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LIES MEN TELLakashyaboa/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:39 AM
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It’s only the very attractive women who get treated well in relationships. You'd think so but no... The women who get treated well in relationships are the women that happen to find a decent guy. It has nothing to do with attractiveness, it has everything to do with luck
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/24 07:41 PM
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And, in a way, it is shifting responsibility : a man is strangling her, but she is chocking. You see what I mean ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/22 12:17 PM
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But do they chose to wear it or are they pressured by family, culture ... ? As a muslim myself I know a lot of girls that wear it because not wearing one means abuse from their families. Islam is not a feminist religion and never was. The history of hijab is the same as before Islam, differentiate between "free" women and the slaves that you can assault/rape in public spaces. Needless to say that a hijab wouldn't always protect the Muslim women but that's besides the point. The whole thing is a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/22 04:53 PM
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Tbf, unless you are insanely hot, you are not wasting your time by not approaching women in the street. You'd be wasting your time doing it. There are places and moments dedicated to flirting and asking out. Outside of this, you are just being an a-hile to poor women that have places to be
/r/seduction10/07/22 09:13 AM
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It made me sick to my stomach. She's got the money, idk why she is staying with him. I hope that she at least doesn't sleep with him at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 11:56 AM
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I too think there are much more sex scenes in today shows than necessary. Can't even watch a show with a friend without it feeling weird. However, in Bridgerton's defense (I only watched season 1, so don't hesitate to correct me if I am saying something wrong), I didn't feel like women were exploited. If I remember correctly they even normalise masturbation for women and talk about the harms of withholding information about sex from women. So it wasn't a great show, don't think I'll watch season…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 02:56 PM
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Hum hum in the name of good morals apparently. But what are we entitled to for our good morals ? I wonder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/22 09:13 AM
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Are you from the same culture as me ? Because God damn is it hard to be a successful woman in a family where ALL men are not successful. Some of my cousins are well off, some a little less and by god are they offended I am doing better than SOME men in the family. God forbid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/22 05:55 PM
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Too bad his mom didn't leave him at the hospital
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 02:56 PM
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Omg I remember this post. I think I insulted him for pretending to not understand. Is he that slow ? Does he not know the toll pregnancy takes on a woman ? The cost of all this ? 50 000 is NOTHING
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 03:43 PM
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He can be a good politic figure and an awful husband.. Idk if you can tell just from what you see on TV. Especially since there is (rightfully so) a very heavy anti-russian politics propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/22 05:24 PM
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Same with muslim men.. They will date everything there is and then settle down with a pure Muslim woman picked by their parents because... reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 08:19 AM
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They would do anything but love and respect their wives... it makes me so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/22 12:01 PM
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I swear. I don't see men being so pressed about incels, regardless of countless times they expressed and carried out acts of violence. But God forbid women want a better treatment and suddenly all the nice guys come out to spit their venom
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 09:08 PM
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It makes no sense since men admitted swiping right to any girl to have more matches. You think you are matching with a guy because you both liked each other, when actually you matching with them because they didn't even look who you are. So the bios fall too, since they obviously don't read those. Then you speak yo a person thinking they singled you out when no. To me it is the equivalent of talking to a man that approached you with a "Hey" in the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/22 09:18 AM
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You have plastic "€1" for that you can ask from security or a person at the front
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 12:09 AM
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Whaaaat? There are places that don't use money ? I am shocked that someone has so much faith in people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 11:12 AM
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Returning a shopping cart to its designated spot is not required, no one really will call you out on it, and it can be a bit of an inconvenience. I mean you're losing money if you don't return it... I doubt LVM wouldn leave a euro our of laziness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/22 01:17 AM
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My ex works in a nuclear field, I work in the law field. He didn't like it when he learned that I knew how nuclear reactors work better than him. I just wanted to help him understand as he has just started in his field. And he made it his life mission to fiend a way to belittle me. I was introduced to a friend of his that was working on his physics PhD. My ex asked his friend, in a mocking tone, to tell me about his subject. Well I understood his subject too because I had a group project on that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/22 07:09 PM
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Threesomes is mostly FFM I noticed... rarely the bf who brings his friend to surprise his gf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/22 02:52 PM
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Same ! I used to watch a lot of animes. But with time, seeing high school girls with mini skirts and anti gravity brests were just too much for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 07:07 PM
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You can like pizza and anime everyday and still want a date and flowers from time to times. Both co-existing isn't something she should be ashamed of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/22 09:56 AM
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I was stalking incel subs out of morbid curiosity and also to learn their tactics (to better spot redflags). Well wouldn't you think, every second post was about women from FDS and how they are all nasty feminists and so on. I thought it was some kind of government body for women rights and that's why they hate it, typical meninists, until someone put a link to this page. That's how I found FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/22 04:38 PM
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I don't understand why people still listen to what Kanye says.. everyone knows he is delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/22 01:35 PM
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I mean, I am OK with men not dating women under 5'9. Sorry my tall sisters, but I have no more strength to deal with this kind of men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 05:02 PM
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Given the language and the whole awkward vibe his post gives, he is either a troll, or a really weird person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 08:06 AM
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The programming went great with this one. She is the most brilliant student of h patriarchy. She perfectly integrated all the ideas and practices. I don't see anything wrong with her reasoning ... unless I look at it logically But seriously what a case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 06:31 PM
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Because of my numerous restraining orders. OR Figuring on the sex offenders list isn't helping my case. Don't know how the second one would work against men tho, I wouldn't risk it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 06:42 PM
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I swear, you name it: Monica Bellucci, Ariana Grande, Miranda Kerr, Adriana Lima... all gorgeous and all, if I remember correctly, were cheated on by men than look like rotten cheese farts. The problem is not you, the problem is that women are viewed as products in consumerist society. You have to find a person that sees you as a person first, as "pretty" second
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/22 06:17 PM
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This was satisfying 😌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 07:39 AM
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As someone from a muslim family in an orthodox country, I grew up drowned in both orthodox/Catholic circles and Muslim circles (more of the latter but still). Let me tell you, I wouldn't touch a religious man even with a stick. There is no way in heaven and he'll that I will ever, EVER date a guy that grew up in a religious family even if he is modern or doesn't identify with those values or strayed away from his family. No, no. I saw the way they turn out. THEY stray away from those values, but…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 10:22 PM
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I thought men are the only ones that should get into politics because they are so cool and women can headaches from politics because women brains
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 09:05 PM
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"Month without speaking?" Yeah no, there is no relationship on her side of the road. Idk how she views him, but certainly not as a casual bf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 07:43 AM
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I was always like that too lmao But it came from a different place. I had very little self confidence so when a guy acter "hot" I thought cool, i'll get a bf. Then he would act "cold" and I thought, damn worked up myself over nothing. Guess I just imagined that he was interested. And after that I felt awkward when he would come back afraid to make a fool of myself thinking he likes me when he doesn't, so I just ignored all the flirting until he would give up. I only figured out it was a hot'n'co…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 01:03 PM
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They live in the world where women are simultaneously not visual creatures and are only attracted to a 6'10, chiseled jaw, blonde, blue eyed Chad. So go figure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/22 03:47 PM
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I only know my current bf and his brother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/21 01:24 PM
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They won't, he said it "I still prefer the real thing and don't mind the work"... so like idk what he was trying to say here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:38 PM
