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| 1146 | Protect her from what? 🙃 | MALE DEPRAVITY | -pop-fizz-clink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 174 | Rejecting porn use is apparently "antifeminist"😂 | NAH, SIS | -pop-fizz-clink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:08 PM |
| 133 | Boundaries : Enforced! | #HeAin'tTheOne2021 | -pop-fizz-clink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Michelin Restaurants don't take walk-ins and NEITHER DO WE | MOOD FOR LIFE | -pop-fizz-clink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:35 AM |
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| 24 | FDS is more supportive towards single mothers than the actual single parents subto men, the concept of motherhood isn't about children at all, rather it's about the inclusion of themself. Hence, just like the FDS sub, they hate on single mothers because men tend to hate anything women do that does not include them Woah this is an amazing point. Further, I'd like to offer that motherhood isn't about kids, but about control and feeding their ego ("my legacy" etc). I'm a childfree woman and a lot of guys get big mad about that. I'm difficult to control and I'm not willing to h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 12:20 PM |
| 52 | Sick of seeing grooming bullshit like this on tiktok trying to normalize being with an “oLdEr MaTuRe PeRsOn” fuck these predatorsRecebtly saw a tiktok of a couple- she's in her early 20s and he has completely grey hair and is definitely in his 40s. I'm in my 30s and wouldn't be attracted to him. The majority of people are all "age is just a number!!!11!" But women like me who use their full brains are like "umm... This is actually really gross..." But our comments get reported haha. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:50 AM |
| 3 | 💩Scrote sits on a literal toliet to talk about being green and poop at his booth, a woman stops briefly, he makes a public post to hunt her down and spam her DMs... then he plays the victim. 💩It was! Stuff like that has happened a few times, when things were opened where I love (we're in a lockdown again till June). I really appreciate that, sis! I feel like. Constant walking a fine balance of sticking up for myself but also avoiding getting followed to my car and murdered. I know that the opposite sex does not take rejection very well so I try my best to assess people and situations accordingly. It sucks we have to put so much though into just .... Being in public. It's so unfair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 11:45 AM |
| 10 | Don't know no Alex, never been to a bar, haven't given away my number recently especially to no damn Alex.I've only been sent two dps. I commented about one earlier this week, and horrified a bunch of sisters. Another one I have is a guy who felt so proud of what he has, which is a terrifyingly long/ girthy D. I've saved it. I'm ready to use it and make the unsolicited sexual harrasser feel reeeeeeal bad about himself. 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:57 PM |
| 71 | Overweight men have shorter penises. (and my thoughts on obesity and body positivity)And other secretions..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:14 PM |
| 7 | 💩Scrote sits on a literal toliet to talk about being green and poop at his booth, a woman stops briefly, he makes a public post to hunt her down and spam her DMs... then he plays the victim. 💩know that one can find me by googling just my first name and 1-2 more identifiers Same here. I like my name but it's so damn easy to find me. So I do tend to resent it at times because it's a security issue for me. i've had some weird experiences with dudes that made me suspect them of online stalking. When I was on OLD 🤢 I had so many guys say they knew me, which causes palpations. Or I'll meet someone in the wild and they'll be like "oh I know who you are" and I'm like "you do? Because I have … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:29 PM |
| 19 | 💩Scrote sits on a literal toliet to talk about being green and poop at his booth, a woman stops briefly, he makes a public post to hunt her down and spam her DMs... then he plays the victim. 💩For sure. My middle name is pretty common. And I feel you - they always made me nervous too. I could see some perv using that data for untoward reasons. When I've dictated my phone number, some filthy sweaty gross scrote was like "huhuhuh what were the last four (digits) again?" I said "I wasn't talking to you" and then louder "YOU'RE MAKING ME UNCOMFORTABLE" since he was about to retort (probably with a "im joking"). The entitlement is ridiculous. My personal info is not and never will be fair … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Share your standards!Ugh I hate people like this. It's so unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 3 | Share your standards!All of these are great. If I finally invite you over to my home and you arrive empty handed with nothing for your gracious hostess or her beautiful dog, I'm going to assume you're rude. Good manners and proper etiquette are sexy as hell. A $12 bottle of wine isn't a big ask. And if it is, you're either broke or thoughtless or both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 6 | Share your standards!All of these are great. If I finally invite you over to my home and you arrive empty handed with nothing for your gracious hostess or her beautiful dog, I'm going to assume you're rude. Good manners and proper etiquette are sexy as hell. A $12 bottle of wine isn't a big ask. And if it is, you're either broke or thoughtless or both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:54 PM |
| 24 | Share your standards!As a foodie...this. I VERY BRIEFLY dated this loser who had a diet of chicken fingers, plain hamburgers and pepperoni pizza. We went on one date and trying to plan the second was a fucking nightmare. "Why do they only have weird shit on the menu??" And I'm like "this isn't going to work. Gorgonzola gnocci, oysters, beef tartare are not weird." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:52 PM |
| 7 | Buff Taecyeon🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 50 | 💩Scrote sits on a literal toliet to talk about being green and poop at his booth, a woman stops briefly, he makes a public post to hunt her down and spam her DMs... then he plays the victim. 💩I feel you on this. My first name is quite unique. There are like less than five of us in my region, and like three of them are male. That's out of 500k people. I'll use a popular name like Ashley, Sarah, Jen. I've had some awful experiences in my younger days and have had several stalkers. For covid check in logs at places of business I use my middle name. There's no way in hell I'm going to provide my real name and phone number in a book that is accessible to the public. My RBF keeps me from b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:10 PM |
| 16 | FDS is anti-redpill. We protect women from abusive men, including redpillers. Saying that FDS is "redpill for women" is literally victim blaming.This! I had a super fkn annoying coworker who is now gone thank goodness - big time Joe Rogan groveler, MRA brainwashed disciple, and he would call liberals "cucks" or anyone who got taken to divorce court. He'd go on about betas, and what he felt was beta behaviour. He was a hardcore "devil's advocate". I'm a hospice volunteer at the board level. I once was saying that men leave women disproportionately when she is diagnosed with a chronic/ acute illness. Women often stay and help. He got BIG m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Label Bad Behavior and Put That Shit on Them, Rather Than Internalizing and Blaming SelfOp, you read my mind, I was totally going to post it. It's saved in my phone and ready to go. I love this sub. Great minds!💛🌻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:59 PM |
| 12 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"Bingo! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:50 PM |
| 29 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"I'm so glad he left the company. His wife has rhumatoid arthitis. Guess what from? Having his sons. He wants her to have a third kid to try to "get a girl" to "help the boys". I'm not joking and I really wish I was. He constantly used her illness as excuses to randomly leave the office, to eventually work from home (but didn't work at all) or going to doctors appts on a weekly basis which I found odd. My mom has two severe bone diseases and she doesn't see a doctor weekly. I have a friend with f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:49 PM |
| 134 | Share your stories about men wanting to continue their "legacy"I had a South Asian colleague who is 1000% nvm. He told me he and his wife travel with their kids seperately, incase one plan crashes or something and one of his sons will live and continue his lEgACY. Like what fucking legacy? You're one of a billion. He doesn't come from wealth or prominence of any kind. These legacy dudes are SO FUCKING DELUSIONAL. But it does make me laugh when they get super offended at my childfree status. I wouldn't be having you kid anyways Kyle, you can't afford a nanny… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:02 PM |
| 24 | Message to Male LurkersTelling my boss and getting fired exactly, to that day, a month later was not mutually exclusive. And I live in Canada. It's hard to fire people for no reason here, but also lawyers cost money. That job didn't pay me much and I felt my mental health and healing trumped some washed up soccer player Italian Gino dweeb of a boss firing me because I became unattractive to him. He wasn't comfortable with what happened to ME and yes - I should not have told him. Never tell men your trauma. Ever ever e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:46 AM |
| 106 | Message to Male LurkersThis! I live in Canada and I had something very serious not taken seriously. I was all messed up but still said "please note my file that the doctor did not come close to me, touch or examine me. I'm noting it on my end. It's best that you do it on yours as well." I live in Canada and you REALLY have to advocate for yourself and malpractice is so hard to prove here. I was sexually assaulted and drugged prior to. The doctor didn't come near me. His lack of action was the reason my rapist got away… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 11:44 PM |
| 209 | Message to Male LurkersOh, sis we don't get heart attacks! That's just being emotional!!!! /S In all seriousness: the left side of the chest, which may go away and come back again. weakness or lightheadedness. shortness of breath. pain in the jaw, back, or neck. pain in one or both arms. a cold sweat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 8 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesand act like they’re such a great guy for settling down and having kids Ugh so accurate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 12 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesThat’s because they want kids Or just the label of "Dad" because it's largely accepted that dad's are decent men just for having kids (I don't agree with or condone this stupid assumption) and it's been researched that men with kids make more than those without? I had a guy friend who always waxes poetic about having kids. I asked him why. His response? "It looks fun". Of course it does, you won't do shit except be conveniently available for Kodak moments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 147 | Pretending men in public are invisible: a new game I like to playWhen training dogs, giving them eye contact can be used as a positive affirmation after a correct action (or inaction). Do with that what you will 😂. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 07:19 PM |
| 24 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesAnd it doesn't even come close to what she's done for him. Exactly. And these guys are always like "she was the one that wanted kids. I didn't even want them" oh, so you wanted to be childfree??? Is that it? Because every decent man I meet writes me off because I don't want kids so WHICH ONE IT IS GUYS???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 06:52 PM |
| 3 | The bar is on the groundYup. They're really fuck with our flora. I had an ex that was constantly giving me UTIs and BV. He was abusive, mean, and apparently a coke head (he was 32 and I was 20, except an ever more naive 20 year old). My whole body hated him. I even dropped a bunch of weight, and ended up with terrible treatment resistant depression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 10:55 AM |
| 112 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesHe probably raped her before she was ready to even have sex again, and had another kid. "Irish twins". This guy is a sick, sadistic fuck. "Dark time for me and my family". Nah, fuck off with that. It's HER family. You're barely a sperm donor. Who obviously has shit genes since you're a loser gamer who uses Pat leave at a vacation and you lack any and all empathy for others. I'm sure she's thrilled to have your sociopathic genes. I am clinging to the hope that this is a troll post. So disturbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:41 AM |
| 333 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesWomen should be able to sue their husbands for this type of cruelty. This is domestic abuse. There is no way you can convince me it's not. Fuck this repulsive thing with several serrated knives. For context, I'm childfree. The propensity of creatures like this are why. So many mothers who are married, are still single moms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 02:35 AM |
| 11 | The bar is on the groundYeah it's not worth it, fuck trying to help him and his Quasimodo dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 24 | The bar is on the groundYeah, like if your dick is deformed maybe don't send it solicited photos of it? I mean they shouldn't be doing this anyways because its horrifying... But come on... Your shit is busted, keep it to yourself. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 06:53 PM |
| 28 | The bar is on the groundcontinues to munch on chicken Cesar salad in 'grew up with nurses' 😂😂😂 Ladies I am so sorry. Sincerely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:59 PM |
| 46 | The bar is on the groundI'm glad it came back. My soul left my body when he sent me the pic. I should have sued for emotional damages and mental duress lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:36 PM |
| 29 | The bar is on the groundOh god. I'm sorry. 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 05:35 PM |
| 55 | The bar is on the groundI am so sorry, sis. 😬😬😬😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:30 PM |
| 112 | The bar is on the groundGROSS. A guy that claimed to like me snapped me a pic of his gross D, he has severe phimosis - the foreskin is pulled over the head at all times and can't move 😬🤢. I straight up asked why he hasn't seen a doctor, he thinks it's normal, and he was born that way. I then asked why his mom didn't take him to the doctor as a baby/toddler. He then said it's normal (it's not). Then, I also straight up said you can't properly clean if you can't move your foreskin. 🤮🤮🤮🤮 He told me I was mean, and I block… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 04:08 PM |
| 366 | The bar is on the groundSo, she's glad he didn't rape her? Has she considered maybe he's the reason for these BV and yeast infections? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 2 | The so-called butterflies in the stomachit's far from being a victim blaming :) Absolutely. But this is Reddit and people will purposely cherry pick comments and make accusations. I definitely never expected it to come from you, because you seem to 'get it.' This sub is good about NOT doing that but it still happens every now and again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 09:16 PM |
| 9 | The so-called butterflies in the stomach1) I was too. Now I find them repulsive even if they look like Chris Evans himself. Being treated like sh*t isn't sexy. 2) could be a trauma bonding situation - look up this term, it might help. Also working on your inner child and seeing why you behave in a fight /flight manner - these are deeply evolutionary survival tactics for most animals, us included. What about these guys are triggering your survival instincts? Fear of committment on your end ( maybe a certain person makes you feel trappe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 06:22 PM |
| 82 | The so-called butterflies in the stomachButterflies is nothing but a cutesy label for a non cutesy feeling - anixety. It's your body telling you "hey, something is up". Someone that brings you calm, and you feel relaxed and safe with them - now that's the stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 13 | In a Bad Situation and Can't Get out Because of Finances? Consider Bookkeeping (Don't Laugh)I'd recommend it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Michelin Restaurants don't take walk-ins and NEITHER DO WEDates are planned - in advance. As she says, this isn't McDonald's. Fast, easy and cheap is not our vibe here. "We should hang out sometime" makes me cringe. No. Nuh uh. This isn't it. If he isn't dating with intention, take your attention elsewhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 22 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’Thats not a mistake or a happen-stance. Google "Elon Musks first wife". Very telling article. He's a monster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:18 PM |
| 12 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’It's proven to be a fraction of the pain. I'm hoping to get a bi-salp (saw the surgeon in 2020 in March, and then the world imploded. Canada is not doing elective surgeries) and I have to be out under, intubated, and then they're going to pump me with air and then make three incisions. Small ones sure but, despite being laprascopic, it's so much more onsvsive than a vasectomy. They worry about having their balls cut, meanwhile expect their wives and children to have kids which can so very quickl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 02:53 PM |
| 27 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’They won't even go through vasectomies which is far less invasive and dangerous than ANY of our birth control options. Selfish jerks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:25 PM |
| 46 | This is ‘modern masculinity’ in a nutshell lmaooo declining birth rates tell us you aren’t in demand ‘bro’Like Elon Musk... Ew... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 12:22 PM |
| 80 | We, as women, need to be united against men.Amen. I often get Facebook messages from randos. As recent as today actually. I inquie about his absolutely stunning wife, and he says he's not married. I look again, he's removed her. His most recent photo with her was posted less than a month ago. Look - I get breakups. But this is way too shady. Trying to say I look familliar. I have a very unique name and don't live in a big place - if you know me, you know me. He tried to say he thinks he saw me at the grocery store. I told him I only ever … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:56 PM |
| 4 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)When I reported him to the cops, I had the direct support of his former gf That is amazing. I wish people had stepped forward for me. I am so so happy for you that you had support. I took that knowledge and applied it to advocacy work. That is amazing! We don't have advocates like that here in Canada. It's awful. I'm a hospice volunteer but once I'm able to, I want to inquire about a SA/DV/CA etc advocacy service. My detective would not have bullied me so badly had she saw that I have people aro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:47 PM |
| -2 | i loveee this woman’s energy! she posts great FDS worthy dating advice!I realise that. Thanks. It’s just a red flag that he’s not sold on you. Sold on me? I'm a human, not a product. you probably have more productive people and efforts in which to invest your time. I do... I was simply sharing an experience... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 4 | i loveee this woman’s energy! she posts great FDS worthy dating advice!"sometimes my nephew's dad forgets to send him money to pay for his dates with auntie, haha it's okay. Did you drive here or do you need an Uber as well?" 😂 (My nephew lives 2000 km away) My sister (his mom) would be fine with me paying, but his dad would flip a car over - I haven't seen him in over a decade, and he saw a FB post I made about my dog, as she was sick and he's like hey I want to send you an email. Sneaky man send me a bunch of money. 😂 Told me he loves me and we are family and to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:38 PM |
| 6 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)He blamed a lot of stuff of his ADHD. I expressed my concerns and called him and he ended the call. He then called me back and was flipping pages. He's was reading off a page "I need someone independent who doesn't need me all the time and I need someone who can handle my ADHD. I need someone who can take the time to touch my shoulder and "bring me back" so I can focus" I'm like uh, I've never had an issue with your ADHD. But back to the point, is that I ask you how your day is and you don't tex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:30 PM |
| 3 | i loveee this woman’s energy! she posts great FDS worthy dating advice!Hot girl summer? Maybe. Calling your girl hot, this summer. Yup. Stay tuned. Haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:38 PM |
| 12 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)I am so sorry!! I hope you're doing alright sis. But yes... You make a point. The Chris Evans doppleganger variety rower from Berkley and I are still on good terms. Now and again he'll send me a cute dog tiktok/insta story because he knows how much I love my dog. I used to help the Deranged Jack Black Knockoff™️ with his dog. Within a month he got really shitty at texting me back so I asked what was up. He told me I'm not independent enough and he can't be with someone who isn't independent. For… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:37 PM |
| 6 | i loveee this woman’s energy! she posts great FDS worthy dating advice!Addendum: your user name 😂🦉🕊️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:20 AM |
| 29 | i loveee this woman’s energy! she posts great FDS worthy dating advice!Give me a photo of a dude and gal just staring into the distance and guaranteed the girl’s pose, her eyes, her face, will just tell more of a story and the guy will look like a brain dead frog. Speaking the damn truth, sis. Like, why is your girlfriend able to make eye contact and smile and be engaging while you’re standing there shuffling back and forth wit yo hands in your pockets adding nothing of value to this conversation or the world?? They've all been taught existing is enough. It's damn … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:19 AM |
| 69 | On today's episode of "scrotal recall"Chode, sorry...Chad, you're probably neither good or honest. This is likely your chief issue with the opposite sex. Also, at 35, if you're looking for girls, just turn yourself in. Either you don't respect us enough to call us WOMEN, or you're actually into kids. You don't get to be a man until you respect us as your adult counterparts. Call us as such. Or, as mentioned, turn your sad self in before you hurt a child. Oh not a p to the edo? You sure? Okay. So start seeing us as your contemporarie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:35 AM |
| 20 | i loveee this woman’s energy! she posts great FDS worthy dating advice!Oh I have totally pulled the blink. Didn't realise we were friends, but oddly, I pay for some of my friends. 🙂 If I pay half on a first date, he is getting blocked. That means I really, deeply think they're a pos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:57 AM |
| 54 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)AMEN To the gospel of FDS, book of Poorfck. In the name of the mother, the daughter and the holy vagina, amen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:53 AM |
| 87 | Remove yourself from the concept of menOr maybe she's 50 and looks like that as she doesn't perceive.... them..... (😂) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:25 AM |
| 139 | Why is popular culture trying to convince us that a dad bod is more attractive than THIS? (No shade at ppl who like that just saying it seems like a way to shift women’s standard of physical attractiveness, something they would never do to men’s)I've only dated one overweight guy. For context I am 5'2 and a dress size 2-4, I'm around 119-125 lbs. Guess who grabbed who's tummy skin. And then, guess who needed a bra worse than the other. Oh, and he had a smaller D - length was meh, girth was not doing it at all. Also didn't kiss my beautiful flower 🌼. NEVER AGAIN. I figured he'd be nicer to me. He was far more mean than the others who include an full ride scholarship athlete from Berkeley. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 12:12 AM |
| 87 | i loveee this woman’s energy! she posts great FDS worthy dating advice!LVM are constantly saying that all FDS users are ugly and undesirable CACKLES 😂😂😂😂😂 I bet most of us are stunners, as most women are. Women are so beautiful. I am so pissed I'm not atleast bisexual. So very pissed. (I hope that isn't insulting or reductive to my sisters who are 💛). And even if we aren't convential stunners, we are fun, interesting, sexy, intelligent, spiritual, talented... I find women much more multifaceted than...them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:59 PM |
| 90 | i loveee this woman’s energy! she posts great FDS worthy dating advice!I love how she brings light to how many weaponize (Lib) feminism - "I don't need to hold your door, pay for dates, help you lift heavy things, etc but expect you to f like a p0rnstar for free because emPowRmenT since you want me to do my part in the house". Luckily that clip regarding the date is from a "What Would You Do?" Episode. Two men were beside her saying, "no, you should just leave, he's not a gentleman" and this very obviously extremely bitter man was like "no she should pay half she's… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 11:54 PM |
| 29 | Notice how when a female celebrity cheat on her partner, all hell breaks loose, but if a male celebrity cheats, no one bats an EYE! It’s so normalized that you hardly hear about it..THIS. Aggressively, this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 06:30 PM |
| 15 | Father and female University of Oxford student call for porn sites to require proof of ageThat's great - sounds like you have a handle on it. There's a lady on tik Tok who speaks openly but age appropriately about their bodies and consent and things of that nature. I think discussing how it's not real, it's fake etc is helpful. All parents can do is their best and keep their eyes on their kids and keep current with various (constantly popping up) forms of social media. Raising kids is insanely hard work, and there's just so much to consider. I don't know how you guys (parents) do it.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:34 PM |
| 17 | Father and female University of Oxford student call for porn sites to require proof of ageI'm so sorry. It's a come of a few things when it happens that young ...lack of paternal involvement, a surplus of available sexual content (tiktok, YouTube, ease of accessing porn, even Instagram) - but parents can't be everywhere all the time. That has got to be so stressful. I sent a funny tik Tok to my boss and after the one that I sent him was over it shifted to a different one. He nearly three his phone in shock - it was a lady in a high cut thong one piece baithing suit being sexy in a po… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:28 PM |
| 66 | Father and female University of Oxford student call for porn sites to require proof of ageI have a good friend who is a pediatrician, and they said that kids are now experimenting with sex at 8. Eight. Years. Old. And yes, they were able to establish it is absolutely to do with porn. Terrifiying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:28 PM |
| 23 | This went VIRAL on FB and everyone was calling it cute and praising him. She deserves better.This is an excellent observation sis. Makes me sad... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateNot the same one - Google Dr. Elena Fric. They were young, in their mid 40s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:10 AM |
| 9 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!I guess you can try to fight back 🤷🏼♀️ you bring up a very valid point. Maybe if I have time I can spray my little purse sized dry shampoo in his face. And then call the police, if you're not dead, so they can avoid helping you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:27 AM |
| 32 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateExactly! There was a surgeon who murdered his wife (also a surgeon). He did some terrible things to her post mortem as well. The only reason she got justice was because the family has a bit of money and she was close to influential people. Dr. Elena Frics husband will get parole in 14- maybe even sooner? She leaves behind an amazing career and two daughters (I think). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 06:37 PM |
| 34 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateI know sis. But some people really think we don't have many issues because we're all so nice ( we aren't 😐). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:54 PM |
| 62 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateEveryone thinks Canada is some kind of paradise. Don't get me wrong, I'm happy to have universal health care, gay marriage, strict gun laws but got damn, your husband can beat you to a pulp several times and barely get his hand slapped. It's digusting. But if you try to flee to safety with your kids from an abusive hime, you'll go to jail for kidnapping. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 40 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!Exactly. Stranger danger but only until you're fair game for them (over 18 years old)🤮🤮🤮🤮. This one guy was like "you watch too many murder documentaries clearly". Because I'm not telling you where I work 8-9 hours a day? Or where I sleep at night? Wtf?? "Get a big dog then". Wtf?? I really wish pepper spray and tasers were legal where I live. You'll be charged if you use them even if you're fearing for your life. It's ridiculous. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 05:00 PM |
| 34 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!Yup! I gave the benefit of the doubt once upon a time. I ended up in the hospital more than once. Never again and that is valid af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:47 PM |
| 59 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateI'm ready to put his Instagram handle in our fds chat. I'm so sick of him. It's important not to block unless you have a blocked folder (which I do) since it's all proof. It has seemed to ease up a bit but he's a super desperate hobosexual and is out kicking his coverage with me big time, he has like ten different instagram accounts and will try to message me or on my dogs account. He's stopped texting and calling it seems though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:46 PM |
| 8 | Stalker exI’ve had to threaten to file a police report to get a guy to leave me alone. I took this step but they didn't do anything for me (they - the police). It's terrifiying. I actually asked "do I have to get murdererd by him for anyone to care? I'm terrified and I live alone". Due to me not knowing his real last name I can't get a peace bond or restraining order. And the police can't tell me, because of privacy ( isn't that rich - but showing up at my place, mailing me stuff and calling/texting/slidi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:42 PM |
| 148 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateI'm so glad you've been able to reflect on this sis. I've had a stalker because I invited him over too soon as well. Being stalked is terrifying, and the police where I live really don't give a heck about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:37 PM |
| 144 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!Paranoid. Context : not telling men where I work or where I live. Literally self preservation and keeping myself safe. But sure, paranoid it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 81 | Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going!"you never shut up" So, loquacious. Which he didn't know the definition to. I'm fairly intelligent and enjoy discussing ideas and concepts etc. How dare I be seen and heard. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 10 | Pretend you don't know any betterAnd that brings me to why I don't disclose the fact I'm a retired equestrian - I didn't grow up consistently with money (had it/lost it/ had it again/ etc) - but being involved with that sport and disclosing it makes me a target for hobosexuals. Their first question would always be if I had my own horse and comments would ensue "I bet you're a daddys girl" 🤮🤮. They either immediately assume wealth or neg me for it. Lose /lose situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 07:49 PM |
