| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 109 | Finances in Marriage | DISCUSSION | Corporatebot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 02:04 AM |
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| 17 | “Why Sex-Positive Feminism is Falling out of Fashion”Thank you so much for posting this. I love reading these and sending them to men I know. The more data I have the better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 10:02 PM |
| 39 | So we all know that men can’t stop talking about themselves, so I wanted to ask you ladies..Oh boy oh boy do I have one. Trigger warning. My ex said he was getting in his truck to go to work one morning and noticed a cat had given birth to kittens behind his tire. He kept trying to make the cat move her and the kittens so he could leave for work. The cat wouldn’t move, and he didn’t want to be late to work, so he turned his car on and….kept going. He then commented how it was survival of the fittest and how much he hated cats anyways. I have so many just as horrible things this guy has… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 10:24 PM |
| 304 | Have you taken your husband’s surname? Or, will you take your future-husband’s name?I’m changing my last name as I don’t like my family or my name that much. If I was proud of my family then I would definitely keep it. I have a ready made opportunity to distance myself from my family and I’m going to take advantage of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/21 01:27 AM |
| 21 | "I went to a doctor and he said it's normal because I'm stressed all the time!"Second this thought. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Expensive rent/housing is the biggest proponent for monogamy and cohabitationDidn’t she say it was okay if there was a firm formal commitment (engaged)? I thought her point was not to move in as just boyfriend/girlfriend, as that in particular tends to be a move of convenience? I haven’t read the book in years so I might be wrong here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 30 | Nickeled and Dimed by NVMsLet my ex handle the rent payments and come to find out he was charging me more than half and pocketing the rest. I’ve never felt more stupid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 12:16 PM |
| 10 | A refreshing positive experience with the STD talk I wanted to share. Also curious about how others approaches to this/experiences with itWhat a complete idiot. I’m so sorry! I had HPV that got to CIN 2, and was going to get a LEEP if it got worse, but luckily it cleared itself naturally in about a year. Have had clean PAPs since then which I’m grateful for. It really is terrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 09:24 PM |
| 12 | A refreshing positive experience with the STD talk I wanted to share. Also curious about how others approaches to this/experiences with itThat’s so great it’s clear! May I ask how long before your last PAP smear? The standard is now 3 years between them in the US and it makes me nervous to wait that long. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/21 07:25 PM |
| 8 | Millennial men are "worried" and "ashamed" of their out-earning girlfriends and wivesMy past boyfriends have all been incredibly excited to hear when I get raises or promotions, as it means they can potentially spend my money. I don’t think millennial men care who makes what as long as they can spend more at the end of the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 09:44 PM |
| 46 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeA friend of mine just had a baby after getting pregnant while having an IUD in. It was a crazy low possibility, but it happens. Just be careful! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 10:15 PM |
| 20 | In case you had any remaining doubts about the male ability to devastate women for their own convenience and pleasureWhat?! Like never wanted actual sex? That’s wild. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:03 PM |
| 56 | In case you had any remaining doubts about the male ability to devastate women for their own convenience and pleasureAgree! Until they get excited about you buying a strap on. I’ve had this happen and now I no longer say you first. I just say anal is never going to happen. Period. When I told my ex that he was actually okay with this. Still wanted me to peg him though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 01:41 PM |
| 41 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".He was overall nice in real life. Was never violent and was not into any BDSM or anything like that. He gave me no indication he wanted to hurt me or liked the idea of that. The one exception was that I occasionally heard some of the red pill/incel jargon so I wasn’t entirely shocked by the 4chan. The porn though…. That did catch me off guard as he was so vehemently anti-porn. He barely wanted to be intimate though which was part of the reason I had a gut feeling something was off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:14 PM |
| 144 | When it comes to snooping & men hiding things from their SO. The truth hurts! Let us normalize "snooping".I can echo this. Snooped through my ex’s computer and found the following all in one sitting: - He was lying about the cost of rent and charging me a higher rent price while pocketing the rest. - He watched porn multiple times a day, all the while telling me I should not watch it because he never did. This included gross anime pedo looking porn (think they call it loli). - He was on 4chan following redpill pages and pages where people were literally getting hurt or killed. Some sort of gore page… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 01:20 PM |
| 13 | Kıvanç TatlıtuğThere really are some beautiful men there. So sad so sad 😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:39 PM |
| 18 | Kıvanç TatlıtuğLol I studied abroad in Turkey so I know exactly what you mean. Look but don’t touch! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 09:25 PM |
| 14 | Kıvanç TatlıtuğBe right back while I go to Turkey 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 07:33 PM |
| 11 | Women’s pain as entertainment allowed on Instagram 🤢I had to convince my ex to unfollow this account. It was one of the many reasons why we broke up. It took me far to long to realize that he really just hated women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 09:01 PM |
| 17 | Opinion | Women’s Unpaid Labor is Worth $10,900,000,000,000This was a great article. Thank you for sharing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:27 PM |
| 93 | Ladies, if you find yourself in such a situation, you now have the perfect answer.Yeah this is great until they are all about having you peg them. I would just dump them on the spot and he done with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:53 PM |
| 19 | Hypersexualization of women in anime and why I won't deal with men who watch itI know almost nothing about anime, but when I was searching through my ex boyfriends computer I saw not just porn (he was avidly anti porn) but that he had been searching for loli anime porn on pornhub. Had to google what “loli” was- yikes. You had better believe that relationship was over for me when I saw that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:52 PM |
