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| 136 | “Can we talk about this later?…” “Let’s discuss this another time. I don’t feel good. “How much stuff do you have there at the house? What is non negotiable to you to leave behind so you can start fresh? I think going away to a friends is a good opportunity to take your valuables and non-negotiables and documents etc with you, you can do this under the guise of "packing" for your visit eg: you want to take old photo albums etc cos you and your friend are going to look at each others ols pics over some wine. Then when you come back, you tell him you are leaving. And you leave.... n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 01:42 AM |
| 13 | Keeping in contact with ExesIm friendly with a few exes but not friends. There is a difference. I also dont understand the opposite approach from what seems to be many younger people - where they completely like... delete all photos and scrub any evidence of having been with the person from their sm/lives (obviously this isnt applicable to situations where abuse occured). That, too, takes a huge amount of energy and seems petty/emotionally immature. It was a relationship, its happened, its over... now just move on. The end… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 09:16 AM |
| 103 | Times I should have left my fianceUgh... military guys are almost 100% LVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 01:28 PM |
| 35 | For every caveman, there is at least one pickmeisha who thinks he is a king.If thats what he does to thw turtle, imagine what he does to her. Men who kill animals for pleasure are abusive. Lots of DV victims die in reckless car accidents because the man is trying to scare them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 10:31 AM |
| 136 | Why do (straight) men try so hard to appeal to the male gaze on dating apps?Soooo many pics of men holding a beer, gut hanging out, giving the finger. WHY? If thats the best youve got mate, its pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 08:07 AM |
| 11 | For the women that have been told the lie of “you’ll die single and alone” for not conforming to what men what you to beThe reality is though, we dont always get what we want. No one is saying "give up". There is no line - you accept a high standard or nothing. Improve your own life and find internal fulfilment so that if what you want (marriage, finding a worthy partner) doesnt happen you are happy anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/21 10:37 AM |
| 35 | My dirty secret to dating men who are clean and tidy.A lot of men are "neat" because they dont have STUFF. No hobbies, no collections of materials for art etc, no sentimental ornaments or mememntos from travel, no nice linen or towels etc. Just basic cheap sheets, ikea bed or mattress, minimal toiletries.... maybe video games or a tv. Like... i used to find the sterility of mens bedrooms kinda impressive compared to my room. but then i realised its cos they are empty. no personality, not because they are neat | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 12:48 PM |
| 1 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?Ok sure thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:16 AM |
| 1 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?Edit: Just out of curiosity do you have an alternate solution for the damage caused to women by pregnancy/birth? Theres PLENTY we can be doing that doesn't involve diverting research funds to a literal fantasy project like you are suggesting. First of all, we need comprehensive, free and accessible prenatal care. The majority of the worlds mothers do not have access to the very basics, like iron supplementation or food security, HIV medications, a clinic or midwife with a sphygmomanometer. Even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:15 AM |
| 4 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?Its not calcium loss, its hormonal shifts that cause connective tissue/gum disease and teeth loosening with subsequent decay and loss. So yes, tooth loss of pregnancy is common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?This isnt possible in the realms of ANY even close technology. Also its not necessarily a good political move to divorce gestation from women - youre going to run into a lot of abortion bans, disabled kids that will be foisted on the mothers to raise as usually happens when things go wrong in childbirth, abuse and black market human/baby trafficking. There is literally no conceivable life support system that can emulate a placenta and the endocrine matrix of gestation. We see what goes wrong all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:41 AM |
| 4 | Especially a baby scrote. Too many downplay the physical effects of pregnancy and after birth changes. What’s something we should know?If the baby is too far down in the birth canal as it sounds like it was here (final pushes) its often too late for a CS. Its really hard to pull the baby back up through the pelvis (even if pushing the head from below) and they can die stuck between the CS insiscion and the vagina | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 08:33 AM |
| 10 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneHE walked away from your marriage the very first time he entertained infidelity. HE gave up on you. Do not listen to that twisted shit. You have done nothing wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:33 PM |
| 8 | The Pink Tax and Makeup CultureThankyou for this! There is a compromise between bargaining with, and negotiatating with, patriarchal expectations/norms of beauty, and capitulating to them. We cant escape the context in which we are born. Knowingly/judiciously using makeup to progress in your carreer or gain confidence is one thing - blanketly applying and calling it "empowering" because of your own feelings or external admiration or expectation is another. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:38 PM |