| 3 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?EXACTLY. I wonder if I should do a post about the importance of not disclosing our traumas one of these days. I never ever tell men my past with this most recent sa, or the DV I've experienced. Hm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?Thank you very much, I appreciate that very much. 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 5 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?Thank you, I appreciate that. I was already very strong and resilient to begin with. I had already been through a lot in my life, and I really didn't need this added to my platter of "Things I've Survived". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:32 PM |
| 6 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?Even if accused, nothing happens. My rapist is an accountant who is largely unscathed by what happened. Nothing on his record and my detective referred to my case as a "he said she said" - despite being found unconscious by friends. They broke into my apartment and he sauntered out with a smirk on his face. There were several signs of struggle (I'm assuming I tried to fight him - due to being drugged infant recall much). Worst fear? Try getting a sex assault exam and having swabs done (you do th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:31 PM |
| 14 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?Most actual rapists don’t even face justice. YUP Women’s lives are ruined when they report anything as they are painted as lying harpies with an agenda in the media or in their social circle. I was even fired because it made me boss super uncomfortable around me. Yes I should not have told him, I know that. He started treating me weird (because he's probably a rapist himself) and very differently. I was gone in a month. Imagine typing to process being drugged and raped and then losing your livel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:39 AM |
| 17 | Sad men defending women are seen as “simps”, “betas”, or “white knights”. These are the same dudes that want us to be traditional. Yet aren’t men supposed to be defending and protecting women? Ya know, actually being men?Because they feel they have the rights to the ideas, research, inventions etc of their o2 breathing possessions. Most don't see us as people, just objects. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:08 AM |
| 24 | We need more kink shamingThis is a great thought. I wonder, as well. The comment below about ppd is awesome as well. We're making strides on how trauma screws with plasticity and how ADHD and c-ptsd can look like one another and how they present differently in the sexes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 12:58 AM |
| 68 | Pretend you don't know any betterI think it was Reaux who said this on the podcast : "act like you've been treated well. Even if you haven't". Fake it if you have to. If for nothing else, entertainment because they will have an absence seizure from the mental stress right in front of you. Either they will step up their game or they will say something like the following : "(sarcasm) well good for you then" "all your exes are rich**" "well sorry I'm not good enough!!" *** Said by a guy I was on a SECOND date with, just because I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 12:51 AM |
| 61 | There’s a tidal wave of scrotes coming... are you ready?Had this thought recently and, I guess I'll keep doing what I'm doing. Staying off OLD and improving myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:10 PM |
| 30 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaSooooo true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 07:11 PM |
| 192 | Female friendships and misogynistic propagandaThis whole comment is 💯. Similar to how hr/mgmt says it's forBidDeN to discuss your salary with coworkers. They don't want you finding out you're being underpaid and underappreciated. If course they want to stifle our speech - most have done something wrong to someone and they don't want that getting out. Or, they ARE doing something wrong but we've acclimated to it, and the last thing an abuser wants is a woman's friends encouraging her to leave, level up, make a plan. Exactly why men hate this… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Don't you love it when you call a guy out and his come back is "oh you're on Female Dating Strategy, make sense why you have an attitude?" 🤣This!!! I've gone off birth control and am not dating. Depression is so much better. SO MUCH. I hate not being able to skip my period but whatever. My only concern is meeting someone and wanting to have sex after awhile, and possibly having to go back on. But luckily my province is in perpetual lockdown and I know the dating scene will just be full of people who just want to hook to... Similar to how it is now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Last one for now! Hopefully she posts more!I recently posted about her on this sub, I'm glad someone shared the video! Hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 02:52 PM |
| 7 | Nothing but factsI've been saying this for years - sex is something men do TO us, not WITH us. And I'm tired of it. I'm tired of us not being seen as whole people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 02:39 PM |
| 11 | PSA: as soon as man says that, run the opposite direction sis 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ This is RED FLAG. Manipulation.Yeah, I've definitely has some experiences. Looking back on being 14-15 and having such an insane boyfriend was freaky. I've pushed a lot of those memories out. He's the guy I actually 'lost my virginity' to. We went to highschool together and he told everyone I had r.aped him. I was horrified. I remember laying there and thinking "that's it?". I wish I had one of those moms who didn't allow me to date at such a young age. I grew up quite neglected by her, and she was my only parent as my dad wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:07 PM |
| 10 | PSA: as soon as man says that, run the opposite direction sis 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ This is RED FLAG. Manipulation.Oh my gosh no. He was super coddled by his parents. I remember calling his parents house after he left (after the break in) and his dad was so dismissive. He never had any consequences for his behaviour and I was too young and inexperienced to understand how bad this was. My mom was a single mom, and not a very good parent - I didn't tell her much about my life and even if I did, she wouldn't care much or she'd blame shift. I also live in Canada where people get away with a lot of stuff. Our jus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:00 PM |
| 58 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.This just in on Double Standards, issue 15809: Call any 40yo man a boy and it’ll be considered a huge insult resulting in various obscenities thrown back. Any woman of any age though - just a girl 🤦♀️ All of this need far more ups. You are SO RIGHT. Also, I've started referring to men as boys. Turns out it makes them feel weird. IMAGINE THAT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:07 AM |
| 90 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.It's so disgusting. And good, throw those obscenities. Keep digging. To keep ourselves safe, we leave right away. I only have male coworkers : "the word woman is like so.. aggresive" " woman sounds old" "so if you're a woman what do we call an 80 year old huhhuhuuhhhh" (my answer, she is still a woman the way an 80 year old man is a man). So you get to be a man and in your eyes I only get to be a little girl. Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:05 AM |
| 61 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.Every. Fucking. Time. EVERY TIME. So stop calling us girls! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 12:01 AM |
| 175 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.Maybe start off with not referring to 40 year old women as 'girls' - creep. Immediate no. And yeah actually sperm banks have the stats on the men they collect from - height, weight, eye colour, hair colour, etc. So she probably WOULD look twice at him. I find Israeli men very high handed, and most still want a trad-wife (only my experience with them). He wants a treat for simply existing, and ssimply existing isn't good enough for women. Shouldn't be good enough for anyone. Further, bringing up … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:00 PM |
| 231 | I’m just so tickled seeing this. Yes Queens, yes.THANK YOU. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 07:53 PM |
| 4 | LVM can act HV - Never forget it: lmao some scrote tried to correct my spelling of behavior and tell me I’ve never had a long term relationship. Even in English speaking countries there are variations in spelling and grammar Hey sis. Canadian neighboUr here. Your spelling of behavioUr is totally correct. If I lived in the states cheque would be check, neighbor would be spelled as such and so would behavior, as with so many other words. Why doesn't he just say he's sheltered and is 165cm and get on with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 06:54 PM |
| 39 | New report on violence and sexual violence against women, using better methodologies, show that 51% of women have been raped, 99.7% have been abused.Society treats women who open up about these things like they're dirty or like they've degraded because of the things men have done to them. This is so accurate. WhY diDNt yoU tELl anyOne theN??? Because either you don't believe us, or we brought it upon themselves. And when we try to get the help we need from enforcement and medical they treat us like utter shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 06:16 PM |
| 289 | PSA: as soon as man says that, run the opposite direction sis 🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️ This is RED FLAG. Manipulation.OMG you just brought back such an infuriating memory. The vast majority want a prepubescent looking waif but then try to rough house with those women - pulling/yanking arms, pushing too hard, using their bodies to block doors as a ,"joke". I had a guy grab me and pull me into him while I had a healing ankle fracture. I exclaimed in pain and he got angry with me for that. I said, you're the one who grabbed me. "Fine I'll never fucking touch you again, god". A well ajsuting not sociopathic person … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:36 PM |
| 28 | Women aren't funnyThe accuracy. Ugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:11 PM |
| 12 | Women aren't funnyBoom! Good humour requires intelligence. I always knew this was the issue. My ex who deferred Harvard law thought I was hilarious and so does my very astute guy friend. My female friend think I'm funny. I have one female friend who doesn't get some of my jokes at first but once I explain it she's like oh darn, I wish I had gotten it the first time (instead of getting pissy that she didn't get it). It's abundantly clear that smart women make men uncomfortable. I've been in group settings and told… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 05:01 PM |
| 4 | The bar is in hell. I don’t know who’s worse: OP or the commenters!Great points! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 11:36 PM |
| 19 | The bar is in hell. I don’t know who’s worse: OP or the commenters!Outtie? What the fuck? Because she has an adult woman's labia? Because she's not 10 years old anymore?? Is...is he a pedo? He did this she she'd keep it waxed. Look, I get sugared because that's what I like. It's my body and I do what I please. If some dude said I shouldn't sugar, I probably wouldn't speak to him again. Yes I know many are against pubic hair removal here - do you sis, and I shall do me 💛. This whole post makes me want to scream. Way to neg her and twist it into a fucking derange… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 101 | Men and skincareI only know one heterosexual man who takes care of his skin. Face wash and moisturiser. He's not in a fancy office job or anything either, he is a tradesman. His skin looks good despite having a pretty stressful life. It's sad that men think taking care of their skin is feminine or whatever. I can't imagine not ever exfoliating let alone washing my face with body wash or bar soap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 02:54 PM |
| 5 | Tinder Gold. 1300 likes.The rivalry between teams People get like, genuinely injured at hockey and soccer games due to fighting. And WE are the emotional sex?? Do they know that Beckham or Rinaldo or whoever isn't gonna pay your bail when you flip out over your deranged "loyalty" to the team?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | Tinder Gold. 1300 likes.I think you should. I'm also done with it and it's a turn off. When the majority of your casual clothes and home "decor" is dedicated to a team, it just gives me Peter Pan vibes. It just seems like a weird addiction and they obsess over certain stats of players and whatnot, yet aren't able to retain the date of birth for their own mother they they've usually know their whole lives... I was an equestrian for over 20 years. I have three horse related things as decor and even that feels like a lot.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 04:20 PM |
| 21 | Tinder Gold. 1300 likes.Exactly. It's odd. You don't like us and you definitely don't respect us, so...why?? Just get a fleshlight and leave us alone, ffs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 11:49 PM |
| 26 | Tinder Gold. 1300 likes.Totally. "One of the guys" types who's standards are on the floor and she's fine to invite you over during the week after work (while he arrives empty handed, eats her food, sleeps in her bed, has sex with her) as the weekends are for the boiiiiiiis 🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻🤙🏻🙄🙄 dude if you're so obsessed with your friends, just date one of them already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 11:48 PM |
| 29 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!Oh, 100%. They're only looking to get laid. I had a guy tell me him inviting me to his basement is fine, because we know each other. No, we don't, we went to highschool together and I'm a year older. I know of you, similar of how I know of Kim Kardashian. But do I know either of you? No. He then said he'd never "do anything" because he "has a sister". Taken from the gospel of AOC, I said "having a sister doesn't make you a decent man. And I'm not going to find out behind closed doors, with you a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 09:34 PM |
| 115 | Tinder Gold. 1300 likes.Most want something casual, or basically want to date a bro- golf, go to breweries and have a hobby of drinking craft beer. This is a very underrated comment! When I was on OLD - I swear - by the sounds of their profiles they majority sound like they're looking for a fellow dudebro (activities like : fooball games/golfing/breweries/UFC/ someone to watch the office/Brooklyn 911 or whatever it's called and then they name teams "better be a cowboys fan!!! Bills mafia!!!11 Bruins or bust" like do th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:21 PM |
| 162 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!So many of the do - it's incredibly tone deaf. I've been invited to walk in the woods, to a guys house(first time meeting/don't know this guy), to go for a drive...in his car. None of these are romantic and they all sound terrifying. They just want to do something free and see if they can get laid. It's so glaringly obvious but I think they fancy themselves rather smart (" there's a pandemic and there's nothing else to do/everything is closed" is the angle they're using for this. But setting up … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 3 | An important way scrotes trap you and how to overcome it.Agreed. To avoid being doxxed I won't answer Those. I know I mentioned my volunteer work but why does it matter what I do for a living? Genuinely curious. We really encourage privacy on this sub. We discourage having pics of our faces, saying where we work, where we live, disclosing our real names. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 11:51 AM |
| 5 | An important way scrotes trap you and how to overcome it.Hey! It all started with seeing them at a charity event and I was like "how do I get involved??". Found an online application, and the rest is history. I went through an interview process like for a job and a panel approved me. 🙂 My responsibilities include things like being a project manager, authoring articles and blog posts, social media. It's a lot in addition to a full time job sometimes but that's okay. I'm proud of it. A lot of people on boards around me are on there because they're Mom o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:20 PM |
| 6 | An important way scrotes trap you and how to overcome it.Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 05:54 PM |
| 27 | An important way scrotes trap you and how to overcome it.Absolutely. Going to church/temple/mosque/ etc doesn't mean perfection but I feel many have that twisted. I spoke to a man who told me that if he's able to convert me to Islam/the Muslim religion then he has a red carpet to paradise because Allah rewards those who are able to recruit. 😐... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 04:43 PM |
| 67 | An important way scrotes trap you and how to overcome it.On the podcast this past week they discuss how men are the heroes of their own stories and that's why they feel their approval is so important. They could be several miles away from mediocrity but still, they've been told that they mattered SO much that others would be lucky to pine for them. So then they think that just by being born a man, approval is a mighty sword he gets to draw upon just for literally having a penis. When you attempt meet this with, "it's okay you don't like that about me.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:25 PM |
| 39 | An important way scrotes trap you and how to overcome it.Yes! It's problematic af. You can be close to someone and have differing views/opinions/whatever - but these families would absolutely punish any acts of what they feel would be untangling and self-actualization, upto and including total ostracism. I bet this absolutely skyrockets when the family is both enmeshed and religious. If they can attach doctrine to it, they absolutely will. (I had a mom of a guy say he can't date me because they were Lutheran or something and I was raised Catholic - am… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 03:08 PM |
| 59 | An important way scrotes trap you and how to overcome it.Absolutely.he'd clearly never been told no and the family clearly quite unaccustomed to people sticking up for themselves. Nothing I want to be apart of. Honestly, having a strong sense of self is a repellant. Lvm Raid. ☣️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 02:56 PM |
| 151 | An important way scrotes trap you and how to overcome it.This is very interesting op, thank you so much for sharing with us. I've always been very turned off by men who come from a "very close" family. I've never not seen an extremely "close" non-toxic family - they often just use the word "close" to mean "toxic, and if you don't agree with everything then they won't like you". Having a strong sense of self and mothers and fathers of boys not liking me for this, is no accident and I appreciate your education on this. A guy invited me to a wedding very… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 01:42 PM |
| 8 | How would anyone consider these red flags?Kyle needed to get out of the way, in several manners. "Going down...just isn't... My.... Thing.". Kyle, March 2020 Lurkers, if you hate our bodies so much, just have sex with each other. K? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:26 PM |
| 6 | Article describes the reality of dating apps during the last year. A global health crisis only makes things worse.essential shops have been shut Same here babe! men couldn't hold a good conversation for more than a few days, let alone plan a Skype call Right? There's zero try from like 97%. They legitmately don't care and are only looking for a warm body to f. Even prior to the pandemic when men would ask me out they would always ask which restaurants I recommended, and would try and get me to basically organise the date, unless they suggested somewhere that was around the corner from where they lived and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:02 PM |
| 10 | How would anyone consider these red flags?So many valuable lessons can be learned from working with horses Amen, sis! 🐎🐴 I got you, you're seen here! So many beautiful lessons I've learned from my buddies, horses are some of the best friends and best teachers I've had access to and I owe them a lot - including telling folks that the ones who ride/train/love/care for them aren't crazy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 12 | How would anyone consider these red flags?It's always about power, and therefore, about oppressing us. No matter what it's about. Toe rings? Riding horses? Liking a super popular show written by Shonda Rhimes. Dude if you hate us so much, date yourself. Just date dudes. Oh wait, they gay men have standards, too?? Dang. (I do not know one gay attractive man who is shameless about not dating a broke ass ugly bro. If men think we are ruthless then damn. I have friends that will make them bawl.... Like, ugly cry.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:56 PM |
| 29 | How would anyone consider these red flags?This too. Like... I get it says oddly specific... But C'mon. Just give us her name so we can invite her here already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:51 PM |
| 6 | How would anyone consider these red flags?Can confirm. Unfortunately. Bahaha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 46 | How would anyone consider these red flags?Exactly! Us : "were afraid of being raped/ murdered/kidnapped/terrified" Them : no toe rings or horse chicks, yo. They be toxic n shit. 😐😐😐😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:40 PM |
| 15 | How would anyone consider these red flags?Girlfriend 💛... I just wrote a diatribe on this below. We. Are. On. The. Same. Page. Get out of my head! Hahah😂😂🤗🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:35 PM |
| 40 | How would anyone consider these red flags?Hi! Retired equestrian here. I'm chiming in on the if she rides horses because now it's personal. 😂 The two reasons men have created the "crazy horse chick" trope. 1) we are not afraid of you. Us. (The crazy horse chicks) I tell 1200lb + animals to get out of my way, I tell them what to do, what not to do and when. Both parties have zero qualms with this. No means no to my hooved buddies and I do not accept their disrespect so I sure as fuck am not going to accept any shit from a 200 lb man. Hor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:31 PM |
| 4 | Remember, wanting gifts isn't shallow or materialistic, but it's also your right to decide what kind of gifts and level of effort you're willing to accept. Me? That pink flower better be made of gold, buddy. 🤣🤣🤣my mom has never put pressure on me to marry or have children. Mine neither. I'm one of the many childfree women on this sub. And I always thought she was kind of cutthroat and unromantic about the financial aspects of relationships but now I see that she is wise. Yup, my mom sincerely doesn't think I should pay for anything for a year. She knows how hard I work and she does not approve of a guy who doesn't pay for dates/doesn't have a car/can't drive/doesn't work full time and she's very judgey… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 06:39 PM |
| 10 | Remember, wanting gifts isn't shallow or materialistic, but it's also your right to decide what kind of gifts and level of effort you're willing to accept. Me? That pink flower better be made of gold, buddy. 🤣🤣🤣I have a Groupon for that! Haha. Like ok if you do, fine, but don't announce it. Eek. I feel you. Your mom says exactly what mine does. My mom has many many many flaws. So many. But she taught me that I deserve to be picked up, car door opened, dates paid for etc. When I used to drive an hour and twenty mins every weekend, one way to see a guy she dead pan asked him if he's paying for my gas when I finally had him over to meet my mother and her bf, and my BELOVED grandma. He wasn't used to datin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 05:34 PM |
| 12 | The ✨ Mandacity ✨ is off the charts in the one.JFC. Posts like this are the reason I'm cf. I've never wanted kids, but stuff like this? Sends it on home. I feel for you, my sister who yearn to be a mom. What if those who want kids just all move in together and help each other out. Sister wives without the creepy dude and dogma sorta thing. Secret Life of Bees type matriarchy deal. The men do not pull their weight and I'm so sick of millenial men dating they're gonna dO sO mUCH and HeLp OuT when they become a dad. Like, shut up. Leave us alon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 26 | Article describes the reality of dating apps during the last year. A global health crisis only makes things worse.10000%. This week's podcast ep touched on pandemic dating and I loved it. The pandemic is being used as an excuse for "come to my place since nothing is open/let's go for a walk in a field since everything is closed". I live in a hellscape shitshow of a province in Canada. Yes, everyone knows which one because it's THAT BAD. Small Businesses are suffering and we're all starting to go a bit coo-coo. "I don't do coffee dates and I'm definitely not coming over. That's a pretty tone deaf thing to as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:12 PM |
| 9 | Remember, wanting gifts isn't shallow or materialistic, but it's also your right to decide what kind of gifts and level of effort you're willing to accept. Me? That pink flower better be made of gold, buddy. 🤣🤣🤣Wtf has happened in America that straight men take ZERO pride in protecting and providing for their significant others and their families! They blame fEmInisM but that's not true. We're smart enough here to know that. Very few men here (I'm Canadian - we're basically the same) take pride in being providers. The women I know are the hardest damn workers I've ever met, and then come home for their BS Second Shift™️. Something has shifted, men don't want to be dads for anything other than a label t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 03:03 PM |
| 12 | Remember, wanting gifts isn't shallow or materialistic, but it's also your right to decide what kind of gifts and level of effort you're willing to accept. Me? That pink flower better be made of gold, buddy. 🤣🤣🤣Gifts and generosity can always be afforded This is so true. You don't have to be exorbitantly wealthy to just... Think of others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 23 | Remember, wanting gifts isn't shallow or materialistic, but it's also your right to decide what kind of gifts and level of effort you're willing to accept. Me? That pink flower better be made of gold, buddy. 🤣🤣🤣is generous proportionate to his income Dated a very successful plastic surgeon who needed me to know on my birthday that he spent the same amount on me, as he did my dog. Our birthdays (me and my min pin) are a day apart, and I love her very much so yeah I'm one of those ladies who buys presents and will take her dog out for the day. It's honestly one of my favorite days in the year. He bought her a bow, which was sweet. But, I got a coffee mug. I used to drive to this man every weekend and he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 02:48 PM |
| 18 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*Totally. I have an office job and I literally had a guy tell me he likes my job better than his exes, because I dress nice and don't do "gross stuff". the ex was/is a PSW. 😐 How dare you, sir. Massive turn off and I told him so. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:34 PM |
| 67 | Your job is not a point of conversation. He will ask you where you work, don’t tell him. *TW: violence*I don't disclose where exactly I work, ever. I will give my general industry and I straight up say "I don't disclose my office location or name, for my safety." Some better guys will apologize and say "that makes sense" some get pissy or call me paranoid and they are promptly met with a block/delete. The ones who tell me I'm smart for not answering their question, come off pretty manipulative and creepy (block). It's the first thing men from big cities like Toronto or NYC ask. They don't care ab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 42 | Yep, not falling for it.I live in an area that has a large amount of boomers and older. When a client passes, I need to know about it for how I handle our files. Far too often men come in, or call, and I've had to show them how to do the following : - how to write a cheque - how to get their banking info - explain how direct withdrawal works They're always like "she dealt with all of this". They haven't a clue how to function independently in society. The women are always fine though but if they don't know how to do so… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 02:57 PM |
| 30 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep itThat's a terrible place to get nec fasc, the skin is so thin around the anus. It's hard to replace that. For example, my mom had next fasc on her leg and they just took healthy skin from her inner thigh for a graft. Poor gal. Hope she's well now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 10:31 PM |
| 38 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep itYes it is. Nec fasc is very deadly as well, and like MRSA, can cause sepsis. While MRSA can be contracted outside of a hospital setting it's not as common as getting it within a hospital setting. It's a particularly assholeish staph infection that can pop up in incisions (so after surgery) or within other procedures (iud insertion, cosmetic surgery, etc), and through skin to skin contact with someone else infected, or items that have been shared such as razors, towels, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:42 PM |
| 74 | Reject pornification and leave your pubic hair alone. It has a purpose, a job to do and it's healthy to keep itProbably had the MRSA (a hospital borne antibiotics resistant infection) develop into necrotizing fasciitis, aka flesh eating disease. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 09:32 PM |
| 69 | Is marriage respected in the area you live in by the dudes?Canadian here, it's the same. Disparaging your wife at the office is a common behaviour, and I've called it out more than once. If I leave the office an come back I often walk into convos I would have rather not - for example, my colleague saying how our boss' wife 'wouldnt take half, its more like 2/3rds, man'. I work in a small office and am the only woman. It's emotionally exhausting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 09:48 PM |
| 67 | You should WANT to do things for the guy on a date 💸If it's early on, I'll pay if I never want to see him again. I'll pay as a treat, later on - birthday, new house closing, promotion. The men I've paid for and bought gifts for and been thoughtful towards have gotten bored of me pretty, pretty quick. It's almost as if it's a pattern. You want us to pay too, but lose interest when we do. What do you want, guys? Someone to halve the rent and bills with who will let you masturbate into her body? Why y'all hate us so much?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 12:35 PM |
| 52 | A 49 year old man has an ✨epiphany✨ and people in the comments thank and praise him for his 'insight'🙌 and give him lots of awards 🏅🏅🏅Start sending the laundry out, like I do. It's .99 per pound. I drop it off, they wash and fold it and put it into bags. It's awesome. Stick it on his credit card - see, now he's coNtRiButinGgg😍. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:33 PM |
| 19 | "dating for a free meal"A disrespectful hobosexual with poor social skills. He resells used Jordans and plays them off as new, therefore he apparently has a "lot" of "cleaning stuff" that he offered to use on my chair. He used to talk like he bought new ones but I don't think he could afford the rare ones. The first time he came to my place he left like four things there and his jacket in my car. I ended up putting the items in a bag and dropping them off to his home. He called me mean. I told him I know why he left st… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:08 AM |
| 12 | "dating for a free meal"I don't blame you. Ugh. Thank you, the bed items were replaced and the chair makes my blood boil. I'm not materialistic; it's the principle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 01:05 AM |
| 24 | Her divorced boyfriend with two kids wants his childfree girlfriend to move in with him and pay HIS mortgage with HER rental income - meant for her own mortgage that she can barley afford. Yet GOLDDIGGERS are only women right?!You're still entitled to some things if you're common law and have been contributing to something like a house. At least get a free consult to see if you have a case. I had a case and bullied, gaslighted and lied to me, said I had no rights. I did. We were common law and I contributed to the household and he purposely fucked with my finances and credit. I'm in Ontario and common law is cohabitating consecutively for three years, or one year if you two have a baby you both madr or adopted child. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:14 AM |
