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RED FLAG 🚨sugaredberry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:14 AM
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NAH, SISsugaredberry/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 02:03 AM
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🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/22 05:08 PM
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I just saved this comment because it is brilliant. Two gut punches are the parts where you mention that men are angry when women don’t exist to serve them and the last part about
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:53 PM
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I don’t use male doctors period
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:26 AM
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Omg that “stitch” can cause serious health issues in women! What the Fuck! I think nowadays you can sue a doctor for doing that to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:23 AM
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A man who is jealous of his wife giving kids attention is a narcissist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:16 PM
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Public shaming is gonna have to be the route you go with this one. Social media posts tagging the school and principal, teachers etc, contact media, contact news outlets in major cities etc, and try to have documentation of it on hand even if it’s like, texts from your bro telling you of the bizarre rule.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 05:27 PM
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“Nesting materials” lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 05:48 PM
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Something that I just can’t understand is good men like this are lost to death/illness when true evil still walks the earth. It’s so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 10:40 AM
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In his interviews, he claims he “can’t sleep alone” and that’s why he needs a wife. So just desserts for this guy is gonna be that he sleeps alone in his old age lol. There’s a limit to weirdness and age women would put up with for money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 10:38 AM
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Omg... I want to cry tears of rage for you. Is there any possible way you can see if there were any cameras nearby that area? Even cameras that captured him driving by (to identify him), not the incident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 01:10 AM
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Right? Did anybody see the comments on the original post where that dude said he actually thought she would change her mind? Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:24 PM
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I agree with this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 03:18 PM
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Omg I wish you included the replies that absolutely obliterated this psychopath. What a psycho dumbass. What does her tummy tuck and laser treatments have to do with him and his son? Nothing, that’s what. What an obsessive control freak. This is karma!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 06:36 AM
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Wow, this guy is really somethin lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 04:21 AM
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standing ovation slow clap that’s exactly how this needs to work!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 09:49 PM
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Wow what cringe!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:49 PM
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Girl what? The leftovers part was mind boggling lmao. That behavior is just something I can’t understand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 04:27 PM
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GLOBAL RESISTANCE is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:00 PM
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You are one of the strongest women I’ve ever heard of!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:42 PM
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I’m sorry but the only way to deal with abusers like this in my opinion is No Contact. Sounds nuclear but they literally tried to auction 16 year old you off to a 28 year old pedo. It’s too late now for them to learn love or respect towards you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 03:13 AM
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I know a woman who calls herself a boymom and she is such a pickmeisha. It’s sad because she’s better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/21 02:11 AM
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Serious Stockholm syndrome. Pickmeishas are an embarrassment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 04:05 PM
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I honestly think this was written for men to make a fool out of themselves. Someone has been trolling men. Women most definitely notice things this obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 06:47 AM
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“Adult girls” ?? What the ...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 03:59 AM
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the hell is that? A job application? Ooooo lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 06:36 AM
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Say it to my face. For reallllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 11:12 PM
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I agree. Ghost him!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:52 PM
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Amen I would never date a divorced man or single father. Why? So he can do it to me? And if any lurkers wanna be butthurt over it ... men say they don’t want single parents or divorcees ALL the time. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:50 PM
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Inside that dumpster fire of a comment this woman made, there was one salvageable thing that is true. That the powers that be “brought women in the labor pool to depress wages” for “capitalism”. This is a huge part of 50/50 being a huge scam. But wow. The rest of that comment was trash. Her proposed solutions are also likely going to be trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 06:17 PM
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Police officer ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 06:54 AM
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I know. By the way, I really loved your insight that Hollywood knew 30 years ago that coffee dates aren’t acceptable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 05:36 AM
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The part where he screams about wanting kids in the snowball fight was so creepy. I saw the movie as a child and that scene still gives me the heebie jeebies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:47 AM
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“One of us, one of us, one of us”!!! Welcome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:41 AM
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Omg you just described sexual assault especially the bleeding... what the fuck ... I’m so sorry. That man sounds like a complete psychopath!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 04:40 AM
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Max cringe omg hope you blocked and deleted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:55 AM
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Kind of creepy that he lists the facts but their comment history rings very disingenuously, I’m guessing they’re some sort of self aware narcissistic psychopath. Cringeee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 04:33 AM
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The irony of him using Karen as an insult bc of entitlement. The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:54 AM
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Wow, so they know deep down that they are “automatic loser[s]” for how they behave towards women and for leaving another woman a single mother... Good comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:48 AM
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Ignoring boundaries is very narcissistic of them. That’s true like why do they care so bad? They need to move on. Men write things like that in their OLD profiles all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:44 AM
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The reason for this in my opinion is that many disordered people go into psychology field in order to understand themselves. I might sound paranoid but I legitimately believe some of them are there to stick up for their own kind. That’s the only explanation I can come up with for professionals neglecting the elephant in the room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:25 AM
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Dr Ramani on Youtube And about the phenomena, it’s hard to find because people start screeching that talking about that is bigotry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:13 AM
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There was a post banning such talk around here, so I’ll keep it brief, but there’s a phenomena of men with cluster B personality disorders who are in the closet who act abusive to women to feel better about it ... when you mention the revolving door of girlfriends and the narcissistic behavior it reminded me of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 02:05 AM
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Agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 05:53 PM
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I believe the answer is linked to narcissism. This man is clearly a narcissist, especially the “Daddy is their hero” but he apparently “never wanted the responsibility of kids”. Also the “no emotion whatsoever from him” part was very narcissistic. Chris Watts was a narcissistic sociopath. I think these psychos do their best to be disneyland dad, it allows them to undermine the mother of their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:46 AM
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Him messaging you afterwards is just so creepy. They are so hateful and disrespectful to women they claim to be attracted to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 07:34 AM
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Omg I didn’t even see your username 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 06:54 AM
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This sums up why I’m a rad fem in a nutshell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 05:52 AM
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So demented.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 07:29 PM
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Male depravity makes me nauseous. I do my very best not to have ANY dealings of ANY kind with men like this. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 08:55 PM
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This post needs to be required reading
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 10:56 AM
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Horrific!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 09:42 PM
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“Makes my partners feel like shit” = makes women dump me lol The karma is too great on this one that I’m thinking it has to be a fake story. A man feeling remorse? Where? The way his “shocked pikachu” demeanor conveys regret that his behavior caused him to lack connection makes him seem like a moron. It reminded me of my best friend when I was a kid. They had a disability and had a very ornery outlook on life. Whenever anyone would say anything particularly stupid, she would go “HURRR DE DURR!” …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:32 PM
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Future, a HVM? Lolwut is right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:19 AM
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“When a woman approaches” what ? The man speaks to the woman. Therefore, (Trump style) WRONG. Wrong. Wrong. These pieces of crap are such projectors, “information collecting” is what narcissistic abusers like them do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:17 AM
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Acting like this is a reason to toss them on their ass, fr. This is horrible. Sorry that happened to you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:12 AM
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Men like this need to be publicly shamed on the news
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 05:01 PM
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Narcissistic behavior. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:56 PM
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Sounds like a malignant narcissist/psychopath especially from his interview behavior description. Disgusting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 04:50 PM
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I tried looking but I couldn’t stomach it. Google “erectile dysfunction in sexual sadists”? That might lead somewhere. I think I found out about it because a serial killer had been motivated to rape women for those reasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 03:08 AM
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Wow, what a silly question (the one on the exam). Kind of ridiculous/messed up that you were marked wrong for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:54 PM
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Sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 07:52 PM
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Men do assault other men. Also, there have been documented cases of men with ED who are so angry their junk doesn’t work that they go out and rape/assault women, using objects. It’s about power
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:37 PM
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Absolutely. Due to society gaslighting women it may seem like this guy isn’t “that” bad but he is very creepy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 03:23 PM
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Yes, exactly. It’s a “test” they do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 06:58 AM
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It proves that we aren’t “using” them 🙄I legit googled this behavior (doing tests on people) and that’s how I found out it’s emotionally abusive. It shows a lack of trust. Obviously, no woman wants to date a man that distrusts and therefore dislikes women. Omg, “thank you for inviting me to dinner” is a good one! It’s dignified and gets the message across.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:53 PM
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That is terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:48 PM
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The way I personally handle situations like that, all depends. How you would react to this on a first date is different than reacting to someone you know. Now, I don’t think how I handled it was particularly correct, but both times I said I’d pay but it was absolutely the only and final straw against them. My personal way of handling crappy behavior is I let people have their moment because the way I see it, they are NEVER gonna see me again. I won’t be hanging out with them again ETC. There’s m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:45 PM
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This is funny, and all that, but it’s gonna be a no from me. Here’s why: first of all, “tests” like that are abusive. Now I’m MUCH more willing to look the other way when women are doing this for vetting purposes, but I want women to be aware of one thing: do not let men do silly little “tests” on you. If a man “forgets” his wallet and then was checking to see your reaction to check if you’re a “gold digger” (I’ve had two men try this), this is actually emotionally abusive by definition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 11:16 PM
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Molding one’s self into whatever characteristics their marks have is so predatory, narcissistic and abusive. You hit the nail on the head. They are using terms interchangeably without even knowing their meaning
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 09:00 PM
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“You seem cool” 🤨🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:58 PM
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I think Marilyn Manson is one of those self-hating gay psychopaths in the closet based on his hatred of women and obsession with anal. Ok. I just googled it. Marilyn Manson has hooked up with his bandmates and has a matching tattoo with Johnny Depp, another abuser. The man is a self-hating homosexual. They hate women for representing what they will never have/don’t want (but society says they should), a hetero relationship. Smoking gun: he posed in a gay magazine!!!! To the person crying that th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 02:30 AM
