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18

Are you really interested in this dude? I mean He is 4 hours away. If you are, you could suggest the "let's hang out when I go to that area again".
/r/askFDS24/03/22 01:37 PM
1

On another episode of things that didn't happen...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:05 PM
11

Yeah it's not like threesomes are a bad idea or sth /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 04:33 PM
10

This is the kind of energy I want in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/22 03:34 PM
23

I feel like even a HVM wouldn't wait until marriage for sex because not everyone has those values (I wouldn't wait for a man tbh), BUT every decent people would wait a reasonable time for the other to feel confortable enough to have sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 09:31 PM
9

Oh man, this is a dangerous world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/22 02:04 PM
5

I mean he could go, but he should pay for himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/22 12:00 PM
82

The bar is in hell and the LVM professor still limbo dances under it. Lol that made me laugh. I mean it's sad but it's the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:53 PM
421

Wait...this man goes out everyday while leaving his kids and injured wife alone, then come home and time their 30 mins of the day He can dedicate to her? The bar in on hell at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 02:00 PM
18

Indeed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 09:05 PM
127

I would just block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 06:16 PM
21

Imagine being so weak My exact thougths.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 12:28 PM
6

I don't have any story, but that man on the comment is nuts...NUTS!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 03:43 PM
39

Indeed, there's no excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:06 AM
17

He must be looking for his next pray.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 01:04 AM
7

You know constant bad sex experiences from the past can really mess you up, more than you could even notice. Therapy if you can afford it would do wonders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 04:05 PM
77

I'm in no way conservative, yet I find it so icky? for women to propose? Idk why. I would never do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:54 PM
10

No fucking way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 02:52 PM
34

I'm 27, I see 20 yo like literal kids. I can't fathom how fucked up you are to date a 18 yo at 28.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 09:20 PM
9

This is why even if the man is decent (which I'm going to assume since OP says so), age gaps relationships are a problem one way or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/21 09:17 PM
75

Well basically the man begged her to opening up the relationship, until she gave in. He started to have hook ups and their sexual life tanked, OP met her bf on a new hobby, she explained the situation and he was ok with that. At the end, the husband stopped having hook ups and was bothered by the bf, asked her to close the relationship, she realized she was in love with her bf and he treated her way too good in compare to her husband, asked the bf if he wanted to have an exclusive relationship, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 09:51 AM
60

I agree, they tell you to stay "pure", marry some dude and become a baby factory, this can't be the goal. You have the right over your sexuality, as long as you respect yourself and engage in sexual relationships with people that respect you, everything is fine. Just like we need to stop telling girls to get married, let girl grow to discover their passions and make their dreams come true if they happen to find a good man then they can get marry, just like maternity is not sth "you have to do" o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 09:39 PM
158

And found a better partner in the process, I suggest you to google the tittle so you can read the whole thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:26 PM
52

Honestly the story is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 07:25 PM
16

That girl is a hero.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/21 11:52 AM
207

They really hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 08:23 PM
62

Why would you even have a kid at that age, like seriously? You are probably not be around when the kind is a teenager. Growing up without a parent is hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/21 07:42 PM
7

She should try to sell the ticket instead of going to some place she wasn't interested to visit to start with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 09:18 PM
79

Fun story time: I discoraged some man on the dating sub about asking out the waitress of his favorite cafe. Nedless to say I got downvoted, everyone was like "shoot your shots", but please, don't make the poor girl unconfortable on her workplace. His excuse was that "she was always nice", like that's not part of her job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 02:05 PM
8

Honestly, they can carry a conversation it's just they are not interested enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/21 01:19 PM
5

What the actual fuck? Enough internet for today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 05:05 PM
43

Imagine being that threatened about a video that has nothing to do with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 01:01 AM
7

And they say "women aren't funny". This is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/21 12:58 AM
108

And that's a red flag, ALWAYS. It's easy to not mind it at first, but later on you'll see it was a red flag all alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 11:24 PM
9

The kitties are like eye bleach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 10:33 PM
51

I really love the way she speaks, I notice african people (not sure from which region) tends to talk like her, I don't know but I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 01:30 AM
7

Is a joke, right? He didn't say that unironically. I mean, He couldn't have say that unironically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 01:07 PM
72

Damn that woman is miserable, and trying to seriously fool herself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:37 PM
71

Right? Aren't polyamory supposed to share the partner? this arragement is ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 06:28 PM
25

Oh god, I just read the story a few moments ago and I feel so angry. This is how man are socialiced with women, we are supposed to give until there's nothing left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:32 PM
2

Is he serious? this woman has gone above and beyond for him and He can't just buy her the ring she wants, it's not like He can't afford it and it's for a very special ocassion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 02:24 PM
16

That's sociopathic, and the girl must have such a low self esteem in order for this to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 01:26 PM
20

NGL I love those stories too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/21 01:25 PM
365

This reminds me to the men that ask their partners to open the relationships, usually because they want to cheat without risking their relationship. Sometimes the woman say yes, and men feel happy about it, until they discover they won't be having as many hook ups as they thought and once the woman start getting laid they panic, and say that's not what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 12:38 PM
29

It's interesting, when my ex and I broke up we tried to stay friendly for a bit (after 5 years being together), I remember He told me once that his brother said we broke up because I was too independent and He left me to "decide" too much for myself, I was like "wtf!?". Some man do believe this is a problem, until now none of my previous partners has seen this as a problem, even if they have been far from ideal bfs, at least they weren't sexist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 01:40 PM
11

You can't just win.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 12:53 PM
104

So this poor soul is trying to give solid advice to a young woman about a man that has zero desire in commitment and reddit gets angry, typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/21 03:03 PM
1

That's a boundary for me. I wouldn't want my bf to have sleepover with his girl friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 07:07 PM
81

His beard is bigger than his head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 06:42 PM
6

What a clown, His idea of great parenting is not to give the kid up to the system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 02:57 PM
92

"Oh, this is nice but my husband proposed to me by throwing me a taco sauce and it was as romantic as this. Even more genuine" That was cruel, but I fucking laughted way more than I should've.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/21 12:19 PM
2

This is disgusting to say the least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 09:45 PM
7