| 28 | "dating for a free meal"That is so gross. After having had a stalker and other things happen to me, no one is coming to my place for like, months. It's such an enormous safety concern and any guy who thinks this is ok at first is tone deaf at best. dirty up your bed Literally had a guy do this by picking his scabs and then leaving drop of blood on pillows and my sheets. He's like "oh I thought it was your period". 😐 I had to replace stuff. He also left his shoes on my white Italian leather chair - she's he had worn out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:10 AM |
| 7 | Her divorced boyfriend with two kids wants his childfree girlfriend to move in with him and pay HIS mortgage with HER rental income - meant for her own mortgage that she can barley afford. Yet GOLDDIGGERS are only women right?!There are some moving parts and it depends on where you live but it's possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 38 | Her divorced boyfriend with two kids wants his childfree girlfriend to move in with him and pay HIS mortgage with HER rental income - meant for her own mortgage that she can barley afford. Yet GOLDDIGGERS are only women right?!I am so sorry. That makes me livid for you. Do you have a lawyer for this one? Right? I was financially abused and he tried to make me look like the bad guy. And you know it was an age gap relationship. What an idiot i was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 12:03 AM |
| 21 | "dating for a free meal"That is amazing and you're a damn inspiration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:59 PM |
| 53 | "dating for a free meal"Accurate. I openly tell others partly why I'm single is because my standards are high - if I'm not being treated at least as well as I treat myself, what's the point? Especially in a pandemic I just don't see one. It's also really gross how guys are using the pandemic as a "reason" to invite women in their dmn thirties for first dates in their homes for Netflix and chill. Do you think we're stupid? The weather is getting nicer - get some takeout and do up a picnic. Or a cute charcuterie. Wait wa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:57 PM |
| 61 | Her divorced boyfriend with two kids wants his childfree girlfriend to move in with him and pay HIS mortgage with HER rental income - meant for her own mortgage that she can barley afford. Yet GOLDDIGGERS are only women right?!If you didn't have a lease agreement, he owes you all that equity you contributed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Don't let outdated research and 'biological clock' concerns be a reason to rush the vetting process.I'm very grateful to be cf. I do not envy my sisters who truly want kids in this socioeconomic and dating climate. Good on those who are able to comfortably (financially, socially aka has a support system, and so forth) do it on their own (freezing egss, etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 09:16 AM |
| 26 | Beware of men who say stuff like "I used to respect you, until you did X" or "I would have more respect for you if you did Y"I wish I knew this. I had an ex tell me that if we hadn't waited to have sex, he "wouldn't respect me" and probably wouldn't bother "hanging out with me" after the First and only date we went on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:06 PM |
| 17 | Is silent treatment opposite of cOmmUnicAtinG?The silent treatment is a form of emotional abuse and I for one do NOT take it lightly. And information diets are extremely healthy. That's what this is. I was made into a SA survivor, and I do not tell my mother anything about men. I do not tell her about dates or anyone that I talk to. Why? Because her awful jerkface narcissist response is " haven't you learnt your lesson?" Yes mom, a man committed an indictable criminal offense and because he's white and an accountant the local police pretend… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:55 PM |
| 11 | POLL: DOES/HAS HE PRETEND(ED) HE CAN’T FIND YOUR VAGINA DURING SEX?Sort of. Using his finger to find my vagina, obviously stopping at my urethra first because basic biology wasn't his thing..and then using his other hand to try to guide (read: jam) his very small (length and girth) mostly soft penis in. I asked him to stop and he did and we never spoke again after he had left my place (he initiated leaving as he was really embarrassed). Dude. You're not placing a chest tube. What the fuck? The second hand embarrassment was pretty bad. He has lied about hooking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:50 PM |
| 10 | Is there a word for this?A form of future faking, perhaps? Speech of the future, plans for months down the road, saying he trusts /'really likes' you after not a long time (this could also be a form of love bombing). Basically they'll say what they want to get what they want and then turn it all around on you like you're crazy "I never said I was even looking for a girlfriend" "Woah I never said I wanted anything serious/exclusive" "lol slow down, just chill, we'll see where this takes us". Right to the dumpster, Kyle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 09:38 PM |
| 12 | Men understand consent only when it’s about themResponses varied from “bring it on!” to “it’s not the same” to “I would love it if I were [catcalled, inappropriately touched, attacked etc] by you These are also the first ones to say "not all men" and "women hit men more than men hit women!!!1!!". So which is it? Make up your minds, bumbling virtue signaling idiots. I don’t think they see us as people. They don't. Just thighs to conquer. My colleague uses the word ,"smash" to mean sex. To smash something is to destroy it. I've asked him to sto… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 05:48 PM |
| 30 | He gave another woman a Christmas gift, spent a weekend with her at a hotel, has an entire gallery of photos on her phone, but let's marry him 🤡This. My male coworker (30) told me the word woman is only "for like a 40 year old. A woman is old sounding". Andi said "a girl is a female child. A boy is a male child. Operative word here being child - aka, a minor. A woman is an adult female. A woman used to be when she first got her period. So we're women when it comes to our ability to be pregnant but a girl when it comes to everything else? How is that fair". I'm 32 and find it gross he's calling all his tinder matches "girls". He also thi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 02:56 PM |
| 42 | Men understand consent only when it’s about themI'd like to offer this : how would they feel if a gay man who is a stranger, were to hit on them or ask for their number or cat call them? How would they feel if that gay man stood far too close to them or even put hands on them by feigning politeness and putting their hand on the small of his back to (unnecessarily) 'squeeze' by him? Hmm? There's a video I saw not long ago of a prank, where gay men would be going the opposite way on an escalator and they'd touch the hand of a man coming to oppo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:33 PM |
| 2 | I dated a Softboi so you don’t have to!I see we both dated Kyle. He had ok work ethic, though, I'll give him that. But that's all I can give him. I have another point to add : bad in bed and cunnilngus "wasn't his thing". He also lasted like five seconds. He had the audacity to say "I only date pretty girls" and I'm like "oh I'm not a pretty girl. I'm a beautiful woman". That same day he pinched the skin on my tummy because I was bent over petting his lovely dog who I was so fond of. Clearly trying to take me down a peg by physically… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Gaslighting me by telling me not being comfortable with sex talk with a stranger is “unhealthy” 🤢 Analysis in the commentsThe exact same thing has happened to me a few times. He also used the term "walking on eggshells" because I said "I don't feel it's appropriate to discuss that at this juncture, we haven't met yet" and he slaps me with the same "well I'm looking for someone who is open and doesn't make me walk on eggshells". So, not only are you invasive but you're a shitty little punk who tells me I'm being emotionally abusive because I won't answer a very personal or sexual question? Fuck off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:37 PM |
| 53 | If you have an mental illness - be extra cautious of men trying to manipulate you or gaslight youI dated a guy who told his whole family I was "crazy". His brother told him to "drop me off at the psych ward" when I took him to the hospital- he had gotten drunk, went to the casino, lost what little money he had and punched his rearview mirror resulting in a cut he made sound very bad when in reality he got one....ONE stitch. I wouldn't have bothered to even go if that was me. He asked me if I could take him to the liquor store after and drop him off at a friend's - he had been cheating on me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 121 | This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women.How come we are girls (female children) but they get to be men? Hmmmm? This whole thing is so depraved, yet... Unsurprising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:53 PM |
| 35 | Male violence, the media, and fear of going outThe mass murder at Montreal Polytechnic school is remembered every year - and while this is important - more...MUCH more needs to be done. I'm also Canadian and you're right, self defense such as pepper spray is illegal. The police also don't give a flying eff about women. You have three chances to beat the shit out of your partner - and even then you might not be sentenced. The police are crooked. SA nurses are an endangered species. As a SA and DV survivor, these aren't just opinions - but bac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:57 PM |
| 25 | Men harassing me and my dog?I used to have a doberman that no one would approach because, well, have you seen a full grown male doberman? He's no longer with us but his older sister is. She's a 7lb miniature pinscher. I have this: http://imgur.com/a/sEOCI4y - it goes over her leash. I always said "uhh, you didn't ask me permission to touch her. Do you want me to touch your property?" Please note that dogs to me are not property. They're beautiful beings and we don't deserve them. But, by law, they are and I'm always happy … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:31 PM |
| 3 | Wow, male provider everyoneUm...this is disusting. I'm cf and I'd never think of treating a child like that (not that cf people hate kids but many think we do so I felt it necessary to bring it up.). I hope they don't have kids together. Sounds like the type of guy to sand she has kids and then complains about how much they cost after the first diaper run. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 48 | I would give my child my maiden name as their last name after this.This is so sad. I'm childfree and have been dumped by guys after they've changed their mind about accepting my lifestyle choice. I was cheated on by the one guy who then tried to rub it in my face that he got her pregnant and was moving her in to "take care of her". I didn't engage. He waits a few hours and then types something along the lines of "so not me but my friend told me that he wasn't attracted to his gf when and after she was pregnant and I'm really scared that will happen to me. Does … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:43 PM |
| 19 | What a HVM would do for youFor me it's "won't even give up porn". Sidebar... This interview was SOMETHING. I suggest watching if and when you can. Partial spoiler alert: I've met Megan in person and she is LOVELY. I live close to her hometown and for her privacy that's all I'm saying about having met her twice. She is poised and beautiful and above all, honest and genuine. I heard things I figured were true, but hoped never were re: her husband's inbred fam jam. If she figured that they were going to do to her what they d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:30 AM |
| 9 | The problem with men wanting “independent women.”I wasn't IN a game. It happened after the two months. Stop making assumptions. You're unnecessarily didactic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 01:19 AM |
| 12 | The problem with men wanting “independent women.”Yes! I brought it up when it happened three days in a row. On the third day, he told me "I need someone more independent". (He was flipping pages as he had clearly written this down). He also required someone who could "deal with him" when he "takes a break" from his ADHD meds on the weekend 😂😂😂. The best part? He's a fucking pharmacist! Bahahaha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:08 AM |
| 10 | The problem with men wanting “independent women.”I dated him for two months. Two months of my very valuable time is worth a response to a thoughtful text. I'm not needy. Since when is "I expect the bare minimum" = needy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:05 AM |
| 9 | The problem with men wanting “independent women.”Not making a simple text back after 10 hrs is rude. Its not emotional dependency on her part, but expecting basic manners. I wouldn't even not text a colleague back after 10 hrs Exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 20 | The problem with men wanting “independent women.”Emotionally needy? Because I asked him how his day was and he would consistently take an excessive amount of time to answer?( Which is bare minimum effort that my friends have zero problems doing...) Can you unpack that for me? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 10:18 PM |
| 51 | The problem with men wanting “independent women.”I was told I wasn't independent this time last year because i told him it wasn't acceptable to text me back 10 hours later to a simple "hey handsome, how's your day going?" On a regular basis while I see the little green dot on instagram because he's online. I pay for everything for myself and have savings, a paid for car etc. His ex lived with her mom and her bf, didn't drive (didn't have a license by choice) so obviously no car, and she only worked part time - I know her and had actually been … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Delete the dating apps. Start developing friendships with HV women. They are the the ones that are going to be there when things get tough. They will give you the comfort, compassion, and love that you need. Things that most men are incapable of, even if you’ve been married to him for decadesyour sugar baby tactics dont work here Lol. She hasn't a damn clue what a sugar baby is if she thinks that paying for a date and having that expectation are "SB tactics". same woman who was always made the butt of the joke by This explains everything. This isn't ok and it's evil and possibly abusive. But it explains why she wants other women to lower their standards - she gets treated like trash and so wants that for the rest of us. If we have it better, were gold digging submissive sugar babies… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 11:54 PM |
| 22 | Radfems In The Wild 💯Hidden camera show captures a HVW protecting a young girl from a creepy old scroteThe comments on the split the bill one .....omg... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 02:19 PM |
| 33 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesAin't free sis. We pay high taxes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:12 AM |
| 43 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesCanada hates women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:11 AM |
| 45 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesOnce you have a criminal record here, you're screwed every which way from Sunday. You're barred from jobs, education, housing, and even women's shelters. No wonder we're too afraid to call the cops for anything. I certainly won't, not when at least 40% of the force are dv perpetrators. The patriarchy is alive and well in Canada. It's our government effectively telling us to shut up and sit pretty and to submit. Yup. Am Canadian, born and have always lived here. The cops here are crooked and disg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 01:10 AM |
| 46 | Rape is effectively legal in most countriesTHANK YOU FOR WRITING ABOUT CANADA. My detective? "I will charge you with criminal Mischief if you are lying, and I find out" Me: "I'm not, and how dare you threaten me. You're part of the problem." Guess what? She's my mom's best friends daughter. My mom just bought her mom a new sewing machine. Her daughter made 118k in 2019. My case was tossed for "lack of evidence". I'm so fucking angry. You're so right about our legal and "justice" system. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 12:58 AM |
| 31 | THIS Is Why FDS Advises Women To REFRAIN From Telling Potential Male Partners About Past Poor Treatment From Men...From The Horses Mouth On A Video Advising Men How To Game On Tinder. HORRIFIC.Horrifying. But not surprising. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 12:48 AM |
| 10 | Delete the dating apps. Start developing friendships with HV women. They are the the ones that are going to be there when things get tough. They will give you the comfort, compassion, and love that you need. Things that most men are incapable of, even if you’ve been married to him for decadesThe consent dude and her current bf are different people - sorry - what I wrote wasn't super clear. We were talking about her highschool bf who we both know. Such as jokes and jabs about their personalities , quirks, and even when they get angry about very valid things I've had my fellow woman make tell me I'm too picky, too intense. I'm quite a relaxed person but the moment I hear about issues regarding consent, using a woman as a maid/bank account/ fleshlight, yeah I'll get pissed. I hope her … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 12:46 AM |
| 34 | Delete the dating apps. Start developing friendships with HV women. They are the the ones that are going to be there when things get tough. They will give you the comfort, compassion, and love that you need. Things that most men are incapable of, even if you’ve been married to him for decadesI appreciate your comraderie. The woman in my comment literally said she dated a guys who had "issues with consent" and I said "hands or penis?" And she said penis. I said, even if it was hands, it's a form of rape. Call it what it is. I'm a survivor too and it's hard to talk about, I get it - I'm here for you but we have to give it a name that tells the truth better than "issues with consent". She got very terse with me and said "no. He's not a r*pist". But....he has "issues with consent"? She … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 12:22 AM |
| 67 | Delete the dating apps. Start developing friendships with HV women. They are the the ones that are going to be there when things get tough. They will give you the comfort, compassion, and love that you need. Things that most men are incapable of, even if you’ve been married to him for decadesIt sucks - when I express my personal views on things like emotional load, dates, porn which are exactly in line with our values here in this sub- a new gf of mine went on a massive rant arguing against all of these. I have zero interest of being her friend anymore. I am having such a hard time making female friends and it sucks. I am single, deleted the apps but I basically have no one else to talk to besides my sister, mom and one gf who is cool, but we aren't close. Ugh. In time, maybe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!Me too, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!He did... He said his last name started with a P and then my sister randomly showed up another time (omg that is a whole ass story) and she said "what's your last name" while I was in the loo and his answer started with a L. Sorta pissed I don't know his real surname. It's my fault for not just point blank asking him. His driver's license had the corner cut off which where I live means he's not allowed to drive and that particular card is for "indenification purposes only". Most people like that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!He is completely unstable. I totally did but it's taken months for him to leave me alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 7 | LmaoSame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 9 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!I would love to send him the bill, but he lied about his last name and the police won't tell me what it is for privacy reasons. He told me it was one thing and then said in another convo it was another. You're the best and I really appreciate this suggestion. I'm going to look into it for sure. Who put outdoor shoes on a white leather chair?! FFS, just ask if I can get you a linen napkin or something to out underneath. My dog doesn't touch things that aren't hers, ever. I have nice shoes too - l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 09:55 PM |
| 15 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!I get angry about it every time I see the stains. I've tried all sorts of things but the stain was noticed too late and the more luxurious the leather, the more porous it usually is, and porous materials are difficult to treat... Especially when white 😬. Baking soda, vinegar and water, oxyclean Baby, and maybe I'll try barkeepers friend next. I don't get upset over material things but it just felt so indicative of his laziness and disrespect for my space. He got blood on my pillows (he had scrap… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 54 | Everyone’s attacking this woman. The pick me’s are saying if you love somebody it doesn’t matter if they make $1 a year. The scrotes are saying she needs to stop being a gold digger. I say.. she’s got the right idea!Not too long ago, a hobosexual tried to sink his claws into me. Subsidized housing, no kids (so not reason for subsidized living and he isn't an immigrant), drug issues, works 16 hours a week (2 or so days a week), has a brand new iPhone but no couch, car, coffee table. Sells "rare Jordans" on the side, but has a lot of shoe cleaning stuff so I think he's selling preowned shoes for a higher price... He went insane after two weeks I said I don't see a future with him. And when I say insane, I mea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 05:04 PM |
| 30 | LmaoUnderrated observation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:45 PM |
| 90 | LmaoTranslation: "get a *girl who is younger and easier to control with your bouts of terrifying rage, manipulation and gaslighting" *Girl because you like minors? Or is your vocab so small that word woman isn't in it? Or maybe, the word woman hurts your head - it's just so ✨ aggressive ✨ of women to not want to be called a child. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:44 PM |
| 117 | If they experienced a fraction of what women go through, they would never accept "50/50"Also him: recoils in disgust when she asks for him to take a night shift so she can rest or to change the baby and spend some time so she can nap or have a shower that lasts longer than 8 minutes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:04 PM |
| 25 | That’s her 2nd one??She needs FDS ASAPI understand not wanting to help out with childcare if you're dating some who has kids. But, when you then choose to blend your households and move in together, everything should be a team effort. It's pretty disgusting he lays in bed all day. If there was an emergency, it sounds like he can't be trusted with a small child/baby. My friend has a life like this, except it's the boyfriends kid too. He's lazy and she just says well I do (insert task here) better. Nope he just doesn't put any effort … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:41 PM |
| 5 | Protect her from what? 🙃"we've always done it this way" is the most dangerous phrase in both business and society. Physical strength ≠ better leader The only thing that physical strength can make you better at leadership wise, is oppression. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:46 PM |
| 9 | Protect her from what? 🙃Isn't she great? Stunning as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 5 | Why do scrotes think you’re either pretty or smart, but not both?Sorta. More like "he's only respecting you bedside you're attractive" Perceived as unattractive = ignored, discarded, brushed off, Perceived as attractive= oh she's worth bare minimum human respect (I guess) and I'll pretend to listen to her stupid stories so that maybe I'll come off engaged, and hopefully this leads to sex! If she's out of my league I'll neg her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:52 PM |
| 36 | Protect her from what? 🙃But, like, not important property. We're not his new ps5 or 2021 lifted ford f150 with mud tires, bump bar in that colour that cost $3000 more. Like if something happens to it, he'll just go get a new one, but not without a life and neuron changing meltdown. Us? The rust encrusted can opener he took from his mom's when he moved out of her place last year to move into ours at 43, that will 1000% give you tetanus if you try to use it. A few cuss words, a frustrated toss into the garbage and a trip… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 12:18 PM |
| 243 | Protect her from what? 🙃It gave me life when AOC said "being a father does not make you a decent man." I'm Canadian and we need an AOC. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 16 | Why do scrotes think you’re either pretty or smart, but not both?Wow so they start being nice once they realize you’re attractive? Yeah, it's gross. And unfortunately, lv women become hostile at times, so, the opposite. "Oh she was sweet on the phone, but she's pretty, so I'm going to be a massive B just to knock her down a few pegs." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 61 | Protect her from what? 🙃Yep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 05:23 AM |
| 35 | Why do scrotes think you’re either pretty or smart, but not both?He's negging you. As someone who is both, just like you, I'm terrifying. I have zero qualms with telling a man he isn't my intellectual equal. I also have zero qualms with the fact that I was smart far before I was pretty, and I have always led with the first after having been a late bloomer. I've had clients who haven't met me in the flesh and sometimes they're really crappy to me over the phone. Contrary to a possibly popular though, it doesn't feel nice at all the they're suddenly much more p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:46 AM |
| 9 | Rejecting porn use is apparently "antifeminist"😂Amen, sis. It's so irritating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 5 | Rejecting porn use is apparently "antifeminist"😂I experience the same. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 03:09 PM |
| 14 | Rejecting porn use is apparently "antifeminist"😂I'm an utter killjoy. And I'm fricken fine with it 😂 Thanks sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 01:12 AM |
| 54 | Rejecting porn use is apparently "antifeminist"😂I feel certain that certain people see the word feminism and think it is some tenant of some sort of Cool Girl Club, where porn and hurting women is okay, and tolerating the Second Shift is encouraged because we can dO iT AlL - meN dOnT knOW hoW tao vAcuUm haHaA. When really it's to protect us, and to allow us to have basic rights like bodily automomy (I'm Canadian but am aware that women don't have this in some states still) and allows us to vote and be defined as whole ass humans among so many… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:59 PM |
| 25 | Rejecting porn use is apparently "antifeminist"😂Right?! How dare I! And being the victim of sexual harrassment by being sent an unwelcome nude is not porn and it doesn't not make me a consumer. Victim blaming = the new feminism! 😐 Wanting respect and to not be objectified is really anti feminist and puritan. I love this. I wish I had said it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:31 PM |
| 21 | Rejecting porn use is apparently "antifeminist"😂Context: the original post was about a woman who has been cheated on/betrayed via porn, an escort, and the photos she'd send the posters husband. She has previously asked her husband not to use porn, as well. My comment was more about that part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Please talk some sense into me *age gap*Thanks very much for those kind words millennialpink, it was a horrible experience to endure - especially the aftermath (having to choose between dog food and gas, let alone food for myself, building my credit back up, etc etc etc 😐). I wouldn't want that for anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:19 PM |
| 30 | Please talk some sense into me *age gap*A 35 year old should NOT be interested in a 22 year old. What on earth does a new college grad have in common with a mid-30s guy? Nothing. I hope OP sees my comment and understands that I was a victim of this circumstance. This was me. And now at 32? A 22 year old man or woman would make me feel very gross, borderline need-to-be-on-a-certain-registry. I said what I said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:36 PM |
| 55 | Please talk some sense into me *age gap*I hope she hears this loud and clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:34 PM |
| 42 | Please talk some sense into me *age gap*Sis. Listen to me. I was 21 and he 32 (and quickly 33, he is born in 77 and I in 88). Don't do it. You're quite young. I was you and I was too naive and starstruck by a handsome charming and seemingly wealthy man. Who ended up stealing my youth, destroying my future, caused an eating disorder, mental illness and other medical issues, took out a credit card in my name, told me to quit my job but then isolated me and eventually imprisoned me in our house which he then kicked me out of for one of t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:33 PM |
| 28 | How to break a trauma bond?No contact. Go completely NC. Common tactic to deal with narcissists, who are the main dealers of trauma bonds. Block, delete, remove. Vanish into thin air. BUT, get ready to get a peace bond or restraining order. These people often show up at your home/work/known places of regular leisure because being cut off from their supply (YOU) is very disruptive to their ego. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 11:20 PM |
| 25 | She thought this was cute and quirky, but this made my stomach drop.😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 06:24 PM |
| 3 | Men’s magazine glamorizes 20 year age gap between old scrote and beautiful woman for their “modern love” edition. 🤮In the words of the great Alexis Rose : "ew!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 11:04 PM |
| 32 | Out of curiosity, what’s the special flavor of scrote from where you’re from?Toronto : * aire of superiority * "that's inconvenient" - anything that isn't within a 5, second walk * lots of "work meetings" for anyone in finance, which is just code for going to cactus club after work to try to pick up women out of their league * dress decently, but sincerely think they have ground breaking style despite looking exactly like one another. * doesn't ask you anything except "what do you do". If your answer isn't good enough, or too good, they'll give you attitude * artsy, but … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 47 | Trigger warning - but I wanted to share a monologue by a HV female JudgeOr in my case, there is no courtroom. A corrupt police force combined with the fact that he is a caucasian accountant = no justice for me. There never will be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you want to get to know the nuances of his culture? Look at meme pages targeted to their ethnic groupI'm Canadian. Our culture is a mosaic of others. Very few people are "full blooded Canadians". My dad was Irish and my mom is Polish. I'm not a "full blooded Canadian" - my ancestors weren't running around r*ping indigenous women, pillaging and murdering the men. My ancestors starved in a famine and were subject to the Holocaust. I'm not sure I'd take pride in being a "full blood" anything in the New World. And really, the only fuLL bLoOd Canadians are the indigenous people. The Cree, Ojibwa, Mi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 5 | I asked men why don't they accept compliments from other men...It's so true. Even if that woman is not hetero, it's still never in a leering manner. I've been told my body looks nice in a dress by a woman at a summertime music festival. Drinks were flowing and we got talking and hugged and added each other to instagram 🤣. The guy I was with was like "are you dumping me for her hahah?" And I said "you never know!". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | I asked men why don't they accept compliments from other men...Oh, totally. We didn't last long at all. He was obsessed with his ex fiance who was Korean and he'd always say how pretty she was (but didn't compliment me) and he'd hit on beautiful Asian women all the time (I'm caucasian haha). It didn't take long to see through him. I was nothing but a confidence booster and arm candy. He was not affectionate - unless we were around his friends. Then he'd be all over me. His brother came up to me at a gathering and asked in a sweet way how I was doing (surgeo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 04:13 PM |
