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| 1 | Hot take: Sex work is the best way to fight capitalism, because capitalism it’s more exploitative and damaging, or something.And don’t forget, that girl selling pics of her booty hole for the price of a monthly cable bill has to now look over her shoulder for the rest of her life Respectable career, highly unlikely with pics of her naked butt all over the internet Respectable member of society, same as above | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 35 | Hot take: Sex work is the best way to fight capitalism, because capitalism it’s more exploitative and damaging, or something.Oh, she knows. She just think corporations are more rapey because her ideology tells her so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 11:57 PM |
| 27 | Hot take: Sex work is the best way to fight capitalism, because capitalism it’s more exploitative and damaging, or something.Yes, but the onlyfans women make less money than the mlm bossbabes PLUS lose future job prospects because respectable companies shy away from hiring prostitutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 11:56 PM |
| 24 | Hot take: Sex work is the best way to fight capitalism, because capitalism it’s more exploitative and damaging, or something.I want to see the chalkboard of scientific configurations this professor put up on the board to come to this massive garbage heap of a conclusion I’m guessing it’s laziness coupled by a severe and mentally incapacitated connection to libfem ideology, sprinkled in with some self loathing and hatred for her own gender | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 11:20 PM |
| 31 | Hot take: Sex work is the best way to fight capitalism, because capitalism it’s more exploitative and damaging, or something.I just. I don’t know Slayed by the utter stupidity and grand disconnection from reality Sigh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:43 PM |
| 29 | I'm appalled by some of the comments on Jammies' latest post. If you want to participate here, you have to respect our community. If being expected to follow subreddit rules makes you "feel unwelcome", then leave.If you don’t like what the mods have to say, there’s the 🚪 This sub saved my life. I don’t have to agree with every opinion expressed. But if I want to stay here, I damned sure need to use the rules as a guideline. This is the only sub that is a true safe place for women seeking to level up. It doesn’t have to be positive ALL of the time. Some of us (including me) need a little truth in the form of a virtual smack in the face Can’t handle that? There’s always the other dating subreddits that are… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:42 PM |
| 96 | Hot take: Sex work is the best way to fight capitalism, because capitalism it’s more exploitative and damaging, or something.I want everyone to have a living wage, safe house, clean water, be free from anything that holds them back from living a free and happy life, but this professor thinks working a 9 to 5 job is somehow comparable to having sex with strange men for money This is not empowering. This is a sickness in a culture that demeans and degrades women for the benefit of men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:36 PM |
| 7 | (Possible) HVM single dad… starting to date one. How does this work? How do I get my needs met? 🤨If he doesn’t describe his experience with his ex as ‘something that could’ve worked if he put more effort into it”. That’s a red flag. My ex is an amazing dad, he was a terrible partner who had anxiety that erupted into angry outbursts and if he would’ve gone to therapy, we’d probably still be a happy family. Yes, I wasn’t perfect either. BUT, most of the time, the demise of a relationship involves TWO people, and unless his ex is a mental basket case (they have 50/50 custody so that’s probably… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | I truly hate this YOLO attitude. As if women should be celebrating being in debt and having sex with toxic men. Just no. Invest your money in stocks, a vibrator and a hobby. You’ll be much happier.Right? Women get paid less than men and get saddled with doing the bulk of childcare. Also 30% of unmarried fathers are deadbeat dads who don’t pay child support Women who hook up with random men risk being assaulted, raped or murdered But let’s encourage them to end up in debt and have sex with scrotes Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:13 PM |
| 71 | TW: THIS IS WHAT BEING IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCROTE LOOKS LIKEThis is what being with a sociopath/ narcissist is like | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 08:54 PM |
| 31 | There is a steep and rapid decline in US birth rates. The media is placing the blame on the pandemic but I’m just over here like, “Have you seen these men out here lately?”I read somewhere that it’s also happening in Korea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 11:17 AM |
| 26 | I truly hate this YOLO attitude. As if women should be celebrating being in debt and having sex with toxic men. Just no. Invest your money in stocks, a vibrator and a hobby. You’ll be much happier.Pick me culture drives this idea that we should just throw caution to the std winds of perpetual debt and despair | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:24 AM |
| 28 | I truly hate this YOLO attitude. As if women should be celebrating being in debt and having sex with toxic men. Just no. Invest your money in stocks, a vibrator and a hobby. You’ll be much happier.Encouraging them is the distinction that benefits the patriarchy I’m so glad you recognize that now. I used to participate in that as well. This “people should do what they want, as long as they aren’t hurting anyone”. Now I realize that ‘anyone’ includes ourselves and the patriarchy drives this idea that we are objects for their sexual satisfaction at will and on their command. So when we refer to “anyone”, that does not include us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:04 AM |
| 2 | LVM covert narc ex is back againJust keep blocking him. Never respond. It’s like fuel for them to continue the moment they get a reaction. This is one of the reasons this sub is invaluable to women. Had I known the signs of narcissism I would never have gotten hooked in from the beginning I hope for your sake that he finds a new source of supply and leaves you the hell alone soon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 01:03 AM |
| 58 | LVM covert narc ex is back againThese narcs never give up Mine is going on three years strong of Hoover attempts. I just keep blocking him at every try. It’s like playing whack-a-mole. Smh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 01:42 AM |
| 39 | Starting NCYou need to go beyond just ignoring his texts and keeping the door open and just block him everywhere if you plan on succeeding in no contact. Ask yourself what you are getting out of this push-pull situation that benefits only him Stop giving your time, energy and love to a black hole of nothingness and reserve that energy for yourself To be honest, you know that he’s only keeping you on the hook to tap you for sex and ego kibbles and you deserve so much more than that Block him sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 01:01 AM |
| 24 | My heart is getting really heavy as I'm preparing to leave my boyfriend. Any support appreciated.In house separation is pure Hell on earth! You’ll feel such relief and joy when you move out and move on, that I can promise you Two things: It sounds like you have a great job and a supportive boss. This is definitely a plus for you in moving forward with your life It seems like you have made that crossover from accepting less than you deserve to figuring out that you deserve so much more You should be proud of yourself. I think you have SO much to look forward to Chin up sis, you’re moving in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 28 | How much importance do you place on a man’s financial security? How long would you wait for him to demonstrate financial security?And you should keep working hard so that you’ll never have to financially depend on a man You noticed it soon enough. Don’t beat yourself up over it. Soooo many women end up marrying men who are broke and broken and end up having children with them. You’re one of the lucky ones who came to the realization that you need more than just a nice guy who treats you affectionately before it was too late. | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 03:28 AM |
| 28 | How much importance do you place on a man’s financial security? How long would you wait for him to demonstrate financial security?It sucks, I know. But it’s better than ending up miserable and poor in the future I have to be honest. This would be such a huge red flag for me and I’d just end it. I’m sorry to be so blunt, but your future is at stake here What kind of actions should you be looking for? He’d have to show initiative to get a well paying job and put money into savings, and he’d have to do that soon. | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 02:59 AM |
| 5 | What the Pickme Fuck? Admin of Supposedly All Female Breastfeeding Group Allowing Men to Pay to Join and Harass Women. Group Had 22.5K Members“What the pickme fuck” 😂😂😂 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 02:25 AM |
| 75 | How much importance do you place on a man’s financial security? How long would you wait for him to demonstrate financial security?Financial stability is highly important, especially if you plan to have children together. From how you’ve described him, it seems to me that, not only is he not financially stable, he’s not financially responsible Financially unstable but working in earnest to improve and earn enough to build a family life with someone is ok Financially irresponsible is not ok If he can’t afford to provide for you and your future children, your future with him will be unstable and will eventually be unhappy I’d… | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 02:15 AM |
| 5 | Help: The Worst Valentines of my LifeAdding to the advice given by the other commentators to say that you should work on moving to a secure attachment style from your anxious attachment style before you consider dating. Your attachment style is making you miss cues from losers like this because you probably crave love no matter what the consequences are. You have to get to a place where you are completely happy without a man before you date one. Start focusing on yourself, try therapy and do some self care. Forget men for now | /r/askFDS | 17/02/21 03:14 PM |
| 21 | You need to hear this to be able to LEVEL Up. Also that ending had me rolling.Right I’m all on board with the tough love, wake the hell up approach. The aggression and the continuous “bitch” part is unsettling because it’s the same word and the same level of aggression that abusive men use The message can easily be shared with less theatrics and certainly doesn’t need an abusive tone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 01:09 AM |
| 2 | I can't believe you women expect, nay, DEMAND to be treated with respectWelcome Sis. I also landed here, just as you did,through negative comments on a dating sub that peaked my curiosity After reading the handbook I felt like I had finally come home to a place where other women spoke my language and understood me It’s kind of sad that we even need a place like this because this mentality SHOULD be the majority. It shouldn’t have to be a mindset shift. The patriarchy, with the help of libfems, has brainwashed women into believing they don’t deserve to be happy in a … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 03:25 PM |
| 187 | She is still beautiful. There is no wallHonestly she is just radiant from inside out I think her physical beauty is a reflection of her magnificent soul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:52 AM |
| 79 | She is still beautiful. There is no wallI love that movie and they were both gorgeous! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 01:04 AM |
| 18 | She is still beautiful. There is no wallSo true | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:08 AM |
| 240 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?That most of them have unresolved mommy issues and / or Peter Pan syndrome and need years of therapy before they even consider dating How did I come to that realization: from dating men, talking to friends who date men and pretty much every post in this group Did it change the way I view and interact with them? Yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 01:10 AM |
| 99 | Dita Von Teese breaks her silence on Brian Warner aka "Marilyn Manson"Typical sociopath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:40 PM |
| 28 | Armie Hammer scandal is waking up some libfems about "kink" cultureThe only reason this hit the mainstream news and was given so much steam is because it involved his cannibalism fetish. Make no mistake, the abuse women suffered because of him would’ve been quickly swept under the rug and the libfems would’ve proclaimed that he was being kink shamed. If not for the disgusting addition of desiring to eat flesh, this would’ve just been another Hollywood story of women looking for attention and money and how dare they because in their warped minds, BDSM is complet… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 30 | FYI, Instagram does not allow prostitution or sexual solicitationMost of these platforms are filled with child trafficking and hopefully with all of the cracking down on abuse and violence, they will FINALLY put an end to the free-for-all sex for sale because it makes it easier for predators to prey upon children, but I’m not holding my breath | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:07 AM |
| 4 | Thank god I broke up with my ex.You can take him to small claims court if you have proof that he borrowed money from you. This is something you can ask for advice on in one of the Reddit legal advice subs If you never get it back though, it’s a small price to pay for getting out of a crap relationship and never having to talk to him again. Some women lose SO much more than a few hundred dollars, so consider yourself lucky | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:11 AM |
| 18 | They will leave you for older women too.. And your looks won't determine how he is going to treat you 🌹It’s as if we both read entirely different posts. In no way did she shame anyone. She was simply describing the differences between her appearance and the other woman. OP also stated that she herself has stretch marks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 04:20 PM |
| 111 | I’m 39 and for the first time in my life I broke up with someone that I have strong feelings for because they weren’t treating me the way I deserve to be treated.You probably ignored your intuition for even longer than before your friend found his accounts on OLD This has been a difficult year for everyone and so many of us have made the mistake of trying to hold onto things that aren’t good for us for the sake of maintaining some consistency and fooling ourselves into believing we are benefitting by gaining some semblance of joy, even if we ultimately knew it was an illusion You don’t need me to tell you this, but I’m going to say it anyway. You are SO … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 54 | Why Are Some Men Obsessed With Barely Legal Girls?Because it’s a power imbalance in their favor. They want to be with someone who they can manipulate and gaslight into believing they aren’t being taken advantage of and used. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 11 | [TW: Emotional Abuse] Armie Hammer’s ex Courtney Vucekovich Describes Gaslighting, Emotional Abuse, Sexual CoercionI don’t know much about her but apparently she is a feminist. And if there isn’t a ‘radical’ in front of the ‘feminist’, it’s safe to say she’s a libfem, which is just, well, everyone knows what we think of that 🤮 But he’s a full on psychopath and I feel so sorry for their kids Women need to quickly recognize low value men and reject them immediately. Good looks, celebrity, money, all mean 💩 This man is pure trash and I hope karma for him is swift and destructive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 03:07 AM |
| 104 | [TW: Emotional Abuse] Armie Hammer’s ex Courtney Vucekovich Describes Gaslighting, Emotional Abuse, Sexual CoercionHe will claim he has a substance abuse problem and sex addiction and enter rehab. Then Hollywood will welcome him back with open arms 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 10 | HV dates that don't involve eatingThis is such great advice and would instill such confidence. I had an ex who grew up with a mom that was close to a royal family and she taught me so much about dining etiquette. At the time I resented her for being so pushy, but those skills stay with me to this day and I’m glad I have them | /r/askFDS | 15/01/21 02:17 AM |
| 180 | Here’s The Facts“A man paying for my nudes is empowerment, but a man paying for my dinner is regressive” This hits the nail on the head and makes it obvious that libfems are on the same side of the oppressive patriarchy that only views women as valuable if they are catering to the men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:45 PM |
| 24 | Here’s The FactsYes. We need to stop using those labels that the patriarchy uses as a tool for division and chaos We stand for protecting and empowering women. That’s our ideology | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:41 PM |
| 46 | Here’s The FactsHow can anyone view us as conservative when we are the antithesis of the red pill and mgtow? Some people can’t separate the idea that you can have a liberal ideology while denouncing liberal feminism It’s hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that people can’t separate the two things Liberal feminism belongs in the trash can along with the views of both the far left and the far right Politics has no place here. We are here to help women avoid being abused by the patriarchy I don’t get why … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:17 PM |
| 66 | Imagine being disrespected like this and having sex with him anyway. Yet Another one of GiGi Engle’s “Hot Takes” 🤦♀️This 👏 is 👏 why 👏 we 👏 don’t 👏 have 👏 sex 👏 with 👏 lvms This is why we vet This is why most men are not worth risking our bodies and our health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Newly aware of the LVM game, in the process of leaving an LVM. How do you all deal with knowing he will quickly get another woman and his destructive cycle will continue unpunished?Also, narcissists are not abusive ‘out of the gate’. They play a nasty game of ensnaring their victims while wearing a carefully crafted mask and confusing women into believing they are good partners I don’t think you understand how these creatures operate | /r/askFDS | 14/01/21 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Newly aware of the LVM game, in the process of leaving an LVM. How do you all deal with knowing he will quickly get another woman and his destructive cycle will continue unpunished?Your opinion goes against the grain of trained experts on narcissism. Including the opinion of world renowned expert, Dr Ramini, who says that narcissists target vulnerabilities Equating advising women to look for the signs of narcissism and understand what attracts them to them in the first place to victim shaming is very far fetched | /r/askFDS | 14/01/21 07:34 PM |
| 46 | HV dates that don't involve eatingI also hate eating with people I don’t know. It feels so vulnerable for some reason. But it’s not something that should cause anxiety to the point that you cannot enjoy a date. I’m happy to hear that you are seeking therapy to overcome anxiety. Anxiety is NOT a flaw, it’s a symptom of trauma, and it’s not insurmountable, especially when you seek help from a trained specialist There are other dates you can go on that are high value that do not involve eating. Some ideas: An escape room An activit… | /r/askFDS | 14/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 267 | I agree with men women should not nag them. I would never be a nagging wife. If he cannot measure up to my standards, there will no be any nagging... I'd just kick him to the curb.If you have to drag him up to your standards, he’s not the one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:45 PM |
| 14 | NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia.I find this SO offensive She’s influencing young women to believe abuse and pedophilia is normal We are screwed as a species if this toxic sh*t is normalized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Newly aware of the LVM game, in the process of leaving an LVM. How do you all deal with knowing he will quickly get another woman and his destructive cycle will continue unpunished?Maybe you should reread my post. I said “MOST of the time its because you’ve had trauma in the past” You should also read her response. She said she has abandonment issues Like it or not, it’s true that most women who are codependent tend to ignore the red flags of abuse Telling someone to review what it is that caused them to end up in a situation where they are hurt and confused is NOT victim blaming. Ffs | /r/askFDS | 14/01/21 03:15 PM |
| 58 | Newly aware of the LVM game, in the process of leaving an LVM. How do you all deal with knowing he will quickly get another woman and his destructive cycle will continue unpunished?Sounds like you were in a relationship with a narcissist Look up the signs of narcissism and the “idolize, devalue, discard” phases of narcissism. I bet it will resonate with you First thing to untangle is what attracts you to someone so abusive in the first place. Most of the time it’s because you’ve had trauma in the past and have become codependent Stop worrying so much about what he will do once you leave him or how he treats the next girl. That is of no consequence. What matters is that you… | /r/askFDS | 14/01/21 12:12 AM |
| 4 | How to break up with someone when you still love themIn that time between meeting your boyfriend and breaking up, while you were working on yourself, you made the mistake of discontinuing doing the work you needed to heal and chose to get into a relationship with someone else as a balm to your hurt feelings Now you’re in a situation where you aren’t ready to let go because of sunk cost fallacy. This is the belief that you’re throwing away all of the time and effort you have put into your relationship. The reality is that if you stay you will only … | /r/askFDS | 14/01/21 12:03 AM |
| 6 | If you have to publicly brand him, he’s not the one sis😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 02:19 PM |
| 85 | The videogame double-standard...That’s why Pinterest was invented. Society wants us to look up recipes while our male counterparts play call of duty and pretend to be soldiers while we bring them home cooked meals, and in return we can pretend to orgasm for the five minutes of disappointment they give us No thanks. I’d rather get a dog | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:34 AM |
| 122 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupI visited the MGTOW sub once and was disgusted enough to never want to return I imagine they insist on stalking us because they’re so damaged and lost in anger that they need to seek reasons outside of themselves for their frustration and inability to fit in to society Is it really that hard to go to therapy, bro? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:54 PM |
| 25 | For realZero lies detected | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 10:22 PM |
| 82 | How can I tell my ex I’m blocking him?You don’t tell him. You just block him He abused you. You should have no regrets about cutting him out of your life Be ruthless because they are and if he had the chance to continue the abuse, he would Block him, sis | /r/askFDS | 10/01/21 02:49 AM |
| 25 | The Qanon ‘shaman’ with horns and bearskin recently arrested for storming the Capitol is a stay at home dad who is addicted to drugs and judging by the telltale bald head, a porn addict as well. The jokes write themselves ladiesThere is some scientific correlation between ejaculation and the production of of DHT (dihydrotestosterone). When you ejaculate too much it causes male pattern baldness Not sure if it’s scientifically proven but dht attacks hair follicles. There are also many men on the nofap sub that attest to the fact that their hair stopped falling out after they stopped watching porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 02:15 AM |
| 6 | The Qanon ‘shaman’ with horns and bearskin recently arrested for storming the Capitol is a stay at home dad who is addicted to drugs and judging by the telltale bald head, a porn addict as well. The jokes write themselves ladiesI had to have that pointed out to me earlier in the thread. Even though after looking at the photos it should have been obvious. I mistook him for the bald guy in the photo halfway down the article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 11:56 PM |
| 21 | The Qanon ‘shaman’ with horns and bearskin recently arrested for storming the Capitol is a stay at home dad who is addicted to drugs and judging by the telltale bald head, a porn addict as well. The jokes write themselves ladiesThanks. My Bad. I thought he was the tattooed bald guy All losers anyway 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:08 PM |
| 108 | The Qanon ‘shaman’ with horns and bearskin recently arrested for storming the Capitol is a stay at home dad who is addicted to drugs and judging by the telltale bald head, a porn addict as well. The jokes write themselves ladiesShe’s a doctor and I’d bet my house that she also does all of the housework and childcare when she gets home. Meanwhile this LOSER plays video games and jacks off to porn so hard his hair falls out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:58 PM |
| 59 | The Qanon ‘shaman’ with horns and bearskin recently arrested for storming the Capitol is a stay at home dad who is addicted to drugs and judging by the telltale bald head, a porn addict as well. The jokes write themselves ladiesThe consequences of being a pick me with a medical practice that you dedicated years to building And some wonder why our rhetoric is so ‘harsh’ towards pick me’s. We are literally trying to save you from throwing your life away like this woman did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:51 PM |
| 77 | UnfortunatelyThis. Yes. And also, most men are a huge disappointment in bed and not worth the risk to our health and safety | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:32 PM |
| 3 | In my life, maybe two men have taken nice photos of me. The rest seem to be on some passive aggressive mission to make us feel awful about themselves.Dm me. I’ll send it to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:02 AM |
| 151 | In my life, maybe two men have taken nice photos of me. The rest seem to be on some passive aggressive mission to make us feel awful about themselves.My first real relationship was with the most loving, amazing man who adored me and loved taking photos of me. One of the best shots of my life was a candid photo He took of me walking out of the ocean in Puerto Rico while tossing my hair to the side. That photo means so much to me because not only is it beautiful, but it was taken by someone who loved and adored me. We are still friends to this day and he is an artist now with a beautiful wife he paints gorgeous portraits of HVM are out there la… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 02:24 AM |
| 4 | Somehow I ended up getting alerts for the dead bedrooms subLeast I can do. If I could hug you in real life I would. I know what it’s like and it’s a bitch to get over Reach out any time love. Happy to help if I can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 5 | Somehow I ended up getting alerts for the dead bedrooms subWow, you are way ahead of the game sis Just based on this response I know you’re going to be ok The devaluing part of the cycle is the most excruciating and damaging part because they make you question your value. I promise you are enough, none of this is your fault and sometimes these things happen for a reason because if you can use it as leverage on your ‘level up’ journey by finding out what made you susceptible to this subhuman, and sewing up those holes so that you are never again vulnerab… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 12:16 AM |
| 17 | Somehow I ended up getting alerts for the dead bedrooms subHey Sis, this carries all of the signs of a relationship with a sociopath/ narc. It’s more than just an abusive relationship, it’s manipulation on a psychological level that can traumatize you for years to come. You might benefit from therapy or at least learning the nature of the beast you were dealing with If you haven’t already looked into this, research narcissism and the signs of being in a relationship with a narc. Most of the time they target people who are co-dependent. Understanding the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:37 PM |
| 61 | Somehow I ended up getting alerts for the dead bedrooms subThey get triggered when we have the nerve to point out the obvious fact that porn is insidious and destructive because ‘muh penis’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:19 AM |
| 58 | “My Legacy 🤡” yeah sure - of sexism and homophobia.Legacy of what? Playing video games and watching porn? GFOH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 01:13 AM |
| 13 | Why is financial independence frowned upon?It’s because the patriarchy has ingrained the idea within society that women should fall in line with what benefits men most. And what benefits men most is weak, financially dependent women who settle for low value men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 01:30 AM |
| 14 | Boy...I couldn’t even get that far into watching the video. It was a disaster 5 seconds in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:59 PM |
| 28 | Boy...And tragically he removes himself to retire to the basement with his plasma screen of porn, video games and his weird wall of taped up paper What shall the females of the world do without his gloriousness? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:50 PM |
| 24 | What a way to break up.She’s so pretty and charming. Why would she waste so much time going through such drastic effort when she could’ve just hit ‘block’? Don’t waste precious energy on LVM/NVM. She could’ve used the money and creative effort to make something special for friends, family and / or a charitable cause and walked away with positive vibes vs toxic stress | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 116 | In South Korea, secret cameras ('molka') are being installed in hotel rooms to film people during intimate moments. This is then sold online as an alternative to pornography, which has led to an increase in molka related suicides.Invest in a camera detector. Some of them are below $50 on Amazon | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 06:38 PM |
| 43 | If this is even 1% true, how much are you willing to bet that he groomed his daughter?It’s possible that it’s a snarky response to AOC’s public declaration that “Sex work is work”. I was really angry when I saw that because I know so many young women look up to her 😡. Reminder ladies, liberal feminists are NOT on the team that looks out for and protects women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | If you insist. 🤷♀️The head is stuffed with porn. No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 4 | This reminds me of the time when my ex made me fill foolish for wanting to be a bakerExactly. It’s a really stupid, false equivalency And for the record (for our idiotic male) lurkers) women can make a damned good living doing hair AND most of them that do actually enjoy and are passionate about their jobs. They’re not out there doing some mindless job then coming home to numb their brains with video games and pornography, idiots. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny.Right and even though empowering one another is highlighted, encouraged and practiced on this sub, the main thing that seems to be a recurring theme and huge part of the narrative here is to warn women of the dangers they face and the constant reiteration of protecting themselves from physical and/ or emotional harm. The fact that men have a problem with this is a HUGE problem in our society | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 12:11 AM |
| 32 | r/NiceGirls is mad we don’t respond to thinly veiled sex attemptsThat sub is a dumpster fire of incels reveling in the fact that some females are just as pathetic and desperate as they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Note to self..The struggle is real in the battle to reclaim your soul It’s NOT a linear process. When you get knocked down, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and keep going. It’s an every day battle to win the war and it’s worth the pain to attain the goal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:46 PM |
| 7 | I’ve read the handbook front to back and reverse. Still need some guidance.I can relate to this so much as I have also fended for myself since the age of 17 and it gave me a hard edge that I’ve been able to blunt over time, but it rises up when I feel threatened or anxious First off, you need to know that there is nothing wrong with having healthy boundaries and maintaining those boundaries. Protect yourself without guilt for doing so and drop anyone who doesn’t respect your boundaries Self care is THE most important thing in this situation. YOU come first Talk therapy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 07:34 PM |
| 146 | FKA Twigs has formally sued Shia LeBouf in a suit depicting details of domestic abuse she endured at his hand and he came has come forth to say "some allegations are false" to save face instead of taking full responsibility for his degenerate behaviour.He’s in his early 30s and hit the wall 40 years ago 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:59 AM |
| 409 | PUAs were welcomed into the mainstream with reality TV shows and late night show guest appearances. FDS is labelled a hate group and our mods get rape and death threats. The stark difference in how our culture responds to male vs. female dating strategies is pure cultural misogyny.Isn’t it weird how a group of women coming together to protect one another from abuse is so triggering to the patriarchy? It’s almost as if they are afraid to let go of their tyrannical hold on a society that worships men 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:39 AM |
| 2 | FaceTime date with seemingly HVM reveals his repulsive apartment. This is why you FaceTime first, imagine arriving here in person. Needless to say, that was our last conversation.Haha. Nice work. I think that’s a nest over there to the right😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 03:50 AM |
| 3 | FaceTime date with seemingly HVM reveals his repulsive apartment. This is why you FaceTime first, imagine arriving here in person. Needless to say, that was our last conversation.He actually had the nerve to send you a photo of that dump? As if he was proud of it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 03:15 AM |
| 4 | FDS women don’t do LDRs and we don’t do ‘spontaneous’.The emotionally unavailable generalization is not directed at women. It’s towards men Of course there are outliers and some ldrs turn out well. Generally speaking, they do not, especially for those who do not have a short range goal of a timeline to living within distance of one another It’s mostly men who are emotionally unavailable and usually have something to hide that engage in ldrs, not women. Therefore, the advice here on this sub is to avoid these types of relationships. As always, do yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 01:27 AM |
| 39 | Finding FDS means you’ll witness your friends and loved ones sleepwalk into shitty relationships repeatedly. It’s not your responsibility to save them - they can only save themselves💯 I’ve grey rocked two of my closest friends. It’s really hard to watch as they blind themselves to the harsh reality that they are being mistreated and disrespected by low effort, LV men. I also had to unfollow on social media because it was depressing to watch the fakery of a pretend perfect life and relationship knowing the reality behind the scenes It’s better to walk away than be dragged down in the toxicity of it all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 02:07 PM |
| 49 | Men: “Just give us a signal you’re open to being approached!” Women: “Ok, how?” Men: “Ask us out”Why yes, of course, immediately followed by an invite to our homes for anal sex Idiots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 10:06 PM |
| 68 | Men: “Just give us a signal you’re open to being approached!” Women: “Ok, how?” Men: “Ask us out”Wretched group of fools bent on convincing themselves and everyone who will listen that it’s ok for men to make zero effort 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 10:00 PM |
| 29 | She needs to post a tutorial for all pickmeishas out there 😭😭👏🏻This is funny and he’s adorable But in reality, I would be miserable in a relationship if I had to resort to treating my partner like a dog. Also, no self respecting HVM would stick around for this type of treatment I want a partner, not a pet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 11:00 PM |
| 31 | NEVER TATTOO HIS NAME ON YOUOn her face no less!!!! 😬 This is pick me level 2020 of Hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 12:37 AM |
| 25 | Sending nudes made him forget I was a personWhat does it matter what he was embarrassed about? You’re spending way too much time analyzing his motivations and his thought process when what you should’ve done from the start was pick up on the red flags he was waving and blocked He is LV. Stop wasting your time thinking about what he was thinking. Block and move on Lesson learned. Never send nudes. No man of value would ever ask you for nudes. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 12:32 AM |
| 46 | Sending nudes made him forget I was a personSounds like you were settling for less than you deserve even before he sent a disrespectful message. HVMs will NEVER ask you for nudes. That’s a huge red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:52 PM |
| 3 | Proof that money doesn’t make someone high valueWilling to bet my entire stash of leftover Halloween candy this dude has a micro penis 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 02:54 AM |
| 32 | .. old sm “friend” I never really knew, and now deleted.. grossLol. He speaks as if dick is something that is hard to come by and we need to work for it These scrotes got jokes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 10:54 PM |
| 3 | I lost hope in love and running into a HVM has changed my life.Do you know how many women fall prey to men who turn out to be LV / abusive later on because they “seem sweet” ? Your workplace is not a place to mine for potential boyfriends. They have the potential to be great boyfriends? Nah sis, what they have is the potential to wreck havoc at your place of work, potentially causing issues not just in your personal life but the place where you make your money As a disciple on this sub, you should already know that it has been said countless times that you … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 123 | I lost hope in love and running into a HVM has changed my life.There is no way of knowing a man is truly HV until you’ve spent a significant amount of time with him. A few months is definitely not enough time to give him that distinction You give men way too much power by declaring that one can ‘change your life’. Never rely on a man to create your happiness, that’s your job. A partner should be an enhancement to a life that is already fulfilled, not source of fulfillment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 01:34 AM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 16 2020These situations are tough. Best advice, get out as quickly as possible because in house separation is PURE HELL Your situation sounds like trauma bonding. You latched on to him because he and his family filled a void left by your toxic family I know you’re trying and you’re currently in an impossible situation due to lack of finances and support. The next best thing to leaving and finding a place of your own is ‘grey rocking’ him. Just be as emotionally detached as you can until you get out Be … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:31 AM |
| 143 | If he doesn't make you cum he doesn't care about you or respect you!Yes! And if they can’t make you cum, it’s not just a sign of selfishness, ineptitude and inexperience, 99% of the time it’s because he is pornsick. His mind is bent by the fairytale of submissive handmaidens ecstatic about being used as a flesh light and he lacks the ability for intimate connection with a flesh and blood woman because the distorted porn fantasy coupled with his death grip induced cum is easier than the work it takes to create a connection and form a relationship with a human con… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 02:10 AM |
| 6 | Train your brain.It feels amazing. Can confirm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 02:12 AM |
| 26 | Do something for yourself before the weekend is overLove this post This weekend I’m taking a long drive on my own to visit a jewelry supply store for the mala necklaces that I make and have created a small business with. It’s 4 hours on my own with a long playlist to listen to on the way, a stop over for a nice lunch and then a long awaited visit to a store filled with beautiful jewelry making supplies. I am so excited to just be alone for a few hours doing something that fuels my creativity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 46 | I'm so thankful I found this sub!This makes me so happy. I love to see the younger generation of women waking up to the lies that society has been fed by the patriarchy and libfems I wish these tools were given to me at your age. I would have been saved from so much pain and disillusionment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 144 | Highlight is 20/20, but once you commit to FDS you have the tools, support, and information you need to learn better to do better. You walk away at the first hint of disrespect and/or entitlement now. But, you'll never forget the pain of learning firsthand how entitled men are. Remain observant...She forgot to add “lack of basic personal hygiene and grooming” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 10:30 PM |
| 63 | This is why we don’t take a man back, even once. He WILL do it again and you WILL find it increasingly harder to leave. I feel bad her daughter will grow up and see and accept this treatment by men.Agree and I cannot fathom how anyone admires her. All she has going for her is fame and money. Ultimately even that is worthless if you have no self worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 02:41 PM |
