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GREEN FLAG 🟢steingrrrl/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 04:04 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 12:11 AM
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I like your last sentence especially. I don’t think men realize how many of us would love to be having tons of casual sex. Can we add on to the point about getting a woman to fall in love - does he even care about her pleasure? It’s crazy to me to think that there are men who complain about women not wanting to sleep with them, when they do very little to make sure his partner is getting something out of it too. No, women aren’t charities that just want to make you cum and receive their satisfac…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:41 PM
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I’m a woman, though married. When I was single I didn’t really pursue casual sex. Why? Because the chance of me having an orgasm was very low. Why would I want to risk my safety (and getting pregnant) for someone to essentially just masturbate with my body, and for me to feel used and dissatisfied after? The risk vs reward ratio is massively skewed for women. I saw one study say that 28% of women reached orgasm during a casual hookup. To me that seems high, but the actual number isn’t the point.…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:32 PM
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i love how his solution is 'fertility tracking'. translation: it's now the woman's responsibility to track her fertility every single day, and if it still results in a pregnancy, obviously she did something wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/22 04:28 PM
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ill never forget when it was my first year living alone from home in my uni dorm... i was drying off after a shower (obviously naked), and heard an unexpected knock on my door, so i yelled 'just a minute', and like 10 seconds later the door started opening so i ran into my bedroom to cover myself, and it was these two men, speaking a language i didnt understand, and i had no idea what was going on. i was terrified, and then eventually they started pulling out a ladder and stuff and started doing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 01:36 PM
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I could have written this whole post word for word! i never understood 'hook up culture' or one night stands, like the idea of meeting a STRANGER and being intimate with them is so alien to me. even if they were incredibly objectively attractive, there would be no spark or way for me to be turned on by them. theres a huge difference to me between my eyes noticing that someone is objectively attractive and me being turned on by someone. like i literally thought that guys were joking when theyd sa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/21 01:31 PM
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him booty popping as he cleans the counter is LITERALLY my bf lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:04 PM
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ewwww imagine being so obsessed with VIDEO GAMES that it impacts your relationship. but like also reminds me of a story i wanna share. one time in uni i had a project i had to submit on a USB stick, but i didnt have one that had enough storage on it. without even hesitating, my bf went to his xbox and pulled out the USB he had all his data saved on. we were around 23/24 at the time and he had it since he was like 15 or 16, and it was the only console he had. he casually WIPED the whole thing and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/21 09:03 PM
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Definitely him to make it look like there’s interest 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 08:25 PM
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wow, she is incredible. absolutely breathtaking work!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:57 PM
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so disappointing, for a while i got hvm vibes from mulaney. bum bum bum another one bites the dust
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:55 PM
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i would throw the fucking placenta at his face lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 01:47 PM
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I’m so sorry you had to endure such pain. However, incredibly proud of you for seeking help! You deserve to be happy and have healthy respectful relationships. I’m so glad you found the sub :) <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:05 AM
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a fix it Felicia!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/21 05:49 PM
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yes, thank you for elaborating!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 08:27 PM
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Essentially there was a guy who had a small online presence and did some of his own analysis and concluded that the stock for GameStop was very under valued, so he put a ton of money into it. As it started to go up, other people took notice, and started dumping money into it in hopes of being able to sell their shares at a big profit. However this involves trying to predict and time the market, which is virtually impossible for people to do. There were some stories of people being like “I was ea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/21 06:24 PM
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“Do some of the daring things that porn stars do” bitch gtfo, this aint fear factor 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 06:20 PM
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On Valentine’s Day or something I mentioned to my boyfriend that people would probably consider me to be a “high maintenance girlfriend” because he’s big into gifts and organizing things for me. He kind of paused for a second and then was like “what’s wrong with that? I like it”, and went on to say something to the effect of “I don’t want to live life giving the bare minimum”. And that made so much sense to me! He’s the first HVM partner I’ve had, so at first I figured that he did the things he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:26 PM
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or when theres a post talking about how some celebrity had her nudes leaked without consent, or reports about non consensual 'porn' posted online, they all chime in with the super original joke: "wow so horrible, what website is it on, so I can be extra sure to avoid it??"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:27 PM
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HOW DO I BECOME FRIENDS WITH THEM LMAOO THEYRE HILARIOUS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/21 06:57 PM
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I literally think about this every day. Imagine what it would be like, where you can just exist and people value you for your opinions and work and contributions to your fields of interest. Like it makes me so sad that there are so many brilliant women who will never get the positions they want because of their looks. It literally haunts me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:16 PM