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Warning: mention of r*pe. Also when they compare us to incels they think we want the same thing as them: male slves to rpe. This is insulting and very ignorant. They don't know the number of men that would love to be a sex slave for a woman (Twitter is full of them). But we ask our men to actually be a person, have a personality, have principles, be respectful and have their life together so we can be a power couple, a winning team in this chaos of a life. We are looking for companions and most …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 07:54 PM
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So it is true... given the opportunity all men are pedophiles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 07:18 PM
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This reminds me of that post about a guy saying how he prefers the aesthetics of penises to vaginas. Purely aesthetically of course, so he was less repulsed at the idea of giving a blow job rather than eating out his gf. .... ... Anyway, same energy here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/21 06:01 PM
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Well men need a substitute wife, so obviously they won't wait too much. Do you really expect a man? A manly male man to babysit his own kids ? What on earth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/21 03:03 PM
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Princess Switch with Vanessa Hudgens. A master piece
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/21 11:55 AM
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Especially since men have a tenancy to overevaluate the number of their conquests and women tend to underevaluate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/21 05:10 PM
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No marriage and absolutely no kids. I do not want to be tied to a man and not be able to leave at any moment. But at the same time I don't want him to have the same freedom on this (abandonment issues I guess ?). So yeah, kinda hard to make those co-exist. And then the culture plays into this. We can really have relationships without marriage. Not that I care, my culture is a breeding ground for LVM. But it is still stressful to deal with life when your whole family bothers you also.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/21 06:38 AM
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I already only go to female doctors, but I never considered female staff at hospitals. It never even crossed my mind. Thank you for pointing it out. I didn't know you could request that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 01:01 PM
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Because you don't invest your whole damn live into just one project when you are smart. All the investors that succeeded will tell you to not put all your eggs into one basket. Especially since the risk with men in this case is not even 50/50. You have more chances to lose everything than to stay with him. Take all the instances of men "upgrading" wives once they succeed and abandon the exes that were there for the on the road to success. Only trust in yourself and invest in yourself because you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 02:08 PM
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Even when you ask then NOT to do something they still find a way to f it up. Instead of being a bum, he could have researched or even asked about what this towel does, why this and not another and even buy some for his gf since he likes the results. Is it that hard ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 08:06 AM
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I guess what he meant is men losing their rights over women, because otherwise this makes no sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/21 04:39 PM
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"Not that enthusiastic" all of a sudden right after sleeping with her. Couldn't have figured it out and communicated it earlier ? How odd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/21 10:35 PM
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For real. I could never wrap my brain around why women who can choose not to, follow religions. Any. I am from a quite religious family, that used to use religion to scare everyone into obedience and for their superiority complex. Yet they could never answer the questions I asked, or explain why I have to follow whatever it is they say. Got fed up, read the book and said to myself "fuck no". Out of curiosity and to fight off stupid religious fanatics I read a few other religious books and theori…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 07:07 PM
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From sentence number 1, until the very end, nothing to save. Throw the whole guy out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 01:23 PM
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The whole ordeal about a woman being a "divorcee". At least in my community. Women are shamed so much for getting a divorce some stay in abusive marriages and eventually get killed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 11:27 AM
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I was told once by some guy on another sub "what you say is reasonable. Yeah no you're kinda right and I would have listened to you but I know you weren't an FDS poster, so your argument is biased.. So idk how to take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/21 09:17 AM
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An ex once told me "you're not like other girls, you're less annoying". I felt so insulted even tho, I guess, he meant it as a compliment. I was feeling very down after that wondering "why am I not like other girls ? I want to be like them tho" lmao. And still got cheated on and ghosted so yeah, not a compliment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/21 09:45 AM
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Idk, some women have a high sex drive and can enjoy sex without strings attached or whatever. But glorifying that, saying everyone needs it is not the way to go about this. You shouldn't be shamed for having a hoe phase or a hoe life all together. But to each their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 04:06 PM
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Not even in danger but generally. There was a manifestation by the public transport companies in France, so all the metros were replaced with emergency busses. Of course a bus cannot fit in as much people as the metro, so there were a lot of people gathered at the stop. When I tell you men, young and old, were pushing away everyone in sight to get on the bus first (women, kids, other men) like their life depended on it. The one scene that shocked me was a guy pulling backwards a pregnant woman w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/21 03:34 PM
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I think one time a guy tried to pull something similar on me. It was long ago but it makes me laugh sometimes. I was going home after shopping and a man called after me calling me "Stephanie". It's not my name so I didn't stop. He eventually caught up on me and stood in front of me making me stop. He said "Hey Stephanie" again and I was like "I'm not Stephanie". "Oh then what's your name?". At this point I was annoyed and just said "No" and left. But I think he was trying to pull some stupid pic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 05:14 PM
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They want harems, having all the women only for themselves while fcking around. What they forget is that harems are VERY expensive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 06:41 PM
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This is one of the reasons why I would never date a dad. I doncare how the relationship ended, I don't care if the wife was actually mean, not my problem. And anyway, they can always find someone else, just not me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/21 05:26 PM
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I feel like we circle back to the time in Rome where women refused to have kids because men were just unacceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 08:20 AM
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And she started so well! Smart, self sufficient, Dean was great to her and had nice dates and gift ideas. He had bad moments sometimes but I guess it was for the drama. But all in all, Dean was the best bf she had. Unfortunately, later on he showed he was a bad bf and husband when he got with the other girl. The other girl didn't deserve him treating her like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:07 PM
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If you mean "does it physically stimulate me in any kind of way" then I'd say no. It is more about mental stimulation, in a "feeling naughty kind of way". But to enjoy it even mentally I need to feel very confident (in me, in how I look and even smell... I don't know why but I am very selfaware about this) and already aroused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 02:03 PM
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I always felt that way too! The flirting, the mind games, the waiting three days before answering, not sending two texts in the row or something, being mysterious, not being this, being that, not being that... pouah. It was so much work and didn't seem to be anything about finding someone you're feeling right with. I didn't want to date anyone because sex seemed like a chore and even just dating them. So all in all I got 1 bf applying pock me methods. He didn't want to be in a relationship and h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/21 02:12 PM
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The fact that he himself is not well groomed, doesn't write properly, asks for stupid proportions and is clearly a porn-sick predator (given his age range) is just... I don't even know if I can call this ironic or just typical to all average men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 08:33 PM
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But it was starting "last year", so technically gained during marriage. If the wife would have to share half her assets in case of a divorce, doesn't that mean they share the gains gotten during the marriage? Shouldn't the "last year" started gains be included? Or is there a different matrimonial regime for gifts ? (I am unfamiliar with US law)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 03:18 PM
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"Better ability" my ass. What they mean is conditioning since the early age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 02:07 PM
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Thehy are known for substance abuse and are one of the biggest sex work consumers. Every place where trucks pass is filled with prostitutes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 12:16 PM
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The sweets from Babuska is spot on! Ahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/21 09:45 AM
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Get married, have kids. I never felt like doing this and was extremely anxious on weddings, even when little. And then as I grew I figured I didn't have to get married and if my parents try to force me (easter stuff, don't ask) I told them I'll shit in the middle of the room when all the guests are there. They stopped pestering me for now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 11:35 AM
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They'll be depraved of their rightly deserved descendants or something. Apparently we owe everyone kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/21 06:28 AM
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I wonder what would have been Reddit's reaction if the roles were reversed ..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 05:12 PM
