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HVM don't respect women who reach for the check. It is that simple. My current boyfriend's move is to pay the bill before it even reaches the table because he thinks it is coarse and rude to pay the bill in front of a woman. He made it clear on the first date that a woman going 50/50 is an insult to him as it is as if she thinks he is a grifter or low quality man. He is very progressive politically and socially but holds onto the better if the traditional concepts. Let the LVM and the cool girls…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/22 09:14 AM
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Marvelous! Great reminder that they DO exist! I met my so-far HVM in the wild...he lived nearby and he frequently stopped to help me (saw me lugging a table to second floor, got locked out of my apt and he managed it for me). He looked good but I wasn't looking for a man, just focusing on my life. But, after establishing a friendship, he asked me to dinner and we began dating seriously a bit later. But since we have gotten together officially: -Brings me coffee and delicious homemade food includ…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/22 08:12 AM
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If the characteristics he is speaking about are physical, he is negging you. If the celeb that he is saying he likes so much is known primarily for her looks, he is negging you. I had a date last year with a guy who really loved Megan Fox. And I once had a boyfriend who really loved Elizabeth Warren, worked in her campaign, followed her on social media, etc. Only one if those men was not negging me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/22 11:58 AM
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Male, 29, 6'2", muscular and handsome with a sexy Spanish accent. I love to play the devil's advocate and will gaslight you into thinking you are wrong even though you are much smarter, older, well-educated and independent than I am. I don't have a job so I can devote all my time to you (and to whomever else I meet on Tinder). Very dominant in bed and have learned everything I know about women from PornHub so I know that smacking you and trying to choke you with my penis is the way to give you a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/22 03:32 AM
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Exactly. I'm a happy introvert! My recovery time from being social can be days or weeks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:53 PM
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I simply cannot bring myself to date more than one man at a time anymore. I used to but I find it difficult to gather up enough enthusiasm to date even ONE man lately. Having 3-5 guys around to disappoint me? Nah. I have work and hobbies and education to attend to. Over the past four years or so, there hasn't been a single man that got past the third or fourth date with me. Dating multiple men would simply take me away from doing things I truly enjoy. However, I live in a beautiful city full of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/22 03:37 PM
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Exactly my experience! I used to think it was a successful woman's responsibility to help lift up other women but there are too many women out there who don't want help, they want to step on you or drag you down. My last job had two bosses; one man and one woman. It didn't matter. I spent way too much energy and time reflecting on why some people are the way they are. Now I just try to serve as an example that we women don't have to be this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/22 02:47 AM
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I'm in my mid-forties and living abroad and am very, very fortunate to have beautifully radical female friends who couldn't care less what men, or anyone else, thinks of them. It's great. Some of those friends are new, some I have known since high school. It is a joy to have inspiring, like-minded friends! The only pick-mes I have had to deal with in the two decades or so have been in the workplace and it can be problematic but I am working on spotting them early and avoiding their antics. Some …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/22 04:45 AM
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It is January, it is cold and I work from home so I have been binging a TV show called "Evil lives here" in which family members of serial killers and mass murderers are interviewed. So sad, so horrific. At least half of the women and children interviewed say that the first signs that their family member was an abuser was when the man started teasing or 'roasting' them. They were accused of overreacting when they tried to be firm with the men by telling them to stop it. Of course, most men, fort…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 06:02 AM
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What is even worse is that most women think it is our fault as well, outside of FDS! When it happened to me a couple years ago, and it was a long, deep deception and coercion, and I looked for support from friends and family, I was told over and over again that it was my fault. I knew it wasn't. It was so painful to be told that it was my fault and that it wasn't rape by nearly all the women on my life, including his other victims. This is what led me to FDS. I needed to find women who placed th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/22 12:37 AM
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I'm in education, doing curriculum design right now (and a little teaching online). It is a great lifestyle!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 05:16 PM
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That is why I'm a very slo-mad. I have pets and an art collection that move with me (the art collection is beginning to grow a bit ungainly). I stay for a couple years, get to know a place, travel and then move on when I'm ready. Everything you are building is inside you, after all, and most of your social network is all over the world too. Find a spot to settle for a while; Ive been about 6 months in my latest country and have only scratched the surface of all it has to offer. Also, it took me …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 04:48 PM
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Same here! Ive been an expat/digital nomad for nearly a decade. The expat/nomad community is bursting with mentally unstable scrotes and a whole new variety of 'sexpat.' It is gross. That being said, I have met the most amazing, inspiring women. I barely even think about dating these days (ok, I did see the dreamiest guy at the museum the other day but better to stick with my imagination because the chances that he would be a available and meet my standards is highly unlikely. He was gorgeous th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 02:52 PM
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Thank you! I tried googling it and all I got was ads for YSL nude color "Tribute" strappy sandals. I would definitely prefer sandals as tribute than this ultra scrotey "tribute"!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 03:06 PM
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What is this 'tribute' nonsense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 01:37 PM
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Definitely don't offer. Watch them squirm when the check comes. They know that the right thing to do is to pay. The server knows that the right thing to do is pay. He is just testing your boundaries. I went on a date last year to dinner. The bill came...he squirmed. Then he asked me to pay my half. I put down the cash and walked out. He followed and tried to get me to go out for drinks. Obviously, I declined, got in my car and blocked him. Don't buy dinner? Don't expect me to keep entertaining y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 01:44 PM
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I only pay for dates for special occasions, ie, his birthday, academic or workplace achievement and only after we are in a committed relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/21 12:00 PM
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She is lovely and we were so supportive of each other. He had other girlfriends too and I remain good friends with a few of them. He didn't know what hit him! He straight up fled the country 😂🍷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:48 PM
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We even went to Bali together and he told her he was going with family! She was remarkably unsuspicious and naive. Super nice though and a great friend to this day. He never even told his family that he was married. Honestly, it's been three years since I got rid of him and I still haven't been able to trust another man. They are nice to look at but I view them with suspicion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 05:44 PM
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Oh, he had a full schedule of lies in order to keep it going so long. He even had an extra apartment! I believe he told her he had to work. Turns out, he had been fired months before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 03:39 PM
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Totally the last part! I dated a guy who talked up a pricey steak place in town. We went there twice and , when his birthday came up, I took him there (and paid) as a treat (we had been together over a year and he always paid for our dates). The server and he had a bit of banter at one point that seemed... suspicious. I couldn't hear what was said but it just felt...off. I found out later that he had been there the night before. With his WIFE! (I discovered this after going through his phone whi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 02:02 PM
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Exactly. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. Jordan Peterson is a manipulative lunatic and, if any man (or woman) cites him, know that they are either alt right, MGOTW or a simple fool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/21 06:53 AM
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I've been fortunate enough to travel a lot and live abroad. I've dated men from freaking everywhere. Different religions, languages, races, social, economic...endless list. And, honestly, I have enjoyed it to some degree or another. My uni degree was in cultural anthropology, after all, so if a date goes bad it turns into field research 😅 My tip is this: you do not need google translate to understand that nearly all men are saying "muh dick." They may say it with a sexy accent, or a fantastic cu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/21 09:18 AM
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I graduated high school in 1993 and still get messages from scrotes 28 years after the fact trying to hook up. It is especially disgusting as they are nearly unrecognizable since they have gone bald and soft and old. Extra disgusting as they are typically married. Super extra disgusting because, most of the time, these scrotes wouldn't have had a chance with me in high school and, nearly thirty years later, have less of a chance. Infinitely disgusting because I literally live on the other side o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/21 12:16 PM
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This made me spit out my wine. Publicly.😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 06:26 PM
