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Thank you, I need all the healing energy I can get. It was truly awful and it’s still going on were I was. There are about 50-100 women at any given time living down there in that area I was in, addicted to drugs and working as street prostitutes. Most came from the suburbs. Most are mothers and even grandmothers. Some even have degrees. Not only do cops themselves pay for sex from the women, they also allow the open air prostitution market, because it makes them big money arresting John’s and i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:37 AM
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Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:29 AM
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Thank you so much, I’m glad I’m here with ya’ll too! It’s cathartic to speak about these things somewhere I feel understood.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:29 AM
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Thank you. I am in a far better place. No women deserve this, but there are so many of us 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 11:25 AM
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Thank you, me too. I am really lucky to be alive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:57 AM
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Thank you, I appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 10:55 AM
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What was anti lesbian/gay/bi about my comment? You said my comment came off as anti LGBT, but really you are referring to one letter in that acronym..... How people "identify" is irrelevant to whether or not they want to have babies, what is relevant is their SEX.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 03:40 PM
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This is the theory of hedonism. All that matters is pleasure in the moment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:15 PM
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Trigger Warning. I’m a survivor of prostitution and the accompanying drug addiction that goes with that lifestyle. One night I was violently raped by a John that had picked me up and then left me on the other side of town. When I finally made it back via a multi hour walk to my “hood”, I had to go right back back onto the “stroll” (popular name for a main street with open air prostitution, “hoe stroll”) immediately to catch another “trick” because I still needed that money, dope sickness was app…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 04:07 PM
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She has to be an FDS member, right? That is verbatim one of our “slogans”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:31 PM
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He had the nerve to try and “shush” her when she was asking loudly who this disgusting man belongs to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:18 PM
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What a queen 👑. I wish all of us women could stand up to men in situations like this. But men purposely have women in a mindset where we fear standing up for ourselves because they could physically harm us for doing so. But I think we should all try to do stuff like this and call men out on their disgusting behavior when we are in a public places with security/cops nearby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 03:15 PM
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That’s a good point. Thank you 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:49 AM
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thank you. I've got a few people, like 2 lol. crazy part is that my whole extended family are the same as her, if not even worse. it sucks because they aren't bad people, or at least I thought they weren't....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 09:35 PM
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I saved this. As an ex prostituted woman, I know that part of it is prostituted women ourselves defending this stuff and buying into the libfem BS, actually brainwashing ourselves into believing these narratives that sex “work is work/empowering”, because it’s a narrative that mentally feels a helluva lot better than “I’m being sexually exploited”. I was so desperate to get rid of/push down the disgusting feelings, I would romanticize what I was doing - by constantly watching pro prostitution me…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:08 PM
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As a former “sex worker” this is what I’ve heard numerous men actually tell prostituted women who were raped - that it wasn’t so much rape as it was theft since they were “going to do it anyway” and that they “just didn’t get paid”.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:54 PM
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This is why Aileen wuornos is unironically my idol. Even it was only a few, some men looking to sexually exploit a woman got what they had coming, and for once, men got a taste of their own medicine. If anyone thinks I’m being harsh, remember that there is a porn sub (extreme trigger warning) dedicated to “artistic” depictions of women being tortured and killed r/ guro. And it’s still up, it’s extremely sick and I don’t recommend looking at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:46 PM
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My mom was right about so many things, but now she’s a trumper who doesn’t believe in systemic racism or misogyny, so now I can’t respect her opinions anymore 🙁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:43 PM
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Wow, I wish I could tell you to take it to police, but we all know they won’t actually do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:41 PM
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Yup, and be prepared for being in another sub talking about something and someone pops in to try to invalidate your argument based on the fact you post here... People recommend getting a separate account just for here, but I’m lazy lol. I’ve made so many new damn reddit accounts, for reasons, I’m tired lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:40 PM
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Say it again for the scrotes in the back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:37 PM
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Also, this contributes to us constantly believing we are “too old” for things, when it’s not true at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 07:32 PM
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I’m going to have to answer you in a message if that’s alright, talking about it outright could get me banned, sadly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 10:27 PM
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Thank you 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:50 PM
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Pretty much all the men on 90 day are LVM/NVM, but Pred takes the cake. Second only to Geoffrey who is a wife beating piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:54 PM
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Sis, wait until you see him on Discovery+ “the single life” spinoff. He is so gross. It’s legit hard to watch. The crazy thing about him is that he actually had a really beautiful wife and a daughter with her, but like the NVM he is, he cheated on her which ended the marriage. So now as an old disgusting creep, he wants to find a woman younger than his daughter to be his free bangmaid. He is easily my most hated cast mate of all time, and that is really saying something considered the absolute s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:47 PM
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“People who are ‘perceived’ as women”.......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:40 PM
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Former sex worker here that also started at 18. I am so proud of you 😊please message me (not chat but message plz, I have to switch devices to use chat) if you need or just want someone to talk to. I’m here and I get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:24 PM
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My mom just like 2 weeks ago told me she discovered Jordan Peterson and really likes him. I was like mom.... he’s an anti feminist. And we argued over it. She has disappointed me in so many ways since 2016 and her support of trump since then. She used to be the woman who taught me the beginnings of my feminist and anti racist ideals. Now she is brainwashed by Fox News and OAN, and it makes me really sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 03:07 PM