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Why are men... ? Just why ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 09:02 PM
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It's weird. Why can't her son pick a woman and court her like a normal person ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 01:55 PM
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They never change ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:51 PM
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The reverse guardianship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 08:49 PM
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Not even single men. Just men in groups, sometimes even when accompanied by a woman..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 07:21 PM
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Him and his kids. Now he wants an exclusive nanny for himself.. or at least that's how I got it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 03:10 PM
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And also to hairy women as hair is a sign of maturity for both sexes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 02:18 PM
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If we are so bad why don't they go their own way ? Live with men and go back to your dream white house with your perfect husband. Why is he still dreaming of having a life with a woman if we are so awful?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/21 12:22 PM
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Never understood why is it always women's who have to love with the consequences of having sex. She's not having sex alone smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/21 02:27 PM
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Pffff it's 2021, if he wanted to be taller should have rocked somw heels too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:55 PM
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At the end he says it is all women's fault... so that's that on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 11:19 AM
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"If you wanted someone rich, should have e married a billionaire." Pretty rich from a guy that lied about basically being one lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 01:33 PM
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I was thinking late 70-80
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:55 PM
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Could be Iran or even Russia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 03:39 PM
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I always wanted to have a circle of friends that stay with you through fire and rain and you get to travel together (with or without S.O.s). Never seem to get people to stick somehow..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 07:35 AM
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What good is a man like that tho? Where is the men she supposedly keeps? Like this is how you keep a mamma's boy, not a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 05:51 AM
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Where is he going to get that daughter tho ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 04:25 PM
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"What you have to offer"... like the service you asked for ? The female body you want to see naked ? Wtf is that question?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 10:58 AM
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If you don't cheat only by lack of options it is not being faithful at all, at least not to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/21 12:19 PM
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Sounds like matt is his real gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 11:41 PM
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Was going to report this post until I remember to see the sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 07:04 PM
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THIS. I really don't understand how they can compare FDS to anything men are doing in this area. FDS is for the women to have a better life with her man. Male dating revolves around the idea men against women, who will get who kind of mindset
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 12:17 PM
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Ahaha same ! Laughing then cringing at the painful flashback.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 07:27 AM
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I mean he has already been paying the rent, why is it a problem now ? Basically, put aside the address, nothing changes for him. I don't get it.. unless he has to pay more. But for the 300$ it may be a stretch , but do you think a man would have cared if the situation was reversed?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 06:58 AM
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Unless you are very rich or super hot as an old man, no young woman would want you. They really should get out the social media and go experience real life. No woman (young or old) will want your broke, ugly, low effort ass. Young hot women want young hot men, stop living in the fairytale and level up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 05:05 PM
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And then they wonder why women don't accept their complements or their help (drive you somewhere) easily... because they never do anything for women without an agenda!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:06 AM
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The title doesn't say the friend was a woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:04 AM
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How even at 60 they be praying on young women 😭😭😭 God damn it, that's the real reason why men should die earlier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:32 PM
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Omg, can't even adjust the text on his "official document" and thinks he can tell someone else how to live their life. Girl, run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 09:31 AM
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One of my reasons too. I refuse to provide pedos with more "meat"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 11:44 PM
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If anyone doesn't finds anyone attractive, it's incredibly low value to date them for pity, or to power trip, or feel better about themselves. I think I did this because of the trope "less attractive guy will treat you better". Did not happen. Keep up your standards, don't let them disrespect you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/21 07:50 PM
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Ok, I admit I do it. BUT I really don't give a f if the man feels awkward. Maybe it's mot all men, but I'm letting men sort it out among themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/21 08:22 PM
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Also I feel like if a woman left you despite having a child with you (we know the pressure women have to keep the family together for the sake of the kids) then you must have really fcked up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 07:06 PM
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If it was a true story he would have complained about wasting 5€ on the coffee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 09:59 AM
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Oooh this is so funny because I did it instinctively. My parents wanted me to talk to somw guy (because in my culture I'm an old cat lady already). I wasn't very enthusiastic about it because I can't be bothered with men from my culture for I know how they are raised, seen it first hand. I admit I didn't go in with an open mind. However the man refused to call be by my name. He found a surname for me and However much I asked him not to call me that but my name, he didn't want to. So I said " if …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/21 09:43 AM
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"You was"...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/21 10:28 PM
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"Run my kingdom" = clean, cook, grocery shop and bang
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/21 05:46 PM
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Maybe she broke up with him after that or something.i get it that there are pickmes all around the world, but I am not comfortable with putting the blame on women fro male's behaviour. He is trash for what he does, she is (maybe) trash for what she does and her alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/21 07:51 AM
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He already got a kid tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 04:01 PM
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Omg a guy once told me "I'm dangerous you know ?" I couldn't hold my laugh. My mind went directly to the twilight scene in the forest when Bella says Edward is a vampire but the Ukrainian voice over (their way of saying vampire is super funny if you're Russian... don't ask). Anyway, my first replay was "upir'" (=vampire in ukrainian) and I burst out laughing. Did he think he is in a movie ? Dude was my hight, he never carried a pen and was over there telling me he is dangerous. Never spoke to hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 01:41 PM
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I'll do that after work. But it seems like this will be an interesting read either way (to get arguments as to why I'm not marrying young). So thank you either way. And sorry if I came out as rude. I was still a little sick (literally sick to the stomach) after reading the post about the 17 yo being turned on by blood and pain of his gf. Couldn't finish it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:36 AM
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Ew.. is it another article trying to justify old men going for teenagers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:11 AM
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Yes because scolarships just happen and banks just give away loans without business plans. Also she has 300 diplomas and 10 higher educations but she doesn't know what she's doing. Maybe instead of mopping in his corner he should talk to her and he'll see the thought process. But instead he just assumes she doesn't think her things through since she's a woman and much younger than him so he is salty about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:36 PM
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Yeah maybe. Anyway, doesn't change the fact that it's creepy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:18 AM
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A little. The whole "2 hours" of oral, "his sex drive is higher", "kiss in the middle of rough sex" and the "were equal". Also, this is a post about how she wants to introduce him to her friends, why describe the sex so thoroughly? I can totally picture a dude writing out his fantasies with a 18 y.o. and at the same time bragging about himself picturing how at 45 he can satisfy and keep up with a teenager (for some reason it is appealing to him). At least to me it sounds like too much for an act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 10:16 AM
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Omg when I was in the Uni, I used to bleach my hair blonde. I was telling a friend I had an appointment to do my roots and this guy turns around and was like " I don't like women with unnatural hair colours". I answered "then I'll bleach it twice" because I love messing with people. But to this day I never understood wtf he thought I cared about his, random man's, opinion on my hair. Especially since I already had an appointment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 10:20 PM
120