| 32 | Why do we only tell women not to go outside after a certain time? Men don't even have to think about this bullshit.Guns are definitely banned where I live. But perhaps if they weren't, I perhaps would have already been shot by my angry jealous ex (he told me to move out as he met someone new, go figure..) or my stalker. It can go both ways. Bear spray is allowed though.... I think. I see what you mean, absolutely. But like many things men abuse, carry conceal would be one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:22 PM |
| 145 | Why do we only tell women not to go outside after a certain time? Men don't even have to think about this bullshit.My hvm guy friend is the only one who tells me to be careful/let me know you got home ok/ etc. He would never tell me to relax or not to be paranoid. He's a sergeant in the army and is well aware of how his peers behave. He denouces these behaviours and has even told a guy to leave me alone, upon walking up to a situation where I was waiting for him on a patio and some idiot felt I was free game 🤮. I don't have any lvm friends but I have been asked by guys why I don't run at night, and why I sta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:07 PM |
| 11 | I asked men why don't they accept compliments from other men...I second this entire comment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 75 | I asked men why don't they accept compliments from other men...I dated a surgeon who said to me "I don't give compliments because compliments aren't genuine and people only give them when they want something" To be fair, he's a total sociopath. I tell my fellow sister I love their outfit/shoes/hair/eyes or non physical traits all the time. I say it out of love and being genuine. Imagine thinking I can't compliment then because that means I want something? Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 25 | This is why FDS matters. Don't get stuck with a LVM.Who wants to bet that he wanted the kids more than her? 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:03 PM |
| 10 | Cynics are LV and boringMe: "so what are you and (gf ) going to do for Valentine's Day? Him: "oh, shit, I totally forgot" Me: "oops! Well there's still time, (popular grocery store) always has great bouquets. I think (gf) would really appreciate that! Him: * scoffs * "she'll just get mad at me spending money. It's not really anything to celebrate, it's made up". Some context: -theyre both 24 and met as fwbs at 20. -they don't live together ; she lives on her own and he lives with his parents - he spends a lot of time a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:01 PM |
| 2 | TW: DV. And these are just the things they are willing to post publicly.why does sexual harassment and rape turn them on so much? It makes them feel powerful. Rape and harrassment rarely have anything to do with sex/orgasm. It's all about the power they feel when they are "taking/doing" something to a being who isn't strong enough to fight back (whether it's because he's much bigger, or she freezes or she isn't concious). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Long time lurker~First Post here! Happy Valentine’s Day! Thank you,I have found the perfect HVM(puppy) to spend it with :)💕Came here to ask this. Havanese? How cute is this tiny cotton ball! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:52 PM |
| 22 | 50/50 Relationships are NOT equal. It’s a SCAM, ladies.The physical touch thing is so gross. It's also a huge red flag for me. You clearly don't know how to receive touch and not immediately turn it into sex. I've had this problem with an ex. I'd give him a big hug and kiss and he'd - well - always do something sexual. I'm trying to give you sweet loving affection and why is your hand down my pants. So much for consent - I guess me being affectionate = fair game. Deplorable. It's sad but when they put that on old for example - I just shake my head. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:31 PM |
| 7 | A Valentine's Day Tale.I have this book on audible and it's really great. Op I second sewingmachinesavior here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 36 | A Valentine's Day Tale.Exactl! This speech is so abusive. Comparisons with "so many" non existent women, to threaten her? Disgusting. When you break it down, it's so much worse than at face value. Imagine yelling out to your wife what she wants for Valentine's Day because you're too lazy to get up for a sec(and too lazy to put thought into a gift and needing to ask in the first place). Hell, I don't even yell out to my dog! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 04:07 PM |
| 11 | A Queen Grandmama.I feel you, in a way. It was my ex's mom.who refused to remove the shrine to her ex DIL. Pictures of her and the kids - sometimes with or without my ex - e v e r y w h e r e | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Happy valentine's day my queens! I can't give you flowers in person so I painted some flowers♡♡♡♡ This is for you!!These are beautiful, op💛 thank you so much. You've warmed many hearts with your very thoughtful gesture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:58 PM |
| 22 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?It was! And thank you, I am. It was a few years ago, and I had gotten out of a domestic abuse situation about a year prior - it's so easy to fall into that trap again but I blocked this guy. I hate seeing his face on adverts - he's a real estate agent. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:43 PM |
| 80 | mUh SpErM qUaLiTyCareful with your bp there Oedipus, you might die seeing as you're nearly 50. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:52 PM |
| 169 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?make casual comments "You're not even that hot." While on top of him. He slapped me across the face shortly thereafter and called it a love tap. I was suppose to find both funny bedside they were JOKES, guys!!! SO FUNNY!! 😐 it's my fault as I have zero sense of humourz obviously....... 😔 I feel very compelled to point out that he was very much out of his league with me. In a few ways, not just appearance wise. (I got off of him and that's when he hit me. I quietly packed my items and left. I had… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 134 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?This feels like "tell me your ex is a sociopath without telling me he is a sociopath". I was accused of "making a face that" and that was a "turn off", but he was very very girthy and despite me having zero natural lubrication issues - it hurt a bit at first the first few times. I told him this and to take it slow. He was very cheap so it surprised me when he bought high end water based lube "for me". (For US. WE are having sex. We.) My response floored him; I told him that saying my wince is a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:49 PM |
| 54 | Guys making fun of noises you make during sex. Just why?This. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 09:37 PM |
| 48 | Sex in a relationship...1754 and women aren't the property of men anymore? It was in 1983 that Canada finally made martial rape a criminal offense. Do you know what happens to a lot of rapists in Canada? Nothing. Our country is more worried about jailing drug users, the unsheltered, the poor, BIPOC folks. If you hurt women or kids, you'll likely walk. You might get a slap on the hand. The only reason why the late Dr. Elana Frics husband got the time that he did, was because the whole medical community was backing her a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:52 AM |
| 2 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.Interesting! Msybe it is a wealth statement 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.No clue. I've asked a second gen Italian kid to explain it and he wasn't able to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 01:40 PM |
| 17 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.It's what Italians call Canadian born people like me in my area. I have no idea. I don't even like cake. Haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 06:12 PM |
| 39 | I am so glad that more and more women are realising that casual sex is a complete scam for women.they fail to realize I feel like they know. But, our education and protection of our sisters goes against exactly what they want, which is not an empowered woman who wants safe, pleasurable sex. It's easier to shut us up by accusing us of shaming, rather than huh, you know what maybe be pressuring women to have causal sex isn't wise - is it what she wants and does it feel good? Is it safe? Am I being respectful? No no no, that's not how they're going to get their free pump and dump from the cool… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 04:38 PM |
| 21 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.In comoedia veritas (in comedy, truth)- a little play on Plinys very popular "in vino veritas" (in wine, truth). I took Latin and Italian in uni with my business degree, but I come from a polish and Irish background. It brings me joy when Italian clients assume I'm just another cakeeater, until I respond and their faces go white. Never assume! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 04:03 PM |
| 47 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour."pardon?" "I'm just kidding lololo" But seriously I need to know her response. This is so common. He stopped talking to her because he found someone he perceived as better, they didn't work out, and now he's coming back to her to see if he can chip away at her confidence and boundaries to squeeze sex out of her. This is super inappropriate and this dude not only lacks boundaries but he lacks any and all respect for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:55 PM |
| 16 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.Trade schools are in colleges here in Canada. But I do find it interesting that he says he wants an educated woman while he's a trade apprentice. I wonder what that means. Does he want her to have a master's or something? (Not that a trade isn't education, where I live there's a difference between college and uni, one is practical and the other is more academia) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:50 PM |
| 3 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.Found the incel. Got damn this is scary. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 12:47 PM |
| 27 | Being decent isn’t difficultI can't wait to see her again, I feel I will one day. I blossomed into a beautiful woman from an ugly duckling, and I'd love to confront her one day. It is her son's fault yes but it's also hers. She brought him into this world and raised him to be a gross predator. I understand that sometimes kids have amazing parents and still end up to be the dangerous men we see today, but I feel confident in saying this isn't the majority. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:57 PM |
| 7 | On Raising men....This! I went to a Catholic school. I was given detention for having it above my knee, while simultaneously always wearing bike shorts under as being kilted by boys was a thing and so was standing under the slatted stairs so they could look up. That level of harrassment, especially putting your hands on a young woman and trying to expose her body should be grounds for expulsion. None of the teachers ever have those guys crap and if you went to the principal, he would tell you to wear the grey pan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:51 PM |
| 40 | Being decent isn’t difficultI was in grade 8 when I was beat up by three boys. This is how my teacher and principal responded. Disgusting. I'm sorry this happened to you - it's vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 10:41 PM |
| 8 | Scrote would cry in humiliation if he had to look up to a queen on national television 💅I'm 5'2, and with some of my shoes I can reach 5'5. I was a few cm taller than him, and wondered why he'd have on his profile that he's 5'7. I don't care for being lied to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:36 PM |
| -6 | Scrote would cry in humiliation if he had to look up to a queen on national television 💅Or maybe - just maybe - if he was giving her a bit personal space and BACKED THE F UP perhaps he wouldn't have to look UP. But since he insists on being four inches from her face, he apparently needs to stand on a pail. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:33 PM |
| 13 | This is horrifyingSure sign of a porn obsessed man who doesn't care about your pleasure, comfort, or boundaries. Accurate. Also, they don't care about hygiene very much. A guy tried to finger me vaginally after I said no to doing so with my anus. "I didn't know" well that's really weird and you need to brush up on your anatomy, big time. Sorry doesn't cut it when it comes to my health and consent, and he was asked to leave. I hate the porn industry and what it's done for the quality and safety of sex and the dest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 12 | This is horrifyingUnderage..... This makes me furious. There was a girl (not women, girl, as she was a child as we were 16) in highschool who got "double teamed" aka using a live person so that they resemble dead pig rotating on a spit at a *Polynesian BBQ - who was made fun of...mercilessly because she lost bowel control on the bed where she was being assaulted. She was drunk and could not consent. This followed her around and they were horrible to her about it. She couldn't control it, and not just because she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 06:50 PM |
| 12 | This is nice.I tend to agree with this. I know the commenter right below me said it's how he does it and the effort that is put in... But if we are just looking at this example.... It's sad. I want more for my sisters than thinking this - which I feel is bare minimum and simply being an adult - is special. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 11:51 PM |
| 3 | Glorifying dumb/talentless/sexist men in public schools should be considered psychological abuse.I reccomend reading the interview with his first wife I second this. It's an important read. https://www.marieclaire.com/sex-love/a5380/millionaire-starter-wife/ https://www.nickiswift.com/208231/the-untold-truth-of-elon-musks-ex-wives/ Tldr: one small tidbit to show you how horrible he is. Jennifer's first baby with her codependent narcissistic sociopath of an ex died. He then forced her to get IVF right away, and said that her grieving THE LOSS OF A BABY was "emotionally manipulative". He proc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:50 PM |
| 33 | This is nice.-but how he does them Great point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:30 PM |
| 13 | I don’t know if this was posted yet but this is an example of why people need to listen to and believe women when they say they were violated !!I don't know if I can agree to a blanket statement BUYT I'd like to share something. I know a man who is a pediatrician, since it's the only residency match he made. He wanted to be a surgeon originally. He was at an event and went up to a little girl and asked her to come with him to get ice cream. This girls mother was like "😐". This was at a kosher food event so 99.8 per cent of the people were Jewish. Because they're all from the same community, I think the mom felt pressured to keep her mou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 137 | This is nice.Is this HV or is it just being a functional adult? Sure, this is all good stuff, but I'm sure she does all of the same things, maybe more. He's not special for adulting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Cat Lady is not an insultTotally, sis. And thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:35 PM |
| 36 | But men are ViSuAl CrEaTuReSAnd this is now the majority of men, especially in our generation and younger. I'm in my early 30s - the amount of guys I've met with PIED...is scary. These are the same people who choke, shove fingers in your mouth/rectum, and are generally quite rough, without any consent and often don't care at ALL if you're wincing, saying no, saying "ow" etc. When is porn going to be seen as a problem by people other than us, here, at fds? It's ruining sex, relationships, love, intimacy - among others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 03:00 PM |
| 7 | I'm under no obligation to be fake nice to men! This is not Chick Fil A!This happened to me this week. My boss said i was rude, disrespectful and aggressive because I asked "hey, have my hours changed? I should've asked you earlier, but I noticed we are having meetings at 445 until 5, but I'm still 830-430." He wanted me to say "hi, (boss name) I was wondering if you could please provide me a bit of clarification on my hours since working from home?" He literally provided a script of what he felt I should say. Oh, it's my responsibility to "keep him honest" as well.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 11:44 AM |
| 6 | Don’t let pity get you into a relationship, it’ll bite you on the ass."my mom made me go to bootcamp" "Oh boy. What did you do to get sent to bootcamp?" He did a shocked Pikachu that my answer was this, instead of "omggggg your mom is sooo mean! Omggg!" Bonus : he punched his younger sister. IN THE FACE. That's why he got sent to bootcamp. In Canada. Yea..... Breaking my ankle twice and it being kinda weak did not stop me from speedwalking in 3 inch stilettos. I damn nearly broke into a jog. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 11:37 AM |
| 8 | Cat Lady is not an insultHe's an idiot. Here's why: Spinster is a neg on women who did valuable and often VERY expensive sewing, needle point/embroidery, lace making et cetera before the industrial revolution. Women could be unmarried and make a good income. Our contributions to the textile industry were enormous. Then industry came along and men went to work in factories, women started being shunned from working and were only allowed to pop out babies and clean, while machines tried to replicate the work we did with ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 11:32 AM |
| 11 | If you can’t afford the lifestyle that I’m providing for myself, then you can’t have me!If you can't date me at the level which I date myself, I don't see the point. I may as well stay single if I'm the only one providing the flowers, gifts, dinners, trips to the nail salon, orgasms, brunches, entertainment etc for myself. I do thoughtful stuff for me, because I love me. Yeah these things cost money most of the time. That's how the world functions now. * Showing me your favourite park bench is not only not a date, but it's concerning. Not just based of a true story, but is a true s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 11:07 AM |
| 6 | Another thing to vet for?This is such gross behaviour. His diet sucks and he's clearly not done potty training because he likely needs to have a movement and probably can't tell. Being self-unaware is really unattractive. This whole post is disturbing. This isn't funny at all. It's contempt. I bet there's so much "have you talked to him? Maybe he is lactose intolerant. My boyfriend shits himself regularly because he always forgets to take his lactaid haha just communicate with him and let him know his fecal particles ar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 10:47 AM |
| 3 | I gave this man my number 2 days ago. I ended up blocking him bc he was doing too much. He told me I’m “not engaging” with him. But who has time to text back and forth all day? I have a life lol. So this is his message after he realized I blocked him on WhatsApp. He’s 45.Hah! Love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:51 AM |
| 74 | What to believe? Bio? Or description? Answer: none."being a dad looks like so much fun haha lololo" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:44 AM |
| 213 | But men are ViSuAl CrEaTuReS"we are mostly visual, you know" - unkempt face - unkempt home - there is literal mouse shit in the bathroom, Joe. - this is my going out shirt ( grabs balled up Henley from the Gap purchased 1998) - can't find anything (bonus points if it's important, like a birth certificate, and extra points if his mommy still has it at her placed filed away nice and safe because he can't be trusted with documentation 🥰) Us: gains weight from having baby, possible skin change, post partum, exhausted from carr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 09:29 AM |
| 9 | Dude takes 3X the amount of sleeping pills required on his first sleep over with new girlfriend, shits himself and his girlfriend does the laundry.As someone who has taken sleeping medication, he waaaaay overdosed. You should be able to retain motor skills. I know it says not to operate heavy machinery on the bottles, but no one should get this effed up. Why would you want to be so mangled on your first sleep over? I don't care how stressful his job is. This is pathetic. I once took my sleep medication (a hypnotic, not a barbituate) and had repeated my self once about something he had just asked, and told me in the morning that it was funn… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 13 | Rosemary Clooney knew it! She was not easily impressed. Always Vet Vet Vet"...but you still got a long way to go* 🎶😍 Thanks for sharing OP, this is great! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Boundaries : Enforced!Maybe! Haha. Some realty lovely stuff is on the various food subs, though, this is just par for the course! Thank you so much. It was a really lovely, relaxing Sunday just snacking, drinking my mimosas and chilling with my pup💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 49 | Men giving you their number and expecting you to call them - How do you respond?How do you all gals respond to such an outlandish request? I don't. If he's not man enough to ask for my number and ask when an ok time is to call, we already don't align. "The biggest mistake you can make Is removing jewels from your crown To make it easier for a man to carry. When this happens, I need you to understand You do not need a smaller crown— You need a man with bigger hands" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 06:38 PM |
| 5 | MAXIUM FEMALE BENEFIT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPSSorry, what I meant was that I think she had it but would never remove it from her purse. We aren't friends anymore because her dad hit on me and cornered me saying his daughters wouldnt mind (omg hell yes they would) if we dated (i gave ZERO indication that I was interested. I had sort of felt like a surrogate daughter to him in a way so he crossed so many boundaries and destroyed my trust. Also, he's delusional. I'm more than 20 years younger than him. He felt our age difference was ok because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:57 PM |
| 2 | MAXIUM FEMALE BENEFIT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPSThank you for your beautiful response 💛. He says it was because he's a Cohen which as he described i, is a type of "priest" and to become one you have to be born into a lineage of Cohens. (His surname isn't Cohen, I hope I'm making sense?). In any event, I respect him so much, but I felt this was a silly excuse because I wasn't asking that he attend anything particular, I just wanted to hang out with him. Her and I no longer speak. It was a unbalanced friendship and I struggle with those who are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 03:55 PM |
| 8 | MAXIUM FEMALE BENEFIT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPSOmg, are you me? I had a friend like this too - down to the supporting creative endeavors. It didn't take long for me to see all I was good for was paying for everything when we went out, or to be her free Uber. She's a student and I work full time, and I thought I was doing something kind until I noticed she no longer brang her wallet out when the cheque came. Never offered gas money. Didn't invite me to things or include me. I wish her well and I hope she gets into med school but I have no pat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:58 AM |
| 6 | MAXIUM FEMALE BENEFIT IN ALL RELATIONSHIPS“I was sooooooo busy.” Um, you literally had 5 days to find 20 minutes to call your friend whose father just died. First, please accept my condolences. I'm sorry, OP. I went through something similar. My grandma with whom I was very close passed in 2017. My father passed in 2011. During these times of need, there were people who made up the dumbest excuses for not showing up for me. One is Jewish and he said he could not come to my grandma's funeral because of his Judaism. Okay, I can respect th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:54 AM |
| 0 | Saw this today, and thought it belonged here🥰💖Passt : https://www.nytimes.com/2014/07/01/us/hobby-lobby-case-supreme-court-contraception.html Hobby lobby tried to ban their employees from accessing contraceptives on the company benefits plan based on religious rules. The owner, a man, is a hardcore evangelical 'christian' who has no issues using the Bible to oppress women. This isn't their only lawsuit. I'm Canadian so even if I wanted to shop there, I couldn't (right now). After hearing this... Never. I try my very best to support companie… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:24 AM |
| 0 | Boundaries : Enforced!I will be sure to have better manners in the future. My apologies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Boundaries : Enforced!Amen sis! I have a friend who keeps kosher and I always take that into consideration when choosing a place for us to eat. He always tells me "don't worry, let's go where you want to, I will find something!" And contrast this with a boy child who damn nearly stomped his feet when I suggested a non-pub setting; a place I enjoyed and felt very cozy in. He said he was so anxious because - sharp inhale - what if he can't find what he likes on the menu ?!?! It was like out second date and I was exhaus… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 04:29 PM |
| 5 | Boundaries : Enforced!I love olives! But then again, everyone has their own preferences and palate. For example, while fois gras is shi shi I don't care for it. Some people hate oysters, I love them! Some people love pork loin, I can't handle the smell or taste. I'm not going to make fun of anyone or think they're lvm due to a dislike. How they present that dislike, however, speaks volumes. A polite decline is valid, whatever this was from him, seemed very immature and narrow. What, is he 8? This all being said, whil… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:39 PM |
| 6 | Boundaries : Enforced!In my case, it has more to do with the quality of men in my area. It's so hard to meet someone who lives up to the bar I've set. I was told I shouldn't be "expecting" to be taken on a date as I'm not a homeowner (I feel this was the only thing he had "on" me as I'm more educated, out of his league looks-wise, provide a nice enough lifestyle for myself and I had told him I don't date men with kids. He has kids. He was likely lashing out and trying to hurt me with my being a renter). I have dated … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Boundaries : Enforced!I agree. I was so good at not giving any benefit of the doubt, and I've slid back for sure. I appreciate you sharing your struggle too. It's not easy. Thank you 🙂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 02:26 PM |
| 3 | Boundaries : Enforced!Oh dang - thanks for the heads-up. I'm Canadian, but I watched the debate and the way she shut him down was professional, calm, but there was so much strength and poise. I'm so glad she never said "sorry" when asking him not to interrupt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 01:12 PM |
| 8 | Boundaries : Enforced!All of this. Thank you so much. He also described himself as "super carefree". Not sure if it's bedside he's a stoner or if that's actually the case. One of his responses to me started with "excuse me?" Which just came off as... A lot. A lot of sass for something that was not at all inflammatory. I appreciate your thoughtful response. Well done for cutting it off so soon Thank you, also, for this. It was over the span of a Saturday and Sunday. I am proud of myself for enforcing what I feel is re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:45 AM |
| 1 | Boundaries : Enforced!just a basic understanding of maintaining a quasi-professional persona in the public arena Definitely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Boundaries : Enforced!Good point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 03:35 AM |
| 4 | Boundaries : Enforced!Thank you. Is it called that because it shatters your brain? Haha And oh yes it is, I'm half decent at taking pics and that is my OC. I actually tried to post it on the food subreddit and they removed it. Unsure why as I followed the rules. Maybe they saw my post and comment history and are mad that I'm a member of fds, as I'm sure that sub is run by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 10:22 PM |
| 10 | Boundaries : Enforced!I agree. I'm a bit appalled at the amount of downvotes you got, for simply being kind and considerate towards me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 8 | Boundaries : Enforced!Agree to all of the above. I also have game crazy friends, and they're like die hard bills fans. They don't ignore me or our other friends or their GFs (since my only game crazy friends are hetero men). It was quite pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:47 PM |
| 4 | Boundaries : Enforced!Haha fair enough. He was blocked and deleted yesterday evening! Check the rest of my post for pics of a nice charcuterie and a kick-a*s poster I bought with a Kamala quote. Haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 12 | Boundaries : Enforced!I don't prescribe to tough love - it's often just abuse masked by feigning helpfulness, while cutting down the person who is seeking said advice. If a man were to give us 'tough love', we'd tell him to show some compassion. As you in particular have been able to show, there are ways to support and have ones best interests at heart without passive aggression or sarcasm and the like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Boundaries : Enforced!Opiods are dangerous. A stoner night be lvm but opioids are problematic to the point there an epidemic they've caused. Super scary stuff! But I agree, anyone who tells me to never take ibuprofen etc and only use pot - I'm just like, okay buddy. Because you're a doctor, right? Haha. Stop pushing your excuses to be a burn out on me. Ick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Boundaries : Enforced!That's fair. I have a friend who smokes joints because they're currently receiving chemo and I've used it to sleep now and again. It's also legal where I live which makes it easier to access. This being said, sitting around taking bong hits or whatever it's called is pretty lvm. I just don't find that attractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:36 PM |
| 29 | Boundaries : Enforced!I appreciate your response - thank you. I feel like I'm getting dragged a bit in the comments. Thank you for saying kind things and you're right - genuine interest is baseline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:34 PM |
| 11 | Boundaries : Enforced!Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:28 PM |
| 12 | Boundaries : Enforced!Thanks for your input. But, months, really? I had no idea. Lessons are constant, if we frame things that way. And I'm sorry - is there a limit to how much I'm allowed to write on this sub? It seems you're a mod by your flair so any input is appreciated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:28 PM |
| 15 | Boundaries : Enforced!It's physical, which hurts less than the emotional pain I experience from not riding anymore. I miss them all so much (coach, horses - even the barn cats as I'm not really a cat person). Being reminded of why I don't ride is really upsetting. My back is not great. I would rather not get into details as its a) upsetting b) a bit unnecessary for the purpose of this sub/post and feels very personal to me. Did you feel I was not being forthright? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:24 PM |
| 5 | Boundaries : Enforced!What about if it's used for medicinal reasons? Do you mean habitual recreational users? Yeah, I'm starting to find that men who have that type of paraphenalia are pretty heavy into it, meaning it's a couple-times-daily sort of a thing. Maybe he had trouble responding to my messages because he was stoned... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:19 PM |
| 29 | Boundaries : Enforced!> They may feel high because so many men these days fall so so short. The sheer accuracy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 18 | Boundaries : Enforced!That's fair. The saying is "dumb bunny" but I know FDS is super strict about derog terms. Subbed dumb for silly. And absolutely, in all other areas, my gut runs the show. It / me has never been wrong. This being said, I had indicated that I wanted to "give the benefit of the doubt" because I realise my standards are a bit high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:14 PM |
