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Oh but he’ll still take the money
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:09 AM
49

Yes this right here And all those men in the comments of the OP would do the same damn thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:09 AM
10

Lmao. No. Matter of fact—hell fucking no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:06 AM
10

So men cant say no? Or they just won’t? What possible good, moral reason could they have for refusing to say no to literally every woman who approaches them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:20 AM
24

If this isn’t satire… This dude is just upset(like all incels ) that he never got to be the one to affect(read: hurt) a woman like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:06 AM
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Is that pickmeisha tho? Usually I thought that meant doing anything to appease men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:38 AM
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Yessss even when they want to!! Because even the reasons they want to be good at it aren’t the right ones! They’re still selfish reasons. It’s still to gas up his ego, make him feel like he’s the “man” and a bunch of other purely self serving shit. Which is why even when they want to be good—it still just looks like they’re either flailing around/being too fast and aggressive or lazily flicking their tongue/finger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 11:22 PM
54

Ooh. You’re right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:23 PM
13

Yes^ Idk about anyone else but I was raised that it’s rude to ask for someone to pay your way—but also that the person who invites you to spend time with them should make sure you have a way to get to them. That includes paying for a ride
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 06:27 PM
29

Right tell me that was supposed to be 25 not 15. They asked literal children??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 02:39 PM
5

Yeah I just don’t buy that there are actually women out there who 100% enjoy casual sex. Can’t convince me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:32 AM
12

Yes. How can people enjoy sex with someone they don’t even like? Or that they don’t have romantic feelings for? It seems sociopathic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:23 AM
16

Yeah they’re so cool with it. Then the guy gets a gf but still keeps FWB around to use as a flesh light and FWB is like “tf?”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:09 AM
18

They’re in denial and will grasp at literally any attention a man gives them to reinforce their need to be validated by a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:08 AM
54

I’m glad at least one woman didn’t cave into that bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:06 AM
18

Holy shit. I never knew this about AA, but I’d go into meetings sporadically. At some of the open meetings there’d always be someone there who wasn’t an alcoholic themselves and they’d talk about how they were “codependent” with their alcoholic partner and how they had to recover from that addiction too—just like the alcoholic had to recover from alcoholism. Made no sense to me. But knowing this is basically a part of the foundation of AA makes it make sense and is horrifying. I mean some of the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:36 AM
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I like how they fail to see the flaws in their so called “logic”. So, he wants something from women—their time, their energy, and their sexual health—yet at the same time we’re worthless? Lmao as if. Im not giving up time I could spend doing literally anything else to benefit myself, for $5 coffee and some mediocre dick with an ass hole. Coffee has more personality than these basics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:11 PM
53

The one thing I agree with them on. Who would’ve thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 06:10 PM
160

To prove how "wrong" we are. Literally the ONE space exclusively for women where men aren't allowed to come in and abuse us, and they can't fucking stand it. Also, he's a moron. It's not "literally" a circle jerk. But the whole rest of the world outside of FDS might as well be a literal circle jerk for men. Idgaf what they tell themselves just so they don't have to face the fact that the majority of them are monsters of some flavor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 07:53 PM
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Yes people fail to recognize that more often than not, homeless women need protection from the homeless men--not the other way around. Men are free to wander as they please. edit: I retract my last statement. Men aren't just free to wander without consequence. Because of the *other homeless men*.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:17 PM
78

Reminds me of the Chris Watts case where the investigators finally caught him and he started crying saying "don't judge me...[on this one moment basically]". That said everything though, that to him the act of MURDERING his wife and kids was just one moment. Whereas for everyone else who loved them, it is pain that will follow them forever. Murder is one of if not the worst thing a person can be capable of doing. If someone commits a murder--especially one as heinous as that--it should be their …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 02:49 PM
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Meanwhile women's humanity is constantly rejected by society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 07:32 PM
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Man. I used to feel like I was a terrible person for getting infuriated every time a man would spill his feelings and vent his problems to me, but I think you just explained why. They really are the centers of their own worlds and don't give af about anything but finding people to validate their "unsung hero" narrative. Women especially are just seen as the supporting characters for them--the details of our lives are meaningless to them. AKA they want every woman to play mommy/manic pixie dream …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 06:53 PM
89

It is so nice to finally have males recognizing this instead of pushing the "women screw men over with kiiiddddsss".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:35 PM
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I hate when men think they're being progressive and really doing something when they post/share shit like "this is what toxic masculinity does"... Reality is men themselves have been responsible for enforcing the toxicity but now they wanna distract us all with "but men can't cryyyy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 05:08 PM
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Oh, my fucking God yes. My most recent piece of shit ex would always say "women hate each other" with this shit eating grin on his face and it *infuriated* me. I would try to argue that that wasn't true, but he'd just laugh in my face. Now I feel like he pushed that narrative so I'd get mad at all the women he flirted with behind my back and in front of my face instead of getting mad at him. I still only got mad at him, but I also stayed with him for years so I guess in the end it worked in his …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:43 PM
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an ABUSE victim? what a fucking clown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:43 PM
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This shit. This fucking shit. Needs. To. Stop. "She inspired me to be a better person. That's why I married her." So, you couldn't just figure out how to live your life on your own? You needed someone else who had figured it out herself to come in and mommy you through it? I'm over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:21 PM
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yes. my dad was like this. we'd be like "where's mom?" and he'd say something like "you kids always want your mom. fine, i'll just go back to [his home country] since nobody needs me." i used to feel so bad and still kind of do, because it was true we really did ask for our mom a lot more than him. and he did try. but i hate that he had to say that to a little kid. it messed with my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:03 PM
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why did she propose twice...if he already said yes the first time? she wanna humiliate herself for a second time or what? of course a lot of scrote ass men will say yes if their pick me gf proposes--if the conditions are "right"(using that term loosely here). There are the LVM who throw around terms like "divorce r*pe" and are marriage phobic, and then there are the LVM who are aware that men benefit more from marriage than women do and that women have more to lose. Dumb ass pick mes only believ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 11:35 AM
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It's literally "cool girl"/pick me feminism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 10:29 AM
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This reminds me of that post from like a month ago where that pick me asked out her “reserved” coworker. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:48 AM
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It’s funny too cause there’s this whole narrative running around that if women were to switch roles with men they’d become “suicidal” due to all the rejection....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 10:39 AM
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Hers and probably his
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:22 PM
43

“Law & Order SVU: Scrotes Victims Unit”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:17 AM
11