And go back to his wife saying he didn't know how good he had it until he lost her. When you can clearly see he knows how much she loves him and he still doesn't care...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/21 09:38 PM
77

But even before FDS no one wanted them. Incels existed way before FDS became a thing. So I think they just found a platform with women and they talk out their frustration because obviously women = free therapy in their minds. Maybe. That's just how I see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 07:12 PM
32

Woman= incubator and sex slave. Nothing wrong with his logic of course... /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 09:33 AM
14

This made me sad. I thought of all those women that we lost to marriage and misogynistic systems and history. How far we would have been.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/21 07:21 AM
25

It actually is, regardless of who made you upset. An SO is there to make everything better or at least support you when you're down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/21 06:50 AM
17

See this is the difference btw female dating strategy and male... everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 03:04 PM
13

I'm sorry, I don't get it... is there a kind soul to explain this to me ? I understand if you have the urge to judge my dim spirit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 02:59 PM
88

I don't know for them, but the wives could do much much better because these two are o the floor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:26 PM
13

The age gap is always the answer in this type of crimes. Also how did he call the police if he was tied up and ducktaped?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 10:47 AM
42

It is gross. Had an ex tell me he slept with 15 girls before me. I really just wanted to lose my virginity and I knew he's lying (because please, they really think we can't tell). I am so grateful to my body today, that was FDS trained before I even heard of you all. I could physically not bring myself to have sex with him. As soon as he touched me I would shake and get all tense and nauseated. I was so incredibly tense, he couldn't even slide a finger without hurting me like a b. So I didn't le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 09:54 AM
2

Oh you inspired me for "why do you need to sleep with so much women? What's wrong with you if none of them stayed ?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:11 AM
189

"It's not lying if they are not entitled to know the truth"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 07:09 AM
87

So he thought you were in your 20 and decided that was his age group while being 40+? Yeah no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:51 PM
7

They are also less stigmatised when they do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:57 PM
8

Ouf... this fall is going to be painful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:38 PM
24

I wonder how do you shame people who have no shame? I shame them for generalisations, figured that out. But that evening I just couldn't come up with anything else to answer and it made me bitter for the rest of the night.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 10:24 AM
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For real, I think it's something that stayed from the times where 16 y.o would be married off to 30 y.o who had a situation so the parents got money and didn't need to provide for their daughters. I recently read gone with the wind and was shocked scarlette was 17 and chuck 30 and the same goes for her mother who was married off at 16 to a 30 and was described all along like being super mature and good with the house and slave keeping (sorry if it's offensive, it's just the story from the book).…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:33 AM
7

Never thought of it like that... wouldn't that make it a potential weapon?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:06 PM
53

Happened to me but on the bike. I was walking, minding my own business and this dude stopped his bike right on my way and tried to chat me up. I said "not interested" several times before he left me alone. I was also carrying groceries (for one, so not that much). But it was very hot (summer in Nice and I was wearing jeans, so I was in the hurry to get to the cold temperature of my place). It scared me shitless. Especially since the guy was bigger than me. Nothing happened, thank god. Mind you i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 03:54 PM
25

I wonder if they know how creepy they look chasing younger girls. No they are not flattered, they are scared and smile at you to get away easier. Why date an old dude when nowadays you can make money when young thanks to the internet. All the young beautiful girls will go for the oing handsome men. If you are lucky to get a younger gf it just means that she had no other choice for now or has issues she needs to work on I therapy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 08:13 AM
21

"I am not leaving SO." He knows and he takes advantage of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 07:56 PM
25

I just say random numbers or bs until people are tired of me. Like I used to say I am a timeless entity, in star years I am 30177282965. Or like time is a human concept, it is below me. Or time is a concept and anyway I am immortal until proven wrong. Or I stopped counting after 200.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:36 PM
25

Ouch... that must hurt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 12:01 PM
19

So all females face the same issues with males... you're doing well, sister shark
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 11:56 AM
7

"This is what they do with demons" 😂😂😂 thank you, Dean and Sam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:30 PM
26

And then you are on the porn site yourself, because he was an *ss. Edit: it's a real thing. I personally knew two girls to whom it happened. Please be careful with your nudes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 10:59 AM
19

If the man is s.arter he'll just use it to manipulate or to lie about doing stuff he knows he shouldn't or just be condescending. There is no winning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:40 PM
29

Why did he have kids then ? Get a vasectomy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:27 PM
59

"Here people, my man's perspective on women's problems. Yes, yes they were telling us about it for years. But I needed to see for my reasonable man self, with my emotionless men eyes the reality of these feeble women. I'll be honest, I did not believe these creatures at first. We all know that women lie all the time because the uterus and periods and boobs probably, are making them crazy. I mean, we men have values and bro code and stuff. But now, after my two minutes on the internet as a girl s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 01:16 PM
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Team Sages 😂 They take no bs and we are all here for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:22 AM
5

I mean I get it, but the screening is harsh ! Why the fds posting history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:47 PM
30

Free for the under 25 crowd ? *general rule in France for public museums 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 06:42 PM
4

The age gap .... Also if at 30 he doesn't know the difference between sex and periods, no one can save him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 07:38 AM
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So they only remembered about women when nearing the old age and having no one to take care of them. Well die mad about it. Also hope the traditional "women look after elders" dies with them. If you want your kids to take care of you when you're old, take care of them first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 09:20 AM
5

Age gap... of course they're not on the same page. Why do they do that to themselves?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:58 PM
9

Ahaha having a place where I can unload my sarcasm and have people appreciate it is all I ask for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 09:30 PM
78

I fail to see how not dating him is a woman's loss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:28 AM
11

This makes me so sad. The whole selling point of marriage under patriarchy is to always have someone to help/support you. And it breaks my heart that most of the time husbands add to the hard time. At least all the married couples I know are like that. The only healthy married couple I know is my boyfriend's parents. And it gives me hope but still not enough yet tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:21 AM
100

True. I really don't want to get married. I like to have a chance to run away at short notice. And maybe even have options open for cuter guys, why not? But of course I understand why somw women would want to get married, especially if they are thinking of having kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:10 PM
29

"You already disappointed two people at the same time the day you were born, why add to that list ?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 09:33 PM
197

True that. My dad used to be a hoe when he was young and cheated left and right. Now he is old and with a belly, snow white kinda rare hair, while my mother is relatively thin (after 7 kids) and looks 35 in her 50's. Full head of hair and only now do wrinkles start to show. And men still hit on her, even when she says she has 7 kids. I remember one dude literally was offering to get me a car if she went on a date with him. She is not a HVW as per FDS standards, but she is very beautiful. And I a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:55 PM
19

Also the way women hate men and the way men hate women is completely different. Women want to stay away from men and men want to hurt women. So our hates are not the same. If anything, women 's hate is at least justified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:08 AM
10

You'll made me so angry I went on twitter just to insult this guy. Luckily, the comments from women calmed me down. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:58 PM
74

For real I didn't date between the ages of 19 to 25 because the mère thought of men turned me down. I almost thought I was maybe a lesbian. I was horny but as soon as I thought of dating/ hooking up with a guy I remembered all the misogyny and it immediately stopped. I met my now bf at 25 and I like him A LOT! But I still have hard time. Sometimes I just remember "men" and am angry even at him. My poor chéri 😅. But I hope to get back at some point. And finally be able to make an abstraction of t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 09:18 PM
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Why is it mostly men ? How come women can adapt to their age group men and not the other way around? I saw a statistic somewhere about preferences of both sexes as they age. Women are being reasonable and men got focused on 25. Does someone know?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 08:17 AM
2

