| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | wHy DoNt WoMeN (read: bitches) liKe (read: fuck) NiCe GuYs??? | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | angrybaija | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 12:53 AM |
| 1 | A friend of mine shared this on her close friends. I want to die lmao | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | angrybaija | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveI edited it on purpose, but now that you mention it I’ve also never witnessed a man shutting up either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:50 AM |
| 174 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveEventually he will get a clue. I have legitimately never seen this happen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Derrick Jaxn Caught Cheatingdamn called it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 09:40 PM |
| 56 | The last thing you should do as a woman is take “the initiative” to ask a man out and pay for dinner because you'll never take you seriously. 😷 Sis, this isn’t it.“ladies, can you please just admit that the only reason you call me a pick me is because you’re mad that I’m getting the attention from men that you want? You forgot to use your personality” I mean, wow lol this is some by-the-book pick me stuff. a real timeless classic. I mean it couldn’t be more on the nose if it were a literal pair of glasses | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.This is what FDS co-signs? A fancy wedding and expensive dresses are what brings us true happiness and as long as we’ve got that we sit down and shut up? well then what the hell have I been doing all this “self-improvement” bullshit for? Shut it down, y’all, we don’t need level up strategy for personal fulfillment we need designer and a big house! Fucks sake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:09 AM |
| 73 | The 🍵 is piping hot 🔥 this morningpeople (including men) Idk why but this killed me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:26 AM |
| 16 | The 🍵 is piping hot 🔥 this morning😎👉👉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 5 | I saw someone else roast themselfes and I want to do the same for the sake of humor xDUnfortunately, I have a lot of anecdotes about my brother’s insecurities and anxieties projected as anger towards himself and/or others. It’s exhausting and damaging. Hey me too let’s start a club or something | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 3 | I’m committed to leaving my LVM for good this timehonestly... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:57 PM |
| 4 | Just in case anyone still thinks video game addiction is “not that bad”...you're serious together and living together Have you read the handbook or? anyways to sum up what’s already been said, it’s not the minute details of having a hobby. Gamers, as a collective, have traits that are undesirable to a lot of women here - perceived or actual laziness, lack of ambition, obsessive tendencies over something literally inconsequential (I mean, look at the OP), inability to prioritize, emotional neglect of the real people their lives in favor of ones made of pixels,,,, just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 7 | Caught a man filming me yesterdaywalk up to the creepy stranger in the parking lot? sure, yeah I’m sure that would end just fine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 11:21 AM |
| 36 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.... the publicity (if you can even call it that) meghan received alone is enough for even me to know they didn’t “have it good”... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:00 PM |
| 3 | A writing "team" where one person is invisible. Guess which one. It really is everywhere, isn't it? 💔Same with computation. The first computer programmers were by and large women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:20 PM |
| 20 | Why do people think women are being tricked/manipulated into casual sex?I asked one Newbie “ok fine, text your guy friends now and see if they’d fuck you” ugh I just had this same conversation with a friend/coworker, tbh I wish I had said this. Like, no sis, all your guy friends ("but they have girlfriends!") are not taking you to coffee for two hours because they really just value that platonic friendship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:32 PM |
| 26 | Why do people think women are being tricked/manipulated into casual sex?My brother asked me to connect with the sibling of one of his friends so that I could help with her college application. He later told me (in an argument about our relationship) to my face that he was doing me a favor by giving me the chance to help. He was dead serious. What the hell is wrong with these dudes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:29 PM |
| 64 | This guy gets it 🙌🐍You should've chosen a better snake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 03:22 AM |
| 35 | You read about us on Vice. She said we hate men; she said we’re no different than the redpill. You were disgusted by us. Yet, somehow, you felt some urge to come here.raised to be runners up in our own lives Holy shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:30 PM |
| 3 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.I'm send you lots of love, and wishing you strength as you continue to heal! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.how are they this predictable jeez... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:39 AM |
| 111 | Reminder that most men aren't looking for an equal partner, but rather someone to feed their ego... Always check if his "dream woman" description matches a dog! 😂like... not that I want to contribute to putting black women's interests in a box... but I'm from like redneck midatlantic and even I thought "rides in your pickup" sounded like a post-murder activity and not a date 😭 Edit: my first award! love y'all 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:We know this, but *I think* the step is literally unnecessary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 02:17 PM |
