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GLOBAL RESISTANCEfdsThrowaway2021/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:44 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTfdsThrowaway2021/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:07 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨fdsThrowaway2021/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:49 PM
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They are delusional because of porn. These scientists, if male, are 99% PAs themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 04:20 PM
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It wasn’t clear enough, but childfree women aren’t obligated to any of this, of course. My point (by giving the example of simply being a colleague of mothers) was to say that any functioning members of society - hvw - makes our society better and safer. Therefore better for everyone involved in society, including children these hvw aren’t involved with directly in any way. This to say that being childfree isn’t selfish but in fact creates a better society for those who chose to procreate and be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 09:47 PM
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Totally. Not everyone want to be someone’s aunt etc, imo living as an independent woman does so much for society as a whole (hence the colleague mention). Hvw make the world a better place
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 07:06 PM
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I think about this too. It is fairly easy to be reserved in the early stages of the relationship but then you get attached. I think a key point is to keep coming here and reading radfem material, to stay woke of the dangers. Another thing is to keep your money to yourself meaning never paying for his things and not buying him presents (except birthdays and Christmas while keeping it at 70-80% of his gifts to you). Also, keeping your own circle of friends and doing special activities without him.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:29 PM
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This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:22 PM
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I’m sorry he’s suffering, hope it doest not control your life, because it shouldn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:02 PM
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Except for medical reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 06:25 AM
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Thank you for the correction - very true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:54 PM
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Yes that’s a big sign of low empathy and an attempt to silent a victim to deflect the responsibility from the abuser to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 08:54 PM
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And it’s not even a silent treatment. Silent treatment is when an abuser punish a harmless victim. When it’s done to an abuser it is not a silent treatment, it’s saving your sanity and your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:57 PM
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She doesn’t love him willfully, it’s trauma bonding. Edit: bdsm perpetuate trauma bonding step by step- a cycle of hurting the victim & bombing her with love. Creating an addiction-like dependency.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 07:54 PM
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Porn leads to cheating and abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:20 PM
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Same with call me by your name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:48 PM
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They’re pretending to be stupid. They know the whole point is that lgbt and poc-white marriages were done between consenting adults. UNLIKE WITH CHILDREN BRIDES. It would have been an argument if white people made poc marry them forcefully based on the power differences. This argument is as valid as saying poc or lgbtq aren’t adults !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:42 PM
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Just yesterday I saw this very fit woman obviously in good health dating a gorilla looking male with oily skin balding patches and the fattest belly. He was also short and I think she was paying for her milkshake as well. Looked like first or secours date and I wanted to tell her Runnnnn! Really awful to watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:33 PM
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Socrates is the misogynistic bible of generations of males in the west, though
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:29 PM
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Double negging. Triangulating both sexually and emotionally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 09:32 PM
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Unrelated but she’s so beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:36 PM
85

