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CULTURAL MISOGYNYterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 11:23 AM
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FDS MEMESterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:27 PM
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#KickHimOut2020terrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:08 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:34 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:59 PM
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BAD SEX ADVICE terrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 07:55 PM
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SHOWER THOUGHTterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 09:27 AM
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LibFem Logicterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:02 AM
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RANTterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:06 PM
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LibFem Logicterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:30 PM
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DISCUSSIONterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:44 PM
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SCROTES MADterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 10:17 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYterrn1981/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 12:25 PM
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One of the rules of mysoginy is: "Women are at fault for men's behaviour" Men: "women need to lower their standards" Also men: "women need to choose better partners" Can't win! Everything is women's fault all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 09:05 AM
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Dude, where on earth did u come to the conclusion most women hate giving blow jobs. Myself and all my friends enjoy giving BJs bc we get off on our partners arousal.. We don't like when dicks smell or aren't clean - and our partners respect our boundries bc it can make the jaw sore..when we need to take a break from it, let us. Also, women enjoy blow jobs.. a lot have decided they don't after experiences with porn-sick dudes that think a blow job is grabbing hair, gagging them, Cumming inside th…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:53 PM
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Respect them. Just bc they did it with an ex doesn't mean they ENJOYED it. They probably have matured enough to learn they shouldn't have to perform degrading acts that they don't enjoy to have someone love them/keep them around. Any sexual activity should be mutually ENJOYABLE and not painful/degrading or make anyone feel gross about themselves. You love ur partner, you wouldn't expect them to do anything that they find painful/degrading/a turn-off or make them feel like nothing but an object t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:47 PM
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How so? I'm in a happy, long term relationship. Just pointing out bitterness some men have in those thread. Oh, and my partner is only 5'9 and works in a factory, and I love the shit outta him. Maybe you have a bad "picker" if u only seem to seek out women with such "high standards" 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 09:18 AM
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Women don't want to date angry, bitter women-haters - has nothing to do with height. Bet u think u are a nice guy eh? How can u ne nice to women with such clear distain for women. Have u dated unattractive women? Ever ask out a 350lbs woman with acne? Just lower your standards dude, you can find a gf if you stop expecting submissive, skinny blondes
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:21 AM
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Gee, I bet women would love to spend time with a nice guy like yourself lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:02 AM
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Ya, date guys that arw shorter and fatter are all bitter and negative like yourself. No one wanta to date a guy that hates women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 08:01 AM
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All the men whining about not having sex now, will just be on the deadbedrooms sub whining they still aren't having sex. It's so vile forcing yourself to have sex with someone you aren't attracted to or have no respect for.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 07:52 AM
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Bc men or transwomen will just invade it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/23 02:40 AM
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I know women who are more attracted to "dad bods".. Think it's often other men who push the narrative of "chick's want the big/buff roided out Chad. I personally find average guys more appealling...maybe bc a lot of the "big guys" seem more vain and narcissistic than actually caring about their health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 07:19 AM
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What a great offer! "PAY ME to be a bangmaid!" At least most of these losers don't demand rent on top of demanding a maid and fuck doll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/21 12:58 PM
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I can't imagine obsessing over something so much,.as to actually put this much thought into it. Men swipe on every chick to get laid, not to date. How about at least calling it out honestly "Men have a harder time finding someone to fuck" You don't need entire mathematical equations to see that Men think their value as a "man" lays in how many women you can use for sex. Stop obsessing about sex. It's not that important, it isn't a need, and it doesn't prove your value as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 05:22 PM
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Look at the replies on any abortion thread. 75 percent are men that scream "pro life" Look at some of their statements. I have read "she should keep her legs closed' "She should have stayed abstinent" "She shouldn't have sex if she doesn't want to get pregnant" "She controls whether sex happens" It's always about HER. Not the zygote. This has nothing to do with the zygote,.and everything to do with punishing women for having sex. That is mysoginy, that is trying to CONTROL WOMEN. These men seem …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/21 06:24 PM
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These guys don't, married or not. They get off on making girls uncomfortable. It's like guys sending unsolicited dick pics - they already know they aren't gonna get laid, but they get off knowing they have FORCED a girl to see their dick. They get off on the control they had, get off on knowing it likely made her uncomfortable or upset. It's not done bc they ever think it will lead to successful chance a sex, it's control. It's power
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 11:25 AM
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When I worked at a variety store at 14 I had creepy old men hitting on me. It happens. A lot. It is also sexual harassment bc I think many get off on the fact young women get nervous, uncomfortable and scared. It's a power/control thing. I imagine it's far worse for girls/young women now with porn-sick "barely legal" porn being so popular.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 11:22 AM
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I would love this. Unfortunately most women are socialized from birth to be sacrificial, and anything we do for ourselves is burnt into our brains as making us "selfish". I still struggle doing anything for myself, or allowing my bf to focus on me. Hard to relax when one feels selfish. It's why it has always boggled my mind how men can just use a woman, have an orgasm, roll over and sex is done - without even considering her needs. Like, I would NEVER demand my bf get off of me when I have had m…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 10:04 AM
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I think most women just want a man who RESPECTS her, who sees her as a human being with feelings, dreams, goals, their own desires. So many men see women as: sex objects, caregivers, mommy's, maids etc..many men look at a woman and wonder how she can BENEFIT HIM, rather than look at who she is as a person, and be a partner. He sure doesn't wonder if he can add any benefit to her life.. Basically, I think most women would be damn happy to find a man who isn't selfish.
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 09:52 AM
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I think any man who is "traumatized" by their new gf having sexual boundries(where she let herself be degraded in her previous relationship), needs serious therapy. How mentally fragile, mentally weak, pathetic, can someone be?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:36 AM
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They never thought their forever gf/mommy/maid would leave them- when they did leave, dude thinks "fuck, better lock in the next mommy/maid that comes my way" Has nothing to do with her, and all to do with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:33 AM
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Bc Islam treats women like property. Its right up their mysoginic, sociopathic, selfish ally.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 09:35 PM
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Leftist men are the biggest mysoginsts. Just tell them you want to keep single-sex spaces, or that sex work is exploitive- then you truly see their mysoginy. They love taking the opportunity to bash women, slur women, make demands of women, throw women under the bus and still think they have the moral high ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 07:35 PM
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Get out more. Also, grow up, get maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 02:11 AM
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Maybe, start paying attention to the many, if not most women who don't fuck sociopaths instead of hyperfocusing on the (clearly damaged) ones that do? Stop paying attention to your sociopathic friends life and focus on being a better person. Did you ever think if a girl wants to date someone she knows is bad news, maybe she has serious problems herself and steer clear of these women? As women are told daily "stop choosing shitty men", perhaps men should be told "stop wanting damaged women who fu…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 12:34 PM
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"I don't think I'll ever recover from this" It's not like he was in love with her as a human being, all this emotion bc he didn't get laid. "Poor me, I didn't get to use that object, I mean woman, for an orgasm" Legit, this is all about an orgasm. This guy will be the "not all men" kinda guy, but won't have any empathy for a rape victim. Women be getting sexually assaulted at high rates, and this guy is crying over not getting laid one night. This guy is so upset bc he felt entitled to her body,…
/r/ExRedPill24/08/21 11:48 AM
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So fucking vile..selfish and zero empathy. Why do so many men lack empathy for women? Is it years of porn use? No longer see women as human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 01:43 PM