That “stop demonizing male sexuality #repealtheregistry” ... Does he mean the fucking SEX OFFENDER REGISTRY??? How about NO. But hey there it is—apparently being pedophilic and grooming teenagers you have authority over is MALE sexuality. Hmm, they really do tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:56 PM
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Pussypassdenied is just pure incel fantasy. Those freaks in the comments of that sub literally get off on women getting beaten. Idc what they say—they like to see any woman get hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 03:47 PM
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Oh sorry—I was referring to me calling them “pick mes”. I didn’t consider that they’re probably just brainwashed to hell before I saw your comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:46 PM
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Stupid and happy is such a good way to describe men. They’re completely in their own little worlds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:43 PM
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You know what good point, I was wrong for saying that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:16 PM
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Man I hate the tiktok trend of stealing audio from other creators and just badly lip syncing/making ugly and stupid faces for attention. Granted, the tiktoker at least has makeup skills? I guess. But the rest of it is obnoxious for no reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:00 PM
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Not that it matters, but I think it was actually his ex wife from his marriage before the wife he tried to have kidnapped. But I do think I read that the one he tried to have kidnapped said some shit in defense of him? Either way. Pick mes all around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:27 PM
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What if they seem to need advice and a kind word every single day with no end in sight? I just don’t have the energy for that, but I wonder if it doesn’t make me cold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:17 PM
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Yeah you put that really nicely. I could see that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 03:20 PM
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I felt this too while reading. I feel over all they’re just not compatible friends. But I could also understand if the friend was just frustrated with her circumstances, meanwhile OP seemed to kind of badger her about this trip. Even the “outs” OP said she tried to give the friend could get overwhelming quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:04 PM
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Yes. It sounds like that guy idolizes him. Which probably means a ton of other men out there idolize him, and that’s a scary thought. A pretentious, shlubby, poorly dressed alcoholic who clearly thinks he’s gods gift? You know what that makes a lot of sense. Honestly the only likable and relatable character in that scene for me was the cashier.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:59 PM
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Literally lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:15 AM
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It’s ironic because she made another tiktok one time talking about how the father of her kid told her she was “being dramatic and it’s probably not that bad” when she was complaining about her labor pains. Literally while she was in the process of giving birth....yet she wanna defend these pieces of shit with her dying breath. I think she’s mentally sick and needs to be in a hospital for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:13 AM
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I don’t know, I can kind of understand being nervous about having you drive her car and not being covered by her insurance. Though I do know insured drivers are a thing. I also get the idea that you keep score a lot? Idk otherwise everything else definitely makes her sound like a pick me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:08 AM
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But we for sure do not need more pick mes in the public sphere. That would just validate male delusion and enable their shit behavior even more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:52 AM
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The comments on that oh my god. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 10:39 AM
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I mean I’m not even 30 and I expect them to be disappointing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:35 AM
11