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It's been about two years since man has made it past the initial, real world vetting but I had a boyfriend 2.5 years ago who guarded his phone diligently. I asked him if I could use it to set up a movie with his Netflix (he used Chromecast) while he went out for a bit. From there, it took less than 30 seconds to find out some truly shocking stuff. He had a kid and a freakin' wife in another country. He had other long term girlfriends. He was advertising himself on 'hotwifing' sites and making vi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:46 AM
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My number one vetting rule: Check. His. Phone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 05:43 AM
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So horrifying!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:34 AM
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1st grade. As an adult, I look back and realize that he was likely on the spectrum but, at the time, it was horrifying. He would take my crayons, he would grab me, he would be constantly vocalizing. I'm a teacher now in elementary school. The decision of whom to put at a table with boys like this is a difficult one. And boys at that age do not usually have support from the school (I work in an international school) where I work as parents and admin are very hesitant to get a diagnosis and plan i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/21 03:33 AM
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This is true. Happened to me . The older they get, the sneakier they become.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 12:31 AM
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Or mentioning these two words: Tom. Hardy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/21 04:08 AM
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Lol, thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 01:22 AM
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Right? I'm 46 and still getting hit on by men in their twenties. And still no closer to settling for trash. And always, always check his phone before you make a commitment. I don't consider it snooping, I consider it verification.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 02:41 PM
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Good riddance, block and delete. Yes, it will be painful for a bit and, yes, you should have just fessed up when you looked through his devices but, the fact is, he was only upset because he had something to hide. I'm a firm believer that a good relationship is one where access to each other's devices is not a problem. You had suspicions that he was a LVM, they were confirmed, now it's over. Having a good friend to talk to or, as I did last time I went through something similar, a therapist, wil…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/21 01:24 PM
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Dentists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/21 03:10 AM
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I'm child-free, single, never married and in my forties. Yes ,it intimidates some men or makes me a challenge to others but... I have tons of friends who think it is amazing. Women friends. Women friends who, for their own reasons, got married young, have buckets of kids (whom I adore) and are stuck forever with LVM (divorce is rare where I live and difficult to manage). My adventures and travels and independence, and general happiness with it all, has actually strengthened my friendships at thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 04:51 AM
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My ex NVM was from a Christian culture in the Middle East. When his nephew got engaged, he did not give his future wife a ring. Instead, it is tradition for his family to throw a lavish engagement party and give the bride to be rings, necklaces, earrings...I have never seen so much fine jewelry outside of a jewelry store. Had to be 500k worth of beautiful jewelry. And this is modern, forward thinking family. Both bride and groom were pursuing doctorates in the UK and very independent. The only w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 05:44 AM
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How can men get away with being so aggressively lazy? I am baffled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 11:31 AM
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I'm wondering..when did this weaponized incompetence become a thing? I was raised by my grandparents, both born in the 1920s. Grampa was capable of cooking and cleaning and childcare competently. The men I have dated from north Africa, southern Europe and the middle east could all do these traditionally feminine roles, usually better than me (my house was spotless and dinner was divine and frequent). They came from wildly macho cultures but their contributions were consistent. I didnt even have …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 02:40 AM
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Definitely saw my past mistakes when I watched this show, specifically being attracted to fixer-uppers with mad sexual chemistry. I knew that, as reformed as I am, I still would have wanted to make out with Casey🤦.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 03:45 PM
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Same, same, same. I have no desire to talk about my tattoos with strangers and am also tired of being treated like a porn star or easy lay. I got most of my tattoos in the 1990s when it was still punk as hell and an anti-authority statement. And some of my tattoos reflect that. But things have changed. I still like my tattoos but I have definitely invested in clothing that covers them up because, while I haven't changed, society has.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 03:15 AM
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I always expect it. I was asked about once by a friend of a friend whom I didn't know well. We went to a delightful little restaurant with fresh oysters and champagne. Weirdly, he didn't order much and the date was really awkward. He was visibly very nervous. I found out later (from the friend) that there was no way, on his income, he could afford to buy dinner for us both but he felt I deserved a beautiful dinner. He wanted to buy me dinner even though it meant that he would go without. Though …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 05:41 PM
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It is definitely a porn thing. I had a lover a couple of years ago obsessed with it. Didn't care about giving me a real orgasm, just wanted to make me squirt by aggressive, sometimes painful finger banging. He totally thought that squirting was the same thing as an orgasm (it absolutely was not, for me). It was ridiculous and uncomfortable and I finally put a stop to it. And, soon after, put a stop to him. He, like many pornsick men, was unable to comprehend that the needs of a woman in reality …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 08:05 AM
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It's saved me from bad dates AND bad jobs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 06:01 AM
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If the house is on fire, don't sit around trying to figure out why. Get out of the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/21 05:06 AM
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I was in same situation. The nerve and audacity of these men! I was 18 when my deadbeat dad contacted me. We hung out two times and he absolutely spent that time patting himself on the back because I turned out well. That was 27 years ago and I haven't heard from him since. And I am not in the least bit bothered. I told his family that I would appreciate a text when he is dead. Not sure why a man who gave nothing more than a sperm donation thinks he has anything to do with how we turned out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 11:52 PM
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We need an FDS car club!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 08:28 PM
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I love it! I am thinking about getting a 4-runner for my hiking and kayaking adventures. Axe throwing sounds awesome though driving around in a convertible with an axe 🪓 on the front seat sounds like an increasingly good idea...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:17 AM
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I got my first one...a 1990 Miata...for only 600 dollars. I loved that car. So fun to drive! Now I have a sexy black Mercedes SLK, only paid about 5k for it. It's beautiful. A hot little convertible can be bought pretty cheap because it isn't technically practical but I used both as my primary vehicle. I have a motorcycle too...that really freaks men out especially in Malaysia, where I live. Get yourself a cool vehicle and, even better, learn how to do your own repairs. It is so empowering!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 07:04 AM
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As the proud owner of a 2-seater convertible, I love what is says to men. It speaks louder than words. My priorities are my own, not theirs, not their children's, not their friends Oh, and the passenger seat is reserved for my dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/21 03:44 AM
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My friends and family had encouraged me to date a man within my culture (I live in Asia but am a white American woman). I thought maybe they were right ( they were not) so I started talking to an age appropriate (we are both in our forties) man from Europe.His move was to tell me that he would come over to my house for sex. No date. Because he needed to see if we were sexually compatible before spending his money on dinner. He wasn't even good looking. Not that it would have mattered but, like, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 07:31 AM
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Poaching for their parts🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/21 06:36 AM
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Omg, the eighth grade dance where all the boys only came up to my shoulder.That was some awkward slow dances😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 08:31 AM
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"I'm too young to settle down!" I'm 46.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/21 12:44 PM
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Yep. Happened to me. Now he lives alone and me, his ex-wife and his child are friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 02:25 AM
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I hope her current partner is a HVM. He probably isn't. But he is freakishly gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:32 AM
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Teehee...bought myself a sexy little two-seater last year when I decided to give up on OLD and enjoy life. Definitely sending the message that I am not going to be someone's baby's mama, not interested in a man's comfort in my vehicle and it has enough room for groceries....for one😅. A man asked me recently as he took my groceries to the car, "Where is your husband?" I said, "Who needs a husband when I have a sexy car like this!" What you drive, and how you drive it, can send a very clear messag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 08:38 PM
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Grandmas are the best. My Grandma was wooed for DECADES by the same man. He was wealthy, funny and kind but she was just happy to be by herself. But, as they grew closer (they were both in their seventies and their spouses had long since passed away), she laid it on the table: She wanted a beautiful home, a brand-new Lexus, money to care for her for the rest of her life and a stunning diamond ring. Three days later, I get a call. They eloped! I was also gifted a brand-new car because he felt bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 08:39 AM
