'CoMpRoMiSe!!'

AyemHerself · 2020-10-10T03:31:30+00:00

That's a symptom of depression. Have you tried communicating with him? And I don't mean with Mr. Hoskins.

CloacaDiddler · 2020-10-10T04:55:21+00:00

“Um, it’s actually all your fault because how was he supposed to know you didn’t want him to shit on the carpet if you haven’t expressly sat down and communicated this to him before? Honestly I hope he calls the wedding off and gets away from you because you seem really toxic and controlling. He can do better, you need to really think about who you are as a garbage person.”

Gaslight, shame, excuse, repeat.

mshourglasss · 2020-10-10T02:57:07+00:00

Yeah. You are. Honestly with what I’m reading here it seems like you just need to sit down and talk with him...a lot of the time men simply can’t comprehend that a woman doesn’t like literal human shit on her carpet.. Also, why can’t you just accept Mr.Hoskins? It seems pretty innocent imo....relationships are about compromise but communicating to him that you don’t like shart on your carpet may be a good place to start

AnniaT · 2020-10-10T03:36:30+00:00

dEVilS aDvoCaTe hErE

redbirdflies · 2020-10-10T02:45:27+00:00

DiD yOu tAlK tO hIM aBoUt HoW tHaT mAKeS yOu fEeL tHo???

kaoutanu · 2020-10-10T05:13:32+00:00

Break up? No we can't, we live with his mother and our three kids and two dogs that we had after knowing each other a week, we're totally independent though. He said he'll cut back on sleeping with my sister if I give him more anal though!

nomaki221 · 2020-10-10T03:45:55+00:00

reading AITA gives me an aneurysm sometimes

riricide · 2020-10-10T03:42:44+00:00

Can we just make Lundy Bancroft's book required reading in high school? I would hope both men and women would benefit from reading it.

superlittlestitous · 2020-10-10T10:25:50+00:00

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CynicalSucculent · 2020-10-10T03:51:02+00:00

mAyBe he hAs dEpresSion and nEeds thErapy

chateauduchat · 2020-10-10T03:14:49+00:00

You forgot to change the ages to 19F and 43M 😩

jeneprometsrien · 2020-10-10T03:11:25+00:00

You need to cOmMuNiCaTe before the wedding so he understands and you guys are on the same page.

OrangeyPanda · 2020-10-10T06:01:25+00:00

"Hmm I can't judge, I mean there's two sides to every story and he might have a justifiable reason for why he's shitting on the carpet. Did he have a bad childhood perhaps?"

_HEDONISM_BOT · 2020-10-10T03:35:45+00:00

"cOmMuNiCaTe"

typeadhd · 2020-10-10T05:44:28+00:00

Honestly

And the comments are just well aww you gotta communicate with him ❤️✌🏾😍

It’s like um you don’t have to put up with this ma’am like some of these questions are so outrageous it’s almost comical but in reality it’s just sad because these are real people asking and it makes me question the state of human romantic relations

naps-seductively · 2020-10-10T02:49:57+00:00

I hate it but I can’t stop laughing 😂

EfficientTackle · 2020-10-10T10:50:03+00:00

Sounds like he is depressed! You need to step up and do more for him! Have you thought about making extra nice dinners, letting him off his monthly chore of cutting his toenails and buying him some presents? stop being so judgey and self centred

Novemberinthechair · 2020-10-10T10:30:46+00:00

🤣🤣🤣 There's something missing, though. The part where the hypothetical she pleads with the readers to not tell her to break up with him.

steingrrrl · 2020-10-10T14:32:13+00:00

wow idk about some of the other commenters, but I'm a girl, and I LOVE when my man poops on the carpet! I bet hes done things for you before that he didnt personally enjoy, like watching the notebook or going shopping with you or brushing his teeth, but you gotta try to be more positive about it! you might wanna think about apologizing to Mr Hoskins for not giving him a chance.

FleetingDaisy · 2020-10-10T09:11:42+00:00

oK bUt CaN We hAvE hIs PerSpEcTiVe

spiritravel · 2020-10-10T05:20:40+00:00

Yes F29, YATA

akashyaboa · 2020-10-10T11:20:52+00:00

And it's more often F[22] and M[54] but he looks younger

pritheemakeway · 2020-10-10T12:18:30+00:00

“Me (29f) and my husband (31m) are struggling financially and fight all the time over him slapping our cats. Is this relationship doomed?”

Commenter- “your relationship can still work! First thing you need to do is go to couples therapy”

2020-10-10T16:49:07+00:00

My (26F) bf (48M) has said now he’s not sure about keeping the baby. I’m 10 cm dilated but he says I’m overreacting. AITA? Also, I think he’s sleeping with my sister.

mooncakelove · 2020-10-10T04:41:58+00:00

Love this post. It seems like relationships can become one sided and posts like this are all over Reddit :( One person puts in more work to make the other person happy and then realizes later on that they become unhappy while trying to make the other person happy. Sad cycle.

entrylevelheaux · 2020-10-10T12:19:06+00:00

literally though... this isn't even an exaggeration

jayohday · 2020-10-10T04:52:08+00:00

Oh man 😂 glad we are all seeing the trend quickly

washopingyoudask · 2020-10-10T05:05:06+00:00

Ha! Hahahahhaha!!

Albinchen · 2020-10-10T12:07:02+00:00

Also the extreme big age difference

Silly-Power · 2020-10-10T16:06:07+00:00

I'm calling every shit I take Mr Hoskins from now on.

Sorry, I'm about to have a meeting with Mr. Hoskins. I'll call you back.

heliodrome · 2020-10-10T22:42:51+00:00

Have you considered you have vIcTiM mEnTaLiTy?

BougieAnarchist118 · 2020-10-10T13:39:47+00:00

I just laughed out loud at work

michdthrwwy · 2020-10-10T17:07:38+00:00

Not realistic at all. The age gap needs to be larger

-badmadAM · 2020-10-10T21:07:22+00:00

Yes you are overreacting, don't be so controlling, he might have depressions or a shitty week. How about trying to communicate why you don't like shat on the carpet, did you even try to understand him and maybe also educate him why people don't do this usually? Males emotions are never taken seriously, and here you are negging, complaining and controlling like a mean bitch of a shitty gf. Women are such hysterical overemotional bitches lolol. Thats my advice, it is LoGiC you know, you're welcome, callous b**ch. ^\s)

Half_Halt · 2020-10-10T22:17:54+00:00

Have you tried confining him to a room with hard surface flooring?

Title	'CoMpRoMiSe!!'
Author	cutsforluck
Upvotes	6625
Comments	84
Date	October 10, 2020 2:40 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/j8cprp/compromise/
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