Why is every word starting with a Maj ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 08:10 PM
24

I guess that's not what you meant exactly but I feel like you're saying CF women should still dedicate at least some time to kids. But when you are CF it is often because don't want the responsibility of raising any kids. Personally I would hate to know that parents use my CF status for their advantage to "tip in" to their kid. If I wanted to be around a child, I would have gotten one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:05 PM
13

I loved this post. Thank you for sharing 🥰 You deserve everything and more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 06:22 PM
100

Because men are obsessed with women even thothey try to project it to us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 01:40 PM
8

Idk about that... It happened recently, I saw a strikingly beautiful woman (well dressed, perfect straight shiny hair) and, sorry for the judgement, one of the ugliest man walked up to her and would persistently ask for her contacts. He finally asked just for her Snapchat to "just look at her". It was really pathetic. I couldn't understand what does he eat to think a woman like that would even breath his way. But idk if I agree with this theory. Maybe you get less pestering but nothing stops a r…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 06:47 PM
24

Oh yeah it sure sucks. Then again if society listened to women, we wouldn't need feminism to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 02:50 PM
57

Fun fact, in France the first magazine regarding women rights was indeed done by a man, Leon Richer. He found it astounding that half the population of the country was treated worse than (sorry for this) sl*ves and weren't literate. He advocated for equal pay, equal opportunities in education and lowering prostitution rates. And even feminists like Simone de Beauvoir acknowledged him as one of the "fathers of feminism". Just to say that feminism is at it's core against sexual exploitation of wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 12:42 PM
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We can't deal with men when they are being so emotional... I m sorry, but calm down first. I only respond to logical and calm arguments. Hitting the wall won't make you smarter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:55 PM
2

What's weird is to call your bf that... and the age gap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 02:46 PM
48

Also it is the only way to make women settle for the first coming man without weeding them properly. They make you believe there is a time limit to settle so you have to choose in the haste without properly analysing the situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 05:35 PM
15

Lucky you. I am still very aware of it, even though it hppened almost 10 years ago. And even got my arms waxed several times due to complexes I developed over it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 01:55 PM
34

He didn't even have the decency to lie, just straight out "I value 2d pictures more than my wife". Just leave him and his right hand have the time of their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 12:23 PM
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Hair on women's bodies. Being East asian, I noticed my arms emasculated men quiet often. It came to a point where I started to use it to make them leave me alone. One time in HS, a guy commented on my dark arm hair so I said "if this scares you, you don't want to see my legs." Somehow he got a crush on me after that... Men are weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:07 AM
22

She didn't call him a little bitch, but he sure is one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 04:56 PM
45

So he is mad he has to actually offer something more than just his existence? Stay mad then
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 09:53 PM
129

"I will need this on a notarized paper"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 05:16 PM
22

So according to that study, men aren't funny. I suspected that but it's nice to have a study
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 03:00 PM
23

I don't know... It backfires and at the same time it scares people into adapting more than ever the narrative of giving an ugly guy a chance. They even created an app (adopt an incel or something) after one of their killing sprees. So yes, your solution is more logical. But they are also afraid of other "fitter" man. So the violence is almost always directed at women. You know how they say "feminism is the cause of all the bad things happening to men" is just modern "witch's trials" translated i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 10:06 AM
37

And I guess he never did anything wrong in his life as he is his momma's favorite boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 01:12 PM
17

There was a post about a man named Adam calling out his friend for dating much younger women. I commented that the friend was right and people, I said people , not even just men, dating over the 5 year age difference are creeps. And the first comment was of a man telling me "only fat ugly hamburgers think that". So I answered "and Adam" the guy from the post. He reiterated two or three times that it's only the ugly who are insecure about younger, prettier women. So I just answered again "and Ada…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:20 AM
7

It's pretty much the opposite actually. Assholes will not care about your comfort or your preferences which are a very important part of (at least to me) an orgasm for a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 09:02 AM
29

When they rape women it's hormones/nature, they can't help it but when women remind them about their natural instincts they pull surprised pikachu faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 08:36 PM
5

Everything she described is the consequences of patriarchy. And it doesn't stop men from massively raping and killing women. They are not afraid enough smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:20 AM
34

"Getting even" comes back twice... getting even for not giving men access to our bodies. To men us having boundaries is violence against men. Also it made me physically sick to read this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 11:17 AM
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So he only likes kids he can fck and no one saw a problem with this... ok
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 04:04 PM
36

It's the "must laugh at online dating " while online dating for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:40 AM
6

If they hurt him and he learned a lesson it means that the other girls did not have the same man you do. He grew through the labour of his exes somehow. Instead of bashing them, say thank you. They took the bullets for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:33 AM
34

That was my first thought too. If he is so exceptional and they love each other so bad it shouldn't be an issue to go long distances for a while...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:25 AM
86

The typical abusus right tied to possession right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:26 AM
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I wouldn't be sleeping with the guy after seeing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:11 PM
37

His pipi is more important than a literal child he created by carelessness and he's surprised he's being judged ? I'm surprised he learned how to breath being this stupid...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:43 PM
17

The age gap... all you need to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 09:34 PM
3

"Young/fertilite" ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 04:42 PM
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Don't want to come across as petty, but I would show this to a teacher. Especially with the name and everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:45 PM
2

What's that now ? Edit: oh... I think you've got something here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 04:39 PM
16

Am I the only one that never feels the want to have sex with people I don't know? Like I can't feel sexually attracted to strangers. Never happened. I can find a man attractive, but never to the point of getting alone and naked with him. Men really have it easy smh thinking it's so easy to follow strangers to their places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 01:04 PM
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Sorry, didn't know the # made the text bolder
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:23 AM
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strickt parents
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:23 AM
8

I think they should split and live separately and then break up because he unnerves me. Was the military part added just to gain a few patriot points ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:33 PM
3

That's the same lady that said to normalise marrying a non financially stable man...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 11:00 AM
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822k followers....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 03:11 PM
7

Maybe sometimes they read the posts thinking there is a chance a man wrote it, so you can potentially listen to it. And they scroll down before they noticed it was an FDS post? Who knows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:42 AM
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Came here to say that. I see we've all fell into this one. I still feel so bad even though it happened two years ago. Never thought I was that stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:06 AM
5

As a daughter of a whoring father, I feel disgusted by him. Can't tell what it feels like to a son tho..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:35 AM
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I don't know what to tell her. If at this point she believes what he's saying that's on her. Also who accepts to have kids just for someone else? You both are supposed to want them, it's not a fish that will just chill in it's tank
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:29 AM
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I recommend FDS to all of my sisters, cousins and gf 😂 no stopping me. If I'm raising, I'm raising with all my sisters. We'll make a welfare wall of high standards so that there are no other LVM in our circles other than our dads and brothers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:47 PM
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Same. Saw it more than once. Not going there ever. No kids for me. I always come first. At the first sight of disrespect, Imma yeet myself out the door and never come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 05:50 PM
234

