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Not actually "wholesome" content, but very important to notice and this is the free award I got today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:28 AM
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This is how they broke our grandmothers!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:06 AM
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Chemistry and medicine Let's not forget everything related to pregnancy and child- birth. Males forcefully took over that field as well after burning women at the stakes and forcing them out of any medical role... (must be something to do with control or womb envy, idk who tf understands the collective male psyche). Mothers were SO much more worse off after males took over that field, in many ways, but also thanks to their catastrophic hygienic standards. Did you know that midwifes before actual…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 09:05 AM
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They tell on themselves. People often assess others on basis of their own person, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:26 PM
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Interesting, men would still need to engineer an egg- cell, and they are much harder to engineer than sperm-cells (which could be made out of blood stem cells, which could one day be an interesting opportunity for lesbian couples for example, if it would be allowed to happen). Then there is egg-fusion... so many possibilities. Not to mention that we still don't even fully understand breast milk, let alone are able to include all the KNOWN benefits of the real thing into formulas. Why is it so ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:16 PM
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You can always tell they are males by their posting- history, so be aware, some are very dedicated. I would include posts that stereotype women in a typical incel terms or uses any man.o.sphere vocabulary like calling women "Becky" or Karen (Karen might have started as a name coined by WOC for a special class of entitled white ladies, but is now a run-of-the-mill misogynistic term every white teenage boy-brat likes to use on any female authority figure really any slightly older woman he want's s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 03:05 PM
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This is a great method to only attract and keep very LV partners. (Stupid, too low self-confidence or no morals and sure to fuck YOU over too, if it suits them, dear scrotey).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 11:20 AM
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Yeah women are the products here, they want to serve you to their male customers. Too bad they forgot that first they should convince women to use their product too, as most dating apps already have way more male customers, or else it will go down the road of chat-bots, sexworkers, catfish and fake profiles and frustrated male customers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:32 AM
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How many women here were raised by LVM? 🙋‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 10:16 AM
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If you happen to be able to, acquire land (or a garden) in an strategic good area if possible, and learn as many practical skills as you can. Learn about gardening, growing your own food, permaculture, fixing things, sewing, gathering stuff in nature, living simple. You can also try some things in a sort of "adventurous" survival- trip holiday. Bond together with as many like-minded women as you can. Build a strong network. Help each other out. Build cooperatives with women, or at least set the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:36 AM
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My mum wold love for my older sisters to have a baby and help them, but she has to work so much (and probably way beyond the normal retirement age as well) it just wouldn't be doable for her. Why does she need to work her ass off now? Because she had a bunch of kids and her dear husband has absorbed all her time and resources for: child-caring & household- duties (while he could build his career), building "his" house etc.- in which he did a lot of stuff himself, he had the time because my mum t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 09:20 AM
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Lately I assembled some Ikea furniture with a friend of mine. It is not rocket- science or hard, just a very annoying and dull thing to do. Her boyfriend asked her how it was, and she responded something like "Haha even we as women managed somehow together". This is another thing I notice too often, women being convinced of their own incompetence and involving women as a whole in that kind of "incompetence". (They also often kinda joke about it as if it makes them so cute, why is that? Is that a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:49 AM
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They've dehumanized themselves even in the centuries before by their drive to paint themselves as so superior that they can freely dehumanize others. Misogyny and subjugation of women is something nearly all women on earth throughout history had to face. Imagine you have to claim superiority for the main purpose of abusing and keeping other people back, instead of working for everyone's advancement and happiness. Is this what a true leader should look like?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 08:26 AM
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she thinks she’s getting too old to have kids Somebody tell her about smbc (a much safer decision if she has the financial means).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:13 PM
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Good point. Even if it wasn't I would be highly alerted by the kind of people he obviously spends time with. Are these comments from colleagues he values enough to talk about personal stuff or even his friends? Either he is a huge misogynist who will never value her or his friends/ surroundings are so - people he obviously talks to and tolerates and who ultimately WILL have an influence on him, they also might be a good reflection of him. If the honeymoon phase is over this is exactly what she w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:10 PM
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Haha, who wants to bet he did this on purpose to try some aLpHaMaLe shit, because some dudebro- coaches told him that this will get him what he wants and any woman will immediately concur to his manly wishes. Seems funny, but I advise anyone to stay away from such guys because the frustration, if their stupid tactics don't actually work in real life the way they expected, can make them quite volatile or even dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:50 PM
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Maybe you can learn to channel your feelings in such a way that you can use them as motivation to live your best live and become as successful as you can, and help women as a whole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 11:38 PM
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Nah not if the women truly were in control of their own spaces, like you can't truly compare a "ghetto" containing a group of people in a state owned by another one with a country in which said people can be free. idk if you know what I mean, but comparing the situation in Saudi Arabia with true female separatism is just wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:48 PM
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Safe spaces alright. But women and especially girls need more, they need spaces to develop and move freely and not only such spaces that remind them that they need to be "safe", which kinda give a somewhat restrictive feeling if they are the only options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:46 PM
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Makes it seem as if women for them are mostly just projections of their own depraved thoughts and feelings which they can't control (and probably hate).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:43 PM
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Despite the disrespect and total disregard of her birth- experience this piece of shit basically laughed that she can't reach out to her dead mother any more, just to call his own mommy because he couldn't handle a grown-up situation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:14 PM
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Yes, all this, and lets not forget the shitty "friend".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 10:07 PM
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Yeah, I agree it's harmful, but I know enough people who don't have social media. These dudes were just sheepish mainstream- thinkers (sry for a lack of a better vocabulary) then, good riddance. I can see how this post might come across as feeding into these harmful stereotypes, but I still think it is important to notice this trend in rp males, and that more often than not they might not be so anti social-media as they claim. I would never take it as a red flag if anyone said they have no socia…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 04:16 PM
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You should ask yourself why that made them so suspicious... it might be more a reflection of them (their own motives of why they would do what) or because they are familiar with rp advice?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:47 PM
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Even if he would not be cheating, he treats her like sh*t. I really hope she is able to develop the self- confidence she clearly needs and wish her the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:39 PM
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Ok, but psychoanalysis never shied away to blame mothers, and sexual abused boys too often are abused by males as well? So did he specifically "protected" the fathers (males were considerably more respected in those days and many of his clients may have come from respected upper- class families as well), and then just added the other version to make his theory more "symmetrical" and also somewhat more relatable to his male audience (desiring a mature woman, the "mother-type", as a young boy, may…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 03:33 PM
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And further still, even gay sex is different, as male anuses are able to "take" more, whereas women are generally smaller/ more vulnerable in regards to the same size of the d* Unfortunately people often forget about this simple fact.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 02:59 PM
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It had a different affect on me, as I was thinking if men are like that better not get trapped in a relationship/ marriage when I am young, just to discover he deems me "useless" when we are a bit older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:01 PM
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When i see men confronted with this data they are usually proud. Are they so stupid, do they actually not understand what the data really shows? Do they think women really care if older creeps want them? Another thing I don't get is how those apps think this is actually good marketing (along with all the ads depicting--- of course: gorgeous sexually attractive women), don't they already have way more males as customers and maybe need to target more women? Their male customers are going to be so …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 08:00 PM
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Especially since an important reason why they make more is because they never have to stay home with the kids. It would be reasonable and fair, after a mother birthed and tended a kid for months, to step in and let her catch up. But nope, they would rather be parasites and have all the benefits without any drawbacks. Another reason that people really should not dismiss is the typical age-gap. In a young couple even a smaller gap of, like, three years can be a huge advantage. You can do a whole u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:44 PM
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Yes, and this could also be all the more reason why the partner takes care of other things like cleaning, washing, getting dinner ready for the mother who has to tend to the child 24/7 (while probably also healing from birth, and requiring extra nutrition because of bf), maybe even caring for the mother. But nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:24 PM
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Absolutely. They are acting as if hitting a woman if they feel so is the default, or a right they have, this is why not hitting you is such a special achievement worth mentioning in their mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 07:02 PM
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They really should lighten up a bit. Oh, and they also should learn to be a bit more rational and not so over-emotional and out of control... like sending THREATS when you don't agree or just dislike a joke is really next-level out of control and overemotional. I mean, it is hilarious. (But we still should take mental and emotional problems serious, so work on yourself, scrote. Your destructive biology does not has to be your destiny).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:12 PM
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Oh how I wish I had an auntie like that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 06:01 PM
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Also notice how he uses her total random, harmless joke as an opener for a totally unnecessary, unfunny neg. For what? Just to put her down and show her her place? People usually make jokes to connect with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:53 PM
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It is sad that they themselves set up men to fail so badly in any way, be it by building shitty relationships, removing themselves from their OWN humanity, or by setting them up to be bitterly disappointed and lonely as soon as they notice they only got older and certainly did not become miraculously more attractive and chased by (healthy) women or kids (if that is what they want). We will likely see an even bigger increase in narcissism and loneliness in older malebut guess they will only becom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:42 PM
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For real, especially after spending so many years at the country 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:21 PM
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What they also like to screech are things like: "If tHe rOlEs wErE rEvErSeD..." yeah no, dear scrote-brain... the roles have been reversed for a long time, and only as people are starting to point out the shittiness of it and maybe once turn the tables you begin to whine and act as if this isn't still a problem or ubiquitous in rEvErSeD rOlEs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 05:17 PM
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They absolutely DO date even plainly obvious "crazy" troubled women. (hello, some scrotes even find that "sexy"). More proof that a lot of males neither are protective by nature, nor do they have any true selection skills, and should not be the selectors of mates like patriarchy makes us all believe they should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:11 PM
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English is also my second language and I am not even that good at languages. His text was extremely embarrassing to read. Not because the lack of grammar etc (with a non-native speaker you can look past this) but everything is just so incoherent, a very bad programmed chat-bot couldn't even produce a worse text. People can probably write bully- bots that are cleverer than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:49 PM
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A "split personality complex" nonetheless 😂😂 But seriously, do these scrotes think they are clever when they broadcast their lack of self- awareness and respect (or intelligence) so clearly? Do they actually think this is a "gotcha"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 05:37 PM
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Is this for real? Spreading harmful, sexist and wrong information about girls? Somebody here thinks he is acting slick...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 07:15 PM
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Yes there is one thing, she can dump him and stop even thinking about the other friend who seems to be a massive, male-identified pickme, and not "beating her at everything" or in anyway "better" than her. That friend is to be pitied, not envied. Leaving with three kids this is not going to be easy, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 06:57 PM
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Just shows how for them it is never what is best for our species or society, despite all their pseudo- scientific whining about eVoLuTiOn when it suits them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:01 PM
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They only want to remove certain laws. Remove all the laws, and you remove structural control (which they want too, they have always held women in control by their laws, and in fact put a lot of effort into this). And if violent males are allowed to roam freely, everyone will suffer (including younger, weaker boys and all males who are not total bullies), but it could also make some desperate people much more dangerous. An abused, "weak" person or who has nothing to loose, and is not held back b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:59 PM
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Yep it is not natural to "lock" a woman up and isolate her like that with one man who isn't even expected to provide sufficient help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:46 PM
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Is the risk for genetic defects not just as high (if not higher) if the mother is too young? I also wonder how in those studies about women and the risks of later births the father's age hardly seems to be taken into account sufficiently. Usually the fathers are even older than the mothers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:44 PM
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Older fathers put health of partners and unborn children at risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:35 PM
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Anyone remember the Coconut- Story?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:58 PM
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He probably already has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:45 PM
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I don't see how you can feel empowered and financially independent if you are forced to live with and pay half of everything as somebody who earns FOUR times as you. Please, in those cases don't even live with those men. This way you can keep your expenses and household- costs fully under your own control, as you should, and spend/ save exactly what is appropriate for your situation. Never spend all your money if you can help it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:36 PM
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Men don't have sexual selection skills AT ALL. Yep, they select for superficial or even harmful reasons (young teens who are maybe easy to control but also the MOST likely to either die in childbirth or have damaged offspring, much worse than in the boogeyman they created of "older" mothers), or how they don't care about the intelligence of the woman or her family (when especially boys inherit those traits from the mothers side). They are susceptible to being fooled by superficial traits like so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:28 PM
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They are also perpetuating the normalization of pedo- culture. Avoid at all costs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:22 AM
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The boyfriend is porn- sick. So porn- sick, that he thinks this weird pornification and sexualization of child- parent relationships is actually normal. She should run (and surely I should hope no one ever has a kid with this dude, but unfortunately these kinds are way too common nowadays).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:20 AM
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Seems like a bunch of privileged people having the time and means to bi*ch around on social media, spreading your standard misogyny, and not having one care in the world about poor women or trafficked women. Hey, as long as they think everything is fine for them, why should they care about anyone else? Btw. "sex- worker" includes pimps, traffickers, porn- producers. THESE are the people controlling the narrative, and they have very powerful lobbies behind them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:45 PM
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Well, yeah. Misogyny basically helps guys bond with each other. There is a reason why so many "male groups" that start as a pure self- help or even self- improvement group, meant to support each other, end up getting misogynistic circle-jerks and sh*tholes. Even the in"el originally started as a harmless group of people (of both sexes!) who haven't been able to be intimate yet or something, ultimately it got a toxic self- pitting place, drove out the women and became what it is now. If society w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 08:09 PM
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She is a teenager too. They only name the perpetrator as "teenager" and the victim is a "woman". Strange, as they are in the same age- range. How about "man attempts murder of teenager", sounds completely different right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 09:00 PM
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There won't be an arrest (or if there will be the boys will hardly face any consequences, but maybe the girls will be questioned in a demeaning way), just as there won't ever be a fair and truly honest article about such incidences in mail- run media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:58 PM
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They also often seem to think being a nuisance makes them look cool (when in reality this is anything but true). Maybe they think so because in a lot of stupid movies it is presented exactly like this: An absulute nuissance of a guy brings a "cold" wahhmen out of her cool of his oh so "funny and endearing" annoyance, and therefore puts her in her place (before "winning her heart"). The end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:49 PM
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So what, nothing is going to happen to them, they will get coddled and then someone will feel sorry for them because they obviously had it soOo rough (and maybe the girls were mean anyhow, notice how they didn't even notice the boys enough but were doing their own stuff? Such mean wahhmen)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 08:43 PM
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How do you dare even thinking women might be just as good... and should be paid equally? And still get something payed by a man because Wahhmen have to work the same and still bear the reproductive brunt of your family? How dare you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 02:14 PM
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Just because a woman chooses to do something of her own volition* doesn't make it empowering. Especially if this choice is something that influences a lot of young people, is done in the scope of her "job" and pays for her (which I do not want to criticize, but it still makes it less a "private" choice but a professional, public one and therefore has a certain influence on society, it coins a message for all of us).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:37 PM
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They won't even go through changing diapers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:22 PM
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What event?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:15 PM
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So now it isn't even enough to be, say, a standard mother of two. You still are "mentally unstable" or have hormonal problems. You heard it ladies, you will never be good enough, might as well just pass. Because if your family runs into financial problems or people just generally talk about overpopulation, whom do you think they mostly like to blame? Women birthing too many children (because overpopulation in poor patriarchal countries where women don't have any possibilities for independence an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 01:01 PM
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FDS is not the only place that uses this term, and I also don't think it originated here. Other than that, good for her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:07 PM
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but then I realised it would be at a cost to them. One MUST fall in line with the the Head Dickhead because then they will be put in the firing line like you said. Thuth. But where are those men for example during any pro-woman movement or online, when so many continue so spill their bullshit and harassment there? People might not be able to speak openly in their jobs or other social situation, doesn't mean they are helpless and have no voice in different settings to help make a change in the wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:33 PM
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You might want to look up "Sir Steve Shirley", I find her very inspiring: https://www.computer.org/publications/tech-news/research/dame-stephanie-steve-shirley-computer-pioneer ​ In the realm of computing pioneers, Dame Stephanie “Steve” Shirley is one of the most celebrated, not only for building a $3 billion tech empire in 1960s England, but for doing it with an all-female, work-from-home staff of professionally qualified women who had left the work force after marrying and having children. Ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 04:26 PM
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Me too, because I am young men think they can hate on older women in front of me (and I will be flattered). But I am glad about the stupidity of those scrotes, they are showing me who they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:33 PM
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Seen this way too often in my friends boyfriends, ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:10 PM
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You don't need any kind of degree for being a daycare- worker in your country? That's interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:08 PM
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'men need to be told what to do' But I guess he still wanted to be the super-duper VP leader and get paid more than you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:05 PM
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Also because boys tend to be more aggressive/ bullying towards one another when they are in a single- sex environment? Maybe they bond better with each other if they have a bogeyman or a very specific group of "other" people to see as below them and treat bad. Males also often bond by putting down women, after all. Instead of addressing that problem it seems to be more acceptable to let girls be held back. Sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 03:03 PM
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Once again, women and girls having to act as a buffer for others shortcoming, to their own disadvantage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:56 PM
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That's interesting, and I can totally see how this goes. Unfortunately in my country there are hardly any girls- schools left, and those that exist are mostly (private) religious institutions, there may be ones that are very affordable (schools generally are not that expensive here) and provide a good education, but they still often do not have the best STEM classes, or don't offer a lot of options for women that are outside of the subjects outside the typically-female-assigned range. I should k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 02:53 PM
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As long as it does not involve cuddling or hugging you I guess...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:51 AM
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it truly is frustrating that you have to identify with what people think is a radicalized, deeply politically incorrect community in order to at all openly denounce porn despite the massive amounts of evidence backing you. Which community are you talking about? Semen-retention stuff or NoFap (I mean they are all misguided and completely cringe), or are there more?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:45 AM
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When do they expect women to birth kids now, between all the home-schooling, home-office, housework, caring for sick family members, all the while having to deal with unreliable partners, who are used to come first in society and basically just expect to be served a functional family? Given how society is geared towards mothers and the power-imbalance of the genders, the nuclear family model as it is can be a hellhole for women, and in times like these it becomes prevalent to a lot of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:26 AM
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Getting in an all-girls school can be such a blessing, but still hard at the same time, in a patriarchal society filled with internalized misogyny and it makes it easy to control different qualities of the education different groups receive. Girls school still are the best options for girls if we want them to fully thrive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:16 AM
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Working with children also requires pedagogical and psychological knowledge, physical knowledge (some stuff like first- aid specialized for kids and toddler for example), and a lot of attention (leaving kids out of the eyes in certain situations for even one seconds can lead to tragic accidents). At the very least you have to carry a lot of responsibility when caring for other kids professionally. Being a carer or physical therapists is physically very demanding (people really underestimate how …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 10:02 AM
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Cops will start to arrest the female "shamers" instead, and scrotes will start to whine how they get publicly harassed and filmed, just wait for it. They think only males are allowed to harass and creep on women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 09:02 AM
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The superior logical beings at it again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:43 PM
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"But now let me tell you my manly opinions, they are totally facts" Basically anything that sums up to: "My feelings are always totally facts because I am a man, your facts are just feelings (stupid emotional b*tc*)"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:32 PM
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Imagine what he possibly would be like if HE had much more money. Even more controlling and just as (or more) entitled? He doesn't even care about her having a nice place for a home-office, despite her job bringing in all the money? He thinks he does not need to listen to her about her reasonable choices concerning their (her) financial possibilities, but wants to dictate her to buy where it is convenient for HIM? Maybe he will never really be ambitious enough to make money or care about saving,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:21 PM
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Women are made to feel crazy for expecting basic appreciation and empathy. But if males truly are supposed to be so stupid, why should we put up with them, why should they even have the same rights or be allowed to have social responsibilities (like a leadership position)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:56 PM
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Women should start to allow themselves to not meet other people's expectations as well (even of basic reciprocation, respect, appreciation and empathy if other people don't care to show this to you). Women aren't telepaths and mind- readers either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:52 PM
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"birthdays and holidays aren't important to me." Yeah, very telling how these scrotes think it is only relevant what is important for THEM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:46 PM
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Now that he had access to intimate places of yours, have you thoroughly checked everywhere for cameras?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:28 PM
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It seems like a lot of women like to put themselves into those negative stereotypes and act as if this makes them so funny and adorable. This is very telling, because it shows how people get rewarded by confirming to other people's stereotypes, and if women conform to the negative cliches they may feel lovable and accepted. This is especially true if they grow up as a daddy- girl (a "princess" for conforming to everything daddy likes in his idea of an ideal girl/ woman). Brainwashed into low sel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:23 PM
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mechanics and other professions which are typcally male- dominated are still way better paid than typically female professions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:07 PM
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it’s a man who doesn’t value connection Well, they don't as long as they live in the illusion that everybody should (and totally does) love them without them needing to reciprocate anything. They feel entitled to this. (Maybe it is their upbringing idk). So they use women as they please, and as long as enough low- confident women will deliver them their ego- boosts they think everythink is fine. But in the end they grow old and lonely. Anyone who ever worked with older men knows how prevalent lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:53 PM
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Or their mothers, or their cat's. Probably doesn't matter, as long as they are fEeMaLe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:40 PM
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Interesting studies, considering that children (esp boys) inherit most of their intelligence (what can be inherited) from the mother's side we see once more that men maybe should not be the ones in charge of chosing the mate. Patriarchy works very much against the best- interest of our very own species. Take this dear eVoPsYcH broscientists \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:28 PM
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If ThE rOlEs WeRe ReVeRsEd
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:09 PM
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she "contributed nothing" But he says she "is a good mom". Obviously he never had to REALLY take care for a kid on his own, so he doesn't even know what that takes. How did he manage to, despite having two nearly grown-up children by now? Ah yeah, lol... thanks that wifey that "contributes nothing".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:55 PM
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Nah maybe her (male?) therapists just meant she isn't a good enough doormat. What is it with some therapists that always seem to want to keep women trapped in patriarchal standards and bad relationships. Seen this WAY too often.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:48 PM
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This edit is just is so shocking. This kind of emotional abuse the kid experienced doesn't get "resolved" just so and disappear as if it never happened, this will stay with the little child, subconsciously. We can only hope that this isn't happening too often, but it is fucked up. She should be praised for showing so much empathy and caring about her parent at such a young age. He could be proud. But instead he chooses to feel "made to feel like a bitch"(wtf?) and not only be angry at his little…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:45 PM
