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| 4 | Please tell me what I can do differentlyThe perfect breakdown of FDS doesn’t ex- this !! | /r/askFDS | 08/05/21 04:21 PM |
| 13 | Why is waiting 3ish months to have sex seen as such a deranged/controversial thing?But that would mean they have to respect women’s boundaries and not steam roll or manipulate women (who have made it obvious they aren’t looking for one night stands) into sex it’s a control thing. They don’t care what you want. They want what they want and feel they have a right to it. Anything less than that is an attack on him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:16 PM |
| 13 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️Holy shit💀 I’m soooo sorry lmaoo that’s terrible (I don’t laugh cause it’s funny, just cause we’ve all been there). So glad you’ve recovered from that misery | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:10 PM |
| 144 | This is how black men feel about black womenI’m sorry but I am a black woman and have burned my cape. The black community is one of the unsafest spaces for a black woman. We are indoctrinated from the jump that we must “protect” black men and “hold them down” while they abuse, harass, rape, and kill us in numbers higher than any other group. Tuh. I wish more black women would wake up and see the violent misogynoir by black men for what it is and stop defending some of these buffoons | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 04:07 PM |
| 33 | Single dad vs single mom double standardskitten heels samules is a low value dusty with zero to offer. I wish women would stop watching his channel :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 10:07 PM |
| 67 | Should I tell him how wrong he was to assault me?Why don’t you try this: Open a notes pad on your phone or laptop and write out exactly what you’d say to him. Pour it all out, leave nothing inside. Be grotesque and tell your pain how it lives and what he has done to you. Don’t leave anything out. Then, leave it there. Don’t do anything with it. Just close the app and sit on it. If you can add a password to the note, do so as well. A few days later or once you’ve let some time pass and you’re feeling a bit stronger, open the note and see how yo… | /r/askFDS | 28/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 432 | For real though.97% of men would penetrate a hole in the wall lubricated with Vaseline. We aren’t flattered. Stay the fuck away from us in public. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:12 PM |
| 138 | I don't understand jealous pickmes that tear other women down 🤦🏾♀️It’s a tough lesson in womanhood. Many people hate seeing beautiful, young, talented women succeed. Once they do achieve it, these people question their journey and attribute their success to some outside factor or attempt to minimize her greatness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 6 | From avoidant men to desperate men... just trying to find that middle ground?Yep 100%. Goes without saying, dogs chase. Males will try it & the best of us women will fall for it! But like I said, a HVW world is usually hard to penetrate - men will try but few will succeed. OP is still not quite on her HVW grind yet and she’s falling victim to these gross needy men with little to no effort on their part to play the trick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 07:16 AM |
| 26 | Is this my fault if it keeps happening? (TW: consent violations in detail)I’m sorry but there’s a lot of emotional grief to unwrap here. I can write a novel on how sexual abuse lowers our self esteem which leads us into other situations that make it easier for more sexual abusers to do more damage. It’s not your fault that you’ve experienced these things and I’m really sorry it happened. However, you really have to consider therapy and some long term care treatment because this is way above Reddit pay grade. It seems as if you’re off to a good foot as you recognize th… | /r/askFDS | 15/01/21 07:04 AM |
| 8 | From avoidant men to desperate men... just trying to find that middle ground?A lot of FDS is turning inwards and praying/searching for your own success and emotional growth before finding a man that best suits you. The fact that you’re still attracting LVM let’s me know you haven’t done as much work as you think you have... LVM (especially to the extent that you’ve described here) almost ALWAYS show the red flags before the actual meeting. What are you ignoring and are your standards really as high as you’re telling yourself they are? HVW often repel dusties/LVM (though … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:31 AM |
| 7 | Am i being too picky?No, not stupid. You did good — it’s gross and dehumanizing and there’s a chance he would’ve forced that kink on you. Good riddance to him | /r/askFDS | 06/01/21 06:55 AM |
| 49 | Are there men out there who don’t either demonize or fetishize virginity?Protect yourself by vetting men. Many will test your boundaries so you must be vigilant in enforcing them and never giving in to the devil on your shoulder. Have sex when you are with a man that puts your comfort, boundaries, & expectations at the forefront of his mind when doing it for the first time. You can only do this by vetting a man. | /r/askFDS | 06/01/21 06:53 AM |
| 46 | HVM suddenly displaying traits of LVMYou haven’t given us enough back story with regard to exactly what he is doing to determine if his mask is finally slipping or if this is just COVID blues. We can write a novel on HVM and LVM male traits. If you aren’t willing to give anymore detail a good place to check is the sidebar where you can research posts across the subreddit that talk about each. Edit: the ladies have gotten some background info and so have I and I can confidently say this guy is pinnacle of low value. I’d wager to say… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:54 AM |
| 35 | She had me in the first half...Lol the irony in her username being “wakeupelsie” Yes, Elsie — please for the love of god wake up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:12 PM |
| 45 | She had me in the first half...Yup. The son is actually the worst collateral damage in this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:10 PM |
| 96 | She had me in the first half...Narrator voice: no, no he did not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 04:08 PM |
| 55 | Documentary about the exploitation of women in prostitution & sex trafficking- "choice" is a lieGod, I wrote a literal 12 page final essay this semester on why “sex positivism” when it comes to prostitution is a whole fucking scam and farce! Sex positivism in general is a scam! No one benefits except gross male(S) with his equally gross dick in his hand jerking it to the thought of you submitting to some weird degrading fetish under the guise of “She wants it” “it’s a choice”🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:41 AM |
| 22 | Men never 'lose control', they act in ways they deem justified.Oh amazing! That’s in my iBooks library, this just gave me the fire under me to get to it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 53 | Men never 'lose control', they act in ways they deem justified.Jesus!!! How profound. Totally provided me with some amazing insight. Thank you for this share! What’s the book called if I may ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:45 PM |
| 3 | They hide in plain sight🤮this is why you should never spend a dime on a man — you become their bang-maid cash cowGot curious and took a stroll on hinge after a hiatus. Still a major disappointment as usual. The audacity of them — the males are becoming so brazen. Ladies, DONT IGNORE THESE MASSIVE RED FLAGS ON PROFILES. They tell A LOT about themselves. I may make a post on red flags for online dating profiles if there hasn’t been one made!! Be vigilant sisters. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:17 PM |
| 5 | 🤢🤢🤢I just saw a 21 year old showing her engagement to a 52 year old man on that sub....bye ladies...the void is calling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:14 PM |
| 60 | No words. (Reposted with names marked out)on today’s episode of what object will men compare women (even the deceased ones) to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:53 PM |
| 61 | Poor man. Can‘t get that girl on the street that is so pretty is hurts. He‘ll never be good enough for 11/10 supermodel.It’s becoming more and more evident that most average men know they will never measure up to the average woman. That’s why they spent their entire existence attempting to subjugate us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 17 | Do you EVER initiate conversations with someone you're dating? What are your rules?Don’t reach out. I’d see it as an orange flag that he hasn’t reached out in 4 days. You had a lot of communication to begin with, and it’s always good to consider if he was doing that to get on your good side and lower your guard just so he can start breadcrumbing you and leave you in a tail spin wondering about him and what you did. Classic male move and a pickmeisha will feel as if she’s done something and will begin grasping for him trying to get his attention and approval. Is his mask finall… | /r/askFDS | 25/11/20 09:43 PM |