| 41 | 'Sex work is work' doesn't prove anythingLibfem logic is an oxymoron | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 09:35 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes men be acting shootableShooting people for bothering you? Please grow up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes men be acting shootableStop playing dumb. It literally says men are ‘shootable’ for talking to you. This is not advice. This is humor that celebrates violence and it is against the rules of this sub. So for the last time, knock it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes men be acting shootableOn what planet does that make sense? Very few places have conceal and carry laws, so that’s useless I’m not going back and forth with you on this Don’t post shit that suggests shooting people on this sub The. End. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:13 AM |
| 2 | Sometimes men be acting shootableSuggesting that we shoot someone? Posting it under ‘FDS humor’ flair? This is not one bit logical and neither is it funny. None of us will be laughing if this sub gets banned Stop it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:00 AM |
| 4 | Sometimes men be acting shootablePlease do not post anything that suggests violence on this sub, even as a joke. This sub already gets enough heat for being ‘toxic’. Don’t add fuel to the fire. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 03:37 AM |
| 177 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisSame goes for every industry that relies on generating money from women debasing themselves in any way to cater to porn sick men. This includes onlyfans and instagram ‘models’. It is only the patriarchy that is empowered by women catering to the male gaze. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 01:36 PM |
| 35 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄I’ll never understand it. Why do some women think this is something to aspire to? Do they scrub themselves in the shower with Brillo and then do some witchcraft to get the stank and slime off of them afterwards? Even these girls with only fans accounts that don’t have to touch anyone. You’re still giving a piece of yourself to these porn sick, nasty creatures. How is it worth it?? Make it make sense!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 06:30 PM |
| 53 | From the same sub of libfem sw that called FDS nutjobs for being against female ”empowerment”. They’re clearly right, how could this not be an empowering way to make money? 🙄What is empowering about debasing yourself by sleeping with creatures like this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 05:14 PM |
| 10 | For those of you using social media to document your lives and have it set for public view, please be aware of the dangers you are opening yourselves up to. Ask yourself if it’s worth the risk and question your motives for sharing your life so openly at the risk of your own safety.I’ve seen this happen to an acquaintance on social media. She was going through a divorce and venting her sadness. I don’t understand why anyone would do that but I guess everyone has their way of coping 🤷♀️. I later found out (she’s a close friend of a friend) that she started dating a guy who showed up in her DMs doing exactly what you described above. He turned out to be a narc and he destroyed her life. He’s still stalking her to this day and she lost custody of her kids because he moved in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 11:39 AM |
| 9 | For those of you using social media to document your lives and have it set for public view, please be aware of the dangers you are opening yourselves up to. Ask yourself if it’s worth the risk and question your motives for sharing your life so openly at the risk of your own safety.How can any psycho find you if they don’t know you exist? Publicly posting pictures of yourself for the world to see isn’t empowering, it’s inviting lvms that will harass you via DMs and at worst, predators who can physically harm you Why is it necessary to open your life up to literally millions of people that you don’t even know, many of whom can be potentially dangerous? What do you gain from it exactly? Make it make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:00 AM |
| 128 | This kind of shit is propaganda to make women feel like promiscuity is empowering. The truth is that being selective and waiting a long time with my sexual partners is the most empowered I’ve ever felt sexually.Libfems are the handmaidens of the patriarchy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:54 AM |
| 9 | For those of you using social media to document your lives and have it set for public view, please be aware of the dangers you are opening yourselves up to. Ask yourself if it’s worth the risk and question your motives for sharing your life so openly at the risk of your own safety.I completely agree and I think social media is a great place to show off creative talents and promote business I see lots of women on my IG feed doing that every day and I love to see it. What I also see is women posting selfie after selfie and glamour shots galore and the comments from random men are just gross. I’m not against selfies and I think everyone should do what makes them happy, but at least set it to private. There are sooo many pervs out there jacking it to these women and some of t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:33 AM |
| 9 | Does anyone notice this happens to them a lot?Honestly, having your social media settings set to public is just inviting stalkers and you can end up in a dangerous situation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:26 PM |
| 19 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!The first sign would be him prioritizing his fitness schedule over you. That doesn’t mean he should ignore his fitness over spending time with you but, for example, you had a date night planned and he missed the gym that day because he had to work late, so he cancelled on you Or, his dietary restrictions are so tight, you can never choose a restaurant that you want to go to (for example, it’s not keto enough 🙄) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:45 AM |
| 18 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!Yes. I love muscle-y but not muscle-head. Actually I find muscle head, gym obsessed men repulsive and most of the time they are narcs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:35 AM |
| 50 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!Alcoholic men are only adorable to alcoholic women, or women with even worse addictions I guess Throwing up in toilets together is a thing for LV couples 🤷♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:32 AM |
| 18 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!Oh, sorry. No, not at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:28 AM |
| 22 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!I know you were and you were spot on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:23 AM |
| 48 | A coffee date is ________Like school on Sunday. No class | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 26 | A coffee date is ________💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:10 AM |
| 39 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!Stop making me miss dating. I’m on a break! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:05 AM |
| 89 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!Same. I know there are plenty of scrotatious predators at gyms, but I’ve honestly met some of the nicest, grounded and centered people at the gym as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 03:01 AM |
| 44 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!The stereotypical Cheeto stained face, sagging gut scrote watching the Victoria secret fashion show on tv and pointing to a supermodel whose nose is too big for his taste comes to mind These pickmes think because they’re ‘woke’ enough to overlook unattractive qualities in a partner, that they’ve gamed the system and found a devoted partner, meanwhile 90% of the women who’ve done this have ended up worse off than the ones that dated Chad because at least with fuckboy, they had some guard up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:58 AM |
| 81 | What in the PiCk Me I’M a CoOL GirL Hell is this????!!!Most of us already know that sis, it’s the ‘desperate for a man, ANY man!” Crowd that needs to understand that they’re being played by the patriarchy and women like this who pander to the patriarchy Also, dad bod ‘funny’ guys usually turn out to be resentful cheaters who ignore their girlfriends because they prefer to play video games, eat junk food and watch porn. FACTS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 02:50 AM |
| 40 | Does following FDS leave you a little guarded in relationships? Or are you open and all in, but still “ready to walk” at a moment’s notice (if he acts up)? Does the balance come naturally with time?Your guard should always be up, even in long term, committed relationships. Don’t worry about being open. Worry about protecting yourself at all costs. Open and all in is not the path. Actively vetting at all times is where your head needs to be because your future, and sometimes your life, depends on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:42 AM |
| 14 | The 2020 pickme hall of shame award goes to you, Nichol Kessinger 😡She had a tough side. She wanted things her way. She may have been a little controlling, but that was her personality and he knew that before he married her Yes! She seemed to want to portray the image of the perfect family, judging by the videos. Her home was immaculate and every inch of it was decorated. She worked for a multi level marketing company, which are notorious for bankrupting families and in their case, that seemed to be true. They had massive debt and were struggling. I think that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:26 AM |
| 27 | The 2020 pickme hall of shame award goes to you, Nichol Kessinger 😡I believe she has borderline personality disorder. The obsessive behavior the ‘damsel in distress’ crap she pulled with the investigators and delusions of a fairytale future are telltale signs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:06 AM |
| 34 | The 2020 pickme hall of shame award goes to you, Nichol Kessinger 😡So much talk about her ‘bullying him’ and ‘belittling him’. She was very type A and you could tell she had very little patience for lazy transgressions from her expectations. They were not a match from the beginning and I think she accepted him because she confused his quiet demeanor for kindness and having gone through a previous, awful divorce, her defenses were down The judge said it perfectly at his sentencing. He violently destroyed his family and ruined his life, her family’s life and his … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 30 | The 2020 pickme hall of shame award goes to you, Nichol Kessinger 😡“Because he felt locked in, trapped”. Right. Did you see his face on the video of Shannan telling him she was pregnant? This was right before he met NK. He looked miserable at the news, zero emotion on his face. He had checked out before he even started an affair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 11:49 PM |
| 21 | Man pays hitman to have child victim killed; hitman pulls a fast one on him and contacts authorities.And they originally gave him a two year SUSPENDED sentence as punishment He served zero time and guaranteed continuing to prey upon children The higher powers seem to have some vested interest in giving pedophiles a break | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 543 | 'CoMpRoMiSe!!'DiD yOu tAlK tO hIM aBoUt HoW tHaT mAKeS yOu fEeL tHo??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:45 AM |
| 3 | What else should be in the FDS Handbook?A safe strategy and resource guide for leaving an abusive man. One of our subbies (can’t remember her username) is well versed in this. I would be great if her list of resources and strategies were available in the handbook A ‘signs you are dating a narcissist’ list A guide to self defense for women. I have seen some of our subbies offer really great advice, from carrying a particular device they recommend, to learning jiu jitsu One of our mods posted excellent information on the dangers of dati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 10:15 PM |
| 18 | You can’t buy a LVM’s love. This is disgusting.I would advise her to post on r/legaladvice and to contact a lawyer, but I wasn’t able to find her post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:58 PM |
| 70 | You can’t buy a LVM’s love. This is disgusting.Is this a surprise to anyone? She was paying all of the bills except for his car and his child support to his former wife. She basically paid him to be with her and then by paying off his debt, gave him a final lump sum to leave her. She may have no legal recourse here, especially if he incurred his debt while they were married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:24 PM |
| 2 | It’s the disrespect for me. It’s the gaslighting for me. A friend shared this with me. SMH. (Rocket ship is slang for “great sex”) but at least the trash took itself outBlocking after that first sentence is the best response The last part questioning him when he said he was going to go is cringey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 06:40 PM |
| 71 | FDS Responds to Media Accusations of “Pick Up Artistry”You would think they would have at least read the handbook before writing an article | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 05:59 PM |
| 5 | I need some adviceIs this a serious question? Please read the handbook There is no emphasis on a man being rich on this sub. The emphasis is being with a mature and financially stable man who can support a family, or at the very least, not expect for you to chip in on expenses. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:14 PM |
| 65 | When the cost of repairing your car window > The life of your child. THIS IS WHY YOU NEED TO RUTHLESSLY VET THE FATHER OF YOUR CHILD. Trigger warning because this might ruin your dayYou’re right! I can’t believe they didn’t just push past him and break the window. They were within their rights to do so | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 11:03 PM |
| 9 | IndependenceYes! You can find YouTube how to videos on changing a tire, wiper blades, fluids, lights and jump starting a car If you have kids teach them these skills as well. Especially your daughters so that they never have to rely on a strange man helping them if they are stuck on their own with a car issue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 04:10 PM |
| 95 | The Chris Watts case: how our vetting can save livesIt’s also important to note that pick me friends do more harm than good When you read the texts she wrote to one friend expressing her fears that he was cheating, pick me friend just brushes it aside saying ‘He Would never do that!” And when Shannan tells her she thinks Chris is no longer attracted to her and he must be sleeping with someone else because he never went that long without sex, pick me friends says “YoU gUyS jUsT nEeD tO cOmMuNiCaTE”. If one of my friends asked for my advice in that… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:20 AM |
| 20 | Explaining your standards to men?“Maybe 5’9’ means he is around 5’6’. They always lie about their height unless they’re actually 6’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 01:10 AM |
| 42 | Ladies, how did you move on from being the other woman?You have a very unhealthy obsession with this guy. This isn’t about him, it’s about you and whatever is causing you to be unable to value yourself and your own needs. You keep asking the same questions. No one here can give you the answers for something that is broken within you. I assure you that you can get over this, but you need professional help | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 11:06 PM |
| 4 | Psychologist speculates on whether the man who singlehandedly killed his pregnant wife and children was actually manipulated by his mistress because she was out of his league 🤮men will really find a way to blame women for EVERYTHINGThanks. I will check it out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 10:01 PM |
| 14 | Psychologist speculates on whether the man who singlehandedly killed his pregnant wife and children was actually manipulated by his mistress because she was out of his league 🤮men will really find a way to blame women for EVERYTHINGShe is definitely a cluster B, most likely BPD Where did you find info that she stalked him before even meeting him? I’ve read so much about this case, but I hadn’t heard that before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 09:54 PM |
| 95 | One of the best things I’ve learned on FDS is asking a man to explain himself when he makes a dumb sexual joke. This was a quick unmatch.I support getting them to further explain by playing dumb, but only so you can report them to the app. Then just block. Blocking is way more powerful than continuing the conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 08:32 PM |
| 82 | Psychologist speculates on whether the man who singlehandedly killed his pregnant wife and children was actually manipulated by his mistress because she was out of his league 🤮men will really find a way to blame women for EVERYTHINGThere are SO many youtubers out there with theories on the mistress There is zero evidence that she convinced him to do it and I don’t believe that she did There is, however evidence that she is a narcissist. After it was found that he murdered his family, some of her google searches that came up in the investigation were ‘Amber Frey net worth’ ‘Amber Frey book deal’. So instead of being devastated that this animal she was with killed his wife and children with his bare hands because he wanted t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 06:35 PM |
| 54 | Women and children seem to suffer the most from PTSD...I highly recommend this book to anyone who suffers from trauma, especially those that found no relief through traditional therapy You know what’s so great about this book? It’s not just his well researched and highly effective treatments. It’s the case studies. I found it hard to put the book down because I was so intrigued by their stories. 10/10 all around. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:41 PM |
| 15 | MGTOW on Tinder lolHe looks to be about 5’7” and radiates small dick energy. Gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 03:34 PM |
| 16 | Several magazines have actually hired this person to write articles about sex.Her mother must be so proud 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 11:41 AM |
| 7 | What do you think of this?What she said 👆 Plus, what gives this dinosaur relic of the olden days the chutzpah to comment on modern women and dating? Like we care what this battered old scrote thinks in the first place? Also, the comments on men and it being valid to judge them if they can’t earn or be ‘manly’. TF world is he living in? The backlash we get from challenging the notion that our standards are too high on a daily basis here on this sub is proof positive that is utter bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | The New Yorker gets it 👑Getting tired of seeing this posted every other day 😬 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 10:28 PM |
| 3 | ladies, what do you think about giving an ex another shot?The FDS standard is to never take an ex back because men rarely change their ways In your case it seems you just weren’t ready. I hope you’ve worked through whatever issues you had that prevented you from being happy and enjoying a fulfilling relationship Here’s the thing, if you felt like he was ‘the one that got away’ and you’ve repaired whatever was holding you back, and as long as it had nothing to do with his behavior, ok, give it a try. But tread carefully because there might be lingering … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Scrote sickness galore!I recommend avoiding relationships until you get to a better place and understand what it is that attracts you to men like this. Therapy might be a good idea Abusive men are drawn to women who lack the ability to put up strong boundaries like moths to a flame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 01:13 PM |
| 7 | Scrote sickness galore!The fact that you are seeking to understand this deranged and depraved scrote is indicative of the fact that some attachment to him remains, despite him treating you horrendously This is more about you than him. You should be seeking to find out what attracted you to this monstrous individual to begin with. He’s irrelevant | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 06:18 PM |
| 198 | Think this fits in hereSo true. And I have been thinking of writing a post about this. I had dinner with a friend the other night and the moment we sat down her boyfriend called demanding to know where she was and why she didn’t answer his call five minutes earlier. She answered him cheerfully and he told her she needs to ‘drop the attitude’. When I stared at her in astonishment, she claimed ‘he’s under so much stress at work’. I started to explain why it was wrong for her to accept this behavior and her response was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 05:06 PM |
| 74 | Canceling the date for this. He can’t bring me a chair? I just threw mine out as it was rusting but I’m not buying one this morning. We have five mutual friends so I have to let him down nicely. How?This has been stated on this sub literally hundreds of times Don’t accept ‘walk’ dates. They are low effort, low value and a waste of time Covid is not an excuse. If you’re in a high risk area, don’t date at all outside of video conferencing. If not, even if an indoor restaurant is not an option, they can take you on a picnic or find other creative ideas rather than taking you out for a walk You ladies need to learn to vet ruthlessly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Not sure if this is appropriate for the sub, but I am scared and in need of urgent advice.When you block them and they send their flying monkeys to harass you from afar, you need to block the flying monkeys too Get a restraining order if he continues to harass you Read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/20 03:48 AM |
| 24 | But god forbid you don’t take care of a LVM when he has his “man cold”Really what this boils down to is that men can’t stand the idea of anything distracting us from their needs. It’s all about ‘muh penis’, even if you can’t fucking breathe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 11:42 PM |
| 9 | HVW Advice for Teen Girls?Enjoy life while you are young. Focus on school, then your career. Date casually and don’t get into a serious relationship. DO NOT date men who are more than a year or two older than you. Older men will manipulate you and take advantage of you. Read the handbook and also read the books listed in the FDS wiki | /r/askFDS | 02/10/20 04:14 PM |
| 31 | Can’t believe I thought OLD would be any different this time around.Hope you reported this creep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:32 AM |
| 57 | You really had to ask?I don’t feel like subjecting myself to the collective delusion by peeking at the comments, but I’m guessing they’re mostly, HoW DaRe sHe SnOOp oN YoUr pHoNE ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 01:30 AM |
| 25 | Shout out to Ellen Pao, CEO of Reddit in 2014, first leader to ban revenge porn and unauthorized nude photos. Ellen Pao sued venture capital firm Kleiner Perkins for gender discrimination, and calls out companies like Pinterest for sexism in the workplace. Round of applause for an all around queen.I bet it was. I can only imagine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:33 PM |
| 225 | Shout out to Ellen Pao, CEO of Reddit in 2014, first leader to ban revenge porn and unauthorized nude photos. Ellen Pao sued venture capital firm Kleiner Perkins for gender discrimination, and calls out companies like Pinterest for sexism in the workplace. Round of applause for an all around queen.Apparently her banning subs that harassed women caused huge controversy and it ended with her eventually stepping down. The patriarchy won and that’s why it’s such a shitshow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!His book is listed in the FDS wiki, among other great books all women should read | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:15 PM |
| 23 | So this is where all the FDS super fans have gone... (community created by an angry anti-FDS smoothbrain)Exactly. They literally have THE WHOLE EFFIN WORLD and THOUSANDS of years of oppression, but it’s not enough for them, they need to create ‘safe spaces’ (couldn’t type that without laughing out loud) on social media sites that cater to them and their every depraved whim Fucking crybabies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Love this woman so much, Alexyss Tylor talks about the plight of the pickmeI like her energy, she’s got charisma and charm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:48 AM |
| 15 | Love this woman so much, Alexyss Tylor talks about the plight of the pickmeShe’s explaining why it’s never worth it to get dickmatized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:25 AM |
| 15 | Love this woman so much, Alexyss Tylor talks about the plight of the pickmeThe part about ‘being able to earn a man’ is a nope for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 01:18 AM |
| 4 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?I have a good friend that I go to the beach with. She brings fancy wine, I bring fancy food. It’s a fairly cheap girl date and it’s way more fun than going to a bar or restaurant Don’t be afraid to treat your friends once in awhile though. It’s a nice thing to do as long as you can afford it and they respect boundaries by not expecting it to be the norm | /r/askFDS | 30/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 5 | I’m going on a girl date with a girl of a much lower social class than me. Is it okay if I pay? Is it condescending?This will be an unpopular opinion but I’m going to say it anyway The moment I started making more money than some of my friends and was able to afford to go out to nice restaurants and clubs, things became awkward in our friendships. It wasn’t so much envy, it was more resentment on their part that they couldn’t do the same and I understand that because it sucks to sit at home when you want to go out on the town and it lowers your self esteem, I’ve been there, I get it Paying for friends that ca… | /r/askFDS | 30/09/20 08:42 PM |
| 258 | So this is where all the FDS super fans have gone... (community created by an angry anti-FDS smoothbrain)So basically he created a community for men that act in accordance with the patriarchy and is anti feminist. So, what’s he going to call this unique community? Reddit 2? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 06:07 PM |
| 52 | Yikes.Capitalizing on pedophilia with her cooch. SO Trashy and depraved. This makes me want to puke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 04:06 PM |
| 78 | Guy treats his GF like shit because he thought she’d never leave. She leaves him and is gone for good. THIS IS A DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN!This is sociopathic behavior on his behalf. He doesn’t feel one ounce of remorse and that’s clear because the letter is filled with “I”’s He lacks any ability to feel empathy. The only thing he cares about is the void she left behind. He’s 100% guaranteed already seeking a new source to abuse and use. Although she was strong enough to leave, she will suffer from the emotional damage he inflicted for years Avoid narcissists at all costs ladies. Look out for the signs. If you’re not sure what to l… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 01:16 PM |
| 87 | Ugh. 30, the new 15.I hope you insta blocked this creep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 12:19 AM |
| 29 | Has anyone else ever tried to warn their ex’s new partner?The sad thing about narcs is that they inflict the kind of psychological damage that can blind their partners to their faults. Most of the time in these situations they will make you out to be the crazy one and convince their target that you were obsessed with them and lying. The dangerous ones will try to exact revenge on you, so that’s something to be wary of for women who try to warn the next woman who becomes his ‘prey’ Unfortunately the advice given by most experts on narcissism is to not g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 11:33 PM |
| 2 | I need affirmationLots of self care, vitamins, eat healthy, drink lots of water, find a virtual yoga class or go for a long run. Find funny movies and videos that will make you laugh. Find sad videos and movies that will make you cry. Both are cathartic Read the handbook. It will help strengthen your resolve You’ve got this. Stay strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭I spent a lot of time over quarantine practicing the recipes from the ‘Rao’s’ cookbook. It’s old world Italian cooking and I’m obsessed 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:53 PM |
| 2 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭IMO the best side is spaghetti limone, spaghetti marinara is good with it also | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 12:59 PM |
| 44 | One day, I decided to show my "ex" (online BF) how horrible the pornographic industry is. I read several women talking about their experience being abused, addicted to alcohol and drugs, etc. A while later he told me: "I wanna watch porn..."Don’t bother baring your soul to them. The response will always be, “But, muh penis” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:59 AM |
| 51 | An emotional NVM disagrees with me and then gets mad that I am not offended by his insults. Rage & insults but tops it off with a little bit of love because he obviously cares about my feelings. 🥴🙄 (*Pre-FDS*)Why drag yourself down in his mess? The moment a man called me dumb is the same moment he gets blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:55 AM |
| 1 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭Italian American here 🙋♀️. Making chicken cutlets properly is NOT kid cuisine. I brine mine for an hour, get my chicken sliced fresh and pounded ‘scallopine’ at the butcher, soak in egg and Parmesan and then bread them in a combo of bread crumbs and grated Parmesan before putting them in the oven at 375 degrees in a combo of olive oil and sunflower oil ( the sunflower oil is the key to making them crisp and light without weighing it down). It’s one of my favorite home cooked meals and to dimini… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/09/20 01:21 AM |
| 5 | This guy was on a dating advice sub asking why he only matches with overweight women, and that he’s not particularly attracted to ‘large’ women. THE AUDACITY!! 😂😂Pasty, white skin, the telltale balding of a porn addict, overweight and three chins. No thanks 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 09:31 PM |
| 68 | human scum justifies cheating on fiancee because she is unsexy pregnantSo glad to see that the overwhelming majority in the comments is ‘dump his ass’ Also, I find it hard to believe that she didn’t see any signs of his callousness before she got pregnant. Someone who could flip blame for his abusive behavior so cruelly, so easily, had to have shown signs previously, unless he’s a full on sociopath. And let me tell you, full on sociopaths are too cunning to do something as stupid as bang their next door neighbor This 👏 is 👏 why 👏 we 👏 heavily 👏 vet 👏 before 👏 havin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭What’s common and comes easy for others, isn’t always the same Many women don’t cook at all, so judging everyone on the same scale makes zero sense If I went out of my way to learn something new to make someone else happy and they dismissed it as ordinary and expected, that person would cease to exist for me. Editing to add: using an example of women being trained to serve men is not good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 06:57 PM |
| 6 | Was this lovebombing? I still think he can do no wrongBecause he gaslit you into thinking that way. That’s what narcs do. They can be very dangerous and the psychological damage they inflict can cause decades of damage You dodged a bullet. Block him and sever all connections to him. They usually come back and feign remorse. You are nothing but a game to him | /r/askFDS | 28/09/20 03:58 PM |
| 4 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭I’m an amateur chef level cook and I’ve always gone out of my way to make special meals for people. I’d drop anyone in my life that didn’t appreciate it and dismissed it as ‘the bare minimum ‘ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 03:52 PM |
| 22 | A full stomach is a happy stomach 🤭It’s so exhausting to see so much saltiness over something that’s so obviously a kind gesture that made a woman happy. It’s almost as if some women can’t stand to see other women experiencing joy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Someone posted a tiktok of a scrote arguing over an $18 lunch date today. I was disgusted by his behavior, but also mortified for whoever raised him. My job as a mom of two little boys is to keep them safe, and send them off into the world as HVMs so that your daughters will be safe with themSame goes for sociopaths. Plenty of them were raised by good parents, including Ted Bundy. There will always be outliers, but if you raise children the right way, they have a good chance of being respected, contributing members of society. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 30 | More sexual expertise from our friends in sex pozzy media!Sis doesn’t even know what she wants and can’t verbalize her needs. I’m visualizing mute, starfish sex with Emily and wondering why she chose her current occupation. Because obviously she sucks at sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 71 | More “helpful” sex advice from mainstream media. Someone needs to explain to me why we bother with men then.They are ALL libfems so, yes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 08:22 PM |
| 84 | More “helpful” sex advice from mainstream media. Someone needs to explain to me why we bother with men then.Lmao. She’s assigning blame for their lack of ability to make us orgasm to us???!!! With sisters like this, we don’t need enemies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 07:44 PM |
| 3 | How do you move past your trauma?Hey sis, I’m so sorry that you are suffering. The previous commenter offered great advice. I just want to address the therapy part of your post. I’m copying text from subbie u/inspection-critical below. She is a trauma survivor and she describes what finally worked for her. I hope it’s helpful: Also, don't be afraid to shop around and see several therapists to find one you click with. I found 2 therapists with PsyDs (doctorates for clinical psychology). The first was just okay, but she kept me a… | /r/askFDS | 27/09/20 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkBingo!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kinkYes. This. 1000x this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 5 | Confession from a self described "Daddy Dom" when I criticized his kink🎯 spot on assessment. I cannot find it in myself to look past proclivities for sexual relations with children. It’s NOT A FUCKING SEXUAL ORIENTATION. It’s a mental illness and there’s something broken inside them that causes it. They need therapy, not sympathy. Fuck. That. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Someone posted a tiktok of a scrote arguing over an $18 lunch date today. I was disgusted by his behavior, but also mortified for whoever raised him. My job as a mom of two little boys is to keep them safe, and send them off into the world as HVMs so that your daughters will be safe with themThanks sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 06:26 PM |
| 4 | Someone posted a tiktok of a scrote arguing over an $18 lunch date today. I was disgusted by his behavior, but also mortified for whoever raised him. My job as a mom of two little boys is to keep them safe, and send them off into the world as HVMs so that your daughters will be safe with themYes! Even when they are little you can teach them how to clean up after themselves and how to respect their mom! 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 13 | Someone posted a tiktok of a scrote arguing over an $18 lunch date today. I was disgusted by his behavior, but also mortified for whoever raised him. My job as a mom of two little boys is to keep them safe, and send them off into the world as HVMs so that your daughters will be safe with themDon’t stress it. Just enjoy them when they are little because they grow up fast. Teach them how to be strong, independent, disciplined and above all, kind. You’ll be fine mama! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 05:36 PM |
| 72 | Was this lovebombing? I still think he can do no wrongClassic love bombing. Yes. 100% Sis, you dodged a bullet. I know it hurts now but know this, he never existed, you fell for a ghost, a mask. Let it go and move on Read the handbook You need to know that you deserve so much better than a manipulative narcissistic asshole. | /r/askFDS | 27/09/20 12:03 PM |
| 17 | Someone posted a tiktok of a scrote arguing over an $18 lunch date today. I was disgusted by his behavior, but also mortified for whoever raised him. My job as a mom of two little boys is to keep them safe, and send them off into the world as HVMs so that your daughters will be safe with themDo you have kids??? Because if you think women can’t ruin their sons, just look up any of the posts here about desi men It is BOTH parents job to raise a good man and single mothers have it much harder, but it’s not impossible for them to raise a high value person. I’ve seen it happen many times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 11:11 AM |
| 21 | My fake profile (which says casual) to catch lying scrotes that say they want a relationship...this one actually admitted lying about it! And another was so gross I just told him how gross he was 🤣🤣🤣The second page has me 💀 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:04 AM |
| 48 | We don’t stalk male only subbredditsThey are soOooOooooOoo pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 04:01 AM |
| 17 | How Burnout Became the Norm for American Parents, Especially Millennial Mothers.I had a boyfriend whose family came to the US in the 70s as asylum seekers from the fall of the Shah of Iran. His mother, who’d never worked a day in her life, had to immediately get a job to support the family because the dad fell apart at the loss of his normal way of life. She told me that this happened to most of the men who came here after the fall of the Shah. They can’t do what we do. They can’t hold a family together and properly care for children the way that we do. Men think they are s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 22 | 🙅🏻♀️The ‘Scorpio’ alone is enough of a red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:42 AM |
| 14 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isI’ve reconciled myself to the fact that mine was in my life for a reason and every awful thing that happened to me led me to being stronger and more capable of creating strong boundaries. I wish it never happened to either of us but I probably wouldn’t be a part of this amazing tribe of women if it didn’t And sis, I knew exactly what he was and I still stayed in the hopes of him changing. He was so good at future faking and idealizing. It wasn’t the knowledge of what he was that kept me from lea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 30 | ‘Cool Girl’ monologue by Gillian FlynnNo worries. It’s a classic and a good thing to see for those who haven’t yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:37 PM |
| 8 | I’ve blocked incoming messages — and why you should too.Lol. It’s ok. I think I messaged you once to complain about a libfem we were both arguing with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:36 PM |
| 14 | I’ve blocked incoming messages — and why you should too.I finally solved the mystery of why you never answer my DMs 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:52 PM |
| 109 | ‘Cool Girl’ monologue by Gillian FlynnThis is a well known monologue in this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 27 | Anyone see the post of the girl that got jaw surgery one r/damnthatsinteresting?Did you see the one of the woman demonstrating how she puts on her prosthetic legs? The comments are VILE. Jokes about her already being on her knees, the inevitable “I’d throw it in there” and hundreds of comments on her looks. But WE are the toxic ones on Reddit 🙄🙄🙄 If “Not all men” is their response, why is it that you’d never see this disgusting behavior on posts about men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:49 PM |
| 39 | How Burnout Became the Norm for American Parents, Especially Millennial Mothers.Out of all of my dozens of mom friends and acquaintances, I know of only one whose husband proactively took on the task of helping their kids with online schooling. The rest of us had to balance homeschooling and work. It was a tremendous struggle to keep things balanced. I locked myself in the bathroom to cry almost daily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 08:12 PM |
| 52 | Just saw a post where this girl was raped by her boyfriend but she doesn’t believe he is a rapist because...Dm her. Tell her she deserves so much better and send her the link to this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 04:01 PM |
| 139 | It’s not possible to tell if a man is high value after a few dates/weeks/months. Vetting is an ongoing process, and you should be glad that it isThe LVM wolf in HVM clothing is the most dangerous kind, and they are usually narcissists/ sociopaths that have experience wearing the mask. They are master manipulators and their key tactic is love bombing. So look out for signs of love bombing and continue to vet because as OP says, your life may depend on it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 02:10 PM |
| 14 | Story of my 1 year life transformation thanks to all of you amazing ladies❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 12:12 AM |
| 4 | FML. I was on Tinder and I found a friend's boyfriend on there.Would you not want to know if your boyfriend was cheating you? Yes or no? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:56 PM |
| 15 | FML. I was on Tinder and I found a friend's boyfriend on there.This is terrible advice. I don’t know any women who wouldn’t want to be told that they are living a lie And telling the guy first? As if he’s going to come clean and not try to hide it? Giving him extra time to come up with a story to cover his tracks? No. Women need to look out for one another Wouldn’t you want to know if your boyfriend was cheating on you, no matter who it was that told you? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:38 PM |
| 26 | Pickmesha calls us InCeLs 🤡“Woman and I”. She needs to learn basic grammar before she has any chance of insulting anyone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:31 PM |
