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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 04:17 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?JaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:52 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 11:54 AM
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STRATEGYJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 08:52 AM
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RANTJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:49 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:58 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 11:47 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:39 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:15 AM
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SCROTATION REPORT JaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 12:21 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:43 PM
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PICKME CULTUREJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:05 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 12:24 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 04:34 AM
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RANTJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 01:57 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?JaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:21 AM
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RANTJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:01 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:12 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 01:32 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 03:40 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 07:46 AM
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Story time ☕JaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:25 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:52 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:36 PM
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NAH, SISJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:44 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:20 AM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 04:12 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 01:30 AM
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NAH, SISJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 02:54 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/20 12:03 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:00 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:11 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:52 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:52 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:07 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 09:56 AM
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STRATEGYJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:54 AM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:27 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:05 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:04 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:30 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 01:18 PM
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DISCUSSIONJaneIsaPain/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:27 AM
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I meant Australia is no better 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 03:52 AM
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You should try Australia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:22 AM
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Fk me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:22 AM
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Fk me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 09:22 AM
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Men just need to fk off. We need to create a society where we put women's needs ontop, we are 50% of the world. If women COLLECTIVELY STOPPED DOING ALL THAT EXTRA WORK AT HOME, behaved more selfishly, refused to have sex and breed with LVM, the world would stop. Men would have to change or perish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 01:05 AM
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At least suggest something FFS 'there is this place I have been wanting to try...'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 12:54 AM
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Lol they are getting worse with time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 01:18 PM
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Its so easy. If they can hold down jobs then the reasons why they dont do this are very obvious - they cant be bothered or for some reason think women need to make more effort when dating. Not sure where they get this women need to make more effort thing? Libfeminism, deep hatred of women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 08:35 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:59 AM
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This is every scrote on Bumble. Him: Id love to take you out on a date. Me: sure. Him: where should we go? Me: well, you asked me. Him: haha. crickets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 01:49 AM
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You summed up my ex psych professor perfectly. Its a shame men can have it all - a smart beautiful kind woman - but we are always told to 'pick one or two but never three.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/21 11:59 AM
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Nope. Plenty of overeducated men in jobs below their qualifications.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 11:53 PM
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This is a tricky one. In Australia, the classes are not as defined and many men working blue collar jobs earn a lot more than university educated men. My ex didnt have a degree but worked as a commercial executive in a high end tech company and was earning as much as a doctor, if not more. I was earning significantly less than him even though I was more educated, as well as my parents/family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:22 PM
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The other day I got into a debate with my cousin's fiance about cats as he said cats suck as they are unemotional and mean and bla bla and my cousin quoted an actual study which showed men who hate cats score higher on misogyny. His response was "will you stop with that feminist crap." To an actual...study. So I guess he proved it correct 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/21 02:08 PM
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Who he now also treats like dirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 11:09 PM
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How about just take a break from men altogether, but especially a LVM like Affleck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:01 PM
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But she went back to a man who essentially, didnt want to settle down with her. And he is a LVM, a cheating, substance abusing, young woman chasing LVM who just happens to be charming. I dont think I could ever go back to an ex and especially not one who didnt want to settle down with me in my prime.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 01:00 PM
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Oh Im not. Of course men were worse. But I dont think they ouright said shit like that during courtship. In some ways its good because we can cancel guys from the start, but overall men just seem to lose respect for women rather than gain more respect with the coming generations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 12:57 PM
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are men today regressing? i cant even imagine a man from the 1920s saying this.................
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:58 AM
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soooo misogynistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:49 AM
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Its ok hun JB is treating his now wife no better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 10:48 AM
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So much drama. Yeah and the men were too effeminate and not in the good way. Last guy I dated was vegan and kept trying to convert me. He regarded his lifestyle as above all others.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/21 09:09 AM
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Any guy that attends Burning Man or is into fire twirling, please press next and save yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 02:06 PM
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The bar is in hell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:36 AM
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Lol WTF even was that. Even just reading that made me feel confused.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:35 AM
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Oh Ive seen women do all the work. I had a friend who chased guys so bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 09:29 AM
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Any FDS women in Australia interested in non pickme friendships with myself, hit me up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 01:25 PM
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Yeah forget it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 01:30 AM
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A lot of them choose it. I worked in a homelessness shelter and was taught not to encourage people to give money or food to homeless people as it enables their situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 07:55 AM
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yeah it just makes me feel like they are not enthusiastic about the date so I lose all interest. I find as women you have to do so much more before the date in terms of grooming and presentation and worrying whether the man is safe that having the burden of also planning is just no worth it. If scrotes are ok with me turning up with facial hair then great.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:29 AM
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You may be onto something. Ive been on it a few months and it is, not good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:26 AM
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Maybe we can ensure all these men remain unfuckable so their DNA dies out
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 06:25 AM
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Haha good analogy. We dont really need to hear your indecision out aloud - we encounter enough of it already ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:46 AM
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Damn lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:44 AM
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Yeah or just a pick a place you already have been to...which they have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 04:43 AM
