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| 40 | I really wish men could understand and accept that yes, your genetics do determine a lot of your value! Regardless of whether or not you can "control" it.A man definitely wrote this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 10:15 AM |
| 7 | I am losing faith in humanity, and by that I mean the “man” part of it.I think it's weird to call your mom mommy and your dad daddy but not for a sexual reason. I just think it sounds extremely childish. However, I have friends who do that and I don't think less of them because of that. It just sounds weird to my ears but it's fine if they want to call their parents Mommy and Daddy. I find it more weird that he thinks daddy is a sexual term and not literally what little girls call their father. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 12:57 PM |
| 2 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveThis is so confusing. So people agreed with me when I said pretty privilege existed and even when I compared your denial to it with how white people deny white privilege but disagreed when I said that sexism (since you're a woman), racism (since you're not white), and classism (since you're probably not rich) trumps your pretty privilege. I don't get it lol. Those things do make it harder for you to benefit from pretty privilege. Also they support you misgendering other women... interesting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:47 AM |
| 2 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveYou remember being 1? It was an example. I never said you were white. But that obviously flew over your head. If advocating for pretty privilege being a thing means I'm a pickmeisha than so be it. I don't really give a damn tbh. Also maybe you don't benefit from it because you're indigenous. Having pretty privilege unfortunately doesn't shield one from racism, sexism, classism, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:13 AM |
| 12 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveYou've obviously never been ugly. White people say the same thing when we bring up white privilege. It's hard to see your own privilege usually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:03 AM |
| 28 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveYes especially with fat women. Men AND women do this to them. They think it's okay to treat people disrespectfully because they're fat so they deserve it. It's sad to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:01 AM |
| 27 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveYou did say that though... You said your conventional beauty provides no real privilege. Which is false. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:51 AM |
| 429 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsThese are the same nasty men that complain about women not wanting them. This is why you get posts from guys saying "I started to shower regularly and now tons of girls are interested in me" that have 5 million upvotes. Like... grown ass men are figuring out on the daily that showering and brushing their teeth regularly will make women less repulsed by them, but they'd rather blame it on their looks and spout misogynistic bullshit all day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Things your rapist can use against you in courtWhich country is this based on? I'm assuming it's the USA, but I just want to be sure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 01:42 AM |
| 13 | Seriously though, imagine a grown-ass adult not knowing how to cook and clean for himself, and floating through life secure in the idea that he'll find a bangmaid to save him.unfortunately there are still many pickmes who will | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 05:53 AM |
| 20 | I notice these unfunny memes everywhere on social media now since joining FDS. Would usually just scroll on without a thought but now 🤡 clown culture is hard to scroll past without the temptation to roast.I thought the meme is making fun of pick mes is it not? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:42 AM |
| 140 | But Porn Is Supposed To “Empower” Women, Right? How Empowered Do You Think She Feels RN? 🙄The crazy thing is these men watch porn. So you watch porn so you can jack off to women who you at the same time, don't respect??? The logic! This is why most men really aren't worth the time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:39 AM |
| 154 | But Porn Is Supposed To “Empower” Women, Right? How Empowered Do You Think She Feels RN? 🙄I'm going to assume it's because she's never used a dictionary before. Pornography means sexually explicit videos, photographs, writings, or the like, whose purpose is to elicit sexual arousal. So unless she is just taking selfies from the neck up of her smiling, she's doing porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:32 AM |
| 2 | Valuable insight. Honesty isn’t always honesty. It’s manipulation.Lol I think they changed my flair once because I insinuated that prostitutes don't have standards lol. It was some post about something a prostitute tweeted lol and ever since that comment I've had this flair. Before that it was FDS Newbie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 01:45 AM |
| 88 | Valuable insight. Honesty isn’t always honesty. It’s manipulation.The guy who said that is a complete asshole. full stop. It may be "honest" but that doesn't make it any less of an asshole thing to say. He pretty much told her "You're too fat to be my gf but since I'm a shitty human being women I'm into want nothing to do with me so I'm willing to cuddle with you cause I'm lonely." I hope women have enough self esteem to not allow shitty men the pleasure to even be within one foot of them but I know many women who would gladly give up the P for a shitty as guy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:04 AM |
| 11 | Looks like my search for a HVM is finally over, he even made a new account to message me, I feel so special!these men are so desperate it's sad | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 02:12 PM |