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That’s horrible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:53 PM
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This is fucking crazy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:04 PM
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Narcissistic psychopaths sure do love to project
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:35 PM
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Pathetic is right. Love the energy of your comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:31 PM
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I found this sub because a poster called y’all female incels on JNMIL lmao ... glad I’m here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:37 PM
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I laughed when you said it makes your skin crawl. Username checks out !!! Love this comment !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:53 PM
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I would never download dating apps, to begin with. Ever. If that makes me hardcore FDS then ok I don’t object
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 08:48 PM
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This is why I only see female doctors that I have vetted myself. PERIODT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 09:06 PM
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How could somebody stay with a man that calls women dogs? Sorry but just bc a man has a good job or money does NOT mean HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:20 AM
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This entire ride was sad ... and I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/21 10:19 AM
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It’s satire y’all. It has to be lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 05:24 PM
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They have to do it from their keyboard because they can’t mute us in real life. They can’t mute the fact that they’re alone because of THEMSELVES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 07:09 PM
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The way he kicks the stand of fireworks (?) afterwards is a huge creepy sign that she would be the one getting kicked when ever she notices that he’s cheating etc. The entitlement is creepyyyy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:52 PM
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I think what you are referring to is called negging as well as “bait and switch“, a narcissistic abuse tactic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 05:10 PM
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Omg that warms my heart that single mothers and divorcees won’t touch them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 04:10 PM
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For real!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:09 AM
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good, that was honestly going to keep me up at night and I don’t even know you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 04:08 AM
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Do you have full custody now?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 10:46 PM
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Cringe... it is really lonely at the top. I see beautiful strong women who are celebrities and they are single... I sincerely do not believe they are the issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:40 PM
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Really? Do tell more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:38 AM
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This is why 50/50 is a scam !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 05:37 AM
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I would never be with a man who made a woman a single mother. And why the fuck is future MIL deciding or suggesting anything? This smells like narcissistic abuse and it’s a fucking trainwreck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 06:50 PM
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She definitely wasn’t lying she preferred to have romantic relationships with women and she used men as in used them for money. She rarely slept with men to my knowledge but occasionally she did. Obviously I’m no longer her friend but she claimed being a lesbian very much. In any case, the focus here is on men who fetishize their supposed “friends” and claim they don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 01:16 AM
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I thought it was ok to introduce my lesbian friend to my ex, and then found out they were texting and going to hang when I was at school. Then I recalled something she had said to me the year before. She said that some lesbians, including her, view men as dildos and just use men but want relationships with women. So yes, I think a man hanging over women excessively is still weird and I wouldn’t be so dismissive of suspicious activity just bc someone’s claiming to be lesbian. Not saying lesbians …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:38 PM
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Umm this is so inappropriate. Men would FLIP if their SO was discussing their relationship with their male friends. Also, why specifically hang with her alone? Specifically when she was “standoffish”? Ugh, their plausible deniability bs (the way he worded it like an innocent little “outing”) is ANNOYING. He knows damn well he’s being rude af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:28 PM
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Something similar just happened to me. An employee at a vintage gaming store heard me say I wanted a game, he pretended to look for it saying he had it, but the store was closing so could I leave my name and number? I almost did, trusting them to be professionals but instead just crumpled up the paper I wrote on, said I’d be back and walked right out. Smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:56 PM
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Oh no my heart just went in my throat and I don’t even know you... I’m sorry that happened to you... I absolutely hate that feeling of being hit with “I’ve been had”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:44 PM
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This man deserves to be straight up ghosted. Like one day come home to an empty place ghosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:41 PM
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Let them tell on themselves. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 06:37 PM
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He sounds like one of those covert narcissist that are in the closet. They are a particularly hateful breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:50 PM
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cause that’s how they see us Just people with Cluster B personality disorders. Very rampant issue in today’s society and dare I say men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 04:03 PM
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I just saved this comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:25 AM
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He was bemoaning not having a relationship with a woman. Basically that whole “careermaxing” or whatever then finding a 20 something is a big fat lie lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 06:40 AM
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Just saw a post in r/ dating from a guy who said he focused too much on his career, missed the boat, and his promotion doesn’t fulfill him. Ohhh welll....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 09:13 PM
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“Aint no hvm want no fatty” wow cos I’m sure whoever typed that out was the pinnacle of fitness themselves. Congrats! You can lose weight but trolls will never lose their ugly attitude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 04:51 PM
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I just scrolled to check what that name was an OMG it was amazing !!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 12:29 AM
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I think all misogynists should be put to death but I didn’t wanna say anything too incriminating on Reddit. They’ll never find the bodies !!! Just kidding.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:24 PM
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Omg the photo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:12 AM
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Absolutely. It makes them very angry. I remember there was a man at my college who was BIG ANGY at something radfem I said. One day he saw me walking down the street and I was actually having a good day that I kept smiling and looked right through him as if he wasn’t anybody bc he is literally nobody to me and kept walking. I triggered that man so hard with one joyful smile that he went and wrote a big rant online where our entire college could see about how I’m such a bigot later that night. Th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:56 AM
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Stay safe. You’re an inspiration. I love the part where you said, “feeling angry is just so relieving”. I don’t know who you are, but I’m going to remember you and wish you well in my heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:29 AM
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For real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:17 AM
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Reading comments like these makes me want to get my pitchfork and remove these men from the planet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:49 AM
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I see a jowl in this guys photo lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 01:46 AM
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That ain’t a hater that’s a FAN lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 11:30 PM
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“Successful LVM” this hit the nail on the head!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 01:29 PM
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Adding on to this as a separate comment bc it’s a separate thought but the whole “being surrounded by misogynists in the military” thing reminds me of being surrounded by psycho neoliberals “libfem” people in college. I despaired thinking that the real world was going to be filled with neoliberal people who straight up try to ruin your life for saying BDSM is violence against women etc. The real world wasn’t like that at all (edit: ok maybe not at all, there are people who certainly get BIG ANGY…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:43 PM
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I completely agree about not trusting military men. While I will never deny the scrotacity of men, I believe that it doesn’t have to be like this. I think you’re surrounded by misogynists and it’s easy to get lost in the shit. I’m really trying NOT to #notallmen here, but, I think it’s fair to say the military attracts (or concentrates in one place) mostly NVM and misogynistic men. So of course these successful narcissistic misogynistic men will tell you go your own way bc they can’t perceive an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:32 PM
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I’m sorry you were married to a misogynist that is rage inducing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 08:27 PM
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Your comment plus your username... the irony 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:18 PM
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This is ironic! I’ve been dating a really good guy and yesterday I made a joke about him being “dominant” over something mundane like cooking and he told me that he didn’t feel comfortable with that word before he realized I was joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:17 PM
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Creepy as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 11:27 AM
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It’s important not to tell them why or it teaches him to not tell women and lie by omission. Good job on the rest though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:00 AM
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Hi I would like to recommend the book Toxic Parents by Susan Forward. The book gives a helpful list of scenarios and things that parents do that cause trauma and are inappropriate. This is silly but I didn’t know it’s inappropriate for your parents to treat you like you’re their therapist until I read that book as an adult. It’s free if you search for it online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 07:01 PM
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I think it’s to be very clear that it’s women only. Generally, seeing females used like that is annoying to me as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:45 PM
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For real thank you mods. I’m finally in a rad fem space where women aren’t being silenced by pickme liberals
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:42 PM
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This describes my covert narcissistic ex to a tee. He’s 28 now and his NVM older brother did this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 03:41 AM
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“Should I try to move on”? Wow what an insecure scrote. Women can’t win in a scrote’s eyes. She’s behaving like a married woman and saying no to dumbass crap like threesomes, yet he wants to slut shame her over high school. How juvenile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:00 PM
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Hi. Please No Contact anyone who tells you to cover your arms up. What in the everlasting fuck is wrong with those ppl? So sorry that happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:46 PM
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It’s always the pedophilic scrotes who are big moochers and abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:13 PM
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Omg I love a happy ending
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:29 PM
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Yes yes yes to all of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 11:29 PM
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THAT PART!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 08:22 PM
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This is very accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 12:19 AM
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For. Real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:10 PM
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Wow what a dumbass I hope it f’ed him over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 11:24 PM
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I believe this was written by an ex gf to embarrass his ass when she found the profile. It’s a thing women do when they find their scrote’s dating profile on their phone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:50 PM
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The “too old” thing rang with such a pedophilic tone. Fucking freak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 09:22 PM
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Pretend feminists. What a joke!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 07:38 PM
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Yes I absolutely agree. It’s been obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:10 PM
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I wanna insert a joke here about how we have to bc they are all trashhh lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:23 PM
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FOR REAL. Mic drop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:13 PM
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This is why these MRA’s infiltrate our spaces. They love trolling women like this. They would probably love seeing this comment. This comment reminds me of an MRA trolling tactic. They encourage their (childfree, mgtow, psychopathic) guys to claim they might want kids “someday” so that they can have unsafe sex (despite never wanting marriage/kids, just to use women) and then when the girl actually gets pregnant to goad her into an abortion by saying “they aren’t ready yet sorry”. My NVM ex that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:09 PM
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I’m fine being a radfem in a women only space Same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:59 PM
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My feed is also cute animals and FDS. I’m on vintage video game subs but never comment. That’s their watering hole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:58 PM
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Oh my God. Neoliberal feminists make me tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:59 AM
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This is a bit problematic, but ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 08:53 PM
5