God I hope women everywhere raise their standards to that level by then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:45 AM
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Yesss. Idk about anyone else, but I think of Donna from That 70s Show. She was supposed to be the ‘cool’ likeable one and Jackie was supposed to be the obnoxious catty one and you were supposed to dislike her. When I was younger I fell for that, but now looking back I feel the opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:43 PM
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They also HAD to make women only DV centers because the men in those shelters would abuse the fucking women and children in there with them. And men want us to believe they’re capable of genuine empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:29 PM
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Yup let’s see how long fuck boi can keep up the charade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:56 PM
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Ooh let’s not forget the “dad bod” trend too. Or the older belief that “big men(read: fat as fuck)” are really strong. (Pfft can’t climb a flight of stairs without stopping every 5 steps. But let’s pretend you got muscle under all that lard, Bill)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:03 PM
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THISSSS. This is why the “woe is me”/“I’m struggling sooo much” narc types are the absolute worst. And this is an example of why it’s not “just social media”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 01:46 PM
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It kills me that in something that isn’t even necessary for survival such as dating, everyone wants to have a say in someone’s standards. You can’t have too high of standards. It’s literally a firewall to keep bad things out and your mental health intact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:47 PM
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Women have been trained to believe men are some hot commodity. That if they’re desired, it means they have value. I blame all those stupid movies where some dumpy loser boy gets the hot girl/his childhood best friend who never “saw him for what he was before”, at the end. Said loser boy often has disdain for the less popular and less attractive females in the movie. So I remember growing up and watching those thinking “oof, don’t be a plain Jane. Even the gross boys don’t like them. But if a boy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:31 PM
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Man they always try to tell stories about how they saved some other woman or were so nice to some other woman one time. And then they sit back and watch your face to see how impressed you are with them. I was never impressed. In fact, it always pissed me off but I couldn’t figure out why. You just put it into words so thank you lol Like no, I’m not impressed Timothy. If that story is even true, you clearly just did it hoping for sex with that woman and now you’re trying to use it on me to get yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:27 PM
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If I ever got that line my response would be “She’s not acting like a friend”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:22 PM
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They are the same ones who go around acting like the reason men are ass holes is because no one lets them cry enough. With their damn crocodile tears.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:18 PM
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My first bf was a completely abusive piece of shit and I catered to him all the time and never asked for a thing. Well, he started saying things like “why don’t you ever ask me to do anything for you?”. It became frequent enough that one day I pushed myself to ask him if he could just get me some water while I was studying on his bed. He huffed “jokingly” but then brought it back and when he handed it to me he had this sick smile on his face and said “I hope you don’t choke”. They won’t love you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:13 PM
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Man. The fact that he said that and didn’t even accompany it first with something actually about her as a person says it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:08 PM
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I really really hate the supposed “outliers” to this dynamic too. The ones where “everyone’s cool with each other and super duper close! Both women are bffs and boundaries are only ever barely crossed over and skated around but it’s cool because both women are just so cool! Did I mention how cool the three of us are? Sometimes we all share a bed haha but my bf totally only sleeps with me but sometimes me and her sleep together! But it’s so cool. Cool cool cool” Oh and then when the “cool” offici…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:20 PM
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There are also a few that are like “he just doesn’t know that this is a boundary to you, you guys need to have a serious talk. Just make it clear to him you won’t tolerate cheating” It’s like—he KNOWS it’ll hurt her. He doesn’t care because he knows she’ll stick around to be his doormat no matter what. Hence the barely even trying to hide it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:16 PM
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Right? Like yeah, cause she probably feels at least a little guilty. Not guilty enough obviously but just enough to worry about whether other people will think she’s a bad person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:42 PM
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It really infuriates me that women think they need to be ok with this kind of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:30 PM
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Eww, what would you do with it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:17 AM
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He will though, and she’ll be convinced he won’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:17 AM
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“I will never let him go even though we have our problems we itll always make it through it” I’m never impressed by anyone who doesn’t proofread
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:15 AM
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She was agreeing with you about the friend zoning thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:55 AM
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I think the difference is privilege, money, and expensive lawyers. Sometimes just one or two of those three.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:38 AM
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Yeah what happened to tazing???? The first article I read talked about how she was lunging at the other girls with a knife and one fell to the ground. Then the officer shot 4 times to stop her and “save the other ones”...? She had a knife, they couldn’t have gotten in closer range? I mean how big is a 15 year old girl anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:36 AM
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For sure cops will use any excuse, even if they contrive the shit out of it, to murder or beat a black woman. I still remember hearing about the case where a pregnant woman was beaten by a cop after a traffic stop. It’s lucky she survived and I think her baby did too. Having a gun will not likely help. It’s just time for the rest of us(white women) to step up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:31 AM
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I see what you’re saying now but idk if you’ve ever been hard core gas lighted like that. Especially during a time when your mental health is bad. That and being desperate for a man, thinking you’re not worth much and being inexperienced....the shit you’ll fall for/delude yourself into going along with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:38 PM
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Wtf is up with men always wanting(and often getting) a fucking cookie for “sticking around”?? They really believe they deserve praise and a throne just for fucking existing near people. Never mind the fact that they make the women in their lives miserable—he deigned to grace them with his presence so he’s a god damn war hero or some shit. More and more it’s clear that having men threaten to stay away is not even a threat. It’s a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:16 PM
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I really do think they’re trying to make male depravity more widely enabled and accepted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:08 PM
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You don’t think shit like this actually happens? Have you seen the audacity of men?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:06 PM
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Chick with the keys is a pick me for sure. Look how cool she was about walking in on him with another woman? Hopefully he picks her even more 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’d argue that maybe he wants more with the “friend” but she just wants to fuck around. But if that were the case, why is she staying after walking in on him and the new woman he’s dating instead of gtfo-ing? Edit: actually you know what? Maybe she’s the live in gf and like someone else pointed out he wanted to open the relationship. Only new girl do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:00 PM
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Oh fuck no. And I’m sick of these incels going around pretending not to understand the “problem” and acting like women are crazy. They know what they’re fucking doing. They know it’s fucked, they just don’t care and they’re trying to spread the enabling of this shit behavior around like propaganda because it makes life even easier for them than it already is. Fuck I cringe because I know young women will internalize and believe scrotes like the shit stain that commented. For anyone in doubt of h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:13 PM
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They also want us to prove ourselves as worthy of their time, because men especially nowadays really think they’re something of a catch regardless of their stance in life. The thing is, yes women should expect men to prove themselves to us. They should have to prove that they’re not murderers, rapists, abusers and that they won’t treat us like dog shit while we run around as their therapists and maids and porn stars. The difference between that and what men expect us to prove is that they expect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:46 PM
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This is the type of guy who will saddle a woman with kids and either A) take off as soon as reality hits or B) make her life miserable in one way or another(abuse is on a spectrum like most things just remember that) because again, reality suddenly smacked him dead in his face. Block, delete. Bye 👋 not worth the risk. Do not even entertain having kids with any man until you know what he’s about and at least have a good support system outside of him. Some of these men can sniff out when you’re on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:16 PM
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I was gonna say men are not loyal. They can put on a big show of making love to you and saying how much you connect blah blah blah but outside of the bedroom they will not defend you, stick up for you or anything the way you would for them. I wasted so much of my best years sticking up for losers. Even their own families would say I was being too nice and not to stick up for them as they don’t deserve it. And unfortunately a lot of men are like that now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:31 PM
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Omg those types are the wooorsstt type of narc because they are confusing and know how to make everyone else look like the bad guy. I messed around with a married, “polyamorous” one like that(one of the lowest points in my life) and my god. The dude had to call off work almost every single day or leave early because his aaannxiiiettyyyy. He was nearly 50, but was whiny as hell and constantly the victim. His major issue was that he was a disappointment to mommy, I guess. He was also morbidly obes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 02:25 PM
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Or their kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:39 PM
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Yeah I knew a woman about 6 years back whose abusive husband murdered their two kids and then killed himself. Like killing her kids was one final “fuck you” to her. I assume he killed himself to escape the consequences. Like a majority of male suicides.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:38 PM
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That’s literally what men who think they want a family dream of. And when it doesn’t happen every single day they get angry and sad because “nO oNe ApPrEcIaTeS mEeEe”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:30 PM
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My oldest brother is, last I heard, a homeless addict who doesn’t see his kid. Our mother enabled him for way too long even after he became homeless. I have 0 sympathy for any of them, without proof. I used to but they lie about not being rapists and pedos. Men who arent even homeless lie about and cover up horrible crimes all the time. If they think they can get away with it they will try it: in their minds men suffer so they believe they’re owed anything they can take from anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 07:21 PM
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YESS same here. I always cringed internally when I got this compliment because I knew in reality I was an anxious neurotic mess who coped with it by acting aloof. Men are truly clueless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 03:04 PM
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Ummm. I have literally been complimented for being “low maintenance”. “You seem really down to earth and low maintenance. Not many women are like that nowadays”(lies). But my pick me self ate that shit up because I was a hard core “not like other girls” girl. That isn’t even a compliment the way they thought it was. It’s more like an insult than anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 01:27 PM
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Man, forget a 9-5. I know a 40+ white man with no higher education, who just got a job as a dishwasher at a major chain restaurant after over a year of being unemployed. Dude got fired from another big chain place before that. And he constantly laments and blames the government—and anything besides himself—for his position in life. And he had a hell of a time finding a job at all before he finally got this one. But it’s always someone else’s fault that he’s a loser who lies pathologically and ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:58 AM
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I can’t believe that it took me til almost 30 to realize that men are the ones who are worse off alone and that they just get desperate the older they get. Whereas the older women get, typically the more independent they become(minus the pickmes who never recover).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:41 AM
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But but something something divorce court and child custody, false accusations can ruin a mans liiiffffe I’m starting to realize more and more that the smarter ones just make shit up against women and the dumber ones and the pick mes perpetuate it over and over again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 09:00 AM
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He wants to encourage all women to do this, because it makes maaalles feel good. Not once did he mention his interest in her or what he did to show it for her. So, he’s a scrote. And you probably are too. Gtfo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:06 PM
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Oh no don’t be fooled. They have. Remember men benefit most from marriage, especially loser scum who are looking for a pick me door mat. They’ll marry the woman who took all the initiative even if they don’t love her(spoiler alert: they don’t) because she’ll let them get away with shit like cheating even if she puts up a “I don’t put up with shit” front. Cause the pick me is all bark and she’ll still come back to him/stand by him long enough for him to drain her dry and they know that. I knew a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 02:01 PM
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Right these Reddit scum bags are literally trying to manipulate women to start paying for dates and shit because they think they’re entitled to it. Because it’ll make them feel good—they won’t give af or actually be genuinely interested in the women who ask them out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:55 PM
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Or strung along as an FWB/situationship...and then ghosted when he meets his manic pixie dream girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:53 PM
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Hah your last line! Literally a gold digger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:50 PM
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I mean literally he’s telling on himself that he only cares about his feelings, and what a woman can do for him/make him feel. If I ever get back into dating I am not making any first moves. Clearly their egos are too easily inflated, and they care only for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:49 PM
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You said it yourself you fucking drooling idiot. “I didn’t have that much of a connection” but now she’s moved on and you’re a lonely scum bag wallowing in his filth probably. They tell on themselves and are too stupid to realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:46 PM
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She either received worse or similar growing up from her family, or she is fully brainwashed into thinking a mans expression of anger is so masculine, and that he’s just so passionate about her and that’s why he verbally abuses her all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:42 PM
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And the thing is, even when you are “in the good graces of men”....you’re not actually in the “good graces of men”. They’ll see you as a pet, or a fun shiny object that talks and is fun. So you still lose. I don’t know how any self respecting woman can accept that for herself. What kind of life is that even?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:39 PM
31