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The 65 + single rate for women makes sense. By that age, lot of women are DONE bearing the emotional/mental load for men, and taking care of them. They remain single after being widowed, or wise up and leave the man who has been draining her mental and emotional health for a lifetime. If he leaves her for some young woman, she usually ends up happier and wants her own space. There was research done on this. Older women admitted they never wanted to live with a man again, whereas older men who ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 01:14 PM
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Ew. "Pump and dump" bc you were rejected by hot women when you were younger? How about just reject those women now instead of "pumping and dumping"? Fucking sociopath.. Christ these guys need therapy. Imagine holding onto rejection for years, letting it turn you into a resentful monster, and thinking pumping and dumping is deserved bc some women rejected your advances years ago. Why would you even want to have sex with a woman who isn't attracted to you anyway? Do you not care if she enjoys hers…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/21 12:39 PM
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Age gaps aren't usually about money - they are predatory men manipulating and grooming an immature, barely legal girl into his submissive toy. These age gap relationships often seem to be in situations where the girl was vulnerable, or had family issues/trauma.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 11:35 PM
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The comments under this vid on YouTube are hopeless.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/21 12:34 PM
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They are pissed women are allowed their own agency, their own choices, and aren't being forced to marry bc she isn't allowed independence. They are pissed we have choice, are human, and not property that can be bought and abused anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 01:00 PM
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I always laugh at the fact men seem to think being divorced and a single mom is the WORST and that us women totally hate it. Women initiate most divorces, and almost all women are much happier post divorce. It's proven single moms have more time to themselves and are much happier than married women. Do these men really think its some nightmare for women to lose (or not have) a large chunk of the emotional and mental load she was bearing from marriage? Do these men think we choose to initiate div…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/21 12:42 PM
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Saw a guy actually comment once: "How fucking stupid do you have to be if you can't tell you've given her an orgasm? Her entire body tightening, the contractions, her relief/relaxing after, you guys have clearly never made an woman cum" That's my kinda guy. The guy that has given a girl so many orgasms, he doesn't have to ask if she came Bless him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:52 PM
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These guys belittle sex workers, but think buying dinner entitles them to sex. Wtf?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:50 PM
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If a woman truly loves a guy, she will become a submissive, subservient, sacrificial angel, she will be selfless and do all with a smile on her face. If she expects a partner who treats her as a human, and not as their personal assistant, emotional dumping ground, then she doesn't actually love them. Ok then. I feel sorry for your future gf/wife, her happiness doesn't matter and she won't be an actual human being in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/21 12:33 PM
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The article about porn making men bad in bed: A woman writes an entire article basically telling men what women DONT want in bed, telling men what women do like in bed.. Men in the comments "ITS NOT PORNS FAULT! ITS NOT OUR FAULT! WOMEN SHOULD BE COMMUNICATING WHAT THEY LIKE!" You just proved her point selfish fucks. She was communicating women don't enjoy being treated roughly or violently, that we aren't fuck objects, but that's not what you wanna hear is it? You are ignoring what is being sai…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 02:53 PM
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I always wonder if some guys keep a second insta account thats specifically for following insta "self-objectifying" women. An account to hide their actions. I wish there was a way to find this out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 01:14 PM
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It hurt their ego. Men have always been the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:57 PM
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Yessss!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:51 PM
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This. We are oppressed bc of our sex, not bc of gender stereotypes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 08:48 PM
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Look at poor Anna Duggar right now..she's sticking by that MOFO too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:00 AM
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Ya, he wants to get laid. He is likely expecting something in return now. The entitlement is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:34 PM
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This. It is always self serving.. there is nothing selfless in majority of men. Find me a man who would do a kindness for woman he didn't find fuckable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 12:32 PM
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Because their actual first thought to any subject, has to be about keeping the penis-ppl happy. Domestic violence? Remind everyone the men can be abused too, pander to their feelings and validate their trauma.. Also note men that charge their wives with abuse will often state they didn't actually feel threatened, or fearful for their life. The assault is a slap in the face,or a kick to the legs or nuts - whereas with men against women? The women are Intimidated, threatened, battered black and bl…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 02:38 AM
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I love reading actual intelligent, logical threads on this sub. So much better then the rest of reddit where it's just the same old jokes about mastubating, porn, and comments on women's appearances. No one has critical thinking, their own thought processes or their own individual personality anymore. I could read threads on this sub for hours and not feel like I'm getting dumber or hopeless from reading the same old replies from porn sick dudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 05:15 PM
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Sorry I should have clarified. I wasn't upset by what you said and I actually understand what the post was actually about. Iazy men. Most are truly lazy and I strongly believe women are harder workers - we have to be. I was more triggered in a protective mom way, and I guess it was more of a vent after a rough year with my boys. It was my own personal reaction, my internal stuff. That being said, how do these guys expect to survive as adults? Make money? So used to being catered to that they exp…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:08 PM
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Like mlms. Manipulative and predatory business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:54 PM
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Ok, so this post made me a bit upset. I have three kids, 2 boys and a girl. Both my boys have learning disabilities. My oldest is THAT disorganized kid, that "airhead" boy mentioned - But, my oldest boy is also the most legitimately empathetic, kind hearted person I know, and I mean that. I do not know any person that feels for others the way he does.-and he is MALE (I see most males as lacking in empathy) which surprises me. He is that kid that can't watch certain movies bc the empathy is too m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:28 PM
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My favorite is when the incels/Mras take credit for building all of society..sure dude, you build skyscrapers from mom's basement. I bet the actual men that died building these skyscraper don't really want you taking credit for their work and death.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 09:23 AM
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You do realize hardly any man "buys flowers" or takes their partner out for dinner, yet even with zero appreciation, and crap treatment, women are still doing the majority of cooking and cleaning-while men jack off to porn and play video games - also, when men do "romantic" things , it's not for love - it's almost always manipulative and selfish - they do it to get laid, and feel entitled to a lay since they were so "nice" (self serving reasons aside) Oh, and actually women enjoy mutually pleasu…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/21 02:30 AM
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Your dad is a rare man. Those rare men are all in happy marriages. I truly think by the time a woman hits 35, there are no good men left - bc HVM are married and treating their partners with respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 02:07 AM
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Single mom of three- happier since I left my marriage bc there isn't daily resentment anymore. The resentment of: Burning myself out then seeing him sitting on his ass on his phone or computer games. Him spending my money or child disability tax credit (we have a special needs child) on his expensive hobbies that he gets to enjoy, while I have no time and spending money on fast food everyday, Him expecting a pat on the back for folding Laundry - while I have to redo it bc the clothes were all fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:51 AM
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Dinner dates are pricey, but credit cards are maxed from porn, fansonly and video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:20 AM
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A man wrote this. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:13 AM
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You know he sent the same shit to dozens of women in hus contacts. In hopes ONE would reply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:10 AM
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I read an interesting article written by a doc who performs abortions at a women's health clinic. Many women who Picketted outside, came in themselves for abortions. Do as I say,.not as I do. Proof it's just about virtu-signalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:55 AM
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Let me guess, it was MEN who decided this...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:53 AM
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Sex with an in tact male actually feels better..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:45 AM
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No, their biggest issue that they actually form groups in, is how hard it is to get laid, how to get laid, how to abuse and manipulate women. The one thing they are vocal about, is women and their dicks. Even with porn, the ones that quit aren't quitting bc of the abuse of women, they quit bc their dick stops working. It's always about their selfish wants, never real societal issues men face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:44 AM
