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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 7 | Kicked out of FDS!!!?Same | /r/askFDS | 01/09/21 06:05 AM |
| 2 | Texas has an anonymous tip line for reporting abortions.This ⬆️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/21 05:00 PM |
| 99 | Pick me-ism is a hell of a drugThis happened to me but in the different way: the guy was super pushy and hyper romantic for about a month , we went out for a few dates but I felt all he wanted was to bed me, then he disappeared for a week to go on vacation with his actual gf (I found out on IG), I went NC and didn't respond to his texts anymore. A week later I get a text from his gf that im a “crazy b that won’t leave him alone” and she threatened me with violence 🤡 I asked her to leave me alone and warned her that hes a hoe.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 04:35 PM |
| 200 | Texas has an anonymous tip line for reporting abortions.If you’re in the US, go and enter as many random reports as you can. Use fake but believable names. If you’re outside the US, use a VPN. Go onto a real estate website and find listings of vacant homes in remote areas of the state. Places like Uvalde, Jasper, or Dumas. Make up some names that are neither too incredulous nor too generic. You don't want them throwing out the report because they see a joke name like "Heywood Jablomi", but 10,000 reports with names like "John Smith" would also come o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/21 02:59 PM |
| 16 | Need a little boostA convenient monogamous pseudo-relationship with no effort or label (and no promises to you), likely because he wants intimacy and sex, but is either too immature or has issues. He wants your time and investment, and knows hell possibly hurt your feelings but he doesn’t care as long as he gets what he wants. For you it’s a lose lose situation cause he gives you a tight rope and no title, and would likely breakup with you once you pressured him for clarity about what exactly he wants. Screw him, … | /r/askFDS | 24/08/21 03:56 AM |
| 105 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑She got pressured to be a “cool gf” real quick 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 02:02 AM |
| 1 | OLD profiles of attractive men be likeFor all interested this guys insta handle is @j3anosorio | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/21 12:46 AM |
| 224 | Pickmes are brain dead 😑Didn’t want to trigger men and libfems who support fake “empowerment🤣” made by men for men’s consumption. But you can tell she's trying to hide her MAD discomfort knowing her BF jerks to other women on diff sites | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 10:25 PM |
| 73 | Vet🙌🏻themhe same type of guy who will lovebomb you tho, because they need your attention yes!! but even then its about THEM, if you ask for attention they will look at you like you're crazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 06:16 PM |
| 196 | Pick-me glorifies female oppression & slavery in the third world under the guise of protection of women.Because it is | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:02 PM |
| 48 | Pick-me glorifies female oppression & slavery in the third world under the guise of protection of women.I just went through his Twitter and I HIGHLY doubt the poster is a woman. He follows an absurd amount of sexy anime, religion, right wing mixed with supports of authoritarian governments such as China, Russia and now cheering for Taliban. Some of his tweets: “The Afghanis defeated the Soviet’s attempt to install communism and now they have defeated the United States attempt to install LGBTQ/BLM rule. Dedicated men with not much more than rifles did this. This tweet radiates loose pussy energy ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:02 PM |
| 10 | Opinions if I am being too sensitive about this comment ?What did you expect him to say? He kept it playful. You brought it on yourself by fishing for reassurance and compliments, some guys don’t like that, HVM or not. | /r/askFDS | 16/08/21 04:36 AM |
| 17 | How does liking a guy work?I remember being embarrassed “crushing” on guys in the same class or internship and building fake relationships in my head (which is beyond stupid ) pre-fds. I looked for “signs” and I even made a move a couple of times (embarrassing!) and faced pure indifference because what I was dreaming of just wasn’t real. A few of them had sex with me (after I asked them out) and then disappeared. In reality those guys were aholes, unavailable, or couldn’t care less about me. It’s a massive waste of time t… | /r/askFDS | 15/08/21 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Ex won’t stop harassing!!Save evidence and get a restraining order | /r/askFDS | 15/08/21 04:10 AM |
| 14 | Can’t make this shit up… Once a NVM, always a NVM🙄LMV all the way 👏🏻 Edit: he was prolly packing his bags once he found out she can’t serve him anymore while she “tried to make it work” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Advice on how to stop thinking of him?This actually helped me as well, just talking to someone new takes that person off my mind and it helps. | /r/askFDS | 11/08/21 06:45 PM |
| 5 | Why do men try to downgrade you from literal GIRLFRIEND to FWB? I've seen this play out multiple times.Don’t bother trying to figure it out, it’s just a shitty guy. Breaking up means he’d lose a free resource of (attention, validation, sex, etc). It’s never about you. | /r/askFDS | 11/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 81 | Why do men try to downgrade you from literal GIRLFRIEND to FWB? I've seen this play out multiple times.I’ve seen downgrading from dating to FWB… it’s when their responses become too sporadic, they get busier, and the only time they could meet is (conveniently!) after 9pm. He still texts her to keep her interested but it’s low investment. He disappears on weekend, always has valid excuse. LVM do it after months of dating , already knowing that the girl is attached and likes him so he can get easy sex, validation. They never tell you what changed, still occasionally talk to you but you can feel tha… | /r/askFDS | 11/08/21 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Very sad. Another reason to avoid hike dates.She flew across country to go on hike with a stranger after 2 month of talking and face timing. I truly feel bad for her and do not blame her for trusting him. But what was his investment? He even claimed he let her walk back alone when she overheated and he kept hiking the mountain🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 06:34 PM |
| 185 | Everyday I am reminded that not starting a family with a scrote was a good choiceWhen . Do. Women. Learn. To dump . Shitty . Men. Stop trying to fix a shitty guy . Don’t stay with trash men because your emotionally attached or have kids. There is NOTHING you can do to teach them basic responsibility because THEY CHOSE NOT TO DO IT. It's not like they didn't learn. THEY. DON'T. WAN'T to care . It's a choice. They don't care that if affects you because they don't care about anyone but themselves. Sis . You’re wasting your time and energy . He’s trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 63 | Ladies, it is NOT "rude" to call men out when your boundaries are being violatedLVMs will call you “bitch” but theyre too chickenshit to proceed assaulting you after you draw the boundary… but man they will try to get you back by talking shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 08:17 PM |