This is f’n funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:47 PM
53

The irony
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 07:40 AM
10

Not too deep of a reason, but narcissists need to feel like they destroyed you. It’s so they can give themselves confirmation bias that they did the “”right”” thing by abusing and leaving you bc apparently their victims are “worthless”. Max cringe way of thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 09:14 PM
6

Yikessssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 08:18 AM
3

If you ever stop living with her it would be sweet if you told her the last part to her face
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 05:42 AM
15

Hello, I’ve been researching narcissists for over six years. The reason they do this is so that everyone will like them, it gives them supply when people think they’re SUCH a nice guy. The missing piece is that they do this bc they get emphatically congratulated and thanked for being kind to strangers. When they do so for their family, that’s expected behavior (that doesn’t necessarily deserve accolades). That’s doesn’t sit well with them and their addiction to narcissistic supply. Grand gesture…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:24 PM
30

We can all dream but we all know those scrotes that would hit the roof at their kids being taught “sissy crap”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:15 PM
69

You should write articles and publish them. Although we all know the patriarchy would never let you publish this. You are 100% correct in every regard. This was entertaining, thought provoking as well as informative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 09:05 PM
36

❤️ thank you for being who you are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:32 PM
12

This comeback wouldn’t work on my man because he knows how to do those things. However he cooks for me too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 07:31 PM
4

Sending support. I often wish karma would smite these scrotes. If anyone has stories of karma hitting scrotes, I would love to see them in the comment replies. I’ll start with a funny one I told about this morning. A scrote raised my BF’s rent because he was angry that my BF didn’t want to hangout with his scrote ass. Then the scrote’s TV broke, and he had to go out that day and purchase a new one that cost exactly the same amount the rent increase had cost my BF. Not THAT satisfying, but still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 03:10 PM
6

Blocked
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:47 AM
43

It’s called narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 11:30 AM
3

Oh my gosh. Sending support. That’s awful. He is wicked and evil. Sick pieces of shit. He can no longer hurt you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 02:17 AM
17

You do need a PhD to be a college professor so she is on the right track 🤣 with this “marriage” we could say she is on the tenure track for Clownology 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:40 PM
6

Doth protest too much. Sounds like he isn’t as relaxed as he claims.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:54 PM
54

I hear circus music playing LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:15 AM
111

She just got her PhD in Pickmeisha Arts from Clown University. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 05:14 AM
21

The audacity. Not even shocked. There was a NVM harassing me to “hang out” NINE YEARS after I dumped his ass! He texted me! Freakkkkkkk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:49 PM
36

What a narcissistic freak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 05:48 PM
6

Pickmeishas are a serious blight on our gender (as well as evil narcissists which it sounds like this granny was)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:56 PM
6

She was probably staring because she was baffled at how such a young child has already developed The Scrotacity (TM).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:53 PM
60

That they hate women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 03:39 PM
7

That is really sad. I honestly blame the parents for emotionally abusing the pickmes into what they are now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:35 PM
7

Sad but true. People claim it’s hard to befriend other women. In my opinion it’s difficult because pickmeishaism is so pervasive. I’m not the type of friend that leaves/drops hangouts to spend time with men, but I’ve dealt w/ that when befriending women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:29 PM
5

Max cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:09 PM
6

Serial killer vibes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 03:08 PM
22

final boss Omg that was hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:59 PM
22

Big yikes. Couldn’t be me. My man would die before letting me buy him a gaming system I’m pretty sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:47 PM
11

What in the fuck 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:11 AM
4

What a total loser! The part where he conned you into going to restaurants was awful. The part where he said his relationships are short lived, 2-3 months was actually a huge red flag that he had a cluster B disorder!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 11:48 PM
1

She dumped him. Woo!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 09:10 PM
21

That man is gay !!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 04:02 AM
6

Holy fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:11 AM
31

That’s a HELLNAW from me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 06:16 AM
51

I don’t see men as doctors bc of this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 05:58 AM
6

The fate of narcissists!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 06:24 AM
60

Wow, these nvm’s do not even respect their friends. Not that this is a shocker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:54 PM
16

LOVE YOUR USERNAME (again)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:52 PM
22

Men like that need to be put down. I would say, “like the animals that they are,” but that’s an insult to animals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:49 PM
20

YUP, my nvm ex got us pulled over on Christmas with his bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:47 PM
7

LVM, demanding to drive when he is angry so he can feel like a MaN. Max cringe. I hope you weren’t injured in this accident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:45 PM
6

I am sorry that happened to you. Glad you are here. The vetting rules really work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 05:55 PM
5

Pathological cluster b scrote
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:22 PM
21

Damnnnnnnnnnnnn that last sentence is a m a z i n g
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 10:19 PM
13

I like Anna Bey, although I do get certain judgey vibes from her though. I just take what I like, leave what I don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 01:02 AM
46

Fuck around and find out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:54 PM
48

You carry the hearts of all of us with you 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:52 PM
18

This video was actually really great. I took the time to watch it after commenting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 09:12 PM
57

Anna’s pretty cool but she has a lot of internalized misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:57 PM
4

Thankfully the people on my friends list have no ties to the Narc Ex, he is from and currently resides in a location 2,000 miles from me. But absolutely, the best & safest way to deal with narcs is to disappear on them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:44 PM
6

Holy shit, those LVM sabotagers make me TIRED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:40 PM
9

Oh wow! That’s very FDS energy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:37 PM
12

I hear you completely which is why I block and delete mutuals/flying monkeys as well. Still, something doesn’t sit right with me about staying off social media due to one specific person. I feel like that’s letting them control you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:28 PM
29

I love the way you write!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:18 PM
15

I’m 26 now. Something I figured out quick in college is that most early 20’s men were NVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 06:03 PM
25

The part about him looking for marriage is called “future faking” and he definitely thought he was dangling a carrot in front of you. What a cringy ass narcissistic man! And yes, it was cringy how he used women and claimed he was “looking for the one”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 05:43 PM
10

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 08:19 PM
25

The irony of hating sugar babies but that being his ONLY way for a shred of affection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:46 PM
16

Haha esp at the rented car part 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:44 PM
18

What in the actual fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 07:04 PM
53

What is a coomer that sounds hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 06:43 PM
2

Let her go you ugly 52 year old loser
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 12:11 AM
9

Men in jeeps is a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 11:37 PM
6

Jfc. Well, this person(pos) will repeat this crap forever while that woman has the chance to move on. I seriously pity the stories in the comments about the women who married men like this. :( no no no
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:40 AM
11

Omg oh hell naw
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 01:35 AM
102

I can’t decide whether what the original post does or what you do is better. I’ve done both lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 03:29 PM
12

“How do you do, fellow kids?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:58 AM
56

It sounds like a man LARP’ing as a woman, like “how do you do fellow kids” type sht.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:57 AM
8

Did he really just say “cOmMUniCatE”? Dumb ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:59 PM
6

The gym isn’t an audience though. F’n scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 09:22 PM
3

Well put
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 04:11 PM
23

I’m with a HVM and I met through friends. Curiously, my man does not (or did not) use OLD period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:33 PM
18

Wait he said you’re post wall at 25? Wow they are delusional
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:49 PM
24

So either we are gold diggers or we are taking their jobs. Nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:36 PM
1

She sounds like a pickme. She needs to take that sisterwives shit elsewhere. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:41 PM
1

Yes mam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:41 PM
1

She is guilty if she ever discussed his premeditated plans with him ... another comment stated she was not shocked at his arrest. She may not have been shocked bc she must have known what was to come. Circumstantial, but seems suspicious. We will probably never know unless either of them admit to anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:30 PM
3

It’s not weird, it’s natural to want a good/normal family. I’m sorry you have a pos for a father.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:16 PM
7

That’s despicable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:14 PM
2

Great work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:12 PM
3

Wise advice! Needs to be printed and laminated!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:16 AM
-1

Why hasn’t she been arrested? This theory makes her an accessory to murder. She’s psychotic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:56 AM
5

YES
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:34 AM
18

In my honest opinion the world would be a better place if people like him were put down. I’m glad you’re nothing like him or what he wanted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:31 AM
1

Seems weird... the woman wrote the article herself. I think she might be embellishing. And while yes, women deserve pampering, there’s a level of selfishness there that’s pathological. So I hope it’s just satirizing scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:26 AM
8

So predatory... she’s over here confused and he most definitely does not care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 09:22 AM
3

Oh wow I never realized their “false rape accusations” cry was actually projection... thanks for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:56 AM
9

I definitely do not. I have never and will never download Tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:29 AM
11

Did you get up and leave?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 08:16 AM
2

I just laughed out loud at that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 01:50 AM
38

kicking women and children out humanely and legally What in the fuck? This creep reminds me of my NVM incel ex. He wanted a prenup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:21 PM
3

This woman needs serious help. No, it isn’t normal at all. She needs to ask herself who led her to believe it was normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:16 PM
7

Cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:05 PM
22

I responded to you in PTSD but I’m glad you came here. Your alarm bells and intuition were right and I’m glad you are safe and spoke up for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:48 PM
13

I neverrrr chase men. Ever. If a man wants you, you’ll know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:38 PM
5

Omg let me play the world’s saddest violin
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:35 PM
32

It’s red pill talk, my incel NVM ex used phrases like this. “Living life on hard mode”. Men are so bitter lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:24 PM
13

F’n yikes man. Cheers to no longer ever entertaining men who are like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:17 PM
20

I recommended FDS to a woman on FB and a pickmeisha came out to get big mad about our values lol - sounds like the patriarchy is big “angy” and they got some nice liberal pickmeishas to do an article on it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 07:24 PM
12

Referred to his own child as “the child”. Honestly a good background isn’t enough anymore. They may jump through society’s hoops but they can’t fake the funk for too long when it comes to their personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:18 PM
8

What’s a finsub?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:54 AM
44

Self hating men in the closet are so pathological, not even funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:40 AM
1

My narcissistic ex was one of those gaming and ignores his Grey African Parrot types. I’m actually stunned to read this. He’s her favorite person and he actually said he hated her bc she shrieks a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:33 AM
7