Another sad fact: She wanted kids but he doesn't so now she says she's fine with it. That's a silver lining. Hopefully her want for kids will be greater than her love for him and will leave AND He won't be spreading his genes on the earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/21 12:36 AM
14

Yeah not being in the mood for sex is not the same as not being in the mood for an orgasm, and I'm not saying that you should tolerate sex without an orgasm, but sometimes you don't want to whole deal jut quietly get off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 04:59 PM
17

When are we going to stop praising men just for being decent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 02:34 PM
2

This can't be real, don't tell me people can be this dense. I swear some people lack of self awareness is on another level.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:51 PM
82

Indeed, it's crazy how man seriosly preach for an "empowered woman", but they just want someone that does everything a trad wife does plus working full time and looking 10/10.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 04:48 PM
2

"We are not prejudiced against women, we just think men are better". I wonder who's going to tell them this is the same as being prejudiced against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 12:51 PM
6

How is that supposed to be a motivation?
/r/askFDS31/08/21 08:16 PM
138

I'm Childfree, I'm not into raising anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:54 PM
27

Well just keep in mind they are just normal people, and can be awful person irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 09:13 PM
34

I don't think you count as a fangirl just for liking their music or acknowledging you find them attractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:45 PM
6

As much as my petty side would enjoy such a nice revenge, there's no use investing so much energy on a LVM, she should just divorce him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:25 PM
19

Well you can't change a 50/50 man but you can 100% replace the man, which I HIGHLY suggest. I don't really mean to shame her because I understand how she felt for that 50/50 crap, but girl hwy on earth would you give him a second baby??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 01:23 PM
38

I feel the same like they got screwed by society (and themselves too).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:58 PM
5

Well at some point if she waits enough He won't be a problem anymore since He refuse to take care of his tumor, but at the same time, why go all that trouble when she can perfectly call police on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 09:26 PM
3

Hernia Hiatal She suffers from Gastritis too. I hope you get better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 12:48 AM
90

I know, this woman is a monster. Can you imagine ?? not serving food to his perfectly capable adult spouse, woman are evil these days I blame feminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 07:04 PM
61

He does not believe in conventional holidays and cards/flowers It's ok if He doesn't believe in them, flowers are not for him but for the gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:58 PM
138

Even platonic female friends say "I'm going to get food, do you want anything?" Crazy, I've treated my friends way better than this man is treating his "girlfriend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 06:57 PM
36

My mom was suffering from intense chest pain, she was taken to ER and sent to a cardiologist, they did many studies and exams and her heart was fine, but she will keep suffering from that, at the end doctor recomended a phycologist saying my mom was suffering from "phicological pain", my mother got angry and my father too, they went to another doctor and she was diagnosted with a stomach condition that caused the pain, treated for that and has never felt that pain again. It's baffling how doctor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 02:09 PM
18

I actually like his train of thought, since men are wild animal we should collect them all and leave them in a jungle (or trap them on cages in a zoo) so they could never come back to civilization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 12:02 PM
3

Hahahahahaha omg, seems acurrate!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:28 PM
5

This is really sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:12 PM
4

I completely agree with you, this is the kind of logic this trash man lack, They only complain about not getting anything out of that situation because it's a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 12:03 PM
76

Since when a rape joke is acceptable?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 04:45 PM
4

Ngl I was feeling a little of compasion for him since I've been in a place in which I sateyed too long in a relationship but then we got this "I have also developed quite strong connections with people i have been chatting online...I would like to explore these posibilities", which means He is been wasting this woman time for very long time but now feels the need to break up because He wants to date other people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:05 PM
116

His respect worth nothing, good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 04:54 PM
63

Oh god She wants to be seen as a woman but she's a kid, sadly this is not looking good for her since she is an easy prey for creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:41 PM
66

Florence Pugh (25 yo) with Zach Braff (46 yo).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 03:34 PM
47

It's disgusting how they get away with it, many of my coworkers have working wifes and still do everything around the house some even feel proud saying "I do the dishes when she is not feeling well". Edit. Typo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:28 PM
5

This is content for thatHappened sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:27 PM
6

I bet everything I have that most of those men that refuse to step up are the kind of "I don't like condoms because I can't feel anything".
/r/askFDS12/07/21 12:52 PM
15

Oh this is really cute! I love this kind of couple even if they've been together for many decades they still put effort for each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:42 PM
12

This man is a gold digger, nothing else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:39 PM
9

That was on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 03:17 PM
15

I KNEW IT! I knew this video would have such reaction, tese man are loosers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 09:31 PM
50

Indeed, they would go after 15 yo if it wasn't quite risky.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:26 PM
18

Poor girl, the comment of the second page is on point I mean He just want this girl running behind him like He is a god, even though I diseagree about asking questions just leave the loser asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 02:21 PM
56

And THIS is why divorce is so common in this generation, you don't have to put up with some shit for the rest of your life when you can just leave and live your best life by your own or with a new partner, we are not trapped anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/21 12:24 PM
26

This man doesn't deserve a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:26 PM
34

Careful guys He have a genius in here, solid advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 01:24 PM
14

I'm scared I was told by my psycologist to made an appoiment with a psyquiatrist and all the awful experiences made me feel scared, anyways I would totally look for a female doctor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 08:40 PM
19

This is a common trope on my workplace I would never...NEVER marry a man that doesn't know how to cook unless He is crazy rich and it's willing to order it everytime is his time to cook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:28 PM
46

I'm glad He ghosted her, I hope He never come back to her life again, She is just a teenager and He is a young adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 09:46 PM
196

27 years of age gap, this man was a grown up when this poor girl was born.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 03:28 PM
65

And then people say thet kinkshaming is wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 02:36 PM
2

Ohhh wow It's beautiful! I love it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 01:34 PM
7

Yeah men are being killed everyday by MEN btw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 08:28 PM
40

He truly belive woman in their 20s-30s will be throwing themselves at him 24/7.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:42 PM
16

He is an old folk that truly believes He can just left her wife and live a happy life with a woman 20 years old younger than him, well I hope they divorce, reality is going to hit him so hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 03:38 PM
5

Imagine someone actually doing this for you, It would blow my mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 04:26 PM
1

They did, I've never seen such an unanimous Y T A before on that sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:07 PM
7