| 11 | Making excuses for men not approaching me (if he wanted to, he would).Yes👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:10 PM |
| 32 | The clearest display of “if he wanted to, he would” that I’ve ever experiencedMy example: I was talking toa guy for 3 weeks(!) and him constantly meeting his friends on weekends. He kept telling me he couldn't figure out a schedule cause things are chaotic.Yet he texted me just fine every single day and we practically went to bed on the phone. The weekend when I thought we’re going to meet up for sure he fully ghosted me. Not only he didn’t make any plans but he also left me on read. I cried from anxiety all weekend. After checking his IG on Monday i found out he was at h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 06:47 PM |
| 3 | Just a quick reminder: never ask a guy out.Ohmygod this is terrible I’m so sorry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:45 AM |
| 100 | OF COURSE women initiate 80% of divorces.He never heard of conflict of interest? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 03:54 PM |
| 18 | Disgusting scrote sought out SA survivor to fulfill his “kink.” Reason #485949 to NEVER reveal your trauma to a man when you first start dating. ALWAYS vet for this behavior! I hope she leaves his ass for good!👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:19 AM |
| 15 | (Tw) why did he do thishes a rapist who cares | /r/askFDS | 09/07/21 02:25 PM |
| 11 | How do I stop feeling miserable about ending things?, I (19F) met a guy on Tinder (28M). what | /r/askFDS | 08/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Don’t.do.this ladiesTakes maturity and not being a selfish prick… which is not what most youngish guys are about | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Don’t.do.this ladiesA lot of men won’t say anything because they want to keep you as an option, usually for sex. YES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/21 03:53 PM |
| 6 | How to be more assertive in the momentWhat helped me is faking confidence and getting angry and not giving a fuck Literally. I work and exist in a heavily male-dominated field and my opinions are constantly getting overlooked and I just got tired of that. | /r/askFDS | 04/07/21 03:45 PM |
| 5 | How to be more assertive in the momentNo 3 is counterproductive, servicing others requires to be compliant and submissive, as they will rate your customer service. | /r/askFDS | 04/07/21 03:33 PM |
| 26 | Rejection is redirection4 months of hanging out “having fun” she asked him if he even likes her he said no 🤮🤮 He knew he didn’t like her. He waited for her to bring it up. He enjoyed the benefits and knowingly strung her along while seeing other women. He’s trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 09:51 PM |
| 125 | Rejection is redirectionI’ve literally done this and my self esteem was ruined because I thought I wasnt enough to be loved or texted every day. I thought I’m ok with this until other dudes showed me how awesome and worthy I was. Girls don’t settle for crumbs ever just move on date multiple dudes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/06/21 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Q: Any suggestions for a response when an out of town guy asks you to pick a restaurant?I just say I'm indecisive and that puts a ball in his court. I'm willing to give him one benefit on the doubt ut if he sounds clueless and keeps shifting the decisionmaking back to me its over, I move on. | /r/askFDS | 19/06/21 03:36 PM |
| 2 | In a post-covid environment, how can I meet guys to date without resorting to online dating ?i'm up for dog parks as well! beware of museums and art galleries as they tend to have a younger artistic type of guys that are non-committal and into poly stuff. Car shows and golf tend to attract lots of married men or players (personal exp) | /r/askFDS | 19/06/21 02:40 PM |
| 45 | “Build with him”i want to scream this from rooftops | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 05:30 PM |
| 10 | In a post-covid environment, how can I meet guys to date without resorting to online dating ?Social mixed sport groups and outings, lots of them are coordinated online.Aim for normally guy-friendly activities like sports, cars, boats, money raisers(not knitting or baking clubs),Look for clubs that have social hangouts often. Look in areas that have younger crowds/big cities so there's more single males) | /r/askFDS | 18/06/21 03:33 AM |
| 70 | Billie Elish bf is 10 years older than her.ok so she preached about not wanting to be sexualized but got horny and started dating a dude that made her fall into the very same sexualized patterns because that's what it takes to date a straight dude in this sociaty the age gap is so big it wont last and shell feel used by an older dude...tale as old as time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:20 PM |
| 4 | What men mean when they are vagueThis comment needs more upvotes Yes yes yes | /r/askFDS | 12/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 4 | Cant communicate with boyfriendHe will cheat on you. You guys are so young it will just not last and he already proves this point. Dump him, start working on your school and grades. | /r/askFDS | 10/06/21 03:45 PM |
| 14 | How soon to meet a guy in person?I'd make him work for the possibility to take you out. Let him decide for himself why it has to be YOU he's asking out (not look based). Don't be another chick in line he felt a connection with. OLD guys ALWAYS take you on cheap date to prevent investing too much time into one girl and double and triple book 3-5 dates in a day to get what he wants from one of them (left be honest, easy sex).So def facetime him and talk to him more. | /r/askFDS | 09/06/21 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Should I ask him out or not? If i know we have a deal breakerno, you guys are not compadible also, don't ask men out | /r/askFDS | 06/06/21 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Why would my [F21] FWB [M23] be upset about the fact that I'm seeing someone else if he explicitly told me he didn't want a relationship with me?THIS!! Activities with one another: sports, business, group assignments , drinking etc is their idea of friendship. And they will pick another guys over a woman to do that with any day, that’s how they support brotherhood. Unfortunately, brotherhood is where the big money is and the club is private , only way to get there is through other men, marriage or relationship. Women are accessories to be discarded or used for them. They visit one another in hospital and kill for each other yet get annoy… | /r/askFDS | 30/05/21 11:58 PM |
| 4 | Recent dating experienceOk I’m commenting because I feel like I’ve been through this too. As someone already said- guys show you a fake persona at dates because they want you to like them; get hooked on it so they can extract sex. I did the same thing you did with drinking and stopped because I noticed how many men took it as invitation to pressure my boundaries. Many, many if not all. If they see an easy opportunity they go for it. Yes , good men too. I feel like it’s primal thing for them. What they say and do to get… | /r/askFDS | 23/05/21 05:37 PM |
| 5 | I ended it with a textI dated a guy for a month and he did this to me..right after we had sex (convenient!). I was the one who reached out and tried to talk, he was updating his Instagram, traveling, not texting me, or replying vaguely that he's fine. The when he's horny he paid me attention, and we had sex again. Then same thing - ghostm I felt he's not interested or checked out and I moved on, didn't bother telling him. Mind you, he was on his best behavior before that. He reached out of nowhere 2 months after, cha… | /r/askFDS | 11/05/21 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Dating guys you don't have feelings forYoung and pretty...but he hated vagina. what the hell? most of these guys are closeted gays | /r/askFDS | 11/05/21 02:22 PM |
