their mother, women are also therapists and rehabilitation centers.i hate this and the whole 'empath' bullshit - recommend this podcast episode for a deeper dive https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ugOy_asXwk0 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 4 | Hey gurl. I’m an intersectional feminist. I’m also a shaman. 🚨🚨🚨Teal Swan is a narc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:46 PM |
| 10 | Hey gurl. I’m an intersectional feminist. I’m also a shaman. 🚨🚨🚨Also know as the spiritual fuckboy - one my friend was talking to tried to get her to buy him a plane ticket to visit and stay with her! He was some kind of travelling singer/guru. I finally convinced her absolutely fucking not. Literally paying someone to come and fuck you are you kidding me?! They use their spirituality as an excuse to not pay for shit and have 'free love' sex with whoever. Then shame you for not being 'spiritual enough' if you don't go along with their whims. Bleh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 18 | Yesterday morning I closed on a house. Yesterday evening I was dumped via text. This is not a coincidence.He's one of those "woke bros" you all have been warning me about and I have discovered the truth of how quickly their feminism evaporates when you challenge their preferred reality or how they want you to function in their lives. Another one bites the dust! Sorry you had to deal with that bullshit on such an exciting day. Highlighting this part for other strategists. Never trust a man who explicitly says he is a feminist unprompted and acts "woke". These dudes use their woke points to get into w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 06:50 PM |
| 31 | Let us remember to not only NOT be pick me’s but support other women!! Also any “friend” who does this ain’t a friend 💢 #cutthemoffand if they're talking shit about other people in front of you you can be sure as shit they're doing the same thing to you behind your back | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 11:52 PM |
| 7 | Once again, police ignore an abusive man and the woman who warned them, so he bombs a city. Society is constantly shooting itself (literally) in the foot by ignoring misogyny.The gf was so terrorized by this guy that they took HER in for a psych eval. This sentence alone just sums up so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:53 PM |
| 12 | Do men chase after women with specific occupations?maybe not 'dumb' persay but maybe less smart by default? like the presence of femininity negates much intelligence but she was smart 'enough' if that makes sense. like women who have enough brains to entertain them but not to challenge them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 03:21 AM |
| 22 | Do men chase after women with specific occupations?my friend was a teacher and had a lot of dudes fetishized her for that, and also projecting that they must be the kind motherly types etc. she was definitely not wholesome tho lol so it was pretty funny seeing all their little stereotypes go up in smoke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:30 AM |
| 16 | I’m so sick of relationship coaches who are women completely excusing male depravity.the longer i'm on fds and learning more about dissolving pickme behaviors the more i realize the truth of the saying that it is women who are the guardians of patriarchy - we were in a game that we didn't even realize we were playing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 02:22 AM |
| 46 | 🤮 this is the way he speaks about his wifethey love the idea of being able to 'sin' however the want because it's all ok since god forgives them in the end puke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 01:48 AM |
| 40 | 🤮 this is the way he speaks about his wifethis reminds me of when i was on a double date with my bf and the dude and his girl were engaged and he was talking about them getting married and joked about after their wedding night 'no pulling out' all smug and happy it was so gross to realize fully afterwards how inappropriate that was but the girl was a male identified pickme who was a coworker of my bf in a super misogynistic male dominated line of work so i should have known then -_- tbh i did feel great satisfaction after i realized how… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 12:09 AM |
| 5 | Real life Beth Harmon! Of course, there was misogyny in the comments, but she called them all out. I love seeing women doing what they love - Give her a follow if you canthat's because being attractive + smart makes their heads explode you have to fit in only one or the other or else they can't deal with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 10:20 PM |
| 28 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.And remember sis, denying pp is an act of violence towards men, you should at least be their free mother/maid/emotional tampon if you're not going to put his baby carrot in your mouth mmmkay gold digger?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 50 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.People conflate *feeling* angry with *actions* of violence because that's all we see from men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:14 PM |
| 71 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.I had no outlet for the anger, so it turned inward and consumed me. I feel like this is common in sooo many women it's said that depression is anger turned inwards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 41 | Being angry at men is not "counterproductive." It is an essential component of your level-up journey. Properly recognizing abuse and having an appropriate emotional reaction to abuse is essential to the healing process.In a sense, FDS is like group therapy. It is the only place where women are allowed to feel and express anger at men for the awful ways they treat us. From an outside perspective and taken out of context, FDS might appear to be too extreme in our anger towards men. When placed in the context of a misogynistic, abusive society, that anger is completely normal and justified. What I wish people would understand about FDS. They conflate literally expressing our frustration and anger on the internet … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 46 | Just broke up with an otherwise HVM due to porn use...they literally think they should get a cookie for not cheating it's so ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:19 PM |
| 13 | A Reminder for Allits never even presented as an option it's either get the unattainable prince of your dreams or you must settle for a lvm or die a lonely cat lady i felt the same way when it came to having children although i feel that is a lot more socially acceptable now you still have to be giving for their benefit in one way or another until you're no longer useful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 04:02 AM |
| 12 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)girllll it's so crazy too because even tho the details change culture to culture about what is expected (in my bf's culture it's about 'making his plate' lol) the underlying principal is always the same | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:19 PM |
| 13 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)oh thank god! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:15 PM |
| 22 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)that's the problem. no one even asked. it's indoctrinated from birth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 33 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)its so ingrained and brainwashed into us from birth they don't even have to ask we do it automatically. makes me fucking sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 06:07 PM |
| 19 | Let’s discuss why a HVM will choose to be with a HVW over the 100 million available pickmeishasthey don't have the type of relationships or men they want but there is always someone willing to take their emotional labor/energy/sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:59 PM |
| 3 | [Mildly Trending] /r/FemaleDatingStrategy - Female Dating Strategy (+668 subscribers today; 324% trend score)it's like that one thing about women join dating sites after mothers day or something like that because they realize how unappreciated they truly are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:54 PM |
| 11 | Women are constantly made to feel bad over their body count being pass 4 or 5 yet praise men for have 10+. It’s just complete hypocritical bullshitit's almost as if when you have had life experience and realize there is a huge amount of fish in the sea you don't need to settle with some limp dicked loser scrote the rest of your life whereas if you were a virgin you don't know any better eye roll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 6 | A pp after too many sexual partners 😔F | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:45 PM |
| 117 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)because they don't care, they would rather waste your time then potentially engage in conflict which could result in losing their (in this case very literal) bang MAID. she probably does a bunch of other shit for him too and thinks if he says anything about not needing x he will lose y and z | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:32 PM |
| 44 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)and notice how he NEVER EVEN ASKED HER TO DO THIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:21 PM |
| 46 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)also sorry just realize i got the award in the screenshot lol but the post is deleted now so will just have to deal whoops first paragraph that was covered up: "Pre-Covid, my boyfriend worked about an hour away from home. I always woke up at 5:30am so I could pack him fresh lunch before he left at 6:10am. I packed for him because he was having some rough time at work and I knew he didn't get along with a lot of the people there. I did this 6 times a week for a year and a half. Now, near covid, h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:19 PM |
| 134 | Stop 👏 doing 👏 shit 👏 and 👏 mothering 👏 grown 👏 ass 👏 men 👏 (ps - they don't appreciate it or care especially if they never asked in the first place, you're not a mindreader either)"Update: He did throw away his lunch (yes, the entire time) He did it because he had to fit in and he ate with the other workers (who ate the cafeteria food) and that's why he got to smooch his way to a promotion. He said that the office environment was pretty "cliquey" and he didn't want to ostracize himself by eating "special lunches" He didn't tell me because he thought at first it would be a short term thing, then he said he didn't want to put me down and sound ungrateful so he just kept pus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 33 | Do not coddle men!even if they actually want you to do these things at the same time they can also tell that you have no respect for your own time or emotional labor so they won't even respect you in the end if you do or appreciate it. men are MOTIVATED when you stop putting up with their shit - they outwardly want you to but secretly hope you don't so they can be inspired to be a better man so if you can't do it for yourself at first know it's better all around no matter what. (but of course it needs to be for y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 02:57 AM |
| 22 | Another tale from the vault: Before FDS, I used to have to persuade men to wear a condom by telling them I was pro-life. To really sell it, I would look them directly in the eye, smile gleefully, and tell them that if they ever got me pregnant, I would keep the baby.order the most expensive bottle/glass then don't touch it and never see them again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:28 PM |
| 24 | Why do men marry a woman they don't actually love, continue to have children with her, and cheat? Why not stop before the marriage? Why not divorce?this is the black pill we all need to jam into our heads until it sinks in. it's the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:25 PM |
| 19 | Why do men marry a woman they don't actually love, continue to have children with her, and cheat? Why not stop before the marriage? Why not divorce?they literally do not care. we need to stop projecting our empathy onto them because they benefit from that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 250 | Iggy Azaelea’s NVM picked videogames over being there for the birth of his child 🤡men: cHoOsE bEtTeR also men: why don't you ever give us lvm a cHaNcE gold digging whore! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:16 PM |
| 11 | What a beautiful Christmas post /ssays the most shallow creatures on earth who literally marry women to have an indentured prostitute ok scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:13 PM |
| 7 | I can’t tell you guys how many times this has happened to me lmaooooo!ea$iest strategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020yes definitely delete them! anything that is triggering you even if it's just being reminded of him being seeing his friends profiles by association is halting the grieving and moving on process it pulls it to the front of your mind again every time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:08 PM |
| 1 | I love cooking extravagant meals. This Xmas Eve, I cooked myself an amazing dinner. Prime rib, smoked Gouda mac and cheese, carrot salad, sous vide broccoli, and crispy duck fat potatoes...with a custard hand pie for dessert! Sipped homemade eggnog while cooking. Life is good, ladies!wow this looks sooo good and inspiring for me to do more of that for myself! so fancy :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 02:05 AM |
| 10 | Is it just me or a lot of men aren't capable of shutting up. I see so many instances where these people, must say everything that comes to their mind. Creepy thoughts that should stay in their minds.there was literally a study about this i think it might've been posted on fds at some point but men underestimate how much they talk and overestimate how much women do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 02:01 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020my ex and i had broken up years ago but were still in contact for financial reasons, i truly didn't feel like i was able to fully grieve and heal until we went COMPLETELY no contact just now i'm feeling over it and it's been maybe a year or so of that. i had already been in a relationship and fully in love with someone else and still wasn't over the pain he caused me (edit: and this also included still feeling in love with him - yes you can love two people at once). keep complete 100% no contact… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 01:51 AM |
