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QUEEN SH*Tthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 10:12 PM
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#KickHimOut2020throwaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:17 PM
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STRATEGYthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:31 PM
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THE AUDACITY OF SCROTESthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 08:36 PM
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NAH, SISthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:22 AM
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#JustLVMThingsthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:16 PM
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SCROTES MADthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:15 PM
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DUMP HIS ASSthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 11:21 PM
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How-To High Valuethrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:15 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?throwaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:51 PM
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LIES MEN TELLthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 08:07 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:55 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:25 PM
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RANTthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 10:11 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:50 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:26 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:04 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?throwaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:47 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:03 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:01 PM
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throwaway23004345/r/askFDS02/07/21 01:56 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?throwaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:34 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:21 AM
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DUMP HIS ASSthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:19 PM
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STRATEGYthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:55 PM
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Story time ☕throwaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 10:42 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:29 AM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:53 PM
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throwaway23004345/r/askFDS09/11/20 05:25 PM
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RED FLAG 🚨throwaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:12 PM
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NOTHING BUT FACTSthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:11 AM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:42 PM
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STRATEGYthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 06:59 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:42 PM
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SCROTES MADthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:06 AM
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throwaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:59 AM
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throwaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 11:51 PM
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NAH, SISthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 08:24 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:18 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:54 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 05:46 PM
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DISCUSSIONthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:06 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEthrowaway23004345/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:53 AM
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I’d say it’s a red flag. Any guy that doesn’t understand the dangers of women shouldnt be dating. A guy walking to your car is bare minimum
/r/askFDS09/10/21 06:44 PM
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Yea it’s lvm behavior. Drop him
/r/askFDS17/07/21 09:41 PM
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Yea I feel the same way.. there simply aren’t enough men that pursue irl (hv or lv) ppl here are going to tell you to join interests or volunteer
/r/askFDS08/07/21 05:24 PM
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I didn’t read the whole thing but why are you talking to someone so much older than you? Please stop and he’s a loser for ever pursuing you Edit: please respect yourself… he’s a dickhead but he’s right that you need to live your life and block him. He keeps lovebombing you and you keep accepting
/r/askFDS08/07/21 02:36 PM
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I’ve seen two therapists before but they really didn’t do much for me tbh… but thanks for your comment
/r/askFDS02/07/21 02:26 PM
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I actually work a normal 8-4 but office jobs really do drain you mentally… by the time I’m home I’m either napping, at the gym, reading or mess around on my phone until it’s time for bed but really I’m up until 2am
/r/askFDS02/07/21 02:24 PM
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I think as you get older age gap in terms of “manipulation” matters less but then you don’t wanna take care of a old hag either.. I’m 28 and my bro is 4 years old then me.. for me I think I would be able to take 5-8 years age difference at MOST
/r/askFDS28/06/21 08:34 PM
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Hi! For a call I normally just make sure I don’t get any creepy vibes and make sure they can carry a convo. One guy I called was giggling a lot and we just didn’t connect. You can always just block them and say something like “hi I had fun speaking to you but I don’t think we are compatible and I don’t want to waste anyone’s time” or something a long those lines.
/r/askFDS10/06/21 04:55 PM
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I feel the same way… bc I’m banned from tinder and hinge so I’m lonely (not like those apps are good anyway) I don’t come from a good family and I’ve tried doing activities to make connections but it’s not easy to make close friends.. if you wanna message feel free
/r/askFDS28/05/21 01:57 AM
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Girl run
/r/askFDS21/05/21 09:28 PM
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I didn’t read the whole thing of this non sense. Break up, why are you dealing with this
/r/askFDS21/05/21 03:47 PM
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The other commenter is right. Inviting someone to your apartment is an invitation for sex. Just bc you’re both young and inexperienced that doesn’t mean he won’t try to start sex. Just bc you’ve known him a year and it’s lockdown doesn’t mean anything either. You seem naive
/r/askFDS30/04/21 12:31 PM
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This post came at the perfect time bc I’m 28 and feel the same way. I’m still a Virgin, haven’t had a bf or even a real date with someone my own age. I know everyone says “you’re not missing out” “better to be single than with a lvm” etc which is true but I’m still a human being. There aren’t many great men out there and it’s a shame. I wish I had something empowering or positive to say but I don’t. All I can say is that you’re not alone.
/r/askFDS23/04/21 03:13 PM
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It’s an invitation for sex, block him
/r/askFDS16/04/21 09:57 PM
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That’s bc men compartmentalize and don’t invest more then the woman emotionally
/r/askFDS08/04/21 02:59 PM
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How many times are you gonna ask the same question
/r/askFDS08/04/21 12:03 PM
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Or bc he doesn’t know how to handle conflict. You’re still blaming yourself
/r/askFDS08/04/21 03:09 AM
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I was quoting things you said.. you liked him more than he liked you. If he wanted to work things out you he would’ve. You put too much weight into his words
/r/askFDS08/04/21 03:07 AM
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Yes being an angry drunk isn’t a good idea either but we all make mistakes.
/r/askFDS08/04/21 02:59 AM
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You’ve asked this question 10 times. Men just say shit just to shut women up. And look how it drives you nuts. You knew him for two months? You were still in the honeymoon phase and look at how quickly he folded after a fight. Forget that you’ve met his family etc if a “partner” can survive a whole week without you then he is single and so are you
/r/askFDS08/04/21 02:57 AM
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I understand it is a L and still fresh but you will have to learn to get past it. Bc right now you are blaming yourself.. if he comes back in a few months (bc he is bored not bc he missed you) he will see your weak spot and use it against you
/r/askFDS08/04/21 02:52 AM
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Again you act like men are communicative of their feelings. Stop projecting your best qualities on to men. He doesn’t care bc he doesn’t care
/r/askFDS08/04/21 02:50 AM
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You’ve asked this question several times and you are driving yourself crazy. Please stop. And from what I can tell you weren’t exclusive but you were definitely more invested then him.
/r/askFDS08/04/21 02:48 AM
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Welcome to men. They win bc they detach quickly. You seem to think men think like women
/r/askFDS08/04/21 02:38 AM
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You keep going in to circles with the other commenters and try to convince yourself that he cares. He doesn’t.... he hasnt spoken to you in a week... take a hint
/r/askFDS08/04/21 12:42 AM
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It looks like you have a sunk cost fallacy bc he would “win” if you broke him with him and men are too cowardly to break up with women.... you need to get away from him and get into some serious therapy for your self esteem. You would win bc you would’ve gotten away from someone so awful. Edit: there is nothing you can do to “punish” him for his abusive behaviors. Unless you have evidence/pics of him physically abusing you
/r/askFDS02/04/21 11:15 PM
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Sure it goes you the signs of it and some steps but you have to have the will power to break love addiction just like anything else
/r/askFDS13/03/21 10:29 PM
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I think you should try the book “women who love too much” bc love addiction is a real thing
/r/askFDS13/03/21 08:51 PM
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I’m 28F and a Virgin and I don’t plan on telling a guy ever. They don’t need to know. As far as knowing his exes etc he could always lie. You could do your best to research him without asking him directly but there are no guarantees, you just have to vet
/r/askFDS10/03/21 01:41 PM
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You can read the handbook but basically women do more “work” in a relationship (giving birth, emotional labor, chores, time and money to get ready. Also as women we are disadvantaged bc we get paid less on a dollar. A man being a full provider puts more skin in the game too. Imo I don’t mind playing for dates occasionally or gifts etc but i def won’t be spilling regular bills
/r/askFDS22/02/21 03:47 AM
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Stop expecting closures from men. And besides he’s just a “friend” and not even your bf. You’re reading too much in to this
/r/askFDS11/02/21 02:06 PM
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I think it’s too young for either one of you to get married. It seems like you’re on the path of codependency trying to fix him
/r/askFDS03/02/21 07:43 PM
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Honestly just block him, you have to learn to be a bit of a “bitch” If I’ve learned anything from men is that they don’t feel guilty and neither should you
/r/askFDS03/02/21 02:21 PM
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Honestly I don’t think you have anywhere to go from here... you say you aren’t scared to lose him but when you say you don’t know anyone else and you depend on him for your social needs, you are scared to lose him and be alone
/r/askFDS03/02/21 04:35 AM
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I understand as women we are conditioned to it. But you deserve to be with someone who keeps their word and he clearly doesn’t So NEXT Edit: you can just block him. Things fizzle out all the time, it’s not a big deal
/r/askFDS01/02/21 09:42 PM
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Honestly just drop him. You don’t need to put so much energy into this
/r/askFDS01/02/21 09:33 PM
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I mean I don’t think there is much you can do besides divorce. Personally I think couples therapy is a scam bc men hardly put in the work. You’re still young with no kids
/r/askFDS01/02/21 02:47 PM
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I think being an actual Sikh person and google helps 🙄 how the hell are you gonna try to tell me about my own religion? Please save it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:41 AM
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If you knew anything about Indian history Hindus have a long history of committing war crimes and genocide against Sikhs but never mind...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:30 AM
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https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna41263508 https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.sacbee.com/news/politics-government/election/presidential-election/article246281370.html https://www.marijuanamoment.net/kamala-harris-dodges-question-about-marijuana-criticism-from-tulsi-gabbard/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 03:22 AM
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Just bc we are dating that doesn’t mean that we are dating “lvm” you just assume we automatically have low standards 🙄 many HV ppl are socializing right now within reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 12:18 AM
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Read any article that experts wrote. Covid will last many many years. Even with a vaccine we still have to wear masks and social distance. And we aren’t saying just date whatever man comes along.... but there’s no way you can expect a population to go that long without dating/meeting new ppl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:26 PM
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He’s an alcoholic and a flake 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/askFDS18/01/21 10:28 PM
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He sounds like Chris brown 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/21 10:43 PM
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I see what you mean.. I guess my problem is that I don’t trust judgement bc I’m really naive and was never really taught anything about dating and never had a good experience with dating at a young age. I only go on two dates a year bc I get so exhausted by men and I seldom find anyone even worth the time to get ready for... but then I get bored and I guess that’s how the i let the bad ones in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:43 PM
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I learned not to share that anymore (had to learn the hard way) and honestly I can’t find my quality men to date bc OLD is trash and I don’t have a friend network
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:39 PM
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I do journal and I spiral really bad and end up over thinking myself to a bad mood bc of what men have said to me about my age, weight (underweight) and calling me basic etc and I still get angry when I think about it. Imo coffee dates are too cheap bc I don’t spend so much time getting ready just to go on a $3 coffee date. I just think it’s too late for me to really play the field etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 11:03 PM
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Men could easily hire maids if they wanted to. They’re not even that expensive to come by once a week or every other week.... they’re just cheap. A man shouldn’t be marrying you for your “maid skills” anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:49 PM
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I think ppl are overly harsh on Lori. Yes future wasn’t a keeper but Lori never took him seriously anyway. She had her fun and dipped. She’s not super attached to future and didn’t have his baby. He is a fboy but he didn’t damaged lori like most fuckboys do. With Michael b Jordan I don’t see it it lasting long either. Not every relationship women enter into has to turn in to marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:47 PM
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It’s not about the number of years (like 3 in this case) it’s about the specific age and where you are in life. There are miles between 19/22. A 19 year old isn’t a graduate yet, hasn’t traveled much, hasn’t read much or really learned about themselves etc. >22 men are working and establishing their finances etc. and besides you shouldn’t have much in common with a teen anyway. Now if this was 30-33 then that would be different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 05:58 PM
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I agree which is why #9 hit me a lot bc I hate being new ppl bc I’m not that social so I think I put a lot of pressure on myself and I don’t know what exactly a good man looks like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:03 PM
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Girl drop him yesterday
/r/askFDS13/01/21 02:21 PM
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Yea it’s a red flag bc he can’t relate to women his own age. I was totally different at 20 and I’m 28 now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 02:19 PM
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I feel the same way at 28 but I would try not to be hard on yourself and try to date casually once covid is over and have standards and boundaries. It’s better to learn at a younger age imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:35 PM
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Pardon me if I’m prying bc I’m in the same boat as him but do you mean he is guarded or you take the lead in a lot of things ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:01 PM
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Honestly I wished I dated more in my early 20s and 20s in general. I’ll prob be 30 by the time covid ends, so two years wasted lol majority of my “dates” were awful and I didn’t have a date until 26 and he was a 50/50. I’m not saying woman need to have serious commitments but date casually and don’t accept dust. I wish I did more and now it feels too late bc I don’t know how to emotionally connect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 10:34 PM
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Honestly I hate first dates bc men are so cheap and mostly 50-50 dusties. Most just want a pen pal. Even then I can’t go on a date every week bc I find socializing exhausting. But then I get bored and lonely 😩 I’ve only had one older dude pay for dinner. He didn’t do anything wrong but I won’t date much older. But I know men in their 20s won’t pay for dinner. So it’s pretty lose lose imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:29 PM
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This is why I only had two female roommates. They were cool and they actually appreciated my communication skills. Men are insufferable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:12 PM
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Honestly tho. I have very limited dating experience and they have all gone poorly. I wished I dated more in my early 20s but dating apps weren’t big and I didn’t dorm so I didn’t get to socialize with my peers.. no guy never asked me out on a day and now I’m too inexperienced to date at this age Edit : typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 12:16 AM
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Unfollowing doesn’t mean shit 😂 she has the lowest self esteem of any girl alive and she had a baby with Travis Scott 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:56 AM
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Chile I saw this too but didn’t comment bc I don’t want to come across as a hater... but I’m glad someone agrees 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:06 AM
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Chile this is why you don’t date down. I hope she breaks up with him soon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 09:20 PM
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i think the abortion, marriage and the exes is a bit much for a first date. also the the interior design thing. this feels like a bit of an interrogation tbh. yea you should find them out later down the line but its a bit much for a first interaction
/r/askFDS05/01/21 02:52 PM
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I don’t understand straight ppl sometimes .... like how can you be with someone who doesn’t even care that you eat?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:17 PM
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I need to use this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:53 PM
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This is on my reading list. I’m listening to Obama’s new book but once I’m done I’ll be listening to this next !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:54 PM
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Girl it’s been 5 years and he will never marry you.... move on. You have a sunk cost mentality and things won’t improve just bc you decide to stay. Even before the pandemic he was lazy and selling you fake dreams.
/r/askFDS29/12/20 07:00 PM
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Meaning you’re blinded by “love”
/r/askFDS29/12/20 04:12 PM
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This is high alarming.. even he knows the age gap is creepy bc no woman his own age wants him. And your standards are super low if you let this slide. He is not an amazing or sweet guy
/r/askFDS29/12/20 04:09 PM
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You’re doing way too much for a guy who isn’t even your bf. You’re not his therapist. And you haven’t even met him? It’s a no from me dawg
/r/askFDS29/12/20 04:58 AM
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I need to be friends with these girls 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:53 AM
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I think most ppl would consider it a red flag. For me I don’t have any close IRL friends bc I’m depressed and I don’t step outside my comfort zone enough. I only have two close friends I met through social media. Idk about him and I don’t wanna make assumptions but it’s something worth looking in to
/r/askFDS28/12/20 04:45 AM
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You are right. Along with the other commenters I will add that women are just be better rounded people. Most women are intelligent, thoughtful, kind, workout, fashionable, do skincare, makeup etc We want to earn and be the best versions of ourselves. We want to read and gain knowledge/insight etc. Men on the other hand are entitled, they think they deserve a great women when they can barely keep a job or a intellectual convo. Men are seldom a complete package
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:23 PM
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I think bc men invest very little to FWB. They don’t take us out, pay our bills and booty call us at 2am expecting us to come over like free hookers. Also women release some chemical (I forgot the name) during sex so we can emotionally bond but men don’t experience that same thing which leaves women in a vulnerable position. And if we say no men can always use force and rape women... so the cards are stacked against women with FWB
/r/askFDS26/12/20 09:00 PM
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Oh yea nothing immature / childish. Some literary fiction, or self help / non fiction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:28 PM
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Exactly! And I like listening to books to while I’m working/driving bc I could finish maybe one book a week like that. Also I like men you can actually have intellectual discussions with and books give you that ability
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:05 PM
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Along with what everyone else mentioned I don’t think I can be with someone who doesn’t like to read/learn. I’m not saying you have to be the biggest bookworm but you should atleast enjoy reading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:56 PM
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Mindy Kaling project
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 12:42 PM
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I know I might come across as an incel or pick me whatever but feeling unwanted is prob the root of my depression tbh. Bc I don’t go out enough and meet new ppl I allow bad ppl in if that makes sense... and this year has been so frustrating bc I couldn’t meet new ppl either Urgh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 03:25 AM
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I’m 28 and on the same boat. A lot of times I feel unwanted bc I don’t understand why I can’t just meet a decent man but tbh their are many males but not too many HVM. So most of the commenters will tell you to keep your standards and vet etc. also you mentioned you are religious so maybe you could try church or bible group etc if you want to do after marriage
/r/askFDS19/12/20 10:04 PM
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Since lockdown I’ve made a bff, got a pay raise and got a trainer to gain muscle. And what has he done? Oh yeah be a waste of space 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 08:18 PM
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I have to use that line 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:52 PM
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Smd 😘😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 12:46 AM
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God forbid smth like this happens to their daughters 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 12:36 AM
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I can also relate to this. Besides touch, I am affection and appreciation deprived too. So I would cling on to whatever compliment a LVM would give me and I still hate myself for being so dumb/naive bc I was so desperate. I still have those desperate tendencies ish but I don’t act on them now bc I’m pretty much done with men and there is covid. They say to try new hobbies and expand your social circle but it is hard when I’m depressed and anxious. So sorry I can’t offer help but you’re not the o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:24 PM
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Please leave! It will only get worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:19 AM
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Men are the cause to women’s poor mental health (abuse, under appreciated, 50/50 etc) and they expect us to care about them.... no thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:31 AM
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A man giving their woman gifts is pretty standard in relationships. Do you even know what sugaring is?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 12:09 AM
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I understand what you mean! It varies person to person. Jewelry is a good investment too (as long as it’s not some pandora non sense). I’m personally not a hike person so that’s not my thing but it could be yours! Experiences are good too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:41 PM
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Yea I think what you said is reasonable for a young person. I’m a bit older so for a gift I’d at least expect a bag or some shoes bc I have bought those for myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:16 PM
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It depends I guess. If you’re young (under 25) then I don’t think you should expect expensive gifts unless they are super rich or come from a rich family. But I would say atleast a few grand over time. Dates, gifts, quality time, gas it takes to get to you etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 08:07 PM
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Real question: what’s the problem with Jordan Peterson? He created mgtow? Red pill? I’d say Robert Greene books
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 02:01 PM
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Oh I meant that women tend not to marry again if their husband dies but men don’t grieve and find a replacement quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:59 PM
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There’s a reason why men aren’t considered widows like women are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 08:08 PM
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Girl stop there’s a reason why he didn’t tell you his age. Ever comment coming up will tell you the downfalls of age gaps. Quit while you’re ahead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:02 AM
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I stopped at BWW 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:05 AM
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The age difference is enough for me. Didn’t even have to keep reading
/r/askFDS07/12/20 02:36 AM
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I said this on that post and got downvoted 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 01:00 AM
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She seems like a sweetheart! Men are never this considerate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 05:56 PM
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If the party is all girls and the hostess spent a lot of time cooking then I have no problem helping clean the dishes etc... male host: I don’t think so 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:10 AM
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Yea i hate when men say women have a easier time when most of them are trash anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 09:09 PM
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I got banned from tinder after two days 😂😂 it’s trash anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:10 AM
253