Yeah literally, when you talk about addicts—everyone close to them becomes affected and is victimized in some way. And I say that as a recovering addict.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 09:03 PM
36

Are we surprised she posted this on Tiktok no less? Who’s main audience are young 20 something zoomers who grew up around porn and basically addicted to porn and have been raised to think it’s normal? Insidious af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 08:50 PM
9

Kinda like the way they react to getting sick 🤔 It’s almost as if....no. It can’t be. That men are...actually the unstable ones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:55 PM
9

I think it’s also about the men who say things like “sweet, women want equality. That means we can hit them now right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:51 PM
8

Man, convicted pedophiles still get jobs. They even still get married from time to time, because the bar for men is THAT far down in pickmeisha hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:48 PM
6

These two are Gen Z if I’m not mistaken. Think I saw somewhere that the guy is 20
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:21 PM
9

There were comments straight up saying the opposite because that narrative is still being pushed around. I honestly think it’s partially a way to guilt actual victims into keeping silent, out of fear of “ruining” a perpetrators life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:17 PM
39

Dude Johnny Depp is like almost 60 and Amber Heard was like 24 or something when they got together. Johnny Depp wasn’t some child who got taken advantage of by an evil witch and I’m so sick of hearing it. OH, and let’s not forget he is/was buddies with Marilyn Manson, quite possibly the poster child of male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:04 PM
12

Yeah I honestly could not read the comments. I swear posts like that are just bait for men who are looking for any excuse to hurt women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 07:02 PM
13

You right, I checked out his tik tok. I see a lot of sadness and insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 05:36 PM
19

She sounded like she was about to cry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:36 PM
26

I mean, she’s 18. Probably inexperienced. It’s not hard to understand how she probably missed or brushed off any initial red flags. Hopefully now she knows better what to look out for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:40 PM
81

How is it that a man who is not only naturally ugly, but then does a bunch of unflattering shit to himself/wears clothes that are even less flattering, has this much confidence? And better yet—why would any woman want to have sex with that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:19 PM
10

Yupp. It may be subconscious on some level but it’s still abuse. And in those cases I say the focus should be on the lack of intention to change abusive behaviors or just take himself out of dating entirely. It’s a level of selfishness that in itself should make a guy negative value in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 01:55 PM
13

“I’m a nice guy and only use positive reinforcement” describes all my fucked up relationships so well. I could never put my finger on or even understand I was feeling so bad. It’s because they weren’t treating me like a human being with feelings, but they weren’t beating me or calling me names in public(aside from my first relationship) so I couldn’t get angry about it or I would look crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:08 AM
27

The only solution to this is to just leave. Do not accept this behavior. I don’t care what the reason is. I am incredibly awkward and have extreme social anxiety to the point I was dependent on alcohol for a long time. I have always still been complimented on the fact that I go out of my way to introduce new people to a group—because I KNOW how shitty it feels to be left flailing like that. So don’t ever let a “shy guy” use shyness as an excuse. That’s bull shit. If he cared, he would. It would …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 09:07 PM
13

Tbf I think I did come across as bossy/boundary crossing with my comment so I do apologize for that. My problem is, there are so many men out there that count on women thinking like you. I know you say you don’t let anyone hurt you anymore despite acknowledging whatever pain they may have from their past—but there are too many men who will manipulate until they can use that as an excuse to abuse you. I just really want to see that end so I’m probably overly aggressive and passionate about it. We…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:35 PM
184

They think they’re Gods gift simply for existing and for “agreeing” to marry women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:23 PM
7

Right? Try seeing a woman orgasm and then hop off the guy and roll over for the night. Dude would be sitting there in SHOCK. “B-but...muh dick.” Having an existential crisis lookin ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:06 AM
18

You don’t need all those disclaimers to protect male feelings. Just own what you’re saying, they get enough sugar coating as it is. Also go ahead and demonize him. Everything you’ve said about him indicates he was just using you—a full human person—as a sex object. He didn’t care about you. And honestly, he probably demonized you behind your back. Fuuuck him(but don’t literally).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 11:01 AM
15

Literally like she’s fishing for dick. Ironically—The metaphorical equivalent is “fishing” for bait worms. The woman is fishing for worms on tik tok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:58 AM
64

Seriously! It’s clear the majority of them only care about their own orgasm. As soon as they get theirs they flop over like they’re completely drained. I wish I would have done the same to them in the past but I have a bad feeling it wouldn’t have ended well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:51 AM
26

He probably thinks he has 🙄 a lot of women have been groomed to be basically porn stars in bed and to be turned on by sucking their guy off. It’s insidious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:42 PM
26

Sex is important to women too but as someone who fucked around myself, if I’d spent those years focused on discovering myself and developing my self respect, I’d have just as much a chance at finding a good partner to have good sexual chemistry with as I do now. If you find a high value partner and are in a good place yourself, you can develop that good sex life together. Fucking before you’re ready is NOT necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:41 PM
59

“If you don’t have that chemistry clicks teeth creepily while leering at the camera like a sexual predator” These fucks just ooze creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:38 PM
4

I instinctively downvoted after I heard “ooh I’m gonna ruffle some feathers” coming out of the mouth of that wrinkly headed, no neck having ugly dollar tree brand James McAvoy. The AUDACITY of that fugly cave man to comment on sexual chemistry. Gtfo. They really think they’re special for no good reason lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:37 PM
71

Yeah you give men an inch, they will take several hundred miles. Of course there are women who are the same, but the majority of opportunists with malicious intent are men. And side note: wtf does “I can cook” even mean? Cooking isn’t hard, even if you’re inexperienced or have never made anything besides instant noodles—you just follow a fucking recipe. The internet is a thing now and even if you didn’t have access to the internet there are literal books full of recipes. I still don’t understand…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:27 PM
23