| 40 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating Pickmesyeah they are never going to give you the full truth or have your best interest at heart. i think looking at some stuff can be interesting sometimes to get a male perspective but always take it with a grain of salt. they want things to be easier for men as a whole. if you ask a dog to train itself it will tell you if you just give it treats and belly rubs all day eventually it'll do what you want but we all know that's how human nature works and they do too but want to pretend to be so 'logical'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 36 | YouTube Dating Coaches creating Pickmesyeah i think people only take him seriously and give him authority bc of the accent honestly makes him sound smarter than he is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:55 AM |
| 8 | Remember Ladies: A man being attractive or rich doesn't then mean he is HV.i think this keeps coming up because there is a conflicting definition of what hvm means in general, in fds it is about the whole package having character etc. whereas other social media it's more of a descriptive trait for women who want to practice hypergamy. neither is wrong but we need to make this distinction especially in this sub i just assume they are talking about the former but in other spaces it's usually the latter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:11 PM |
| 17 | Being dickmatized doesn’t exist. A majority of women think sex with a toxic man is so great because what they’re experiencing is actually trauma bonding. Water tastes like heaven when you’ve been thirsty for days.it's also encouraged in women by men talking about 'crazy' women giving the best sex the hot/crazy index etc. etc. so much gaslighting it's unbelievable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:08 PM |
| 8 | No thank you🙂for real. you gotta pay the cost to be the boss as they say. and even then that still doesn't mean as a woman you're a doormat not only for your own sake of course but men like women who have their own brains and boundaries even in traditional gender roles. without a kingdom you're not a king dude like come on.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 11:06 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020men can definitely use their family to get to you, even if they aren't close. i wouldn't want any ties to my exes family they actually really liked me but i needed a clean break. blocked his brothers number. i'm not on social media but if i was i would remove them from that too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020good to know! i also don't like responding right away and take forever but i feel guilty even if it's someone new. need to get over it. i HATE all day texting back and forth. don't want to set that precedent with anyone else after having to deal with it with my current scrote it's annoying af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 07:29 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020It really is. I think it'd be fine to date a former addict if it came out later and it wasn't a big part of their life like they were obviously over that hump everyone has their baggage, but if they are still recovering even if it's been a long time (unfortunately 'recovery' can actually make people worse and engage in the relapse cycle even more - a topic for another thread) they are probably best to be avoided. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 06:31 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020go lurk /r/alanon then decide... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:17 AM |
| 20 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 20 2020anyone else have 'business hours' for texting/calling? what are yours? i feel like i don't want to respond to anything after 9pm. edit: and even tho i was just texting like pretty close up until then once it hits 9 i don't want to respond lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 10 | B I G FACTSthey literally view it as the ultimate form of making you submit against your will. so disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:37 AM |
| 3 | B I G FACTSand it's even beyond 20 years. it's literally being tied to them for the rest of your and your childs life it's not like that goes away after they become of age. sure there is less reason to be in contact but you're still tethered. it's way more permanent than marriage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:33 AM |
| 4 | Anyone else have this view on having children?somewhat related, i want to encourage women not to have children with losers to begin with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:31 AM |
| 1 | If you take nothing else from FDS, take thisright there with you sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:27 AM |
| 25 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.yeah... i can't even imagine living with someone without being married feels like being a free bangmaid i'm at least going to get the financial benefits of marriage i just don't see a way for it to be worth it for women myself personally i won't unless he's worth $$$ but even then its like living in a gilded cage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:24 AM |
| 14 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.seriously! which is the paradox of the whole thing. once you don't care they literally come out of the woodwork and bend to your will lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 7 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.i agree i'm also more extreme when it comes to wealth than fds (won't date men unless they're paying my bills) so if i did have kids he'd have to be worth at least 8 figures not worth it otherwise. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 42 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.when your entire self esteem and worth is based on male validation anything contrary to that is a threat to their very essence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:08 AM |
| 92 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.honestly after fds i'm not even sure if i want to get married it doesn't seem worth it. being alone and having my freedom with a scrotation sounds way better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:06 AM |
| 22 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.it's why i just don't even bother debating people like that although occasionally i get caught up in it. it's just not worth it. the internalized misogyny is too deep. they have to come to those conclusions on their own and the best thing to do is lead by example. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 40 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.to men wanting them to pay for dates makes you a sex worker lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:03 AM |
| 32 | Not all women agree with Female Dating Strategy, and that's okay. There are plenty of women alive today whose mothers and grandmothers were anti-suffragette, and nowadays we still get to enjoy the right to vote. Future women will benefit from FDS, whether you like it or not.there really is this collective case of stockholm syndrome among women that we need to overcome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 01:02 AM |
| 13 | A man taking responsibility, we love to see it!the fact that this is on the front page shows how low the bar is. this is the bare minimum. it shouldn't be celebrated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Patriarchy uses a bizarre combo of monogamy + sex positivity + equality to limit women's standards and potential.love it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:05 AM |
| 11 | Vacation expensesif i'm living with a man i'm not paying period but i know not everyone is that extreme. make sure you benefit because he sure as fuck benefits from living with you and if you split bills you're basically subsidizing him and it's just not something i can get behind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:55 AM |
| 16 | Christie Smythe is the ULTIMATE pickmeisha to top all pickmeishas!!! 💯💯💯🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️oh my word... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 8 | So this woman I follow blurs her mans face. I thought they were married... turns out they aren’t so now that changes my perception of why she feels the need to do this. She says she does this because “people are weird”. What are your thoughts?yeah she definitely looks like she's just cheesing it up for the camera. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:52 AM |
| 19 | So this woman I follow blurs her mans face. I thought they were married... turns out they aren’t so now that changes my perception of why she feels the need to do this. She says she does this because “people are weird”. What are your thoughts?i love your username haha. also at first i was just going to comment that i'm pretty sure he's her sugar daddy before reading he's just a pos because that's usually how they are lol gorgeous dressed up girl blurred out dude looking low effort even (or especially?!) with $$$ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:07 AM |
| 10 | So this woman I follow blurs her mans face. I thought they were married... turns out they aren’t so now that changes my perception of why she feels the need to do this. She says she does this because “people are weird”. What are your thoughts?i was about to say the same. i'm not on sm but have been debating getting back on and if i did i would do this for those reasons. obviously op has a different situation with this dude being a pos or whatever but it's actually a good strategy. saves drama and plus i honestly don't think they deserve to be on my time line lol i like having a private life as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:05 AM |
| 7 | She really predicted the future ...it's the definition of manufactured consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!you're welcome! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 27 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!ah. the best way i've found is to be super serious, look them straight in the eye with no fear or hesitation and strong body language and simply say 'no, i am not interested' and carry on walking/doing whatever you're doing etc. no nervous laughs, no sorrys - check out assertive communication skills for more in depth explanations and ideas but that is what i do and it works but the key is you need to have no hesitation and show no fear that is what they count on you being scared/intimidated. eas… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:50 PM |
| 34 | The teen boys at r/ memes want us to know FDS is THE WORST and should be sHuT DoWn. They cry out to god Reddit for help 😭🙏good thing my mission in life is to help teen all girls/women avoid the mistakes i've made and not give these scrotes shit they don't deserve. keep hatin boys! you fuel me :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:12 AM |
| 5 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsbest strategy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 17 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!if you're seriously asking - create a problem only their money can solve and get used to being a damsel in distress. don't ask them to pay your debt it needs to be more urgent car breaking down etc. you don't actually ask them you just come to them with the problem and see if they offer if they don't move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | The funniest comments below such examples of "sex-positive libfems" are how they're wife material. Yeah, I want to see how any guy, before whom a woman objectifies herself like that, marries her and treats her accordingly. No: truth is she'll get classified as situationship material.hope she gets picked!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 11:42 PM |
| 205 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!literally what i do. you'll be surprised how much they actually start trying to say how much they make etc. and that's when i tell them i need tax returns lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:31 PM |
| 16 | How sick does a whole state have to be to have a statute of limitations on child molestation??shocking /s. considering all the states in the us where child marriage is still LEGAL a whole lot of them are fucking sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:23 AM |
| 3 | Just NVM Things#romance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:21 AM |
| 11 | The Modern Man's Hatred of Womenyeah people don't understand what actual modern trafficking means these days as they just picture people on slave ships in shackles or something when the reality can be in plain sight and hard to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:54 AM |
| 7 | The Modern Man's Hatred of Womenwow i have a new favorite word lol and some research to do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 7 | The Modern Man's Hatred of Womenthat happened to me actually. was told it would only be available in japan. didn't go through with it but most likely if i had that would have been the case as well for me. sigh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:00 AM |
| 4 | Using the Principles of War in Datingi love your username! ha and this is a great post i will have to reread it. women need to be more on the offensive instead of the defensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 28 | Using the Principles of War in Datingit's a straight up fucking black pill!!!! i would rather die alone with a million cats than deal with the pathetic scrotes those women gave their wombs to -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:42 PM |