This was my first thought. Like he expected sexual tension and chose a walk near his house...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:33 AM
2

Especially since you have written proof 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:33 PM
19

Oh my... What even.... He should seek some help. Especially since it's not comfortable and not clean. Maybe it is tied to some trauma or something. The other question is, why wasn't it a red flag to her that she has never seen his place in THREE YEARS???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:24 PM
14

That was my first thought too! Also he likes smileys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:10 PM
35

Oh no, your family has to pay the price of your lack of professionalism. Should have thought about it before choosing to behave like a creep. You family is paying the price of your own choices as it's not a stranger's responsability to look out after you and your family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 01:17 PM
17

Also there is no reason to approach a new sub with a closed mind. When I first came here and read some stuff, mind you because of your negative publicity on other subs, I thought "y'all, these ladies are ruthless, I could never." And then I was like "why could I never?" Why are we socialized to believe that women owe their time but also THEIR FCKING BODIES to someone? This thought just exploded my brain. I was always told by my parents "you'll teach him to treat you right". I'll never forget how…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:19 PM
26

I always found it shocking how men attach the kids they have to the woman they had them with. Like if they don't love the woman anymore, they won't love their own kids as much or at all. So whenever I hear a man saying he wants kids, I run because I know I'll be the only one for the kids if something happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 02:27 PM
11

Because it is the worst for them maybe. They all want a bang-maid, but there are not enough people available for the position. Especially since a lot of men want several women (just an impression not an actual fact based sentence).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 02:08 PM
10

I wonder why ... Hummmmmmmmmmm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:56 PM
10

I love when men describe "females" and you're left here wondering is he talking about a woman? About a mare? Some other rare animal that should be breeded and not exploited in a circus because fertility>income
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 06:31 PM
3

That wouldn't be a false rape allegation tho aha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:37 PM
4

A weirdo randomly following you in the street is a good reason to be frightened. Wtf is wrong with him? How is she supposed to know if he's aggressive or not ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:53 AM
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People really can't take the fact that we are not violent incels and just a sort of support group. But as it is a group helping women to wise up, they have an issue with it. Just look how the person asking where the problematic content is is being downvoted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:45 PM
15

If only women would tell them from the beginning, what they want and how they want to be treated. This would have been so much easier. Sigh. Why don't they tell? Why? /s Also, this goes without saying but still, the rest of his story is really problematic the whole "I can talk them I to anything because I'm hot" gives me rapey vibes. He might have gotten attractive or whatever, but the inside is still rotten
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 02:11 PM
58

This is so sad. Don't have kids if you don't want to take care of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:08 PM
200

Perfect example of "invent a problem, then sell a solution"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:04 PM
55

So they needed extended studies to know that women also like good-looking people and need to be treated with respect? I'm just...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:04 PM
3

Everything about this screams disgusting. I hope someone will fill up a sexual harassment case and disgrace this ... Whatever this person is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:57 AM
10

Abort mission
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 10:52 AM
4

O know some people ask for money first so you don't think you have any and don't ask them for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 05:03 PM
19

I don't even know him, but I know I'll hate him. Women are not here to do research for every one who doesn't understand why women should be treated like people. And for the victimhood from being born a male.... Where ? How? Never saw it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:14 PM
153

Why... Would... Someone.... Explain...how the coffee machine works .... To a person already.... Using it...? What
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:36 PM
21

But sex ed and abortions are evel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:22 PM
271

Omg the zombies staying around. Don't they even see how creepy they are? This is so scary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 04:15 PM
115

I really did not get there alone, but I was so traumatized by being afraid of being"caught with a man" as a Muslim woman, that I'm just happier alone. Now that I'm nearing my 30's and my parents and family are starting to get worried I don't have a husband anywhere in sight, I'm happy to throw their own rules in their faces. And just on my level, I assimilate men with the high level of stress and dear for my life (literally, since I was always threatened with death if anything), so I just like t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:29 PM
11

What a piece of sh*t !!! !!!!!! I am so angry!!! Damn it , you go sit home you trash faced fungi! Agggggrr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:24 PM
35

He literally just described a trophy, and then complained about seeing better trophies but not wanting to feel bad about seeing better trophies as he already has one and it would be bothersome to get another good trophy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 05:23 PM
34

I hugged my diploma tho, the rush of dopamine hit like you wouldn't believe 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 04:04 PM
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There wouldn't. Men would just be the ones being paid less, being slut shamed, being underappreciated, being told to stay home and take care of their offsprings. Or something like that, because cycle hormones make them emotional and unfit for public eye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 03:58 PM
20

Будто он помолодел....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:43 PM
132

This is such a lie. They take any penny we give them, let's be honest. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 09:13 AM
42

"Google it, it happens all the time" well that's the issue. So you get raped and on top of that your partner makes you feel worthless. Sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:36 PM
18

Ok but who told them that women want to have kids? Also why are men invited in these conversations at all? If a woman doesn't want to have a child, a man wanting one won't change a thing. Also good, we, as species, deserve to die out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:07 PM
4

Oh no, so they can't live this good without women bouu houuu who would have thought?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:44 PM
68

Maybe because their views on women is "thing to catch and use?". That might be enabled by parents congratulating their sons for multiple conquests and shaming their daughters from having even one bf. There are only bad boys, no bad girls. The latter ones are called sl*ts. I guess it's the whore-madonnacomplex again. Just look at all those romantic movies where the guy is a player and treats women horribly and fall in love with an introverted virgin that never was let out of her house. And this i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:49 AM
5

It doesn't sound successful at all tho... It sounds suspicious and screams "I'm cheating on my unsuspecting wife". Also can someone explain me the "non-monogamous relationship but only on your end" thing ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:42 AM
38

I'm all for women doing what they want. But I still feel like this is a win for men. They are already low effort, if you promote this kind of things it's going to get worse. You can be edgy all you want, statistics are still there showing us that women are putting themselves in danger and all for what? Some rando who wouldn't even make them cum? You do you, but just remember that doing things like that is putting women in a very dangerous position. You can't advise women to keep keys between the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:33 AM
23

"So it's a shift to later in life. In that shift comes more education, more career, more employment. So it's a reordering of how people engage in adulthood," Lindberg explained." That should be it. For the elders you can always cut from the military budget or tax the bigger fortunes more for real this time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:45 AM
27

This would depend on the countries you're from. I know in South Asian countries most women get married to get away from their families. And also divorced women are more "left alone" in their decisions than women that never married. If you never marry you are viewed as immature and as broken goods (something must be wrong with you) and the pressure is over the roof to marry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 11:00 PM
11

You can forgive but remember to follow in accordance with the little morals he showed. I don't see how this is contradictory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 03:38 PM
10

So... Amazons? I'm all for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 11:37 AM
69

"you're on tinder because you're attitude is uglier than your face" says a dude also on tinder, rambling to a random stranger about his hurt feelings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 12:09 AM
87

Omg why is this real? I had an ex like that that works at a nuclear base. And in his group of friends they would talk how smart he is and stuff yet didn't know what fission is ? And I'm like you know what uranium is ? And I kid you not he didn't even know it's atomic number. I work in law and I still knew more about his field than him 😭 Jokes on me tho, still dated him after that because he seemed nice and, tbh, wasn't really that attractive and I thought he wouldn't treat me horribly. Cheated o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:23 PM
42