I agree 100%. Men still get way too much credit even in this subreddit and it surprises me every time. We need to be able to call that pick me shit out or women will never get anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:20 PM
2

Thanks to pick mes, who are impressed with men for literally opening their eyes in the morning, there are actually a lot of things they can say. If the world was sane and not catered to men, then you’d be right 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:13 PM
13

Man, I’m still not over that post from a couple days ago where the woman asked out the “shy guy” from work. She even double texted him when he didn’t respond to the first time she asked if he’d be interested and eventually got a “positive” response. Dude is obviously like “well shit, why not...Couldn’t hurt I guess”. So painful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:40 AM
16

This sounds extremely dangerous. I would warn your friend in the future to never let a guy like that know when she’s planning to leave him. Just find a time when he’s not going to be home and go get her stuff(with help of course never alone), then she can let them know and then block. But I dunno, with a guy like that I’d be worried he could start stalking her and escalate to kidnapping or something. I hope she has people watching out for her. Like legit, reading this made me anxious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 10:10 AM
8

Yeah like if she was so “sexy” and attractive, where is she now? Did they date at all or did he reject her after that first date?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:23 AM
10

“It has yet to happen again”. So, naturally it’s the fault of all women that no other woman has ever been that interested in him. It couldn’t possibly be that he’s the problem. Nooo. Funny that when women can’t get dates, they point blame inwards. But men always point the blame outwards and don’t try to reflect on themselves or try to have any sort of self awareness. In reality, his disgusting attitude is probably emanating off of him and warding any woman with a shred of self respect away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 05:10 AM
67

If he even took one at all. I mean, come on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 04:56 AM
2

You’re the only one making assumptions based on people you don’t know. “I get the impression he’s way more into her than she is into him”—based on just their levels of attractiveness? Mmkkkay 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:49 PM
1

Why do you think she’d be more likely to cheat? Tf gives you the idea that he’s better than her when you know neither of them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:39 PM
2

Guess I should have been replying to “fdssavedmylife”. She was making claims about the dudes gf as if she’s not good enough for him. And I misunderstood your “who don’t value what they have” as referring to the pick mes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:38 PM
84

They’re the ones who try to tell women our only value is our looks, so pick mes with low self esteem focus primarily on that. And THEN they say “well what do you expect when your only value is your looks? It’s your fault I just wanna use you for sex”. Fuck these scum bags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 11:37 AM
75

“But babe, I know you want an actual legit, legally recognized marriage...but what’s more legit than the eyes of God?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:07 PM
85

And posted it on tik tok like she’s proud of herself... ~so quirky~
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:02 PM
68

NOT EVEN IN MY WORST PICK ME DAYS. Good fucking god—dignity who? And you know these guys all probably trash her to their friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:01 PM
28

It’s not. Dick is abundant. We all just gotta wake up from the bull shit. Honestly it’s just wild how women go through harassment from men sometimes on a daily, nearly constant basis. And we’ve STILL been raised to think we need to prove something to these disease infested flies. Dick is valueless. A dick will only add burden to your life in every case—THAT is why if a man truly wants to impose himself on a woman’s life, he needs to prove himself to be different.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 10:38 PM
14

Women need not flock to men though. That dynamic should die imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:54 PM
33

Jesus so we’re shitting on and making assumptions about other women we don’t even know now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:53 PM
29

You’re giving them too much credit. Just because they know the terms doesn’t mean they know what they actually mean.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:52 PM
82

It’s funny that women have been made out to be the needy ones. The truth is, they are so god damn needy, and we’ve just been brain washed to believe we need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 08:43 PM
4

Wait. Is that something that’s possible to do? Someone can just take the other persons name off a lease/mortgage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 07:25 PM
7

They honestly think they’re a prize just as they are. Mommy must have told them they were her special strong man just a little too often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 04:00 PM
23

Oh definitely, it’s unattractive and off putting at best. At worst it indicates severe mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:46 PM
45

Damn I thought I was alone. I had at least two boyfriends who, while we were actively dating, cry about how “nice guys finish last” with women. I wish I would’ve known my worth then. Now I would’ve just got up and left and never spoken to them again. At the time I just sat there feeling hurt and confused, not really understanding why I was feeling that way. After all, “he’s with me, right? He’s probably just thinking back on old rejections and stuff. Poor guy”. But nah, now I know better. Fuck t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:58 PM
18

Right? He sounds like a complete life sucker. He’s sick and miserable and lonely, and he wants to leech back onto her and drain the life out of her until he finds someone he “wants”. Leaving her drained and him with a full ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:42 PM
14

They tell on themselves but the overwhelming majority of people ignore it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:35 PM
50

They really do make it blatant but then years later when they actually murder someone people act shocked that they weren’t just kidding around. It’s like humans everywhere have a severe lack of situational awareness. Jokes don’t just come out of thin air, there’s a reason someone’s “kinks” make you feel uncomfortable. Why do so many people ignore that shit when it’s right in front of their faces?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:31 PM
337

I have another theory. I think it’s because they’re jealous. Jealous of the positive attention a pretty woman who knows her stuff might get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:06 AM
19

Should be “break up with him because he’s not good enough for you”. If a man isn’t treating you well just because he thinks you are not worth it, but he’s still willing to keep you around for sex and attention, what does that say about him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:54 AM
35

Incel logic: that women actually want their unwashed asses. I’m so ready for women everywhere to stop idolizing male validation, period. I hope one day it happens. Because it just validates their predatory existence for the sole reason of them just existing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:00 PM
11

Yeah be careful with this line of thought. You might just get fooled by the toad who claims he’s really a prince if you just “give him a chance”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 01:58 PM
34

God, they really are like vampires aren’t they? Minus the sexiness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:57 PM
41

SERIOUSLY. Do not play their game ladies. The prize is a dick and a guy that will love you as it suits his needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:50 PM
34

UGH even then it’s hated. It’s criticized and belittled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 10:47 PM
16

Honestly, we never needed them. Throughout history They needed us to continue their “legacy”. We only needed them because they suppressed and oppressed us and I wonder why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:11 PM
81

It’s funny because for a lot of us, we’ve been taught the exact opposite our entire lives. There’s that gas lighting they’re so good at. Edit: maybe it’s because they know they’re actually the disposable/replaceable ones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 01:40 PM
13

Until they realize that a man isn’t the ultimate goal in life, they never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 12:11 AM
20

And then eventually when she finally leaves crying, he “sees the error of his ways” and goes to great lengths to “win her back”(aka manipulate her into taking him back and being his pick me forever but Hollywood never presents it that way).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 11:18 PM
28