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Do you like horror stories? Because my dating life is full of them😳.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 05:10 PM
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Absolutely! I also scored a beautiful Skagen watch that I have been wearing daily for the past five years. It is perfect for looking at during a bad date to casually indicate how absolutely bored you are while you plan your exit strategy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 07:22 AM
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Yes, these Western scrotes are all over the place contributing to sex trafficking. I live in Malaysia now and it is disgusting to see how they view Asian women. They genuinely view them as existing to serve their sexual needs. Biking around India is great! I stayed out of the cities but it was easy and lovely. Did Madhya Pradesh, Kerala and Gujarat on separate trips. No problems at all. The states from men when my helmet came off (revealing long blonde hair) were a bit awkward but everyone was e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:47 AM
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I have been dating for 33 years. I have dated men from 6 of the 7 continents (waiting for a penguin to come sweep me off my feet), every major (and several minor) religion, countless cultures, countless languages, countless types. I've dated younger, older, richer, poorer, short, tall, hot, not hot. The common denominator is MUH P*NIS. Still looking for a man who doesn't put that first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 01:39 AM
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Don't bash Marshalls! I have gotten some lovely things there that have definitely brought me more happiness than all of my OLD dates put together! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:14 AM
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Omg, yes. So much. I had a male colleague who left the profession (thank goddess, he was terrible st his job) to become a 'yogi'. He ended up contacting me as we were both traveling across India at the same time. I was there to see wildlife (my passion) and he was there for "spiritual" reasons. He texted me to complain that Indians don't know how to do yoga correctly. Also, he apparently felt that they didn't understand Hinduism. A white guy from Long Island knows more about being a Hindu than a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 12:04 AM
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🎶"My neck.. my Bach..."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/21 07:07 PM
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This is gross but in once had explosive diarrhea (beware raw oysters, ladies). I know first hand how it can be done. But daily? And not cleaning it up🤮?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:25 AM
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That is so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 08:23 AM
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Seat and down the sides and on the tank. It was awful. I honestly haven't dated an American man since.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 06:46 AM
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It is so bizarre. I was so happy the day I graduated high school because I knew that it was over. I could put a lid on it and never look back. And, in 28 years, I haven't. But yet so many men...even in their forties...live to rehash either the victories or the traumas of their teenage life. It is so damn boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 05:50 AM
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Daily. I tried to get him to go to the doctor because no one should be having explosive diarrhea every day. But he wouldn't. And he wouldn't clean it up. And we only had one toilet. And he couldn't understand why I left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:28 AM
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I think back on the boyfriend who I tried to help to quit drinking. I arranged therapy for him, I paid all his bills, I took care of his young son all whilst running my own business. And yet he couldn't be bothered to clean the toilet after he (daily) left poop both inside and outside the bowl. WTF. I'm so thankful I left that so far behind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 01:27 AM
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I've been in your shoes...more than once! Now is a perfect time to branch out and grow. You won't even remember these people's names in a year or two. Plan a little solo trip or try a new hobby (horseback riding, painting classes, yoga, Muay Thai...). You already recognize their low value. Use this time to level up. Cut off contact with them, hide them on social media. And go have some fun! The best revenge is a life well-lived❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 05:42 AM
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I was in the back of a taxi in Managua, Nicaragua many years ago. The driver stopped to talk to another man who promptly entered next to me at the back of the taxi, showed a knife. Not sure if it was robbery or kidnapping or what. And my Spanish back then consisted mostly of Spanish curses and insults from Spain that are extremely offensive to Catholics. I pulled out all the stops, ranting about poop, Jesus, Virgin Mary and small penises. The driver stopped, his friend stopped and froze. I was a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:42 AM
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I have an ex (so close to being a HVM but he ultimately failed...). He peed sitting down whenever possible because he didn't want to run the risk if getting pee outside the bowl and because he found it easier to shake out those last drips. He also always washed his hands, with water and soap. He also always cleaned thoroughly with a bidet (we have them out here in Malaysia...spay gun attached at the toilet) after his business. And he kept his body fit and very well groomed (almost too much; I li…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:25 PM
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💯 can confirm from pickmeisha days
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:34 AM
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I went through something similar a couple of years ago. Do not let him gaslight you. Divorce, block, cease communication. It is the only way forward. Remember, the man you loved did not actually exist. This man was an actor. You fell in love with the character he played. You can still have fond memories of that character but the show is over, the lights are on. It's time to leave the theater. You will feel tricked and some people in your life will not be supportive. F*CK them. They see their own…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:58 PM
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Ok, ladies, I did the math. I'm no mathematician but I, altogether, I came up with 186%. Sounds about right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:43 PM
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He is absolutely dreamy but I was laughing by the end of that commercial. Shirt half off, sliding along walls trying to look mysterious😂😂😂😂. Keep him in the vineyard where he is actually doing something practical!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 11:26 PM
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I was thinking the same thing🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 06:24 AM
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The revolution has already begun. My men aren't Italian (I like variety) and covid has limited the flights somewhat but, yeah, definitely not being bothered by marriage, men or money!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:40 AM
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I kept a pro and con list on my ex on my phone. The pro list was very, very short and the con list definitely helped ease my breakup with him. It was also fun to share the list with his wife (who I obviously didn't know about while we were together). My list helped HER to breakup with him too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 01:17 AM
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This is so true. I went through this for three years and, after, took a good, long look at the truth. I never would have given my consent to this man if he had been honest (he was married, had a child, had a separate apartment to show to me, lied about his occupation, was having multiple relations with multiple partners, unprotected, from 'hotwife' websites). I had my choice taken away. I was raped. Buy if you dare to talk about rape by deception to others, they say that you are taking the power…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 07:54 AM
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As I get older, men have started to tell me they are significantly older than they actually are. Like, a 25 year old saying he is 32. When caught, they invariably say that I "wouldn't be interested in them" if they had been honest. WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 01:21 AM
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Thank you! This is on repeat during my daily drive and I always think...I gotta post this to FDS! If I ever have to do a lipsync or am forced to do karaoke, this is my one and o ly choice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 09:19 AM
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I AM that auntie! Maybe I don't have a suspicious amount of money but I pull a good salary, live on the other side of the world, travel incessantly pre-covid. No kids, just a couple doggos❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/21 03:26 AM
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Right? I am a known size queen...I like em long and thick but, hey, at least have girth! I've been fortunate before and since. But I still would never shame someone's body who got naked with me. It's just not right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 09:24 AM
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So true. I have never shamed a man for having a small dick. Sure, they probably figured out why I lost interest. But I didn't shame them. However, I have been shamed, in bed, for not having a perfectly flat stomach. Scrote, I'm 45 years old and in shape. I have never had a flat stomach. The tautness of my stomach has nothing to do with sexual satisfaction. Dick size does. And the skinny, pale, pencil dick scrote that shamed me, well, I was still too kind to point out that his dick gave secondhan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 08:16 AM
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Yes, yes, yes. He is the man of my dreams. My kink is masculine, talented men with full lips and a true love of dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 11:57 PM
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The bone structure...the lips...the eyes..🤤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/21 10:58 PM
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I agree. I came up in the early 90s (riot Grrrrl generation) but before internet porn and social media. I am so worried for girls today and what they are convinced is 'liberation' is just serving men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 03:47 AM
389

