My dear ladies, please never EVER do this. EVER.

WildTenderness · 2020-06-14T01:03:38+00:00

It just makes me so sad that women are conditioned to second guess themselves. It's clear that she feels something is wrong, but she hasn't been given/taught the confidence to share and enforce her thoughts. We deserve better tbh

LadyGrimes · 2020-06-13T22:08:51+00:00

This sounds like someone who can't bear to be alone, and yes she does come off as really clingy. Sounds like an extrovert and this guy sounds like an introvert.

It also seems like shes the one making all the plans while the guy is more interested in his video game. Doesn't sound like a good match, but this girl sounds like shes been desperate for a guy therefore she's willing to settle for anyone. Not good at all. I'm even willing to bet shes doing most of the messaging.

She could probably use FDS honestly.

redbirdflies · 2020-06-13T21:51:51+00:00

Found on r/dating I wanted to comment “Yes!, WAY too clingy. Please stop it. Now!” but I’m certain I would’ve gotten bombarded with the “oH ShUT uP, mEn lOvE tO bE cHaSEd” by the third ring of dating hell on that sub 😡

bqluoeoedn · 2020-06-14T01:30:34+00:00

I was worse in my last situationship and I had also been through personal hell before that. Yaaaaaaaaaay.

throwaway23004345 · 2020-06-13T23:00:58+00:00

Please link the original post!!

radical__daphne · 2020-06-14T13:54:57+00:00

Texting is not worth it. This entire conversation could have been taking care of her 5-minute call. There is no reason to be texting someone every fucking hour.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2020-06-14T03:34:42+00:00

I don’t think this is too clingy, the guy just isn’t interested and is trying to make it seem like her fault instead of his.

terrn1981 · 2020-06-14T07:09:42+00:00

This is embarrassing.

4-20characters · 2020-06-14T05:02:36+00:00

Ahhh shit! Too late

Alma00019 · 2020-06-14T08:19:32+00:00

Even if this was my BFF, she be driving me crazy!

redbirdflies · 2020-06-13T21:54:15+00:00

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Title	My dear ladies, please never EVER do this. EVER.
Author	redbirdflies
Upvotes	138
Comments	28
Date	June 13, 2020 9:49 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/h8go9a/my_dear_ladies_please_never_ever_do_this_ever/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/my-dear-ladies-please-never-ever-do-this-ever.673720 https://theredarchive.com/post/673720

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