Sad. So many brainwashed women actually cover up on their pedophile partners. One of the instances in which pickmeism becomes child abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 10:56 AM
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I think it has a lot to do with Scandinavian laws, protecting single mothers more than in other countries. In places where having a deadbeat dad is a prime ticket to poverty, getting married before having kids is essential and therefore seen as the norm. In countries where you’re mostly protected already, I don’t see why I’ll bound myself to a man. However I guess this applies to women and probably most nordic males delay marriage because they are unromantic lvm? (This is based on my very slim k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:48 AM
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I know, but it’s pretty unheard of where I live, sadly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 08:35 AM
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See this is my problem. My mother’s grandfather is lvm so I can’t change mine to hers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 06:41 AM
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Saved this post. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:45 PM
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They have an age gap of 9 years already! Is he supposed to date a 30 year old?? Scrotes are delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:38 PM
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There you go: https://www.insider.com/leonardo-dicaprio-girlfriends-reddit-chart-2019-3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:35 PM
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Yess 🤣🤣 Wednesday Walls of Shame
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:27 PM
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Abuse causes illness, poverty and death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 07:10 PM
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Same & I have the cutest dog now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:13 PM
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This! Cheaters never change. Extremely grim bet. Imagine spending more time and love and money into someone who’ll almost certainly break your heart again, give you stds, pay for other women’s attention, can have extramarital kids, can get caught doing shady things and even illegal stuff as cheater do, EMBARRASSING you. So many cheaters have other disorders. No no no no. Why not meeting a faithful partner in the meantime instead of risking your life on this pos male?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:08 PM
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No one wants, actually, honestly wants to watch someone they love sleeps with someone else. It’s a coping mechanism to the fact your partner wants to cheat. I think wanting threesomes comes from internalized trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:36 AM
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I think it’s due to the fact that women have zero support system when having babies. It’s insane these days. Originally a child should grow up surrounded by his family and family friends, easing the anxiety and daily life of his mother. Originally, not every human being should procreate (like men make us think, to ensure themselves sex and bangmaids) but some are ment to be that wide support system of other people’s children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:36 AM
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I personally do not engage in conversation about dating with women who aren’t radfem oriented. Most people will not acknowledge the fact that men are abundant and that it is way better being single and happy than with a scrote. With acquaintances I try to talk only about topics that the person showed they know something about. When at my esthetician’s, I like talking about her successful business. Most women aren’t qualified to give me dating advice. Would you let anyone give you facials or beau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 07:46 PM
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Also: once a cheater always a cheater. Take it from the experience of millions of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:52 PM
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Picture him beating his peepee to porn. Crush level: 0. Remove this image before hating him too much, but keep this in mind until vetting for porn use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:39 PM
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Even cookies without referring to this situation can be very helpful. She will feel seen and validated as human and it may grow some bond between you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 10:37 PM
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For them relationship is a low risk high gain enterprise. They aren’t afraid of being murdered by their gfs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 08:48 AM
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It does make the trauma bond stronger... 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 04:23 PM
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And isn’t it linked to how mistreated overweight people are in our society? Sounds like ethnic fetishes which cater to men’s guilt (“she’s ___ so she’s not really human”).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:08 AM
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Their deeds also get worse with every week passing. They hide it better, true, but the damage they inflict is pushing further and further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:45 PM
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Saw another fdser posting this link on a different poly thread, it’s worth it ladies: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DTsdKycVZZ4
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 07:49 AM
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Brilliant post but formatting is messed up (mobile problems I think)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:46 PM
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⛔️ 110 year age gap ⛔️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:34 PM
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Thanks to the Twilight series, I dated socially awkward narcs who claimed I were their drug and they indeed abused me accordingly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:31 PM
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It gets better. Hugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:27 PM
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Lol ofc the younger are okay with it (assuming they were telling the truth) — they are yet to break free from the grooming and understand how shotty their sex life is. This article is pandering to males’ desire to have younger women, because they’re naive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:06 AM
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They are conditioned to that because of pornography. This is not a natural phenomena.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 12:51 PM
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Proof that porn does not save us from harassment like they claim it does. Nor sex dolls. Nor sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:49 AM
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Proof that porn does not save us from harassment like they claim it does. Nor sex dolls. Nor sex work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:48 AM
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I’m so sorry, that’s terrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 06:47 AM
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Nothing changed when I had my first PIV sex. A lot changed when I had my first orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:16 PM
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💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:14 PM
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The brief overview he gives in the beginning of the podcast emphasizes the need to search every psychological label we are given, especially women and victims. Find out who coined it and in which context it became popular. We have been given so many victim-blaming labels throughout out whole histories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 11:11 PM
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Taking a selfie on the toilet seat. Okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:09 PM
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Just like teaching any other lifestyle: set an example. How would you plant the seed of, say, a healthier lifestyle? You’d just live your best healthiest life around her, and this would sell it. She’d see you happy &glowing, and then will mimic whatever you’re doing. Be it drinking water, taking yoga classes and having good posture. Humans evolve by copying other humans, this leaves a much greater impact than any other coordinated tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:39 PM
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Fightthenewdrug.org
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 03:20 PM
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Do you remember the title of this specific video? His titles are usually so vague
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:59 PM
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Whoever awarded the auto message, you have my appreciation (but don’t give reddit actual $$)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 01:56 PM
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So glad you’ve listened!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 10:53 AM
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I remember wearing only clothing with pockets when I was younger - - and how I replaced that for pocketless fitting clothes since middle school. No woman is born a pickme. We were born free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:42 PM
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Tik tok-less ladies ask for part 2!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:13 PM
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Gossiping about dangerous men can save lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 03:11 PM
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I become more good looking every day after dumping my nvx thanks to fds’ ladies. Funny enough his ugly azz negged me so so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 07:23 PM
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Oooo good luck!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:35 PM
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This is very interesting. I will be waiting for your post about handmaidens (and maybe a post about the femininity as well, if you’d want to. I think some of it is reflected by our current, hyper feminine beauty standard (think Kardashian)).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 02:13 PM
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This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 10:52 PM
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Yes. What’s wrong with people..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 08:02 AM
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Sorry hamsters 😧😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 09:57 PM
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Glad he’s an ex!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:58 PM
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Just did! https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/n160gy/mamas_boy_covert_edition/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:27 PM
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This is all very confusing especially thank to the “notice how he treats his mother” advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:13 PM
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These relationships feel amazing at first. These men activate the biological mechanisms a child does.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 03:04 PM
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True except some of these mothers are so nice which makes it so painfully covert.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:57 PM
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The mamas boy I dated had a wonderful mother, non controlling, non abusive. I should write a post about the other type of mamas boys, covert ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 12:12 PM
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Will give it a try, thank you !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:46 AM
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Great point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 11:22 AM
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Yes, but give away something that isn’t a real insecurity of yours. So when/if he’s negging about it you won’t lose your balance. ‘Reveal’ something that never really bothered you or even something insignifiant you actually like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:30 PM
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Based on their body language and eye movement, this room is empty. They’re speaking to a webcam pretending to preach to a room full of audience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 05:07 PM
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Great title 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 04:07 PM
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I 100% agree with you. I do, however, think that some books for abused women have Pickme titles so the cover won’t push women away from reading it. When my mom saw the title Why Does He Do That, after I broke up with an ex, she thought I was trying to figure him out, win him back. I reassured her that the book presents the idea of zero contact actually. Yet if it was called He’s Evil Leave Him Pronto, many trauma bonded women wouldn’t even open it. Maybe it goes the same way for WWLTM...(which I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:13 AM
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Thank you. Thank you. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:09 AM
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Sound right. Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 07:40 PM
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Which « games » is she referring to in no. 6?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:58 PM
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They’d cheat. Chumplady is filled with these stories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:29 AM
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I’ll explain. A pickme’s prime motivation is having (being owned by) a man. Having a man = having self value. She’s willing to sacrifice every shred of her humanity for keeping that man, because everybody needs a sense of self value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:25 AM
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As usual, the evil woman character speaks the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 07:00 AM
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Awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:57 AM
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I also wonder if there’s an inherent problem with seeking advice on narcissism with professionals who’ve been trained by...narcissistic systems. Academia benefits narcissistic students, many of professors are narcs, and of course - 19-20th century psychology is male dominated and rooted in misogyny. I sometimes feel that my (amazing) therapist is deep down in patriarchy, because she is a successful woman of our current social system. Her helpfulness seems to stem more from the fact that she’s an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:53 AM
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Thank you for recommending het yt channel! Did you read her other books, such as Getting Back Out There? I wonder if it’s in line with fds’ ideas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 06:47 AM
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In the same boat. I have no idea what to do either, but you’re not alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:24 PM
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Triggered 😢🤧
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:03 PM
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Ew he cheated on her?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:19 PM
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Amazing comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:13 PM
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They also don’t understand internet porn and internet cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:36 PM
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Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:27 PM
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Not op but which books do you recommend?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 05:39 PM
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You can’t bond with someone without making constant eye contact & having food together. This is bonding 101, from breastfeeding to family holidays. They’re afraid of intimacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 03:13 PM
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Ugly and undesirable males (unless, magically, raised extremely HV) accept the least waiting time til sex. They are overtly pushy, because they were sold the idea of a harem but can’t get it irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 08:16 AM
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Brilliant!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 07:59 PM
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See this is why I love this community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:31 PM
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Oh my god this is awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:48 AM
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Tons of narcs and power (sex) crazies in academia. Men who know their looks ain’t it / their smarts can’t get them into fortune 500. Academia is their pp’s prime ticket to honor and an audience (supply) of young women. Preferably bUsTy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 11:11 PM
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Yes, and that awkward touching and smile.. sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 03:43 PM
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Yeah she looks super happy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:52 PM
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I get the sentiment of wanting them crawling back. This is our ego protecting us from being unloved & discarded. But our egos are heavily influenced by society and its messages, rom-com ideas of second chances and reborn prince charming. Mend your rightfully wounded ego by being kind to yourself. Don’t place your value on valueless people - it makes no sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 02:48 PM
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I’ll stop here to prevent myself from writing a pornographic fanfic I’d read that! (Seriously, in need for fds-approved erotica recommendations!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:57 AM
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he said that beauty privilege really only applies to men since beautiful women end up getting more harassment and hostility. 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 10:42 PM
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And today they except us to pay for that nasty soup, too. Barf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:02 PM
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They still hate the 18yr old they’re dating though...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:01 PM
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😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:43 PM
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100% my experience with a pornsick. Pornsickness -> onlyfans -> exes’ nudes -> emotional cheating -> physical cheating -> negging -> abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 03:12 PM
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I used to do that naturally, as a high schooler my fashion idols were androgynous and overall high fashion (made mostly by males who gaze at males I guess). After dating my negging pos bf, my wardrobe changed, switching from beautiful baggy canvas pants to skinny jeans, all hail the male gaze. Very hard to unlearn it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 12:22 PM
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Valid advice but let me disagree on the last part - talk is cheap. They can disguise their selfishness with ALL the right words. Watch his actions, and better: behavioral patterns. Is he being kind or feeling pushy? Is he an ego monster or a considerate human being to others?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:38 AM
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Amazing, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 08:19 PM
5

