| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 527 | If you don’t feel it ladies, don’t settle. Trust your gut. | MOOD FOR LIFE | NetflixBingeQueen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 05:12 PM |
| 77 | Three Options To consider if you’re re-evaluating your relationship | MINDSET SHIFT | NetflixBingeQueen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:21 PM |
| 1 | LVM coming through with a dash of manipulation with the pathetic message. | #JustLVMThings | NetflixBingeQueen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 03:03 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 70 | THANK GOD: Sarah Everard's murderer given a full life sentence and will die in jail. This filth will never be loose on the streets again.Not only that but his nickname was supposedly “The Rapist” amongst fellow cops. The rot is deep within the whole Police force. I feel his sentence is just symbolic rather than implementing real changes that would deter this happening again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 11:27 AM |
| 117 | 💩“Great dad” means ‘he acknowledges he has children’ in these situations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 05:19 PM |
| 5 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyAbsolutely no problem with it. I just find a lot of men use it’s teachings to excuse their “path to self discovery”. Which in their world is just to avoid accountability | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 07:02 PM |
| 13 | Please share stories of some weirdly specific rules you set after *that* one guyDoesn’t spit on the vag.. ever Showers daily (twice if an intense day) Keeps pubic hair trim (duvet bits stuck in expecting a blowie?) Doesn’t play video games or like animae Doesn’t like any “nerdy” shows/films (Star Wars etc) Not a hippie who is ‘fighting the system’ by being ‘wilfully unemployed’ No artistic men No mental health issues Not having gone on a spiritual journey to be a monk or follow Buddhism or related activities Circumcised or knows how to wash his extra skin thoroughly ( 🤮) I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/21 11:32 PM |
| 2 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.They’re so delusional and far removed from reality. Men are losing the ability to stay hard at 25, yet think they’ll be Virile at 40. LOL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 04:25 PM |
| 85 | POV: You don’t see women as people. Even therapy can’t help you.“She can dedicate herself to kids and her attractiveness” Glad to see that’s what women’s biggest concern and aim in life is /s “Husband will fuck her up to 3 times a day” at 40? Fat and balding with lifetime poor health habits fully showing? “Guarantee a healthy environment for kids for the next 20 years” he forgot to add ‘then another 20 of being my nurse bangmaid’ This is obviously a troll post. Old men know the young girls don’t want them and wouldn’t want them if they weren’t brainwashed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/06/21 09:35 AM |
| 1 | How to Spot a PAPorn addict | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | I bully men into having good gym etiquetteNarrator: Lilith did indeed Win Fitting username 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/21 06:45 PM |
| 185 | The sad truth.They do try to change it - by posting meaningless statements like “Let’s do better men” or “we need to protect our women” and Pat themselves on their back for telling men off and move on. /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 09:42 AM |
| 87 | I really enjoy watching antifeminists have a meltdown every time we discuss penis size. Just take your L and leave us alone! 😂 Ladies, please enjoy this curated collection of male tears, from the left-wing manosphere 🎁At least he outed himself as having no desirable qualities, out of the gene pool he goes. Sounds like a positive to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 11:20 AM |
| 22 | Reddit men love getting their egos strokedI had one loser with the struggling to stay hard. I always wondered what the problem was. He always claimed it’s because he’s concentrating on me. Just a fleshy soft feeling hard on. Couldn’t even do PIV without strangling his penis to get hard again. He was only 26 with a dead penis. Sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 10:10 AM |
| 8 | I finally broke up with my abuser — thank you allI upvoted the post without even reading it. I’m always happy to see Queens levelling up! Keep the no contact. You made the right choice. When you miss him just come here and search “older men” and renew your conviction! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 08:01 AM |
| 6 | Let’s talk about sexI do not know what the appeal is for them. Anything goes now no matter how depraved. I fear for the next generation if we’re already at this stage in 2021 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 09:26 PM |