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...because she said he couldnt handle pain well Yeah, and she also just said this to comfort the little girl, who just got emotionally abused by this dipshit "father" of hers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:38 PM
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Funny, I never had this awakening- phase. A little bit, yes, not that hard. Might be because I grew up with an extremely controlling stepdad and saw right from the beginning how some males are (a lot of his family members were overtly toxic and misogynistic, which made a lot of things so plain obvious to me that I was even able to see the patterns in my "good" part of family and society too, just hidden). This is why I think some "daddy-girls" who think they have good male role- models sometimes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:26 PM
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But they do, there is TONS of advice out there how to manipulate women, they pay a lot for their pua stuff, courses,books, etc. It just is never about how they might manage to "keep" a good woman (we are made to believe they don't have to care about this, only women do). It is all about stroking their ego. Like making them feel superior, like a badass "hunter" while degrading an unsuspecting woman as mere "prey", feeling oh-so clever because they manage to "manipulate" (basically just lie and la…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:16 PM
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It is okay, it is not your fault that women are constantly bombarded and brainwashed with a certain mindset and tons of "advice" like: "How to be a better wifey and to how keep a man" bullshit. As if wouldn't be women mostly who end relationships or file for divorces, even despite the fact that it is mostly women who try working on/ saving the relationships. It should be males who get those "advice"- nuggets thrown at them constantly, they are the ones who benefit from having a wife. Glad you ca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 05:07 PM
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Or as soon as you are married you will be mentioned as an afterthought. Like if do something with your husband, it will be "Donny Smith and his wife" did this. If you are lucky (often the wife won't even be mentioned, like in family- businesses when they are working in the background).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:06 PM
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Seeing people as "prey" when the ultimate goal should be to get a mutual emotional fulfilling relationship is pretty messed up to begin with. Obviously this is not their goal at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:50 PM
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(Is it okay to make a post with screenshots of the review? Sure, it can give us some valuable insight in how scrotes think, after all this is what we are here for and what women need to learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:53 PM
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It is because they see themselves as deserving of love without any reciprocation, and you or any woman just as a love- giving machine, at best. Nothing more. Off topic, but did you ever notice how males panic as soon as they notice a boy might not have a "father- figure" but gets along with the female authority figures in their lives just well? These boys might learn to see women as more that just servants for their physical and emotional needs, they would have to learn to see them as authority …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 02:48 PM
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Cooperation and Intelligence versus Dominance, the good old contradiction of humankind might really be the contradiction of our sexes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:28 AM
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Not to mention the lower- quality sperm. No amount of nice skin could make up for that: Older fathers put health of partners, unborn children at risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:23 AM
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usually comments made by one or more young women that made them realize they no longer fit into the place they had frequented for years. In other words, some poor young women didn't like being hit on by older dudes and some made a comment about it. After a guy got enough of those comments that he finally notices something he feels sorry for himself and withdraws. They only go from one to the next stage of taking advantage of women- now he marries one and has someone to take care of him (adding s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:16 AM
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The moment they start to just question your very own experiences, don't believe in facts you provide or don't bother to look at them in good faith, while bringing up pseudo- science, false facts and expect you to believe everything they say at face value because they believe they are so much more "logical"... You know there is no intelligent discussion awaiting for you. So why bother? You can't have a productive discussion when there is a lack of mutual respect and one party is so up their ass b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:37 AM
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Hard to tell, as I don't know your exact situation. Maybe try to learn more about the Gray Rock technique some people here are talking about (Dr. Ramanis Videos on YT are a good resource, or search "gray rock" and see what comes up).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:29 AM
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Women already did all of the things above, but then men should start giving birth and breast- feeding babies. Oh they can't? So why are they equals? They should put their bigger muscles at use and not wast valuable resources (wasting their young high- testosterone years at schools, universities or offices etc.). \s? See: everything can always be turned around, but males live so far up their asses they truly think they deserve everything on the cost of half of humanity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:16 AM
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Yeah, as if that would be the case if you hit ANYONE. If you hit someone outside of a desperate self- defense situation you are responsible for the consequences. It is not that complicated, scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:33 AM
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"If men and women are equal, then I should be able to punch women!". Yes, that phrase is old, and it was never as clever or funny as some imbeciles think. Men punch women anyhow, especially because women are not valued as equals. But if the first thing that comes to their mind is violence (and making some completely false comparisons) those males maybe should not be equals. Next time a stupid scrote comes with this and acts as if he said something clever agree with him: This proves that he is NO…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 08:29 AM
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This is interesting, because it reminds me of a very narc guy I knew, who always, as soon as anyone would have a hard time and need something (or even get some attention) suddenly encounter so many "problems" and be a total victim that all energy was on him again. He too could go so far to even get sick for real, with enough self-harm and self- destruction inflicted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/21 12:15 AM
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Even worse, because even when our testosterone- levels are the highest during our period, we still don't have to deal with the level males have. Also crime statistics show very clearly who has themselves more in control. Also somehow we deal with male life- stock and pets by castrating them, funny how people refuse to make the connection here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:57 PM
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lecturing me about how being alone forever is such a waste. I mean, aren't there even studies that show how single older women are happier and have more fulfilling social lives than married ones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:26 PM
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They censor those words so people cannot talk about it (in a serious manner), but host all those numerous depraved cp subs? They are vile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:11 PM
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Like we’re literally here to be a buffer between males depravity and civilization. I think you had a very important insight here. It shouldn't be that way, we should be able to live in peace, be humans, and build and shape our civilization.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 11:06 PM
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Well, this is how I learned how worthless their opinions really are. Huge accomplishment, given how brainwashed we usually are by fairy-tales and media to respect the male opinion so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 10:46 PM
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Yes, she is smart! People like to claim women like her are "entitled" or whatnot, but she clearly states that her these are her own goals as well. This is a standard she puts up for herself. If she has the discipline to work for it and reach that goal, WHY should she throw all that away after, for a man and some over-idealized and false idea of "romance"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 07:02 PM
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Yeah so much for males being the cHoOsErS because eVoLuTiOn so they only go for the tens, the hOt porn-star "natural" beauties. Then they go around and openly state how they also find "dumber" women hot, or intelligence is not a quality that turns them on. It is so common that some pickmes actually play a bit dumb to make themselves attractive or to get more fuckboys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:59 PM
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The idea of a "muse" becomes a whole new meaning here, and not a good one. Never be a man's muse. It is not worthwhile to let yourself be deprived of creative talent or (sexual) energy for some mans benefit. Be your own inspirational goddess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:49 PM
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Yeah, well the unapologetic ones ALL got banned previously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:35 PM
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It shouldn’t be our jobs to rescue men who don’t fit into hyper masculine gender norms in a toxic patriarchy. 100% ! It should be their own responsibility, like women had to fight for their own rights. Not even their beloved brothers, fathers, uncles, sons etc. they think love and fully respect them did so, otherwise women wouldn't even have those problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:32 PM
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As someone who has a male- dominated and a female- dominated hobby, the difference is so obvious and it pisses me off. I always try to talk about it, but pickmes don't want to listen. Internalized misogyny and male- worship, which are brainwashed into us through all the stories we are told, the ads we see and the media we consume every day is hard to get rid of. This is even true for hardcore fds- ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:27 PM
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Yeah, it is the same in crafting- subs. As soon as it is somewhat evident the project is done by a man everyone falls over themselves with praise (especially when their own holy maleness is also somewhat empathized from the poster, idk why).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 08:22 PM
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I get it, I am sorry if it seems like I was criticizing your situation specifically, your man seems to get it after all. Your example is a positive example how shyness is not an excuse is what I meant. Sorry, English is not my first language (one of many and my worst one actually). Some days I get lazy and tired and my be not able to get my point across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:20 PM
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Shyness in a grown- up still can't be an excuse to take on other socially hard tasks, like going for a job- interview, taking oral exams if you have to, working in a team etc. Did your shy man ever did one of those things, because he needed to to get what he wants? if the answer is yes, then he should be able to do the same with a woman he wants to go out with. If the answer is no he has work to do and needs therapy, not a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:08 PM
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"Hot" because in their mind they basically get offered sex for free, down the line some day. They know, their chances are good because the woman does actually like them, they only need to play along a bit and not even put any work into it. They may decline only if they can't imagine sleeping with the woman (imagine she is not a 9+, whoa), but then they still take the ego- validation out of it and may become even more entitled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:45 PM
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"Men are LiterAL CrEAtUres, they can't read between the lines, you gotta spell it out for them" "Oh god, so you also think that men should not be poets, lawyers, authors and those kind of things? No man ever has managed to actually be good in those fields, they just lack the competence. They only get by with their penis-privileges. I feel so relieved that finally another man also admits this to me, normally they just get pissed because their feefees can't handle the one simple fact you just told…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 06:35 PM
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and wild imaginations So now boys even have better imaginations, that is new to me. What will they claim next? I guess the only exception is when we are supposed to not trust girls testimonies on anything because of their "wild imagination" (this one, I heard before).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:30 PM
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I think internet is like a new way we can see the real thoughts and personalities of people, like some kind of super- power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:27 PM
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Yes, but still, what makes males so extremely susceptible for this. With most social phenomenons we can see huge differences throughout time and regions on earth, not so with the effort of males to keep women down and hate on us. They seem to have this innate need to be like that, and they become entitled like that so easily, and it does not make them look good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:20 PM
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never acknowledging my accomplishments, even if I was surpassing them academically. I never pointed it out. I see all the women fawning about the men in their life, some supposed skill they have, a talent or whatever. But I hardly ever see males doing this for their women. Please ladies, if he is not at least as openly appreciative for YOUR talents and qualities, stop putting your man on a pedestal, he most certainly isn't such a genius or creative talent and outstanding cook as you think he is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:34 PM
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After being abandoned at 14 by her pick-me mom It wasn't even clear if the mom completely abandoned her daughter, or got trafficked too (as a worker for example, happens a lot as well, and the mother was in a vulnerable situation too, as a poor single- mum). Traffickers can take a vulnerable family apart like that. First go for the vulnerable single- parent, then later for the kid (or even vice versa). The person left is usually even more vulnerable and a much easier victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:23 PM
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Your run-of-the-mill scroty Bro- science again. Very typical for the lOgIcAl sEx to go for that. The term BRO- science exists for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 05:13 PM
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So who cares that old scrotes find me in their "peak desirability" range. Do they really believe the peak desirability of men in their fifties is because especially younger women want them? A study about OLD nonetheless, lol. Please scrotes, we already know you didn't actually read the study, only the title (or as far as you can feel like they confirm your own believes. You could just as much say this "proves" how males are pedos). But whatever dear scrotes, go on believing this, go on pretendin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:47 PM
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Wow, classy. And then she turns around and writes "Keep on hating sexy women" as if that even makes sense, in regards to fds. And yes, criticizing someone should be allowed, especially if that someone might be in a position to influence others, it is not the same as hating on someone. You see how classy, emotional mature a person is in how they respond to valid (even if they don't feel so) critique. This person could be my mother, age- wise. Hard to believe. Talking about being privileged and "s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 04:31 PM
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Maybe not anger, but hate is, and those are different emotions imo. I also don't think anger itself is problematic, but together with a lack of self- control and self- awareness it can become so. Mix this up with a superiority- complex, testosterone, a weaker prefrontal cortex, social conditioning, add some eggs and here you go, you got a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:44 PM
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This is so stupid, because even me as a small woman could find some weaker people to hurt. Anyone younger for example, animals, hungover and drunk people. Men also roofie drinks, they use weapons, and so on. You don't need to be physically stronger to use those means. They just abuse every advantage they can get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 08:38 PM
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It IS disrespectful. I read people who respect or care for other persons usually match them in body- language and in things like their walking- pace. They wouldn't let them scurry behind like so many male partners do to their wives and girlfriends. What does this tell us about how they must see their women? Ask yourself this: There is a person you value. This person happens to have a bad leg one day and now walks at a pace slightly slower than yours? Do you run ahead of them the whole time, or w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 07:22 PM
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Oh wow, this is exactly what happens to feminist movements as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:50 AM
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I hate that question, we get this shit asked all the time, as if we had to justify ourselves and couldn't possibly want NOT to be with a male (which would be no wonder with all the brainwashing young girls grow up with, but we still can grow up critical of that or simply enjoying ourselves alone, take THAT scrotes). I guess it is even harder for HVW. Dear scrotes: If the beautiful, accomplished woman would tie herself to a man, she might not be that accomplished awesome woman anyhow, let her liv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:14 AM
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Good she had a female doctor who was standing up for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:53 AM
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This shows how stupid those males are, because their superiority- complex gets in the way of actual critical thinking. Even male doctors and scientists have had this problem since forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:53 AM
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Don't worry Dads, it CAN get better, if she finds someone who is a partner and actually helps her, or if she at least gets rid of the adult baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:27 PM
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Well it makes sense that they take this as an example for a gender- based hate- crime, as they surely never admitted any hate- crime in the numerous cases this has actually happened with the genders reversed. So maybe males shooting women, because they think they didn't get treated the way they deserve when Jenny wasn't nice enough isn't a hate crime. It is standard and you b**ches have to live with it, okay? But don't call them scrotes or they will get mad at you and go on a (totally justified)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:13 PM
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If this would be true, what would tell this about males as a whole? And if we would start to think this through very clearly, what would make more sense? To throw one half of humanity under the bus because the other half is incapable of behaving like basic humans otherwise? Or... to get the other half under control, whatever that means. (In pets it means castration and is seen as a humane and acceptable practice). Jk dear men, learn to take a little joke, loosen up and please don't get triggered…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:58 PM
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But BRO, was she actually crying for help, or was she playing hard to get? Maybe she encouraged him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:48 PM
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So even if guys would suddenly stop being interested in me once I hit 20 years old, I am still a human being with my own life ahead of me. Your worth is not dependent on some cumbrains opinion of you, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:39 PM
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What is to be gained? This is the question. I don't know. I would say there is nothing to be gained. Some crave partnership, comradery and love, and maybe we are just brainwashed to look for all these fundamental things in a relationship with a male (which only hinders women from finding it, and makes them give too much of their their energy and time to males), when in reality this would be the furthest from real love you can ever get. Maybe there is no true love to be found in a "romantic" rela…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:22 PM
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I didn't take this post as how to be "tactical" about something, or to go against your nature and what you like. (FDS mostly doesn't advises on how to "manipulate" how others see you, but how to stay safe and keep your calm until you see your potential partner how he truly is, and if he is not a fit to move on? We don't try to change anyone). This post was just meant to say to go how you feel most natural and comfortable (because fore some of us dressing up too much is not always something we li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:53 PM
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Propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:30 PM
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As is his newest child... a boy conceived through IVF. Such a coincidence. Imagine hating girls this much (and also ironic considering that intelligence and the brain are said to be inherited from the mother's side, and he surely considers himself a genius and his boys as potential mini-me's).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:27 PM
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Of course the useless bystander men do nothing, they never do anything. But yeah, they smiled, they found it funny (Which added to her felt humiliation and degradation). Other than that they might be busy enough lecturing about the "Notallmen". That's not nothing, imagine the notallmenz redirected all that energy elsewhere and do something helpful instead? If they wanted to...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:21 PM
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Having to witness certain males in my family and folk, and how they talk: Like every other male, they just get pissed off if they can't dominate and devalue other women as easily because of their (racial, social) privileges. They never care about social justice, they only care that they aren't on the top, able to dominate and abuse whom they see fit. They make the women of their own group pay for it (who face double the burden of the discrimination), but they sure as hell will make ANY woman who…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 12:13 PM
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This is disgusting, ad horrifying, considering the other men passing by and SMILING, because seeing women being degraded obviously is funny to witness. These two random, uninvolved male witnesses represent the typical "notallmen"- men. They didn't spit on you, but they are complicit in your dehumanization. Just as ever male on earth profits from women being treated like trash and held back like they are, if they do not fight really bad for the women (without making a fuss about it, like life-str…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 11:46 AM
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You don even need to tell your bf or husband how much you earn. Put the extra- money in a second saving account, invest it and nobody should have anything to do with it or care about it but you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:13 PM
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It only shows that being "masculine" for them means being superior, putting others down. So if they can't have this or are even just forced to be equals, they are "emasculated" (and victimized because of this unfairness, of course, poor babies).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 08:10 PM
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Yes, and this also says so much to how he views you as a person. I am sorry OP. You will be in a better place one day, even if it takes time to plan everything and take the necessary steps. As long as you keep walking in the right direction you will find your way for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:49 PM
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it has not, and she is like the most beautiful woman ever, so guys should wonder how on earth she even gives enough males a chance to impress her. If anyone gets that chance and mess that up by trying to go low- effort they really are too stupid to even be allowed to procreate at all (imho).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:33 PM
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Uh oh the "logical Sex" again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:26 AM
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So annoying how many men want to be judged by their intentions over their actions. While women are always told things like "Did you communicate enough with him, hE iS nOt a mInD rEaDeR !!! ". Funny, isn't it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 11:00 AM
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Oh yeah, one more horrible sub "quarantined", my ass. But women saying something mean about men and hurting their feefees is worse for reddit. Or women saying something positive about women, because spreading positive ideas about women (that do not fit the narrative of males, like in "spiritual" and new age groups) is a bad thing as well. The ceo or a big part of leadership of reddit MUST be in either one of those male supremacist, women- hating groups, or in one of those perv-y ones you mention…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 10:11 AM
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"Fun" fact: The term sex- worker also includes pimps or porn- producers and the like. These "sex- workers" have a big lobby, they are controlling the narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:37 PM
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“Oh wow you’re literally the best guy on this fucking earth, I see women swoon over men like this WAY too often. If a guy is somewhat nice he is the best guy ever. Actually no, not the best guy, the best person ever. Every other women who might be just as nice or even a much greater person is simply invisible in the presence of some basic dude who does some sweet- talking or basic s*it now and then, in the mind of certain pickmeishas. It isn't even their fault, it is the way we ALL are condition…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:18 PM
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You could make it members- only and with hand- picked members (which only happen to be women, oh such a coincidence... like in a lot of clubs or companies there just so happen to be only males)? You could have a woman in a leadership position which represents herself with a male name, if you know what I mean. Like Steve Shirley ? Idk, just brainstorming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 10:09 PM
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So very sad (and also extremely strange, if you think about this) that nearly every other bigger female- centric and feminist sub was banned as soon as they got too big and "out-of-line" (with male- centric, libfemmy and corporal/ capitalistic pseudo- feminism?).Also they always got banned without even being quarantined before... while awful male- supremacist subs which promote REAL hate and even are proven to cause real- life VILOENCE, abuse and murder are allowed to stay as long as possible...…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 09:58 PM
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🤣🤣🤣🤣 Wow. I can't with men. If this would not be so pathetic it would be hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:53 PM
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Some men also get freaked out when they see a group of women laughing-they think we’re laughing about them. Yes, so much this. I see males have this problem especially with me and my teenager/ early twenties friends, god forbid if we are together and just having fun. They always think everything is about them. And if you have to tell them you didn't even look in their direction on purpose, so didn't notice them or laugh at them... it gets even worse because you didn't notice them, how dare you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:49 PM
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Or they want to exploit feminism for marketing and capitalistic reasons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:44 PM
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So much for male "friends".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 07:39 PM
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Let alone having any positions of power and responsibility over others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:39 PM
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If those kind of men are a minority and mostly specific for western civilization, then how do we explain most of the history of women, everywhere on earth? Their unfavorable ideas about women might always change, but men always come up with new disgusting shit and ideas like that, and they seem to spread easily. (They really seem to need it, nearly).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:28 PM
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Wasn't this only for this Danish sperm bank, who already had mostly blonde and ginger donors and tried to get a bit more diversity? ​ "We are overloaded with donor sperm from these groups so we have had to stop requesting them," he said. ​ "We are very happy with redheads and what hair colour people have, but our job is to supply all races, all hair colours and all eye colours and our problem is that we are located in this part of Northern Europe," he said. "We supply worldwide so we need more o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:20 PM
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How pathetic that one has to use so much deceit (and effort!) just try to control a narrative and manipulate people into misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:18 AM
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To abused other women nonetheless. Or to possible trafficked, underage girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:11 AM
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And then they go talk about their "game" with women, and how they do their PUA tricks, bragging how good they can manipulate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:03 AM
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Whereas the default voices for documentaries, informative radio- shows (idk the English term right now) or anything to do with teaching and knowing or explaining something is male, at least where I am from. I never liked that because I like female voices, they are much easier to listen to for a longer time (for me personally).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:59 PM
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But maybe this is the way males tend to be?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:41 PM
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The problem is that their "feeling like a man" really means feeling better/ superior than women, and somehow this is an important part of their identity. You are right, this is not our problem and we shouldn't be punished for their weaknesses and insecurities (especially if they prefer to put down, discriminate and hurt others than to work on the issue with their own ego).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:05 PM
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As if they never can (or want to) empathize with women directly, it is as if they only second- hand empathize through another male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 12:12 AM
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Wow, I am so happy for you and wish you the best for the future. It can only get better from now on. Also: Also side-note, I constantly felt like those apps are exploiting us in some way?? (anyone else feels that way??) Absolutely, we must not forget that these Apps see women as the "products" to offer. Ever noticed how a lot of apps advertise specifically with pictures of hot women and promises of "adventures" for them? A lot of Apps also have become huge safety hazards for women, basically bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:30 PM
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Woman: A man broke into my home! Operator: Maybe you just misunderstood him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:09 PM
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Yeah, it is easier for them because they mainly shout it to the victims who dare speak up, while letting the actual bad guys be in peace. Shows how much empathy and courage the notallmen- crowd actually has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 10:03 PM
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Even men who still might look fit and care for themselves can do nothing about that certain "old-men" smell a lot of them have when they get older. Unfortunately I feel like I can smell it from miles away and it is so off- putting. It is hard to describe, but maybe some of you know what I mean? Maybe biology wants to tell us something here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:54 PM
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Yeah, he thinks this is fair?So he should show how much better he is in growing and pushing out a new life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:32 PM
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He is proud of it bc he doesn't know better and he is trying to recruit other empty men into poisoning our society with more of him. They are like Zombies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 08:04 PM
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And that's why she isn't so VaLuAbLe (only that, because does he even know her?) . But of course "bI*cHeS bE so superficial and bad woO mEe uGa gAgA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 07:52 PM
20