Oooo what a good insight. Do you remember the specific episode?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:45 PM
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In each era, people use the most widespread theory of their time in order to justify their actions, lifestyle and whatever is in use for them. Before the scientific revolution it was religion, etc. The misuse of ‘Biology’ was weaponized to justify horrific, terrible murders and enslavements (of both men and women) in the last 200+ years. Which makes this argument even more absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:26 PM
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Lol as if someone wants a stepdad who cannot clean his own nostrils
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 05:31 PM
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Dear lurkers: we don’t want to enslave anyone, we’d simply like to normalise a world in which being considerate and kind is the standard. This video is showing you the flip side of today’s dating culture in order to mirror the way we live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:39 PM
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She was probably trauma bonded. Cheaters are abusers all around, not just by cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 01:07 PM
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He’s probably ugly af. Or thinks he’s ugly af. This isn’t just negging, it’s abuse - and it is always projection. Did you ever see someone beautiful and confident who rips others into shreds like that? Nope. Always the ugly ones. Glad your ancestors protect you, ask them for guidance and signs when needed 💫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:57 AM
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Some go to therapy (especially the self proclaimed woke men / the ones with wealthy mommy and daddy). But it is usually faux therapy - they get reassurance, and some new vocabulary to manipulate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:48 AM
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Happy for you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:10 PM
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3 months is really early, take your time - no deadlines for healing. One day at a time, one chore at a time. I used to cringe at my past self too, but at some point you just grow from it and shrug off the memories off. They get neutral. Hugs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:44 PM
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The bumps get smaller and smaller, and at some point you forget that there were any bumps and the road gets clearer ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:41 PM
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Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:11 PM
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I’d be cautious with anyone who claim their partner is perfect. Other than a form of speech (as a synonym for ‘amazing’) it is a sign of narcissism. No healthy grownup thinks that his partner is 100% in 100% of the time, so more often than not it is a projection, rooted in a juvenile mind (think a toddler and his mother). Once the perfect woman isn’t good supply anymore, the cycle of devaluation-pedestal begins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 10:01 PM
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It’s impossible not to compare. This is how humans (and any cognitive function really) develop. We compare our whole lives to digital and non digital expressions of others, so not the hyper stimuli of porn?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 01:34 PM
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Wow. This explains so much to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:18 PM
3