| 56 | Those of you who are no-communication with toxic family members and having to distance from friends because of the pandemic. How do you celebrate your birthdays/ holiday events alone?My heart broke for you reading this You shouldn’t feel awkward asking friends to join their gatherings. Most people would be so happy to have outsiders join in. I have often invited friends to family gatherings because I knew they’d be alone or prefer not to see their families. Don’t be shy to ask Otherwise, book a spa day or take yourself out to eat and have a movie marathon day at home 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:47 AM |
| 32 | Then they insist you at least pay the tip...You...you expect me to pay for your $2 coffee? 😱 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 8 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsI’m sure Asian women aren’t sitting around waiting for another race or cultures leftovers. I truly hope that you don’t think Asian women believe themselves to be beneath white women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 159 | Literally, the audacity!Yes and they expect 18 year old virgins to line up for their limp old dicks and have babies for them Hahahahahahahaha Idiots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:25 AM |
| 8 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsI did not write that. I pasted his post and pointed out the outrageous things he said. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 08:25 PM |
| 20 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsThere were two commentators calling him out. Apparently he keeps creating new user accounts because Reddit banned him and they’re chasing him down and telling everyone to report him for circumventing the ban. This disgusting scrote is too stupid to change his MO when posting and every time he posts, he gets called out and reported | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 04:49 PM |
| 30 | Racial fetishization and pedophilia. He wonders if he should learn to speak Chinese so he can have a better chance of targeting women that have the body type of school boys. Reddit is a cesspool of depraved LVMsJust another of millions of examples of gaming and watching porn melts their brain cells | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about Breonna Taylor for a minute?That wasn’t targeted at you, just adding to the above commenters rant about Breonna getting victim shamed and the injustice of all of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:27 PM |
| 10 | MANS GOT ME DECEASED🤣🤣🤣OP. These should be posted in FDSSuperfans, not here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Can we talk about Breonna Taylor for a minute?Same goes for the arguments when an unarmed criminal gets gunned down or has his neck kneeled on for 9 minutes. “He was on drugs, he passed a counterfeit bill!” So what? That means he deserved to be murdered?????!!!! It’s sickening | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/20 01:46 PM |
| 9 | Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her.Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 30 | Have been anticipating my first troll message after posting here for a couple weeks and this is all he got. Now we're attracting guys from r/steroids 🤡 I-Brain matter so shriveled up by roids, all he can muster up is one word | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 5 | 4+ years and I JUST walked the door with a small bag and without even a glance let alone a goodbye!This is amazing and I promise you, it’s all up from here. You just walked out of hell and are on your way to bliss!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 18 | This poor woman’s boyfriend spends all day jerking off to deep fakes of her own friends and using VR and a pocket pussy for hours so naturally she asks Reddit for their quality adviceSorry, but this reads like an ad for these porn services. She goes into way too much detail about how he specifically used these technologies to simulate sex with her friends. There was no need to describe how he achieved this in so much detail. Scrotes were probably salivating over the idea and signing up for these services And this supposed woman just says “ oh he’s in therapy now” I’m not buying it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 03:24 PM |
| 125 | Queen actions. Saw this on Facebook FDS material.Once when I was at the airport in baggage claim waiting for my bags to come out, this young girl (prob around 21) was trying to get all of her things back into her suitcase. Everything had spilled out because it had torn on the conveyor. The look of horror on her face as ALL of her belongs spread out on the conveyor. I was horrified for her and rushed to help and as I helped her get it all together she was crying. Ugly crying, heaving, snot nosed crying. I had to explain to her it wasnt so bad a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:40 PM |
| 3 | ‘.... some occasional hole’ 🤮🤮🤮🤮Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:24 PM |
| 3 | So this woman has been sleeping on this scrotes brown pillows prior to this?!!!Oh ffs. Just buy new pillows. So much work for nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 25 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersWe are going to hit 100k tonight This group is growing so fast! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:03 PM |
| 25 | Guy tries experiment on getting women to initiate the first move. Fails. Lol. Most of them barely get matches even though they swipe right on everything. We are here to chase you? The delusion. The audacity 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 43 | Men who are truly interested in your hobbies/interests.These traits are at the top of my list of goals in a partner. An HVM who displays true interest in what ignites your dreams and goals through action. This is beyond 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 10:08 PM |
| 9 | My next door neighbour just got arrested - trigger warningExactly. Prisons aren’t full of violent offenders, so why are they letting them out? It makes zero sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 05:41 PM |
| 17 | My next door neighbour just got arrested - trigger warningI’m so sorry that happened to you. Even though you weren’t physically harmed, I’m sure it was traumatizing and I’m glad you took the time to write it all out here because I’m sure it was cathartic for you On another note, what is going on in this country (assuming you live in the US, because this is happening here) where violent criminals are being released without bail almost immediately and being released due to covid ???? I get that the system is not fair to the poor and overcrowding is a big… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 04:15 PM |
| 90 | Lets throw FDS an all day Birthday Party when we reach 100k subscribersLove this idea! Please set up a mega thread on that day Ladies, prepare for the avalanche of salty scrote tears 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 03:42 PM |
| 13 | Boy do I wish I could not watch my kids because I feel like shit...Sis, I have friends in the same boat and they’ve been dealing with similar issues for YEARS, one of them for more than a decade, trying to make sense out of it and fighting these ‘fathers’ tooth and nail. For what? Years of suffering? Low contact. Grey rock. Exactly as you did. Unless he is abusing your child, that’s all you need to do to avoid getting dragged down by his toxicity Document everything. Don’t delete any of his texts or emails You’ll do fine and your kids will excel in life because… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 100 | Inside the LVM brainSo sick of them blaming their descent into the fifth ring of porn and video game Hell on us It’s really not that hard to shower, stop masturbating constantly and read a self help book ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 2 | Only 1 couple in 24 Seasons of the Bachelor is still together. For the Bachelorette, it's 5 for 15.I didn’t come up with that on my own. I learned that gem here on this sub. Probably from one of our amazing mods but maybe it was even a newbie that said it, and trust me, some of the newbies here are just as astute and creative as the seasoned crew and that’s because the women in this group are amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 01:54 AM |
| 3 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/20 12:49 AM |
| 65 | Boy do I wish I could not watch my kids because I feel like shit...That’s exactly how you do it with a narc OP. It’s called ‘parallel parenting’ and it’s similar to the FDS ‘block Them’ stance, except that you obviously cannot do that when you have children together, so you do the next best thing, which is as little contact and engagement as possible. But you probably already came to that conclusion without even knowing there was a name for it. You seem like an excellent mom and your kids are lucky to have you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:49 PM |
| 10 | Boy do I wish I could not watch my kids because I feel like shit...Agreed! If my ex pulled this shit ( he wouldn’t because he wants as much time with his kids as possible) I would just be like ‘k’. Not even the extra O. Lol. Because why argue when you know they’re just crap parents that can’t be bothered ? You can’t change that. Id also probably thank him because I cherish every extra moment I get to be with my kids And yes, parents never get a day off. I had shingles last year and it was the worst pain ever, every movement was a struggle and my ex could not he… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 11:43 PM |
| 36 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?Complete and utter lack of self refection and motivation to change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 41 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?They don’t enjoy rejection because their threshold for hurt feelings is 5th grade when they pulled a girls pigtails and she punched them in the face. Literal crybabies who never got over the one that got away and why? Because the patriarchy taught men from birth that women were beneath them and when they were hurt by one, it stunned them into a state of perpetual anger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:54 PM |
| 151 | r/MGTOW sums up the dating world: “Most men can't get most women, most women find most men unworthy”. Thoughts?Seriously, they need to stop analyzing so much instead of just doing the work to level up. They spend so much time ruminating over why they can’t get women, instead of cleaning their rooms, washing their asses and finding ways to better themselves besides doing much more than watching porn and playing video games in their free time Stop worrying about why you can’t find a woman to sleep with you and start making yourself a high value human being. It’s as they’d rather blame their shortcomings on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 09:11 PM |
| 3 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.This isn’t a dating advice sub, it’s a dating strategy sub. The mods have made it clear that too many advice seeking questions with answers that are already clearly spelled out in the handbook do not serve the purpose of this sub ‘Block him’ is NOT a cop out, it’s advice geared toward ruthlessly vetting for maximum benefit to women And again, advice questions are to be directed to the ‘askfds’ sub, not here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 12:02 PM |
| 36 | Advice needed on Bumble Guy.He’s wasting your time. If he can’t be assertive enough to make a plan, how can he be man enough to be HV? Just block and move on. Never get emotionally invested early on, especially on dating apps and particularly Bumble because that app requires women to make the first move | /r/askFDS | 21/09/20 01:17 AM |
| 79 | Men who demand a 50/50 split on the dinner bill never apply this to the housework divide!!All of the cheap scrote and salty libfem eyes on this sub that think they’re sO wOkE, please, die mad, because this man speaks the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 08:20 PM |
| 33 | Reminder to read the handbook and follow the values of this sub when posting and commentingRight The doxxing and condoning violence is NOT what this sub is about. I think new subs join thinking this is a place to just rage about men and that’s just not the case, even though there is plenty to rage about ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 156 | Only 1 couple in 24 Seasons of the Bachelor is still together. For the Bachelorette, it's 5 for 15.And what lesson does this teach us? Competing for men is never going to serve you if you’re in it for the long game The egg doesn’t swim to the sperm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 06:42 PM |
| 20 | Sent a dude home because I wanted to be aloneHim driving a couple of hours to meet you isn’t a good reason to entertain him at your home. You need to meet them in a public place for a meal and then send them on their way Never put yourself in the uncomfortable and potentially dangerous situation of entertaining a man in your home unless you are in an exclusive relationship and he has been heavily vetted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:22 PM |
| 21 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.Ok well then the advice you are seeking is all there. In particular I would suggest the ‘detaching from the fuckboy you slept with’ post in the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 65 | There’s one particular LVM I can’t get out of my head, no matter how hard I try.You are idealizing him as the perfect man because you have some things in common and are attracted to him Sis, the perfect man is not emotionally unavailable and only able to connect through sex. This is more about you than it is about him. You need to figure out what it is that attracts you to men like this in the first place Read the handbook. Particularly the sections: Anti Fuckboy guide, psychological strategies and breaking up Also, in the future, please direct advice seeking questions to t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 04:47 PM |
| 2 | Incels new chart about women.It’s here to stay forever! 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:38 AM |
| 91 | I am tired of libfem financial adviceLibfem ideology played into the hands of the patriarchy perfectly. They act as if they shattered molds of previous standards. All they did was make it easier for men to take advantage of us In what fucking world is it fair that women pay half when they do the majority of the work to run a household AND take on the higher risks of being in a relationship? We: Risk our bodies to have children and have higher susceptibility to stds than men End up being single mothers with zero financial support fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:36 AM |
| 19 | In appreciation for all the fans who show up in our DMs 😂It’s weird how they think we GAF what they think of us. Who summoned you to speak to me, scrote? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:46 AM |
| 46 | In appreciation for all the fans who show up in our DMs 😂Every message they send, every false claim that we are toxic, every time the fact that we have standards triggers them,only further proves our necessity | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Gosh! I feel bad for the girl. She is too much into it while the guy wants to run offI agree 100%. If a man did this, we would say it was lvm and highly manipulative She sounds like she might have borderline personality disorder and needs therapy. If you stay with a person who continually manipulates you for the sake of ‘saving’ them, you’re not helping them, you’re enabling them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:12 PM |
| 4 | Why do women reproduce with these LVM?!“He was using the baby to enable him alone time to watch porn’ The level of depravity here is highly disturbing and when men say they are the superior sex, here is the proof that they are not. Women would NEVER do that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 08:53 PM |
| 10 | Introducing my husband ladies ..This!!!! 👆 Narcissists don’t give a shit how their behavior affects anyone Also, when they find out that there is a word for what they are, they just nod and say “exactly “, with a smile on their face So, if you are wondering if you are a narc, you aren’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:55 PM |
| 1 | My married landlord hit on me and this happenedI hope you don’t think this is a cute story. Because it isn’t and this sub does not suggest violence as an appropriate response to inappropriate behavior What your neighbor did was inexcusable and you should delete this because if this story is somehow traced back to you, you can be charged as an accessory to aggravated assault. I’m 100% serious. Delete this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:17 PM |
| 0 | My married landlord hit on me and this happenedHold up. Are you saying you told your neighbors that your landlord inappropriately flirted with you and they had the guy beat up so badly that he was hospitalized??? No. We don’t do that here. We don’t celebrate violence. This is not ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of a former pick meI’m so sorry that you had to go through all of that. I don’t know if you know how powerful it is to share your story and offer sound advice that comes from successful healing, but it is extremely powerful and very inspiring Keep sharing here because those who need this support will benefit tremendously from your wise advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:38 PM |
| 105 | Why do women reproduce with these LVM?!Yes. He takes breaks for watching porn and occasionally stuffing his half limp dick in anyone willing enough to suffer through it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:31 PM |
| 2 | Confessions of a former pick meThis is really great advice. So helpful for the women here who have suffered from trauma to know this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 71 | Introducing my husband ladies ..Wondering if it’s your fault is very common with abuse To be honest, after reading the context, you both seem like you have trouble with communicating in a mature way but anyone who talked to me the way that he talked to you would be gone for good | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 04:14 AM |
| 15 | Introducing my husband ladies ..How old are you both? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 63 | Introducing my husband ladies ..Also, change his name from ‘babe’ to ‘Myabusivenarcissiticexhusbandfromhell’. Block him. Then call a lawyer. Trust me on this. Run fast. Run far | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 03:11 AM |
| 88 | Incels new chart about women.And none. Absolutely None of those women would fuck them. Here’s a thought : Take a shower (this includes washing your ass,idiots) Shave Get a haircut Clip your nails (this includes your toenails, idiots) Clean your apartment/room Replace your nest with a bed (this includes a bed frame, idiots) Stop watching porn Stop playing video games Join the real world and make some friends irl (Reddit doesn’t count, idiots) Get a job Then maybe, just maybe, you might have a chance on having a conversation … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:46 AM |
| 141 | Introducing my husband ladies ..This is typical narcissist behavior Run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 02:37 AM |
| 3 | Confessions of a former pick meThis was my narc ex to a T. Down to the hair and beard. How crazy! Only difference is the ‘lets hang out part’. He wanted to dominate every aspect of my life and every moment of my time 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 10:31 PM |
| 5 | Confessions of a former pick meYes. We have former 🤡 in our blood | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 09:33 PM |
| 83 | UGH!Yes and also, having the palate of a 12 year old, if all he likes are chicken nuggets, pizza and burgers, that’s a next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 08:37 PM |
| 7 | Confessions of a former pick meGlad you are better now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 07:42 PM |
| 54 | Confessions of a former pick meThat’s a red flag for plate spinning. If he can’t see you on Friday or Saturdays, there’s probably another woman Read the handbook sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 06:20 PM |
| 29 | Confessions of a former pick meOhhhh. I forgot to mention the sensitive part. He had to be sensitive so I could excuse his aloof, shitty behavior on the fact that “he’s really sweet though!” 🤮🤮🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Smh, all you had to do was be on time for work , and you can’t even do THAT!That was another truly disturbing one. Scrote jerks off to teenagers in the pool at the neighbors. Reddit pervs: HoW oLd wEre tHeY cAusE tHeY miGhTvE beEn lEGaL 🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/20 04:34 PM |
| 123 | Me: “if you’re interested in me romantically we should go on a proper date.” Him:Scrote translated: I’m cheap and I was hoping to get my dick wet with little to no effort Only appropriate response: block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 11:29 PM |
| 68 | Smh, all you had to do was be on time for work , and you can’t even do THAT!OMG And all of the comments: He might have a medical condition, yOU sHoULd gEt hIm heLp!!!, as if he’s not just a lazy ass, or if he did have an issue, he couldn’t get help on his own after having issues with work and being on time previously The REAL gems though are the people saying she’s doing a shit job as a SAHM because it takes her 12 hours to homeschool her two kids! Between this and the comments in defense of the brother jizzing in his sisters underwear and the guy jerking off with his b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 4 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.Reddit is full of jokes about step sister and incest sex. Porn has broken their brains It’s pathetic and sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 06:10 PM |
| 9 | Comments section full of men defending a woman's boyfriend who jerked off with her baby in the roomLvm, porn addict, pedos in the comments: Men need to nut, even if it traumatizes you or your child and if you ask him not to masturbate while you’re home, you’re the abuser, not him TWo mOnTH oLd’s HaVe bAD eYeSigHt FDSers are BRIGADING this thread. (Even though most of the commenters fighting off the pedos are not fdsers🙄) OK Groomer. Go home and watch ‘Cuties’ on Netflix now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:31 PM |
| 45 | Seeing women post about how excited they are when they start dating a known LVM...This is so funny and so true But, I want that trash can now 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:22 PM |
| 53 | Breaking a Generational CurseI get so tired of hearing people excuse their fuck ups and problems on childhood trauma. Yes, there’s a reason for the propensity to continue the toxic cycle. But no, it’s not a reason to continue to live a life of misery. You are not your past So proud of you sis. All of that toxicity ends right now because you have the clarity and the strength you need to rise above it. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:19 PM |
| 5 | my (22) bf (23m) Lied to me on my birthday while hanging out with another girl getting drunkPlease read the handbook You’re wasting your time with a low value man Throw the whole man out and start over | /r/askFDS | 17/09/20 01:42 PM |
| 6 | Very cute!Forget about the ring. Build me my dream house with those skills ❤️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡🖐🏻 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 01:27 AM |
| 12 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡If you think she is an intelligent woman, we will just have to agree to disagree and leave it at that I think she’s an idiot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:55 PM |
| 9 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡Yeah. Sorry. Smart people don’t publicly wonder what piss tastes like And her being unintelligent isn’t what I take issue with, it’s the fact that libfems refer to her as a role model. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 88 | This is exactly what liberal feminism gets us 🤢You see how they are packaging this up in a pretty little package of “artistic! bold! Feminist”????!!!!! At best it’s a money grab that appeals to male depravity, at worst, it’s eases the toe under the door of normalizing pedophilia Stay Woke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:44 PM |
| 14 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡Put aside her shitty values and bad message, her stratosphere level pick me behavior and her superficial persona, she is a low IQ idiot. This gem stands out from her twitter feed, “I wonder what pee tastes like”. How is she a role model? She is ratchet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 09:22 PM |
| 181 | One more reason to never 👏🏼send 👏🏼nudes👏🏼 There is literally no photo he could take that would be an even trade. You’re beautiful, soft, can pose like a goddess. He’s most likely dirty, unkept, and using flash.HVMs will NEVER ask you for nudes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 08:50 PM |
| 44 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡Facts The only thing that will give you respect and love is choosing the right man and avoiding the garbage ones | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:16 PM |
| 8 | THIS is why porn is ruining women's lives and making them insecure. Some women are even willing to get labiaplasty to satisfy pornsick men and making them "less likely to cheat"! Unbelievable.“ excuse me while I put on my adult diaper so I can do a raid” 😂😂😂😂 Call the coroner. I’m 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:11 PM |
| 57 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡And he’s ugly af. I just don’t get it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:09 PM |
| 49 | The fake feminists gushed over her ‘groundbreaking’ lyrics that ‘smashed female stereotypes’. “ I don’t cook, clean, but I got this ring”. Yeah Cardi, you forgot the part about weeding out loser LVMs though. Look at you now 🤡 🤡 🤡She has all the money in the world and what does she do with it? She married a garbage human that previously cheated This is why we don’t listen to libfems. They’re all just as stupid and ridiculous as she is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:08 PM |
| 5 | You cannot ignore history 🤷♀️Literally stood up to clap, sitting in a room by myself 😂👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Saw this post on twitter earlier. It’s so true. LVM would rather convince women they don’t deserve their high standards than aim to meet them or alternatively date women with lower standards.Bingo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 15 | Forever coffee dates LOLMost of them don’t own bedframes so that makes sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 08:32 PM |
| 23 | Found out I’m pregnant last nightCongratulations!!!! You’re going to be drained and exhausted during your first trimester, so prepare to let him take on extra duties so you can have more rest The second trimester you will be moody and hormonal, prepare him for that too lol Keep exercising. Follow your normal exercise routine until you start showing, make adjustments as needed to accommodate your growing belly. It will be so much easier to bounce back after giving birth if you stay active Avoid the foods that are not recommended… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 06:13 PM |
| 16 | Forever coffee dates LOLSaving the planet. One peanut butter sandwich picnic at a time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:49 PM |
| 16 | Forever coffee dates LOLWhat do I look like? The fresh air fund for cheap scrotes? FOH | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 17 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.Smart kitty!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:48 PM |
| 32 | If a guy vehemently hates cats, run.I’m not a cat fan. Anything that poops in the house is a no for me. I’m not a control freak but I am a clean freak and the random throw up sessions on carpets would make me nuts I don’t hate them though. I have strays that I regularly feed and I can’t imagine why anyone would hate cats. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:22 PM |
| 49 | Forever coffee dates LOLOutdoor adventures = poor af. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Resisting the urge to send a final text to my exLet go of the need to establish justice. This is a man who can never justify his actions, even if he wanted to If you were to send him a text, his response would be a long text of made up shit crafted to try to get back in your good graces. It will all be fake and I can 1000% guaranteed you, it will be filled with the letter I and virtually no “you’s” Write it down on paper, then burn that shit and forget his garbage ass forever Justice is moving on and living your best life. Fuck that loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 16 | Oh, look at that. Netflix in the news for Pedophila. Again. Here is my shocked face 🙄.https://www.google.com/amp/s/lawandcrime.com/celebrity/netflix-documentary-star-being-investigated-by-fbi-for-allegedly-soliciting-minors-for-sex-and-nude-photos/amp/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 03:40 AM |
| 5 | SRS Question: Women who believe in manifestation techniques, where is your HVM?It’s such a personal thing. You have to find something that resonates. I have long time teachers and guides that I’ve met through practicing yoga for years. My best suggestion is to look on YouTube and find something / someone that fits your personality and maybe seek out a reputable healer in your area who is well versed in these things. Does that make sense? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:28 PM |
| 14 | SRS Question: Women who believe in manifestation techniques, where is your HVM?Yes and also, being positive all of the time is something preached by some of the new age mainstream ideas. That’s fakery. You have to exorcise the demons within, the attachments to things that hold you back. Then, and only then, can you bring your dreams to reality It’s a process, and it’s not for the faint hearted. That’s why so many quit before attaining their goals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.“You don’t seem to understand” The problem for people like you is, I DO understand. And I’m disgusted by people like you who refuse to understand that you’re being used to promote an evil agenda Also, you haven’t answered my questions about cases that prompted the bill in the first place. And that’s because you can’t, because there aren’t any Everything you stand for is a fucking lie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.And you’re repeating leftist propaganda that basically says “it’s not fair that gay people can’t get away with rape the way straight people can” Please produce this bellweather case and cases of gay teens going to jail that prompted senator Weiner to introduce this bill You can’t, because there aren’t any. Because this bill was only introduced to score political points and Senator Weiner has a history of introducing bills that loosen punishments for people who abuse children Produce proof this b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 60 | SRS Question: Women who believe in manifestation techniques, where is your HVM?The secret to manifestation is being ready for and understanding your goal. The problem with this idea of snapping your fingers and getting what you want it that most that do this don’t even believe they deserve what they want Try cleaning up everything in your way to bring your best self first. This includes practicing connection to your higher self and self love Start with small things. The big things require large shifts which most people aren’t prepared for If you can’t sit and meditate for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.His history in introducing bills that fail to protect minors is highly problematic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.Shocker! A kinkmeisha, jumping on here to spout her ‘woke’ views and deem those who disagree as uneducated. Keep praising these evil politicians that introduce useless bills that have no proof of having harmed the LGBT community other than “they should be able to take advantage of minors too!” Ridiculous. Go find a libfem sub to haunt. We don’t fall in line with shit that hurts kids here for the sake of slapping a ‘woke’ sticker on our foreheads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 02:23 PM |
| 29 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!Serious question: Why has the whole poly thing become so prevalent here lately? Is it because we’ve acquired so many new members who don’t yet get what’s wrong with polyamory, or something bigger, like a push from fringe cultures for acceptance that’s become prevalent? WTH is going on and why does it seem like so many people want this garbage to be mainstream? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.“But it’s a thoughtful, artistic film that brings to light the struggles of growing up and it was made by a Senegalese woman who grew up poor!” , Cries the woke crowd. No. It’s not. It’s a pedophiles wet dream on the main screen and it should be condemned to hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.The ‘woke’ crew prefers to pat crooked politicians like him on the back instead of bringing him to task on making things easier for sex offenders 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 11:31 AM |
| 0 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.How does it protect LGBT children when it only makes it easier for offenders to escape the sex offender label just by virtue of the sex act? Nothing worked in the balance of children. A group decided to fight a part of the law that was unfair to the LGBT community. That part is fine. Where is the group that cares about the 10 year age gap? When did I say all liberals are pedophiles? Lol. You’re ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:36 PM |
| -2 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.An important step forward would be putting the energy and resources into protecting the most vulnerable. The most vulnerable are the children I’m getting tired of explaining that. It takes so much time, money and effort to sign a bill in to law. I’m very disappointed that the left cares more about LGBT rights than they do about children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.The ‘woke’ equivalent of every pretend feminist trying to get in a woman’s pants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:48 PM |
| 11 | When a male lurker dms you their unwanted opinion.Don’t even give them the satisfaction of a response. They are only doing it because they can’t get past the mods, so they try to find another outlet for their unrequited rage Ignore. Ignore. Ignore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.The new law took into account equality of the LGBTQ community. I agree they deserve equal rights, of course. However, children, by nature, are more vulnerable than the LGBTQs of the world. They deserve protection as well. And no one seems to give a shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.Right. While I agree there are some crazy conspiracies out there and the right wing is using these theories to gain favor politically, and not for the sake of just the kids, we have to agree there is some agenda from some on the left to push pedophiles as an acceptable members of society. Slate published an article written by a pedophile in defense of himself and others like him. This is abhorrent and the pushback against it should be fierce. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 9 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.Exactly. It should have been a priority to lessen the age gap and tighten up the law so that offenders have no loopholes , WHILE also making the law fair for the LGBT community It seems like protecting children is not the priority in California | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:25 PM |
| 18 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.It makes sense to make the laws fair for LGBT. However, it’s shocking to me that the age gap of ten years was not vehemently fought against in the first place. Why is it that it’s so important to make things fair, but in California, it seems no one cares about children being raped by grown men? Do children matter less? There shouldn’t be a law that creates loopholes tor anyone, gay, straight, bi etc to escape the harsh penalties of raping children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 05:11 PM |
| 15 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.The justification was “ he had such a bright future, why ruin it?” Zero sympathy for the woman and you can guarantee that if he wasn’t white and rich, he’d have gone to jail This is why we don’t leave the fate of rapists and pedos to the judge alone to decide. Having sex with a minor is a crime. Raping is a crime. There should be no loopholes for these garbage humans! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 8 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.I get that but a ten year age gap makes it easier for men to get away with having sex with little girls. That is not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 03:09 PM |
| 72 | Yesterday the California governor signed a law that gives judges discretion on labeling pedophiles as sex offenders. California is literally on fire and this is what the government is focused on. They stop at nothing to normalize pedophilia.I can’t wait until all of the Ghislaine Maxwell court docs are unsealed. I hope it exposes all of the famous pedos that went to that island. Just the thought of them living in fear of the day they are named publicly is enough to make me happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:30 PM |
| 67 | Not only polyamorous, but also wants to bring down capitalism and patriarchy! Wow, so amaze, such woke.I’ve never met a liberal man who identified as a feminist that wasn’t a misogynistic pervert who hid under a mask of being a woke socialist. Never. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:18 PM |
| 18 | One of the creepy messages I got on my old account. Reading this shocked me since I never heard any man say such weird and disgusting things to me.They love to use terms like “open minded” to disguise their depravity Open minded is trying a new dish that doesn’t seem appealing, or letting a friend talk you into going somewhere you’re not thrilled about, not going along with some nasty scrote’s porn fantasy. Ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/09/20 01:42 AM |
| 21 | Fucking disgusting indeed! 🤢🤮Let’s add having a skin care routine for HVM requirements. If he washes his face with the same soap he washes his ass with, that’s a next for me And please invest in a decent moisturizer ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:04 PM |
| 345 | FDS is anti polyamory👏 👏 👏 Also: Anti encouraging sex work and sending nudes Anti shaming women in abusive relationships Anti kink and BDSM Those above are just a few that I’ve also seen in the comments recently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 11:02 PM |
| 9 | Scrotes entitlement:His head looks like it was photoshopped on his body. His body looks like it was photoshopped onto a scene from ‘Hoarders’ 😂 Still, it’s a funny representation of their overblown expectations vs what they have to offer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:46 PM |
| 31 | Scrotes entitlement:Plus she gotta keep this trash heap clean, pay half the bills and not be mad that my dick doesn’t work because porn 🖕🏻 🖕🏻 🖕🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 08:38 PM |
| 7 | I'm speechlessI’m truly disappointed at some of the comments on this thread Some of you are shaming this poor girl, who is suffering from abuse. She’s young and confused and this is how you treat her? That’s NOT what this sub is about Shame on those of you who are doing this !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:18 PM |
| 7 | I'm speechlessWomen who grew up traumatized confuse abuse with love. Most abused women fall under this category Don’t victim shame women, that’s just as bad as what her abuser has done and it will turn away women who need help here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 06:16 PM |
| 27 | Dealing with an abusive narcissistic ex-husband’s ploy to win you backSo glad that you had the luck to have found such an experienced, wise and helpful lawyer Narcissists can’t change. It’s impossible. They have created a false self that needs constant sources of attention and praise in order to maintain. They quite simply, think this false self they’ve created is perfect. They might go through the motions to get out of trouble or win back something they value on a superficial basis, but they always fall back to the same routine: idealization, devalue, discard. An… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 05:54 PM |
| 24 | I'm speechlessShe’s young and inexperienced. Most of the women that get caught up in this kind of situation don’t realize how abusive it is until they’re two kids deep and completely dependent on their abuser Her reaching out to question the situation is a very good sign the she is awakening to how wrong this is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 01:15 AM |
| 8 | Jacob Blake 👎🏿It’s so disturbing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:30 AM |
| 26 | I'm speechlessMe too. I’m still upset by it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 12:30 AM |
| 16 | Imagine agreeing to start a tinder page with your "FWB". Nah, sis.These scrotes seriously think that dick is so rare, women are looking to share one 🙄 As if his porn sick, limp dick can even handle one woman, much less two Idiots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:45 PM |
| 117 | I'm speechlessI sent her a DM I hope she comes to this sub She’s being groomed by a narc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 11:09 PM |
| 71 | Jacob Blake 👎🏿Kamala Harris went to meet his family What about meeting with the girl he raped instead? We are all being duped into believing either political party cares about protecting women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:55 PM |
| 226 | NVM Ex-husband meets new meYeah right. It’s YOUR fault that HIS kids don’t want to hang out with him 🙄🙄🙄 Why are they this stupid ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 07:49 PM |
| 35 | To all the ladies waiting on a text back a HVM won’t leave you wondering. BF has restricted access due to work but still finds time to reach out.It’s also not just him, sis. your response shows that you most likely have a secure attachment style. You can’t attract a HVM unless you are a HVW. Judging by this text, you guys seem well matched. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 100 | To all the ladies waiting on a text back a HVM won’t leave you wondering. BF has restricted access due to work but still finds time to reach out.You will never be left confused or wondering where they stand when a man truly wants to be with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 06:39 PM |
