LMFAO dropped some truth bombs and my comments got removed 😂😂 S A D

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-08-26T23:35:39+00:00

Lol!!! They’re trying to say it’s “sexual incompatibility”. That’s funny.... His idea of “cutting back on porn use” is probably him spending 3hrs jerking it everyday instead of 5-8hrs.

phobi_wankenobi · 2020-08-26T23:55:24+00:00

Imagine thinking that guys who jerk off to porn daily have low libidos

foxfaebae · 2020-08-26T23:59:29+00:00

Exactly!! My ex blamed for his struggle in this department. I honestly felt horrible about myself, even worse when he cheated on me. He said "oh well she can make me you can't".

Now months later, bitch it ain't my fault! Also realized he was horrible in bed 😂😂😂.

I hope this woman saw what you wrote before it got removed.

DallasOMalley · 2020-08-27T00:42:15+00:00

The mindset that women must have a role in "fixing" a man's chronic dick issues exists only because it benefits men. As long as a woman tolerates chronic dick issues, the man has surprisingly little motivation for taking responsibility and working on a solution to the problem. Why would he? He's got a woman who provides all standard girlfriend services (and tiptoes around the topic of his broken dick, and soothes his ego) and he can still get his jollies from porn.

OP, you're doing the Lord's work by speaking the truth.

Pahapan · 2020-08-27T01:38:49+00:00

When the man HIMSELF admits his sexual issues are probably porn related that means they're definitely porn related.

"sO SeXuAl InCoMpAtIbIlItY iS sOlElY tHe ReSpOnSibiLiTy Of OnE pErSoN iN tHe ReLaTiOnShIp To FiX?!?!?!?" Yes, scrote, when the "sexual incompatibility" is because of one person's self induced porn sickness it definitely is their sole responsibility to fix that. God, the average man really hates the concept that it isn't his girlfriend's responsibility to fix him.

Happy-Muffin · 2020-08-27T01:30:33+00:00

Wait, you suggested that the porn was the problem and they removed your comments??

yggiwtmiih · 2020-08-27T02:55:28+00:00

What the fuck, they removed your comment for telling him to handle his own problems. Why do they demand to be coddled their whole lives and then expect us to treat them as the "man" when they can't even book the fucking appointment to a therapist to get treated? What's next? Making his doctor's appointments? Setting up play dates? Enrolling him into middle school?

Should she date a drug addict and help him because he's "working on it?" Just waste years of her life unhappy so he can have a cheerleader while he does nothing to fix it day after day? Where does this entitlement come from to use women's time and happiness as a sacrificial lamb for their mere convenience, as if their betterment is worth our detriment?

She's not his fucking mommy, and even if she was, he is an adult who has to take responsibility for his own life. Ffs

KetoKittenAround · 2020-08-27T02:33:09+00:00

Sex shouldn’t be something you have to endure.

whatprettygirlwhere · 2020-08-27T04:41:20+00:00

It is amazing how quickly the angry men who peruse the relationship subreddits respond to any criticism of behavior they themselves engage in. Like, any small voice disturbing their echo chamber is too much for them to handle.

Like, the OP brought up porn addiction specifically but dude felt personally attacked.

2020-08-27T07:39:08+00:00

God people will defend porn addiction so hard. This guy literally STATED he has a porn addiction and thats THE problem. Now this dudes tryna say they might have different libidos or expectations? Gaslighting at its finest.

Lavender_flow · 2020-08-27T10:29:31+00:00

All the mods of that sub are hardcore pornaddicts themselves. That is why they removed your comments, because if they didnt, then they would have to take a big hard look at how disgusting they themselves are, and that would hurt their disgusting fragile male egos.

The reasons he has problems climaxing is because of his porn addiction 100 %. Men are disgusting.

Corporatebot · 2020-08-26T23:36:03+00:00

I love this so much.

_nylea · 2020-08-27T12:10:36+00:00

I love how he tries to blame it on her. Ah yes, there must be something wrong with the attraction between them! Is there something wrong with the relationship? Did they cOmMuNiCatE? That’s definitely the source of his porn addiction!

Not the fact that porn is shoved down our throats everywhere we look, and that porn is made to be easily consumable, and that porn is heavily marketed to men, and that many of them do not have the self-control to turn away...

Edit: Also I just noticed they’ve only been dating 4 months?! But she’s CERTAINLY responsible for his porn addiction which has persisted through his adult life. You really can’t fix stupid.

sugaredberry · 2020-08-27T13:08:45+00:00

Those subs are so toxic. Everyday life is filled with so much misogyny.

sexxxybae · 2020-08-27T00:50:21+00:00

This is hard. My ex took a very long time cumming, i don't think it was porn though. And he wanted it all the time. I would try to please him and we would always have sex, it became about him cumming. He enjoyed it, it could be fun for me, but I ended up worrying about if he's gonna cum because he was never gonna let it go. He had to cum. no matter how long it took. Mentally that starts to mess with you, are you good enough, and even if you are he can get frustrated and that can mess with you in the bedroom. Another guy I knew, we never got to that level but he told me he took forever to finish, like he would have sex not expecting to cum. That was new to me because with my ex, it had to happen. some men out there have this problem.

Kenkerz00i · 2020-08-27T08:28:34+00:00

The fact that he almost tried saying she isn’t attractive enough for himmm. Wants me to put a brick up his wanked out cock ???? The fuck are men thinking when they say this typa dumb shit

typeadhd · 2020-08-27T05:59:42+00:00

What did you say that’s bad? I’m confused he had the addiction so he should be primary one trying to fix it. I mean if she can help sure (don’t know how) but it’s sad how she has internalized this problem as her own whilst her man is doing nothing about it and not caring about it as much. I don’t get what is incorrect about what you said.

JaneIsaPain · 2020-08-27T07:10:52+00:00

DoT is trash lolol

no_pwname · 2020-08-27T07:57:13+00:00

That sub is depressing. I stopped going there a long time ago.

agonyandhope · 2020-08-26T23:33:33+00:00

The guy 1. thinks he has a porn addiction and 2. has had problems with previouS partnerS PLURAL!

And there she is already doubting herself and opening herself to the opinions of scrotes on the internet! I feel so sad for her because clearly as OP said, this is not her problem.

Title	LMFAO dropped some truth bombs and my comments got removed 😂😂 S A D
Author	hanjaporfavor
Upvotes	307
Comments	52
Date	August 26, 2020 11:10 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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