I'm in my forties and, during the nineties, the fashion was huge breasts. Lots of women getting surgery to look like Pamela Anderson Roll around to the 00s and so many women getting them reduced. It's crazy. I just can't imagine spending my money on surgically altering my body to fit a mold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 06:39 AM
40

I know, right? I'm in my mid-forties and we have had several lockdowns in the past year. Lockdowns with police checkpoints. And yet I had several men, ridiculously hot, younger, skillful and BIG that were willing to devise ways to get to my house to spend the night. They were willing to risk arrest and deportation. I don't do casual sex anymore and would have felt so bad for them if they had gotten caught, so I declined. So, yeah, there has never been a lack of opportunity to get sex with physic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 09:18 PM
227

Honestly, why do so many women with beautiful voices wear little sparkly bodysuits? I never saw Nina Simone in a bodysuit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:46 AM
28

Me too! This is an insightful and spot-on read.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:04 AM
6

I knew I had to stop using it when my family gave me a "It is what it is" shirt for Christmas. I had been using that phrase to avoid their judgement on my career and education choices. Haven't said it since. Shirt went directly in the garbage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:53 AM
11

🤣 Hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/21 04:18 AM
44

Totally! Even when I feel like I have vetted a man well, I am nervous about allowing them access to my home. My classic move is to push for a night together with a hotel. It gives us a chance to have some fun, a reason to have a little adventure in a different part of the city and also have an easy way to escape. Added bonus: there is security at a hotel if needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:38 AM
19

Yes, I agree. Once you leave and start the divorce process, you will feel a great weight lifted. Don't engage him, don't discuss anything other than logistics. Leaving an abusive man is like jumping into a refreshing pool on a hot day. You are nervous but, as soon as you do it, you feel refreshed and renewed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/21 09:33 AM
76

I wear diamonds on both hands from my maternal and my paternal grandmothers. One of the rings is over 150 years old, passed down through the generations. A beautiful piece of jewelry is heritage, an heirloom. Looking at these rings connects me to my ancestors, powerful women. If a man wants to join me for life, he will have to provide a ring of such quality that, 150 years later, it is still treasured and worn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 11:33 PM
34

Exactly. If you are over forty like me, you have seen this in real time. Gone are the days of gentle kisses on a body, caressing, foreplay, eroticism, slow and tentative moves that wait to determine the partners reaction. Now, it's a hand on the back of the head pushed down for a bj, anal without a discussion, even moving a woman's body into positions that are less pleasurable for both partners because, in porn, they are trying to give the camera the best view. It's gotten ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 04:53 PM
9

Absolutely! I realize the people I care about are just trying to be helpful but are stuck in the mindset that women need a man in order to live a full life. I'm in my mid-forties and I've been happy without one. Why would I want one that sucks?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 03:52 PM
15

Thanks. I had followed the advice of friends and family and gave the guy a chance as we, superficially, had a lot in common. Never again🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:23 AM
96

I had a first date with a guy who spilled a long and tumultuous tale of his ex-wifes abuse onto me. I didn't buy it but played the sympathetic ear. For over an hour as he drank. When I added a brief mention of my own experience being abused, he said, "Wow, you must be really stupid to fall for a guy like that." He told on himself. It was clear to me that this guy was not only an abuser, but a blatant, obvious, drunk, stupid one. Postscript: When I got home from my rapid escape from this horrid d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 08:37 PM
1

I'm a solo traveller all the way, every time. But more than willing to share info of interest! Can't wait until I can get back on a plane!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 07:37 AM
3

It is beautiful. From where I'm living, it is only a couple of hours flight and so inexpensive. I miss it😭. I better get some more koran fried chicken to sooth my soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 11:15 PM
67

When I told my ex-scrote that I was on my period, he was very happy. Because he presumed I would let him do anal instead. 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 09:31 PM
19

Check his phone. Check his internet history. Do not give him warning that you are going to do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:59 PM
20

Covid has really killed my self-,care routine. I get abundant vacation time from my job so a lot of my self care came from planning my next adventure and going on that adventure! Exploring Egypt, riding a motorcycle across Gujarat to see the Asiatic lions, shopping in Bangkok (OMG, so good), doing absolutely nothing noteworthy in Bali! Now my routine involves Korean fried chicken and a mystery novel. Sigh. I hope the borders open up soon! as they remain closed where I am😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 08:55 PM
83

Right?! I love to travel. I was seeing a guy once who asked me, "What are you running away from?" Like, what??? I want to see this beautiful world while I am in it. You want to stay at home and play video games. Definitely lowered my libido😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:18 PM
5

I have been m'ladied so many times🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 04:07 AM
19

Every. Time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:46 PM
70

I'm in Malaysia. No respect from men when I lie about having a husband. Because the "husband" is not literally right next to me, it's open season.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 09:16 PM
161

-Excessive interest in sports, especially loyalty to a particular team. -Excessive alcohol consumption on the first date (or subsequently) -Doesnt insist on being given the check when it arrives thereby putting you in the awkward position of seeing it sit on the table for a long time and wondering if you should just pay it because getting out of the date and going home is worth $36. I had a 'green flag' recently who excused himself from the table and went and paid the check before it even arrive…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 06:29 PM
19

I know why he did it. Such fragile masculinity, always seeking approval of other men at the cost of woman's privacy. No money needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 01:29 AM
75

I found out that my ex was pressuring girls to send him nudes and videos and then sharing them in a whattsapp groups with dozens of men all over the world. He was also recording himself having sex with multiple women. He never asked me for nudes or recorded me, thankfully, but those poor girls. I was able to contact several of them to give them a heads up. Sisters before misters. Defense is the best offense. Never give a man, even a seemingly libfem man, any pics of you that you wouldn't give to…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:41 PM
107

I'm 46, joyfully single and there is a man from Bangladesh who likes to practice his English with me (he carries my groceries to the car for me). But always, every time, he wants to know why I am not married. Week after week, I explain that I am happy, I have my own money, I have this beautiful Mercedes convertible, why do I need a man? I don't want to wash a man's underwear! I don't like to cook (surely he can see that my groceries are not those of a woman who can cook)! Men are trouble! He is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 11:23 PM
44

I go for the block, screenshot and delete. Because looking back on their audacity and evidence of their absolute worthlessness reminds me why I deleted🧐 I am fortunate enough that I haven't had the urge to go back with any man that I have removed from my life in over twenty years though. I'm old enough to remember just having to use a sharpie to black out their name in my telephone book😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/21 10:21 PM
103

Conversation with a man I was dating when I found out he was married: Me: Why didn't you just tell me the truth? Scrote: Because you wouldn't have fucked me if you knew the truth!!!!!! 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 08:47 PM
10

Mwahahaha...the next 10,000 years belong to us!🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 08:05 AM
66

Honestly, how can we not move forward if we don't understand the past? It horrified me that understanding history, geography and biology aren't central to women's studies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 09:02 PM
114

Oh dear, I am so sorry that this conversation happened! One of my degrees is in cultural anthropology and I had a particular interest in the development of gender roles in pre-agricultural and non-agricultural societies. Physiology plays a big part in the creation of gender roles. When a woman has infants, she will feed them. She can't be an effective hunter with a baby strapped to her. So women generally go into other roles to keep the community thriving. Gathering food, maintaining and creatin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:57 PM
7

Thank you for sharing! I agree that better things always follow. I'm nervous because I usually have things set up before I switch jobs and I am living abroad and want to stay in my chosen country. But I already have a few solid leads and money enough to get by comfortably until the next opportunity. Best of all, I am already happier, relieved and taking better care of my self (less stress-induced fried chicken dinners🤣).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:42 PM
280

I needed to hear this today. Not about dating, but about my career.Just put in my resignation because sometimes your job IS the abusive relationship. I feel great and there is nothing like looking your boss in the eye and knowing you can block them when your contract is up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:27 AM
20

This is the point when I knew FDS was for me! I live in SEAsia and exploitation of women in sex work is rampant. I have met so many people (typically white libfems and scrotes of all colours) who defend it. FDS is the only community I've found that supports women by rejecting this insane idea that sex work is empowering. I am so thankful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 09:35 PM
119

Run faster than you ever have before. Please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 06:30 PM
47

Honestly, men are so pornsick these days that I find they are willing to try anything to get their next 'kick.' It's best to stay away from them entirely until they are free of porn for an extended time and learn how to behave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:44 AM
48

This used to be my go to comment but men are increasingly happy to oblige. I have to say...I didn't hate it...😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 03:35 AM
128