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Well, the difference between radfems and libfems isn’t who they vote for, radical feminism is 2nd wave feminism that doesn’t buy in to gender ideology or the narrative that “sex work” is empowering, while both of those things are pretty inherent beliefs within liberal feminism. Which makes it basically feminism that has been co-opted by men and for their benefit. So that is definitely something worth criticism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 06:41 AM
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Males and their never ending audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:22 AM
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An actual comment from a woman: “Oh nooo not me in a 9 year relationship 38weeks preggo having our 3rd child not married to him yet😳 What's with americans and marriage? Like it's not a serious relationship without a ring? 😅 It's pretty common here in Finland not to get married. Ever. And I'm fine with that and if he finds "the love of his life" then fine. That's great😁 I'll still have my life my friends my kids my job and I'm not afraid to start over😚” I like her energy with being ready move on …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:16 AM
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Awww 🥰 you are really lucky to have a dad who cares!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 01:32 AM
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The only male friend I ever slept in bed with, that we truly had no sexual undertones, was gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:36 PM
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Yea no problem, I can understand the confusion due to the vagueness and having totally veered from the subject matter of the post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 10:01 AM
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This is a newer account, (not to brag 😝, but I’m an FDS apprentice on my other account lol) but I know I have at least one ore two FDS promoting comments on this one. I don’t link directly to the sub anymore because I think that’s against our rules (right)?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 09:55 AM
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Super straight... a lot radfems are allying with the super straight movement, beacause we both agree on one thing, (I can’t really say what that thing is and I’m being vague because talking about this is the sort of thing that gets you banned and the sub banned), but the guy who wrote this bio make up a large portion of the dudes within the super straight movement... mgtow/red pill losers. So I was just pointing that out.. we have to be careful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:30 AM
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They are trying to subconsciously convince themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:11 AM
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This is going to sound conceited, but I legit almost thought I wrote this for a sec and momentarily considered that maybe you saw and quoted a comment of mine, because these is almost the exact spiel I give when I tell women on other subs about this place. But now have read the whole thing through, yours is better and more concise. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:07 AM
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So science backs up what we already knew. I think this a good PSA for the girls and women on TikTok, though. But, oh my god the damn fire alarm beep! Change ya dang batteries sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:00 AM
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“#yanasty!” But you still with him???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:35 AM
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Wait, I missed the butt crumbs.... maybe I’m better off never knowing...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:32 AM
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That was literally what my fathers tub looked like after my mom leaving him a decade prior and him NEVER cleaning it. I actually cleaned it for him while he was in the hospital (along with the rest of the never cleaned flat) and it took me an entire day to finish. He didn’t even appreciate it when he got back from the hospital. I stayed to take care of him for a week and already by day 2 he was ordering me around like a maid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:31 AM
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Agree to disagree. I agree with OP and think that men who are grossed out by our natural bodily function are LVM. If we can put up with their gross sperm, they can put up with some blood. The reason I asked about age is because even into my later 20s I thought completely differently about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 06:04 AM
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I honestly did not realize those two comments were made to the same person, I was just sorting by new and commenting on things, I didn’t purposely single you out, it was a pure coincidence, that I didn’t even realize until you just pointed it out now. Also I didn’t delete the comment... I suppose it must have gotten deleted if you can’t see it. My other comment, I asked if you were young not because you stated you liked period sex, but because you were defending men being grossed out by it. That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:59 AM
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This is why radfems need to be careful allying with right wingers who happen to agree with us on one particular issue (for extremely different reasons) — because these are the guys that we are allying with....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:45 AM
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Exactly. I am so sick of seeing abusive behaviors be dismissed and excused on the basis of a mans mental/developmental/learning disorders. I’m evening beginning to see calls for empathy and understanding for narcissists, just read the comments on this video — https://youtu.be/4LQuaex0IMQ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 05:37 AM
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I used to say it was more comfortable too, but really it was just what I was used to. I had shaved since my early teens and having anything more than a landing strip felt “weird”. When I stopped shaving it definitely felt less comfortable to me at first, but now I rock a trimmed bush and I can’t imagine going back. I was used to it at the time, but the regrowth period itchiness is something I am glad to never have to put up with again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 12:30 AM
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I still can’t believe I put up with all that itchiness!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:49 PM
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Very close to this age, maybe 7-8, I had already began to feel self conscious about my own natural under eye darkness. By 10 I was already secretly using my moms powder to dab underneath to make them look less prominent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:26 PM
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The “rot” that started to set in was his brain from the porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:18 PM
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Lie, gaslight, and project — scrote’s favorite past times
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 01:04 PM
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Yup, same old incel rhetoric that “all women want chad”, just switched out chad for our term that is meant to describe something totally different
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:57 PM
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Oh come on, you can’t just tell us about that gold and not share, censor all the identifying info, but pretty pretty please share!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:43 PM
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Every time I write something online I purposely switch it around just like we do in our acronyms, refer to us as women and them as males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 12:40 PM
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Years ago I had an ex who’s side income was ghost writing essays and personal statements for their college students, many of them for med school/pharmacy school applications.. and these people were being accepted. Imagine that, too dumb/lazy to write a personal statement, but in school to become a doctor/pharmacist.... that always tripped me out. He charged $100-150 for a personal statement, $20 per page for essays and other assignments. Another crazy part is that sometimes when he was backed up…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:59 AM