Finally a story that ends well 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:46 AM
1

Along with the other comments: limit yourself to two hours and don’t go to his house or car or anywhere alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:07 AM
206

Boyfriends get too much credit anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:10 PM
2

Jesus Christ at least ask for real diamonds and not some $49 shit... 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:46 PM
37

Either too little or too much ambition... bitch shut up 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 10:36 PM
6

It’s sucks how addicted I am to my phone.... but I try to space it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 05:41 AM
60

No not for religious reasons. Basically I’m south Asian so I was really sheltered so I wasn’t allowed to really go out etc like normal college kids. And after college I just got deeply depressed (and still am) so I don’t go out often. The few experiences I’ve had with men have been bad so I guess I’m just bitter and jaded towards men at this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 11:23 PM
56

I’m 28 and a virgin and I’ve regretted telling guys... so I’m definitely taking this advice. I will I guess try not to come across as too nervous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 10:48 PM
53

Actually there is bone marrow research shows you don’t even need Sperm to reproduce 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:44 AM
11

It seems like you wrote a whole long winded answer to justify to yourself to settle
/r/askFDS25/11/20 01:39 AM
39

28 here lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:02 AM
60

I’m glad you wrote this down and put it into perspective! Bc honestly that’s a Chanel bag right there 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:01 AM
1

I agree to its better to be alone than be when a lvm but I’m saying is that women don’t have a large selection to choose from. Which is why many seemly great women are single bc they can’t find their equal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:21 PM
2

I got the small! Tbh it’s a cute bag but you can’t fit much in it. But it’s Chanel so I put up with it 😩 and I don’t carry much anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 07:32 PM
6

Along with these comments I would say to try to understand men/dating game/reading in between the lines. I’m 28 and I learned too late so don’t be like me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:25 PM
14

I disagree with the second statement. It is much harder for women to find a HVM than it is for a man to find a HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 06:23 PM
9

Men aren’t capable of deep love and compassion the way women are.... they just aren’t built like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 03:49 AM
36

There isn’t a special club where HVM hang out. The chances of you meeting one is slim. A lot of people are saying work but that could go left really quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:51 AM
41

I’m so sorry that happened to you. You did the right thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 10:06 PM
1

You know I’ve been feeling bored and lonely lately and sometimes I consider making an online profile and then I remember men are like this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 09:54 PM
9

I’m a older virgin (28) and I know for sure I would never tell anyone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 08:49 PM
4

That’s awesome! I got myself the mini lady Dior for my bday 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:00 PM
16

God no I didn’t buy that tacky color 😂 it’s a beige classic flap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:52 PM
73

I have a Chanel bag and I promise you I didn’t fuck an old man for it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:35 AM
12

Being straight is a curse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 12:10 AM
19

As a brown girl this triggers me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 02:36 PM
51

Men are too lazy to divorce. Even if they don’t like you they will keep you around as a bangmaid plus men don’t breakup until they have a replacement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:02 PM
69

80% of divorces are filed by women so marriage rarely benefits us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 03:07 PM
40

Marriage benefits men and kids 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 02:19 AM
39

I just looked up and she’s 56 😱 there’s no way she would’ve become vice if she was married at a younger age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 01:22 AM
24

Yea women are expected to leave their own families and sacrifice but men are still mommas boys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:22 PM
38

Brown men take their moms side always 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:58 AM
45

I thought we all knew this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:16 AM
2

Yea I’ve learned from my mistake and I won’t tell any man. I guess I don’t want to “appear” a Virgin so that makes me nervous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:25 PM
3

Hi I know this wasn’t directed at me but I feel the same way. Even at the small chance I do come across someone HV I probably still wouldn’t tell him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 02:00 PM
1

I tried a year younger and it was awful lol plus I’m not a social person so I don’t get out often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 01:18 PM
44

I’m an older virgin (28) and I’m glad you didn’t give in to his creepy moves! But yea I’m just repulsed by men now so I don’t see myself being intimate with one bc of my bad experiences
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:11 PM
3

Yea but the good men are gone at this age lol and sex isn’t honored anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 06:58 PM
10

Yea everyone says that lol but men don’t think like that bc hooking up with a women these days is pretty easy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:15 PM
112

Me being a older virgin myself (28) stuff like this makes me nervous but I’m glad she left
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:05 AM
169

What is the point of being in a relationship if the other party won’t be there for you? Protect my ass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:24 AM
6

Even if it isn’t possible... wouldn’t you rather be single?
/r/askFDS09/11/20 09:23 PM
98

I see things like this and never want to date
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 08:40 PM
19

Girl you deserve better
/r/askFDS09/11/20 06:39 PM
5

10 hours ? You got love bombed
/r/askFDS09/11/20 05:26 PM
-10

Edit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:29 PM
8

My two online friends are cool and I would say they try to be HV. But they live far from me. The problem with brown girls is that we get repressed so much we become bitter (including me). But most ppl aren’t “HV” imo and it’s hard to find your tribe, if that makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:42 PM
8

Yea like I wish I had more travel/adventurous friends 😔 all they want to do is sit at home all day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 02:34 PM
11

I’m Indian but living in America, but I agree it’s hard to find high quality ppl around you. ESP Indian girls tend to be bitchy. I have two bffs but they are online. Even I struggle to make close connections IRL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 01:46 PM
3

Which most young ppl do... idk why I get downvoted bc this is so low effort, even for young ppl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:00 PM
16

Even a girl working minimum wage can afford these 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 04:39 PM
0

Hookup culture is toxic and the reason why men like this are entitled. Even with casual sex, men make very little effort bc they don’t need to anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:11 AM
-2

A man who asks for sex upfront is never respectful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 12:12 AM
-43

I don’t know why I got down voted. Tinder is a hookup app and why is she alone in a strangers apartment. I never said a man is entitled to sex from a woman. If he forced himself on her yes that would be rape.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 03:48 PM
2

Exactly and we need to change as women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 02:17 PM
10

Also why do women do men’s homework..... I doubt he is paying your tuition🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 01:21 AM
24

Tbh they mostly do and getting good grades is important and men bring them down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 08:02 PM
50

This is why I never had a bf through college.... df I look like and I’m a genius essay writer 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:56 PM
37

And look at how his wife got famous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 03:32 PM
75

Nudes are a no no period. Men are depraved. I’ve had a guy feel entitled to nudes too but I didn’t send anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:35 PM
13

I got everything from the first sentence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:53 PM
4

🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 03:57 PM
8

As an attorney how would you track someone down based on just a Venmo transaction? Bc I don’t see how you can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 10:04 PM
13

You can change that and make a “spam” Venmo and don’t put your real name. Even I didn’t put my real name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:53 PM
13

Yea but you can’t track down personal details. The most you can see is their username and they can easily block you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:39 PM
24

No I’m your bank account it will just say “Venmo transaction” you don’t know their bank account # or who they even bank with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 08:53 PM
39

How so? You could just block them. Serious q
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:51 PM
14

Totally unfair... she needs to run ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 01:01 PM
21

Read her post history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 11:06 PM
87

He’s 50-50 on everything else... why are you shocked ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:21 PM
6

Men never have all this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:53 PM
27

What business does a 23 year old have with a 17 year old.... he is taking advantage of your youth
/r/askFDS01/11/20 06:33 PM
14

Yea mom in laws are smth else and brown guys don’t wanna move or get their own place 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 08:09 PM
25

It’s so gross... I’m Indian myself and I would never marry an Indian man. They are just all around awful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:59 PM
40

That’s how Indian men are. They date around but the want a virginal wife 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 07:54 PM
18

Unless he spent over $10k on gifts for you, then I would never.... I’m assuming she makes under $100k so never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:04 PM
1

Why are you posting this?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 02:20 PM
7

I haven’t had apps all year and sometimes I’m tempted tbh but I know it’s not worth it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:55 PM
48

Yea Indian men are the worst of the lot (speaking as an Indian)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:43 AM
36

It’s for the video.... relax
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 11:44 PM
3

Nope bc you can outsource. You could even adopt a kid so men are pretty useless unless they want to provide
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 04:24 PM
12

Tbh there aren’t many HVM out there. And even then there isn’t a special place where they all hang out. ESP at 20 with the hookup culture. I’m almost 28 and haven’t been able to find anyone period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 09:55 PM
10

Getting a pedicure right now !! 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:51 PM
10

I’m almost 28 and idk I guess I’ve been depressed since 21-22. I have tried meds and therapy. I recently started to go to the gym since I’m underweight and even got a trainer. Atleast it gives me a goal and smth to fill my time with
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:59 PM
15

This is random but even when I’m not feeling sad sad per say, I don’t mind dying. No I don’t feel suicidal right now and I won’t do anything but even if I buy nice things or spend time with family or attempt hobbies etc I would be ok if I died rn. Idk it’s hard to explain
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 06:48 PM
31

Thanks for posting this! I agree it’s important to have support but it’s hard to find that as you get older that’s not online 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:20 AM
30

Lmao me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:04 PM
2

Red pill women is a hot mess, they banned me 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:25 PM
29

yea girl you are too young for this nonsense. yall are only 18 and he is already this controlling? yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:57 PM
24

Urgh girl how did you mess that up? Women would kill to have someone like this. No offense but damn. We all know good men are hard to come by
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:37 PM
71

The question is where do you find these men? 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:52 PM
3

He did but what I am saying that even if he didn’t cheat Beyoncé still lives him more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 04:48 PM
3

Girl... Beyoncé is illiterate and uneducated and yes your public speaking skills is a way of assessing someone’s intelligence and Beyoncé is far from intelligent. She is behind in her peer group and can’t hold a conversation about serious topics or have good oratory skills. Even her dad Mathew said that she isn’t a good public speaker. Allegedly, Beyoncé can’t even read a restaurant menu (according to shallon) Beyoncé had written aid and still sounded awful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:58 AM
7

Beyoncé sounded like a robot when she was reading. You can tell she is slow. Beyoncé is far from educated. She never speaks with any raw emotion or conviction, that’s what I meant. Obama has spoken from TelePrompters too but you can tell he can speak from his mind too without much preparation, Beyoncé can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:18 AM
3

Oh yea for sure he groomed her but Beyoncé did fall for it bc she cares about her image and being ms perfect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:39 AM
35

Yea the Beyhive need to chill out sometimes even Beyoncé said I’m not God. She’s a talented lady but she has many issues
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:35 PM
55

Yea Beyoncé sounds like an airhead in her interviews. Even on IG when the BLM protests were happening she was reading off a card because she can’t articulate herself well on her own. Her parents and solange speak just fine publicly but Beyoncé is cringe to listen to in her interviews. It explains why she barely does interviews anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 08:30 PM
40

People forget that they have to maintain an image. Beyoncé tries to be ms perfect when she can’t even finish a sentence properly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 06:35 PM
20

Beyoncé turns into a school girl when she talks about him, her eyes light up. Jay z only recently starting calling Beyoncé is wife publicly in recent years. I’m sure being private was his idea too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:32 PM
53

If anything single women are much happier than single men 😂🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:04 PM
22

It’s sad though bc Beyoncé clearly loves jay z more than he loves her, even if he never cheated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:25 PM
39

Do you want to go out in nature alone with a guy you just met and end up on the evening news?
/r/askFDS09/10/20 02:45 AM
3

Jesus Christ this is too much work which is why I don’t bother with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 04:30 PM
32

Bc they are pornsick and entitled 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:47 PM
36

I spend that on shoes... NEXT 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:44 PM
74

The whole point of a ring is to show that a Man can provide for you.... not this childish shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:28 PM
123

My bro spent $20k and this man spends $20 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 07:24 PM
29

I only have one BJ and never again... idc if we are married. Don’t give these men shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 08:04 PM
2

Yea you’re right imo I don’t think anyone should be dating under 22 bc of how trash men are and naive women are at that age but ppl still do these days ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:56 PM
68

I skimmed through post of it and I think you know what to do... you need the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 02:15 PM
7

Under 22 maybe 5 years but me at 28... Hell no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:57 PM
23

“Chill” personality. Plz god let her have FDS principles Edit: ew I kept reading and I gauged. Men are So fucking entitled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:57 PM
26