| 75 | Woman has reasonably solution, comments are full of "NoOoOo! It'S nOt NoRmAl FoR a WoMaN tO hAvE hEr OwN rOoM iN a ReLaTiOnShIp!!!1!1!!11 That'S nOt HeAlThY!1!!!“Have to agree with this. I would be so pissed off by getting woken up at 5am. Turning on lights and being noisy shows a considerate lack of empathy for the partner who is asleep. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 01:07 PM |
| 22 | Don’t fall for the “send me a pic” bait he tried it. 😒 we planned a date and exchanged numbers. He immediately sent me a pic as the first message “JuSt cOnFiRmiNG iT’s Me” And sent the pic at 5:36pm but his watch says 6:28pm, so this pic confirms nothing. boy bye.😑Dude has enough buttons undone on that pic for him to be an insta nope and block for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/09/20 02:29 AM |
| 19 | Just a reminder this is a representative from the other 50% of the world population. God bless the woman who got away from this creep.How much do you want to bet he expected his ex girlfriend to pay half of the bills and still be his bang maid This 👏 is 👏 why 👏 we 👏 don’t 👏 spilt 👏 the 👏 bills 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 07:01 PM |
| 30 | Longtime lurker but gotta share: ex LVM bf literally asked me if I wanted to have car sex with him after he broke up with me and drove me to my final destination.Low effort sex was his goal. He future faked you to try to achieve his goal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:42 AM |
| 20 | 🤢🤢🤢🤢Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Find yourself a HVM like thisEveryone I know that works in construction treats their wives and children like a precious gift. For some reason that industry attracts HVMs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 05:30 PM |
| 19 | Normalize turning your phone off before 9pmSome of them do Mine slept like a fucking baby even though he spent his day being a complete asshole to everyone who was unfortunate enough to have to deal with him during the day Interesting question though. Most lvms have underlying anxiety and depression that stems from the emptiness in their lives they refuse to face. I’d imagine this causes insomnia in most cases I always know when a man has issues when I get random texts in the middle of the night. It’s a huge red flag for crazy and imbala… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 03:18 AM |
| 6 | UPDATE: Woman dumps broke boyfriend who insisted she sell her condo so he could get put on the deed to a new flat. He now wants full custody of their fetusI hope she sells her place and moves far away from that loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:56 AM |
| 8 | UPDATE: Woman dumps broke boyfriend who insisted she sell her condo so he could get put on the deed to a new flat. He now wants full custody of their fetusAhhhh. I don’t know how it works outside the states. Here in the US if you leave a state before the baby is born, you have a better chance of maintaining full custody The court system will still try to give the father rights and visitation,but it’d be much less than if she lived close Proving he’s a scumbag who is trying to use her for financial gain won’t be enough to convince a judge to grant 100% custody to the mom in most cases, unfortunately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 01:35 AM |
| 23 | UPDATE: Woman dumps broke boyfriend who insisted she sell her condo so he could get put on the deed to a new flat. He now wants full custody of their fetusThis is a narc move. They scheme up ways to get women to pay for their lives It’s disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 27 | UPDATE: Woman dumps broke boyfriend who insisted she sell her condo so he could get put on the deed to a new flat. He now wants full custody of their fetusShe should move out of state before the baby is born so that he has little to no access to the child Once the child is born, he can take her to court for custody rights. This would be much harder to do if she lives further away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:46 PM |
| 8 | "I will kill us both"IKR? So glad OP is working on her exit plan | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 09:30 PM |
| 11 | "I will kill us both"Damn. I wish I could hug you So sorry that happened and I’m happy that you know this behavior is beyond unacceptable Get out soon. Do so quietly, then block him forever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:55 PM |
| 68 | When a LVM tries to drop this hot line to reel you in thinking you are a pickme, but you decide to play stupid to give him a taste of his own medicine before you block & delete for good as an enlightened QueenLmao Only small dick energy idiots do this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 08:19 PM |
| 59 | A LVM trying to convince me why our third date should be Netflix and chill. I told him it’s not going to work out and I hope he finds the woman for him.“This is too much work and he’s not the only guy I’m seeing” Yes. More of this please ladies. Vet them heavily Be ruthless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 25 | New here, had an enlightening conversation with a male coworker the other dayYou do you, sis. Lord knows whenever I try to convince others on this sub with your mindset that casual sex and fwb situations are not worth the risk, I get downvoted and disagreed with The patriarchy perpetuates the idea that your sexual history equates to your worth We don’t do that here. What we will tell you is that 9/10 times, casual sex is not worth the physical and emotional damage that it can bring. That’s why I advise reading the handbook. No one here will tell you that you can’t learn … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:53 AM |
| 52 | New here, had an enlightening conversation with a male coworker the other dayPlease read the handbook Sex is an intimate act between two partners who trust one another. Casual sex is not something that should be taken lightly. There are too many risks involved for that This sub was created for women who are seeking to be in a relationship, so if you are still exploring and you want to be able to freely have sex with anyone you want to in a casual way, the ideas here might not be palatable to you. It’s libfem nonsense that women should just give sex away freely without th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 10:17 PM |
| 8 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.I was going to mention this. Sometimes a well meaning, seasoned Pastor can help a couple of faith navigate difficult issues. I am not a religious person, but I agree with the idea that having a shared faith and some good guidance can be a good thing Couples who are dedicated to faith and are on the same page share core values and goals have a tendency to ride out the storm. This can be a good thing, flipside is that religion can sometimes be a tool to manipulate women into subservience. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 57 | Thoughts?Those of you with eyes on this sub that are learning to level up but still stuck in the idea that you need to debase yourself to make a living, know this: You cannot be a radfem and support shit that demoralizes yourself and other women for the sake of pandering to the patriarchy. The patriarchy would love nothing more than to see women degrade themselves for their own benefit Unless you are doing it to feed yourself and your family and have no other choice, get the fuck out now and do whatever … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:43 PM |
| 30 | Don't take nude photos of yourself!No such thing as ‘easy money’. Sooner or later you will pay the price for lax in judgement and actions against your higher self. Zero shade to those who must do what they need to do to feed their families. Otherwise, get a real job and stop pandering to the patriarchy. They care nothing about your dignity or safety | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 07:47 PM |
| 10 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.Yes. Especially for those of us who are empaths. I used to get pulled into the male AND female drama with little thought to my own needs and sense of maintaining my own health and well being Not anymore This sub and my own healing journey was a game changer and I’m so much more at peace now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:41 PM |
| 26 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.Me neither. It just doesn’t work. Most issues between couples have to do with one partner who is just unable or unwilling to be a committed , supportive and loving partner. You can sit in a chair in front of a $150 per hour therapist and talk til you’re blue in the face, but you will never change the common denominator. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:32 PM |
| 12 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.I’ve known him for ten years. I started distancing myself from him even before FDS because it was an emotional drain He reached out sporadically and I mostly just remained friendly, but did not engage beyond surface conversation. When covid hit he reached out to proclaim that he finally realized what I had been saying made sense and that he was going to, after all these years, do what he needed to do to get better I hope for his sake, that he does. I know too much to get pulled into anyone’s dra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 35 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.Exactly Most therapists got their degrees at schools dominated by libfem ideology. Is it any surprise whose side they are on?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:37 PM |
| 32 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.I have a friend who is, by our standards, a lvm. He’s definitely an avoidant attachment type but otherwise has a lot going for him. He’s handsome, successful, good hearted etc. he realizes that his own attachment issues are a huge problem. He’s never been able to sustain a good relationship with anyone even though he wants it more than anything. I’ve tried to help him for years. Advised therapy, scolded him when he fucked up in relationships It took covid and the crippling anxiety and depression… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:22 PM |
| 124 | Don't take nude photos of yourself!Same goes for ‘onlyfans’ accounts and the like. It can and will eventually be used against you. Your reputation as a respectable person in a community and in a career are at stake It pisses me off that other women promote this as female “empowerment”. It’s the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 05:16 PM |
| 102 | Never make a man go to therapy or attend relationship counseling with you. They will only do the bare minimum needed to get you to stay. It’s a waste of time and money. Work on the assumption they will never change.Honestly ladies, anything therapeutic for your benefit should be pursued on your own. Don’t waste precious time and money getting therapy with another person, especially if you aren’t married Statistically, marriage counseling does not work. Most who go to counseling end up divorced anyway. Most of the time you are dragging the other person in an effort to bring a third party In so that you can be ‘heard’. If you are feeling unheard, the relationship is most likely already dead Add to this: it’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:35 PM |
| 26 | Remember, if an ex won't leave you alone, it's not because he truly loves you.Forward the emails to his girlfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:30 PM |
| 4 | 🤷“Death breath” 😂😂😂 I’m 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 03:26 PM |
| 4 | Can a man be both HV and an abuser?Exactly. That’s why I said above that a narc is a NVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 25 | Who pays on the first date?Please read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 51 | Can a man be both HV and an abuser?No. A narcissist is a NVM Anything that they do that might appear HV is only done for the sake of keeping up appearances. It’s part of the mask they wear Any man who abuses a woman is a low value, garbage human being. Would you trade safety and security for a few tokens of feigned kindness? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:27 PM |
| 8 | What's the difference between value and league?I’m not here to help you come to grasps with your shitty views of women and relationships That’s not with this sub is geared towards. I will no longer engage in conversation | /r/askFDS | 28/08/20 12:04 AM |
| 5 | What's the difference between value and league?Did you just call yourself an incel? If that’s what you’ve aligned yourself with, there is zero hope for you | /r/askFDS | 28/08/20 12:02 AM |
| 58 | How do I recover from a guy I was dating ghosting (and possibly blocking) me?The fact that you got so attached to someone so quickly is a glaring sign that you aren’t ready to date Do you have an anxious attachment style? It sounds like that might be the case You need to take a break from dating and work on getting to a place where it isn’t so easy to get hooked on a guy you barely know | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:44 PM |
| 4 | How Do I level upYou are not alone. A huge part of the population struggles with depression and anxiety Please reach out to a qualified professional. It will help you so much I truly wish you the best | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:39 PM |
| 7 | What's the difference between value and league?Trp operates from the perspective that men are superior to women. Of course their premises are wrong | /r/askFDS | 27/08/20 11:36 PM |
| 8 | How Do I level upDepression is such a bitch. It clouds your perceptions and makes you feel helpless You need therapy, support and a good routine to help you snap out of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 11:34 PM |
| 4 | How Do I level upThanks sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:38 PM |
| 13 | How Do I level upListen to me Your life is not in shambles. You are healthy and clearly intelligent and willing to make change. This is a good start. Most who are beyond help aren’t even willing to learn You are worthy. You are not lost We’ve got your back You’ll be fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 10:38 PM |
| 11 | What's the difference between value and league?There aren’t any set rules to attraction because it’s a biological response The best you can do is take care of yourself. Maintain good hygiene, a good diet, work out regularly and dress in style. Also, stay in your lane. You’re only going to be disappointed if you try to date women who are out of your league when it comes to looks. This is a problem for many men. They think they are entitled to date women who would never be physically attracted to them. I’ll tell you this though, a guy could do… | /r/askFDS | 27/08/20 10:31 PM |
| 12 | How Do I level upJoin the FDS level up group Most people have gained weight during the covid crisis. Don’t let it get you down. Try different dieting options. There are so many Exercise. Get outside and go for walks, do Zoom yoga or online workouts. Plenty of free stuff to do Jobs, most are struggling. You will find one. For now just focus on you Acne, there are so many subreddits for skincare. Find one that resonates with your issues The biggest issue at hand at the moment is your depression. It needs to be add… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 09:56 PM |
| 8 | What's the difference between value and league?The FDS handbook is a good start for you to understand exactly what it is women want If you want to understand what it is men want you to think in order to be an asshole who takes advantage of women, by all means, keep reading trp trash. See where that gets you | /r/askFDS | 27/08/20 09:12 PM |
| 11 | What's the difference between value and league?A guy who is 6’ tall and has a good job has many more options than the average young male in today’s society. Strictly speaking of leagues, of course You said you were below average looking. So what? There are still plenty of women who date below average looking men. However, if you are looking for a women who is better than average looking, your prospects will shrink. This is based on biology, not society Please stop reading red pill garbage. It will only serve to lower your value to high value… | /r/askFDS | 27/08/20 08:57 PM |
| 9 | I’m moving out on Saturday.An annulment? Ffs. That’s amazing. You will come out of this mostly unscathed and it will be nothing more than a blip in the radar of your past a year or two from now I’m so happy for you because even though this was a tough lesson learned, obviously you are strong and you will come out on top. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:17 PM |
| 19 | Just LVM things with a side of gaslightingLiberal feminism is the perfect breeding ground for men who want to split the bills and get nudes on demand No thanks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 08:12 PM |
| 20 | I think I’m just too boringHe probably just didn’t peak your interest Conversation flows easily when you “click”with someone I’ve been on dates with men who were perfect for me, on paper, but the connection just wasn’t there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 06:52 PM |
| 76 | Tbh the only people online I want to meet in real life, are you ladies.Isn’t it sad that the reality of meeting irl is not ever meant to be solely because we live in a society where we have to be afraid of men seeking violent vengeance on us because they can’t face their own shortcomings and prefer to blame our standards for the fact that they are unable to level up in life???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | What do you tell yourself when you're trying not to fall for a LVM?There’s a great post on “brain overriding oxytocin” in the anti fuckboy section of the handbook. It will help you let go of those attachments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Not sure what to do with this guy of questionable value..nip it in the bud?This is a huge mess. Please, listen to your mother. Too many red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 05:55 PM |
| 17 | Something I madeThat’s exactly what they sound like Stupid crows | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:17 AM |
| 89 | I ain’t not gardenerWho else read that and felt the truth of it deep in their soul? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:06 AM |
| 7 | Pleasant surprise this username is available. Would like your perspectiveHe started dating someone else and you suddenly think he’s the “one who got away”? Girl, you need to read the handbook You’re investing way too much time and energy into the idea of something that “could be” | /r/askFDS | 26/08/20 03:02 AM |
| 30 | What's a queen without her king? Well, historically speaking, she is MORE POWERFUL 👑 🙌👸Yesssss If we are being literal: Look at Elizabeth 1. She is just as famous as all of the historical Kings. She ascended to power under questionable circumstances. After many years of unrest, she brought stability to the kingdom Don’t let them fool you. The future is and should be female | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 10:02 PM |
| 17 | A real man knows what it means to love correctly. There are no ifs or buts.This 👆 And only this 👆 Is all you need to know Because if you’re not getting that 👆 He should be on your block list No exceptions Be ruthless, because they are Guard your heart. It is precious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 16 | AirfareYou don’t “get” him to come see you If he was truly interested in you, he would make the effort to come visit you, not make it easy on himself by having you fly out to him Please read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 12:25 PM |
| 7 | Advice on breaking up with someone emotionally manipulative?I look back on that horrible experience in my life with both disgust and gratitude. Disgust because I can’t believe I accepted that and tried to make it work against my better judgement. Gratitude because it made me stronger It sucks that he still stalks you. My ex will never give up. I’ve blocked him everywhere, but years later, he still finds ways to reach out They cannot stand rejection So glad that he lives far away from you. Hopefully one day he will move on to a different source. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 02:04 AM |
| 11 | Advice on breaking up with someone emotionally manipulative?Narcissists can be so scary, and it is so hard to leave because when it’s happening to you, it’s so hard to fathom that someone you love, and who thought loved you, can treat you so horribly. Many women who get involved with these types of men do not leave unscathed. Some of them die or get so depleted that they end up sick or mentally scarred beyond repair Those of us who get out intact are extremely lucky. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 01:46 AM |
| 25 | Advice on breaking up with someone emotionally manipulative?This is what finally made me leave my narc ex. He would corner me and intimidate me. No matter what I did or said, he wouldn’t stop. When it got bad and I broke down in tears, he just ramped up the bullying After the second time he did this I realized that him hitting me was only a matter of time The third time he did it I left and called my best friend to come pick me up. I blocked him on everything He’s going to hit you soon. It’s only a matter of time. You have to get out of this situation Ch… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 52 | All The People Who Judge This Sub are FULL OF SHITPreach 🙌 Let them keep bitching about us. It only sends more women to this sub who desperately need our help I’m so sick of seeing all of the posts and comments on Reddit that celebrate rape, misogyny and pedophilia This sub is not toxic, it’s a safe haven | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 08:58 PM |
| 2 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeI see her point. I get what she was saying I just don’t want anyone to feel like it’s their fault for being abused because they made a mistake and got wasted, because that’s all too common. I know too many women in that position Of course he did it on purpose. Of course he planned it. But, the only mistake she made was trusting him, not getting drunk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 07:23 PM |
| -27 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeGirl, take a few deep breathes Please | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:29 PM |
| -8 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeBecause these two things are common when women suffer from abuse Saying they shouldn’t do something that “caused” their abuse. Such as , the way they dress, act, conduct themselves The way they “should’ve known better” in the first place All of this only serves to make women think abuse is their fault You need to take a step back and stop getting so hostile. No one is attacking you. I’m just pointing out that your words are not helpful in this particular situation. I don’t think it’s intentional… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:29 PM |
| -18 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeI don’t see how pointing out her being drunk helps. At all And also, I’m not insane. Ffs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:22 PM |
| -10 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeI don’t see how your comments are helpful I hope I’m wrong but it seems like you are low key victim blaming here “See, If only you weren’t so stupid and didn’t realize he was trash in the first place!” That’s how your comment comes across She’s reaching out for help, not finger wagging. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 12 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeSo? Even though it’s easy to do things against your will while drunk, and I don’t condone drinking to the point of losing your ability to make good judgements, it’s still not her fault. At all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 06:16 PM |
| 36 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeKnow this: Even knowing as much as we know from being longtime members of this sub, we will all still make mistakes. There’s no perfection in navigating relationships with men, even if you follow the handbook to the letter. You are human. You probably gave too much of yourself to this man. You most likely trusted him even though he didn’t deserve it. So what? You aren’t a robot. I just want to reiterate that none of this was your fault and please feel free to reach out to me on private message i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 188 | He talked me into a MFF threesomeWhy didn’t you do what you know was right in the moment? Because you were in shock What he did was grossly abusive and none of what happened was your fault Forgive yourself and move on. Get therapy if that feels appropriate Men are so fucking depraved I’m sooooo sorry that happened to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:35 PM |
| 9 | Heartbreak - One Year LaterShe’s very articulate and she expresses her vulnerability with no reservations. It’s long, but worth watching because she goes into detail not just on her suffering, but exactly what she did to overcome it and the methods she used to heal her heartbreak is a roadmap that is easily attainable for the majority of women I’m so glad she had such a happy ending. She deserves it. We all do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 02:13 PM |
| 7 | Hi girls!I went to Nobu in NYC on a date when I was in my twenties. I was utterly out of my element, even though I’d been to many nice restaurants before. I was star struck because Robert Deniro was Omar a table next to me and Paulina Poriskova was at a table in front of me. I couldn’t relax and enjoy the date, at all I’ve been there many times since and look back on that time in amusement because I wonder what I got so anxious about It might feel odd at first, but you will get the hang of it quickly If … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:15 PM |
| 12 | Celebrating his wife by saying 'she's got low self esteem', while putting himself down at the same time. LVM pur sang. It isn't cute and it isn't funny; it's tragic.I think he was being self deprecating when he said that and didn’t mean it as neg I don’t know this couple, but she doesn’t strike me as a pick me Just my opinion | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 10:09 PM |
| 56 | My ex and his new girlfriend:)Please read the handbook You should have blocked everywhere the moment you broke up with that abusive scrote What you are doing is called “pain shopping” and it sets your recovery back Block him everywhere. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 03:31 PM |
| 4 | So there are actually men who won't change or bathe their daughters...Idk sis, it makes me lose hope for the world when I hear stories like this. Are some of these men really that lazy or really that dumb??? It’s mind boggling to imagine that this is where society is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:59 AM |
| 30 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.💀💀💀😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/20 12:10 AM |
| 44 | So there are actually men who won't change or bathe their daughters...I have a friend who lost his wife in childbirth. He is a famous sitcom writer, so he can afford a nanny to help with his children, but they aren’t there 24/7 Imagine if he refused to change his daughters diapers because of some ridiculous stigma about doing so What would happen to that little girl? What is wrong with people like this? It’s clearly not just laziness. If you’re afraid to touch your own helpless daughter who needs you for this basic childcare need, that says something about you. An… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:58 PM |
| 287 | Man Up, Or Shut The Hell Up.👏 👏 👏 I can’t believe this isn’t universal knowledge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 11:25 PM |
| 16 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Yes The default is: equality above all So it’s impossible to guard yourself with facts Even the most simple of which is, men are inherently physically stronger and commit the large majority of violent crimes against women There is no such thing as equality between genders. This is a stupid thing to try to enforce as an acceptance in society | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:58 PM |
| 26 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.This happens. Yes. I just wish women would realize their worth so they’d never fall into that trap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:43 PM |
| 28 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.Perfect answer 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:42 PM |
| 29 | ‘Eleven-year-old Amy (..) enthusiastically embrace an increasingly sensual dance routine’- Jeffrey would be so happy... 🤮Boycott Netflix. This is pure evil Pedophiles are slowly getting their way to being accepted into society. Mainstream media, Hollywood and our judicial system are complicit in making the lowest of low of our society’s dreams come true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:33 PM |
| 22 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?It’s tied into their obsession with porn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 07:15 PM |
| 58 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.I think the libfem mentality of “strong independent women “ brought this on. Also the pUA tactics made men think they could procure valuable women with low effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:51 PM |
| 208 | Fds has my block finger strong. Even asking annoys me.I really don’t understand this. Even my narc ex who was as misogynistic as any man I’d ever met, insisted on paying for everything. Also, every lvm I’ve ever dated insisted on paying. Maybe it’s my age? Is this a generational thing? If a man invites a woman on a date, he should pay They expect to woo us by asking us to pay for the interview for the chance to be with us? Men need to wake up to the fact that women have waaaaaay more options available to them and offer waaaaaay more than they do in… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 06:06 PM |
| 38 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?What? You don’t want to join my harem? Uncultured swine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:36 PM |
| 19 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?Or just “but, muh dick” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 05:34 PM |
| 82 | This is 80% of men on dating sites now and I'm so.fucking.tired. Even when I specify in my bio that I'm strictly monogamous they'll still try to message me?“I’m in an open marriage” Translation: I’m looking for someone who does anal, because my wife won’t | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:53 PM |
| 28 | Not a gamer myself, but I thought this was interesting...It also explains why LVMs hate this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 04:07 PM |
| 54 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered August 20 2020It’s not about prejudging them as a whole It’s about learning to spot the undesirable men Unfortunately, a large majority of men are just undesirable That doesn’t mean it useless to try to find a HVM. They are out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | I just want to thank all of you on this sub who have shared their wisdom and experience that has helped me get over (mostly) grieving my narc, absuive, exs death and trying to better my life and share my long, crazy transformation with you.I’m so happy to hear this. It’s a long journey. But you will get there I feel exactly as you do. Without my horrible experience with a narc, I wouldn’t be where I am in the healing process. Just the fact that you recognize this truth is a huge step in your recovery You will get there and you will be better than ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/20 12:23 AM |
| 15 | I just want to thank all of you on this sub who have shared their wisdom and experience that has helped me get over (mostly) grieving my narc, absuive, exs death and trying to better my life and share my long, crazy transformation with you.Holy crap. You’ve been through hell and back I’m so glad you found us and so happy your are doing well ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:58 PM |
| 66 | I’m seeing so many posts on reddit today that have just been making me sick. I need better subs to follow. This was one r/insanefacebookI honestly find both Biden and Trump predatory and low value. It’s sad that these are the choices we are faced with in the upcoming election We need a woman president!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 11:57 PM |
| 9 | Scrote gets what he deservesYet here you are, in a sub dedicated to help women navigating the world of dating If cohabitation and/or marriage isn’t your default goal, why are you on an advice sub for doing just that? If you want to be a forever girlfriend, that’s fine. It just that being a forever girlfriend isn’t something that makes 99% of women happy If you’re an outlier who wants to pursue this sort of alternative lifestyle, and you’re happy in your status, I find it confusing why you are even here? The handbook is the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:57 PM |
| 14 | Scrote gets what he deservesThe problem is, and I need to soften the blow by saying that what I’m about to say is truly out of tough love. I’m not trying to be argumentative or rude. I just want to help you understand: All you are doing by investing this time, money and energy on sharing therapy with someone who is not fully committed to you, is helping to make him a better man for the next woman who comes along If you say you don’t care about marriage, that’s fine. But even most married couples don’t put that much time an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:31 PM |
| 19 | Scrote gets what he deservesYes and what’s valuable for you and your own long term growth is investing in yourself and whatever it is that YOU need to heal. Sharing space with another person in your healing journey who isn’t fully committed to you just takes up valuable time and resources I do have strong opinions. I’m also old enough to have experienced enough to know the difference between what makes sense and what doesn’t I sincerely wish you the best of luck ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:13 PM |
| 24 | Scrote gets what he deservesThen you should be pursuing therapy on your own If you feel you need couples counseling before you’re even married or living together, that’s a red flag for your relationship. I’m sorry, but that’s just the truth And yes, they should be contributing more because we offer more in a relationship and we take more risks to be in one. Those are just facts. If a man can’t provide for you in the long term, you are the one who will lose more in the end You need to read the handbook Most girls who are fo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 09:02 PM |
| 34 | Scrote gets what he deservesCan I ask why you are in therapy when you aren’t even married? Seems like if you need therapy at this stage, you’re already putting in a ton of effort for something that is supposed to be the fun part of your life together Also. No. Let him continue to split that Men are supposed to be providers. You shouldn’t feel guilty for him spending money on you. Ever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:52 PM |
| 32 | Scrote gets what he deservesExactly. And I don’t understand how anyone can be so pickmeisha that you have your own money, your own place, you’re young, healthy and attractive, yet you still need a man so badly you would accept being his bank account bangmaid? I’d rather live alone forever. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 31 | Scrote gets what he deservesMy brother in law’s sister got engaged to a guy who was happy to propose to her with her grandmothers ring. He moved into her apartment, that her family owned. Every vacation they took was with her mother and he refused to take her out to eat on their own because he was afraid to miss a free meal that her mother was paying for while on vacation Garbage. Complete and utter garbage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 08:31 PM |
| 28 | Scrote gets what he deservesThe fact that he’s getting rolled in the comments seriously gave me hope for society | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Question regarding a unique situationReally good advice already given on this thread. I just want to add: You are not LV because you are suffering. You are only LV if you drag another person in to your suffering with you. That’s not the only reason should get therapy before getting into a relationship. Relationships cause emotional ups and downs, which can increase your instability. You need to do the work to heal for yourself first. Once you have healed enough to feel whole, then you can enter a partnership If you haven’t healed, … | /r/askFDS | 19/08/20 06:07 PM |
| 138 | Scrote gets what he deservesYour spider senses should start tingling the moment a man wants you to “split everything down the middle”, especially when they make more $ than you do Men like this are just looking for a bang maid they can control while lowering their cost of living Human garbage. He got exactly what he deserved I don’t need or want a man to pay my way through life, but cheap men are the dregs of society. Avoid them at ALL costs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 05:56 PM |
| 88 | Another serious in r/ComMuNiCaTe. This woman rightly wants a divorce from her husbands selfish behavior, and everyone’s telling her he might have PPD from the pregnancy. They’re encouraging her to go to therapy.Typical manchild “I know you have this tiny human, who’s life depends on your care, and you’re recovering from surgery, but, muh dick!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 04:53 PM |
| 7 | A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸A man can’t even be considered a man without doing the basics, much less be considered HV. That’s a manchild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 20 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.It’s a chore for me to even read that mess. Can’t imagine being a teacher and talking to men on OLD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 04:02 PM |
| 122 | Racist LVM tells his black wife that she looks like a slave in her head scarf, yet she's wondering if she's the asshole?“They” should look into counseling issues for “their” race issues??? The only issue I see here is a racist man beyond the help any therapist could give him I honestly don’t know how woc deal with this blatant epidemic of absolutely unjustified hatred, just for existing. It’s heartbreaking. I hope he is getting destroyed in the comments. She needs to leave him. There is no fixing a human being who is this broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:54 PM |
| 9 | A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸Flashy, IMO is a man who goes above and beyond to make you feel loved and happy The roses and extras aren’t my thing either, and certainly the over the top behavior can be a sign of lovebombing, especially in the beginning stages of a relationship. On the same token, them doing the basics can also be a sign of lovebombing if they are low effort and know that you don’t have high expectations It’s the actions, not the things they say. It’s also not just the actions, but consistency in doing things… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:10 PM |
| 26 | A HVM going above and beyond for his lady 👸Is the bar so low that asking them to do the most basic of things is revered as going above and beyond? Nah, sis. I’d rather be alone then get excited about a man picking up milk on his way home | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:42 PM |
| 55 | Dating app match asks me to help with his work after two days of chatting. Even after I already told him I’m busy. Even after already knowing consultation is work for me and he shouldn’t be asking for free consultation. They ruin everything before even meeting.Good luck to him making it in marketing when he doesn’t even know the difference between there, they’re and their Maybe he should find an English teacher to date Why are they so dumb? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 02:30 PM |
| 39 | When a former ghosting LVM you haven't talked to in 6 months finally "checks in" to see how you are doing during the pandemic and you are now on the enlightened FDS Queen journey...That and the “guy that always needs a haircut, suddenly angry he can’t get one” 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:08 PM |
| 89 | When a former ghosting LVM you haven't talked to in 6 months finally "checks in" to see how you are doing during the pandemic and you are now on the enlightened FDS Queen journey...“He’s grown a lot since summer 2019, probably” 💀 💀 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 07:07 PM |
| 22 | No wordsIt goes to show you how complicit the media, Hollywood and the music industry are in abuse towards women There was barely an effort to cover this story and even less effort to cancel Manson She has proof on video and recordings but the statute of limitations ran out? There shouldn’t be a statute of limitations on abuse. Abusers never stop and they need as much proof and testimony as possible to put them away for a long time, where they belong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 06:10 PM |
| 1 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.The problem is that legalizing it only makes it worse. That’s what you refuse to grasp https://orgs.law.harvard.edu/lids/2014/06/12/does-legalized-prostitution-increase-human-trafficking/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:08 AM |
| -1 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.Did you even read it?? Please stop commenting if you aren’t interested in educating yourself on facts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:06 AM |
| 1 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.No one wants any woman who is suffering and resorting to prostitution to survive to go to jail Facts remain that: It’s illegal and in order for it to remain so it has to be a crime by both parties involved, just like hard drugs, seller and buyer. There is no changing that Most prostitutes are drug addicts and need help in many ways, not just avoiding a criminal record It needs to stay illegal in order to protect more women from being victimized | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:02 AM |
| 0 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.You do realize that judges reduce sentences when they agree to counseling and rehab, right??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:58 AM |