| 18 | Using the Principles of War in Datingthat sub is the best birth control ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020no but i recommend this video which includes a horrifying tale of a gay man after years of anal sex: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=98Ob-CnYzqA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:14 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020sounds like a little /r/limerence with this dude tbh.. we often can use fantasizing as an escape mechanism to avoid focusing on our own lives, and especially since you've been partnered for so long those grooves are probably really deep! maybe reading that sub will help break the fantasy a bit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Queens, I need some major encouragement tonight. I broke up with my bf of 3 years today.sure :) getting past your breakup: how to turn a devastating loss into the best thing that ever happened to you by susan j elliot link mean lady talking podcast (by same author as book above) https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLeQHHyk7ok_tLE5SQiZhqNBklTjWpMOBS /r/exnocontact breakup recovery podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/breakup-recovery-podcast/id1061513970 baggage reclaim - https://www.baggagereclaim.co.uk/list-of-posts/ the no contact rule by natalie lue (same author as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 01:13 AM |
| 6 | Men and spittingthey like to spread their crusty dna any chance they get | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else not comfortable with the idea of introducing their bf to their friends?i learned that lesson lol. introduce briefly sure but were not doing any kind of group hang ever (again). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:11 AM |
| 9 | Do Men Care if You Come?they care in the sense that it strokes their ego but no they don't actually care. for instance some women squirt but don't like it and prefer to orgasm other ways but they don't care because squirting is more 'proof' to them. i think they probably are miffed and tell themselves something to feel better about why they couldn't make you cum. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:09 AM |
| 35 | Men hate women and there is no cure for ityeah.. i don't believe there is such thing as a hvm unless were talking straight finances like how some define it. are some less evil then others? i guess but they are all implicitly consenting to women being abused in a patriarchal society so they all are imo. when i start seeing men actually take more of a stand and protect women maybe i'll change my mind. i even saw my bf save 3 women in front of my own eyes (we were going home and he saw them being chased by a dude i stayed in the car) and i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:07 AM |
| 5 | Why it's important to date multiple guysso true - she even told me the one she initially was so hurt by she totally forgot about until he texted again because she busy was worrying about the next dude(s) which is how it should be! i know for a fact if she was just dating the one she would still be hurt and upset. we need to guard our hearts more as women and only give them to those who deserve it. keep up the good work sis onwards and upwards! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:47 AM |
| 7 | Queens, I need some major encouragement tonight. I broke up with my bf of 3 years today.they really really really do get better i swear to you on everything that is holy that they do! please keep this in mind and take it to heart because it is true!! also i have tons of resources for breakups so if you are interested let me know what you're more into (books vs videos subreddits etc) and i can post some but don't want to spam the page. just know that it 100% does get better and you WILL get through this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 16 | Why it's important to date multiple guysdang sorry to hear that. i've been helping someone close to me with this too encouraging them to multi date and they had similar results except these dudes weren't taken just lvm. i was so happy for her bc obviously it sucks too but it would have been sooo much worse if she was just focusing on the one. it really is the best strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Expressing FDS values has gotten me into fights with women around meyw and yes its for the best for everyone involved! i've been there too and its sooo draining but i get it at the same time you want to shout fds from the roof tops! but not everyone will be on the journey with us and that's ok you can still be friends it sounds like you are learning what kind of boundaries you want and that is great :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:22 AM |
| 10 | Any advice going into my 20’s?don't waste time in monogamous relationships - my biggest mistake i made in my 20s if i had to do it over again i would date anyone and everyone until i pick the one i want to marry exclusivity is a TOTAL waste of time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:23 AM |
| 13 | FDS is nothing like those incels or the subculture they have of pillers, and it is odd you would think that.> Incels (pillers) cannot have sex, hence their anger. they can get sex. there is no such thing as an incel because there are women who will *literally* have sex with anyoneeeee. they just can't get sex from the women they want but feel entitled to do so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 10:19 PM |
| 4 | Yep, has happened many times.men are not your friends, ever. what is so hard to understand about this i learned that in high school lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 10:15 PM |
| 2 | PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny.that's because denying men free access to our wombs is abuse!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 10:13 PM |
| 3 | Expressing FDS values has gotten me into fights with women around meafter a while you will learn not to say anything unless explicitly asked and just enjoy observing the dumpster fire for your own amusement/educational purposes. people don't want to hear unsolicited advice/opinions esp if they are just looking for support. don't try to be a therapist/life coach for your friends most people just want to be heard not criticized which is how they are taking what you're saying even if you're correct. best thing to do is lead by example and move in silence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 10:10 PM |
| 3 | R/LadyBoners has NO taste 🤢 what’s with the crusty old white men??i agree with the other posters it's not that he's unattractive he just looks about 16 lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 10:03 PM |
| 12 | This is sad. And nearly every single comment says “as long as I’m in his presence 😌”like why would anyone do this i would be finding an extra boyfriend to spend my time with then the scrote will want to pay attention but by then he's just another in rotation come on sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 09:56 PM |
| 18 | Woah... just watching Gail Dines exposing PornHub on Fox news(how sad that it had to be fox new instead of every libfem media).that's why after things coming out for the millionth time (famous 'feminist' ig account was really run by two guys to promote their tshirts or whatever) i'm firmly of the belief that it's men manipulating THEIR radical feminist narrative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 12 | Woah... just watching Gail Dines exposing PornHub on Fox news(how sad that it had to be fox new instead of every libfem media).sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 2 | I'm sick. Is separatism the answer?i would be if i wasn't financially dependent. i'd be out in a second. working on it now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 61 | Romantic Relationships with men are poor investments of time, energy and money for womenneurological con job trying to make us reproduce. no thanks ✌️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:42 PM |
| 15 | Romantic Relationships with men are poor investments of time, energy and money for womenmens usefulness boils down to financial and being a protection racket for women. i don't expect anything else from them and even the first two are easily replaced. men aren't capable of romance they do it to please you but they don't actually care or feel the squishy feelings we do. i'm focusing on being more romantic with myself and its much more fulfilling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 81 | Woah... just watching Gail Dines exposing PornHub on Fox news(how sad that it had to be fox new instead of every libfem media).which is so dumb bc even tho this sub is against sw we still support the women themselves ... when the libfems could literally give a fuck about their well being? clown world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Most legit ‘Real Housewife’ tweet everinteresting i really thought this was common across all cultures. sidenote but learning about the muslim rules for how a husband is to treat his wife was very interesting and counter to a lot of what the media portrays muslims as in america (of course i know saying 'these are the rules' and following them are two different stories but still..) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:36 PM |
| 5 | Most legit ‘Real Housewife’ tweet everit was interesting learning about this recently as being a thing in Hispanic culture because i would have thought it'd be the opposite with the stereotypes of machismo etc. Hispanic naming in general is interesting for me the fact that many don't have a middle name so i wonder too if that plays a role bc then the middle name can be one of the last names? at least that seems to be what kind of happens in america with immigrants just kind of migrates to the middle.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Most legit ‘Real Housewife’ tweet everi've thought about doing this i like her name would feel special and empowering <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:30 PM |
| 6 | FKA twigs Sues Shia LaBeouf, Citing ‘Relentless’ Abusive Relationshipagreed. he's been a known psycho. and not the cool weird artsy kind he markets himself as. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:29 PM |
| 75 | Woah... just watching Gail Dines exposing PornHub on Fox news(how sad that it had to be fox new instead of every libfem media).i've never heard of this. but i guess as a former sw myself i'm a swerf? lol ok then... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Stop thinking paying for dates as a way to show independence. It’s not an “own” to men. You’re just helping him play other women.literally used to have a guy go 50/50 with his gf/make her pay for stuff to give me money (ex sw here) wasn't my idea he volunteered. in fact it was part of his kink to get off on that fact. stop subsidizing other women! better yet spend all his money so he doesn't even have that option :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:18 PM |
| 13 | Men: porn isn't violence against women Also men: spams a women's sub with porn to "teach us a lesson"they really need to stop telling on themselves. like how in bdsm for men dressing up as a woman is 'humiliation' ... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Definitely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 17 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020he "tested" me by offering me choices in which one choice was "wrong" (he offered me butter or oil with bread, and when I chose butter he criticized the choice and gave me oil anyway); lol wut. what a psycho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 03:16 AM |
| 23 | To the women who think we are equal to menwe need to stop confusing the spirit of equality with the reality of biology. of course we are all 'equal' as human beings but men and women are not the same never have been never will be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 6 | Think this may be the tweet of the year!soon enough. were due for another war and they want to colonize mars. go be 'men' scrotes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Men need more attention than women.they would literally rather you yell at them then ignore them, its why they say vulgar stupid shit half the time because even negative attention is still paying attention to them just like mommy used to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 10:50 PM |
| 5 | Dump him if he has EDsucking a half flaccid dick while encouraging some scrote like some weird porn step mom is my literal definition of hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 10:49 PM |
| 4 | Trigger Warning: It's much more difficult to grow up and be a whole woman if you experienced abuse during childhood. I admit that this happened to me and if you are a "hurt" person LVM and NVM will only see you as a wounded puppy aka "weak" and easily manipulable. They don't have empathy for you.never EVER tell men about your childhood trauma. friends and therapist ONLY (edit: and even then barely friends). you think it will help and bring you closer it will not. it may seem that way at first but they will always see you as damaged and more easy to manipulate/tolerate disrespect (even if they experienced just as bad or worse themselves). LIE LIE LIE if any man ever asks you you had the best childhood ever. it will scare the bad ones off anyway because they subconsciously put you in the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 10:45 PM |
| 4 | Relationship level up with attachment theory: how to learn secure attachment style?therapy isn't necessary (saying this as someone who has done a lot of it) scientifically the best way to learn secure attachment is to be with someone who has that attachment style (easier said than done i know but it's the truth). it calms the nervous system. the best skill is to be able to learn to tolerate the avoidance feelings that come up with emotional intimacy. that is where things like /r/dbtselfhelp can come in handy so when those moments come up you can get through them. i wouldn't wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020im sorry sis, me too it was so disturbing :( i try to remain optimistic as fast as fds is growing more and more will see the light but it's tough. i feel like there is a definite grieving process to be had when it comes to understanding the actual truth of the nature of men. im glad that wasn't you and that you got out. *hugs* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:57 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020ugh did you see that post on the front page of reddit too with the russian dude killing his pregnant wife for social media attention? fucking disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:46 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020it's not even game to them men are socialized to manipulate women and say what they think we want to hear. i think they even believe their own bullshit but i don't want to give them that credit bc it takes away the responsibility they have to stop being douchebags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020helps to record things but yeah i don't do it either unless i feel safe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020Nothing about me says mistress. Also, he thinks I am naive. ding ding ding that is what 'says' mistress to him bleh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:42 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020was always curious about what it would be like apply fds type principles to same sex relationships obviously a lot doesn't apply when it comes to the nature of men vs women but so many of the principles are the same bc at the end of the day its about valuing yourself! congrats sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:41 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020not only is their no oversight they actively attack anyone who is against them. literally are suing the people running the no fap subreddit because of their claims about the porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020i think if you have a little slip it's fine, we're human after all. best way to correct tho is honestly finding more dudes to date as your behavior just naturally changes to be more hv with others in your orbit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:39 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered December 3 2020i like the idea (i think it's from the islamic religion?) that if you want to do eye for an eye, if you want to get revenge you can and it will be at like the same level as the other person. but if you want REAL karma you leave it up to god/time. (apologies if you aren't religious/spiritual but this thought has helped me) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:37 PM |
