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QUEEN SH*Twashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 03:30 AM
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SHOWER THOUGHTwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 06:08 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:19 PM
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LIES MEN TELLwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:57 PM
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PICKME CULTUREwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:20 AM
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QUEEN SH*Twashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 06:41 PM
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TRIGGER WARNINGwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:06 PM
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Story time ☕washopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:37 PM
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STAY WOKEwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 02:22 AM
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RANTwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 06:37 PM
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DISCUSSIONwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:39 AM
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Story time ☕washopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 09:04 PM
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LESSON LEARNEDwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 05:32 PM
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LEVEL UPwashopingyoudask/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:15 PM
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5

A cat sounds lovely actually
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:38 PM
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Lots of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:37 PM
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Well shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:21 AM
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But how do I SHOW him that I'm AVAILABLE and INTERESTED!!!, FDS...you don't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:12 AM
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Me all day with my narcissist spouse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 08:42 PM
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WHERE WERE YOU WHEN I NEEDED YOU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:28 AM
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Not true at all. Theres free porn but men still pay for Only Fans. And there are men who enjoy the added shame factor of seeing someone else's gf be humiliated in secrecy. There are websites dedicated to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:09 PM
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It was a quora answer that popped up. I am planning on reporting the account. Maybe they can find him, but in all honesty, this is what a lot of men are capable of and we need to wise up and protect ourselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:12 PM
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I'll try that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:43 PM
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That's how I read it. It continues in equally disturbing details.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:33 PM
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I dont know, it's a quora answer. Anonymous. And really really disturbing. Including having no regrets. I will be reporting him thanks to your recommendation. But the bottom line is being aware of the depravity. I think I was filmed at least once. Having no way to prove it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 05:32 PM
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I love just regular old, respectful sex. No pushing boundaries, love making, mutual pleasure but my partner prioritizes my orgasms. I didn't even know I could cum more than once until a met a person who loves my body. Pain doesn't turn him on, my discomfort makes him soft. Normal shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:01 PM
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Lol. I love your attitude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 12:54 AM
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I would have preferred the charity aspect of it and just left it at that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:21 PM
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I'm sure, doesn't negate the importance
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:42 PM
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Thank you so much for this. Single mothers are CONSISTENTLY bashed on both sides. Oh she should have known better, picked a better man etc. Etc. Life is rarely this straight forward yet people dont hold back until they're in a situation that is similar. I regret the man, NOT the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 12:01 AM
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YUP mEn CanT CaTCh HpV! We CaNT bE tEstEd for MoST DiSEaSes. Screw you petri dish
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:29 PM
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Ugh, jackhammering
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 05:26 PM
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I LOVE that you're young and have such a great attitude about your lady bits, you will overcome all your insecurities and enjoy life without them much earlier than I did. Gives me hope!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 01:30 AM
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Crazy what a man can do if you get involved early enough. I dont know how old you are. But I was in a Stockholm syndrome relationship from 17-32.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 12:47 AM
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THANK YOU! I wasn't sure how the post would be received but after looking at myself today, I realized I never see any vagina love here and I want to change that. I appreciate you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:40 PM
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A-wo-man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 11:31 PM
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anything that doesn't resemble a 10-yr-old's: This exactly. How revoltingly accurate
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 07:06 PM
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This is more than just a red flag. This is an abuse stop on the narcissist train
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 10:47 PM
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Narcissistic men need their little fan-clubs. Omg my ex, even though hes such a parasite. He managed to convince all my friends, including ones of 20 years that I wasn and am the problem. All because I didn't talk shit. And he did with his big ass mouth. He's a talker. I am not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:21 PM
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Yeah the Kobe thing! Everyone went MUTE following the assault that his wife LEFT him for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:00 PM
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Speaks in emojis only. Yeah. Had one of those. Cut him off
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 04:56 AM
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What the fuck?? Has he done anything this stupid before?? Good for you for ending things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 12:05 AM
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That IG account is everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 04:07 PM
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Ha! Hahahahhaha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:05 AM
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Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:08 PM
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How dare she have standards tho? Whore!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:07 PM
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If anything we NEED to protect ourselves from the predators. Cause shits dangerous out there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:00 PM
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They want a '"relationship " that serves them at whatever capacity. You're right, as long as it serves them. LVMs anyway. And honestly I've yet to meet a man that fully respects a woman with boundries and standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:59 PM
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Awoman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:56 PM
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Thanks for the giggles
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:51 AM
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Yup. Basically.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:20 PM
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Yes! Definitely. Standards are everything, and partners are a hell of a lot easier to shed than husbands if need be. I don't agree with marriage, I think it's inherently sexist on all levels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 08:22 PM