| 57 | It’s the last day to use this flair! At the start of the year I NEVER thought I’d have the strength to do it, yet here I am single and thriving thanks to this sub. How many queens were able to KickHimOut2020?!I dumped my LVM three weeks ago after carefully saving up money for the last eight months to move into my own place. I no longer have to deal with a porn addicted, underemployed man child with $30k in credit card debt. To say I’m ready for what 2021 has in store for me is a massive understatement ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 11:50 PM |
| 96 | I found a child porn sub and reported to the FBIThank you for explaining. I’d heard of smut but Snuff is completely new to me. It’s shocking, but you’re right- we need to be informed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 87 | I found a child porn sub and reported to the FBIWhat is smut and snuff? Should I even ask? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 03:30 PM |
| 29 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)Yes!!!! This is the best thing I’ve read all day! Congrats 🍾 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 12:02 AM |
| 11 | She has a very FDS-like channelShe has such a great point with the makeup. I’m going to put much more work into my appearance now. I always took “I prefer you natural” at face value. Not anymore. Thank you for posting this! Also, she is so beautiful 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 11:01 PM |
| 13 | 63 y.o. married to 22 y.o. writes "Pretty Woman" fairytale version of age-gap relationship.😂☠️😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:49 PM |
| 14 | Make sure you are 100% involved in your financial decisions. Financial independence is SO important and can be life saving!This! I dated a guy seven months before he told me he was $30,000 in credit card debt despite telling him from the very beginning that being financially secure was a requirement for me. I told him I had no credit card debt and wouldn’t date someone who had major debt. He went along with it the whole time and never admitted to his problem for seven whole months. Not ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:34 AM |
| 19 | Anyone ever try paid online dating?I’ve also used Match and never had a man offer a walk date or coffee date. It was dinner every single time. I met some wonderful men. That being said, most were too old for me and many were significantly less attractive than the free apps. I ended up going to Hinge because there just weren’t enough men in their 20s on the site. I would try Match again if I had to go back to OLD. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 01:25 AM |
| 29 | I was put into a horrible situation by my roommates and wrote this to them out of frustrationI just moved into a new place with two women but I didn’t vet them the way I should have. Sunday morning I walk out of my room and there is a random man on my couch with my roommate nowhere to be seen. I asked him where my roommate was and he said she spent the night at her boyfriends house and she gave him the key to our place to crash. I had no warning at all from my roommate about this. She has no apologized. I’m looking for a new place to live and I only moved in last month. Please don’t mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 12:56 AM |
| 15 | I paused dating this year because of how many creeps I encountered, this morning I found out staying home and not engaging with men doesn't keep me safe either.That letter was so much scarier than I imagined it was going to be. The writing. Oh no 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/20 12:19 AM |
| 82 | To those who feel guilty about taking a man’s moneyThis was me this week. Went to the grocery store with the boyfriend who hasn’t been paying his fair share, and when we got to the register this was our convo. I’ve already told him previously he needed to pay most of the food bill as I’ve been paying almost all of of it the entire time we’ve been together and I’m tired of it. Him: **looks in cart. Do you want me to pay for the meat? (As this tends to be a big part of the bill and I barely eat it). Me: Oh, are you not paying for the whole thing? … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/20 02:48 AM |
| 14 | LMFAO dropped some truth bombs and my comments got removed 😂😂 S A DI love this so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, how are the men of Washington DC?I can second this. I’ve been here three years now. I’ve dated multiple men with clearances and let me tell you that I’ve never seen men more delusional than this bunch. Many of them wait until their late 30’s to early 50’s to settle down but still want a girl in her 20’s. Had a 50 year old man at one of these agencies think we would date and get married. Bald, overweight, and just gross. I’m in my late 20s. My favorite has been one guy with a TS clearance who still had the dating apps on his pho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 01:54 AM |
| 10 | Men are too interested in my job - red flag?This is amazing! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:57 PM |
| 15 | Are you kidding me?This is terrifying. 😰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 04:14 PM |
| 2 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020Thank you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 01:19 PM |
| 5 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020Oh, and we’ve been dating a year. I thought he was on his family’s plan but maybe not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:19 PM |
| 7 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020I’ll ask him for sure. Thank you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:18 PM |
| 7 | CALL THEIR BLUFF 2020So I just searched my boyfriends number on this app and it comes up as no name available. Now I’m weirded out.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 08:11 PM |
| 6 | “Ask your other peers what they make — especially your male ones.”I love this so much. Unfortunately, I told my prior boss that I talk to my collègues about pay, and was immediately told I’m not allowed to discuss this with other collègues. Ever. I ended up asking for a new boss for many reasons, but I’ve not been able to ask anyone else for fear of being fired. My boss was a woman, and she said in a staff meeting about how she wouldn’t want to know how much her collègue at the same level as her makes (a man) because someone’s feelings might get hurt, and she … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/20 12:16 AM |
| 55 | Men always say they’re open minded sexually until they meet a real oneMy ex was into pegging. At first he was very into BDSM Dom type sex and then eventually let me know he liked pegging and had done it in the past with other women. I still don’t know what to think about all of that. We ended soon after for non-related reasons. A pretty conservative guy in a government job. They shock you sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 03:25 AM |
| 39 | The Best Revenge Isn't Revenge: It's SILENCE.Just received an email from my ex after not speaking for over a year. A long apology and request to consider giving him another chance. I’ve been agonizing on whether to respond, and if I did what I’d say. I guess I know my answer. Just don’t. Don’t respond. Thanks for posting this. Needed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 01:47 AM |
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