If you have to ask what are we then it’s nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:09 AM
15

Oh good. Good good good. I’m sorry. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 04:05 AM
48

Are you No Contact with those people? I’m asking because I don’t want you to be murdered too. Whoever you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:59 AM
15

Are those two related?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 03:57 AM
4

“Narcissistic psychopath” Look up Sam Vaknin, he’s a self aware narcissist. The part where you described him as having the accuracy of a surgeon with a scalpel was what creeped me out and realized he was a cold, calculated scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:11 AM
5

I don’t understand why anyone would ever reply to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:57 AM
5

cringing out the door That was such lovely imagery. This is maximum cringe. The scrotacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:59 PM
4

This is really cute but it’s usually not that view.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 08:03 AM
5

DAMNNNN you are smart !!! That’s some big brain stuff right there. 🤯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 07:24 AM
4

They just say things no woman would say. Even when women disagree with what we say they wouldn’t phrase it the way they did lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 07:13 PM
18

This is a man LARP’ing as a woman lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 02:46 PM
13

Saying little hints like that about themselves is a red flag for narcissistic abusers. Hints where they talk badly about themselves. Thank you for sharing. He is a freak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 08:17 PM
1

That’s exactly it. I read an article comparing it to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:21 PM
7

I can look for the paper and send it to you there’s citations embedded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:59 PM
11

Did he call you that before or after he dusted the cheeto dust from his hands? I love the insight you put about them doing this just to make people hurt like them. It’s true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:02 PM
5

Sounds like they were reaching because you said something that made them big mad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:00 PM
21

I have a degree in molecular biology and I am familiar with the exact chemical “pathway” the steroids use that causes men all those problems with their pp and prostate after using them. It’s cringe. I did a report on that pathway in college and got a 100 on it 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:55 PM
6

I chuckled because these men probably don’t even know the definition of dilated cardiomyopathy. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 06:49 PM
3

True! Sickening thought!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:50 PM
5

I definitely had that detail wrong. Of course there was a beginning to all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:48 PM
41

That’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:39 PM
66

The narcissistic psychopath scrote needed viagra. Shocker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:38 PM
25

He was not only a narcissist but a narcissistic psychopath. According to Dr Ramani all psychopaths have narcissism which is the overlap (not all narcs are psychotic)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:37 PM
25

Avoid men who do this by avoiding age gap relationships. This is a case of a 35 year old abusive scrote who preyed on a 26 yo. While it may not seem all that bad, this man had 9 more years to perfect his “game” and his manipulations so that a young lady doesn’t even notice until she is told by the affair partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:35 PM
2

They’re out there... your comment reminded me of a scrote who complained about making me ramen when I was 16. I blocked and deleted him before I even knew what that was. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:18 AM
2

Thanks! He’s the best man I’ve ever been with. I followed this sub before I met him, though, and I would say the sub influenced me a lot in deciding and choosing what’s best for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 03:09 AM
3

My current man used to manage a restaurant and loves to cook. He’s always bringing ME food while I play the video games. The irony lol. I taught him the word scrote and he about died and uses it sometimes now. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 01:39 AM
3

Ah this is so delicious lmao “I asked to meet these guys and she said it’d be awkward and changed topics” lmao!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:39 PM
20

He sounds like a narcissist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:56 AM
7

Wow the audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:25 PM
5

Sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 09:02 PM
8

Wow who could have guessed that outcome?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:39 PM
5

she was always bitchy because I am way better looking than she is and she didn’t like it. (Yeah typical libfem not a feminist at all) You have hit the nail on the head with how utterly inane, hypocritical and full of crap libfems are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:38 PM
7

Mic drop!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:34 PM
5

You really had me in the first half not gonna lie I was freaking out and about to exit this place! Omg you got me good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:31 PM
20

This is common etiquette. The one who invites, pays
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:27 PM
4

Omg this guy is such a man baby I had to resist the urge to audibly laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 08:41 PM
2

Yep I’m in a good relationship now for the past six months. I also blocked and deleted that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:13 PM
12

This was so funny. They are so unaware of themselves!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:06 PM
9

Wow, condescending in the second message. Wow. The entitlement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:02 PM
13

I had a moment like this with my 3rd Narc (and last!). One day his computer was open and I decided to check through it (despite no real reason to, I was not aware he was a narc until after this). I found awful things. I had been through things with men already so nope I do check their phones and computers, no shame, the scrotes have proven time and time again they are not worthy of trust.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 05:39 PM
1

I think in some cases it was join them or die, for example if a person was a police officer or soldier in the time “before”, they were given those two options (join, obey or die) going forward in the “new regime”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 04:34 PM
6

Sounds like your grandfather was a shitty person, I think the joke about this amazing woman finding him was funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:42 PM
10

Good for you! I like everything you said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:40 AM
10

Scary as hell. 35 year old CREEP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:12 AM
6

“REEE I CAN’T MANSPLAIN AND DEBATE WOMEN’S HUMANITY! I’m a victim!!!1111!1!1”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:53 AM
8

Sexist and misogynist aaaafff to call her rebellious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:36 AM
1

Omg that is too funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:08 PM
37

Downright pathological. Men scream about the Wall but it looks like the Wall is exactly where this particularly fetid specimen is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:43 PM
19

OMG I’ll be your friend ... I can’t stand pickmeishas!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 06:34 AM
7

Those subs are so toxic. Everyday life is filled with so much misogyny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:08 PM
17

I have heard of people complaining about this before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 05:34 PM
6

He’s displaying a lot of warning signs on being a narcissist!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:53 PM
11

From your username and previous posts... as a mother, don’t get involved with or move your child in with this scrote. Please. This is red flags galore. Red flag 1: massive red flag is refusing to eat pussy. To me that’s a red flag that a man is a narcissistic abuser. Of the self hating homophobic variety. It is not normal for hetero men to get such visceral disgust from women’s anatomy. Red flag 2: All these nice things he’s doing right now? It’s called love bombing. Red flag 3: comments about y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:50 PM
2

Yes the next post someone should share is UNITY by Queen Latifah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:40 PM
3

I love Reverie, her music is great. However I unfollowed her after she made an instagram video about how cutting toxic family/parents out is immature and it had a lot of victim blaming. I feel that encouraging people to continue abusive relationships “because family” is a negative thing for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:39 PM
7

The reason this sub is “extremism” is that it’s considered perfectly normal to hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:42 PM
27

WTF this needs to be put on blast!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:30 PM
16

Can you link me to the post?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:53 PM
16

So creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:09 PM
24

He needs to stalk her IRL because how else will he use narcissistic manipulation tactics to secure the date? 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:09 PM
4

Ok I liked Elf but other movies he was in weren’t funny. At all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:07 AM
6

Is this from a porn video or did they really have the audacity to post this on social media?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:34 PM
6

Yes it’s called DDLG and there’s another cringy name for it. Edited to add 1 hour later: It’s called “Adult Baby” ugh it’s so whack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:33 PM
6

You aren’t wrong. I feel that more abusers are self hating homophobes than we are aware of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:48 PM
108

The woman should fix this by leaving him... he used a poor person to pay bills. Piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:46 PM
14

I would say anything with James Franco but some of the ones I thought of were mentioned in the comments already.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:44 PM
10

He isn’t funny at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 10:43 PM
32

I’m guessing that it was caused by “muh penis” and them being larger than us
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:17 PM
20

If someone idolizes him (Jordan Peterson!) run!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 02:37 PM
1

Extreme narcissistic psychopath.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:51 PM
169

My Negative Value Male Narcissistic ex was grossed out by oral and I am 100% sure he was in the closet. Never had this issue with men. My experience is if a man is obsessed with you they will even lick your asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:02 AM
10

Unfortunately 60 years ago was the time of the hippies and I read they had orgies on the beach in CA. Men have been disgusting for all time🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:47 PM
4

❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:33 PM
36

One reason I believe Amber is take a look at how he was with Winona Ryder. Tattooing her name and stuff. Reeks of love bombing. He’s the common denominator there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:19 PM
65

OMG SOMEONE FINALLY SAID IT. SOMEONE FINALLY SAID IT. Thank you. Thank you because it drives me insane as hell that people actually believe his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:14 PM
9

Thank you for posting. Love that book!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:05 PM
3

That would be a great idea. Tbh I’d be afraid of being infiltrated by pickmeishas as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 04:13 AM
13

In the big city I once lived in, multiple women were attacked at the most popular gay bar in town.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:38 PM
15

That sounds lovely. Speaking of France did you hear about their new age of consent law? 15 years old 😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 03:37 PM
72

Good in theory but it would get canceled over being female only. Men would try to go anyway. You know which ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 01:08 PM
28

Please report him to Uber that’s scary as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:47 AM
8

Big yikes he definitely has one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:09 PM
19

DM the admins of the group a screenshot of this message and his name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:31 PM
3

I think he’s lying about “every student is fully functioning” ... why even say that? Who is he trying to convince?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 10:31 PM
3

The most downvoted comment was so surreal. Like why did they come here? Both ideologies clash hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:53 PM
10

I think the OP is just a regular person who was getting together with community members, but the comments from people defending Mormons are really weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:44 PM
13

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:05 PM
15

Omg I audibly laughed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 02:05 PM
24

How on earth do we have Mormons on FDS? The religion goes against FDS values. It’s patriarchal and breeds abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:16 PM
9

He sounds like a covert narcissist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 01:07 PM
11

It’s a horribly sexist show
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:27 PM
15

Lol. Nice! Thanks for posting this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 04:24 PM
7

This is why women in films aren’t realistic. This whole persona was imagined by them. They’re sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 10:10 AM
8

Funny how entitled they feel to women despite being scrotastic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:26 AM
5