| 2 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.https://orgs.law.harvard.edu/lids/2014/06/12/does-legalized-prostitution-increase-human-trafficking/ It only makes it worse That’s what you are not grasping | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.In a cathouse And do you think the girls on the street who want to sell their bodies without registering and paying for the “safety” of a cathouse are safe from being abused and murdered because there are no cameras around? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:56 AM |
| -1 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.“They should decriminalize sex, but keep paying for sex illegal” That’s like saying, let’s make cocaine legal, but if someone buys it, they should go to jail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:53 AM |
| 0 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.Yes. They belong in a counseling center So legalizing sex helps get them there, how? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:49 AM |
| 0 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.Is that the only thing that bothers you? That they have a criminal record? Most prostitutes are drug addicts with long histories of criminal activities Can we stop pretending we live in a fairy land where the system is the only thing holding back women who want to be free to have sex with disgusting scrotes who are happy to abuse them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.The problem lies with the fact that wether or not prostitution is legal, female victims of assault during a sex transaction will always hold less weight It can never, nor should it be, a respected profession Why would anyone think twice to kill a legal prostitution vs an illegal one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:44 AM |
| 1 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.Do you honestly think they have a healthier future by normalizing prostitution? Do you think most prostitutes are screwing men for fancy handbags and rent payments ? Newsflash. The majority of them are addicted to drugs and when they get arrested the judge usually agrees to let them go if they agree to go to rehab Most agree and then leave rehab early. If you want to argue that the entire system needs to be restructured to provide help to victims instead of jail. I will agree 100% But normalizin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:38 AM |
| 1 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.And you think making it legal for men to pay for sex will make them less predatory somehow? You have too much faith in men It will make them far worse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:32 AM |
| 5 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.“Make the ones who pay for sex criminals” They are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:28 AM |
| -2 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.Please save your libfem logic for another sub Legalizing prostitution only allows for women to be more easily abused Don’t believe me? Scroll above for the links provided by one of our moderators. Seriously, you think the system will protect prostitutes? Women who went to college and have careers can’t even get decent healthcare And equal pay in the modern world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:26 AM |
| 3 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.Do you honestly, truly believe that women who have sex for money aren’t already compromising their lives? Do you know how many prostitutes get killed by johns on a daily basis? Are you fucking kidding me with this logic ??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:19 AM |
| 3 | ACLU, a wonderful organization yet still supports decriminalizing sex work.Because it normalizes it and doing so only further allows women to be abused Isn’t that obvious, or do I have to explain in more detail? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 02:16 AM |
| -2 | Why are men broke?I literally worked At McDonald’s 25 years ago. It was my first job. My best friends aunt was the manager. She could barely pay her rent and once borrowed $20 from 15 year old me to pay for groceries You know not of what you talk | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:59 PM |
| 11 | Why are men broke?I get what you are saying Let’s not muddy the waters by blaming higher powers for men who can’t even be bothered to brush their teeth Most men are broke because they lack initiative. This is especially true for any first world country And even in third world countries there are men who make up for their lack of money with drive to be a provider and protector No excuses Excuses for men who can’t level up is a slippery slope to giving men a pass to give us less than we deserve | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:42 PM |
| 10 | Why are men broke?Sis, Canada is becoming a go to place for immigrants because the restrictions are a little less strict than the US, not because of the Canadian economy. Those are facts Please stop making excuses for lvms | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:33 PM |
| 8 | Why are men broke?America is still the most highly sought place for immigrants to seek citizenship because its economic opportunities are more easily attainable than other countries. It’s definitely not perfect here by any means. Our healthcare system is a disaster, we need more social safety nets etc. however, it is by no means failing economically in comparison to other countries. Failing in other ways ? Yes, but not economically. It’s a soft version of mansplaining to use the Economy to blame on men’s failure … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 32 | Exactly!!! Call it what it is. I’m so sick of seeing the media water down their language in favor of pedophiles and rapistsConsensual sex between two adults I can look past. I know some women who loooove the military, cops, firefighters etc. I don’t get it, but to each his own It should not be legal to use government vehicles to have sex or to have sex on taxpayers time. Maybe in some places it is, not sure However, a 14 year old CHILD???? That’s rape, no matter where it happens | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 09:53 PM |
| 19 | Exactly!!! Call it what it is. I’m so sick of seeing the media water down their language in favor of pedophiles and rapistsPerfect, absolutely perfect way of describing it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 09:50 PM |
| 11 | Why are men broke?Also, it’s the norm in European countries to split the bill 50/50, which is gross Not sure why America is being singled out here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 09:43 PM |
| 29 | Why are men broke?Don’t give them the benefit of the doubt by blaming the economy of America. Please 🙄. Most of these men are too lazy to even clean their rooms, much less take the initiative to hold down a decent job. Really, now we are blaming economic statuses of entire nations for the lack of ability to man up?? Stop it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 70 | Exactly!!! Call it what it is. I’m so sick of seeing the media water down their language in favor of pedophiles and rapistsExactly. Why is that so hard???? Make it make sense!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 08:21 PM |
| 14 | I just have to share because I’m so proud of myself (story in comments)I wish I could see his stupid face a few days from now when he realizes that what might’ve been the best thing that ever happened to him just vanished into thin air! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:58 PM |
| 36 | I just have to share because I’m so proud of myself (story in comments)Love this idea This sub gets flooded with so much proof that the handbook hasn’t been read and the guidelines are being used loosely We need more inspiration that ruthlessness is queenliness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:49 PM |
| 75 | I just have to share because I’m so proud of myself (story in comments)Yes More stories like this please Don’t let these scrotes take advantage of you, ever Cut them off quickly and without remorse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 07:03 PM |
| 86 | 🎵 Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money 🎶Whoosh. That went right over my head. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 02:06 AM |
| 91 | 🎵 Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money 🎶HV women don’t flirt with other women’s boyfriends and they don’t go after men for their money | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:38 AM |
| 242 | I hate that this is even on my camera roll.Dude looks like he sleeps in a nest and combs his hair with potato chips | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 01:18 AM |
| 125 | Don’t change yourself to keep a man. If he wants to cheat, he’ll cheat regardless.Ah, the unicorn fantasy of every scrote’s wildest dreams As if dick is so hard to find, women are out here needing to share one 🙄🙄🙄 Idiots | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 04:53 PM |
| 21 | When Picasso was 45 he had a 17 year old lover, whom he later married. When asked about the age gap he said that he was in his prime and she was in her prime.He was a narcissist and also a bipolar who is mistakenly revered as a genius because he was able to harness the mania of his condition to produce art that appealed to others on a grand scale. He bled the women in his life dry. Using them as his muse as he drained their essence for his own benefit Textbook sociopathic narcissist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 9 | HVW ActivitiesShe added that edit after my comment Also, I am not being rude, at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 01:52 AM |
| 27 | Saying too bad he couldn't sleep with me is apparently a compliment 🙄Savage 😂😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:20 AM |
| 14 | HVW ActivitiesExactly. Do what you love and live your life. There’s no such thing as “High Value” activities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:56 PM |
| 36 | HVW ActivitiesCo working spaces only apply to women who need office space to make a living. Church groups are only for those who are religious Groupon activities. Ok. Fine. However it depends on where you live. Same with meetups and social clubs Happy Hours suggests drinking, anything involving drinking alcohol is usually not productive I’m not trying to rain on your parade, but many of these ideas won’t contribute to your journey to level up if they aren’t streamlined to your specific goals Figure out what i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 09:44 PM |
| 73 | The empowerment that comes from saying what you want to say is so freeing💯 This is also why the ‘tough love” approach is so effective. I’m trying to stop you from getting hurt, I don’t need to soften my words to convince you to get real with yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 04:17 PM |
| 59 | How are we supposed to find a HVM when males are openly lusting after teen girls? IMDB reviews for Train to BusanHVMs don’t lust after teenagers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:39 PM |
| 17 | Man: wants to hang out. Me: suspiciousIt’s glaringly obvious that you have not read the handbook Please read it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:03 AM |
| 3 | When LVM Abandon Their Responsibilities To Be Petty.They are both adults and both are capable of picking up cat food. The only party being punished here is OP who is punishing herself for getting frustrated over having any expectations of a lvm who has already proved to be of no use. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 02:00 AM |
| 10 | When LVM Abandon Their Responsibilities To Be Petty.You guys are in an in house separation situation, which is truly hell The sooner you are able to get out of this situation, the better. You can’t have your sanity until you are living apart That being said, I wouldn’t ask him for anything. It will only end up being an exercise in frustration You know what he is, keep your expectations low for your own peace of mind. Interact with him as little as possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 12:45 AM |
| 3 | Can a HVM be a single dad?Exactly! Lol. I’m DEAD 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?LMAOOOO 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:52 PM |
| 8 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?Translation: I do data entry from my mom’s basement 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:51 PM |
| 18 | Can a HVM be a single dad?Where is that meme that goes something like: “No one is more indignant than a deadbeat dad screaming “I want to speak to my child” into the phone at 11pm In front of his lady friend”, when you need it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:49 PM |
| 2 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?I can’t add anything to that that hasn’t already been well said. I love how our ladies tear apart these scrotes. Awesome thread 😊😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:47 PM |
| 11 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?Thanks. I thought that was some sort of card game 😂😂😂😂 IM a SoFtwArE dEvELOpEr. How unique. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:45 PM |
| 0 | how i benefit from simps. (serious)Low value scrotes out here showing us how truly dumb they are Please, at least try to grasp the English language before you attempt to “trick” us Moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:28 PM |
| 17 | Is he *trying* to sound gross?Let’s translate, shall we? 6’5” 230 lbs - I’m actually 5’9” and 295 lbs, but I’m betting once you meet me in person, my precious personality will help you overlook my lies. You’re a bitch if you don’t like short, fat guys anyway Covid dad bod: I’m more overweight than I was before the pandemic Decent credit: Actually I have bad credit but it’s decent compared to people who have worse credit than mine Brazilian Jiu Jitsu: I took a few classes in my 20s but I tell everyone that I’m a purple belt S… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 10:07 PM |
| 15 | Waiting for the ideal man? Pshaw. This looks like heaven to me!Skinny af and spending time having cocktails with my girlfriends instead of wasting my life waiting for a man to meet my standards? Sign me TF up! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 09:55 PM |
| 7 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳I had a knock down, drag out argument in a political group on Facebook over this Just because he has a psychology degree, everyone seems to think the guy has it all figured out The only thing he figured out is how to package his misogynistic ideas to the masses. Period. The end He’s the multi level marketing of “how to be a scrote and get away with it” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:27 AM |
| 6 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳Same mistake as thinking every rich man is HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:20 AM |
| 5 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳Yes, let’s share a Mountain Dew as we discuss the many trials and tribulations of men suffering at the hands of women. Afterwards we can go for a walk in the park and you can make me a sandwich I’m an intellectual, so it’s ok to have sex without a condom even though I’ll ghost you afterwards and then hit you up with a “wyd” at 2am three months later 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 03:11 AM |
| 11 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳OMG. Yes! They can’t wait to pour their enlightenment onto you. They need to teach you about this shiny new idea that’s based in ancient misogyny. As if I’ve lived under a rock and haven’t read the news or a book in years 🙄 Want to impress me? Take me to a restaurant I’ve never been to before and make sure you know how to pair good wine with the tasting menu. The podcasts you listen to from the safety of your mom’s basement do less than nothing for me, moron. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:56 AM |
| 7 | Does anyone’s boyfriend pay their rent/bills?Yes. Exactly. I get it. Why shouldn’t we take advantage of them after they’ve done so to us for centuries?. Hit them in the wallet. I don’t disagree entirely It’s just that I don’t think the trade off is worth it. I don’t think women should sacrifice their bodies and well being for money and men who aren’t worth it I can’t get on board with prostitution and sugaring. I don’t judge any woman who needs to do so for survival, but I don’t condone it as a healthy lifestyle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:27 AM |
| 8 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳Just the fact that he embraced Milo Yiannapolis, who regularly berates and belittles single mothers? As if that’s a good thing? It’s always our fault and here floats in this seemingly highly intelligent “intellectual” who reinforces all of their negative beliefs about women under the guise of “lifting up” the disillusioned and downtrodden males of society Give me a fucking break It’s nice that he told them to clean their disgusting rooms but he should’ve also told them that everything that’s gon… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:22 AM |
| 11 | Does anyone’s boyfriend pay their rent/bills?This is a very different thing than relying on someone to regularly pay your bills I’m glad you have a friend like this. Everyone needs an angel in their life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:06 AM |
| 1 | QueenNot disagreeing. However, her behavior is hardly Queen-like as suggested by OP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:03 AM |
| 15 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳Right? JP is SO big on the whole “no such thing as toxic masculinity” thing that’s become so prevalent lately. I firmly believe he catapulted the Redpill thing into what it is today. From obscurity to the giant disappointment of disillusioned males who think that women are at fault for their misery 🙄 He absolutely appeals to the whole “nice guy” thing I used to listen to his lectures on the biblical series. They are honestly well done and You can tell that he has done the work to understand the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 02:01 AM |
| 25 | Does anyone’s boyfriend pay their rent/bills?Never give up an ounce of freedom for few extra ducks in the bank. When the right man comes along, you should already be self sufficient and happy in your own right. A rent check signed by someone else won’t change that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:48 AM |
| 71 | Does anyone’s boyfriend pay their rent/bills?Sure it’s nice. You can put more money in your bank account but what’s the trade off, really? Most men will do so out of the expectation that they will “own” you. Please don’t confuse rich with being HV. It isn’t something for you to bring up. If a HVM wants to do so, he will do it sheerly out of kindness and wanting to make your life easier. In that case, it’s not a bad thing In the end you shouldn’t need anyone to pay your bills so this shouldn’t even be a question | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:36 AM |
| 53 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳I’ll give him one thing though, at least he tells them to clean their rooms 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:30 AM |
| 7 | When he mentions Jordan Peterson 😳Lmaoooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:29 AM |
| 1 | QueenYep. He easily could’ve worn a condom and how much do you want to bet he didn’t and just expected her to be on bc? Still, the child is the one who will suffer in the end so I can’t condone this as Queen behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofWe’ve had endless conversations about this. I’ve sent her the link to Lundy’s book. I tried very hard to get her to see the reality of the situation and only did so because she’s intelligent and I know she would at least consider the ideas. I’m not sure if anything I’ve ever said has done any good I’m afraid I’ve been an anchor in the storm for so long that I’m being dragged below the surface I haven’t given up just yet, but I feel that’s the direction I’m headed to and it is sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 01:14 AM |
| 4 | This scrote made a video about us, part two. Lmaoooo LVM are so bothered by us minding our own business. 🤣Isn’t this the guy who played the alcoholic dad in the movie “Pretty in Pink” in 1985? Dude sounds like it had Xanax for dinner and smoked a joint for dessert. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:58 AM |
| 2 | QueenNone of that is a good excuse for bringing a child into the world who both parents are not happy to take care of Mistakes happen, even with condoms and bc. We aren’t living in the ages of abortion being outlawed and no one should condone trapping a man into a lifetime of being a parent This is not Queen behavior, it’s the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofIt’s all a learning process, no matter what stage you are in life This is a really tough one for me I appreciate your thoughtful effort to help more than you know 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofVery kind and thoughtful advice Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:17 PM |
| 2 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofListen, I’m happy to be dragged. I appreciate every comment. This is all helping me to clarify my thoughts. I’d never block her. Our kids are best friends so that would be difficult. But I will reinforce my boundaries and be firm. Eventually I will move from a soft grey rock technique to a hard one. That’s what my gut says. It’s very good to hear everyone else’s opinions Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:15 PM |
| 1 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofCould be true, love. Thank you, however I don’t think anything is going to change her. I’ve tried to set firm boundaries and I’ve even ridiculed her tendencies. She backs off for awhile but always goes back to the same routine I think it’s very nuanced because day to day life and conversations would have to be described in order to understand how easy it is to get caught up in all of it. For example: I have a strong personality and regularly enforce boundaries but when someone calls you in tears… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 11:02 PM |
| 3 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofThanks. I know it. Doesn’t make it any less heartbreaking, but I know it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofVery true. Thanks so much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofI want this to be true but it feels like the “YoU jUsT nEeD to ComMunicaTe” bad advice of the relationship subs we typically drag Not saying you are giving bad advice. I know you’re coming from a good place and part of me wants so badly to believe she can change. Sadly, I don’t think she ever will and don’t think I can keep holding on in good faith and hope 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:37 PM |
| 6 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofThank you. I agree with everything you’ve said. It’s just really hard One thing I need to add though, is she didn’t brag about the driving around on 9/11. I had to remind her about it a year or two later. She’d honestly completely forgotten. I know for sure that she never told any one of our mutual friends about it You’re right, she’s not a sociopath, she has narcissistic tendencies but she isn’t that. There’s a blurred line there that we all need to be aware of and run from | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:25 PM |
| 8 | Those pickmeisha friends who are hard to let go ofYes, love. I have. Maybe I need to be more clear. I’ve been soft in my communication but I could probably be stronger with my words. I honestly feel like she puts a block up when I give her good advice because she is firm in her beliefs that she needs to struggle in a relationship. It’s very hard to deal with because I can so clearly see what she does not Thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | QueenWhy would anyone willingly bring a child into this world under these circumstances? This is not high value behavior. It’s basal and quite honestly, stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 09:21 PM |
| 21 | Divorced queens with kids who found love again: please share your story. I need inspiration, hope, and strength to follow through on my divorce.Not my story, though I am divorced and my life is so much happier and more peaceful, I have a friend who is divorced and her two kids are away at college. She’s currently sailing around the country with her HVM fiancee and stopping to visit every state possible before returning home. Her photos on Instagram are beautiful and she looks radiantly happy! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 04:15 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I tried to politely explain why you were being downvoted. You chose to double down on your lack of awareness by claiming I was being dismissive to women 🙄. What did you expect?? It’s not used in any other context but as a term with derogatory undertones towards women. Period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜No. You don’t know what it means at all. The term is used to vilify men who treat women well Same as the other term that you used on this thread, “pussy whipped”. What the fuck does that even mean? Do you seriously think that normalizing language that objectifies women and reduces them to being seen as an object of ridicule because a man treats them with respect is ok on this sub? You’re ridiculous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 03:16 AM |
| 33 | My Wife's autistic friend wont make eye contact me or laugh at my jokes, how can I get my Wife to stop having friends? I want my house back.Typical narcissist. “She won’t even look at me when she talks to me, how can you have a friend that doesn’t worship me??? How dare she not be interested in muh dick!” 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 10:36 PM |
| 5 | Does anyone have any texting advice?Good advice. Especially good rules to follow for women that have an anxious attachment style in relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 06:15 PM |
| 27 | Always about them 🙄🙄🙄She’s is a shining example of how to high value. As a survivor of domestic violence, she rose above it and used her experience as a way to learn how to help others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 04:48 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: August 8 2020 💜I don’t think you realize what the word “simp” means Scrotes use that word to describe men who treat women with basic decency | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 49 | Does anyone have any texting advice?Very simple solution. Don’t text. Explain that you’d rather talk on the phone. If he can’t honor that simple request, he’s a throwaway anyway | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 11:30 PM |
| 43 | What is the Ultimate LVM name?Blake Craig Omg, every Anthony I have ever known was an over indulged golden child and/ or grandchild of an Italian mother and grandmother, who could do no wrong, while his sisters were treated like maids. Every. Single. One. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 09:53 PM |
| 15 | Push your own needs aside for a man! No, sis. Bye pickmeisha!Nope. Never have. Never will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 09:47 PM |
| 7 | Tips for Writing a High-Value HINGE ProfileThank you for putting so much effort into sharing your well thought out tips but, but don’t post photos of yourself here. Identifying information can be dangerous. Incels stalk this sub. Be careful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Top post on r/all - check the comments from scrotes who find this hilariousIt just goes to show you how depraved and pornsick reddit is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/20 12:12 PM |
| 41 | My HVM keeps buying me flowers knowing I can’t take them home?It’s not shady but it is indicative of a man who doesn’t value your concerns. That is not HVM behavior. A HVM would never do anything knowing it would make you feel uncomfortable Also, if he is under the age of 25, please throw out the notion that he is HVM. The human brain is not even fully formed until the age of 25, so until you are both grown ups, a serious relationship doesn’t have the proper foundations for a healthy future together If you still live at home, focus on school and your caree… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 11:47 PM |
| 21 | first date with this guy and I want to apply our community strategy rightRead the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:54 AM |
| 47 | NEVER feel bad for ghosting when your boundaries are violated.Never feel bad for ghosting for any reason whatsoever Don’t even wait for them to show obvious signs of toxicity Block them at the first sign of behavior that makes you feel uneasy. Trust me, they know what they are doing. It’s vastly more important to maintain emotional well being and high standards. Don’t wait for the red flags. A pink flag is enough to cut them off Be ruthless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:46 AM |
| 23 | A new study confirms that realism leads to more long term happiness than blind optimism, a important component to the FDS mindset: "Plans based on inaccurate beliefs make for poor decisions and are bound to deliver worse outcomes than would rational, realistic beliefs"This is why traditional values have a place in a civilized society. We, especially women, can’t have a safe future on a foundation of unrealistic expectations guided by emotion and irrational decisions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 02:55 AM |
| 3 | When we say “block them”, that means everywhereNo worries. Just ignore them or be coldly civil, at best. Don’t let lvms spoil your happiness or make you feel uncomfortable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:04 PM |
| 5 | When we say “block them”, that means everywhereIt works just like a regular phone number. There’s probably a way to figure it out if they do some digging online, but there’s no reason for them to suspect and do that because it’s just like having a real number. Even if they did, there’s no shame in telling anyone that you use google voice to protect yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 04:03 PM |
| 13 | When we say “block them”, that means everywhereIt’s not worth it in most cases. Exes are exes for a reason. You cannot move forward in life while you are dragging your past in tow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 01:09 AM |
| 24 | When we say “block them”, that means everywhereMostly exes because ideally bad dates will only have your phone number, if even that because you shouldn’t even give someone you just met your real phone number. You should set up a google voice number or other alternative to give them Never, ever give someone you just met your social media info | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:08 AM |
| 9 | When we say “block them”, that means everywhere100% | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 12:06 AM |
| 48 | Writing down my pickmeisha moments as therapy so I can move onIf you think he doesn’t treat this new girl the same way, you are mistaken. He might hide his behavior a little better, but no one can hide who they truly are. He’s a lowlife pig who thinks it’s ok to take advantage of women for sexual benefit Don’t fret about this for one more second. You made a mistake. We’ve all made mistakes. Forgive yourself. Hold your head high and continue on your journey up Also, block him everywhere on social media. What you’re doing is called ‘pain shopping’. Don’t do … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 09:49 PM |
| 30 | How does one stay unbothered, through the catching of feels?Read the handbook in its entirety, in this situation, particularly the “psychological strategies”section | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:00 PM |
| 4 | Don’t be like this... hear me out.I never discouraged my boy’s interest in girls toys. When my youngest asked for pink plushies or a doll, I gave in instantly. Most of the time, he played with it for a few days and then made a big show about giving it to his girl cousins 😂. Gotta teach them young how to spoil the women they love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:44 PM |
| 13 | Don’t be like this... hear me out.My now 12 year old boy wouldn’t go anywhere without his EIGHT Sesame Street plushies at age 2. He was a sight to see in his little stroller crowded by Big Bird and crew on the city streets 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 6 | Don’t be like this... hear me out.This is very true. It can be a coping mechanism for a child with attachment issues and anxiety. For those children, it can be a necessity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:22 PM |
| 5 | Don’t be like this... hear me out.My kids have grown out of them but still have 2 or 3 that they have sentimental attachment to and those never made it into the giveaway pile. It’s nice to have a throwback to the earlier days of carefree childhood. Are they necessary, no. Some kids don’t even like them, so it’s all relative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:09 PM |
| 19 | Don’t be like this... hear me out.This 👆 If you want to do something nice for someone, do so out of the kindness of your heart, not for social media ego kibbles Karma works like this; when you show compassion and kindness to another for the sake of appearance, you cancel out all of the goodness that you’ve attempted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:07 PM |
| 5 | Can someone explain the idealise devalue discard cycle?Melanie Tonia Evans explains it in great detail Let me know if the link doesn’t work, I can pm it to you (https://blog.melanietoniaevans.com/idolise-devalue-discard-the-3-phases-of-narcissistic-abuse-part-1/) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 05:35 PM |
| 6 | I think i got my HVMIt’s always a red flag if he complains about his exes He will 100% do the same to you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 99 | Ugh they want us to do everything even planning the dates...I can’t I can’tThese LVMs are always cockblocking themselves | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:43 PM |
| 15 | What Living With a LVM Looks LikeYou deserve sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo. much better than this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 05:36 PM |
| 86 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"Yes. And they know EXACTLY what they are doing. It’s nothing less than malicious intent to coerce you into sex under the guise of “friendship” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 03:06 PM |
| 337 | "Friends with Benefits" will NEVER turn into "something more"Yes and every time he disappoints you, it damages you and you will blame yourself for getting your hopes up. Besides that, it steals precious time and takes your focus off of working on becoming your best self and meeting someone who is truly worthy of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 02:54 PM |
| 100 | Let's Revitalize This Discussion: Can Men Who Are Bad to Mediocre at Sex Significantly Improve? How Do They React When You Tell Them They're Bad at Sex?They are good at it, or they are not It comes down to the ability to connect and a willingness to please Some men are just not capable | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/20 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Help I Need Out!Not the time, nor the place to make a lesson out of someone who is suffering If you don’t have valuable advice to give to help her remove herself from her current state of pain besides “see girls, you need to learn from this”, then just move on without comment Do better next time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:50 PM |
| 9 | Help I Need Out!Agreed, but this is not the time for an “I told you so”. We are all well aware that age gaps never work in favor of young , vulnerable women She’s in a bad situation. Lamenting how it happened doesn’t help. I’m sure she knows and if she doesn’t, we can discuss that later. Right now she just needs help and support. Let’s give her that. She deserves it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 08:42 PM |
| 33 | Blocked my LVM boyfriend with no explanation. He doesn’t need one right?Someone has been doing their homework 😊😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 9 | Help I Need Out!This is such great information | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:10 PM |
| 52 | Blocked my LVM boyfriend with no explanation. He doesn’t need one right?No explanation necessary Be ruthless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:06 PM |
| 56 | Help I Need Out!Seek out your local women’s shelter and look up information on domestic violence. Do so quietly and cover your tracks so he won’t find out. If you’re in the states, there are more services due to covid because many women are being abused at a higher rate during this time Start squirreling money away. Small amounts add up quickly He cannot take your child. In the US you can file for custody and child support and if you don’t have a lawyer, one can be appointed to you and another for your child. M… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 236 | Every day on relationship_advice...I saw a post on r/ dating over thirty today that said “I must say this is a depressing sub full of miserable people giving bad advice, I can’t be alone in this opinion” Nope. No, you’re not alone 😂 Every relationship advice sub on Reddit is full of lvms and pickmeishas whose best advice is to CoMmuNiCaTe. 🗑 🗑 🗑 🗑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:27 AM |
| 18 | So I’m kinda beginning to feel like a fuckboy, becauseThis is something you might need to seek therapy for in order to find answers Detaching from society is usually a coping mechanism for past trauma If it helps, I’m detached from most of the things that I used to be so attached to, but it comes from a place of learning self love and creating boundaries Don’t compare yourself to fuckboys because obviously you have some sense of self awareness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 82 | Ladies, Be Patient. He'll Marry You ELEVEN YEARS FROM NOW 🤡Scrote is actively plotting out his plan to maximize his time to find the woman of his dreams whilst he wastes some pickmeishas time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 01:03 AM |
| 38 | Too good to be true. Great boydriend until I find out he doesn't just watch porn; he is more into live sex cams.You’re on a surefire path to a hellish future Read the handbook. Now Dump his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:55 PM |
| 52 | She should chose neither tbhActively vet and block and delete any and every male that doesn’t meet your standards Women need to stop looking for the loopholes and the shortcuts to dating because that’s the path of least resistance on the road to lvm hell Be ruthless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:54 PM |
| 19 | A reminder that "no" is always a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone an explanation, a dance, a drink, a date, or sex. Someone who does not respect your boundaries is someone who has no respect for you.It’s your job to do the work to reverse your conflict avoidant habits that are to your detriment Because, literally your life depends upon it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 09:10 PM |
| 14 | A reminder that "no" is always a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone an explanation, a dance, a drink, a date, or sex. Someone who does not respect your boundaries is someone who has no respect for you.Thank you I love to say “no is a complete sentence “ Obviously there are exceptions to that rule. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 7 | The world is disgusting.Do you know how many teenaged girls have killed themselves over being shamed for sharing nudes Don’t glorify this shit here. Ever | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:26 PM |
| 52 | LVM using CashApp to get my attention after I blocked him everywhere else. I accepted the ONE DOLLAR, then blocked him on CashApp too :)I see zero problem with this Next time, make him send you $100 Then block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceIt sucks, right? Better than staying in the dark though You have to walk through the fire in order to rise from the ashes 😘😘😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 06:09 PM |
| 3 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceOmg. She groomed a child to help raise her kids I’m glad at least you saw it for what it was Happy you are here with us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:21 PM |
| 9 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.Yes. Exactly, sis All of the signs are outlined in the handbook I wish I had that tool when I was younger and clueless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceMy father would be considered low value by our standards but he had severe ptsd from Vietnam and had a very abusive childhood. At least he loved me. Can’t say the same for my mom. My dad is gone now so I feel like an orphan. But I have 85k new sisters in this group, so that helps 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 05:07 PM |
| 18 | Dumped LVMGo to the handbook Read the break up guide Read the “brain override oxytocin” post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:46 PM |
| 7 | Any tips on figuring out red flags quickly?Just need to echo the others here Read the handbook. There’s an entire section devoted to red flags, so obviously you haven’t read it yet and In not doing so, you are doing yourself a huge disservice I hope the next question you pose in this group reflects that it’s obvious you’ve already read it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:44 PM |
| 72 | A view into what goes on inside some men’s heads: this is truly disgusting- ladies please vet them extra carefully so that you don’t meet someone like this.This is 100% without a doubt, a sociopath. You’d think this kind of depravity would be difficult to hide, but not for experienced narcs Be careful out there, ladies. Vet them like your life depends on it Always be on the lookout for signs of low value behavior and never look for excuses to give them a chance. You need to be actively weeding them out at the first sign of trouble. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 19 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceI’ve fully come to realize that my mother, who sounds a lot like yours, is a narcissist It’s a shocking thing to come to terms with, but so much of my childhood makes sense now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:17 PM |
| 23 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceFfs. That’s awful. So sorry you had to deal with that shit I swear there should be a test people need to take before they can have kids Can not believe anyone could think it’s ok to neglect and abuse children 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:09 PM |