| 9 | Dating guys you don't have feelings forI did just to see if it will change. No. They get annoying, I ghost and mistreat them. Then got with guys that were MEH about me. The anxiety and energy you spend to get crumbs of attention it crippling and its soo NOT FAIR to you. If you're not excited to see them again after 1st date - let them go. | /r/askFDS | 10/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 8 | Why don’t LVM directly breakup with women?yes! they ALWAYS come back | /r/askFDS | 06/05/21 01:44 PM |
| 7 | What should I do? I'm almost 22 and never had a relationshipYou're not ready for a relationship and seem insecure and easy to take an advantage of. | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 04:59 PM |
| 9 | How do I respond to this? I'm intimidated by his lead.He needs to cater to YOU, do what YOU want if he wants the privilege of meeting you because he's interested. Everything else screams he's not that into you. You don't need to lower your standards. | /r/askFDS | 04/05/21 03:13 PM |
| 7 | guy(24m) I(20f) recently started talking to giving me mixed feelings, am I going to get played by him?they all care until they get in your pants. keep dating other dudes and keep your heart safe. | /r/askFDS | 26/04/21 01:46 PM |
| 88 | guy(24m) I(20f) recently started talking to giving me mixed feelings, am I going to get played by him?omg you're just like me when i was younger "best date evaaa" "he's literally perrfeeect"" he has a REAL job WOW" "he can kiss whoaa" "he's elen better than mu ex say WHAAT" this. is. what. any.OKish. guy.is.like. literally. You're raving about him like he's one of a kind GOD, and he sees it (what an ego boost!) get dating other dudes to compare and see how mediocre everything that you've said here is. | /r/askFDS | 25/04/21 06:32 PM |
| 50 | How to stop missing a LVMDelete his number. You need to start distancing Ps: the reason why it’s hard is because you’re emotionally hooked and he can manipulate you easily.Reduce the attachment. | /r/askFDS | 24/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 17 | Need Some Good Advice On How To NOT Waste My Life And My Early 20s???Don’t invest time in romantic relationships. Circumstances change and people will leave and relationships fall apart because people are growing 19-27ish. Invest in yourself, only pay attention into those that go above and beyond for you but don’t get clingy as they will probably also leave after growing up. | /r/askFDS | 22/04/21 02:00 PM |
| 7 | If a man is equal to you, then he's not good enough for you.Sounds a lot like dentists and dental assistants to me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 08:46 PM |
| 12 | Found this on a relationship sub. Women think this kind of behaviour is endearing ?! Nah sis 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ makes me wonder what else he thinks gets done by magic. Some guy commented and argued with me about how men do more domestic labour lmao I can’t handle this sub. I never want to be married.Thats why women need to pull back and STOP making it so easy for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 02:10 PM |
| 8 | This is why we can’t even trust the “good” guys.Madonna/ whore syndrome showing She was lucky he didn’t realize coworker is also “ female human that can have sex”or she would end up in a ditch too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 01:40 PM |
| 3 | A bumble date threatened me after I walked out of the date instead of going home with him . I’m shaken up by the messages (adding a snipped here). Has anyone else experienced this and did the guy follow through with his threats?Me too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Need to learn to communicate my bounderies regarding to sex. Any advice?Simply ignoring their advances/moving away won't stop them, so here's that. Saying something up front like "I don't want sex today" usually gets you an OK response at that time, but they try to "seduce" you again later. The thing that helped me is to be 100% sure sex if not an option. In my case, it was because I was on my period and knew I would be in pain. Mentally knowing that you don't want to be in pain and not being sure if you see this guy again did the job. I went on dates with guys that… | /r/askFDS | 08/04/21 07:49 PM |
| 14 | I feel like I can’t trust men anymore and I won’t trust one that says he loves meYes, I feel the same, only I am in my late 20es. I just don't believe straight men's words anymore and, after discovering FDS, I am hyper-paranoid about being used for sex/emotions/companionship again. My attitude now pushes new men away because they think it's unfair to them. At least you've discovered this early! | /r/askFDS | 07/04/21 05:28 PM |
| 27 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.Men get to be 'chill' because they just get women to do all the boring work and chores they don't want to do, while they work on their careers or just relax. *aggressive clapping* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:48 PM |
| 19 | Men aren’t more “chill” than women. They manipulate the women in their lives into doing the hard work.It took me a while to disconnect from caring too much after I lived with my (male) housemates during uni times.I just noticed they dodge as many responsibilities as they can or wait longer to trigger my OCD and make me clean to the point that if I won't touch it - it will not get done (for months). They were annoyed when I asked them to pick up after themselves when they were so BUSY with their "projects" or other things they found more important than chores. You can point it out but if you're n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 03:46 PM |
| 87 | Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HVHe didn't forget, he's not dumb. Something tells me he keeps her around as a gf for a reason and he's somewhat into her (she's probably attractive), but doesn't see her as full package to invest in for some reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 07:05 PM |
| 10 | Working in a male dominated team/industry?Been working in a male industry all my life and here’s what I’ve learned: be direct, don’t mince words, speak as clear and LOUD as you can. Don’t be afraid to come off as intimidating. Don’t let guys talk over you- tell them you haven’t finished talking. Don’t tolerate flirting and mild sexism at work. | /r/askFDS | 31/03/21 04:39 AM |
| 5 | Has relocating ever improved your dating pool?At least the weather in FL is great? The new place sounds like Colorado to me lol | /r/askFDS | 30/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 21 | Men talk for weeks..no dateI second this, guys LOVE to talk to multiple women and feel like they have options while pursuing the #1 girl they like. Now, when #1,2,3 falls off they suddenly ask you out and it looks like they were "getting ready" for the past 2-3 months to do that (which is a bs). I believe FDS tells you to set a limit after which you stop responding or delay responses which is a sign that you're moving on so he can ask you out or ghost away because you're DONE playing his game | /r/askFDS | 29/03/21 04:52 PM |
