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94

I mean he’s tall AND hung?? Wow. That is an incredibly rare resource. I hope he picks me!!! /s 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:14 PM
71

🤢 disgusting, but in no way surprising
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/22 11:12 PM
91

“Let me just see if the wife will let me!!!” 🤮 I throw up every time. Why would you ever want to get married to someone who clearly doesn’t want to be married to you?? Could never be me sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 12:12 AM
314

I swear that phrase activates my fight or flight response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:38 PM
347

Wanting “one last night of freedom” is just code for “I want you to give me a pass to cheat on you.” These men are clowns.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 07:37 PM
77

I just googled her and WOW. He was really, really reaching with her. He should’ve kissed the ground she walked on because someone aged well and it was not him! I don’t need to know details to know she’s better off!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 12:23 AM
30

Once again men refusing to take responsibility for their actions. No woman is EVER required to give a man a chance, to give a man purpose, or a “path.” Get a path yourselves for fuck’s sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 02:34 AM
15

Congratulations for getting rid of the dead weight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:37 PM
23

These women have an extra child to clean up after. It's honestly so sad. I hope she leaves his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:36 PM
9

Won't be me sis. I'd rather be single for the rest of my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:35 PM
4

If you can't spend >$20 on the woman you're supposedly in love with...here's a thought: don't have a girlfriend! You clearly have to get your financial situation in check first. (I'm betting anything he spends 5x that money on a game and sees zero issue with it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 10:31 PM
73

See the trick is that they want women to be wrong regardless of what we choose
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 04:09 AM
158

This is a not so subtle way to make women do the emotional labor before a relationship even officially starts. It can seem so innocuous at first but it’s a sign of what awaits tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 02:58 AM
6

I still want to believe it's fake but I've known women who have dated men who always left skid marks in their underwear......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 06:22 AM
5

My exact reaction when I read that. I wanted to believe it was fake but unfortunately I know women IRL who have put up with similar things...the bar is somehow lower than Hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:33 AM
4

Like....it’s more than possible to give lots of time, energy, and love to others....AND wipe your ass? In fact I’d wager it’s really easy actually 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 03:32 AM
8

If this was a friend of mine I’d be having a major intervention ASAP. Where’s this woman’s support network? 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:36 AM
51

This is another thing - if my mental health has gotten especially bad, there’s no way I’m subjecting anyone else to that. You need to be in a healthy place in order to foster new relationships. Men clearly don’t understand that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:06 AM
26

Can you imagine having to tell a grown ass man to “please” clean their butt?? Like girl....please love yourself just a teensy bit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 10:58 PM
13

I found it on a Twitter thread! Let me see if I can get the link. Of course most people were roasting both of em but there were a couple of em legitimately say it was mental illness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:03 PM
145

It’s even more insane to me that there were people in the twitter thread really saying this behavior required love and understanding because he was clearly depressed....like. I’ve been depressed and never once have I not wiped correctly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:01 PM
48

Just reading it made me want to gag. Even if he was the most caring man in the world (which......I’m gonna go out on a limb and say he isn’t) that’s still unacceptable. How do you kiss someone who doesn’t brush their teeth twice a day??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:00 PM
27

Same here. In my experience those men loooove the sound of their own voice and are way too eager to overtake women spaces with their “solution” to gender inequality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:59 AM
18

“Oh, did I mention he’s addicted to porn?” Hmmmm wow you don’t say... A man that prefers porn over you is not a man that deserves you. Why would you want a dude who chokes his dick to the point that he can’t enjoy sex with his partner? And I’m going to take a wild guess here and say she gives him BJs but he doesn’t usually return the favor 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:55 AM
39

Men have the audacity to not help their wives with any domestic labor and then call it “bitching” when she tells him to please just wash his damn dishes for once. I cringe every time I hear a man say something about his “nagging” wife or his “ol ball and chain.” If you don’t want to get married, don’t fucking get married asshole. You can live comfortably in your unwashed underwear and dirty dishes if you’re single. They would help so many women out if they just stayed single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 04:50 AM
277

The amount of straight men who think that 30 seconds of rough fingering and sloppy kisses is enough “foreplay” is truly sad. And then they have the audacity to ask “are you cumming?” No Bryan I am absolutely not cumming. Do I look like I’m having a good time? 🥱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:40 PM
19