| 12 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:Well, why give them the chance to say yes? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 12:55 AM |
| 10 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:Rosey Palm girl BYE 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:14 PM |
| 8 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:My brothers don't even make me pay for food we get. And they are terrible in other regards lol SEE? bare minimum | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:11 PM |
| 18 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:I now see where you're coming from more, but I don't think this sub appreciates "tests" from men in general. "Why would he even ask?" is a good question to think about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 11:09 PM |
| 25 | Pickmes and Newbies listen up. We don't do 50/50. Read the Handbook, but also consider this:alternatively, I've only been on a few dates in my short life, and every one (save for one immediate block and delete) has also been eager to pay. what is your problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:21 PM |
| 266 | That update tho 🙌saw a similar one with a woman who liked to wear silly socks (I think she was a nurse or sm with a uniform you can't really personalize), her husband threw them all out because they, her fucking socks, "embarrassed him." imagine being that sick in the head | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:44 PM |
| 17 | That update tho 🙌I love this song | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 05:42 PM |
| 30 | Not only is it totally not listening to her but he’s also a complete Neanderthal and the women in the comments saying “he’s just being comfortable/My BF does that too lolz” make me sad that so many women settle for this. 🤮bruh me too 1 second away from going "aw cute dog <33" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:56 PM |
| 88 | Finally someone made a video on mainstream media normalizing bdsm & rough sexI saw another YouTube video by For Harriet I think about WAP and the "spectacle of female liberation" and I'll never forget her saying how it's crazy how visions of women's empowerment we're meant to celebrate look exactly like what the make gaze wants visions of women's empowerment to look like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:53 PM |
| 12 | He definitely has this message saved to send to several women lol. The actual text had me cracking up though, who introduces themself like this??I knew someone like this in college who was very surprised pikachu face that his relationship did not work out. he explained to me all the things he spends time on, and couldn't fathom having to choose between adjusting his lifestyle or accepting that he literally did not have time for a relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 10 | Where to start...he is literally not even trying | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:28 PM |
| 7 | Where to start...this is legitimately the worst job I've ever heard of 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 11 | The majority of older Japanese wives suffer from “retired husband sydrome” which is caused by the stress of caring for an older husbandI’m very much convinced that on top of being misogynistic trash as a whole, Reddit has a horrific white supremacy problem. um, abso-fucking-lutely, you can take out the "I'm convinced" 100% I recently read a thread in a beauty sub about reasons to dislike a really popular black influencer, and reading all of the criticism and vitriol was so strange because of how blatantly unilateral and literally contradictory at times it was. I sorted by controversial and only then did I find the WOC with the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 16 | The majority of older Japanese wives suffer from “retired husband sydrome” which is caused by the stress of caring for an older husbandwhy was she apologizing to you lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:04 PM |
| 23 | PSA: Creating Non-Approved FDS Spinoff Subs will Result in a Permanent Ban on all FDS related subs.no I was literally like "who tf asked what are you talking about..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:02 PM |
| 40 | PSA: Creating Non-Approved FDS Spinoff Subs will Result in a Permanent Ban on all FDS related subs.feeeemales 🔴🔴🔴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativewomen tearing other women down is super unsexy and it happens all the time. like I get it you're anti-porn (and this sub has taught me soo much about the horrors of the industry and made me more comfortable talking about it with my friends irl) but literally what does calling it "OnlyWhores" do for you or anyone here deadass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 11:46 AM |
| 5 | Female Dating Strategy is not heteronormativeSucks if you're deadass just guessing but that is literally the case | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 11:41 AM |
| 10 | I’m tired of guys who say they just want to be friends, yet end up trying to pursue me intimately/(romantically?)oh oops i'm just not used to that spelling of rapist so I didn't recognize it. thanks, though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:35 PM |
| 11 | Advice for a man who married a gorgeous woman with whom he has nothing in common. I loved her response.I'm crying real tears rn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Lmao'block and delete' covers this. his friends and his family can support him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Lmaomisogyny is actually incredibly boring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 07:28 PM |