Keep neutering! Feline and human alike😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 02:31 AM
1

Thanks for the stats. I do believe that more men are reporting being victims of sexual assault and don't believe trans women are the source of the change in numbers. However, as we know, very few rapes are reported and very few are convicted. sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 06:01 PM
72

This literally just happened to me. A man absolutely derailing a conversation about sexual violence by citing statistics about woman perpetrators and male victims. As if, by me citing that men are the primary perpetrators of sexual violence, I am in any way negating the experiences of men. I support and believe all victims of sexual violence. And I know and believe men are the primary perps. Not always. But usually. How is that misandry? Ugh. I'm still fuming.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 09:57 AM
21

I'm glad somebody said it. Business on one side, bedtime on the other? WTF. She scares me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 03:04 AM
200

Exactly. Carefree dating is for high school, maybe college. But 27? Scrote, please.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 01:52 AM
1

Oh god, someone save this girl😥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/21 12:02 AM
19

This one was a chest tattoo. Beautiful tattoo, honestly, but he had no right sharing it with me! Ugh, scrotes😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 10:07 PM
101

They totally get their wires crossed I had a guy on OLD send me pics of a woman he had taken during sex because he wanted to show me her tattoo. These scrotes do not comprehend the word "privacy"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 07:38 PM
35

Girl! There is nothing more lovely than a strong woman eating alone. Nothing lonely about it! My Grandma is 95 years old, a Queen in every way, and (pre-covid) took herself out for a good meal every week. I do the same! I bring a good book, enjoy focusing on a delicious meal and I don't believe anyone has any thoughts about it whatsoever. Just stay out of bars🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 06:49 AM
31

Ugh. Skeevy scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 03:49 AM
154

I had a man offer to come to my home and give me oral while I am in online meeting. Ew,ew,ew. Block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 02:56 AM
3

I only saw one micropenis and, despite not ever having sex with him again, I let him try. There was no sensation on my part. I woke up in the middle of the night and he was looking at porn and jacking off at the edge of my bed. A tall, fit, gorgeous man wanking his tiny micropenis. Thankfully, he dipped out and we never spoke again. But that image lives rent free in my memory.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:06 AM
2

Thanks. No regrets. Small peens do make me sad. 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:02 AM
4

He messaged me trying to shame me for my comment and citing that I make men feel suicidal. He even followed me to an unrelated sub and made comments about how I believe in eugenics. I blocked him and moved on but, wow. I can't imagine what my life would be like if I stalked around commenting on men 'bodyshaming' women. What a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/21 12:01 AM
6

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:16 PM
12

I don't think so, sadly. After he left the program, others (including a professor) started sharing stories about his behaviour and crazy ideas. I'm sure he suffered from some mental illness or another.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:13 PM
31

Exactly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 11:45 AM
145

What gets me is that they still think that sex revolves around their dicks anyway. Sex, for scrotes, starts and ends with the dick. Such an oblivious perspective from them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 10:18 AM
305

Thanks for sharing🤣. I received a couple whiny messages from my post on that original thread but, outside of FDS, I don't do reddit much. Not here to boost men's egos or apologise. Honestly, though, penis size, unlike other physical attributes, does have a direct impact on sexual pleasure. So I feel fully within my rights to look for a size that suits me and have been lucky to find that easily enough. And I wish the same for other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:48 AM
78

Nope. Totally real. And, to make the visual more real, we had gone to a Halloween party and he went as a cheap, dollar store cape-snd-blood vampire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 09:28 AM
369

I had a date years ago with a guy from my university program. I drove, date was terrible and, on the looong drive to drop him back at his place, the tears started flowing. He cried for 45 minutes. About his foreskin. About how his parents basically raped him when they took away his foreskin as an infant. About the daily emotional agony over his lost foreskin. He even wanted me to come inside so he could show me his poetry. About his foreskin. Fortunately, he dropped out of the program soon after…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 04:26 AM
12

Omg, you made me spit out my coffee with this one🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:08 AM
26

My mother was schizophrenic, my father was bipolar and both were in and out of mental hospitals their whole lives. I've had to spend my whole life putting on a show of empathy for the people who abused me. There is no way in hell I would choose to let someone in my life with mental illness. I'm done. They could be the most amazing person in the world, but no. I'm not interested. I don't even watch movies in which a character is mentally ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/21 01:05 AM
78

Being a premature ejaculator is occasionally a good thing. When it is your first time with a new man and you realise it is going to be an awful jackhammery experience with absolutely nothing in it for you...then it is a gift when he cums fast. You can pat him on the head and send him on his way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 05:58 AM
106

As a teacher, and as a woman, I am horrified by your story. Thank you for sharing. It provides insight and red flags for me to watch for as a teacher and as a woman in general.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/21 08:47 PM
9

Not today, Satan! Block!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 10:14 PM
59

I live in Malaysia and the subway has 'women only' cars. It's nice but, when the train is crowded, you still have to squeeze in wherever, and still have to deal with men while you wait for the train. My motorbike is the best; only me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 08:37 PM
9

Right? When a man robs a 7-11, he knows he is a thief. When a man breaks a window, he knows it's vandalism. When a man forces a woman to have sex, he doesn't even recognize it as a rape. He will say he thought she wanted it, that he was intoxicated, that it was her fault for leading him on. They are everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 07:42 PM
28

Good advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 11:42 AM
71

Many of my best friendships developed because I absolutely will always contact a woman if a man is messaging me and I discover he is in a relationship. I share the receipts and provide a shoulder to cry on or wine to commiserate over. There have been times when the woman blamed me or, even more frequently, they stayed with the man. Sad but I know, morally, I have done the right thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:20 PM
3

Ew,ew,ew! I used to date a guy from Spain with the same issue. Caused me several trips to the gyno because of reoccurring BV. I was young and ignorant and he made it clear that it was my fault for being a dirty American. How do you say 'scrote' in Spanish?🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 10:09 PM
73

What has always shocked me is when a man is convinced I came because I am rather vocal during PIV. PIV is a late stage of foreplay for me. Going down on me is why I bothered to undress in the first place. If I don't cum, we ain't done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 09:34 AM
2

True, true. I am only a casual fan and haven't rewatched in years. I also expect timelords to be, er, bellends, regardless of gender. And Dr Who seems sexless to me, regardless of who is playing him. But Dr Who in a pub? Dear God, no😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 06:11 AM
15

I am so over the accent. I work for a British company now and, wow, the misogyny and the racism is truly above and beyond. And alcoholism seems to be a vital, but often overlooked, part of the culture. I guess I watched too much Dr Who and got the wrong impression😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 01:32 AM
27

I thought American guys were awful until I dated English guys. Bloody scrotes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/21 12:36 AM
14

Honestly, I haven't seen this where I live or (and totally likely) I am oblivious to it, especially because I am child-free and in my 40s. If anything, married women are envious of my lifestyle. Free to travel (pre-covid) where I want, when I want. No one to clean up after, cook for, plan for. How do they act superior? I pity them, with the exception of a handful of friends who have HVM, who I just adore their whole family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:21 PM
37

All of my American boyfriends thought that farting loud and close to me was hilarious even though I was openly disgusted. They also wanted me to peg them. I tried once (this was a looooooong time ago) but he had poop literally smeared around his asshole. Never again. Since living abroad, I can happily report that, while the men I've dated have still been pornsick LVMs, they aren't farting in front of me and are much, much more hygienic. Farts smell because of bacteria. I don't want a man's ass b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:44 PM
25

She may have blocked you but she knew. We all always know. It hurts when we have to face it but you did her a world of good. I ALWAYS find a way to let the woman know if I find a man is trying to cheat. Sometimes we become friends, sometimes I get blocked. Sometimes I buy her wine while she cries. Sisters before misters❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:28 PM
482