This is heartbreaking, this girl took a seocnd job just be able to afford this trip and her poor excuse of a bf which makes x3 what she makes could even help? this girl was starving I hope she dump the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 01:04 PM
123

No one roast them like themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 08:15 PM
7

This is not only ridiculous but really disgusting, I don't like kids but murder your kids like that is the work of a criminal that should rot in hell. They truly believe FDS is a manhating sub and that we will in any way support that psyco woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 12:22 PM
4

I baffles me that He truly belive that 1- All women want is to have kids and 2- that young woman can't support themselves and live their best life without having to bear with an old ass man that's more on downhill than He thinks. Man are at their peak at 40? This man is delutional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 11:58 AM
45

This "trope" is beyond disgusting and it's so normalized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 12:47 PM
73

CHina sounds like living in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:41 PM
56

She looks like his daughter, btw this woman is beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 07:26 PM
242

You know why court are "biased" against men, because the truth is men don't really want to take care of their kids so they asking for custody is very VERY rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 03:43 PM
3

He was 23 when He took that photo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 01:02 PM
18

This is crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 01:40 PM
20

No I didn't think that, I just very passionate about shitting on 50 shades and take every opportunity to talk about it as the thrash it is (mind you I read the first book)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 07:00 PM
45

Every self proclaimed “dom” I have ever met, was a gross misogynistic loser. Well Crhistian is basically all of that but rich, I mean the man is controlling, abusive and no one is his right mind would bat an eye for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 06:24 PM
69

Well in fact seems like they got more than they deserved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:51 PM
7

This "man" is a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:27 PM
119

It boils my blood that now it's like every man expect every remotely young woman to have an OF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 04:14 PM
8

I just hope everything works out foe the best because she is taking a huge risk in there, probably one she is going to regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:20 PM
17

Because their bangmaids are unavaible and can't do everything for themselves, misogynistic man get angry about the fact that now they have a legal responsability for 18 years AND they have to take care of a vulnerable bangmaid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:49 PM
7

This is creepy af. Poor girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:47 PM
101

🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:40 PM
1

I don't know if it's real I need to believe it's not, I don't even know what I would do if I found out sth like this about my SO, I'm the kind of person that feel distressed when my house is not organized and clean and learning sth so disgusting and dirty would drive me crazy on the spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:57 PM
5

I don't know if it's real I need to believe it's not, I don't even know what I would do if I found out sth like this about my SO, I'm the kind of person that feel distressed when my house is not organized and clean and learning sth so disgusting and dirty would drive me crazy on the spot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 05:57 PM
16

This is fake, this has to be fake please someone just tell me this is fake because I feel like I'm losing my mind, what the actual fuck did I just read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 03:00 PM
15

$20 pizza Oh well I bet He had to bleed his bank account to be able to afford that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:15 PM
27

"women hit the wall"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:08 PM
45

I said this before, everyone criticise that sub because of that but then you got people in relationship that are straight up abusive of fucked up (like this one) what else could you say aside from throw the whole man away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 02:38 PM
15

Yeah, we've been saying this for ages but hey! men only listen to men. This is like saying people care about women mental health more than men's when the truth is no one cares, because women get attention just because they are seen as an easy target, they just pretend they care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:38 PM
41

youthdiggers This needs to be a thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:28 PM
36

I mean we need to recognize the amazing self esteem this old ass man have, they truly believe a beautiful 20 sth would ever bat an eye for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:28 PM
30

Right? Sometimes it feels like they are in competition about who's partner is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:37 PM
7

"What do YOU bring to tha table aside from pussy?" This is such an interesting answer given by men when a women talk about their standards, because They just assume the only value women actually have is being a sex doll, they don't even for a minute think about how much women actually contribute to their lives when they usually offer nothing, women are usually the one that take the most emotional labor in relationships since most men can't communicate like adults are supposed to do, women are th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:33 PM
10

I feel so terribly sorry for this poor woman, sadly she is too much into being a pickme to wake up and realise her husband sucks, she is way too young to be the mother of 3, but well I would bet everything I have on my bank account that her husband is at least 8 years older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:22 PM
42

I'm saving this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 06:14 PM
11

Translation: I'm an asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:20 PM
160

Yesterday I read a post about a boy that lead on a girl just because He wanted to have sex, this poor girl told him she liked him and He pretended to be in a relationship with her, in his words "we kissed, hugged and those stuff" then got her to have sex (she was a virgin) and after a few times ghosted her, He was worried because apparently the girl is being absent from school for days now, a total POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:04 PM
3

Congrats! That's amazing. I wish you luck in the new job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 12:07 PM
14

I have never met a couple like that in my life, my parents are great parents but they have never being a loving couple, I barely seen my parents holding hands let alone hugging or sth of the sort, my father is a good man, very family oriented I feel He just put too much of himself into raising us and It's almost feel like they are great partners as parents but not to each other, I've never thought they are in love. I don't want that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:50 PM
3

Oh well, idk which one is worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:05 PM
35

In fact it’s more common for middle class women to abort female fetuses than poor women I wonder if maybe that hapens because poor people have the hope that they can get them to marry up and help the family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:23 PM
38

Unspeakable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 02:18 PM
12

I'd rather be single, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:27 PM
187

This is a LVM strategy, she's out of his league so he tries to destroy her self-esteem so she can lower her standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:06 AM
44

I read the tittle and immediately knew what post was this about, this man is crazy and has some serious self-esteem issues AND I swear he wants to bang the sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 01:00 AM
1

Well it doesn't matter if one make way less than the other, both are supposed to take care of the kids and the home, if both are working childcare is very much needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:44 PM
5

I know that very well, but it case things go south at least she can find the way to leave and take care of herself somehow, I just wouldn't trust a man enough to be a SAHW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:22 PM
36

I hate it, women are being brainwashed into thinking that being nothing that's not the "chill girl" it's toxic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:16 AM
21

I'm glad this work for them and they look comfortable with each other but this just don't work for me, I just can't risk it. A man can always wake up and realized that he wants to be single again and I will be left with nothing or worse, he can die. I seriously encorage women to work for themselves even if it's minimum wage and your husband make 6 figs, just work, don't let your whole life depend on a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:12 AM
19

Oh god, this is not on you, honestly you did an amazing work in which you thought was a valuable person but sometimes people just suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 11:05 AM
26