| 9 | Boundaries : Enforced!Why? Because I had to retire due to an injury. Have you ridden before? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:07 PM |
| 9 | Boundaries : Enforced!I began feeling like my standards were obnoxiously high, to be honest. I hadn't had a disgusted feeling until I got that "haha sorry fell asleep on the couch (because I was high as a kite and just ate chicken fingers my mommy dropped off)" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:05 PM |
| 10 | Boundaries : Enforced!You’re worth getting to know. < that's really lovely and I appreciate that. I think so too, but the men around here don't seem to care about value, just the amount of sex they can squeeze out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:02 PM |
| 16 | Boundaries : Enforced!I always strive to be genuine. But, he lied as he didn't end up going on any hike. It sounds like he was trying to make it sound like he was going to do more than sit on his couch, eat candy, smoke pot and watch sports all day. His day may not have been HVM but we all need a day of rest. Benefit of the doubt and all that. You're right with the " he did not show up in an attractivr way for you" - I really like how you worded that. I think it would be helpful for me to frame it like this. Thank yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 3 | What do you say to sexist remarks?This and asking them to explain. Dumb fox. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:59 PM |
| 15 | Seeking new moderators for r/AskFDS!This is great! I'm still not able to comment there despite having done the post to do so - I figured maybe it was due to lack of mod(s). Maybe if there are more mkds we'll have more input for those who are seeking answers! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 12:53 PM |
| 1 | The girl my ex cheated on me with, answering all my questions 😭 She was an angel about it all!I am so happy she responded. I did the opposite, and tried to reach out to the young lady I was cheated on with to let me know the types of messages he had been sending me (sexual). I found her on FB, and he called me within three seconds of pressing send. Pretty sure he was logged into all her stuff. Her little icon didn't pop down to show she read it. Super unfortunate. I'm cf, she was in the first few weeks of a pregnancy with him, and he cheated because "you don't want kids and I want to be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:54 PM |
| 5 | weekend of self loveBeautiful! White hydrangeas are my favourite!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 10:23 PM |
| 19 | I read this and just thought “wow, that’s not romantic at all”. they got married today 😳This is actually just... Heartbreaking. I wonder if she's very young or really socially unaware. I feel like he's made it clear he isn't interested, and is (contractually😐) settling for her. Damn woman this is not what love looks or sounds like... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 06:22 AM |
| 34 | Are all divorced men = LVM?All? I don't know. I'm not sure I want to cast a wide net such as that - the failure of marriages is not always or wholly a man's fault, so I'm not sure that being divorced is automatically a black smudge on a particular man. What I do know is that not many have done the work, (therapy, or at the least emotional and psychological self help, creating maintaining positive habits) and are still bitter about what (ex wife) she used to do or say or whatever. A lot of people I have come across dating-… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Remember: in nature, the greatest accomplishment that a male animal can ever hope to achieve is mating with a female. It's time we human women recognize our power over men, and start acting accordingly.R/ childfree has a list of doctors who aren't pieces of shit and don't disregard your bodily automomy. I would be reporting this physician to the board that hold their license. I'm 32, Canadian and the surgeon did not once argue, and didn't even ask why I just said "I have never wanted kids and I've been on the pill since 15." A bilateral salpinectomy is when they remove/ excise a portion of the tubes. 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 04:06 PM |
| 0 | WHAT IS A “WALK DATE”?!No he did not. What in the blue hell? GROSS. yeah I don't like how he has a bunch of female followers who worship him. I don't care for some of his "advice" either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 11:46 PM |
| 26 | WHAT IS A “WALK DATE”?!That's pretty scary. It's just a lack of social awareness and emotional intelligence. I had a guy ask me to go on a drive. I have my own car, and I don't get into strangers cars unless it's an Uber, which even then... We all have an uncomfortable, or worse, cab/Uber/Lyft story. Don't tell us to be scared but then dismiss our experiences and feelings, while never sticking up for us. Men don't denounce their friends or contemporaies' behaviour. Until they start giving each other shit for treating … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:44 PM |
| 35 | WHAT IS A “WALK DATE”?!I've been called paranoid before for this but I don't really care. I told the guy to blame his own kind, and that my safety is paramount. People are using the pandemic to go on these no effort lame "dates" and I'm tired of it. It's not the time to date anyhow. That Fairy Godfather guy says we should only do coffee dates at first. I just don't see the point of getting ready to go have a coffee. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:48 PM |
| 224 | WHAT IS A “WALK DATE”?!Oh, they'll even ask you on a hike as a first date. Which is fucking terrifying. They ain't lookin for love, they're just bored and need some warm attention their bros aren't giving them. They're just trying to use us - it's pretty disturbing. Had a guy on old complain that a girl with which he went on a hike 😐, had such yellow teeth teeth (girl's? Eye twitch)right after he said "bonus points for having perfect teeth!" (No where near close enough to handsome to be making these types of comments)… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 4 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Yeah it was a bit much for sure within the first few messages. He was definitely a "hurter". Excellent point - thank you 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:11 AM |
| 6 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Thank you for that support, sis! I felt badly about myself for a sec, and then I remembered how I was kicked out of an exes and worked two jobs and paid for half a car in cash and leased the rest, with the plans to repair my credit to get into a new car the following year which is exactly what happened. That man didn't provide anything for me, despite telling me I didn't need to work. I was extremely hesitant, but he promised that my credit card, school loan, and other needs were going to be cov… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:52 PM |
| 7 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"I hope they're not renting. One is 8 years old. 🤣 But she's practically an adult, right?????🙃🙃🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 73 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"But instead they're just furious that the life she built without them is beautiful... And likely more beautiful than theirs. Imagine being so small and angry that you have to spew tour vitriol to an amazing woman? Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:23 PM |
| 117 | "Men don't care about your career, all we want is a woman who is young, reasonably attractive, and with a tolerable personality"Good for you sis, I love this for you. Congrats. I was unmatched on OLD because a man said "yeah women who don't own homes aren't financially stable. You said you rent and that's a red flag". He said that after asking me if I own and prior to that what I do for a living. He has kids and is divorced but is reno-ing his home and I guess he feels he's better than me for this. He also referred to his school aged daughters as "pretty much adults". That hurt me - I had independence thrust upon me at a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:22 PM |
| 12 | She’s sixteen...Also, I'd like to add, yours is one of many many examples of male doctors disregarding women to the point of making huge errors. It's pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:57 PM |
| 20 | She’s sixteen...Yeah a lot of psychiatrists, due to their scope of practice, aren't up on their anatomy, and many male doctors aren't too great at our feMaLe iSsuEs. But this is a HUGEa error. The female obgyn told me that a bilateral salpinectomy and a tubal ligation are the same thing, which is not correct, but she didn't like that I knew a term she didn't. She then scoffed at me and said "oh that's very old information" when I asked if it's accurate that there is a time limit for when women can be on birth c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:56 PM |
| 47 | She’s sixteen...Yeah... A psychiatrist is a medical doctor. A psychologist is not a physician, but definitely someone who turn to for therapy. If this personal has seen "several" psychiatrists that's... Of concern. You require a referral to see one from a go/family Doctor in Canada. I don't know about the states but I'm unsure why this 16 year old female has seen several psychiatrists and chose to talk about bdsm with them. Psychiatrists diagnose conditions such as bipolar, various types of depression, schizoph… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 10:36 AM |
| 2 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?I'd also like to point out that the mother of the adult brother said I was "over dramatic". Aforementioned adult brother has extreme anger issues and had pounded the table with his first and stormed off because he was wrong about something during dinner. He's also choked his mother before, with both hands. I wasn't there or I would have called the police But yes, me walking out of your home with my dog who is not welcome or safe there, calmly and quiet was sooooo dramatic of me. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?I agree. A "man" at work is terrified of my seven lb dog. And yes it's not a HVM sign but respecting animals is. I once went on a date with a guy who told me to go wash my hands so he can hold it, because I pet the nose of a horse that was pulling a carriage. Someone who feels animals are inherently dirty just because they aren't us is pretty unattractive to me. I'm not into holding hands with a guy who probably doesn't wash them after using the bathroom just because his culyure sees pets as dir… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 2 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?Hey pinkfleur, Racehorses are still mistreated despite the urge to make sure they are well treated. The Kentucky Derby will pull a horse from a race if he has even a scratch, but not all horses get to that level. The skinny babies with the ribs are not uncommon. Can I ask where you live? If your climate is warm I'm happy for them. I live in a southern part of Canada, near Buffalo NY, and not all horses "winter" well if they're low weight or elderly. (Horses in captivity can reach over 30 years o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?I definately never ever mean to scare anyone or anything like that, it does have a few risks, like any sport. I like to be honest, though. Please let me know if you have any questions. :) Have a beautiful weekend! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:46 PM |
| 8 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?They cannot stand to see us do something that either they are unable or too afraid to do. If we have a skill they they don't, many wil react by downplaying or, by saying they've done it too, to a similar level/caliber/whatever. I've never met another woman who is afraid of horses but I've met lots of men who are. It's a sign that he's not the one who can protect me. Guys who are afraid of big dogs or ones who "hate" little dogs is a huge turn off too. It shows so much ignorance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:10 PM |
| 11 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?Always men. May they sit on their own balls posting. One horse I rode, Spock, was very upset to find there was a minor change done in the indoor arena and GASP a single bale.of hay was MOVED. how dare. Side eyed it every time we went last. Ears forward sir, I assure you you're safe 🤣. I also love it when a mare I used to ride got extremely emotional over a plastic bag drifting in the wind quite far away. Please stop trying to break dance, you are a horse and I happen to be on your back. The dram… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:57 AM |
| 9 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?I found barn chorea therapeutic. I love the gentle giants. One of my favorite breeds is the Percheron. The gypsy vanner is also considered a draft horse 🙂. It's hard work for sure! My coach used to take my stirrups off and I'd post the trot and canter without. Your control is actually in the lower leg, not the thigh. But posting uses quads, hams and glutes - sort of like doing squats! On top on a living breathing being. Easy, right? Because the horse does all the work (HAH). 🚩Also two reasons to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:49 AM |
| 5 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?Just know it's going to happen and let it happen. Try not to stiffen up. Yes, this goes against all natural reactions, haha. To learn to ride is to learn to fall. It's a shorter fall than it looks. Falling is ok, and very much part of the process. I promise. For extra protection, in addition to your helmet which you should ALWAYS wear, there are protective vests and some of them even inflate before you hit the ground so the propensity of a severe break (like a neck) to reduced. The former are ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:32 AM |
| 12 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?Anytime sis. Horse tax: Comanche the gypsy vanner https://imgur.com/a/fyoJWd0 (Comanche was the only stallion I've ever ridden, this was just a photo op, please never ride without a helmet. I had to blur out his 5th appendage bedside there were female horses around.) http://imgur.com/a/l2Oai8B (Wally, the one I told you about. Yes my eyes are closed... Poor timing. I blame coach. Haha) http://imgur.com/a/ww9XCCW (Spock was this horses name and he was having a little snooze. They can lock their l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 02:03 AM |
| 6 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?It's so much harder than it looks! Haha. But what an amazing feeling. They're pretty special beings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:23 AM |
| 36 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?I got into it as a kid! What to look for - a coach who doesn't yell at you and won't pressure you to show. If you want to show, by all means. But not everyone has those kinds of funds. It's not a cheap sport. Greenhawk is a tack and outfitter for equestrians and often has consignment stuff - boots, maybe breeches (the pants), stuff like that. These things are pricey to buy new. Helmets should always be purchased new, and there are economical items. My barn was chill. I used to go to a hoity toit… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:21 AM |
| 91 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?My all male office (save for me, obvs) was going on about how "a guy who's only a college athlete" could "whoop" Serena's ass. Also when guys find out I'm a retired equestrian they're like "yeah I galloped on a horse once. It was so fast and cool" and I'm like " no, you didn't , you were probably at a working trot because it takes a lot of balance, control, and strength to stay on a horse who is going THAT fast in order not to fall off and snap your neck in seven different places" they just look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:11 AM |
| 123 | Energy all 2021- What makes you think I'm looking to attract youI've been called aggressive for correcting a man when he referred to me as a girl. I'm a woman in her 30s. I've been called aggressive for saying someone is standing to close to me a week ago. We're in a fkn pandemic. I've been called aggressive when I said "that's none of your business" when a man asked me to repeat the last four digits of my phone number when giving it to a sever back in the fall for covid tracking. If you get called aggressive, you're either practicing self preservation, or a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:13 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend always made me feel so secure when I was the one fucking other people and refusing to get married. What happened???Also I'd like to add (lol) that ADD is a defunct term. He hasn't seen a doctor since 1992 because medical professionals don't/should not be using outdated terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 80 | It’s always the ones that have no car and live with family that pull this. So quick to use a girl to get out of your situation.A guy tried this on me back in September. Had to call to police to get him to leave me alone. No car, co-op housing, obsessed with video games and comics (this is the batman earring guy I've commented about before), and was losing his mind on me when I said I don't want to see him anymore. I paid for and drove us to two "dates". I decided he was never going to improve his life and that I would be saddled with a dependent. I knew him for two weeks. These dusties hate it when their meal ticket wal… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 09:44 PM |
| 73 | My girlfriend always made me feel so secure when I was the one fucking other people and refusing to get married. What happened???Right? Or perhaps one want bought at all. You know, being "poor" and all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 09:41 PM |
| 39 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤She's not in school to be a dermatologist, you rtard. She could be in MED SCHOOL to become a doctor and then be lucky enough to match into what she wants, which sounds like dermatology. So either she's in med school and he's intimidated AF or he's so disengaged with her life and career path that he has the story all wrong. What a pos. Maybe support her possible mental health issues which could be body dysmorphia. Jerk. But being someone who used to LOVE makeup, I fully understand her love for ne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 09:40 PM |
| 7 | Pick-me begs fame hungry NVM for babies.Called it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 09:21 PM |
| 361 | My girlfriend always made me feel so secure when I was the one fucking other people and refusing to get married. What happened???And broke and uneducated. He chooses to let his ADD run his life. Notice how he only talks about what SHE does for HIM. How do these bums get ONE woman to like them let alone others. This poly shit just makes me shake my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 09:18 PM |
| 19 | I just thought this was really sweet and refreshing.Small gestures go such a long way. That's really nice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 05:27 PM |
| 8 | Vintage queen shit.This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:46 AM |
| 8 | The gospel truthAgreed. As a woman with depression (a nasty, chronic kind), and newly acquired PTSD - I have never ever "used" it as a reason for anything. Other than perhaps the bleak days I have and I am introspective enough to say "today is hard, I'm sorry if I come off short or pissy. I need some extra love today, if at all possible.' I've been assaulted and abused by men. One an ex, one a guy I went on one date with. I never use this as an excuse, which I could, as it would be very easy for me to be a misa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 09:18 PM |
| 31 | The gospel truth"why do you like me lol" ended up dumping me for not being "independent" because I was constantly seeing him online, while not texting back for ten hours. pulled at my skin on my stomach while bent over petting his dog. He is overweight and I am not. Remeber ladies, if he doesn't love himself, not only will he not be able to love YOU, but he will often project his crap on you. Imagine saying someone is not independent despite: - paying all her own bills, - is not fortunate enough to have been gi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 07:33 PM |
| 4 | Faithful men who flash their wedding rings to warn you off after you ask for helpI was squatting while holding the tube into my tire, which makes this even more inappropriate since he began the interaction with standing over me. I was sideways, facing my car so seeing up my skirt wasn't possible, because of course I chose this day to wear a skirt. I don't know if I'd try fake puking, he'd either knock me over and cuss at me or try to touch me to feign being helpful and then I'd have to explain to my beautiful dog why her mumma is going to be gone for a while to a place calle… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 12:14 AM |
| 14 | Sounds like Jane has standards to me! Be like Jane :)Hahaha! True. Maybe his "bestie" is? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 11:37 PM |
| 86 | Sounds like Jane has standards to me! Be like Jane :)This. Two weeks into talking to a guy, he wanted me to come by his place to pick up a bottle of wine he got me as a xmas gift. He texted a few hours after to say that his female "best friend" was there , and that I could no longer stop by. I said how come, I'd love to meet her. He said that she isn't comfortable with that... Suuuuure. Then I find out they share a dog. Share a dog. As friends. Oh, and they met on Tinder, because that's where you go to find "friends" (that you occasionally have se… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:50 PM |
| 72 | Sis, No! You obviously didnt want to.AND THE STAWARS FIGURINES, OK? Be gone, Peter Pan. Learn to grow up elsewhere. 👋🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Where can I find quality diamond rings?Came here to suggest Moissanite too! 🤗🤗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:59 PM |
| 12 | Faithful men who flash their wedding rings to warn you off after you ask for helpThis! I was putting air in my tires and this guy was harrassing me and standing over me demanding that I let him help. I said no like three times. He tries to then hand me a card and says "I'd like to take you out to dinner". I said I don't know you, I'm not comfortable with that. In order to avoid getting straight up murdered, I declined to bring up the fact that he's old enough to be my dad. Imagine thinking I can't put air in my tires due to having a vagina. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:57 PM |
| 3 | Is that what you’d like to hear? After inquiring why he provided his address within the first 5 min of convo. 🧐🙄Girly. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 12:54 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, how much do men you date tend to spend on you, per month, during the early phase?Wtf you want? Her to pay you to hang out? You're complaining about parking at this point. YIKES. How embarrasing. Let her go for someone who would never dare even think of whining to her about the cost of parking to stay at HER place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:29 AM |
| 38 | Dump that trash!I've been the one who lost her keys and was locked out of my house for hours. I always think of that. So I wait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 11:02 PM |
| 71 | This is the kind of crap that just makes me wanna give up on love forever...THIS. $75 is our value, apparently, to be a masturbatory object. It's disgusting. They hate us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:43 PM |
| 13 | This is the kind of crap that just makes me wanna give up on love forever...Imagine thinking that her portion of the meal is her value as a human and that you deserve to literally be inside of her body for taking her on a date. I can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:42 PM |
| 28 | Dump that trash!How wonderful for someone to disregard your safety out of spite... Wtf? What a jerk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:37 PM |
| 184 | Dump that trash!I used to drive a girl home from.work all the time. I never left until I saw her open and step through her door and close it behind her. I've had a guy drop me off and zoom off as soon as I shut the door. I'm sorry but if you treat me WORSE than how I treat "just" a friend... Gfy. Go get some manners. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:36 PM |
| 76 | Wife Accidentally Burned By Scrote Husband Claims He Split Because He Couldn't DealMy boomer colleague has a very very sick wife. The other day he was talking about "finally moving out east after all this" He's literally looking forward to her dying. He has also been using her illness to take immense amounts of time off work. The whole thing is so messed up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:54 AM |
| 34 | In my life, maybe two men have taken nice photos of me. The rest seem to be on some passive aggressive mission to make us feel awful about themselves.This! The only photo an ex took of us, had a snapchat filter where we were wearing masks. Jerk! 😡 He looks like jack blacks mean chubbier brother. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 88 | Can we talk about how conventionally unattractive men manipulate their way into dating a woman completely out of their league, and then destroy her self-esteem so she starts to believe this scrote is the prize when really she is.If I post a link to Imgur showing my ex and blocking out his eyes and name, will I get in trouble? I just want to show everyone how true this is 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:28 PM |
| 2 | No thanksThis is beautifully written! And I lol'd at "bung eyed" haha. Just what I needed this Monday morning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:15 PM |
| 9 | Or when they try to turn every conversation into a sexual one..."Most girls? Ew why are you talking to female children?!" I'm an a*s. Yes, I know. I'm SO SICK of men my age (32) referring to me and my fricken contemporaries as GIRLS. I'll assume you're a pedo going forward since the word woamn scares your pee pee. Woman so aggressive! So scary! Has standards! Much argue! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:15 PM |
| 184 | No thanksLike do they not know that their sperm is utter genetic dumpster fires at that point or do they just think they're ageless amazing wonders of the world? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:06 PM |
| 53 | No thanksTHIS! ALL THE DAMN TIME. I simply could not with OLD anymore. I've been off for months and whenever I feel like I need a bit, I see this and it reminds me of the sheer frustration. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 44 | This is why standards are important. Having them and enforcing them.My ex did this. He put a Links of London bracelet in a Tiffany's sack and box. He embarrassed me at a party when a lady complimented my bracelet and said that Holt Renfrew is a beautiful store. I looked puzzled and said "he bought this at Tiffany's?" And she's like "oh no, this is a Links bracelet, not a Tiffany's bracelet. Tiffany's only sells Tiffany's 😉" I could feel my face going red (we hung around a lot of well to do folks) and she's like "anyways, let's grab some wine!". My ex lied to me … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 02:20 PM |
| 67 | Or when they try to turn every conversation into a sexual one...Yup. Then you're called stuck up for not laughing at their "joke". 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 07:24 PM |
| 15 | Her gut is telling her the right answer, but the comments give the worst advice.This is exactly why we should not be dating right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:18 PM |
| 11 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.How did they get the screenshot, I thought this sub was closed? 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:13 PM |
| 25 | This is why I purposely request female masseuses, trainers, spray tanners, gynecologists, etc. Be safe, request women in environments where you are vulnerable.I had a tennis instructor I did private lessons with ask me out every time after practice. Let's go get a coffee! And I'm like, no... I have to get home and walk my dog. The last straw should have been the first time be did that. The actual last straw was him saying to me just prior to him leaving Mexico "is it ok if I think about you while on the beach?" I was 29 and he was like 48. I'm sure the look I gave him told him that was going to be the last time I ever saw him. Honestly, I was an idiot… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 34 | NVM thinks that girlfriend's PTSD is "selfish".Who treats a guest like that..... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 2 | What are they even thinking when they send messages like this??He's a real estate agent in my area and I tell everyone I can what he did and what his name is. If you're in the public eye and want to market yourself, you better keep your personal life in check - bare minimum - no hitting women , don't do drugs, don't call women cnts, and don't rpe them. Very hard for real estate agents in my area to abide by these horribly oppressive rules. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:13 PM |
| 2 | What are they even thinking when they send messages like this??Clocked me. In the face. With his hand. Sorry about the spelling mistake. He did much worse than an ass grab. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 5 | What are they even thinking when they send messages like this??Hitting on women as a joke during an interview would be extremely unprofessional and predatory and I wouldn't hesitate to find their boss and let them know. Of course eHarmony is a better idea. LinkedIn isn't a dating app. My comment didn't really allude to LinkedIn as being a dating app option. I'm also not dating during covid. There's no point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 09:57 AM |
| 49 | What are they even thinking when they send messages like this??A guy who one did a charity walk in heels three months prior, slapped me across the face. It's called Walk a Mile in Her Shoes and it benefits female victims of domestic abuse. He was going to take pizza out of an oven without mitts as he was drunk. I ran to his rescue and he turned and clocked me. Called it a love tap. Lovely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 36 | What are they even thinking when they send messages like this??Especially LinkedIn. Just because it's covid and I was desperate for a job, doesn't mean you can take me for drinks as an "interview". Digusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:27 PM |
| 1 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.Agreed. I'll casually ask to see a guys insta feed. If I see bums and breasts galore, that will never not be a problem for me. Sorry your only interests are objectifying women. My insta is full of restaurants and foodies, dogs, horses, more food, quotes. Not Chris Evans Fan clubs. Like, grow up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:28 AM |
| 1 | ALWAYS leave your cheating spouse! Every time a woman forgives a cheating man, she is spitting on the grave of all the women who suffered under patriarchy before us. Staying with a cheater is degrading to yourself and to all women.My male coworker (24) told me (32) that cheating before marriage is totally normal in his friend group and that it's hard when it's being offered to turn it down since women have approached him and said his gf will never find out. First of all .. he's not even cute. Secondly.... What the f? I'm like "uh...no... Cheating is wrong period" and this little shit goes "oh touchy subject??? Sorry!" 😐😐😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:26 AM |
| 3 | “porn is healthy”It really is. YIKES. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 02:59 PM |
| 3 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapiansHe's blocked on mine so I guess he figured "let me check her dogs! I'm super fkn desperate!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:52 PM |
| 3 | “porn is healthy”It can with steroid cream and other meds. Apparently. It can be resolved as a child but in adulthood its usually due to vigorous and frequent masturbation. See also: pornsick 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:51 PM |
| 34 | “porn is healthy”masturbation is healthy and this, by and large, is mutually exclusive from porn. It's just that those who consume porn don't have the creativity to come up with their own internal desires. They need to jerk their paraphimosis-riddled dicks to violent and often illegal images that bare zero resemblance to anything remotely healthy, reciprocal, rooted in respect and reciprocation. Enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 14 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapiansIt was funny for a second and then it made me realise " I really do be sitting here with a man in his 30s wearing a fucking bat signal earring like an 7 year old boy who just left Claire's and is super impressed with himself." Also, my dog has instagram. Guess who messages my dogs account since he's blocked on mine, with a new account? 🙃🤡🙃🤡🙃🤡 Na na.na na, na na na.na - gof*ckyourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 10:04 PM |