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Ive observed this as well. Things obviously got too easy for men the past decade if they are the ones playing hard to get.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 03:45 AM
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Men created patriarchy, capitalism and work. They experience less discrimination at work than women hence a man who is broke has absolutely no excuse. Its easier for men to have money in a system that benefits men so if they dont, well why the F not?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:24 PM
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Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:03 AM
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Pickmes ruin it for the rest ... but a HVM isnt a HVM coz of a woman's boundaries - or lack thereof - but because he doesnt want FWB situations anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 08:20 AM
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Yeah like all those studies which show a temporary lift in happiness, that goes back to pre baseline levels after two yrs of marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:07 AM
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Its called the patriarchy. Forces women to value a man over every other relationship coz it upholds patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 03:14 PM
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TY!!! Its worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:46 AM
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My business is my baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:46 AM
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No way! I started my own practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:45 AM
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Haha you echoed everything Ive been thinking for years! These days I just say no to invites and especially no to being a bridesmaid. Not interested in slaving for a whole year for your one day that is not even about me lol but a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/21 10:44 AM
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The HVM I know all have age appropriate wives. That is, no more than 4 yrs younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 10:45 AM
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Yes valium. How on earth did a psychologist choose this beats me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:03 AM
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I mean the guy got addicted to valium and nearly died when his wife was diagnosed with cancer. I know mental health workers are still human, but I mean, you would hope a career psychologist who goes on about getting ones life in order would have better strategies - I think he is very neurotic, insecure and hateful. Also, he shows really exteme and obsessive behaviours e.g. eating only red meat as a way to cure depression. Has he heard of bowel cancer and climate change? This is dangerous and dan…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:11 AM
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Why women need to have a plan B and ability to work and save their own money. Have shares, property in your own name even when married. And do a prenup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 08:38 AM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 12:53 PM
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I remember I was friends with this one woman for over ten years. Supported her out of her pickme relationships. On her wedding day, I ended up sick and in hospital so couldnt be a bridesmaid. I was so upset. I met with her after the wedding and gave her a hefty gift and never heard from her again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 06:14 AM
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Its why I now say NO to being a bridesmaid. A bridesmaid is a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/21 12:29 AM
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Lmao I know right. Ill get my degree and well paid job pushing paper in a office. Beats having to let disgusting men penetrate me all day long. Heck I'd rather be a forensic cleaner, grave digger or on unemployment benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:50 PM
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So sex workers get paid by their dates boyfriends and husbands to suck their dicks too???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:49 PM
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She was always so much better looking and smarter than him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 12:02 AM
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Agree. And why its boring to date men - they prefer talking and hanging with other men. I think patriarchy has survived this long because men are obsessed with each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 01:46 PM
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The economic model needs to change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 06:21 AM
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Disappointed. Especially disappointed because she did it immediately after turning 18. If she was a bit older, cool, but it just screams i was waiting to turn 18 to take my kit off. Like every other teen celeb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 12:12 AM
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BDSM is the hipster of sex. Every hipster thinks he is cool and unique when he is just the dominant subculture. .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 01:10 PM
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How about never?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:28 AM
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Yep lol. Im EE and it is hilarious the assumptions made by (usually) AngloSaxon men... Then we are called gold diggers. Seems any expectation you have from them they find a way to insult you for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:49 PM
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coz having children is not that enjoyable. Survival does not care about your emotions, it cares about reproduction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:47 AM
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meanwhile eastern european women marry rich men who can afford them to be stay at home wives/mums plus eastern european women usually manage the money in the family....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:43 AM
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i am childfree but unfortunately many childfree men are childfree because they are particularly selfish in many ways or low earners/no amibition...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:40 AM
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As a sole trader, I was just told by the bank no chance I can purchase a property in my city let alone state, sooo...where does having kids fall into this? The economy is shit. Kids are expensive and stressful. F off with your opinions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:17 AM
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Survival of the fittest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:35 PM
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A HVM does not correlate with living at home. Especially a culture where it is normalised. You need to assess further.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 10:32 PM
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These men all need a second job. They have too much time on their hands to watch porn and fantasize scenarios.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 01:59 AM
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So what happens after childbirth? Do you just dump your wife coz her vagina too loose. Does the man's penis get thinner too from too much sex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:21 PM
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Men dont rape becuse they are confused about consent. Men rape because they think they are entitled and get off on getting something from women by force.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:15 PM
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Thats why the only choice is: Marry a HVM. STAY SINGLE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 10:14 AM
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Broke people should not have sex. Contraception costs. Abortion costs. A baby costs. Stop. Fucking. Broke. Men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:17 AM
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Same. Pity hardly any are funny.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 07:52 AM
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Good point! Or they just want their husband's best friend for you so you can all be in the same group.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:55 AM
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Yes the "medical emergencies" Dear lord spare me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:52 AM
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There is no point it is all a lie. A MLM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:03 PM
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That saying is so stupid. Most treasures are treasures to everyone. I dont go looking at my friend's job where there is bullying and non stop drama and be like imma get me that job coz could be my treasure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:00 PM
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My ex bestie used to do this alllll the time when she got into a r/s. Once I decided to do it to her once I had a bf to see her reaction. She was livid. I now seek out women who do not do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 04:43 AM
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There was a study done on abusers which found most of them didnt have a history of trauma or childhood abuse. Abusers gonna abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 02:18 AM
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Even if he was not abusing, 100% he was controlling or manipulating in sneaky ways. Even Dita says she left him coz he cheated on her. Probs lied and manipulated her for ages to cover the cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:26 AM
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Honestly, degradation of women knows no bounds. You can be poor AF or rich AF and still treat women the same. Why a HVM has nothing to do with his degree, money, status etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 11:15 AM
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Oh I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:53 PM
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Yeah definitely. It is why fathers are so protective of their daughters as they know what men are like (same fathers are not protective of other women though).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:52 PM
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As if you even owe them an explanation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:16 PM
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Very good point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 10:15 PM
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Lol. Oran Park?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 08:04 AM