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Aw so cute that they finally have their own website where they can date each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:12 PM
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Can you give me a moment, I need to collect myself AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH Fuck that’s gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 08:10 PM
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I remember my prof telling us that being tired/burntout wasn't an excuse to not get our work done, because she graded projects while she was recovering in the hospital after giving birth. like you really gonna tell on your employer like that? thanks for the heads up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:55 PM
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omg I remember when I was in like grade 7 or 8, gossip girl was really cool and I went through my closet and put together a polo, knee socks, knee high socks and ballet flats and was so excited to wear it to school. i remember my mom saying I looked so cute. and then when I was at school my teacher pulled me aside and was like "your outfit is so cute, but the thing is that sometimes when boys see cute things they want to have sex with them (VERBATIM!!!!) so you should check with the vice princip…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/21 06:44 PM
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if youre responsible and study, youre boring and basic. if you ignore school and spend your time partying, youre a h*e. theres literally no winning with them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:07 PM
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she sounds so sweet. can we rent a limo and all take her to prom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:06 PM
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Holly Elgison and Len Schillaci are a mixed vaxxed couple insert Annalise Keating purse gif here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 05:52 PM
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Hey queen! Send me an inbox if you want, same with any other ladies reading this! Maybe we can set up a group chat somewhere? Just well have to be careful bc Reddit lmao 😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:17 PM
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Imagine if he made her prom dress eventually 🥺😭 how special 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:36 AM
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If anyone wants online friends I’m down 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 05:33 AM
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the bags under his eyes wouldnt pass the weight test hahahhahaaha. damn, i wish we could gently kidnap his wife for a girls trip to mexico or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:50 PM
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i mean if a woman has sex on the first date bc she wants to and enjoys it, more power to her. but i just cant imagine wanting to and being comfortable with that??? its literally a stranger??? ive heard the label 'demi sexual' before but I literally just dont feel sexual urges toward strangers. not to forget, i feel like the first time you have sex with someone isnt really the best lol for me it takes time and improves as we learn more about each other but what do i know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:55 PM
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I don't have much to add but I love that I was able to tell you were canadian from your post hahaha, I love seeing other canadians on here! my partner is military so I know all about their pay being listed online. I remember one time my family tried to subtly ask what his pay is around, and he was like 'tell them how to google it' lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:47 PM
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they travel separately........ omg. he deadass thinks he has royal lineage. god grant me that kind of confidence please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:40 PM
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isn't it weird how there arent really non cishet redpillers/incels/whateverthefucks? its almost like their whole mission is to degrade women and was never about finding a happy relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:24 PM
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I think pretty much any woman whose ever existed in society at large needs fds lmao :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:20 PM
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Good to know, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:06 PM
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I haven’t watched the trailer or movie yet because I’m sensitive to some content. would anyone be kind enough to let me know if there are any graphic depictions of SA?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 06:57 PM
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I fucking love women hahahaha their creativity is off the charts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:58 PM
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wow idk about some of the other commenters, but I'm a girl, and I LOVE when my man poops on the carpet! I bet hes done things for you before that he didnt personally enjoy, like watching the notebook or going shopping with you or brushing his teeth, but you gotta try to be more positive about it! you might wanna think about apologizing to Mr Hoskins for not giving him a chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 02:32 PM
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I'm assuming shes saying her husband takes care of her financially so she doesnt work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:32 PM
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This is so weird. The first time she asked, why didn’t he just say “oh I’m actually just covering up my beer for later!”. And the whole thing would’ve ended and not been an issue lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:08 PM
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r/vindicta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:43 AM
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Low effort texts are such a turn off 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:29 AM
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🧂 I got some salt we can all share sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:11 AM
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The OP: This is coming from a woman. Narrator: it was not coming from a woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 10:40 PM
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HVM!! I totally agree that your distress should make him uncomfortable. You shouldn’t have to ask for anything. That’s how my bf is with me and always has been. I never have to ask him for anything, even though I know I could if I had to. When I told him my apartment was too hot, he got me a fan. When I said I was feeling tired and hadn’t had dinner yet, he said to order something on him. If we’re outside and I look cold, he gives me his jacket. HVM are compassionate, generous providers that nat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:06 PM