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I did too once! He was still facially handsome, but not as much so as in his pics, and he weighed at least an extra 50lbs he seemed in the pics!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:35 AM
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There’s another group, the vocal majority of which are male, who also use suicide statistics as an emotional manipulation tactic, towards individual people and society as a whole, to get their way and have women breach our boundaries to accommodate it. I can’t really come out and say who I’m talking about, people get banned for less than what I’ve said about them here, but most of y’all know what I’m talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:30 AM
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If I were a mod, I would give you a flare upgrade just for this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:23 AM
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Was a fan of dragon ball Z as a little boy.... and still is. Plays or played counterstrike or Catan, or Magic the Gathering Im sure I’ll get hate mail from lurking neckbeard scrotes for this lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 07:15 AM
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The porn addicts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:34 AM
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The thing is, they are lying about not getting messages, they get plenty of messages from scammers, bots, and girls promoting their only fans — which are equivalently useful and meaningful to the messages we get from them so... 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:19 AM
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This is actually a really popular lie propagated and oft repeated within the “manoshphere”. I’ve seen males comment it online, numerous times within the last year now. I wonder if any of them actually believe it, I’m sure some do because men really can be that delusional and out of touch with the real world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 06:10 AM
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Another thing to avoid with the after breakup glow up, is to do it to make your ex “see what he’s missing out on, or to attract a new man. I know this is cliche, but you really should be doing it for yourself. I made this mistake myself, with the goal of attracting a specific man, and that man turned out to be an emotionally (and a few times physically) abusive narcissist who was mainly interested in me as arm candy to boost his ego. So yea, do not recommend. Glow up for you. Or don’t do it at a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:36 AM
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Yes, I love him, I’ve been following him for a while now and he does seem like a HVM (I’m of the belief we can never know 100% for sure if someone is HV when we only see them on social media or tv), he speaks up against misogyny a lot, and though he is a plastic surgeon, he is a more holistic one and focuses a lot on skin care and non/less invasive procedures. He doesn’t seem to have the misogynistic male doctor complex like most male plastic surgeons and even just male doctors in general, typic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:21 AM
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It really heartens me to see teenage girls like you here! You are going to be so much better off having found this place young than the girls and young women who don’t. It gives me hope for your generation to see teens and young women here, despite all the horrible and worsening behaviors of men and growing misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 08:06 AM
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Funny how her man is a snack and the dude saying “don’t wait” is a potato. Don’t even worry about it scrote, because NOBODY is having ANY “sExUaL cOmPaTiBiLiTy” with you dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:33 AM
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I am so sorry you went through that, but I am so glad you are warning us about this this. It was something I had talked about considering as a possible BC option in the past, and I might’ve considered it again in the future if I needed it. Now, absolutely not, you have fully scared me away and just reading this was honestly difficult, so I can just imagine the hell you experienced. 🙁 Who knows how many more of the thousands of women who will likely eventually see this post that you have saved fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:21 AM
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So true. I don’t think any women could ever just snap out of internalized misogyny and pick-me ism right away with no residual pick me thoughts. We all still have improvements to make. It’s a process and it requires constantly holding yourself accountable and also not getting defense when women here try to tell you the right, and honest thing, rather than the comfortable, easy to hear, thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:11 AM
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Exactly. This place is for tough love. And oh boy do we as women need to hear it. We’ve only been brainwashed our whole damn lives! Stop making excuses for men, stop giving them the benefit of the doubt, stop praising them for the smallest of things. And definitely stop trying to make them understand how they hurt you, they understand, they just don’t care. Stop worrying about finding one and centering your life around that goal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 07:01 AM
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What makes this ugly ass scrote with a “dad bod” think he deserves a perfectly natural beautiful woman? Or any beautiful woman? Because we all know that he isn’t talking about any of the many, many, women who meet this criteria, but whom he wouldn’t consider to be “attractive enough”. Someone put the no beard filter on this scrote so we can see all the chins he’s hiding up under there!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 06:41 AM
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Almost every damn one sis. Every time I hear one, and I think about for just a second, I realize it’s another projection. I can’t even think of one at the moment, that isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 05:06 AM
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Uhm... no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:47 AM
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Eliot Rodger has a female “fan base” too. Internalized misogyny is a helluva drug
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:11 AM
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And what you said about trying to talk sense into a porn sick scrote being a waste of time is completely right. The thing is though, the subs related to this show used to be majority women because, like most reality shows, especially ones that revolve around dating and relationships, the fan base was majority women. But within the last few years the show itself has became more well known and gained a much larger following, including from mgtow/incel types and just misogynist men in general. Part…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 04:07 AM
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I didn't bother reading the entirety of that one guys really long reply, but I skimmed it and he really tried to, just as I KNEW someone would, turn it around and say **I'M** the racist one for calling this out for what it is, eroticized racism. its not about showing interracial sex dumbass, its about the *way* its portrayed. He also tried to flat out lie and say that MOST porn isn't about degrading women.... and claiming that his use of the word "filthy" wasnt meant as "pseudonynm" (the dumbass…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 02:38 AM
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Oh Jesus Christ on a cracker. Try telling men this, and see how they respond. Better yet, tell them all that with the addition of explaining that the woman’s orgasm is mandatory, and watch them rage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:24 AM
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Welcome home sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/21 12:18 AM
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Exactly. If they were truly sorry that is what they would do, but they aren’t. Instead they go the gross and selfish route of “reaching out” to their victim to “apologize”. It’s such a self centered thing to do. They know it’s going to bring back that trauma to hear from him at all, and not only that but he positions himself as the one who is having such a difficult time dealing with what he did which puts a pressure on the victim to forgive him and even comfort him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:49 AM