And you know he probably resents you behind all the crocodile tears for leaving his worthless ass, but if you fell for it and took him back—he’d still resent you for not having any self respect. Every day I am more and more disgusted by men and less attracted to them I swear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:03 PM
11

If they really wanna joke about that how about we hunt those men for sport regardless because their dicks are less than useless—they’re negative value
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:55 PM
1

Wasn’t Facebooks original main purpose to be a sort of online dating site for Zuckerberg’s class or am I misinformed? It’d make lots of sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 03:22 PM
1

That and if women don’t feel like they need a man for anything, their stupid tactics won’t work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:44 PM
3

People really don’t want us being better off without men 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:27 PM
39

They always fail to see that they’re the actual joke But where’s the punch line tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:23 PM
78

Side note: but why does it always seem like (straight)men don’t have to impress their partners friends the way women are expected to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:12 PM
54

Wtf no problem solving skills whatsoever. I swear I know too many men in my generation who are just helpless to figure things out on their own. Like they don’t even try, they just ask mom or someone else how to do things instead of learning for themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:59 PM
5

Until you pointed them out I completely forgot about cases like that. Fucking Christ. And let’s not forget Brock fucking Turner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 01:33 PM
7

Read her comments. Those are mega cringy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:59 AM
8

That was a book? I loved the movie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:06 AM
7

I’ve literally done that(used emojis) to placate creepy and over bearing guys before who read into every little thing and have a hard time letting things go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:04 AM
7

Me too. But I’ve known women like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 12:03 AM
10

Now you know that’s a waste of pretzels
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:42 PM
22

No no, you don’t get it. He’s excitedly texting her about the places they can go for lunch. Clearly he’s into this and just needed to be shown how into her he really is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:11 PM
15

Ugh the acting like they’ve done you some huge favor. God I hate to see it happen to other women. Like no—just because he ACTS like his dick is made of gold, doesn’t mean it IS. He can treat you like you’re below him and you can still be miles above him. In fact, the sole issue of him treating you as an inferior automatically makes you better than him. It means he lacks empathy, and you don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:03 PM
38

There were so many comments from guys on that post saying they “can’t take hints” that someone is interested in them, that you could hit them over the head with a sledge hammer and they still wouldn’t get it....like....ok but what about them being interested in her? That part just kind of gave men away without them actually saying it all. Like, they didn’t explicitly express their own desires. But what they were saying was, if it’s there they’ll take it—it just has to be made abundantly clear to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:00 PM
28

I bought into that idea for a second after the whole #metoo thing blew up. Until I was assaulted AGAIN(after #metoo had been trending long enough for MRAs to cry about it) in public on a dance floor, and then my boyfriend at the time developed a habit of having sex with me while I was passed out and I’d wake up confused. I don’t buy it any more. And cops can’t really do anything about “that man made me feel uncomfortable/is literally following me around”. Following someone isn’t illegal. So why …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:46 PM
22

Unless they can’t imagine getting even a little hard for you, they will say yes. Doesn’t mean they want to be any kind of partner to you. Men are into all women in so far as they are attracted to the idea of sleeping with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:42 PM
32

She doesn’t wanna hear it. She really thinks because he’s “all excited” now and texting her about places for them to go eat that that is a green flag. She doesn’t see the red flags in all the rest of the behavior and other aspects of the situation such as—I dunno—he’s a coworker?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:35 PM
31

There are so many pick mes and entitled scrotes in the comments. I dared dissent and have gotten a couple “he is definitely into her and you can just be quiet”s already. Like nah. I don’t think I will. She’s delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:32 PM
14

I don’t feel that bad for her. She said he’s a coworker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:26 PM
24

And the thing is—those things are low effort on their own. But not only is he using low/no effort, it’s in response to her efforts. She’s whacked out and desperate and it’s painful to see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:43 PM
27

The thing that makes me most disgusted is she presents it as some grand achievement in the title. I really wish we could stop treating male “validation” as an achievement. I commented in the post that it’s obvious he isn’t into her. She responded almost immediately “ok. Have a nice day 😊 “ as if that’s supposed to convince me she wasn’t bothered by my comment, or that she doesn’t realize that deep down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:12 PM
91

God, her edit is so delusional too. I’ve been there. “Uh, guys, he was clearly flirting back with me(proceeds to provide no examples) but like not too heavily but he totally was. So all you nay sayers can back off”. Like...lady. He’s being polite because maybe he can get something out of you for a while. Hell, he might even marry her! He’ll still tell strange women(speaking from experience being the strange young woman) years down the line how he never really noticed her and she had to do all th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:43 PM
19

This made me mentally dry heave. 🤢 Also how does she know he was “thrilled”? I bet all the money I have that he just responded something along the lines of “yeah I’m down!” All the while he was chuckling to himself about how he didn’t even have to try and he’s probably gonna get sex out of it too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 05:19 PM
6

I’m doing ok, but I know I need therapy—which is tough with no health insurance but not impossible and also, my responsibility unlike the men in my life who I begged to go to therapy with me when I actually had coverage. I no longer tolerate bull shit from men thanks to this sub but I’ve almost gone too far in the other direction I think. I’m angry all the time about the ways I let men treat me and I have a lot of self loathing for the disgusting low value pick me behaviors I indulged in because…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 02:45 PM
27

Girl I feel you. No problem. I only recently figured out what my insecurity issues were/what made me a pick me and this was majorly it. I grew up learning that men need to feel loved and appreciated above all else otherwise I was a terrible person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:07 AM
15

Well the family didn’t want that so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:54 PM
161

I know how I felt about my dad always threatening to leave every time he didn’t feel he was getting enough attention: that men’s love is conditional but they expect to be loved unconditionally always
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:21 PM
102

I never understood that word either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:26 AM
13

This. This 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:34 PM
13

That’s a real story? I wonder...in many of those situations the other woman turns out to be a pick me with low self esteem who gets with the guy behind the girlfriends back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:09 AM
89

Sometimes I really do wonder if men are just attracted to each other, but they’re angry/confused about it and the fact that they feel pressure to be attracted to women. And just like a toddler being told to pick up his toys, their reaction is to just throw tantrums or be like “well fine, but I won’t like it and I’ll make sure you know it”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 11:36 PM
12

This was Chris Watts. And what did he do because he couldn’t make decisions for himself? Murdered his wife and children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:59 AM
29

Ooh this reminds me of my “one of the boys”/pick me days. I’d join right in with the guys but honestly, I was just miserable and jealous. Men just aren’t that fun to hang out with unless you’re drunk, and as we all know—they don’t actually like or care about women. So they’re disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:52 AM
10

