| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 352 | Kick him out sis | #KickHimOut2020 | jeneprometsrien | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:21 PM |
| 310 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man out | Story time ☕ | jeneprometsrien | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:32 PM |
| 33 | Seen on a dating site, this man is looking for a follower and he is not subtle...at all. | #JustLVMThings | jeneprometsrien | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 03:06 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 13 | LVM behaviours displayed on 1st dateDon’t feel embarrassed, I am glad you took the time to share with us. No matter what you do there’s always gonna be someone speaking negatively about it. This is the internet, don’t take it too personal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Onesies all dayI literally have a penguin fluffy pants 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:54 AM |
| 59 | How to Vet STEM MenThe 5 point is spot on! I am a software engineer and our male counterparts really think they are God’s greatest gift to the world. I laugh at this a lot. I briefly dated one of them and that was enough for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 09:25 PM |
| 8 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻OMG I absolutely love her! I love it here 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:00 PM |
| 12 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻Oh perfect! I was looking for a new book, thanks😄 In other news Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie is my favorite feminist. Thought I would share with you too 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:56 PM |
| 15 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻Thanks for sharing, going to check her out! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:50 PM |
| 6 | Period. 👸🏾👸🏼👸🏽👸🏿👸🏻Beautifully said! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outHaha thanks 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outGot it! Sorry for what happened to you 😞 I haven’t heard of this book at all and I read the handbook, might have missed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:30 AM |
| 1 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outI literally said in my post: “this is a good example that FDS works and we should not deviate from the rules.” What other “the rules” are you referring to? I haven’t heard of it before. Am I not speaking good enough English? So many things are getting taken out of context here. People making assumptions and drawing conclusions as if there’s perfect humans somewhere on this earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:15 AM |
| 157 | 'CoMpRoMiSe!!'LOL gold. Take my fake award 🥇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:12 AM |
| 87 | 'CoMpRoMiSe!!'You need to cOmMuNiCaTe before the wedding so he understands and you guys are on the same page. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:11 AM |
| 3 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outOh I am sorry if I wasn't clear. He didn't introduce me to this lovely woman. I met her though other friends. He didn't know about her existence until she introduced herself to him a few weeks ago. And he is not chasing after this woman that rejected him (I never said that in my post) I said he talks highly of her and would do anything for her, very different from chasing after her. And he was very clear with the young lady that approached him and he wasn't harsh either. The intention of this po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 07:04 PM |
| 20 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outGirl don't do it under no circumstances. See u/bluebird_wings comments regarding crushes. It's in the handbook too. Crushes are a waste of time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:04 PM |
| 19 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outHaha I have heard the egg doesn't swim to the sperm before and it makes a lot of sense, naturally! :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 20 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outYeah, the men did not get the memo clearly. Keep your feelings to yourselves, always. Let them do the pursuing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:02 PM |
| 16 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outFacts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:01 PM |
| 19 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outYeah they are a waste of time. So glad I discovered FDS. NO more crushes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 05:00 PM |
| 47 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outGirl, I feel you. We have FDS now, we know better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:33 PM |
| 7 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outYes to this! And you have FDS now! Haha thanks 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 78 | Your weekly reminder not to ever ask a man outWhew, I am sorry you had to learn the hard way. We live and learn. I was this close to ask my crush out (before FDS clearly) and for some reason I told my friend (same friend I am referring to in this post) and he said "don't do it, if he is truly interested he will make a move." And he did not. I moved on. Best advice I ever received. Thanks for your comment on my English. I am still working through my insecurities about writing in a public forum. Perfectionist in recovery. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:02 PM |