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She is fucking AMAZING.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:35 AM
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They took the parts that benefitted them - the equal Income to household, but sat their asses on the couch and played video games and watched porn -instead of sharing household duties. Oh, and of course they want to hit women. That's their idea of equality. Selfish fucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:33 AM
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Until those subs got banned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:29 AM
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Why would men actually want to change anything that gave them power and all the benefits? No such thing as a male feminists. Male "feminists" are the ones that proudly scream mysoginistic things at Radfems - bc rad fems aren't catering to poor males that "identified" into womanhood. They are more mysoginistic than actual republican men. Its like with rad fems they can let their inner woman-hate out, and claim its virtuous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:29 AM
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Please make a post on the breaking mom sub about this book. I can't I was banned from commenting. These ladies need saving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:51 PM
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Yep. I've always paid my own- for my own safety. Men are entitled and think buying supper gives them the "right". They could just pay for a sex worker, but whatever. "ShE UsEd mE fOR a FreE MeAL " No dude, she found you gross, pervy, boring or was scared of you. She wanted the fuck out of there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:41 PM
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The older men that have managed to get with younger women, are almost always predators that had to manipulate, gaslight and abuse in order to "win" her and get her to stay. They are almost always controlling mysoginists that want to mold a niave young woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:38 PM
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"Most see us as a bunch of services to benefit them" This. So much this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:57 PM
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"How do I get my husband to shower more often" 😬😬 Then these are the men on deadbedroom complaining about lack of sex. Yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:06 PM
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A lot of men are more concerned about how other men view them, over how women view them..then claim there is no such thing as toxic masculinity..not sure what they don't understand about the "toxic" part..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:58 PM
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Yes, and as a woman, if you respond to a post where a guy is bitching he can't get a gf, tell them what women want (ie respect), they just tell you off. God forbid they have to respect women as an equal, and as a human being - not property or an object. That's not what they want to hear. They would rather blame everyone but themselves and be angry at women instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 03:36 PM
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They hate us bc they can't control us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:17 PM
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Real HVM don't even know what "the wall" is, if they do, they laugh at the pathetic men who believe in that stuff. They are too busy bettering themselves then to spend time in an echo chamber of mysoginisic red-pill forums.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 02:15 PM
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They have had to do abusive things. Their attitude is a defense mechanism. A cope. They should spend all those "thousands" (BS) on a therapist, rather than plastic surgery and Brazilians.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:46 PM
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Have you heard some of the degrading things men expect from the fansonly girls or sex workers? They make it sound like they just have to take their clothes off and dance around in front of the camera. But men "expect" certain things bc they are paying..its vile. In order to keep clients, they will have to do degrading things, or act like a child, and pretend that their client is "more special than the others". Stroke their egos.. how can they find it empowering to have to degrade and humiliate t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:30 PM
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There is no way this guy is NOT an incel with this kind of language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:01 PM
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"Suppprt me while I advertise to men that I can be 'their dirty little secret'" Who cares about the wife who is working her tail off caring for children, growing babies, feeding babies, taking care of the home, burnt out, being sexually abused by their pervy husband bc his "kinks" are being amplified by their content - Such feminist. Such girl power 🙄 I've never had respect for fansonly women - the only ones I feel sorry for, are the 18 yr olds who join after being lied to, manipulated and groom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 11:47 AM
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I do believe in decent men. I have one now. From my experiences however, they seem to be rare, it's getting worse too. I find on reddit, yesterday being one of those days, it's just post after post of men bitching about women- with zero accountability for the actions of shitty men. I also knew it was pointless voicing my opinion in a nice way, as non of the truly angry men would open their minds to see another perspective but their own. I just had enough of it yesterday. The women hatred. As I e…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 03:06 PM
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Actually, when a woman has been hurt over and over, she may end up with this mindset. Instead of allowing herself time to heal, she may just say "fuck it".. I did go out a couple times after having my heart broken (by average men), with hot guys and slept with them one time each in an attempt to "get over" the man who was using me, or to feel something. Yes I even did it thinking it would boost my self- esteem, thought it would make me feel attractive. It wasn't "entitlement" that made me do it …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:53 PM
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I agree with you. It's the entire culture. It's all just a fucking cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:44 PM
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Yes, I am "CrAzY" . If we have a voice, we are crazy. I know.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 02:43 PM
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I struck a chord with my reply. I admit I went on a rant. For those suggesting therapy, I have actually been to therapy..I go back often. I work on myself often, and part of what therapy did was teach me to love myself, respect myself, and stop people-pleasing and sacrificing, especially to win a man or please a man. Boundries matter. That doing all those things will not guarantee love, just likely end up being used. A part of the rant was therapeutic for me. I spent over a decade in a marriage …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/21 01:56 PM
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He understands her needs. She has likely communicated them 500 times, many with tears - they know. They don't give a fuck. Why would they change, when their life is easy street and pickme keeps tolerating it? He doesn't love you girl, he loves all the things you do stroke his ego and make his life easy. If he did love, you wouldn't have to tell him to love and appreciate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:38 AM
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Yes. This. If the sex workers gets to consent to doing whatever sex work, they should afford the gf/wife of their "client" so that those women can consent to whether or not to stay in the rationship - and risk their own sexual health, emotional health and mental health. Guess the sex worker can consent, but not the loving partner at home taking care of the homelife while he fucks around. The sex worker should also inform the wife if any dangerous, violent or abusive sex/actions are requested, so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:30 AM
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Always amazes how many sex workers will claim to be feminist, but if you point out how they choose to damage innocent women with their "work", or even encourage bullshit like "let me be your dirty little secret", they will claim you a "swerf", or just turn around and put all the blame on the men who choose to use them. Onlyfans for example scream "empowerment", while knowing damn well she is taking a huge part in the emotional/mental turmoil and a the deletion of another women's self esteem. No …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 01:20 AM
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Entitled to a bangmaid/mommy servant to him. Fixed it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:40 AM
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Spitting on someone is considered a crime, assault, i many countries. I hope this is one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:39 AM
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Instead of blaming "females", why not blame your own sex for fucking anything with a hole, and throwing any standards out the window for his own dick? Blame your own sex for treating women like nothing but sex objects? Blame chad for feeling entitled to fuck ALL women, while you poor souls get nothing? If a woman is going to get used for sex, wouldn't she rather be fucked by someone who makes her wet and may actually give her an orgasm? So she may get SOMETHNG out of the encounter? You are all a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:05 PM
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They all whine about women not dating them bc they aren't '"chads", yet they want to be "chad"- so any girl that does give them a chance, they treat like garbage to feel "chadley" too - often times they are worse. They lie more, manipulate more, and then brag about it. It's about ego - not about wanting love and a gf, they just want their ego boosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:33 AM
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It's not complicated. If a man has genuine empathy, he can be HVM. Sadly, most don't have empathy and are incredibly selfish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 11:29 AM
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Perfect analogy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:50 PM
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I stayed for over a year in a sort of "three way" relationship bc he couldn't "choose" between us. We were both clowns. The other girl is still with him, thinks she 'won" him(what a catch) even though I basically gained self respect and bailed. (he still tried to keep me in his life, even put a hand written letter in my mailbox saying how much I meant to him, and he still wants me in his life even if just platonic) - he was still showing up in my DMs for a year afterwards to "Check up", (bet she…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:29 AM
15