| 67 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceThis is exactly why I left home at 17 My mother was a pick me who always put my stepfather’s needs above mine I hope that girl leaves when she’s 18 and cuts her “mother” out of her life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:02 PM |
| 138 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceAlso, they are in NYC. She moved her daughter into some old scrote’s apartment during a pandemic in the biggest hotspot in the country So, this poor girl was ripped from her friends, her school and her home and stuffed into an apartment with some guy she barely knew and her only outlet was her violin, and even that was taken away from her That’s not a mother, that’s a fucking monster. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 12:54 PM |
| 50 | Mum moves in with a LVM after 3 months of dating who won’t let daughter practiceSome people should not be parents That poor child 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 11:40 AM |
| 36 | He’s had more than a million chances to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.Maybe you just needed that experience before the knowledge could sink in. I know I did, because I’m stubborn like that and needed to learn the hard way No worries. You’re here now. All better ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 02:31 AM |
| 26 | He’s had more than a million chances to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.Me too my love, me too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 01:28 AM |
| 2 | Lydia Night, lead singer of the Regrettes, calls out her abuser.Thanks. I don’t follow the current rock scene enough to know this. I hope this buries whatever remains of his bs career in the music biz | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 11:54 PM |
| 76 | And ~chemistry~ is just the feeling of familiarity. Pls look into trauma bonds if you feel you get addicted to people! Dr. Ramani on youtube has a great video.This is why you need to sew up those wounds. Manipulators and narcs pick up on the scent of blood and will go in for the kill Do the work. Heal first. Build a secure life for yourself and focus on being whole. That’s how you high value. Only then will you attract what you want and deserve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:10 PM |
| 11 | I started a discussion 😬Of course the men were attempting to mansplain his behavior. See how they support one another’s depravity? Glad the ladies snapped back. I really enjoyed reading the comments with all of the British Lingo, I tried to read along with a British accent in my head 😂 👑 shit, sis ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:56 PM |
| 13 | Lydia Night, lead singer of the Regrettes, calls out her abuser.A 22 year old rock star and self proclaimed feminist, taking advantage of his position to coerce and groom a 16 year old child into a pedophilic, sexual relationship Well, Fetch my smelling salts. 🙄 Good for her for speaking out and bringing this garbage human being’s behavior to light. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 07:29 PM |
| 24 | BeardfishingThese “unimpressed face” memes are killllllling me 😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 117 | I started a discussion 😬“Also, it’s tiny” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/20 10:24 AM |
| 15 | If you have to write more than two paragraphs about him you:Yesssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:58 PM |
| 7 | I’m [16F] scared of not getting a HVM.There are no HVMs your age. The brain isn’t even fully developed until age 25, so it’s impossible for a boy to be a man until they’re at least 25 and even then, it’s iffy Girl, why are you so worried about boys right now? Your brain should be on school, friends and MAYBE casually dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:25 PM |
| 60 | Rose experienced this tenfoldEwwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:20 PM |
| 22 | If you have to write more than two paragraphs about him you:That’s fine. It’s cathartic to rant. As long as it’s not obvious the person hasn’t read the handbook Also, if it’s not post worthy and just a general advice seeking question, post it to the weekly FDS chat hosted by the mods. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 48 | Rose experienced this tenfoldEw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:55 PM |
| 4 | Beware of#himpathy: when a man only cares about women's issues as it relates to women in his life (wife, mother, daughter,etc.) Ex: His daughter is part "him" and therefore suddenly she counts in a way no other woman did before/ learned empathy when having a daughter/etc.YW 😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:53 PM |
| 37 | Is it a PA giving him ED or something worse?Obvious signs of porn addiction Dump and block Please, FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:48 PM |
| 42 | LVM Bingo Time!Netflix and chill WYD Left on read You’re such a good listener ! Sorry, work has been so busy 2am text “you up?” The list is endless | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:45 PM |
| 199 | Rose experienced this tenfoldI never followed the show. Did she ever actually sleep with that human tick? I hope not | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:42 PM |
| 102 | Beware of#himpathy: when a man only cares about women's issues as it relates to women in his life (wife, mother, daughter,etc.) Ex: His daughter is part "him" and therefore suddenly she counts in a way no other woman did before/ learned empathy when having a daughter/etc.This is how narcissists operate. They show affection and give support to their children because they think of them as an extension of themselves, but to everyone else, they lack empathy Well done, sis. I love when our girls bring new terms to our mainstream language to highlight the depravity of lvms Editing to correct: (for the sake of not triggering abused daughters of narcs). This is how SOME narcissists operate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 10:35 PM |
| 48 | On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worthI’ll never let it die 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 179 | On January 2nd I gave up dating and instead focused on my net worthThis is why we repeatedly say, focus on your own growth first, then dating. Build yourself a nest, so you never end up dating a guy that sleeps on one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 08:11 PM |
| 36 | Lol the purple pill is a complete jokeConvincing a woman to have sex under false pretenses and manipulation is a form of rape I saidwhatIsaid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 07:10 PM |
| 5 | I will never understand why men feel the need to kill women if they have issues of their own.I saw that episode. Omg, those kids were so beautiful. It’s so sad That garbage human being is probably still alive somewhere. I hope he is found and brought to justice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:39 PM |
| 15 | Ladies please get a google number!!!Solid advice | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:25 PM |
| 25 | A perfect example of a LVM and his self-centred thought process 😑Unhinged Threatened by women with standards Don’t respond. Just block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 04:24 PM |
| 30 | What about when your dad is a LVM?The same with anyone else who is toxic in your life, cut them out of your life. If that’s not possible, limit your exposure as much as possible If your dad is just a lazy lvm who doesn’t put much effort into his relationship with you, there’s not much point in you making the effort to change that because, as we know, most lvms do not change. No need to cut him out of your life if he’s not a persistent and toxic presence, but no need to exert energy to change that. However, If he’s a net negative… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:43 PM |
| 13 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you thisIf you think she will be offended, she’s probably not ready to listen You can drop subtle hints about the strategies that aren’t related to dealing with lvms and see how she responds I would urge you to use caution with pickme friends. They can hold you back on your journey up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:16 PM |
| 7 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you thisThank the mods. They’re amazing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:11 PM |
| 30 | For the love of GOD why is he taking soooo long... or am I impatient?This 👆 Also read: “There is no advantage to having a crush” in the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 09:00 PM |
| 68 | Another man (aggressively) shocked that asking for an open relationship leads to his wife getting great sex.This sounds like it was written by a porn sick scrote with a hot wife fetish. Total troll. Men asking for advice don’t go into explicit details like this without an agenda. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 08:48 PM |
| 79 | Anyone else watching the Indian Matchmaker show on Netflix. Wasn’t sure how to “flair” this one!You mean, the only dates he could get are the ones his mommy set up for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:54 PM |
| 12 | Basically 🙄😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 05:51 PM |
| 21 | Advice would be appreciated for a woman stuck in an abusive relationshipPrint out the handbook Have your Friend (her sister) translate it for her Also, check if Lundy’s book “why Does He Do that” is available in her language | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:56 PM |
| 26 | Basically 🙄What is that wall of text beneath him? Oh. That’s just his nest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:53 PM |
| 8 | Gigi Engle once again giving tone deaf and irresponsible sex advice.Everything you post, on here and on Twitter is 🔥 🔥 🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:36 PM |
| 176 | When you send your best friend the FDS Handbook & 1 week later she dumps LVM and texts you this❤️ this so much. Ladies, don’t just read the handbook. That’s not enough. SHARE it with your friends. It’s in PDF form form on the FDS wiki. Print it out and share it with the women in your life It’s a goldmine of information that was painstakingly and lovingly curated by our amazing mods. It’s the mindset shift every woman in the world needs Read it and share it as much as possible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 03:51 PM |
| 10 | Uh oh. Looks like scrotes M.....How evil and toxic of us! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 11:48 AM |
| 38 | Uh oh. Looks like scrotes M.....The OP thought I was accusing him of being a terrorist because I offered the news link of the MGTOW guy who planned to commit terrorism Men are not an intelligent gender 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:56 AM |
| 15 | Uh oh. Looks like scrotes M.....Because insecure, short men with small dicks and nothing to offer feel threatened by women with standards. And the answer to the porn question is “but, muh dick!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:34 AM |
| 95 | Uh oh. Looks like scrotes M.....What do you mean? You don’t feel sorry for all those PoOr wIDdLE men who have to put up with us having standards? Silly you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:14 AM |
| 77 | Uh oh. Looks like scrotes M.....A men’s rights activist MGTOW garbage human being killed a judge’s son. Yet here are are saying men should pay for dinner. But we are the bad guys Cool story, bro | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:13 AM |
| 37 | We got a real winner on our hands hereCan you please match with him and be the first one to message? Just say “bruh, do you even lift?” Then block | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:23 AM |
| 10 | If you need permission or a reminder: As a woman, you are not obligated to be your man's therapist or sole emotional support. Untreated/unimproved mental health issues are perfectly reasonable grounds for leaving a man. You deserve a happy, thriving, or at least emotionally functional partner.I didn’t think for one second that you used that word with bad intentions. My frustration is that it’s become the norm to use and it’s so wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:56 PM |
| 16 | If you need permission or a reminder: As a woman, you are not obligated to be your man's therapist or sole emotional support. Untreated/unimproved mental health issues are perfectly reasonable grounds for leaving a man. You deserve a happy, thriving, or at least emotionally functional partner.Sorry to hear that love. Glad you are here with us I don’t judge any woman for doing what she needs to do to survive Words are a powerful thing. Putting the words “worker” after “sex” makes it seem too normal in an industry where women are abused, trafficked and tortured mentally and physically | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:34 PM |
| 15 | Hey queens. Make some suggestions for me to be more productive in a fun way on my down time. Keep me busy.Get on Pinterest Make a vision board for the things you want to manifest in your life Online cooking lessons (if you like cooking) Lately, I’m into diamond painting. It’s like paint by number but with tiny little tiles. It requires a lot of mental focus. The results are stunning Find podcasts that interest you Learn to meditate Editing to add: if you don’t know where to start with reading, read the recommended FDS books | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:09 PM |
| 16 | i am really depressedYou need a mindset shift. Listen to the wise women on this thread and Read. The. Handbook I promise you will feel 1000x better after reading it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 11:04 PM |
| 21 | How do I vet effectively at 19?Please read the handbook Also, at your age you should be putting the majority of your effort into your education and career. Set yourself up so that you are independent and never have to depend on a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 07:47 PM |
| 8 | Help a sister outI can’t tell you how grateful I am for my ex husband who was supportive when I decided I didn’t want to go back to work after having our first child. There was not a chance that I wanted to leave my sweet baby with someone else to care for him. I didn’t even realize it until after he was born, but I was meant to be the one to raise my child, not his grandparents, or some daycare center. Although I don’t judge any mother who has to or wants to go back to work, it wasn’t the right choice for me. M… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:25 PM |
| 39 | I did it! Thank you FDS Community!!Oh wow! This is amazing Most of the time I wonder what happens to the ladies who post here seeming lost and unable to get out of their horrible situations because they can’t see the obvious truth that everyone else sees Thank you for updating us. I was worried for you I’m so proud of you! Get into therapy. It will help you process everything that happened. Read the handbook, there is so much helpful information that will help you heal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 03:04 PM |
| 65 | Not like other black girlsThis 👆 Block his racist, dumb ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 02:56 PM |
| 13 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.Thank you for getting it, sis So glad that lovely lady brought you here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:54 AM |
| 17 | Friend’s not necessarily a pick-me but not sure what to make of her toxic character traits eitherFDS women are not women who have zero ambition and rely on being shitty to other people in order to use them You have a very different perspective of what a high value female is vs the reality that is this group of women Please, read the handbook It’s fine to rant but it’s obvious you haven’t grasped the concepts here yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:50 AM |
| 16 | Friend’s not necessarily a pick-me but not sure what to make of her toxic character traits eitherYou think she’s not a pick me because she’s an entitled fool who thinks she can get whatever she wants because she has a decent face and body? You think there aren’t millions of women out there who aren’t pick me’s just because they are bitchy and have no sense of self awareness? Why are you wasting any time and energy on this person? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:40 AM |
| 52 | He’s not picking me up from the airport-is this LVM behavior?Ffs Deep down you already know the answer to this question Dump his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:33 AM |
| 19 | A tale of a former coworker and her NVM boyfriendThis is exactly why it’s often said here that we need to drop those pickmeisha friends Relationships with women like this just aren’t worth the emotional stress You did good, sis. You tried to help in the beginning and even gave her a second chance and the moment you knew she would not change, you blocked her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 12:06 AM |
| 2 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.Ugh. Sorry. Wasn’t my intention to insult you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:16 PM |
| 9 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.That came across as mean and directed at you. Not my intention. I meant in general terms and not specific to your comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 11:15 PM |
| 6 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.Yeah. I think if you can’t handle us clowning men, you don’t belong on this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 10:15 PM |
| 16 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.And that’s what is sad. It becomes draining and the ones who deserve the help, because they have done the work, slip through the cracks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 17 | Advice on the best way to tell men to leave me alone and stop complimenting me?This is such good, well thought out advice I would add one thing. Martial arts training. Particularly jiu jitsu Google ‘Steve Kardian’ He is an ex cop who is an advocate for women’s self defense and he’s also a jiu jitsu professor who travels the US to teach women’s self defense. He has an army of instructors who teach classes worldwide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:06 PM |
| 5 | Advice on the best way to tell men to leave me alone and stop complimenting me?That and some good pepper spray would be perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:03 PM |
| 11 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.Yes. That’s exactly what I did when I came here. I searched my particular issue and was immediately sucked into a vortex of good advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 09:02 PM |
| 14 | Advice on the best way to tell men to leave me alone and stop complimenting me?That’s a tough one because men can get aggressive when you snap back, right? It’s such a shitty situation for women that we have to put up with it I once had a guy chase me down in the target parking lot with two kids in tow. It’s ridiculous You can try to just hold your head high and ignore, sometimes even that makes them become more aggressive, though When I lived in the city, I walked around everywhere with headphones on I used to wish I could carry a gun with me because if someone ever truly… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:38 PM |
| 14 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.I know. I was expressing my frustration at the term being used so often. Most of us here know what it should be named as | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 8 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.It’s not about not wanting to help. Not at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:22 PM |
| 46 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.It’s so draining, right? Prostitution. We need to call it what it is. It’s prostitution. We shouldn’t even allow the term “ sex worker” on this sub To me it’s the same thing as calling a child rape victim” an “underage sex victim”. Wtf is that even ? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:19 PM |
| 32 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.It’s possible and honestly, I don’t read other relationship subs anymore because it’s a dark trigger for my old pickmeisha days. This sub is meant to be a safe haven from that mess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 8 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:08 PM |
| 29 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.“ if they’re not ready to be helped, they wouldn’t be here” Again, no. We can’t help anyone who can’t be bothered to follow the simple rules of this sub. This is not a relationship advice sub. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:08 PM |
| 25 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.“ it’s nice to talk to other people sometimes “ No This isn’t a relationship advice sub They can ask for advice, they need to do the work first and read the handbook. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:06 PM |
| 43 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.Exactly! It makes us look like R/ relationshipadvice, instead of a dating strategy sub, which is off-putting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 08:04 PM |
| 21 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.Not if they can’t be bothered to follow the rules of the sub. Read the rules | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:55 PM |
| 81 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.Most of the time though, especially the ones also posting the same question to other subs, they don’t even respond to all of the advice. It’s just them trying to dump their emotional weight onto others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:54 PM |
| 57 | These long, rambling advice seeking questions by women who are also posting the same questions on other subs are becoming more and more frequent lately.No shame in anyone asking any questions they want as long as it isn’t glaringly obvious they haven’t read the handbook at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:47 PM |
| 3 | AITA because I don't want to continue being emotionally available for a friend I like?Please read the handbook The members of this sub continually and selflessly put their time and effort into answering these ridiculously long questions where the subbie obviously doesn’t frequent this sub and is posting on other subs. In essence what she is doing is using others for emotional support without putting forth any effort of her own Read The Handbook!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:27 PM |
| 22 | behold this person unwittingly doing us a favor. keep helping us spread the word, by all means!I love it when they bash us. It sends former pickmeishas flocking to our sub. That’s how I found it and I’m sure many of you could say the same They only make us stronger when they complain about us because it makes people curious and when they come here they realize that we are a group of women they can learn from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 03:14 PM |
| 9 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?Thank you! I’m not against my sisters going out there and taking advantage of men because many of them deserve it. I also don’t judge and I don’t think it makes someone a lesser human being. However, it is low value behavior and it can be dangerous and degrading Do the ladies that follow this sub that have onlyfans followers and camgirl it up for men think it won’t follow them later in life when they want to settle down with a HVM and raise kids in a nice community, or get a good job think their… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 11:32 PM |
| 22 | Any tips for a first relationship?Read the handbook So glad you are here at this stage in your dating life. I wish I had these tools when I was your age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 10:17 PM |
| 6 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?We are saying the same thing I was just clarifying that it wasn’t exclusive to women in third world countries. Any woman can be in the situation for reasons of survival. I don’t judge them either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 15 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?Exactly. We teach ways to avoid LVMs here Sugar daddies are LV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 10 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?Also no shame in being Sahm. Just, before you do so you should have an education and some good job experience so that if you have support yourself later on, it’s not as difficult as starting from nowhere | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 08:16 PM |
| 9 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?No shame in that game sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 08:13 PM |
| 28 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?The OP was questioning the opinion of sugar babying here. This is a dating strategy sub geared towards becoming high value and finding a high value man You can’t be high value while you are literally selling your body to get a leg up in the world and no man with respect for himself would want a woman who devalues herself in that way I do not judge whoever needs to do this in order to survive because they’re in a tough situation. Not one bit do I look down on that. However, we can’t promote the i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 08:10 PM |
| 12 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?I have an entirely different view because the notion that we need to be financially compensated for our company is too close to prostitution I do think a man needs to be able to provide for a woman in order to seriously date her but at the same time the women should never depend on a man for financial support because, as we’ve seen many, many times in our communities and among our sisters, a man can easily leave you high and dry for another women while you are left scrambling to figure out how t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:52 PM |
| 76 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?There are women in third world countries that literally have no other option to feed their families and I feel for them and don’t judge them for doing what they have to do to survive But, in the rest of the world? There’s no dignity in fucking a scrote for a Fendi bag. That is low value behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:20 PM |
| 27 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?Or have to sleep with some grody old man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:13 PM |
| 79 | What are your FDS opinions of Sugar Daddy/Sugar Babying?I don’t think this promotes FDS values If you want to be a high value female, you need to be able to make it in the world and never have to depend on a man | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:10 PM |
| 8 | The Code16? Ffs. That is heartbreaking So glad you are here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 07:04 PM |
| 9 | The CodeThis is a story told millions of times and it is so sad for the kids involved This is why choosing the right partner is so important So glad you’re in a better place now sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 06:31 PM |
| 31 | The CodeIt’s such a huge red flag when they complain about their exes and want you to commiserate with them in their inability to let go because, of course, he was perfect and anyone that left him is trash 🙄 If he’s doing it to other women, he will do it to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 23 | Downvotes feel like awards to me 🤷🏻♀️😂 how does everyone else feel?Men don’t compliment freely without the underlying insinuation of expecting sex, therefore their compliments outside of a loving partnership are garbage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:40 AM |
| 26 | coffee date no.1 what now?Read The Handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:05 AM |
| 109 | Recovering Pickmeisha in need of advice. How do I react when the bill arrives at the end of a date?Show no reaction. Let him get the check. Smile and say thank you when he pays. If he asks to split the bill, do so and then immediately block him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 01:46 AM |
| 106 | Downvotes feel like awards to me 🤷🏻♀️😂 how does everyone else feel?Mmmhmm We’re supposed to lift up and support the gender that abuses, marginalizes and takes advantage of us instead of one another They can fuck off with their pathetic attempt to gain Sympathy As if the guy in the photo wouldn’t hesitate to send an unsolicited dick pic to the first woman who gave him a nod, whilst the lady above him would be happy with nothing more than a compliment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 11:54 PM |
| 12 | PROUD OF MYSELF, happy with my growth.Your progress isn’t going to happen in leaps and bounds Baby steps are good. Baby steps are actually healthier because if you move too quickly outside of your comfort zone, you risk backsliding into old habits Proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:19 PM |
| 11 | Dude.What do you expect from a 20 year old? I know mistakes happen. This is why condoms are so important 20 years old is way too young to have a child. The frontal lobe of the brain isn’t even fully developed until age 25. Essentially at that age, it’s children having children. It’s rare for the outcome to be a good one when families start out so young | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:07 PM |
| 1 | NVM has the audacity to call her behavior EMBARRASSING while giving BIRTHNo worries 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 09:03 PM |
| 1 | NVM has the audacity to call her behavior EMBARRASSING while giving BIRTHThis was already posted here today love | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.I live in America and grew up in New York City. I’ve never been on a date with a man who asked to split the bill, and I have been on many dates. I’m sure many others have had bad experiences in that regard, but for me, no. I’ve had plenty of other bad experiences with lvms, but that was not one of them I don’t think singling out particular countries is helpful to advancing the conversation in leveling up as high value females If there were some magical country where no lvms existed, I am certain… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 12:17 AM |
| 7 | What is my ex trying to tell me here?Happy cake day!!!😘😘😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Come on Brittany, you are better than this...It might be fake but someone just posted something yesterday where an extreme pick me was complaining about “onlyfans” because she only posts nudes for free Women need to understand the disastrous consequences of pandering to men online | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 09:53 PM |
| 17 | What is my ex trying to tell me here?If your mom won’t tell you this, I will: Please don’t ever let a man use you as a free cam girl. We are not therapists for broken men or sex dolls for porn sick scrotes Be careful of what you do on camera because it can come back to haunt you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 08:18 PM |
| 134 | What is my ex trying to tell me here?Exactly this 👆 Stop 👏 confusing 👏 boredom 👏 with👏 remorse 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:11 PM |
| 19 | What is my ex trying to tell me here?I’m thinking if he treated you badly and you ended it, why did you leave the door open instead of just blocking him? Never go backwards They never change | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 07:09 PM |
| 4 | Don’t drink alcohol on datesPeople with mental health issues are not worthless. They are not throwaways. We don’t promote that idea here People with mental health issues who use unhealthy coping mechanisms are not safe partners. Those who use healthy, therapeutic methods can become safe partners. You shouldn’t get into a relationship with someone with anxiety or other disorders until they’ve successfully managed to find ways to cope in a healthy way. We are not therapists. Don’t take on that role in a relationship I have t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:33 PM |
| 17 | Bf tried to throw out their bed to make room for his video games when she wasn't home. She thinks the issue is they need to communicate better and she's going to sleep on a mat to compromise with him. C'mon girl....This will never be not funny 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 06:02 PM |
| 26 | Come on Brittany, you are better than this...Do people not realize that they might have kids one day, and their kids might see this? Those of you that aren’t married yet and want to get married and have kids, please tread very carefully because if you do have kids you will probably become enmeshed in your community and the mistakes that you make online will be for all the world to see. Don’t be that mom on the soccer field that all of the other moms snicker about behind their backs. Don’t be that mom that your teenage daughter or son has t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:59 PM |
| 28 | Don’t drink alcohol on datesIf someone has social anxiety to the point that they use alcohol as a coping mechanism instead of getting treatment and therapy. Red Flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 03:25 AM |
| 7 | She's a marriage therapist...has several other posts like this as well. Mostly men salivating over her posts as expected.🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:08 AM |
| 27 | Guys who play video games, obsess over cars in a childish way, or collect stupid piece of plastic as "hobbies"Those are not interests or hobbies, they are a distraction from living life as an adult They are not dateable until they graduate from puberty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 02:07 AM |
| 18 | Let’s call it exactly what it is. Child RAPE. They are not “underaged prostitutes”. They were children. It was not “nonconsensual sex”. It’s CHILD RAPE. See how the patriarchy likes to play with words to fit the narrative that it’s ok to rape children ???Every time they said “egg shaped penis”, I threw up in my mouth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 01:38 AM |
| 38 | Don’t drink alcohol on datesOR has severe social anxiety and needs to take the edge off by getting drunk Huge red flags | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:39 PM |
| 230 | FREEEEEEEEE“All paid up, nothing left to talk about” BLOCK Queen Shit Proud of you, girl ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Scrote(who wont even commit) angry that I cut my hair without asking his permission.So, if we are to believe you, you created an account and posted on a small dick sub, to pander to men? This is not the sub for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 4 | Scrote(who wont even commit) angry that I cut my hair without asking his permission.And you created a new account, then posted it on r/smalldickproblems because??? What kind of reaction do you think you’d get there? And what kind of reaction do you think you’d get on a sub full of women with high standards? Again. Please take your troll points and go away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:37 PM |
| 5 | Scrote(who wont even commit) angry that I cut my hair without asking his permission.You’re posting this ridiculous crap on many different subs. You’re not an active member Go away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Scrote(who wont even commit) angry that I cut my hair without asking his permission.I just realized this. I need to review their histories before responding to this far fetched troll shit Look where else OP posted. Look at HIS posting history This is a troll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 5 | Scrote(who wont even commit) angry that I cut my hair without asking his permission.You sound very young. I hope you stick around and learn because you’re in danger of becoming an extreme pick me based on what you’ve written here Also, he crossed a line with your 16 year old sister???? TF did I just read??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 6 | Scrote(who wont even commit) angry that I cut my hair without asking his permission.Everyone is slamming OP, but I think she’s being honest when she said she thought he was joking because his first response was so mean. it could easily be unfathomable that someone was being serious in that moment OP, next time just block. You didn’t need to let the conversation get to a petty place I hope you’ve learned your lesson You also need to drop your pick me friends There is nothing, absolutely NOTHING wrong with not wanting to sleep with a man with a 2” dick! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:37 PM |
| 43 | Should I remove my nipple piercing?It’s your body. You do you. If you think it’s cute, then I wouldn’t stress over it Now, when it comes to hook ups and kinky fwb’s, what exactly do you get out of that? That’s something you need to examine, not the piercings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:51 AM |
| 15 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.Um, we are shaming him here 😂. Also, In most European countries, it’s the norm to split the bill. In EVERY country men should be shamed for freeloading off of women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 12:46 AM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020No woman is more of a pick me than an enabler of an abusive narcissist Think of the extreme version of this. They are the women who let men violently abuse their children, yet still stand by their side | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 10:12 PM |
| 24 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.LVMs are an international thing. American women aren’t the only ones who deal with them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:51 PM |
| 84 | When you reject a NVM and his feelings are hurt, it shows.Yes because Gisele Bundchen and Beyoncé love riding in 1994 Hondas with bare tires and no air conditioning on their way to pick up their dollar menu drinks with scrotes He sure got you there! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Are we clear? ARE WE CLEAR?!?Yeah, this might be the only acceptable response before blocking them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:24 PM |
| 14 | How should I respond to this?Block 👏 His 👏 Ass 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 6 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!Yes and, straying off topic for a moment, watch your own thoughts and feelings and avoid using toxic words in relation to the word “I” The words following the “I am” statement are very powerful to our psyche and our self reflection | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Well said. Thank you for sharing and I’m so sorry that you had to suffer. I can relate so much to what you’ve written and I ended up in a relationship with a narc as a result of everything I went through in my childhood. “People are quick to judge without idea of what traumas others are living with”. This is true across the board in all different aspects of life. This is why therapy is so important, so that you can be heard and understood without judgement. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 08:20 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Ugh, so similar to my own situation. The triangulation between my sister’s and I. The physical and emotional abuse. The running hot and cold between ‘love’ and hate I’m both stunned and sad to have recently come to this mind blowing realization and I don’t think I would have uncovered the truth if I haven’t come so far in this journey of leveling up because getting to the higher stages requires figuring out where it all went wrong. It sucks tbh, to have to rip the mask from someone who you thoug… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:39 PM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 15 2020Anyone else here realize that one, or both of their parents were narcissists later on in life (late 20s and above) and it made it easier to piece together all of the toxicity in your adult relationships? Please share | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 07:06 PM |
| 21 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!All those “I”s and “me’s” 🙄. Are you narcissist or just stuttering? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 05:48 PM |
| 88 | Toxic ex sent me a “friendly” email to try to get in touch with me again. Don’t fall for it!Whenever you get these types of letters from an ex, count the “I”s. It’s all about them Never go backwards. They never change | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 04:22 PM |
| 14 | He hasn't written anythingI came here to say exactly this 👆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 01:12 AM |
| 56 | Never compromise for a man!!I love hearing these stories of FDS saving one of our sisters from guaranteed heartbreak!!! So proud of you Sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:57 PM |
| 4 | Try again please😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Two Buck Chuck and nuggets paired with Mountain Dew at the nest? You Goldigger!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 09:50 PM |
| 2 | Proceeded to unmatch him immediately 😂It’s ok. There’s just so many of these exchanges with guys on OLD that are immediate throwaways It’s getting to be too repetitive lately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Proceeded to unmatch him immediately 😂I’m going to say this in the nicest way possible because I don’t want to discourage anyone from posting here Please read the handbook Please stop posting these pointless exchanges When a guy doesn’t meet your standards, it’s usually obvious and all you need to do is block and move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 31 | What is too much eagerness?As a general rule, make them chase you That doesn’t mean you should ignore his texts in order to get a reaction. Answer in your own good time If his double text is unhinged, for example “hello??” Are you ignoring me?” Etc. That’s intrusive and rude. Also a sign of desperation If it’s a gentle nudge, for example “guess you’re busy, text me when you are free” That might just be him testing your interest level It’s hard to give more advice without more background and context | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 06:20 PM |
| 69 | When the bar is so low, yet....And this is one of the many reasons I love this group of funny, amazing women ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:48 AM |
| 253 | When the bar is so low, yet....The nest!!! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:42 AM |