| 49 | Just the proof that TwoXChromosomes is a pickme place. The woman makes the moves and does the whole service for an older man, and people think it's wholesome.Omg I saw that post earlier today and I basically had a hernia reading it. Why why WHY? So many red flags ✅ creeping on a client ✅ “slipping” a man your number. ✅ does all the heavy lifting and this male can’t even build the courage to ask this woman on a date ✅ gets drunk on first date with unknown man ✅ kisses HIM ✅ takes him back to HER house and safe space ✅ probes about his sex life Why the hell is she infatalizing this guy? “He’s the sweetest man I’ve ever met” Jesus Christ you’ve known hi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:54 AM |
| 22 | Sister is divorcing her husband of 22 years early next month. She is tired of his lies. He's already moved on and has a girlfriend.She’s brave and we are rooting for her! She is taking the first step into her true self. xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 01:44 AM |
| 10 | Annoyingly relatableYep! “You think you know everything!” line will be used when you disagree | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:01 PM |
| 91 | Dirty Nails 😡Dirty Hands are genuinely on my list of dealbreakers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:44 PM |
| 94 | period.I was 20 years old dating a 29 year old man when he said “maybe you were put here to teach me how to communicate” ......I’m......wow. Thank god ive been delivered from dusty men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 06:26 PM |
| 2 | sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT career-woman pick-meIt’s my pleasure xx Happy watching | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:10 PM |
| 2 | sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT career-woman pick-meIn due time. God speed❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT career-woman pick-meWhat’s your biggest fear in taking the step? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 39 | Hell Nah to the First RoundYuck. Imagine your standard of sex means a guaranteed male orgasm and a maybe a crumb of pleasure for yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:55 PM |
| 12 | sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT career-woman pick-meMy favourite youtubers: - Chrissie: discusses dating strategy (FDS oriented), how to live in your femininity, practicing hypergamy (dating up, above your class etc.), how to be high value, watching out for low value men etc, general hot topics in the media, tips for black women for dating - ThePinkPill: femininity classes/discussions, how to be a HVW, how to attract HVM, hypergamy, interracial dating as a black woman, marriage, how to attract your dream life, how to navigate the world as a femin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 11:09 PM |
| 3 | sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT career-woman pick-meI’m really sorry... have you considered therapy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨link now works :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:43 PM |
| 1 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Link now works | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Link was fixed :D click to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:41 PM |
| 2 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Here!! was approved :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:40 PM |
| 23 | sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT career-woman pick-meYep, there’s a difference between a strong independent woman, and a sTRonG & iNdEPeNdenT pick-me. Glad you found your balance❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:38 PM |
| 91 | Men demonizing women when we stick up for ourselves?“Whenever I point things out like this IRL, people act like they just discovered some ancient, hidden knowledge” Welcome to womanhood — where your experiences are non-existent and concerns are gaslighted. Most of this stuff isn’t taken seriously until it is co-signed by some male. Womens issues coming coming out of the mouth of a woman is as good as dog shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:56 AM |
| 103 | How do you get over the shame of having fallen for a LVM?We’ve all experienced that shame and embarrassment. However, there’s really nothing to be shameful for. You have to realize what your up against as a woman in the dating scene. No matter how many safeguards you have, the larger part of society is always working against you. Despite how much vigilance you may have, sometimes the worst happens to the best of us. Sometimes you can wear your seatbelt, check your mirrors, shoulder check, and look both ways, and some asshole can still wipe you out whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:49 AM |
| 12 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨This is all fine and great! Just don’t do it in front of a love interest (i.e, fixing stuff at home etc). The travelling alone is not really the same as the rest. This is actually a HVW trait as it shows you’re more cultured since you’ve (presumably) been out of the country — thus raising your social capital. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 8 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Weird! Auto-mod keeps removing it saying something about abuse kink?? Im like huh? I just messaged the mods to get it sorted out cause in no way does my post mention anything to do with sex let alone abuse kinks lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:04 AM |
| 19 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Theres not a problem with being independent, its just a matter of being private about your "independency" when it comes to men. Don't flaunt your money, don't buy him gifts (don't spend on him period actually), dont plan dates, don't fix things in his house etc, dont let him use your things (car etc). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 4 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Not able to see the click through link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:31 AM |
| 12 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨Done. Whipped something up for my ladies here! Click to read more about the sTrOnG inDEPeNDenT pick-me and why she never wins. Edit: link is broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 01:14 AM |
| 21 | Just started NC and stopped being a pickmeThe most important thing is focusing on self. All the energy you spent wondering if a guys gonna text you back, scrolling on the gram comparing yourself to other women, planning dates for NVM, and basically all things that allude to living your life for other people --- needs to now be invested in yourself. What are your hobbies? What types of thing make you feel pretty? Aside from this, its important to ask yourself more difficult questions as well: - Why did I allow myself to be a doormat? - W… | /r/askFDS | 19/11/20 01:11 AM |
| 84 | Is it a red flag to not wish me a happy birthday?Nope nope nope. Blocked immediately. Yuck! You deserve better. He knew, he just didn’t care. | /r/askFDS | 19/11/20 01:02 AM |
| 64 | All fax 📠 no printer 🖨One key rule of femininity is to ALWAYS make a man believe you're a princess. If you act is if you are a sTrOnG inDEPeNDenT woman then you'll attract leeches and mommy type men that are looking to be taken care of. Of course you can be these things, just don't let him feel this. I love to play into my femininity and behave as if I'm a princess that needs most of everything taken care of for me lol it repels the dusty's and attracts men that have a provider mentality who want to take care of his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 11:44 PM |
| 2 | Hi I just wanted to thank FDS for helping me with 5 years of on and off tinder addictionOops. I must’ve misread! I thought you meant you’ve just turned 18 and have stopped using Tinder. My apologies but I’ll leave my original comment up as it may still apply for another woman. I’m so happy to hear you’re in therapy! It sounds like you’ve made incredible strides in recognizing your trauma. It’s a lifelong process and we are all in this together. Keep well❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:14 PM |
| 71 | "Do you have any ideas?" Yes: LEAVE HIM!The lack of respect for self is really really disheartening as well. These women will literally cut a hole in their abdomen to allow their depraved husbands to fuck it while their vagina heals post-pregnancy. And these males will happily do it. 🤮 ugh I hated that I typed that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:11 PM |
| 2 | Hi I just wanted to thank FDS for helping me with 5 years of on and off tinder addictionTinder addict for 5 years at 18.... I’m sorry for all the pervs you had to have met over the years. You were just a child. Another thing to consider is therapy to understand what drove you to this at such a young age, and to work out the anxiety you experience. These things will be road blocks to levelling up. Yeah, you got rid of the man. But true healing starts once you look inwards to the root of why you allowed such treatment. Being on tinder at 12/13 years old is alarming and perhaps there’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:03 PM |
| 202 | "Do you have any ideas?" Yes: LEAVE HIM!This gave me a headache. These men are so depraved it genuinely makes my head hurt Can you imagine having such little respect for your wife that your willing to subject her to pain and suffering for your meaningless orgasm? I’m sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 12:41 PM |
| 8 | The bar is in hell...still.Wow this is triggering LMFAO nam flashbacks but instead is me in my pick-me days dealing with cornballs like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 04:43 PM |