If I want to find a roommate, I’d just find a random woman off of Craig’s list 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 04:27 PM
24

This is it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 09:03 PM
23

Jesus Christ I’m a light weight and I’ve never done that 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:54 PM
13

The only thing they can eat is my shit 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:06 AM
15

Chile drop him. I spent $800 on gucci shoes bc I do what I want. I like luxury goods and fashion so if he can’t accept that then move on. So and I heard those shoes are mad uncomfortable anyway just FYI. I love my tribute heels from ysl and they were $900 something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:07 PM
2

I spent $30 at cheesecake and ate alone today... Chile next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 10:38 PM
142

Men really think their presence is a present 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:25 PM
84

That is gross my bro just spent $25k on a ring and is gonna propose with a helicopter. This is some bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 04:23 PM
27

Oh yeah only birkins appreciate in value. But I’m saying is that atleast luxury bags can be passed down like jewelry if kept well. Games become old quickly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:41 AM
110

Atleast luxury bags can be passed down 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 11:32 PM
40

Avoiding men and sunscreen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 02:58 AM
3

I love a good handbag! It elevates any outfit !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:45 AM
3

Thank you sweetie ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:45 AM
3

Yaaaas, I can’t wait to feel the same way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:45 AM
5

I’m trying to find a female travel group! I need to get to it after covid
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:44 AM
10

I love female friendships. I only have two friends but they fulfill me so much. Women will truly support you and not judge you for your past mistakes. They will hold you while you cry. Male friendships are shallow and then male complain they they feel more lonely and depressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:06 AM
1

Glad we could inspire each other!! I’m happy for you! 😊😊😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:45 AM
3

Thanks! You should make a goal collage too! I don’t have an ex so I can’t make a ex collage lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:37 PM
2

Yes I’m fighting my depression and it Sucks that 2020 happened but it is good to celebrate small wins too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 08:33 PM
10

Has everyone ever tried to gain weight. I’ve been skinny my own life but it’s hard for me to have an appetite 😂 gonna get a personal trainer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:40 PM
16

I am 105 lbs and 5”5 and I would like to gain 20 lbs I would like to own my own home in the next year or two and learn to cook I have a keyboard at home but I wanna learn the piano Once I get my house I would like a doggie I would like to upgrade my car to a telsa model 3! I’ve had my current car for 9 years I would like to expand my luxury handbag collection and I will be getting that lady Dior next month for my bday!! Edit: I forgot to add a telsa pic 🤦🏽‍♀️ for the girlfriends one I wanna trav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:28 PM
69

The audacity of men🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:15 PM
2

He wants to invite her over to her house to cook.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 06:11 PM
26

I don’t have many friends either but I atleast treat myself on my bday and see my parents. I would never go out with a stranger on my bday, that’s weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 03:40 AM
65

It’s the red flag that he wants to be a stranger for his bday.... I would delete and block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 02:49 AM
2

Lmao I feel attacked bc I don’t know what this looks like either
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 10:26 PM
2

Please don’t post a pic, he’s a weirdo. Ignore
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/20 04:36 PM
7

Lmao yes but then I feel anxious that I am wasting my life and don’t go out enough so it’s a constant struggle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:54 AM
21

I’m too much of a homebody to find a HVM 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:17 AM
0

Check the other responses. Love isn’t enough
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 03:07 AM
22

If a guy says that to you, you believe him and dump him
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/20 01:29 AM
2

Read the handbook. We aren’t 50-50 women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:28 AM
11

FDS might not hate men but I do 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:17 AM
133

Dusty guys love being called daddy 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:27 PM
14

No cooking or cleaning as a gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:59 PM
13

Yea it was a neg for sure, glad you did that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:52 AM
29

Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:38 AM
22

He’s right that’s a man value is in providing but women can do that for themselves but men can’t give birth or have sympathy like women so they are the weakest link. 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:38 AM
23

Trash honestly. Don’t waste your time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 03:03 AM
2

Yes but that doesn’t make her a HVW because she has a lot of work done. It seems like she only exists to get gifts from lvm rich men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 06:12 PM
6

I’m unwanted to but do you see women committing homicide 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 01:02 AM
2

Honestly I was thinking the same thing. I wish I made more of an effort with dating when I was in college or 22-25. But you’re right the good ones know responsibility and get taken at a young age. If you’re still single after 25, then smth is wrong with you (including myself)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:06 AM
8

I like to call because I need to know if you could hold a conversation and if it worth my time to get ready and drive/ use gas. This one guy kept giggling on the phone really weird so I dropped it. I am glad I didn’t drive the 30 mins. It’s a another way to vet someone. If a guy doesn’t want to call you thats a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:19 PM
12

I’m 27 and feel the same way. Now I can’t even meet new ppl (friends) or try new hobbies because of this pandemic. I don’t have a friend group or support near me to turn to or do activities with. My limited experiences with men have all been awful. A guy has never even given me a flower and women out here are getting all these elaborate gifts. I know deep down there is no one for me and no one will ever treat me like that. I do feel unwanted and alone but being in a relationship doesn’t guarante…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:08 PM
37

Besides there aren’t many great options so idk why they are so triggered anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:04 PM
6

Nah I always call before a date and use a google number too. This one guy was weird so it saved me a lot of time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:29 PM
19

Yea... men are useless. How did she even marry this man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:44 AM
1

Why are reddit notifications so slow lol but yeah thanks for the feedback. Idk I feel sad because I feel like I’m missing out on something but it seems to benefit men more then women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:39 PM
2

Thanks sweetie 🥰🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:37 PM
17

She is right when she said society never puts women first so we have to do that for ourselves! But yeah I was planning on getting a house in 2020 (with the help of my parents) But we all know about the pandemic. But yeah get things for yourself and don’t expect a man to come along and get you a house. Men don’t have that provider mindset anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:06 PM
6

Honestly I’m 27 and in a similar boat. I also have trauma as well that I relive in my head lol so I can’t say much as far as advice but I do relate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 04:32 AM
17

I’m Indian and I promise we don’t want you either 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:03 AM
2

I’m hollering 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 03:49 PM
162

Do they even know how expensive sex workers are?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:43 PM
18

Risking death too and a 50-50 dusty 🙄 I’d rather live with my parents even tho I’m “old” (27)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:29 AM
43

Men add very little value to our lives tbh. Everything they do we can do better or we can just pay someone to do it (maid, cook) But no they want that stuff for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:26 AM
8

Chile I’m planning on getting a Tesla in the next few months and hopefully a house in a next year or so. I don’t need any damn man 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:33 PM
5

I am south Asian (strict) so I feel like this a lot. Not just bc of sex but bc I never really had a friend group to do fun things with like travel, concerts etc. also Toni was busy a lot so she probably regrets working so much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:47 PM
44

Meanwhile men get to have free sex, maid and a cook. But of course men are no monetary value in that 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:25 PM
14

Urgh god, I pray she finds the light. That is disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:05 PM
8

Yea you’re way too sensitive and desperate. What you need is tough love not mothering. But go ahead
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:11 PM
8

Clearly you didnt learn much in a year and a half if you’re doing things like this for people....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:28 PM
10

Even if I was a bad person: so what? You can’t change people, you can only manage yourself. You think you are above everyone else, when really no one cares and life moves on anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:26 PM
19

Oh yeah this comment is right bc you are wrong for allowing this to continue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:29 PM
45

Most of reddit is incels, stop listening to other men. FDS is here to support you. Please just drop him and have some dignity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:48 PM
42

Please listen this comment. Do not pay him or buy him any more gifts... drop the dog off and block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:21 PM
31

Yea if I was a man I would take advantage of a kind woman like you too. I checked your post history and I do sympathize with a lot of your past. But you need to woman up bc you thinking everyone in this world is nice and kind is really childish and naive. Like we all say: read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:17 PM
28

Yes why would you offer that to someone you’ve know for two weeks? He only asked you to be his girlfriend to shut you up and you are seeking validation. You need to break it off with him ASAP and read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:51 PM
43

It’s not about stupid but you need some self esteem and boundaries. You are trying to prove your worth to this guy and he is taking complete advantage. I would too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:49 PM
47

Sweetie he is taking advantage of you, you’ve known him two weeks and he’s asking for money? Gurrrrllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:46 PM
48

You’ve seen a guy for a week? And the he asks you to be his girlfriend the next week? 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:45 PM
34

... why are you taking care of his dog? You’re not even his gf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:41 PM
6

I’m 27 but people think I’m 18, it’s true lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:37 PM
100

“I’ll know it when I see it”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:47 AM
28

He’s too old for you, drop him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:09 AM
19

Don’t give them a straight answer just say “I’ll know it when I find it”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:08 AM
8

It’s about toxic masculinity but stupid men just see it has a dumb fight movie. Men miss the point of the movie a lot. And also men use it as an excuse for having no ambition
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 02:10 PM
32

Yes this is what I meant. They blame skyler for cheating while her husband was a whole drug lord 🙄 putting his entire family in danger. Breaking bad is one my fave shows but I loved Gus as a villain. But if the dude hates Skyler then block lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 08:50 PM
26

Chile why are all men trash at all ages 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:54 PM
76

If he thinks Walters wife is a bitch, RUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:43 PM
102

Fight club
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:13 PM
-8

I don’t see how it’s a neg? A bum bag is a fanny pack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 03:27 PM
44

Literally men are so pointless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:56 AM
31

Girl hike is code that he is going to murder you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:15 AM
13

Do my mosquito bites count lmAo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 10:04 PM
14

The age difference 🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 07:51 PM
6

High value man and low value man. Read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:35 PM
13

Don’t answer and just say it’s personal info you choose not to share
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 10:27 PM
18

Men in a heartbeat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 06:20 PM
12

lol this will never happen to me. But good for her !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:00 PM
19

Yea but you’re putting waaaay too much effort into someone you don’t even know. He’s a creep yes but have some mystery. Don’t write novels on your life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:22 PM
69

Why are you writing whole paragraphs to someone like him who barely writes 10 words
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:05 PM
25

I stopped reading when you said cook for him, girl dump him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:17 PM
7

I see what you mean but I would just ignore it and move on. Cause he’s right, I’m too good for that shit 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:36 AM
4

Honestly this is the biggest compliment in a weird way 😂 I would love to get to this point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:35 AM
10

I’m almost 28 and I’m in a similar position. I am honestly off dating all together... I am beginning to accept that I am unwanted/ there is no one for me. But yeah don’t tell anyone your personal history, no one is entitled to that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:05 PM
3

It’s boring here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:01 PM
14

Chile $19 ... fix it Jesus
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 07:32 AM
36

Honestly not even husband bc that’s what happened to George Lopez. Being married doesn’t mean much these days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:05 AM
8

Oh yeah I understand that’s it’s a joke bc ppl were saying the same thing... someone said I was cold for saying to let him die but it’s a cold world 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:52 AM
25

lol I said to let him die. And going to court will do nothing bc she did this of her own free will. Cheating on your gf is not a crime. Dick move, but not a crime. I’d only give a kidney to my child (but I don’t plan on having kids anyway). And you don’t get compensated for giving a kidney, use your mind ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:46 AM
16

Really you think giving a organ will guarantee loyalty? Like this is why kidney donations should be random strangers... because you have no connected to them and they can’t hurt you. I’m sure he said “but I didn’t ask you to do it” 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:29 AM
13

Yea I’m known for being cold lol but I’m just being honest. Letting your bf die isn’t illegal. Women put too much devotion into men and wonder why they don’t get the same back. If your bf/husband dies, he dies. You can’t determine his fate or Gods will. You take whatever you can and try to move on with your life. Because men do that all the time, don’t get it twisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:16 AM
20

Is that even possible lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:49 AM
63

It’s acceptable to ghost in this situation, let the old fucker die alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:38 AM
34

Atleast with a husband you are entitled to his money and whatever else is in your name... like this poor girl got nothing. There’s a reason widows are associated with women and not men. Men don’t whine around about their wife dying, they find someone new
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:13 AM
37

Being a knight and shining armor never works for a woman.... they aren’t even married. No offense but she kinda deserves it. I would just let my boyfriend die. I probably wouldn’t even do this for a husband. Men don’t respect you when you save their lives, so just let them die naturally if they can. Edit: I’m getting down voted bc I said just let him die 😩 it’s hard to find a kidney match, lots of people die trying to find a match. I’d much rather let my bf die then to cheat on me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:10 AM
3

Not every woman will find a good man. Not because we don’t deserve it, it’s because the numbers just don’t work out that way. I have lvw traits too (depression etc) But even I never had a bf and prob never will at this point. For 10 quality women there’s maybe one quality guy who is even worth the time to vet etc. Everyone else is trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:25 PM
14

FYI: the thread did have FDS stuff: leave at the first red flag, don’t take a man back after he ghosts, he should love you more than him etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:21 PM
38

I’m brown too (27) and I’ll prob never marry where the slim chance I do, it won’t be a brown guy. Along with the reasons you stated, mother in laws don’t know how to mind their own business
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 06:54 AM
51

I read about half of it but it’s not really about dating tips. I’d recommend it to see different personalities of abusive men and now sometimes therapy can backfire. Also you can spot red flags
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:54 AM
13

I’m a virgin and feel like I’m missing out at times but sex seems overrated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 01:19 PM
5

You know you’re depressed when you’ve tried these things but are still depressed 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:20 AM
8

I might sponsor or adopt a kid when I’m older but I will never give birth. No man is worth going through labor pains, carrying a baby and bleeding for a month after. No thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:08 AM
37

I have depression too but I still practice basic hygiene. I am not an animal. The bar is in hell for men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 02:06 AM
10

No brown man has ever been raised well lmao it’s in our culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:38 PM
9

It’s much better to be single then to be in a unhappy marriage to a Brown guy. I wish my mom got a divorce. I prob won’t marry but if I do it won’t be brown
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:29 PM
7

Luckily my parents accept my depression. They might not understand it 100% but they don’t deny it exists. But yes mental health isn’t considered “real” so it’s hard to find real support from someone who understands the culture etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:27 PM
16

My dad is a stubborn narcissist too. I have given up on brown men period. They are entitled man children. I’ll prob just be the disappointment of the family and never marry lol. When I turned 25 they expected me to find someone out of thin air. But I don’t have much social skills, hobbies or experiences to make me interesting. And now I think I’m too old and also my depression :/ so it Is hard to say the least..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 10:02 PM
25

Brown men never make their woman feel special. Surprises, dates, gifts etc. I have wasted my entire youth to them or finding a good brown man but they don’t exist.. Pardon the rant but since we are talking brown girls: my parents didn’t let me do shit growing up (going away for uni, going out. Traveling) so now I’m this depressed 27 with no life or friends. I have lvw traits too bc of my suicide ideation and having little will to try anything. Also childhood trauma from living in a brown home. A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 08:41 PM
21

I’m brown too. There are some ig accounts directed towards brown women like “south Asian therapists” and “pinkladoo” etc But that’s more mental health. Being a brown girl is leading a life of misery
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:40 PM
117

Men never know what they want. They want to act single but also want a new girl every night. They benefit most from marriages when they ruin it the most
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:56 PM
310

Im 27 and I feel the same as your daughter. Men are trash at all ages but this generation is something else..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 11:40 PM
17

Which movie ???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 06:18 PM
29

No man period. A man will always have physical power to come into your room and rape you. Jesus and I said that on relationship advice and everyone is like “not all men” 🙄 like if you don’t shut the fuck Up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 01:46 PM
131

I couldn’t even finish..... this is why you never have roommates of the opposite sex. I’d rather be in a woman’s prison
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 03:50 AM
35

Men will never truly appreciate women.... my dad isn’t as intense as this dad but similar sentiment. FYI I’m 27 and my bro is 31 so you can do the math
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:22 AM
8

You don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 04:21 AM
8

Chile..... anyways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:38 PM
1

We never said to approach or date men. I’m saying them engage in your actual life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:28 PM
99