100% this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 07:58 PM
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Not sure about this when it’s topical, but true for prescription pills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 12:37 PM
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Just don’t use latisse it can cause orbital fat loss!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:41 AM
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Madonna/whore complex in action
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 08:06 AM
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I remember when I was a teen and the Chris Brown news and photos were all over the internet. I’m so happy Rihanna is a symbol of HV, she deserves it & it proves that women can outcome evil humiliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:55 PM
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He sees, he just doesn’t care, or he enjoys the power trip (making less money than her etc etc).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:52 PM
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He’s projecting, as he knows nobody will want his abusive and useless ass. Please plan your escape safely and make copies of everything financial he and you own, to bring to your lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:50 PM
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In Chump Lady’s comment section, many women suggest doing a short phone interview with a new therapist and asking about her stance regarding cheating. In order to weed out cheater apologists. I think this question can be useful even for women who weren’t cheated on, or maybe you can come up with an issue you can vet through. Something that pickmes would say A while radfems would say B.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 09:19 AM
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You 100% did the right thing. He’s pornsick and down the road you’d catch his cheating in various ways. Imagine you’re confronting his cheating and he’s gaslighting you with “it’s not like that.” Sure buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:57 AM
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Good for you. May I ask if you have any reading/watching materials related? I’m in the process of unlearning society’s acceptance of porn and in need for some anti porn sources.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:54 AM
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Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 08:46 AM
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Except that with traumatic events, the past is literally the present for the victim. Being annoyed at PTSD is abusive af. Edit: if your partner is the source of trauma he’s a nvm or more honestly, a nvx.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:04 PM
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“Thank you for being there for me” is not a love note. Also notice how he drew himself in the middle of the card with a lot of space behind him, and you squashed on the side.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 07:51 AM
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Wow any recommendations?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:09 PM
1