| 28 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️Imagine it's hard to vet when your parents TELL you you're marrying so and so from dad's second cousins dad's family. And if you say no your father will never look you in the eye again because despite being a neurosurgeon, you're a smudge on the family name and a disobedient daughter. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:38 PM |
| 69 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️This. I'm from a predominantly white area and I have noticed women from the Muslim religion are often doctors or surgeons and their husbands are the same or engineers. The women still do the lion's share of everything despite being busier in a professional sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:35 PM |
| 17 | Misogynistic scrote wants neurosurgeon wife to do all the housework. Tired wife hires a maid with her own money. Scrote calls it financial abuses. You cannot make this shit up 🤦🏻♀️What a pig. Also, unless she went to uni very very early, she's likely to still be in residency for neuro as it's 6 years. If she's from a country where you can be an attending neuro making attending money (400k), then all the power to her but those sound like north american amounts. In any event, he's a slob and hopefully she has protected herself financially for when he eventually looks for a new sugar momma, because as another commenter said, he's going to go for alimony and the house and wha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:32 PM |
| 26 | A few reasons you should say no to the Hobo-sapiansDidn't date him but knew him for two weeks. He stalked my so badly that I had to have the police get involved. He was so upset that his possible meal ticket wants nothing to do with him. was a general (unskilled labourer) dressed and walked and talked like a 12 year old zombie but swore he was giving off machine gun Kelley vibes I picked him up (no car) and he was wearing a BATMAN EARRING FFS super into comic books and would make videos of himself playing video games and post them online. re sol… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:14 PM |
| 46 | So much respect for her father in-law for correcting his son’s behaviour!They knew each other for three months and found out she was pregnant and they kept the kid. Did a courthouse wedding. Unsure if they had another wedding after that. (Went down a tiktok rabbit hole one day) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Female friendships should be held sacred in a cesspool of LVM. Here's why:Sure... But not leaving people on read or not doing your part in a friendship isn't a huge undertaking. The issue is that in either case it's just excuses, in my opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:16 PM |
| 13 | Pornsick Limp Dick LVM shift blame to his VIRGIN wifeWeird how she waited until marriage before having sex but he's seen all these labia. Aren't the men supposed to be virgins too in these types of cultures? (I'm assuming it's cultural /religious due to the naivety (lack of access to sexual education), body shame, not owning her right to be treated as a equal in the bedroom and beyond (he gets oral and possibly orgasms, she does not, as though sex is another form of servitude which it is in many religions.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:11 PM |
| 12 | Female friendships should be held sacred in a cesspool of LVM. Here's why:I have the same experience. Do you think there is any parallel between my being single and them always being otherwise attached? All the women I knew or currently know are not single. My sister is but she's bitter that she doesn't have anyone to help her since she's not teaching her sons any responsibility. I'm against making children domestic slaves but they don't flush toilets or perform basic tidying. Her contempt for her circumstance isn't dissimilar to those women who have boyfriends/ husba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:47 AM |
| 9 | Her man of 6 years faked a proposal. I’d leave in a heartbeat.Read up on the subject of trauma bonding. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 11:05 AM |
| 20 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingThis and "If you can't handle sarcasm/ I speak fluent sarcasm" 🤢 Aka "if you can't handle emotional and psychological abuse / I'm an abusive pos" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | Broke men being afraid of gold diggers is so funny to me😂Omg I love this! Permission to use this tactic your friend told you about? It was super weird of him. His loss. I barely have any friends and the few who I have kept around get lots of love from me. I find it hard to meet high quality friends who reciprocate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 11:12 PM |
| 7 | Broke men being afraid of gold diggers is so funny to me😂Thanks, sis! And I am very much the same - the BS tolerance is at a 0 for me. I recently had a guy friend come back into my life and we had plans last Friday. I was excited! He started being weird. So on Wednesday evening I reached out to him, and crazy pants unstable manchild got in a serious huff and yelled at me for calling before his bath and causing his bath water to get cold.... He started spiraling into a diatribe and ended up hanging up on me...😐. I sent a text saying that I do not toler… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:09 PM |
| 63 | In the spirit of the holidays... What is the most OTT gift you gave to a man who absolutely did not deserve it?a snapon tool box worth $500 new golf club set $1200 For me? Horse brushes. (am retired equestrian now, but the pack he got was worth $50. He made 300k a year and spoiled his kids (my step kids🙃) like crazy. Me and the dogs were always last on the list) Another guy got a photoshoot for him and his kids, a antique yearbook for Berkley where he went to school which was exactly 100 year prior to his year of birth, custom leather coasters monogrammed from a company where he gets his special Carpente… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:11 PM |
| 14 | Broke men being afraid of gold diggers is so funny to me😂He's alright. He's also extremely stoic and incapable of emotional intimacy. Also not affectionate. A lesser man would have tried to string me along; I'm smarter than I look! We all deserve to be someone's "hell yea".💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:59 AM |
| 6 | Not funny in any way, shape or form.What the fuck did I just read? And she's visibly pregnant? My heart is beating hard and is currently full of blind rage. Has anyone seen Ramsey Bolton's cane corsos? I'd like to ensure they are fed this evening. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:45 PM |
| 49 | Broke men being afraid of gold diggers is so funny to me😂That's awful, what a disgusting dusty swine. When I finally invite a man over, and he comes empty handed, I don't even pretend to not care... I said "I guess your mother never taught you this, but it's quite impolite to come to someone's home as a guest and be empty handed. It's even worse that you only brought something for yourself." My favourite wines are $10-$15. The only man who ever arrived properly has a mother who would crucify him if he showed up empty handed. He brought me Prosecco and… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:20 PM |
| 7 | This reminds me of the time when my ex made me fill foolish for wanting to be a bakerSee also : wannabe DJs. 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 11:06 PM |
| 6 | A good response to splitting the checkI've noticed this too! A way I frame it is "would they treat their dream girl like this?". I certainly am not egotistical enough to assume I am every dates dream woman, but, the lack of etiquette in inviting me someone and not paying speaks volumes. I agree with you, super good points. And amen on the last line... Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 17 | Anyone else find it odd that men are posting women's entire profile on reddit for upvotes?So they can publicly doxx women and possibly but intentionally out then in harm's way, but we can't say "50/50 is bullshiz" because that's "hate speech"? Oh okay, cool. Got it. Yup. What a weird way to blanantly display that Reddit hates women?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:53 PM |
| 67 | A good response to splitting the checkThis. I do the exact same thing. If I've paid on a date it's because I never want to see you again and I also don't want to be followed into the parking garage and screamed at for uSiNg YoU after I block you on my way to said parking garage. Me paying the bill is a kiss of death as it always means I value my safety over your fragility and paying money is less expensive than paying with my time which I will never get back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 03:25 AM |
| 5 | This is so fucking embarrassing watching things like this makes me want to off myselfMaybe the weirdo with the sex doll can share and this woman can be replace by a legit inanimate object with prerecorded hype messages while she's busy packing her shit to get away from this addicted neckbeard. Imagine trying to fill your love tank by watching someone play video games since they have to be doing that in order for you to spend time with them... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 14 | This is so fucking embarrassing watching things like this makes me want to off myself"mummie I wish you loved you as much as I do. Please stop this fuckery, shhh quiet * smooch * " He's service dog. A Pickme Alert canine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Documentary on what happens to moms on ChristmasMy boss said his wife bought herself clothes for him to give her because they don't do gifts since he missed the mark on buying her rose gold jewelry. So... You fucked up and now you're punishing HER? Rose gold is an acquired taste, imho. It doesn't look good on me (I'm white as a fkn ghost). She's too, happens to also be aggressively caucasian. My mouth dropped. This women who does EVERYTHING isn't getting shit from her husband and I kinda wanna scream. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Documentary on what happens to moms on ChristmasMe too, sis, me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:37 AM |
| 3 | A friends post on FB. A few years ago, this would not have bothered me. But seeing this type of post reinforces why I will never be in a relationship where I'm required to do all the work.He's probably progressively whiddled down her self worth to the state where she no longer loves herself enough to say "No.". Boiling frog metaphor. This is absolutely a type of abuse, and it's easy to get caught in it when it happens gradually. DV victim of a narcissist and sociopath here 👋🏻 I look back and have to try not to be so mad at myself for the horrible things I tolerated. She sincerely does not know any better anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:35 AM |
| 7 | A friends post on FB. A few years ago, this would not have bothered me. But seeing this type of post reinforces why I will never be in a relationship where I'm required to do all the work.Lack of self love. They're fine with a shower with soap scum, a sink with hair in it and a stinky fridge. They don't care about themselves at all - so they sure are hell won't care about you. Often, substance abuse and mental illness are the culprits. I don't have substance issues but I have suffered from depression. My messiest times are my lowest times where I am loving myself the very least. (I say this in present tense because those low times can and will come back and I refuse to lie to mys… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:32 AM |
| 1 | Having to tell a grown man that he shouldn't invite his mom to your dates should make you rethink your relationshipTHIS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 31 | A picture is worth a thousand wordsBut sis his scalp is dry from all the alcohol that he drinks! He's SICK okay?! Love him AND HIS FLAKES SIS COME ON. Maybe you need to communicate with him!!!!1!11!1111!!! (Laughed my butt off writing this and I hope I made someone chuckle a wee bit) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Reconsidering marriage and kids?As a cf woman, this is 89% why so don't want kids - I don't want to be a married single mom. The remaining per cent is because I have honoured my most authentic self and she likes to be left tf alone *sometimes. Kids do not leave you alone for YEARS. Years. *Jk, it's actually most of the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 01:13 AM |
| 102 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!THIS, sis, this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 289 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!In all seriousness when I said "yeah I don't go to men's houses, I do dates." They're like "lol ur high maintenance" (except they usually spell maintenance incorrectly). I'm high maintenance because I don't want to go to your house and sit on the couch your parents gave you because they were probably redoing their basement and bring my own wine over? Nah, bro. 👋 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 01:57 AM |
| 29 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!Yup. Sincerely, A lady who was dumped for another woman a month after ring shopping. 🙃🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 11:43 PM |
| 31 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!This. If he wanted to; he would. He doesn't, so he won't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:14 PM |
| 50 | I feel like this easily could have been me if not for FDS omg, just why!!This - I bet they're 50/50 or even 70 -her /30 -him. Of course the situation is perfect for him - you hit the nail on the head with "he already has everything he could want". This relationship is over and I hope the poster leaves... Ugh. She has her whole life ahead of her.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 08:12 PM |
| 20 | God, why can't women stop reading and cook and sex their men more? Thats all men want! They are waiting....~* this *~ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Combatting touch starvationRight???? Ugh I am with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 08:43 PM |
| 4 | i felt this one deep within my soulThat's fair. I don't feel like a woman at work, since I'm not respected as one. I know language is power. So I suppose it's very clear how I'm treated there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Combatting touch starvationI had a dobermann and not only did he protect me, but those dogs are made of velcro. I have a miniature pinscher and she's not a snuggle muffin. The breed is very stoic haha. They are the cats of the dog world. She loves me and is happy to see me when I get home, but she also likely has a full bladder so she's likely like "Yay! Mumma is home and that means I get to pee now woo!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 12 | Combatting touch starvationThe only man I've hugged in awhile is a hvm platonic friend. I have no one else to hug. I had to dump my only gf because her dad wanted to bang me, and she was not an affectionate lady at all. I totally feel you on the touch starvation. My weighed blanket and little dog are very helpful. I was starved of affection as a child and as a victim of r*pe, I am afraid of most men (which my male friend is aware of and always asks me if I want a hug when we part company). I dated a very hvm last year, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:39 AM |
| 11 | Women being told that they're "just traumatized" and "suspicious" and, when they get over it, they should go back to allowing themselves to be vulnerable to male abuse. Because it's NiCe or something.This is a good analogy. I love being called paranoid. Tells me exactly who to avoid. That was before when I would share some of my traumas with men like an idiot. No more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 118 | i felt this one deep within my soulAgain, another post that suggests you've met my coworkers. All men. Am the only female. No one has told them to shut the f up, ever. Someone needs to before I do it and get my ass fired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:27 AM |
| 7 | Ain't that the truth💁♀️🔊🔊🔊 STOP CALLING US GIRLS! IF YOURE INTO GIRLS YOURE A PEDO. GO TO JAIL OR USE THE RIGHT WORD YOU TW*T | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 8 | Ain't that the truth💁♀️I CAME HERE TO SAY THIS!! THANK YOU!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:24 AM |
| 25 | I'm getting flashbacks to every first date monologue a LVM put me through - Never again!I see you've met my 24 year old male coworker who worked with a lawyer for two years and this now makes him one. This week he told me that I am the most protected person under the Canadian charter of rights and freedoms. I have hospital bracelets that suggest otherwise. Either he's a sick f*ck or he hates women, or both. Later on that day he topped it off with telling me I look exhausted. (I'm so out of his league on a bad day, it's not even funny, and I'm 8 years older than him.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:23 AM |
| 11 | OLD LVM don’t put in any effort into appearanceOh god. This is happened where I live as well (south eastern Canada). They're sooooo gross! And the bad teeth, ugly clothes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 7 | r/NiceGirls is mad we don’t respond to thinly veiled sex attemptsI'd laugh, and then because I'm a bit of an asshole I would say: "sure! I love new Zealand and Irish oysters, and for the main gorgonzola cream sauce with fresh gnocchi with topped with truffle shavings." I'd wait until I could feel him guffaw from afar and then block. Fun fact, I can shuck my own oysters and I can do the gnocchi. I know where to buy truffles around here. So I could make this meal for myself if I wanted to reach out to oyster producers and source my own yummy Bois. To be fair I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 14 | Don't Argue, Lecture, or Roast - Just Ghost!!Right??! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 24 | Why you shouldn’t blindly pay for menYep, white woman here and it's getting bad for us too. It's an expectation that I have a good job, a nice place, a cool car (it's not cool but I am so grateful for it) , look like a supermodel, be stunning but not have fake lashes/hair/eyebrows, and at least go dutch. I have no idea why these idiots are out here dating and taking up our most precious nonrenewable resource - our TIME. And then we pay to sit there and listen to you about how strongly you feel about your own potential? No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:26 AM |
| 55 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”Trigger: suicide But it's just so much easier to have women feel sorry for you and use your grief as a way to pump and dump! This guy is emotionally immature. I'm also very concerned about what happened after the breakup, as it takes a serious and specific mix of courage and hopelessness to end ones own life. For her to jump in front of that train to end her life, she wanted to die more than anything, and chose a way that would have a high probability of doing so. I want to know HIS part in that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:20 AM |
| 59 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”A free therapist. Therapists are paid decently (~120 per hour where I live) and no most guys won't even cough that up for a date let alone an appt one a week (the frequency at which he needs help at this point). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:14 AM |
| 9 | Vetting: advice needed please. He is very devout orthodox Christian. Liturgy for him was at 0700 today. To make it clear, he seldom forgets I just don’t tolerate this behavior.And dear? What are you 80, sir? C'mon jadek let's get your walker and head to No Frills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:00 AM |
| 7 | Why I don't date "nice" guysIf you're telling me you're nice, instead of showing it... Just yikes. Women are not vending machines. You don't put Nice Tokens and have sex come out. I love this, because nice is NOT a personality trait. Nice is the bare minimum. I love that this was indicated. Nice ≠ kind, empathetic.. etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 04:00 PM |
| -16 | Reminder: don’t beg!I was actually just in the process of forming a nicely written response to you on my phone and this comment came throught on my tablet. So, nevermind ; after seeing this, why bother? I have standards for how each sex addresses me. Not just men. I'm sorry if I had hurt your feelings with aforementioned snarky-ness. That comment wasn't between you and I and my feelings are valid. Just as yours are so thank you for expressing them. I had made a few funnies in my comment back to you regarding your o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 05:58 AM |
| -21 | Reminder: don’t beg!I beg your pardon? My lack of quality? Because I said Prosecco and not a Mod Selection Brut Reserve or whatever? You're in the wrong sub. Bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 03:46 AM |
| 52 | Reminder: don’t beg!You could be a gorgeous bottle of Prosecco and he prefers the cheapest vodka (the lack of) money can buy. If he wanted to, he would. I walk. Walk, with no talk. I mean, they're so much smarter than us so they can figure out why, right? 🤣 Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 50 | Banned on a Supposedly Feminist Subreddit for Giving Informative Information About VaginismusI second this comment. Aggressively... Excuse me??????? Ugh Reddit hates women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 01:38 AM |
| 2 | 😂🎯❤Oh, and that we got fat/have stretch marks "I'm just not attracted to her anymore l, muh poor penis (that can't even get erect anymore because I'm porn sick🤡🥀) I'll be having my Fallopian tubes excised. I'm childfree by choice, it's harder to find men who want to date me because of this, but whatever. 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:29 PM |
| 3 | 😂🎯❤Thanks sis! Right back at ya 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:26 PM |
| 8 | 😂🎯❤Honestly, I lived with a 'man' in my 20s, I was so young and naive. I'm not sure if I'll ever share a space with a man again - I love my solace. And then men around here who are single .. have very good reason to be ( refusal to treat mental illnesses, addicted to video games, works part time, lives in subsidized housing, can't carry on a conversation, have the vocabulary of a ten year old...). I'm actually describing someone who keeps making new Instagram accounts to contact me despite me havin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:12 AM |
| 6 | 😂🎯❤I did in my 20s and never again. I've read it - thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 11:06 AM |
| 20 | 😂🎯❤Yep. Agreed and have the evidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 103 | 😂🎯❤As someone who works over 40 hours a weeks, I'm curious as to what my expectations should be? 1) anyone I ever move in with, is paying for the cleaning professional 2) I'm likely not cooking much for you until I live there. Not living there until I have a ring. And a contract. (marriage. Babes, marriage is a contract.) I effing hate Kanye. So much. But... Not saying I'm a goldiggr but I ain't chillin with no broke bro. You bring equal or more to the table. I am not doing frickall for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:41 AM |
| 17 | Porn is ruining sex for women. So many men can't f*** properly 🤢. What's the point of being with a man that can't even please you in bed !?!Oh, I know the sinister reason behind it and it's digusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 03:49 PM |
| 87 | Men will do anything to make women feel insecure. (Context in the comments)Can confirm. Was nice, now I'm only kind to my dog and like two humans. The book Not Nice is helping me change my ways. This young lady looked like she was about to cry and it hurt me to see a fellow sister in this condition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:27 AM |
| 181 | Porn is ruining sex for women. So many men can't f*** properly 🤢. What's the point of being with a man that can't even please you in bed !?!How about we start with not calling us girls. I'm sure most of us here have completed puberty. Ugh it's so disgusting and creepy. We are women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:21 AM |
| 3 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOOYep. Wealth whispers. I know a few high earning men and they'd never make fun of a woman for making less than them. Only two guys have made fun of me for my salary. They both lied about theirs and were absuive narcissists. One even said "scoff I make four times what you do." And I replied with "that would be $200,000 a year. How come I'm the one with the car and you don't own a home, and rent instead?" (He lived in Toronto where some people don't have cars but because that city is all about stat… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:19 AM |
| 1 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOOThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 01:00 AM |
| 6 | He mad as hell!!! LMFAOOOOThis actually happened to me once. It was a Zipcar I think... It was an Audi A4 (a slightly nicer Jetta). He was like oh it's so fast etc. I'm like well the S4 is faster. But have you ever driven an S8? She purrs... He shut right up. I admitted to him that I knew the car was rented and I don't like being lied to on the first date. I used to work for Audi. Not only do I know about them but I know about the competitors as well. I love having this knowledge when guys try to impress me with the cars… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 73 | A little humour for your MondayYes. Dude, stop rubbing my urethral opening. That's not my vagina or my clitoris. It hurts and I don't want a UTI, thanks. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:35 PM |
| 63 | Do most men even know what love is?This is so painfully correct. For example, see dating apps. They only talk about what they want... Not what they contribute. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Rando PMs an active FDS member (me). Biggest takeaway here? To those women here wondering if they are GOOD ENOUGH: all you have to do is be a woman to be a prize. That’s it. Even the worst of the worst redpillers will tell you!Louder!! I went off OLD awhile ago and I kid you not, I opened hinge backup one evening with a bottle of wine and just started trolling. I gave myself several good chuckles that evening. Not my best look but this is what happens when beautiful, intelligent women in their 30s have nothing but a disgusting, bacteria-ridden shallow, pool of men to choose from on those crappy apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Rando PMs an active FDS member (me). Biggest takeaway here? To those women here wondering if they are GOOD ENOUGH: all you have to do is be a woman to be a prize. That’s it. Even the worst of the worst redpillers will tell you!My coworker thinks its funny that his wife refers to him as her third child. I deadpan said "yikes..." and walked off. The only reason she will not leave you is because she is in constantl agony from rheumatoid arthritis and is collecting disability. He's ugly, a smoker, perverted and doesn't respect women. The reason for her rheumatoid arthritis is because she had two of his children who leeched her of so many nutrients that it nearly killed her. He occasionally entertains his sons, who are alr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:39 PM |
| 9 | That's still not that bad, my ex has a collection of beer bottles and rotting takeout leftovers in his room... 🤢Yup. Don't be looking to date if you can't afford furniture or worse.... if you don't care about yourself enough to curate a comfortable space. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:30 PM |
| 11 | That's still not that bad, my ex has a collection of beer bottles and rotting takeout leftovers in his room... 🤢As a minimalist, can confirm. My home is a warm welcoming space, its a smaller space so too much stuff would make me feel super anxious. I come home from work and feel a sense of calm. Lots of white, some grey, pops of yellow (my favorite colour). Its tranquil and pretty. This picture isn't minimalism. This child is a hobosexual and does not love himself enough to provide for himself a comfortable couch ,a TV stand etc. He probably doesn't own wine glasses or tumblers and uses paper plates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:29 PM |
| 7 | I LOVE these Solfa dating videos! (just for fun). What would be your 10 questions that you would ask to eliminate people?Beautiful and incredibly helpful analogy. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Saw this posted on Facebook. Roasting the lvm and the pickmeishas all in one!Mailing a letter 😂😂😂😂 damn girl I've been there too and it was so hard no to ask "hey, um, question... What the fck are you doing?" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Saw this posted on Facebook. Roasting the lvm and the pickmeishas all in one!As a past faker, can confirm. I just wanted it to end - it was starting to hurt and I was irritated as all hell. Now, I say I didn't orgasm. I have shared my body with you which is a privilege and you've now shown me you don't care about it or me, and I will not be returning. I've only been with two guys who genuinely cared about my orgasm and the one genuinely enjoyed giving me oral and was amazing at it. He has set the bar high in a few regards; I haven't been intimate with anyone in awhile an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:22 PM |
| 8 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”Yep. I'm sure it sounds snotty to some guys, but here's my secret. Idgaf. 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:06 PM |
| 5 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”YES babe!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:04 PM |
| 8 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”Amen sister! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 24 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”When you're able to be in your own company and enjoy it, it doesn't feel empty or lonely. I swear. Alone doesn't equal lonely. Your ideas are great! I saw an author I love in Toronto. I go to movies alone (I fricken love movie popcorn, it's horrible for you but that and a fountain pop really make my eoxeoejce a lot more fun). Source: solo lady who sincerely enjoys taking herself on dinner and lunch dates, winery dates etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:21 PM |
| 115 | “Love yourself first, because that’s who you’ll spend the rest of your life with”I love going out alone. I'm very very careful and only go to certain places (no dives, no sportbars, I go to slightly higher end independently owned businesses, and sometimes the keg because I feel safe there). I've straight up told dudes, " I'm staying single until someone dates me better than I date myself". I give myself oysters and Prosecco, what are you going to do to impress me? Hmmmm? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:17 PM |
| 9 | FaceTime date with seemingly HVM reveals his repulsive apartment. This is why you FaceTime first, imagine arriving here in person. Needless to say, that was our last conversation.It's like one of those hidden item games, but scarier because this makes me want to go obtain a tetanus shot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:13 PM |
| 3 | How to raise a hvm....I agree with you wholeheartedly. Saying your (disabled with limited mobility) wife is "bitching".... Just, wow. To put up Christmas decorations... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:10 PM |
| 35 | 46, but not ready for commitment LOLMy most fave was "wants kids someday" with combo with "looking for something casual". Delusional. All of them. Every. Last. One. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:15 PM |
| 3 | How to raise a hvm....I agree. Thanks sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 03:34 PM |
| 12 | How to raise a hvm....I wanted to leave early before I was unable to drive as my vision becomes comprimised. My boss didn't care at all and tried to get me to stay despite my state. But this guy can leave at any time. By the way... He's never been on time for work. Ever. He misses meetings, he rolls in when he feels to apparently and zero discipline. In contrast, I was delivered a customer complaint this week. I'm too "happy" and "bubbly" as per a (female) client. My boss recieved this feedback when he was bringing h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:17 AM |
| 29 | How to raise a hvm....Yep. This guy brags about how big his house is and how his dad invests money for him. His wife makes meals for us at times as well. He talks about how smart and successful his dad is. Doesn't like his mom. Doesn't like his sister. As a daughter of a narc mom and a sister to THREE older sisters... Look, I can understand personality differences. I don't bring the fact I was abused by men, raped by men, assaulted by men to the workplace (NEVER TELL MEN YOUR TRAUMAS EVER ) but he is comfortable enou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 01:58 AM |