| 62 | Adult man has a sad because even the literal child that he’s been screwing knows that he sucks in bed.LOL @ all the awards. A pedophile complaining about not being good in bed? I never thought I would see the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:43 PM |
| 9 | For anyone who’s struggling or feeling vulnerable after leaving a guy just remember..And I am the living proof of that! Hang in there 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 10:07 PM |
| 3 | My Birthday present to myself against the backdrop of a card my sister gave me. “She is brave when it’s hard, stronger than she knows, beautiful without trying, & loves for all she is!” I love this sub so much and I am determined to make the next 21 years some of the best. Here’s to you all!🥂👸Happy Birthday 🎂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:15 AM |
| 13 | A Seeming-HVM Explains Why He Won't Leave his Forever Girlfriend for Someone Else He Likes More, Using Economic Theory as ExplanationReporting to HR is not gonna solve shit. As mentioned by others here, HR's role is to protect the company, not OP. Ignore and do not engage in these type of conversations with him, that's the safest way out of this potentially messy situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 01:12 AM |
| 2 | If he still uses Tinder, YOU AREN'T EXCLUSIVE NOR OFFICIALLol that’s what I meant sis, we don’t do that over here 😄 Edit: typo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:11 AM |
| 14 | If he still uses Tinder, YOU AREN'T EXCLUSIVE NOR OFFICIALGirl please, you are single and should act accordingly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:00 AM |
| 4 | Yikes.WTF did I just read (insert blinking guy gif here) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:59 AM |
| 5 | Just don't need any more BS from 2020Lol I said that too. But my goal was til next year. I might reconsider. You got this 👍🏾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 12:53 AM |
| 18 | Men who don't pay on dates are insecure, not just cheapThat’s literally one of my friend, I had to call him out on paying for us each time!! And he told me the flex thing, now I shut my mouth 😂 and let him be great And he doesn’t let a woman pay when they go out on a date!! Surprise surprise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 19 | Can I just share, ever since embracing the single life I don't have panic attacks caused by arguing. No one triggers my flight or flight unless I allow them. I'm starting to realize, how easily my significant others affect me.Good for you!! I have reached that point, I literally have zero shit to give. I even panicked the other day and asked my friend if she thinks I am becoming a robot without emotions. I don’t get worked up over people’s shit anymore, such a blissful feeling 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:36 PM |
| 17 | 24 hours?? You are SINGLE!An entire week in my case, I didn’t even bother to ask him what happened, because EYE dO nOt ComMuNiCaTe. He is gone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 11:30 PM |
| 14 | They try to invalidate grown women because impressing us is harder 🤷🏻♀️What wall?! 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Today I turn 24Happy birthday 🎂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 12:43 AM |
| 9 | I’m (19f) pregnant due to my lvm bf (20m) his reaction to finding out was so upsettingI am sorry 😐 but please do yourself a favor and make this man your ex ASAP. I know it’s a lot, dealing with an abortion and a breakup, but keeping him around is way worse. Good luck 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Stay awareNo doubt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 14 | My friend dumping her LVM and treating herself right !!!Hell yeah! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:24 PM |
| 27 | Stay awareHe is probably one of these men who rates women on a scale of 1-10 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 31 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.Good on them for dropping his pathetic ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 05:19 PM |
| 12 | YesHell yes!! Wtf lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 22 | My LV ex crept back in to my life to suggest we sign an agreement, with actual terms, to be friends with benefits...What in the fifty shades of grey is happening here!? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:29 PM |
| 9 | I’m really disappointed and y’all are the only ones who will understand.Sending air hugs 🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 07:26 PM |
| 61 | I’m really disappointed and y’all are the only ones who will understand.Did you ask him why he asked you to take days off while he has nothing planned? In my experience men like this don’t change and will always tell you how “I was gonna do [insert nice romantic thing here] but I [insert bs excuse here]. Source: I was married to one. Now I am divorced, I do the romantic thing for myself 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Do you think men notice how these two things are treated differently online by men? And why we are tired of it?First of all, Jada didn’t cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 7 | There's a difference.Lmao this makes me laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:35 PM |