| 44 | Did I overreact?No guy that you’ve just met, and hasn’t taken the time to get to know you, should ever, EVER be overly romantic The exception is when they do something cute and sweet, for example after a date and you mention something that you love and the next day during conversation, he suggests taking you to do that thing you love on your next date If he starts waxing all poetic about how amazing and beautiful you are before he even knows you or starts talking about a future, that’s lovebombing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 01:18 AM |
| 76 | Did I overreact?He quickly steered the conversation from a casual place to a place where he could attempt to establish fake intimacy, with a nifty little doorway to see if you were on board with ‘Netflix and Chill’ If they haven’t taken you out on a date and gotten to know you personally, these conversations steered into a place where you are casually hanging out are his way of testing your boundaries. Ladies, learn to pick up on these things: attempt to quickly establish intimacy, love bombing, negging and sex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/20 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Read the handbookThe mods do weekly chats and sticky them to the top of the sub. It’s the perfect place for strictly questions and discussions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:44 PM |
| 6 | Some thoughts on BDSM and why it throws women to the wolvesYes. He was. But they dressed it up as a love story, which is gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 10:53 PM |
| 10 | Some thoughts on BDSM and why it throws women to the wolvesThis is why books and movies like ‘50 shades of grey’ are dangerous. They glamorize BDSM and do not show the dark side. Guarantee all of these self proclaimed ‘doms’ are abusive lvm creeps. These stories are definitely written by libfem pickmeishas who want to normalize the lifestyle. I watched a few episodes of the Showtime series ‘Diary of a Call Girl” and the main character is packaged up as a happy prostitute who wears couture clothes and travels on private jets to private islands with her j… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 09:52 PM |
| 6 | The Siren Song and why we immediately block at the first sign of LV behaviorAbsolutely! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Read the handbookYou know, the usual “most toxic sub on Reddit” lie I think so many of us can say the same thing. It’s their unjustified hatred of us that brought me and so many others here. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 01:30 PM |
| 11 | Read the handbookTrue! That’s how I started out here. I was reading through a dating advice sub and some disgruntled scrote was complaining about FDS, which led me here and I looked up information on my specific situation. I realized there were SO many others that were struggling with the same issue and the advice was spot on. I was immediately hooked and now, here I am 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 02:27 AM |
| 14 | The EPITOME of a passive aggressive man.Low key negging. You should’ve just blocked after the first message Edited to add: also block out your name before posting for anonymity purposes Oh and if this is Bumble, I would rethink if I were you. Don’t go on apps where you need to make the first move | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:42 PM |
| 23 | Read the handbookI don’t think those posts will ever go away completely and I don’t want anyone to feel like they shouldn’t have a voice. That wasn’t my goal at all. It’s just that I’m seeing way too many lately and I want to get the point across that so much can be answered by the handbook and I wish everyone here would read it because it seems as if many do not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:39 PM |
| 13 | Read the handbookSometimes a meme just strikes the right cord in a very succinct and perfectly executed way that many can relate to But I don’t disagree. I appreciate the thoughtful posts where you can tell the OP put in lots of time and effort more than the memes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 19 | Read the handbookFDS is strategy based. That’s why this sub gets so many of these questions. It’s because they feel lost and need help. But it’s all in the handbook and whatever else isn’t can be answered by lurking for a little while. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:00 PM |
| 2 | Love Fraud on Showtime. Docuseries starting Sunday August 30th 9/8cRight?????!!!! I was so creeped out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:58 PM |
| 25 | How to get over a situationship? Please share your strategies that helped you get out of a bad placeEverything you need to know is in the handbook. Read it then come back with more focused questions. We are happy to help but please take the time to read and absorb all of the information first | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:56 PM |
| 38 | Read the handbookOh, it definitely is in most cases. But the long paragraphs have got to go. These fuckboys do not care and they actually feed off of it. That’s also in the handbook, which is why I am emphasizing it’s importance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:32 PM |
| 66 | Read the handbookI agree but some of them are so funny, like the girl who recently posted the dick pic texts she got from a scrote. Then she found him on Facebook and sent his grody dick pics to all of his friends. That was highly entertaining and true Queen shit 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 10:14 PM |
| 7 | Love Fraud on Showtime. Docuseries starting Sunday August 30th 9/8cAnother good one ‘Dirty John’ on Netflix. Super pickmeisha takes money grubbing loserbag scrote back, even after learning what an evil scumbag, drug addict he was, only to have her daughter attacked, and almost killed by scrote. Daughter killed scrote in defense. It’s a true story. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 15 | Read the handbookIt’s like a triage situation. The most egregious ones are the ones who need the most help, but it drags us down as a whole so we can’t allow it That’s why I emphasize reading the handbook. I don’t want to give up on them but they need to come here with a foundation to grow from first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 07:14 PM |
| 66 | Read the handbookI’m all for tough love. None of us should be mean to each other, but sometimes it takes a 2X4 to get the point across. If anyone needs a smack across the back of the head followed by some truth and a big hug, I’m your girl! 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 13 | Read the handbookIt’s never easy to put something new into practice. It takes time and effort. I promise, though, the journey is worth it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 06:37 PM |
| 24 | Read the handbookI get it. It’s so easy to jump right into the conversation because this group of women is so amazing. But you have to do the work first. You can’t build on a shaky foundation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 06:35 PM |
| 10 | Cut off “friend with benefits” of three years five months ago and he contacted me again - what’s his motive?Sis, you need to pour through the handbook and read it in its entirety, particularly the ‘psychological strategies, red flags and break up sections He just wants to get his dick wet, nothing more. If he cared about you, trust me, you would know. You wouldn’t have to ask us any questions. Block him everywhere, immediately. Again, READ THE HANDBOOK. Tighten up those boundaries and level the fuck up I’m sorry you’re struggling love, we are here for you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 05:08 PM |
| 44 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastThey jazzed it up with the energy drink in a hotel room instead of Mountain Dew on a nest and thought we wouldn’t notice. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 03:20 AM |
| 3 | Imagine being a completely average man and thinking a woman needs to “earn” you😒I’m not into bdsm, but if I were, I certainly wouldn’t let a guy in cargo shorts tie me up 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 02:27 AM |
| 7 | Imagine being a completely average man and thinking a woman needs to “earn” you😒Yes and after he spent his $2.50 on me and I refuse sex, he will call me a goldigging whore 😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 01:45 AM |
| 95 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastNotice the guy pictured is naked in bed with a laptop and a receding hairline. They’re telling on themselves and their porn addictions 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 12:34 AM |
| 48 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastThis is all just a bunch of TRP / MGTOW garbage. This article was written by a jaded scrote who’d rather masturbate to hate porn than settle down and create a lasting relationship with a woman because society tells him that his sperm spouts from the fountain of youth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 12:19 AM |
| 251 | Why Men In Their Thirties Won't Commit — Solitary BeastI couldn’t get past the part about them being too busy pursuing their hobbies and interests Watching porn, playing ‘Call of Duty’ and sleeping on a dirty mattress on the floor without a box spring surrounded by empty Mountain Dew Bottles in a room that smells like cigarettes and broken dreams are not hobbies, bruh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 11:53 PM |
| 36 | Imagine being a completely average man and thinking a woman needs to “earn” you😒Dude is so afraid of ‘dine and ditch’ but can’t even afford a decent pair of shorts. Like I need some abusive ex military scrote to feed me 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 10:01 PM |
| 72 | We matched and he messaged me within 10 seconds. He really thought he ✨did something✨ hereMen think that being spontaneous is cute. In reality, he’s testing the strength of your boundaries. I used to think that this was cute. Guys would invite me for weekends in the Hamptons, days out hiking in the park, whitewater rafting etc. It sounds so nice! Until you realize they think that these cute trips are a gateway to fake intimacy and easy sex They need to take you out to a meal in a safe, public place and put the work in to get to know you. No exceptions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 08:38 PM |
| 12 | Queens, how can I continue to level up after a fairly tough breakup?Please read the handbook. There’s a detailed list of ways to deal with breakups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 08:30 PM |
| 215 | On a scale of 1-10, how much are we leaving him? Because he never called.Stop writing paragraphs out to men who can barely read a sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | A few questionsYou are cherry picking information from the sub to support the notion that it’s ok to be a lvm and women should just accept it This is a low key version of the harassing dms we receive in our inbox If you want to learn how to be a HVM, stick around and learn. The answers to all of your bullshit questions are right there on the sub if you take the time to learn I’m so sick of the ‘BuT wHaT iF yOu’rE YoUnG and CaNT AffOrD dAtEs’ crap. Go ahead, date around and split the bill. Go find yourself some… | /r/askFDS | 11/07/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | A few questionsThis^ 1000x this. | /r/askFDS | 11/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 207 | Pre-FDS me would have been chasing this loser LOL “ur really weird”Scrote translated: I want to see you half naked. I cut class and missed out on learning world history. I’m also cheap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 54 | How to leave/turn down a guy or say STOP? HELP!Please never get in a car with a stranger. I think you should hold off on dating until you learn to set good boundaries for yourself No is a complete sentence | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:57 AM |
| 164 | I'm too petty to receive dick pics.This. Is. Epic Please change the flair on this post to “Queen Shit” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 08:55 PM |
| 47 | Anyone else down to read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft and do a virtual bookclub discussion each week to process the content/discuss? Details here!!!Mods, would it be ok to add a ‘book club’ flair??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:35 PM |
| 22 | Anyone else down to read Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft and do a virtual bookclub discussion each week to process the content/discuss? Details here!!!I ❤️ this idea so much. And certainly many of us have already read this book. Thank you for taking the time to plan this. I’m 💯 in! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 05:34 PM |
| 1 | I laughed out loud when I found this profile. I had to share it with you ladiesSo much cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:21 PM |
| 7 | In case you needed a reminder....I used to do this with my narc ex. I would scroll through to relive the sweet things he said and scroll right past the evil, gaslighting, abusive stuff. What is it that makes us want to believe in them so badly? Never again. It’s me first from now on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 04:26 AM |
| 1 | They want us to be legbeards so bad, but we're not: FDS Humble Brag / Femcel Theory Debunked!Also. I find it very odd that you’ve been a member of reddit since April, yet this is the only post you’ve chosen to comment on? I think you are u/necessaryspeed4, a former member who created a new account for the sole purpose of creating drama because this sub doesn’t fit the utopian view you want society to fit in. I think if you choose to bash the moderators in the name of promoting some radically different idea on how this sub should be operated, you should at least be a positive, contributi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/07/20 03:36 AM |
| 28 | Wokies will go after every kind of racism,unless it's helping them have a wank...Capitalizing on the moment by taking advantage of a worthy cause to promote deviation and objectification of women. Pornography and every person that profits by it and is addicted to it are a scourge on this earth. I can’t wait until we finally migrate to our own space on the internet because Reddit is a cesspool that is entangled with the porno world Ladies, if he watches porn, kick him the fuck out, because not only is he a useless, low value man, he buys into the idea that this shit is ok | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:40 PM |
| 5 | They want us to be legbeards so bad, but we're not: FDS Humble Brag / Femcel Theory Debunked!My personal opinion is that every woman on this sub is a beautiful queen just by virtue of being a part of something that inspires them to be their best selves In a group of 80k + women, it’s a guarantee that some hold superficial views of beauty. But I doubt those of us who have been around longer try to project an image of beauty over substance and I’m certain that the mods would not convey the idea that our worth is attached to our looks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 10:10 PM |
| 11 | In case you needed a reminder....It might be a good idea the most heinous ones just as a reminder. All the others go in the trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 19 | In case you needed a reminder....If you run into them in person, take a deep breath, hold your head high and walk in the other direction without even acknowledging them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 09:11 PM |
| 21 | In case you needed a reminder....This is why we never send nudes. Forgive yourself for making that mistake and never do it again Not much you can do legally. You can’t force him to delete something you sent to him of your own free will. If he uses them as revenge porn, you may have legal recourse. Otherwise, no. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 09:10 PM |
| 27 | In case you needed a reminder....You have just inspired me to change their names to ‘fuckboy’ right before I delete it 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 14 | Nvm spends his savings plus his fiancé’s savings, for their wedding to buy a new game,Whenever I see these long posts detailing some outrageous and infuriating situation and the OP doesn’t reply to any of the many comments offering advice, I become suspicious of karma farming If true though, she needs to just GTFO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:58 PM |
| 12 | They want us to be legbeards so bad, but we're not: FDS Humble Brag / Femcel Theory Debunked!Where did she imply that those who don’t conform to male standards of beauty makes you a loser or not worth entry to the FDS community? This was posted to debunk the myth that we are femcels. You seemed to have scrolled past OPs bragging on our accomplishments and diversities as well I’m a girly girl and I love to wear dresses and make up. Whenever I hear that we shouldn’t conform to men’s beauty standards, I am low key offended because it infers that beauty is something we should never aspire t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:26 PM |
| 9 | How to block the angry, pathetic, lurking scrotes from harassing you via message on RedditChange your message settings. Or, do what I usually do and just reply “seems you stumbled into the wrong sub, let me redirect you to r/smalldickproblems. Then block them OR, another fun option is to keep the convo going so that you can post screenshots to r/FDSsuperfans, then block Don’t let it bother you. They are pathetic and will say and do anything to offgas their childhood trauma and anger at being rejected by every woman on earth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 03:05 AM |
| 106 | This subreddit has me so focused on myself that I don't even feel the need to put myself out there to dating, especially with OLD. Who knew female DATING strategy would help me focus on me.That’s the magic of this ‘mOsT ToXiC sUB oN ReDdIT”. The more time you spend here, the more you learn that the key to having a successful dating life is leveling up and becoming the woman you were always meant to be Proud of you sis! Keep growing and healing ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 7 | Let’s discuss ladies: Man pays his wife for blow jobs because he wants them more than she wants to naturally give it. Based or Nah? 🤔Seems like they are just sexually incompatible, which is a nope for me in any relationship. I don’t care how much he wants anal, I’m not accepting money for allowing a male to trespass my boundaries and if I didn’t enjoy giving a blowjob to a man, money wouldn’t cushion the blow of having to do something he wanted knowing full well that it’s an unpleasant experience for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 02:39 AM |
| 34 | Every every single excuse for treating women horribly and enslaving them for emotional labourEvery single red piller, MGTOW and incel, succinctly summed up in one meme | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 08:27 PM |
| 4 | Elizabeth Bennet, from Pride and Prejudice: an example of queen energyAll of those possibilities in regard to guessing how their future would have turned out makes me wish J Austin would’ve written a sequel. There are a few authors who wrote their own version of a sequel. Of course they were all based on assumptions of how Austin would’ve written it Idk. I’m sure it would’ve been challenging considering their class levels and upbringing. But we do know for certain that One of the things Darcy loved about Lizzie was her independent nature. He protects her when Bing… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 05:40 PM |
| 21 | Elizabeth Bennet, from Pride and Prejudice: an example of queen energyI have to disagree with this. A Narcissist fuckhead would not move heaven and earth to find wickham and give him a fortune and make him marry Lydia so that Lizzy’s and her sister’s futures aren’t ruined. His servants, upon Lizzie’s visit to his mansion, told her that he treated them all with kindness and his younger sister adored him. The way he protected his sister from Wickham was also HVM I love that book and also the BBC series was amazing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:08 PM |
| 14 | What do you reply to a "sorry for the late response" ?This seems entirely reasonable and the correct reply is, “no worries “ Don’t overthink it. People just get busy during the work day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 09:31 PM |
| 23 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!Exactly! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:43 PM |
| 42 | A healing porn addict says it himself (screenshot from r/NoFap):WE ARE NOT REPAIR SHOPS FOR BROKEN MEN Just saying it out loud for our sisters who haven’t figured it out yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:36 PM |
| 90 | He asked me the colour of my underwear!!?!?!That line is a gateway to asking for nudes. If you respond positively, he will ask for proof. If you (stupidly) send the proof, it’s a slippery slope to naked photos Never, ever send nudes, ladies This guy is an immediate throw away. Block and delete | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 91 | A healing porn addict says it himself (screenshot from r/NoFap):Every male on this earth needs to change their perception (barring the few that don’t already) of women as objects of sexual gratification to beautiful, sensitive beings that offer so much more than just sex. This is why we refer to ourselves as queens. Not because we want to sit on a throne and be showered with gifts (although that’s nice!), but because we deserve to be appreciated and understood Every guy that doesn’t understand that can continue to kick the can down the road to hellish loneli… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 08:25 PM |
| 9 | Jenna Jameson is recounting how she was groomed and trafficked into the sex industry and scrotes are having a meltdown in the comments. They’re always mad when the truth interrupts their fapping.Every dissenting comment, scrote translation: “but, muh dick!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 06:11 PM |
| 3 | One of the reasons we make them pay is to vet them and weed out the garbageThis sub promotes the idea that a woman should have her own money and her life in order before she considers seriously dating. I know women in their twenties want to date and have fun. But that’s all you should really be doing. Getting into a serious relationship at a young age can dampen your experience of growing into a well rounded woman who can meet her own needs without ever depending on a man Also, if a man can’t afford to take a woman out for a simple meal, he shouldn’t be dating. Most of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 05:34 PM |
| 5 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.The mods set pornfreerelationships to private to stay under the radar when Reddit started banning radfem subs. The nofap mod is being harassed. Disgusting porn subs barelylegal and strugglefucking, which promote pedophilia and rape, are still up and running. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:47 PM |
| 5 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Listen , we all understand the logistics of promoting wealth and it’s a given that many will be taken advantage of in the pursuit of building wealth at the detriment to the health and well being of the weakest and most desperate individuals, in most cases. The US was built on the backs of the weakest, most down-trodden in society. I get it. I don’t need it to be explained to me. It disgusts me, but I’m well aware of it HOWEVER, reddit actively promotes the idea that 13 is the minimum age group a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:30 AM |
| 43 | NVM upset because I wouldn’t come over and fuck after the first date.Wait, were you outside his house and when he texted you to invite you in, did you just ignore him and leave him hanging waiting for a response? Please say you did that because that would be phenomenal 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 02:06 AM |
| 7 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.“It fried their peepee” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 01:08 AM |
| 12 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Not sure about concrete proof. You can go to the site and look it up and see the conversations being held The fact that reddit banned so many sites that were pro women and anti porn while keeping pro hate porn sites is enough for me tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:55 AM |
| 14 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.It’s becoming abundantly clear that Reddit isn’t just a women hating site. It promotes the abuse and traumatization of children This place is a cesspool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:38 PM |
| 12 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.I don’t disagree. What I do think is that it needs to be shouted from the rooftops that they promote pedophilia and violence against women. It’s not as if we’ve been completely in the dark about this, it’s just been made more clear since their ambiguous crackdown on subs that haven’t crossed boundaries according to reddit’s rules Time to let the world know that #Redditlovespedophilia | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 11:01 PM |
| 21 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Because it’s dangerous to the porn industry to highlight the fact that pornography destroys human relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:36 PM |
| 53 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Reddit is just another front for masking the porn industry and promoting violence towards women and children Redditlovespedophilia. Make it trend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:29 PM |
| 22 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.They can’t! We need to start a global movement to shut them down or demand they establish themselves as a social media outlet that refuses to promote an industry that damages women and children !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:25 PM |
| 57 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.They’re allowing these sites to remain whilst openly promoting the fact that the age requirement is 13. Gotta start those kids young enough to accept that pornography and pedophilia is ok. Fuck this site. I’m so disgusted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 10:23 PM |
| 54 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Moderators. Can we give summerisle7 a flair upgrade? I think she deserves it. Tried to message with a photo of her comments but I can’t figure out how to attach the photo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:28 PM |
| 38 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.I don’t think they did, but the moderator is getting harassed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:26 PM |
| 145 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Damn. I love how astute and observant you are “I guess porn addicts are a protected group”. Very well said. We need observant eyes and sharp tongues like this in this environment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 106 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.We are literally meat robots to them. They’ll happily sacrifice our safety and emotional health to serve their bottom line. Profit and power to control above all. Never forget that! This is how the patriarchy operates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 182 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Definitely a man. Either a man or an extreme pick me women hater | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 07:30 PM |
| 94 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.They’re not. They just increase profits for Reddit so they won’t shut them down. Whenever it comes down to money and power, just follow the money line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:37 PM |
| 121 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.The moderators of this sub are doing a superb job of calling out the hypocrisy across as many social media platforms as possible. I’m not upset for myself. Doesn’t change my life for the worse if Reddit shuts us down. I’ll still speak my piece on the FDS website and any other platform that I can. I’ll never give up on my sisters However, the sinister plot to shutdown any dissenting voice against an industry that degrades women and promotes violence against them needs to be crushed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:34 PM |
| 35 | How do you ladies feel about men using OnlyFans?Right. Many times when a lvm complains about shelling out $20 to pay for a woman’s meal, scrote is just mad because he’d rather use that money to pay a cam girl to pretend she’s into him. Or he’s just plain cheap. Either way DUMP HIS ASS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:22 PM |
| 224 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.There’s literally no other explanation than their interest in promoting pornography. They did zero about all of those disgusting subs that degrade women and promote pedophilia. But they want to take us down? Nofap? Pornfreerelationships? Gendercritical? It’s glaringly obvious where their bread is buttered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 06:08 PM |
| 526 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.Exactly. That’s why they took down r/pornfreerelationships and did nothing about the rape, child molestation and incest garbage subs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:58 PM |
| 896 | Apparently Reddit is trying to take down the nofap sub. This sub was created to help men who are addicted to porn and are trying to overcome it. This isn’t just an attempt to silence women.This is an effort to silence any resistance to the porn industry and I wouldn’t be one bit surprised if Reddit has their dirty, women hating hands involved in the profits of the porn industry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:49 PM |
| 75 | How do you ladies feel about men using OnlyFans?There is no shame in going through a man’s phone as a matter of protecting your own interests. Be warned though, if you have suspicions, you probably won’t like what you find and also, making a regular habit of doing so also isn’t a good thing because if you feel the need to do so often, you don’t have trust to begin with and the relationship is doomed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:19 PM |
| 22 | Lol, that's just reversing gender roles, newsflash lady a newborn baby needs ongoing breast milk from its mother and men are physically stronger for those "dangerous jobs"Exactly. And also, add breastfeeding to the long list of magical things women can do. When they sarcastically ask, what’s so special about you, princess?? I can FEED and nourish another human being using my BODY, asshole. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:09 PM |
| 122 | How do you ladies feel about men using OnlyFans?Any guy who uses that site is an immediate throwaway. No exceptions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:01 PM |
| 93 | Make his pockets hurt sis🤪💸Getting them to spend money on us isn’t our main goal here. Of course we want men to spoil us, of course we deserve to be taken out, wined and dined etc. However, if you need a man to buy your clothes at one of the cheapest retailers out there, you need to level up on your own. One of the first rules of FDS is to be able to provide for yourself so that you never have to depend on a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 02:06 AM |
| 40 | Men being inspired by you vs feeling out of your league“You inspire me” can only be authentic if you are in a long term relationship and he truly knows and understands you. Honestly, you can’t be in a healthy relationship with a person who does not inspire you, so that statement is a given most of the time “You inspire me to be a better man” assumes that he needs to level up. We are not repair shops for broken men, so just be mindful, that statement can be a red flag My experience with a man who said I inspired him? He was a full on narc and mirrore… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | Mad Scrote DMs me to tell me that men pay more taxes and they eat more than women, so it costs more for them to live and they shouldn’t have to put up with ‘parasitic women’. Can’t make this Sh*t up 😂Thank you 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:55 PM |
| 50 | Caption:’This is why I don’t take her out anymore’ bf complains of her taking a picture of her food 🙄I replied to that post as well. Clearly this is a girl who is proud of being taken out to a nice dinner and wants to share it, but of course her low value man needs to shame her. And it’s posted in r/funny because shitting all over women is funny on reddit 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Mad Scrote DMs me to tell me that men pay more taxes and they eat more than women, so it costs more for them to live and they shouldn’t have to put up with ‘parasitic women’. Can’t make this Sh*t up 😂Oh! Thanks. I didn’t realize that 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:01 PM |
| 2 | Mad Scrote DMs me to tell me that men pay more taxes and they eat more than women, so it costs more for them to live and they shouldn’t have to put up with ‘parasitic women’. Can’t make this Sh*t up 😂The only ones who care are the low value ones who lack the ability to make the effort. We don’t want those anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Mad Scrote DMs me to tell me that men pay more taxes and they eat more than women, so it costs more for them to live and they shouldn’t have to put up with ‘parasitic women’. Can’t make this Sh*t up 😂I tried. It said I wasn’t allowed to post 🤷♀️😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 10:25 PM |
| 27 | Thought I Found a Great Guy.... Then a Wild GF Appeared! So done!This^ X 1000 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:28 PM |
| 245 | Okay, what the actual fuckCultural fetishization, obvious misogyny, lifestyle envy and scrotatious audacity all rolled into one. 🙄 I hope that poor girl sees this and cuts him off at the nuts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Goddamn right she walked away. Found on r/choosingbeggarsPlease watch “Salt fat acid heat” on Netflix. She’s an Iranian chef and she’s utterly amazing. You’ll be instantly hooked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 06:40 PM |
| 3 | Goddamn right she walked away. Found on r/choosingbeggarsYou are my restaurant spirit animal. Those are my favorite kind of places to eat. I spent the better part of my 20s at hole in the wall Mexican, Thai, Spanish and Italian restaurants that were inexpensive and served the best food. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 05:18 PM |
| 11 | Goddamn right she walked away. Found on r/choosingbeggarsThe sheer volume of triggered fools in the comment sections on the many subs this fake-ass, made up exchange gets regularly posted and reposted on proves that Reddit is a trash bag of lvm’s and pickmeishas. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 02:38 PM |
| 4 | "... go for a walk..."Insta block is the only response | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 01:51 PM |
| 15 | One of the reasons we make them pay is to vet them and weed out the garbageI’ve struggled with this also. Only because it’s tough to invest the time in sitting down to a full meal with a man. This is why vetting is so important and OLD is a tough place to meet good men If the connection is strong, the right thing to do is to go out and to get to know one another over a shared meal. If the connection isn’t, what’s the point anyway? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 25 | One of the reasons we make them pay is to vet them and weed out the garbageSis, that needs to be an FDS meme: “Lukewarm me out of your dating pool, puhleeze” 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:16 PM |
| 33 | One of the reasons we make them pay is to vet them and weed out the garbageThat’s why weeding them out by not settling for men who refuse to pay works for weeding out fuckboy players. They want to play the numbers game? Can’t do that when you’re poor and stupid. Weed out the weak Editing to add: if they don’t have the capacity for an emotional investment they are low value. For arguments sake, let’s take money out of the equation because that seems to be the fragile male redditor’s biggest crybaby argument. If he can’t invest in getting to know you he is either scared … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:57 PM |
| 87 | One of the reasons we make them pay is to vet them and weed out the garbageYes. Our worst nightmares can easily come true simply by trusting the wrong man. They bash us as goldiggers when, if they can’t even afford to pay for a meal, they’ve no gold to dig in the first place 🤷♀️ They act as if casual relationships should be the norm before commitment when translated that only means “I want sex to fall in my lap with zero effort” Let’s forget about the money for argument’s sake: if he can’t make the emotional investment of genuinely attempting to get to know me in a sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:19 PM |
| 35 | One of the reasons we make them pay is to vet them and weed out the garbageYes. But be on the lookout for the LVM disguised as HVM. It’s not about the money as much as it’s about the time and effort he puts into getting to know you and connect. Don’t be fooled by the player who pays. It’s not the only green flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:43 PM |
| 91 | One of the reasons we make them pay is to vet them and weed out the garbageSis, it’s that last sentence that makes them so hateful. Dick is abundant and low value. We are the ones who have the power. Make them work for it. It’s for their own good. They need to level up | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 07:34 PM |
| 25 | Might be jumping the gun, but this is a really good sign of genuine interest in me as a person!These are all green flags, sis. Hope he stays consistent. The only advice I would give is to be on the lookout for lovebombing because although he seems authentic based just off of this exchange, things could spiral downward if he’s not authentic. Too much too soon is not good. Not saying that’s what’s happening here, just be mindful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:36 PM |
| 77 | Boundaries versus standardsI wish this sub existed before I started dating because I’ve subjected myself to every single one of those boundary crossing red flags and I wonder how much more simple and happy my life would be if I hadn’t. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:27 PM |
| 32 | Anyone here succeed in manifesting?Yes! Make a dream board and hang it where you can see it every day. Does it work? Well the car of my dreams that was pictured on my board for 3 months is sitting in my driveway. Next will be the house of my dreams. 😊 Manifesting isn’t a one size fits all. Explore the internet and find something that works for you. I found a really cool girl on YouTube who explained her simple routine for manifesting, then I streamlined it to my own likes and needs, then I met a healer who helped me add to it. Th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 06:18 PM |
| 13 | This one has everything...As if his ability to stammer half-assed French to an unimpressed waiter while ordering at a French restaurant would make a woman swoon and forget how boring and unattractive he is. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 11:21 AM |
| 25 | This one has everything...BUtHeSpEaKsFOURLaNgUaGeSTho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:57 AM |
| 9 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!I hate OLD. But if you use it, you’re much better off on one of those where the men reach out first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:17 PM |
| 12 | Legit, first conversation and already talking about “cuddling”. This can’t be real life!Is this one of those apps where the woman makes the first move? Looks like you reached out to him first. If that’s the case, you’re opening yourself up to even more lvm’s than you are on other OLD sites | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:10 PM |
| 67 | This accurately describes our dating pool in 2020:Too many lawyers out there hungry for sandwiches | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 01:48 AM |
| 1 | FDS While Being Married to an LVMIsn’t it true that they are similar to narcs, minus the utter lack of empathy and tendency to enjoy abusing people? Seems to fit my experience with both. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 07:51 PM |
| 53 | FDS While Being Married to an LVMThank you for sharing. You need to be able to vent among like minded women You deserve SO much better You don’t have kids. Get out of this. Now. He sounds like he has an avoidant attachment relationship style. Look into that and see if it fits. Get therapy because this isn’t just about him. You need to learn why you make bad choices in relationships You’re not alone. We are here for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/20 12:49 AM |
| 118 | This “meme” is posted waaaayy too often and whenever it’s posted anywhere it is full of pickmeshas saying how they’d be just fine with a date that is just sex behind a dumpster and men using the “women are gold diggers” excuse for why they can’t find a partner.You can’t be a goldigger if he’s got no gold 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 07:53 PM |
| 10 | Got a DM In response to my post about a dude saying fast food is a hangout "date". Imagine having to turn to reddit to pickup men and still getting no responsesOh boy. Looks like little nvm got lost. Help him out and redirect him to r/smalldickproblems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 07:50 PM |
| 26 | my(23f) boyfriend(21m) use f words when we argue, but he doesn't curse at me...I use the f word when I get angry. The difference here is that you feel threatened. Men have the advantage of physical strength over us. When they become reactive it can easily become dangerous If you feel unsafe in this relationship you should leave. Now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 10 | Ladies, we should all leave reddit at the same time and make the news.I’m with you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:53 PM |
| 14 | Not sorry that I know my worth and exactly what I want in a man 💅BuT hEiGhT isN’t SoMeThInG a MaN cAn HeLP. IT’s WRoNG tO JUdGE. WoMeN sHouLdNT bE sO PiCky | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 02:01 AM |
| 31 | They just banned a ton of subs as you’ve probably seen, someone posted an enormous list of anti-women and r*pe subs saying they should be removed too. And of course, men are whiningWait a second. When did ‘muh penis’ become a flair? Has it always been there and I just missed it?? My God, I love our mods!!!!!! 😂😂😂😊😊😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 107 | "men who are 'anti porn' because of the negative side effects for men, are not our allies!!!Exactly. As per the usual “but muh dick” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 08:01 PM |