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You benefited from divorce. Ok. How much did you spend on lawyers, stress? It not worth it. Rather make my own money and stay mentally safe. Statistically speaking men benefit from marriage and women lives shorten. Not to mention the poor children if there are any involved. I've NEVER seen a divorce where the kids didn't suffer. Women shouldn't be shamed for naive when we're brainwashed in this patriarchy and perhaps wise up down the road. I am 35 and just waking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:05 PM
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My ex lies to his gf, and shes inexperienced enough to buy into his story. She's very maternal towards my ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:08 PM
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Thank her for calling him out. My exs gf doesnt give a shit about how little he cares about his kids
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:05 PM
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Yeah I dont understand why the GOAL needs to be marriage. Women do not benefit from marriage
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:02 PM
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Getting your shit together is not about getting rich. It's about creating a life of quality that you're proud of. A lot of people don't have standards for themselves and want to hold you back from reaching your potential. Shedding those people may feel lonely at first, it may always feel lonely, but it's a heck of a better life than living amongst shitty selfish people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 05:51 PM
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This is a common statement that reeks of ignorance. Really wish you would phrase your thoughts in a constructive manner. I cant get past the judgmental tone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:10 AM
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Exactly, thank you for not victim blaming
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:07 AM
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The wedding footage. Omg the freaking wedding speeches. Oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:08 AM
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He did seem slow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 12:07 AM
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Appreciate it SO much, I've been wanting to ask for a book list so I can level up. I cant be naive any more. I'm done with it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:39 PM
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Agreed, protection program?? For what? Hes not the mafia. Weird af
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:20 PM
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Yes! So many painful, disturbing details. Like the narcissist acts out of pure "want". He could have divorced her. He didn't want the kids. So many disturbing disturbing details
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:59 PM
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The thing that scares me is that it's nothing like going down a dark alley, or a blind date. It's a man that faked being a loving man for years. Never raised his voice. Provided for his family. Not even remotely her fault I often read posts about "how long does it take before you know he's HVM" this makes it seem like..like you NEVER know, until you do and it's too late.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:53 PM
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Had me in the first part, not gonna lie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:11 PM
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Ok well, I'm staying single, thank you very much. Done
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 03:11 PM
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LMFAO, love it. Murderbywords
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 12:31 AM
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Without a doubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 11:29 PM
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Agreed, it's disgusting. I think people are so deeply unhappy with life they cant handle people being confident in their own skin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 06:54 PM
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Lol this made my night
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 04:04 AM
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More like 15 FML
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:11 PM
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Thank you sister! So much!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:39 AM
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Thank you sister! Appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:58 PM
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Great idea! I tend to sympathize too much! And excuse behavior! I need to stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:52 PM
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EXACTLY! That's why I feel like it's arrogant to judge someone too quickly for getting stuck with a LVM, some of these fuckers are GOOD at pretending. They will be who you want them to be until the woman is locked in. Be careful with gaslighters, give it time, and always have yourself secured
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:51 PM
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So we can vote between one old white Male pervert or another old white Male pervert?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:32 PM
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I advocate NOT getting married OR putting the dude on the birth certificate. Truth is that WHEN you break up it becomes a legal battle from hell. Cant even leave the state, apply for passports, chose schools or ANYTHING without parental consent Be financially independent, have a plan, support, then have a baby with a hopefully HVM. Hope for the best MARRIAGE DOES NOT PROTECT YOU OR YOUR KIDS financially or otherwise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:11 PM
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Exactly. Much love sister . We know what we're doing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:13 AM
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I paid for everything except the car. Downpayment, first and last. All the furniture. I dont care, my mental health is so much more important. Counting down the days till flight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:08 AM
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Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:03 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:06 PM
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I love this sub so freaking much. Where are y'all IRL??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:08 AM
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Yup yup yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 01:06 AM
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Hollywood doesn't help, does it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:53 PM
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Heck yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 10:53 PM
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Love all of this, I feel tranquility through your post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:16 PM
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All of my friends who are parents are highly educated, with nearly zero help from family but maybe that's just NYC. It's certainly a small sample and my personal experience. All the dudes are duds with the exception of like one, and nearly all the women are amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:04 PM
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I love how this message completely ignores having kids, which you most likely did in a marriage. You cannot do all these things with kids. LVM makes sure to impregnate and trap women. Maybe I'm taking things too personal. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 02:48 PM
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This can come down to what type of socioeconomical background he has, or even being foreign. I won't hold it against a good person
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 04:11 AM
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It's still a painful process to go through. Even if the end result is gratitude for the mom down the road. My kids adore their loser dad, and ask for him constantly. I get the brunt of every day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:17 PM
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Thank you for this post! So fkign true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 07:15 PM
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This is why I got permanently banned from breakingmom. I can't be on both subs even though my heart is in both places. I personally feel sorry for all those people, stuck in shitty marriages with no support. It's anything but funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 05:32 PM
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What is a pickme? My ex convinced me to become poly as well, he couldn't find anyone, I did and fell in love. It became a HUGE problem for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:13 PM
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Yaaaas queen!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 12:13 AM
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One that lasted 20 years I'll never get back. Dear lord I wish my friends had been honest
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:55 AM
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