Love this book. It should be required reading for all young women. I will be having my daughter read it. The author is blunt, basically saying "abusers will never change". That getting him therapy, or anger management doesn't change him, but just teaches him more excuses as to why he is abusive - "well I had an abusive childhood, so I cannot help that I am this way". He also says that they don't just "lose control". They know dam well what they are doing, and they do it to maintain control. For …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:16 AM
9

We are losing our safe spaces really fast - and there's nothing we can do. If we try, we are silenced and labeled some aweful term.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 10:10 AM
9

What's sad is, those men are getting off on the discomfort. He wants to make the girl as terrified as possible to feel powerful. It's why, when the girl has a backbone and tells him to leave her alone, or fuck off, it's rage-inducing for him - He didn't get the power-trip/control/dominate feeling. The rejection of giving him the feeling of power over a vulnerable girl destroys his ego and fap material. It's almost safer in this scenario to embarress him - yell loud enough for those around to hea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:59 AM
164

They would aim the hate at the woman if genders were reversed - "she's just a GoLdDiGgEr"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:54 AM
12

Men need to slow the fuck down for me to get a PIV orgasm. They all.seem to jack hammer away like in porn, that either does NOTHING for me, or hurts. I can have PIV orgasms every time if he isn't selfish, takes his time and keeps a rhythm and position. It's porn. Porn has ruined good sex for women. PIV orgasms are so much stronger and more satisfying imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 09:33 AM
5

This is awesome 👌
/r/ExRedPill08/05/21 12:48 AM
9

They live in a fantasy world don't they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 08:52 PM
6

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 07:25 PM
15

I mean, at least she didn't give him a second date and didn't ignore the red flags. Also, bullshit he is a neuroscientist lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:59 PM
5

Abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 04:03 PM
14

"If you don't give ur man anal, let him choke and jack hammer you, and let him watch rape porn, then you are a prude and sex negative!" "Don't KinK- ShAMe!" " you are just a SWERF"! - Some girl that claims to be feminist while ignoring the exploitation of women and children in sex work, and calling other women names (while massaging her man's feet and making him dinner after) Total feminist. 🙄 No dear, you are dick-pandering. Males have really managed to colonize feminism and sway it their way. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:57 PM
19

Ya, wonder what effort the guys put into "appts" Zero. Nothing, notta. Be lucky if he showered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:49 PM
4

To be fair, size isn't a big deal to me as long as it's not a micropenis-even then with good Oral I could deal. I hate big dicks - like 7 inches up - they can really hurt,.and those guys don't have much skill in other areas, bc they think their big dick is enough. Give me an average any day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:42 PM
20

Link? I haven't heard of this about Ben affleck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:33 PM
23

Omg. The only answers would be "fuck us and do our chores" That's all MRAs want. Submissive bandmaids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:22 PM
12

Yep. Society teaches men that they are entitled to a woman who brings in 50 percent of the income, does all the chores, cooking, child-rearing, mental load of family life (remembering appts, birthdays, extra curriculars etc), provides emotional support and sex on demand. He is entitled to this, meanwhile, he gets to do his 8 hrs of work, Come home, put his feet up and do his gaming, TV and porn for several hours, demand you give him degrading sex then get to sleep a solid 8 + hours. This ain't i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:19 PM
1

All I can say is, the fact you are asking women, listening to women, and treating us like human beings is a HUGE plus in what we look for. Listening to women instead of redpillers, and surrounding yourself with positivity instead of filling your days with women-hating subs is huge! We just want to be respected. I look for EMPATHY. If a man has legitimate empathy for women, animals, those who struggle, I am impressed. I find so many men lack empathy in these times. A lot has been linked to excess…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/21 02:50 PM
45

You were supposed to feel sorry for him, comfort him, then open your legs for him like kind women are expected to do! You were supposed to stay around to "fix" him while he uses and manipulates you, and uses his "being fucked up" as an excuse. He's a victim you see? So many naive young women fall for this. So they expected you to fall for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:29 PM
3

Let's be real, why should a 30 sec pump count as sex for women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 12:51 PM
3

For this post to have any impact on a male, he would first need empathy. But, most jerked away all their empathy while watching porn everyday. I fear for my daughter with what men have become. Chances are 95 percent of the males her age will be porn sick. She will fear sex, never understand the pleasure and intimacy that it should create.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:55 PM
4

This. I've always believed sex doesn't count unless the woman has an orgasm too. All the losers worried about "body count"would be thrilled half of the sexually active women are still "virgins" - their partner would be a Virgin forever 🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:05 PM
8

This is a sign of narcissism. He thinks he "deserves" the best of things, even without working for it, bc he is special. She needs to run, bc he will financially drain her by buying things for himself, that they don't need, and will always have to be the best of the best. All about appearances.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:01 PM
19

He probably watches too much porn and had some fantasy where he showers, and she has to join him bc she can't contain herself knowing there's a magical dick in her shower. Porn really fucks with a man's reality and perception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:38 PM
1

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 01:18 PM
94

They know we have thoughts and feelings. They just don't give a fuck about anyone but themselves. Only mens feelings matter and must be catered to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 09:14 PM
18

He needed the ego boost of a womans attention. They are all selfish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:56 AM
29

Look a the breaking mom sub. That explains it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/21 11:27 AM
13

Arielle in "The little mermaid" didn't even have a voice:(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 02:30 AM
6

Thank you. I've been married. I don't ever want to be again. I'm the one in my current relationship who avoids the topic of marriage - he brings it up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 07:06 AM
-1

So, men are selfish. Men lack empathy. Men lack ambitious endeavors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/21 03:32 AM
12

I got banned from breaking mom sub really fast..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:22 AM
22

It's Also a control thing. They see their kids as their property.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:14 AM
2

I miss dating in my teens and early 20s before them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 10:27 PM
1

This is actually aweful. Society should be more.aware of this, and it should not be happening.. appalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 09:21 AM
36