| 12 | Scrote wonders “what if” he left his wife for ONS 🤦🏻♀️whether you know it or not all relationships with men are non monogamous. even if they don't act on it they are thinking about it. and even their version of 'not acting on it' is still cheating to us. that's why the best strategy is to mirror their same energy even more so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Which of you saved this girl?just bought my bf's xmas present for $8 and even that was too expensive i shouldn't be getting him anything at all lucky him :) before fds i spent $200 on a vest he wanted forever that i've never even seen him wear. i never even bought clothes that expensive for myself. never. again. he's lucky he's even getting a present next year doubt i'll even get him anything besides lingerie for me to wear for him that's the only present any scrote will get from me ever and even then it'll be cheap lingeri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 06:30 PM |
| 12 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?i wouldn't even let my bf claim the title after a year of dating and vetting lol i put him through the ringer almost too much. you aren't even past the honeymoon period in a lot of cases 6 months is barely past the monogamy stage bc it's best to non exclusively date for a few months before deciding to commit. men use the brainwashing of fairytales/soulmates etc to trick you into having sex with them quicker because 'feelings' since you think that him serenading you or bringing you flowers or dan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:05 PM |
| 17 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?its really hard to see it being worth it at this point only if you really want kids and even then ... i just don't see how it serves women as even the financial benefits don't make sense as seen by u/MadamLeFay saying her dad hid a whole boat from his mom and there's even worse out there. the stress alone probably makes you die earlier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 09:02 PM |
| 11 | People who say their partner is HV before 6 month in, and people in here supporting it?ugh makes me never want to get married i couldn't imagine it being even harder to leave with all the legal stuff. glad you're out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:59 PM |
| 10 | Did you know that "aftercare" was a thing with BDSM?oh yes. a lot women do bdsm just for the aftercare because they feel it's the only way they can receive that kind of treatment. its really sad. former pro domme here - you wanna know what kind of aftercare men want? to be told they're normal and ok for just doing some weird ass shit. literally all they want is validation that their sick perverted fantasies are acceptable. we are not the same scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:10 AM |
| 19 | Beware LV people who think a relationships are supposed to be transactional.the key tool of the 'nice guy' - covert contracts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 08:49 PM |
| 2 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'they really think she's just going to appear out of thin air because they seem so available via the media, porn internet dating etc. that they don't have to feel the need to put the work in since their dopamine receptors are fried as fuck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:33 AM |
| 2 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'exactly! no one i've ever met cares if someone is into something nerdy they think it's weird if its their whole personality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:32 AM |
| 5 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'yeah that will not attract the type of person they want putting all your energy on one person and not having your own life is a recipe for disaster. a book i read talked about having an 'open system' vs a 'closed system' when you have other hobbies, friends, a life it not only makes you more attractive it makes the relationship more successful they have no idea what they're doing they don't want connections with people they want consistent sex and a free therapist/mommy whatever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:29 AM |
| 2 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'it's good advice! everyone says meetup but there are a ton of other activities and organizations be creative and just check things out for the sake of the experience and see what happens you might be surprised and if not it's still a lesson the key is going consistently check out my post in r/FemaleLevelUpStrategy with science backed info: "It takes roughly 50 hours of time together to move from mere acquaintance to causal friend, 90 hours to go from that stage to simple 'friend' status and more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Literal teenager has more common sense wisdom when it comes to dating than 90% of men today. Emotional intelligence is not that hard just admit you don't want to do the work. How about you start with googling the word 'empathy'> the media porn ok both but still lol i think it has more of an effect bc they feel entitled to our bodies with no work which informs the rest of their behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 02:22 AM |
| 6 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlwent to read the comments - they are all praising him and talking about how good of a job she did raising her daughter are these people reading the same post? talk about crabs in a bucket. its like a collective case of stockholm syndrome like i couldn't even read them without feeling sick and disgusted that this is being praised these people are literally insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:30 PM |
| 8 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlexactly what i was thinking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 11:25 PM |
| 33 | Is anyone else kind of miffed at the whole "male as default" assumption in culture?so true. some feminists give shit for this but if were going to be in a patriarchy i'm going to benefit from it. which means not doing shit i don't have to do even if i technically can. you wanna be a man? then fucking do it scrote | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:19 PM |
| 62 | Is anyone else kind of miffed at the whole "male as default" assumption in culture?they have to overcorrect bc the truth is women rule the world and they know that deep down so they have to mentally masturbate to bullshit thinking god is a man when *we literally create life* if that isn't god then wtf is it? you need a whole woman to make a baby and 9 months what do you need from a scrote? a fucking pinprick worth of splooge and 2.5 minutes. so they have to convince themselves and us of how important and necessary they are when nothing could be further from the truth. the only… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:52 PM |
| 7 | 'My daughter had an abortion. Her bf did some decent things: he is a true HERO now. And if she ever might break up with him, I won't hold a grudge to her about it.' Imagine this as your mother 🤮 Poor girlbeing a pickme is a disease and a generational curse. end the cycle! and fuck that insufferable sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:46 PM |
| 15 | Why, why, WHY do we mother them?its literally brainwashed from birth via the media, societal expectations etc. whatever mothering instinct we may have naturally is twisted to cater to men instead of our children like it's supposed to be. and the opposite is true for men they are socialized to expect this from us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:41 PM |
| 96 | Undeniable Proof God Is Real: This Complete Bum Somehow Married An Amazing Woman [Satire]And a truth bomb at the end: "The study revealed that, despite evolution's innate drive for creatures to reproduce with the fittest, most viable specimen to further the species, this woman has gone against every biological instinct in order to marry and reproduce with a man who is a complete setback for the progress of mankind as a species." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:37 PM |
| 13 | Men who call themselves and other men kings repulse me 🙄 if it's clap back to women calling each other queens, or thinking their dicks deserve king treatment, or just using it because they're swimming in redpill garbage and calling it self esteem, idc it's trash.you wanna be a king where tf is your castle bitch stfu if anyone ever called themselves a king unironically in front of me i'd laugh in their face | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:09 AM |
| 14 | MaturityI'm sorry, I just got into club 30 too and it is depressing but I'm glad to realize it now instead of in my 50s-60s having some loser scrote leave me for someone 20 years younger after I sacrificing my life and body I would fucking rage. I feel like the anger is natural and as women we are socialized not to express it when we need to! We are pissed and have every right to be! But we still have time sis however it is still a hard thing to accept *hugs* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 06:03 AM |
| 5 | I have a feeling it wasn’t her idea...makes sense because he's hiding that ugly ass mug with his hand didn't realize who it was until i saw the name which i only know bc he is literally so ugly like... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Scrotes hate seeing standards being met. Gotta humble them somehow.they just call anyone who does anything nice for women a simp surprised that wasn't what the tweet reply said. stop telling on yourself boys we know you're lv scrotes leave room for the real men we're not giving our wombs to loser who don't deserve it goodbyyeeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Preach it!half and half imo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:46 AM |
| 24 | Maturityit really is such a process to undo all the brainwashing. it's so subtle. and we accept so much of it as fact and how things are supposed to be and our 'natural behavior' or whatever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Scrote from ELEVEN years ago just rang my bell unannounced to "reconnect" 🤮agreed i loveeee social distancing best thing to happen to women in a long time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 09:05 PM |
| 4 | Cuffing season - is it really a thing?i haven't i think bc i block/burn all my bridges lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Scrote from ELEVEN years ago just rang my bell unannounced to "reconnect" 🤮they really are getting desperate i think girls aren't going for online dating as much like they used to and they aren't getting the human connection from more benign interactions with social distancing etc. glad you're ok!! protect yourself girl check out the book how to be invisible by jj luna all about privacy and he has helped women with stalkers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | If you could go back and give your 23-year old self dating advice, what would it be ?ltr/living together are a complete waste of time date non exclusively until you want to get married (but be sexually monogamous if you want sex still keep dating others tho) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 09:37 PM |
| 2 | is anyone actually surprised by this? religious men are the biggest hypocrites on the planet and this disgusting fuck protects pedophiles and used billions of our tax dollars 'for covid relief' to pay off lawsuits. there is no 'deep state' its happening in plain sight.i hear you, i get sad now too esp as a former sw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:26 AM |
| 20 | So many men do this there's a name for it now. Wokefishinggross! so glad he is your ex! i have seen men use the feminism argument for 50/50 and i won't ever fall for it again that the exact problem with this current wave of feminism it's 'be like men' but without any of the benefits. we need a 4th wave stat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 01:25 AM |
| 14 | is anyone actually surprised by this? religious men are the biggest hypocrites on the planet and this disgusting fuck protects pedophiles and used billions of our tax dollars 'for covid relief' to pay off lawsuits. there is no 'deep state' its happening in plain sight.I'm so incredibly sorry to hear about your family that is fucking awful. They are literally out here ruining peoples lives and getting paid for it (tax free of course!). So beyond disgusting. Sending hugs you and your families way this holiday season. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:15 PM |
| 2 | How do you let go of anger for men who wronged you?you will friend! <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:13 PM |
| 78 | So many men do this there's a name for it now. Wokefishing100% wanted to use it to weaponize against you. glad you listened to your gut! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 10:13 PM |