| 6 | I dated a Softboi so you don’t have to!Please tell me you didn’t have sex with him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?I had this happen to me when I was in my early 20es with guys I've dated that didn't like me that much.Which made it even worse because they didn't care about my feelings or me at all | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 8 | He’s 33 and I was 24, working in the same department. He still popped up every so often to see if I’m available or open. He told me men know when someone likes them and will hookup just because, even if they don’t like those women back. I feel bad for his wife.Ok I can do that but I doubt she will listen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 06:46 PM |
| 19 | He’s 33 and I was 24, working in the same department. He still popped up every so often to see if I’m available or open. He told me men know when someone likes them and will hookup just because, even if they don’t like those women back. I feel bad for his wife.I was young, single and liked attention, not trying to deny it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:58 PM |
| 16 | He’s 33 and I was 24, working in the same department. He still popped up every so often to see if I’m available or open. He told me men know when someone likes them and will hookup just because, even if they don’t like those women back. I feel bad for his wife.I found her and her phone number a while back but I don’t know how to let her know cause he no doubt will know who he had this chat with | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:38 PM |
| 20 | He’s 33 and I was 24, working in the same department. He still popped up every so often to see if I’m available or open. He told me men know when someone likes them and will hookup just because, even if they don’t like those women back. I feel bad for his wife.I was thinking about it but I don’t know how cause it was a while ago and no doubt he did it to other women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:33 PM |
| 15 | He’s 33 and I was 24, working in the same department. He still popped up every so often to see if I’m available or open. He told me men know when someone likes them and will hookup just because, even if they don’t like those women back. I feel bad for his wife.Yeah lesson learned I was too young and dumb and honestly just went there to do my job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 05:32 PM |
| 2 | His presence is a gift :))👏🏻regifted back to his mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | The first time a new guy takes 24H+ to text, call, or reach out in any form? Don't bother acting chill, move on.He was joking you and trying to make you overthink his words and make it into a relationship in your own head. Redpillers call it “hampered spinning” when they throw out bunch of emotional crap and leave a woman to make sense out of it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Sexism with men in STEMThey see nerdy as in unattractive, not much to do with smarts | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 09:32 PM |
| 10 | *sigh* Girl, really? You can cook a nice meal for the price of one takeout portion, he just chooses not to.Some women are socialized to be just too nice and need to learn boundaries. This guy at this point allows her to be around for all the stuff she provides to him and shes completely blind and thinks this is going somewhere and tries even harder. It's cool to be a mover and shaker. It's cool to be nice. It's not cool not to know when to stop or people (ESPECIALLY MEN) will use you left and right., | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:28 PM |
| 1 | 25 and new to datingI don’t support ghosting but good for you! If you just want to explore the scene there’s nothing wrong with this attitude, just be honest and all good | /r/askFDS | 17/03/21 09:07 PM |
| 26 | Older guy doesn’t pay for our datesHe's using you as a sexy young thing, most likely for sex and company. It's not serious for him to even invest some cash into it, he knows you'll put out for free cause he's cute and you're young and dumb enough not to speak up or he will dump you for another young naive girl that wants an attractive guys company. I urge you to assert your boundaries and speak up for yourself and watch how fast he'll ghost you. | /r/askFDS | 16/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 48 | Watch out for love bombers !Yeah, their "advice" will be "it's your own fault" at best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:26 PM |
| 6 | Can you still have a successful relationship with a HVM if you don’t give blow jobs?If HV partner values you they will respect your boundaries. The same applies to piV, anal, etc. | /r/askFDS | 15/03/21 04:43 PM |
| 26 | "Men want to be judged on their intentions, not on their actions"It's even funnier when you call them out on treating you like crap and they turn all "EW HOW DARE YOU" on you with eye roll and heavy sign thinking they guilt - tripped you but then.... do exact thing all over again thinking you'll remember their last excuse and use it as justification for his current behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 03:37 PM |
| 4 | Dating advice for 20 year oldquick take aways: focus on education and career not LTRs don't give into peer pressure or sacrifice your comfort or health don't date older 3+ y guys never rely on someone's money and have yours have emergency 3-5months saved in your bank all guy friends want to get in your pants dont get attached to guys you date and make them work for your attention don't sleep with them too soon if you're not ready for them to ghost casual sex is not worth it, but if you're willing to do it DON'T be outcome d… | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 04:00 PM |
| 2 | Dating advice for 20 year oldWelcome! Here are some responses: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/em8myq/any_advice_for_a_20_year_old/ | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 7 | Hurt by a new guy after my long-term relationshipBlock and move on, he's not willing to compromise because he's not that interested but KINDA still wants the attention occasionally. You're not losing anything. | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about dating a guy that is super committed but has many flaws?You can do better. | /r/askFDS | 10/03/21 03:40 PM |
| 14 | Blocking and deleting finally has really worked wondersLiterally felt the same thing , moving on have never been easier now when I know it doesn’t matter if he will text or not👏🏻 | /r/askFDS | 09/03/21 05:16 AM |
| 5 | Women in college beware!Nope, one of the Reddit’s for US uni’s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 09:12 PM |
| 25 | Women in college beware!No it’s one of the US colleges frat special | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Seriously?Oh seems like he wanted to keep you for emotional needs and stuff regardless of how you felt... 100% narc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Seriously?FYI guys last response was: Okay, I see what you guys are saying, and I see the error of my ways. I guess I was just dreaming out loud and living in some warped fantasy world for a second. I have tried to break up with her in the past, but she's always reeled me back in. She is part narcissist and can use those traits like a tractor beam on me. I've got to toughen up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 03:46 PM |
| 7 | Seriously?That’s just cruel. Why? To check in? For attention? So selfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 04:41 AM |