It's cute and all but giving birth is not the only value a woman has. I hate being reduced to reproduction, especially as a CF woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:52 PM
97

What they don't understand is that the problem is not sex-workers themselves. It's the sex industry in general. It prays on women and kids in precarious situations. Most of these victims are not even workers, they are sl*ves, exploited and put in very dangerous situations. Even sex workers who do it because "they like it" are not always safe. Any job where you do not need a particular skill tends to lean dangerously towards exploitation. Especially when women are involved (housewives, sex work, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:09 PM
2

If yo him winged eyeliner=cm slt, i think his favourite category is facial
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 10:01 AM
633

Guys are so weird.... He saw her before dating her ? Why date her at all if she's not to his liking? Wtf is wrong with him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:45 AM
48

So he lived his youth to it's fullest and got a little girl to settle for his sorry *ss? Yeah not a flex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:53 PM
13

Ok but wouldn't it be funny if she farted all along ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:51 PM
30

I really don't understand why people care about someone staying alone because they have high standards or any other reason. Like yeah I'll never settle. Yeah I might end up alone. How is that any of y'all business? Let me stay alone, I'm not bothering anyone. The worst thing I've been told yet is "I have to drop my act and get married. Women expire at 30, you need to have a kid before that." I was like why do I need a kid before that? Why do I need a kid at all? Literally nothing I do in my life…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:35 AM
23

There are studies showing that women are just as visual as men but also require a minimum brain material in a man. Men just go for anything. To them "visual creatures" mean seeing a woman. Men's and women's brains react the same way to attractiveness, women just have some dignity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:33 AM
15

Wouldn't it be a good thing a woman could make it on her own and with a kid? It shows maturity and stability levels their exes apparently lacked. But society always blames everything on women. How is being a deadbeat father any better than a single mother ? I really don't understand how male brain works sometimes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 03:15 PM
38

I guess they don't expect a man to carter to everyone's feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:15 AM
90

And not once do they think "maybe I should rise my son to behave so that whatever I'm afraid of for my daughter, doesn't happen to someone else's"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:10 AM
30

They wouldn't want to marry them even if they did it for free, no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 11:25 AM
12

Yeah no, I know but I just imagined what it would sound like in a conversation. Your husband, your kids is a bit redundant, no? It should have sounded something like "so your husband stays with kids?" You know what I mean ? But also English is not my first language so it is possible that that's why it bothers me more maybe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 06:29 PM
382

"your kids" sounds a bit off putting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 11:01 AM
4

What is the original? Where did you see it ? You've got me hooked on your description!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:40 AM
3

I feel like slapping him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 02:06 PM
204

That's how I got here too! Saw somewhere that this sub is afraid of criticism because they exclude male's POV. And I knew I had to be here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:03 PM
15

Seeing this I am happy to reach my 30s unmarried. At least I avoided all those creeps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:46 AM
7

What did I just read?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 10:06 PM
16

All the patriarchal "rules" are actually just projections.. oh how the turn tables have turned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:19 PM
104

I remember this !!! He wanted to be tapped in the shoulder and rise a reaction from people against his ex, presenting her in a "bad way". I'm so glad people saw right through it and trashed him for his bs. And he was unhappy about it. Like what did he expect? She told from the beginning she didn't want a kid. He promised her he'll take all the care and will be the perfect dad and she can leave. And when she actually did he was surprised...???? At least she pays, most dads don't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 05:30 PM
37

For real! If I could fight the internalized misogyny, then so can other women. I hate hearing the whole trope of women can't have real friends among themselves because they're catty, because they're competitive with other women and what not. I hate it so much especially because the only real, reliable friends I've ever had were women. Men, once they knew they weren't getting anything physical from this friendship would dip faster than a pebble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:33 PM
8

I see what you mean but once again it's putting all the blame on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 12:53 PM
90

So this was going to be a 40 on 1 rape? I'm sorry but all this shows is that men are animals as a rule and that miracles happen in 0,000000001% situations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:16 PM
5

I never said the recommendations were bad. It was just in case you already made the mistake, you should always go see if there is a way to get half the money. There is no reason for a guy to waste your time AND your money. At least try to get the cash back. And yeah "concubinage" just means literally people living/sleeping together. At least the relationship has a status, regardless of what people might say. But yes, it sure is better if you have a written agreement on payments, on stuff sharing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:15 PM
41

On the law protection it depends what country you live in. You should know that in some countries (France for me) if you live with someone and pay stuff half/half you are protected under the concubine status. So if you did make that mistake, you can get back the half of the part. Don't hesitate to consult a lawyer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:56 PM
5

Reading this I'm like "is she talking about my country?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:16 PM
28

Omg yes!! My parents would freak out whenever they'd see me with a boy. My whole life I was threatened with violence if I ever was to be seen with a boy (worse if touching, kissing, having a relationship would get me killed for sure). So obviously I avoided all men and didn't talk to my parents about any boy related stuff. And now I'm nearing my 30s and they pull surprised Pikachu faces as for why I'm not married yet. The misogyny has backfired big times and I'm loving it big times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:40 PM
3

What more could you want ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:02 AM
3

Sigma male = smeagol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:35 AM
30

My father told me "by not wanting kids I am committing a genocide of out nation". Didn't have the heart to tell him that I don't even want to get married into our nationality, even less procreate with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 11:18 AM
28

My first thought 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 11:24 AM
5

For REAL tho, not once have I seen a man here. And spending so much time on this sub, sometimes I forget there are men at all on reddit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:57 AM
53

Do they pretend tho? They live it very well and show off how they don't care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:37 PM
45

Or because it hurts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:02 PM
90

Agree. I am in no way against sex workers, but i do have an issue with sex work. I want a world where women are not put in the position where their reproductive functions are seen as a merchandise (sex work or even surrogacy).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 02:43 PM
71

I mean whatever. If this is how he wants to spend his free time lmao. What is that supposed to do to women who already know most men are trash ? Cry ? Be angry? Be flattered he appreciates our writing skills ? Who knows
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:29 PM
17

Ahahaha die mad about it. I love when bad people get owned. KARMA IS A WOMAN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:25 AM
3

FDS record 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 11:52 AM
18

All I hear is "me, me, I, I, I've known you a whole 100 days"... So weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:45 PM
54

34 and 27 is too old for him? Ewww predator telling on himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 02:10 PM
9

But then they cheat to do things they kinda want to but can't do to the woman their "respect".. so there is no winning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:31 PM
5

How strange that he twice met women from the same activity, one after another, and didn't know what they were doing .... Hum hum. Most likely just came for their services but didn't pay and then pulled the victim card when discovering he was not her only internet bf...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 12:02 PM
22

Also parents sometimes get jealous when the daughter is better than the son. I don't know if I'm the only one who's seen that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:32 PM
4

This is so frightening... I can't imagine being married to a guy without ever seeing him shaved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:45 PM
5

"then we'll deal with the insurance company" is what I would have told lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:50 AM
15

Same ! They like to say you're ugly and/or fat. Like no but ok. And then they are mad you are not offended. I'm not the one mediocre enough to insult random strangers on the internet so I still have it better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 11:35 PM
2