Yes, can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:57 PM
72

You all have not yet experienced how it usually goes with such nice female- centric subreddits like this one here. Someday we will get too big for reddit, or they will decide it is enough and we will be banned very suddenly and out of nowhere. This at least is what happened to some other big truly feminist or female-centric subs here. All the while there are abhorrent male- subs full of hate which actually advocate for violence and abuse, lead to real mass- shootings, domestic abuse and violence…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:54 PM
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Until this sub gets banned, suddenly and out of nowhere. Like a lot of female- centric subs before, while male- hate-subs who are actually advocating for/ producing violence in real life are still up and going and doing fine (or only get quarantined).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:38 PM
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They are still way less attractive that their younger selves, or younger males in general (at least to younger women like me) AND their sperm- quality isn't that great anymore, no matter their fame and money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:13 PM
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Or that one with the Coconut?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:01 PM
2

They probably get some text template from their PUA- gurus when they pay for a package like "10 Messages that will make her fall for you. Premium members get one unique neg extra per month to use on hot women. GUARANTEED to work, I tested it on countless "women" before (which I didn't had to pay soo much)". It really makes me wonder if it isn't the males who are getting played by those PUA coaches. They are getting them by catering to their egos and the whole "PUA" scene has become a huge busine…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:22 PM
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And I know women who had to fight like hell to get kids away from abusive men. In several cases, they couldn’t. Yep, can confirm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:37 PM
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I really need to read this, maybe it will make more sense to me how my abusive, cruel dad basically got everything in court while my mother was demonized. Might have to do with the fact that she was so stressed and worried, so my father could paint her as "crazy" and "hysteric" and he came off as oh so calm, charming and collected... on top of acting concerned for us kids, so we should not be "dragged" to court so we could say anything negative about dad. (Not that this would have mattered, beca…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:33 PM
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This is why the sneakily underhanded misogyny (think fathers who only think as their daughters "cute n pretty princesses", male- identified "daddy-girls", Disney- movies, romcoms, male sexpos "feminism" etc. ) can be far more insidious and harmful for girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:25 PM
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because you couldn’t handle a 3 year old on your own whilst having literally no other responsibilities? Not even *a* 3 year old, your f*ing OWN 3 year old, smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:58 PM
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Ugh, maybe I am just going to platonic marry one of my bestie female friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:51 PM
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For real, I helped out in an old-peoples home once and the number of lonely old men is astounding, and you tend to feel sorry for them... up until the very moment you actually get to know them and how they made their own bed. They still like to brainwash themselves on how time doesn't affect them the same as it does women (biologically totally false) and how they can postpone building meaningful relationships until later, when they don't have anything "better" to do anymore anyhow. Seems ridicul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 06:34 PM
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All the while, these women are using the money to get educated and provide for their families. T It is not that these women don't use what they get for worthy causes. For the old dudes it is always just about their PP no matter who gets hurt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:26 AM
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But males are far from being logical, their so called logic is often just based in simplicity (which isn't always a bad thing, but you can oversimplify things into complete distortion, if you get what I mean) and black- and- white thinking. On top of that they are completely unaware how much feelings actually influence their thinking because they are fed the lie that they are inherently more smart and logical since birth, which paradoxically makes them even more susceptible to confusing their fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:22 AM
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This. Wow, thank you for the insights.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:11 AM
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even if these males aren't the majority (they still are a whole lot), what does the majority of the other males do in those situations? They are the notallmens. They let the men harass the poor woman or scream NoTaLaMeN at those people who stand up for her and dare call the abusers out. (maybe they also screech something like sImP at someone who dares to be too nice to a woman, and still feel entitled to #notallmen)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 05:11 PM
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how men feel and why they run away. Yet most divorces are initiated by women, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:51 PM
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" emotional intimacy scares men, they need time for themselves in their men cave, it gives them chain and ball fear" But of course, women are made to believe that males always need and deserve time and space for themselves and the women need to cater to them, as well as put in all the emotional labor (but be careful, only just as much as is wanted right now by your man). Women are made to feel like a burden (chain and bar) if they ask for too much and distracted from the fact that they need thei…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:48 PM
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But this would be a lie. Men who do bad things are not some mystical outta- space beings, and being a man is not something extra special honorable, it is just a biological fact. Being a man does not make anyone something better, especially considering all the cruel and violent things done to women and girls by... well, by men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:21 PM
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Except FDS didn't even come up with all this. Many feminists have long seen through and criticized "liberal" / corporate feminism and the rather harmful effects of "sex work." But of course these are not the kind of feminists that are featured in the media, they are often silenced and ignored at best. I came to discover what real feminism meant through a school essay I wrote about child sex trafficking (Which was considered too dark and difficult as a topic by my male professor anyhow, smh)! htt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:01 PM
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At the end of the day it is just stuff. It doesn't matter how "cheap" or" valuable" it is, some random materialistic shit is not worth for you to waste your youth, time and integrity. Unfortunately I have a feeling that a lot of young girls who seem into sugar daddy- stuff are more impressed because they like the attention and have a deep feeling of lacking something emotionally, love, true appreciation from an older (male) person, whatever. Daddy issues. Too many of my peers suffer from it. Ple…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:08 PM
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Let's be honest, on a bigger scale it would not be beneficial for males as a whole if women were treated equally to men. Even the good ones benefit from the fact that a lot of women are kept down. By just not participating actively in some bad things they think they are good enough, but they still profit from all the benefit it brings them and they certainly won't complain about that, or they even act as if they don't have any privileges. They keep silent, look the other way, and if they see fit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 02:55 PM
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How the fuck do you go from "we survived a horrible accident" and "we survived civil war" to "my husband is a fucking alcoholic who finally killed someone cuz of it", "my husband was a fucking gambling addict who put our lives at risk", and "my husband stuck his dick in someone else" How are those last three AT ALL in the same category as the first!? Brainwashing. Manipulation. They drag you in with the first stories, which are truly heart-warming, hard stories that cater to sensitive people and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:03 PM
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Interesting, it is never the other way around, is it? No glorified stories of women treating their male partners horrific and getting the support they "needed" (from said abused male). Also nice how they had legitimate hard and heart- warming stories at first, trying to prime us for the next ones. Bullshit manipulation, this really never stops, and women need to be aware of it all the time or it gets to them. The saddest part is that young girls likely will be influenced by this shit if they hav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:54 AM
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Beautiful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:43 AM
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The beauty industry plays a big part in creating these insecurities in the first place. They spend billions in special marketing. People need to be aware of this and where they put their money in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 10:11 AM
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I think this is important and would be well worth to be put into the handbook. For Newbies FDS can easily come across as a tad too traditional and materialistic, when in fact many women here warn about NV rich men, who use the easiest way for them (their money) to swoon naive young women, and advocate women to be self- sufficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:30 AM
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So? As a funny "joke" or what? Giving some random dudes ideas OR WHAT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:19 PM
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Nah those Notallmens are too busy calling out the women who call out such dudes or who dare try to stand up for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:17 PM
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It’s weird to not want human emotional connection and only want to bust a nut for 2 minutes They are brainwashing themselves to be like that, all in the sake of their "manly superiority" which is such a huge and important part of their identity. Just let them grow old and cry about male loneliness and mental issues. Single older women are shown to do and feel better than single older males and married women, and this is even though all the brainwashing women receive to get a male partner and alw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 07:14 PM
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Absolutely, but the whole writing sucks and seems more like a male would write if he represents as a woman. It seems so cringy (and this is perceived by me, for whom English is only a third language and somehow always was my worst subject).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:59 PM
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Well, this is how typical standard male scholars in history always have taught about women. This guy would have been a doctor, priest or philosopher in medieval times, "taught" things like that about women, and everything would be dandy, no problem at all, very rational scientific reasoning, lets burn or rape some w*ores today. Males really have lost their right to share any opinion on how they think women "are".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 02:27 PM
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Too bad the other awesome women- dominated subs always were so quickly banned. Especially PPF and AG. I also miss good old BPF, even if a tad harsh and negative at times, but they had really interesting discussions. All those subs helped me so much more than any therapy could have, because I feel so much more confident as a young woman. Everyday misogyny and sexism can get at us on a certain level, even more than we realize. The same is true for all the subtle cultural influences that surround u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:13 PM
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I bet he is seething somewhere about how stuck- up you were and how women have no humor, lol. Please dear scrote, stay mad. Because this actually is the funniest part of it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:59 PM
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Now I want to hear the whole story. You gals are my heroes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:52 PM
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Like the media loved to emphasize how revenge porn was just for scorned boyfriends I am mostly bewildered how media always likes to describe these boyfriends as scorned. As if they had a reason somehow, because the girlfriend did something to them first. As if there are two victims, because if a male is the perpetrator of something bad we are made to think he had a good reason and was a victim first. Good old "what did you do to provoke him bashing in your skull?" It seems like males are just ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:05 PM
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tbh it was always supposed to keep women under the thumb of men, marriage was never meant to benefit women (only to give them, or more likely their families, some sort of security while being exploited for their wombs and labor). Marriage guarantees a private house- woman for most men if they want to, only nowadays women have the freedom to chose not to become married or demand an equal relationship in some countries, and males would have to work to convince them, but cultural brainwashing is st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:40 AM
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And for the "strong Genes" I guess. But whatever, they mold their lOgIc and superior (bro- & evopsch- ) sCiEnCe however they see fit at the moment anyhow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 11:25 AM
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This is just sad. Who needs such "friends" anyhow. But I think it is important to remember that we probably all still have a lot of internalized misogyny we don't even recognize, or other harmful or even toxic traits, never stop being self- aware. Become the HV- friend you would love to find one day, if only to yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:30 PM
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Yes, the posing as women online, and sharing their thoughts as a "woman", is a manipulative thing males often do. They try to frame a narrative that fits their world- view and unfortunately a lot of younger women or men are influenced by it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:19 AM
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Good idea, it would also be important if you travel and rent apartments or rooms (for example over AirBnB). Personally I would try to rent only from women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 11:16 AM
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“Your need to feel human is getting in the way of my human needs!” Wow, this sums it up pretty well. You nailed them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:07 PM
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Surely also a supporter of the sUpErIoR lOgIc and emotional control of males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 07:04 PM
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I might have, can I PM you too?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:50 PM
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Nah, age 30 is so young, my eldest cousin went to engineering school at 38. You can still start to learn a programming language on the side, try it as a hobby. I like this one https://www.udemy.com/course/100-days-of-code/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:58 PM
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They totaly have, both reddit and PH should be investigated and held accountable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:52 PM
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I think it is mostly men who are turned o by such stuff and also hate women enough to be aroused by their pain and suffering. Don't blame "the world", it is men. Even if we mostly are not allowed to say it -because "misandry". But standard misogyny which is way more worse, or torturing women is always ok. Thank you males for making the world such a lovely place, and yeah: I also mean all of you "but I'm a good guy" silent bystanders.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:45 PM
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Report this whole site, some day reddit is going to go down for the evil shit they let people spread here, while they often are very quick in abandoning women- only subs for being "too mean" or whatever. Any journalists here? I think this would make a good story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 05:38 PM
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Yeah, but things are not power. The only influence over others that you can gain with things if you seem higher status because by possessing better quality stuff etc, but this should be played cleverer than just accumulating a bunch of shit from some "prestigious" brands... which are owned by males who use billions to advertise sexist messages to women and keep their self- worth down so they buy their shit, and which actually use cheaper materials, exploit third- world labor AND the environment.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:16 PM
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“If men are gonna objectify me I might as well benefit from it” This does not make so much sense, if you think a little further. The only ones profiting from this in the long run are the men which they let take advantage of their youth, body and time. For what? A little material compensation (which certainly won't harm an established older man), a little (fake) attention? They are wasting their most valuable resources: Time, their body, personal boundaries and maybe also their integrity. Time is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:05 PM
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Wow, that is interesting. I also remember reading once that older fathers tend to have children with lower IQ's, but older mothers tend to have more intelligent children. Is this true as well? Also the probabilities of genetic defects from old sperm is much higher than from old egg-cells (which isn't such a high risk) and that it is actually much more risky for the health of a child for the health of a child if the mother is too young (a teenager especially) than if she is very old? Des anybody …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:31 PM
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I totally get you, me too. I get that she is a victim, she was in an abusive relationship, but somehow she never even tried hard enough to take the initiative or even have a bit of self- respect, no matter how the whole situation also harmed us kids. Hell, even if our dad would not have been abusive towards us, having such a female model as a young girl is just painful, and a part of me can not forgive her for her lack of self- respect. This is why I resent those posters on breakingmum etc. so m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:22 PM
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Is this post in the handbook, because it really should be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:48 PM
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Are scrotes like that naturally, or is it because porn- sickness and the resulting shrinking of their gray matter is so prevalent nowadays? Maybe a combination on both? But boy, maybe I finally start to understand WHY males had to suppress women so badly throughout history.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:34 PM
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George Clooney isn't even that old, but boy the difference to his younger self is already so huge. Young Clooney was exceptionally good looking, now he looks pretty average at best, but he still lives from his good reputation. There are tons of female US- stars that look better at an older age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:28 PM
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Funny, because don't females usually have longer telomeres as well? I wonder why those things only are ever "common knowledge" if it would be to the advantage of males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:19 PM
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Well, if she is thriving so much AFTER ending the relationship maybe there is a reason for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:23 PM
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Maybe they hate it because it can pleasure women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:15 PM
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Yeah, ugh. But I guess they don't have one for the clit, because they don't know that it exists, or they don't care. (And if there is one it will be the minority of them all, really don't feel like checking rn).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:28 PM
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They can't be honest with you, because they can't even be honest with themselves. This applies to a lot of scrotes. So please never let them drag you down (to their level) and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 11:37 AM
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Help, my gf whom I have a wonderful one- sided affectionate relationship with suddenly doesn't want me any more. But everything was so great, she always did everything for me, I can't understand it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:46 PM
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The way she talks, like she doesn't even dare to let her voice out freely and how she holds herself really screams insecurity right in my face. So does she really get as hyped up by this bf as she hypes him? I also thought quality time should mean that you both enjoy the time together (and focus on each other). I really hope this girl will manage to become more self- confident one time and start to treat herself much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 08:20 PM
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Also given how she is freaked out about child- birth, this is straight up vile and abusive. The stress he is causing her certainly isn't healthy for her and her pregnancy either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 06:00 PM
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Flaky people suck. But "rescheduling" in advance is not flaking, if you have valid reasons. He frames it as the same, instead of noticing that women are real people who have a life happening around them as well. First red flag. Also, as soon as you notice someone is not meeting your expectations you move on, you don't start a game of manipulation and control to mold the other person. This is a power- play for him, not a intimate human interaction. Second red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:39 PM
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Yeah, but there is a difference between "rescheduling" (for valid reasons) and flaking or cancelling last minute without a really good reason. This guy acts as if it is all the same and the woman needs to perform and not be allowed to be a human with a life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:33 PM
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Whereas fds only says to move on if he doesn't meet your expectations. But we are the bad ones, smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:28 PM
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He can't imagine having a serious relationship with someone even only 6 years older that him, when this is considered very normal for women? Ah I forgot, because women age so badly and die so early, and also they have not many egg- cells left at 37, amirite?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:27 PM
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Oh yeah, but they still claim that they are more romantic and just want love, and all women are just b***es.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:10 PM
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Did anyone ever notice how in movies or on series on TV (also in real life) males often grab the arm or wrist of a woman who just walks away or turned around to yank her back? Like wtf, this always seems so violent, but it is often framed as normal, nothing, a normal reaction or maybe even positive because the male just wasn't done talking to her for whatever reason. Or they simply grab the arm of a women they are already talking with. Imagine seeing this happening to a male, how would people fe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:55 PM
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Women attempt suicide far more often, but only males chose methods that are more effective but also tend to have a much greater impact on the ones who have to find him eventually, like shooting themselves versus taking pills. The first one is quicker as well, pills being more "easy" is a myth (suicide with pills can be terribly painful and leave long- lasting damages if it doesn't work).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:30 PM
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Scrotes are too emotional, vindictive and driven by their hormones to work professionally, as it seems. \s) Yet they still get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 11:32 PM
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It's very superficial and uncaring as well. But she thinks her worries are "superficial and whiny". Woman come on, grow a spine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:31 PM
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Same with the medical professions, midwifes etc. Males actually fucked that one up big time, more women started to die in childbirth. Also later the male medical professionals couldn't figure simple hygiene themselves, again it was women who had to show them the way (Nightingale and "James Barry" aka Margaret Ann Bulkley, for example).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 08:24 PM
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Please also ask the editor why they prefer to publish such trash from a man, when they could have some quality content (from a woman instead, for example). If they want to worship and favor dick so bad, they shouldn't make it THAT obvious. No female reporter would get away with such a vile "article". Women constantly have to prove they are rAtIoNaL and professional enough, but males get away with this nonsense all the time?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:36 PM
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What I am wondering the most though is how such big medium like the NYP even offers a platform and pays a man for a piece like this trash. Female reporters surely would have been held to a different standard. Scrotes really live life on the easy mode if they can get away with such bullshit in their professional lives all the time. I am sick of it by now. Can we finally start rewarding people who actually are not mainly driven by their lesser impulses?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:30 PM
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If he didn't even bother to try to understand your point of view about such a topic that is important to you, what does this even say about him? Blame you for being "insecure" as if that is something you can be demonized for and keeps him from being accountable. He should at least respect you as much as a person to trust you to be able to form your own opinions and have your own feeling about certain topics. If he did that, he would at least try to listen, even if he did not agreed. Instead he t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:51 PM
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A bitch of a man. A scrote of a man. Fixed it for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:52 PM
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If they now end up just deleting unverified content (didn't they even verify the Videos of an abused teenager?) they are getting away far too easily. I still think PH needs to pay, and those responsible must be prosecuted. Anything else is laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 06:18 PM
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...Even if rejected! I thought this is an "equality" thing, so we are not supposed to act out towards them like they do to us when rejected? Because if women would actually did this, males would soon be writing pamphlets why women should never approach men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 05:28 PM
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They should be prosecuted like anyone directly profiting from/ promoting organized crime, human trafficking and child porn. They should be made to pay billions, which should then go to organizations that are helping the victims, and further they should be made to pay millions of compensations to every victim of abuse, whose videos were shown on PH, especially to those who tried to inform PH time after time that their video is up there without their consent. The evidence is there, now let PH and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:11 PM
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Also she is insecure about her worth (for him) and about ageing. Guess where this comes from, because it surely does not sound healthy. She also points out how she does all those beauty- routines "for him".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:40 PM
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The last one though: This is probably very undervalued, but I bet the husband didn't watch out that the baby-girl did not get to watch the TV- screen as well. I am not even talking on potential "violent" shooters- stuff. Watching any kind of digital screen can actually be damaging for a kids brain development in the early stages. Better don't let them see the TV/ computer and smartphone screens (for any longer period of time at least) at their first two to three years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:37 PM
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I think this fits with what OP wrote above: Whether one likes to admit it or not, relationships with men are often a powerplay thing. Naturally they would assume that you tick the same as them somehow. This is what women also do with LVM all the time, they think those scrotes care and would try to empathize if they only kNeW bEtTeR even if every evidence is against this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:10 PM
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If he was teachable he would have listened to what you tried to communicate already. If you go and he can't remember these things, he was never worth it anyhow. People have better things to do than talk to a wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 04:54 PM
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even tho it was brutal and displayed a lot of cruelty and in a way shook me to my core. When I recommended it to a colegue she couldn't watch it and called me sick for liking the show. The show actually only depicts what was true for women in a way throughout history at some time or another. Your friend calling you "sick" is really delusional, but it is not uncommon for people to rather close their eyes than having to face a very cruel truth that might make them feel scared.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:18 PM
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She stated her height after all! 5'9'' is about 175 cm, so she is quite above average. Height isn't only a male issue, a lot of women get shamed or feel insecure for being too tall, because it is considered "less feminine". If she can be honest about her height, he should be so too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 05:11 PM
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Oh wow, why is love never marketed towards males as "sacrifices" and inconveniences, but that lOvE SO important and validating to have? Just kidding, the idea of "Love" is never marketed to men anyhow, not as t is to women, more in the form of entitlement because they are inherently lovable, and a woman's opinion doesn't mean much to them anyhow. Whereas women are deprived of that feeling of being inherently lovable and are taught to put males and their opinion about everything, especially their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:59 PM
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Wow, and good job dumping that "friend" out of your life. You also reacted well by not giving her any lengthily explanation. just stop engaging with toxic people or giving them any kind of attention. I think dates could be really fun if we started going on dates for searching a good friend, not a boyfriend or a man. Man if platonic friendship- dates between women were a thing i guess a lot of pickmeishas would really start to see the difference as well and maybe expect more from their romantic d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:50 PM
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So many red flags, even if we put aside that he might do this on purpose (a dominance thing or he wants her to be sKiNnY for him). So what if it is compulsive from his side. He should at least try to solve his issues as soon as they harm others (people he is supposed to care about). -He doesn't care if she is suffering. -He has no sense of her boundaries, personal rights or belongings (He just takes her stuff whenever. Even while she is eating, even when she BEGS him not to. No respect for her p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:35 PM
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Is this the show where that also had a man with a criminal record for arson and DV (DV!!) paired up with a poor young and very nice woman from Brazil? What is this misogynistic shitshow all about? Throwing desperate or poor women under the bus with the most dysfunctional males they can find?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 04:05 PM
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Not really the same situation, when in your situation the father doesn't want his OWN child to inherit anything. It is very telling that he doesn't even consider his child and the mother of his child as "his family". She was right to leave this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:56 PM
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Yes I can relate. Saying somebody's name can create familiarity, but people who hardly know you overdoing this shit feels wrong and manipulative, if not pushy. Unfortunately some people do those things but lack the feeling and social awareness of what amount is appropriate in a situation. Luckily PUA- followers often seem to be such people, they hardly ever can take the uniqueness of a certain person or situation they are dealing with into account but follow their scripts/ game-strategies 101. (…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:25 PM
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AND HE DOESN'T HIT YOU 😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😶😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:10 PM
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Genuine question, but how is that person expecting you to communicate while you are choked? Also why does this person think males are such imbeciles and low- iq creatures that they specifically need to be told that one might not like to be treated brutally (like beaten and choked, which is actually REALLY dangerous). Just because this might be something some porn shows you, and another woman once let it do to her? If they are so incompetent, why are they allowed to vote and drive cars 😵 \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:54 PM
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More and more it seems that being attractive to males is not anything anyone ever wishes on themselves anymore. Let this sink in. But these clowns still try to scare women with their false "wall" and smv stupidity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 07:26 PM
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We also should be here for women in relationships. They need help as well, especially if the relationship becomes toxic. Women elsewhere are still too often told to take the burden and make it work at their own cost.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 03:05 PM
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Wow, awesome, you now can take these screenshots and go straight to a divorce lawyer! He did you a favor, all you need to do now is try to find your own place and get away. Do it as secretly as possible. Maybe now you can even try to bring him to write how he values your daughter as well. Given that this scrote probably doesn't value women as a whole, it would be very unhealthy for your kid to grow up with or near him!!! Even if this wasn't the case, the way he treats the mother of his child is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:50 PM
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Yes, but why do they get compromised so easily in the first place? Do you think men in the past were better and any less cruel towards women? Then you should really look a little bit more into women's history. Tbh your stance seems just like common sense and good reasoning. You don't HAVE to force yourself into finding gold where there probably isn't any. Practice radical acceptance, and if you feel anger (which is different that hate) embrace that feeling, you are feeling so for a reason, and u…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:44 PM
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So he was using the fact that he looks younger to manipulate you, by not disclosing how old he was. He was hoping to make you attracted to him before you could reject him for a totally reasonable boundary you might have like that age- gap. Age is not only about looks, after all. I think this is shady, and males claiming that age is just a number (only when it suits THEM) are gaslighters. I bet for him it was not unimportant that you are in your twenties. Further I guess that he will try to tell …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 02:27 PM
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Yeah but cheaters are a danger to your health and it doesn't matter if they cheat with men or women. If you are in a LTR relationship with a guy and you probably have unprotected sex, but he cheats behind your back, he puts you in danger of all kind of horrible illnesses without your knowledge. Also no man has the right to lead someone on because they can't be open about their sexuality, let alone a woman and make them a wife and birth children for you, which already can be a shitty deal for a w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 11:04 AM
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Yeah, scrotes like to whine that women who can just go into "sex-work" have it so easy. We should tell them that there is nothing holding them back to pursue their dreams as well, male sex- workers are always sought after. They should be empowered to believe in themselves, that they can do this as well! They can be just as good, a male colon is better equipped to take on rough male stuff after all, as women are smaller etc. I also think the regular male consumer should stop discrimination agains…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:49 AM
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The poor woman is a loving and caring partner, she needs to be in a relationship with someone just like that, not with a petty little a*hole scrote who can't even do one nice thing for her. She is right to be hurt about it, but she should just leave and not expect that he changes or miraculous becomes a lovely bf. He keeps score of everything HE does, while all the nice things from her are just the usual "i dIdN'T aSk fOr iT (but enjoy them and take them for granted anyways)" things girlfriends …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 10:31 AM
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There is more in life anyhow. Who wants to be sexual attractive to a majority of those LVM if one knows what that means? Look at politicallynsfw or any sub about a woman men find sexually attractive. It is just the usual degrading shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:35 PM
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Dear older scrotes. Once and for all: Please stay away from me. 🤮 Go home to your (ex) wives and beg them for forgiveness that they had to slave away for your "Career", or learn to be decent human beings, or just get lonely like a lot of you will ultimately be. Your choice. Edit: Do your own research everyone. Who is actually shown to have better social lives and is happier when single? Not males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:28 PM
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I hope she didn't run after him after that but went right home and blocked him on everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:21 PM
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She is giving very clear directions, so even the most socially awkward person should be able to figure out how to get in contact with her and spark her interest. But I guess they don't see it that way, lol. Better be "mysterious" and let them scrote about how they cant figure out the wimminfolks. \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:17 PM
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please do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:48 PM
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ESPECIALLY considering the fact how much extra stress mothers are dealing with, now that they have to play teachers for their kids, caring for everyone and working full-time from home. Especially considering the rising numbers of DV women are dealing with during quarantine. But nope, he takes an opportunity to make single women look bad once again, without even considering the problems of him as a male publishing something like that. Not to mention how he gets praised as an "an astute observer o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 04:47 PM
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Abusers are often "excused" because people say they might come from a broken background and were abused themselves. Might be true in some extreme cases, but it was shown that criminals often lied about that and abusers also often came from wonderful families. It wouldn't make sense that most sexual abuse victims are women, yet still most sexual abusers are male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:14 PM
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Why is it such a struggle to teach a boy empathy and being a good respectful human to everyone, but the same is not true for girls? Even though in our world we truly see how depraved men act and think, we still don't have to teach girls that an individual deserves empathy and his "eQuAl rIgHtS" and that men can be leaders and bosses, although she might have encountered tons of bad bosses who were aggressive, had no social (thus no leading) skills, and probably harassed others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:06 PM
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Crazy testerical scrotes, wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:22 PM
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The man can never go 50/50 with birthing children, even if males suddenly became truly helpful with the families in anything else, which they aren't. They are still out there building their careers on the backs of their wives who have to cut back. (Which effects our whole society, even you as a single women, because now we have less women who have a chance contributing to society). Edit to add: About the birthing of children, and males having to impress women (yeah, bIoLoGy is always just an exc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:03 PM
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Wow, you should calculate the costs of all that, inclusive dinner costs, your make-up etc. Make a nice excel- table and at the end of the date you can split the cost in half because equality. Isn't that romantic? Don't forget the gas- bills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:56 AM
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Yeah, your poor sister is so brainwashed that she spurs the very usual "golddigging" & "free meal" shit like she copied it word for word from some reddit scrote. Please try to talk some sense to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:50 AM
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penalize test takers who take a long time, yet answer correctly. Which is understandable to some degree, but unfortunately in this case confidence plays such a big factor. Women are known to have much less confidence when it comes to such test in general, as well in their intellectual abilities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:17 PM
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This could be something posted in the good old days of r/ ActualStraightMen. On the other hand with these scrotes you really can't tell what is satire and what they actually mean seriously, they have no self-awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:54 AM
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Often they are divorced and think they got rid of some "dead-weight" now (mostly the women divorced because they couldn't take it any more) and finally can live their "freedom" and have all the young women who love their sorry old asses so much. Even though some might manage to get a bit of fun before everything starts to suck for them, these men are in for a sad surprise. Also they usually end up either married again or lonely when they age. Ask me why I know so many cases despite my young year…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 11:41 AM
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They have zero interest in actually working on themselves instead of harming other people. At least he is honest (probably learned that he can't hold up the facade long enough anyhow and this way he gets the most damaged and traumatized pickmes right from the start, whom he can abuse further with the least danger of them breaking free and getting back at him).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:53 AM
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Yeah, well... some random scrote or incel made this version up I guess, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:26 AM
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Despite everything, i would feel guilty for going on a "date" at a soup- kitchen, when you can afford to pay for food. What exactly is this self- righteous shit here? Taking away from people who really need the food? This kind of "holy good" posturing, behind which is so much self-righteousness & arrogance and which serves to belittle and/ or "humble" others is really bothersome, no matter who displays it. If you see it, run very fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 08:16 AM
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Yeah, didn't they have to "normalize" it because the women were getting better results?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:03 PM
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But it can make them easy to prey on and manipulate, autistic women are a very endangered for any kind of abuse and toxic relationships. It is a known problem, but not much is done about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:31 PM
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Yeah never go on a cruise with a man you can't trust 150%, lol. Better never go despite that even.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:25 PM
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They are MAKING the pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:47 PM
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Yeah they don't care, so what is going to bite them when they are old surely is not their conscience. It will be the loneliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:35 PM
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Because women (the true pioneers) were pushed out of these fields and instead "social inept" (anti- social really) males took over, and the trope of the "genius" anti- social male "nerd" was created. It is mostly males who are driven by sexuality and domination, and their dreams of personal grandiosity and power. Women truly tend to be more curios and dream about what could forward society as a whole. https://timeline.com/women-pioneered-computer-programming-then-men-took-their-industry-over-c29…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:24 PM
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This will never happen, iq tests are modeled to favor males, even if it means they have to become too one- sided. Too bad that women always catch up nowadays, that they aren't forbidden to get equal educations and always try to push against social norms (no matter the backlash and medial influence that always tries to hinder that).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:13 PM
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Well our our understanding of human intelligence is very lacking to begin with (wonder why).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:08 PM
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How do some hobbies prevent a person from being a loving partner? As far as I understood it you were only asking hm to be more emotional supportive and caring, which is the bare minimum in any relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:52 PM
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Holy ***. So his marriage was going through a "rough" time, too much to handle for him, because his wife ...quit smoking... Wow, imagine she would suddenly have had some real problems. Now he is stuck in the affair, this poor baby. What should he do, so that he never has to tell the truth and admit that he massively fucked up? He basically has no choice than to continue to gaslight his pickme- affair and lie to his wife. \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:34 PM
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This is an interesting thought- experiment. If all males suddenly disappeared, surely we would have some initial difficulties just because the way our society operates right now. We would have a sudden lack of engineers etc. but women already have shown that they can step up if the need arises. This has happened in areas where males were drawn to war and women had to take over their jobs, or in that polish village where no boys were born for a few years, so the girls just got to fill the roles t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 08:17 PM
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where mens strength made them better hunters, so Providers we had to rely on. :) Doesn't really make much sense, if you think about it. Why would women need to rely on males for hunting (especially since hunting is effective when done in groups, and requires endurance over strength). Also truly look at how much women contribute to the calories consumed, also look at a lot of tribal communities and how lazy the males are. Males gain power by being violent. This is why it is so essential for them.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:56 PM
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Yeah seems like two sides of the same old rusty pickme- coin.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:33 PM
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How can males who actually believe things like that even be considered intelligent? Yet this mindset is so omnipresent. Haven't there even been studies that show that more "attractive" people also tend to have a higher IQ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:58 PM
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WAY way more. This is very unrealistic (and it leaves a bad taste in my mouth because it makes it seem that women weren't participating more because of some minor reasons or maybe because they weren't good enough and it would only take one sPeCiAl and different women who is able to take it on with the males).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:50 PM
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No they just ban everyone that could be dangerous to corporate or libfem "feminism" because they know about real feminism. A lot of the mods on those subs also are males. Real feminist subs (especially any subs if they dare to be female only) have been banned previously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:21 PM
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And he wonders why he's miserable and alone. Males, wondering about that since the dawn of time. So they invented patriarchy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:05 PM
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Great post. Also it is important to remember that having high standards is very different from having such a very a specific type. Even if your standards seem unrealistically high, you just won't wast your time with anyone who will never meet them. You take into account that this comes with the risk that you will probably stay alone for now, and you accept this because you know that it is a better alternative than having lower standards. You stay true to yourself and no ones time is wasted, espe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 06:02 PM
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Just to be clear I'm not saying that BDSM is safe even then I could imagine that bdsm can become even more addictive and cause even more trauma- bonding and trigger unhealthy responses when done with this "aftercare". This seems like some really unhealthy hot- and- cold shit. People who might have experienced abuse from caregivers as a child could be so easily trapped by such a dynamic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:25 PM
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I like her show, i somehow don't like the way she dotes on her husband so often in her show and i GUESS he doesn't do the same in reverse as much in his, because standard male- female-relationship dynamics?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 05:16 PM
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I will make an educated guess that this is posted by a man? The use of the word lOgIc. This logic obviously means to simplify too much. His model is lacking even in the most important factor, such as the consideration of the participants here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:33 PM
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But women are hOrMoNaL eMoTiOnAl b****s so you can't trust them or grant them the same rights as the lOgIcAl sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:19 PM
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But women are shown to have a better social life and more happiness when not married, did she buy into the nonsense of " 50 year old women are old, and older women are valueless and lonely"? It cold take a while to make it work, especially since she probably only has her husband left and no female friends for a long time, but the effort could well be worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:16 PM
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I am so sorry, but also very proud of you for taking such a step. ❤❤❤ You will be better off in the future, i really wish you the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:11 PM
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Oh yeah, i remember that one, especially with his self- pitying tone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:08 PM
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Or Houellebecq? Tbh I haven't read that much of him, and when I was very young (like 12, lol).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 12:01 PM
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If I should chose for a future imaginary daughter to be either very beautiful OR very intelligent, the second option would be much better for her. Of course beauty could make her life more easy, it could make people treat her better, but with intelligence she will be better at seeing through other people's bullshit, she will be better able to learn everything necessary and build a life that SHE is in control of, and maybe even create value for herself and others. Power and any kind of influence …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:48 AM
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Before they put you into the situation to "be a nagging ***" just leave. If he doesn't do "communication" he gets none, only a "bye" if he is lucky. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:24 AM
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It's a dominance thing. Also, if you just naturally assume you can police the feelings or facial expressions of a person whom you don't know, who has nothing to do with you and doesn't even work for you and whose present situation you have absolutely no idea of (and for what? to feel better yourself?) you probably see yourself as superior and don't think as the other as an real human in their own right, even subconsciously, so it is a little give- away how these men feel about women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:12 AM
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When our dog died a few weeks ago I was so fucking sad the whole time. I still am. A random guy at the supermarket said I should be cheerier! I wasn't even talking to anyone at the moment, just minding my own business. All this although I WAS WEARING A MASK. We can never be left alone and just be human who have emotions (besides being overemotional "hormonal" b**** of course). We are just little dolls here to make males happy, are we? Be it by our smile or their perceived "superiority". Btw does…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 11:04 AM
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This mom expects more of her sister than the own father of her kids, and then proceeds to call the sister "selfish" 😞 . Just for having some very valid objections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:17 PM
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What is a Salutatorian?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:07 PM
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*He thinks very highly of himself but somehow women don't seem to find him THAT endearing... *Getting into a relationship is basically just a constant supply of sex for him. *Basic af *He has standards like "woman should share similar hobbies" because I guess it is all just about HIS life and hobbies, he couldn't possibly be open do learn or discover something new or interesting from someone else. How can such a HVM not find any life HW-Blow-up-dolls? \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:05 PM
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Good! A woman with self- respect, I love it. Of course this clown of a husband "gets it now" suddenly because now he has to face real consequences 🤡. He didn't suddenly start to respect her, he is just afraid to lose whatever he gets out of her (and if it is only his need to degrade her). But if she actually was to give in, he would be treating her even worse the next time, because this is simply who he is and how he sees her. Nothing worth fighting or grieving over, if you have a bit of a backb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:02 PM
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I've seen it happen way too often, and it always boggles me how people can't see the sheer stupidity of some white self- righteous ass calling a woman from another culture a "racist" for criticizing her OWN damn culture. The only way this makes sense is if they actually are just as misogynist as ultra-conservatives and try to use their "wokeness" against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:54 PM
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She refers to the absurdity of the situation that we're in as women in this society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 07:17 PM
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Also these are the guys that we are said to be the female equivalent to. The double- standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:00 PM
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Still they are only "quarantined" (so in effect they are still around and you can read their stuff). On the other hand a lot of relatively harmless female- centered subs got completely banned without any forewarning. Isn't that heart warming?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:58 PM
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Could this be a special US- American thing?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:36 PM
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what if your husband wants kids? Haha, classic. An imaginary males desires are more important for what you do to your body than your own wishes. It couldn't be that you communicated and agreed with a man about your future plans before marriage. Sad when your own father doesn't even see you as an own person as valuable as a fantasy- male, but that's just the case for most fathers, and we mostly don't realize it until we have enough bullshit in our head to undo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:16 PM
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Feigned incompetence is really fucked up, because it shows how privileged men really are to get away with that. Women have to constantly prove they are smart, competent and can handle stuff just to be treated "equally", while males can pull such stunts and still won't be put in question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:08 PM
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Yeah still, if they try to pull this stupidity- shit they should be treated like it. You are so stupid and incompetent? Ok, so you can't be allowed to take any responsibilities, or make any decisions on your own, and you should be granted a legal guardian. Also this "father" didn't mind to harm his own kid to pull this stunt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:58 PM
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If actual constructive criticism would be allowed at the sub this was posted: Ok he is not a father, nor a valuable husband. He isn't even a useful babysitter! Divorce, or do you want your daughter (and yourself) to be damaged in the future? Should you two just be some collateral- damage for a scrotes ego?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:55 PM
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Ok he wants to be edgy, but it makes me think how a lot of men love to hate on their girlfriend or wife so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:48 PM
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If they included pictures of the pick-mes and how these things they describe actually are with their boyfriends, lol. Nonetheless this is a wholesome and really cute comic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:43 PM
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Their fear of being alone or something? Women are nor socialized to feel comfortable or even complete with themselves. We are made to feel bad about ourselves and see ourselves and those like us as enemies. Still women have been shown to deal better in total isolation, and I wonder why. I think just unwinding this one thing and learning to be with yourself (this includes distancing from social or mainstream media from time to time) can be such a huge milestone and improves your quality of life a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:31 PM
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My stepdad started to imply that there was something "wrong" with me, when I still neither had a boyfriend nor expressed any interest in one when I was fifteen or sixteen. I am sure that if I HAD one he would pressure me in other ways (like keeping me in control, "watching" me and the boyfriend and making sure I stay untainted of sexual stuff, because he is a "manly man and the keeper of my body" I guess). It really made me feel a bit ashamed (on top of media who want to sell us that teenage gir…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:21 PM
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Oh wow! Yeah, men who are "into sport" (aka getting testerical on their couch while watching a screen) never seem to have a real wholesome appreciation for various sorts of athleticism and sports. Also let's not forget the great Julie Gautier, a free-diver AND dancer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bdBuDg7mrT8
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 12:03 PM
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It would never occur to most women to shame a man who was into knitting or sewing or whatever "feminine" hobby they like doing. No it is usually the other way around. While women in "male" hobbies have to constantly "prove" themselves or be one of the boys (aka pandering to men with internalized misogyny and pick-me behavior) males in female hobbies usually get SWOONED over by the women. It is so ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 11:55 AM
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A woman spends her time and energy to change a man. She gets abused in the process and loses life- time, maybe even gets injured or killed. So maybe the man even changes a bit (he of course won't become a completely new person), maybe he doesn't. But who cares, no one should be sacrificed for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:14 PM
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It is also possible that he wanted to "upset" her to get an ego- boost, like feeling he was important to her and he could bullshit her and she would still want to talk to him... also he might have tested how much bullshit she would tolerate. (She lightened up again because she was being professional, he probably mistook it as " everything okay, I'm a cOoLgIrL").
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:44 PM
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Strange, especially since a new name can disadvantage her career. (Does he want to harm her? He wouldn't be the first scrote who would try to hinder a successful woman). She achieved everything in life under her current name, despite having it for half of her life. How can scrotes be THAT egoistically and self- centered?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 03:32 PM
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There is no thing like being "useless in the kitchen". If they can't cook (ridiculous, get a recipe and follow the instructions) they can still clean. No one should do everything without even having help with cleaning up the mess. Women really should stop being doormats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:56 PM
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Ooh I really love taking walks in nice places... with our dogs, or alone while enjoying nature, and maybe with someone while having a good conversation. Surely NOT with random strange men. I also like looking at someone while getting to know them, during a walk this isn't possible, so maybe it makes it easier to miss important body- language clues etc. Could this be another reason scrotes prefer these kind of "dates"?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 02:01 PM
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So even if the guys really thought those women who rejected them would be too (insert random insult), why did they want to go out again in the first place? Are they just some fuckboys who have no standards (eww)? Or are they just bullshitting, showing how weak their little characters are to handle a polite rejection like that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:48 PM
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Agreed, but they are STILL men. Manhood isn't something super- special that makes them some flawless supreme beings, it is just a biological fact and the reason they might be prone to those behaviors in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 09:17 PM
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Still, insecure boys who feel they need to "fake" the macho personas can be the most dangerous/ damaging ones. No one needs to give any sympathy for people who are willing to drag others down like that just to feel stronger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:37 PM
8