| 9 | Men KNOW they aren’t treating you well and are bottom of the barrel LV but will PRAISE you for sticking with them through their BS — a LVM will calculate your worth over how much shit he can put you through and still have you stick by him 🤮This anecdote is quite literally nightmare fuel. Thank GOD you got out! I rebuke that dusty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:04 PM |
| 202 | Men KNOW they aren’t treating you well and are bottom of the barrel LV but will PRAISE you for sticking with them through their BS — a LVM will calculate your worth over how much shit he can put you through and still have you stick by him 🤮Context: this dude has cheated on her and dragged this poor woman through the mud on COUNTLESS occasions. Publicly at that. People will still idolize their relationship because she’s a rIdE oR DiE🤡. Let her do even a THIRD of the shit he has and he would’ve been left her and the whole world would’ve shunned her to oblivion. I hate it here 🥴 Ladies, especially my black women, say no to struggle love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:34 AM |
| 28 | Honestly, this wakeup call really is what I needed to turn me off the idea of spontaneous blowjobs for goodIt’s almost as if women don’t???¿ need to pick up for where man lack ? and if men literally just...tried??? To be decent humans most would be happier | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 07:35 PM |
| 140 | Honestly, this wakeup call really is what I needed to turn me off the idea of spontaneous blowjobs for good“I hate women but would it be so fucking hard for them to cater to my pride and ego????” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:28 PM |
| 65 | “Don’t do things for me” - from the horse’s mouthYep. I don’t do a got damn thing for these males unless he’s proven to be invested in me long term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 05:15 PM |
| 10 | Does anyone else feel left behind in life? I’m 27female and panic over my entire life. I feel like a massive failure and watching people get things I would love is damaging my mental health“I’m extremely confused and torn because I have feelings for him, but I also have major doubts” — said every woman that stayed for another 10 years in a place she was unwanted. This type of behaviour is not normal. Men that love you properly do not banish you from their homes in a fit of rage, nor do they verbally abuse you when they are angry. Men that love are kind, empathetic and make you feel secure. 28 is NOT too late. My goodness. Please do not play into the sunken cost fallacy. You have y… | /r/askFDS | 16/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 2 | Feeling guilty for leaving emotionally abusive relationshipYou need to focus your energy on yourself. Your still pouring so much emotional labor and allowing him to live rent free in your head. This guy is negative value yet YOU feel like you lost something? This is indicative of low self esteem, lack of self love and desperation. These energies attract more males such as the once you’ve dated. This type of outlook on yourself will lead you into more abusive and toxic relationships if you don’t get to the root of why you feel so inadequate that you feel… | /r/askFDS | 16/11/20 03:57 PM |
| 11 | This is how a narc ex will email you after you block them, and try to pull you back in. Obviously I’m not going to reply. In the past I would have. Thanks to fds it’s getting deleted and I’ll finish nuking this email. Notice the “poor me, woe is me” 🤮That was honestly my favourite part lmfao these guys have no shame | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:54 PM |
| 4 | His first message was his Snapchat “contact card”. I didn’t respond and just unmatched. I’m not gonna be one of your “numbers” lolyuck 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/20 03:08 PM |
| 9 | Pedophile incel mansplains pedophilia in my DMs after my last post.and I oop😗 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 11:21 PM |
| 424 | Why can’t men get this through their brains?more so “women refuse to have sex with me and so all of them are whores and I hate them” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:37 PM |
| 28 | they’re telling on themselves againGreat anecdote! So many good points made. I’m relatively young, early twenties & finishing off school and growing up I’ve had this attitude of strictly dating black guys. I had the bLaCk lOve oNLy mentality. But I ended up with duds. Even though I’m conventionally attractive, well educated and successful with regard to everything a young adult should be doing — I was stuck in an emotionally abusive relationship with a guy for 3 years and finally broke free early last year. He was NOT my equal in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:20 PM |
| 102 | they’re telling on themselves againI’m gonna say it..black men are EXTREMELY cheap. Like, grossly cheap. In the black community a lot of the time fathers are absent and women take on the role of being providers so much so that when these boys grow up, they don’t even see their women as something of VALUE to invest in, let alone protecting us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:04 AM |
| 707 | 'CoMpRoMiSe!!'Yeah. You are. Honestly with what I’m reading here it seems like you just need to sit down and talk with him...a lot of the time men simply can’t comprehend that a woman doesn’t like literal human shit on her carpet.. Also, why can’t you just accept Mr.Hoskins? It seems pretty innocent imo....relationships are about compromise but communicating to him that you don’t like shart on your carpet may be a good place to start | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 23 | I just-To be fair most ovens don’t get gross unless you have juices dripping out of the pan/foil your cooking food in. Mine stays clean as a whistle and I only use the self-cleaner on it once a month just for general up keep but I can definitely go longer if I wanted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 12:46 PM |
| 8 | Always give yourself the biggest pork chop,...always be as selfish as man!<3 thanks. You don’t have to do that, but that’s really sweet and thoughtful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:02 AM |
| 28 | Explaining your standards to men?You’re not shallow for having a preference. Tall men exist and that is exactly what you should have for yourself if that’s what you want. You never have to settle. Once you understand that, and I mean TRULY accept it as law, you will never find yourself feeling “shallow” or any other negative feeling about honouring your standards. And lastly, never EVER explain ANYTHING to males. Nothing. It’s not worth it because most don’t care anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 12:57 AM |
| 5 | This made me cringe SO hard🤮men would have their asses physically wiped for life if they had the option to NEVER provide for a man and dear god, if you fail the first step just please DONT provide for his friends | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Just saying 👏🏼NVM meek mill and HVW Milano | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 02:26 AM |
| 172 | I've never been so mad at a facebook postI’m sorry but in the black community, the level of LVMs is astonishing. Women are taught “sUpPOrt yOuR kaNg!!!!!” While he does nothing but drain us financially, emotionally, and physically. Fuck these males | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:31 AM |
| 9 | Another conundrum of men hardly ever being developed enough to be interesting AND of good character.Don’t feel shame. You’re already miles ahead of most people for even understanding some of your shortfalls and actively working towards getting better. That’s the difference between us and males. Most are quite content in their shitty behaviour. edit: words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 84 | I accidentally deleted the rest of it when I was moving it around, but I saw this and it was aimed directly at women. I wanted to comment "title should just say people instead of women", for obvious reasons, but I know it's not worth it. What a loser.Oh, you didn’t hear? Peak womanhood is being lambasted and blamed for being the parent that stayed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:04 PM |
| 16 | Sex before marriageI’m abstinent atm, but will most likely have sex before marriage. I love and enjoy sex, but sex with just ANY man makes my insides coil. Serious vetting and at least 3-4 months of no sex after meeting a guy initially. Condoms every-time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:02 PM |
| 33 | Anyone see the post of the girl that got jaw surgery one r/damnthatsinteresting?Depraved swamp donkeys. The whole lot of them. Throw them to Poseidon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:54 PM |
| 72 | Another conundrum of men hardly ever being developed enough to be interesting AND of good character.Yep. Most males have maybe 2-3 redeemable traits, which are quickly negated with 5-7 unredeemable ones but are still able to skate on by. Whereas many women have more than 7 redeemable traits, yet their 2-3 negative traits are focused on and seen as their inherent character. I’ll say it once and I’ll say it again: the average woman is more rounded and socialized than the average male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 12 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOWow. I’m so sorry this applies to you. Would you be able to recall some LVM red flags that you experienced before/during the pregnancy that would have shown you how he would behave as a father? You and your baby will be alright. Keep your head up my dear. Vent here if you need to 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:47 PM |