What the actual fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 02:02 AM
11

Just imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:52 AM
17

I bet he even leave her alone when sometimes she says she doesn't want sex too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:42 AM
18

I guess, the standard is on the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:18 PM
86

I still wonder how is this a "good" man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:20 PM
49

Ok, so He teased Op about calling her passed away mom but in the very moment something "unpleasant" to him happens He runs and calls his mom in order to get her to scold op. I would divorce this man asap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:06 PM
13

Oh god this is cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:12 PM
34

But don't demand from me that I celebrate your choices as feminism. THIS! this exactly what I mean, I do encorage you to make your own choices but I know some choices come from insecurities AND internal misoginy so of course I won't congratulate you on those even if I respect you as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 01:11 PM
11

I know, the bar is just so low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 07:41 PM
5

It's heartbreaking to think tht maybe if you could actually get rid of those maybe you could be safe once for all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:25 PM
65

Why some people just insist in being so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 12:18 PM
33

Omg they feel proud about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:59 PM
56

Oh god, I saw one of my contact of fb mocking some girl calling out BDSM as sex, braging about how "BDSM is the most consensual thing in existence" and I'm like...yeah ok hun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 06:53 PM
83

Men: “Women have it easy! Not just that, I wonder who is buying them? Oh right! Men, mean are buying them if they want "same opportunities" they should start their only fans and start supporting themselves on OF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:08 PM
57

Leech
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 01:08 PM
55

I want wholeheartedly no woman in this world would be that crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 05:02 PM
17

I got this is so true, imo Tik Tok and OF would be de doom of young girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 12:48 PM
160

"I've been cheating on you since the day one because the truth is I want to be married with you because it benefits me, but I still want to look for women outside our marriage" And then, They expect you to be like "Oh It was probably so sad to keep this from me all these year, poor baby".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 12:32 PM
8

I would get an ice cream instead since I'm very allergic to flowers, but yeah it's a nice habit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:16 PM
2

So cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 07:15 PM
7

You are probably joking but I asked my coworkers what would they think if a woman tell them their shirt look nice and ALL of them said "she must be into me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:40 PM
1

Sounds like paradise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:35 PM
15

A girl in her early 20s saw a snap from his bf hanging out with girls (he was on a trip) and she was uncomfortable but didn't know what to do she was scared to be "that girl", I told her to ask him about it to stop getting scared of being "that girl" people now days call it toxic but I have every right to establish boundaries and asking what the hell is going on, she actually thanked me when I told her that and I felt so sad, women are being brainwashed into being the "chill girl" with no bounda…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:30 PM
14

how they can't show emotion Fun fact: They get mocked by other men, but still women get dismissed all the time for showing their emotions so if you want to be taken seriously you should act emotionless (like they are "supposed" to be) which is the standard men created, they don't get they are the victims of their system.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:22 PM
10

I don't care about men problems caused by men THIS! Everytime I head the "but man get killed more often than women" yes, they do by men btw! They should get it together for themselves feminism is about women rights, men should find their way to deal with their own issues since they are the problem to start with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:19 PM
3

Where do I sign up?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:15 PM
2

This man probably have never heard of the thousands of ways woman get called on a daily basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:58 PM
24

Basically a pedo trying to make excuses to save his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:53 PM
27

"Post-nut clarity" BS for me, some men would pretend to be crazy in love with you and once they're done they call this BS saying "you know I got what I wanted, can you leave now?" typical LVM behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:51 PM
58

Jason is really that kind of man that looks intimidating and you would think He would be drowned in toxic masculinity but this man is a fluff ball, and then you have man half his height calling themselves "alpha males".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:45 PM
4

Exactly, with the make up thing is not telling women they should not wear make uo but making them realise that we have been brainwashed to believe our faces are better with make up instead of our natural features, the same happens with ex be as kinky as you want but if you are feeling pain and being degrade is it really you that want to do that? or aren'r you just scare to be called a prude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 01:32 PM
30

The way sex work is encorage these days is wrorrysome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 11:37 PM
63

This is really beautiful, I hope that girl get the help she needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:00 PM
22

I don't slut shame sex worker but let's be real, the only "good" thing about sex work is that you get money with a job that requires zero qualifications, you have a vagina? yes you can be a sex worker, period. There's not a SINGLE empowering thing about sucking old man dicks (with probably poor hygine) so yeah I'd rather "suck a dick for free" from a man that at least is in a relationship with me and respect me and treat me well than give away my body for some creep to do whatever He wants to do…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 03:48 PM
14

Yeah They do, they're crazy and I couldn't understand why is Shrek so popular, well now It makes sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:10 PM
2

Ok, now I feel even more angry at this mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 04:00 PM
58

His brother is not like him, the problem is 150% on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:32 PM
11

Women have being brainwashed for real, this poor woman provide a roof over their heads, even if He lives there (and hopefully pay rent) don't really help since she need a 2nd job to afford maintenance and such, yet He has the audacy to say "She's an adult, if she wants vacations she need to pay for herself" what a deadweight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:30 PM
10

Poor girl, dating a much older man when she was just barely legal just to get brainwashed that threesomes and kinks are the norm, She thinks she's weird just for wishing for a monogamous relationship, this is crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:47 PM
25

This is what makes it even more scary, sometimes there are not really red flags, some man are just this good and once you get pregnant or even give birth something on their brain breaks, and decide to be the most awful POS on existence, I still don't understand how could that happen, sometime ending up with a good man is just luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:42 PM
27

It's ok that you enjoy it the problem is that women just can't decide not to wear make uo in some situations like front desk jobs, because sometimes is even a policy of the company which is crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:33 PM
10

Yeah, indeed, I mean everyone wants to look their best but why is only woman that need are expected to wear make up every single time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:20 PM
14

Omg now you look like a literal queen. It's beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 11:11 PM
25

Fun fact: some men feel proud about how helpless they are, even brag about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 09:45 PM
42

I find it so weird how people split 50/50 on first dates, like You are trying to get to know me, shouldn't you show interest by making some efforts? If we go with 50/50 I'd rather go to that place alone and don't risk my physical integrity on a "date" with an stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:03 PM
225