| 3 | I have decided to abandon my “situationship”Yep, you’re prob one of few chicks he texts, it’s a non existent relationship for him to satisfy his needs. Block, get busy, it’ll get better. | /r/askFDS | 04/03/21 12:11 AM |
| 12 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!that dirty bean water messes with dudes apparently, they all want it and they want it with YOU | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:32 PM |
| 46 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!"how toxic and horrible you are bcause i only like u when I'm horny" wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:18 PM |
| 42 | Addicted to LVMHonestly, it feels like you need to stay single, you won't get over your ex by dating a guy you're literally not into (no matter how good he is you basically said it yourself - he's not your type). Your ex did the same to you- he wasn't that into you, picked on you then dumped you, and now you're treating someone the same way you were treated. Get over your trauma in therapy, leave the nice guy alone. | /r/askFDS | 03/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 142 | Vet vet vet to prevent this!yeah, he had no feelings, slept with her, told her he'll check his schedule, then ghosted, then asked her for coffee :) an array of mixed signals and then told her he's not feeling anything...3 dates...3-4 weeks...it's a 32 y.o. male adult :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:35 PM |
| 11 | They want you to prove you’re worthy to them. If you have to prove to be worthy of commitment- he’s not worth yours.👏🏻 👏🏻 👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 05:40 PM |
| 2 | Say no to hookup.I’m both laughing and learning when I read this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Say no to hookup.Exact same thing happened to me last year. It’s bittersweet indeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Say no to hookup.What man will do the right thing? A good man. With empathy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:32 AM |
| 21 | Say no to hookup.He might not tell her the truth, no one will if he wants to keep getting laid. This advice is as good as telling women that are being used to CommUniCcattee bettAr and blaming them for their lack of communications skills when they are, most likely, lack experience and are being manipulated heavily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:40 PM |
| 8 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!NO, its' NOT you. LVM takes advantage of low self-esteem and you should never internalize someone's disinterest in seeing you as a human being.I have same issues and I would suggest stepping away from dating until you fix this, otherwise you will be used a lot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 05:25 PM |
| 22 | Say no to hookup.this is an eye-opener and makes so much sence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 03:51 PM |
| 15 | 84k subs and how does this even exist?Pm me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 04:59 AM |
| 44 | 84k subs and how does this even exist?that subreddit about porn stars was banned recently | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Do you think this guy is leading me on and really just wants a FWB?don't tell them what you're looking for or they will use it against you. | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 05:36 PM |
| 4 | A guy wanting to have a date AFTER the lockdown...but also not text me often, could be a married man? a fuck boy? or am I being too paranoid.Sounds like you want reasons to give him a benefit of the doubt even if you already know the answer yourself. Yes, all of these things are red flags combined into a huge red banner that screams”waste of time”. My life after FDS changed to “what does this dude do for me to make my life better?”. Does he comfort you, gives you daily attention, supports you, shows interest in your life and hobbies? Does he show you he has serious inventions in dating you? It doesn’t seem like it, he’s sort of attra… | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 01:44 PM |
| 5 | Im ruining things with a great HVM - what the f is wrong with me?You’re not that into him just let him go, HWV or not you deserve to be with someone you head over heels with. | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 01:51 AM |
| 7 | Can a guy who treats his romantic interests like a queen but treats women he's not interested in like they're nothing be HVM?Don't spare him a minute of your life, think of him as if he's a cockroach in your drink. He's a misogynist and a liar, no woman will ever get respect from him. He used you and will keep using other girls for his own needs and then gaslight them into telling them what the situation is not...because he doesn't care and he got what he wanted. Just like you throw out the Mcdonald's burger wrap he will keep throwing women away. I don't know who hurt him or WHO taught him this but it's frankly nothin… | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 07:10 PM |
| 8 | Can a guy who treats his romantic interests like a queen but treats women he's not interested in like they're nothing be HVM?start hating that person and talk shit about them He has huge ego and no respect for other people (especially women) so it's natural reaction to put down someone you don't have any respect for. Loyalty is silent, it's not about degrading others (especially women!! where is his class and manners?????). He got with another girl because that's what it took to get in her pants, soon he'll get bored and call her a bitch and treat her like shit until she cheats. Because to him women are sex delivery t… | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 06:54 PM |
| 11 | Can a guy who treats his romantic interests like a queen but treats women he's not interested in like they're nothing be HVM?he would shit on the other women he’d gone on dates with For ego boost and looking for you to qualify yourself to him, that's immature. He's a grade A ahole if he tells you in your face that he hates women. And he knows you like him if after that you still around so he can do this to you too. How old is he? Don't EVER trust a guy who shittalks other women, you are not special to him, no woman is. | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 06:43 PM |
| 37 | Can a guy who treats his romantic interests like a queen but treats women he's not interested in like they're nothing be HVM?He would always kind of brush me off even though we were friends, but I didn't think too much of it. He also had no other female friends besides me and constantly talked shit about other women. No, this is a sign how he doesn't see women as people unless he wants to fuck them. He treats you like a queen because you're next in line to get his dick inside you. Any HVM being would still show basic respect to women even if he didn't find her personally attractive. wasn't going to get sex out of me, … | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 06:27 PM |
| 4 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".they know...they don't care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Exhausted and burned out from datingGuys on OLD have zero intentions of actually being friends. Look at their actions. It just puts you on the back burner while they go out with other women. It's a numbers game, they adapt to each woman differently but they ALL have intentions of gaming lots of women for sex, attention or company. A relationship is usually on the bottom of that list. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 11:08 PM |