Was ist ein Kindl Bro?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:08 PM
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Yeah, it seems reasonable to tell something about yourself, what makes YOU interesting so that others might want write you? Seems self- centered to turn this around like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:06 PM
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Nah, they probably just "copy" one another. One bro is against veganism and doesn't like psychology, makes some YT rant video (purely based on lOgIc of course), and bam: Mindset copied. They have some new bogeyman. Scrotes are more alike than they believe they are anyhow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 11:03 PM
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She definitively should dump him, better now before she gets more successful and earns enough money that he wants to take his "share" of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 09:59 PM
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A lesson I learned way before FDS by stumbling across PUA, rp, any "dating coaches" or random "advice about women" for males (by males). The internet is a blessing, it shows us how people truly are and think in ways they would never convey openly in "real" life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:08 PM
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Even conversations with most men are simpler, slower, less connected. My girl friends and I are on far more similar wavelengths and share more experiences. It feels equal to be with a woman, and it feels like work to be with a man. I second that, you have put it so beautifully too. The tragic of being heterosexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:23 PM
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The reason I went vegetarian (and even vegan for a while) was actually because my stepdad wouldn't cook, and as my mum works all day someone has to do it. I started to make some veggi dishes and he would find it too unmanly or whatever (yeah I don't get scrotes sometimes) to eat those, so that's what I do now regularly. Manlyman can hunt his own steak or whatever he thinks he needs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:12 PM
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Girls raised by single fathers have the worst outcomes for a reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:06 PM
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Swallowing someones nasty cum, making them cum on you (on your FACE no less) is domineering and degrading them. So men need to feel loved and validated by that? She implies that women who don't do such things, as well as anal (which can lead to real physical problems for women on top of us not having a prostate which would make it sexual pleasing)... that those poor women therefor don't truly love their husbands? Seems like the other way around tbh. Those husbands are scum. Or they might love th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:31 AM
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because he refuses to take shoes off in the house 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:17 AM
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Wow, good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:57 AM
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Yeah, it is pretty much mainstream now. Or generation is fucked, and for the next it might even be worse. But the real tragic thing is that some women- centric subs got banned (subs that were as "bad" or even tamer than this one). Their mindset is allowed to spread, our reactions to it are always suppressed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:49 PM
1