Me neither 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:25 AM
17

That was so cringy how he came up with a whole fake narrative in his head for her. Anything to hate women 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 07:25 AM
30

That’s called projection and it’s a narcissistic trait
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:54 PM
20

They sound narcissistic and sexist if they assume the reason you’re going is you found someone else (like they are implying you are a “””whore”””) instead of the reason being their actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:52 PM
24

I never send paragraphs. Anyone who treats you badly isn’t going to care and they call expressing yourself “crazy”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:50 PM
4

That don’t even sound right. Love your username btw 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:40 PM
-3

It’s called lean chicken (or fish) 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 09:18 PM
7

What they were doing is called internalized misogyny. Please don’t feel bad about going to the gym. You are doing something to improve your conditions. That’s commendable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:20 PM
-7

For real. Corn and soy are bad for us, ladies! Don’t know why I’m being downvoted ... I can present proof of that if anyone needs me to. What do farmers feed pigs to fatten them up? Corn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:42 PM
6

I’m sorry you had to deal with pickmeisha’s at the gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:39 PM
20

Wow pickmeisha to the max 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:37 PM
3

I would spend $100 a month to be at this gym.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 04:37 PM
3

“More limited on the activities side of things”? Looks like he wants a free prostitute.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:20 PM
3

Your ex definitely was ... those types are in the closet bc they are narcissistic and don’t want society judging them. So they grow to hate women because women represent a social construct they can never achieve. Some warning signs for my ex: he actually had done gay things (he claimed it was an accident and he didn’t know the trans person was a guy), he was always talking about hating gay people (thou doth protest too much), and he was repulsed by vaginas. I’ve never ever had a man be repulsed …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 12:14 AM
7

Absolutely. I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:05 PM
5

Thank you for that disclaimer! I agree
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:04 PM
20

When it comes to my narc ex I think he was in the closet or as they say on the down low (I bring this up because yes, men should be turned on by giving oral)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:40 PM
60

Diana was murdered by those people. Look into it. It’s why Prince Harry got out of there. She was a great woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:54 AM
66

They’re illegal in Texas now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:53 AM
2

I got called “Debra” and “Becky” because I didn’t introduce myself to a man who made his grand entrance by shouting obscenities and demanding that the ‘females’ be introduced to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 07:54 PM
11

This comment needs an AWARD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:33 AM
10

Their true colors came out recently basically and now he avoids them and is saving up to move out, so nowhere did my comment imply that we tolerate this man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:03 PM
16

I didn’t even know what those were until I met my hvm bf’s scrote roommate (my bf hates him lol) 🥴😖
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:03 PM
2

He is definitely a narcissist
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:16 AM
39

According to the comments, this negative value male responded to a Reddit DM referring to his ex fiancé as “fat and cried a lot. She wasn’t worth my time”. This NVM is f’n pathological. Jfc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:09 AM
3

Or wipe his piss off on the shower curtain (actually happened)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:16 PM
20

Would be funny if you pulled copyright complaints on the photos and he had to take the profile/photos down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:49 PM
1

She needs to call police
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 09:52 PM
10

It’s Steven Colbert it was a typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:59 PM
7

Is it private? I can’t see banmale hate subs. If it went private ... wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:43 PM
14

It’s an actual thing that there are some men who are small who are so angry over it that they can only get off from abusing women. It’s an actual thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:34 PM
1

Woooooooooooowwww.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:30 PM
42

I hate to burst your bubble but there have been cases of males coming to this sub and trying to get irl meetups to occur for the purpose of mass murdering us. We need to be absolutely careful about this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:21 PM
4

Wow that is bs that GC got banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:19 PM
22

Jfc, there’s a law and order svu episode w/ John Stamos where he was a reproductive abuser and this reminds me of that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 07:34 PM
26

Scrotenese lmfao 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 01:37 PM
3

Yep. Men who speak this way about the woman who built “”his”” children with her body are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:03 PM
36

When you put it like that it makes me realize that this is their trump card for controlling women. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:55 PM
59

What kind of person refers to their child as “that baby” ??? That’s disgusting. Edited to add: Ladies don’t buy into this lie, a family member of mine has multiple children and looks fine. Several friends of mine look fine and even wear bikinis after children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 05:32 PM
17

Wow this is so pickmeisha it’s cringy. Why is she begging this man?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 03:15 PM
14

“Why are you so obsessed with me?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:30 PM
12

If you don’t care about losing your job, look the man square in the eyes next time he makes a silly comment and say: “why are you so obsessed with me?” Bonus points if you sound innocent and naive when you say it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:26 PM
17

They expect us to be their emotional dumpsters and a beacon of happiness, never allowed to express a negative emotion. Then, they view us as stupid for that. Men truly hate women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:24 PM
67

Bc that’s when they’re lonely and jerking it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:21 PM
14

At 2:10 AM he sent that. Peak cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 06:21 PM
10

42 and not looking to settle down? Wow... the delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:46 PM
385

I love this, but ladies, please do not write statements that can be used against you in court “they don’t love daddy anymore”. Don’t give these scrotes an inch of rope to hang you with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 11:42 PM
63

This is how they act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 04:50 PM
23

Guilty conscience. He engages in risky behavior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:50 PM
2

His message in the screenshot was really slut shamey as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:48 PM
16

This is called future faking (and done very poorly at that) and it’s a tactic narcissistic abusers use.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:43 PM
38

Narcissistic pathological word salad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:30 AM
8

Men like this are so dead and invisible to me. They’re easy to tell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:25 AM
32

Cathriona White!!!! Say her name. (I’m adding my voice to the many other voices in this thread) Nice quote though, absolutely true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:09 PM
14

That scares me so much!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:08 PM
8

What if they resorted to simply stealing the dog’s entire collar? This is all so terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:06 PM
10

I think the tag should be changed to “The Audacity of Scrote” or a new tag about predatory men should be made bc this is so f’ed up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:43 PM
3

They really do be like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 02:39 PM
5

30 with a douchebag 43 year old? Run for the hills!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:52 PM
9

Wow what a jealous ass pickmeisha (the woman sending him the topless pic)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:46 PM
14

Pathological men can’t stand confident women. They like to break them down. Probably some kind of insecurity complex. I also have a good man for a bf who listens to me speak about feminism. I have been hesitant to immediately label him as HVM (this sub warns against doing that too fast, and we have only been dating for some months) but I am glad he has that trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 02:38 PM
2

Thanks, haha. It was a short response bc “I am tired”, so very tired of men abusing women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 05:42 PM
7

Wow that message is chilling, and like another commenter pointed out, not creative at all. It’s obvious what he is from this short exchange.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:40 PM
7

🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:40 PM
11

🥇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:38 PM
9

I bet it made his pee pee feel good to ban you bc women don’t put up with his scrote ass irl
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 02:37 PM
7

He got UGLY! Omg, thought it wasn’t him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:07 PM
10

I wish, but actually, I’ve noticed that some sick and evil people make their way to the psychology profession. Could be that he just met his match in nastiness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:04 PM
13

Can someone tell me, what happens to men that are like this? My NVM ex is like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:02 PM
20

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 05:45 PM
18

That’s disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:27 PM
3

Uhh no. A relative of mine said her friends husband propositioned her. She told me “that’s just how husbands are”. W t f? I do not view this trashbag shit as normal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 08:44 PM
32

Oh my God. Grown men leering at a ten year old made me physically nauseous. I knew they do this, but my reaction to it is the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:08 PM
3

Absolutely!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 05:23 PM
2

Hugs. (I resonated w/ your comment) ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:22 AM
1

Oh dang is this in the handbook? Interesting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:19 AM
1

I like to make lists of the things they did and go over them whenever I feel weak
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:17 AM
2

Thank you for this comment!!! The (second) sentence was very powerful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:15 AM
32

I remember that one!!! It was fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:13 AM
22

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:11 AM
56

That’s awesome :) I was just saying today I am glad for the increasing availability of information on emotional and physical abuse. We still have a long ways to go, but seeing a comment like this made my day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 01:10 AM
6

Disgusting. She needs to run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 02:00 PM
13

and these fuckboys always seem to have a doting mommy ready to step in and help them I know we aren’t supposed to blame women for men’s behavior, but it kills me every time one of these narcissists has a doting narcissist mommy they learned it from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:33 PM
9

Men are truly unsafe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:30 PM
11

Great job sis. I blocked and deleted a few weeks ago. Hurts like hell. You got it :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 05:42 PM
3

If a man calls you disgusting for having an unavoidable, intermittent bodily function, he is trash. The sheets are cleanable with hydrogen peroxide (gets bloodstains out) but clearly he doesn’t know that bc he probably treats this poor woman like a slave. (Apparently she had bought the ruined sheets in the first place as well)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:39 AM
6

Call the therapist & block & delete. This is abhorrent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:59 AM
10

Fuckin weirdo. If he hates women so much then why does he jerk it to them? (I don’t want to know). People like this are so unaware of themselves. He probably isn’t even aware that it’s his musty ass personality that runs women off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:02 AM
10

I want to say stealing from children is a new low for them but we all know it isn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 05:22 PM
47

Please do not go hiking with males you do not know, ladies! Just adding a safety tip
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 07:10 AM
23

Don’t tell them timeframe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 07:08 AM
8

Why are men narcissists? Is there any evidence based answers out there?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:13 PM
3

I have trouble with not oversharing, and it’s true we should wait until they are properly vetted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 03:45 AM
2

Your ex is a narcissistic psychopath. Both those words, together. Starting an argument for an excuse to leave and telling you you’re overreacting is gaslighting. I’m so sorry that happened to you :’( I know you’re strong enough to survive this! Therapy helped me a little bit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 05:08 PM
1

