Why The Codependency Model Is Harmful To You | Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Sex/porn addiction

level_up_always · 2021-05-05T21:38:56+00:00

I totally agree. This whole thing was dreamed up because the inventor of Alcoholics Anonymous was an abusive cheating piece of shit and they had to invent a syndrome for his wife Lois they used to be called 'co-addicts' then the terminology changed. It's all a bunch of victim blaming bullshit. Also going to link this book as I do when this topic comes up for anyone stuck in this trap that wants to get out: Codependency Conspiracy: How to Break the Recovery Habit and Take Charge of Your Life. Going to CODA and other such meetings is actually the worst thing anyone can do because they all act 'codependent' with each other and make the dynamics worse you think it helps in the beginning but it really doesn't it's only in having a social outlet that it's helpful anyone who really starts to get better leaves...

fdsThrowaway2021 · 2021-05-05T23:11:27+00:00

The brief overview he gives in the beginning of the podcast emphasizes the need to search every psychological label we are given, especially women and victims. Find out who coined it and in which context it became popular. We have been given so many victim-blaming labels throughout out whole histories.

sewingmachinesavior · 2021-05-06T00:34:34+00:00

I’m on this train. I avoided all “codependency” things bc I could not get behind that I somehow was responsible for my abuse. Nope. Sorry. I get the meaning behind it, but I’m not willing to victim blame. Going to check out that link.

TheDaezy · 2021-05-06T05:05:26+00:00

This is great food for thought. Thank you for sharing. I am in CODA and have been having mixed thoughts about it. I definitely rebel against identifying as a codependent.

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Title	Why The Codependency Model Is Harmful To You \| Betrayal Trauma Recovery - Sex/porn addiction
Author	_electrafire
Upvotes	80
Comments	26
Date	May 5, 2021 3:04 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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