Like the mirroring thing Korean feminists do, where they take the exact things males say about women but turn it around... and it makes skrotes lose their shit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:44 PM
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He spent 100 hours "thinking..." ? I don't quite get what she is trying to say what his accomplishments were here? Did she mean he has a job and works hard? Good for him then? I truly think a lot of people need to think about the things their partners actually bring into the relationship and accomplish, if more women would really think about it... they would kick their hubbys out finally. Oh, and of course she said the imaginary women who need her advice "bitch about...".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:24 PM
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If she just wouldn't be allowed to write articles that might influence people. She makes it seem that being a doormat is cool and necessary if you want a partner, but also: yeah real cool and edgy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 09:09 PM
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calmly asserting herself as she lead him out She reacted in the best possible way. No one could ever accuse her of not being able to keep her shit together, and she kept her dignity, unlike the bf. (Mind you, all this although SHE is the one with a diagnosed mental condition, makes you really think about that scrote and what he should be allowed to control at all).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 08:59 PM
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He just needed to rub his dominance in her face somehow, no matter he thinks how "harmless" his intentions were (or how he wants to paint is). Why on earth would he else say all this? Also he is not right, I am sure a married partner might have SOME rights to the shared finances (or has he everything blocked from her? She might have realized some things now?). Claiming that hypothetically he could do all this to her (when she has childhood trauma and was dependent of a grown up psycho- parent as…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:36 PM
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She thinks she might have overreacted, when in reality she reacted very appropriate to the situation. She has dodged a bullet with that bf, if she remains sane enough not to give in. Also funny how men often totally lose their shit and still have the nerve to call women "crazy bitches" at the same time. I remember a Video of a women whose boyfriend or ex broke into her home, harassed her, physically attacked her, and she stayed calm, asked him to leave and when he further escalated and acted cra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 03:19 PM
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He is good looking, but he is also not intelligent and possibly has an inclination towards violence (maybe lower empathy, an underdeveloped prefrontal cortex, ... whatever). No one should want a "piece of his genetics"!!! These women must be really brainwashed pickmes with troubled views about themselves who look up to the wrong people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 09:31 PM
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Yeah, it is shown that males are far more likely lo leave a sick spouse: https://www.news.iastate.edu/news/2015/03/04/illnessdivorce Edit: look up the corrected version. The point still stands. Here are some more resources: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/19645027/ https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17627811/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:18 PM
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That's perfect, you are at an age in which you can and should invest time at your mental self- development and education. Our brains are still so "malleable" at this age (for a lack of a better expression,lol) if you put effort into improving your skills and personality now, you can get very far. I always find it so sad if I see my female peers wasting their important formative years on scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:53 PM
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Oh the good old "beauty is pain" brainwashing bullshit. But why is beauty supposed to be pain as well as our whole worth as human beings? So our worth is determined by the amount of pain we are willing to go through... for males?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:39 PM
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Wow, this sounds so interesting. This one of those places I would take my imaginary daughter to one day, if I ever had one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:33 PM
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"But let me still claim that i am intellectual superior and not totally brain- damaged, so stfu you illogical bitch"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:30 AM
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I still date on occasion though because I like having a reason to dress up and learn all about a fellow human being - hear their perspective and life lessons, etc. This is the most beautiful reason for a date I have ever heard, and it also makes you seem like a caring, interested (and therefor probably also interesting) person. (If only more males could see it genuinely that way, they would never need any pua manipulative tactics ever again, but that's probably too much to ask for).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:30 AM
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Yes, I think men are often socialized to think they deserve to be loved, cared for and coddled by women (because they often are, and don't even notice it as anything special, in their minds this is supposed to be so and they take it for granted)... without having to reciprocate anything. They don't think they need to give any positive emotions back, on top of their nature, which probably isn't as loving anyhow. A very destructive combination. We also see how the media nowadays paints social awkw…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:23 AM
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If he knew he was sick, he was a selfish fuck for insisting on meeting. You should sue him if this is the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 11:04 AM
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Especially their ideas of "genius" is questionable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 10:41 AM
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You have your reasons why you react the way you do, and I guess you already communicated them with your boyfriend. He should have had at least that much self- control to be considerate of you and your weak spots which come from past traumas. He either didn't care enough or he wasn't able to control himself, both make him a bad fit for you and your healing, so I suggest you stay for yourself for a while. If you feel you are overreacting you still know your reaction comes from your life- experienc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:51 PM
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This is why having good friends is important. HVW invest in strong female friendships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:44 PM
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Duh... but of course 🤦‍♀️ And do the pregnant women also get parties and stuff like that from their partners? I guess not. Further this guy doesn't even understand that his wife probably is shook and not in the mood of cutesy cards and throwing parties. He has zero empathy and should really not be a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 11:41 PM
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People who need help for hardcore problems need real professional help from people who 1.: know what they are doing and 2.: have some emotional distance so they won't get drained and can objectively decide what the person really needs to do to develop further, even if it is hard for them. Nobody should be put in a position to be alone responsible for a closed one who goes through massive problems, it is just ineffective and unproductive for both on top of soul- crushing for the person who cares.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:57 PM
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I started laughing at the second line already... "I'm a hedonist (lOoK iT uP)" His suggestion that one needs to look up the word hedonist it just too ridiculous, even for me who speaks English only as a third language. (Not to mention all the other red flags). Stupid people project their own stupidity into other people a lot. Begone scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:50 PM
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So the woman has to deal with the shock of pregnancy- tests, but he wants a special card and surprise- cake or whatnot, as if he did anything noteworthy. He starts this thing right off with wanting to have special privileges over the wife who actually has to do the pregnancy and childbirth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 06:29 PM
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The thing with such broken males is that they often aren't mentally healthy to begin with, thus their problem with working on themselves, fixing themselves, personal responsibility etc. If you now take care of him at the expense of your own growth (and we all need to grow and work on ourselves and our goals constantly) you neglect yourself for a lost cause. In case you might have some success he won't respect you for it, but he might search someone "better" (if you are lucky this happens sooner …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:25 PM
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What I really had to learn is to value the women in my life more, and everything they do, how they care for me. We all are influenced by the society we grow up in, and a lot of unconscious biases will always remain if we aren't willing to self- reflect or are shown where our blind spots are. Unfortunately I still see a lot of strong "pro-women" or "girl-power" (or whatever buzzwords they have) women who don't truly value their female peers as much as some male. Ever noticed how so many women lik…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 11:03 PM
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that his apathy towards everyone made him somehow superior. This seems to be the average LVM mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:54 PM
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Yes absolutely! I am so sorry for what happened to you, and how you felt about it. No one deserves this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:46 PM
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All the women slaving away and caring about their husbands, sons, brothers fathers, only to get used and ignored, and taken for granted. Meanwhile those males go whine on the internet how women don't treat them good enough and therefore deserve to be killed, harassed and raped. Those poor serial- killers get more sympathy than the average nice woman who coddles them. It is just sad. How can one respect a group of people who took our rights, blame us for everything possible and treat our sisters …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 10:41 PM
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viewing the other gender as defective or immoral And the funny part is that FDS actually advises AGAINST being with men viewed as "defective" or LV. This is why everyone talks about finding a HVM and leveling up yourself (women being responsiblefor themselves and expecting the same of a partner), not sticking with someone perceived as "unfit and dragging each other down. It's not even that hard to understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 06:03 PM
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Must be some sort of shitty upbringing, just look at her useless father. So sorry that you had to feel the same, I hope you are better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:42 PM
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The way she can't even talk with her own father or her step-mum (the typical boymum) is just so sad and fucked up. Her own dad does not stick up for her and look out for her being unsafe in her own fucking home. She can't talk with him about being harassed, probably never even got the "You can tell me anything and your boundaries matter" talk at all. What a loser- dad. This is whi it is so important to have high value female family members for girls, on top of having as much HVM as possible as f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 05:39 PM
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If anyone acts that petty they should be kicked out right now. There is no reason for a grown- ass man to act so childish, if he hasn't got some huge ego- issues, in which case he should fuck off and best go to therapy and not enter any relationship until he has his sht together. Unfortunately there are too many LVM like that out in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:13 PM
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I think the friend is right: he's just venting his pent-up frustration. Which is SO concerning. It is concerning, even in the best- case scenario described here the husband has no problem acting that callous and hurtful towards his wife just to vent his frustrations? her friend wanted to be "understanding" of the husband, which I think does not help the wife. That so- called friend should have HER best interest in mind and not pacify her against such poor treatment. I am worried that despite an …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:56 PM
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It's taboo it is so normalized by porn nowadays, this practice is far from taboo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:49 PM
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The fact that sucide- attempts with pills (for example) is less painful is a big myth. Some typically used medications can cause terrible painful deaths that take longer than a simple shot in the head. Further they can cause long- term damages, even if the person is rescued from death. (Also mind the cultural differences, as I remember in some countries women often set themselves on fire??). Women mostly don't want to leave a big mess behind which can be deeply traumatizing for the people who mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:05 PM
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Well that sounds like a reason. You can tell him that, and how you don't really feel valued and respected. This isn't an accusation of him doing anything wrong, you just tell him how YOU feel, and that you think you might just be incompatible because objectively he maybe isn't doing anything wrong. But you deserve to be in a relationship that makes you feel fulfilled, not insecure. There is nothing more to be discussed, and you are respectful towards him. Oh and in regards to your social circle,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:46 PM
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This is the scrote- humor, it isn't real humor, their humor is some sort of biological mimicry which they have to use to get away with degrading and dominating people they are supposedly close to them, or whom they can't disrespect directly. \s)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:04 PM
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This isn't even exaggerated, this is exactly what my mum got accused of in court when she got divorced. Not all of her kids weren't so young and impressible either, my sister and brother were (pre)teens, but no teens can't think for themselves or ever be critical of their parents, it all has to be the evil female manipulation by the mean mother...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 02:59 PM
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Especially as he's getting older and losing friends because more people see through his shit. One more man who treats the women in his life or his partners and people like shit, just to find himself ageing and alone, because even the big old myth that he will have his grand days when old, and that age does not affect him as a male, and that he deserves affection without giving anything, it is all turning out to be a lie. One more male who will whine and wonder about male loneliness, and expect o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:22 PM
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a beautiful ... place But males are supposed to be vIsIbLe creatures, smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:47 PM
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I mean the f*ing TV is the center of the life of this person, which figures. But he has no PS and it is clean. Doesn't seem typical male in that regard. Could be a minimalist, which would be fine, but with that focus on a stupid TV a very hollow one. Most males aren't clean organized minimalists, often their "simplicity" is them being basic, hollow and having no imagination. Still they gather needless clutter and produce too much trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:45 PM
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IMO every man who builds his career while a woman holds his back and does all the child- caring and house- work just at the expense of her own independence and talents is a gold- digger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:58 PM
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Unfortunately this does not just influence our possible intimate relationships but it sips over in ALL areas of life. We have to live with men, work with men, sometimes be dependent on their actions and judgements (like with male teachers, judges, bosses, family- members)... How can we deal with that? Sometimes it can even be dangerous just to walk next to a man on a busy street, or on a train station, or if we cross a street in front of the wrong male driver... if he feels kind of aggressive to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:52 PM
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There must be a reason why men always try to get with new women. This is it, so logical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:29 PM
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Wow, I just realized how many girls and women I know with their awesome talents and potentials held in capture by some sort of LVM. Makes me wonder how much society as a whole is held back by this. (Think alone how much freelance work is often done by women. I also know family- run business where the woman put so much into, but of course it will always be known as the husband's business and tied to his name).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 04:18 PM
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This is one thing I don't get with FDS, there is nothing wrong in being girlfriend and boyfriend for some years, if you are still young. My sister married her high- school sweetheart, but only after both finished school and university and figured out where they would live etc, when they were in their late- twenties. They have always been together the whole time, but also both studied and worked somewhere abroad for some time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:58 PM
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And while they sit in font of the screen whining, the wife has to watch a bunch of young kids, fix dinner and prepare for her job all the while she still has to recover from the last pregnancy and wonders why she feels tense, listless and annoyed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:52 PM
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'I don't know why you're so mad, they all thought you were hot' Wow, I hope you left him for good after that. Strangers really have no business to evaluate your "hotness" to them. If he really thought you should be okay to be evaluated and treated like a piece of meat instead of a person who has a right to privacy and your own space he really does not value your humanity at all. You are some meat- possession he can show off like it belongs to him, or is just some sort of trophy? (look what I've …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:35 PM
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Interesting, because somehow she had it in he mind that after being sick and he broke up with her she was the one who had to prove him her worth and her love... this is the shit we brainwash into little girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:31 PM
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Best- case scenario: Maybe he is using this as some kind of self- affirmation, tries to train himself into being more relaxed. Which would mean he isn't so naturally so but tries to improve and works on himself. I actually know some people who do use this sort of self- confirmations all the time, and if I wouldn't know them and how they are working on an issue rn it would seem weird. So this doesn't need to be some sort of red flag. I would still watch out and observe him closely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:22 PM
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They on average don't care about visual aesthetics (like how the home is decorated etc) as much, they often don't even notice such things women do. For being such visual creatures they do often lack very basic visual observation skills. Getting confused if a women suddenly wears make-up/ no make-up/ changes her style and so on is just another funny example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:14 PM
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A lot of males certainly lack real critical thinking skills. But oh boy, do they like to overuse the word LoGiC. To be a critical thinker you should be able to listen other peoples arguments, AND you need to be able to critically self- assess yourself, you need to be self- observant, why do you want to think x and not y etc. Basing your opinion on your own emotional biases (or certain needs, like the typical male ones like feeling superîor and dominant) in a way is human, it is just how the huma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:07 PM
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The first commentor basically claims a random body part like the penis doesn't matter and shouldn't define the worth of a person, theoretically I would second that, but obviously this is always only true for males. He thinks he is doing something revolutionary when insulting a woman for her genitalia, as if they wouldn't already do so constantly (for NOT being like those in porn... and for being so and for whatever ridiculous reason). The second commentor really writes to watch porn to follow th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 06:43 PM
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Either he just wanted to get laid from the beginning, or he decided after the date that this is what you are good for to him (or that he can get away with that with you). None of those options are what you want, I guess. Put the trash out and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 12:17 PM
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lol I feel bad because that's basically me, luckily I am leveling up and working on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 11:37 AM
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But some men are not really able to give you the intimacy you want during intercourse and are brainwashed by porn, what if you only notice this after marriage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 09:07 PM
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What's next to be sexualized? Romper suits for toddler girls? This shit will just continue and even get worse (if that even is possible, but those LVM never cease to surprise), so the next best alternative is to keep yourself and young girls away from men completely while their brains melt away into one big pile of porn driven cum. We need more all- girl schools and colleges (cities and companies as well, if this shit continues).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:10 PM
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Also don't look too unconventional, how am I supposed to see how attractive you are if you don't follow standard- femininity as specified by common media, but please don't be such basic bitches and have those boring normal hair like a woman I already saw today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 04:03 PM
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I am pretty sure he only meant to help their husbands, or since when does the church care about women as persons in their own right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:44 PM
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I am just wondering, girls lack positive role- models so often as well, but somehow hey don't need them to not become complete monsters towards their male peers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:42 PM
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I have heard and experienced these kind of stories so often by now, that i think every accident where a women is being injured by a male should be looked into seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 12:10 AM
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Wiped the smile off his face and his looked turned to rage as he tried to run me over. If I hadn't been able to jump off my bike and pull it up onto the curb, he would have run me over. The lOgIcAl sex, everyone! Just their typical behavior, as it can be observed all over the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 11:58 PM
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He's literal asking you to lower your quality of life and life- span (statistical speaking) while improving his.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:54 PM
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Being uncaring, egoistical and ignoring the other partner's needs really isn't a "love language", how did we ever get to the point that people make women believe it is... smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:50 PM
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"But honey, it only goes up from here". Except: NO if doesn't! This is such a huge lie. Fact is, it goes down from there or from the moment you actually are married, so why already start so low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:47 PM
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if you look on one of OPs comments above, she also did a lot of domestic labor like all cleaning and cooking for him and invested some stuff for his apartment, and his living- expenses like rent and internet did not change when she moved in. The real deal-breaker is when he claimed a and then changed his mind to b just like that when she moved in, and she is a student who probably needs to plan her spending. Also the way he became reealy petty (like the bubble tea + sandwich & how she owes him n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:22 PM
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Wow, how much does a house- keeper, cook (and interior- designer etc.) actually cost per hour? If he wants to do the petty penner-counter game you should do it and write him an invoice for your services or something. You can offset the money you "owe" him for the groceries and bubble- tea, then you go your own way in your own home that is appropriately priced for your financial situation instead of paying for a dude to build HIS very own wealth (paying also with one of your most valuable resourc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 05:14 PM
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A male being just nice to a woman is "game". Same old. At least they really tell on themselves and how manipulative they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 04:28 PM
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It is best to teach your kids and make them very aware of the dangers instead of just controlling them. Eventually they also might (have to) make some mistakes and learn, just be sure they know that they can come to you when they think they fucked up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:30 AM
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makes sense, there is a big issue with hidden cameras in bathrooms when males can access the places.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 10:07 AM
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a bitch scrote 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:58 AM
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If someone tries to pull that bullshit with you (males like to do this a lot btw) ridicule the hell out of them for being such incapable dimwits that they can't even do such an easy task or are unable to learn or follow simple directions. You should question their qualifications and intelligence somehow. They pull that shit, they lose all right to have anything to say or decide. Edit to add: The shit of doing something bad on purpose is something you can pull in situations where it is appropriat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:52 AM
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At the very least I want the term to include dudes who let their women do most of the domestic work and child- caring for free!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:28 AM
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I doesn't even stop inside with family. Look at porn or any males- sub: Incest? sexualised. Even being a f*ing daughter is sexualised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 09:26 AM
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But a husband and wife relocating if he has a higher paying job offer, and deciding together, is still the woman agreeing to move for the man but it’s seen as a more acceptable decision that they decide together. Even if the wife has to search for a new job This happened to my mum with my stepdad. She was better educated and had a med- degree, he got a job offer in another country (where they didn't accept her degree). They consented to move and he would help her in finding a job and help her in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:45 PM
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i’ll probably be 55 or so, but i’m going to be 55 with or without the degree, so might as well get it! I love that!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:26 PM
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A woman from my family member started University at 39 after getting out of a too controlling relationship and after being out of the workforce for ages. She didn't really had that much choices because of all that, so probably getting a degree was her best bet. It IS fucking tough at the beginning if you aren't used to study any more, and all your knowledge from school is kind of buried after all those years. But it will get better with practice and persistence, and eventually you will be able t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 08:25 PM
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Holy shit. These people create so much waste, eat the poorest- quality of food (like factory- farmed meat where conditions for the animals are horrible and even more useless waste is produced)... and in return they create so little value for society, the local environment or their fellow human beings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:09 PM
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Du hast in Tokyo gelebt, er kommt noch nicht mal alleine über die Runden... aber er gibt an, dass manche Frauen ihm nicht viel bieten können (iNtElLeKtUeLl und pHySiScH)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 12:13 PM
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Guys like that who are so stingy and can't do anything generous for their loved ones (i guess this is true not only in materialistic things, he surely "keeps track" of his pennies in other areas as well) and count every cent to make sure they don't give even a bit more than the other person are EXTREMELY materialistic. It is always so laughable when they claim to be so because they are "anti- materialistic". I think frugality is a good trait (you should generally look for people who have similar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:59 AM
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So fucked up, while I bet you or most other women wouldn't treat a stranger like that. We are literal things they might just throw in the trash if they break and become an inconvenience for such scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:43 AM
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Also the way he describes the way she behaves and now admits that it was so out of character, but it didn't make him think anything then? Doesn't seem that he really knows her well or cares a lot. I also wonder about those "friends", didn't they ask what was up with her or if everything was okay or how she felt? Those male friends seem shitty too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:39 AM
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I also noticed her last sentence: She is now going to put the kids in bed because the hubby has more important things to do (writing more shit to his group and staring at his phone i guess) and doesn't seem responsible for such things at all. And she writes it as if this is so normal to them. She should leave. What males like that don't realize is that they gain so much by having a loving wive and family (literal years of their life and happiness, as studies prove) but their "funny friends" won'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:23 AM
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More proof that men don't really have a sense of humor. Do they even know what humor is, despite their constant need to put others down and feel contempt for someone to feel good? Showerthought: male humor is just some sort of biological mimicry to get away with aggression, and get into the pants of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:17 AM
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Not all men are like that, the majority just keeps quiet and the power structures in place as good as they can for the ones that are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 10:54 AM
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Let's not forget that the idea of romantic-love as the most important source of devotion or love they can get is sold especially to girls and women. All this of course at the expense of building any meaningful relationship with real female friends. For males the media has come up with a lot of friendship stories, they even just recently coined the word "bromance"... for a reason. I mean, sucks that their friendships still often are superficial and there are still so many men getting bitter becau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:06 PM
6