After 25 they are trash too, don’t worry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:26 PM
10

Neither do most people, there’s a reason why so many single people are around since no one talks to one another anymore. Most people meet their SO at work or school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:21 PM
35

Online dating is a cess pool. The very few HVM that exist don’t spend their time on dating apps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:50 PM
48

If I get married and someone doesn’t call me a gold digger then I did it wrong 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:12 PM
8

I think chart means in terms of emotions. Because you never give a man 100% of your nurturing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:06 PM
3

Yea that’s what I meant. We can’t all have everything in this life. Like everyone wants to win the lotto and want to be a part of the 1% but very few people get it...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 08:44 PM
36

I don’t believe a man will ever do that for me lol... oh well. I am glad she’s smart enough to leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:20 PM
33

No offense but who cares if he is lonely? That’s not your problem. It’s not your job to fix men because they will always try to make something romantic out of it. Men are compelled to make everything sexual with women. I know it sounds simplistic but it’s true. Kindness with men will get you nowhere. Just let them rot on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 09:03 PM
65

Chile men are trash worldwide 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:51 AM
49

Jesus fix it... this is why I’m getting my own house 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 02:38 AM
20

I’m 27 and given up tbh.. I haven’t had a real bf and prob never will at this point. I haven’t even had the bare minimum and idk how relationships really work because I’m too naive and sheltered. (South Asian) so the boat has probably sailed on that one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 04:17 PM
61

And they wanna go 50/50 too 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:25 AM
2

Men don’t approach women like they used to. Unless you are talking about a bar situation, which isn’t the place to meet HVM. I have been complimented here and there but aside from old white men I never get approached. I think you underestimate how much men don’t approach anymore because of social media and what they get taught by these male dating coaches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:07 AM
2

I am pretty by most standards but I never get approached. I have been told by men that I am intimidating and they would never approach. All my experiences have been negative at 27. Plus these days men expect women to chase
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 09:06 PM
5

Lol I do have some just short lived 😩😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:15 PM
10

I’m 27 and never had a bf and a virgin lmao I have no idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:46 PM
73

I see the reasoning behind it because you don’t want to put all your eggs in one basket until there is a commitment. But you’re right that I can’t find 3 guys I find remotely interesting or worth going on dates. Men don’t even court women anymore
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:06 AM
3

I never traveled that’s because I had strict Indian parents growing up and now I have no friends to go with. And that’s on depression lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 04:00 PM
2

Yes I have read most of the handbook (most of it) But FDS doesn’t guarantee that you will find a HVM. Plus I have depression and social anxiety so there isn’t much going for me. But I do appreciate the support
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 08:46 PM
20

Women def are brainwashed, no doubt. I do feel bad for her bc I prob would’ve done the same at her age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:35 PM
10

I’m 27 and feel dumb and old too. The truth is there aren’t many good men out there and I’m sick of having to dodge dusties like that lil Kim dance lol so I do feel unwanted but I don’t have the energy to put myself out there with men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 04:33 PM
5

Yea even with HVM, men will truly never fully appreciate or value women. They don’t understand what we have to go through just to give birth. I wish had more friends to travel with but I’m trying to work on it and fight my depression. But anyway hope things go well for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:41 PM
3

I’m more or less on the same boat. When you take on a man you are taking on stress, like working a job. Doctors and lawyers have demanding careers but they get compensated. Most men wanna go half these days so it really isn’t worth it. I haven’t had a bf period and I prob never will so maybe I’m not the one to talk. I can take myself to nice places and buy myself designer things so a man really isn’t necessary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:25 PM
12

Girl run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:34 AM
71

Literally I can’t find 3 men im remotely interested in. Online dating is a cess pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:06 PM
23

Girl you know this never happens. Men don’t have to go through labor pains, depression, bleeding, birth control, STI etcs. Women will always have more of a burden
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 01:24 AM
4

It’s not about the wall or letting yourself go like Mgtow thinks etc. I’m saying HVM are rare and get taken more easily then HVW
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:31 AM
15

Dudes in their mid to late 30s are normally not that great looking and go for younger women because no one their age wants them. And I dont want to train younger men and I can’t be attracted to someone who isn’t a provider, which this generation isn’t. You can think positive all you want but it’s a lose lose for most women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 05:30 AM
18

I’m 27 and I’ve given up tbh. The good ones are taken by 30. I know someone will say abundance mentality but HVM are rare
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:58 AM
26

Chile yes you do esp jealous dads side 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:49 AM
229

No man is worth giving birth for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:13 AM
40

I understand where you are coming from but I do not think you should be sending flowers. If you met his family etc I’d understand but I would just a bit supportive without being his therapist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 04:12 AM
12

Chile I haven’t even had cheap candies or flowers 😂😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:22 AM
37

I haven’t had this treatment period so I buy myself designer lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 01:49 AM
11

Thanks lol I honestly hate it because I want to experience it with someone I love/care about but I am too emotionally unavailable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:51 PM
49

This is why I’m still a Virgin at 27.... so gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:01 PM
28

God cursed me when he made me straight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:59 AM
69

It’s a fact that men flourish in relationships but women get broken down. Men never “help” women like women are expected to do for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:52 AM
19

Get a vibrator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:52 AM
38

Honey, men are trash at all ages and women get undermined at all ages. HVM are not common. Keep your standards high and live your life and never date down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 02:36 AM
20

What a joke 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 12:54 AM
5

Honestly I wish we could have male friends but they are just waiting for you to be single. Men are not your friends. There is always an agenda. Sure maybe you can be casual friends or hang out but not close friends. I’m a girls girl anyway
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:43 PM
14

Chile I can buy myself ysl 😩 idc what anyone says I love having money 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:04 PM
68

Truth is men are just more lazy these days because they know women can work so they try to convince them to do 50-50 to cover their own shortcomings. Idk his exact situation but he doesn’t seem like to provider type and you dating down when you’re still young and can find better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:47 PM
24

No they are calling him out on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:12 PM
142

Men ask women for sex, cooking and cleaning without hesitation. Spend his cash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:05 PM
1

I would say find hobbies/ interests and then you can connect that way. For example I like to collect luxury handbags so this girl commented under my tweet and we started talking about it. I’ve tried meet up and bumble BFF too but it was Sorta bleh because most ppl are flakey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:55 PM
35

What am I suppose to do? Go to the dollar menu? Lmao 😂 atleast send me $1000 to even get a “hello” from me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 06:46 PM
25

This shows brings up my trauma lol and why I’m depressed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:13 AM
2

I guess you could do that. Personal I don’t think it’s worth getting ready for lol because I wanna call and see if it’s worth even getting ready for
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 12:34 AM
7

I don’t recommend Snapchat because guys just wanna send you their dick (happened to me) which is why I recommend a fake number
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 09:55 PM
3

How did he know? The guys I’ve given it to have never known
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:55 PM
18

They get condoled and babied so much. I told my parents if they wanna disown me they can but on God I’ll never marry brown and live with in-laws. Id rather beg for food
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:12 PM
28

Brown men are def the bottom of the barrel. India is the most unsafe country to be a woman for a reason. I think today’s girls are realizing how men don’t do shit around the house and how childish they are. Even in laws are too over bearing. I will prob never marry but if I do it won’t be to a south Asian
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 07:21 PM
21

Lol yeah but if you are somewhat interested and wanna be safe, id recommend using a fake
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:25 PM
7

This is queen shit 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:11 PM
22

All the reasons she stated is the reason I will never get married. Marriage will always benefit men more than it benefits women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:02 PM
34

You should be seeing multiple guys at once and have other friends/hobbies so you won’t be so sad when something doesn’t work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:41 AM
20

If I am being honest I am negative about men like aparna too. But she just seems like a difficult person to be around. I wouldn’t even be her friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:27 AM
444

In 2020 I’ve quit men all together. I decided that before the pandemic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:50 AM
18

A week... Chile Women care too much about being nice. You are already investing too much with writing all that for a guy you’ve know for a week. Just block and ghost
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:53 PM
14

Chile I’m 102 and 5”5 and I’m trying to GAIN weight but it is hard because of how quickly I digest food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:08 PM
53

This is Indian men in a nutshell. The reason why I will never marry one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:00 PM
43

Dusties want the benefits of being single and being in a relationship 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:21 PM
70

She’s in a open relationship with a dusty so I’m not surprised
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:12 PM
39

Chile that age difference
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 02:30 PM
24

Literally who cares if you block him. You’re not LV for being blocked but LV for caring too much that you are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:32 PM
27

Im 27 and barely have any experience and I’m already burnt out by men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:59 AM
35

Aka mgtow lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:51 AM
8

That’s great! My bro is a doc too. He didn’t really seriously started dating until the last year of his residency so you will pretty busy tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 08:28 PM
3

Yea a lot of red flags. The biggest is financial because you dated down and he is irresponsible with his money. And I doubt he will marry you in the next 5 years or at all tbh... I know it’s harsh but imo it’s the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:52 PM
33

If we are being honest most men are useless at your age. But if you do come across someone please don’t “give your all” to someone. Men almost never do. Always put yourself first, even in a relationship because that is exactly what men do. Also don’t move for a man or postpone any career plans for a man. Doesn’t depend on how great they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:48 PM
1

what do you mean?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 02:39 PM
9

Women hold on to “hope” way too much. It just chemicals in your brain that makes you want to bond. I know it’s hard to fight off but he sounds like a prick and it’s time to break it off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 11:24 AM
9

Read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:15 AM
13

As an Indian this triggers me Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:09 AM
15

This is why I didn't talk to anyone during quarantine because you dont wanna become pen pals for weeks on end and then end up having no chemistry. Just drop him. The most you should have before a first date is one call for 15-20 mins to see if they can hold a convo. If they can't I drop them then too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:20 PM
64

Honestly this seems like most relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:03 AM
6

Yea this is bare minimum and he should’ve picked you up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:09 AM
35

I’m sorry but not a damn thing lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:02 PM
44

Honestly most celeb couples have this arrangement. It’s just whether the wife knows it or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:58 PM
9

I only knew one guy on twitter who went to therapy... otherwise men are too stubborn to get help and then complain that men commit suicide at higher rates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:26 AM
9

I always calls guys before dates just to make sure we at least have some chemistry, so I don’t have to take the time to get ready if we don’t click. Idk maybe he has a gf and is too afraid to talk on the phone because she is around idk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:43 AM
174

Men will always “trade up” women are too devoted in relationships. You never give 100% of your emotions. 60% at best if you are married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:21 PM
-7

I am not saying it is acceptable, but men view dates as chores these days because they don’t wanna pay for proper dates and court women respectfully. The dating climate is just shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:20 PM
18

The system is run by white men and it’s not like they want us to be happy 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 10:39 PM
41

Girl read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:55 PM
-35

Chile.... in this day in age it’s called a hang out Why is this getting down voted. I am saying men these days ain’t shit and don’t know how to court women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:17 PM
8

You can’t make a guy commit to you, move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:32 AM
30

Men don’t want kids they want younger siblings that you give birth to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 12:50 AM
66

I’m in a similar boat about the virgin and relationship thing and I’m 27. I’ve regretted telling guys this in the past because no one is entitled to your history. So imo best to keep it to yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:41 AM
28

Oh girl he might be love bombing you .. and three dates in the first week is a bit much. You should have other things going on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:26 AM
84

Blocking is so easy ...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:01 AM
192

Who cares, just block and move on. He’s bored and he is testing your boundaries
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:51 PM
35

People on reddit really have no self respect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:32 PM
33

Men only care about their own pleasure, never a woman’s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 06:40 PM
67

Men think it is so easy to be 35 and get a 20 year old. Women are finally waking up and seeing what a power Imbalance it really is. They think they are entitled to a 20 year old working $20 a hour 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:12 PM
50

This is what I’m prob most scared of
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:35 PM
9

Girl just block him. You don’t owe anyone an explanation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:26 PM
118

Trust me I need this too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 08:18 PM
6

Please tell me you blocked and didn’t respond. That’s the best way to stick it to men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:36 PM
28

I finally convinced my friend to divorce her narcissistic abusive husband!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:33 PM
8

I am 27 and look 18.. staying away from men is the key :P
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 02:11 PM
3

We should mainly level up for ourselves. But you’re right it is depressing because most men are LVM. Women have more on their plate which also leads to stress. Historically, marriage was an economic proposition because women weren’t allowed to own property and have bank accounts but that has changed obviously. So there is very little incentive to marry imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 09:46 PM
5

lol trust me you can look this up. I have the Gold Amex card because I have a great credit history and there’s a yearly fee of $250. For the black card the yearly fee is like $5k-10k 😂 and you have to spend $200-300k a year for many years to get offered a black card and have amazing credit history. So he’s def lying out of his teeth 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:57 PM
7

I think he’s lying about the black card because you have to spend $200-300k a year on expenses to get offered one and he doesn’t even make $100k 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 04:25 PM
-1

Yea it’s a red flag. It’s a data point for sure that you need to look in to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 03:37 AM
6

I guess it depends. I’m 27 and never had a bf (Virgin) and I feel like a failure because I haven’t even had a guy buy me a stupid flower. I am depressed with no friends so I don’t get out often. On the plus side I look young because I don’t have stress of a man. If I do encounter a good man, chances are that they want someone younger. I am not happy but it could be worse. I guess it means the grass is always greener on the other side. I am sure their are some ladies who would love to be in my po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:17 PM
5

I guess because as you get older your metabolism slows down? Also I guess couples eat and hang out a lot so they don’t make time for the gym
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 04:01 AM
85

Chile the guys I’ve dealt with in the past could die at the side of the road in front of me and I wouldn’t care 😂😂😩 I wouldn’t kick them while they are down but I wouldn’t help them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 02:57 AM
11

Also I’ve noticed that women gain a lot of weight with men. I’m currently 103 and I wanna be 130-140 but it’s hard lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 08:11 PM
60

Chile $10..... staying away from men makes me look 10 years younger 😩😩😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 04:58 PM
30

Girl it’s done. If a man wants to he will. It was only two dates. No need to be this invested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 02:24 AM
21

Put this in Times Square please
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 01:15 AM
8

There is no need to be friends. Hell if possible you can get a better job and stop seeing him all together. Oh and save those messages and bring it to HR if need be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:11 PM
9

This is the reason why I have a google number !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:27 PM
11

If you have gmail and download the google voice app you should be able to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:04 PM
43

This is why I give out my google number. Fucking weirdos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 04:46 PM
5

As an intp myself I am ashamed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 09:54 PM
27

60% of marriages end in divorce and 80% of those divorces are filed by the woman.... if this was anything else (driving, flying) the average person would avoid it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:38 AM
9

No I believe you. Women have a lot if biologically downsides unfortunately which includes the ability to bond with people who are not good for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 07:32 PM
27

"catching a D" isn't something to aspire to... and im 103 lbs and I don't get shit if that makes anyone feel better lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 06:42 PM
37

15 years... jesus fix it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:26 PM
6

yes i wish i learned this before. stop caring what they think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 05:13 PM
6

It’s fast fashion and I’m pretty sure he’s a drug dealer with all that cash 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:17 AM
6

As an INTP I am ashamed 😩😩😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:07 AM
84

People who comment that are broke and miserable. Woman go through LABOR PAINS for hours. There isn’t enough gifts you can give (cars, jewelry, bags, shoes etc)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 11:53 PM
6

Oh yeah men def want a stable relationship and chicks on the side if they are rich enough. They are inherently selfish and don’t understand sacrifice. They want their cake and eat it too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 03:14 PM
5

Men think about sex first and the connection. Women do the opposite. If a man is rich enough he will rather take multiple women. If he does have a wife it’s because he is older and wants someone to take care of him (health wise, status etc) men would rather take quantity over quality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:25 PM
8

I’m sorry you feel that way. I’m 27 and feel the same tbh. I’m not sure what to say aside from work on yourself and that you are not the only one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 04:20 AM
28