God it would be so lovely to live in a woman only community where we could take strolls whenever and not be worried for our safety.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:37 PM
14

And this is why the whole 50/50 equality thing doesn’t work with the current state of things. Men lose their minds when it comes to paying for a dare because eQuALiTy. But then when a woman encroaches in a “”man’s”” space, she’s met with thousands of men wishing that she gets injured so she’s shown her place. So much for eQuALiTy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:34 PM
61

More women running outside without fear of being raped or assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:28 PM
61

This is why I get so mad at people who always say “age is just a number.” No. Not it is not. A young adult is in vastly different maturity stages than someone in their late 30’s. Some older men may not be as blatant as this garbage can here but there is always a predatory power imbalance in age gap relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 07:28 PM
11

Or our personal fave: “well I just think in a very logical, efficient way so I can’t understand you when you express your feelings” (Legit had a man almost say this to me verbatim - thanks for telling me you have zero emotional intelligence 😂)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:26 PM
23

Women: *Write 3 paragraphs detailing their feelings, complete with a clear thesis* Men: "But what do you mean"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:46 PM
5

That subreddit is just continuous layers of hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:37 PM
7

Oh yesssss honey! We love the bare minimum!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:35 PM
9

God there's such a history of women's health issues going undiagnosed or untreated because male doctors don't take our pain seriously or they mischaracterize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:20 PM
3

I know that leaving isn’t so easy to do but I have to think that going through that process is infinitely better than spending another moment with a man who clearly doesn’t value you in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:57 PM
2

Oh my god, same here. Every post is one nightmare after another. I still cringe at the fact that they consider us a hate subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:55 PM
10

Imagine caring more about your peepee than your pregnant partner and two children....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:36 PM
8

WHO would ever benefit from having this man around? I’m betting any amount of money he’s essentially her 4th child - except with an expensive porn habit 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:35 PM
3

And adding the “I don’t have an issue with porn” part at the end....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:33 PM
5

It’s pathetic behavior. And you just know this waste of space doesn’t help her with childcare at all and spends most of his time drooling over random internet teenagers. I’d rather be eternally single than spend a day with a man like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:32 PM
4

That’s my first thought. I’m so angry for her but I also have to think this trash can showed some glimpses of this behavior earlier on. When you’ve reached the point that you’re thinking about disabling your router so that your “”partner”” won’t sneak off to watch porn while you celebrate Christmas with your two children........things have been bad for a while sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:29 PM
7

With disrespect this blatant you just know this man showed very red flags before they even had children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:27 PM
5

Exactly! Regardless of how you feel about her job, she’s not forcing these idiots to buy her content. They willingly throw money at her. I think the whole “pretend to be super young” thing is gross but it tells you something about these men because she became very rich doing it. Blame your “”partner”” for literally not showing one ounce of respect for you or your children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:26 PM
6

It’s really so awful that I can’t wrap my head around it. How do you so openly talk about your porn obsession with your pregnant wife??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:22 PM
11

Oh my god I died at the little “I don’t have an issue with porn” bit. Girl....your trashcan husband can’t even be trusted to not go off into the bathroom on Christmas Day to rub one out. You should be livid. And she blames Belle Delphine... like that girl has made so much money out of scamming idiots who will buy whatever she’s selling. Regardless of how you feel about her job the blame should be on idiots like this lady’s poor excuse for a husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:20 PM
4

It’s mind boggling. I really can’t imagine consulting with someone on the internet to disable certain pages online so that my husband won’t Jack it to porn on Christmas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:15 PM
11

And multiple children at that! How can you talk about watching porn on Christmas when you have TWO kids and a baby on the way??? Like what kind of blatant degeneracy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:13 PM
3

Like there is NO way her life would be worse off without him. She’s worried about him jacking off to porn on Christmas for God’s sake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:12 PM
8

Yeah I usually try to stay away from it because it’s just horribly depressing. I wish I could just help them all leave their garbage spouses. I’ll never understand the appeal of being married to a grown man that is essentially your other child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:11 PM
7

I really felt nauseous at some point. NVM almost seems like it’s not bad enough of a label for this man. Like imagine having a husband who’s telling you his excitement for Christmas is that some cosplayer says they’ll do porn. Imagine having not one but three kids with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:09 PM
6