Women tend to have better memory than men. Males often don't realize that. Just too bad that too many women also tend to let things fly with their nigels and ignore shit, or not believe in themselves, so males get away more easily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 03:51 PM
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Maybe he would get it, if he had to do that on his own?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:08 PM
4

Ganz genau, was soll der Stress? Wenn der schon Tinder so ernst nimmt...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 08:06 PM
7

Er schreibt wie ein zehnjähriger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 03:35 PM
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In fact, many of my repeat purchases are women crafted / owned items that benefit my skin. I love this, you can't underestimate how important this really is. There are a lot of make-up products out there made of actual harmful stuff for you and for the environment, as well as using sources out of exploitative situations AND get rich old men more money into their pocket. Paying attention to the ingredients and real quality is key in leveling up. (Not only a big name and prices. In fact, a lot of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:29 PM
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Let me guess, he is a white man?? Does he even care about any people outside of his group (like for women?) that much that he is so indifferent towards this? I mean, this is the question I would ask myself, it's about more than levels of passion for "politics" etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:59 AM
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girls can do whatever boys can do I really hate this one especially. It paints "boys" as the default, the ideal, which "girls" should or can strive for if they just make an effort and are good enough. So it still implies males as a role model or even just naturally superior and comes across as condescending (subtle maybe, but this is how you can best influence people on a very deep level I think). Especially if you say this to your girls to motivate them, what does this really tell her? Doesn't …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 10:49 AM
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In the end it often does not end well for those smiley- soft girls, too nice and vulnerable can lead you down the same paths like those women who you see on certain relationship advise subs or on breaking mom. Stand up for yourself and be real, this doesn't mean that you are or have to be a horrible person, contrary to what some people might want to make you believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 08:01 PM
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The 1/3 still is just an accurate representation of the men who didn't understand the implications of the wording. The rest still might have seen through it. Not everyone is fooled by a bit of semantics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:48 PM
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"She" (?) used the word "beta" seriously... says enough. Also the book "men are from Mars... " states some dis-proven gendered bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:44 PM
3

Communities do certainly need stronger hierarchies when males are around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:30 PM
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I also noticed the guilt- tripping the commenter tried to do: ...it implies that you should only stay in a relationship for what you are getting "out of it". Drain your partners for all their worth and move on. This is some serious reversal shit. the whole purpose of the question is to check if you might be the one drained and taken advantage of. In the specific context the OP wasn't the one in danger of using her partner without caring for him at all, so why would that be so hard to understand?…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:46 AM
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Yet, this is too common for married women smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 09:23 AM
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She seems desperate because she IS, dimwit. She seems really insecure, and tries to prep herself up, no one else seems to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:53 PM
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And their jizz isn't even worth anything if they age. Another thing they praise themselves for, their superior upper- body strength, is going downhill as well, and even before that probably never even used for the good of society because they often spend their young and fit years in school or pursuing higher education or white- collar careers. JK of course males can work and get an education if they want to and are capable to do so. It is just ridiculous that they always put women into the posit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 06:03 PM
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No one can force people to get help all right, but what actually worries me is the children who grow up in such households, learning it is okay and normal that mommy is a doormat and men can treat women like that. Imagine a daughter growing up like that (I know how it feels). Don't they care about their kids? This is bordering on emotional abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 05:52 PM
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Also they should smile a little bit more! They look kind of stuck-up and bitchy. (I mean maybe it's just that time of the mon..- ahm I mean day, but come on guys).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 12:28 PM
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Yeah my oldest cousin, who is nearly forty but looks significantly younger gets hit on by much younger guys, and dudes her age who don't know her age think she is much younger, so they either talk shit about other women in her age group (basically "women my age suck so much and look so old, poor me") OR they want to neg her by making her panic/ feel bad about her (supposedly already much younger) age ("You're hot now. But once you are thirty you will be this and that and won't look like yabba ya…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 11:56 AM
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But women are too EmOtIoNaL and can't control themselves, we must hire the malez for important leadership roles. \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 09:01 PM
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This is just sad. Her poor mum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 12:35 PM
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Haha, I definitely know a lot of girls who cut boys off because the boys thought they should "lead the interaction" and/ or not listen to the girls individual needs how to further the sexual interaction and tried some "sexual escalation" shit way too early on. How you can interact together on the same level and understand each other is important, and we need to check for that in dates and relationships, dudes who always think they have to "lead" or "dominate" anyone against their will are not fi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:49 AM
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That's a good point, why shouldn't they have to? Especially since they claim themselves that they can't control their urges anyhow and young sperm is best, whereas sperm- quality just goes downhill very fast when they age. This includes increased risks of birth- defects. They should collect and freeze sperm when they are young. then get the snip. Society would be better and not so many babies have to suffer. It's just BiOlOgY, see? Also this isn't even just a bit as inhumane as forcing women to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 11:26 PM
10

she'll be hearing how indecisive she is for the rest of her life Yes, the way he describes it she probably really thinks things over, which can be a GOOD thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 04:34 PM
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and these are the people supposed to protect and represent us. Even worse when they are sent to troubled, war- ridden countries and harass and abuse the women there, those women are poor and have no where to go. You don't want to know what they do to them, if these males even treat the women from their own "team" like crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:59 PM
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Women are attracted to different types of males depending on their cycle. So how can it be more natural for them to be monogamous? Also: MaLeS aRe PrOvIdErS and PrOtEcToRs but also have to fuck everything they can, because they can't help it, it is in their nature. Also women need to be controlled by men, because they are so HoRmOnE DrIvEn in comparison to males. The tales of MaLeLoGiCTM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:48 PM
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Or did they just perform like they are expected/conditioned because of stupid porn... seriously this over-exaggerated moaning which is wanted from women (I heard enough degrading shit about women who are too "silent" during sex, so now we have women being insecure about that too and exaggerating their moaning to be attractive enough or whatever... how on else is anyone supposed to ever relax and let go if you have to constantly perform and watch your actions like that?), while the males don't ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 03:32 PM
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I know what you mean. The most I come close to this is in some YouTube study- life-stream groups. On the other hand quarantine did help me, as it was actually nice to have some time for myself and reflect and do/ learn stuff all by and for myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 06:09 PM
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Btw. one of those "boy geniuses" wrote me a chat message that read something like "What are you talking about dude feeemales are thriving in our school- system". Yeah, not even sure where in the world this dude lives, lets assume he is US- American. We know girls are thriving in schools in comparison to boys, although boys are OBJECTIVELY favored and catered to and school systems everywhere are going downhill. What does this say about boys? The joke is on him. But we already know they have a bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:58 PM
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There is no greatness in holding women, or any kind of talent, back for your own advancement. This is egoistical and in a bigger scale even harmful for society. I obviously don't know what greatness this guy does in his job, it might be useful for society and all, BUT this does not justify causing damage in another area (for women, society and for you as a person).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 05:38 PM
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You are right, except for the "kinkshame" stuff (one more societal gas-lighting, we are now expected to accept every harmful degrading shit because it is a "kink").
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:57 PM
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But a man will not magically change if they are married. I would say wait until you plan to, but are nor yet married. Else you might find yourself stuck in a marriage with a horrible or somewhat changed man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:53 PM
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The whole PUA - "philosophy"/ most males dating "advice" panders to their need to feel dominant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:51 PM
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"He hugged me tightly and assured me he'd never wanted to hurt me, but that didn't help at all" Yeah, because he DID want to hurt her just before, so he is contradicting himself. He did not only want to hurt her, it even would arouse him. Also the girl just wished the conversation never happened and she didn't know this about him? Such a toxic mindset, but a lot of women have this when it comes to men. She should be GLAD, and she should work on her strength to face the truth and live life true t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:46 PM
10

They are not picky, they would screw anything if they just get the chance, and exactly THIS is the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:38 PM
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Fun game: Turn this around, play the devils advocate against THEIR rights and watch them lose their shit. It doesn't even have to be about something really important, just say something against video games, or their holy porn, for example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:36 PM
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I have seen mediocre boys put into the gifted and highly intelligent girls being ignored... one girlfriend in specific, who was higly intelligent but kinda shy and quiet. Teachers are always so quick to gush over the "genius" of a boy, no matter how ridiculous this seems. (I noticed that also a lot of women do this with males btw). No one ever really cared about the real talents, especially if they didn't cause any problems like some boys did. There was this reealy stupid bully- type boy in my s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:33 PM
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I was trying so hard to create boundaries for myself I didn’t realize I was rolling over your feelings. I wanted to make this right forever. I just couldn’t reach you. I’m sorry you think I’m playing games Yabba yabba. It is not hard to treat people nice if you care about them, why do they always act as if this is such a hard thing to do? ​ I treated you as if you weee the problem.. but really you’re so much more than that. I’ve been trying to reach you because I really love you. And it’s real a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:05 AM
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I wish there was more information or general education about this theme. Whenever I read some kind of "information piece" in a newspaper about STIs or UTIs in women it is always not very informative, and it always seems as if these things just magically happen all the time for no reason to the wmminfolks because this is just the way it is. Meanwhile non of my lesbian and sexually- inactive friends, including myself, ever had any problem in this regard, hmm...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 05:30 PM
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take the trash out How on earth is this even a task on its own. This is nothing, so ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 01:18 PM
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A very nice example of MaLe-LoGiCTM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 01:09 PM
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and reciprocation is low as they’re not terribly curious about learning more about my interests (I have many) and/or who I am as a person in general. This is something I noticed in a lot of men, they aren't really very curious are they? Women seem way more open to actually want to learn about different things, males always talk about they are interested in SO many things but I never truly see it. Or is it maybe that they also don't care because in their mind women and their interests aren't inte…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 01:01 PM
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Males often don't really have real humor (which is used to bond with people), they only mimic it in order to degrade others and play dominance games. Unfortunately for them people usually see through it, so they get pissed and whine about the other person "not understanding jokes" (when the jokes is on them that the other person is cleverer and sees through them) or tells them to "lighten up" (when they have the need to seriously degrade and put someone down to feel better because they are so we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 12:55 PM
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This is totally reasonable, me and my siblings did out laundry since we are about 11 or 12, helping out was always required. It did not harm any of us but made us responsible people who can take care of us and of each other. I don't get why some parents do everything for their kids, its not helping anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 10:33 AM
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Just business as usual over at Breaking Mums, they got their daily "Man Rant" off their chest and then go on continue doing their boys laundry because it's not only normal to be a doormat, it is obviously required to have a normal family and marriage. That seems to be brainwashed into a lot of girls at least, how else can we explain these posts from women who live in western societies and could theoretically chose freedom and their own damn life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:49 AM
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It's fucked up, but maybe people know deep down that the fathers either don't care as much or they are the ones whom the sons learned it from (even if it happens subtly, like constantly "jokingly" degrading mum, so the son learns it is normal to disrespect women).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:31 AM
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She should really not give away personal information like that here on this platform, wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 09:23 AM
2

Absolut
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:49 PM
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"CoMuNiCaTe tell him how you FeEl being lied to, how is he supposed to KnOw! ExPlAiN him in detail how to ReSpEcT and LiKe you, and maybe he will. It is only on you!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:49 PM
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Fun fact is that feminism and women did accomplish (and still do fight) more for male rape and assault victims than males ever did.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:21 PM
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There are a lot of "advice" articles about post- partum sexuality and such stuff, guess how much they all empathize how the most important thing is it is that the mother heals, how awesome her body is for being able what it just did, making a new life, and all that... Nah. It's mostly about how to make dick happy as soon as possible, and (subtly) make it seam as if it isn't such a big deal after all. Hardly anyone warns women about the consequences or reassures them that it just ISN'T a priority…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:25 PM
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We should collect these kind of stories (in an extra forum maybe?) as real- life examples for women and girls to learn from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:56 PM
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"Why didn't you compromise tho? Like let him stab you a bit, just no dying and such extreme stuff. Didn't you know relationships are supposed to hurt (you)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:31 PM
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And also being trained to think having a different opinion/ preference for a meet-up is rude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:27 PM
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Even if it wasn't about basic safety and reason, it wouldn't even be rude just to state your own preferences for a place. Seriously this is so fucked- up, is it new even rude to have your own opinion? Girls are really brainwashed into being ultra doormats nowadays, wow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:23 PM
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The menzrighters like to complain that there are SO many middle to old -aged males who suffer from loneliness, and I used to feel sorry, until I met some of those. They usually used to live like the guys you all are describing here, treating their partners like trash and like they are replaceable, getting their ego- boosts out of their little games and their conviction that people need or want them more than they do need them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:45 PM
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I am not American, but I assume this is more a LV scrote thing than a cultural thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 12:35 PM
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Wow, for real? This sounds awesome. Meanwhile the males are seething about "old" 25 yr. "leftover women" while they can't find any for themselves and get bitter/ violent (As always. I personally somehow doubt that male- only communities can be as productive outside of any religious context, which would at least give them purpose and a set of morals they have to stick to. But hey, they should try too. Also they then should try make something positive instead of bonding around hating and feeling s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:52 AM
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Now it would be interesting what kind of reproduction- system would be better for the whole species and ecosystem as a whole? Just wondering. 1.Mass production of humans who have to lead a shitty live because of limited resources and who consume the meagre resources of the parents/ mother and of which a high percentage has to die before growing up, like we see it in (third- world) patriarchal societies? Or women who have the ability to get the best possible genes (who fit their genetics best, wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:17 PM
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I firmly believe what's best for a child is a stable (emotionally, mentally, financially), loving, TWO parent household, preferably with a mother and a father. That's the ideal. See, I respect your opinion but I do absolutely do not agree to this point. I have both a "real" father and a stepfather and wish I hadn't have to deal with either of them. And they are even tame in comparison to a lot of other stories of fathers I hear and witness. It is also shown that single mothers children usually a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 08:23 PM
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I’m taken along for the ride of going to open houses, Home Depot, etc., picking out furniture, paint colors, etc... I hope he is not using you as a cheap consultant for their whole interior- design. Some people absolutely are not good at this and, might find it even boring, others are naturals. Which type is he and which are you? Could there be a pattern with the men who like to involve you into their picking, decorating and upgrading their homes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:25 PM
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I am not attractive enough for hookups or social enough for relationships, so constantly seeing the beauty I can never obtain... Meaning: He is not interested in those many women who are probably at his level in handsomeness, only in the beautiful ones. Shallow fuck. Also he is not willing to better himself or maybe adjust to another person for a relationship (he could find a quiet unsocial girl as well, they could have a lot in common and to share, but it would mean more that just sex, he would…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 12:01 PM
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It somehow also makes them powerful if they can "manipulate" their partnerships this way. But the methods they use are straight up the same as narcissistic or psychopathic persons use to influence their targets. And males have made a billion- dollar- market out of these "strategies" the demand is that high! Just think about this. What does this say about a big part of the human male population? For me it also says that a lot of men see relationships in a fundamentally different way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:31 AM
13

Oh wow, I used to go on a date with a guy from my school (my first date then actually, as I then wasn't as interested in fooling around with boys and now I am even less). I knew him well already, but he pulled some kind of empathic& warm- suddenly cold and repellent shit like that all the time. I ended up from being really interested in being confused and thinking he had emotional problems lol. Naturally I stayed clear of him. I feel lucky now, because the thought that he might have done it on p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 11:26 AM
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I guess it is only his name on the house just as on the kid. If she let his do this even with her own baby...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:38 AM
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She already explained to him why having the same name as her kid is important to her ("He knows..."). Why would she even have to explain such a thing? He should know how she feels after 7 years, or even care enough so that she doesn't always has to tell him everything by her own. From her text it seems as if she is constantly trying to "explain" him things like how she feels about everything (We shouldn't do this). Still she is getting this ridiculous advice. But then, women are also always a "n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:29 AM
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rElAtIoNsHiPs aRe aBoUt COMPROMISE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:24 AM
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I think sometimes having a kid without a man is easier, if the woman is established enough. If women chose to do so I can completely understand and support this. I even heard of women who chose to raise their kids with female friends instead w a man, but I don't think this is common.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:20 AM
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It is her, SHE is the joke to him. Alone her very valid reason that she wants the same family- name as her kid (wtf ladies, you are birthing your kids, why would you willingly have them the surname of your male partner but not yours in the first place?). He doesn't even respect THAT? This is just wow and extremely callous. Get out. Please please, can we have the next generation of women have a bit more pride and backbone when it comes to males? Never forget to educate your girls, give them good …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:16 AM
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Makes me wonder why the girlfriends of this man are getting so angry and break stuff all the time as he claims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 10:00 AM
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Mybe she is referring to her female pets, who knows. She didn't specify the species after all, so in this context her sentence would make more sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:57 AM
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She is always telling this her "females"... what? Friends? Doubt she has any meaningful ones with women. Cats? Dogs? (Also a husband is something different than someone who knows you a few days). All the women hitting and breaking so much stuff, lol, the menz must be so scared. Vandalism is still a crime that is committed by more men, interesting. Also the thing that a lot of men hit and break is their very own girlfriend or wife, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:56 AM
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Maybe it helps to go gray rock on these kind of people? And nourish your female / high value friendships, get rid of these self- absorbed male "friends" and maybe only deal with them on a superficially friendly level. You might have to learn to emotionally distance yourself from men also at a more platonic level, when it comes to friendships and acquaintances etc. until they have really proven themselves worthy of your friendship and any emotional investment. Good and healthy HL friendships are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:40 AM
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"You have to compromise" or "relationships are about compromise" etc are some of the most frequent relationship advises given to women I see out there, especially if she has to deal with some problems in the relationship. Then it's always on her to "communicate more" and "compromise". Interesting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:14 AM
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I have read a study that shows that women have a less deeper sleep when sleeping near men, but the males sleep deeper when near a woman. (Not even any snoring involved here). Think of the quality of sleep you loose over YEARS by marrying a man and not having your own space alone by that? Whenever a man asks you again what you bring to the table: His f*ing HEALTH improves at the expense of yours (and this is true on so many levels, not just sleep). Edit: Everyone can do their own research, but th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:30 PM
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Right? Seems so petty from the ex- husband. But I like how the daughter made that post, probably for the father to see as well (except if he doesn't give a f* about his family/daughter, who knows). Nice to see that the woman has the back of her people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:18 AM
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Lol at these clowns, but it also shows how dangerous a collapse actually could be for naive women (who aren't prepared for that simple fact and think they have to rely on men): Lots of males going havoc, acting out all their violent fantasies against women. No apocalypse movie or book written by males touches that, but if you read authors like Octavia Butler, she is very realistic in her descriptions of civilizations that went downhill and how people are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:13 AM
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A man who enjoys a lot of porn has no empathy. How does that "empathy" even fit with getting off on abuse and/ or degradation?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:55 PM
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You are right, I am probably judging her WAY too harshly here. Growing up with the internet and having all those males expose themselves, showing how they really think, being able to connect with other women with similar experiences, online- bullying, all this does make a big difference. It also makes certain patterns way more obvious. But especially some solder women didn't have this when they were young, but still were exposed to disney, rom-coms, holly/bollywood stories and all that stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:22 PM
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Oh my god, who is forcing this poor guy to date women? Poor menz, never allowed to do what they really want. But I guess it is hard to put beer down so you can feel great about yourself, so he has to stick with women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 02:11 PM
3