Thanks lol, just using their insults against them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:31 PM
15

What are you talking about, women are just lucky to find a man that’s willing to marry them, so even bare minimum is asking way too much s/ of course. But really. That’s basically the message we’ve had ingrained into us from young
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:22 PM
32

Guess that’s why they never seem to have the energy to suck something else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 02:17 PM
2

I’m curious about this. Did he eventually start just treating you like an option when he had you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:57 PM
35

And looks through her phone...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:46 PM
15

The fact he doesn’t stop and realize how fucked up it is that he went through her phone history...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:45 PM
6

Right?? It is literally impacting the environment to indulge in their nasty fetishes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:36 AM
21

Where I’m from I think it is illegal to pay someone for sex, and the charge is called solicitation of a prostitute or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:32 PM
95

Everybody knows, deep down inside, that there is something inherently wrong with adults who do not have a medical condition wearing diapers. There is something wrong with people who want to wear diapers for fun. Wtf is fun about shitting and pissing yourself? Sorry, I know that’s a side issue and not related to the main post. But I felt like it needs to be said and repeated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:54 PM
25

Or maybe because they’re the sex offender 🤷🏻‍♀️ if we use the typical male tactic of “I didn’t lie, I just didn’t share the truth”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/21 03:41 AM
2

Because it’s just a word.... it’s not an action
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:41 PM
14

I know there gotta be some out there, but honestly—how many famous women are out here exploiting sex from people who are way too young, using their fame status?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:21 PM
6

Because reclaiming it takes away it’s power? It isn’t the same as a slur, sorry. And also, context changes the meaning of many words. If another woman says “hey lady”, I don’t really care if you find that offensive, because I don’t. It’s a term of endearment in that case. Life’s too short to be fretting over small shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 10:13 PM
1

You’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:21 PM
12

I found it. Wow. There was literally no context, it’s vague af and yet everyone is berating the woman and celebrating the cop AND the guy. Who responds to the cop “thank you very much” and continues filming. WTAF. I don’t understand the justification of applauding the creep filming at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 09:19 PM
24

I was gonna say. They all like to pretend they have all these emotions when it benefits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:56 PM
66

Any time they bring up ANY men’s issues, it always is either a rebuttal to women’s issues, or they have to include some snide jab at women into it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 07:52 PM
5

You understand that words can be redefined, right? Because when it all comes down to it, words are made up. Slurs are another story. But “lady”..?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:57 PM
24

After finding this sub I will forever say: male attention has negative worth for us as women. Never pay it any mind, focus on yourself. Chasing it is a waste of energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 06:55 PM
57

What I found is I was chasing people who were specifically emotionally unavailable, and pushing away the people that cared. Think maybe it was that way for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:25 AM
40

It has literal negative value if we’re talking potential risk/benefit ratio.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 02:05 AM
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The very extremely rare exception. 9/10 it’s just that those women are too brain washed and too accommodating to recognize the man for what he is, and her life for what it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:22 PM
12

Seriously these men never DO anything about their issues. Ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:53 PM
10

I’m angry that he needed to put a disclaimer about he and his wife’s sex life 🙄 because if he hadn’t, allll the comments would’ve been like “aww, poor guy. Are you still getting some in your marriage?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:40 PM
6

6 ft is not that tall for a man where I’m from either lmao that’s the one that gets me. More importantly though, they’ve(red pill-ers, scrotes and scrubs) got literally nothing else positive going for them that they harp on stupid numbers and assume everyone else is just as below average as they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:14 PM
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I’m sorry, but in a few years I hope you realize he was a piece of garbage on the floor. I know it’s harsh and unhelpful right now, but it doesn’t sound like he was actually good for you. You just had good times. But good times can be had with literally anyone. And you deserve a shit ton better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 03:56 PM
25

I wouldn’t be fooled. This is just another form of shaming women. We still can’t win like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:24 PM
10

Exactly right It’s like “oh she hates most men but not me I’m special “. So really this type of man(the one in the tweet) is still all about himself. And those women responding, I don’t care if they’re taken. They’re still acting like pick mes, lavishing in male approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:21 PM
3

But who wants a man who can’t decide what he wants and/or likes playing mind games ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:13 PM
27

Right? They exploit the fuck out of that shit all while hating the women they’re doing it to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 01:34 PM
63

And neither is relentlessly pick me-ing for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:49 PM
69

She’s a pick me, it was for insecure pick me purposes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:43 PM
25

Sharpie Neck lmao. I’ve seen a few of her other cringe laden tik toks. How can someone be so transparent and so self unaware? “Im not a pick me, but you ladies calling me a pick me are clearly just jealous about all the male attention I’m getting that you’re not”. Lady, those “men” giving you attention would just as soon throw you into crocodile infested waters if it suited their needs. Ain’t nobody jealous of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:42 PM
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Oh, this woman made another tik tok saying something like “ladies, can you please just admit that the only reason you call me a pick me is because you’re mad that I’m getting the attention from men that you want? You forgot to use your personality”. And then another one where in she claims false statistics about false accusations against men and the rates of suicide among men as a result 🙄 a YouTube made a vid featuring her and included actual statistics disproving her pick me claims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:37 PM
51

Yup you are right. I know for instance that I’m not HV right now and have a lot of things I’m working on to hopefully get there before I try dating anyone again period. But that’s why I love this sub so much—it’s taught me to focus on bettering myself and that that is more important than just settling for any dick that’ll have me. And also that having a man doesn’t add value to me as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:27 PM
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Often times their instinct is to make the face in that meme in response to women’s pain, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:52 PM
23

Literally like children. But then when their tantrums don’t work to get what they want they just go “I didn’t want that toy anyway. It’s stupid”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:06 PM
69

It’s hilarious that they assume they have the power here. Like it is not a compliment to be wanted by any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 05:00 PM
218

“So many thoughts and feelings and such a personality”..... ?? Yes she is a full grown human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:59 PM
57

Yeah but what they’re after is just male approval. Which might as well be nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:15 PM
62

Pick me’s do. Literally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 02:04 PM
10

Nah if he found someone he really thought he wanted to lock down, suddenly his “trauma” wouldn’t be an obstacle. Because he’s a selfish LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:26 PM
19

Yes. “I’m not ready”—nah guys are ALWAYS ready to get what they want. If they’re truly not ready, and they’re a decent man, they will not accept sex or emotional labor from you. They will step out of your life instead of being an inconsistent presence in it. If he’s hurting you, he knows and he doesn’t care. So fuck him, he’s not worth any ounce of time or energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:24 PM
3