I just have to think that this garbage can of a man shower his true colors at some point before she has 3 kids with him. Like this level of disrespect is too bold and blatant.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 01:06 PM
97

I’m just wondering what value this piece of garbage brings into her life that he’s worth keeping around. She’s carrying his third child and he’s actively drooling over some internet celebrity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:07 AM
67

I just....I couldn’t even believe what I was reading. The AUDACITY to ask your pregnant wife to buy you a poster of a barely 21 year old cosplayer.......I would have kicked him out immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 05:03 AM
10

The great thing is that a lot of men expose their clownery early on. Dating this man would mean zero efforts for dates and cleaning up after his lame ass every day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:15 AM
50

I realized a while back that I enjoy cooking but not enough to do it every day. My boyfriend is the one that’s the primary cook and I help him with the cleanup. I want more women to realize it’s okay to not be the main cook. And if he doesn’t know how to cook - he’s a grown ass man and he can learn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:13 AM
18

Why on earth do so many guys get girlfriends they don’t even want to be around?? Oh yeah - they want a maid + occasional sex buddy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:10 AM
36

I had one guy legitimately try to mansplain my own mental health to me...the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:09 AM
23

I’ve had a lot of men that instantly go into the “father-daughter” (as I like to call it because it makes me feel gross) dynamic where they try to lecture me and tell me how I should do X or Y, even when I didn’t ask. And usually when I tell them I don’t like what they’re doing they hit me with the age old “well I’m just trying to find a logical solution.” Oh yes. Of course. How silly of me to forget that men always have airtight logic 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 03:07 AM
11

With a man like this, she’s so much better off leaving his useless ass so she doesn’t have to worry about another mouth to feed. And why would you want to fuck a man who can’t be bothered to get off his ass and help you?? If I could be granted one wish it’s that women stop tying themselves to man children like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:54 PM
8

That subreddit is literal nightmare fuel
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:51 PM
9

Honestly I’ve come to the realization I’ll probably never trust a man enough to marry him or have children with him. I’d like to feel differently but literally ALL the women in my life are married to man children and it gives me actual nightmares to one day end up eternally tied to someone like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:48 PM
18

Being married to a man like this is actually my worst nightmare. I would so much rather be alone than to deal with this insanity with someone who supposedly vowed to love me forever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 11:15 PM
2

Dudes be like: how DARE you not give this random man a chance you stupid bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 05:19 PM
6

Men are out here casually threatening to rape and murder women they don’t even know and some people have the audacity to question women who block and delete on sight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:18 PM
103

How can you have such little empathy for your wife that you think this is appropriate?? This man will be her second child, no doubt about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:06 PM
135

I would immediately ask someone to take his ass outside and not let him come back in. Your wife is doing one of the hardest things she’ll ever experience and you’re playing video games??? NOPE. Throw the whole man away sis. People like to come at some women when they’re wary of dudes who play a lot of video games but it’s because of shit like this. And videos games can be replaced with any other hobby, it just so happens it’s the most common one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:05 PM
245

Oh I can answer this! It’s because a lot of men just hate women so we’re always in the wrong no matter what. And of course, the man in question is also conveniently absolved of all blame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:02 PM
30

The audacity of the first guy looking like Joe Schmoe #6 with those sad limpy shoulders...... Why is it always the most bland looking men that say this garbage?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 04:45 AM
34

I've never understood this. Or the women who indulge this kind of thing. The moment a man ""jokes"" about how much he doesn't want to get married...there's your big red flag that you should never marry him! I'll tell him "you don't have to worry because I would never marry you" and then just walk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:52 PM
10

I have been a pickme various times before (and I'm still unlearning all that BS tbh) but the one thing I'm proud of is that I have never fought over a man. Nah. I'll open the door for him sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:33 PM
12

The thing that makes me the saddest is that some women bend over backwards to show they’re “nOT LiKE oTHeR gIRls” in order to NVM like these. Hurts me every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 02:26 AM
134

Lmaoooo the moment you go to get the $100 since you meet all the requirements he’ll call you a bitch and a gold digger 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:46 AM
116