| 12 | DON'T close convo's with a X or ❤️🥰👄💋🌹😘as an american i love the x! people have questioned me tho that i am missing the 'o' but i like feeling like a posh brit! haha (because everything is fancier with an accent) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:03 PM |
| 3 | DON'T close convo's with a X or ❤️🥰👄💋🌹😘lmaooo what | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 09:01 PM |
| 30 | What is the point of this? This is so embarrassing to watch...don't need studies to know men have zero discernment and will literally fuck anything it's not a compliment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:58 PM |
| 10 | "don't catch feelings for me, I'm a hoe"hoes get paid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:57 PM |
| 4 | Realizing That Non-Romantic Advice From Males was Self-Serving?well if you ask a dog how to train itself it will tell you to give it treats and bellyrubs all day and 'eventually' it will do what you want it to on it's own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:53 PM |
| 160 | So many men do this there's a name for it now. Wokefishingthats why i will never trust men who lead with saying they are feminist they are usually the biggest predators | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:52 PM |
| 6 | is anyone actually surprised by this? religious men are the biggest hypocrites on the planet and this disgusting fuck protects pedophiles and used billions of our tax dollars 'for covid relief' to pay off lawsuits. there is no 'deep state' its happening in plain sight.lmaoooo this is awesome | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:50 PM |
| 2 | FDS is a very specific dating strategy - if you don't like it get losti can't believe it's literally still a debate if the man pays. it's so far from my mind it's not even a question like if they tried it i wouldn't even believe they were being serious lol. i would literally rather go out alone if i'm going to pay for myself and at least that way i can meet someone else like... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:47 PM |
| 38 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highit is still hard to swallow how a man can literally hate you and want you to die but will still fuck you and in fact that will even 'add' to the experience for them. it's not about sex it's about domination, power, and control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:43 PM |
| 19 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highliterally. it amuses me that i turned off pms so they can't even send me their little hate message like they want to but i see my follow count go up and i don't think it's you ladies lol. i log out and live a peaceful life while they scrounge over women telling their truth that we don't want pornsick incel losers and they will NEVER get us to mate with them/get our wombs and will keep telling other women the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:42 PM |
| 31 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate high#RedditHatesWomen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 22 | Why do older men think they’re just as attractive or more attractive than younger men? Why do they they think they can pull 20 year olds forever?because mens lives are literally completely run by their dicks. they can't do anything else just think of them as giant walking penises it's easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 19 | is anyone actually surprised by this? religious men are the biggest hypocrites on the planet and this disgusting fuck protects pedophiles and used billions of our tax dollars 'for covid relief' to pay off lawsuits. there is no 'deep state' its happening in plain sight.and before anyone says it's probably not him running the account 1. of course they are going to say that and 2. it doesn't change the fact that this is the culture although i'm surprised these fucking perverts weren't liking little boys pictures 🤮 edit: and it looks like they got *at least* 1.4 billion in covid relief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:31 PM |
| 3 | How do you let go of anger for men who wronged you?writing here and helping other women so they won't make the same mistakes that i've made is the best way i've found to channel my anger in a constructive way that actually helps lessen it instead of learning how to stuff it better. society doesn't know how to deal with women's anger and i think a lot of times we internalize that and don't know how to deal either. i like the story of chiron in greek mythology, chiron develops a wound that would never heal in order to be able to learn how to heal … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Inappropriate Friendshipsmen and women can't be friends period | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:08 PM |
| 4 | How do you stop feelings from developing?ROSTER DATING - ALWAYS HAVE MORE THAN ONE DON'T HAVE SEX doing both of these will literally eliminate 80% of your problems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:07 PM |
| 2 | It's hard to meet HVW and have fulfilling female friendships.it's true, and because of this we have to learn to be our own best friends first. as much as we'd like to deny this women are competitive and comparative by nature. it's not about pretending these things don't exist but acknowledging it so it can be integrated and put in it's proper place. also men and women cannot be friends imo. i think it is worse in groups of women friendships it's best to have one on one type interactions. this video may be helpful: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UvjwCBQD5… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 08:03 PM |
| 3 | (Ex ) Redpill/anti-feminist/conservative ladies, how did you find FDS? How did it change you?i got a little into it for a time, if only to help my struggling toxic relationship because i knew liberal feminism was bullshit but i couldn't put my finger on it, but rp wasn't great either but there were some truths to it about the power femininity can have and biology etc. now i'm in the middle. i found fds the way i think a lot of us did by other people making hate posts about it lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Stay Woke, Ladies. Beware the “Long Game”.that's what i was thinking like wow, EXCLUSIVE house parties?! lmaoo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 8 | Chloe_ tells you to walk away and put yourself first.Michaela Pink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:49 PM |
| 24 | He keeps telling me he's "relaxed"?usually people like this stuff/repress their emotions and then explode, they actually have really bad anger problems and this is how they try to manage it. he's telling it to himself just as much to you. or he's indifferent and melancholy not passionate about anything which also means he won't do shit in the relationship bc he's so 'chill' and you'll do all the heavy lifting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:39 PM |
| 21 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majorityi unfortunately can relate to this. it was weird because for so long i was so angry at my father until i realized it was my mother that chose to stay with him and i really need to be more angry at her if anyone. so thankful for fds as well! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 12:07 AM |
| 41 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majorityyep. they are implicitly consenting every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 12:05 AM |
| 11 | The tyrannical minority benefit the majoritysomething that i could never put into words myself but feel on the deepest level. and they don't even 'have' to be violent just the threat is enough men control women through FEAR they WANT you to be afraid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 12:04 AM |
| 10 | Most Stay-at-moms do not get the luxury of building a career, or even the luxury of a personal life This is how women end up in a financial trap with no support.basically the definition of emotional labor so if you're going to do it make sure it's a job that pays handsomely | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about more CODES on OLD🤔🤔🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:39 AM |
| 15 | Let’s talk about more CODES on OLDas someone who lives in the actual silicon valley i find this very accurate... it comes off as so aggressively bitter?? they are so insufferable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Questions about the first time.not for everyone but a lot it can feel at least uncomfortable. make sure you are with someone who will respect that they need to take their time. you don't need to learn lol humans have been fucking since the beginning of time it's natural don't let society think you need to watch porn to learn how to have sex like them bc that's not how it is in real life. mine didn't hurt much but i was pretty drunk lol and was kind of 'thats it' and it was anticlimatic until we came out of the dark and the du… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:05 AM |
| 51 | Let’s talk about more CODES on OLDhedonist = sex addict sapiosexual = fuckboy who thinks he's smart | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Regarding talking to multiple guysit's something you're constantly doing - vetting, adding to your roster, cutting people loose etc. dating is a lifestyle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:57 PM |
| 67 | Hey Males, Instead of being offended at us calling you "Scrotes" you should try and reclaim the word so it's Empowering. You can try slipping it in casual conversation to signal you're cool like "Me & all My Scrotes about to hit up a party" or "What Up My Scrotes?". Let us know how it works out.that's why they're called scrotes after all! to quote Betty White: “Why do people say "grow some balls"? Balls are weak and sensitive. If you wanna be tough, grow a vagina. Those things can take a pounding.” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:40 AM |
| 41 | Hey Males, Instead of being offended at us calling you "Scrotes" you should try and reclaim the word so it's Empowering. You can try slipping it in casual conversation to signal you're cool like "Me & all My Scrotes about to hit up a party" or "What Up My Scrotes?". Let us know how it works out.men reguarly raping, harming women and if not directly implicitly accepting it by their friends, relatives, society, porn habits etc. but the worst thing we can do is call them a simple name and they lose their fucking minds. it's because they KNOW it's true. the vast majority of men are walking fucksticks and they hate the fact that they are so easily manipulated and controlled so they have to come back and try and control us 10x harder. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:39 AM |
| 39 | Hey Males, Instead of being offended at us calling you "Scrotes" you should try and reclaim the word so it's Empowering. You can try slipping it in casual conversation to signal you're cool like "Me & all My Scrotes about to hit up a party" or "What Up My Scrotes?". Let us know how it works out.lol the mods are so good here i didn't even see it! they only get triggered when it's true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:36 AM |
| 43 | Priding myself on being low maintenance as a pickmethey say they want low maintenance but all their actions say otherwise proud high maintenance bitch here! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Religion Red Flagsreligion = patriarchy no matter which way you slice it or how they pretend to be 'progressive' the whole premise is saying women come from a mans rib and not the LITERAL most powerful thing we have which is our fertility bc they don't want us to realize that. as long as you stay in it you will lose. get tf away as soon as you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:42 AM |
| 63 | Now this is the kind of 50/50 I can get behind!if he buys you are car get him some socks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 0 | Put yourself first.always 💯 it's the only way men truly respect you bc that is sure as fuck what they're doing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:13 AM |
| 207 | Hey Males, Instead of being offended at us calling you "Scrotes" you should try and reclaim the word so it's Empowering. You can try slipping it in casual conversation to signal you're cool like "Me & all My Scrotes about to hit up a party" or "What Up My Scrotes?". Let us know how it works out.if they want to stop being called scrotes they should stop being completely controlled by their dicks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:09 AM |
| 54 | I swear this is one of FDS Queens!!this is flaired as 'humor' but i see no jokes here. this is 100% what i do lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 01:08 AM |
| 2 | I’ve booked myself a hotel roomdefinitely queen shit. sounds amazing enjoy your staycation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:24 AM |
| 17 | Don't date guys who refuse to wear a mask in public. Don't even talk to them. Treat them like the walking biohazard that they are.i've been waiting for someone to approach me without a mask so i can tell them if they can't even wear a mask they would never get a chance to fuck me because they obviously don't wear condoms either to give a fuck about their disease ridden dick. hasn't happened yet tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:22 AM |
| 23 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.ugh my bf is totally unbothered and i think actually likes it lol we've done it before but it's *me* who feels icky and gross so i stopped. idk i just don't like messy things it's hard to tell what is me genuinely feeling that way vs social conditioning. i would be ok doing it in water or something tho. it dually sucks because i just got off birth control after being on it for years so that is one of the only guaranteed safe times. in a way i feel like period time is for me to have a break from … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:20 AM |
| 10 | Welcome back FDS !lmaoooo that's amazing they've become self aware 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 05:12 AM |
| 67 | Welcome back FDS !went on a fds break and came back to this oy vey. stay mad scrotes! i like how they call us female incels when were literally out here with rosters lol and the ones who don't is not for lack of trying. dick is abundant and low value. we have always been and will continue to be the prize never forget ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 03:41 AM |