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I refuse to speak to men who speak to me in nonchalant, lazy ways. 'You going' 'Whats up' 'You here yet' 'Nah' 'Yep' No. Speak nicely and eloquently. If you are using text speak e.g. 'ye ur rite' forget about even existing and go back to 2005.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 01:02 AM
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Hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:55 AM
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There wont be enough to go around that is true. But its still better to be single. Also higher education is no gurantee of a HVM. Plenty of my friends married tradesmen and men with technical jobs who are HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:49 AM
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Lol ridic!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:06 AM
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Lol 100%! BDSM - tick. You get to bash women, and for free! And noone can say anything because then its kink shaming and anti-feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:05 AM
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Yeah. I am sure he is dating them for great conversations and their maturity and... It's the sex. I always marvel at how intelligent men don't have a need for an intelligent woman. Like, as an intelligent woman, I would poke my eyes out if my man was 15 yrs younger and still developing mentally. How annoying. Yet men don't seem to care/mind, which shows how superficial they can be. Dont complain women want your money then!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 07:12 AM
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My dad is a mechanical engineer. Terrible emotional intelligence, just terrible. Super intellectually smart though and practically too. But dear lord he sucks with emotions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:59 PM
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This is a really great and insightful post. you are a smart woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:12 AM
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I think women should look good as much as they are willing and ALWAYS reject men who dont.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/21 11:30 AM
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Women have no good examples since most of their mothers were treated poorly by their fathers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 11:46 PM
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Yeah I once nearly went on a date with a doctor. Found out he was messaging me on his honeymoon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:33 PM
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Lol really!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:32 PM
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Lol good on you! Also as a PT, why would a male PT have a business coaching mums to lose weight? Is this common? Because it is the first time I have ever heard of it. It is always weird to me when men are experts in women related things. Even gynaecologists make me scratch my head.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:30 PM
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This! Women supporting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 01:09 PM
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Sorry I meant choose a woman doctor over a man. The personal trainer cheated with his client. I think its best if women support each other by choosing woman services.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 12:51 PM
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I dont mean dont date one, just if you are woman choose a woman doctor if you can
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 10:34 AM
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Im 100% a cannibal .... Yet people still give him the benefit of the doubt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 03:30 PM
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Lol guy says 'I am 100% a cannibal' And everyone is like 'nahhhh he so isnt lets give him the benefit of the doubtttttt!"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 11:06 AM
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Clementine Ford - Big sister hotline (on instagram)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:37 PM
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Damn. He was psychologically/emotionally abusive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:26 PM
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Well of course they expect something dude, you are in your 30s! Double standards at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:03 AM
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Hard agree. I don't tell people my age it is none of their business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:02 AM
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Not even stupid, unempathetic?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 12:00 AM
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Yes the woman in question actually comes from a very conservative family background. Her parents are shocked and refuse to even meet the guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:53 PM
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This is a very valid point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 11:51 PM
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Lol this is the datingoverthirty sub in a nutshell
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 10:53 PM
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Great comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 01:12 PM
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I agree.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:18 PM
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Id be more comfortable if he took his time, and felt it affter a few months, then a week or a couple of months. Means he practises self restraint and is prudent which suits me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 01:17 PM
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Funny story. A guy like this was in my psych class. He wore yoga pants with no undies to class and hugged everyone which was so uncomfortable as you could feel his squishy balls. I remember he used to holler at you across the quad and run on over to hug you. Once I started running in the opposite direction and he ran after me to 'say hi' lol!! He later asked my friend out on a date and took her to 'naked yoga' to 'unleash the energies.' She freaked out and never spoke to him again. I bet you he …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 11:47 AM
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This is dumb. Scripted and her laughy reaction is stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:41 AM
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Theyre all the same regardless of their education
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:55 PM
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Geez that dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 01:30 AM
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WHY did she have a kid with this creep? With hoardes of children and weird relationships before him. I dont understand rich, famous women who do this. Just find an average career oriented man I am sure you wouldnt have half the problems. And if you cant find him, just be alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:21 AM
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How come Gigi?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:18 AM
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100% to everything you have said. He is now married to a woman who is older than him. I heard after me he dated an even younger woman who also left him for a guy her age lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:27 AM
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Or no man at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:59 AM
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This is very true!I have seen this with my own eyes and also happened to me when I was 21 and still bit of an ugly duckling. As soon as I got hot and other guys paid me attention, I dropped him and started dating other men and he was LIVID to the point that he spread rumours about me "cheating on him." I lost my virginity to him so he probably thought he owned me because of that, whereas to me he was just a sexual experience and starter relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:50 AM
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Yes. But my gut instinct says she wont leave him :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:42 AM
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My older ex did this. When I left him, he sent me a invoice to 'square the ledger.' I never paid him back lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:40 AM
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Yeah my first bf was 32 when I was 21. He thought he could probably trick me into being with him as he had a track record of going for younger girls, but I dragged him through two years of an off and on again relationship, having to put up with my emotional highs and lows and eventually leaving him for a younger guy. He was livid. He sent me a cheque at the end to reclaim 'all the money he had spent on me' (which was not much since he was pretty much broke). I never sent the money. Recently he g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 02:37 AM
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Oh he cannot use that excuse because he texted my phone number asking to meet up looolll All I need to do is send her screenshots of our texts especially the last text which is me confronting him for being in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 12:39 AM
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Love your attitude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:25 AM
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Yes. I also think evolution tends to do that eg modern day woman is just better looking overrall than an neanderthal woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 11:01 PM
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Dang in what way?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 12:09 PM
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And then hopefully in 500 yrs we will just have nicer people overrall. By that I mean men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:04 AM
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This is so tiring. At 30 I am so over doing this. I wish someone at 16 had slapped me and told me it was not worth it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/11/20 06:02 AM
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Did..you say....software engineer?? I am currently writing a short dark-comedy novel on the horrors of dating a software engineer. They are android robots of some sort. I have not met one, not one, software engineer who was not a complete douche when it came to treating women well. And if not a complete douche, just incapable of treating their woman in a special way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/20 07:02 AM
8