I no longer have the energy to be polite about this stuff. When I cut my hair super short a couple years back men (many of whom I barely knew) suddenly felt like their opinions on MY hair was necessary or desired - I was appalled because WTF but I tried to smile politely and ignore it. Not anymore sis. If they comment on my looks/actions unprompted I'm just telling them I never asked for their input and walking away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:21 PM
37

"He then jokes 'You'd just have to be okay if I brought another girl home'" - yeah uhh this absolutely was not a joke. This man wants to have a back-up sex partner that also conveniently happens to cook and clean for him. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:06 PM
32

"ALL my other partners orgasmed with me" - sorry to tell you man, they absolutely fucking did not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:57 PM
12

"iN tHIs cLiMaTE." Bobo the clown over here I swear to fucking god. So let's see...giving you 5 minutes of likely uninspired, unsatisfactory sex after getting drinks would totes be fine "iN tHIs cLiMaTE" but going on an actual date where you get dinner and have a conversation is too far fetched. Sure Bradley. Also, the idea of ""snuggling"" with a stranger gives me major anxiety. Who the fuck does that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 08:57 PM
5

Yeah that man would come home to me relaxing in bed, with wine in hand and an empty dinner table. This shit isn't cute and I can't believe anyone would willingly post this unless it's to shame him. I would never cook for him again and I'd reconsider whether I want a BF that thinks so little of me and my time that he'd be 3 hours late. I'd so much rather be single sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:44 AM
7

I was sold the moment I saw the title of the book
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:38 PM
208

Yeah I’m gonna have to agree with this. No way in hell am I doing this with a man I just met. But if it’s with a long-term partner? I find it cute. My partner knows I love movies (and food) and this would be a sweet gesture on his part. Especially nowadays with the pandemic going on. Low effort would be if you take your girlfriend out to McDonald’s every week and call that a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:34 PM
14

LOL that was my first thought when I read this 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:52 AM
49

"hE CaNT't rEAd YoUR mINd"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:50 PM
12

Honestly what I fail to understand is how this is in any way funny? Like I want to sit these men down and really ask them to break it down for me to see how flustered they get. It’s like asking them to explain a rape joke. They never know wtf to say bc their “explanation” is garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:08 PM
6

I wanna know if THEY know how to cook. I’m not about to be someone else’s chef for free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 01:58 PM
27

My dad told me once that women have to put on sunscreen when they’re going outside because unlike men “the sun isn’t kind to them.” Unhhhhhh....I’ve seen men with leather faces at 22. The fact that skincare isn’t targeted to men is a crime. I’ve seen crusty dudes that don’t wash their faces thinking they deserve a Victoria’s Secret model. It’s hard not to laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:50 AM
17

This is the kind of man that won’t have sex with you if you forget to shave one day. Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:41 PM
21

My man is the one that cooks for me but I’m always grateful and fully present because I appreciate it. I would NEVER expect him to bring me my plate while I’m gaming. Yeah it’s a no from me dawg. That food looks too good to be wasted on that man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:40 PM
8

I’ve realized that one of the reasons I don’t see myself having kids is that I don’t think I will ever trust a man enough to have a whole human with him. Time after time there are studies saying women do the overwhelming amount of the child rearing even when they’re also bringing in income. I don’t trust that a man won’t change after a baby. I don’t trust he won’t just leave me with all the work while he plays video games. I don’t trust he will love and care for the body that brought him his chi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:30 PM
15

Men who say they “killed that pussy” are not going to make anyone but themselves orgasm lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:23 PM
15

Men are allowed to be fat, unkempt, and generally traditionally "unattractive." But women don't have the luxury to do that. Men get offended if you don't look like (or try to look like/aspire to look like) someone they want to have sex with. It's blatantly clear that none of them give an actual rat's ass about health since they see no issue with instagram models with coke habits lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:53 AM
46

And hilariously enough their reasoning for not wanting their daughter to date is because they're afraid....men.....will engage in predatory behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:09 PM
272

Uh. If a man wants a traditional wife, complete with home cooked meals & “old fashioned values” then he better act like a traditional man and dote on his wife. Wanting a traditional wife doesn’t mean he gets to fuck whatever he wants while she stays at home and cooks/clean. Some women will happily be a great housewife, but you better pay the fuck up and take your vows seriously. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:38 PM
42