| 1 | As usual men doing the bare minimum in relationships.'the rules' is a book that in part inspired the fds handbook. the authors say 🙅♀️ on "buying his love" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 15 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!not this field I know 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 8 | I begged my N-ex to make me a love note (as I would do it often for him) .. I made him a personalized comic book of our life and this is what I got in return. LMAO.At first I was like “at least he made you a love note...” ... someone get her the at-risk-pick-me flair stat... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:38 PM |
| 5 | I’m tired of guys who say they just want to be friends, yet end up trying to pursue me intimately/(romantically?)incel "kino" thing ?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:26 PM |
| 2 | I’m tired of guys who say they just want to be friends, yet end up trying to pursue me intimately/(romantically?)Their pickmeisha-ism makes them frumpy. I agree! But I don't think that was the implication there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:17 PM |
| 19 | Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting.Adultification is abuse and I'm sorry you had to go through that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | As usual men doing the bare minimum in relationships.not sure about this sub, but The Rules actually are tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 06:15 AM |
| 72 | Yep...BuT MeN cAn bE sExuALly AsSauLteD toO yes. by whom, overwhelmingly? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | Women's lives need to stop revolving around menI'm pretty sure this a like a dystopian student short film on YouTube lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 03:51 PM |
| 31 | I keep seeing this topic of “women not having hobbies” come up, and this is a great video on why that’s a problematic question.condemned, chastised or straight up bullied and harassed for having hobbies other than cooking, cleaning, shopping or taking care of a baby ... and guess what would have happened if those were your only hobbies... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:34 AM |
| 40 | This is what dating a scrote looks like. Pass.the logical, objective sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Queen energyhmm I can see what you're saying here... "society upholds skinniness but that's not what men actually want" is kinda a cringe sentence (however that interpretation might not have been its intent). better sentiment might be "who gives a flying fuck what men are into. also they're (mostly 😒) not a monolith" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 5 | To my younger selfeh, this is more tough love I would 100% give to my own friend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 02:57 PM |
| 10 | Beauty standards are a prison.any grazes or callouses would make a boy not want me or a man not want to marry me literally what the fuck would compel my mother to tell this to a child, I'm still tight about it. children are active. activity = cuts and scrapes. get over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:51 PM |
| 19 | It’s annual review time at work so I thought y’all might appreciate one for your vulva.At first I felt hella awk reading but I made myself do it and I'm glad lol. Vagina self love does not come naturally or easily, thanks for making a post like this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:45 PM |
| 7 | Relationships may take work and effort at times, but you should not be working and sacrificing just to get the BASICS (love, respect, consideration, etc). Know your line and what it will take for you to fold and walk away, and stick to it.Hope I didn't frame it like the kind and compassionate part of you that would have done so much for someone you care about was the issue. the barely sentient penis on the receiving end was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:07 AM |
| 25 | Relationships may take work and effort at times, but you should not be working and sacrificing just to get the BASICS (love, respect, consideration, etc). Know your line and what it will take for you to fold and walk away, and stick to it.All that 8-5 studying didn’t matter And he would not have done the same for you, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:50 AM |
| 92 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".massive rapist vibes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:49 AM |
| 69 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".First one reads like an actual rapist wrote it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 12:46 AM |
| 34 | Walked out of diner on first date yesterday!please why is this spot onnn 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:59 AM |
| 40 | Stop fake laughing at men’s unfunny jokes. They really aren’t that funny...literally happened to me in class today :') fuck you, John | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/21 12:47 AM |
| 16 | LVM like to keep women humble so they have a chance! They know they could never get a girl who knew her worth/>:( edit: formatting lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:32 AM |
| 71 | She’s 18 and he’s 23I did (idrk what the rules are but...). she's young and in college and I'm young and in college and I'll be damned if I don't take the 5 minutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 05:28 AM |
| 45 | Never build a man upthe ugly laugh I just let out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 04:54 AM |
| 2 | How men insult women by how they define them, and why.I completely forgot a term already exists for this! "Crabs in a bucket" -- comes from the fact that crabs trying to escape a hole/whatever literally try to pull down the others so that no one ends up escaping :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Do you want to get to know the nuances of his culture? Look at meme pages targeted to their ethnic grouplike their mom cutting up fruits for them when they study API?? 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 05:39 PM |