How these men find these women is amazing to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:45 AM
3

What else should I dig for? Boogers 🙄🤪😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 04:43 AM
23

I feel the same way. I would rather deal with feeling “unwanted” then suffer from abuse and laziness from men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 02:19 AM
9

Maybe because I have never been in love before (and prob never will) I still do not understand how women use that excuse to accept disrespect
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:39 PM
18

One thing that always annoys me with 50/50 is that the man always seems to always be in charge of the finances while the woman is in the dark..... ladies please take a personal finance course! Or read books or something. Stop putting your well being into another man’s hands
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:08 AM
2

The fact that they took it so lightly is amazing to me.... what the fuck is wrong with people! He should’ve gotten attempted murder wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:51 AM
40

No they aren’t too high. Just block them. Blocking is a beautiful button. And why are you respond at 3 30 am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:42 AM
76

And he feels entitled to have her back just because he decides to miss her 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:46 PM
119

Immediately after a break up women tend to feel sad but in the long term they work on themselves and improve. With men they feel “free” instantly after a breakup because they think they can sleep with new women. In the end it leaves them empty and they finally see the value of a relationship once it is too late and the woman has already moved on . It’s classic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:36 PM
37

.... yea this is why I’ve given up on men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 12:04 AM
4

This is why I’ve invested bonds and stocks. Bonds are more safe and if I absolutely have to withdraw I will and pay the fine. I just love having that $10,000+ tucked away 😍😍 But ew her mom? That is so disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:19 AM
19

I need to give that response a silver 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:58 AM
7

As a south Asian I 10000% agree lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 07:55 AM
36

I’m 27 and struggle with making friends too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:07 PM
48

One Sentence that really stuck with me “in our culture when a man says no it is an end of a discussion, when a woman says no it is a beginning of a negotiation”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:00 PM
24

Literally men are so condoled in our society it drives me nuts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:49 AM
49

That’s horrible! Doesn’t matter how mad you make your husband, no one should justify someone pulling out a gun! I know a family member who got KILLED by her husband 😔 it’s so awful this whole “obey” thing they put on women. We literally endanger our safety
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:04 AM
210

Marriage therapies are sooo overrated. “Communication” my ass. Men are lazy and inconsiderate. First they wanna be trained and then when we ask more than twice we are nagging. There is no winning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 01:08 AM
35

I’ve felt a similar way before.... I wish acts like this were illegal but men know they can get away with being dickheads.... women are much more vulnerable when it comes to dating because men can fuck us over a lot easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:19 PM
1

Thanks for the support. I still feel like a failure but it is a red flag even for a HVM. And I will prob be 30 before this pandemic ends so I’m too old at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:10 PM
10

Honestly it’s hard for girls like us because I’m socially anxious and depressed. But like everyone said to try hobbies so the two of you could have things in common. I’m one to talk because I mostly stay in the house because of my strict upbringing (Indian) but good luck!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 02:37 AM
39

I agree with this to a point. In most of the world, the man is the provider. But also arranged marriages have a lot of abuse and women don’t leave because they are too scared
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:00 AM
3

Is he “acting” like a husband? Paying every bill? The house is her name too? Then maybe, otherwise no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 07:07 PM
13

Sending a $1000 to a guy you’re not even committed too? Jesus fix it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:21 AM
42

It’s much easier to impress a younger girl because they don’t have much (a car to their name, a house, good paying job) so they fall in love with anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:42 AM
13

Yes that’s true but in the previous generations that hadn’t been indoctrinated into our society if it makes sense... and men mature at such a slow rate, it’s sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:14 AM
55

You do have a point because men think that don’t have a “wall” because they can find a younger pickmeisha... I just hope women wake up in the next generation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:11 AM
15

Please link the original post!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:00 PM
17

A friend of a friend is such a pick me. She’s 27 and has a baby daddy who doesn’t pay ANY child support. His uncle plays for the Chicago bulls so he gets 10k a month from him and has no job or skills. And he still DOESNT pay child support. He pushed her one time in a fight and didn’t call/text for a month... They break up and get back together. When the three of them are cuddling she says she “doesn’t want anything more” women go through all this BS just to have a tender 5 minutes. It’s so sad a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:09 PM
8

What else do you need to say? Block him off everything. It’s done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 06:57 PM
3

You do realize a lot of women don’t wear there ring? You talk like you know her personal life lol...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 07:03 AM
7

She is married. She just doesn’t show him online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:50 AM
9

It’s only been two months so nothing too expensive. Idk maybe a card or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 11:05 PM
154

I buy myself designer things because at this point I know no one else will 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:15 AM
16

I guess there was the #metoo movement but even that has slowed down a bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:33 PM
48

It’s aldo.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 07:28 PM
56

Yea no.. older men go for younger girls like you because they know they can’t get a woman their own age. A young girl your age is more naive and more willing to put up with his BS. A huge red flag. Every young girl who has dated an older man regrets it, ask anyone. I also understand men in their 20s isn’t all that either. Immature, commitment phobe, prob not financial dependent. Etc The truth is that there aren’t many HVM out there. Be picky I guess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:24 AM
10

The man should be initiating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:00 AM
15

Thank you he’s cheap and using lockdown as an excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:59 AM
4

I’m a “spoiled brat” but his standards because I come from an immigrant family and the mentality is a lot different. I’m not super rich or anything but my parents paid for my big expenses (car, MacBook, undergrad etc) and I’m living with them until I build my own house (which my parents and my brother are helping with) so I don’t pay for rent or utilities atm, just my own expenses so yes I can save a lot. I don’t have a problem living with my parents for now because it is better than paying rent…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 09:05 PM
10

Girl don’t walk, RUN. You seem kinda irresponsible btw getting pregnant by him and now you think it’s a good idea to spilt rent? Just no. And you saw him during a pandemic? Just a mess I’m sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 08:44 AM
11

Thank you for the encouraging message!!! I needed it today because depression has really been kicking my ass today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:57 AM
7

Men are so dumb to think their stupid lies won’t catch up with them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:56 AM
10

Thanks for the support! hugs I feel doomed too because most men are so low value and I don’t know how to spot them. FDS has helped with that but it’s very hard to find a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:39 AM
11

I studied accounting and I tried taking the Cpa exam and my god is it hard lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:05 PM
63

I am not sure why this got downvoted. It is a serious question. I’m 27 and never had a bf because I was sheltered (south Asian) and I now suffer from low self esteem, anxiety and depression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:42 AM
26

Honestly these same men turn a blind eye to misogyny and don’t even view women as human beings. Because they don’t have to deal with sexism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:52 PM
8

Why would you make him a gift if he cheated on you....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:04 PM
2

Yea I said before that HVM under 30 can find a woman he wants to commit to because plenty of women would be willing to commit to him as well. A single man over 30 is more suspect because it’s easier for men to get into relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:41 PM
10

Honestly I’m the same way. I’m 27 and never been in love and probably never will. I’m too old, shy and introverted. And even then there isn’t an abundance of good men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 08:43 AM
26

Yea but they’re rich and she stayed because she wants the “perfect” image
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 08:32 PM
11

I feel the same way. I was too sheltered growing up and now it’s hard to make friends at 27. I made two good online friends but I wish i made more irl friends to travel with 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 07:16 AM
5

About how men have it easier?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:06 AM
5

Idk I’m 27 and never had a bf but idk he’s older and it’s easier for a man.... idk the full context but maybe try digging in further Edit: idk why this got down voted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:50 AM
10

I have two-three strong friends and when lockdown is over I want to strengthen them even more. I did want kids but I don’t think I want them enough to go through labor pain and do majority of the work. Kids are a lot of responsibility and expensive too. If I do have them my husband better be rich (double if what I make) and I’m a stay at home mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 10:45 PM
-7

I hate it to say it but it’s kinda true...... and stuff like that is cute when you’re young. I’m 27 and not going in some faux movie date like we grown lol. This will prob get down voted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 10:50 PM
33

You did the right thing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:24 PM
43

I’m 27 and I can relate. Still a virgin and never had a bf. Had a few experiences that were terrible and that confirmed my fear of men. So 2020 I’ve given up completely. Idk what to say but you’re not alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 08:40 AM
6

Hmm he’s still young so I don’t think it’s a red flag just yet. Most men keep women around who they know they don’t like just because they are waiting for something better to come along.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:09 AM
2

I thought if it I am just so embarrassed and ashamed but maybe one day I’ll get the courage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:34 AM
57

Her replies are even more pickmeisha Urgh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 10:13 AM
230

Man this is sad because she thinks it’s funny when it’s actually sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:58 AM
10

I think you linked another post by accident !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 05:49 AM
22

I could cry this is so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:14 AM
52

She had his baby too.... how sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:12 AM
11

He has poor coping skills and is immature... I think you know what the answer is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:48 AM
34

Girl block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:50 AM
7

Yea and they break hearts and waste other women’s time along the way 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:16 AM
1

Yea it’s true or they just give up and women are don’t wanna be single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:44 AM
3

I don’t think just “one soulmate” exists and you have to be with them and there aren’t other options for you. If that makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:34 AM
36

Glad you Learned! I should maybe post my pickmeisha story too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:33 AM
7

Yea most men aren’t that great so we are conditioned to accept less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 04:29 AM
39

I am not surprised about India being Indian myself, men never do shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:43 AM
12

Being just play the law of averages game. They swipe right and message everyone until someone responds. Women are more picky
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:16 AM
27

I am learning this. People think I am too negative but it’s the truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 03:15 AM
43

Lol but for once a man is right 😂😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 02:07 AM
15

I’m 27 and feel the same way. Women don’t have many options of good men. I hate that me and women have been conditioned to be “sweet” while men just see that as an opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 07:53 PM
54

The clown of the year goes to..... 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 05:22 AM
41

Do men ever think that of women? Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:57 AM
10

I agree with the comments about he could always post them and hacking. But aide from that men don’t respect that. Women who give their power away don’t get respected by men. Like you said, you get nothing out of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 07:21 PM
3

Why we you talking for 6 months and it is not official?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 08:25 PM
5

I’m 27 and I have to date someone atleast 32+ men my age are a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:03 AM
9

Maybe try a woman’s shelter ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 04:02 AM
6

Eh this is why I mostly avoided college guys because they are still children. Even at 25 they are so dense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 03:24 AM
5

Idk I think most college guys will be cheap. Idk maybe dinner atleast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:34 AM
33

I see what you mean but enough women are pickmeishas and wanna be married so they will say yes to any man who purposes. I mean look at how many women stay with LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:40 PM
6

Honestly I don’t think she should’ve been sleeping with him AND other guys. That’s just gross. If she was dating casually and not sleeping with anyone then I would understand. Sleeping with multiple people at once is just messy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:57 PM
25

I think her point is not to look desperate for a relationship. Online dating is more for hookups anyway. So the book applies to more IRL, actually dating. And she said to not to neg but show my actions. Like if a guy doesn’t like your cooking, cussing him out isn’t effective. But if you stop cooking cold turkey you will send a message. She basically saying to play the “long game” so to speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 06:53 PM
15

Idk what his friends have to do with sexual relations.... you sleep with him when you’re ready and you don’t seem like it. But then again I’m 27 and virgin so what do I know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 02:26 AM
43

Yea it happens. A guy tried to split the bill with me, I just went to the bathroom and never came back 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:27 PM
1

What a cunt. I hope she leaves him ASAP. And please link this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:18 PM
75

Oh yeah never tell a guy you’re a empath or you come across as too sweet and he thinks he can use you and you will put up with his crap. Yea and no walk dates or 50/50
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 11:17 PM
13

I gave a guy my snap but then he sent me a dick pic and he expected me to send something back.... I’ve learned my lesson
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 06:59 PM
1

Oh I see what you mean then haha luckily that hasn’t happened to me. As long as the guy wasn’t super disrespectful atleast get food, I mean I did get ready 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:51 AM
18

Idk I don’t think you should disclose tbh because he will sense your insecurity. I’m 27 and a Virgin and I’ve regretted disclosing it to people. But that’s just me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:50 AM
12

I actually called a guy before a date and went to dinner. He was cool and there were no problems. But one guy kept giggling so I’m glad I never met him irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 07:47 AM
14

He should pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 05:47 AM
14

This deserves the silver 🙌🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:23 AM
90

Girl where does he work. Send it to HR 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:16 AM
25

Women have higher EQ and men are encouraged to be cold so yeah in relationships I wish I was attracted to women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 12:10 AM
31

I’m desi so I can relate. My mom is slightly pick me. I’m 27 and single so she’s always like “why don’t you have a bf?” “You need a partner to be settled in life” etc and I’m like “did you let me date when I was younger” now I’m this awkward 27 year old with very little social skills and abilities to make meaningful connections. Desi men are the worst of the worst. Entitled little mommas boys who think they deserve pussy for the bare minimum. They date white girls for years but when it’s time fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 11:57 PM
8

Don’t get flattered so easy. He copied and pasted that to every girl he matched with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 06:59 PM
4

Pardon no I meant that most likely a man will try to get sexual with you. No man is going to text “hey you should come over to my house so I can convince you to have sex!” Etc I am saying that you shouldn’t go in the first place and protect yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:51 AM
3

I am saying a woman shouldn’t be going period. That’s dangerous and women are the weaker sex physically. You have to have sense and protect yourself as much as possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:44 AM
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That’s super naive to think that. I am saying a man will most likely try to bring up sex because it is horny hours. If you don’t wanna have sex then don’t be in the presence of said man at 2am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:42 AM
2

You got lucky trust me. Going over to a man’s house late at night is dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:01 AM
3

Yea which is most men. Let’s be honest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:57 PM
4

Idk what context you are talking about. Maybe they were your good friends? Texting you mean? I mean just going to see a guy at 2am = sex 99% of the time I am not saying that is right they are entitled like that but that’s how they think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:37 PM
5

Yea but men have a strategy or a plan to get sex from you. Which is why they would hit you up at night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:32 PM
16

Yea I don’t even answer texts or calls after that unless it is a girlfriend or family member.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 11:24 PM
14

Has anyone watched “never have I ever” on Netflix? I am triggered being a 27 year old virgin brown woman lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:44 AM
4

Yea probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 03:48 AM
9

Yea men have very little incentive to be well rounded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 11:24 PM
70

“What flowers do you want for your funeral?” 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:29 AM
24

I only went on one tinder date. This guy wanted to go half so I excused myself to the bathroom and never came back. Needless to say I never used tinder again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:03 AM
4

https://www.thedailybeast.com/why-college-educated-women-cant-find-love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:31 AM
16

I think it is a bit of a red flag tbh when a guy never calls... even before I go on a first date I call to “screen” them to make sure they can atleast hold a convo. This one guy was giggling way too much so I saved a lot of time by not going out with him. Maybe you can mention it once but if he doesn’t change just move on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 02:01 AM
127

Yea FDS agrees to never send nudes. Even if they don’t get exposed, women give their power away too much. A guy tried to force me to send a video of me masturbating (i didn’t thank god) but I still have trauma from that. So no, never. Not even your husband. Have boundaries and standards for yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:40 PM
10

He’s precious. It’s unfortunate that men like him don’t really exist anymore. It is what it is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:18 PM
63

I’m 27 and never had one and I’ve been crying about it on and off today. Anyway good for her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:17 AM
51

Thisss And also don’t tell them about your past relations or sexual history
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:47 AM
19

Urgh Yea it’s about how stingy the guy is or not. He’s entitled because everything should be free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:20 PM
60

Cheapo 😂😂😂 glad you blocked him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:17 PM
11

Eh I got called racist when I made a post about a brown boy lol but I think we all know how awful they are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 07:58 AM
21

Hey thanks I’m used to being depressed. It’s been 5+ years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:36 AM
21