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As a former “sex worker” this is the truth, most of us had some form of trauma and we would try to romanticize what we were doing to convince ourselves that it was an exciting “adventure” and “empowering”, along with other lies that we told ourselves to shield us from the stark, depressing reality. It was a survival tactic, and how I mentally got through it. I would watch media that portrayed escorts and escorting as fun, exciting, and mysterious, to self brainwash myself into believing it. Deep…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:28 AM
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I do this to!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 03:06 AM
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My mom has a friend doing this right now, she sold her trailer for 10k, got her tax return, and covid checks and she moved out of state to live with this older man (she’s in her 40’s) that she met online and he is feeding her BS about leaving the house to her, when it’s not even in his name, it’s in his brothers. He has a violent past and was in prison in connection to murder. He has her buying and fixing all kinds of things for the house with this money she recently got, and he’s already hit he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 02:45 AM
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This narrative that p-dos wrestle with and feel deep shame and guilt about their attraction to children is bullshit, entirely p-do sympathy propaganda.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:51 AM
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“I am a reasonably attractive and educated female” Nice try scrote 👍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 05:45 AM
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Like that fucker from the current season of 90 day fiancé, the one with Natalie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:59 PM
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Delusional self soothing propaganda by and for males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 01:51 PM
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Just like that creep “PrankInvasion” who’s “pranks” mainly involve this similar theme of “tricking” women into kissing him, but they are all paid actresses. The problem is so many dumb ass scrotes, particularly young ones, actually believe it’s real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 06:32 AM
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This doesn’t sound like the US, but wouldn’t she likely at least have some sort of tenants rights here? Not that that wouldn’t still leave her in a super shitty position, but maybe she can at least get some of her things? Could she call the cops to facilitate that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 04:03 AM
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Not all of us who are newbies are actually new 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:30 AM
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Ya’ll got me rolling with these comments! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 03:17 AM
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My cat used to sleep every night under my shirt on my boobs with her head poked out and laying cheek to cheek with me, because that’s what I did since she was a kitten to make her feel safe, when I found her abandoned in my apartment’s alley.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:37 AM
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I was this close with my cat, my boyfriend at the time considered her our daughter. Though we did find her together as a kitten. This guy is pathetic for being jealous of a pet, and the emotional comfort it obviously brings her. He’s trying to gaslight her into thinking her love for and attachment to her cat is abnormal and overly obsessive. I hope she never calls him back and leaves his ass instead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:27 AM
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I had an ex obsessed with eating ass.... his fixation on it was a big turnoff, but I did let him do it once after his constant insistence. It felt really weird and uncomfortable. I felt his interest in it was kind of gay to be quite honest. Which w/e, but personally I don’t want to be with a man with homosexual inclinations, nor am I remotely interested in butt stuff, and I sort of view men who are really in to it as very likely homosexually inclined. It felt to me like he probably wanted me to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:42 PM
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Up until fairly recently most doctors would refuse to do planned cesareans that weren’t medically necessary and they were mostly reserved for celebrities and the rich. And even then it was so looked down upon that most women who did get them just out of pure preference, would understandably lie and say it was medically necessary, to avoid judgement. Doctors can still refuse to do them unless medically necessary even now, but they must refer you to a doctor who will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 06:14 AM
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Or on drugs. My NVM ex from a decade ago would order the generic viagra from illegal online pharmacies so he could counteract the limp dick side effects of his constant consumption of prescription and recreational narcotics..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:36 AM
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Another issue here is.... why is sexual assault a misdemeanor?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:28 AM
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It’s very prevalent on Reddit and Twitter. Subs like unpopular opinion have a thread about it around once a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:38 AM
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I’ve been involved in those same kinds of threads, usually with one or two people replying to me really pushing to defend them, but when I confront these people by saying they must be one themselves to be so passionate about defending it, they always end up admitting they are in fact, but claim to be “non offending” 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:36 AM
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Every time I’ve argued with someone on reddit about this and other arguments like “not all p-do’s are child predators, many of them never act on it” (this is such BS, I have no faith that there is a substantial portion of these males who have not acted on their urges whatsoever and I always point out that CP absolutely counts as offending) and “you can’t blame someone for thoughts they can’t control”. When I would confront them about it saying only a p-do would defend it this much, they always e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 05:28 AM
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Ah, thanks for the tip! Guess I’ll be downloading Spotify.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:47 AM
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It reads just like a cheesy literotica story from 2008.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 12:37 AM
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Even the supposedly wlw apps are infested with males, I think we all know what particular type of male I’m referring to here....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:46 PM
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Sweet. If only there were some kind of “repeat” function, I’d keep it playing in a loop all night like kpop stans do for their favorite artists lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:28 PM
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Ah, gotcha. Thank you for the explanation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:21 PM
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This is the exact narrative the pickme, who wrote a hit piece about FDS, said in a tweet that we openly condone here. We have never once condoned that “sex workers” should be subjected to incels as a solution to male violence, we are (and always have been) firmly against it, and that pick me is full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:04 PM
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I think my ex got his relationship advice from this song.... lmao The only inaccurate part is that it IS what they want to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:43 PM
2