| 9 | This is how it's supposed to be?!He is not working in mysterious ways that mf asleep | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 05:41 PM |
| 6 | How men insult women by how they define them, and why.I bet it is the 'norm'. I have heard this trope a thousand times, so I'd believe that. Or at least it's common enough that someone barely old enough to drink has heard it a lot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:16 PM |
| 1 | I bought my 7 yo daughter chocolates and flowers, so no dusty ass will impress her with cheap stuff on vd.I'm sorry this is your experience, it sounds like mine,,, I guess we're not alone? 🤧 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 11:24 AM |
| 7 | If men are "biologically" attracted to teens, they need to stop being teachersA gynecologist exam from a teacher obviously not lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 10:01 AM |
| 3 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides."Child labor is bad" is not a stance I thought I'd have to defend today. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:43 AM |
| 1 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.^ This is what mfs on plantations said 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:37 AM |
| 17 | What are you ladies opinion on this? Do men deserve a material gift? I think that Valentines day is for us Women and my presence is the present! I don't like the idea of going big... My Lv ex wanted us to be set on a (equal) spending limit for both of us. Never againmore >> less, flowers >> grass. it's just context clues, girl. And why do you think Cardi b's relationship history has to do with her ability to make a good joke on twitter dot com? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:32 AM |
| 6 | The number of comments saying that the man acted this way “because he really likes her”. 🙄 this is not about affection - what you’re seeing here is the very early stages of controlling and abusive behaviour.your boss sounds like a cool guy :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 09:57 AM |
| 6 | If you can’t afford the lifestyle that I’m providing for myself, then you can’t have me!thundafiya every idiot is my new internal monologue | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 09:12 PM |
| 9 | The last thing he did. Rest his soul.Looking at you, Devil Wears Prada 😒 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Relationship Ambiguity Is The New Backlash, and It's Dangerous and Effective Because of Its SubtletyI want to send this to a friend so bad and I don't know how to..... :'( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 05:11 PM |
| 10 | One guy said:” I wouldn’t have answered it. That was dry.” So what was she supposed to do? Add an emoji?🤨Even the slightest criticism triggers male tantrums. I have a family member who throws tantrums in the literal sense when you criticize him. He is twenty five | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Sexism in Medicinehe's not the shittiest doctor ever, but he better hope that guy doesn't die | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/21 02:05 AM |
| 39 | Even men recognize when another man is playing a woman."having a fairly new emotional experience" yeah it's called empathy, jackass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 08:00 PM |
| 5 | How LVM parent.No, HONY is not a parody account 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 12:04 PM |
| 5 | “Have you tried communicating?”wow did I finally edit: rip re-edit: yuhh 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:10 PM |
| 11 | Woman on tiktok records her interaction with an extremely predatory, entitled, depraved tinder scrote (she got out safe thankfully). This is why you should NEVER go to a scrote’s house when you barely know themthe condescending "this is how things are" has to goooooooo sneaky edit: I'm probably not supposed to do this but mods please give me a flair I love y'all and it's been months of me talking to myself 😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Tales from the Vault III: When my cousin used to bully me, I went crying to my mom for help. She was sitting with my aunt and grandmother, and they all laughed and accused ME of having a crush on HIM. This is just one example of how female socialization grooms girls to tolerate abusive relationshipsis your mom my mom 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 07:10 AM |
| 7 | If you catch feelings easily, this might help! Stay strong! >:)"You know... someday, we're gonna get enough people in the Supreme Court to change that law..." hooooooo fuck seinfeld | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 06:49 AM |
| 3 | The final boss Pickmeishawasn't there a study of corporate boardrooms where men who dominated a large majority of the conversation still thought the gender balance of who was speaking was equal because they're literally that delusional? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:01 PM |
| 1 | Forever gf offers to move in, pay half his bills and do all the chores. Instead of thanking his lucky stars, this scrote throws a mantrum, trying to force her into a ‘real job’, because he wants to make her life even more miserable and is jealous of her succes.I'd say it's against FDS (or at least TR) to travel to a guy like that for this exact reason. They come to you, mama | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 10:55 PM |
| 24 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.this is so cute | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:34 PM |
| 1 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?"I'm excited for what you do next. Lots of love and support coming your way!!! 💛💕💖❤️💓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 04:03 AM |
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