| 2 | I love the life goals collages you're posting, so I had to create my own and share it with you!History has tried to downplay the role of women and their achievements in the field. But if you dig just a bit deeper you will find out that women were among the first programmers. It was considered a “woman job” for quite a bit. Ada Lovelace, Grace Hopper, the ladies from hidden figures are just a few of the women that paved the way for us. We (women) were the majority in the field up until the 60s. Men pushed us out and now acting like they are doing us a favor when they hire a women in their … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:31 PM |
| 6 | I love the life goals collages you're posting, so I had to create my own and share it with you!Congratulations on going after your goals. I am a software developer and I love to see more women in tech!! Wishing you all the best 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:04 PM |
| 22 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?Yep, quite telling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 03:14 PM |
| 130 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?This post said girls. Thankfully we are women, not girls 💁♀️ Stay woke queens 💅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 01:51 PM |
| 5 | They don’t even try to hide how vile they are. They just tell on themselves.I am assuming that he deleted his account after this “hot” take | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:22 AM |
| 10 | Someone recently posted a cute comic about buying yourself flowers, so I went and bought myself flowers!Same here, I started doing this recently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 08:27 PM |
| 64 | Reminder, it's never your fault when a man hurts you.Lmao! Oh men, they have no sense of accountability. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:00 PM |
| 42 | Reminder, it's never your fault when a man hurts you.I see that you have met my ex, great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | This is exactly why I love the Queer Eye guys. I definitely think they guide straight men to be HV for straight women. (Sound on)Oh I always say gay men are the only allies we have!!! I love QE to pieces 💕💕💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 22 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂This man called them “platitudes “ as if they were specific to him, tells you all you need to know about him. He is delusional at best 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 209 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂She is using “my power words” on other people 😭. This man needs to grow the hell up OMG | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 12:39 PM |
| 5 | I just want to say, I've had male friends pay for me multiple times for my meals/entertainment, because they wanted to. Whether it was gay male friends or straight men who were true gentlemen. They happily wanted to pay, and I didn't even expect them to do this.OMG I never thought of it that way before. My friends definitely do this for me without expecting anything in return! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Bought a woman a necklace that you regret? Why not traumatise her to get it back? /sSo ridiculous. I feel bad for these women entangled with these LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 01:26 AM |
| 5 | Bought a woman a necklace that you regret? Why not traumatise her to get it back? /sHow is this real?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:08 PM |
| 2 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!LMAO sis, I used to feel so uncomfortable, but I figured that maybe something was wrong with me & he used to tell me that IDK how to love, so I believed him and thought this was normal | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:33 PM |
| 10 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!He used to call me mom, I thought it was weird but I was young, I didn’t make a big deal out of it. I went ahead and got married to this man and then it all makes sense. He would go from job to job while I am holding down the fort. In the last year leading to our divorce he refused to work, when he finally got a job he asked me « so when are you moving out, I will ask the landlord to lower the rent ». I left, I prosper. The end 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 11 | And todays catch of the day ladies! Red flag central with a generous serving of emotional baggageOh and the man has standards too « sOmEoNe wHo dIdN’t fUcKeD aNy oF hIs mAtEs yEt » what a catch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:57 PM |
| 77 | “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you”I was in this situation, in my pickme days, I stayed for a few months, I found out he was cheating and lying. He broke up with me when I found out. I have dated bellow my value, I have ignored my standards, I have taken projects. Not anymore 💅 When people show you who they are, believe them the first time (Maya Angelou). I live by this rule now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 4 | Scrotes be like.....Eww no! I also got my flair 🥳🥳🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 31 | More reasons why women need to value their ability to serve a bitch and put men in their place!Very important rule I have learned and apply in my career, a field dominated by men with giant egos. Stop apologizing in your email, instead thank them. For example: « I apologize for the delay » just say « thank you for your patience » It works! I stopped apologizing for things that do not require an apology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:08 PM |
| 2 | Seen on a dating site, this man is looking for a follower and he is not subtle...at all.Sis, this man liked my profile 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:35 AM |
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