Dont romanticise intellectual, artistic men. Most are insufferable gaslighters with egos bigger than the sun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 11:14 PM
2

Software engineer - nerdy fuckboi. I dont know, other IT guys seem fine, but dear god what is with software engineers Finance - if you want to be bored forever, go for the finance guy. Misogynistic AF, plus talkative, with a side of DEADLY boring. University lecturer - knows it all, is likely a sociopath and preys on college girls. Hard pass. Never met a normal one apart from the older generations. Lawyer - some are ok. Most are annoying. Debating isn't always necessary. Pro gaslighters. Army/po…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:07 PM
2

My cousins husband. God he does not shut up and knows everything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:59 PM
2

My dad lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:57 PM
6

Has he lost his brain that he would get near cubs??? Hes lucky he wasnt killed. Dumbass
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 10:16 PM
2

100% they think we are both dumb and too naive, as well as not even caring if we do find out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:13 PM
10

Lol. And young girls are supposed to be ok with old, defect sperm and sagging balls?? Receding hairline, grey hairs and wrinkles. Ok.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 12:47 AM
3

Finances is a big one if you want a stress free life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 11:15 PM
3

Honestly do they think we wont find out?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:24 PM
8

"Totally normal" except for the divorce risk which slyrockets with large age gap relationships. Why the fuck would you want to date grandpa? And whats wrong with men who date 15yrs younger, do they seriously only care about using a young body for sex, as no girl is going to be 15yrs more MaTUrE than her age as they all say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:22 PM
6

Yeah that makes sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:19 PM
58

Yeah like your boundaries should be getting stronger as you age, as should your ability to detect patterns and cut your losses quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:19 PM
109

Yeah, many men dont give AF about connecting intellectually, emotionally with women (like how intellectual and emotionally mature can a woman be at 16?) so we all know its about sex, using a young body, for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 12:04 PM
1

Sydney is a small place, more than likely he will relocate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:49 AM
3

Haha I used to see him out and about in Bondi, I thought he was gay. Aaaaahh what an idiot to send recordings to someone of being an abusive prick and think they would be kept a secret. In 2020. Dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:23 AM
1

🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:17 AM
5

This is super common with 'spiritual' men! They are often on the prowl for a healing female victim with boundless empathy who will put up with their shit. Just think of cult leaders, priests, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:12 AM
2

Yeah. As a therapist, I dont like CBT for relational issues. It is really hard as a therapist, when you can downright see your client being taken for a ride. Instead, I use acceptance and commitment therapy which is values focused. Are you living a life within your values? What are your relationship values? Is your partner living by them? What does it cost you to stay in this relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:05 AM
16

Because they know how depraved male sexuality can be
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 07:01 AM
15

You are right. I am white but Eastern European, and was always surprised how white Anglo Saxon women in Australia had no issues bringing their bfs over for sleepovers at 16. My dad would have landed me in ER lol and 'no Serbian guy would have wanted to marry me for having sex before marriage.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:27 AM
48

Baha. I am getting called racist in the atheism sub by a dude who thinks I am a racist for noticing how black men can fetishise white women and put down their OWN black female women, and due to too many experiences, I'd rather not go there again. Sure call me a racist, stay silent on why black men do this though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:24 AM
1

How about just ask women who have experienced an orgasm and see how they describe it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 05:21 AM
12

Yet men ask women to marry them? Am I missing something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:24 PM
1

Ive been OLD in Australia for ten years now. That says it all. And no its not even being picky - if anything I should have been more picky in hindsight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 11:36 AM
5

Girl stop engaging him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 08:54 AM
30

I'm 5'5. All my exes were over 6ft. My last bf was 6'6. Men are hard enough to deal with, so might as well get someone tall and strong to make up for every other way that they will BE LACKING IN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:20 AM
7

Yet men want a pretty face.....they are entitled to that....but somehow women are not allowed to have a preference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:16 AM
25

You need a new friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:57 AM
41

Lol funny as my ex looked exactly like the blonde guy, attitude and all, and I still dumped him because he was boring and misogynistic AF
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:47 PM
46

Like for women to be everything, fit, hot, successful, confident, outspoken, etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 06:05 AM
3

Yep you said it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:30 AM
38

Aussie and 100% agree however I found US men have higher expectations of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:28 AM
41

I have lived in Australia, Serbia and briefly, the US and can safely say the men are all different but the root cause of his 'paying for everything' or 'paying for nothing' or 'gf after first sex' or 'not gf after sex' is ALWAYS THE SAME AND EQUALS MISOGYNY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 05:25 AM
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Agree and there is NO CHANGING SUCH MEN. If you say no and marry a creep like that, I guarantee he will try to manipulate you into it, or find sideaction on online dating sites, at work, etc and will pounce as soon as given the opportunity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 01:01 AM
5

Yeah I tried with someone who had emotional intelligence, but the academic intelligence was so hard. He would not understand things that were obvious and his arguments failed in logic and I was just, embarrassed bringing him around to family and friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 11:27 PM
8

Awww is some poor guy jealous of an inanimate object
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 02:59 AM
17

He is so annoying
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:27 AM
6

That was my ex. Exactly that. He was a feminist because it made it easier for him if I also worked, allowing him to drop to part time, allowing him to have sex with me before marriage because of libfeminism, allowing him to not plan dates, etc etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 06:25 AM
7

Fuck yes my dream!! Invite whoever I want, have them housed in separate quarters, drink wine from a goblet, have insane rave parties, horse ride. Heck I would probably even raise a kid or two on my own with that much money and space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 01:10 PM
1