| 24 | Why are men broke?because there are women who will still be with them. if they all stopped they'd step it up. it's their only motivation many times. so pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020if you're interested in that check out gfy dot com (not going to link directly bc i don't want them to find us lol) that's where all the adult webmasters talk about how to recruit scrotes into paying not just for porn but a lot of dating sites etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 23 2020not familiar with that app specifically but fyi most of those 'specialty' sites are white labels so its the same group of people and then they just pick out keywords from profiles to populate whatever niche they're targeting see: datinggold.com or datingfactory.com | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:44 PM |
| 62 | Solidarity is for men only. #RedditHatesWomenbecause they still want a patriarchy they just want it to switch hands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 07:49 PM |
| 7 | What Benefits Does He Offer for Your Love & #Commitment?-Deborah Cooper YouTube) Schools Us...went to post this and it told me it was already posted :D this was a great video and a mindset shift so many of us need | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 10:43 PM |
| 3 | Re: men age like wine and are in their prime in their 40s. GOD HOW I WISH THAT WERE TRUEthe only prime they're in at 40 is their prime earning years, if that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:45 PM |
| 1 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?FDS is against sw as a whole however most people who think they're 'sugar babies' are just prostitutes on a retainer, check any sugar sub. you're not supposed to have sex with your sd that's how the money stops. the game is in the chase. i say milk these losers for all they're worth *shrug* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 4 | FDS when seeing pickme nonsenseyet people like this will still brag about being married thinking they're better off lol embarrassing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:05 PM |
| 62 | Am I too much of a prude? I am just not used to OLD culture.men assume all girls on OLD are easy lays. also if someone has to tell you they are 'not a creepy' they are, in fact, a creep. he thought exclusive would mean sex. if that were me and you're not going to dump him i'd tell him let's not be exclusive anymore so he can get his physical needs met elsewhere since he's clearly having trouble with it and we can keep dating non exclusively. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:02 AM |
| 2 | Marriage timeline - am I ridiculous ?4-5 years is obscene don't let him waste you're time i'd just start dating other people and if you really want to get married don't be exclusive to anyone until engagement | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:56 AM |
| 4 | How do you deal when guys specifically say I don’t like talking about work or politics or certain topics you like talking about?sounds like a difference in values. maybe an unpopular opinion but personally i don't want to talk about politics with someone i'm dating it's not romantic and it's a turn off even if we have the same views. i have girlfriends and online forums etc. for that. plus i think it has a lot of masculine energy around it (debate, arguing etc) and i like to be more in my feminine with men. having to sit while someone goes on a political or work rant is my personal definition of hell and even moreso for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Do any of you gals ever go to r/deadbedrooms and just feel so glad you're single?bUt I wOuLdN't ChAnGe It fOr ThE wOrLd aNd LoVe HiM tO dEaTh *eye twitches* like sure Jan. and even worse when they bring in ADDITIONAL children into their dysfunction. like you knew he was a piece of shit but had another kid with him anyway because... you want your kids to have the same dad? you think that it will help the relationship? whatever other bullshit excuse not considering you're literally bringing a whole nother LIFE into this world and thinking with the same logic you'd buy a car wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:52 AM |
| 3 | Do any of you gals ever go to r/deadbedrooms and just feel so glad you're single?was just about the comment the same thing! broken mom is where i visit when i get sad about not being married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 7 2020love this glow up/level up story! so happy for you. compliments from other women are just the best too aren't they - they feel more authentic imo vs a dude who just wants to get in your pants. i always try to give a compliment when i genuinely notice something about another woman that i like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 02:37 AM |
| 4 | Have HVM but hung up on LVM/r/limerence well no judgement here girl. it's not about this dude its about other deep rooted issues usually related to childhood and not being emotionally fulfilled (happens way more to people than we think i'd argue we all have this to some degree no caregiver is perfect) he's filling some deep emotional hole you didn't know you had. you need to fill it yourself. i suggest meditation and therapy (with someone who actually knows about limerence/love addiction/co dependence) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:07 AM |
| 3 | How do you know if a guy actually likes you or is fetishes you?well i think in your gut you will know. is most of what they talk about/bring up related to race? seems like it'd be pretty obvious. ime they show themselves quickly bc when you fetishize someone you can't view them as a person but a one dimensional object and it's hard to hide that. but to be more specific they would care about your well being and feelings as a person. for example if you got mad they would want to understand why instead of saying you're being 'a fiesty latina' etc. i don't real… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 08:02 AM |
| 9 | Reframe your mindset.reframing/thought correction etc. is a very effective cbt technique! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 07:51 AM |
| 10 | Even God knows men ain’t shit to women.they did that because they're really slaves to us/their dicks so they had to control it somehow they even twisted around all the old myths that were female centric to take away womens power and fertility (the virgin birth etc) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Former Reddit Ceo Ellen Pao " We knew about her supplying underage girls for sex, but I guess that was fine with the 'cool' people who managed the tightly controlled guest list" THIS IS WHY REDDIT HATES WOMEN AND WILL SHUT US DOWN. THIS SHIT GOES ALL THE WAY TO THE TOP. Makes me fucking sick.agreed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:45 AM |
| 5 | Never refer to yourself as 'wifey' or 'wife' even in a joking manner especially if you want marriage.yes, esp on social media | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Never refer to yourself as 'wifey' or 'wife' even in a joking manner especially if you want marriage.yes, never heard it as a female friendship term maybe it's geographic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 77 | Never refer to yourself as 'wifey' or 'wife' even in a joking manner especially if you want marriage.been there girl! so glad you're getting out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 06:04 AM |
| 7 | Is it to strict to rule out guys who have dated asian in the past?if he's not the same race and that is the only type of girl he goes for pretty much then sounds smart its your choice you can have whatever deal breakers/protection/boundaries you want. my ex had a fetish for asian women and then got a mail order bride from the ukraine - shows what type of guy he is. listen to your gut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Once you get the narcissist out of your life and out of your time, it frees up the mental space and bandwidth to go on and do amazing things. Doctor Ramani with some Level Up truth today.girl you better say it!!! 👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 2 | This Post Gives Me PickMeisha Vibesi thought the same, cringed when i saw the post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 6 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?literally the average height for women... lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:12 PM |
| 4 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?try self tanner fake bake is very good but strong and you have to be careful with it or the jergens gradual lotion. helps lessen the appearance of them and cellulite too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Amen! Anyone else got any similar stories?my former pickme frenemy said to my bf once 'look how big her legs are' he was like 'i know i love them so hot' lmaoo. whatever you don't like about yourself (it's something i've been insecure about in the past and this girl loves to be skinnny as a status thing) is going to be someone else's favorite feature about you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:05 PM |
| 3 | I’ve set low expectations for my boyfriend from the get go because I’ve mistakenly tried to be the “cool, chill” girlfriend. Now I realise I want more - how do I communicate my higher demands to him?i agree with others its very hard if not impossible. you need to start changing first so he has a 'reason' to behave that way. start leveling up your looks even (or especially) around the house, start new hobbies, learn about the feminine arts and be in your feminine energy. cultivate mystery and make him chase you which will be hard since you already live together. be in the receptive mode so he can't help but change his behavior accordingly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:24 PM |
| 2 | How would you handle men who comment on your body size?play dumb and make a joke such 'ive never noticed before!' or just look at them and make a confused look for a second or two (turns the awkwardness back on them) and then don't say anything by either walking away or changing the topic or just tilt your head slightly still looking confused and be like "what?" *slightly sad/confused face* and stay silent so they have to think about how weird they're being | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:42 PM |
| 5 | How to not get emotionally attached to a malehave more than one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 06:47 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020right. when someone is into you they make it known you won't have to even worry about them replying because they'll hit you up even if you don't respond they'll double text they don't overthink it like women do a lot of the time. it's very simple. they're either chasing and texting or their not no one is that busy. probably has other women in his rotation that he's talking to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:33 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020you're welcome sis! it's about time we started claiming our sexuality back from scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 01:20 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020your mind! realistic or not whatever you like! it's about getting back to *your* mind/body connection. i know some people read erotica too not sure the fds opinion i've done that before but now i just get into my imagination and it's much more fun and satisfying plus i figure out new stuff i want to try or just have a part of my sexuality that is just mine and nothing to do with any real partner... be selfish! explore your fantasies and figure out what turns you on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:52 AM |
| 16 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020everytime i've seen this [apologizing for the lack of contact and/or making excuses] whether its been myself or friends the guy just wasn't that into them and it fizzled out anyway. sorry girl. i'd save myself the heartache and be in my queen energy by cutting it off asap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:48 AM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020He was already displaying a red/yellow flag with the halfway 50/50 crap. Tell him "I'm sure whatever you pick will be great!" and leave it at that. Don't fall for doing the emotional labor under the guise of this somehow being a benefit to you it's not that's his job. If he keeps pressing say very general stuff like you're a foodie or like live music etc. but I wouldn't even go that far tbh he should be figuring it out it's part of the dating/chasing process in order to impress you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 04:43 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020might be part of the reason why the mods made fds social media | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:45 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020i always think of the post on reddit where the girl waited to have sex and found out her husband had a diaper fetish. there's such thing as too long imo. also i really don't know too much about meagan good but she's always striked me as having pickme energy as i think most really religious people do because its brainwashes you into being a handmaiden. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 04:44 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020go to breaking mom to see the future of being with a 'shy' or passive man. it's not pretty. there's a reason there are no posts about it.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 11:53 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020you actually should say the opposite that's the only way they understand. mirror his energy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/20 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Believe in yourself and take back your power! We have been brainwashed by religion and patriarchy (two sides of the same coin) to bend to the will of men even if you didn't grow up with it it's still a deeply ingrained part of the collective culture. Thanks for the reminder Deb.haha love wtf tuesday! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:03 PM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020umm lots of people are moms here they just don't say it because the dating process is pretty much the same it's not discriminatory to not explicitly mention it. its pretty common sense to know you will have to put your children first and more thoroughly vet men and take a while for them to meet your kids if it all. that's part of the problem that people think they are different and other when fds is universal. a lot of the focus on this sub (female *dating* strategy not relationship or even marr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020both. "Although cohabiting-couple families have two adults living with the children, the characteristics of these adults do not particularly resemble those of the adults in traditional families." https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3074431/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 07:47 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020she did already and didn't like the replies she got so came here to tell us were mom shaming | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 07:39 PM |