It seems men really need their hierarchies. If only they would stop to bring some misinformed or straight up wrong pseudo- science into it (but they also do).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:45 PM
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So when they say "I am the alpha in this relationship" is bullshit as well, because alphas mate with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:40 PM
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Oh no never teach them to manipulate others better the next time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:06 PM
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I don't think she meant into going into such details. My mother also went through a lot, but she never tells me anything (while still using me as some kind of therapist for situations in the present she can't properly deal with). My mother is kind of traumatized and did not really work on her past, and sometimes I wish she could tell me directly instead that I have to hear them from other ppl (like that she nearly got murdered by trusting the wrong guy). I wish she would tell me more, alone that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:46 PM
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Then I went from high school dropout, to Ivy League university (Cornell) at 41. This is impressive, I am so so proud for you, dear internet- stranger. Lately I come across so many of these stories of women 30++ leveling up in their education and jobs and I love it, but there are still a lot of girls my age or in their twenties who panic because they think they have "not much time left" or think they can't do something because they might be "too old". You definitely inspire and give hope just alo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:18 PM
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The way he is almost always using "females" when talking about women and girls, but for the boys he uses "dudes","guys" ,"boys, ... that says it all. Dudes don't really care about females skin color when it comes to sex Yeah dude, we know that human males fuck everything female, unfortunately there is enough sexual animal abuse. Of course they don't care about the color of said poor cow or cat or whatever... Do dues really have this kind of shitty attitude towards skin- color? Do they really let…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:31 AM
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She should have looked for a place first by herself, and got her goddamn things (and furniture) out of there before telling her bf what she is planning to do. Let's see how THIS is going to work out, she still is very naive despite his treatment of her... Alone the fact that she has to ask strangers on the internet if being treated like a doormat by a bf who obviously likes to take what he can from her while playing a dominance-game and always lets her feel how he has power over her is maybe not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:21 PM
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The LoGiCaL sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:18 PM
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My hairdresser goes on and on about how I should find a man because I’m beautiful I so hate how women and even teenagers are pushed to be paired up with males all the time. If romance happens it happens, if not be glad that you have a cool head and time to pursue your own ideas and dreams and get into your own headspace for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:50 PM
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Sexual attraction should be so much deeper, because your love for someone grows when you know them better, and how they talk and move and smell, and their mind, and just them. This is true for many women, but do you know a lot of men who are able to love in such a way? I just would truly want to know... If you feel you are able to feel attracted to someone or love them like this, remember that not everyone might be able to feel so. Just because something is natural for you, it doesn't mean other…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:41 PM
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He probably would tbh, after all males are much more likely to leave if their wife gets sick than the other way around, women stick around and help their sick husbands. See: Marriage more likely to end in divorce when wives get sick, according to ISU study
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:34 PM
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Also all his kids are boys, he made his partners have IVF to make sure they have a boy... very telling imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:29 PM
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Males are doing all that kicking and hitting anyhow, who told those guys that women who don't have rights do not get hit (they do, just in this case even worse of course). Also very telling that they also can't think of anything else but violence. Is that how we should run societies, by brute force instead of cooperation and intelligence (LoGiC but this time for real). Because I am sure these things are mutually exclusive to each other. So why do those violent jackasses need rights again? Should…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:19 PM
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Hes probably trying to override his instinct to help because he got educated on the internet about "whiteknighting" and "simping" because it is a very bad thing to be nice to women, who are privileged bitches anyway so he should stop treating them decently. Pretty common line of thinking nowadays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:56 PM
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She can teach that boy not to be sexist and toxic from an early childhood. Despite this sounding like a lot of work (I'd rather have a child whom I wouldn't first have to teach how to even respect half of the human population) I am skeptical for many reasons: *You would have to constantly counter society and the messages your kids gets on a daily basis from outside. This is never fully possible and quite tiring. *This puts the onus once again on women (mothers) and sexism could be seen as a fail…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 01:19 PM
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Yeah, but why does it seem so often that as soon as a male falls out of love (or even just out of lust) for their woman he becomes so absolute careless and indifferent, often even callous towards her, like in a instance? Them being partners for a while, maybe even her birthing their children or having shared a life together, built something together, suddenly it all becomes meaningless for them. Ha there always been so little genuine respect and sympathy for the women in their life that it can c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:46 PM
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Unpopular opinion maybe, but here you go: You still did the pregnancy and all of the childbirth alone, with all possible health- risks. He should be doing more than the 50% caring if you really want to make things "fair" and "equal". (At least males should give their partners the opportunity to care for themselves and rest and heal from childbirth the weeks after birth if they want to be "partners"). What irritates me most about certain "father- movements" is that they are all about their "right…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:24 PM
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But it's Broscience that they know a lot about, its superior because it builds on the holy deity of MaLeLoGiCkTM Seriously you could study those males!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:07 PM
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There already is a huge gender imbalance in the world because so many people only want boys. It is not cruel to turn this around, she is NOT talking about k**ll*ing boy babies or abandoning or selling them AS IT HAPPENS WITH GIRL BABIES. There are too many boys who get groomed by society to be abusive shits (sometimes there is not much a mother can do to counter this) and too little girls in this world. If there is such a power- imbalance you cant just say doing something the other way around li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 08:04 PM
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This reminds me of an article where they found that for older women who are raped, the perpetrators are most likely their own sons. Its fucked up, I really need to search this article & the studies again (because you shouldn't take a random stranger on the internet on her word on such a serious topic) but maybe you just want to keep your piece of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:56 PM
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I don't like how your friend didn't even stick up for a hypothetical unborn daughter to her bf, wtf, does she let this kind of sexism just fly? What if she actually HAS a girl? Also having a girl is more than putting her in nice dresses, girls aren't trained circus-monkeys and dress-up-dolls for you to decorate like a fucking clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:50 PM
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Some males must really think of themselves as something deeply disgusting and dirty, that having sex with them is so degrading... should we believe them if they tell on themselves in such a way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:42 PM
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A pickme shaming non-pickmes, lol. I have med those kind of gals, they mostly aren't in such a happy place now (and they are still super young). F* that noise, I hope she gets cleverer or at least less bitchy towards other girls who dare being into self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 05:03 PM
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Unfortunately yeah, this seemed thoughtless of her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:44 PM
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Yeah, of course, he said only "WOMEN should... yabba yabba". Nice how some males always try to explain to us how women should be (more of a doormat f-slave and whatnot) or how we "truly are/ want".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:41 PM
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True, but I think this can still be applied to men we have to deal with and can't just get rid off, like family- members, people from work and so on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:29 PM
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but lifelong loneliness is one hell of a drug :( Sis you got this. I hope everything will turn out okay some day and you find people who cherish you and with whom you actually click. I wish this for every woman here. 🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:12 PM
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Or use that bodily strength for physical labor instead of wasting it by spending their best years at a school or a university \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:01 PM
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Why oh why is it always the ones who are too emotional and self- indulged to even look at anything that might conflict their views, as well as those who are very black-and-white thinkers who can't handle complexity or nuance and the fact that there might not be only one (his) truth that like to proclaim themselves as more "LoGiCaL than thou". Wow, he sounds insufferable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:54 PM
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Long time ago I read a book by Octavia Butler, some sort of SciFi, in which an alien species discovers humans and claim our greatest weakness is that we are ruled by opposing principles: intelligence and dominance. I occasionally think about that, males who are ruled by their urges to dominate are not being rational or intelligent. And by accepting a society that is built on dominance and leads by brute force we are creating a society that can not be "ruled" by the most intelligent, clever talen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 03:46 PM
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Yeah for me too, but it makes sense that older women are more attracted to men in their own age- range. They mostly are not creeps who feel drawn to anyone who lacks their experience and look like a kiddo from their experience. Why can't more males have this sort of mindset?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:24 AM
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This should be more common knowledge. The amount of males who think they can fuck around all they want and still impregnate any woman at 50+++ if they want to is truly disgusting. All this of course while they destroy the experience of growing up and aging for girls and women because they constantly put women down for aging and sadly a lot of my peers eat this shit up. Only teens already start to feel "old" and saggy or whatnot. I also think this WILL negatively influence how they age as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 11:20 AM
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or even worse, a mantrum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:51 AM
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A woman with a poker face ruins their entire game Yes, again, this is all about their own ego and power-games. I hope you ask them too why they are so upset or moody? Or point out their unnecessary emotional responses? Of course only if you are in a position that allows this and won't harm you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:47 AM
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Also some men are kind of cute when they are young, but grow out of it. A friend of my brother used to be hella cute, he is now 23 and somehow looks more manly and mature, but also has lost a lot of his appeal. Sad how that happened, 23 isn't even that old... He still thinks of himself as the crush of all girls tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:25 AM
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Woow, thank you this was an interesting read. If I didn't run out of awarded coins I would give you an award! 🏅 I wonder how much of the different serotonin levels are due to the different upbringings and experiences the sexes face (especially harassment and sexual abuse, different treatments and expectations of girls etc come to my mind)? Also it seems that the role of serotonin is much more complex than commonly known, and it is not always a good thing? There are newer anti- depressants that w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:18 AM
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Wow, keep leveling up, you are doing a great job! Also this makes me wonder how much the very different upbringing of girls and boys, society and all the too common sexual abuse and harassment plays a role in the different serotonin levels between the sexes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 10:05 AM
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Good idea actually, some women should program an app that does so. Would males use this kind of app, if they had to give such details about themselves? Well, women sure as hell would, and we all know people of which target group such apps usually do not have enough (ok, surprise: it's women). Males usually go where there are enough women. If conventional dating- apps fail such a huge group of their customers , could this be a good opportunity to make some $ for some clever programmers? If only w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 08:00 PM
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I know it can be hard to distance yourself from people you knew for a long time, especially if you feel that there aren't enough friends left in your life. But trust your gut, focus on yourself and eventually you will be able to find much better friends who truly value you, even if it can take a while. Use that time for building yourself. Leveling up isn't always easy (for me at least it is not, and I am still far away from being HV), but it is worth it. Good luck 🖤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:49 PM
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The Traps of "Forgiveness + Positive Thinking"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:54 PM
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Yeah he clearly does not respect her hobby at all, playing a stupid power- game or he just doesn't care for her as a person that he didn't notice. Good riddance, OP. If they show you who they are or what they truly think of you... don't close your eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:46 PM
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What is so funny about ruining other people's stuff or degrading them? Did you ask him that? Do people who think this kind of power-play is actually funny do even know what Humor is? Want a little petty revenge? You could call him to come over, say you have forgiven him and you are back together just to tell him "Oh this was just a little prank, bye boy!" when he arrives. See how he would like his own medicine. But only do this if you are around other people... at least this would make your "jok…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 06:42 PM
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Oh my god, this sounds awful! I am glad you found your way here, good luck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:48 PM
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You can't help people if they aren't interested. She really seems an extra level of pickme stupidity, most others are at least able to learn some day. Is this friendship even worth it, she doesn't even seem to respect your opinions enough... putting you down as a "prude" and just not like them so of course you juust can't understand them cool girls, but she is still asking for your advice and drags you in her situation? Seems like she only wants you to comfort her. Is it time to level up and dit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 02:02 PM
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They so love their nature fallacies, explaining all their depraved shit with NaTuRe and EvOlUtIoN, but can't handle it that the females of many species chose their mate according to his fitness. Moral standards only apply to women, as it seems, and any pseudo-scientific excuses only to males. There is a reason Bro-Science is called as it is called (meaning: Bros twisting science until it fits their narrative). Also interesting: The magical thinking of guys who love "LoGiC" ​ Edit: sry English is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:25 PM
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Guys who are against masturbation and "NoFap" really do not care about abusive industries like porn, they only care about some invisible super-powers they would lose just by masturbating once a while. But really, how is this even the same thing? A guy being into NoFap is at least a yellow flag. Just read their weird believes online, how much they do not actually care about abusive practices or building healthy and loving sexual bonds with another person, they are really just another kind of reli…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:16 PM
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Then only bring them up if you are ready to observe his reactions closely. Believe him if he shows his true colors, and act accordingly. So maybe this is easier when you aren't in your most vulnerable state and just need comfort?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:53 PM
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Yeah not to mention human trafficking and other shit happening in such milieus. This is why males who pay for sex are huge callous psychopaths or at least lack any empathy and sense of justice imo, ruled by their urges.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:11 PM
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Yes you are overreacting, don't be so controlling, he might have depressions or a shitty week. How about trying to communicate why you don't like shat on the carpet, did you even try to understand him and maybe also educate him why people don't do this usually? Males emotions are never taken seriously, and here you are negging, complaining and controlling like a mean bitch of a shitty gf. Women are such hysterical overemotional bitches lolol. Thats my advice, it is LoGiC you know, you're welcome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 09:07 PM
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Nope, but try having a healthy relationship with a LVM and this sort of behavior is not that uncommon (I mean even in cute little MSM "family shows" the hubbys like to make those kind of degrading jokes towards their wifes, because haha so funny and wholesome). Even if the severity of it varies, try watching out for any male who likes to put you down every once in a while (and really it would help to know how they talk about you when you aren't around).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:07 PM
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"His love language is just more physical, mine is being affectionate and nice, basically making me his servant. That's fine, we are just different, but how can I communicate better when I have already tried to explain him how not to be an asshole to me for hours every day. How can I make this easier for him? I already explained to him in great detail how he could fake loving and respecting me. But Obviously my communication skills are too bad, can anyone help me improve this and help me educate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:26 PM
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And the funny thing is, exactly this behavior will make her wake up and make her lose not only her self- esteem if she lets it get to her, but also her respect for him. She will question if he really loves and accepts or even respects her the way she does him and this question will always be there and nag on her subconsciously. Well played, scrote, you just lost your wife, even if it will take a while until she leaves for real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:25 PM
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My siblings and I do our laundry and basic household- tasks as well since we are kids, as my mum works all day and it is really not that hard if everyone pulls their weight. My brother is now in college and basically has to teach his roommates how not to be complete swines and clean their stuff lol. But he is a big bloke and they respect him and don't dare to object.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:19 PM
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They probably can with their bros, by shitting on their women. This is why LVM need their women, they need someone to hate, someone to look down on and someone whom they can drag down with their buddies so that they can feel some sort of connection over a shared bogeyman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:00 PM
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With right comes responsibilities, ideally. But the neat thing about having a group of ppl with NO rights who depend on you is you can just shuffle all the responsibilities onto them and keep all the glory and recognition to yourself. This story is old.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:52 PM
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THAT'S why so many women turn down the guys who already have themselves figured out. Because they're so used to trying to "fix" the guys they date, that when a guy shows up who doesn't need fixing, that forces them to recognize their own issues that need fixing...and they don't like that. Wow they really did imply here that males have their shit together and figured themselves out mostly while women mostly can't even face their own problems? Seriously wtf, how is that sort of sexism even okay no…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:49 PM
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I hope she has some good friends who can comfort her and give her a big hug, she seems so lovely and much too kind to deal with this sort of bullshit. OLD seems not worth the effort at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:34 PM
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If someone I care about suddenly is crying because of spilling milk, I would be shocked and would wonder why they do so. Maybe a childhood trauma? What the heck, I would the hell listen to them why they react in such a heartbreaking way before I would put them down like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:18 PM
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There are a lot of deal-breakers in this situation, and she should leave NOW. He clearly shows how he sees her: As a body, who fits his taste but still could be improved (fitting what society tells him a perfect female body looks like). He shows, that he doesn't appreciate her conventional beauty even though he himself is unfit. He shows that he doesn't appreciate or maybe even see her very individual beauty or finds her fully attractive as the individual she is. As soon as you start nitpicking …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:11 PM
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Must suck for them that their whole self-worth and identity is built upon supposedly being "superior" and "better" than women. As if they have no other identity by their own, they need to force the same narrative anytime anywhere and if they can't they get the big sads. This would also explain why many males have a problem with building meaningful relationships with others without having a common enemy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:32 PM
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For real, why do they even keep him if he can't properly do his own job?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:01 PM
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Absolutely, it is also very interesting how he suddenly treats her like her whole person doesn't matter at all, just because he doesn't feel sexually attracted to her any more. As if she did never had any other worth than being a sex-doll for his pleasure, and as soon as this is gone she is completely worthless for him, not even deserving of basic respect and compianship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:44 PM
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I think her health would improve and stabilize much faster if she wasn't surrounded by someone who puts her down and makes her feel worthless and invisible as well as getting rid of any other subconscious messages she might have received during her life about ageing as a woman (probably even by this very person as well, the way he reacts to the whole situation).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:48 AM
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I've actually tried this, as a friend has challenged me exactly like that OP. I am just a stupid young and inexperienced person, but managed to have some really nice and interesting chats with some ladies (which makes me feel bad now, because I was basically lying, shame on this 'pickme' move I did here, please bear with me). Idk why males can't do that, it could be so easy. I could ghost- write any male- profile into something that would make them actually appealing and interesting, but why hel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:54 AM
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Then she needs to learn some hacking and get revenge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:35 AM
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I don't think it's weird, I think it is totally fine as long as your partner values your affection. Maybe the guy in the video is just a little more reserved but likes her affection, and they do truly value each other idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:01 PM
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Absolutely, the same is true for Computers and anything to do with IT. Learn how to upgrade your old laptop, build your own computer (it't so much more cheaper), make your own Hackintosh (watch Morgonaut on YouTube), try out some alternative Linux OS, maybe even try out some coding, just TRY it, you might actually be surprised about yourself and what you can do. There are so many great tutorials out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:23 PM
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Absolutely, sometimes they even put down older women / women at their age in front of me and I just think does he actually believe this will make me like him? Divide and conquer I guess, but this is just stupid, any young women knows she will age as well if she is lucky enough not to die young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 03:02 PM
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Not to mention those sagging wrinkly scrotum ball-sacks. Edit to add: I have a much older half- sister, she is 35+ and still looks incredibly young, sometimes stupid LVM who don't know her age try to "neg" her by using the tactic of making women scared and feeling bad about themselves because of aging. Like they say shit like that to make her believe she will be losing all her "youthful attributes" when she will turn 30 (or 25, or whatever the LVM thinks is her age is probably). It is so hilario…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:51 PM
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Wow, this wasn't even that special, so she got to decide what movie they watch and what they eat for dinner? But she can't have that plant? Doesn't seem like she normally has much to say to begin with. Also the dynamic seems strangely like you would treat a child or a minor or someone tot quite capable, or is it just me? The cuddles were initiated by her, he just seemed like he simple reacted to them so so... Is this how a loving and caring hetero relationship looks like with a male? I get more …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:41 PM
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For real! They have to act as if their women need and want them more than the other way around, as if they would loose something by being in a relationship with their women (but ya know, she wanted him so bad)... it is just a dominance game for them, putting someone down so they can feel good about themselves. Very common for a lot of males tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:26 PM
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Yess, I am proud of you! I would love to see your work, but I totally understand if you aren't comfortable about sharing such information with strangers here on reddit. Best of luck for your business!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 09:28 PM
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Not to mention coconuts filled with their own jizz.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:11 PM
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Men aren't inherently more angry and violent, there's no real biological reason for it Idk but why then are they more violent and aggressive in chimps and a lot of other species?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:00 PM
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Lol yes, indeed there are a few who are almost as bad as a lot of males. #notallwomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:58 PM
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Hell yes! From now on I'm going to take the phrase "You are not like other girls" as an insult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 07:53 PM
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Who didn't even do the fucking household so now you also have to clean on top of it? Besides of that I don't think it is wrong for women to be the bread- winner, so at least she doesn't fall out of the job- market and has no problem finding a good job and making good money after the hubby is gone. Women shouldn't be financial dependent on the mercy of their male partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:16 PM
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His "love language being words and physical, hers acts of affection ("service")" seems like such a bullshit- trap for me. So he wants sex, and he gets away with cheap words, while she actually shows her affection. A lot of women fall for this, as this still is very ingrained. If someone cares about you, their actions should show it, not just their words. If you love someone and want to be affectionate towards them this shouldn't make you their servant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:06 PM
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Their "competitiveness" usually just means being arrogant and putting others down (wanting to be superior/ dominant). Real competitiveness is something different for me, it might even mean you are willing to challenge yourself and push yourself out of your comfort- zone and have to better yourself constantly (which means you also have to be self- critical enough) to achieve something. None of the self- describing alphalpa- males I know so things like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:48 PM
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Oh my god, I am so sorry. I hope you can find peace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:29 PM
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This usually backfires as well. A male who has a temporary rise in Oxytocin or just wants to fuck you might treat you better temporarily... But this will neither change what kind of person he is nor will this effect last forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:18 PM
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You can make so many delicious things that actually taste good out of lemons, why would you downgrade them so much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:07 PM
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Socially awkward women can never expect the same kind of understanding. We even get shamed for being mistrustful of men. Seems like only women need to be perfect and then go give themselves to any low-effort clown, or else they are mean bi*ches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:44 PM
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They have been brainwashed by society. Yes exactly, I still see so many girls getting brainwashed from such an early age. This is why the marriage as a main life goal is wrong for women, it is just what has been indoctrinated into them since forever at the expense of developing their own sense of self.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:39 PM
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I am not offended, but this disparity is interesting. So why the downvote? The words we chose do mean something and do have an influence, even if only subtly or unconsciously. Maybe you still have a subconscious bias or whatever, you could do some self- reflection for your own good or just keep with the general zeitgeist without further questioning yourself and everything that has influenced you so far. Not my business and not my problem. The story of males wanting to hit women because of "equal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:09 PM
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"females" and "men"? Seriously?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:45 PM
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TBH I really AM an bad texter. But still no one ever complained about me being too inattentive towards them if they are important to me, so...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:43 PM
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He doesn't care about his female kids, how his relationship with the mother is should really not matter in regards to the kids. And if the mother really was that crazy etc. he should be in the kids lifes even more to help them. If he would care about them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:35 PM
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I am honestly dreaming about this since I was a girl/ young teenager.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:22 PM
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Women really need a country for themselves. Better a planet. But tbh scrotes couldn't deal with it and would try to start a war or shit. Just like this female village in Kenya (Umoja I think), where women just try to live on their own but they always have to keep a watch on scrotes who want to attack their village because they don't like it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 04:00 PM
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I think in most cases, it's pure ignorance and stupidity rather than malice. Still, why should you put up with such stupidity? Just leave, and it doesn't matter if it is malice or stupidity, you don't have to deal with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:57 PM
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This! Google Dame Stephanie ("Steve") Shirley and let yourself be inspired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:02 PM
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Google pictures of female Sandanistas Yes, also the Yekîneyên Parastina Jin‎ (YPJ).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 06:56 PM
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OMG I need to know this too, please. (Only if you don't mind of course)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:43 PM
16