| 4 | Exhausted and burned out from datingI deleted all my apps for this reason. Give yourself a break. I've been on there all summer and barely found 1-2 people to hang out (because i didn't feel any chemistry with ANYONE I've met on OLD and if I did it wasn't reciprocated) with but later they flaked or ghosted. Example: went on date with this guy and wasn't feeling it, he said he's OK to be friends but never reached out first. After i asked him out for the third time to go kayaking with my roommates he finally admitted that he wants t… | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 07:18 PM |
| 3 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".No probs, the issue is they don't see you as a full person that can make her own decisions. They think they can scheme their way into your pants, make you comfortable and push you towards decisions they want you to take. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:44 PM |
| 7 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".They will start small, that's the point of the strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".They practice to make it look like good manners. Example: brushing his band on your back while moving a chair for you, helping you put your coat on, jokingly flicking you, etc. it looks innocent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 5 | Women, be aware of what LVM calls "Kino".I've had nicely groomed and shaved men doing this to me. They will make sure they look good to maximize the chances of getting laid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:26 PM |
| 6 | “Overreacting”It’s a polite thing to say “The entrance is on X side of the building, please park at X side it’s closer”. Common courtesy. He couldn’t even do that...you had to figure out where to pull aside (dangerous) and THEN call him and ask where to park in snow conditions? He’s not thoughtful or caring of your comfort or safely. I treat my uber eats drivers better than he treated you... | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 04:07 AM |
| 30 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectthe sad part is that he will say this to the next girl he'll talk to .... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:47 PM |
| 5 | Vincent Cassel and his girlfriend. 31 years of age difference. This is disgusting.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 02:52 AM |
| 12 | One time a man I was dating sent me this “joke” so I blocked him. Did I save my own life? Potentially.Stay away from any man that laughs at this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 08:45 PM |
| 42 | Why do LVM believe they deserve only the hottest perfect woman to be their girlfriend?No they’re looking for woman that fits their current needs and is their type. For example, if they want to date young hot “bimbo” blond with daddy issues because they’re 25 they will look for exactly that but don’t deny to sleep with girl next door type (but she won’t get commitment and if she will he’ll treat her like dirt). Or at 35 their type is a thick homely looking next door type woman to settle down with they will look to date one but won’t deny sex from any other girl either... c'est la … | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 05:26 PM |
| 3 | Ho to get over direct/indirect rejection?Great, I’ll take my time and do just that, thanks | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 02:56 AM |
| 4 | Ho to get over direct/indirect rejection?I won’t anymore, thanks | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 02:56 AM |
| 5 | Ho to get over direct/indirect rejection?Yes I’ve had bad luck with guys asking me out for a few years now, so I resorted to asking first. Now I know it’s a waste of time. Really appreciate the comment, will learn from it, and will focus on boundaries and vetting, and not being afraid to leave (I didn’t want to before because I felt it’s rude but then guys have 0 problem doing it to me so it’s only fair) | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 02:27 AM |
| 6 | Ho to get over direct/indirect rejection?I needed to hear this, thanks. Not asking men out again, but part of me feels it’s unfair because sometimes I really like the guy and want to have my choice. But then I learned they can like you a little bit, like Sharon Lester puts it. I will work on my boundaries and will stop putting myself in these situations. And I will stop trying hard, and just enjoy being by myself. | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Why do men ask you out and then ghost you?He just wanted sex and never cared about you, he moved on to next 5 girls in his bar to pick up and get laid with his sob stories. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:42 AM |
| 66 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).She loved him more than he loved her. That’s where any straight relationship fails. The way she cried and apologizing that she had to leave and lists how good he is breaks my heart cause you know he checked all boxes for her and he wanted to be with her for other reasons. She was 100% into him and he was barely ... 50%. If she ignored the signs he WOULD leave her later in life either way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 06:30 PM |
| 17 | If You Hate Online Dating, Delete Your Dating AppsI’ve spent this summer doing online dating to move on from a NVM, most guys I’ve met were emotionally unavailable time wasters or LVM that wanted a cheap girlfriend that would be ok with walk dates and rare sandwich at a chain restaurant. Even if they wanted serious relationship with “the right woman”, all of them were open to any sex and were happy to get a woman drunk and flirty. I’ve deleted my apps and don’t regret the decision. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 03:55 AM |
| 4 | Women please take note!Username😂👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:12 PM |
| 1 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:03 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?If he's speaking to you he probably wants to fuck you. THIS.!!! I had a shaved head and acted like tomboy in my early 20es and LITERALLY HAD MEN WALKIN AWAY to avoid talking to me cause I wasn't attractive enough to talk to and had a guy I sat next to at the bar turn around and say "NO, thanks" and turn away from me once when all I wanted is a small talk. but when I grew my hair out and wore my makeup I had men COMING UP TO ME FROM ACROSS THE ROOM to talk about meaningless BS (prob just to see i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?Their "type" will be whatever you are not " Their "type" will be whatever you are not " *clap clap* they use it against you to hurt you later after he's done with you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 07:50 PM |
| 25 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?Yes! If men around him are traditional he will screw and party but pick a woman that will fit the “facade” that he wants to display to fit into the hierarchy of men around him (aka religious, homely, virgin, not promiscuous, has an X degree , etc). So if he didn’t “ pick you” or refused to bring you into the light as his GF - it means he’s looking for a chick with a different profile that will get him more brownie points from the men in his circle (and if that not the woman that HE likes he’ll f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 08:58 PM |