| 2 | PROTECT YOUR WOMB LIKE ITS THE LAST THING YOU DOCan mods tag her as an at-risk-pick-me-youth accordingly? I had an aneurysm even attempting to understand her backwards points. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:29 PM |
| 22 | This is so depressinghis bed is a yoga mat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 117 | Something doesn’t add upIt’s so sad that almost every single woman has dated a man with this exact pair of underpants..... and we cried about them too🤢🤮can you imagine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:48 AM |
| 34 | The Attractiveness Gap (Humor)Reminds me of this meme— males: can you pls date us Women: ok, just like shower everyday and like, don’t sleep with other girls males: wow ok long list | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:43 AM |
| 125 | To my Black FDS women, we really need to start watching after ourselves because it’s clear that our communities don’t care for us. To non-FDS women, please be there to support and believe us when no one else will. We really need to have each other’s back in the men-centered world.What is even more sickening to me is to see other fellow black women defending this swamp donkey. In the black community, pick-me mantra is so deeply imbedded within the minds of black women, that they will quite literally throw their own under the bus if it means that some random black male out there will see/hear them. If Megan shot troy, do you think a single black male would be defending her? I am just so sick at the state of the union. Please black women, leave these males to rot -- you won… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 07:53 PM |
| 12 | Then they insist you at least pay the tip...yuck! I rebuke him. Thank god you got away 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:49 AM |
| 23 | Then they insist you at least pay the tip...I’m——wow. 😐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 376 | I laughed so hard too good not to share with you ladies 🤣💯👏Men love to say that before sexually harassing you. they think since they warned you about their incoming abuse, suddenly it’s no longer abuse and a cOmPlimenT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 21 | Do my eyes deceive me? Is this even something worth entertaining???this specific species in the greater pick-me genus has, dare I say it, never been seen before.... wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:23 AM |
| 18 | What do you ladies think about redpill men?Red pill are cancer and it’s best to stay away from any man that subscribes to their ideology. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:20 AM |
| 161 | Have your boyfriends been “straight”? Depends on your definition...A lot of these men are closeted gays and they terrorize women and act out against them due to their own self hate. It also appears in more nuanced ways..Consider disgraced politician Andrew gillum. Found passed out in a hotel room with male prostitutes when he has a wife and young children at home. He basically used his wife as a beard and humiliated her — but alas, she’s staying with him..even did a Clinton/lewinsky scandal type sit down interview in a “united front” in true pick me fashion 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 06:14 AM |
| 3 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜Haha no worries! Looks great :) enjoy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Congratulations!!! Made the turtle brownies I mentioned. 💜Omg?! Recipe? Amazing work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:50 PM |
| 47 | Is he HV? Always pays on dates, doesn’t push for sex, is intelligent & excites me, but recently moved to a different city, so it would be long distance.Please don’t travel to meet a man. He should always come to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 11:28 PM |
| 9 | No. Just no.A pickmeisha in the thread said she bought her own wedding ring from Macy’s or something along those lines.... i’m....gagging | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:50 AM |
| 2 | FDS success for black womenThanks so much my dear. I’m a work in progress always, but I’m so proud of how far I have come. Much love to you on your journey 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 19 | FDS success for black womenAn "FDS Success" is not a particular instance, rather an on-going project as you continue to level up your life in various ways. There is a huge emphasis on "self" and levelling up your own life before you find a man to accessorize your already standing successes. My FDS on-going success is I dumped my emotionally abusive boyfriend on my birthday early last year after he refused to do anything to make me feel special (3 year relationship) among a long line of other horrible things. I was lost, a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 4 | I used to lurk here a lot when I was trying to date, and now I have a high value man which I thought I'd never find and there's so much stuff that I've never seen before because I've only seen low value men in relationships. Here are some things you see in high value relationships!Congratulations! Ladies, you really DON'T have to kiss frogs to get a prince. In other words, you don't have to suffer first in order to get love. The right man will be RIGHT from the jump. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:46 PM |
| 48 | One of the creepy messages I got on my old account. Reading this shocked me since I never heard any man say such weird and disgusting things to me.Why do some men seem so hell bent on having sex with their children? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:48 PM |
| 182 | Excuse me WHAT?!! The way being a “ride or die” is drilled into our heads is scary!!In the black community, women are taught that they are undeserving of love they did not struggle for. Consider Gucci mane and keshia kaior or however you spell it. Women are taught that they will be “rewarded” with love only after they’ve suffered and have been spiritually broken. And even then, they rarely are seen as a deserving recipient, often times they are left for other women that won’t subject themselves to that behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:11 PM |
| 25 | It’s always the best ones, isn’t it? 🤣🤣🤣look at the carpet on your chest, guy....I can’t even take you seriously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 12:04 PM |
| 13 | How to be more confident in myself when my fiance says what's his is mine?Are you fulfilled in other areas of your life? Sometimes our insecurities may stem from feeling as if even though we are being taken care of, we still long for something to call “our own” It’s good to have things you have built for yourself, and FDS always encourage women to have their own bank accounts where we store our money in the case that shit hits the fan. You need to be able to know you’ll “have” yourself in that case. Never give a man full financial control over you and your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:25 AM |
| 74 | Men responding to rejection with aggression/insultsThe most dangerous time for the average woman in our society is after she rejects a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:02 AM |
| 7 | Who would've thought... 🙃Well said and valid point! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 42 | Le PoWeR woRDs...😂Ladies, take not at how well these men know themselves. They know they aren’t shit 9/10 times, and seek women whom are objectively better than they are only to boost their own ego. They will provide absolutely nothing in return for your emotional labor and will take all the goodness you have to offer them while shitting on your chest as a thank-you. He doesn’t see her as a human that is capable of having other relationships aside from being his personal cheerleader. Fuck this guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:35 PM |
| 145 | Reddit males proving why young girls need FDS. A 16 year old virgin needs to be punished for grown adult men preying on her and "just needs to have sex already" because "it's not a big deal".Lmao these commenters were SEEEEETHING at the thought of a 16 year old girl choosing to not have sex with boys. Look at the anger in the first comment calling her a “horrible person” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 17 | My ex sent me this tonight“Couldn’t help to not say that” Yet you sat there, used your opposable grubby thumbs to type this message, viewed it upon completion and still decided to click send. Fuck off, dick fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 33 | How do I control emotions of jealousy? I hooked up with a year long neighbor crush who I later found out was on two dates this weekend. If it wasn’t for all of the bedroom talk and promises of the future I wouldn’t have responded so viscerally.That’s definitely a good observation. A lot of men lack real courage and would rather destroy a woman’s spirit so SHE leaves so that he doesn’t have to go through the emotional trouble of expressing that he is no longer interested. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:49 AM |