| 84 | How to raise a hvm....As the only female in my office and a coworker if a South Asian... He does nothing at home. It's honestly disgusting. His wife has rhumatoid arthritis after having his sons (who are going to be fubar as apparently they get presents every single day...). He was talking about how he used to get "girls" to give him oral sex on work breaks, off of Craigslist. I was horrified. He flew his mother in law here from India to "help" his wife (isn't that his job as a father?). He left very early today and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Never trust a man who calls himself a feminist.Thanks gf. 🤍 My Billie is the best, it sincerely hurt when he chose to hurt her in the manner he did. To pick on someone who weighs seven pounds? Yikes. He was the first guy who cheated on me for being CF. He met her while we were still together, a wedding in BC he disinvited me from last moment. He wanted to dump me because he was moving to NYC. Then marries a woman who lives in BC while I'm in ON 😂. They just had a kid and her son from a previous relationship is almost a teen. At first he woul… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 01:17 AM |
| 6 | X post from r/witchesvspatriarchyI want to start a thread to other responses to "smile". I'll start. "Pardon me?" (Repeat yourself. Do it. I want to you see you squirm.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 12:49 PM |
| 26 | geee i wonder why"why would I do that" ..... Is...is he serious? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 11:30 PM |
| 4 | Never trust a man who calls himself a feminist.I do vet pretty mercilessly, when I'm dating which now I'm really not. There's really only OLD available right now, and the only people on those are lonely dudes looking for the bangmaids and mommies that you've mentioned. The pets/sickness thing is pretty good. I've told guys I was sick saying that I have a migraine and am too weak to cook and I get a "aw that sucks" and nothing else. Is this how you'd treat your dream girl? No. You'd bring her pho and some muscle relaxers haha. I've done that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 09:22 PM |
| 83 | Never trust a man who calls himself a feminist.This! Nicely written and thank you. Your last bit about being a single mom "married or no"...this is exactly why I am chilfree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 11:33 PM |
| 6 | Hate to see itNo one tells me to chill. No one tells me I'm cute, either, I'm a lot of things, cute isn't one of them. Puppies, kittens, fox kits, cheetah cubs... Are cute. They're also all babies. Stop infantiazling women! Cute is such a low effort compliment. She's clearly beautiful/stunning/ poised. Do men not have a vocabulary anymore? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:25 PM |
| 26 | When men call women “females”Thank you for this - it's very creepy. Before I deleted hinge I'd be like "ew, you like girls? Female children? Wtf is wrong with you, that's disgusting .." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 03:13 PM |
| 54 | The language people use can be telling of what sort of person they are.And this my friends is why I have such a huge problem with being called a girl, or men referring to their contemporaries as GIRLS. We are women. Over 18. They don't like the word woman because those people stick up for themselves. Calling us girls well into our adulthood is inappropriate, and they are telling on their predatory selves. Girls are quiet, cute and generally stroke their disgusting fantasies. (Thanks, porn!) You want to date girls? Female CHILDREN? Go turn yourself in, I'll give you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 15 | When men act clueless it’s because they want you to chase HIMThis! I have zero patience. I will literally say "ugh my back is sore" And wait for them to say why/what happened etc "From carrying this convo. I hope you find someone that you're interested in, all the best." Block/delete. Usually they don't ask what's wrong or anything, and the result is the same as above lol. Idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:37 PM |
| 27 | When men act clueless it’s because they want you to chase HIMThis. A guy I went to highschool with did this. I told him my schedule. He hasn't responded with a date and time and place as requested. He also never asks me anything over text. I said "hopefully you're more chatty in person." And hes all " ya in person I'm wayyy more in my element" I sent a thumbs up. It's been 4 days... Silence. I'm not his dream girl and I'm "wayyy" smarter than him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:22 PM |
| 23 | When men act clueless it’s because they want you to chase HIM"if he wanted to, he would" - if he wanted to ask how your day is, he would. - if he wanted to ask you literally anything at all and feign some basic ass interest he would. Lack of effort makes me recoil in disgust. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:20 PM |
| 8 | There's a worrying amount of posts where the woman has no idea she deserves respect and bodily autonomy...How to get this to stop? The police. This is r*pe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:07 PM |
| 12 | What’s the best story you have about “ownership?”Told me to move out after five years of helping his raise his extremely bratty children. He met someone new. He'd arrive at my apartment demanding to see me and said he'll have my car towed if I don't give back the laptop he got my for Christmas a few years prior. He had the car put in his name so he could have had it towed. He cheated, and was so angry that I met someone new months after moving out that he took away my only way way to do my online courses. He figured out I was using Skype to ta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 06:04 PM |
| 18 | What’s the best story you have about “ownership?”On a first date, he ROLLED HIS EYES at me when my good friend sent me a cool pic from the helicopter he was in,. My good friend is an ER medicine fellow in Pediatrics and side hustles sometimes volunterring in medi-vacs (the helicopters that take people to hospitals). "All your exes are rich" I said " I said he's my good friend. We've never dated. Did you not hear that part? Don't roll your eyes at people especially if they're driving you home." Should have had him take an Uber. Little snot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 05:45 PM |
| 2 | How has she stayed for 4 years of this... NVM. I have no words.Most addictions come first. He doesn't pay any attention to his wife. She's turned into an angry women and he is likely the cause. He does dry wall and she is a RMT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 12:29 AM |
| 44 | For all the women out there thinking about giving up their career opportunities for a manThis! I believe it was lady gaga who said something like "your career won't wake up one day and realise it doesn't love you". I endured many years of abuse by an ex, who's first request of me is that I quit my job because he's such a good provider that I don't need one. I absolutely needed one. I had to ask him for his debit card if I needed money, didn't have my own. He also didn't get me a card linked to his visa or MasterCard account. He left once for three days with our only car (,despite be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:40 PM |
| 3 | How has she stayed for 4 years of this... NVM. I have no words.Seriously. I know a girl who I was loose acquaintances with and her husband would message me and basically he'd get home from work at around 5 and game until 2am in a different room. They rarely did stuff together. They totally settled for one another (they are both lv unfortunately which has a lot to do with why we are only loose acquaintances). I hope they don't have kids. It'll be a nightmare to have a 40something year old dad who plays on his stupid headset all day and night. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:13 PM |
| 35 | Thought you all would appreciate this.Thank you sister. I went home my first week at this job feeling like an idiot because I told him I was single (he had a gf he's been with for 4 years, she has her own place, makes more than him, he lives at home, he nets more than her yet she has him over every weekend..and they split shit.). He's like "well, that sounds like a you problem." I'm like... 😂 Okay (I'm out of his league). He constsly brags about being the cool fun dude who used to hook people up at his old job and due to being a ser… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 12:08 AM |
| 48 | How has she stayed for 4 years of this... NVM. I have no words.Nah, scrotes actively choose to watch porn and play games. There are female gamers who can probably have a decent work/life/hobby balance (and they probably have other hobbies than just gaming). Games don't do it to men, men do it to men. Its cool she finally stood her ground but his response, ahem, excuse to mooch? YIKES. Gamers are such unattractive men to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:57 PM |
| 25 | Misogyny is about hating women who refuse to be ruled by men. Misandry is also about hating women for refusing to be ruled by men.You know what's effed up three ways till Tuesday? This: http://imgur.com/a/negZRiX I Googled misandry and this is the screenshot that came up. Sure, definition, fine. But girl power = hating men???!!!? Wow. How sad and pathetic for them. Some angry little lvm created that wiki page I bet. Alright ladies, time to just start a country of our own and only invite men who look like Chris Evans and behave like a absolutely hvm gent. (A lady can dream.......) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:52 PM |
| 10 | INCELephant Destroys 15 Cars in Rampage After Being Rejected By Female ElephantPerfection French chef kiss 👩🏼🍳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:44 PM |
| 45 | Thought you all would appreciate this.I have an infuriatingly smug Devils Advocate at work too. Any advice? He's 24, I'm 32 and I want to slap his smirk off his face on the d a i l y. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:39 PM |
| 48 | "iT's JusT a jOkE""AITA for not accepting this losers emotional and mental abuse and horrible insult?" Fixed it. We all know these jokes generally escalate, I'm sure he's been a POS for a long time now. Sweaty socks? Wtf???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:36 PM |
| 25 | Has anyone read this? Home Body by Rupi Kaur. Thoughts?This hits home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?Right! Totally unnecessary!! We're basically thumbelina haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?RIGHT. he also refuses to treat his BPD. I hope she's ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:25 PM |
| 58 | Who’s surprised? 🙃"is this how he'd treat his dream girl?" - I saw this on here and it has helped so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:13 AM |
| 6 | Never date the Devil’s Advocate. You may just end up in a psych ward.Same here. I got a lot better after things ended with my ex. It was a massive weight off my shoulders. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:10 AM |
| 11 | Men want confident women? Or insecure women they can exploit? Help me work this out.I dated a guy who dumped me because he didn't feel I was independent enough, as I was fed up with his lack of effort in any semblance of consistent communication. But of course, he had plenty of time for instagram. No, I'm so independent, that I do not feel the need to ever stick around someone who treats me in a way that makes me undesired, devalued and unprioritized. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 01:04 AM |
| 13 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?Women who have height insecure men lie about it too. Her: 5'9 Her husband (per her): 6ft These two people are the same height. She isn't allowed to wear heels.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:38 AM |
| 34 | Can men stop deflecting and lying about their height when they realise I'm taller than them?Gril! I'm 5'2 and same. He was like 5'4, maybe 5'5. Sir, you are not 5'8... 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 12:37 AM |
| 25 | Situationships 101Relationshit ...? I think I like yours better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 08:47 PM |
| 18 | "You're going to die alone if you continue with this feminist crap/dont lower your standards/dont find a man to take care of you/etc." Would anyone ever ask a slave if they would rather die in the company of their masters or alone and free? I'll take my own wonderful company for $500 Alex.This. I know a guy who is car poor due to a hideous lime green corvette. He makes a few dollars above min wage, and all his hobbies and free time revolve around that car. He could not afford to take me on dates and said "everything should be 50/50". No 💛. (See popfizzclink exit immediately stage ... Anywhere. I think I may have lightly jogged, not walked, to my car which is within my means, not lime green, not obsessed over) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 12:29 AM |
| 79 | What are the signs a man is pornsick?Can't get it up for you (a real woman)at 28 years old, but sends you dick pics. Also, taking an exessive amount of time to finish. Imagine having ED in your TWENTIES because of your daily porn consumption. Also, how they have sex is important too. No foreplay, no oral for the woman, no touching, just straight to p in v, since that's what brazzers or whatever taught them. Men I've dated who don't consume porn are far more generous and thoughtful lovers (who think I'm hot and can actually get it u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:23 PM |
| 90 | "You're going to die alone if you continue with this feminist crap/dont lower your standards/dont find a man to take care of you/etc." Would anyone ever ask a slave if they would rather die in the company of their masters or alone and free? I'll take my own wonderful company for $500 Alex.Men don't take care of us anymore - they have zero desire. I know a lot of men who would not have the houses and cars they have if they didn't have a partner pulling her weight financially. We're all golddiggers if we want to be taken care of, though. I'd rather be a golddigger than an idiot who bankrolls a guy who works two days a week so he can game as much as possible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 05:20 PM |
| 4 | Thanks for your input Teddy; you’ve actually changed my mind. NOT!Venting is probably part of it - they're mad that beautiful well adjusted women want to be taken out for dinner, and they feel attacked by our standards because : they can't afford it, and if they can they are cheap and don't want to spend a time to get to know you (video games are expensive, decent dates just aren't in the budget...😉) angry that we are out of their league, angry that he can't get free sex even though mommy says he's handsome.... Et cetera. I've had guys try this and I don't giv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:19 AM |
| 12 | A Low Value Man Walks Into a Museum… | Why You Shouldn't Give a Shit About What Men Think of Your ClothesMy mother told me not to dress sexy at work because im the only female. Seems somewhat harmless at first. Until I say that my mom victim blamed and slt shames me for : being a victim of rpe, being hetero, going on dates (,"haven't you learned your lesson?!") being thin (she's told me I look like a hooker more than once and this started when I was, oh, 12). I often wear pants and a top with a blazer, some days a midi skirt and a turtleneck. My sister made a great point and she said "because you h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 10:05 AM |
| 11 | Definitely how legitimate research studies are conductedNo 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:49 AM |
| 2 | Don’t ask me if I can cook unless you’re prepared to replace my brakes and do an oil change on my car."yes I have basic life skills. Do you?" Dating profiles that have stuff like "win me over by : cooking for me". Nuh uh. I'M the prize, not you, I'm not doing shit for you until you prove yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 12:32 PM |
| 3 | It’s sad that this kind of behavior from men is so rare.We are very similar. I've spend hundreds on a guy who owned a ton of pharmacies and wouldn't even make sure I had wine to drink when I went over. I got him very nice birthday gifts. He dumped me for "not being independent" due to the fact I asked him point blank why he doesn't text back within ten hours. He said he's busy at work, and I advised I see him on socials constantly. "Customers as me questions" I then also advised it's against the law to be giving pharmaceutical advice over the fckn in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 08:03 PM |
| 5 | Never again. Not even 50/50.It's so messed up sister. EVEN when they have kids they don't adult properly. I'm a "child of the universe and spontaneous" makes me recoil. Translation: " my goal posts constantly change and I won't commit time to you but let's go naked yoga" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:57 PM |
| 3 | ALWAYS ask for STD paperwork prior to any sexual contactWe don't have this in Canada. If you're negative, you hear nothing. If you're positive your doctor will call, but who can guarantee that they called back or care enough to take the medication? I live in Ontario and I'd love to be able to ask dudes for documentation. If I'm wrong, please reach out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 10:29 PM |
| 10 | Never again. Not even 50/50.As someone in her early 30s... It's like this is somehow the worst age group. I feel you - they all seem to have Peter Pan syndrome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 10:04 PM |
| 3 | Had to share! Love you ladies!Yes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:55 PM |
| 38 | Imagine feeling this entitled to women's bodiesSeriously. This this this this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 09:48 PM |
| 46 | Why, why, WHY would she call THIS a boyfriend?? 🤮Right? If a guy talks about our private times, EVEN if it's "complimentary"... Auto-dump. You can't trust man babies like that with anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:42 PM |
| 100 | Why, why, WHY would she call THIS a boyfriend?? 🤮Gross. He gets mad because she doesn't want to swallow? Who wants to bet he doesn't go down on her because it's "gross" or "hurts his neck" or (insert other bs excuses here....) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 10:37 PM |
| 32 | Ain’t this the truth...👎🙅♀️🖕Yup. Victim here. Detective had the nerve to assert I was lying and that she could charge me with criminal mischief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:59 PM |
| 4 | How do you get past a extreme fear of intimacy with men?Right?! "Wut u doin rn" - unpopular opinion perhaps but I don't answer messages like this. The horrid lack of basic effort is just disrespectful of my time. Go read a damn book and learn how to use real words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 03:35 PM |
| 17 | How do you get past a extreme fear of intimacy with men?are you me? your last point is also exactly how I feel - so much trash out there. My trust is extremely valuable and I just don't see the plethora of obese, neckbearded jobless losers as worthy. The dating pool is more like a dity, stagnant dull puddle in a pot hole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:46 AM |
| 5 | In the interest of all of our safety, what are some reputable background check and more in depth resource sites?In Canada, all we can do is google. If nothing is there we're sol. Not every criminal gets an article written about them. The RCMP owns all criminal files and individuals can't ask for another person's. Only companies can do background checks (I had one for work and also had to provide my driving record) It's BS. Canada doesn't care about women's safety though - yes we have abortion and birth control, sure - but that's bare minimum. Try getting raped or sexually harrassed, you'll see where my co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 12:34 PM |
| 159 | Poor woman, awful husbandI love how it ends with him on his phone while she's about to put the kids to bed. How lovely. Once again ladies, we see a lvm with zero remorse. He's not even trying to seem sorry. Hope she leaves him and uses the money for a breast Aug and lift if she wants to. It's because of him her breasts are deflated, after all, seeing as he's the one who got her pregnant. Maybe she can get that tacked onto the settlement after she uses the screenshots as evidence.(unlikely, I know, but a lady can dream) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 05:13 AM |
| 239 | He even starts by saying he's adding backstory to make himself look better. I have no words."she wouldn't stop crying. I couldn't sleep because of *that" ...... Is this...for real??? 😐 She could have died and he didn't want to take her to a hospital. And we all know that when he has the sniffles, she's likely doting on him. But she can stand up and make dinner while dealing with appendicitis. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 03:30 AM |
| 240 | He deleted his video afterwards.I love how concerned her face is like "child, you know nothing" while she stares deapan into the camera while she demonstrates 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:35 AM |
| 6 | The film "Midsommar"....if you enjoy watching LVMs get roasted, and a pickeme becoming a queen as a result, then watch this movie!Your emojis hahaha 😂 this movie was so good, it's one of my favourites now but I always warm people about it being "kinda weird" (how I explain it to vanilla people who will be horrified by what I find interesting) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:25 AM |
| 106 | Could your lack of sexual interest in your man actually be the result of hidden contempt?Mine did this too. "She's on antidepressants to help with her severe depression. Her road to recovery is more important than sex right now". My ex never took me back to that therapist. My primary care doctor said essentially the same thing when he was bitching about my sex drive... Partly I didn't want to have sex because I kept getting nasty UTIs or BV... I was too naive to know this was because of his gross penis he was sticking in everyone else because poor him, I couldn't be used as a blowup… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 01:23 AM |
| 2 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.This is basically what it is 🙂 some places pick up and drop off as with dry cleaners too. As for the delicate items, I guess you could ask them to hang dry. I'd call them beforehand to make sure it's ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 12:04 PM |
| 9 | This is sweet props to this mom!Thank you. My sister is a nurse and I live in Ontario, Canada. I sent ONA pictures of my injury along with my detailed report but she's working as a nurse again. They don't care. They didn't even address it with her (I would have heard through others, if they had done any sort of disciplinary action she would have flipped out and told our mom, mutual friends etc). I didn't press charges on my sister, and I regret this. It's too late now. Police in my area don't care about women at all - whether … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:35 PM |
| 54 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.I'm capable of doing these things. Very much so. I just absolutely hate laundry and a deep clean while I do the weekly dusting, floors, wiping down, bathroom, etc. I refuse to ever live with a husband who sees me as a domestic employee. I also refuse to marry anyone who doesn't want to pay for the services I would otherwise provide for free. I get paid at my job, not at home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:21 PM |
| 14 | This is sweet props to this mom!Never. If I found out a friend's mom spoke to him or her this way, I'd likely call them up. I don't take this lightly at all. My mother should be ashamed of herself, but she's not. After being drugged and sexually assaulted, my own sister punched me in the face a few months later, just this past march. Our mom took her side despite me having to be admitted for a fractured orbital bone and a grade 2 concussion, my fourth one so they took it seriously, despite it "only" being a grade 2 - grade 3 i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:19 PM |
| 9 | This is sweet props to this mom!I hated the convo too, I feel you on that. But I felt it was necessary. Her dad used to get me really drunk and then have awful sex with me. He was so much more than a narc and his dad was much more than just "touchy feel-y". I'm so sorry for what happened to you. I applaud you for having a dialogue with your daughter about this. Thank you 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:14 PM |
| 36 | This is sweet props to this mom!What's that like? She'd tightly grab my arm and drag me to force me to hug male relatives I didn't want to touch. Then, when I was assaulted, she shamed me and told me it was my fault. Nearly a year later, I said I had gone on a date and she asked me "haven't you learned your lesson?????". So to her I'm a sloo but also I'm not allowed to date because I should know better than to be around men. Interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 05:00 PM |
| 23 | This is sweet props to this mom!Thank you! I had a 18month old stepdaughter in my 20s. I tried to discuss this with her because despite seeing her grandfather fairly regularly, she was not comfortable with him touching her. I'm going to leave details and whatnot out, but it was suspected he had been touching her inappropriately due to discomfort and redness on/in her gential area. He is a creepy mad and would always try to kiss me on the lips. I wasn't allowed to look at her vulva area despite being the only other female on ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:58 PM |
| 86 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.Yes! I'm not wealthy by any means but I send my laundry out. I've had guys tell me that's "extra" then I said "my time is valuable. My free time, even more so. I also have someone who cleans my apartment.". They're intimidated by the fact we don't want to do this shit ourselves if we can afford to hire help. I'm kind of not interested in dating someone who doesn't have a "cleaning lady" (I know thisbisnexost but it's what we call it in Canada... Because only women can clean....🙃). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:42 PM |
| 65 | Tired of being called "selfish" for caring about myself.Oh you have basic life skills? Hahaha <--- my snotty response to this that always gets me blocked or deleted but I sincerely don't give a heck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/20 04:39 PM |
| 2 | How to quickly get over your LVM ex: Create a collage of his repulsive behaviors & then view it every time you think of him!I just threw up a little on the chicken and mustard. Ugh. I feel like the dating pool is full of man babies who are fumbling idiots who don't engage and ask us things like "so you cook??". 😐 I cannot.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 08:47 PM |
| 13 | Congratulations to the first female Vice President of the USA ❤️Thank you for sharing this. Wonderful news for us all, to be honest. 🇺🇲💛🇨🇦 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 08:36 PM |
| 98 | Calls his wife a “total bitch” 2 months postpartum and almost no one is calling out the disrespectI'd like to also make a comment on the housework part. He somehow has immunity for doing housework, but I bet you she still came home and had dishes to do etc when she was making X2 what he does. Us women can't win. Even if were the breadwinners, we still pick up the lion's share of all the emotional and physical labour for tending to home, kids etc. This guy sounds like he hates his wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 09:36 AM |
| 8 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.I've never had a rejection taken gracefully. Honestly. If it warrants, I sent a polite but slightly terse message and then block delete. Even people I've never met get the block/delete after having them flip out over TEXT - we had not met at that point. Yikes! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:59 PM |
| 11 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.a guy actually said the following to me: "I showed you my special bench at my special [public] park 😂 THAT HAPPENED UPON (trying to kindly) UNLOADING THE DUSTY. No wonder why we block/delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:48 PM |
| 26 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.This! He sounds downright hateful. His dismissive and - using your word here because it's perfect - CRUEL behaviour is disgusting and I so know how she feels. He doesn't deserve her. I hope she wakes up and gets the eff out and away from this apathetic sociopath and finds a life she loves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:45 PM |
| 4 | Someone find this woman and bring her here. What a SCROTE.I am dying to know what this loser looks like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 11:40 PM |
| 37 | When he feels like the prize smhI already thought this was messed up, and then I see the kid from UP as a 35 year old who is aging poorly and uses beauty filters. Jesus h Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/20 12:36 PM |
| 41 | NO, We Don’t. 🙄 🤦🏻♀️The accuracy though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:31 AM |
| 29 | Manchild who can’t handle 5 hours A WEEK alone with his child thinks discussing who does what is “silly” (as he asserts it’s “unreasonable” that his wife expects him to care for his own child while she’s in class). There are no words (besides don’t have children with LVM).Men get so pissy and take it so personally when I indicate that I don't want kids. They've never babysat or taken care of children alone, which I have, and I explain how much work it is. "But it's so fun!". Umm... No, it is not fun like 80% of the time. They're all delusional because the labour divide is STILL fcked despite it being 2020.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 11:50 PM |
| 42 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩I agree.... This is super abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:54 AM |
| 7 | Ladies, if you need some pointers on how to spot red flags: DING DING DING WE HAVE A WINNER🚩🚩🚩Who was gs to bet that : A) her hair probably look beautiful B) that her dumpster fire of a husband is probably overweight, ugly, bald, and has yellowing teeth? Honestly I've always found the most unattractive dudes have these crazy standards that they do not and cannot and will not hold for themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 11:53 AM |
| 17 | Don’t text firstMy combo of feelings : mad at your fine ass for calling me out, mad at myself, mad at him, mad at him again, ashamed, angry. Angry again about the eating pussy thing ("it's just not my favourite thing to do" - bro, my lady is fucking lovely, fuck you. ).... So you'll whip your tiny little oversized clit at me but won't try to make me cum... Cool. Jesus. I dumped him a log time ago over this, and other things, and we only dated two months but babe I am triggered. Catch feelings for yourself befor… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Every man I’ve asked to get tested, whined about it.I feel you in a way. I am terrified of needles and I still get blood work done annually. I live in Canada and if you're negative, they just don't call you. If there is an issue, they do call. And then you also have Public Health on your a*s. In Ontario we use a company called Life Labs for most lab work. They have an online option to check your results ; I've had guys go red in the face after them telling me they don't know if they have anything.... Oh that's ok, here how you can check. Most std… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:39 PM |
| 6 | We know, they know, doctors know. Why are they still getting away with it?This is fckinf PATHETIC. I'm cf (childfree) and this lack of giving a single flying fCK pretty much sums up why I don't want kids. I don't trust these males to help me with a kid. Yeah, I said help, because that's how they see it. Disgusting. I refuse...REFUSE to be a married single mom who has two (or more) kids - an infant, and a helpless idiotic lvm. I was a stepmom in my 20s and my ex was such an idiot. The kids were always sick as he refused to make any changes to their extremely limited, u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:16 PM |
| 13 | Men telling on themselves lol. Just a reminder a HVM will never let you take on unneeded stress!To be fair, legs leave the poor pigs out of this. Pigs are emotionally intelligent creatures capable of problem solving, emotional support etc. Unlike men. I had an ex that would never answer the door on time so not only did I carry my bags from the car after a 90lin drive, but he'd have me stand there for a few minutes with full hands. Never again. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 01:09 AM |