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Can I have the link too please? :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:02 PM
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Some of my friends have the worst taste in men 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:41 PM
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Why do people act like it’s a “compromise” for a woman to give a man a blow job when she’s not in the mood for/not able to have sex? It’s way more effort and not even remotely reciprocal... literally one of the worst trade deals in the history of deals, of possibly ever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:25 AM
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I wonder if women would pay for access to naked photos of men. Or if it’s mostly men that buy them. If it’s the later, I wonder if he’s aware of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:40 AM
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You can’t hide your boob size, lol. Not everyone sees your bare tittles, but you’re treated different based on the size. Nobody sees a mans dick on a day to day basis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:34 PM
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Imagine having the audacity to go on Craigslist and ask a woman you’ve never met to not only have sex with you, BUT CARRY A BABY for you. One of the most dangerous and life changing things women will ever go through. Imagine thinking of that idea, and thinking “oh a woman might reply, might as well post it”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 05:27 PM
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The woman is a professor too. I have friends that were taught by her and they were so devastated because she’s such an amazing woman and such a great educator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:26 AM
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To go off of #2, quiet confidence, I find guys who aren't super flashy in their appearance are more likely to have BDE. the guys who spend tons of money on designer clothes with tons of logos give off SDE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:39 PM
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if he buys you shoes, get him a nice suit. Yeah I’m gonna just casually buy my man a SUIT for no particular occasion lmao. Why do they tweet like this. We all know they don’t go places that require suits. And no, court doesn’t count.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:58 PM
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Aww that’s so sweet, love can be grand☺️ also, your user name is so cute!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:56 PM
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oooh this sounds fun!! Will there be weirdness over who pays? he owns a house so he can afford it, but that doesnt mean he might not be cheap.. hmm. I'm gonna guess he'll be cool about the first date, to make a good first impression, but if theres a second date he might expect you to pick something up. Will he be decent and open doors, etc? yes, but he'll use this to his advantage (such as a chance to stare at your booty, and rack up points in his head towards why hes a gentleman and deserves to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:15 PM
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for me a big one is taking my interests seriously. i have a lot of interests that most men would think are stupid (reality tv, rom coms, beauty youtube, skincare, scrapbooking). its very refreshing that hes confident enough in his masculinity that he'll not only not automatically dismiss them as stupid, but participate in some with me too. we do things together that guys ive been with in the past, i know for a fact wouldnt even entertain the idea of doing because theyd say its 'gay' or 'stupid'.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 09:06 PM
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you should do something nice for yourself-- have a nice meal, get your nails done, get some flowers for your place, get some post-valentines sale chocolate :) you could use it as an opportunity to show yourself some extra love and level up from him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:11 PM
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this is part of the reason i get so heated over porn use. porn hub is massive, and im assuming probably the main source for a lot of people. even if youre watching a video that looks 'vanilla' and consensual and non-degrading, youre still watching it on a website that profits off of disgusting rape videos. youre still giving that disgusting corporation money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 01:19 AM
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35 what? 35 years out of high school? he sure as fuck isnt 35 years old lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:11 PM
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I was really rooting for her, but Khloe Kardashian puts up with too much shit from men and gives them way too many chances
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:15 PM
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Under the bathroom drains where all the piss and shit and cum go 😂 rot in peace boi 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:56 PM
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"Darling, couldn't you take a nap on that rock over there?" "But the heat lamp is on the roof, and I want to cuddle" "As you wish, my love"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 10:56 PM
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"Should I be upset?" I hate this mindset. That you have to ask permission to validate your own feelings that youre already having. this really fucked me up, for years. being told I'd be upset/sad/mad/dissapointed for 'no reason'. people say that men aren't allowed to show their feelings to the extent that women are, but we hold back so much, because we constantly feel like our feelings aren't valid, and that we're just crazy or hysterical, because we're told thats what emotional women are. its t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 10:50 PM
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Imagine if they put all this energy into personal development and becoming emotionally mature!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:16 PM
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"I could be in a relationship with a HVW if I wanted to, I just don't want too, those women are too high maintenance and I'm too busy" -- quote from Tyler, 35, who works at Best Buy, drives a 2003 Honda Civic, hasn't exercised since high school, has 5 roommates and 4 pairs of pants.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:05 PM
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I think theres a few reasons men are told from a young age its normal, natural, and good to be a 'ladies man' or a 'heartbreaker' and 'play the field' especially with OLD, theyre under the impression that they have endless options, and they want to constantly shop around and constantly 'upgrade' combined with 1 and 2, men are told that women are all dying to settle down and get married to whoever proposes, so they can 'play the field' until theyre bored, and then once they finally decide to sett…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:01 PM