I'm having nightmares, once in reddit I read about a woman that was about to go on a trip with her boyfriend and the boy e-mailed her an excel with the exact expenses so they could split evenly, when I say exact I'm talking this man caculated EVERY SINGLE EXPENSE on this trip, It was crazy to me but so many people were defending him. I mean I'm all for equality but this is not that, this is being cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:59 PM
89

Exactly, I mean If I was on the verge of being homeless I think my concerns wouldn't be how can I trick someone to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 08:56 PM
27

It's so sad we live in the same planet as this idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 06:09 PM
6

This one makes me scare, I mean if women had those benefits I feel employees would think twice to hire women, in my country you get 4 months of pay maternity leave and once you are applying to a job they ask you if you have kids and if you are planning of having then soon, so they can know what to expect from you, some even go as far that you should take an pregnancy test and get them the negative results in order to hire you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 01:27 PM
16

I feel so angry when I see women these days with the whole "I don't want to seem toxic/ controlling/ insecure" when it comes to proper and healthy boundaries, WHO THE HELL would put up with her bf sleeping with his "besfriend" in the same bed for a "sleepover", wtf!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:26 PM
12

He was with his "dream girl" did nothing for her, who would've known she would leave for a better prospect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 03:22 PM
7

I got a warning from a mod on another sub for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:00 PM
18

This is like the poorest excuse on the book to say, He cares more about sex than the person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:58 PM
91

She wasn't pick me enough to clean after him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:39 PM
16

This is more disgusting than I can bare, wth. It makes me angry that She thinks she deserve any praise for cleaning after her m******d (don't want to risk using the right term since reddit now consider it an slur) bf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:38 PM
12

I was about to say this is an useless idea, since no one would be that stupid to create an account with their main email, but came back to reality. Still is a bad idea if the person doesn't have an account that would be a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 03:49 PM
33

Mind you, they would blame everything on us anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 03:31 PM
39

I can't offer you a bathroom but I can offer you a gorgeous sunrise at the beach. What? Ok, let's break this down. First, I would never date someone that lives in a van that I happen to meet on tinder, because I would only think about how He could ditch my body and get away with it, sounds weird but I think it would be creepy. Second, If I'm dating you I'm hoping eventually will get married and I very much need a bathroom, so yeah no way I'm dating someone that lives in a van.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:30 PM
92

Another one for your list, I had a coworker telling me the increase in crime rate is because woman now want to be "equals" at joining the work force so now they don't dedicate enough time to raise kids properly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:04 PM
21

shocker! It's amazing how our kids grow but never need to eat, I thought everyone needed food to survive!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:11 PM
-1

I understand what I meant is you can't expect every women in this sub being inmidiately rehabilitated, society has fucked us up too much, just because we are here doesn't mean we don't still have toxic traits and believe me I think it's great to call us out for that (the only way to get better for real) but maybe it'll be better to be kinder since it's really hard to better yourself when everything around you says you are the bad guy just to look out for yourself, this is the sad reality of wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:31 PM
9

They would use every excuse under the sun to make their pedo tendencies look not like a "big deal".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:46 PM
11

lol this is cute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:27 PM
10

It's not the fact that He doesn't get you flowers, it's the fact that you stated very clearly something that is important to you and He didn't give a fuck about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 03:26 PM
3

F*ck all these predators that take advantage of women, destroy their confidence and sense of self worth just to jump to the another teenager to repeat the cycle, it's sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:18 PM
4

Why on earth would you get married at 21.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 11:51 PM
30

This is why I will never believe in ag gap relationships, the man is almost 10 years older, and honestly I think He's taking advantage of her when the man makes way more than her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 07:22 PM
39

It's even more than that, If the man is nice for real you won't hear him complaining about a woman not reciprocating his advances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 06:21 PM
2

Thanks, I'm doing better tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:25 AM
7

I used to get so frustrated by how particular my mom is and prided myself on being low maintenance This resonate with metoo much, I feel like I'm that kind of woman, the " low maintenance" one, that don't expect too much and don't ask for too much, thing is man would never respect that, becase They won't see it as "Oh, she's great I should value her" they see it as "Oh, she's great with me, I'm so valuable that I deserve everything". I'm trying to unlearn this, and initiating a journey where I c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:46 PM
1

This is messed up, I hope she leaves him sooner rather than later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:36 PM
8

Not just a woman, a woman they are interested romantically (or sexually).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:26 PM
3

I'm so worry for this woman, she will be a single mother of two (the kid and the manchild), I mean He thinks this is "gory" and disgusting, what about baby fluids, will He support her from afar too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:19 PM
10

So, I have to have sex with all the poor single boys out there so they don't turn to porn, beautiful. I love how some men make the mental gymnastic to ptu the blame of everything on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:15 PM
21

This is why is easier to get rid of a man telling them you are in a relationship than telling them You are not attracted to them, They respect more another man than the woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:13 PM
9

So lovely, He sounds amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:17 PM
49

This is crazy, I didn't even know something like "sexual coercion" was a thing, my ex was like this, I wasn't in the mood quite frequently (now I realise why), and I would always feel guilty and would obliged, but sometimes I just couldn't do it, and He will insist or would say things like "You don't have to do nothing just lay there", I always gave up and did it, I felt like crying on the middle of it because I just wanted him to finish quickly, or even worse, If I stood my ground (which didn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:49 PM
2

I really want to hear the logic behind this because no matter how much I think I just can't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:01 PM
2

First, that's a very fragile ego in there, sometimes I treat my bf I mean it's a nice thing to do, but ultimately if it's so emasculating why He doesn't step up and pay himself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:36 PM
25

Indeed, man with working wives still think you need to do everything under the sun to cater for them like if I make you lunch be grateful I'm not your maid but still cooked for you, you don't like it? I know two hands that would make a wonderful job at that, this is what I think and what I tell to my coworkers everytime they complain about their wives cooking and they think I'm crazy or bluffing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 06:38 PM
14

I'm actually surprised It takes a lot of self esteem to have such audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:45 PM
17

They wanted to justify their annual tantrum about International women's day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 09:33 PM
7

This is ridiculous, I'm sorry for all the SAHM but that bet is just too high, You could even be married to a HVM but what if He get into an accident and get bedridden or die? You'll be left with no way to survive, so this is not the time where you can risk it all and depend 100% on a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 12:40 PM
7