Lovely analogy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 07:23 AM
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Honestly, even the notion that an object is worth as much as it costs, is hella capitalistic and sad. I myself believe in this (as in, I buy the expansive option in the store because I believe it has more value) - but it’s not always true and it actually is missing on the essence of life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:30 AM
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Good for you 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:21 AM
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Ikr?? Honest people must be constantly reminded to consider the source. We take so much at face value, completely forgetting that we’re speaking to manipulators. This is why criminals like Bundy shouldn’t get any media attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:14 AM
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Thats fine she was a really sweet lady so I wouldn’t mind seeing her pics anywhere. She was abused as well I believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:10 AM
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Oh my she looks like my ex’s mother 👁👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:33 AM
7

I honestly think Bundy tried to appear smarter than he is, all calculative and strategic. Imo he might have tried a bunch of other preying tactics which didn’t work out, so he never got interviewed on it. Why believe abusers anyway?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:31 AM
26

I feel exactly the same. Thank you for articulating it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 07:12 PM
36

I’ve been there. Hang on, you’ll heal I promise. Give yourself time, it is only reasonable to be suicidal after being affected by someone who consumes rape and abuse, they are abusers who make the woman who loves them suicidal. And ofc being exposed to visual rape and abuse yourself by men’s grooming (if that’s the case) has an enormous toll on the soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:53 PM
7

Interesting (and disappointing, unless she does so because feminism is interpreted as libfem these days in mainstream media)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:25 PM
13

Victim Blaming 101 imo. Abusers prey on everyone, not so rarely on smart, beautiful and confident women, as status symbols. They take pleasure in breaking these women apart and hindering their life goals. Sure, they also like those with low boundaries (most men do) but only as much. I’ve seen abusers getting the confident, strong woman. They seem HV dating such a woman and they love it. In hindsight, these women adopt the victim blaming stance and ruminate on how weak they were when they met the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:57 PM
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Yes yes yes. AND - the point about intuition is that if it calls you and you ignore her, she stops trying (she’s HV after all). Listen to your gut the first time, it’s your most trusted friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 05:10 PM
241

I bet his pornified brain overestimates his looks ‘match’ too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 01:13 PM
39

Controlling and jealous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 10:47 AM
28

Yes! But don’t tell him you’re leaving him, make up some excuse to leave and break up with him via phone call/text. Keep safe ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 07:51 AM
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