So women are raped, assaulted, and murdered for going on dates but I’m supposed to feel bad for these men afraid to part with a couple bucks?? Please let me play a tune on the world’s smallest violin. Also it’s obvious what he means is “if you don’t have sex with me on the first date, you used me.” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:03 PM
15

I learned later than I’d like to admit that this is a game women are meant to lose. Men can berate and belittle you but they will always think that they’re being logical and you’re an emotional mess the moment you shed a tear. They think anything they say is automatically logical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:57 AM
14

No, no but you see punching a hole in the wall is a perfectly reasonable, logical solution 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 12:56 AM
42

Men love to say women overreact and are too "emotional" but when they yell and slam doors it's perfectly fine because they're guided by "lOgIC."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:49 PM
45

Look. Yes some women enjoy anal sex. But this is abso-fucking-lutely written by a man. "I've never encountered smell or poop and I've always had amazing orgasms." Okay Brad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:46 PM
69

We're bitches for not saying "NoT ALL mEn!!!" but also we should know that men are predatory creatures that daughters should stay away from. Like. PICK one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 06:15 PM
7

Yeah that’s gonna be a no from me dawg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 04:19 AM
3

God this just gave me PTSD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:33 AM
3

Oh my god! He’s perfect. And here I was afraid there were no HVM left anymore 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:58 PM
14

I wonder how many “my male SO is a slob and I’m his maid” posts there are on the relationship advice subreddits. I think (most) women have just been conditioned to accept this as their lot in life. That men are just messy, disorganized and dismissive beings at their core. I pray that one day women will just refuse this behavior on sight. These men are adults and they have the audacity to live like this. No excuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:10 AM
21

Oh to have the undeservedly inflated ego of a mediocre, lame ass dude. The hilarious part is they’ll use you as a masturbatory tool for about 4 mins and then convince themselves they killed it. Nothing good comes from interacting with these wastes of space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:14 AM
41

What is it with grown ass men wanting to communicate via Snapchat? I mean...I guess I’m glad they show their lame asses early on 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:12 AM
3

The level of pathetic is honestly just....astonishing. I would say Anton needs to take a hard look in the mirror but let’s be honest, these men have no self awareness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:10 PM
2

This legitimately makes me physically ill. I can't even begin to comprehend how miserable this poor woman's life must be with a husband like that. Also, I'm certain that every single man that has said taking care of children is no big deal has NEVER actually cared for children for longer than an hour or two. God I hope she manages to leave this garbage can of a man one day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:23 AM
32

Ah yes. Perfect example of men upholding “facts and logic.” 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:48 AM
5

I couldn’t believe I was actually reading that. “Oh well, accept the scraps of attention he’s giving you because he could always just cheat or abuse you instead.” That is beyond pathetic. The bar is literally in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:15 PM
17

It’s simple, he wants a mommy that he can also sleep with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:55 PM
6

It’s baffling to me that people wholeheartedly believe grown adults have to be told the same thing a million times. And the amount of people defending the guy because “well it’s a stressful time for everyone.” NOPE. You don’t stop being a respectful partner because of covid. They hate FDS because we value ourselves enough to know we deserve better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:53 PM
7

I’d also throw some flour on the ground for him to clean up before I left tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:36 PM
21

“She cooks and cleans and does pretty much all our chores. So I guess she deserves to feel entitled to some help here and there.” These posts usually have the same lesson: NEVER be a man’s bang maid. You will get nothing out of the relationship and the man will have a mommy that he gets to sleep with. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:35 PM
8

I always have to laugh at the comments in relationship subreddits. Every other comment is about how they must “communicate” better. The OP said he communicated his feelings various times and nothing has been done. Your partner should not continuously ignore your concerns. That’s not a loving or caring partner. And LOL at all the “well be happy this is how he’s dealing with covid stress.” So OP should be happy he’s “only” being ignored repeatedly for a game? That’s pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 02:30 PM
17

I needed to see this today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:41 PM
8

Now that is relatable content
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:40 PM
11

LOL. Nah I’m good. I’m gonna talk a little louder actually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:37 PM
20

LOL he needs a little friendly reminder: “honey, do you remember your child? The one we made together? Well can you remember to do something for him today? Anything? Even just changing his diaper?” I can’t imagine anything more depressing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 08:38 PM
55

Men apparently can never be held accountable. A woman has to “CoMmUnIcATe” first because if not, it’s obviously on her since he “can’t read her mind.” Because you know, men can’t possibly know that they’re expected to also parent the child they created.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 05:48 PM
21