I received the best advice from an old friend today: 'If the house is on fire, it doesn't matter why it is on fire. Get out of the fire."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:44 AM
29

This experience is so painful (I've been there too often) but, when you look back, you will have no regrets about how you handled it. I still cringe when thinking about my early breakups, the crying, the long conversations, the roller coaster of gaslighting and reality. Congratulations on getting rid of that sicko❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:00 AM
94

I may be called cold-hearted by some but I had two parents with mental illness. I've done my time, I've suffered enough. At 45 years old, I am not interested in being involved with people who have not found a way to handle what ails them. Sympathetic, yes. But not interested in being involved. Fortunately, since I left the states, I have not had a single date that has consisted of a man listing his medications, their side effects and presuming that, as a woman, I will somehow feel maternal about…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:45 AM
58

This is the way🙂. No fight, no debate, no tearful exchanges. No breakup conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:50 AM
189

When I was a teen, in the pre-internet porn era, the inexperienced boys I was with (and I was a busy girl exploring my own desires happily) never accidently tried to put it in my butt. Post-internet porn era with experienced men: all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 05:14 AM
6

Definitely. I thought for awhile that I would miss the excitement of meeting someone, first kiss, falling in love. Fighting to keep someone in your life. But, nope. I'm absolutely loving not having any of that. It comes with insecurity and tension, extreme highs and lows. Without men, without drama, my life's ups and downs are less extreme and I am happier more consistently. No desire to get back on a roller coaster again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 03:04 AM
22

I live in Malaysia, a Muslim country. Condoms and lube are sold in the checkout lane above the candy. This fixes the problem of theft and embarrassment. Back in the US, there would undoubtedly be cries of "but what about the CHILDREN😭😭😭."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:08 PM
5

Agreed. And I wish scientists would focus on the needs of women and come out with products that can help more of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 06:45 AM
33

I don't question the research but this has definitely not been my experience. Whether it is because of age or hormones or social factors, men I have found attractive have become more masculine, more high earning and my sex drive has stayed the same in my decade+ on the pill. Regardless, men still suck. My happiness with life overall has definitely improved as I no longer have to suffer through hormonal ups and downs and horrifyingly painful periods. It isn't for everyone. I know. And it has heal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 03:33 AM
37

I had a snotty tissue thrown on my face by a little boy. Now I'm down with a viral respiratory infection. I'm not crazy about little kids either and working now to get out of this job and into something less...gross. They are terribly cute but I have 0 maternal instinct. I can say that it definitely comes from home. Boys are coddled (where I live, some of my boy students don't even know how to feed themselves as maids actually spoon feed them at 5 years old). The girls are taught early to manage…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:17 PM
173

As a kindergarten teacher trying to survive a pandemic, I'm constantly policing hand washing. I don't have to police the girls anymore. The boys, however, mostly, just don't get it. Those same boys have taken off their masks to cough in my face, sneeze on my dress and wipe snot everywhere. Girls are socialized to be concerned about hygiene from a young age. But "boys will be boys."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 08:43 PM
19

Oh yes, very true. The Pharaoh Hatshepsut is another prime example of this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 11:24 AM
114

OMG. What a useless scrotey weasel!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 09:37 AM
42

Exactly. The only women discussed in history are the ones who succeeded in male dominated roles (Cleopatra, Queen Elizabeth 1, etc). All the women who have bren changing the world for thousands of years don't get mentioned. Because men have recorded the history. Only in the last 150 of history do I see women's names mentioned in relation to their achievements as they worked against male dominated social structures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:30 PM
1594

I stopped going to gyms because of so much nonsense but, a few years ago, I signed up at a community gym near my previous house. I would go in early in the morning to avoid scrotes and discovered that the gym was overtaken by....nuns! All of them over 70 (and stronger than me🤣). It was great! We would even relax in the whirlpool after and chat. I got into great shape and it was wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:22 PM
22

Yes, we don't owe them a reason why we have blocked them, eliminated them! They will only use it to hone their manipulative ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 08:14 PM
31

Thank you. I have never shared that publicly. But this space, and the women in it, are amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 09:02 AM
86

This is so important to understand. TW: as a child, back in the 80s, I was a victim if CP. Pictures of my abuse were sent to a pedophile. When I became old enough to understand, it was another level of abuse that continued because I knew that photos of me were being shared. It has been a long time now and I'm confident, or hopeful, that those photos have long since been destroyed or lost. Abuse victims post-internet will always know that images of their abuse are continuing to be shared and view…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 04:19 AM
69

Yep! I have used fake husband excuse now that I'm older and...no one cares. They like the extra challenge. Even if I claim to be blissfully happy and deeply in love and my fake husband is a scary, gun-toting supervillain. Men don't care. They still feel entitled to your attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 08:45 PM
8

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 03:01 AM
19

I've tried. They wank faster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 10:43 PM
39

That's what gets me. There is no way to humiliate them or stop them. I've tried. Any attention gets them off, they love being insulted. They love being accosted. Short of legal recourse (so rarely available), there is nothing you can do. I'd love to hear of a strategy that works!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:46 PM
80

I was hiking at a national park in Kerala, India once and was in a busy area (families picnicking, etc) and a man was just walking along wanking it and smiling. I informed one of the rangers and the mf was tackled. Watching that was as memorable as the wildlife I saw that day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:43 PM
48

They genuinely believe that, because their worlds revolve around their dicks, ours must to. It never ceases to amaze me. Imagine how much women would accomplish without them holding us down! And how much THEY could do if they weren't so obsessed with their dicks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 08:43 PM
12

Fantastic! No contact is definitely the path to healing and moving on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:06 PM
11

The mark of the beast and I still think it is hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 06:04 PM
6

They really are. I kept hearing friends suggest that I start dating men my own age, so I tried. The baggage was unreal. I was insulted and, at one point, assaulted on a date by a single and in the same industry as me...a single dad with four boys. Age is not an indicator of maturity in men. It just has given them more time to hone their bad behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:38 PM
5

Me too! He has such a handsome face, why put hair on it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:33 PM
5

That is so horrifying, when someone has the power to make your life insecure! With the younger men I've dated, I've expected them to pay their own way in life, just as I would a man of any age. And I never lived with them (except one for a few weeks as he prepared to return to his own country).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 05:30 PM
47

I've happily avoided older men my whole life. I'm 45 now and still not interested. However...I have tended to date men who are significantly younger. I haven't found it particularly problematic (men who behave like they are 33...when they are 33...seem more entertaining than men who do the same at 53). Also, don't have kids, don't want kids, don't like divorced men. Younger men I have been with typically don't approach me as someone who can be manipulated or deceived so easily. They aren't surpr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 09:33 AM
2

They did have a song called "Rape Me" though. Those of us who were Riot Grrrrls during the early 90s were not big fans of Nirvana..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:20 AM
26

I have a 666 tattoo. Now I can tell men a new reason why🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 07:06 AM
18

I completely agree. This is the approach that is appropriate. We have learned that many people, especially in online comments and the media, are unwilling to digest complexities. They want a simple narrative. There is nothing simple about confronting reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:38 PM
10

Omg me too. He's dreamy. At least, he gives me the impression he is dreamy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 08:59 PM
24

Ew. Thanks for the warning!🧐
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 07:00 AM
44

In Malaysia, the Telegram ones are married🤣.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 03:52 AM
76

For me, if I DO want to meet this person (which is rare), I suggest dinner. The rest is primarily on him. The type of place he chooses, and the area, says a lot about him. It does allow me to set my standard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:08 PM
135

Yep. We didn't even get to that point of the argument because it was the morality, the audacity of it, the fact that a man I cared for (he really was lovely up until this conversation) had never even considered that his friend was part of the system that causes child sex abuse in the first place. Besides, the law is so rarely enforced and this incident happened in a country where it wouldn't be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:58 AM
34