| 9 | Believe in yourself and take back your power! We have been brainwashed by religion and patriarchy (two sides of the same coin) to bend to the will of men even if you didn't grow up with it it's still a deeply ingrained part of the collective culture. Thanks for the reminder Deb.Not affiliated with Deb's channel just think she's awesome after seeing her recommended by others here she is also hilarious and blunt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:38 AM |
| 24 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 17 2020encouraging women not to procreate with losers =/= shaming single moms. telling women the truth that children statistically do better in every category even taking socio economic factors into account when the parents are married beforehand =/= shaming single moms. telling women they're better off with a literal sperm donor instead of tying themselves to life with a lvm isn't shaming single moms. this sub is about dating not about parenthood so of course they will only be brought up in that conte… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 04:09 AM |
| 10 | Hypergamy is/will be the best thing to happen to societyif we as a collective decided to stop procreating with losers we could solve so many problems in our society in one generation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 06:52 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020I agree with you, I think a lot of the reason there's so much focus on the wedding and not the marriage is because for a lot of women that IS the one time they get to feel that way when it reality you should be feeling that way every day and it's sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 05:56 AM |
| 5 | Shera is a queen. 💅🏼 Follow her on insta and youtube!men don't love the way women do. not in the same way and not to the same depths. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:58 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020jesus that's horrible... also reminds me of my pre-fds as well my ex used to watch nazi documentaries a lot and would make fun of me for having jewish heritage sometimes but it was all 'lighthearted' jokes but i think he actually had some kind of secret fetish but in an angry way like hate fucking or something? he was latino too which was weird but i think it was some kind of misplaced anger at white supremacy idk he did have a lot of internalized racism and simultaneously wanted to be included … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:45 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020Also there are def guys who use that angle to make their exes jealous too and then you become basically a prop/sex toy/entertainment/revenge triangulated with someone else ugh. They know that dating someone outside their usual type whatever that may be can feel threatening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered June 8 2020But what he said sounds like he's trying to worm his way back in and the "I'm the last person you want to talk to" irritated me so much like lol if that's how you think I feel then why the hell did you reach out? It's like the old 'Nigerian scam' they purposely send emails with misspellings broken English making no sense etc. because it's a selection mechanism. The people who do fall for it are already filtered to be gullible enough to fall for more. Def fishing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 03:38 AM |
| 3 | What if we started a Women’s Social Justice Movement?we need a 4th wave of feminism this 3rd one is shit.. edit: i already have the name! quantum feminism 😎 lol but for real tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 05:01 AM |
| 8 | This is what happened with my ex so I looked up support, what a unique feeling of betrayal, I haven’t told friends or family the whole story but I found him on Grindr at 2am and he he took off from our home that night to do anal. He was attracted to women with penises.it happened to me too with my ex. i firmly believe porn brainwashes men to want trannies. you're definitely not alone and i think this happens to wayyy more women than we know because there is so much shame and secrets around it and the woman feels embarrassed or that she has a part in it so we don't talk about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:59 AM |
| 9 | He asked me to pick up the check and I caved. Help."oh so you just want to be friends?" while looking pouty and sad if then he says some bs about equality yada yada just say that's not romantic/sexy/a turn on for you. by him saying 'you get the next one' that's the que to end the date. by going someplace else it implies that not only is that behavior ok bc you're still hanging out but that is the 'next date' (edit: just realized he said next one not next date so even worse!) so makes sense he'd expect it (not saying its any less shitty than it i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 04:49 AM |
| 30 | Forgot my makeup bag at my boyfriend’s place and I get this response. We’ve been dating for 4 months. Definitely ended things with him. *shrug*a lot of crazy people become shrinks - they go into psych because they want to understand themselves first and foremost. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 02:15 AM |
| 8 | Gabrielle Union, age 46. What wall?!https://www.eonline.com/news/494625/dwayne-wade-fathered-a-baby-with-another-woman-before-proposing-to-gabrielle-union | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 06:27 PM |
| 3 | Gabrielle Union, age 46. What wall?!https://www.eonline.com/news/494625/dwayne-wade-fathered-a-baby-with-another-woman-before-proposing-to-gabrielle-union | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020sorry you're having to deal with this. as a last ditch effort you can try just not responding to anything political he sends. men are dumb and understand actions over words. saying 'i dont want to talk about politics' doesnt compute as well as just not giving it the attention he wants. he can find someone else to mentally masturbate with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 05:00 AM |
| 28 | What do you think about this, ladies?uhhh no men just have bigger egos than women and their dick runs their lives so they confuse love and lust idiots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:52 AM |
| 80 | There are no HVM out there, let's just say we've lost our men.i agree just pick the richest one or don't marry at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:48 AM |
| 4 | Lmaooooo what a catch 😂😂😂ahhhh haha i see that now yes even worse isn't the proper title 'operator' too? even moreso to my point because they know that gets the ladiessss or think it does smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:47 AM |
| 14 | Lmaooooo what a catch 😂😂😂lmao they changed the training to using video game controllers because they learned everything way quicker than the previous simulation thingy no joke -_- | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:46 AM |
| 28 | Lmaooooo what a catch 😂😂😂pilots always think they're gods gift to women its so cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 04:19 AM |
| 3 | We deserve more. In other news, the world is roundseriously. the. bare. minimum. i wouldn't even hang out with a male 'friend' if they weren't paying for me. whats the point, they benefit from my presence more than i do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:34 AM |
| 62 | Gabrielle Union, age 46. What wall?!she's gorgeous, too bad she's a huge pickme. what a shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020gross. he doesn't care about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020the way this goes is they get healed with you/by you and then move on to someone else because you remind them too much of their former selves and their own shame. esp because it's so early. not worth it AT ALL. spending your time nursing some scrotes ego while he cries on your shoulder about his little pee pee being broken because of his OWN behavior is my literal definition of hell. and no you can't trust him he's addicted if he could just 'stop' he fucking would. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/20 12:10 AM |
| 3 | I don't really know what to do...can you write a letter and get all your feelings out and not send it? helps me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Thank you, that's a great quote! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | What is one FDS principle all newbies need to know?if it's not a fuck yes it's a no | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:12 PM |
| 10 | What to do when you want to block a man that you see in your regular every day life?of course you can still block. who cares what he thinks. worry about yourself and your emotional well being not catering to the feelings of some scrote. just like the other poster said grey rock him be polite but firm and 'professional' (even if you don't actually work together have that kind of energy) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 11:11 PM |
| 34 | How to know quickly if he’s a 50/50 guy?say directly you want a provider usually scares them off even if that is their actual mindset. also a lot of men don't even know they're providers or the type to do so (or their ego won't let them esp with all this talk of 'simps' now) that you have to go indirectly. they could also just answer you with a yes and what's to say they change their mind or it's not just a manipulation? action is the best indicator here. you have to test him and do it many times while you're dating not just wait unti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 10:55 PM |
| 6 | So much projection...bc hvw have better shit to do than fight with whiny scrotes and handmaidens. idk why anyone would waste there time there but more power to them i guess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:57 PM |
| 13 | Gf stays in shape, bakes for him, and has sex whenever he wants and he still insults her...and she wonders if she should stay!!friend wants them to break up so he can get with her. he's jealous and sees she's being treated like shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 15 | Is it fair to go into relationship if you haven’t dealt completely with your childhood trauma?As long as you're making an effort and it's not dramatically impacting the relationship I say go for it. But be mindful not to fall off the wagon with the whirlwind of romance. It can be a drug in and of itself and can be used to distract from the healing process. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 01:54 AM |
| 10 | Pickmeisha surpreme Emily Ratakowski clowns around to entertain her unimpressed LVM 🤡what a turd. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:44 AM |
| 4 | FDS has saved me time and energy.Congrats sis! Isn't it great to have dating be a more relaxing experience and worrying about them impressive you instead of the other way around? So much better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:41 AM |
| 9 | OLD low effort date guy update, he unmatchedI think what u/VikingPug is saying is to work on your confidence to have a more 'this is who I am these are what my standards are, if you don't match them deuces' attitude vs having long drawn out dramatic convos unnecessarily early on with guys you don't know and getting emotionally invested way too quickly. Ideally after he even mentioned the walk is when you'd unmatch because just the suggestion shows where his head is at. Talking to people online for too long (yes even in quarantine) creates… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Actress tries to clue sex advice blogger Shan Boody In to the realities of gendered sexual expectations after kids and she goes on narcissistic rant about “barriers” she’s had overcome to give her terrible sex advicewe need to find a way to link these videos without giving them more views and money. also i can't stand that thumbnail ugh her face. 'barriers she's had to overcome to giver her terrible sex advice' im dead lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Well, Sir, it tells me that your girl is a clownsexual 🤡sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:28 AM |
| 11 | This is a HVM right here! Next level HFM I would argue. Really inspiring! Taking form an older post in r/nextlevel. So I hope I’m not repostingThank you. I agree. It's inappropriate. My man will help his kids so the kids can do things for their mom - like remind them of the holiday, help them pick something out if they have trouble etc. It's the same lesson but it's not crossing a boundary. I'd argue even before a new partner is involved it's not a good idea because it confuses the kids. edit: and breakfast? forget about it. if he did that he'd be so gone. wtf. again it confuses the kids and it's not appropriate post breakup behavior. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:26 AM |
| 6 | How to eat, sleep, and breathe FDSthis was a good comment. i'm glad you made it it's own post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Men who wear the "I tell truth, take it or leave it, I dont care if you dont like it!!!" badge. Honest or emotionally immature?Bullet dodged. Yeah, you can tell the truth and still have tact. It's called etiquette. But the first red flag was being a philosophy major lol. Biggest self righteous douche turds on the planet. Love to mentally masturbate and hear themselves talk. Truly insufferable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:15 AM |
| 21 | You deserve to be loved for who you are in this exact moment for who you are and valued as a human being, despite your past or any poor pickmeisha role models you had growing up. Break the cycle of being a future pickmeisha mom!Don't forget showing off your Perfect Life™ with hubby 🤢 on Facebook 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:11 AM |
| 17 | Why are Robert Greene's books popular with mgtows?I honestly don't believe they actually read his books lol just summaries or what other people say about them so they don't actually have any idea what he's truly saying and esp on a deeper level | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 06:10 PM |