They also really REALLY want to be given opportunities to call an emotional woman "crazy" and thus feel better about their own LoGiCal selves. This is such an important insight, and it is true for a lot of males, not only fully fledged narcissists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:42 PM
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I guess somehow he still will find a way to call her overemotional and crazy, he just hates it that she makes this too hard for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:20 PM
18

Going from very underweight to overweight and finally back to normal in my teens, thanks to a gut condition, I can definitely confirm. There was never even one time some stupid dude or grown-ass male didn't made me know on why my body- type sucks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:55 AM
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The so called "power" reserved for women: being able to influence males or get their attention and love by using ones looks /sexuality (so basically you have to stifle your own integrity and boundaries for that kind of "power") is just second- hand power. You need the good- will of another class of people (males) to achieve something. Real power would mean to be directly in control of your life and to be able to achieve what you want no matter if it pisses some ppl off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 11:45 AM
9

But obviously they never can take a joke themselves, just see how this pathetic piece gets offended at a harmless joke and calls her names. Scrote should lighten up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 09:05 PM
12

Oh my, I don't trust male psychotherapists or psychologists. In my experience they just enjoy the "power" they have by seemingly knowing so much about how the human psyche works and how they can influence it. If you have a man who likes psychology, inspect very closely WHY he is so intérested in that topic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:59 PM
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And he has watched how a black woman was raped and just laughed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:39 PM
2

Yes, you are true to some extent, but I stand by the fact that girls are more advanced in their intelligence and I will not blurry this fact, just because it makes some males hurt. It is proven that girls have more developed intellectual abilities even when they are very young and even when they are less supported in their mental development as males (this is true in a lot of areas, such as language etc). This hardly comes from nurture alone. If it was boys who had those advantages we still woul…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 08:10 PM
12

Tell him you did take Monday and Tuesday off, thinking he had something nice and romantic planned, but as this doesn't seem the case you will go working now, because why should you be wasting two precious free days for nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 09:04 PM
8

So young girls and women girls are cleverer than their male peers, they have better self- control as well as a stronger prefrontal cortex, how do we put it that it doesn't sound they are mentally superior and that males can still profit from this shit? Bingo! Let's just call them "more mature" with all the nice connotations that this choice of words brings with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:56 PM
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It is also used to explain away or to conceal over the fact that young girls often are intellectually more advanced that their male peers. But funnily this never means they are more intelligent. (Imagine what people/ society would say if it were the other way around). "Boys are just boys and they are a bit childish and not as mAtUrE as the girls, how cute and funny of them. Let's make the girls take responsibilities for the boys until the dudes are old enough to rule over them". Seriously though…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 08:50 PM
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Yeah cool, and then she always seems to bring the food to his table/ gaming spot, so they won't even enjoy the meal together?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:32 PM
2

they don’t see it as a problem that’s been fixed but as a battle they just lost? If you look at any random pua or really nearly any other relationship "advice" geared towared males by males, they do seem to like their dominance games. Everything is about dominating vs. being dominated, while women often just seek some mutual connection. There is this huge gap of how some males see and approach relationships and how women see those relationships. Don't make the assumption and assume that males th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 08:53 PM
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Yes, we see it all the time as it is what usually happens during war or times of chaos. But mostly movies and books (written by scrotes) are completely glossing over this fact. I wonder why \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 07:29 PM
3

Did you report him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:02 PM
2

These are drop-dead gorgeous women that know their worth. I wish more women had that confidence instead of feeling bad about themselves. Of course some insignificant lv scrote has to try to put down such confident queens, but the joke is on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:00 PM
2

It seems people love seeing women stuck in unhappy relationships, so lvm can leech off them what they can get...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:56 PM
15

I have a male friend That's not a friend, you should be as selective with your male (or any) friends as with a male partner. Hopefully you dumped him and now have more self-confidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:25 PM
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”you’re not letting me speak. Either you listen and wait for your turn, or our conversation ends here.” "...Either you are able to have a real conversation or ours ends here. I am not interested in wasting my time with people who lack basic (intellectual) skills a normal grown- up would be expected to have." (Something like that. Sorry for my English, but you get what I mean). I think this would sink in even more. This would kick them where it hurts (their lvm need to feel somewhat superior or m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:07 PM
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These dudes usually don't even understand the animal/primal dynamics they like referring to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:42 PM
2

Ok, I am happy to hear this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:26 PM
4

Wow, you really don't think much of your fellow women, do you? Edit to say: This is the last place where I expected to find such sexism, if you truly still believe women are the emotional unstable/ crazy ones and all the usually misogynistic negative things you truly have some work to do. You are a woman too, after all (I think so?).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:09 PM
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Doesn't seem that this guy knows what love truly is. The part he likes the most about his GF is how she supports HIM (besides listing superficial characteristics like being hot, successful and cool).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:06 PM
7

Wtf because she told him that he is the greatest guy (GUY) ever she is not allowed to also tell her female friend that she is incredible?? Where is the logic here? Is this guy truly that narcissistic? Btw I have a feeling that he is one of those types who would prefer his girlfriend to have no female friends but to see women as her enemies, too bad for him that she is an awesome friend as well and probably has good and healthy female supporting system. They really love their little handmaidens a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:58 PM
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Bbut... but the males are StRoNgEr so I am sure the female lionesses need them to PrOvIdE for them \s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:22 PM
4

^^This!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:16 PM
12

I knew a woman who works in tech and hires especially women for her team. Maybe she was inspired by the great Dame Stephanie Shirley. Her employees were highly effective, motivated and professional, she gave undervalued women in tech a chance and she was quite successful, despite from the occasional LVM complaining about the "unfair" work- environment and that she discriminates males by not hiring enough and other bullshit. (You know the drill: males howling about "If ThE RoLeS wErE ReVeRsEd BuH…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:13 PM
3

If you say she has yet to find love, you mean she has stayed single so far? This isn't necessarily a bad thing for women, some chose to be so after having a bad experience with males. Maybe she likes it that way. Single women are shown to be healthier and happier on average. It also might show that she is a human being, after spending so much time in an awful relationship she might not be ready to hop into another one yet, or to fully open up with a new man, while he doesn't have a problem to re…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:58 PM
1

Damn I should have known, alone by that self- righteous brutal tone and the stupid "reasoning" thinking they are scientific and "logical". I just thought it was a women because the forum is a "AskWOMEN". sub, but one should never underestimate the audacity of stupid LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:51 PM
3

ppf is nor banned yet, it is just set to private for now (not much going on over there right now, but it is still alive). You can still look for the pinkpillfeminism subs on Saidit (Seddit alternative, although saidit is full of males as well).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:47 PM
1

Oh god, this pickeisha comes with the most stupid Broscience/ Evopsych bullshit and then goes on to play the good old WoMeN aRe RuLeD By ThEiR HoRmOnEs especially when (pick any random female occurence like menstruation, pregnancy,...) so they and their feelings are not to be taken seriously. This is bullshit. You want biology? A cheating male "fertilizing" a many women as possible is not a male you want a partnership with, as he is a massive health- hazard. STDs and other nasty stuff are waitin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:06 PM
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Ironically, most of the people that I admire and inspire me on an artistic level happen to be men, they give me hope that maybe there are some men out there with real empathy, ... this is only because males happen to benefit from a system that elevates them because they have a penis and keeps women down, too sad. So many great talent lost because they were denied chances or taken advantage of. Most "artistic" males happen to be massive assholes if you dig a little deeper. When I first started to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:54 PM
3

I have the feeling that especially women over 30 are a very pickme- ridden generation and it is more evened out in younger generations. We still have a LOOT of younger pickmes, but also a lot of younger girls that are way less naive about males. Am I wrong about this? Maybe it is the internet, and women of a certain generation did grow up with a somewhat naive mind-set, romanticizing males and partnerships with them, while still enjoying relative freedom for which they never had to do so much, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:45 PM
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You would have loved some of the other female- centric subs out there, but a lot of them got banned (while male hatred against women, even if it encourages real-life violence as it has done so in the past, is still accepted here). And you would love Pinkpillfeminism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:30 PM
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Males like to act as if their wifes/ girlfriends are a "burden" to them, but it is very clear that marriage mostly is more a disadvantage for women and a big advantage in life for males. If any man ever wants to stroke his ego by "jokingly" pretending you are keeping him in chains or somehow down, please just give him back his precious "freedom". They just want to feel (or make you and other people feel) like you need them more than they need you. Male bullshit manipulation tactic 101. It is as …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:41 AM
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Only put the appropriate amount of love and energy into them. If it isn't working, into the bin and find a better replacement. Same goes for plants, actually. 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:05 PM
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Then just turn the game around and watch them get testerical, stay calm and watch the mantrum. Now have fun pointing out their hypocrisy and then tell them to lighten up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:54 PM
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This is why I advocate to turn their game against them, instead once again having to argument why women should have "the same rights as men" or "are as good as men in xyz" ask them why should they be allowed rights, can they prove that they are good enough? Can they prove themselves worthy of xyz? Are they woman enough? Or ate they once again too testerical and tend to throw mantrums?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:50 PM
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And so often good and empathic mothers who try their best still end up with shitty sons. Seen it enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 01:43 PM
10

You definitively dodged a bullet here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 09:02 PM
6

Even if his weak excuse was true... he lost it and treated his gf like shit because of money someone else owns him. What a soulless cumhead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:39 PM
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Unfortunately the irony was lost on him Why is this such a common phenomenon with those types of men? Like a dumb child who doesn't realize how unaware it actually is. I just got a message reading something like "Theehee you're biologically weaker" (not kidding) and some yabbayabba "catlady" assumptions. (again, I am really not kidding you). I like to caricature or do sarcastic role- plays on r /ActualStraightMen, but nobody can humor those males better than they do it themselves, and it would b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:11 PM
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Fun Fact: Your Testosterone levels are the highest when on your period. Next time any scrote accuses you of being overly emotional because of your period just ask him how he manages being in that state constantly, or even worse... and show him some sympathy like "oh now I can at least understand a BIT why men do all of those violent destructive overly- emotional crimes all the time".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:50 AM
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God how I wished I had some sane women around me calling me out and just being honest when I made that mistake of dating an older guy... But everyone just pulled some libfemmy bullshit and acted "tolerant". Sometimes we need to hear the hard truth from our friends, but well, you live and learn, and I luckily learned my lesson by myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 12:08 PM
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Let's not be naive and think there aren't enough males out there thinking and acting exactly like this towards their women (and enough women who also put up with it).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:53 AM
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The business might have enabled her to hire some help, but now she has to be the nanny and cleaning woman (not only for the kids but also the man) and the family has no money. These kind of fathers do really just bring negative value, she would be better off as single mum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:07 AM
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I know a woman who owns her own little business and she has laid ppl off because "if they can't take even their personal responsibilities that seriously (not caring as much for their kids while the wife has to do all the stuff while also working full time) how am I supposed to trust them with their work responsibilities as much as xyz". Idk the whole story here, there might be more to it. But I think the basic underlying message is true. More people need to realize whom they actually can trust w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 11:04 AM
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Yeah, seems like the best HVM is a simple sperm donation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 10:53 AM
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So at first he only "fell in love" because she was so much like him (or he thinks of her like that). They really only love their selves or some idealized mirrors of themselves (as with the mini-mes of their sons) and the superficial looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 04:21 PM
8

Yeah, luckily you can get those much cheaper, without having to keep the donor around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:40 PM
8

I actually wouldn't mind to have a full time stay-at-home dad hubby, if I ever had kids (big IF here). But why would they need a nanny then? Also, as nice as the thought would be I don't think males would be truly able to be a useful stay-at-home dad and houseman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 03:35 PM
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The last one especially, he wants to get you to play the "cool Girl" who is "different from other Women". This is a divide and conquer tactic (society already grooms us into this exactly mindset from the beginning, so this is a pretty easy manipulation tactic. He might not even be fully aware why it works and just thinks out of his entitled ass that those pickmes have to prove him anything and all other women are b*ches).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 01:23 PM
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Such men like to see themselves as very intelligent, they overestimate their own smartness and want a "smart" woman who thinks exactly like them (because he is always right) but still can't keep up with him or looks up to him, so he can remain superior. They can't handle anyone challenging their believes, least those that they have about themselves. Unfortunately too many women are willing to idealize the intelligence of their men, gushing over them while putting themselves down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 01:04 PM
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I started washing my own clothes and cook my own food when I was 12 Omg the same for us, all of us kids had to start basic stuff for ourselves early on, so it baffles me how grown ass males still expect to be served like toddlers or even bring their f*ing laundry to their mom. The last time I had to bring laundry my mother just said "Oh don't you have a washing machine at your doorms? Of course you can use my machine my dear. I've got a bunch of clothes that needs to be washed as well if you're …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 12:24 PM
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He insists you drive an hour away to a specific and expensive restaurant and then expects you to pay for your meal. I don't even do this with friends. If they have a long way to come to my place or to go to a place I want with me, of course they are invited on something, is this not normal? Also OP: You were only on three dates with this guy, it is super easy to put on a nice fake mask for three dates (yeah, he didn't even manage that tbh, lucky for you). Don't let yourself get too emotional inv…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:28 PM
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We really need to stop "educating" those dudes, save your valuable time and just block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:20 PM
9

"This is not a date, but of course it can be a date, idk maybe let me first see you in a bikini so I can decide what you are good for"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:12 PM
2

Haha! I think there are some gay subreddits on here that post nsfw male pics, post them there for people who actually enjoy these kind of pics. You would make some people happy and the dickowner gets the attention he wishes for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:43 PM
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This might only work because they have a common bogeyman or a class of people they can shit against together. Male communities need something like that and a common enemy is a powerful bonding mechanism. Make males live on their own and never see any woman again, they will soon form some other power- hierarchies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:25 PM
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Well nowadays there is enough free online porn, you can find pictures of naked women anywhere in an instant, but males still like to creep on real women who just want to be let alone, or take creepo- shots. They need a sense of power or the feeling of damaging someone, and a robot might not be able to fulfill that need in the long run. Other that that they can hang with their robots all day, no one cares. I propose anyone buying such a robot should make a contract to never bother a real woman or…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:20 PM
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But but what about the menzfolks who build civilization as they always (wrongly) claim? Can the women birthing them now also claim their success, or are they just the scapegoats if the male does something negative? Btw. Women are not the gender who birthed the most of anything... they are the gender that birthed EVERYONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:59 PM
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She was the one calling the other ladies "bitches" first, for being unhappy at their situation (so she brought up how much worse she had it and then lashed out, classy).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 09:55 PM
7

He tried to talk about how men are better with guns than women Aren't women proven to be the better shooters though?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:16 PM
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that's why you need a MAN who can protect you But then women are mostly killed by the males closest to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 08:09 PM
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He even put a random male his own daughters? Oh well, why am I surprised, women never would have to fight for their own rights if males truly cared about their female family members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:38 PM
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Lol, nowadays it is so easy to find all the resources and information you need, how can you still be so stupid and uneducated? And this is one of the intellectual god of males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:25 PM
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The way those dudes "pick on others" mostly is downright abusive and passive aggressive. If you want to know if they just want to banter around or if they mean it (although usually this is easy to see) just do the same back to them, with the same level of severity of the insults they used. See how they react and be ready to laugh at their hypocrisy (but please take precautions). This is all just a stupid dominance play for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:06 PM
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True, that's the best reaction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:51 AM
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To be honest, that is what he should do. Be a parent for his kid and not waste time on OLD being a bitter nutsack because he can't get his D wet tonight. Did you ask him why he didn't do it then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:27 AM
8

Only if they are women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:22 AM
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Yeah lol at all those males claiming women are gold- diggers. Dudes like this just want to take everything they can get, not only your money, all your resources, time and energy while you can't invest in your own. She should have no kid on her own, while he already has another one on the way... but who is this mysterious woman that is pregnant right now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:15 AM
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I think there was some sort of sub similar to that, they only posted news articles or reposted stoff from other subs, and guess what: They got banned!! They didn't even had any comments allowed, only news about violent incidences against women. Interesting move reddit, you make it very obvious how much you hate us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:07 AM
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Yeah of course, FDS has their own website I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 11:03 AM
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Holy shit, this is evil. That poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 02:32 PM
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I honestly don't know any media that shows too many bad dads. Do you mean the news, for example when they report abuse crimes or whatever? It is pretty standard that news focus on negative things. Do you mean shows, movies etc? I see more positive dad- roles there than in real life. My experience is just subjective of course, but I honestly can not see any unfair representation about dads, but I see a lot of people who like to shit on mothers for everything possible.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/07/20 10:47 AM
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True, just GTFO. But even just showing no reaction and leaving can be seen as offensive by them, so be aware. There are situations when everything you might do is wrong in the eyes of some weak ass idiot. This is mostly the case when someone is in a testerical fit or throwing a mantrum, the most irrational and ego- driven states someone could be in, so treat those situations like a natural disaster and do everything you can to stay safe and do not expect any human reasonability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:08 AM
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This will make you a mean bitch who deserved whatever he did to you afterwards. I remember reading a story about a husband who threw his wife down somewhere (a bălcony or something?) because she laughed at him, and everyone was going about how he probably couldn't take it anymore, she must have been a bitch etc. when in reality there was a history of DV with that couple and right before the incident the man screamed all sorts of abuse and insults at the woman. So she really just kept calm, tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:55 AM
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Unfortunately, the media focuses on the deadbeat/drunk/violent dads, or the clueless Homer Simpson dads, and perpetuates the myth that childrearing is women's work and men aren't capable of it Because there are so many of them, and let's not pretend that childrearing is anywhere equally shared in most cases. Just because you personally had a good experience and are somewhat privileged on that regards, this doesn't mean that people aren't allowed to talk about those problems any more (because why…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/06/20 09:45 PM
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Even r/BanFemaleHateSubs has been banned. Women standing up for themselves and pointing out hate actually are worse than real hate. \s Let this sink in, this really shows your real stand in society and how much your voice actually counts, how easy it can be shut down if inconvenient, and how easily your rights can be taken away in a next step.Good that you don't let them shut your voices down, reddit is not everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 11:38 AM
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Probably they sing it anyhow, because she isn't handing him over her money immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 03:58 PM
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