Yup, we need to be more cautious of these men who seem to be saying all the right things, because most of the time it’s just that they have learned the new language and talking points for the purpose of manipulating us. Now, whenever I hear a man online spout any FDS talking points, I am immediately skeptical of his true intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:32 PM
2

Every time I put any kind of faith in a man, I am let down, EVERY.FUCKING.TIME.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 07:27 PM
2

Yup, best bet when saying anything that could be remotely considered personal info, or a breach of reddit rules, is to frame it as a story about “a friend”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 03:09 PM
5

As an ex “sex worker”, this is the only sub I can actually feel safe and free to discuss my actual experiences with it, without the libfem narrative that “sex work is empowering”. It’s so ironic someone would call this sub out for being against sex workers when in reality, this is one of the few safe spaces on the internet for women like me to discuss and be honest about our REAL experiences in prostitution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:25 PM
2

It was in my FDS feed too..... I sort of figured it was glitch, but as also kind of knew better than to actually believe that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 02:05 PM
2

👑👑👑👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:43 PM
3

Would you mind telling me why it normally would not be approved? I want to be aware of whichever way posting something like this would be against the rules so I don’t make that mistake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:33 PM
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As an ex “sex worker” myself, exactly this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:17 PM
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Surely you are joking... You can’t really be trying to pull an excuse out of thin air for a scrote who was reluctant to marry after 6 years of being together...... Defaulting to finding excuses for, and giving the benefit of the doubt to, men is one of the hardest things to fully rid ourselves of as women. I still struggle with it too, so we have to hold each other accountable here for this kind of stuff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:54 PM
46

Nobu is the only “chain” restaurant I can think of off the top of my head rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:33 PM
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I used to think Olive Garden was kind of fancy.... when I was a kid.... I also thought it was all salads and boring adult food so I skipped it every time my grandma would come and take my mom there. When I finally went as a teenager I was like “damn..., I’ve been missing out!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:26 PM
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Wow, what utter horse shit... please do call the school! Not to put the weight on your shoulders, but It seems no one is going to stand up for those girls if you don’t. Threaten that you’ll go to the media if they refuse to change the rule and if they do refuse, see if you can actually get in touch with a left leaning local news.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:19 PM
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Venmo “can’t” issue refunds, but somehow companies like gofund me are able to do so, en masse, against the will of the people who donated in the first place, to serve some fake woke agenda which involves defunding a rape shelter....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:45 AM
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Is not a cheat code to escape cheating by dating undesirable men. They need to put this on billboards so women can avoid the losers that we date due to believing in this “cheat code”,
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:29 AM
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settling for a shitty man won't save you from dying alone, it will ensure you are left alone to die. only by avoiding LVM do you have a chance to be with a HVM if and when your time comes. This is SO poignant and true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:22 PM
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settling for a shitty man won't save you from dying alone, it will ensure you are left alone to die. only by avoiding LVM do you have a chance to be with a HVM if and when your time comes. This is SO poignant and true!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 11:21 PM
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Why is this downvoted? We absolutely should not be trying to “reclaim” misogynistic slurs, that’s a libfem trap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:53 PM
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So essentially, the only reason he could conceive of for why you could be turning down sex with him was because you “didn’t want to be seen as a slut”. No other reason, including the very simple and understandable one you had already gave him... 100% narcissism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 11:32 PM
1

It probably was, but even so that doesn’t mean Charlie here didn’t rip it off from that woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 05:48 AM
1