POS = Piece of shit🙃
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 07:17 AM
391

This. My last, and final, argument with a man I dated was when he told me that a friend of his once showed him a violent, pedophile porn clip that had been being talked about a lot in the media at the time. He was appropriated disgusted and mortified but.... it did not occur to him that he should have been angry with his friend for showing it to him and for his friend knowing how to easily access this clip in the first place. Dude, your friend had to search for that, download that, choose to eng…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:13 AM
69

On a grand scale, I believe concepts of land borders and land ownership would be radically different with more focus on collective and conscious use of resources in general. Also, major religions would eventually become obscure though their traditions (gift-giving, holiday meals, celebrations) would continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:34 AM
9

Me too! Excited to listen to the first episode!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:05 PM
36

OMG, mine too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:01 PM
46

Vanilla is my kink. Don't kink shame me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 08:59 PM
5

Fantastic! I'm going to be memorizing these lyrics and reciting them all day❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:30 AM
28

I'm a casual Trekkie and it is fascinating to see what men come up with to complain about when it comes to Star Trek. If your favourite captain is Kirk, well, I'm going to have to pass..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 04:11 AM
29

That is word-forword what was on my ex- boyfriend's tinder profile. While he was with me. Translation: I am looking for a side chick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 09:39 PM
43

Same, honestly. I didn't contact this guy's mum and sister because it wasn't worth the risk of further traumatizing myself and I didn't have their contact info. They would undoubtedly defend him (though, in their hearts, they know he is rotten to the core). However, one of the women I contacted (she is fierce and awesome) DID contact them. She received no response. My recommendation is don't bother. Or, if you do message them, prepare yourself for their vitriol. Message and block, maybe? I conta…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 11:14 PM
5

Mmmmmm...donuts! Sounds like a perfect date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 09:38 PM
14

Perfect! Dating yourself is the best! I took myself out for dinner (wagyu steak and wine, omg, pricey and delicious). Best. date. ever. Perfect conversation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:57 PM
49

Exactly! I'm 45 and never been better, mentally and physically). And, honestly, I'm attracting better looking men (though still wondering if HVM exist) than ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:55 PM
397

I discovered, at the moment of my last breakup, how valuable this advice is. I discovered his (serial) cheating and I did not entertain his lies and excuses. I simply told him what I discovered and that he needed to give me cash for a plane ticket to my preferred tropical paradise (I was visiting him abroad where he had recently moved and wasn't going to waste my vacation time) and pay for my stay there. I tallied it up. Turns out, my perpetually broke bf just happened to have a few thousand dol…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 08:31 PM
12

And it is cheap and easy to have him neutered if you want🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:51 AM
107

This is such an important message. I cut ties with a perceived HVM when it was revealed through conversations that he did not feel obligated to 'call out his boys' for their behavior. This concept that his friends were just joking and would never actually hurt a woman was just unforgivable to me. The things they said and did were truly horrendous and he said nothing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 08:36 AM
27

I actually DO walk my dogs at 3am. Dogs are some of the best protection around and it is so nice and quiet and peaceful. Nobody around. Honestly, I've always been brave (or careless) about that sort of thing. The biggest dangers come from the people we let into our lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:44 PM
56

Check out the research done by Abdul Rashid et al from U of M about 2 years ago entitled Medicalization of female genital cutting. It is eye opening to say the least. Some reports have the number of Malay women who have undergone the procedure at 99%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:34 AM
59

That is a good question. As an 'ang moh' (white person) in Malaysia, I am conscious of my cultural relativism and my position (regretfully) as a symbol (and participant) in the continued colonisation of this lovely country. These are changes that need to happen within the community and I do not (single, childless by choice, FDS adherent) have much leeway for entry. As women become more educated, FGM will diminish, we already see evidence of it in urban areas to a small extent. This is also a cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:27 AM
221

I live in Malaysia. 80% of Malay girls are subjected to FGM. There is very little discussion of it here, no protest, little awareness. And it is primarily caused by mothers having it done to their daughters, as it was done to them, and is tradition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 07:46 AM
11

Boss move! I love it! And I love when a woman helps another woman!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 07:45 AM
28

What a nightmare! I just can't even wrap my head around how a man could do this to a young girl. I hope you were able to recover financially and, hopefully, this experience saved you money in the long run because NEVER AGAIN! Our generous spirits work against us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:57 PM
1

What a nightmare! How painful and awful. I have met a few men who absolutely do not believe that women have a refractory period because, to them, if I am wet then I want it. No, asshole, I'm actually mentally and physically ready to take a shower and do my taxes🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:50 AM
77

The men I have been with come in three categories: 1) Genuinely surprised that I didn't have an orgasm from 10 minutes of jackhammering because I 'sound' like I did. I'm loud during sex but quiet as a mouse during orgasm. 2) Think that the 45 seconds of oral before PIV sex was sufficient. And won't go down after because they are 'done.' 3) Get off on helping me orgasm and are willing to take all time and learn my preferences. This special is rare but they are rewarded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:53 PM
8

Good question! I'm friends with his secret wife (of course, I didn't know about her and vice versa and, when I did make that discovery, I reached out to her and we supported each other). He gave her reasons for quitting that, in retrospect, are suspect (no money for tuition, visa problems as he is from a different country). All problems that an honest person could have handled. But he had lied so much to do many people, including his own wealthy family and likely the university itself, that it w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 09:43 PM
6

Yep. I watched toe documentary about that guy (not the series, too triggering). So many commonalities with me ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:08 PM
33

I wasted three years with a :maxiofacial surgeon.' He dressed the part, even had the hospital ID, would share stories about the patients he was working on and was so concerned because I ride a motorcycle and he had so many cases of having to reconstruct the mouths of people after accidents. He had that surgeon swagger and charm. It turns out, he WAS in a studying at uni to be a surgeon when I met him (that's how he got the ID which, in retrospect, I should have looked at closer). But then he qui…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:00 PM
73

A woman I respected so much gave me simple advice that changed my life. "Check his phone." What I saw on his phone gave me the quickest, most brutal wakeup call in my life. After three years, I dumped that guy in under one minute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:40 PM
16

Jesus. Why don't they just use their imaginations like the rest of us?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:02 PM
1

Malaysia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:01 PM
6

You are right, I'm sorry. I definitely am guilty of having a propensity for tropical places having grown up in a cold place myself. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 06:00 PM
8

Yes, I agree. I live in a country where porn sites/apps are blocked by the government and owning and distributing and creating porn is illegal. Has it diminished consumption? Not at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:21 AM
24

But my dog has the courtesy to avert his eyes when I catch him eyeing my chicken😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 07:15 AM
104

Nah, we will just let them have a little, ugly corner of the world to live in peace with their dolls. We can have the rest of this gorgeous world. They can have Siberia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:09 AM
10

She's a recent addition to my daily playlist. She gives me life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:27 PM
40

That was spot-on!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:05 PM
5

They may trick us but we always find a way to win in the end as is evident by amount of whinging they do on certain subreddit a😅. Consequences!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 10:03 PM
5

I fell for this over and over and over again, boyfriend after boyfriend. I was addicted to fixer-uppers. I think a montage would be great! Hilarious in retrospect!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 09:52 PM
18

Oh god, the worst! SMH. Scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 05:44 AM
69

Ex: I can't believe you think I lied. I am not a liar! My father (who had recently passed away) said that to me when I was a kid. It hurts so bad (starts crying). Me (pre-FDS): I am sorry. I trust you. I love you. Spoiler Alert: He was definitely lying. Laughed in my face about it when I showed him the receipts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:34 AM
60

Doing great! How are you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:29 AM
32

You are totally worth more. We all get these LVM and NVM all the time. They just want to invest as little as possible. It is up to you to set the standard and this guy hasn't even come close. He hasn't even earned an explanation for his rejection. Just block and treat yourself to a lovely dinner, you deserve it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 01:19 AM
9