Yea it’s taboo in my culture to date outside but idgaf. South Asian men are pure trash. I can make a whole post dragging them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 06:35 AM
45

I’m South Asian and I will never marry a middle eastern or south Asian. There’s a reason why India is the worst place to be a woman. Modern ones are even worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:29 AM
116

The joke is on them because I am all of those things 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:27 AM
10

Like that’s grade A creepy and unprofessional. NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 05:06 AM
1

I need this ex 😩😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:03 AM
84

That’s because men always put themselves first, even in relationships
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:18 PM
35

My parents are immigrants and they taught me nothing. I’m 27 but I’m a virgin and mentally stagnated when it comes to dating and men. I let one guy take advantage of me in a car and was naive enough to think we would be friends. He’s so dumb and immature. I only started looking at dating advice in the past year and I wish I had something like FDS in my youth. I know the ship had sailed for me but I’m just here now to help other girls. I think parents view sex as taboo and are too dumb themselves…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:49 AM
61

Who cares if you hurt him? Women need to stop being so sensitive and grow a back bone. He will be hurt, so what? That’s life, he will need to learn how to move on. Stop being so considerate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:36 AM
44

Everyday I see something that reminds me men ain’t shit. Men my age ain’t shit and now I’m slowly seeing how entitled older men they are and disrespect their younger partners
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:34 AM
38

If it is a close mutual friend and it’s a PG picture (selfie, traveling, art) etc I can be ok with it. But if it’s some random IG model or some other influencers or something then it is a problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 02:09 AM
9

Yeah you didn’t get it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:23 PM
7

She said to go out in leggings and a t shirt if it makes YOU comfortable. Not that all women should downgrade themselves. She said she always wears heels because it makes her feel nice and put together. She does it because she wants to. I think you should listen to the video again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 03:13 PM
27

Yea I agree with dating more than one men in the initial stages. The problem is men are trash and even finding one to date is a mission
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:44 PM
10

I don’t think you really got the whole point of the video. She was describing a friend was who EXTRA fashionable (diamonds, trendy etc) she said to tone it down because it looks ridiculous and over the top. And yes if you do wanna attract a good guy, you can’t just wear your whole closet on you. She told women to have good hair and makeup. Everything in moderation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 02:40 PM
23

I just said “shut the fuck up. Broke ass doesn’t know how to be a man” and blocked him 🤪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:47 PM
22

I got the same exact message!! 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 11:35 PM
3

Jay z is a sag and we know how that went..... sag are known to be emotionally unavailable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:18 PM
24

Thank you for writing this! This is what women need to hear during this pandemic. Men will never be shit and never have been
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 06:17 PM
25

Not even in marriage because men will always be capable of being low level trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 03:06 AM
1

Ok I’ll try that! Thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:00 AM
1

Thanks but it won’t allow me to post there for some reason. Are you a mod there too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:55 AM
1

I joined idk what else to do? Lol I’m a woman if that’s the concern
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:42 AM
6

Try better help! You can do it from home!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:25 AM
1

For some reason I’m not allowed to post there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:23 AM
1

Ok thanks !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:22 AM
104

Yea girl you don’t value yourself despite being successful. No 6 figure career woman sends sexy pics on a first encounter. I’m sorry about your rape. That wasn’t your fault. Maybe try therapy and confront your issues head on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:19 AM
14

Yea my parents haven’t mentioned anything since last summer so it’s been a while. Desi men are trash and so is the culture so I will never marry into it even if I do get married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:30 PM
21

Dating is such a nightmare, Urgh I hate men. All worse than the next
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:02 PM
55

Thanks for this. I’m 27 and south Asian and my dad brought up men again by saying “are you talking to any guys?” And I said “no” and then he’s like “try talking etc” and I’m like men are trash and I don’t want the responsibility. Then he’s all like “you can’t live life alone” and I’m like “yes you can” 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:26 PM
204

God men are so so so gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:18 AM
76

FDS is suppose to teach women to think for themselves not use us an a crunch to make decisions.... use your mind sweetie. I think it’s pretty obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 08:16 AM
22

I’m 27 and still feel like this sometimes... thanks for posting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:15 AM
1

I see her point but I would even date the “cool bad buys” because a lot of them are abusers and create trauma.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:10 AM
7

Have boundaries !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:06 PM
3

Oh yeah esp in South Asian and Middle Eastern culture living in the West (U.K., US, Canada). They are the biggest man child’s who sneak girl’s into their basement and cars (happened to me I know I was a pick me) for sex and act like saints in front of their moms. A lot of them pretend to be fake religious. Most of them still want to live with their moms after marriage because they have no balls. They also pick their mom over their wife. I could go on and on and on....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:10 AM
2

FYI; these were sent to me but that same guy tried to get me to send a video of me masturbating (I never sent that or nudes thank god) but then I managed to find his business and told his co worker what he does in his free time 🤷🏽‍♀️ my friend said “well what if he can’t pay his bills?” Etc and I said “I don’t care if he was a bum on the street, I wouldn’t give him a dollar” 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 09:55 AM
16

I didn’t even touch my make “friends” in the past because 70% don’t wash their hands after using the bathroom 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:15 AM
39

FDS doesn’t believe in fwb. And men will never be your friends. They will always expect something sexual or romantic 9 times out of 10. That’s what I would say
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:46 AM
70

Fwb primarily benefits men because they can get wife/gf perks without the commitment and the title. And if you question them they can say “well we aren’t committed”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:29 AM
179

Men summarized 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 12:27 AM
69

Right like I’m not wasting my time to go on a $4 coffee date 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:54 PM
4

Eh I think you could just ghost. “Ghosting” is when you’re on your way to a relationship or are committed. Doesn’t seem you are either. Block is a beautiful button. I only give out my google phone now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 01:18 AM
13

I mean if you’re not interested then you’re not interested. A guy doesn’t have to be a grade A abuser for you not to like him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:51 AM
5

Oh so like it’s the other community’s fault? Gotcha 🙄 as If screenshots and tagging the user doesn’t exist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:50 AM
4

Why can’t we post cross community??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:43 AM
21

Yea and women are naive enough to accept that. Let’s build together and be broke together!!! 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 10:04 PM
71

Guys like this go 50/50 🙄 if you can’t afford women, why do you date them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 09:02 PM
14

Are you dumb?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 06:38 PM
10

She has only known him for 5 weeks and she stayed with him 😨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 07:11 AM
5

And she’s doesn’t want to hear how much of a pick me she really is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:27 AM
2

Thanks!! Her ig is private and all her comments are turned off on her YouTube videos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 05:26 AM
36

Na Girl, Reddit is a hot mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 04:23 AM
2

Please share her Instagram!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:56 AM
153

All the comments are like “give him a bj!!” 🙄🙄 I hate men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/20 02:28 AM
37

I often think the same. Is all this even worth it? You could do everything right but their are so few HVM out there and actual happy relationships. Most of them are a ticking time bomb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:09 AM
1

Yea exactly! For men you are who you are by 33-35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 06:59 PM
35

Lmao I’m an accountant and I took a tax course. Being married has TAX BENEFITS 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:35 PM
16

Babe you’re still in college years so you won’t find anyone 30+ but I guess people use online dating. I’m 27 and I won’t date anyone under 35 because men are still immature and childish. Not to say older men are perfect but I won’t even risk someone my own age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:13 PM
1

Hmm idk.. I think it might be a little quick to get married and plus rappers aren’t exactly faithful, but each to their own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 07:26 AM
31

No most of comments roasted him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:29 AM
3

Why don’t you like dinner ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 01:28 AM
12

Sweetie, you’re a clown if you drink 3 cocktails on a first date... he wants lower your inhibitions to sleep with you 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:10 PM
14

Right? We spend much more than that a month to keep up with our selves (hair, nails, wax, facials) etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:08 PM
14

I value myself and like coming across as high maintenance, I’m not downgrading my beauty just so I can have some drinks and appease a random guy 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:07 PM
16

Seriously. I had dinner with a guy and walked me to my car like a gentlemen. Not some lvm looking to get me drunk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:38 PM
18

Then why would you get a guy like that time? If anything women should date up at least a little bit so a man can afford to take them out. It’s called hypergamy. Drinks shows his income level is low and that doesn’t know how to treat a woman. If he comes from a “bad” background it’s not our fault. Online dating has made low effort acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:36 PM
14

I’ve had first dates include food for two hours. There’s no way I spend two hours getting ready and not even get a meal out of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 08:33 PM
36

Men who can’t have a civilized dinner as a date prove to lvm in the long term
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:54 PM
25

Exactly “female” is an adjective not a subject !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:47 PM
27

Yes!!! Also he wants the woman to earn a meal like we don’t deserve food 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:32 PM
50

And someone said “females have to entire a meal date” 🤢🤢 like who would date someone who refers to women as female and has to earn food? Pickmeisha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 07:20 PM
83

Most guys don’t even pay for porn! That’s the gag! They know they can nut for free
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 06:17 PM
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But even that doesn’t guarantee anything. The good men are already taken because they can find someone younger because younger women are more prone to commit. Guys my age are still immature and we all know about older guys... it is what it is. And who knows how long this pandemic will last
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 06:06 AM
9

Yea but by 27 women have some sort of experience with men etc I have none. I missed out on getting that puppy love etc. I won’t fall in love in that sense at this age or moving forward. I don’t see myself getting married but if I do he would have to be a provider and make more than me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:39 AM
24

There isn’t a man alive that is good enough for Rihanna. Plus she’s rich, she can provide and afford nannies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:06 AM
7

Sounds like you found a good one. That’s super rare, so I’m happy for you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 05:03 AM
33

My parents are immigrants so they didn’t teach me anything about men. So I haven’t had a bf and have suffered a lot. I’m 27 now so it’s too late for me but I’m glad the younger kids have something to look at.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:59 AM
31

It’s true. Much more is expected from women we are expected to do all household duties and still be the ceo of a Forbes 500 company. And we have to look sexy/attractive doing it. Men have 92828 flaws and society makes excuses for it. If women have a bad day we are “crazy” or on our period. We could go on and on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/20 04:58 AM
2

It depends on your age. I’m 27 and if I have a bf I expect to be proposed to in a year and married in another. Men who know what they want go for it. Otherwise I’m not gonna be someone gf for 5+ years with no end in sight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 10:27 PM
1

Yea don’t do wife duties as a gf but we don’t want to be girlfriends forever either... your post doesn’t even answer the title of this discussion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:45 PM
4

It’s not about “rush” we just aren’t here to waste time and be a forever girlfriend performing wife duties. You sound like you attract lvm with a man doesn’t need a “timeline”.’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:12 PM
8

That’s great!! Women should always have their money/careers but a man is suppose to be a provider so matter what. So if you make 200k great, but I would aim higher for a man (hypergamy). Being a woman is much more expensive and we have to sacrifice a lot more (ie giving birth) so it doesn’t make sense for a woman to give birth AND pay rent. That’s dumb, a man is suppose to step up and take responsibility.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 09:05 PM
6

Unless a guy is super rich and is covering expenses then probably not. Traditionally marriage was looked as an economic proposition. Now a days plenty of women have careers. I won’t marry a guy who doesn’t atleast make 150k+ and has lots of savings
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/20 06:51 PM
49

A guy tried to coerce me into it 🙄 piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/20 11:10 PM
3

Yea I can open it but I can’t copy the actual link if that makes sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:36 PM
6

Please post the link!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 07:23 PM
34

Exactly I wouldn’t mind doing it if he was awesome in every other way but most men don’t deserve to be catered to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:08 AM
20

Did you guys see this post on twitter where this girl was sleeping in her tong and a guy posted it next to an ALDO bag? 😂😂😂 Like don’t wake me up unless it is a Chanel, ysl etc and then guys were like “ungrateful” and I’m like you want me to get excited over $50 shoes 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:52 PM
22

Those men are low value and you need to dump them immediately. Most men are LV so you have to raise your self esteem and tell yourself you deserve the best and you don’t have to “prove” yourself to a man. If a HVM wants you, you will know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:32 PM
15

Lol yes a woman trying to “earn” a man is pick me status. Women pursuing men never works because a man won’t respect you and will just walk all over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:21 PM
3

Abuse can happen if both of you work too. Being with a man will always have some risk. If done correctly a housewife can go well. She has more time to spend with her kids. Going to work AND doing housework makes her more exhausted. A lot of women gain weight and let themselves go because they don’t have the time to take care of themselves. Look at shera seven on YouTube for example, she doesn’t go to a “job” but she has an online business in which she consults people and sells makeup. Because ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:18 PM
17

Earning a man? 😂😂😂😂 a man is suppose to earn you sweetie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 11:14 PM
3

Girl, run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:13 PM
6

Exactly I don’t know why FDS is against housewives. There is a way to do is right. Working at home or even part time. I don’t want nannies raising my kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:11 PM
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We are not telling women not to have careers. Off course have savings but KEEP THEM FOR YOURSELF. A man should be courting and earning you through dates, gifts, time, attention etc and that requires money. If you a pay a bill that doesn’t mean you are an “equal”. Women are the prize. Women are supposed to be treated like princesses. We are the ones who have to give birth. We do most of the house work, emotional labor, cooking etc. The least a man can do is cover expenses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 10:08 PM
7

https://bit.ly/3djEsJw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:20 PM
10

Exactly I share my password with my friends too 😂😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 01:01 AM
21

Apparently they dated for a year? Like sis... no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:54 PM
22

Ppl say I slut shame but what is the point of sharing nudes with your partner? Like civilization has survived and you can never trust a man 100%’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 10:50 PM
5

Yea girl join as much things as you can... I did but my school was so boring... also ppl get married and move on with their lives etc. but anyway good luck to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:00 AM
22

I’m 27 and honestly feel so alone and I regret not taking advantage of my college years. But idk what to do tell you because we all feel alone.. all I can do is maybe give you a virtual hug hug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:50 AM
15

Girl you know that’s now how it goes 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:39 AM
41

Only broke call women gold diggers. Men with money dont care because they are not insecure. I had a guy tell me “if I was pretty like you I’d be a millionaire” like trust me, men know our power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:15 AM
37

Urgh of course!! Double standards when it benefits them !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:08 AM
9

I’m glad you were able to open up to him! I love my parents but they are immigrants who got an arranged marriage so they don’t know much about dating etc but recently we’ve been having better communication so I am happy about that. They were hell bent on me being with an Indian guy but after I told them how shit they were, they just want me to be happy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 01:06 AM
6

Exactly! Men can dish it out but can’t take it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:26 AM
34

Of course she can leave, she’s choosing not to. And women always delete their post when they realize what a clown she is for staying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:12 AM
49

He’s a man, what do you think
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:09 AM
14

Yea because men only care about women who are related to them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 12:08 AM
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A lot of us don’t even have dads. I do fortunately and he has spoiled me rotten. He would never allow me to pay a man’s bill ever in life. Even he said “you’re a princess, you’re suppose to be taken care of” and some parents didn’t teach their daughters at all about men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:34 PM
52

The previous generation did a terrible job raising us tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:23 PM
24

Exactly women need to step up across the board and demand a man be a provider or be alone. They would rather put their own money at risk just to be around a man 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:21 PM
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Urgh comments are closed. This is why you never shack up before marriage because a man will always say “well that’s not my wife” ok so that your roommate? What a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:20 PM
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Seriously Urgh men are just babies and women are worse for letting this happen. A man is a PROVIDER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:18 PM
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Please post the link. What a piece of shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 11:17 PM
10