| 75 | How do I control emotions of jealousy? I hooked up with a year long neighbor crush who I later found out was on two dates this weekend. If it wasn’t for all of the bedroom talk and promises of the future I wouldn’t have responded so viscerally.Never ever tell a man that he has hurt you. Unlike women who hear this type of revelation and feel guilt, men often don’t and in fact feel a sense of “conquer” or satisfaction to know you cared that much and he (regardless of how negative or positive the means was) was able to take you there. Block and delete ALWAYS. Please read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 03:47 AM |
| 85 | Who would've thought... 🙃Omg is it just me but when I’m out alone in public and I see a man, I look to see if he’s walking with a woman. and if he is, I’m instantly more relaxed because I know the chances of him harassing me if he’s with a woman is like 0%. When they are alone or in packs of themselves they are rabid. A woman’s presence is enough to keep their depravity in check enough for me to quickly pass without fear of harassment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 21 | No words.this post is what my sleep paralysis demon looks like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:13 AM |
| 14 | I have A HVM boyfriend but I'm young and feel like I should be singleSo what’s the resolve? Stay and be miserable? Leave — the older, successful you will thank you for putting your dreams first ahead of a mans fleeting feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 252 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄Just even look at him. 🤢 Child bearing hips head ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 77 | Guy harasses, makes false accusation, shows threatening behaviour and then still expects me to be interested?Stop replying to him. You’re giving him attention, and even worse, hope. He’s an unhinged creep — look at the 4 stages of freak he exhibited in one interaction: 1. rage and threats 2. Accusations 3. Guilt tripping 4. Promise of “Change” (I.e, “no more drama haha” means ‘I plan on being the most unhinged piece of shit at any given moment when I feel wronged’) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:17 PM |
| 29 | The story and my reply... Why are people so oblivious. A man having a middle life crisis is ready to abondon everything and let his gf do everything and people don't see this as an issue?I will never have a child with a man over 40 lol. Their sperm has aged, and the likelihood of having a child with disabilities is way higher. These grandpas really think they are 19 for life. Gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:12 PM |
| 63 | Don’t wash a mans shoes on the first date. Why would he wear those? Her page is about cleaning which would make her a target for men who want to use herIf a man ever wore these shoes to meet me, I can assure you he is a broke dusty that has zero respect lmao. Imagine slaving for a man you don’t even know. Good god, woman. Wake up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 06:04 PM |
| 12 | Why is society so obsessed with sex? It dawned on me that despite it being glorified as “healthy”, the only reason modern humans can have an excessive and unnatural amount of sex is because of birth control—which usually has a shitload of unhealthy side effects.Based. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:56 AM |
| 96 | A LVM trying to convince me why our third date should be Netflix and chill. I told him it’s not going to work out and I hope he finds the woman for him.He told on himself immediately when he said that these men have brains the size of my clit. the devil is rarely in the details with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:54 AM |
| 89 | Is is just me or have all of you been noticing more online radicalization of men?men hating women has never been new. It’s just more documented now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:52 AM |
| 33 | What will it be, ladies? Equality or oppression?My dues were paid diligently and I will never return lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 42 | Please do not ask out men. EverI will never, EVER in my life approach a man. There’s absolutely zero benefits. He can be the most attractive person I’ve ever seen and I still won’t even do him the honour of even breathing in his direction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 34 | If you can’t afford a ring, please say so and MOVE ON 👏🏽like not to be dramatic, but I’d literally rather never talk to a single man again than be with one that thinks I would accept such nonsense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:13 PM |
| 13 | ...Boy, bye!Lmao nothing gets a man more pressed than a woman that knows her worth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:07 PM |
| 110 | If you can’t afford a ring, please say so and MOVE ON 👏🏽The bar is literally at the molten, centre core of the earth. It has descended into uncanny depths. I am floored. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 17 | Guy forgot he hadn’t txt me backDon’t do coffee dates, don’t do last minute dates and NEVER initiate contact with a man about a date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:19 PM |
| 16 | Found on instagram. He is looking for a mommy🤣Lol a boss, yes. A potential partner? No. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Wow so coolthis was the exact interaction I had with a homeless man: Me: walking homeless swamp donkey (HSD): hey there Me: continues walking, ignoring HSD: didn’t you hear me nigger? I say hey there. Fucking nigger Lmao fucking deranged | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:59 PM |
| 83 | NEVER feel bad for having high standards ladies especially when it can ruin your lifeSome men intentionally get Women pregnant (even if they themselves don’t want a child) to keep her shackled to them. They know they won’t bare any responsibilities in terms of the physical and emotional burden that comes with being pregnant, but the mother does. Becoming pregnant and a mother almost always alters a woman’s life wherein her purpose becomes providing for that child (in a perfect world, it is also a mans, but we know the reality of this) They know the woman will be “subdued” by the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:03 PM |
| 18 | Is this a long term relationship with a love bomber?Lmao classic insecure narcissist that will neg you into oblivion to compensate for his insecurities. Because he knows you are both objectively and subjectively better than him, your entire relationship will be built off you pacifying him and making him feel “good” all while he does nothing to invest in your emotional and physical advancement. Just hearing that his whole body becomes triggered when something isn’t right and runs to his mommy (as opposed to working it out with you) shows his menta… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 06:06 PM |
| 154 | big SIGH.. i swear they’re madly flipping through the thesaurus when they get triggeredIt’s a tactic used to inflate their importance by using exceedingly verbose ways to say very simple things. It’s meant to confuse their “opponent” and wear them down or intimidate them into not replying anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:58 PM |
| 2 | Women at all ages fully understand and are aware of male depravity. In all circumstances.🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 7 | Summer Walker shames Future’s baby mama for wanting $53k a month in child supportGod, you couldn’t have said it better. The guy is legit a cancer form himself. Infecting the brains of young boys and ruining the lives of women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 13 | It's nothing crazy, but I've never been treated like this until I found FDS and ditched the LVM/NVM I had been dating.Awe cute!! I have that same ring <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 3 | This how we move from now on“Realized that there’s nothing I can do” Yet here you are trying to manipulate me lmfao fuck off guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:28 AM |
| 15 | I feel so sorry for this woman. An insecure LVM strikes again.It’s mostly based off power. Men love seeing women in disgusting, submissive positions in which they would never even think to let themselves be in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:12 AM |
| 5 | Prince Charmin Has A Foot Fetish — Who Would Have Thunk ItI’m not understanding the flair on this post and how it relates | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 08:03 AM |
| 26 | LMAO Man wanted to incorporate porn into his relationship, but fiancee exclusively likes Interracial Porn featuring black men with huge penises and now his fee fees are hurt. Reminder that men are full of shit and hypocritical about porn use in a relationship.Based | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:54 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020❤️sending you love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 05:59 AM |
| 22 | Would you give an unattractive guy a chance?Sorry but I’m not going to be with a man I’m not sexually attracted to. Edit: actually not sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 05:18 AM |
| 55 | Stop praising decent human behavior as “HVM.” Seriously.Right? Men who have not slept with a woman will literally say and do anything to make it seem as if he’s worth it. shudders | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 05:16 AM |