| 7 | I realized most of my dating behaviours stem from some form of self-harmI’d advise you to look into attachment theory, if within financial reach - do it with a licensed therapist. Most of our adult relationships and how we respond to people is strongly tied to our relationships with our early caregivers. So for example, if your caregivers weren’t as present, you’ll replicate this dynamic with picking men/people who are just out of reach. Your inner childhood will continue picking at the scab until you treat the injury. Edit: a good book recommendation “The Body Keep… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 08:02 AM |
| 35 | Let’s talk about sexI always want it to stay the same. I even avoid mentioning if I like the pace because that seems to fuel them into ruining the whole rhythm argh. Consistently bad it is! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:42 AM |
| 146 | Let’s talk about sextrying to lick your butthole or stick a finger in? Why? trying to split your legs as wide as possible not taking instructions because they’re too porn fuelled to listen and pay attention to your body’s response twisting nipples? Is this a new porn trick? Trying to hit your cervix forcefully and taking the pain response to go harder :/ Randomly slapping your butt super hard Just listing these is making me realise I’m better off not having PIV sex again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/21 05:39 AM |
| 16 | PSA: Healthy Friendships With Men Are Rare & Almost Impossible 🗣They’re only ever waiting for your weakest days to offer their penis. That or they tell their guy friends they have had sexual relations with you before. It’s never a genuine friendship. Unfortunately men are socialised to treat women only as sources of fulfilling their needs; emotional needs, one sided friendship needs, sexual needs, self esteem needs, just something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 05:40 PM |
| 5 | Lost and found at the same timeJust to add, the sex with the current LV scum isn’t even good, it’s just all you have to hold on to so you’re convincing yourself. Cut him off cold turkey sis.. Forgive yourself and spend time learning to love and live with yourself ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 09:16 AM |
| 94 | Decline alcohol on a first date!I recently decided to quit alcohol around men. A new response I’ve got multiple times now is “wow, that’s great, so you’re a cheap date isn’t it? Haha”. They probably think they’re so funny but I just promptly block, of course, but another vetting tool to remove broke LVMs from the running. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:44 PM |
| 2 | How can I avoid getting too emotionally attached early on and letting myself get led on?What book is this? Please Tell me more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 07:51 PM |
| 12 | How can I avoid getting too emotionally attached early on and letting myself get led on?We’ve all been there sadly. Whenever I feel myself being taken in by texts, I go to the handbook as a reminder. Nothing attacks me more than “If He wanted to, he would” lol. Gets my excuses right out of my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 04:59 PM |
| 40 | How can I avoid getting too emotionally attached early on and letting myself get led on?Firstly, avoid large age gaps. They’ve mastered the art of manipulating young women. It’s all deliberate. Next, don’t be too eager to reply. Always play it nonchalant. If you’re getting taken in easily by all the texts, there’s a false sense of connection developing. Just take a step back and don’t treat their communication as a priority. Dont play into the games of “if they take 1hr to reply, I’ll take 2hrs”. Not worth it. In person, let them speak more and just observe. The less you give of yo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 02:49 PM |
| 20 | I think they’re onto somethingWhy are there so many examples in nature of men being...dead weight outside of their sperm? Nature sending us a message? Even in animal husbandry too many males is usually a problem. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:04 AM |
| 216 | This is the double bind society presents women with when we try to speak the truth about male pattern behaviour. If we call it out, it’s misandrist. But if we don’t call it out and end up getting harmed anyway, it’s our fault for not seeing the signs. Head men win, tails women lose. Again.But it’s true...Any man might be a rapist. It’s not like the ones who are go around wearing “I’m a Rapist” badges for identification. Unless the men themselves are able to identify which of their kind is an abuser, how are women expected to differentiate? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 11:45 AM |
| 14 | Chubby ChaserPlease ditch him. Now. Today. Tomorrow. Whichever. Just ASAP get yourself out of there. Don’t ignore it, the thought is now going to be brewing in your head. Don’t put yourself through that. You’re worth more than your weight or any single physical feature on you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:26 PM |