Omg is so true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:35 PM
24

I thought she was sharing a card that her kid made for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:31 PM
5

wow I bet that took masive effort for his brain to come up with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 06:29 PM
12

We should have sth like that, just imagine a place with no sexual harassment, no cat calling and equal oportunities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:46 PM
9

I can't wait for mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:49 PM
9

Oh God the memories of my ex are coming back, His place was a mess, I always complained about how messy and dirty it was I have to admit that for my own sanity I even helped him to clean a few times, at the time I was living with my parents and he would tell me "if you lived alone it would be just the same, you are lazy too", jokes on fucking him, I live in my own apartment and I keep it really clean and tidy, he was just trying to justify his mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:40 PM
37

He wants to date you, but in the frame of 3 mins He already find the way to call you stupid? I don't understand how that could make him desirable for you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:11 PM
9

The sad part is Where is the lie on this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:11 PM
30

Short story: A very close friend once said had feelings for me, I told him I only liked him as a friend, everything good so far, some time later we drift apart, few years later started talking again I was on a relationship but we broke up, months after I broke up with my ex my "friend" says he has feelings for me...again, I said "I only like you as a friend" the second time I was beyond annoyed I mean I told him no first time just give up, well I started dating another man, he got mad and blocke…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:13 PM
99

That was a powerful speech.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:03 PM
1

The funny thing is if they actually have a PS5 it was probably a gift from his gf, and the WE are the gold diggers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:13 PM
40

"There's no gold to be dug" lol this is so f*** true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:24 PM
6

They always try to get women to go above and beyond just to accommodate man feelings, which btw they tend to not share, I wonder are they children or grown ups?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:30 AM
3

But then women are "too complicated"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 11:28 AM
7

Don't you dare to expect him to do any kind of effort, he might leave!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:41 AM
7

Idk I just like to read but they all suck tbh, I'm not sure how I didn't notice before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:35 PM
31

THIS, It's frustrating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:34 PM
6

So cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:22 PM
2

A "kink" is to get off watching pics of feet, canibalism IS. NOT. A. KINK.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:23 AM
54

Both are terrible for me, but the last one is the worse, I mean yeah man no one like abusers and you sound like bad news but the other man, are you serious? I'm in the middle of the worst pain I've ever been and you cry? please stay strong and help me cope don't start crying so I need to take care of your pain too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:35 PM
5

My bf and I don't celebrate Valentine's day, yet He bought me a bracelet (which He gave me in advance because couldn't wait) and planned a date at my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:08 PM
23

Wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:46 AM
79

One day me and my male coworkers: Me: What would you think if a woman tells you that they like your shirt? Them: She likes me, and want sth with me Me: But she told you she likes your shirt not you Them: But if she's noticing is because she is into me What I learned: Don't compliment a man unless you are interested in them because that would "lead them on".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:12 PM
9

Only predatory men get threatened by women that knows they are attractive, They like the "Don't know she's pretty type" because They want attractive women but don't want them to be confident, They need them to be insecure so they can manipulate you into thinking nobody is going to love you "like They do".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 03:05 PM
112

What do I gain from being a hoe? sex? I'm sorry but I'm not into mediocre sex with someone that won't give a F* about my pleassure and well being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:56 PM
62

That's another level of disgusting, what the hell is going on with their brain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:39 PM
14

Mothers trapped in terrible relationships because of kids, this is so hard to see honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 07:17 PM
19

It's so funny how they have so low standards for themselves, they call perfect to a man that's kind, smart, mentally stable, goals oriented and respectful which is basically what we are looking for in a partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:49 PM
167

I remember one time someone said sth about males contraceptives, like the pill and men were going nuts about the possible side effects while I just thought those are not even as bad as the ones women get from hormonal BC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 11:03 AM
2

Daniel is amazing, He's funny but so insignful too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:30 PM
369

Basically they want a wife to replace their mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 01:25 PM
13

Oh gosh this is seriously bringing bad memories, my ex used to intimidate me (not sure how to explain it on english) just to make me flinch, I would ask him to stop but he would do it because my reaction was fun. What the hell was I thinking allowing that behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 10:16 AM
268

I'm not a nurse damn I don't even like children (or people in general) and I'm perfectly capable of understanding why is so hard for her to cope with that, how come some men are just that brain dead to lack basic empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:31 AM
5

My mom was suffering from an Hiatus Hernia (It can cause pain like a heart attack), they made sure it wasn't her heart causing pain and the doctor was ready to sent her to a therapist, "if it's not physical it must be mental" she got lucky she went to see others doctor until she finally got diagnosed and treated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:28 PM
35

This is why I think the younger an 18 yo should date is a 16 yo, but +18s dating 12 and 13 yo, is so gross the only reason they go after those kids is because girls their age wants nothing to do with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:58 PM
26

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:09 PM
22

Well at the same time she won't lose time in a loser that only wants to see her naked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:58 PM
2

Lets get this straight, He's a loser that can't even make her gf feel secure in a relationship and then complain because she's disappointed? Man you should've man up when you could.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 12:48 PM
5

Yeah it would be interesting but I can't deal with it neither.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:24 PM
125

I can already see all the hate comments this would get if you post it in another sub, men saying it's not true, It doesn't matter, every excuse under the sun but the second it's about "loose vaginas" the jokes and the slutshamming is somehow ok, man can be so f* misoginistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:44 PM
8

They don't even care so why lose your time with the loser that can man up and comunicate properly instead of making someone belive they're into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 12:35 PM
9

I agree, what I mean is women are attacked even for other women for "snooping" when the man is giving you so many reasons to doubt him, it's unfair, I believe in privacy but as you said why would you be this afraid if you have nothing to hide, and if you are giving me reasons I don't care I would check you phone until my doubts are cleared off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:09 PM
-16

I hate this so much, like seriously You shouldn't be snooping in your SO's phone but if you are giving me reason to distrust you I have every right to do what I can to find if you are cheating on me or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:51 PM
28

What about him making way more than you, how is fair for both contributing 50/50 is rediculuos for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 01:32 AM
17

The man is another level of cheap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 12:52 AM
1

So his wife is dying he had to step up as a father and husband but realised it's too much work so got rid of her? What a fucking catch is this man, not trashy at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 01:54 PM
7