| 18 | New Red Flag Vocabulary Word: SimpNotice how on the urban dictionary definition, they consistently refer to the man as a “man” while any reference to women is automatically “female” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 04:00 AM |
| 27 | This hit hardThat’s the thing. Most men do know how to love. However, they would just much rather put in the most minimal amount of effort required and to get their dicks wet while breadcrumbing you along | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 03:58 AM |
| 4 | Found on my Facebook and there's a huge discussion on it 😕It’s interesting how the male is not really at fault, as his fault is defaulted to natural causes such as “horniness” whereas the woman is inherently lacking something and needs to “step up” to compensate for this lacking in order to put things back in “equilibrium” (I.e letting him fuck u when he wants) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 03:13 AM |
| 111 | Perfect example of a “50/50” relationshiphim after eating and sex: Oh, you want me to put our laundry away? Go fuck yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 02:59 AM |
| 20 | Ohio plastic surgeon accused of drugging, raping, filming women for years (Trigger warning)Male depravity. Sickened | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 04:39 AM |
| 24 | Dating over thirty sub: women should do all the work because mEN DONT kN0w wHaT thEY R d0ingOh, the horror! What will you ever do without them! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/20 11:04 PM |
| 4 | DO NOT GIVE SECOND CHANCESFirst of all, I am SO sorry you are going through this. This is clear abuse and he is emotionally manipulating you. Please do not give in. Are you somewhere safe? Like a friends house? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 05:08 PM |
| 14 | DO NOT GIVE SECOND CHANCESIt’s a wasted emotion when it’s towards low value men. Just dump them and save your good emotions and energy for someone that deserves it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 01:23 AM |
| 39 | And here we have another pickmeisha in the wildI find it so sad how she’s willing to put herself in harms way of STDs all so some cretin would give her a morsel of attention that doesn’t involve his dick... Sweet Jesus | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 12:18 PM |
| 113 | One down; millions to goBye Rapist! Rot in hell! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 04:28 AM |
| 37 | Dress Code for a HVW?Men hate to see a woman have nice things especially when he knows she can afford it herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 04:43 AM |
| 38 | This is a one way ticket to being a forever girlfriend! No ring, no investment. Even then, investing in yourself is top priority.“Sorry, that honestly doesn’t sound very appealing at all. Appreciate the offer though” This will make them scramble | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:46 AM |
| 10 | Don't reveal your hand to men, until you have THOROUGHLY vetted them.Have you considered a therapist? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:21 PM |
| 86 | This is a one way ticket to being a forever girlfriend! No ring, no investment. Even then, investing in yourself is top priority.I literally could not be assed to pay for my own Uber to go see a man and people really out here creating whole bank accounts to save...for a whole grown man... Jesus take the wheel | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 11:16 PM |
| 231 | Lmao, I’m 19.“Besides there are things I know that guys your age dont” Aka, “I have more knowledge than you on life in general which I will use to my every advantage to manipulate you out of your boundaries and push you to do things you’re not comfortable with under the guise of ‘new experiences’ and ‘trying new things’ “ Get fucked pervert. Please block and delete him sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 09:44 PM |
| 183 | Lmao, I’m 19.“Most women I’ve known acknowledge that guys get better looking as they age” Uhm, no. Your hairlines recede, skinny-fat takes full effect, limp-dick syndrome smacks them past 35 which means more time spent on pleasuring him to get it up, and less stamina among many other unpleasantries. Not to mention this guy is a fucking creep trying to mess with someone half his age. Definitely would date younger if he could. “A young 40” ...if you don’t shut the fuck? Next | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 09:39 PM |
| 5 | How to meet guys aside from OLD?Or... you can ask the question the way you did here. There’s nothing wrong with that. If she’s so tired of the posts why comment on this one? For someone so over it, seems a lot of effort to just type that comment for someone that’s tired. This is what the sub is for, asking advice and learning from other women. Each post is different and has different context regardless if the topic is similar to another already posted. Just keep scrolling if you can’t be of help. But anyways, Hobbies, meetup.c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 07:11 PM |
| 11 | They get interested in you when you lose interestIt’s because they can’t fathom someone not being interested in them, so they push further to alleviate any anxieties that perhaps they arent as amazing as they think (and this is alleviated when you reply back to their double desperate text after you ignore their first) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:18 AM |
| 143 | Reminder to practice internet safety!Scrotes are pretending to be women in order to lure FDS Members out into public. Sad, but predictable male reaction to being called on their crap.Men truly are obsessed with women. Like their depravity literally knows no limit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 12:14 AM |
| 22 | My stepdad is truly thoughtful,I love that my mom married him. I had a small cosmetic surgery today,to prevent disfiguration. My stepdad is out of town for business,he called up his admin to have her go buy me my “creature comforts” to drop them off at the hospital.Uh, how else was she suppose to take the image? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 11:10 PM |
| 3 | My stepdad is truly thoughtful,I love that my mom married him. I had a small cosmetic surgery today,to prevent disfiguration. My stepdad is out of town for business,he called up his admin to have her go buy me my “creature comforts” to drop them off at the hospital.Amazing❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 11:09 PM |
| 8 | A guy invited me to go to a local restaurant that’s similar to Panera bread. Is that too casual?fuck no. Never ever compromise your needs or wants. They are important always and you aren’t weird or abnormal. You have high standards for yourself which is what more women should (and are) adopting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 10:43 PM |
| 34 | A guy invited me to go to a local restaurant that’s similar to Panera bread. Is that too casual?Uhm, yes. Also PLEASE don't ever think you're spoiled or "used to the wrong men" because you like nice things and have standards beyond a McDouble and fries. You are deserving of nice things and will be given nice things so long as you demand that for yourself. Anyone that is not able to give it to you can kick rocks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 09:57 PM |
| 7 | Apparently it is perfectly plausible to men to be so black out drunk that the entire memory of their girlfriend is wiped which prompts them to cheat (but constantly deny women’s stories of rape because she doesn’t remember one specific detail due to be intoxicated while raped)You don’t negotiate with it. But you also don’t blame her for his actions. You tell her to walk away and that’s that. Why go further to say she is responsible for what he does, removing culpability from his very real actions, and placing them on her as if she deserves it for simply being with him. Like women are suppose to be some type of mind reader to know everything about a man inside out, even foreseeing his abuse. They are cunning and manipulative. Man do stupid, woman wrong. Is that not th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 08:03 PM |
| 12 | Apparently it is perfectly plausible to men to be so black out drunk that the entire memory of their girlfriend is wiped which prompts them to cheat (but constantly deny women’s stories of rape because she doesn’t remember one specific detail due to be intoxicated while raped)We aren’t contending that. We are criticizing the fact that men are able to give the benefit of the doubt to other men that use drinking as an excuse to cheat on their girlfriends while claiming amnesia. I’ve gotten black out drunk before as well, but never in my whole 3 year relationship did I cheat on my (now ex) boyfriend at the time. Drinking is not an excuse to cheat. If you have enough sense to remove your own pants and lay inside another persons body, you have enough sense to remember you… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 52 | Apparently it is perfectly plausible to men to be so black out drunk that the entire memory of their girlfriend is wiped which prompts them to cheat (but constantly deny women’s stories of rape because she doesn’t remember one specific detail due to be intoxicated while raped)Right. It’s like suddenly after the juice had left his system he instantly remembered he had a girlfriend and came running to her with guilt (naturally, but only after he slid his dick into another woman’s vagina, of course) No, asshole. You knew it was wrong the entire time. Your memory was clear and well of her existence the ENTIRE time. You just didn’t give a fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:00 PM |