| 14 | BasicallyBut for the lucky ones, like me, a boy never comes along and I can keep doing me for the rest of my life. Let's hope it stays that way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 12:03 PM |
| 14 | FFS This is terrifying. Stay safe out there.this is why men are bullshitting when they say "not all men" if it was not all men, they would be calling out the other men saying fuck shit like this. their silence condones it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 10 | 'CoMpRoMiSe!!'literally though... this isn't even an exaggeration | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Recognize when you’re doing this and block that man on everything. When you’re truly over someone, you won’t care if they see you leveling up.a lot of people's exes deserve to be blocked. some of them are crazy toxic and horrible people you should definitely block them. it's not about them seeing you leveling up it's about not wanting such a horrible person to have access to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 03:54 AM |
| 1 | but where is the lie?????FACTS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 12:09 PM |
| 39 | When men scoff at women who talk about the dangers that we face - every day - I always think about this chart. It doesn’t even include violence by strangers, friends or family members. Don’t you dare downplay the threats we face during dating or relationships.Also, US Troops includes women. But they like to pretend only men can be soilders too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 04:52 AM |
| 43 | Of course this doesn’t get over thousands of upvotes and over a hundred awards. People only care about men and I’m getting sick of it.wow an unpopular opinion that is actually unpopular in that subreddit/this men filled cesspool of a site. that subreddit is a large circle jerk of opinions that arent unpopular at all, at least not amongst these misogynistic type men who fill this website. I'm sure they didn't take your post to kindly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 03:55 PM |
| 3 | 😂😂😂Seriously, I'd love to do this for someone but I don't think I'd ever meet anyone that would deserve this from me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 01:42 AM |
| 131 | Pick Me Of The Decade Got Me Banned From Dating Over 30 For Putting Her In Her Place After She Came At Me & Lied About Having A Boyfriend When I advised A Recently Pumped & Dumped OP Woman To Withhold Sex Until Commitment If That Is What She Wanted-5th Similar Type Of Post On The Sub This WeekIt's funny because a lot of woman feel like shit for being pumped and dumped and yet at the same time they don't want to wait to see if the guy is actually worthy of having sex with. It's not about whether or not you want to have sex or whether or not you enjoy sex it's about whether or not you would want to give that part of yourself to a man who is a piece of shit and will end up making you feel like shit afterwards. Wouldn't it feel better to have sex with someone who is actually a good perso… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 04:22 AM |
| 9 | Good luck with thatAny woman who would allow a man to do this to them has serious issues and they need to get help. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 10:13 AM |
| 3 | Being a woman is worse than being a pedo/sLol what? Did you just call black people African Americans lmfao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/20 02:51 AM |
| 22 | Being a woman is worse than being a pedo/sI've been to the UK, have black family who live in the UK, and know lots of black women who are British in real life. Let's not lie and pretend like white brits are that different than white Americans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Cmon reallyI was so confused because every time I read "we're" I kept thinking he meant we as in us as in women lol. My brain couldn't comprehend that he meant men lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 05:13 AM |
| 16 | Even if he is sleeping with you. It doesn't mean that he is in to you. He might just substitute you for his hands.I got second hand embarrassment lowkey by reading what the OP of that post wrote. Did she really not realize that men are number 1 at using women for sex. They will close their eyes and pretend you're another girl. So many men regret sleeping with women they thought were unattractive hence why they hit it and quit it then proceed to block you on everything and never talk to you again. They just might change their whole number too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:55 AM |
| 7 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryIf you can still be attractive with a strong nose, what was the point of all this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:36 AM |
| 5 | My HVM told me he had plastic surgeryThis is so shallow and fucked up. You should raise your kids to love themselves no matter what they look like. Your kids should be able to feel high self esteem and self love whether or not society deems them unconventionally attractive or not. Isn't it a low value trait to be insecure and lack self esteem regardless of how you look? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:33 AM |
| 9 | This made me feel sick! TikTok is one of the most disgusting social media’s.Have people reported this on tiktok? Tiktok supposedly claims to be family and kid friendly so I would assume they'd take this seriously. But then again, tiktok has a shady track record. I hope this gets taken down though. This is sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:28 AM |
| 12 | Why do ugly guys treat you like you're the ugly one once you give them a chance?Because they honest to god think that because they scored you, they must look better than you. It's illogical but they lack logical reasoning skills. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 03:56 AM |
| 11 | A reminder that "no" is always a complete sentence. You don't owe anyone an explanation, a dance, a drink, a date, or sex. Someone who does not respect your boundaries is someone who has no respect for you.I've seen women get their nose broken in clubs for this (for saying no). We definitely should say no, but I can understand how women can be afraid to when there's so many unstable dudes who can't handle rejection. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | I got mad at first but got pleasantly surprisedI wonder how he knew she said thicc instead of thick if they were talking | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:07 AM |