| 6 | Beware The "Momma's Boy."I almost dpwnvoted you on instinct cos i was so disgusted hahs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing?All these comments are so triggering hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:07 AM |
| 5 | Educating my daughter on what men will say when she is confident and strong in her opinions, what are we missing?Stop being so argumentative Are you a feminist or something Youre too emotional/agressive I dont care anyway Im just playing devils avocado | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 10:03 AM |
| 54 | After men in Spain got paternity leave, they wanted fewer kidsWtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:58 AM |
| 3 | Thanks to FDS to make me realise I don’t need to be married by the age of 25Yassss! Go girl, invest in yourself. I got my third degree at age 30, and sometimes am sad to be unpartnered, but what i have gained instead is unmeasurable in valuable. You are so young! Work hard at study, then save and travel. You will meet amazing people, and feel worthy in yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 08:48 AM |
| 16 | The silver lining of bad relationshipsYep, this is why men HATE women getting together and talking, and push it off as frivolous or 'gossip'. We are easier to deceive when isolated | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 08:43 AM |
| 6 | C-PTSD therapyThanks for mentioning the podcast, it looks good! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 51 | "CoMmUnIcAtE"When you've been shamed and conditioned your whole life to please others? And when hundreds of women are murdered by their partners daily? When he has already shown he doesnt give a fuck about hurting her? Thats fucking when. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:48 PM |
| 23 | I took it all.lightbulbs. YASSSSSSSSSSSSS queen petty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:42 AM |
| 6 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe Left"looking for a partner in crime" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 8 | Random Things That Are An Immediate Swipe Leftoh god the school of hard knockssss *vomit* along with the: CEO of self employed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 04:12 PM |
| 3 | I finally cut the cord. [long]Girl, youre bi! You can cut your losses and never date a man again! Wooooo! R/febfems | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:28 PM |
| 9 | NVM destroyed meGet a good lawyer, NOW!!! YOU CAN DO THIS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 12:04 PM |
| 31 | Woman blacks out from FWB choking her with a pillow case. Realizes she could have died but wants to explore this scary situation with another FWB who with cOmMunIcAtIoN hopefully won't kill her.This is so fucked up. Notice he says she "came" as she passed out to try to preemptively ward her off from saying she DIDNT LIKE ATTEMPTED MURDER. MORE likey, if she had any physical response at all, it was hypoxic myoclonus or similar to seizure activity. Evil rapist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:31 AM |
| 7 | Why girl, why?!Ohhhhhh i hope she is good about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:16 AM |
| 10 | And here we have NVM/LVMs who whine about paying for a first date huhWhat a fucking monster. Hes basically saying he doesnt care if youre injured. Rapist mentality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:45 AM |
| 13 | And there are STILL men AND WOMEN in the comments saying "not all men 🥺🥺🥺". DisgustingWhat the fuck is going on in this video? Is she trying to get to the shop and they just randomly attack her? Omg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 11:53 PM |
| 25 | 'CoMpRoMiSe!!'Sounds like he is depressed! You need to step up and do more for him! Have you thought about making extra nice dinners, letting him off his monthly chore of cutting his toenails and buying him some presents? stop being so judgey and self centred | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 10:50 AM |
| 2 | This is why you should never date a man who does steroids. Juicy meathead sub be like "FDS is MiSrEpRuHsEnTiNg us!!!" Also juicy meathead sub:holy shit!! how fucking terrifying! Im so glad you made it out and away from him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:00 PM |
| 3 | "I will kill us both"Im so proud of you for deciding to leave him!! You are doing the right thing! Please stay safe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:41 AM |
| 2 | "I will kill us both"If you need to get the police to be there when you move, please do! Its not an overreaction | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:33 AM |
| 8 | big SIGH.. i swear they’re madly flipping through the thesaurus when they get triggeredhonestly, confront him and tell him to stop it, and if he doesn't recognise how sexist and gross he is being and apologise for it he needs to be dumped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 07:23 AM |
| 1 | The results of doing the workIs it in person or online? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 12:05 PM |
| 42 | I see no liesMen abuse more than they protect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 04:00 AM |
| 3 | How many males are okay with their friends being rapists? I bet a lot more than we think.what the fuck... also this makes no fucking sense? does he think gay people dont do oral sex? or does he just want them so afraid and abused they would never admit to being gay if they were? probably the latter | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Can someone explain to me the difference between exclusive and girlfriend? Why wouldn’t a guy just make you his girlfriend? What’s this middle “label?”Yeah i don't think there is a difgerence he just doesn't want you being open to anyone else | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 05:14 AM |