Thanks but I still have ptsd til this day... I hate him so much. All men are the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 09:51 PM
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I’ve seen two therapists. They can’t really do anything aside from listen to you. Therapists can’t change men. Therapists can’t bring good men into your life. Therapists can’t change your destiny. Men are conditioned to be selfish and careless. Look at the world we are living in, they are negligent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:14 PM
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I see what you mean but it is harder and harder to meet people. Even going into the real world, there are no guarantees you will find a HVM. It’s not like they all hang out in a group. OPs point is that even HVM are gross but they know how to contain it more and play the long game. Men only care if they get something in turn. They don’t wan t to nurture women the way women are taught to nurture men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 08:05 PM
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And they think their way is the only way!! Like this guy legit tried to coerce me into masturbate on camera (I didn’t send anything) and then when I pressed him about it he said he was trying to make me feel wanted and I’m like how the fuck is treating me like some free hooker going to help? Urgh I fucking hate him so much, I hope the corona kills him. end rant
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:49 PM
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That’s cool for you but most men who want to be “friends” just end up wasting your time. You just happen to be lucky, no women wants to spend months being a guys “friend” just to get their time wasted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:17 PM
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I’m 27 and I’ve been single my whole life. All men are awful. They are taught to be self serving. Some more than others. I know I am too old to have “love” in that sense. Women are taught to be nice and nurturing while men just take take take and give NOTHING in return. They are worthless. Men use to be the providers and protectors but now women are forced to take that role because men are so unreliable and pointless. They are one track minded and useless. They think they fucking know everything…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 07:08 PM
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Eh i made a post about that because guys typically view that girl who is worthy of fucking. Women use it as empowerment so eh idk A lot of those women are drama
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 12:21 AM
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It’s 180 lol sorry but it really annoys me 😂😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:37 PM
9

Girl he using the corona situation to coerce you into sex. He would’ve done that even if there was no virus. Same thing with a walk, he’s cheap. A real HVM would send you money for food and y’all could eat on FaceTime. But he won’t do that because he’s cheap and wants free sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 08:31 PM
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Thank you Women always want to “communicate” like who tf cares? BLOCKEDT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:26 PM
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Walk in the part is also cheap. Why do women have to date 24/7? Blocking is so easy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 07:25 PM
22

Forget the Corona, he wants to invite your over so he can “trap” you to try to coerce you in sex. Block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 03:12 PM
10

Reading, sporting, playing music, drawing. Lots of hobbies that are enriching, not some damn video games
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 05:01 PM
20

Dusty dusty dusty and her nails 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 02:48 PM
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Yea... you’re a bob the builder chick but do you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:44 PM
4

You don’t understand the concept of hypergamy. Women are programmed to either date up and across and most men either date across or below in social class. The money is just an example. It doesn’t matter what man it is, most men can’t take if a woman is more financially successful then him. FDS might call him LV but this is the way men are wired. A lot of rich men want a house wife too (if you desire that too but don’t get forced into it). Doctors, engineers and lawyers make way more than 100k bt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 11:11 PM
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Being with a man will always be a risk. But atleast if you’re going to aim for a man, atleast aim higher than you. Example: if you make 60-70k a year atleast find someone in the 100k. Obviously money isn’t the only factor to being a HVM (rich guys can be abusive too) but most women desire to marry up in social class. I won’t even pay attention to a guy below 6 figures. Either that or be alone. Don’t let some minimum wage worker bring you down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 10:25 PM
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Yes he’s lv. Be happy you didn’t sleep with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 09:56 PM
9

This is why hypergamy is so so so important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 08:42 PM
39

Please post the link so we can all get to her!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:10 AM
15

Asha cee 2.Shallon Lester - the only thing I disagree with her is about online dating. She is for it Greta
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 02:00 AM
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I love her 😂😂😍❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 01:59 AM
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Are you dumb? Do you think women are free servants? There was fucking poop and pee everywhere. The dumbest comment I’ve seen on FDS. I’m sure you don’t even clean your ass everyday 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 01:51 AM
4

Anniversary maybe but valentines def not. Even historically it’s for men to wo women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 09:46 PM
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Babe he told you he’s not ready for a relationship... you know the answer. There is nothing confusing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:38 PM
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Reddit is the incel platform 🤢🤢 but I’m happy to have FDS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 11:32 AM
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Eh any man who wants to be “spoiled” with lots of gifts by a woman is honestly kinda effeminate imo. Because a man might like it in the moment, but you will come across as too “nice” and we all know how ungrateful men are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 01:20 AM
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Not even anniversary or valentines because those are to celebrate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:44 PM
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I’m 27 and still a virgin and I hate it tbh. I’ve been pressured before and used to tell guys I’m a virgin. But if I do find a HVM, I won’t tell him. I know you guys will say “he won’t care if he’s high value” but no man deserves to know me like that. I am a homeboy so the chances of me meeting someone is low. But hey do you. Have healthy boundaries and understand ways men might try to trick one and leave immediately if they try anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 01:29 AM
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OLD in general but bumble is a big no no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 05:07 PM
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I see what you mean but what I mean is that they have it easy. If that makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 06:19 AM
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Learn how to control your emotions Don’t be overly eager when he reaches out to you Have interests outside of him to keep you busy You are the prize not him. He should win you over, not the other way around Vet him throughly and make notes in a journal somewhere. Be objective as possible If you want fantasy try movies or books
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 04:41 AM
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Yes this too. They want a ride or die to stick with them through toxic behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:46 PM
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She’s desperate for anything because she’s 34 and doesn’t want to start over. Edit: there is nothing wrong with being 34 and single but she thinks there is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:23 PM
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All online dating is shit. Because it makes women come across as hot commodities and men never respect that .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 11:22 PM
5

Care to expand ? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 10:10 PM
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She is making fear based decisions and is scared to be alone. “No one will accept me” “the dating pool is awful”. The dating pool is pretty bad but she needs to learn how to live for herself and not for a possible man in her life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 08:31 PM
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You’re right but it just shows you how much little men respect “nice” women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 04:49 PM
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I’m Indian (not Muslim) so I can kind of relate to this. Arranged marriage does have some benefits because you know the person is looking for something serious so they won’t play those weird games with you. And also families are involved so there is some accountability, but nothing is 100% of course. Since the guy didn’t have to “chase” you, he might take you for granted and not truly love you and treat you like a queen. I’ve spoken to a few brown men and they’ve all be garbage. Because the cult…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:37 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ. God I wish we could all beat up men collectively. Some of us can hold him down, while other beat up him. My blood is boiling
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 12:32 AM
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Girl, run for your life. He’s a musician who are even 10X more gross than average men. He’s a loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:00 PM
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This is why I believe in hypergamy. Don't tell yourself you can't do better in social class. I am not saying you have to date a billionare old dude, but I will only date someone who makes more than me (at least 6 figures)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:22 PM
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I'm Indian and I agree 100%
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:58 PM
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Just say “that’s not my standard, I do dinner for a first date” and if he still doesn’t agree then block him. We can’t force men to change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 11:59 AM
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Lmao. I will never see him again and besides it’s social media. Who cares? Even if a guy did nothing “wrong” you don’t have to keep anyone around imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:09 AM
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Sweetie, it means he is broke 😩🙄😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:40 AM
2

hug I’m in a similar boat. I wish I had direction or a “talent”. But I hope it gets better for you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:36 AM
3

Yea I’ve tried meds too... but thanks a lot. I appreciate the support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:27 PM
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Yea I’ve seen two therapists and I have tried making new friends and to no avail.... sometimes I want to give up. I’m too lazy to take up new hobbies etc... I wish the corona virus would take me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:21 PM
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That is right. I just cried now because my self esteem is low because of my past experiences and my conditioning from childhood. I know I’m pretty and smart. I deserve better. I have several depression so it’s hard to cope sometimes. I sometimes feel broken and unwanted and that I think there is no one for me, so it’s a process.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 11:14 PM
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Here’s the video : https://youtu.be/qGFM4rtmj-c I recommend her channel too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:48 PM
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Yes that’s true. I just find myself still thinking those thoughts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:46 PM
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I’m 27 and I’ve had so many shitty experiences and I fear being alone forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:35 PM
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Pardon I read the post wrong. I thought it meant she would be a part of the foster care system. My apologies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 10:11 PM
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I made out with a guy and blocked him a few days later. Boy bye 👋🏼 nothing happened but it’s just a preventative measure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:55 PM
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How do you post a video like this? I wanted to post this earlier but it wouldn’t format correctly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:07 PM
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Girl you are wasting your own time 🤡🤪🤡🤡 it will only get worse. He is not invested in this relationship like you are. He barely cares about you. What are you a scientist?? “Observe” 😂😂🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 05:00 PM
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So what are you staying for if you agree with the first paragraph? 🤡🤡😂😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:53 PM
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If he’s so great then why is he so thoughtless? 🤔🤔 and why tell FDS in the first place. He only cares when he wants to
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:50 PM
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Girl you have an emotional connection with him..... he doesn’t have one with you 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:38 PM
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Exactly “waiting” for him to respond.... 🤡🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:19 PM
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“Options” like this guy is anything special and there aren’t many guys out there. It’s the problem with women: they cling to anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 04:05 PM
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I've given this advice 1000001 times: Girl, block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:06 PM
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LMAO "at risk pick me" girl i hope it gets better for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:04 PM
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Of course! because I used to think like that too unfortunately , so every girl should know that. Sometimes as women we need to grow up and not live in childhood fantasies. (a problem I used to have)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 03:02 PM
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Yea men have no self reflection, they don't realize that they do this. They are not capable of complex thought and being honest with themselves.... they are children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:32 PM
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Girl this needs to be a poster. We are conditioned like this urgh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:26 PM
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Men are ungrateful beings, they don't care. They only care about their own ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 01:19 PM
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Sounds Like an interrogation 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 02:07 AM
16

Honestly I give men until 22-25 because men are given 30+ and women aren’t. So really they mature soooo slow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:13 AM
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Block too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:38 AM
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Who cares about being polite, fuck em. Self confidence comes from within and not caring if people like you/don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:59 PM
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Exactly thank you, $50 is a lot for a dusty 😩😩 like women spends hundreds on fashion, makeup and treatments etc a month. $50 is close to nothing for me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:53 PM
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Don’t forget taking you to McDonald’s 🥴🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:59 PM
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Girl, block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 09:41 PM
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Ew any 29 year old guy that sleeps with a 16 years old is DISGUSTING. Thats R Kelly and Aaliyah territory. Also he is mentally immature that he thinks that he can relate to a high schooler. YUCK YUCK YUCK Anyway I am 27 and I feel like giving up too on men. But there are many men out there (even if they are hard to find). That guy is LV anyway. But I am glad you blocked him, never speak to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:09 PM
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WeLl iF yOu wErENt InSeCuRe bitch shut up. I spent money on nice things because I can and I do what I want. Men want beautiful women for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 04:06 PM
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Fuck men, do what you want. I personally got laser because the pubic hair would rub against my underwear and cause me to itch. But that was my personal choice. I still get hair, just not as much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 02:00 PM
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Other men are the problem 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 12:27 AM
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Like twice a year lmao if that. I hate men and I probably won’t date in 2020 or ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 10:58 PM
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And plus the number one danger to women IS men. The number one danger for men is heart disease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 09:09 PM
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We don't live in a society anymore where men feel the need to protect women. If anything they pretend to take advantage of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 07:02 PM
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You do realize only women can birth babies right? If they choose to have a baby in the future its the WOMAN who gives birth. Traditionally speaking, marriage is an proposition by the man to take a woman off the market because she is the prize. And besides you never know what goes behind close doors in a relationship. Those couples are only allowing you to see what you WANT to see. Any man that doesn't have to guts to propose and the woman feels the need to lock her man down is alarming. Men are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 06:56 PM
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Just because your friends seem happy that doesn't mean they are. Women proposing is out of order. We are the ones who have to sacrifice and give birth so a man should be proposing to a woman. Women are the prize, not the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 06:32 PM
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$1000? thats a bit much tbh. He might be a narcissist and you are way too smitten over him and he can probably sense that too and might taken advantage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:17 PM
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ew a guy literally wanted me to do this once too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 03:05 PM
4

Thanks for the love! It’s just hard out here lol esp when you’ve had bad experience after bad experience and just want to be left alone at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 12:00 PM
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Even tho it’s gross, atleast he gave a heads up. This one guy sent me a dick pic on snap and wanted me to send a video back of me touching myself 🤢🤢. Oh and never speak to a man past 9, that’s horny hours.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 11:34 AM
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Dating shows just triggers my anxiety lol and makes me feel more alone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/20 11:32 AM
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Broke dusty. NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 11:55 PM
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What a piece of shit. Men use a 3 in 1 body wash and have the nerve to comment on a woman’s body. He can eat shit and die
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 07:50 PM
74

“Hey”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:56 AM
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Mixed signals is a no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 08:11 PM
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I’m 27 and it doesn’t get better lol quality guys find someone at a younger age. They don’t stay single long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 05:00 PM
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Why else would a guy spend months with me without sex? Lvm would dip out. Of course I want both. Sex is about security and intimacy. Even if he doesn’t feel “love” like a woman, I still get something from it. I’m not asexual you know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:46 AM
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I never said to have sex with someone you don’t love. I said nothing about casual sex. Of course I believe in vetting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:40 AM
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Yea with a HVM of course. It’s just frustrating. I think that’s what causes most ppl to lower their standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:39 AM
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Because I am a human being who deserves love? Just because some food we eat is bad that doesn’t mean we stop eating. We just stop eating that food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 12:32 AM
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Yea but we want sex lol excuse the pickmeisha ness
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 11:42 PM
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Younger guys are terrible too. Immature and childish. You have to raise them and play a mother figure, they are entitled af. Atleast a man our own age or a bit older is established in his career more. Even a guy one year younger than me was complete trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:30 PM
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Exactly thank you. Someone here said the dating pool is fine. Like what world are you living in. I’ve always held FDS standards but no men has been high value enough. I feel like I missed out on college but most guys are dumb there anyway too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:26 PM
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Yea but men don’t give a shit 🙄 they think their nut is magical at any age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:24 PM
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It depends I guess. But it def gets harder as you get older. We can argue numbers all day. What’s the difference between 30 and 35 really. Female fertility starts to drop at 35.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:13 PM
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Yes probably because they are young and probably don’t have kids. They also have less baggage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 10:10 PM
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I’m 27 and tired to chile
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:52 PM
56

Vibes means he wants to waste your time sweetie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 09:42 PM
14

Everyone is having a hard time. Online dating is a cess pool and I don’t go out often enough. Even ppl who do go out often dont find some one who is HV
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:53 PM
20