Absolutely wish my unmarried mother had given me her name instead of my dads. Not only is my dads side trash, but the name itself is really ugly compared to my moms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:50 PM
1

“Especially if you treat them like a nice human being” He has to point this out because for him, all the other losers this is directed at, and even just for men in general, it isn’t the norm for them to treat women this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:48 PM
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I agree with you, and I think this post was helpful. If anything, it has just inspired more of us to empathize with, and feel bad, for her, because many of us have been in a similar position in life before getting to where we are now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:43 PM
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Don’t you know that any woman, refusing to date any man, for any reason, is hate speech? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:38 PM
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They don’t come back for any other reason than an ego stroke or for self-vindication for treating you badly. They haven’t “changed for the better” or decided you’re “the one that got away”. Chances are he’s bored, lonely, and thinks he can get you to settle for him due to whatever shared history you once had. This. This. This! At the beginning of your post I was hoping it would end with this realization and I am so proud of you for coming to it so quickly! You saw right through this scrote’s BS,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 02:16 PM
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FDS has been pointing this out for a while now, that men intentionally do this, and now we have it in writing of a man fully admitting to it. It just proves that our conclusions are spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 07:42 PM
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For those who want to read it without supporting the site with your click, here is the archived version: https://archive.is/RS7Lm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 06:26 PM
12

In poor cities of the US we also use the slang of “bando’s” and “abando’s” and my favorite “abandominium” which I imagine the other two are short for. Usually it’s a trap house, but it can also be just any abandoned house that someone lives in. I used to live in one. I had tons more room than where I live now, less electricity and running water, though lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:15 PM
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“This fellow I was with kept poking his finger onto the flesh of my leg and telling me how he like girls on whom you could feel the bone“ Men have been “negging” women forever, it’s nothing new, they’ve just given an “official” name to it now. Can you even imagine what this pathetic scrote looked like, while criticizing Marilyn fucking Monroe, pop cultures crowned “most beautiful woman of all time”? I am positive he was no Montgomery Clift or Rock Hudson.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 01:58 PM
1

“Pansexual” isn’t a thing sis, it’s called bisexual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:49 PM
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Oh come on, she said it facetiously, as a way to convey that her having his kids wasn’t what meant his money is her money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:38 PM
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Yet they complain that not enough women speak out on circumcision and expect us to champion all their causes and issues that don’t effect, let alone benefit, us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:23 PM
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What he means is that men are starting to get called out more for their shitty behaviors and the way they treat women (ex. the MeToo movement) and he views those things as being inherent to manhood and maleness. Thus, he views women calling these things out as “DeMoNiZiNg” men for being born men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:17 PM
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Lmao as if liberal feminism hasn’t BEEN trying since its inception to sell men on the benefits of feminism for men. It’s a whole genre of “feminism“ essentially dedicated to catering to men and hoping it will convince them to start seeing us as human. It hasn’t worked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:12 PM
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It so ridiculous that when we hear stories and accounts of men using BDSM to abuse a partner, these “kinksters” just say “oh, well, that wasn’t real BDSM“.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 11:08 PM
27

Where is anyone criticizing the Queen personally? I didn’t see a single comment that even mentioned her directly. It’s all criticizing the concept of a monarchy itself and press coverage of female royals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 09:10 PM
22

I bet this loser thought it was such a “hilarious” joke too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:59 PM
12

Would you mind telling me how you made that? Is there an app that does it easily?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 06:34 PM
1

A(wo)men! 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:36 AM
3

Excellent, and all very well laid out, points! A whole propaganda article of nonsense drivel and mental gymnastics, succinctly refuted in a single comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:34 AM
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We all still have bits of leftover patriarchal conditioning that have been so ingrained in us, it can be like a reflex. I too still find myself in certain situations initially and reflexively giving men a benefit of the doubt they don’t deserve. That’s a large part of the beauty of this sub, we can all keep breaking these things down and encouraging each other to fight these reflexes and give the actions and behaviors of men the skeptical scrutiny they deserve. Its also partially caused by how m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:20 AM
2

Don’t give him ideas! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 05:47 AM
3

He literally said if she wasn’t his daughter, he’d be dating her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:33 AM
2

Just try giving “brutal honesty” to a man online, they lose their minds, in person it would definitely be dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:16 AM
3

There is ovarit, saidit, and spinsterxyz, that all have either identically named or very similar subs to the ones that got banned here :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:49 AM
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The sad part is those warnings about men are not at all exaggerated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:25 AM
22

Yup, they sympathize with these men, just like they do with men who sexually assault/harass women. Because in their eyes the reputation of men is always more valuable than the safety and bodily autonomy of girls and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:22 AM
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Not only is it not being as widely and openly vilified, but we now have actual advocacy groups and activism for the “humanization” and destigmatization of p-dophiles, that despite being mostly comprised of p-dos themselves, are actually getting some traction and support from psychologists and other behavioral scientists. Nothing enrages and sickens me more. What a fucked up society to even begin to lend a sympathetic ear to this vileness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:16 AM
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The fact she had to question whether she was the asshole in this situation at all is just incredibly sad and shows just how much he’s gaslit her into feeling like she’s in the wrong to ever have an independent thought or opinion on anything. Even things that only effect her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:07 AM
12