So true 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:49 PM
4

I think from the way he manipulated her and him trying to get her to wear it, makes it sound like he was trying to force attachment w/ her, it sounds predatory/abusive. His true colors would have came out eventually towards her. It’s not normal to try to wed 19 yo’s after two months of knowing them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:36 PM
4

I just looked over your profile and you are a gorgeous woman!!! Kinda unrelated but I saw a post where you mentioned he gave his affair partner a ring and “wanted her to wear it on her ring finger” WTF! This man is an abusive liar to EVERYONE including that 19 yo. You deserve more and you can get it. I have dealt with dv before and being strangled. It was truly the scariest moment of my life. I wish you all the best
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 03:29 PM
23

Y’all just so you know in cars there is a setting where when you unlock it, it unlocks JUST the driver door. If you can’t change it yourself using your owner manual, a dealership definitely can. There’s also settings to turn off the car automatically unlocking when you’re in park!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 07:29 PM
32

Just so you know strangulation gets worse charges than assault. If you can, you can hire a lawyer and use this to bury him in rgds to custody. This man is dangerous to you. Never let him even think you’re trying to go against him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 03:38 PM
10

Him asking if you live alone is so creepy, like he was planning something!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:51 PM
43

🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 05:17 PM
2

Someone suggested he probably has illegal porn on his electronics. What a horrible thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:47 PM
10

I blocked and deleted two days ago sis, thank you thank you for this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:24 AM
5

For the most part, I don’t trust men with kids. As you so astutely pointed out, how can a woman be good enough to live with for ten years and have kids with but not marry? And he had MULTIPLE kids with each woman. Who knows what lies he told to keep them staying. If he can’t make her a wife then why did he make her a mother?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 05:05 PM
29

there is one it was made by Robin McGraw it's called "Aspire" app. (Dr Phil's Wife) she has a foundation for domestic violence called When Georgia Smiled.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 01:44 AM
4

What in the fuck (said in Bubbles from Trailer Park Boys voice)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 08:50 PM
8

You were a victim of “narcissistic abuse” and a “smear campaign” by your ex. Google those terms. Your friends are believing whatever bs story your ex made up. Your ex will never be sorry or apologize for his actions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:51 PM
2

I cringed so hard at him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:35 PM
5

Cluster b personality freako
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 02:38 PM
3

I just snickered at his caption lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:41 PM
70

I found my tribe y’all. Finally somewhere where I’m not a crazy person for thinking these things!!!! it’s fine to have sex but we do need to acknowledge that “sex positivity” is made up bs that only benefits males
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 01:07 PM
7

Such as now with this drink incident
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:29 PM
16

Someone else called him a stingy pedophile 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:22 AM
10

31 yo is a creepy douche. The cognitive dissonance is strong. He was like “I felt like shit” but then defaults to “REE NOT MY FAULT”. Him feeling like crap was a clue that he is in fact an asshole
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 09:17 AM
7

The 89 yo’s behavior is pathological
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 04:47 PM
6

I cringed so hard about living with his parents and trying to move out with you bit, as well as that he needs a woman to get motivated to lose weight and better himself. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 06:36 PM
10

Men are so fking foul. Jfc. What the everloving fuck?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:42 AM
13

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 03:25 AM
12

Oh snap I didn’t know that this is FDS I do this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 09:34 PM
6

Be “nice” (civil) to him so that no one gets any ideas! Indifference drives men insane. Giving him the cold shoulder might be noticed by others who might think something actually happened between you and this LVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 08:26 PM
42

This is creepy as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 07:34 PM
39

I thought we were on niceguys 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 02:51 AM
5

This is why I can’t stand men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 08:40 PM
10

That last part, negging much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:51 AM
7

You ain’t wrong that no one wants that guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 05:03 AM
9

Just bc someone offers commitment does not mean they are qualified. This guy was a douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 05:16 PM
7

Block and delete. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 03:56 PM
35

I noticed people getting downvoted today for pointing out that something was rape. I would say “wtf” but I am not shocked whatsoever at the disgusting bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 09:34 PM
41

Disgusted that no one did anything to help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 06:15 PM
52

Until he gets fired bc poor workplace morale lowered productivity and in turn, profits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:56 PM
151

That’s rape. Disgusting animal. I hope he gets what he deserves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:42 PM
8

She was like Neo from the Matrix on that one, he was bragging about coming in another woman 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 05:27 AM
51

Wow he sure sounds lovely I’d totally love to be around someone that hateful! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:19 PM
5

Salute to you! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:06 PM
3

Hey no judgment here, I was in the exact same problem, surrounded by pick mes and abuse apologists masquerading under “liberal, progressive” ideals, I can honestly say, I was a much happier person when I blocked those people and stopped talking to people from school.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 05:56 PM
5

I agree with what you’re saying. However there are other reasons I cannot stand them. I don’t know if I have the spoons to get into it why that is, as last time I tried to do so in this sub I was subjected to long, droning messages from a libfem about how I (apparently) participate in my own oppression.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:39 PM
6

LMAO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:36 PM
6

I can’t stand libfems, so not sure why you want to continue hanging out with them. I wouldn’t respond and get better friends. Or be alone. I was at a uni with f’ing psycho people and I decided I was better off keeping to myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:33 PM
28

That is disgusting. I want to vomit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 09:17 PM
4

O m g RUN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 06:56 AM
5

Too much identifying information. He doesn’t know my reddit username to my knowledge
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 10:06 PM
14

omg, you guys. I have a full on saga about the fact that I know what I want in an engagement ring. I should post it separately but my SO is on reddit. Tldr; my SO’s family flipped bc I have standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 09:40 PM
6

Fucking gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 08:59 AM
2

Probably bc there’s always someone watching that can photograph and send to tmz and indifference makes men feel worse (although practically crying at reuniting isn’t exactly indifference). Another reason she’s probably cool about it is that he completely ruined his own personal life imo in so many ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:37 AM
2

Omg Billie Eilish is such a pickmeisha. I cringe so hard when I hear her popular song say “bruises on my knees for you”. How anyone could like her is beyond me. I actually found this thread by searching “eilish” in this sub bc I knew there would be some funny commentary
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 07:32 AM
14

Good. That shouldn’t even have to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 06:09 AM
1

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 12:40 AM
5

Absolutely. I considered getting with a “wealthy” man with a home like this (he took me on many dates and was overall delightful, plus his money freed up a lot of his time). Then I realized about his house. It’s exactly as you described. If I were to live there, I’d have to clean it up myself in order to be comfortable. That’s when I realized I am not gonna be some guy’s maid. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 12:41 PM
2

Not gonna lie I laughed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 11:25 AM
4

Don’t even tell him so he can’t adjust his behavior in the future. Block and delete
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:59 AM
14

She said she thought it was bs that Dr Phil asked her to agree to 90 days when the person who should be committing to anything is the guy who put them on the show in the first place with his actions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:30 AM
2

No I don’t, honestly. I think it’s an uphill battle forever tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 12:20 AM
6

I like him, I like the episodes he has done on domestic violence and I love that Robin speaks out against dv and made the aspire app for women in bad situations (it’s a disguised app that secretly records abusers and can call for help I believe). The foundation they both started to help dv victims is called “When Georgia Smiled”. Check it out. But yeah 90 days of fuckery? Big NAW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:34 PM
4

I completely agree (the woman knew what she wanted and wanted to move on). I actually think he wanted her to get the counseling so she could be sure about leaving. He hinted at it in the episode “I could make some recommendations and point some things out but that’s not for me to decide and I don’t want that responsibility” and then he mentioned how this was a 30 yr marriage vs 3 month relationship as a reason for going to the counseling. Bc the “what if” could have a psychological impact AND ru…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:32 PM
7

I hope Dr Phil told her to get counseling so that she can be sure about what trash he is and didn’t actually intend for them to stay together. I hope they do a “where are they now” with Lawrence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 08:19 PM
17

Ok finally back to scheduled programming (saw some weird comments around here today). Thank you og jammies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 07:19 AM
2

Jfc, the audacity. Smh. Someone tag this queen shit for the fact that you didn’t even get out the car & rolled window up and left 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 06:56 PM
6

It’s happened to me as well. Had a friend whose bf gave her an std 4 years ago. She is still with him. She cut our friendship bc I told her she needs to run from that guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:21 AM
13

What in the fuck is wrong with that guy? Nevermind, sorry I asked, I don’t wanna know. (Narcissistic psychopath)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:19 AM
1

Eh, in the conservative town I grew up in, never would it be considered acceptable or appropriate for people to physically shove others for their opinion, or bully them hardcore until they changed their minds. It’s baptist and mormon up where I’m from. (My family was another sect of Christianity entirely) People valued family, and loving and raising their kids. In my opinion it was a model that I like for raising a family. Others are totally welcome to and should do what works for them if it isn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:23 PM
2

Glad you tagged in
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 06:12 PM
2

I lived in a liberal town for college. These kinds of things is what they did for relationships (poly, kink, fwb, etc). I was even pickmeisha and was in a fwb thing with a guy who claimed he was a “sex positive feminist” (gag). (Which btw there was a post recently telling us to run if we hear about “sex positive male feminists” bc it’s just an excuse to use women). The fwb dude described himself as liberal 🤷‍♀️ At one point, I was assaulted (shoved) for expressing views online against poly, bdsm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 08:06 AM
-1

Honestly, this is just one of those things people disagree on. I respect your opinion, you clearly don’t respect mine, given your walls of text & baiting. Have a good one. Also, where did I use the word stereotype?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:43 AM
-3