| 27 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingMy comment was not meant at all to begin a tit-for-tat thread regarding who has had it "worse". I had a female detective assigned to my case, and she was awful to me. Awful. There's just far too many men impeding her personal space and sense of safety. Would they care? Would they escalate their abuse should she mention the police? Who knows. I don't think the threat of calling police would have scared them much, as I've had experience with this. They'd laugh, like they did to me, and smack her p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 08:30 PM |
| 74 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingAs a white Canadian female: because the police don't give a shit about women. Signed, A domestic abuse and sexual assault survivor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Easiest way to get to know how shitty a man is?This. I was assaulted by my sister and I've only told one guy. What did he ask me? "What did you do to make her punch you?" (A: nothing, she's a lvw who refuses to treat her psychosis and substance abuse issues). I literally said "wow your empathy is astounding." "Well I'm just trying to figure out why she did that". Glad to know you sincerely feel there could be a good reason for punching ones sister in the face so hard you fracture her orbital bone and give her a concussion. Psycho. Blocked! N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 09:54 AM |
| 7 | 'CoMpRoMiSe!!'This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:46 PM |
| 9 | The comment section is full of people hating on “Princess week” and how he’s just super spoiling her etc. I can’t believe how some people just can’t deal with a man being nice to his wife...If we get some chocolate, Tylenol and a plant we're now golddiggers? The fuck? I can only imagine the disparaging bs comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:11 AM |
| 12 | Can't walk my dog in peace.This is one of many reasons why I miss my beautiful doberman. "Ari, guard" and he'd bark incessantly and terrifyingly at the perv who felt entitled to yell from the other side of the street/from his car/from the roof he was working on while high on meth... Worked every time. I noticed that walking by doberman garnered more respect for me than if I was walking my min pin. Pretty sick and sad we clearly have a need for literal bodyguards in canine form to feel safe. Can't wait to have a doberman o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:07 AM |
| 40 | Scrote trying to get marriage benefits without marriage!This! Amen sister!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:25 PM |
| 39 | Scrote trying to get marriage benefits without marriage!I love how she's asking if she's the a-hole, but if roles and genders were reversed she'd be tied to a pole and lit ablaze for being a gOLDIgGeR .... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:25 PM |
| 59 | Men want casual sex/relationships, till the woman wants that too. Then suddenly they aren’t so cool with it.I'll never forget when I told a guy after a week of knowing him that no,I was not ready to be his gf. I'm in my 30s for goodness sake and the title girlfriend is not at all taken lightly by me... He then assumed I just wanted to have him as a fwb and got all butthurt about it. I dumped him/ told him to don't wish to proceed because he was clearly very codependent among other things. He proceeded to flip the f out. "I sent you flowers!" "Talk to me you B*TCH". Constants texts and calls from two p… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 10:06 PM |
| 3 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayI would go back to pads solely just to do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayRight? What a effed up suggestion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 27 | Post complaining about women wanting 6 figures, 6” d, 6 pack. I initially thought it was an FDSer setting him straight but, it’s a man 😂Haha! You made me lol at bring your washboard. The bar is on the ground and currently rolling down the street. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:39 AM |
| 31 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayImagine offering to buy a whole other trashcan just for your freeloading boyfriend for your own damn home because he can't deal with periods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:29 AM |
| 127 | Man freaks out over girlfriend’s period products, then apologizes and begs her not to leave him. She needs to throw the whole man awayYup. Huge swings in mood in attempt to control (mad to sad, back to sobbing back to mad and triangulation... repeat). What kind of weirdo goes through the garbage?! Can we talk about the last edit? Someone actually suggested doggy pop bags as a solution. A solution op is clearly considering. Wtf? We menstruate and she feels like she needs to hide it in her * own home * by using a product meant to pick up dog shit. This is why we need feminism. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:25 AM |
| 3 | y’all know he’s a catch🤢Literally had a guy get upset that he showed me his "special bench" at a park after I dumped him for being rather dusty. Not a bad guy, just emotionally underdeveloped, yet unwilling to grow or improve small things for himself that would probably make him happier and get him on the road to being a mvh. (Haha. Moderate value man. I'm totally kidding around. This should not be a thing.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:23 AM |
| 2 | Men who won't move over for women. What do you do?They are beautiful animals to be around and are super healing. I love ma babies! Haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Men who won't move over for women. What do you do?You don't have to need to be able to afford one to be around them - you can the barns horses if you say, take lessons. I've never been to a barn that didn't have horses owned by the barn/farm owner! It's totally in reach. I've leased a horse but I've never owned one myself. Actually, it makes you a better rider when you ride different horses! 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 13 | Men who won't move over for women. What do you do?As a retired equestrian, I poke their rib, click my tongue and say OVER. If I can get a 1200-1800 lb animal to move, you won't be a problem. Oh wait. I forgot horses are smarter and more polite than most men. My bad. There I go again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:34 AM |
| 38 | When men use derogatory/offensive humor and then are upset that I think their humor is shit.And the guys who think that have a $1800 phone and live in squalor. You think you're ballin' because you have the newest iPhone and a hideous pair of "rare $400 Jordans"... You don't have a couch, a tv, coffee table...nothing. but I'm broke because of my s9+. Ah, yes. Good chat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 04:30 AM |
| 3 | When a LVM says he is "loyal"He has nothing to offer besides the bare minimum of honoring the most basic boundary/ promise in a relationship. Pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:12 AM |
| 19 | Has working a blue collar job affected your dating life?Honestly it doesn't matter what you do... LVM will tear you down either way: - if your job isn't "good enough" they'll put you down for how much you're paid, insult the "importance of your job" (once had a banker loudly say he made "four times a much" as me in a restaurant and scoff at me) - if your job is "better" than theirs - or equal to - you're aggressive, too serious and are expected to pay your AND their way. (I've had several lvms neg me for dressing professionally as this made them feel… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | And I'd rather shit in my hands and then clap than be in the same room as a dude like this.Yep. I have had someone try to explain their cheating on me by using this logic..."she's a sure thing". Yikes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 11:34 PM |
| 11 | Don’t be Bob the Builder for a man.Translation " my goal in my relationship is to be my boyfriends mom. I do all the emotional labor so I can post thinly veiled bitter memes on Facebook about how men are lazy and dumb!" This is nothing to be proud of. I'm embarrassed for this person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 14 | Reminder to not have casual sex. These degenerates don't give a shit about you. (PS this is from r/ steroids. Wanna bet these dudes are ugly, aggressive losers with roid guts and ED?)This. Roids are so bad for the mind. Forget how stupid they make one look... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Most**I don't think its s thing from porn, because the porn stars generally know where things are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 07:57 PM |
| 5 | Most**Bahahaha Jeremy that's my leg 🤣 its so embarrassing that you get embarrassed FOR them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 19 | I love that I see more and more people finally exposing LVM’s. AND I LOVE IT when it’s other men. Yes tell THEMWHAT?? NO. NO. 🤢🤮🤢🤮🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:20 AM |
| 3 | They want to be seen as providers and protectors, yet seem to dislike girls who are attracted to and needful of their money. What exactly do they want?Woah what, now you want them to have basic life skills? 😂 "Do you cook?' "Yep I have basic life skills. You?" Or "I do cook, do you build houses?" I'm not some fantasy, I'm an adult. Of course I cook. I also do other stuff like clean, send my laundry to be done (you read that correctly, I pat for wash and fold because I fkn hate doing laundry), get oil changes and walk my dog. You know , responsible adult stuff. Sometimes ill throw in that im looking for a cleaning professional to clean my apart… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:18 AM |
| 12 | Dear men, I can't speak for every woman, but using photos of yourself holding a baby 🍼 or with children 👨👧👦 on your dating profile does *not* make us more attracted to you. It's *always* an automatic left swipe for me regardless of anything else on the profile. 📸this. Did you ask the parent or better yet THE CHILD if you could use their image to conjure romantic interest? I am CF and I don't really like kids very much. I tolerate them but my patience for them wanes very quickly. I don’t find it sexy, I think it's creepy. At least block out their faces. Respect their privacy you weirdo. I bet if their parents knew their child's face us all over bumble or tinder, they'd be less than impressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:08 AM |
| 63 | Most**Or touching between your vulva and thigh. You know the crease where my pelvis meets my leg isnt my genetalia...right??? (Wrong. They're so f*cking stupid, but how dare we even have a gag reflex. Porn sick selfish babies.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:04 AM |
| 53 | Most**Lack of knowledge of anatomy out of pure selfishness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:02 AM |
| 12 | You can never please them all. So focus on your own happiness 👑Yup, zero idea. I've told guys how much a full set of highlights cost, how much my nails are, how much sugaring is. Its usually in response to them bitching about a 30 dollar haircut. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 15 | You can never please them all. So focus on your own happiness 👑I was called a gold digger for not wanting to go on a walk date. Fun times. I make more money than the guy, too. If a guy can't date me like I date me, or better, I'll just keep doing my thing. i don't make a ton of money but it seems that the guys as of late really don't have much to bring to the table. I am not bank rolling or even going 50/50 with any "man". You want me to be feminine and sexy and polished? Cool. That costs ME money. A trip to the hair salon is 300 bucks, and to get my nails … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:11 AM |
| 35 | Is it weird that I do this too? I deserve a man not a boy, and a real man shouldn’t mind working for what he wants. 👸"But the word woman is so....aggressive" - when i correct them. A girl is a female child, and if you're into that, you need to go turn your sick twisted self into the police. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 02:17 AM |
| 2 | It’s always the best ones, isn’t it? 🤣🤣🤣Bears are muscular though. He looks like a bloated ferret with alopecia. That posture....😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | A man who asks you out exhibits courage, the ability to take risks, and sacrificing his ego with possible rejection. Do not ask any man out.Somewhat related: when a guy requests i start the convo on hinge, I unmatch. If you're not willing to even say hello to me you're not masculine enough for me. These guys don't ask for dates either, they only ever want to "hang" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Lazy, low-effort "date" suggestions got me like...Every woman who follows that aaron guy "the fairy godfather' - they have a fb page. He tells women to never drink on the first date. Low effort dates only like coffee and walks...ew. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 02:57 PM |
| 7 | I’ve never seen a more accurate depiction of marriage before this one... It’s funny (but depressing), because it’s true! 😂Thank you for this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 27 | 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 it’s this seriousPresent 😘🤚🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:04 PM |
| 16 | How did a conversation about working out turn into me cooking for him? That’s so cute, the lil’ baby wants something for nothing.🙄 (I have a food blog.)Right?! Like go f yourself you arrogant brat. Cook for yourself. I find these jokes about cooking so sexist. Makes my blood boil. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 8 | I found a HVMWhat a handsome little nugget!! Aww. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:01 PM |
| 16 | I found a HVMBahaha. Cute haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:01 PM |
| 6 | OBESE PRE DIABETIC SCROTE WITH ED DEMANDS QWEEN GET BUTT LIFT SURGERYThis! It has to be a thing. There's no other answers for why they're so over confident. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:23 AM |
| 5 | Homeboy thought he could disrespect me on a date, so I walked out.Good for you OP. He sounds predatory. Awesome job on your part to quietly leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 27 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!I find this group polite and uplifting. We all seem to for the most part be classy and diplomatic. Of course there will always be some sass. I'm part of a fb group and they are mean as heck at times. They slut shame you, respond to vulnerabilities in very abrasive ways... the list goes on. They haven't figured out how to be polite and they assume everyone NEEDS their tough love. They go for walks as dates and will call you high maintenance for saying a coffee isn't a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel if you find out that your boyfriend is attracted to moms?Hopefully. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 3 | How would you feel if you find out that your boyfriend is attracted to moms?She insists he does not have mommy issues despite all the proof given here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 06:54 PM |
| 6 | How would you feel if you find out that your boyfriend is attracted to moms?https://www.thehotline.org/is-this-abuse/ Please educate yourself. There are lots of resources out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 5 | How would you feel if you find out that your boyfriend is attracted to moms?He doesn't seem to respect women so I wonder how healthy those relationships are. Flirting with other women and calling other women hot in front of you is absolutely a sign that someone is comfortable crossing boundaries. He doesn't sound like he's able to empathize with you. He sounds like he doesn't give a shit about you. <just because someone doesn't hit you does NOT mean they aren't abusive. Verbal and sexual abuse are just as damaging, if not more> When you're able to be open and accept our… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:07 PM |
| 7 | How would you feel if you find out that your boyfriend is attracted to moms?That is sexual abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:27 PM |
| 5 | How would you feel if you find out that your boyfriend is attracted to moms?Mommy issues? What is his relationship like with his mom? He sounds like if he hasn't cheated on you already, he's definitely going to. He flirts with women right in front of you. That's revolting. It's one thjnk to say "yeah she's beautiful' and to say and do what he has. And holy gross.. good in the kitchen and in the sheets at night? Do not date someone who objectifies women like this. Its not flattery, it's control and it's very unkind. He should really only be flattering you. You have your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 02:26 PM |
| 2 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!I'm getting good at this, matrix style. This group definitely helps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:50 AM |
| 10 | Her reaction is so heartwarming! It’s not about the money, it’s the effort to make her feel specialVery sweet gesture by him for sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:47 AM |
| 46 | Her reaction is so heartwarming! It’s not about the money, it’s the effort to make her feel specialYou ain't his momma. Why can't he do this himself? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 08:45 AM |
| 11 | “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you”Omg me too. What? You're not going to feed into my pity party? You're going to suggest...actual.....solutions? Ugh thats way to much work. How dare you. /s I know all kinds of women who work on themselves. Do men do this? If not, why? I know men, but i don't know any who work on themselves. (And if they are unfortunately I haven't noticed a difference) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 3 | “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you”This is also a really good point. When I have been told this, some unpleasant things came to air. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:45 AM |
| 11 | “I just don’t feel like I’m good enough for you”This is a very well explained reason, op - thank you. They don't say this to flatter you. They say it because they truly are that lazy that they'd rather you dump them than try to improve. It's easier, and he'll eventually find someone to tolerate his lvm life and lack of confidence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:44 AM |
| 3 | The cashier at Wendy’s just gave me his number 🙄🤢Companies need to stop allowing this harassment. Management should back the employee, not pacify the perv. The customer is not always right and sometimes the customer is also a predator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:36 AM |
| 3 | The cashier at Wendy’s just gave me his number 🙄🤢You're totally right and I thank you for pointing that out. This definitely spans all industries really. Its quite unprofessional, I agree. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:20 AM |
| 3 | This a joke but not far from reality. The amount of fathers who know nothing about their kids is disturbing. This is why having high standards is important ladies!Ah, the places here like that are very similar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 12:41 AM |
| 14 | This is why I don’t date short men.Body shaming, my favourite. I had an ex call me fat when I "got up to" a size 4. It was very scary but all you can do it hold your grown and stay calm while speaking assertively. I guess frightening a woman and threatening her safety really gets some of these little pukes off. Why not focus on improving themselves. Instead of complaining about the men he managed maybe he could foster a better work environment for his team. I'm sure they all hate him and likely snicker behind his back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 6 | This a joke but not far from reality. The amount of fathers who know nothing about their kids is disturbing. This is why having high standards is important ladies!I live in an area with cool old houses. Its always such a damn shame to when owners let them fall into disrepair. Very expensive to fix, so they get dozed if they arent on the historic registry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 14 | This is why I don’t date short men.When people refer to my dog (miniature pinscher) as a chihuahua, I now get offended. They're angry little buggers to when they're raised poorly, too! Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:36 PM |
| 8 | Am I right, ladies?Welcome to Canada, where things are a bit more expensive but you can go to the hospital "for free"* and smoke pot. *taxes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 5 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!I agree. Very cool of him to do his masters in law! Hard workers are sexy. I forgot to mention something random- the plastics I dated refused to give me compliments because he felt that people only give compliments for sinister reasons to get something out of you. I was like woaaah... what?! Yes I am very sinister, I like complimenting strangers on her dress or someone on their cute dog... wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 3 | Am I right, ladies?Line touch ups are inexpensive here too. Lucky buggers. I think the only thing I can get done for 20 plus tip is eye brow threading. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:02 PM |
| 13 | Putting down fellow women for male validationI just threw up a little. You're unfortunately, probably spot on... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 10:01 PM |
| 9 | The cashier at Wendy’s just gave me his number 🙄🤢What's he got that i don't? once said to me when I (in honesty) "used" this very valid reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:11 PM |
| 12 | The cashier at Wendy’s just gave me his number 🙄🤢Can people in food service stop this? I have been hit on at two of my favorite places by the owners. I'm not supporting your business when you harass and fb stalk your guests, perv. Another was an employee and i went back to show that I don't care, I love this patio and if it's awkward it's all on him. No one asked you to come up to me and ask me on a date whilst dropping off some truffle sweet fries. Jerk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:10 PM |
| 4 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!Sounds like he sort of wanted to be your parent and not partner. He probably saw it as helping but its totally under the guise of control. Deep seated control. What if you wanted to bike? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 7 | This a joke but not far from reality. The amount of fathers who know nothing about their kids is disturbing. This is why having high standards is important ladies!Thank you sister! high fives There's a netflix series on tiny homes omg it is fascinating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:56 PM |
| 26 | Am I right, ladies?The accuracy of this. Why are they all so gross? And can someone please tell me what is up with all these beards that look like untrimmed pubes. Are you reenacting Robin Williams character who was lost on an island for like, ever. They literally don't bother to take care of themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 19 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!Yes!! To all of these. Not answering my questions and moving on to another subject, completely disregarding me...blocked. I do not have the patience to teach another adult how to communicate. I dated a plastic surgeon who made a point to tell me that he hasn't ever paid for a gf to go on vacation with him because "if they can't afford to come then they dont get to", sorry we dont all have 10k for two weeks in ventuatu. He made a point to let me know that he "spent the same amount" on my dog and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 32 | This is why I don’t date short men.I am so sorry you had to experience this! He sounds dangerous. He is definitely going to get his ass whooped one day. The only men who have ever gotten in my face have been short men. Does that make you feel big, talking down to a 5'2 woman 3cm from her face?? Does that get the testosterone flowing for ya little buddy? Cheap, angry, has a car he can't drive, hates tall and overweight people, physically aggressive to men he perceives as better, super jealous... he sounds scary. I hope you are awa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 11 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!-shit talking exes and calling her crazy - rolling eyes at me when I mention something about a male friend - getting physical with me in public- grabbing my arm, poking me. ** I ALWAYS shut this down. I said hey, don't do that. Also, I bruise easily and now that's going to bruise. Once they know they'll leave visible marks they're like oh shit. Some don't care, a guy gave me a hickey knowing I am a professional who works in an office setting, this happened at my home and he was asked to leave. -… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 2 | What were your biggest lightbulb moments from dates/ relationships that went wrong? For example, small things you easily overlooked in the beginning but in retrospect you realise were warning signs he was manipulative? Lets discuss!Yup, mommy issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:30 PM |
| 112 | This is why I don’t date short men.As a 5'2 lady, this. The shorter men were always more controlling, mean and temperamental. Angry little things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 39 | Putting down fellow women for male validationAn innie is for belly buttons. If these chicks are missing both sets of labia i am rather concerned. Porn stars have all sorts of work done on their public/anal areas. Bleaching, labiectomies... etc. But that's not real life. Guys who posts those types of memes disrespecting women's genitals are usually neck beards who probably have crumbs in their unkempt pubes from their snacking, gaming and jerking trifecta. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 20 | Does anyone else feel kind of disgusted that some men expect you to have their child?This is my fave combo! Wanting casual/wants kids. Best of luck. So, you just want to impregnate someone so you can be A Dad. That what it sounds like to me. Thanks for the $100 you send every month and taking the kid for 4 days, you're THE BEST /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:06 PM |
| 42 | "Open Minded" is code for sex doll"I want gf benefits and committment but I'm going to treat you like shit. I'll take hours or even a day to text back but if I'm horny you better be free. And im definitely going to try to shove my thumb in your butt without asking you first what you preferences are. If you get upset, fuxk you, you narrow minded crazy cow" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:54 PM |
| 26 | This a joke but not far from reality. The amount of fathers who know nothing about their kids is disturbing. This is why having high standards is important ladies!Hi fellow cf-er!!! There are so many of us here and it makes me happy. And, the others here who are moms are accepting of us. My reasons for being cf include not wanting to be a mom to a kid AND a man. I only know one man with kids who actually does stuff with and for them, and knows lots about them as individuals. I don't wish to be a 'married single mom' - who's benefitting? Hint : not moi So, it's me and my pup. And thats how it'll be. I'm already in my 30s and getting my tunes removed next y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:51 PM |
| 25 | This a joke but not far from reality. The amount of fathers who know nothing about their kids is disturbing. This is why having high standards is important ladies!Answer: most. Both terrible partners and parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:46 PM |
| 25 | How I feel about this subAnd this is how it should be. I'm part of a group who aspires to be this in theory but once you post about your troubles they're either shut shaming, telling you its your fault, etc. I am all for accountability but come on, let's not kick a sister while she's down. This group is great about the positive contributions and genuine care. Its like the other one is full of women who think coffee dates are dates and we're lucky if we even get that, and don't get mad if he doesn't want to pay for your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:43 PM |
| 28 | I wonder if men still do this nowdays?They do. As recent as yesterday. I have my sources. 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Scrote keeps harassing me for nudes. I asked him why he doesn’t send any himself and he “doesn’t feel comfortable” yet won’t accept that answer from me 😂I liked your response, and I hope you blocked him. Its sometimes hard not to engage when they are doing/saying/asking for ridiculously infuriating things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 34 | (TW) Men have no empathy. And there are a lot of comments siding with the boyfriend.Funny because if we broke up with them because of something from their past, they would be up in arms and calling us judgmental, birches, crazy etc. Why are men so okay with rape? Why do they think this horrible act is "nbd". I have never seen a man empathize with a victim. Ever. Not once. What gives? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:15 PM |
| 14 | The fact that this has so many awards shows that the bar is literally in hell. How many awards would a woman get for asking this?🤔The abuse under the guise of adhd... i have been there. Your lack of impulse control which brings about fkd up behaviour is yours to fix, NOT mine. Take your meds and head to some therapy to help with your shit behaviour. It likely has little to do with add and everything to do with being a lvm narcissistic pos. I hope she gets out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Outgrowing friendshipsIt's so hard when people grow apart, but sometimes - like cases like this - it's necessary. She sounds toxic and she has some pretty concerning views. The husband is an issue, but he's not a reason - she has her own voice and is choosing not to use it. Sounds a lot like my eldest sister (wealthy but mean/childish/abusive husband, sahm who has zero goals, he drives a new jag while she has an old mini van for two kids). Unlike this example my sisters husband doesn't share the wealth. She has turne… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:19 PM |
| 53 | Scrotes & PickMes attack 21 y/o girl for not wanting to date a 30+ manI've dated a few short guys. They have all been angry, mean little trolls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | Cute, but they'll never get itHahaha this is great. " rough guide to pants" 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:11 AM |
| 50 | How to quickly get over your LVM ex: Create a collage of his repulsive behaviors & then view it every time you think of him!Poor and narrow diet (chicken nuggets, pepperoni pizza, fries, repeat...ugh), very messy, no furniture to sit on but THANK GOODNESS he's got those rare pair of Jordan's because when you're 31 and have nothing to sit on in your home, but have an ugly ass pair of sneakers you're winning at lofe /s - constantly bringing up "growing up poor', dressing like an 18 year old fuckboy, id add a picture of a bus pass because this nvm doesn't drive or have a car, poor table/restaurant manners and social ski… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 02:05 AM |
| 11 | A reminder for all the ladies having a hard time blocking and deleting. You don’t owe those men an explanation. They showed you who they are.Amen. Forgiveness does not equal reconciliation. My sister did something awful to me and assumes that because I'm civil with her that everything is fine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 16 | If all men are "visual" then why do so many of them put no effort in their looks? If they are all about visuals, why don't they try to look good. I'm sure there's a mirror at their home. How can so many men dissect women for every detail, yet they cannot see how much they themselves can improve?This. THIS!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | My friends and I love this one: this LVM told me he didn’t believe in condoms on a first date and when I ended the date he unraveled.Oh, yeah. He's totally stable.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 09:20 PM |
| 2 | I can’t believe this needs to be a PSA. And I get filthy creatures like him also expect sex on the first date 🤢I'm so sick of walk dates being suggested. It's offensive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 01:30 AM |
| 1 | I can’t believe this needs to be a PSA. And I get filthy creatures like him also expect sex on the first date 🤢This! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 01:29 AM |
| 2 | That’s enough Reddit for me today! Off to give my ‘female brain’ a little restA guy once told me it wasn't logical for us to date anymore because I called him to task on being too busy to talk to me, but not too busy for being on socials all day. He told me I wasn't independent and he needs an independent woman.... Smh. Okay, trust fund boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Abuse is abuse. Walk away Queens.This this this this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:10 PM |
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