| 85 | Vice, a publication which supports sex work and advocates for it, also had this article up: Sex Worker Marylène Levesque Killed After Paroled Murderer Allowed to Satisfy 'Sexual Needs'. So tell us again how sexwork benefit women. Clearly getting murdered and/or raped empowers women.🤦♀️🙄Any women who support sex work are admitting that some women are lesser than them and should be sacrificed to provide this “service”. Absolutely no woman, no matter how much they decide themselves and are brainwashed would fully say they have enjoyed countless men to use their body whichever way they want for some change. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:05 PM |
| 5 | There's been an uptick of women defending SAHM on FDS. This is why we don't do that.I would never encourage being a SAHM. All the odds are against you. Even if it starts out well, you never know how life can turn. What if you suffer a bereavement? Partner loses employment? It’s a dangerous game to place your whole survival on a partner. Society is also very punishing of people who have been out of employment. Do you want to be 40 and starting out at a very low income job and unable to maintain the standard of yours and/or your children’s lives if it was necessary? Even if your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 08:00 PM |
| 64 | I Don’t Know Wether To Laugh Or Cry. Article Says “Why Dating Is Better For Everyone When Women Make the First Move”. So Much Nope!You’re the Prize. Simple as that. You present yourself for HVM to approach you. HVM will know to and won’t want you to be the one initiating. Men are too easy and too plenty to be given that treatment. They will also have it in the back of their mind that you approached them first. Lastly, if he approaches you, you won’t have to be insisting on him planning the date either. I would like to hear from other HVW here who have approached a HVM successfully though! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 05:42 AM |
| 9 | Twirling for the patriarchy. More in commentsI was waiting for her to mention burping him after his food. What a load of crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:25 PM |
| 13 | If you’re going to do OLD, I recommend OkCupidWhat does sbtx mean please? I keep seeing it and can’t decide what it might be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 104 | Scrote Tropes decoded Part IIOkay why are men worldwide using the same tropes? That’s the most shocking bit of all this. I’m an immigrant where I live and both my home country and here have the same type of LVMs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 10:52 PM |
| 17 | Preparing to leave your abuser-Another addition: keep your ID documents, bank cards, passports, health cards etc out of the house as soon as you can. If you need to leave with nothing, they are the bare minimum. -If you need to google any plans e.g. women shelters, do it at a local library. Clearing your computer browser isn’t always good enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:35 AM |
| 76 | Tries to make me make plans, then says it’s too dangerous to do indoor dining because Covid, but hey he can come to my house!!!Hey do not take LVM interactions too personally. Block and delete. He’s also mentioned coffee/walks which are low effort dates so there isn’t a lot of greatness to be expected. Infact, just that he’s making you feel down is a blockable offence! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/21 01:13 AM |
| 27 | I found out my boyfriend paid for pornhub premiumAll the love to you. Well done for sticking to your boundaries. Cry it out, invest in yourself and your comfort activities and know you’ll look back and be proud for choosing yourself. Aside from our objection to porn, lies only ever pile up unfortunately. You don’t want to become a snooper. ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 07:08 PM |
| 4 | I have my flair and I couldn't be happier!I was excited at getting mine recently too. I literally only created an account to be a member here 🥳 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 02:18 PM |
| 23 | If most men can't help being attracted to teen girls "because of their biology", then most men should not get to be fathers.I was thinking to myself recently how I enjoy not being catcalled as much anymore. Then it hit me I got harassed so much more when I was 13-18 compared to now in my 20s. Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 11:42 PM |
| 13 | Does Mainstream Porn Fuel and Normalize Sexual Violence in Teen Relationships?Yes. Next question. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 12:03 AM |
| 38 | Trust your InstinctsWishing you support! Hope you do go through with it. Perhaps read the handbook thoroughly. The only ultimatum you can make here about an obsession is your own absence or presence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 05:08 PM |
| 166 | Stop fake laughing at men’s unfunny jokes. They really aren’t that funny...Girl... this is me too. I can be very quick witted and wow do men hate it! They spend so much time copying my material in later conversations , including on their Social media posts, and pretend it’s their minds. They usually resort to cruelty or to level personal insults to desperately try and be funny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 3 | Ladies, in your experience, what are some examples of sneaky condescending behaviors/words that a LVM will usually throw at you as an attempt to lower your self worth?I love these. Lol gave me a good laugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 04:00 PM |