| 2 | I don't think my boyfriend is going to pay for my phone that he broke + does he think I'm stupid???gross. dump him. and then if he tries to win you back make him pay for the whole thing. and then still don't take him back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:27 PM |
| 16 | What do you think of Mrs Midwest’s advices?lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020it's a pretty old one actually... link pretty sure it was from dec 3, 2013 the chariot but may be an episode before or after as i was listening to a bunch and don't quite remember which one specifically sorry! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:56 PM |
| 3 | Here's to never being that friend againi read the meme first and i was wahhhh then i read the caption and ahhhh. never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Here's to never being that friend againit's not my job to save other people from themselves. why should i do emotional labor for them when they don't even give a fuck? i get doing it ONCE but after that i'm done. it's actually prolonging the relationship bc it's taking the tensions away that they should be directing towards that person - you become the third wheel in the relationship. nah sis i'm good been there done that never ever ever again. i'm glad you did but you're in the vast minority and i'm not going to waste my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:45 PM |
| 26 | Ladies who have anxiety - have you found love? How?you may need to get into a different kind of therapy that is more about relationships/attachment trauma etc. a lot of therapists aren't trained in this and have no idea what they're doing when it comes to deeper issues | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 08:06 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Thank you! :D & I agree about the relationship between anger and boundaries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 11:01 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020little vent here. my ex pickme friend posted a song about wanting to 'hop on a plane' to see a dude on 'her island' aka jamaica. she is a basic white girl which is already cringe enough given the situation and her obsession, but falling for the trap/hustle of this dude was one of the last straws for our friendship. he is clearly using her and i don't blame him because if i lived in a 3rd world country and my only way out of crippling poverty was seducing women i'd prob do it too. but she's dumb … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 10:50 PM |
| 9 | Thoughts on Lana Del Rey’s recent controversial statements on Instagram? Curious what you ladies think and how you interpret her wordslol i just checked and my ex friend deleted the post, maybe she does have some self awareness after all. yeah i get we go through a process but the ones i admire seem to grow and change and recognize their past mistakes and you can see that in their art. sounds like lana just wants to whine and live in her romanticized suicidal bubble. tbh i feel like she's just waiting until it's the right moment to do it and get the attention she wants to be immortalized forever bc that's her idea of 'romance'… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 10:35 PM |
| 78 | Thoughts on Lana Del Rey’s recent controversial statements on Instagram? Curious what you ladies think and how you interpret her wordslol she could just do it instead of whining about it. but celebs need publicity sooo. my ex pickme friend posted this on ig praising it so that's all i need to know.. she is a singer too and loves to sing pickme anthems. meh. so sick of celebrity culture bc literally no one cares | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 09:22 PM |
| 43 | What do you guys think of him? We are going on a first date tomorrow in public (stores are opening up!)putting your height in your profile is so cringy, esp when there's a box right below that says it. don't be surprised when he thinks he's the prize. height isn't a character trait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 09:16 PM |
| 5 | Breaking MomThe ladies over at broken mom love being victims and martyrs to complain and get attention because they're dissatisfied with their shitty life choices and lvms. I have sympathy for single moms but not the ones who stay with losers to look better on facebook and save their reputations. Learned helplessness is all too prevalent over there it's pathetic. I go over there and laugh whenever a smug Karen tries to play off like they have this perfect life. Best birth control ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Hey Queens! Please check out the official FDS Social Media Accounts!What kind of stuff do y'all plan on posting? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:25 PM |
| 19 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020I'm into that stuff. Funnily enough I was just listening to a podcast where they addressed this topic. One of the irritating and disingenuous things about the spirituality community is those who are just 'all love and light' because it's fake as fuck and not even what spirituality is about. Yes we all strive to be positive and it does yield results - humans have an inherent negativity bias, but that's incomplete. It's not just 'as above' (religion) it's 'as above *so below*' (spirituality) it's … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020look into the 'grey rock' technique, and be kind to yourself that's not an easy situation <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:30 AM |
| 22 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/22/2020Male pack animals need a leader. They loveeee having 'daddy' but most will deny if you ask outright but their behavior is so telling lol. 'Daddy' can take on many forms from men who they perceive as in a higher social position than them or daddy government/authority. Men CRAVE APPROVAL from them so much and even subconsciously when there is no outright leader they conform to the larger male archetype which these days is pretty toxic (but when hasn't it been tbh it's just taken on a new form). So… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 05:25 AM |
| 18 | You’re so low maintenanceWhy would you say it's a compliment? It's not. They may like that you are because it makes things easier for the men you date. Save Netflix for your friends or very very long term boyfriends (year + honestly until engagement even). Start turning down things when they're not good enough for what your high maintenance new self would want. Wearing nice clothes & makeup doesn't equal sexy so work on increasing sex appeal. Start looking into more luxurious things in your town or city, even if it's a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020It is def an addiction, your brain releases chemicals just from getting a message back or a like. Then with sex even more so with oxytocin and it triggers attachment trauma if it's there (which lets be honest we all have to varying degrees). By staying on those apps/continuing to have casual sex you're sending a message to the universe that's what you want. It's good you're aware that's the first step! Keep reading the sub and I think things will change for you it sounds like you're really looki… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 02:28 AM |
| 25 | Who is gonna tell her ? Five years spent . Being. Fuck. Buddy. Not. Even. A. Forever. Girlfriend . Ladies remember if nobody knows about you ,you aint his woman .isn't it crazy how they show themselves so soon but we choose to ignore it? looking back there's so many times my intuition was like hmm... this isn't right but I didn't want to admit it to myself even | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 03:36 AM |
| 11 | Who is gonna tell her ? Five years spent . Being. Fuck. Buddy. Not. Even. A. Forever. Girlfriend . Ladies remember if nobody knows about you ,you aint his woman .this is just so gross to me i'm in denial about it even tho i've experienced it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 03:33 AM |
| 3 | GiGi Engle, who we’ve called out here multiple times for giving absolutely harmful anti-woman bad sex advice, has written for almost every single major magazine imaginable. Why is this horrible woman allowed to speak for and to us like this?if you use archive.org links she won't get the traffic the only thing that works honestly is starving them of views. it's been proven anger gets eyeballs more than positive things and they just want to get paid so she's going to post the dumbest most rage inducing content that still has some kind of plausible deniability. i don't doubt she believes in a lot of her stuff but i'm sure it's exaggerated and that's the problem with her and others like her pushing this agenda not realizing the full im… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 03:04 AM |
| 68 | Don’t force datesdeceased 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 02:59 AM |
| 4 | I'm so disgusted by my past behavior and what I used to tolerate. How do I move on?Forgiving yourself takes time and isn't a linear process. I find things like journaling to help a lot in processing emotions. Also taking an honest inventory of the relationship in order to fully understand and integrate the lessons so you can move on stronger wiser than before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 08:09 AM |
| 7 | Get some (high) standards, girl!oh yes, and the 'validation' that comes with it - part of the karpman drama triangle of codependency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 07:42 PM |
| 31 | Get some (high) standards, girl!they're so salty over at broken mom we must be doing something right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:13 AM |
| 68 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/13/2020I like to think about how in Native American traditions they believe that when you heal you're healing the seven generations behind you and the seven generations ahead of you as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 04:07 AM |
| 9 | A Town For Women: "In Rojava, the desire to build a society free of misogyny has led to the creation of an entire village just for women. From this place, Jinwar, they seek to heal themselves and then their society."so good right?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 04:03 AM |
| 31 | A Town For Women: "In Rojava, the desire to build a society free of misogyny has led to the creation of an entire village just for women. From this place, Jinwar, they seek to heal themselves and then their society."Most of the women in the village have had some kind of domestic violence or other similar type of situation and come to the village. Truly inspiring despite the awful circumstances. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 03:05 AM |
| 1 | Husband demands sexual favors in exchange for cleaning up after himself and raising his own childpetition to rename the sub broken mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/20 07:36 PM |
| 5 | Am I naive for thinking that soulmates exist?soulmates is a lie sold to women by men so it makes it easier to game them. we can have multiple 'soulmates' in our lives and that can include friends family and even pets. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 4/29/2020i hear you, i've struggled with similar issues. you can't save everyone or even most people for that matter and the journey to level up can be a lonely one. i just got so sick of trying to save women who didn't want it or said they did but their actions showed otherwise it's a form of self preservation to take that energy back and use it on myself instead. a lot of people are tied to their stories/lifescript/victim narrative unfortunately. the best thing you can do is lead by example and show th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 13 | The Health Authority for the State of Oregon tweeted out how to have sex during the Coronavirus Crisis. Apparently people need to be told not to eat anyone’s ass right now.lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you need to state your boundaries?yes! be in your power ladies! literally saying no and radio silence is magic haha there are a million ways to say it but don't beat around the bush! "no, no thank you, that doesn't work for me, i'm going to have to decline, no i'm not interested," and so on.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:45 AM |
| 6 | Do you need to state your boundaries?texts you outside of your preferred hours? don't respond/respond during 'business hours' sends inappropriate texts? ignore asks you on a lame date? 'no thank you' end the date first literally just leave and say goodbye it was nice to meet you exit on a date and he puts his hands where he shouldn't? literally move or move his hands | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you need to state your boundaries?show don't tell. what would stop him from just saying you're exclusive in order to have sex then ghost you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:59 AM |
| 36 | What would you do if your boyfriend called another girl hot/cute in front of you?this. if you're not going to dump him mirror his behavior 10 fold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 05:40 AM |
| 8 | Is it just because I don't ask?men do love doing things for the women they love. it makes them feel like a man and strokes their pride/ego/makes them feel manly. you don't even have to ask if you set yourself in a certain position but you can ask as well men want to know what you want and what will make you happy. its better tho to make it be their idea but that's more advanced game the first step is just getting into that mindset to receive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Can a Cheap Man change?don't be embarrassed growth and wisdom comes from experience! at least you had the sense to post instead of continuing to entertain a cheap man :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Exercise: Send multiple men the same text and see how they replytrue probably better to send something that gives a more thorough reply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Man wants new GF to foot half the bill for him and his two kids. Throw the whole man away😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:28 PM |
| 13 | Still working on asserting my worth and avoiding LVM but I have a feeling you ladies might relate to thisdang this is deep sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 08:22 AM |
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