I mean... you are entitled to your opinion and there’s not really much more I can say. it’s your opinion that conservatives subjugate women. Maybe elected ones do, but as far as like a community or a neighborhood it’s not about that. There’s certain things that liberals are super ok with: porn, poly relationships, bdsm etc that I find inappropriate. I think another overarching theme in conservative communities is educating yourself and making yourself valuable to society. Lvm’s are not into that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 05:50 AM
8

I think I can tackle this. I consider myself conservative (although I am feeling the bern). FDS is about finding an appropriate, respectful, man that’s going to pull his own weight, be generous, not-sexist, etc. Me personally, I want a man who‘s ready to “leave and cleave”, generous, does not watch porn, will help care for children he created, work, and be respectful towards me. My conservative values are centered around creating a safe, family environment and a lot of the advice here is spot on…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 04:45 AM
10

Nothing on Valentine’s Day but about 3 or 4 exes contacted me or added me on social media after Christmas/New Years. One was an ex I hadn’t heard from in FIVE years. Guess they realized how sweet I was and how nice holidays would have been if they didn’t fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 01:28 AM
9

This one made me laugh out loud
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:56 PM
24

Very accurate translation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:53 PM
31

You echoed my sentiments perfectly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:52 PM
20

LMAO he actually thought his opinion was relevant or wanted. He needs to go back under the rock he came from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 02:50 PM
30

Secretly delete all your nudes from his phone. Dump his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:49 PM
42

Freaking yikes. My experience in college is that men were nowhere near ready for relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 06:38 PM
6

Before I go on. Jim Carrey is f’ing despicable for what he has done to this woman. Terribly sad as I actually liked his movies, and loved his inspirational speeches about being yourself and not letting consumerism control your happiness. Sad as it is to say, these actions make his words empty. Her name was Cathriona White.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 05:53 PM
6

You didn’t overreact, is your friend a pickmeisha or what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 04:25 PM
4

Absolutely esp that first paragraph
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 03:19 PM
14

There isn’t, but they can be dyed. I got a lovely bouquet of dyed blue ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:55 PM
19

Scrotes are probably big mad about her 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:19 PM
53

Just the fact that he said those things about her being 23, weave, etc (lol like SORRY that she has good parents unlike this LVM) Means that he definitely THOUGHT those things beforehand. Ladies we do not want to date men who think things like that about us. That is toxic, hateful, not real love. Also, “immature”? He talking about himself? Cos it’s obvious he’s doing this for attention
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:21 PM
7

Definitely would love to date this man who hates women! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:15 PM
9

My best friend’s parents did this, the dad was stay at home. They are divorced now. Very sad as the dad was a HVM. The mom was in a professional career.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:14 PM
42

You don’t “try” and “learn” empathy as a 30yo man. This sounds like learned helplessness. As we say here: block & delete sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:45 PM
4

Oh naw. I run at the first sight of this now. Hail to the naw.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 03:23 PM
3

Pickmeishas like this make me afraid to leave the house. We have to be cautious of men but apparently cautious of bitches like this as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:52 PM
12

Fucking despicable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 11:32 PM
12

Queen shark 👑🦈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:20 PM
2

Do not respond. He will hopefully go away. That’s how I handled it with a man who texted me saying he was outside. I just ignore ignore ignored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 05:15 AM
14

Jfc. My bf hounds me for hating men. Of course I do when I read shit like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 04:52 AM
2

Yep
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 09:49 PM
5

Block & delete. This is fucking heinous. Other men out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 02:05 PM
3

whoa this is crazy I am going to read up on this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:42 PM
17

This is how I feel about the matter as well. They're everywhere
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:36 PM
1

This as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:51 PM
3

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 05:51 PM
52

It would feel good to tell him, but he does not deserve to know. He’d only use that knowledge to cover up his porn habit and not leave his phone lying around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 09:14 AM
3

Fn weirdo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:19 AM
19

Omg rip him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:01 AM
5

This legit needs a male depravity tag or a trigger warning (wish I was joking) bc that last part was so fuckin creepy. Jfc. He sure doesn’t seem like he has bodies in his basement. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 06:53 AM
8

Queen shit on that last response
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:49 AM
12

I do not paragraph. They don’t care and it’s a waste of energy. Plus, it gives them info on how to manipulate women better. They don’t need that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:35 AM
6

Finally. I saw all those posts mentioned at the end as they happened. It was insane but not surprising at all given male depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:23 AM
9

Purple pill debate. It’s trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:12 AM
4

This is fucking scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 01:10 AM
24

That guy’s comment is the reason that I avoid men. There are a number of them that are this thick headed and completely unaware of themselves. “How is punching a wall abuse?” What in the fk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:40 PM
30

Finally someone who is sane lol have I reached an oasis?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:14 PM
74

His relationships keep getting shorter OOF. What was that about the wall?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:08 PM
36

3D print it somehow?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 06:51 PM
1

This is why I don’t trust men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:01 PM
2

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:01 PM
7

F’ing yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:33 AM
9

Indeed. What an ass. This happened to me once, and a friend told me “give it 60 days” and literally on the dot, my ex dumped that new woman. So, like others pointed out, it isn’t sunshine and paradise for him probably
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:24 AM
3

You knew the woman?!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:22 AM
6

RIP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 05:14 AM
6

Make it make sense 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 11:53 PM
10

Muppet omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 03:19 PM
4

Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/20 11:27 PM
5

WELCOME!!! Good to see you (I have seen your posts on other subs)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 04:05 PM
1

Weird how she looks happier than him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:17 AM
2

She’s gorgeous! Just wanted to say I watched her video though and everyone should research thoroughly if an active is right for them. Certain actives that she mentioned (like retinol) are not safe for pregnant or breastfeeding women, for example. She looks amazing!!! I’m going to subscribe to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 06:44 PM
37

Everything is women’s fault don’t cha know? /s Couldn’t agree more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:12 PM
13

Hope she records his dumb ass. That is despicable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:10 PM
36

Then we’re the mIsAnDrIsTs if we say we hate men because of this. What the fuck. They are not to be trusted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 05:10 PM
12

Amen. Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 07:40 PM
1

46 years old and doesn’t know if he wants kids? Is he delusional? It’s over dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 05:30 PM
5

Wtf RUN FOR THE HILLS. What the fuck
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 04:50 PM
22

Yeah, they kind of do. One man in particular who really broke my heart, I just took him off my contacts list, not block, cos I knew he’d come back. When he came back, I told him in a civil manner I was absolutely not even interested in friendship and wished him well, he asked why I didn’t just block him. I guess I’ve been using FDS rules since before I found this place but I didn’t dare tell him I didn’t block cos I knew he’d be back. Let him keep repeating those mistakes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:04 PM
9

I was called elitist recently because I have high standards for who I associate with. Apparently, I’m stuck up because I don’t associate with (man or woman): people who lost custody of their kids due to drugs, freeloaders, narcs, psychos, uneducated types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 03:52 PM
14

Feels bad for sure that she has crappy people around her but it’s honestly a blessing that she removes low value people from her life
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:04 AM
2

I like it, so I’d prefer to be with someone that likes it as well, but there is definitely some problematic behavior with men who like it. I would just try and evaluate if this is just a normal hobby or if it’s something weird (like basement dwelling shit)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 06:45 AM
43

Once when I was 18 but I stopped everything and didn’t let him touch me. I broke up with him later
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 11:17 PM
7

At least he stated that he will leave her alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 09:01 PM
9

This is a non-issue to good guys out there. Seriously, if it has nothing to do with them, they don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 08:00 PM
14

I would ask what’s wrong with that dude but this is so common
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 04:43 PM
12

Yep definitely women /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 10:18 AM
4

Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 05:38 AM
10

Very good post, and good point. A guy who was just a terrible and LVM started with that “my dad this and that” sob story and I know now it was manipulation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:47 AM
5

Great message
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 03:39 AM
16

I’m gonna need some mind bleach for that. That is terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:07 AM
3

Oh my God this is fucking insane. Oh my God. 16 years???? Oh my God. Disrespectful sociopath piece of shit. I don’t know how she did 16 years. I have known different men that have done some of the dumbass things in this post, but never someone who was all this in one. JFC. What the fk. I hope when she gets out she completely ghosts him. I’m fucking baffled
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 08:04 AM
40

Everyone has a stomach though, literally everyone will have some convex action going on because we have uteruses in there. Even women with six packs. Google it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 07:11 AM
11

Creepy thoughts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 06:13 AM
37

She looks fine, also, I think this is a screenshot from FB, not the OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 04:53 AM
23

This is scary. Glad you didn’t go. Vulnerable and alone in a man’s house you barely know. No no no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 05:47 PM
11

It’s emotionally abusive and passive aggressive. Imagine how embarrassing that is to have your bf treat you angry like that in front of people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:16 PM
1

Yes it’s a red flag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:50 AM
10

Immature abusive dumbass ... she needs to run
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:46 AM
17

I hate men like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:46 AM
2

Nagging ppl to be in person with him... that’s not desperate at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 04:30 AM
7

This is great
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:44 AM
3

All of my what... don’t beat yourself up, not your fault that he was a jerk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 03:28 AM
4

Sounds like he’s using you like a mommy. As a person to keep him warm. They bank on keeping you confused. Ive been in this situation. Please. Calmly end it or ghost him. If a man wants you, you’ll know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 02:05 AM
1

Please next him cos you did nothing wrong. I’m kind of creeped out that he found your post, or that he was so sure it was about him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:50 AM
5

It’s grief, and it’ll pass in a week or two. I would really just try and stay busy, white knuckle that heart in your throat feeling, it’ll pass. Block him! There are other people who will love you and be way cooler and funner than him. Please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:44 AM
2

I think people downvoted bc it’s not going to work out well for women to do that, most of the time. Not everyone has training in fighting, especially someone who is probably bigger than them. I’m sincerely glad it worked for you, that guy sounds like a slimy piece of crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 07:14 PM
28