My ex friend proposed to her bf in college. It never sat right with me. Theyre still together with two kids but...was always strange. She claimed it was feminist. I found it laughable to think marriage was ever a feminist union...and then actively asking for something that has thru history oppressed women? Nah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:12 AM
2

Funny, my abusive manipulative ex hated cats. All my nice exes loved them. Good observation!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 12:53 PM
2

Every ENTP I have dated has been a low effort, gaslighting, debate raging, insufferable and disrespectful pain in the Ass The last ENTP never understood the dating rituals people did, like taking out to dinner, having sex when committed, because he was AboVE THeM with his superior intelligence. He was butthurt his model ex of 9yrs broke up with him, but apparently 'marriage wasnt important to them' when asked why they were not engaged at least. Funny thing is, I stalked her insta the other day a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:27 AM
2

I met more HVM on Bumble
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:20 AM
2

He looks like that guy who shot up the new zealand mosque
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:13 AM
8

Thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:46 AM
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Yeah my 11yrs older ex was such a bum in hind sight. Like he was at the same life stage as me at 20. I feel embarrassed to have dated him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:44 AM
13

I would be cautious in the case of abusive men - they abuse you, but dont want you to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:49 AM
2

Mum always does this with my friends. "But noone is perfecttt if you continue cutting people from your life you will be aaallloneeee." Just, shut up mum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:12 AM
18

Phew
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:57 AM
1

Lesson learned!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:53 AM
8

This was my professor ex. He was a feminist, lefty, progressive intellectual with a penchant for assualting and abusing women, you know, like a true feminist lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:50 AM
3

Omg lol i wish i was on tinder to message him this sweet one liner haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:24 AM
5

Corona free but is it STD free?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:23 AM
6

He means it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:51 PM
7

Its hard to blame women when over 50% of men are trash. Never forget, many things like sociopathy, sexual crimes, narcissism, addiction, behavioural disorders, violence against women and the like are all higher in male populations. We are born already fighting an unequal playing field
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:44 PM
5

Very well said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 10:47 AM
12

Yes. Especially as HALF THE WORLD IS STARVING OR MALNOURISHED.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:54 AM
6

I have to say, from hearing the way some African men used to talk about women, yes they preferred mixed women. In fact, I had black men date me because they 'want mixed babies.' These are obviously not all black men - only the ones who prefer NOT dating other black women. But that's ok - we dont want them either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:40 AM
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Honestly it is fkn sad. I dont know if it is some sort of internalised racism but I do remember one black guy say he had a white ex who's racist dad hated him and so he would 'fk her so hard during sex out of anger at her dad.' Just, no. Way too much to risk by dating interracially, mainly those men who dont date within their race (who you will usually meet). You never really know their intentions/motivations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 09:31 AM
35

Same. I know ZERO people. ZERO. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:03 AM
80

Omg what woman actually does this apart from the 0.02% rich?? Who often sacrifice money for - attraction, respect, autonomy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:43 AM
43

Well men who are straight will fuck other men in prison when horny. Animals too if far apart from society for a while. Men are sexually opportunistic and very depraved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 10:09 PM
92

Not one ex when asked by my mother do I regret not marrying. Not one. But at the time I thought I did. Funny what some space and distance can do to how you view a person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 12:57 PM
1

Id take media 'reports' w a grain of salt dont you think?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:35 PM
18

Dont forget, most men dont deserve sex or to breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:36 AM
23

Upto 35 max. From then on sperm health starts declining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 05:08 AM
46

Cant stand. Noone wants your defective sperm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:53 AM
5

Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:52 AM
16

Liam is well, like I said about Aussie men lol. Like they are good to look at, but if you want good conversation, stimulation and more than just "kids, home, gym, beach, surf"....weeelllll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 04:52 AM
11

Nah. I don't date short guys never have. I prefer a man to be taller than me, it turns me on. In the meantime, my small waist and big booty and long hair attracts men I am sure. I hate when men get salty for women having preferences when they have SO FUCKING MANY PHYSICAL ONES FOR WOMEN
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:50 AM
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Idk its not always the men at fault either. Sometimes two people are just incompatible but drag it on. Personally, I know the Hemsworth family (family friends). Liam (and I am not claiming to know how he is in a relationship, you never do if you are not in a relationship with them) seemed quite simple. He wanted to settle down quite early, have kids. He and his bro are literally the stereotype of Aussie men - quiet, outwardly stoic, traditional, simplistic, uncomplicated, etc, some used to even …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:20 AM
4

For me it always happened within 24 hrs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:52 AM
4

Ridiculous right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:08 PM
75

Yeah I posted this on datingoverthirty after MY EX GAVE ME HIS PHONE TO SCROLL THROUGH MESSAGES WITH HIS FEMALE COLLEAGUE. Everyone was like "but it is his privacy, why did you snoooopp!!!"...after the dude legit GAVE ME HIS PHONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 04:05 AM
3

Yes but my Asian friends dont date Asian men because they say they are too masculine and misogynistic, w strong gender role ideologies eg woman cooks, serves, looks after kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:43 AM
8

There is a reason he is not dating women his age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:12 AM
21

Ok. Enough internet for me today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:05 PM
28

Wow coz prostitution is the same thing lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:21 AM
3

Lol guess who loves freeing themselves of any responsibility? Mennn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 10:12 AM
2

100% your last point jesus that is so true. I found those men so apathetic towards everything when growing up... from women to politics to porn to ethics...to everything. I rem one guy at college was like 'haha lol y u so worried about feminism...relax you got everything u need deez dayz' ... just cruised through life because he never encountered adversity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:30 AM
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Honestly I have no idea lol but I met 5 so far and all were like...super intelligent... but very misogynistic, and will use said intelligence to constantly, jokingly gaslight you in subtle ways... Yes plenty online, which is prob due to their introversion....but perhaps they struggle with relationships too.... Im sure there are ok ones!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:26 AM
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Cant stand it because every guy who says this turns out to be an idiot and unintelligent
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:28 AM
9