Same, same, same. One place I worked at (I'm presuming we are in the same industry) hired a man to run the place who literally had NO qualification to do so. But he was white/British/male. He was fired for a variety of things but primarily for embezzlement. And he was immediately hired by a new place. 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 11:13 PM
81

I have to say I agree. I'm 45, no kids, have my money, have my things. I can leave, and have, without hassle, if a HVM becomes a LVM. And they do. But I see the benefits of marriage for some women. It is just not a path I'm interested in. My Grandmother met a HVM when she was in her early seventies. Respectful, funny, kind. They married after dating for a couple of years and he was lovely. He set her up comfortably. At 95 years old, she still is receiving the benefits from the lovely marriage ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:48 PM
1

I can see that perspective, particularly in Western countries and with children. I am 45 and chose a different path as have a lot of the women I friends with. No kids, living abroad, not interested in owning a house. I can still walk away from a relationship hassle-free and not be expected to share my money or property with him and have never even considered the concept of shared assets. My mistrust of men runs deep😅. I have always taken on what is more traditionally the husband role. In a LTR, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:30 PM
6

Are you in the US? Since I moved out of the country, I have to say the dick pics increased, the sizes of said dicks got smaller. It's fun to remind them that I am from America and size matters. And block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:54 PM
6

I have to say that, amongst my European, Australian and Asian friends, it is the norm and neither the man or woman is looking to marry. I certainly would rather have a partner than a husband. The issue with 'boyfriend or girlfriend"' is that it just sounds silly for an adult to refer to her/his preferred person using the same term as a 14 year old. Partner implies serious, monogamous status for couples who have moved past the patriarchal concept of marriage, at least amongst my friends that are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 10:15 AM
2

Honestly, it is hard to say. Compared to American men, you don't see these men ever being lazy, playing video games or not taking care of themselves. In shape, clean (almost obsessively so), drink little or no alcohol, will clean up after themselves when in your home, love to cook for you (and do dishes after) and ambitious both in career and intellectually in general. Confident but (usually) not cocky. Always pay the tab on a date even if they make significantly less salary. Negatives have been…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 09:47 AM
6

I had to look it up. The horror, the horror!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:49 AM
28

What's your secret? I'm 45 and I still get dick pics and questions like this. 🤦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:48 AM
8

🤣 Was it that nightmare inducing shade of light blue?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:26 AM
79

The only reason I can see to get married involves residency/citizenship/visa papers. Literally that's it. Maybe in the US, health insurance. I also like diamonds but, since LVM consider diamonds a sign of a gold digger mentality, I stick with inherited jewels.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:56 AM
113

Just remind them that most men are 1988 Chevy Celebrities with mysterious stains on the back seat😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 03:22 AM
9

It begins with rejecting family expectations which can be hard. I made friends with a Muslim family in Sri Lanka back in 2008. The mother insisted, and it was normal in the area, for her two teenage girls to wear full abaya with hair and faces covered. Even the eyes had to be covered by semi-transparent fabric. The girls were so fun and excited to meet me and invite me to their home to practice their English. The best part was the father. HVM, this one. He insisted the girls get the best educati…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:21 AM
1

Thank you. The phrase third world country is so outdated. Even 'developong' is on its way out because of it's association with the concept that countries should seek to follow a model dictated to them by Western Europe and the US but, so far, there hasn't been a good replacement term that people outside polisci circles embrace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 02:13 AM
18

I am an American woman living in Malaysia and this is so true. My dating pool here is miniscule (men from Europe pursue Asian women almost exclusively and local men prefer to stay in their cultural bubbles for relationships though they will try to pursue me because I fit an image that they associate with porn). The HVM come almost exclusively from the middle east and north africa. Seriously. The men who have passed my rigorous vetting process have all come from Muslim country backgrounds. Of cou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 12:38 AM
40

It is hilarious to me when a man complains that a woman's vagina is 'too loose.' No, him, your penis is just too small.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:50 PM
37

Truly. What is the point of small penises? If we let them use them, it will only serve to perpetuate this sad mutation in the future. The next generations of women deserve to not know what small penises are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:49 PM
40

I can't believe I FINALLY found a place where I can communicate with women who think like me😍!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:46 PM
18

Size queen here👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:41 PM
9

Men are so pornsick that 'hotwifing' is now an unavoidable thing out where I live. Men stalking apps and bars to find attractive men to come and have sex with their wives. It's different than cuckolding; they get off on watching from the perspective of a porn video. They have trained themselves into believing that watching their wives behave like pornstars while they masturbate is actually BETTER than having sex with their wives. I've known a few women who have done this and have yet to meet one…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:45 AM
43

When you say that, I take it as such a kind compliment. When scrotes say that, they get blocked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:31 AM
52

It's a 2000 SLK 230 black with red leather interior. She's a classic now but a real head turner!. I'm pretty handy with fixing cars (another way to avoid men though I do have a nice, reliable and probably gay mechanic out here). I live in Malaysia where we have nice roads and heat all year round so a two-seater that is fast us fun for me and the dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:29 AM
278

I consider men a "luxury item." I don't need them, I rarely want them but sometimes I splurge and give one a chance. But, like an expensive luxury, I only want the finest quality and consistency. Last year, I gave up on them. Bought a Mercedes convertible instead. It has certainly been more reliable and gives me more pleasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 01:58 AM
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That is terrible. I had a gyno once (I live in Malaysia and he was a traditional sort) who berated me too. Claiming that, if I had been married and had children like I was 'supposed' to, I wouldn't have fibroid in my uterus. His examination was so rough that it left me bleeding and in pain. I had gone in for an infection but he refused to test for STI because I should 'trust my boyfriend.' Spoiler alert: Boyfriend was cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:23 PM
11

'Plats dumb to avoid blame'....my ex's go-to move.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:13 PM
40

The best thing about men communicating their kinks upfront us that you know to block them before they hurt you. I decided to stop online dating a few years ago and only date men that were recommended by my friends. Had a lovely few dates with a nerdy, skinny botanist. So cute! Friends with all my friends! Safe! About two minutes into making out, he was choking me. I had to pry to his hands off my throat. His excuse? Well, my ex liked it. It's my kink. GTFO. He was known amongst my friends as the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:08 PM
19

What does 'based' mean? I saw for first time this morning and I also thought it was a misspelling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 08:48 AM
10

I have a big dog AND a small dog. They are both protective. The small dog is the alarm (he is so yappy) and the big dog is the intimidation (not much of a barker but he will bite an intruder). Plus, they are cuddly and make Zoom meetings more fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 08:40 PM
48

Definitely. Talk to your neighbors. I had a similar situation in my old neighborhood. Cops did nothing but it finally stopped when I communicated with my neighbors. It turns out, we had an older woman in the neighborhood that was respected by everyone. She called this man to her house and basically let him know that he was being watched by everyone and that there would be repercussions for his behavior (not sure what she threatened but she had pull in the community and he was scared). I got an a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:11 PM
2

In my experience, and I have snitched several times, the women are mostly thankful, frequently dump the man or just move to co-parenting and have become my friends. Really so kind! My dating profile online states very clearly in BOLd "If you are married or in a relationship, I will tell on you." But, let's face it, men don't read the profile. Too bad for them. Snitching is a sport and I'm bringing my A-game!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:20 AM
11

Yes! This! I have dated ALL types and, by far, the best boyfriends I have had were also the best looking. They were more honest because they were more confident in themselves. They treated me with respect and open dialogue (even if it was something I didn't want to hear, I respect that they wanted to have a conversation about the issues). Calm and predictable in a good way. The kind of guys who don't hide their phone. The mediocre guys? Wow. Don't get me started on the level of gaslighting and d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 10:45 AM
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