Good for you for not wasting energy on debating trashy opinions that probably won’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:24 PM
9

I think it’s good that you are unbothered especially by trash like that (checking out other women, claiming alpha, etc). Yes, I think it was manipulation. I also handle things the same way. People get their one chance to act dumb, I’ll keep my poker face, but once I’m out of the situation, avoid, delete, block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 06:22 PM
17

Wtf, that is so lacking in empathy. Disappointed but not surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:40 PM
23

start whining and screeching as if you applied holy water to a demon L m a o
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:39 PM
37

Seriously. I waited for him to go home then dumped him over text or the phone. I was done with him on the spot but needed him to get out of my place. Can’t remember which, bc he started calling trying to “talk it out”. It was hilarious how hard he back pedaled and tripped over his own words. I was basically like “we clearly have different values and goals, it’s best we move on”. Didn’t give him an inch. Later (weeks) the dude showed up to my house calling/texting begging to “talk”. I was so para…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:34 PM
15

He came and harassed you at your house after breaking a mirror in front of you (threatening behavior). You had every right to break his nose. I would be scared as hell if some man who broke things was pounding on my door at 2am and yelling (in my face, no less) about how he is entitled to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 02:12 PM
7

All I can say is creepy and delusional...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:51 PM
115

It really do be like that. Got rid of a LVM when he started discussing my sexual history right after having sex. Who does that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 01:47 PM
11

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 05:12 AM
20

I feel bad for his family, for sure. That’s kind of it. His daughter did not deserve to be on that helicopter. I was wondering if anyone was gonna mention what you said. Someone else said that he was even quoted admitting that he did do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 04:54 AM
18

Once a man told me he abuses women bc one cheated on him once so now they all have to pay. What in the fk?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:59 AM
13

That’s creepy as hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:55 AM
14

Sounds made up, especially the she cried part... I don’t think I’d cry about LVM’s hating me for being a feminist. I’d be glad that they stayed away lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 12:52 AM
3

Right? Like their first thought of equality is to create some negativity, because males are soooOoooOooooO oPpReSsEd. gimme a break.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:26 PM
3

He seemed confused ... but I just said “okay see ya” Omg lmao you handled that like a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:45 PM
8

I don’t agree. We are adults, responsible for ourselves and what we order. HOWEVER, we also have the right to ditch/block the LVM after the date. OP handled it like a queen. Dignified & bluntly. (“Okay see ya” had me ded lmao)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:43 PM
2

WHOOP. -slow clap-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:39 PM
2

“Thousands of years of instinct”? That’s not creepy at all /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 03:55 PM
5

Yikes dude, no one says “I love you” faster than a narc needing a place to live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 12:50 AM
1

Because if someone takes care of you, you have to ask them permission for everything and they can control you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 11:10 PM
1

Depends on how fun/funny they are. The 5’5” guy is still okay in my opinion, I’m short so pretty much any guy is taller than me and I think it’s fine. Eta1: For picking relationships of any sort, I usually pick men based on their sincerity. So if the tall, goofy lookin dude seemed to really like me for me, then I’d choose him. If the shorter, hot dude cared for me, then, like, no brainer it’d be him. Eta2: also, if they’re really tall and an arrogant prick, I probably would go with the shorter o…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/19 04:28 AM
3

It’s rude because you’re supposed to respect that your friend is grieving their relationship. Asking them out while they are in a breakup makes it look like the asker only cares about themself & what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 05:14 PM
1

No, never. All of those Hollywood men do. I know for a fact Scott Disick does. I might judge them for using cheap stuff or stuff w/ bad ingredients tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 09:24 AM
2

Wrinkles are ok. Acting like a 19 year old boy when you have them is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/19 02:02 AM
1

Idk that’s just a really big tell that he wasn’t young like us at the parties and in class. There’s another comment below that mentions why it’s cringy when dudes in their 30s are at college parties
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 09:03 PM
3

In college, I dated a guy who was 30 and spent his 20’s at war. He was mature in some areas, but in others, it was clear that he was trying to act cavalier and relive the college women that he missed when he was young. He would call me his “friends with benefit”. Eventually I came to my senses at how cringey it was that he couldn’t be present with or value me bc he’s too busy picking up rocks, & told him adios. (I’m young too but I’m guessing he wanted variety?) But yeah, in the future, if I dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 05:10 PM
11

Tbh I think Leo is creepy for what he does, he used to be cute, but now he’s fat and hardly shaves. I feel like unkempt facial hair and greasy hair is what makes my brain go for the creep alarm.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/19 02:33 AM
2

I personally think that’s ratchet/poor ppl behavior, but I really don’t give a shit what other ppl do. It’s not my business, as long as it doesn’t affect me personally. I probably wouldn’t let my kid hang out with “riff raff” w/ parents like that, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 05:06 PM
1

Even more scary: research has linked herpes with alzheimer’s/dementia. Seems that later in years, the virus lies dormant in the brain and produces the same metabolites that are found in elevated levels in the brains of alzheimer’s patients.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 05:52 AM
2

Can still catch incurable skin diseases like herpes with condoms
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:57 AM
2

I’m a woman. Hell fucking no. No conditions. Period. Like, do whatever you want, sure, but do it over there. Away from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:57 AM
1

I mean, that sounds like a really insecure reason to end a relationship, so, yes it is fair. I wouldn’t want to be with a guy who got mad that I like him for who he is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/19 02:54 AM
2

Well, the best I ever had was this ex I just dumped. But, I think I’ll find someone else eventually. In my mind I only get in relationships with people who I click with, so if I move on I moved on. Also, it’s mean to think about other ppl when you’re with someone! So I don’t do that. If I’m thinking about other ppl that means I’m not that interested & that connection isn’t for me And as far as worrying, I don’t. If someone makes me feel anxious or like I have to worry or compete, that’s not very…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 05:36 PM
1

Too boring, but I do love someone like that. However me and him have somewhat discussed it, that we’re just not compatible and are still on good terms. I hate ppl like this so I always pay for myself to avoid accidentally/suddenly finding out someone is like this. So if they complain about paying for just themself... well fuck, man. Also the glaring thing is that staying at home and never leaving, can be really unhealthy and wreck your personal appearance so that would be concerning. This guy I …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 05:05 AM
4

If I were a parent doing things that way would make me fear that I’m causing self esteem issues in my child. What if my child believed the only way I’d love them is if they were hot? That would be so sad and hurt them in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/19 09:32 AM
2

No, I don’t want to be approached at the gym. I think your thought process in the beginning was good.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 01:25 AM
2

Maybe you’re not successful at it bc there’s a lot less women into that “ons” thing than you thought. Personally I don’t do that because I don’t want to risk STD’s (can still get skin std’s with condoms)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:39 AM
2

I prefer OPI & Morgan Taylor only
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/19 06:38 PM
1

My red pill homie said it’s “neediness”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 06:45 PM
1

Hey man we’re supposed to be 1% neanderthal not 99% neanderthal like this dude and his brow bone look. ETA: to me hitting that would be abuse of the mentally disabled (insert shrug emoji) Also if he’s greasy as he looks he probably smells bad. That is a 1000% game killer for me lol (bad smells)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 09:48 PM
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fuck it I'll just go in on him. Now first off I wouldn't roast this dude that hard if he were a complete stranger, I would just keep it moving and mind my own business, people can't help how they look and no one is put on this earth for the purpose of looking attractive to me. In fact if someone has an attractive personality then a lot of things I'm about to mention could be **easily** overlooked. However if he can put thoughts on how women should look then I'll go ahead and roast him. ​ Finally…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 11:38 PM
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I just came up with stereotypes to put on the list, just as he came up with stereotypes for his. this list doesn't reflect my actual views of what "man" is. I could break down for you what I personally find ugly about this man, if you're really that interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:51 PM
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be thin = be strong, muscular, big biceps // have long hair = have blonde hair // be able to cook = have money // makeup = perfect teeth (you can buy good teeth just like you can buy makeup) // be graceful = be 6' tall (movement and grace are connected to a person's skeletal frame) I put an equal sign from things on my list that correlated with his list (eta: formatting got fucked when I pressed send)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:36 PM
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I agree that the reaction would be different. Instead of backlash, those women would just be laughed at if they published a list like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 10:33 PM
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I fulfill pretty much every single thing on his list, but it still made me cringe so hard. I think first off, it was that when I look at this dude, he was not attractive at all. I saw some pictures of him in gray, ill fitting jacket with wrinkles in it and he had a creepy mustache/facial hair and neck fat. Imagine this: Melissa McCarthy or Tess Holliday made a list about what makes a perfect man and she listed a bunch of obvious, stereotypes on there? " 6' tall, muscular, big biceps, blonde hair…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/19 06:10 PM
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Yeah, I realized I have a lot of friends. I don’t have people I see on a regular basis though. I find friends a good indicator of what a person tolerates. So, for example, if a guy is friends with a douche who says mean things to his gf, that gets the wheels turning, like “He didn’t tell his friend that’s not cool, does that mean he’s okay with that?” Ok so I was on a date with a guy and he invited a close friend of his. We were in a place similar to Bourbon Street (in a different state) and we …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 10:47 PM
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I took a Plan B pill once and it fucked my body up for an entire year.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/19 08:36 PM
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24 F. I was curious about your question and I often think that I don’t have friends. So I used your criteria of “visiting” (they have visited me AND I have visited them). I came up with 17 people, 8 women and 9 men. In the past 6 months, I’ve had visits with 8 of those people, 3 being women and 5 being men. When I look to why I don’t visit with the remaining 9 (4 men 5 women) on the list, 7 of those 9 (4 men and 3 women) have moved to other states for work or school. 1 woman and I drifted apart …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:10 AM
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