| 4 | Women risk death and permanent damage to our bodies when we birth children for men and this is our reward.life tries to teach you lessons, and if you don’t learn the first time, it tries again with greater consequences Needed to hear that about 6 months ago. ugh. Im very proud of you for realising your worth and staying divorced!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 09:49 AM |
| 10 | The bar is underground at this point 🤮Omg. The fucking petrie dish of bacteria that icing will be | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 07:11 AM |
| 5 | Diary of a Former PickmeishaHoly shit. I'm so sorry he abused you so awfully. You deserved so much better. I hope he is miserbalen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/06/20 01:35 PM |
| 3 | To date a Sentient Petri Dish 🦠Fucking disgusting. I bet there's just a million comments telling her to "communicate!!!" With him tho or "maybe he is depressed!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 09:06 AM |
| 16 | She’s not wrong to be upset. Firstly, WTF. How is this a thing. Secondly, it’s disrespectful to her. Thirdly, I’d be concerned if my boyfriend got off on animals dyingugh and i bet all the comments are abusing her for breaking his trust by looking at the computer and for 'kinkshaming' him?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:08 PM |
| 3 | Dear teenage girls: Stop idolizing these average-looking Tik Tok famous dweebs. Apparently these are the top of the top. They have inflated egos and think they are gods due to their high follower counts. You could find cuter boys at your local vape shopI dunno, i think all tween idols are pretty foul - in my generation girls swooned for hanson and backstreet boys, the hair was something else then too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 11:30 AM |
| 56 | Sometimes we need a reminder!Sometimes it be like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 10:42 AM |
| 13 | Truth...Bets predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/20 12:39 PM |
| 7 | Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.”Ugh your parents are dickhead enablers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:09 AM |
| 10 | Never date men who self-identify as “Gamers.”"carry on my legacy" You HAVE no legacy. you have NOTHING of value to pass on. ugh. so many douchebag men dont see this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Serious question: is there a sub that we can use to out cheating scrotes? I’ve seen so many MARRIED men on dating apps since quarantine and it makes me madMe too. I feel like an idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 11:39 PM |
| 8 | Brother tries to blame sexually abusing his little sister on his ‘raging hormones’ his parents says it’s just a mistake. DisgustingI dont think he actually feels remorse, he has too many justifications. I think his ego is just hurt, him doing this doesnt fit the 'picture' of himself he has in his mind and so he's bothered by the dissonance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Brother tries to blame sexually abusing his little sister on his ‘raging hormones’ his parents says it’s just a mistake. DisgustingYes.... What they fuck are they DOING?! He's being taught that if he abuses someone he can get away with it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 01:51 AM |
| 16 | Brother tries to blame sexually abusing his little sister on his ‘raging hormones’ his parents says it’s just a mistake. Disgusting"I am scarred from it" how dare he | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 04:01 PM |
| 2 | A real winner...super dislike | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/20 03:09 PM |
| 63 | Since joining FDS, I will no longer tolerate “rough sex”To me.men who like "rough sex" are just really inadequate and bad at pleasing their partners. They've reframed being lazy and just.pumping away as "cool" or kinky. But they're just BAD at sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:07 AM |
| 6 | Dump Him.Omg your ex is fucking awful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:07 AM |
| 2 | How much affection should a man display towards his friends/coworkers?Wow. You need to level up yourself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Caught another LVM!!!Probably shouldn't be going to a car tipsy unless its an uber or a taxi | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 12:11 AM |
| 6 | Is this a joke?I've delivered babies into/out of the toilet. It happens 🤷♀️ they were all fine, but it genuinely isnt ideal because if theres a hemorrhage the toilet is usually really tiny to run a code in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 01:16 PM |
| 59 | I’m surprised this made it to the front page of redditIt's not stress. Its power and increased access | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 12:42 PM |
| 3 | A 22yo woman was asking for advice because her boyfriend was emotionally blackmailing her about anal, despite her trying many times and not being into it because of the pain. A Pickmeisha sex worker came out of the woodwork to defend male depravity. Pornsickness is a dealbreaker!Screamed and collapsed in horror = "cumming" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/20 05:35 AM |
| 4 | This DM from a whole-ass med student..."Your university would probably be interested in the fact that you are willing to spread disease and haven't grasped very basic tenets of public heath, bringing them into ethical disrepute as a representative of their program" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 04:12 PM |
| 3 | Apparently, your husband posting unflattering pictures of you is "relationship goals"He's trying to bring her down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 02:41 PM |
| 28 | Whew chile the things I see on that bird appMost men dont even know the difference between a dress and a skirt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 02:11 PM |
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