Omg no! can you pretty please send it to me?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:03 AM
33

And yet this same concept in gay men is well recognized, they were married to a woman for decades and realize they are gay, or they knew all along, but continued to sleep with/date/marry women to pretend to be straight in large part because of the homophobic culture.... but to this lesbophobic scrote there’s no possible way that could also apply to lesbians....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:56 AM
41

Everything with men is projection, projection, projection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:40 AM
61

Why do the mgtow or red pill subs (including the ones for women) not get criticized for being “heteronormative”? Oh.... right..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:36 AM
15

Go fuck yourself dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 07:12 AM
64

I bet sleazy men at work google their female coworkers like this hoping to find nudes 100% they do. I’ve seen men do it right in front of me numerous times in my pick me days and unfortunately, the most I ever did was gently chastise them or joke about them being a stalker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:55 AM
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I’m not willing to give him the benefit of the doubt here. If there was someway to know, I’d put money on that he went looking hoping to find nudes/ludes and/or details about her sex life. As someone else above aptly pointed out, he chose her reddit and not twitter for a reason. He knows what gets posted on reddit, like you said, he’s a goddamn male redditor. He’s just lying about it in this post because he knows if he told the truth he would be labeled a creep. The way he tells the story, he ge…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:34 AM
54

This is my same dream!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:49 AM
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What male serving garbage to be promoting to girls and women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:52 AM
1

How is it not illegal for that woman to call herself a doctor and advertise herself as such in the mainstream articles she is featured in?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:13 AM
2

Yup, we all know men are not above pretending to want a relationship just to get sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:10 AM
2

Is it though? And I apologize for being facetiously pedantic about your use of the word “normal”, because I do know how you meant it, but I just wanted to get some thoughts out. I think it’s normal in the sense that we aren’t weirdos for wanting it and that it’s what most women want, but the reasons we want it are highly influenced by our patriarchal heteronormative culture that sells us on this idea starting from early childhood. Even though all throughout history men as a whole have never been…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:01 AM
5

Surprisingly, and thankfully, his brief history of posts and comments, despite his purposeful use of emotionally click baitey titles and dramatics, are getting close to no attention. Most posts are all a 1 karma and usually go without being commented on aside from the odd generic reply here and there except for one post where the 8 or so comments were all calling him on his shit. He tried posting a screenshot from this post of comment that said: “Oh no that poor thing :( D*e then.” He tried to p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 08:44 AM
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Exactly, if you are doing more work you should be compensated for it. You are not just a band member deserving of an equal cut, but also essentially the bands manager, and managers get paid a percentage of profits. So as a member AND manager you should absolutely be compensated more than the men who are only band members.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:27 AM
3

Yup, men treat EVERYTHING as an ego game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:13 AM
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Meh, I just went to check her out and the very first song I clicked on “I like him”, had some questionable lyrics such as “I’m not a hoe, I’m not a slut, I like to fuck and I sure like to suck” and the video featured imagery of a man holding her by the throat while she suggestively sticks her tongue out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:43 AM
2

Sent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 08:14 AM
5

I will definitely not deny that there is a huge problem of toxic masculinity in lesbian culture, I shouldn’t have said internalized misogyny was less common in lesbian women when what I really meant is that it manifests in different ways, I was having trouble articulating due to being so eager to make my point, it was lazy wording. And lesbian fuckboi’s definitely exist. But I’d say bisexual “fuckgirls” are just as common (shamefully I was one) and have the added downside of all the issues uniqu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:07 PM
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It’s so terrible for both of these women. Look at all the destruction and heartache just one lowly LVM, his pathetic dick, and it’s fleeting whims, can cause in this world. The wife, her son, the other woman, and the child growing inside her, all tragically affected by this useless cretin of a scrote, and god only knows all the ways their trauma from this will echo out into the world. The Y chromosome is genetic trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:21 PM
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Actual reply from a LVM in the comments: “Wait so he drove to see you and bought you a gift as well.I don't see the problem. It's your b-day so you should pay if you receive a gift. And maybe he didn't have enough money. Anyways guys are not good with surprises so don't expect him to do more. Next time don't put too much effort on his b-day they don't even care about these things” This same persons reply on a post by a guy who says his girlfriend kisses her gay male friends and jokingly sends hi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:45 PM
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You are getting hate for this, but I totally understand where you are coming from. If I were a lesbian I would avoid bi women for these same reasons and behaviors that I myself used to engage in. Not to mention the women who are only slightly attracted to women or fake being attracted to them, but know being bi is fetishized by men and want the male attention that comes with that. Or ones, who like I used to, only seek women for sex and men for relationships. So many bi women are just like I was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:47 PM
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Because everything with men is a projection. They pretend that we’re all just ugly women who are bitter that we can’t get “chad” because that’s the only reason they can understand for being celibate, since that’s the only reason they would be. It also makes them feel better to believe that we aren’t the ones rejecting them, and that instead they are the ones rejecting us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:15 PM
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You know how whenever there’s an online discussion about women who have experienced SA, or really any negative experience women face because of men, and men just can’t help themselves from jumping in to derail the conversation on to how hard men have it and implying they are the bigger victims? Well, just for the hell of it I’ve started doing the same when the comment or conversation is about some negative thing a man experienced. I come in and start talking about how it affects women so much mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:45 PM
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I agree that woman are better off without marriage, but only when that means she’s single altogether. Long term cohabitation with men outside of marriage does no favors for women unless they live in a place that has “common law marriage” that affords all the same rights to women as marriage, particularly relating to the dissolution of the relationship, or she is the main breadwinner/has more money than him (which in itself is a bad move).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:04 PM
9