HE FKN WISHES SO BAD HE GOT INTO HARVARD LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:10 AM
9

I would still say it is a symptom of a dangerous male, not the cause. Porn was likely invented by males who already held deeply disturbing attitudes towards women with vivid degrading imaginations that created such porn scenes. When I worked as a therapist with incarcerated males, porn was seldom the cause for violence. It was always, ALWAYS a symptom though. My ex was in the anti porn movement but extremely hateful of women and sexually coercive. Regardless, I agree that porn viewing males are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:58 AM
3

Haha dont know why they are such douches. Other IT guys seem fine!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:54 AM
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Im not defending it at all, Im saying without porn, he would have likely still done what he did. Men were brutalising women way before internet porn. He is making excuses in the video, using porn as an influence to manipulate others to set him free.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:14 AM
7

Yes, yes I do. Incarcerated men have more issues with managing emotions and impulses, are almost stuck in a 14yo male brain so to speak. But many normal men harbour such tendencies, they just have better impulse control. I would stay away from men who are addicted to anything, particularly alcohol and drugs, as the odds of them being abusers are much higher. Similarly, men with no friends or very limited friendships, men who are 'new to the area' with no community, men who move frequently and A …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:48 AM
1

To be honest, my sister comes from a more established, well educated and stable family. Our dad is an engineer, mother was an actress/kindergarten teacher, and are still married despite their r/s not being healthy at times. He grew up without ever knowing his father, living in a rougher area, being raised by a single mum and two grandparents, and having friends who did not aspire to much (no college degree, etc, but some are really lovely guys). He in a way, outgrew these friends (earns $250k a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:14 AM
1

She is 29, he is 31 lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 01:09 AM
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Haha no idea, I think male teachers, social workers, government workers, nurses and any empathy-driven jobs can be ok. The problem is they tend to get hitched YOUNG, are small in number (the ratio of women to men when I studied psych at college was like 20:1), can be a bit too leftist, and don't earn much, so being a SAHM may not be possible. My best experiemces: Creative designer/advertisor who used to be a English teacher. Commercial executive for Microsoft in education (selling licensing agre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:35 AM
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No, working in prisons with violent men (my past job) I found that violent men will use porn, alcohol etc, but it wont cause them to abuse women in real life. Violent/abusive men who are alcoholics - the alcohol does not make them abusive, they use alcohol because abusive men are just attracted to bad shit/vices in general lol. Also scary finidng - many think they can use alcohol as a justification for their abuse. I have lost count how many men would say to me "LOL Ma'am, I knew the drinking ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:21 AM
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Um no. Bundy used this as sympathy BUT THE PORN MADE ME DO IT WAAAHH Like so many men, they will blame anything but themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:14 AM
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I know. He is adamant he does no do it, and my sister has never seen him do drugs or even drink much alcohol when they go out or out to parties. He used to smoke and now vapes, with the aim to stop vaping too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:00 AM
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My ex did this - he was 40cm taller than me and it was hard. If he hunched down to kiss me, his dick would fall out. Lol. If he didn't hunch and laid down on me, I was staring at his navel/chest the whole time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 11:21 PM
2

Yes it is a garbage website
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:16 PM
4

My mum has. I mean it wasnt kissing, it was him putting his arms around her constantly, stroking her arm, etc. Being eastern european, PDA is just not done in our culture - I never even saw my parents kiss or hug lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 10:06 PM
1

Me too. You're not helping w the hyper sexualised BS nor dating misogynists like G Eazy who writes some of the most disgustingly degrading lyrics ever. I mean she is young she will learn but fk. The libfem movement is so detrimental. It only somewhat benefits women who are very wealthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:36 PM
8

Its moreso the PDA at family events etc. Parents have mentioned it is a bit uncomfortable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:28 PM
14

Is this a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:33 AM
5

DoT is trash lolol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 07:10 AM
10

Same. On deeper reflection they do not go hand in hand
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:55 PM
1

Thanks for letting us know!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:07 PM
1

Look we all know Shapiro sucks in the bedroom even he knows it, he just does not care to do anythin bout it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:04 PM
4

YeS!!!!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:00 PM
16

No way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:50 PM
1

Yeah very similar from my trip to holland
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:24 AM
35

Youre a smart women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:14 PM
28

I WONDER WHY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:13 PM
14

Ahhh ... the corona scrotes coming out of their desperate man caves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:08 PM
1

Why are vegan males such assholes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:37 AM
1

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:52 AM
0

Ive cheated on two men in the past because i was immature and deeply unhappy due to both being lvm's
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:51 AM
2

Yes but that would take some men missing out whilst they gradually turn into HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:25 AM
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It is basic evolution You need to score mating rights otherwise your genes die out, like they should. Women need to stop breeding with LVMs as it creates a world of LVMs. Set the bar high. Very, very high.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 06:35 AM
4

She is a horrible horrible person and a terrible female friend
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:26 PM
20

Youll know because they will want the same from you. Or if they see you as someone serious, it will be sex early on to 'assess sexual compatibility' My ex who had a very low number of sexual partners waited six months to have sex with me. No other ex bf with a higher number waited that long
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:23 PM
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Had a guy try pull this on me. ''Come drive and hang out at my beachside parents house all weekend.'' It was a four hour drive one way. When I said no he got annoyed. I did the mistake of continuing to see him for two more 'dates' when he happened to be in my town (he came up twice to my town to see me). He seemed so nonchalant and I guess, resentful, for having to come MY way that it showed. I think for the last date he asked to split the cost of A FKN MEDIUM SIZED PIZZA and then CONTINUED aski…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 12:18 PM
2