| 15 | This woman has a bunch of tiktoks similar to what FDS preaches. This one is about Netflix & chilling!I think most women know netflix and chill is hit it and quit it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 12:48 PM |
| 11 | YikesThe fact that she thinks that's funny is so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:21 AM |
| 18 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴I've never been in one and I'm 27. Videos like this help lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:02 AM |
| 4 | Be careful who you marry and/or procreate with. To make matters worse, this guy is unemployed while she works full time 🥴And MOST men are like this! I know so many women that praise their boyfriends/fiances and once they marry all of a sudden it's abuse. But it wasn't actually all of a sudden. They just ignored all the red flags until they got married and then finally decided to be annoyed by them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 07:00 AM |
| 16 | One smart Grandma! I came across this post on LinkedIn, and the comments were full of PickMes and men saying that this is “misandrist and dishonest”. Ladies, looking out for yourself is in YOUR BEST INTEREST.I don't get why people would even want to have a joint bank account in the first place. It's money I worked for and earned. It should definitely be separate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:30 AM |
| 40 | disgusted but never surprisedthe flatmate is an insecure pick me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/20 01:20 PM |
| 1 | HypocrisyI thought phoebe was south asian. phoebe doesn't look black at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/20 12:50 AM |
| 2 | “Will cry if you yell but also will get wet”, “insecure but will wear minimal clothing around you” + the red elbows and knees... what the hell is this pornsick shitlmao what??? this made me die laughing like wth? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 01:39 PM |
| 14 | I literally can’t stop laughing. Scrote pressures wife into “open marriage” doesn’t go the way he thought it would...I read something so similar years ago on reddit even with similar wording but the woman in that scenario was plus sized and he was shocked that she was getting so much d, while he wasn't getting anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Sex Workers telling lies to male clients to drum up business. Imagine having self esteem this low.I didn't know sex workers had standards. good to know... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 05:29 PM |
| 147 | Because asking your fiancé to spend time with you isn't "worth the fight." Also, if you've been engaged for a long time and use his last name on socials, you've already lost...This is so.... embarrassing. I don't get the desperation to be with a man so bad that you'll accept anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 13 | Please remember men like this exist. This was taken from a post about men having babies with one night stands or FWB if the woman gets pregnant. Pleaaaassseee respect yourself enough to never be in the predicament of being pregnant with a losers childYup, which is why both parties need to be responsible. Also people should use a condom even whilst on bc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 04:56 PM |
| 44 | Please remember men like this exist. This was taken from a post about men having babies with one night stands or FWB if the woman gets pregnant. Pleaaaassseee respect yourself enough to never be in the predicament of being pregnant with a losers childTbh it would absolutely ruin my life if I had a kid. But the difference is, I take the precautions not to have one. If men don't want kids, they need to be more mature and responsible about sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 02:51 PM |
| 37 | ‘Cool girls’ out in full force on OLDboth sides sound like girls... especially the fact that the other side says clap these cheeks .... like that's not how it's used but then again whenever aave goes mainstream it becomes butchered misused and misinterpreted but besides that, I honestly think the girl with the profile picture is trolling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:27 PM |
| 28 | Reddit User complaining about FDS shares salary unprompted and admits to making his dates pay an ugly taxI'm confused at how he even finds good and healthy relationships with that horrible attitude that he's displaying. Also I don't think women that are making as much as him would ever date him. He sounds like a complete tool and I can't imagine that a woman can be a pickmeisha and also make that much money at the same time. Because I'm assuming in order to make that kind of money, you have to be something really technical like an engineer, and I can't see an engineer woman entertaining this man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 07:16 PM |
| 14 | She waited 9 years for this... it’s not so much the diamond size, it’s more the fact that it obviously doesn’t even fit properly!where is this from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 03:19 AM |
| 23 | Cool Girl Explains Why She’s Better Than Us Because She’s Okay Accepting Less Than We Arewow and people are comparing this sub to mgtow that doesn't even make sense because mgtow are distancing themselves from women and literally hate women this sub doesn't hate men... people really are dumb stuff like this proves that sexism is still alive and well because whenever a women try to get better for themselves we are shamed for it and compared to actually fucked up men like mgtow it's really telling when they compare women trying to date men who are actually good for them and not abusiv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 02:46 PM |