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I find it really odd when people in long term relationships/marriages talk about never looking at their partners devices or anything. My partner and I literally have each others passwords for everything and a thumbprint on each others phones. Pretty much just for practicality's sake. We don't have any reason to not trust each other, and we don't like 'snoop' each others stuff, but if you're in a serious relationship with someone, what could you possibly be hiding from them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:42 PM
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"He says the trust is broken, which I get and I am really sorry for". SHES THE ONE THATS SORRY? DO I NEED TO GET MY EYES CHECKED?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 10:40 PM
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seriously! i've learned the hard way that gay men can be incredibly misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 09:52 PM
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Yes! Except sometimes now when I’m going out of the house alone and don’t want to be bothered, I reverse it and put on my glasses and wear baggy clothes. Sometimes it works, sometimes not lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:55 PM
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Lmao because he says yOu CaNt FeEl AnYtHiNg WiTh CoNdOmS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:53 PM
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You have to be SUPER careful. My partners military, but we got together before he was in. I regularly attend military events with him, and every single time before we go, he says the same thing. That he’s sorry if someone says something inappropriate or makes me uncomfortable, but he’ll do his best to not leave my side. The other guys I’ve met are mostly very appropriate around me, but the stories he’s told me about were shocking. The cheating, drug and alcohol abuse, financial irresponsibility,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 02:44 PM
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They call two x ‘sexist’ and that place is pickme-central
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:20 AM
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I saw this episode of shameless, spoiler alert: didn’t work out well for the woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:18 AM
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The fact that your son suggested you go here makes me think that you’re a good mom who raised him to treat women right :) I’m a newbie but I don’t think any question is too trivial. This sub is all about women supporting women, none of us have any desire to call you names or invalidate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 05:07 AM
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Yep, my mom was about 33 and my dad was around 47. Can confirm I have depression, anxiety, ADHD and avoidant restrictive food intake disorder. I wouldn't call myself ugly but damn, I wonder what i'd look like if my dad was younger!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:52 AM
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I can literally hear his laugh looking at this photo lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 04:46 AM
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Wanted to add onto this... even if he is military and can’t have his phone, he’ll make a way ;) my partner would schedule texts to me while he was away, just things like good morning texts, goodnight texts, compliments, etc. If they’re serious about you, they’ll find a way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 04:05 AM
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Sad how such a trash person who doesn't even view women (aka half the population) as human beings is going to be a DOCTOR.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:59 PM
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"You'll easily weed out women who want to use you for a free meal" . is that a thing? I've been on dates before where the food was bomb, but I didn't like the guy, and I wasn't really able to enjoy myself, I just wanted to leave. Do guys not realize how much work/energy is involved into going on a date for women? The only time I've heard women admit to 'going on a date for free food' was from women who've experienced food insecurity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 05:52 PM
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I was thinking about this the other day! I was watching a show where they talked about demisexuality and i was trying to imagine what that would feel like, then I realized thats how I feel? like i dont want to invalidate anyone who identifies as demisexual, but i cant imagine that not being normal. ive found strangers good looking before, but ive literally never sexually fantasized about a stranger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:12 AM
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I remember there was a thread one time (i cant find it, ofc) where someone mentioned something about washing their bed sheets, and deadass there were top comments of people (im assuming dudes) saying 'youre supposed to wash your sheets?' insert vomit reaction here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:14 PM
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the cattiness is so true! i was so surprised when i moved for uni and met a bunch of guys from toronto, and it was like nothing id ever seen before (besides mean girls lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:30 PM
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I met my partner in ottawa and imo its a good location for hvm. its not necessarily the most exciting city/glamorous city, but its pretty stable. all of the government and military jobs means guys that have a steady career path. and theres two universities with good graduate programs (one has a med school and a law school), so lots of educated people. a few of my friends from montreal say they notice people in ottawa seem to marry and settle down way sooner than they do in montreal. but of cours…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 07:26 PM
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yesss, this sounds just like my man. being with a HVM after being with lots of LVM is a totally different experience. something you dont really expect tho is that it can be.... more difficult? but in a good way. when I was with LVM they wouldnt care if i sat on my ass, slept in til 10 am, smoked tons of weed and didnt have much ambition. LVM wouldnt give a shit if i went to therapy, if i exercised/ate healthy. wouldnt care if i engaged in self destructive behaviours. but my HVM realizes what im …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 09:22 PM
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right? i would be absolutely devastated if my partner said that to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:38 AM
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https://snew.notabug.io/r/relationship_advice/comments/em47o4/my_boyfriend_m34_made_some_depressing_comments/?st=k5701h2r&sh=c54078c2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:32 PM
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