| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 3 | You can feel as fake-empowered about hookups as you want. It doesn't change the fact that this is how men think.I can relate 💯. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 01:44 AM |
| 7 | Held off on sex, it was horribleYup, sounds like porn induced ED. But could be nerves, since it was your first time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 10:26 PM |
| 3 | I see a lot of women at my church praising men for the most lack luster "good" things that they do. Like asking consent, not being an asshole, not being a manipulator or a gasslighter. Its gross.💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 06:15 AM |
| 7 | Yes. We don't owe men anything.I love penetration way more than clitoral stimulation. I orgasm way harder from penetrative sex, so yes! I need a dildo. They have very comfortable ones now imo 😇 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:56 PM |
| 10 | HVM story found on r/tumblrI hope she forgot to mention it because I was thinking the same thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:08 AM |
| 2 | And here’s why we get our men ladies. 😬😬😬Ew gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:04 PM |
| 13 | Im not raising LVMs....my sons wrapped all the gifts this year.Yes! I have two awesome boys that I’m trying to raise as awesome as possible but an FDS based parenting sub or thread would be cool! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 04:23 AM |
| 35 | Porn acting is notoriously bad, except for when it portrays extreme degradation of women, then suddenly it's "not real, they're just acting"Now to just figure out a way for me to stay emotionally detached until I find out their true porn habits. Wish I could look through their search history as a resume, I deserve to know. Some women may not mind but to the ones that do, we deserve to know what we’re getting into. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:18 PM |
| 10 | The LVMS of the world let out a collective scream of pain: PORNHUB removes 80% of video uploads because of child abuse and rape.This is amazing news!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 04:13 AM |
| 6 | Porn is ruining sex for women. So many men can't f*** properly 🤢. What's the point of being with a man that can't even please you in bed !?!Yes, it is! It also shows how fragile they are because they must know on some level that we’re correct. They just don’t want women to catch on, is my guess. Unless, of course, I’m giving them too much credit and they really think it’s fine and healthy lol 😂 Edit: just realized that was you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 01:32 AM |
| 159 | Porn is ruining sex for women. So many men can't f*** properly 🤢. What's the point of being with a man that can't even please you in bed !?!I awarded this goddess on there twice because she said that she’s turned off by men who watch porn...she was of course, downvoted a ton. 😒 Edit: if you have the energy, go upvote her lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 06:23 AM |
| 10 | As soon as I hear he watches porn, I'm no longer interested nor attracted.Ew girl, same. I’ve heard that line TOO many times. I’m not sure what I’m supposed to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 02:38 PM |
| 24 | Say it louder for the male lurkers who claim we're misandrists huh 😂Yes, I agree. I expect more of them too because I know they can do it. Most just won’t because they’re selfish. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 01:47 AM |
| 10 | Happy Holidays! 😜That’s up for you and your partner to decide. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 10:47 PM |
| 44 | Don’t ask me if I can cook unless you’re prepared to replace my brakes and do an oil change on my car.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/11/20 08:47 PM |
| 23 | Stop Talking To Men Who Flirt With YouGreat catch! I’ll look out for that now too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 03:41 AM |
| 31 | The myth of the “honeymoon phase” 🙃God. I can relate 100%. He stopped putting effort>I’m the bitch for pointing it out>gets upset and makes me say sorry for pointing it out>refuses sex>makes me behave in a submissive pushover way, where he gets away with more slack>repeat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/10/20 04:23 AM |
| 4 | At least you got picked 💁♀️u/understatedalways 🤣🤣🤣 we should start this lmao 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 08:07 AM |
| 4 | No a laundromat is NOT A DATE !!I really really hope she sees this. Poor girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:23 AM |
| 15 | You’re the prize!Sometimes it’s as simple as that. Nice reminder for me! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:55 PM |
| 5 | We made it! FDS has 100,000 members!Woot woot!!!! Cheers!!!!!!!!!! 🍾🎊💕🎈👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:59 PM |
| 16 | So I found a HVM and wanted to point out some of his early on green flags...Umm yes, I need one clone please. ☝🏼 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 2 | This got nearly 50k upvotes in /r/Funny, but all I see is male hypocrisy.Those male comics would have a mattress on the floor 🤣🤣🤣 At least she’s at the beach! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 05:44 AM |
| 2 | A tribute to my ex 🤡Haven’t laughed this hard in a while. That’s hilariously brutal. 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 03:29 AM |
| 5 | I can’t stress this enough: actions >>>>>>>> words.Hahahahaha I can relate to the snacks. They’re always nice and calm when they’re having their snack. Then they’re generous. 👶🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:19 PM |
| 3 | I can’t stress this enough: actions >>>>>>>> words.1000% “ I like peace and calm in my life. I’m a gentle person.” Okay, where? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 4 | UPDATE: We are changing our policy on polyamory!The only polyamory cycle that makes sense. 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 01:58 AM |
| 20 | Can he find the clit? That is the question.Just read the handbook yesterday and it’s not hard to find in there. That’s 110% the most important thing that I’m going to vet for before PIV sex from a potential partner from now on. Just ended an almost 2 year relationship where his sex drive was shit and he refused to eat me out. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 08:20 PM |
| 12 | The “Let’s Grab A Coffee” Outfit 🤣💀This comment is epic. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 08:07 AM |
| 3 | Thanks to FDS, I have a HV boyfriend!Yay! Can’t wait!! We need hope!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 4 | Trust your instincts: If you feel like something is wrong with him, there is.I was laughing my booty off earlier but this champagne has hit and this is even funnier now! Laughing👏🏻Out👏🏻Loud👏🏻 Cheers! 🍾💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:31 AM |