| 4 | His Bucket list includes making it to japan and his other picture is him sticking his tongue out. The fact hes dressed as the joker already shows the clown nature. I downloaded and deleted after 5 minClown nature? More like creepy stalker mentally imbalanced nature 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 08:26 PM |
| 9 | Traumatic intrusive thoughts/ memories and dissociation from sexual harassment have taken over my life. I need support...My God. Men are such toxic assholes. I’m so sorry that happened to you. Wish I could give you advice. I’m one of the lucky few who has not been sexually assaulted. Harassed and abused by a boyfriend, but I haven’t suffered in the way that you have. I’m certain many others will come forward to give you support and guidance I do want to recommend therapy. Find a good therapist who specializes in trauma. You can’t get what you fully need just by venting in a group online, even one as supportive as … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 78 | No surprise here ladies.My God. How can one person’s face be both so equally punchable and vomit inducing ? This man thoroughly disgusts me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 02:22 AM |
| 11 | Don't Dress Like a SlutThat word is banned here and the idea that women should have to change the way they dress is a Very slippery slope to feeding into the patriarchal lie that women have to be the ones to change in order for men to stop behaving like animals. What’s next? Tell us to wear burkas? Come on now 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 10:49 PM |
| 31 | LMAOOOO piss off, scumbagLmao. What a creeper. You handled that so well. The only men who find this sub toxic are LVMs. Die mad, scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 10:15 AM |
| 60 | Sometimes I think to myself “It would be nice to be married” but then I see stuff like this and say to myself: “nah.”One of the comments on insta “ look on the bright side, one day in the near future, that baby will have two christmases”. This is 110% accurate. That relationship doesn’t stand a chance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Best thing I never hadA moment of silence followed by a collective giggle 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 02:09 AM |
| 51 | FDS saved me from a (likely) PUAIt’s cheaper to just add some Tabasco to water 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:58 AM |
| 36 | Sometimes I think to myself “It would be nice to be married” but then I see stuff like this and say to myself: “nah.”Omfg. I just had this exact conversation with my 11 year old after asking him to put his laundry in the basement. His exact words “couldn’t you just say it nicer, mom?” Men are literally children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:50 AM |
| 67 | FDS saved me from a (likely) PUA“Feel free to add your own ways of telling men to fuck off” A spray bottle would come in handy during these times | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/20 01:46 AM |
| 80 | They literally have nothing better to do with their lives to think and ask questions like this? Depravity of men, so fucking disgusting.Men only pretend to not have a preference in boob size when prompted so they don’t feel bad about their own inadequacies. Go on the ‘roast me’ sub and find a girl with small boobs and the overwhelming majority of men respond with a mosquito bite/flat chest joke. And, honestly they are mostly a bunch of immature assholes, however I don’t begrudge anyone the right to whatever physical attributes are attractive to them. So, when they say they like big boobs, that’s ok, just also accept the fact tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Best thing I never hadThank God you never have to deal with that again! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Best thing I never hadThat is so common sis. Happens all of the time. Thank God it’s her and not you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:24 PM |
| 4 | Best thing I never hadThis group needs a hall of shame, worst of the worst pin. The Easter Egg proposal should be up top. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:22 PM |
| 2 | Best thing I never hadSo glad to hear it! ❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Best thing I never hadIf you look through my posts, I wrote a long one a few months ago on what I did to heal from heartbreak. Title is “withdrawal survival guide”See if you can find something useful on that list 😘😘😘 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Best thing I never hadGirl, run. Far and fast. Just get out of it and thank your lucky stars you never had children with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 05:28 PM |
| 5 | Best thing I never hadClassic narcissist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 11:56 AM |
| 39 | Best thing I never hadMusicians are the worst ! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:47 AM |
| 23 | Best thing I never hadOMG! How DARE He!!! Huge bullet dodged Wow | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/20 08:46 AM |
| 51 | Humble men of MatchAnd definitely a narcissist | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Guy asks about becoming a dating coach. XDLmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 07:08 PM |
| 34 | Men are making fake dating profiles just to waste our time. Also proof that men have no hobbiesImagine being this pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/20 08:16 PM |
| 5 | The Editors of “$Pread” - a pro sex work propaganda magazine - admit that their content was written overwhelmingly by privileged white liberal feminist activists. sEx WoRk iS eMPoWeRinG is being pushed on women by a small group of self important pickmeishas that cherry pick the stories they tellWell, yeah, but they gave them that helpful ‘bad date” list. THaT WiLL PrOTeCt ThEm 🙄🙄🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/20 12:46 PM |
| 2 | I am still not over the shock that had I stated this would have been my future. Married to a fucking pedophile.I know that, sis. I only responded to clarify for everyone who might’ve thought I was being serious when I was just joking. And, yes. It’s disgusting and depraved on SO many levels! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:25 AM |
| 8 | I am still not over the shock that had I stated this would have been my future. Married to a fucking pedophile.I was being sarcastic 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 09:39 AM |
| 66 | I am still not over the shock that had I stated this would have been my future. Married to a fucking pedophile.BuT wErE tHeY lEGal???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:52 AM |
| 185 | I am still not over the shock that had I stated this would have been my future. Married to a fucking pedophile.Tap tap tap. Is this thing on? Ok. Good. Stands on soapbox in full view of all of our pathetic lurkers who complain about all of our disparaging discussions on their depravity WOMEN DON’T DO DISGUSTING AND DEPRAVED SHIT LIKE THIS. WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WiTH YOU ANIMALS?????!!!! Now, please return to your filthy couch littered with old take out boxes and empty bottles of Mountain Dew and instead of picking up your gaming controller, read a self help book, for Chrissakes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 36 | My dear ladies, please never EVER do this. EVER.Sis, texting a guy at 6:40am?!!! Telling him what time she’s available before he even asks? Telling him she can’t wait to kiss him after he blows her off to play a video game at 11am? Textbook cling. Bear in mind, she might not be a clingy person, she may just like this guy more than he likes her and she’s reading into it too much. Common mistake. But this exchange, she came across as clingy. I didn’t link the post because I didn’t want to call attention to her and make it seem as if she was bei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 03:57 AM |
| 5 | My dear ladies, please never EVER do this. EVER.That’s ok sis. You can only go up from here, right? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:48 AM |
| 67 | My dear ladies, please never EVER do this. EVER.I sent her a private message inviting her here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 10:12 PM |
| 24 | My dear ladies, please never EVER do this. EVER.Texting at 6:40am????!!!!! Reaching out to specifically make her time and availability known before he asked???!!! Unsolicited, affectionate message about wanting to kiss him????!!! Sis, NO. You need to read the handbook again | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:56 PM |
| 60 | My dear ladies, please never EVER do this. EVER.Found on r/dating I wanted to comment “Yes!, WAY too clingy. Please stop it. Now!” but I’m certain I would’ve gotten bombarded with the “oH ShUT uP, mEn lOvE tO bE cHaSEd” by the third ring of dating hell on that sub 😡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 09:51 PM |
| 16 | This person messaged me after I posted on this sub the other day. I checked my inbox today. Any man who sees this group as an "incel group" is a kind of man I don't want to run in to. Yes, I am an incel because I don't watch porn and because I am trying to value myself and better my life. Fuck off.Whenever I receive one of these pathetic messages, I now reply: “You seemed to have stumbled upon the wrong sub, let me redirect you: r /smalldickproblems. There ya go, pal!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 04:47 PM |
| 58 | Someone please tell me to block this LV piece of trash... apologises for not making enough effort 2 weeks ago, already back to pushing me away when I'm trying to make plansNever, ever be the one to contact him first or make any effort to make plans with someone who makes minimal effort to be with you. Read the FDS handbook again and again until that sinks in. He sounds like he has an avoidant attachment style in relationships. Not only do you need to immediately block him forever, you also need to do the inner work to figure out why you are even attracted to someone who makes no effort, is clearly uninterested and even borderline abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:22 PM |
| 149 | There's no need to over explain or reiterate your boundaries. They heard you the first time.“No” is a complete sentence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/20 12:13 PM |
| 34 | You've got to be kidding me. The scrotiest of scrotes are going to teach us how to be women?Small dick energy personified | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 11:11 PM |
| 16 | What the actual fuckMen: Women are so shallow. They judge men with small dicks/who are shorter than 5’9’/are bald/ugly as if it’s something that a man can change about himself Also Men: I won’t date any women with anything less than double D’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:04 AM |
| 57 | 55 year old men on OLDIdk if this is even real but this is what aging lvms are famous for, using old pics and pretending they still look like that. I wasn’t being serious, just drawing a parallel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Big Yikes 😳Typical Capricorn 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 06:49 PM |
| 12 | How can you apply FDS when kids are involved?You need to file for child support ASAP as well | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 01:47 PM |
| 36 | How can you apply FDS when kids are involved?Look up “parallel parenting”. Also, refuse to allow him in your home. No good comes from having an ex remain in your life, especially if he is regularly in your home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:15 PM |
| 16 | And also from laughing with your girlfriends until you can’t breatheGirl, if you don’t have one of those in real life, there are plenty here in this group! These ladies make me laugh daily! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:28 AM |
| 3 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolThey need to find themselves some pickmeishas for that behavior. We won’t put up with that nonsense! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 03:46 PM |
| 36 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolIKR? How does this fucker own his own business, yet cannot seem to use the English language properly?? He’s blocked. Again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 02:03 AM |
| 23 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolMy answer to that crybaby response was: It’s not my intention to be hurtful. My intention is solely to protect myself from people that make as little effort as possible and don’t have my best interests at heart My reply from him: crickets I should’ve just blocked but I had to get that last dig in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 01:21 AM |
| 27 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolYes. It was iMessage. You know you’re blocked when it just sits there instead of getting a ‘delivered’ after the message | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/06/20 12:16 AM |
| 51 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolThat was awesome, sis. Mods, please consider giving this sis a new flair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:57 PM |
| 30 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolOmg. Lmao. I love this sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:55 PM |
| 91 | He seemed to be HVM, until his texts and calls started to become far and few in between and then he started to try to convince me to be ‘spontaneous’ and come to his place at 10pm after not hearing from him for 2 weeks. Immediate block. He’s ‘hurt’. LolTo get his dick wet with as little effort as possible, I guess? He had the wrong girl for that!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 10:53 PM |
| 5 | Ladies, don’t be that girl.Lol!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:46 PM |
| 21 | Ladies, don’t be that girl.It’s so funny. The outfit and make up is like “I’m glamorous, yet casual because it is 3am after all” 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 08:14 PM |
| 19 | Dad who works 3 jobs surprises his daughter with her dream dress for the 8th grade dance after telling her he couldn't afford it❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 06:15 PM |
| 10 | New Ways to Help Out ProtestorsSee ladies? HVM’s do exist! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 06:13 PM |
| 4 | Been struggling the last two weeks thinking about checking my ex’s social media after successfully holding NC - help distract!It’s called ‘pain shopping’ for a reason. Don’t do it, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 03:01 AM |
| 28 | A r/sex post we can get behind ;)And most of the comments: “oH yOu jUsT nEeD tO TrY hARdER. It TAkeS PaTiENcE”. More proof that reddit is a cesspool of porn addicted, low value men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 07:48 PM |
| 46 | Is it an automatic nope if someone doesn’t reach out for more than a week and then reach out again, no matter how nice he seemed?If he was interested you wouldn’t be confused. Whenever you question your gut and reach out for affirmation, it means there is confusion, which means he’s not interested That’s a next, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:19 AM |
| 111 | Can’t be an incel if I’m celibate willingly 😉 Looked at the profile and it’s actually a WOMAN who posts pictures of her boobs on gone wild subs. Pickme, much? Reported & blocked!Remember when FDS got quarantined because one of our members was a dangerous psychopathic incel who was intercepted while planning a terror plot? Oh, right, that was MGTOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 01:41 AM |
| 12 | Miss sparrow gotta pointWhere’s the lie? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/20 01:46 PM |
| 19 | I’m Fed-Up at How Dangerous Shared-Housing is for Women and How Society Gaslights Us About itRight. We are damned if we do and damned if we don’t. Yet when we argue that we deserve better, we are treated as if our ideas are outrageous | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:19 PM |
| 93 | I’m Fed-Up at How Dangerous Shared-Housing is for Women and How Society Gaslights Us About itHaha. Yes. Being a predator, pedophile, deadbeat dad, abusive partner < wanting a man who has his financial house in order The delusion. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:04 PM |
| 25 | I’m Fed-Up at How Dangerous Shared-Housing is for Women and How Society Gaslights Us About itKekekekeke777. I didn’t mean to imply it was easy and accessible to all and I realize it’s even harder in developing countries. In no way do I think anyone should make light of that situation or have expectations beyond what is accessible considering immediate prospects. My comment was more a rant of my frustration that this sub serves to empower women so that they are not abused and have no reason to rely on a man, yet we are described as toxic What you wrote further highlights the fact that we… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 09:01 PM |
| 44 | Update to last week's postGirl, you’ve only just found this sub a little more than a week ago and look how far you’ve come! The shame you are feeling is understandable, but unwarranted and you have done well Keep going. Stay strong. You’ve got this and we’ve got your back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:35 PM |
| 251 | I’m Fed-Up at How Dangerous Shared-Housing is for Women and How Society Gaslights Us About itIt’s so annoying to see this group described as “toxic, gold diggers” when one of the biggest takeaways I’ve gotten from this sub is to get yourself sorted with both career and money before seriously dating anyone You need to have your own space to be safe. Never depend on any man, or woman, for that matter. That is one of the main reasons women stay in abusive situations, they have nowhere else to go. The high cost of living is a major factor, I understand that. That needs to change. However, w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:30 PM |
| 133 | Proposing to a man: I can't evenIdk why this is even a thing. I wish liberal feminists would stop promoting this behavior as if it were empowering. Could there be anything more indicative than a lack of self respect than asking a man to marry you ? It reeks of desperation. It’s “ pick me” on steroids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 01:02 AM |
| 57 | I honestly don’t know how to handle thisAre you in the US? Call 911 and tell them you just witnessed a man physically assaulting a woman, that he drove off and you believe her to be in grave danger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 07:35 PM |
| 19 | Just Low-Value Fuckboy Things 🙈🙉🙊Lmao. I’m betting that soooo many of our male lurkers feel attacked by this 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 10:55 PM |
| 35 | Responding to Reddit messages from male lurkersWhy do they do that? I’m fairly certain almost none of us peruse the stupidity wasteland of MGTOW and PUA subs and message the Neanderthals about things we don’t agree with. I had one numbnut tell me that I need to “Learn my place”. Oh, trust me douchebag, I know my place. It’s staring down at your unworthiness as you sit in the garbage bin of lost souls whilst I sit atop my throne. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 10:48 PM |
| 38 | This subreddit has completely changed how I value myself as a woman.Proud of you sis! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 03:49 PM |
| 1 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoOh, thanks for the correction I actually spelled it that way and then spell check corrected it and I mistakingly left it that way because I naively assumed the computer was smarter than me in that moment Btw, it’s odd that this is your very first comment here on this sub is made in order to correct a woman on their grammar who is pointing out the very obviously terrible grammar of a scrote. Seems strange. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:59 PM |
| 1 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoOh, thanks for the correction I actually spelled it that way and then spell check corrected it and I mistakingly left it that way because I naively assumed the computer was smarter than I was in that moment Btw, it’s odd that your very first comment here on this sub is made in order to correct a woman on their grammar who is pointing out the very obviously terrible grammar of a scrote. Seems strange. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:58 PM |
| 2 | This sub is about a specific way of dating, if you disagree with it make your own dating sub.I am radfem. I meant she should start her own radfem group if this one didn’t appeal to her specific idea of being radfem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 07:01 AM |
| 6 | LVM outing themselvesLurkers who come here and have the audacity to message us about their outrage only do so because what they read here is triggering their own insecurity about their inability to live up to our standards Run along little boys, stop wasting our time. Go find yourself an empty headed pickmeisha to entertain your low value thoughts and opinions. Maybe you guys can share a McDonald’s cheeseburger and discuss the crazy audacity some women have at wanting to find a partner that lives up to higher standa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:14 AM |
| 3 | This sub is about a specific way of dating, if you disagree with it make your own dating sub.Yep. Like the subbie who recently was given solid advice from this group and chose to reject all of it, then went on to lecture me about consumerism and liberal socialist values and how this sub would be perfect if they were incorporated into the advice given here because “only 10% of the advice here is good”. Girl, go start your own wacky radfem, anti-consumerism, socialist dating advice sub. Good luck with that! 😂 Rule #1 here is, read the handbook Rule #2 if you don’t like it, leave. Buh bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 01:04 AM |
| 5 | Healthy BoundariesNumbers 1 and 4 used to be my biggest pitfalls and have been the most hard fought hurdles to triumphantly overcome. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:50 AM |
| 30 | “Can we be fwb after quarantine?” NoFriends with benefits? Sorry dude, I can’t even be just friends with someone who’s grammar is that terrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 12:46 AM |
| 21 | FDS mentioned positively, man interjectsHVMs would, of course love FDS because they know what it takes to be a real man and this sub is further validation that they’re doing it right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 08:06 PM |
| 65 | FDS mentioned positively, man interjectsEvery man who hates this sub only hates it because he can’t live up to our standards. Our only haters out there are LVMs. Let me say that louder for the lurkers in the back: You’re only hanging around here peering in for a glimpse of what it is that women really want and the reason you hate on us is that it’s TRIGGERING your FRUSTRATION with your OWN SHORTCOMINGS YOU ARE PATHETIC!!! Have a nice day! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 06:11 PM |
| 57 | Never forget that this is what we’re dealing with...Every LVM lurker here: “All men don’t do this!” Ok dude maybe not but absolutely zero women pornstock their brother in laws to masturbate to They can’t handle the fact that their gender is depraved and they hate the fact that we point out their sick behavior | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 02:16 AM |
| 103 | Never forget that this is what we’re dealing with...Male depravity at its finest. “She’s less sexually adventurous” translation: she refuses to do anal. Somehow in his sick, depraved mind that justified him wanking off to pictures of her sister I hope she leaves him and gets everything | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 12:58 AM |
| 79 | OMG yes YTA for giving a fake $300 ring and a half ass proposalWoMeN arE SO ShALLoW. WhO cAReS iF tHe RiNg iS fAkE. It’s nOt lIkE yOU lIED oR aNYThiNg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 10:51 PM |
| 8 | How do you deal with shitty In-Laws of your HVM partner ?Anything you bring to the anonymous internet carries the risk of people who will project their issues on to you and say things out of anger. This group is mostly supportive and I think you’ve probably hung around here long enough to know that. I’m a big supporter of the “tough love” way of shaking people out of their slumber and I know some people disagree with that but I don’t care because it has worked for me in the past many times and being too gentle can be the same as enabling Stop labeling… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 08:04 PM |
| 7 | How do you deal with shitty In-Laws of your HVM partner ?I’d be miserable if I had to live with someone who had no respect for me and my home and expected my husband to clean up after them. I would not only be miserable, i would be pissed off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:45 PM |
| 8 | How do you deal with shitty In-Laws of your HVM partner ?You’re suffering because you are projecting your own issues onto a situation that has nothing to do with your loss Your choices are: Remain miserable and say nothing which will likely cause a rift that will grow wider over time and become a huge problem in your relationship Talk to your husband about his sister’s insufferable behavior and if he does nothing about it, leave because it’s obvious you aren’t a priority Talk to his sister, who will most likely pout and complain to her brother about y… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:41 PM |
| 6 | How do you deal with shitty In-Laws of your HVM partner ?Again, I’m saying this gently. I’m not trying to badger you. I just want you to see this from the perspective of an indifferent outsider who is trying to shake you of the mental gymnastics you are going through to blame shift away from the true cause of your unhappiness She isn’t going to change. She has no reason to as long as her selfish behavior is being enabled Your husband is the problem. He needs to step it up and stop allowing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:23 PM |
| 9 | How do you deal with shitty In-Laws of your HVM partner ?Why would you talk to her? What motivation does she have to change her ways when there are zero consequences and her brother picks up all of her slack? You are zeroing in on the wrong target love. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 06:10 PM |
| 13 | How do you deal with shitty In-Laws of your HVM partner ?I’m saying this gently. You know he shouldn’t be doing that. You know he shouldn’t be allowing any of this. Don’t accept this behavior from him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:53 PM |
| 6 | I was sexually assaulted last weekend. Cautionary tale in the time of a pandemic.Thank you for saying that As if OP needs to be repeatedly abused! Badgering someone to do something they are uncomfortable with is not very different from rape. Knock it the fuck off! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:46 PM |
| 34 | How do you deal with shitty In-Laws of your HVM partner ?If you’re afraid to express your thoughts for fear of being labeled crazy, you need to re-evaluate your relationship because that’s not healthy sis A HVM will set appropriate boundaries in all of his relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 05:16 PM |
| 7 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.No. There’s a special form you can fill out if you don’t file taxes. Go to the irs website. Everyone is entitled to stimulus money unless they are a dependent or make too much money. You most likely are also eligible for $600 per week from unemployment, even if you weren’t working Let me know if you can’t find the info online | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 03:48 PM |
| 15 | I was beaten for having confidence last night.OP if you are in the states you can apply for unemployment and receive $600 per week. It does not matter if you didn’t have a job, most people are eligible because of the pandemic. You’re also eligible for stimulus money even if you didn’t file taxes. You can apply through the irs website. DM me if you need help Can you stay with your sister for now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 03:23 PM |
| 133 | Yes. This.If you have to wonder if you are a priority to man, then you’re not. A HVM will never leave you feeling confused. If you haven’t read the handbook yet, please do so now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:16 AM |
| 8 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?Good luck ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 37 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?Yes. Why not? If he can’t accommodate something as simple as talking on the phone early on, why would he change after the first date? Never be afraid to establish things on your own terms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 01:58 AM |
| 63 | How do you efficiently communicate your standards and let a guy know that you prefer to be called instead of just texting?You need to establish your needs early on. Everything that you do in the beginning sets the tone for the remainder of the relationship. Simply say, “I prefer calls to texts” and leave it at that. If he can’t accommodate a simple request, he’s not worth your time. Block and move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 01:53 AM |
| 6 | Shout out to our exes.I’d love to also scribble “Die Mad” on the bottom 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/20 01:03 AM |
| 16 | The 276 Questions to Answer Before Getting MarriedDefinitely helpful. Just be mindful that some men (especially narcissists) will tell you what you want to hear and feed into your vision of the perfect partner until they have you hooked. Watch his actions, not his words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 10:23 PM |
| 46 | The 276 Questions to Answer Before Getting MarriedI think it’s important to know all of the answers to these questions but presenting this list to someone you just met would be overwhelming and intrusive tbh. I wouldn’t want to answer all of these questions unless I trusted the person who was asking the questions. I wouldn’t trust the person if we weren’t in a strong, committed relationship. Every question on this list can be answered through the course of the first few months of the relationship, most of them should be answered by getting to k… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 07:18 PM |
| 2 | "Please sir, may I have a crumb of dick?" Remember ladies! Never expect anything out of your man, let him waste his life away on video games, and maybe, JUST MAYBE!, he will occasionally acknowledge your existence!Imagine being so pathetic that you support and encourage another adult’s desperate need to avoid living in the real world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 03:47 AM |
| 3 | “before you I was afraid of being alone but after you.. now I’m afraid of settling”Very good advice, especially for us hot heads 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 01:32 AM |
| 3 | “before you I was afraid of being alone but after you.. now I’m afraid of settling”Yes. You fucked up. Don’t beat yourself up about it. You were doing what you felt like you needed to do in that moment. Learn from it and move on. With my narc, I stayed way, WAY longer than I should have. I stayed even though I knew it was never going to work and I wasn’t even trying to convince myself that it was. Something in me needed to see it through to the point where I got so sick of his abuse that once I finally left, I would never go back. It worked, but I would never advise that path … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 01:28 AM |
| 19 | “before you I was afraid of being alone but after you.. now I’m afraid of settling”Next time write everything out and send it to yourself instead. All you did was feed his ego and embolden him to treat his next supply the same or worse. Narcissists care less than zero about your feelings and wishes. Block. Delete. Move on | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 10:50 PM |
| 25 | FLOYD MAYWEATHER’S DAUGHTER ARRESTED FOR STABBING A GIRL OVER A MAN WITH HERPES AND THREE BABYMOTHERS^ The first thought that crossed my mind when I read the headline. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 2 | TruthWait, did you even notice the only one who didn’t give a fuck was the girl who literally got her arm torn off and went back to work a few days later? The guys would’ve milked it for weeks and came back to work all pretend tough sucking back tears!! Yes. I don’t think that poor child committed suicide. I don’t know how he died but I doubt he killed himself So, so dumb. So, so low value. Honestly, this cacophony of disastrous dregs of society was a welcome distraction from the current events. It m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | TruthOh my God. There’s a scene where he’s just randomly shooting at them and they’re all laughing! Where and how are these people raised?! If someone pointed a gun and shot in my direction I’d faint and then when I woke up I’d kill them with my bare hands! Oh and they all act as if they’re so macho getting in the cage with full grown tigers, meanwhile there’s always an employee with a high pressure hose aimed at the cat in case things go south. Pathetic! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:47 AM |
| 3 | TruthFor real! She’s made out to be the villain in all of this because of course, “hell hath the fury of a woman scorned” and all of that misogynistic bs. Lol. Yes. Her current husband seems a bit fearful of her. Can’t say I blame him. The sad part in all of this is the abuse of those animals. Joe admitted the cats were mistreated. And even after all of the lawsuits, no law was passed to protect them from the suffering they’ve endured. I’m so disappointed by the ending of this chaotic saga | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 02:29 AM |
| 2 | TruthYes. I see that distance from empathy and emotion. I also see sadness and fear in her eyes, if that makes any sense. Don’t get me wrong though, she’s still a full on scary socio 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 09:41 PM |
| 3 | TruthExactly!!!! And did you notice when she was asked if she held a memorial for her dead ex, she looked surprised at the question and you could see the disgust cross over her face, she then quickly composed herself (like only a sociopath can do) and closed her eyes (to hide the eyeball rolls to the back of her skull) and explained how when she got the death certificate she just went blank and she doesn’t remember the rest of the evening as the hours passed. Lol! Cool story Carole 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 08:27 PM |
| 15 | TruthSpot on and I’m so happy to see that someone else made the exact same observations as I did Joe and Carole are both sociopaths for sure but Carole is a less dangerous sociopath because at least she isn’t a pedophile! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 01:16 AM |
| 12 | Another brilliant LVM opening line regarding my body 🙄Good morning Below 6’ or above Less than 6” or more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 11:15 PM |
| 37 | I fucked up. Big time.Never sleep with a guy that soon, especially when you have something at stake In your case it was a club you enjoyed You got wrapped up in the fantasy of a relationship instead of paying attention to very clear red flags. This means you have work to do before you get into a relationship again. Keep reading here. Chin up, move on The biggest issue that I see here is that you introduced a man to your child after only two weeks? Uh uh, big HUGE no. This shows that you aren’t thinking clearly. There… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 10:07 PM |
| 16 | Choices... The Pickmesha and Corona Virus editionI’ve got news for these sad little pick me’s. In a triage situation, the life of the younger, healthier person would be saved in most cases. Say buh bye to your precious man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 06:24 PM |
| 7 | Choices... The Pickmesha and Corona Virus editionOmg Mods, please assign a new fair for this ultimate pickmeisha in our midst LeT’s NoT JUdGe a mother for sacrificing the life of her child for a man Gtfo with that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 06:21 PM |
| 6 | I feel so bad for women like thisHa! Libfems would see it and exclaim pleasure at the validation because they are too clueless to grasp sarcasm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 10:39 PM |
| 10 | I feel so bad for women like thisExactly!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 09:58 PM |
| 66 | I feel so bad for women like thisPretty much every answer in that thread : HaVE yOu TriEd TALKInG tO hIM aBoUT iT? And, or suggesting she be more kinky and adventurous because her LVM husband might be afraid to ASK, even though he wasn’t afraid to force himself on her when she was a virgin Society has become a cesspool of porn addicted zombies 🤦♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 05:48 PM |
| 12 | Keep your interests in mind always💯 accurate! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/20 01:01 AM |
| 36 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.Dude looks like Mr Clean’s brain damaged, porn addicted offspring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:25 PM |
| 14 | I don’t see any liesZero lies detected | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 11:33 AM |
| 141 | Some of them are starting to get itSomething I regularly say to my son “It’s ok to be angry” (I want him to know that emotions are healthy), “but it’s inappropriate to overreact and act out your anger, take a deep breath, give yourself a moment, then react appropriately”(I want him to learn that there needs to be a space between stimulus and response). It usually helps him to calm down and if it doesn’t, he gets disciplined for acting out aggressively in anger. I don’t want my son to become toxic and abusive like most of the men … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 10:25 PM |
| 8 | No surprise: online "friend" is a creep and now I'm going through the biggest heartbreak of my life.Kendrick Lamar’s ‘For Free’? Really? Fuck that guy I think you might have been dealing with a narcissist and you built him up in your mind as your ideal partner. You might have been more in love with the idea of him than you were with him. Does that make sense? I’m so sorry that happened to you. I hope someone comes along to share a similar experience so you realize you’re not alone but I’m sure that most of us have been duped by a man who we thought was HVM, only to be crushed when we found out… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 07:16 AM |
| 5 | I just played the “I am going to date other men” card when he exhibited bad behaviorIn response to your most recent updates. I don’t agree that you were attacked. You were given sound advice, especially in light of how things ended. You were right to come here and seek advice, you’re wrong to attack the source of the advice you sought You keep saying (paraphrasing here) that you knew this guy, he was into you and wanted exclusivity, yet the moment you expressed concern about his behavior (understandably so), he expressed his inability to be in a relationship. The advice here mi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:34 PM |
| 13 | Beware of the LVM Financial AbuserSome of them use future faking to accomplish this abuse. They promise they will take care of you and provide for you, helping them pay their rent is giving them the support he needs to keep working towards the goal of marrying you and buying you your dream house! Don’t fall for it, sis. Once a broke-ass, always a broke-ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:00 PM |
| 19 | Getting over a manipulative LVMStart with yourself. Are you co dependent and/or have low self esteem? When we are broken we attract broken and the cycle continues until we heal. Maybe think about going to therapy and doing some self care. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/20 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Useful when doubting your intuitionLove this. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 11:43 PM |
| 8 | I just played the “I am going to date other men” card when he exhibited bad behaviorJust saw your update. I’m sorry that happened to you. Honestly, it’s so much better to recognize the signs early and just move on than to have dragged it out and get attached only to have your heart broken. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 08:56 PM |
| 48 | I just played the “I am going to date other men” card when he exhibited bad behaviorIt’s becoming more frequent that I see posts by newbies who seem to be under the impression that FDS is a group of women who hate men and want to punish them This sub is about protecting yourself from LVMs, not retaliating against them Girl, just block him. You’re wasting your time if you’re spending it with someone who just isn’t that into you And please, for the love of God, read the handbook | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/20 06:34 PM |
| 63 | Ghosting a guy first after sexPlease read the FDS handbook. This sub isn’t about discussing strategies to have hook up sex. Honestly, if you’re just looking to hook up, there’s no reason to even play these ghosting games. Have sex, don’t get attached, move on. It’s sounds like you’re seeking to punish men because you’ve been hurt in the past. That’s just not healthy, sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 07:59 PM |
| 45 | Ghosting a guy first after sex“Some women here can be harsh”. Actually most of us are just honest and for some it isn’t easy to hear the truth. Most women here are supportive and helpful That being said, I don’t really understand what you are saying? Are you asking if it’s a good strategy to ghost someone after sex? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 06:19 PM |
| 14 | What. The. Fuck.Male depravity at its finest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 10:31 PM |
| 6 | How has Liberal Feminism benefited men more than women?This whole idea of women being equal to men and that women should carry half of the household finances falls apart just by looking at the statistics. Women are left holding the bag when it comes to maintaining the household and when it comes to childcare. Statistics show that when a man walks away from his responsibilities to his family and a women ends up as a single mother, most of the time she and her children end up living in poverty. At least 30% of men pay little to no child support. So me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 08:02 PM |
| 31 | "Clues" that a man watches/doesn't watch porn?Early balding is a sign | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:02 AM |
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