| 15 | Apparently it is perfectly plausible to men to be so black out drunk that the entire memory of their girlfriend is wiped which prompts them to cheat (but constantly deny women’s stories of rape because she doesn’t remember one specific detail due to be intoxicated while raped)Alas, I was wondering when the at risk pick me youth will appear. Let’s discourage the blaming of the woman. How is she any reason at fault here? For simply loving and giving some piece of shit dude a chance? A uni night out is normal. He’s the one that chose to drink and cheat on his girlfriend. She’s not to blame for his disgusting actions. Edit: “How can women possibly be involved in a social circle where fun and mingling is involved?!?! Don’t they know to stay inside and literally not do any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:56 PM |
| 37 | Apparently it is perfectly plausible to men to be so black out drunk that the entire memory of their girlfriend is wiped which prompts them to cheat (but constantly deny women’s stories of rape because she doesn’t remember one specific detail due to be intoxicated while raped)She’s really asking if it’s plausible that her boyfriend forgot of her existence due to being drunk. Like literally his entire memory of her, gone. So he can cheat. And the males in the comment agreeing that it is. sickening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:46 PM |
| 107 | Tonight a female friends, who was going to have sex with a random guy off of Tinder, mutual male friend called me a judgmental weirdo for advising her against itThis may be controversial (probably not), but gay males are not immune to classic male behaviour. They are all inherently wired the same and think that sex is fundamentally the answer to all problems or situations. Your gay friend has also be infected by the patriarchy (by being male) and it is innate to him for women to be subservient to men and will therefore encourage this behaviour Not only does he worship his own dick, he will further encourage the worshiping of other males’ dicks, more so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 07:23 AM |
| 23 | He probably meant to say "you shall receive a mediocre male who is asking for a woman way out of his league"A 10/10 beauty for a man that’s probably barely a 4. Any man that lists his criteria for what he wants like a recipe is low value and probably doesn’t bring half of what they are looking for to the table. Next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 05:41 AM |
| 48 | Rolanda Hollis proposes bill requiring men have vasectomies at age 50. “Year after year the majority party continues to introduce new legislation that tries to dictate a woman's body and her reproductive rights. We should view this as the same outrageous overstep in authority," she said.Doing the damn thing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 05:32 AM |
| 252 | Thank god I found this sub. No more of this.So, let me get this straight. We are not entitled to a guys, time, entertainment or money but they are entitled to sleeping with us first to determine if we are worthy of all this? What the fuck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 4 | Dating apps suck, but atleast I amuse myself?Like I envision 6 measly little brain cells (2 of which are quickly mutating to become cancerous) duking it out in the head of the typical male | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 02:04 PM |
| 5 | What did this pick-me think she would accomplish?“Ladies, can we plEASE just let the MEN use us for good of tHE WORLD?!?” /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 01:47 PM |
| 3 | Why is it wrong to date older men?Oh my...how predatory. 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:03 PM |
| 39 | Why is it wrong to date older men?It’s the toxic power dynamics that large age gaps breed. They are very implicit and you may feel good with them at first but most men that only date young, precocious college students are only with them to gain leverage by exploiting their naivety Yeah, it’s nice to be taken out on a nice date, but also make sure they aren’t manipulating you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 68 | Can we stop this trend of telling women to put aside their feelings of mistreatment for a man that doesn’t know how to work through his emotions let alone conflict? (more in comments)(OP ON LEFT, PICKMEISHA-SUPREME ON RIGHT) Can we stop this trend of telling women to put aside their feelings of mistreatment for a man that doesn’t know how to work through his emotions let alone conflict? “He’s neglecting and denying me love for days on end for things I have no control over nor am I aware of.” “But have you considered totally disregarding how you feel and catering to his emotional abuse?” It’s exhausting. This man is 35 years old and doesn’t even have basic communication tools… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 06:46 AM |
| 4 | WHY YOU SHOULDN'T SEND THAT PARAGRAPH - Two things that aren't fundamental to men: critical reading and understandingMe too!! We are changing for the better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:22 PM |
| 8 | WHY YOU SHOULDN'T SEND THAT PARAGRAPH - Two things that aren't fundamental to men: critical reading and understandingNo. You’d rarely even get to the point of sending paragraphs to a HVM because other communication would’ve occurred between the two of you before it got to that point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 02:18 PM |
| 6 | WHY YOU SHOULDN'T SEND THAT PARAGRAPH - Two things that aren't fundamental to men: critical reading and understandingI so wanted to go on a deep analysis of how socialization has taught us as girls to do exactly what you mention in your comment. But, wanted to keep it adhering to its flair of quick tip! Agreed w/ all ^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:54 AM |
| 51 | WHY YOU SHOULDN'T SEND THAT PARAGRAPH - Two things that aren't fundamental to men: critical reading and understandingYes!!!!!! Never forget above all other things, if he does this, HE DOESNT CARE. first and foremost. Consider my rationale only second to this fact. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 04:19 AM |
| 101 | To men, even without sexual/romantic benefits, you are just accessory for their egoOh you forgot? Your existence is merely for a mans consumption /s. I deliberately don’t smile at men anymore for any reason unless I have a VALID honest reason to (no more fake smiling, fake laughs) Most they’ll get out of me is a quick acceleration in air dispersion from my nostrils even if their joke is funny | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:28 PM |
| 19 | YoU nEeD To CoMmUnIcAtE!!1!!Goodness! This is scripture. Never EVER explain shit to a man. I had a 29 year old man tell me the reason I was in his life was to teach him how to become a better communicator.............fuck off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 02:32 AM |
| 58 | The more and I more I adopt key FDS strategies the more I am able to see how the systemic acceptance of male depravity continues to permeate our relationships when we let them. Another one-sided AITA post for your viewing pleasureMy sister and I say it is quite literally the single most important decision you’ll ever make in your life. If you can’t imagine being proud of a son having every single one of his qualities one day, dump him. Your children are a mirror of you and your partner. (Again, only to those of us that have the choice) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 08:38 PM |
| 16 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.We are all grown, do what works best for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 12:16 AM |
| 56 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Excuse yourself to the ladies room or simply just say it’s not working and gather your items and leave. You don’t owe men your time or energy. Easier said than done but trust me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 10:26 PM |
| 13 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Blocked and deleted. He was typing as I did so he definitely saw it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:48 PM |
| 12 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Have you considered cutting a date short if it wasn’t up to par? Part of FDS is understanding that you don’t owe men your time at any point regardless of effort. You could walk out of a dinner date just as easily as coffee but I get your point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:07 PM |
| 15 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Why not just leave if you’re uncomfortable with a boring weird guy. It’s hard to build the courage, but when you do, you’ll weed them out faster | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:05 PM |
| 13 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Yes, typical FDS principle is to block and delete so as to not allow them ways to learn how to trick the next woman by pretending to be intuitive but I can’t help but drag. I’ll continue to do so as I fit bc men are rarely scolded by women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 09:04 PM |
| 20 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.With time queen! You will learn how to use your voice in situations like this. We are all learning. I would’ve never 2 years ago. Xx | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:21 PM |