| 15 | Cool Girl Explains Why She’s Better Than Us Because She’s Okay Accepting Less Than We AreWhat? I've never seen misandry on this sub... what is she talking about? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | It’s tough out there for you fellas 😂Maybe it's because I didn't start using OLD until I moved to Korea and it's taboo af here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/20 12:58 PM |
| 29 | It’s tough out there for you fellas 😂lmao do people really use tinder in public though? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 05:38 AM |
| 63 | Reminder to never tell them about past abuseMy dad actually slapped me in the face so hard in elementary school, my nose started bleeding. Because I opened the door to tell my friend that I can't play because I have to fold laundry. But people say I'm supposed to love him because he's my father. The amount of shit he put me through is justified by the public eye cause he's a man. It was definitely the only tool in his arsenal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/20 03:13 AM |
| 14 | LVM will claim that gender roles don’t exist when they absolutely do: Tinder exchangegender roles don't just disappear because you say so... that's something you have to actively fight to eradicate they're so annoying cause they of course will say that when it comes to things that benefit them but will fight hard in favor of gender roles when it benefits only them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 11:03 AM |
| 11 | Spotted: Delusional MRA Valedictorianthis is absolutely fucking disgusting and I can't believe it's real. I can't believe this is the screenshot of an actual Facebook and I really hope the comments under are not supporting this man. it makes me wonder what kind of a woman would want to be with a man like this? he must find and prey on women who are messed up in the head because I can't understand what kind of thought processes you must be going through to be doing all this for some man. she should have immediately blocked him once … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/20 09:55 AM |
| 74 | Probably figured out he wasn't going to marry her...evermen say "our baby" a lot for people who don't even want to contribute to raising it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/20 11:10 PM |
| 99 | "How long should a woman wait before she sleeps with you if she wants a relationship?"the only way a woman could weaponize sex is if the man value sex more than he values the actual relationship. unless he's a loser lvm, a woman shouldn't be able to hold sex over you because you would be able to go to another woman and get sex since that's all you really wanted | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 02:57 PM |
| 3 | Of course none of the famous couples are a disabled woman and an able man"need love sex and intimacy" that's a stretch love from family and friends sure but no one is entitled to nor needs romantic love or sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 02:04 PM |
| 4 | Couldn’t we just vote instead?which means that the men voting for socialism don't actually want socialism they just want their dick sucked... which means socialism will fail especially because she will only suck one dick (she used "a") and maybe not suck any dicks at alo and they would be quick to turn around I'm cancel that socialism when they realize they're not getting their dicks sucked. also there's tons of women out there who will suck their dick for free so... they don't really need this girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Couldn’t we just vote instead?right, at least you're not sucking dick for free. even though it's an unrealistic situation, if it was real and sucking a single dick really did bring on socialism, I would too. that's like saying I wouldn't suck a dick even if I get a billion dollars. look if that was a real situation, you're really telling me you wouldn't suck one dick for a billion dollars. as if before fds y'all wasn't out here sucking dicks for free from all the plethora of lvms out there... smdh although I don't condone th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:36 PM |
| 6 | Couldn’t we just vote instead?are you American? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:31 PM |
| 102 | Woman wastes 7 years of her life dating a “Forever Boyfriend”, is jealous of friends who are getting engaged, married. Never waste time as a “forever girlfriend!!!”I know this is not the point, but wow I'm only 26 and I could never imagine being married so young. Like, I feel super young and I can't imagine what it would be like to have to be in a marriage. This is definitely an insecurity I do not have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/19 03:03 PM |
| 7 | How to detect pornsick men? Share you experience.This made me realize something about a guy I liked a lot. I had a strong crush on a guy that I knew in my life and we were mutually following each other on Instagram. At one point he got a girlfriend but the relationship didn't last very long at all. Even though he had a girlfriend he was constantly liking Instagram models photos. I even saw once that he liked a photo about sex positions. Since I never dated him and we weren't really friends, I don't know that much about him but this definitely … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:24 AM |
| 5 | I think we’ve found the Pick-Me Final BossLiterally what I thought when I read that last line. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Why I don't pay on datesHow do you know the guy will pay? Like say you get to the end of the date, and the bill comes. What if you both refuse to pay. Then what? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 03:45 AM |
| 11 | Susan B. Anthony on marriage and why she never married. And her 1877 predictions regarding the future of marriage.I agree with that, and I believe that's where the first quote comes in. The men that wouldn't have treated her like a housekeeper were never available to her. You have control over your life, but you don't have control over other people. So if no men who fit your values wants to marry you, you will never get married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/19 04:39 AM |
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