Right? It’s scary to me that they think whatever toxic, incomprehensible sludge comes out of their mouth is “logical.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:23 PM
2

He’s so pressed lmao. Their relationship always looked off to me. And stunts like these make me sure he made her life hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:51 PM
60

It makes me so sad that women in these situations still feel the need to try to work things out. Someone who loves you would never betray you. You cannot work things out with pieces of garbage like this. They do not even deserve conversation. Just kick him out and block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:54 PM
105

Men really say incoherent bullshit like this but then have the audacity to say they’ve reached a “logical conclusion.” This is legitimately terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 12:49 PM
15

Yeah “men are just different.” Like nope. They’ve just been allowed to do the barest of the barest minimum forever and women are taught to accept that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:43 PM
5

Yeah uh.....I would absolutely rather die. I refuse to parent a grown adult. There’s no games: you pick up your shit, or you get out. The bar really is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:01 PM
54

The funniest part of this is pretending most men even give the bare minimum 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:56 PM
58

Now THIS is the TikTok content I wanna see. It makes me so happy to see women know their worth. A younger version of me would’ve probably let shit like this slide. Not anymore. We’re not settling for crumbs ever again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 05:54 PM
11

Yeah we shouldn’t keep letting men get away with this BS. They know what they’re saying. They know the implications of their words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 03:20 PM
9

Oh god I’ve been there. Or when you send a long message clearly explaining why you’re upset and the response is “what do you mean.” Like dude I JUST explained myself. Honestly it’s a journey but we have to love and respect ourselves enough to know that we shouldn’t have to explain ourselves until we’re at our wits end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 01:25 PM
37

Lmao you right! I always think it’s funny that these dudes expect sex so quickly and yet are absolutely clueless on how to make a woman cum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:38 AM
13

Wow, I’m shocked women aren’t throwing their panties at him with that kind of sweet talk 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:30 AM
56

I love when the trash takes itself out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:20 AM
108

And it’s almost always shitty, unfulfilling sex too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:19 AM
58

It’s hilarious to me that most men are so incredibly offended when we generalize men and huff and puff that they would NEVER do that. But then...they’re totally fine with their closest friends being NVM/LVM and make zero efforts to combat the issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:18 AM
42

You know, I initially laughed at this but holy shit....this is some depressing shit. So many women have been taught that their BFs not listening to them is “just part of dating a man” and they’ve been taught to laugh it off as just #manthings. But this is so disrespectful. I really hope she leaves his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 02:51 AM
5

YES! Pleeeease let us know if you ever get an etsy shop going so I can give you my coin sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:47 PM
73

Omg I forgot he had a daughter, that’s so gross 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:05 PM
25

I saw all her TikToks after this one blew up. I’m 0% surprised he did this to multiple girls. And the hilarious part? He’s out here looking like bland toast with some abs (that I’m sure are a replacement for an actual personality). Absolutely never ever drive like this for a dude and if he stops replying blockkk him and go. He’s not worth multiple messages. I’m glad he got his garbage ass exposed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:35 PM
7

Girl I would buy this in a heartbeat! If you make more please share them with us 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 05:06 PM
14

The mother is definitely insane. But this is on her husband. He should love and respect his wife enough to stand up to his mommy and tell her she either stops interrupting or he’ll have her removed. Why on earth should the bride have to take care of it? It’s HIS mother who’s a terror. Ladies, if he won’t stand up for you he needs to GO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:52 AM
70

Girl when I saw he looked like an overgrown teletubby I really lost it. He should be thanking the lord a woman ever let him near her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:24 AM
32

Men really out here totally comfortable looking like trolls coming out of the sewer and then have the nerve to criticize the woman that birthed their child...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 02:23 AM
27

I actually had to reread this a couple times because I was so shocked. “Why’s it matter what my job is”.....oh dear god. This is a grown ass man saying it’s stuck up to want a financially independent and responsible partner. I’m glad he revealed his true self in 3 messages though. Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:08 PM
4

Independent and still so successful. She’s an inspiration. And girl don’t even talk to me about that merch I was so hype for it too and boom it was all gone 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:45 PM
12