You absolutely 100% did the right thing. Put yourself first! You will not regret this later on. But if you go back on your decision, you will regret wasting even more time on a guy who only wanted to waste it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:21 PM
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And putting her face all over the internet....tik tok no less. He couldn’t have just put himself out there talking about his daughter and the importance of teaching her to value herself instead of making her go viral for being a little girl and cussing? Not to mention. She’s a kid. She probably adores her dad and whether she actually felt comfortable doing this or not would agree regardless because he’s her fucking dad. Idk man I know I’m being a Debbie downer but dudes get SO MUCH credit for go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:15 PM
19

I remember being that way. Looking back at it now I was just clinging onto the tiniest signs that he cared when it turned out, they meant nothing. I hope she wakes up soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:34 PM
54

She’s 21 and she mentioned having anxiety and believing he supported her with it. 9/10 he probably just(barely) pretended to care to get easy sex, and she’s in such a bad mental state she took that to mean he actually cared at the same level as she does for him. Like I could just imagine any scraps of attention he gave her were like heroine. She definitely needs help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 08:32 PM
10

They’re for whatever fits their agenda that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:34 AM
6

I think that’s part of it. But I’ve honestly also heard a mom say it in context of “see, this is why I never wanna have a girl. Boys are much calmer” meanwhile her one and only child, a boy, is literally jumping up and down all around and over her. Like it just seems like an actual internalized issue with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 02:11 PM
7

Nope. So let’s keep encouraging fuck boy behavior? Sorry sis but no. That “give women ‘agency’ in their sex liiivvces” is a tale as old as time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:56 AM
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If you’ve spent any amount of time in incel subs, it was probably more like a passive aggressive jab than laziness. They hate being “told what to do” by women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:23 PM
27

Yes love that he’s no longer in your life! They are so vile. The worst part is sometimes they don’t even technically “lie”. They’re just vague af, so that nothing can come back on them. But they know what they’re doing. Or the gas lighting. “I said we were sexually exclusive. That was last week. I can change my mind whenever I want. You’re just crazy” that kind of thing where they never even communicated shit because they know it’d prevent them from getting/keeping what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 04:07 PM
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“But it’s not lying, he told her where they staaannndd. It’s her fault for not listeninnng” /s So tired of that excuse and how many people use it to defend fuck boys who string women along and have multiple “friends” with benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:58 PM
1

Omg it is so beyond weird. One of my ex’s moms was like this. We(my ex, his parents, me) were visiting his MARRIED younger brother and some hallmark commercial came on about your kids growing up. One of the final scenes was a wedding/walking down the aisle scene. Mind you, ex’s brothers pregnant WIFE was on the couch next to ex’s mom. And this witch(I hated her) had the nerve to say “it’s always sad seeing your son go down the aisle. It feels like you’re losing him forever”. My jaw clenched so h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:16 PM
1

It’s not irrelevant at all though. That extra detail changes things. Ditching an SO in a foreign country is super different than she was stuck there with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:28 PM
1

She was “mean to him so he left her in Mexico”? Like, was she from there and had family there or...there are a lot of factors that could change that situation. Also, I’m pretty sure this sub doesn’t advocate treating your SO like crap. To me it advocates having high standards, and if they aren’t met, it’s better to just be single. It sounds like that girl that got left in Mexico was probably young and misunderstood the message of this sub. But just ditching an SO somewhere(foreign to them?) alon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:27 PM
2

Are those really 100% good men? They think it’s silly and are extremely out of touch...and they simplify what “bad men” are into broke perverts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:17 PM
3

They also have to make everything about them. Even the ones who do manage to read here(if any) probably just see that we don’t discuss being HVW and not treating men badly and just assume that means we only care about how men treat us. You know, the way they feel about women. Serious projection
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:10 PM
3

Really this sub just taught me that it is never worth it to beg, whine or cry for a man to stay with me. It’s opened my eyes to how dependent I was on male approval, and how in actuality, their approval is worth less than nothing. They either easily revoke it and give it back, or it’s shaky and based on superficial things. And they’re really best kept at a distance, because once you get close to a man he will treat you like garbage from time to time. Starting to think they all wear masks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:04 PM
7

Makes you wonder if it’s because deep down they know they’re so hate-able and vile 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:53 PM
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Seriously how many subs do they have exclusively for them, where they can talk about beating raping and murdering women(one I’ll refer to as PPdenied) for hurting their feelings?? On top of how they already infiltrate all the other “neutral” subs?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:07 AM
22

They don’t fucking listen period. Because for the longest time they haven’t had to listen to anything they don’t want to, or anything that won’t help them get to their end goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:03 AM
19

There’s now a red pill sub literally dedicated to FDS posts exclusively. And there was just a post in there about “they’re saying they don’t need a man to pay but they want us to pay for expensive meals bc makeup etc costs money look how stupid and vapid these women are HURR DURR” like. How do they lack the self awareness to realize that we don’t mean them? They really think the SOLE fact that they’re a man means any woman who isn’t brain washed anymore actually wants their nasty dollar tree dic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:59 AM
17

A sentiment I see thrown around aaaallll the time is that we’re trying to get free shit out of men 🙄 it’s clear they never actually read. Their mommies and pick me gfs/wives probably do that for them too, and then go give them a cookie and a hug all while saying “you’re right, those mean old women are just jealous that I get to take care of you” 🤢 And also, free what?? Free abuse, free stress, free mind games? Please. And if they’re gonna say free dick, bahaha. Most of them can’t even give that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:37 AM
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Wait what
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:12 AM
22

Your comment just gave me an epiphany. It’s somewhat off topic, but I’m just now starting to think the reason a lot of men are such shitty hands off fathers is because they’re jealous of the attention and care their children are getting and they resent their kids and the mom for it. Because their mommies raised them that they were such special boys and it’s almost as if their kids become the new born sibling stealing their attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:08 AM
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Thank you for sharing your story, but also I’m so sorry you went through that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 01:14 AM
18

So don’t be “softer” on girls? My point is that I’ve come across mothers with sons who say things like they never want to have a girl and it is devaluing as hell. To me it just reinforces that women are less valued or cared about, no matter what we do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:29 PM
35

Yes, you have expressed everything I couldnt. Not only that, is it not abusive to suggest that female kids are so terrible that people don’t even want to have them—let alone mothers who are women themselves?? So they’re saying girls are just innately bad. What kind of message is that sending? And why is it so accepted outside of this community for women to say that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:17 PM
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I say this because it’s based on my personal experiences. Single moms who are looking to date often say things to the guys they’re trying to get with “I never wanna have girl kids. Boys are so much calmer”. Maybe I’m wrong for coming to the conclusion that they’re pickmeishas, but it’s still wrong to assign “bad” to female kids and “good” to male kids. Which is exactly what they’re doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 07:11 PM
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