She's immature but he's the one who abandoned his kids. So this is how you show you are mature? By making kids all over the country then ditching them.. Who knew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 06:52 PM
11

I'm sorry but the age difference I just can't. Flee my honey, find someone who doesn't come back on his promises and has at least an ounce of self-respect and principles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 09:39 AM
7

Amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 09:36 AM
5

Nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 06:56 PM
5

So he simultaneously did and did not get girls in their 20's? He says he didn't act on his feelings when he was younger and then says he did manage to get girls. I'm confused. Seems like he's inventing half of ii but only those he didn't like... Then why did he pursue them to begin with ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 06:40 PM
111

Why is this so true? They be wearing sports wear to official events and think they can say what they want in their future wife. Like yeah good luck with that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:50 PM
96

It breaks their narrative that women need men to survive and that they should stay in the kitchen. But it is actually the other way around because we can do both by ourselves and they can do neither without depending on a woman in some way...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:47 PM
21

Men that are not faithful don't stay faithful as it is, religion or not because religions are not aimed at men s much as they are aimed at women as being a gift to a man. But faithfulness works for both men and women. There are women that don't want monogamous relationships as there are men. But no one is trying to submit men, that's the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:20 AM
90

And in all the movies, you see this done to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:46 AM
76

Sometimes even for exams
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:45 AM
102

Why do people hate women and cats and women with cats? Women ? Goddesses. Cats ? Adorable little furry balls. What is there to hate ? Ah yes, both have boundaries.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:10 PM
8

So he is a perv who just wants to jack off all the time and is surprised no one wants to sleep with him when he clearly doesn't care about a woman's pleasure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:26 PM
1

It literally takes good f sense...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:08 PM
16

By My chemical romance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 03:36 PM
19

A big plus is that being a bitch to guys that think they can get away with everything (when you can of course) is so satisfying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:46 AM
1

What's impressive is how much of a deadbeat her husband is. Just as you think he reached the bottom, you hear him working that shovel, digging deeper
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 04:55 PM
2

Wish his mom avoided this kind of look by aborting him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 07:20 PM
7

Women "age" but he is immortal, of course. Can't stand this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 06:35 PM
4

I agree that she should take into consideration what he says about her passion and dump his dusty old ass already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 12:22 PM
32

I hope to ascend one day to this level of detachment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:42 PM
440

Love being called selfish for caring about my self tbh. Because when they do I say "so what?" "Well that's bad" "ok, I can live with that. Now what?" And they have nothing to say. So own it. Men have been selfish for centuries, now it's our turn and they can die mad about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:24 PM
25

I hereby request your agreement to use this sentence to any man who shames sex positive people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 08:26 PM
9

"Why would you say something so controversial yet so brave?" Also wtf ??? So they want to be treated like sh*t? Well I hope they get exactly that but from everyone around them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:28 AM
3

There is so much I still need to learn... Thank you for your explanation. This is so so sad. It angers me so much when guys use gf like personal help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:25 AM
113

Why tho? Why do they stay with women they hate when they know they do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 11:30 PM
16

I always loved Megan fox and thought it was odd that she didn't do more movies when older when she did all those Disney shows with Lindsay Lohan and even a show with Ashton Kutcher. They all got big and she didn't as much. When I grew up I learned the truth and started to love her even more. Poor woman that was badmouthed by the whole world (I am russian and there were still rumours about her being a bigass B*tch) So yeah Megan Fox deserves more recognition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 10:54 AM
11

😂 amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:13 PM
96

I got so much hate on Instagram for telling that her dad was basically telling her to accept abuse to get, at best, an average life. I wasn't saying I am absolutely right, I said I feel like this is what he's saying and people got angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:31 PM
56

They need to be sealed inside an oyster, and be thrown in the middle of the ocean indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 03:39 PM
26

So this !!!!! Never understood why guys do that ???? Like if a guy tells me I'm not usually his type and just makes an exception for me and usually it's something about the physical appearance I'm like"please don't bother yourself that much". It is such a turn off. What's wrong with these kind of guys ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 06:10 PM
18

They want a virgin wife so they can hide the fact that they are bad at sex. And then they are surprised they can't even please a virgin. Like dude, when you bad at sex, you bad at sex in general. It's not a woman's faut your pipi is defective
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:50 PM
2

I know the logical explanation. But I hate how people think it's so easy to leave an abusive relationship just because they don't understand psychological abuse and control that victims suffer from
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 04:10 PM
23

Why do men abuse women when they can just leave them ? It's easier to leave the relationship when you are the abuser and not the "abusee"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 10:06 AM
11

Do you really need to read past the age gap to know the relationship is abusive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 07:05 PM
17

22-24 is still too young. Of course exceptions exist. But shitty men come from shitty boys. If they are filled with rage because a woman dumped them (most likely because they deserved it) and didn't use these opportunities to reflect on themselves and grow means they never were HV to begin with. Normal people don't try to take out their rage on a random person. And don't worry, you can only benefit from working on yourself. No time is better spend than the time spend on progressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:16 PM
24

The fact that so many people here seem to know so may women that are into it really is sickening. It opens your eyes on how much women have been abused and that they are all around us and just... So heartbreaking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:03 PM
26

Sounds like his gf left him because he was bad in bed and now it's somehow her fault because she didn't want to waste her time teaching him how to please women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 10:36 AM
19

They just fail to be a good partner for selfish reasons and since science is male centered they invented themselves a sickness related to childbirth. Because God forbid there is something that doesn't include men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:38 PM
2

Lmao if I have to go to a store on our first date, you can be sure I won't be showing up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:22 PM
15

And it's more often F[22] and M[54] but he looks younger
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 11:20 AM
19

Ok but the first statement is clearly wrong and is only fueled by misogyny when the second one is a statistical truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:02 PM
14

Every comma hurt... It won't happen again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:32 PM
15

Um excuse me? So he shits and she's supposed to wipe his ass ???????????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 04:14 PM
5

Same ! Saw this sub mentioned on Twitter and wanted to see what it's about. And I think this is the sub that made me create a Reddit account all together because until now I had an impression that it was a 4chan kind of social media... Also not alot of french subs here.. But overall you all helped me to open my eyes about my ex. I was reading through this page and turning red remembering how I cried over a guy that didn't make me orgasm once 😭😂 I am so ashamed , ladies. But you've given me closu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 12:04 PM
3

😂😂😂😂😂😂 at least they are aware
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 03:20 PM
7

This! He clearly wanted to cheat without it being cheating and thought he would be the only one having fun because his wife maybe had a hard time with intimacy after giving birth. And it bites him in the ass. And damn does it feel good to see (ungrateful) men crawl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:42 PM
60

I felt like puking the whole time I was reading his post, but especially at the last paragraph he added. Ugghrr I don't have enough rage left for men. The audacity to not let his wife rest after having a baby. Also should I even mention the age gap anymore?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 09:06 AM
4

So he admits that husbands generally make their wives miserable and that men can't even keep one woman happy ? Huh we been knew... They think they put the ring on the finger and the effort stops there pfffff
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:24 PM
2

Omg I wish I had her by my side when I was dealing with my ex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:40 PM
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