I want to earn a lot a money this year and step up in my carrer, start taking care of myself, eating better and exercising regularly, this year I'm getting my abs back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:38 AM
32

LVM and Pick mes would try to shame a women for having standards, listen you don't need to be beautiful (model like), rich or have a successful career to decide to respect yourself and have standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:33 AM
9

I was 5 years with my ex and thought He was the only person in the universe for me, turns out He wasn't, now I'm in a new relationship with someone that respect me for real (at least for now) and I realised that I'm actually a great partner and even if things doesn't work out with my current bf I'll be ok because I don't even need a bf I'm only dating because I genuinely like the person I'm with not because I need him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:05 AM
3

It's beautiful ❤️ enjoy it you deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 12:59 AM
3

That's a beautiful ring 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:05 PM
1

Oh well honestly the ideal would be your bestfriend to be a HVW as you said, but at this moment you can say my only friend is my bf, I recently dropped my "friends" (only two btw I'm kind of an introvert) a man and a woman, both people that don't deserve my time anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:55 PM
2

"Dance on your grave" that was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:45 PM
52

If my husband can't contribute economically, can't do his fair share of chores, meet my physical needs and be an emotional support for me, why the hell would I even get married? and just to be clear any of this are negotiable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:32 PM
5

Ok, why on earth would ANY woman in this world (in her rigth mind) would like to be his bangmaid?? talk about the audacy, the poor loser hasn't realise yet that is not that he brings nothing to the table the issue is that having him in your life is a burden.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 09:19 PM
30

Oh what a great World we live in, he needs to harm you before they can even do sth. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:34 PM
11

But there's a lot wrong with being with a loser that would lose His child birth over some game, I hope She dump him soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 01:50 AM
26

Why did She even needed a Man when She has the money to adopt (Or sperm donor) and take care of it on her own, she's probably going to raise the baby alone anyways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 11:14 PM
8

Lol the audacy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:10 PM
8

That reminds me to a boy (18-19 yo) in r/childfree asking advice since his Christian gf (they were in a casual relationship btw) got pregnant, lied about taking BC and refused to abort because of her faith, boy was trying to find a way to bail and I was like, why didn't you just used a condom even if she was telling the truth about taking BC regularly it can still fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:40 PM
50

Tell me about it, all my uncles have cheated on their (very great btw) partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:27 PM
57

Then people complain about always getting the "break up" advice but damn if she don't break up with the man I don'y know what else to say, the man is proud that He spent 1k on a stranger on the internet, WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:24 PM
7

Everything is beautiful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:17 PM
7

Omg I almost shoke, that was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:14 PM
2

I coudn't even read the whole thing, once She said he barely brushed His teeth I was ready to vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:37 AM
3

Honestly, the only reason I would watch Man like dating couches Is to have a good laugh at their audacy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:27 AM
19

I've Heard this too many times, Man can be so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:17 AM
28

I'm having serious flashback from my ex now, everytime I told him I felt disrespected He would ignore it and say sth like "we're a couple I can't disrespect you" He didn't know the concept of boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:08 AM
4

Translation: I have never pleased a woman in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:14 PM
4

I don't know what he Is talking about, we don't hate men we just hate LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:11 PM
16

And then FDS women are crazy and "nicegirls".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:47 AM
12

This Is a troll post, please just tell me Is a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:43 AM
21

I don't know why she's complaining about her weight when She can easily lose (around) 300 lb of deadweight by dumping the loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:39 AM
6

How many times do they ditch their friends for the sniff of pussy? This has been a problem a free times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 07:28 PM
14

And we're the emotional ones, it males me laugh everytime someone says that, I work in a company were 90% of the employees are males and they're always so much drama between them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:57 PM
9

People always judge women that move on too fast when a relationship Is over, but once you learn you are usually better on your own Is easy to Let them go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:27 PM
8

You're killing it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:25 PM
8

This Is horrifying I hope you find the way to get better, Honestly Is so frustrating why can't se just go out and be safe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:22 PM
6

At least we have a peak outside highschool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:16 PM
11

The staff are genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:13 PM
3

Thanks, I'm doing so much better actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 03:17 PM
4

I get it, I said it un the way I didn't fell threaten but as the time pass I justo realise that maybe he was midly abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:13 PM
11

A Little translation, You ask too much = I don't want to put any efforts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:42 AM
40

When you think you might be too harsh on men they step up their game to make you remember why you can't catch a break with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:36 AM
21

Oh god everytime I read things like that I just realise how fucked up was my ex, He would do that as a joke, He would raise his fist and I would cringe to protect myself and he would laugh and say "silly I won't hurt you" and do it again to see my reaction again. He wasn't abusive perse but a huge narcicist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:29 AM
4

“High maintenance” Is what they call you when they're cheap and you don't tolerate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 09:16 PM
5

Why men think this high of themselves is beyond me, Sorry I'm not into being a bangmaid, because with romantic what they mean being avaible to have sex everytime they fell like it and by "decent meal" they mean, do all the chores because yes it doesn't stop with only cooking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:29 PM
5

Wtf this is just creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:21 PM
5

I'm at loss of words, He went to a strip club with no money?? really?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:19 PM
22

Considering?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:01 PM
47

Me too! this is hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:48 PM
2

Don't missunderstand him, He was trying to prove her point. Edit. Reading the comments I just remembered my ex, He loved to Cook especially for "me", and would always make it extra spicy (because he loved that) which I couldn't tolerate like AT ALL and then get mad because i dont appreciate His efforts to "please me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 05:10 PM
3

This Is not good, this Is tragic, 7 years and it's the first Time you get a orgasm while on the same room as your husband because Btw the Man did like...nothing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:15 AM
3

He was, the things Is I didn't realise how much of a narcicist he was and even it he wasn't that vas, He was lowkey controling, I had to get into another relationship to relise that my boundaries are supposed to be respected.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:55 PM
5

Fun fact: He went ballistic when I broke it off because I wasn't happy in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:57 PM
1

"Help me my wife was raped and I have a hard time coping with that" Imagine how is SHE coping.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:51 PM
1

The only he has on him is his cute dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:15 PM
3