| 8 | Ladies, don't be a FWBHey, been there. Hooked up with a guy a couple of times and then realized by the frequency of him contacting me and how he's talking about fucking other women that I was a convenience at best. Tried to stay friends but he flaked on me constantly. Glad I left him alone but it stings that I was a fool and gave him too many chances because I liked him and didn't even get a friend out of that. You're not the only one so you have my support | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 13 | Ladies, don't be a FWBMost of us went in doing it with a clear head while pre-fds, so in that case it's not your fault fully, sounds like abuse and deception | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 06:06 PM |
| 10 | Idea for when you're struggling to break upI’m bad with confrontation as well but I had many people fade on me and it is absolutely nerve wrecking extended denial that hurts like hell. If anything it makes me angrier. I’m glad you don’t want to confront anything and don’t want to put yourself in a potentially dangerous position but isn’t there a way to do this differently? I don’t feel bad for abusive LVM but ... if someone will do this to you you’ll complain about how LVM they are, but vice versa? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 04:41 AM |
| 10 | StoryTime 📖: “Tom” promised to cook me a salmon dinner (I wanted to avoid restaurants). He says he’s pumped...then bails. His explanation was that I was “too intimidating” 😅 Now he’s back + wants me to cheat on my new man (who, so far, treats me like a Queen)! Ugh. Anyone got scrote repellant? 😷🧼🐜Girl , draw the line with this one. Be short, emotionless and hard on him. He’s tryna tell you what to do and feel : “I’m in relationship” - no you’re not! “I’m seeing someone” - I’ll still text you!!! “Let’s be friends” - with benefits. Now. He wants free access in your puss, he don’t care about who you with , and he wants in on his schedule. He doesn’t take you or your words seriously. You can tell him you get married on THU and he’ll be like “IDAF, can I come over tonight for a quickie”? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:35 PM |
| 13 | I can't have ANY male friendsI tried to be friends with men for all my life, it ends up as(or always is) one sided friendship no matter what bs they tell you that suits their agenda at the time. I’ve befriended male coworkers, married neighbors, teachers, younger students and it’s all the same shit- you end up spending time trying to get to know them while they either try to get into your pans and jump the ship or find a gf and then ghost you because she will see you as a threat while you think you and the guy are bros. You… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 05:52 AM |
| 32 | Why men investing mattersOr he’ll get 10 hookers for 20$. Men love quantity more than quality | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 08:13 AM |
| 2 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsBecause they don’t care about friendship with women, it means nothing to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 10:18 PM |
| 39 | How FDS changed my perception of my male friendshipsI had a couple of male friends I got after when dating them just didn’t work out and we were cool friends until they got gfs and drop me. But when I tried to create a friendship with some guys I found worthy it ended up with me trying to hold the friendship while they were mostly trying to flirt and get in my pants or for attention, Ans get really nasty if I denied them and block me. Lose lose situation for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 24 | Put yourself in his shoesTHIS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 10:16 PM |
| 13 | NEVER ask a guy out!THIS!! every girl needs to read this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:12 PM |
| 39 | NEVER ask a guy out!Girls, READ NOT YOUR MOTHERS RULES Yes, this is my exact experience with dating engineers or nerdy IT guys. They are not shy to reach out when they need some and will gladly accept sex/date Realized this when they went cold after sex for 2 weeks and said "oh, did you expect smtn?"....after acting like he's so into me/ talking every day for 3 weeks, confessing feeling while drunk, going out with me every time I asked if he wants to go out. We settled on FWB but he barely texted me Cause he’s not … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Any advice going into my 20’s?THIS!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:01 PM |
| 3 | Any advice going into my 20’s?DO NOT DO UNPAID LABOR NO UNPAID LABOR DON"T PICK UP AFTER ANYONE, EVEN YOUR YOUNGER SIBLINGS because it will translate into your relationships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 4 | Any advice going into my 20’s?if he's not caring about your orgasms at all - don't even see him anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:14 PM |
| 5 | Any advice going into my 20’s?!!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 16 | Pornhub removes all unverified content, following reports of exploitationThey don’t care what they beat their meat to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Any advice going into my 20’s?Don’t invest too much into building / maintaining a relationship , focus on growing professionally and financially. Don’t rely on parents or partners(even if both are well off), have your own money at all times. Too many women I know got trapped into relationships and deprived of any ability to grow or build equity because they dissolved themselves in a relationship/kids, so when it falls apart they have nothing and nowhere to go and zero education. even their own kids grow up and don't care abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 12:39 AM |
| 6 | Can I preach right now?Preach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 04:30 PM |
| 15 | Can I preach right now?You can't communicate with a wall, it won't care. The only difference is - the guy actually knows he's neglecting your emotions. Save your time and invest in yourself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 05:01 AM |
| 82 | Can I preach right now?“Boys will be boys” They just don’t know how the dishwasher works | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:10 AM |
| 41 | Can I preach right now?Don’t do it!! Cut the fucker off or he’ll use the goods and discard you until you’re needed to suck him off again. Been there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:06 AM |
| 4 | Excuse me whatI never slept with men I barely know, it was friends, ex-coworkers, dudes I knew for years and been around. Still the same insensitive trash cause they weren’t looking for a relationship but never explicitly told me about it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:04 AM |
| 66 | Can I preach right now?Had a guy promise me stuff then shrug when I get mad that he literally always flaked or did none of what he promised. He just shrugged and call me sensitive. Now I realize he just told me what I wanted to hear but never actually cared so... there was no follow up 🤷🏻♀️ duuuh. And I was trying to COMMUNICATE. He 100% knew, they all act like that if they don't care about you, thats the best way to spot a fuckboy that pretends to care yet once you tell him about your period being too painful he run… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Unexpected situation after 2nd dateI mean she can try, I just thought realistically her complains won’t do anything probably | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 06:12 PM |