Me 2
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:53 AM
7

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 03:50 AM
7

I think she would. A part of me would like to find the right guy. But at this point I am just tired and feel the effort involved brings about minimal results. Her viewpoint is 'but you are in your 30s, you will miss out.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:31 AM
2

a man who does not believe in white supremacy, patriarchy........ what world is he living in????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:05 AM
60

Idk why, but when a grown male uses babe or hun with a woman he doesnt know, I auto friendzone him because its what my gay best friend does
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 09:03 AM
1

I feel sorry for the other woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:47 AM
6

Theyre sick. 90% of men out there DO NOT DESERVE SEX OR TO BREED
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:05 PM
52

They hate it because it makes them uncomfortable that they are : Unemployed/underemployed Broke Lazy Disrespectful Out of shape Etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:37 AM
66

Thats why we fear them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:35 AM
24

Me too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 11:14 AM
8

They dont act like that at work because another top dog male would call him out. They only do with women, because, they dont respect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:40 AM
67

Ok pick 3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:38 AM
23

Why would her thighs be moist wtf?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 07:06 AM
3

Thats it. There is no fixing a faulty item! This is a great metaphor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:53 PM
2

Yeah mine did exactly that. I thought what a great gig he has got!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:50 PM
7

Correct. My ex psychopath even became a psychology professor after years of therapy to manipulate and abuse 1000x better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 11:48 PM
36

Ita because many of those commenters are abusers themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:22 AM
16

The issue with couples therapy is that hetero relationships are so determined by a wider, gender issue at a societel level that it is imposisble to view it without this lens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:00 AM
53

Oh yes 100% Freud and Jung were so deeply misogynistic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:58 AM
8

This is unecessary and puts the woman at risk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 11:50 PM
6

Yes fk off we dont want you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:53 AM
5

Why would you do this to yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:34 PM
3

Yeah my ex said this to me...I didnt come running back....then he got butthurt lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:49 AM
4

They are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:37 AM
10

This black guy I used to date refused to date black women. Um what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:34 AM
25

Ugh Christian guys are some of the biggest misogynists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:59 AM
12

I only date men with money. Men earn more and historically have had less barriers. Rich guys can be shit in other areas, but so are many poor men. A man who is a good communicator and poor provider, I dont see the point. My mum and friend are probably better communicators than the best guy at communication
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 10:15 PM
3

I have no male friends because they all try to eventually fuck me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:21 AM
2

Im starting to think that too. If boring is accompanied with = has his own house, is responsible, caring, reliable, hard working....then maybe it is worth it BUT you need to have your own life with hobbies and friends and interests
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 05:53 AM
2

Baahhahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 01:32 AM
2

Im Eastern European and men have been surprised when they enter a relationship with me at how brutal I can be. "But you came across as soooo sweet and niiiicee" they whine
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 08:05 AM
1

Ouch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:19 AM
2

Did he work with you?? Otherwise...every hour... How on earth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:12 AM
15

Being with men should be fun. If it is no longer fun and taxing, time to leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:07 AM
5

Similar to my bipolar ex - he went through periods of constant unemployment, and cycled between jobs...3 months in this company...6 months in the other...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:02 AM
6

Yeah, like poor Kanye. A wealthy independent rapper ruined by his manipulative wife and her family nawww
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:01 AM
3

Oh definitely. Made me look like the bad guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:00 AM
6

Me too. He needs to be sectioned.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:28 PM
7

He told everyoneeee he had bipolar. He confided in other people a lot about our relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:28 PM
10

100% My ex was never violent but it manifested in socially strange behaviours, hypersexuality and excessive talking, which was frankly exhausting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 10:27 PM
16

I agree and as an Australian I hope we detach from the Queen completely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 06:53 AM
3

Another female friend I had who was a dating coach USED MY PERSONAL STORIES to promote her business WITHOUT MY CONSENT. They are truly awful people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 11:53 PM
2

I agree, I meant more that career/age for men may not always be the reason
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 01:24 PM
1

So he does not waste her time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:24 AM
8

Oh it is always an excuse. And never give men wife things when dating, I find this absurd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:52 AM
3

The problem is he never asked for any of this treatment. She started a precedent and now he almost expects it/enjoys it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 06:38 AM
13

WE DONT CARE apart from the last one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:56 AM
3

I dont trust men who say they knew in a week. Sorry but that is not healthy. You dont actually know anyone well in a week.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:53 AM
3

Bahahahhahaa
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:52 AM
5

Any man who quotes anything from Scarface is an automatic NO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:47 AM
25

You can have a PHD and still be a pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:44 AM
27

Never forget this ladies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:47 PM
27

Lol my exes still stayed shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:37 PM
2

Oh I have new friends, a smaller amount, but much more respectful. I now look for respect, thoughtfulness and consideration. Even if they are slightly boring, it is character that matters. Yeah the dating coach de identified me but come on...a few details and you can be identified lol. Also never trust a life or dating coach. It is an unscientific, unregulated industry full of narcs and leeches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 08:11 AM
12

Who cares that he is a career driven doctor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:46 AM
31

Ive met some insane mothers. Continue but get more info
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:41 AM
29

This is a very unusual, very weird couple. You cant generalise. Men think they are smart but then make logical errors in their reasoning all the fkn time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:40 AM
10

Then you tell your dad who knows his dad and he is basically punished for it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:21 AM
8

Yup. In the past two years Ive lost: A close friend. All because I challenged her way of thinking on a matter in which she was being overly emotional on. Another close friend for disrespecting my privacy and posting a private matter of mine on instagram to promote her dumbass dating coaching business. I have been lonely, but I would rather that than put up with shitty women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:49 PM
6