Women look for quality, not quantity. Shows how pathetic men on tinder can be. Why don't they just buy a fleshlight if they just want an object to stick their dick into?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:41 AM
58

When I was single and online dating, a guy I got a gut feeling over and stopped texting (he was really pushing to not only meet after one day, but to pick me up at my home). He somehow found me on Facebook, without even knowing my last name nor me even having my last name posted on my profile, stole profile pics, made a tinder account (I never use tinder), used my actual first name on the tinder profile, then spent six months making me out to look easy. The fake profile he made actually outright…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 10:38 AM
44

I'm an RN. I dread having all men as patients, especially the older generation. The difference in behaviour between the sexes is astounding. All the men are like "my wife takes care of me, my wife takes care of my ostomy, I don't know how to, I don't know what meds I take, I don't know what my family doctor said to me, ask my wife..etc" . Also, they have no shame in shitting themselves, or having us female nurses come running at every demand, hold their urinals for them, expect back rubs with th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 10:35 PM
11

Men cause 100 percent of pregnancies, therefore, are the cause of all abortions and their own child support payments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:56 PM
14

Anything to avoid looking in a damn mirror
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:54 PM
6

This guy "gets" it! Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:53 PM
14

Yassss! Awesome reply! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:52 PM
10

I noticed that too! Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:51 PM
79

But don't you know, it's a-ok for women to have their lives ruined by rape, but NOT ok for men to have their lives ruined by facing charges for rape, or the very VERY rare false accusation. Note men: just bc a guy may have been found "not guilty", does not mean they were innocent or it was a false accusation, it just means there wasn't enough evidence to convict- it means the woman was victimized over and over and never got justice, and now is being attacked for "false accusation". - this is why…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 07:42 PM
2

Or, you know, you could stop obsessing about getting laid, and stop viewing women as objects that you can use to masterbate with. Maybe treat women with respect and try a bit of empathy? Christ, and you think its bc women are shallow - maybe look at your own shitty attitude toward women and thinking their only use is for you to use to cum into.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 02:01 PM
15

The "Not all men" bunch are just as dangerous as the perps in crimes. To be more upset over generalizations than rape, violence and murder of women, just shows their lack of empathy for women, shows they see men as more human and than women, and says they value men's feelings over the safety and lives of women. Lack of empathy will cause violence towards us that they will not regret.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:01 AM
168

Telling them how much they hurt you, just gives them an ego boost. They love it. They do not have empathy for your feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 02:32 AM
33

When men say "not all men", they are basically showing they have no/lack empathy, especially for women. When they show more concern about the reputation of men over the the victims of rape, they don't care. At all. Instead of discust for rapists, they have more discust for generalizations. I dont understand their mindset and defensiveness. If a man says "all women are gold diggers", my reaction isn't "but not all women" I know not all women are gold diggers. The statement doesn't affect me in an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 09:52 PM
21

Wow, bc men murdering women is such a fucking joke?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 06:15 AM
19

He doesn't have a conscious. The apology was manipulation so she wouldn't go to the police. Damage control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:27 AM
9

So, he is doing damage control bc he doesn't want to be charged with sexual assault. How "caring". News flash buddy, if your dick becomes hard when you physically abuse someone, you are neither caring or nice. You are a psycho. He also typed it so it can't really be used as evidence against him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:20 AM
5

Porn. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:17 AM
1

Nope. Not High value. I wish all that was expected of women in a relationship was to make money. Pretty easy when your only responsibility is going to work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 01:17 AM
58

The thing is, they know they are the bully and they think it's all "alpha" and they are proud of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:40 PM
2

Sure. It's always HER fault isn't it? What a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 09:26 PM
13

I bet at least 90 percent of women have had a very frightening, angry and harmful reaction to rejection.. we tend to develop a sixth sense (starting at a young age bc grown ass men will say pervy and creepy things) for our safety. It's like a defense mechanism-We want to survive (may sound like hyperbole, but just look at the amount of women being murdered and attacked by men) I'm not going to dare look at the comments bc I know there will be "not all men" replies. Those kind of comments show an…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 01:49 PM
3

Lmao. Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 03:36 AM
2

By denying the biological differences between males and females, and living in an anti-science world where male and female are equal in everyway (also living in a world where men can identify as women and claim they are more marginized, while prioritizing male-bodied women over biological women), women are suffering consequences. Female athletes are losing out on their hard-earned metals to male-bodied women, losing scholarships, losing titles and positions meant for women. Libfems are prioritiz…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:37 PM
4

Ya, I've went along with sex before in a situation like this, bc I was scared. One of those situations where you think, just do it so it doesn't become rape - when it really is rape in a way. Very manipulative. Never let a guy know where you live early on either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:08 PM
14

Being jack-hammered, abused and not having an orgasm isnt fun though lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:33 AM
8

I guess he didn't get the reaction from you that he wanted when he did the PDA with his new gf. You were supposed to get all sad and regretful, maybe jealous, then text him. The male ego is so fragile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:30 AM
11

Exactly. Also, bc she was in his home, this situation causes fear - "If i say stop or no, he could get violent".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:22 AM
2

So empowering eh? 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:11 AM
8

And realize sex should be mutually pleasurable and not involve being physically in pain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:07 AM
9

Bc society teaches girls from a young age getting married and having a wedding should be the ultimate goal. I fell for it too. In the real world, marriage sucks for women. Just become the caregiver for a grown ass adult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:54 AM
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Or they give a sob story about the trauma of their last relationship, how their heart was broken so bad, so they just need time to trust another woman with his heart again. The pick me's always fall for that, bc they wanna be that special girl that fixes him and proves to him not all women will hurt him. They will show him how patient and understanding they are, while giving them all the one-sided, shitty (possibly degrading and abusive) sex they want. That poor boy had his heart broken, ya know…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:50 AM
29

'I like to take things slow, but have sex with you while taking it slow"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:38 AM
19

Feminism isn't about men. Its especially not about a man's love life/sex life. Shocker, I know.
/r/ExRedPill22/12/20 02:17 PM
5

My boyfriend doesn't watch porn either. Was actually him the pointed me towards the dangers of porn. He has never personally suffered from addiction, said a lot of it he found repulsive. Then, he had watched a Lucy Lu episode on men with porn addiction. From there he went down the rabbit hole about the porn industry. When we first started dating, he brought it up when I had found porn on my 12 year old sons phone, and he seemed uninterested when I joked about watching porn together- back in my c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:35 PM
13

Yep. You communicate and all they do is tell you how you are crazy for being upset about said thing. How your feelings are invalid, and you are just being overly emotional. Had an ex tell me to go get some midol once when I tried communicating something that was upsetting me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:00 AM
8

Lying by omission is a good one too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:44 AM
9

Maybe the researchers should have asked some of the men on "nofap" or some other sub like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:41 AM
36

I get so sick of the bullshit invalidation of women's feelings when it comes to porn. When a guy is addicted to porn, gets PIED, becomes abusive, starts to see women as nothing but objects to abuse for their precious peen, then they have the AUDACITY to make her the problem when she is hurt? Making her feel crazier on top of the unspeakable pain they cause? Its sociopathic and society goes along with it. Thanks libfems. "You are just InSeCuRe" "PoRn Is HeALtHy " "PoRN Is NoRmAL" (ya totally norm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:39 AM
3