I love Snow! Her music is bomb and she frequently lifts women up in her songs and talks about how you can’t let men pit you against your fellow women. Also the fact that the dude in the video is her ex husband really adds a great touch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 03:29 AM
21

I love profiles like this because it’s so easy to weed them out immediately. Men really have the audacity to look like that and still demand a woman looks after them. What in the hell does he have to offer? Besides stunted emotional growth and an unreasonably inflated ego of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 09:15 PM
46

Holy fucking shit. That’s nauseating. This is one of the reasons I can’t see myself ever having a child with a man. So many horror stories of men changing when their wives are pregnant - no affection or intimacy, refusing to do chores, emotional distance, etc. I’ve made a promise to myself that that will never be me sis. I hope that poor mom to be kicked this piece of trash to the curve right after this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:44 PM
15

The “catch me if you can” phrase really sends me. What exactly does this man have to offer? Why on earth would I want to run to catch him? I can easily cook myself a meal and then I won’t have to deal with shitty 3 minute sex from someone who thinks my worth is inherently tied to who I’ve been intimate with. The only good thing about these men is that they reveal themselves really quickly and then the garbage just takes itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:52 PM
8

Any dude that says he’s going to “fuck the shit out of your pussy” is absolutely not going to make you cum
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:29 PM
41

Nice guys: why don’t any of these stupid bitches give me a chance?? Yeah I cheated on my last gf but only because she was a giant man hating BITCH. Please throw out all your standards so I can have 3 minute sex with you. The lack of self awareness....is nauseating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:30 PM
11

Lmao I hadn’t ever thought of this! Yeah they’re “visual creatures” but only when their dick is involved. And the idiots over at MGTOW really think THIS shit is worth missing. I’m perfectly happy not caring for a grown man, thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 04:27 PM
13

Breaking mom is truly one of the saddest subreddits I’ve ever been on. Those women deserve so much better and I hope they manage to leave their crap husbands at some point. Never am I happier to be childless and not married than when I visit that sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:40 PM
5

It still baffles me that so many people 100% think it’s the woman’s job to communicate basic tenets of a relationship to her partner. If I want you to paint the walls green, I need to communicate that. If I want you to not treat me like a fucking maid every day....yeah you need to already know that’s not acceptable because I’m not communicating shit. If I were her I would’ve absolutely just piled all his crap where he would have to face it the second he walked in.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:35 PM
20

I’ve heard so many excuses from women on this like “well boys are just messier” and “they just don’t see things the way we do.” Like NAH sis. If he has a good set of working eyes he absolutely can see the disgusting mess he’s making and he and only he is responsible for cleaning that shit up. I swear the bar is literally buried in the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 02:29 PM
35

Why do so many men insist on living in filth? It’s like they go from their mom cleaning up after them to their girlfriend cleaning up after them and never learn to live like a decent human being on their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:22 PM
5

Well I mean of course, how is he supposed to know that he SHOULDN’T throw his clothes on the floor and let the dishes collect fruit flies. It’s really on her for not being more ~direct. /s I swear that’s what the people in that sub sound like. They really are okay with men just being slobs and taking zero responsibility for their actions. Embarrassing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:13 AM
6

That’s always so sad to me - there’s nothing funny about having a man baby as a husband. It truly bums me out that they settle for that crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 12:17 AM
7

So true! As if it’s so fucking hard to pick up your shoes, or your plates or cups etc. It’s so embarrassing that these grown ass men can’t do the simplest of things for themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:06 PM
5

A lot of those women essentially have two children. And their husband is the second one. It’s incredibly depressing to see those women posting at their wits end. Where I am now, no way in hell do I trust a man to help me adequately with a baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 10:36 PM
8

Same! Nowadays I read relationship_advice mostly as a guide on what not to do. A lot of the posts about fed up moms and wives kills whatever drive I have to get married and procreate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:55 PM
20

Right?? And people were fighting her in the comments because she was (rightfully) saying that she shouldn’t have to have yet another talk with him about it. Why in the hell does a man need to be spoon-fed that he shouldn’t be a slob and leave everything house related to his wife - who’s nursing a goddamn baby?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 09:11 PM
4

I guess....she should be congratulated for her two kids?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 06:48 PM
9

The moment I hear the word “female” leave a man’s mouth, my misogyny radar goes off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:36 PM
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