| 21 | Ladies, in your experience, what are some examples of sneaky condescending behaviors/words that a LVM will usually throw at you as an attempt to lower your self worth?Oh oh oh I have one “I love everything about your body, including your stretch marks”. Now you start to think about them internally and worry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:32 PM |
| 32 | Ladies, in your experience, what are some examples of sneaky condescending behaviors/words that a LVM will usually throw at you as an attempt to lower your self worth?you’re very bossy, does that not put men off sometimes? I don’t usually go for women who are insert attribute It’s very rare to find a beauty with brains It’s good to meet a woman I can have an intelligent conversation with trying to one up you in your profession/anything you’re knowledgeable about -Anything that ends with “I’m just joking” , “don’t be so sensitive” I could go on. Insecure losers wanting to bring you down with them. I usually play dumb and ask what they mean and you see them waf… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:27 PM |
| 128 | First comes the baby carriage...then marriage?Unfortunately a lot of women are brainwashed into thinking other women were just dumb and they will be treated differently. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:13 PM |
| 13 | Discussing feminism/women's issues with menI find telling men you’re a feminist is a bad idea. Best to just bring out conversations relating to feminism and observe their reactions and opinions. That will tell you whether to carry on or move on to the next. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 11:09 PM |
| 67 | I am FUMING. This dude will not take "no" for an answer, & he sent me this today. I NEVER agreed to hang out with him (I double checked everything) let alone on valentine's day. This is the most blatant example of gaslighting I've ever encountered, no nuance, 0/5 stars.I rushed to the comments to say this! Any man mentioning depression/mental illness should be an automatic block. They’d get help if they were HV | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 07:24 PM |
| 65 | You know fds is working when other platforms are noticing (and hating ofc) us.We are extreme because we need to be. The good part about the hate is free publicity for more members. Sounds like a win to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:56 AM |
| 82 | When he says he loves smart/strong women...I think they want to peg your accomplishments to theirs. Anything too close or going higher is an immediate threat they will spend hours trying to challenge and mansplain. I’m a STEM professional and when I vent about work, LVM always think their baseless opinions will solve my work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 05:32 PM |
| 33 | Baffling LVM experience I just needed to shareMy LV ex used to compare plying video games to being the same as spending time streaming series/films. It was so annoying. Nowadays Immediately I hear “I enjoy video games” my mind checks out automatically. Super lame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 10:58 AM |
| 375 | And then they proceed to tell the woman to 'smile more'I’m sure this is where ‘Resting Bitch Face’ comes from. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 10 | If you don’t feel it ladies, don’t settle. Trust your gut.I deleted al my OLD to avoid these “getting to know eachother” conversations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:00 PM |
| 21 | If you don’t feel it ladies, don’t settle. Trust your gut.I’m sorry to hear that. The best part is he is an ex. I think I’ve sworn off telling men any bad details about my past. They only seem to try and top it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 7 | I wonder what the BDSM advocates & misogynists have to say about this? Men who feel the need to physically harm a woman in order to get maximum sexual gratification need to also get the maximum prison sentence!! Its psychopathic!!They get off on the power of flirting with murder. Disgusting. This should never have become mainstream | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:03 AM |
| 3 | WTF does this kinda text mean? Seeing this guy about a month. He’s all in to me, then this?“Gonna hold off on texts for a while” - I won’t specify the time so you can wait for when I need you again “I’m overwhelmed, under a lot of stress” - man sad, pity me “I have a lot going on and I need to focus on some thing” -the other girl I was talking to is finally giving me attention so you can wait The rest is just repetition of the above. He is a waste of time. 1 month in and he is setting the landscape for the progression of your relationship if you continue with him. Save yourself the tr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 09:55 AM |
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