I am thinking of getting in annulment? ASAP please, YOU ARE NOT AN OPTION, He can go to his ex if he likes her that much (maybe she doesn't want him back)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:45 PM
6

"He didn't ask for nudes" with those standards sure you both got married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:10 PM
2

Says the broke incel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:03 PM
5

This is hilarious but I have a very strict policy about this, no condom no sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:01 PM
9

My ex:"making out Is foreplay for sex, what do you want?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:56 PM
15

Imo if he refuse yo call them out Is because he thinks the same way but prefer not to openly agree un order to not make her unconfortable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 05:14 PM
1

My male "best friend" blocked me on everything when he learnt that I got a bf, he confessed his feelings to me and I was clear I only wanted a friendship, I felt uncomfortable with his confession so we stopped talking too frequently when he heard about my new relationship he asked me and blocked me, some man are just crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:45 AM
19

I justo want to know why, why do men do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:18 AM
8

This is lowkey sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:14 AM
2

Why would he even date someone else if he's still in love with someone else, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:16 PM
5

Of you feel ready for a public propousal, you should be ready for a public rejection too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:39 AM
13

Well I don't hate man actually I love man, decent, honest and loyal man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:06 AM
11

If a man is afraid of a confident woman, run away that's a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 01:15 AM
9

That's creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:57 AM
4

Now everything makes sense, He grommed her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:27 AM
11

She can be a power couple with a man that doesn't cheat on her, but I get it, that's just sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:52 PM
5

The man is a creep, good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:16 PM
32

I can't believe this is real, this is how bad my idea of men is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:56 PM
22

It's beyond me why she stayed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:13 PM
12

I just realised you are right, someone that honestly value you won't stop giving you attention and love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:25 AM
4

This is a red flag for me, he thinks is emasculating to have a women to help you with sth, he seems like a man with fragil ego, anyways I don't know him so take my opinion with a grain of salt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 12:05 AM
8

They do exist, well I can't tell yet but my current bf (we've been official only for a month or so) told me he wanted to know what brands do I use in case he had to get it for me when we were talking about periods a few days ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:58 PM
31

This is what I've been saying all the f time! Man are just as emotional but they don't even learn how to identify their emotions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:40 PM
37

Indeed, I was like "where are the feelings I was supposed to have?" I felt nothing, It was phisically paintful ngl but aside from that I felt nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:21 PM
93

Indeed, I was told all my life that you can "notice" when you stop being a virgin, that your body changes and a lot of stupid taboos, I lost virginity and nothing changed literally nothing, not even in a emotional level, I felt nothing, not excitment or sadness, nothing. I was the same person I was an hour before it happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 03:06 PM
6

Well I guess you're right but in my case, my parents contributed almost equally to the household, my father having the biggest share, I guess my parents dynamic were different and probably the reason I'm not ok with being an SAHM or settleting with someone that doesn't take part in the household.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:49 PM
14

This man act like he's a "catch", I bet he would jump into whoever show some kind of interest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:56 PM
413

Men want 1950's style housewives who also magically contribute 50/50 financially. THIS. What the hell is wrong with some man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:46 PM
12

This resonated in my soul, months ago I ended a long-term relationship and now I'm currently dating someone else and still my ex wants me to give him explanations about why I started dating someone else this soon, He legit believes that He has the right to demand this from me, in his own words "I owe him an explanation".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 12:37 PM
28

He'll be in schock once he discovers women life doesn't revolves around his penis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 04:46 PM
44

Indeed, if the man turn to be thrash you're trapped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 11:28 PM
13

AND expect you to give them BJs while not in a commited relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 06:31 PM
2

It's about responsability, some men just don't want to take responsability for being shitty lovers, Society expect you to "change" the men into the kind of person you want to date, I'd rather look for a men that's already the kind of men I want to date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:30 PM
36

This made me laugh ngl, 100% agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:17 PM
6

Indeed, honestly I feel happy to have found this comunity and the fun fact is that I first found out of FDS throught r/Nicegirls, They were calling out some post in here like the girl was crazy but I thought she was actually reasonable for standing her own ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:15 PM
3

I get, this is honestly heartbreaking, some men can be really cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:07 PM
77

With no regard for their pleasure? Based on their logic, They just care about their pleasure is it's "the right one", in my opinion those men make selfish lovers once the honeymoon phase has passed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:52 PM
3

Mister intense is feeling extra talkative today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:30 PM
14

So they act like a couple not for two weeks, not for two months but for TWO YEARS, and yet He think they are not in a relationship because they haven't had the "talk".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:23 PM
25

No no no no no Never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 09:17 PM
2

If a man implies that he wants to break me what need to be break it's the relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 05:59 PM
8

What the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 09:32 PM
9

That a good woman doesn't enjoy sex. That's the short for "I can't please a woman so I need someone that doesn't enjoy sex".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:04 PM
11

I'm glad they "made it work" sadly I'm not the kind to be treated as an option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:58 PM
3

What about calling a therapist and fixing yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:34 PM
2

Ignore them, They call you a whore because You are not giving them attention and that's the only thing they want, You might feel frustrated because you don't get to tell them what they deserve but believe me, nothing hurt their ego worse than being ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:06 PM
3

Yes! unless you are actually in love with his country too and you legitimately think you could have a much better life in there, just don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 07:00 PM
21

Boyfriend thinks it's sexy to beat up women THIS! How the hell could someone think is sexy to beat up the person you "love" wth, I'm not kinkshaming in any way and It's ok to like it rougher but that's way too different than having this sick "dominant/submisive" dynamic, why would any healthy human being feel the need to dominate and degrade the person they're in love with in order to get turn on??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:51 PM
6

I feel sad for her, honestly this man would never marry her, and his so called qualities seems BS to me, someone that truly loves wouldn't disrespect you, If he would be half as good as she makes him look He would've be honest from the start about how He don't intend to get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:40 PM
148

"I was the creepy kid in high school" Guess what hunny? You're an creepy adult too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 02:09 PM
6

Because you're a decent human being which not everyone with depression happen to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:54 PM
78

This is so annoying, like depression is any excuse to act like an as*hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:21 AM
44

Must be a troll, tell me is a troll because this can't be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:29 PM
5

"Someone better than me" the average man are already better than you I mean, the average man at least brush their F teeth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:02 PM
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