| 6 | Trust your instincts: If you feel like something is wrong with him, there is.Omg!!!!!!! I had a guy ask me if I had cast a spell on him because he couldn’t cum! In a very very serious way. Just because I’m into LOA and moon cleansing rituals. Lmao 🤣 That’s hilarious, thought I was the only one. I was in complete disbelief. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 27 | Thanks to FDS, I have a HV boyfriend!Yay!!! Congratulations!!! 🍾🎊🎉🎈Besides the sisterhood and “bashing” of LVM, this is what this sub is about!! Keep us posted! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:41 PM |
| 21 | Where is the lie though???It’s crazy what Reddit can do. Recently had a buddy of mine that makes over $30k a MONTH try to get my opinion on a wedding ring for his GF. He had the audacity to say that he wants to get a fake diamond because “it’s pointless”. Yet he’s okay with blowing money on club tables and gambling. 🤡 He thought I was going to agree with him lmao ! I set him straight about how ridiculous and selfish that would be. I said that he better get her a HUGE rock because the ring is about her...not his stupid Re… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 12:13 AM |
| 7 | Seriously?I love this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 09:27 PM |
| 7 | Whenever I think of 'HVM' this couple comes to my mind. Cameron was hands down the best man from the entire show ("Love is blind - Netflix").Aww they were my favorite couple too! They deserve each other 💕 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 08:55 AM |
| 56 | "FDS is so JUDGEMENTAL" Yes, and we are proud of it! Mate selection is among the most important decisions you will ever make, it is a crucial time to be choosy!A lot of women on here are newbs too...so a lot of us are probably “LVW” trying to level up. I know I have a ton of work to do before I feel comfortable and confident enough to go after a HVM. Currently dating someone who I’ve switched my standards on kinda suddenly due to FDS and he’s suddenly happy to pay for everything and things have been better. Those male lurkers just need to put their ego aside and look within. It’s okay to set standards, if they can’t hang then they can leave. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 09:41 PM |
| 4 | This is some true clown energy 🤡Unfortunately, this isn’t common knowledge for a lot of younger ladies. As common sense as it is. I had no idea for a while...thought he’d have a change of heart if I was just loyal regardless. Lol I wish I knew. Ugh, we live and learn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | If he wanted to, he would. (HVM prepares a 30 days of birthday surprise)It’s so sweet, even if it’s posted on SM. I want to do this for someone! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Just a little motivation for you ladies!Don’t give up!! A buddy of mine got rejected from Med school quite a few times. He’s now a pretty well known surgeon internationally and he’s an inventor of a new prostate surgery. Keep trying!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:00 PM |
| 4 | About a month ago I posted about a first date where the guy insisted that I pay for myself. This weekend I went on one of the most extravagantly lovely dates I've ever had with another manLmao I live in Scottsdale. They’re everywhere here. I used to go out a lot. Also worked in healthcare. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:26 AM |
| 8 | About a month ago I posted about a first date where the guy insisted that I pay for myself. This weekend I went on one of the most extravagantly lovely dates I've ever had with another manJust took a few minutes to think about it and I would say that the most obvious sign is that they both clued me in on being serial monogamist. They both can’t handle the thought of the women they are just getting to know, having options. Both of them asked me to be their girlfriend before it was appropriate. There’s no way they knew if we were a good fit or anything yet. They just can’t handle not being the first option or the thought of this new girl dating others. They both probably knew that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:50 AM |
| 16 | About a month ago I posted about a first date where the guy insisted that I pay for myself. This weekend I went on one of the most extravagantly lovely dates I've ever had with another manHaha yeah. I’ve dated super wealthy men and poor men. The difference is that after they upset you, the rich one will buy you something nice to get you off their back. Would rather have a Chanel and be pissed than nothing and be pissed. Now that I think about it, they both did treat me similarly. At least I got stuff out of the rich one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:36 AM |
| 15 | Hope he treats her well and she isn't being used...Damn. Feel bad for that lady that’s being used. He needs a better job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 07:09 AM |
| 33 | LMFAO dropped some truth bombs and my comments got removed 😂😂 S A DRight! Lmao It’s clearly stated by her and even the BF. Male moderator must’ve had his feelings hurt...too close to home. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 02:37 AM |
| 6 | You Aren't Being Kind When You Mother HimNeeded to hear this! Amen! 🙏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 03:43 AM |
| 2 | Oh wellHahaha right!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 02:37 AM |
| 14 | Oh wellThanks for sharing this. I was a little bitter and hard on myself but am thankfully over that now. I’ve forgiven so many men for things that did not deserve forgiveness...so I owe it to myself to forgive and love myself. Recently decided to learn FDS and my dating habits because it just wasn’t working before. I know HVM are rare but if I’m going to date anyone, I won’t settle for a LVM again. Pretty much have to deconstruct myself (pickme) and my dating habits!! It’s a difficult start but I hope… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 12:29 AM |
| 18 | Oh wellOh god. Sounds just like my ex. Tell me why, that now at 27 I’m just learning. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 11:32 PM |
| 3 | Is it just me, or is most couples' advice from therapists/psychologists/counselors just goddamn AWFUL for women??Because if they say “just leave him” there’s no extra therapy money coming in. Lol It sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/20 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Reminder: LVM don't like it when you have a support systemYes, took a screenshot! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 03:06 AM |
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