The first time I posted here, I was immediately banned from posting there- no other reason. The mods there "do not agree with the culture" of FDS. Bizarre. There must be a man that is one of the mods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 09:43 PM
3

I know. I understand why women are like this. Society has trained us this way. Its just at times now that I'm older, I see more and more how women objectfiy themselves. I kinda struggle too with the libfem attitudes that are taking feminism back. I just wish women could see the light, and love and respect themselves more - know their worth, ya know? The fact the breakingmom sub banned me, someone who cares more for women and hate seeing the misery these women are in, is frustrating. Its almost l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 06:30 PM
1

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:10 PM
7

"Tee hee hee, im not like other girls" - with her bleach blonde hair, fake tan, porn star look as she objectifies herself for likes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 04:09 PM
2

Thanks! Wanted to read the replies. Seems most were women replying though. Sigh. Wish I could see more HVM posting on these kinds of things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:53 PM
78

Coping mechanism perhaps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:48 PM
7

Is there a link to this? I cannot find it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:21 AM
12

Sex work is exploitation - like child labour and slavery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 01:44 PM
12

The stats are something like 80 percent of women initiate divorce. This is why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:18 PM
32

"THe FaMiLy CoUrTs HaTe MeN "! Hurr durr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:08 PM
44

There's this meme that goes around every Christmas where it basically states that dads get to be surprised when the kids open gifts on Xmas morning, bc they have no clue or took zero part in Xmas shopping. Its supposed to be cute and "haha, so true" funny - but nah, it just pisses me off that society is ok with mom doing ALL the mental and emotional labour of family life, plus work full time. Its bullsh*t. These same women that post this stuff will also claim to be a feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:04 PM
44

I was banned from breakingmom the very first comment I made bc I basically told a woman to have some self-respect and love herself enough to leave. Apparently that isn't their version of supportive. They want the comments to simply agree with how hard life is, but don't dare suggest they take any responsibility to change their miserable existence. Also, they automatically ban you from commenting if you post here. Bc God forbid, you dare suggest Independence from men as a better alternative to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:00 PM
21

Men enjoy the part of feminism where women bring home money now, but haven't grasped the part where they have to actually do their share of the family life. Life has actually gotten harder and more stressful for women since fighting for our rights.. wonder if men will ever catch up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 10:56 PM
0

Just bc they search it and watch it, doesn't mean they enjoy having it done to them. Their bfs say they want to? They search it, see what its about. Maybe it turns them on to watch it, but having it done to them, is a different story. It hurts. I have searched that kind of stuff too. Its curiosity. I was sickened by some of the stuff I saw.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/20 12:46 PM
15

Porn is NOT what real sex looks like. Real sex isn't violent or painful to women. Real sex, women feel pleasure too - its mutual. Porn is nothing but a man using a woman for his own selfish needs, and those women are not enjoying themselves, they are acting. Please, please do not learn from porn. Too many of us women end up in abusive, violent, scary, painful sexual situations- bc men think porn is how its done. It not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/20 09:40 PM
13

Because broke men want the sex, but without the children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:34 PM
1

Porn sick society. Thats why.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 07:14 PM
1

Says the guy that probably jerks off to violent porn everyday...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 02:03 AM
3

Ya, I do not agree at all that this man should be paying support. Coming from a feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/20 03:24 PM
5

Men can be shit, no matter what culture. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:19 PM
3

Ahhh.. I will admit I was pretty discusted and did not read the entire post. I was getting angry by the part where she kept "forgiving" her loser husband for the cheating. I never got to the Muslim part. I assumed this was western or a crazy Christian thing like transformed housewife. Assuming makes an ass out of you and me. I absolutely understand better now why she didn't leave. I am was wrong on this one. Can I ask a question? I am pretty ignorant, but is it not a Muslim thing for men to at t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:33 AM
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I'm sorry, but I have no respect for women like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:33 AM
9

Probably an AGP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:31 AM
7

Truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:30 AM
16

He was "supporting" his "friend", but couldn't pay for a dinner date with his gf. Why do men treat their gfs with such utter disrespect?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:17 AM
12

On the relationship sub if you had wrote this there - "What he was doing was NoRMaL and you arw being insecure!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:15 AM
7

He doesn't have regulars lmao Do they think we are this dumb?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:35 AM
7

Omg, trade ur husband in and get a new one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:50 PM
11

Ah, a man untouched by porn. It must be wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:43 PM
32

I should be happy by guy just wants normal sex that doesn't Involve physically hurting me...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:44 AM
35

Everything seems to be "identity" politic nonsense- even to the point ur "kinks" need to be identified. What is wrong with society?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 07:14 AM
253

Am I the only person who just enjoys good old "making love"? Passionate sex with the person you love? Mutual pleasure? Mutual orgasms? Enjoyment from bond you share when you have sex while in love with the person? God, seems just an "act" anymore. Seeing how much more insane the "act" can be, otherwise it's boring. It's not for emotions anymore. Like, what happened to lots of kissing, touching, holding and clinging to eachother? What happened to good old back scratching sex when the man u love i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 03:50 AM
3

Thank you sir for logic!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 03:00 AM
0

It "literally" doesn't promote divorce rape. In promotes women having successful careers instead of being housewives, so they ars not trapped in abusive situations. Also, no worry about getting a divorce, if you are a good man that is a partner - does 50/50 and doesn't expect your wife to do 90 percent of the emotional and mental labour of adult life.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 10:11 PM
2

The thing is, most of the older rich men who date young, attractive women know already that she only wants their money - they don't care. Hence the actual sugar daddy sites. These men aren't dumb, they didn't get rich by being stupid. They know, and they agree to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:47 PM
1

I dont approach rich men. I have a career and have had a higher Income than the men I have been in relationships with. I date men I am attracted to. Part of my attraction to men is their work ethic. More often than not, men with lower income tend to not have the highest of ambitions- thats unattractive to me, and has nothing to do with their actual income. They tend to stagnate and do nothing about it. These men get angry women won't date them, but date men who make more money than call them gol…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:38 PM
1

Women like men with ambition and drive to succeed- its not about "money". Lazy men with no drive, sitting in front of video games and porn for hours are a turn-off
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:25 PM
9

So, you think women who are not attracted to you should give you a chance? Would you give a woman you are not attracted to a chance? Why is it women that are expected to "lower their standards" and not men? Would you, as a guy, really want to be having sex with a woman, knowing she really isn't into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:18 PM
3

I dont think he knows what empathy is - its being able to feel others emotions, not just your own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:52 PM
18

"Daw look what a good daddy he is" Wtf am I looking at?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:39 PM
111

I never understood how sex work is feminist - you are still relying on men for money, and making yourself Into an object instead of a human. I mean, once you grow out of youth and can't take mens money for an Income, then what? Proves you still can't make it in life without a man for income. Plus, to cause pain to other women by giving yourself to married men, then say you are a feminist? You are legit HURTING other women and proud of it??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:30 PM
76