| 30 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Wow! She did it everyone! She ended violence against women with this simple trick! Just say no to rape, ladies! You’ve heard it here first! Call the UN! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:07 PM |
| 52 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Rude to waitresses? That’s an automatic quick read at the table, followed by an exit by me left stage leaving him there with his dick in his hands and my portion of the bill. Any man that’s rude to service workers will devalue any work you do in the home and will see it as beneath him therefore never assisting and doing their share. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:51 PM |
| 37 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.The only person that used the word rape or non-consent is you. I’m here to protect women from predatory men and their tactics, and this is a tactic they use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:49 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on guys calling you pet names when they begin chats with you?Exactly! I only call non-exc-dudes pet names when I’m trying to son them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:20 PM |
| 12 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.No problem! Check out my previous comment on this post for other fun activities that don’t include drinks or even dinner. The main thing to look for is to ensure a man has put in effort into thinking of something original and fun for the both of you. Dinner is not original, but it lets him put his money where his mouth is and I usually rack up a pretty penny to test his generosity. Make your boundaries known early of what you expect for a first date, but don’t give them the blueprint on how to m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:14 PM |
| 5 | Thoughts on guys calling you pet names when they begin chats with you?HAHHA NOT CUTIE BALL SACK OR SMALLS 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:27 PM |
| 59 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Love the break down! What’s “spinning plates” mean? Thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:08 PM |
| 68 | Why Breadcrumbing is Pure EVILI’m so glad I’m learning this at 21! Men know exactly what they are doing when they do it. They’ve guised themselves in the cloak of ignorance (which is only a front) and with society’s coddling they have managed to pull of one of the greatest tricks which is making women feel as if we are the ones that must do the picking up of the pieces for them. Yuck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 9 | Yes Taylor, women love being called Stinker. Please take me, oh baby, oh baby/S.“That’s no way to take to a compliment” Can quickly turn into “but I just took you out for dinner. What do u mean I cant insert my penis in you? That’s no way to respond to a good gesture” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:47 PM |
| 4 | When Did You KnowUniversity (currently still in) basically right after leaving my first relationship and actually dating different men did I truly know how they operate. And I’m still learning everyday. It’s a shame we even have to unionize like this against their tactics, but we will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:46 PM |
| 162 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.it’s repulsive. they literally see your existence as valueless therefore you’re free for the using on their time and how they want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:41 PM |
| 59 | Pickmeisha asks for advice on what to do with boyfriend who wants to hire a prostituteI literally feel happy and grateful catharsis when it happens and when I see it happen for others. It’s even better bc she can literally never see this guy again bc he’s out of the country (assuming it’s North America she’s posting from) and ghosting is that much easier. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:38 PM |
| 159 | LADIES, say NO to drink first dates. Super low effort and all he sees is him spending $23 max for some cooch. Casual is code for I’ll use you when I need to bust then he’s out till your next “casual” encounter which is almost always about his dick! Block and deleted.Yes!!!! He wants to see if you’re able to become vulnerable enough so he can coerce you into leaving the bar and going somewhere more secluded! You’ve understood correct babe! I was saying there’s other things I would be down for: I live in a massive city and It’s currently winter where I am and we have many ice rinks with rented skates, (I’m not a skater but I would’ve been down for some laughs as us tumbling and helping eachotjer out), there’s cafes that do board games that have amazing vibes,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:32 PM |
| 8 | Have you ever walked out in the middle of a date ?real queen shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:25 PM |
| 2 | What are some verbal validation techniques to give to HVM?Really interesting. Especially a) Going to try implanting this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:24 PM |
| 54 | What is wrong with drink dates exactly?It’s super low effort to me. When I told a guy I didn’t drink after her offered a night out of drinking and instead said I’d rather do a dinner or some other planned activity, he told me he doesn’t do that on first dates cause it’s not “casual”. So getting drunk with an absolute stranger is casual but eating food is not? Fuck yourself. “Casual” is code for I want to spend the LEAST amount of effort and money on you to see if I can get you drunk enough to coerce you into sex. Basically saying he’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:06 PM |
| 226 | Haven’t been on tinder in years but this made me laughIt’s basically code for let me use you as a fleshlight at my whim. I swipe left for ALL men that have that in the profile or even mention it in chat gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 10:06 PM |
| 2 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateYes. Oh man, that would’ve truly made me booboo the fool if not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/19 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Block his ass. Have some self-respectYou'll get there, babe. We all go through self loathing. Even those that have adopted this mindset. Chin up, and don't entertain these fools do to loneliness. that itself will destroy you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 10:30 PM |
| 20 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateDepression is a sickness. Sicknesses happen unexpectedly which alter our plans. Education is not a linear trajectory. That being said, this doesn’t apply to this shmuck. he simply is still in school because he wanted to stick around for his failing college football aspirations, while also making himself available to freshmen girls whom he can manipulate as they don’t know better! My male cousin goes to the same university as him. He said he has a disgusting reputation of showing up to ALL home g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 09:53 PM |
| 15 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateIt was a higher end place. I had chose it, but he Knew this as he had to find the phone number on google to make reservations which also shows you pictures, pricing (which was $$$ on google reviews) When I mention the Bey Rule (otherwise known as the Gigi rule) this refers to the idea if for arguments sake I was Beyoncé, and he was meeting me, he would never dress that way. Even if he’s to meet her at a McDonald’s. Men will put effort into women they are interested in and find important. Think o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 03:04 PM |
| 194 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateUpdate: As I suspected, I woke to 6 extremely long paragraphs about how disgusting and ugly I was, but days prior I was “everything” Lol. I read the first box, exited the convo and just blocked the contact completely as I told you ladies I’ll keep the communication open to see what he replies. I didn’t bother with the rest of the 5 paragraphs, as I knew it was more verbiage built to hurt not give his actual experience lol. I really triggered him to say the least. My background info: early 20s, u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 01:57 PM |
| 59 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateNo response. Guess he knew he got read to filth and exited with whatever shred of dignity he had left. I’ll keep you ladies updated though. With men like him, his bruised ego will bring him to respond if anything. Edit: I was right! Update in the comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 05:12 AM |
| 185 | First time ever meeting moid...wears sweatpants...cut him immediately after disaster of a dateHe’s not sis, but if you could see the amount of pride and narcissism he was displaying....I had to let him know exactly what tf was going on. I usually block and delete, but this one I couldn’t help but drag straight to hell where most these moids reside. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/19 04:11 AM |
| 20 | Given That The Risks of Sex are WAY Higher and the Rewards WAY Lower for Women - a Man must bring something else to the table to level the playing field.I love this. I’m going to adopt this mentality in more of my thinking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 02:20 PM |
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