Honestly I would just say “that’s none of your business.” Don’t give them the satisfaction. Low value men will ask too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:50 PM
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People are CLOWNS for being loyal during the talking stage 🤡🤡🤡 and please don’t tell the guys you are dating multiple people at once. They don’t need to know, just do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 08:21 PM
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We all make mistakes. Society recently has conditioned us to be pick mes because men are so lazy and entitled. They us to do everything (pay for dates and ask THEM out). You just have to forgive yourself and vow not to make the same mistake again. Most men are awful, don't bend yourself like a pretzel for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 02:34 PM
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Anything is possible. Older men are more likely to have the money to take you somewhere nice (even if you don’t end up serious) and can afford nice gifts. Guys on their 20s are building and expect you to build with them. Also they won’t get you luxury gifts like jewelry or handbags. They will probably buy heart shaped jewelry 🤢😂 and plus men mature slower so even though there is an age difference, mentally you’re on the same playing field. Guys on their 20s still pay video games and want to pick…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 01:07 AM
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Yea something is up. Always trust your gut as a woman. Every woman has always regretted not trusting their gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:19 PM
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Oh yeah for sure. Atleast be done with college. That’s gross 🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 10:10 PM
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I honestly don’t think you should date 30 year old men until 25. I’m 27 and saw a 39 year old guy and he was the only guy who was an actual gentleman. Men my age are still scumbags who think they are still in college. But yes I guess don’t enter college thinking you will find your soulmate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 09:56 PM
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Like how many clues does a person need that he doesn't want to be with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:42 PM
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A guy told me I had a nice voice on the phone and I said "ok" he repeated it again and I said "I heard you the first time you said it" never give them the satisfaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 08:40 PM
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Society codles them for so long. And plus at that age their sex drive goes out which allows them to use their fucking head. We can get pregnant at 12, we have to deal with womanhood at an earlier age than a man is forced to deal with manhood. Men arent men until they are married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 07:00 PM
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Trust your gut. The fact that youre even posting here means something. I've had school projects but we met in public. Library, computer lab etc. There is no need to go to someones house. Thats inappropriate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:55 PM
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If you read this please divorce. Therapy will get you no where. He is a piece of shit. This is his personality, he won’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:16 PM
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Find hobbies and interests and maybe meet men there. There is no 100% foul way. All I know is that online dating is a cess pool and waste of time if you’re looking for a HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:49 AM
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Only women feel the need to pity date men. Men never date women because they feel sorry for women. Your sister is fine and the guy seems fine with the rejection. We can’t be attracted to everyone. Your friend circle needs to grow up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:46 AM
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Yes both parties need to make an effort. Women spend a lot more of course. But a man should dress appropriately. I know a girl who knows went on a date with a guy who wore sweatpants 🤢🤢 High maintenance means a man can’t afford you and you need to drop him. I bought myself a Chanel bag and flaunt it proudly. So if a man see that, that signals I have high standards and that he has to come correct. A broke dusty won’t even bother. How you put yourself together absolutely matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 02:42 AM
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The reason men do or don’t cheat is because of opportunity. Now a days men have much more Opportunity because of social media. A rich ugly guy and a poor good looking guy can have women throwing themselves at them because their are enough pickmeishas out there. Men don’t have a moral compass. They don’t care. The only thing they care about is ego, they never cheat on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:58 AM
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Men always say they help with the chores equally but they never do because men are inherently lazy. At most they take out the trash once a week and think they are hot shit 🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:57 AM
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He is the asshole. He has enough to pay everything and for her not to work and take care Of the baby and house. People in the comments have the nerve to say “percentage”.. percentage these nuts, a man is suppose to be a full provider.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:45 AM
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Well avoid tinder and online dating. Guys on their just wanna put as low effort as possible to get pussy. The only tinder date I went on a guy wanted to go Dutch so I went to the bathroom and never came back. What’s his age? His profession? Where did he invite you? How does he dress? All these are clues to how much he spends on himself vs how much he will spend on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 11:30 PM
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Girl who cares. That’s the problem with women. They want to diagnose everything. You’re not interested and you didn’t sleep with him. Block
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 09:17 PM
9

Hes a dick. He doesn't have shit going on in his head, thats the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 08:40 PM
2

Girl no drinks. He’s a grown ass man who should be taking you for dinner. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:22 PM
3

He’s way too old for him to take you on drinks and not an actual meal. Block him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 06:14 PM
11

I understand. I’m a work in progress too. As women we tend to be too affectionate because it’s on our nature. I would just pull back a bit. Good luck!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 03:11 AM
24

All the comments underneath it is gross 🤢🤢🤢 they are actually praising her 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:16 AM
40

Eh I wouldn’t cook, clean or do laundry for someone who is not my husband. Even if you’re gonna get him a gift don’t make it too expensive. Idk what you did for your ex but men get bored and ungrateful pretty easily. Even if a man is HV you always have to protect yourself first imo And why did you enjoy doing things for a lvm?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:13 AM
155

This has to be a troll 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 12:09 AM
2

1.Get a prenup that benefits you 2. Use your single life to have investments and savings (stocks, houses etc passive income) 3. Have him give you some sort of stipend or money a month just for shopping etc 4. Work part time or at home 5. Have skills and a college degree to fall back on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:29 PM
20

Just tell him that. That you liked to be wined and dined
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:29 PM
8

Very few are good and not worth our mental health looking for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:14 PM
8

What do you mean by shady?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 09:11 PM
10

Yea American men are lazy. They think immigrant take all their jobs and are not motivated like men in foreign countries. Atleast men in foreign countries have the provider mentality
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 06:41 PM
14

I remember Rihanna said a man has to love you more than you love him. Don’t spend as much on gifts than he does on too. Don’t be super touchy feely everyday. Don’t say I love you everyday. Don’t respond to texts or calls so quickly. Be busy. Men like a challenge. Shera seven made a video called “over emotional woman can’t win this game” you should check it out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:28 PM
38

🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:24 PM
23

Yea American men are esp selfish. And 50/50 dusties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:55 PM
8

It cost me gas, time to put on hair and makeup etc. shower. And my mental health. Even social media has done the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:54 PM
24

It’s a cess pool
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 02:49 AM
3

Thanks for the love babe ❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 01:26 AM
3

I see thanks for your feedback !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 11:36 PM
2

I see, did he know? Did you tell him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 11:29 PM
53

This is why I hate FWB this creates low value men in today’s society. Because they are encouraged to be low effort and they pass that down to every lady they meet (who doesn’t believe in FWB). Men are cheap. They want the girlfriend duties without the commitment. I’ve tried searching for a FWB because I wanted to lose my virginity but it only made things worse... bleh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 11:25 PM
4

I see but you didn’t tell him it hurt? Pardon I am a over thinker lol 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:35 PM
17

Love her channel! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:33 PM
3

Pardon if I’m being too personal, but can I ask how it went? Did you finish? Were you wet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:32 PM
12

Of course we are against financial abuse and a man not sharing his personal bank info, not providing etc. But a man being a provider and a woman bring a homemaker isn’t abuse in of itself. Edit: Anna still makes money by her YouTube videos. There are ways to make money and be financial independent without having a traditional “job”. A lot of home makers have stay at home businesses or work part time. The reason why Anna says not to have a “job” is because women get over worked and more is expect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 08:00 PM
28

A man isnt “throwing” money at us. Women give birth, take care of the kids, cook, clean etc and we expect a man to do his part while we do ours. Women can still have careers (if they want to) and expect a man to provide for his family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:54 PM
24

We do but a man should also be a provider. Going 50/50 with a man doesn’t make you independent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:48 PM
13

Yea I’ve heard it’s a myth too. I’m asking more about my behavior so I don’t seem too nervous if that makes sense.. guys can tell because I seem nervous when the topic of sex comes up? Idk but yeah.. I’d rather never tell a guy and let him just assume what he wants. Even if he is HVM, I have to put myself first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 07:30 PM
13

Exactly we are expected to be “strong” and “independent” 24/7. When we are human and have emotions too. No one has it together all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:58 PM
45

Exactly they are lazy and get depressed over ONE issue (like making money) when more women graduate college then men despite our problems. Men are so coddled in this society and it’s still not enough for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:55 PM
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Yea men are the ones who made the patriarchy and then complain about it. And if I’m being totally honest women face a lot more problems in life which cause them to be depressed. All a man has to worry about is making money. They can be fat and ugly, as long as they have money. For women we are expected to have careers, look good 24/7, cook, clean, do laundry, give birth, periods, health complications, look after the kids and be sexy. So I don’t have a lot of sympathy for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:35 PM
9

Thanks for this post!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 06:32 PM
24

Anna’s video is so much better tbh. I don’t care for Cynthia Nixon, even her character on sex and the city. She was such a work mule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 05:59 PM
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You’re talking about being bob the builder which rarely ever works. The Obama’s are the one exception to the rule. Most guys in their early 20s don’t want to settle down. They want to enjoy youth culture, hooking up, drinking, experiencing multiple people. The Obama’s come from a different generation. Obama was well ahead of his peers (Ivy League, editor of Harvard law) Obama might of been a college student but he was top of his class. If a man starts of cheap, he will stay being cheap. Since he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 12:21 AM
34

Hope you blocked him too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:42 PM
2

Calling them “less than a man”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:59 PM
5

I wouldn’t even go for college guys esp frat guys. All they do is eat ramen noodles every night so what makes you think they will take you on a regular date. They will take you to a coffee shop or hookah bar and expect to hook up after wards with no condom. Not worth it. Even if you get into a relationship with one, don’t expect a Chanel bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:47 PM
2

She has so many 🤔🤔 I watch her religiously. She was a side chick and guy said to her “he’s a dick who likes to have two girlfriends” meaning guys aren’t that complicated but women like to over analyze things. Cold blooded vs warm blooded animal. How to handle “scandal” publicly. Etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:18 AM
9

Oh yea I have google voice so they can’t track me down just in case they are a crazy. 10/10 highly recommend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 03:14 AM
9

I couldn’t find this sub Reddit? I need to cuss this guy out yesterday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 01:55 AM
2

Don’t date coworkers. Coffee dates are cheap so that’s another no. Let’s say you guys do have a relationship, he will take you for granted and not appreciate you. Don’t take on a masculine role. It’s just fun at work, don’t try to make it more than it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:35 PM
41

Shallon Lester said this and I’ll repeat it to you: “If there is a robber outside your house, looking in, wouldn’t you atleast lock your doors and windows?” “You wouldn’t care about looking cool” Blocking someone is protecting yourself and your energy. The sooner you block the quicker you will move on. Who cares if someone else thinks it is childish. Fuck em. Self esteem comes from within
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:32 PM
19

Some def teach pick me things (Mathew hussey) But If a guy is telling you the fuck boys ways or preaching courtship and traditional values then it’s worth listening to. I haven’t read the book but it seems pretty straight forward. There’s a difference between a man being interested vs passing time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:03 PM
17

Sometimes it’s nice to hear from a man? Men are Pretty simple, women over complicate things to justify whether a man likes them or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:00 PM
6

Why wait for him? Just block him completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:33 PM
23

Girl he’s using you as a free sex toy. He will continue to bread crumb you and make it look like he’s making effort. Just block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:19 PM
5

I think it depends. I’m 27 and I dated a 40 year old and he’s the only guy to treat well. A guy my age literally forced a bj out of me in car. He was a friend of a friend and he told her that he wasn’t interested in me. Biggest pick me shit I ever did. Anyway I’m too old to be manipulated etc I’m old enough to read the signs from this reddit and other online sources. It’s different when you’re in college because you’re so busy with studies you don’t know how the real world is like. I used to hat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 09:59 PM
1

Yea, I've been there just not the money part. Most men are cheap and aren't rich enough to be sugar daddies, being broke and spitting bills is the new normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:39 PM
1

This is why I never understood FWBs. Atleast I can understand Sugar Daddies because they have the money to pay bills/take you shopping. You want to sleep with someone fine, but at least get something out of it. (assuming there is no abuse)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:34 PM
5

Yea Eastern and Western cultures differ. In eastern cultures people dont do PDA. If you go to China, India, etc you won't see a couple kissing in public or holding hands. Same with affection. Arranged marriages are common too and love isn't a priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:13 PM
5

Girl this makes you a racist. Please block her mods
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:43 PM
2

Some guys from men’s rights messaged me about this and I blocked 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 12:03 PM
20

Yuck!!! On a first date a guy walked me to my car and got my phone from the restaurant because I left it by accident. Some men are something else
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 02:14 AM
126

God damn... Yea her potential got ruined by her family... sorry to hear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:04 AM
50

I have a older brother.. didn’t do anything for me lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 01:02 AM
113

Women are always expected to put others first 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:43 PM
279

He wants a daughter to raise his kids instead of being a father... classic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:19 PM
1

I’m sorry babes. Most non virgins have emphasized with me, even if it’s just Reddit. It’s just men who are assholes. Let’s say I find a HVM tomorrow who is worthy to sleep with I won’t even tell him I’m a virgin because I’ve regretted telling guys in the past or they could just tell by my body language. It gives me panic attacks just thinking about it because what if I look stupid my first time or I sabotage it somehow. Idk sometimes I just want to get it over with but I know it will only make i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:49 AM
1

Thanks for the support! It’s just frustrating because no guy has never taken a real interest in me (wanting to know my favorite things, facts about me) and they’ve only wanted to use me for one thing. So it’s triggering I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 12:17 AM
1

Yea it only gets harder once you get older.... because they expect you to have some experience and I haven’t even had a proper bf lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 04:45 AM
1

Thanks for the support! It’s what everyone says lol I kind of lost hope at this point because the good guys at my age are taken and the older guys go for younger girls (under 25). And I don’t go out a lot so I’ve accepted there is probably no one for me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 03:23 AM
4

Thanks for the support ! It is just hard when you see other women with HWM (not to sound like a hater) and you wonder why it hasn’t happened to you yet and what you are doing wrong. When we don’t have something (for me sex) we tend to hyper focus on it. So I just try to control my desires but it is not easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 10:31 PM
23

I’m a 27 year old virgin and I often think about this. I’ve been pressured by 2-3 guys in the past which has left me traumatized. I want sex badly.. with the right person but it doesn’t seem to really exist.. sometimes I’m too hard on myself for still being a virgin but I then I hear women say they don’t really like it so idk lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:57 PM
19

That man deserves neither. No man deserves a Rollie or a rental property. Only if that’s been your husband for 10 years
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 07:16 PM
5

Yea I hate that too. Don’t call me baby etc or anything for atleast a month. Even then I don’t like pet names
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 05:25 PM
6

exactly men cant even afford one woman, let alone two
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:36 PM
6

I think your list is good. I’ll say 6 figures atleast, traditional gender roles (I want to be a SAHM), high EQ, 5’10 or taller. Active in his kids’ life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:55 AM
2

Oh awesome I listened to it on audible 😊 we should add that to approved books maybe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 01:49 AM
17

Hes a man so obviously he will say things in men's favor. He is making a new generation of pickmeishas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:52 PM
15

He needs to ask you to be his gf and exclusive. Otherwise, he has you on a rotation with other girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:50 PM
28

2- "Women are entitled to our money! We are your husband not your father!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:49 PM
4

This is such a mess. I don't know where to start. Its her life but maybe recommend her some hypergamy Youtube Channels or books or this reddit even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:19 PM
6

Theres a book called "The Nice Girl Syndrome" try that if you like to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:52 PM
15

Remember: women get paid less in the workplace than men for the same job. It costs more time and money to be a woman (make up, clothes, hair, nails, perfume, perfume etc) so the least a man can do is treat you. Don’t act overly shocked when someone pays for you. Just smile and say thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:48 PM
49

If a guy doesn’t make a plan in a day or two then block. No need to waste weeks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:45 PM
8

Hi guys!!! I just wanted to recommend some stuff!! YouTube: Asha cee YouTube : doctor ramani (talks about narcissism) Book: the nice girl syndrome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 12:35 PM
26

A hot mess. A man is spending more on himself than you? RUN FOR THE HILLS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:31 AM
5

Take him to the small claims court
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:06 AM
19

I say this to ALL ladies: ALWAYS PUT YOURSELF FIRST, MEN DO IT EVEN WHEN THEY ARE IN RELATIONSHIPS. Family is there to help you in hard times; take it. Do you know how expensive grad school is? And they are willing to pay for it? I think my answer is obvious...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 03:34 AM
48

cant forget being a free hooker
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:32 PM
9

This is a terrist organization while most violent acts are committed by MEN and a lot of them are depressed incels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:02 PM
26

Yea live in relationships benefit men more than women because he got wife benefits without marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:50 PM
28

I don't think men even realize how cheap and fboy they are. They will literally use a girl for sex and then say "well it was only a day so she should get over it" like WTF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:03 PM
109

Honestly men are this terrible. Yes we should vet men as much as we can but we will never know how a man is truly until something bad happens .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:48 PM
29

And when we ask them “would you want your daughter to be treated like this?” And it’s a different story. Also men want “wifey” when they don’t want to be husbands 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 05:35 PM
56

Honestly all of this is so true. I also want to add most men are CHEAP. They want to take to a $3 coffee and want their dick sucked afterwards. Then they lose interest because a girl was too "easy" when all you did was take advantage of a naive girl. But women are taught to lower on standards in order to meet with men's. We are taught to be ok with mediocrity because men don't want to step up. Men are entitled and expect a free hooker, cook and nanny without being providers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:28 PM
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