It infuriates me this was downvoted. Society really has gotten brainwashed and porn-sick. I weep for my children - especially my daughter who will likely never know what mutual sexual pleasure is like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:27 PM
98

Right? And men give birth to babies - i like telling fiction too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:14 PM
31

I see more balding men with beer bellies than I do unattractive women. Redpillers tell themselves this lie to cope. Gives them hope maybe one day some 20-something model will actually wanna f*ck him. It doesn't happen.
/r/ExRedPill18/10/20 04:33 PM
2

Yes, he is saying to "stomp" on TERFS - a slur used against women who are uncomfortable with self - ID, sharing single sex spaces with biological males (in tact transwomen), having trans women compete in women's athletics etc... these women, in their mind, deserve to be stomped on. These women, are not doing what society and men expect of them- to just be quiet, be kind, and be a sex object.Out-spoken feminists who speak out of the very real dangers of self-ID, get threatened and abused into sub…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 06:54 AM
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How can he say they have no insight? I mean, once you sheep all open your eyes to the fact that FeMaLeS only fck Chad, not their looksmatch, you will see our oppression. FeMaLeS are whres, but they won't have sex with me! Its bc I am a Beta, and FeMaLeS only want Alpha Chads cock carocels! But once they hit their 30s, all FeMaLeS want to use us betas for all of our money - those gold digging whres! Expect us to pay and raise chads spawn, bc FeMaLeS become nasty, used up Arby's roast beef sandwic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:14 AM
36

My BF takes an SSRI. Tbh, its been very hard, and pretty much the only issue in our relationship He is HV, but the sexaul side effects of those drugs affect more than just the person taking them, and I wish doctors would talk about this before prescribing. My bf can orgasm, however it will only happen if its been several days. His erections can be hard to maintain, and his libido is pretty low considering he is a guy. I mean, at least he never pressures me for sex or only thinks of his peen lol …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:17 PM
12

Lol! I just finished posting multiple replies to this post. When will men realize that their fragile egos are dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:00 PM
2

Or gets sick. Then, they leave their sick wife..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:28 PM
2

Yep. How is it "empowering" to take part in the deception and pain of another woman?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:22 PM
1

I have lost respect for Margaret Atwood..she has fallen victim to the TWAW mantra and have out biological women second to transwomen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 08:47 PM
5

Uh, he realizes its men who feel entitled- entitled to our bodies if they buy us dinner. Also, sounds like this douche isn't doing nice things for his fiancee out of the goodness of his hearts- its bc he wants the brownie points and to feel good about himself. Like he i doing some huge favour. He is actually pretty selfish- sounding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:22 AM
2

Love this. Explains things perfectly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:48 PM
33

They think more with their little head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:02 PM
61

Bet when these MRAs that bitch about not seeing their kids, ignored their children for vidya games when they were married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:57 PM
70

I cannot stand the victim mentality when it comes to family court. "Boo hoo, women are favored and custody all the time" Yet, actual stats show that if dad wants 50/50, he will almost always get it. They want to gloss over the fact most men do not want their kids 50/50, some hand over their parental rights by choice, and most are too damn lazy to fight for 50/50. Just entitled and expect it to be handed to them- Can't be bothered with their kids. Courts don't favour women, its just likely mom wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:51 PM
48

Don't forget "sweet, compassionate AND supermodel hot - thats virginal , but performs like a pornstar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:04 AM
8

Vile! Just VILE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:41 PM
8

This is rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:29 PM
2

I had to leave that sub. Its pathetic. The porn sick losers are all over that sub too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:12 PM
52

This. There is a lot of silencing of women. Feminism is back tracking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:13 PM
20

Omg, men like him exist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:11 PM
50

Limp- dick, porn sick..goes limp bc he cannot abuse you during sex like porn stars get abused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:56 AM
22

Men are allowed to jerk off to porn on the daily, otherwise it makes you "insecure" apparently. But, a woman using a dildoe, and actually getting pleasure and an orgasms is baaaad 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:53 AM
19

Brainwashing. Thats how. Poor girls will never know pleasurable sex that benefits women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 10:44 PM
18

All women suffer bc of porn. Bc of porn, we get limp-dicked, porn sick men, men who abuse us during sex and think its normal. Men are becoming horrible, selfish lovers bc of porn, and more men sexually objectify us, see us as not human, and lack empathy for us. Porn hurts all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:27 PM
22

The one that drowns is usually the woman..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:52 PM
2

The ugly guys want to play they field too, so they just lie and manipulate to get what they want. I never went after "hot" guys when I was single, bc I believed this myth. Every mediocre guy I dated, ended that they were just doing as every guy does - manipulate and lie for sex. String along. My bf now is the one really attractive guy I agreed to meet. Been together 2.5 years. No stringing along..he treats me well and appreciates me. Ugly guys wanna feel like the hot guys that can bang anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:48 PM
6

He sees you as an object..why he only compliments your looks, and doesn't try to get to know you as a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 04:38 PM
15

The one I have gotten a lot "you are so insecure" Or, "you must be PMSing"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:01 PM
55

But, but, the incels aren't getting their bangmaids anymore- where's their rights to sex? Soooo oppressed! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:04 PM
5

To be fair, I don't consider myself a single parent. I give high props to the moms that have kids with absent dads. Those ladies are the real heroes. At least my kids have their dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:37 AM
13

I bet married women are more prone to depression from burn out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:11 PM
15

Men claim "parental alientation" before ever admitting they suck as a parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:17 AM
83

His life unchanged? No, its easier for married men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:03 AM
91

As someone who left their hubby with three small kids - please leave! I have 50/50 custody. He was forced to parent, I get a breather. Life is easier as a single mother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:00 AM
38

There were better men then. Not porn-sick and addicted to the vidya games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:24 PM
147

"I like her bc she is supportive of ME" Pretty typical of men - 'me me me me" Wonder what she gets out of the relationship? She gets to be used and abused I bet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:08 PM
41

I am in a fb group called "a group where men compliment eachother for no reason" I love it. Gives me hope for humanity. Those guys are against toxic masculinity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:46 PM
17

Look up radical feminist. More the old school feminism that doesn't cater to men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:35 PM
9

Could be. I was banned too. Same with breakingmom . It actually said I was banned bc I post here. Mind you, on my other account I was banned from here and not sure why...maybe bc I posted on breakingmom?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:33 PM
18

Amen. "Its wrong to kink-shame and A-ok to enjoy being beat up during sex" Tee hee hee. Do I have male approval yet??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:32 PM
41

Liberal feminism is not real feminism. Liberal feminist are more concerned about men getting their fetishes satisfied than women's rights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:30 PM
27

This is why I was banned. Because I am against porn and didn't think a transwomen would have had the same experiences as other women growing up. Apparently that makes me transphobic and unaccepting. I mean, it was a post about being sexualized at young ages. Me, a woman, with woman experiences, banned from a feminist site while men post all the time.(no, not transwomen, actual men). I support trans rights before I get banned from reddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:26 PM
23