| 6 | Unexpected situation after 2nd dateNo, it's one of those abuse of power things that you can't prove, it's his word against yours and he's the law . Probably worked in same small town police dept for years and is a part of union, they will brush it off as him having a bad day or smtn. Next time just stand up for yourself and if he wont like that hyou'llave evidence of him overstepping his boundaries, and call and file immediately after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:02 PM |
| 12 | Unbelievable! I go on a few dates with someone, I think we’re pretty good together, and then this garbage. I’m not gonna go to your shaggy apartment just so you can try to seduce me. Glad I caught this early on. Blocked!Hey I literally had dudes telling me they have no friends in the area and need someone to talk to just so I’ll show up and they attempt to get me drunk and get laid. I honestly can’t be surprised anymore even with this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 7 | Unexpected situation after 2nd dateCop acted weird, this dude is not your responsibility to take anywhere, hes not your friend, he’s a date, you don’t know him and he could turn out a serial killer. I would stand up and told the cop to mind his business, or ask for his name and rank and call local police after to report him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend is getting laid off and is moving 5 hours away back in with his parents because he's too lazy to find a new job and "rent is expensive anyway"I got laid off too, and spent 3 weeks looking for jobs applying and walking on eggshells because I don’t see myself coming back and begging for a room at my parents house. It’s like playing a game of adulting on easy. He’s immature and not serious about relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:48 PM |
| 10 | Excuse me whatLearned 👏🏻this👏🏻the hard👏🏻way Most guys just tell you what they think you want to hear to get laid or come back later to keep getting laid with you hoping it will work again while you think they came back cause they care 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:33 PM |
| 39 | The invisible labour of women and why you should pay attention to how he lives👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻supervision grown adult👏🏻👏🏻 exactly what I had to do with my ex bf Fighting for hours to make him put his laundry in the hamper and not on the floor. Next day his underwear/socks on the floor again, he was too tired, he forgot, rinse and repeat. I Got tired of yelling, ignored his mess, we had so much shit laying on the floor I couldn’t live with him anymore. He was surprised why I broke up with him and moved out instead of “help him get better” aka being his maid or teach a grown adult. N… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youMajored in engineering, all guys are shy version of fuckbois | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:58 PM |
| 3 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youthat username got me :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:52 PM |
| 56 | The guy “friend” who secretly likes youTried for 26 years to have male friends and stopped last year. So much less stress. They don’t value woman’s friendship. A few guys just straight up stopped talking to me when they got girlfriends, so i lost a decade of good friendship. Wasn’t even invited to the wedding. Others married OR single guy friends tried to screw me when I was most vulnerable/ drunk/high, then brush it off as “accident” if I have questions since they didn’t want an actual relationship with me, just a convenient (hopefu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:54 AM |
| 50 | Guys need to stop being comfortable about things that don’t affect them....Because women are told that these “complaints “ ruin innocent families and cause small kids to suffer. She makes it worse for herself cause society will see her as difficult. It’s all her fault for standing up for herself and she should be punished for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 02:59 AM |
| 2 | Minority Men Using Shared Race/ Culture/ Religion to Act Like They Own YouHow do you opposite it other than denying it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:37 PM |
| 32 | I see you suggesting a park date? Blocked. Oh I'm not like other girls? Damn right, blocked.I was trying to get over someone, so I accepted a park date once. We wandered around until my feet hurt, he bought me coffee, I bought some sandwitch we shared. He didn't make me feel special at all. He told me storied about girls making him a backup plan calling him to come to their bar and we went every time just to be "abused" by some drunk horny "chick" that got stood up by her date. But then complained he never got any sex from them. I said my feet hurt too much and I have to leave, but I'm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 07:14 PM |
| 31 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlHe can’t conceal the basic legal information about him and his marriage, but if you’re willing to go to Facebook or dog around the internet I'm sure you’ll find something. You think he’s smart but I can guarantee he’s not that smart :)) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 04:02 AM |
| 18 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlOk then search by her name, it will give you a lot of results but you can go through them and filter out by location, and he will show up as affiliations, that’s usually how you know You don’t have to pay for basic info | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:48 AM |
| 73 | Ugh. How do you avoid people like this who keep you as an option? Audacity is all he has. His poor girlGo to white pages!!! You can trace her down 🤯🤯🤯 you can search by his name and she will come up as an affiliate! IT USUALLY SHOWS TEL NUMBERS (at least first 6 digits, then you can trace it by carrier by googling it since its tied to the SAME address they both reside in) (in US) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 03:02 AM |
| 30 | why we don't do hookups.. straight from the horse's mouthTHIS!! The guy I used to hookup with did this shit to me. Sex was intense and sensual. And help my hand, gave me ambiguous hints, then barely text me. When he did it felt like Groundhog Day, same topics same questions. I wasn’t looking for a relationship but started chasing him to get answers as to why he treats me like this. He answered ambiguously then started randomly texting me “when he’s lonely or misses me”. I’ve immediately moved on after I realized he’s stringin me along and started seei… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 06:49 PM |
| 62 | This is why we dont have sex with men who didnt commitI'm willing to bet money that he will either ghost her or keep stringing her along whilst looking for smtn better, then he'll say it was her fault for not putting pieces together, cause he didn't want to hurt her but didn't promise anything either. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 11:40 PM |
| 5 | they don't even hide it (a collection)THIS. ALL THE FUCKBOYS DID THIS TO ME ⬆️⬆️⬆️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 10:12 PM |
| 3 | they don't even hide it (a collection)Actually, I found this on r/sex and r/relationships under the post of a guy that was asking how to explain to his date that hi wants NSA sex only | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:04 PM |
| 19 | they don't even hide it (a collection)To get her hooked/ confused and keep exploiting her for sex while not saying anything explicitly, making her try make sense out of his behavior while it literally just sex for him= more investment from the girl than him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 05:25 AM |
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