Don’t forget Lundy Bancroft!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:46 PM
6

Partner implies serious, monogamous status for couples who have moved past the patriarchal concept of marriage Exactly, and that’s why it’s mildly annoying when people who have been with their so called “partner” for mere months use that term to refer to them. They are trying to convey to others (and trick themselves into believing) that it’s a more serious relationship than it actually is. As far as forgoing marriage for a “partnership” instead, this really only makes sense for women who have o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:35 PM
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Everyone is “non binary”. Very few women are comfortable and identify with the sexist stereotypes forced upon us. Women can’t identify their way out of our oppression and men can’t identify into it. Young girls undergoing the horrific practice of FGM aren’t able to say “I’m not female, I’m non binary, so you can’t do this”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:11 PM
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Most of that “gender neutral” and “inclusive” language being pushed recently is erasure of women in language. This particular term doesn’t apply, but in general that’s what it usually boils down to: “pregnant person” instead of mother “menstruators” and “ovary/vagina havers” instead of women, “chest feeding” instead of breast feeding. Funny enough, it rarely gets applied to language that describes men and their biology. Hmmmmm I wonder why that could be.....? It’s a “woke“ form of misogyny. That…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:17 AM
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That’s awesome that as a bisexual woman you don’t cave to the societal pressure to sexualize other women. It’s such an easy trap to fall into, as a woman attracted to other women, in this sexist patriarchal society where doing so is the norm. I’m bi too, and while I know better now, I cringe looking back at how I used to not only go along with it when I was around what I then considered to be my “guy friends”, but would also engage in it myself to seem “cool” in front of them and as an attempt t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:00 AM
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And god only knows how much bullshit and lies he’s fed this other woman about the reality of his “situation” ..... “it’s a loveless, sexless marriage, she doesn’t appreciate me, she’s lazy and doesn’t contribute, blah blah blah”....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:14 AM
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I would imagine that one of the major red flags would be if there’s another woman who he says is “just a friend” but he talks about her all the time, compares you to her, and puts her on a pedestal. When she needs him he’s always there for her, but never seems to manage to do the same for you. He will cancel plans with you at the drop of the dime if she invites him somewhere or asks him to do something for her. He prioritizes her needs and wants over yours and values her opinion more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:00 AM
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Dick is only worth it when: it’s nicely shaped**, well kept, and most importantly, attached to an amazing HVM who truly cares about your pleasure (and not just because it feeds his ego). So basically, 99% of dick isn’t worth it. ** for me this means not too long, girthy but, again, not too much, and if it’s curved the curve is upward.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 04:38 AM
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The authors argument is that these men, like Manson, being called out for their abusive behaviors, aren’t actually practicing BDSM because they aren’t observing the proper “etiquette” like asking for consent and using safewords. So that makes it “not real kink/bdsm”. It’s a no true Scotsman fallacy. This part really pissed me off: “Meanwhile, the argument that kink is morally suspect because abusers hide behind it makes no sense. Just imagine if we applied that same logic to other activities. Sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 09:22 AM
1

lived on the lower east side of Manhattan for a year and while I had a blast and was never bored, I got homesick kinda quick. Everything moves fast and the city is loud, congested, and dirty. I found it to be disorienting after the initial excitement wore off. It was really cool how eclectic the neighborhoods were. Within a span of a few blocks it could be like going from one world to another. There are tons of things to do, shows, events, nightlife, exhibits/museums, monuments/landmarks, parks.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:11 PM
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Right? I’m always skeptical when men make videos espousing our ideas. Guys have been parroting feminist talking points to seem like good guys forever, some have probably just caught up with some of our newer points....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 08:11 AM
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I think that comparison is unfair to pigs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:39 AM
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According to this commenter from your link this might be fake: “We discussed this on our antenatal groupchat and a few pointed out that it is fake, it's a disgruntled ex group mod that created it and then spread it. Was shocked at first and horrified. But then it does come across fake because why would you openly admit that set up? The group has since suspended all action until things quiten down and I should imagine they've made themselves completely private so no one is able to send them abuse…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:24 AM
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