I too am banned from feminism. Welcome to the club! Men get to post on feminist subs more than women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:21 PM
5

So, they are basically calling themselves unevolved bafoons?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:06 PM
21

I agree with you. But the rest of brainwashed, porn-sick society will blast us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 04:19 PM
18

I had to check out her Twitter. Not gonna lie, kinda disappointed she is promoting a fundraiser for onlyfans. I mean, its probably the safest sex work, but I still have strong feelings about self-objectifying and taking part in deception that hurts other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:45 PM
104

"Don't want no short-dick man" Ah, the 90s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:12 AM
35

"BoYz WiLl Be BoYz "🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 06:14 AM
14

When I was married, the excuse was "I dont see what needs to be done, just tell me" "i never do anything right anyway" and "just leave it and relax, why don't u relax " During marriage counseling, my homework to actually make him a list of chores for the week like he was a child. It lasted less than a month. I was resentful and he didn't believe me that what I wrote was only half - he ripped up the list. We are divorced. He has the kids 50 percent of the time, and after splitting up he "realizes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 11:03 PM
16

Ya, they feel inadequate because they are. They do not want to put any effort into changing their inadequacy. They have this entitlement which makes them think everything should just be dropped on their laps. A lot of men are just lazy and selfish. Full stop. Too lazy to be a good lover - rather jerk to porn. Too lazy to pull off post-secondary. Too lazy to go to the gym. Too lazy to go to therapy. Too lazy to do any emotional/mental labour. But, they do seem to find the time and energy for vide…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 09:45 AM
12

He is a pig. Block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 02:09 AM
22

Free sex. She needs self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:58 AM
8

He text this and immediately jerked off. He's so edgy and the dirty talk/knowing you actually were discusted by it, was just a powerplay. He felt in control not giving u the option to hear about his dick. Turn on for him. These are the rapey dudes who don't care about consent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:41 AM
11

The answer is: Sex. The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:30 AM
14

"FeMaLeS are all sl*ts who will only sleep with CHAD..even ugly FeMaLeS below ChADs looks match will only have sex with CHAD! I hate FeMaLes! 20 percent of men get 80 percent of FeMaLeS..blah blah blah, something something, all FeMaLeS fault blah blah blah" Incels blame women for the fact that CHADS have sex with women under their league. How is that a womans fault? They never seem to want to place any blame on these CHADS for using/manipulating these women for sex. Pretty sure if a woman was go…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 05:57 AM
97

I would reply acting insulted. "I'm not like other girls? But girls are so awesome. They are funny, caring, loyal, hardworking? You saying I am not like that?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:52 PM
16

Ya, he is also full of shit when he says he is looking for something serious. He's serious about getting a number in his phone to hit up when his dick wants wet. I have far more respect for men who say straight up they are only looking for sex. These other losers are manipulative, lying scum. These same men will also ask about body count and think women who have a high body count are trash. Yet its these f*ckers who cause it. Also, ask him how he could possibly enjoy having sex with someone he h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 08:27 PM
40

Men have little empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:17 PM
6

Men expect women/feminist to fix their issues and fight for their rights.. Men will whine there are no shelters for men, but DO nothing to get them or fight for them. Just complain women have shelters, but disregard the years of fighting women did to get them. Should just fall into their laps like everything else has in history..or have women take care of their issues while they play video games.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:15 PM
45

Did you ask him if he is ready for child-support payments?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:46 PM
8

I actually respect this more than the A-holes that lie and manipulate to get laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:45 PM
12

Hook ups only work for men, because they always get their orgasm. I am willing to bet most women who have casual sex are not having good sex. Hook up sex is being a masturbation tool for a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:43 PM
18

"I am sorry I said I wanted a relarionship, I really just lied to get laid"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:34 PM
9

An example: Woman opens up about a violent rape/sexual assault she has survived. She talks about the emotional,.mental, physical, spiritual damage it has caused her. How 20 years later she still feels broken or damaged or violated - She speaks of the PTSD, depression, anxiety she now lives with on the daily bc of the rape/assault. Man responds "NOT ALL MEN"! However, a rare, false rape accusation shows up in the headline (men consider any report that does not lead to jail time as a false accusat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 01:47 PM
1

Where is the update with comments?! I'm invested now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:39 AM
31

As soon as any guy told me "they CARED about me", I bailed. Thats code for "I like u enough to fuck, but not love or commit to"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:43 PM
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I mean, they wouldn't just show their dick to women in the real world, in fact, its illegal. So why do it online? Its the only way he will ever get a girl to see his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:13 PM
9

Man who expects a housewife AND for her to pay half the mortgage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:05 PM
4

They have a beautiful family 🧡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:28 PM
28

They are watching porn and playing video games while they sponge off their parents.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:34 AM
20

When men realize they can't get the nightly one-night stands with women who look and act like porn stars that they were hoping for, they always come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:20 AM
40

Pretty poor grammer and punctuation for an accountant. How dumb do they think we are??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:47 PM
10

They want one younger than high-school even - they just cant legally. You can bet if the age of consemt was 13, these sick f*cks would be all over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 01:35 AM
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We are supposed to "sacrifice" - be angels that care only about others, otherwise we are selfish, a bitch, a nag, a c*nt...miss any??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:37 AM
8

Actually, I am a nurse. He was a relative of one of my patients. 😬😮 This patient spent a long time on my unit. After she finally went home, I got a friend request from her a year later. I had said I wasn't sure what the rules were on patient/nurse social media. She had already looked up the college of nurses rules and apparently was ok to do. Then, she made a set up. We bonded over our mutual terrible online dating experiences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 10:03 PM
18

My black cat is honestly the most friendly, patient, affectionate cat I have ever owned. Love him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:33 AM
5

This is embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:09 AM
39

So, when I started dating my current bf, I was still a bit of pickmeisha, and I was ignorant to the porn industry and porn addiction. I would jokingly ask my bf "so, what kinda porn have u been watching to get off?" He dead faced said "none, I don't need porn". I thought he was full of it. I put porn on one night for some fun, he legit did not look interested and asked me to turn it off. Said again, he doesn't need porn, he has me. Still not believing him, I checked his wide open phone - nothing…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:02 AM
23

I fell for the "lets just take it slow" and "lets see what happens" that men would manipulate me with (of course, we were still having sex while taking it slow), and I actually learned that BS before FDS. It was nice to see other women who saw the manipulations too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:15 AM
4

Ew. 40 year olds that hit on 15 year olds. Predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:44 AM
3

I tried to be the "cool girl" for two years. He was dating two of us, and I just figured he would choose me eventually! I undstood, I was cool! This ruined me. Ruined my self worth, made me crazy, I cried more in those two years than I think I had in my entire life before. Only, I finally grew a brain and realized he was never gonna choose just one. Why would he? He had two girls fighting over him, and fucking him. I finally text other girl (bc we had many convos, she was a cool girl too) to tel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:22 AM
7

He wants what you are giving him, he doesn't want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 05:29 PM
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