Unaware of her privilege coming from a upper middle class family where she was cocooned and protected from bad men her whole life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:18 AM
7

Australia is no better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 10:41 AM
1

There is no predictor of which man is a misognist. The only proof is how he treats you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 07:05 AM
18

You are a smart woman. The few guys who didnt bore me to death with their conversation, had something else wrong that was bad for a LTR. Men are just so boring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:44 AM
13

Because hobbies and interests are more fulfilling than human relationships? Lol! My male friend has autism and he is always in a rush to find a wife because he knows how valuable relationships are! And he has autism...these guys dont. Red fkn flag which equals 'he is just selfish.'
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:38 AM
1

They set a wedding date for three months' time already. Really lavish reception...which her parents are paying for. Weird
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:24 AM
8

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 05:57 AM
3

Datingover30 is full of women with no standards and men who want women to lower them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:11 AM
3

Dont worry, my brother is losing the friend definitely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 10:40 PM
53

I always am wary of white men dating Asian women. Always. Because so many of them do it because of the sex. My korean gf only dates white guys and all of them end up treating her like absolute shit...only to find out all his exes were Asian too. This is where the problem is - most white guys who date Asian girls actively seek them out and dont date other ethnicities which 100% is gross fetishisation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:12 PM
18

Prob because women wouldnt choose it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 01:41 PM
64

Im a model too lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:40 PM
1

Hes not single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:19 PM
2

It is indicative what he thinks of women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:18 PM
4

CMB had less creepy men than OKCupid but wow if one of them actually sent a first message or said something engaging....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:16 PM
26

Jordan Peterson.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:05 PM
18

Yeah I knew a woman with a husband like that, he ended up being into bestiality. He was a concert pianist, real good family etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:36 PM
19

OMG!! Wow! Must equate to being a decent person!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:59 AM
5

My dating coach back in the day tried to come onto me...he was 30yrs older
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:56 AM
3

Queen of the Pickmes of all Pickmes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:52 AM
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Ahhh good ol ugly AF, misogynistic, ohsodifferentandprofound software engineers...revenge of the nerds
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:43 AM
4

My friend was murdered by a hitman hired by her husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:59 AM
1

Nathan is not good looking enough for a kiss that fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:55 AM
2

Me too. Makes me angry at my parents tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:48 AM
1

Looking for friendship = looking for sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:45 AM
1

You know what Id bet 90% of the population likes all of the above too, how original you must be. Also why do men think their interests are so important?? Like I want a list of qualities you have with some references
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:39 AM
9

And even if he does think youre the one get used to cheap ass dates and gaslighting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:38 AM
12

Stay away from OKCupid. I feel it is for men who get banned from bumble and tinder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:57 AM
2

I bet you he is none of those things
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 05:55 AM
1

UC Berkely lol?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:08 AM
5

I met some great religious men back when I was religious at university. Most religious men tend to be conservative, which tends to mean anti-women traits like abortion should be illegal, contraception should be banned, women should stay home with their kids. Etc. Sometimes it is impossible to separate their religiousness and conservatism.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:56 AM
24

This guy gives me hives because he played a teen sexual predator on YOU and I swear to god he was playing himself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 06:57 AM
1

What did your sister find challenging?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 01:22 AM
5

Thank you lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 02:26 PM
3

Oh apparently he is lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:10 AM
4

I grew up around many pro life men including my abusive ex. I was very much Catholic in my youth and have since distanced myself. I know the type of pro life man very very well. Pro-life men fundamentally do not understand women. If they are good men, they dont realise that other men are not and this is the last resort for women whose lives will be ruined by a unwanted pregnancy. It indicates a lack of empathy and critical thinking. Pro-choice men can be too liberal and shirk any sexual responsi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:26 AM
6

To put it in context, the age diff is like you and a 9 yr old. Its not the same, but its a lot of life years on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 06:06 AM
18

Thats why parents need to help their daughters be financially independent starting with building their confidence from an early age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:41 AM
15

Yeah men love being the teacher. Its gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:35 AM
39

Same. Women are wising up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 05:35 AM
28

Im sorry but also you dodged a bullet. Some women are so desperate they will settle for anyone. I think my parents would disown me if I brought a man that old around. My dad would hate him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 04:01 AM
2

Im not sure if he is a virgin, but he is definitely Catholic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 01:28 AM
19

Lol oh but they do https://www.verywellfamily.com/does-age-affect-male-fertility-1959934
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:12 AM
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At 21, I dated a 32 yo. At 23, a 30 yo. At 27, a 36 yo. All big mistakes. All of them, life and progress-wise, were far behind men even my age. Two had sexual issues. I realised because they were making little life progress, they seeked out women who were younger, because women their age didn't want to date them. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:05 AM
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It would drastically change their attitudes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:00 AM
5

Love the sampling lol. And funny how no matter how educated, wealthy etc people are and yet are so similar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 08:11 AM
26

European men arent necessarily better. Many are quite stingy and dont have the same work ethic like American, British and Australian men have, which means you are paying for your own meal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 12:12 AM
13

OK a lot has happened since I posted. I messaged my cousin that he contacted me online and she said how is that possible when he is dating this girl from our local community. Mind you, this girl is LOVELY, the nicest girl you would ever meet, not a model, very Christian and devoted. BARF. No loss there. Sorry to bother ya'll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 11:21 AM
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I had a male dating coach. He tried to hit on me in public during one of our sessions. He was thirty years older too. I reported him for sexual harrassment as he didnt stop when I said no. Be very wary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:00 AM
2

Thats been my experience. Ive cycled through many female friend groups and nearly all dissolved as soon as they found a man. Unless you befriend a lesbian group or something
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:57 PM
1

I am similar in the sense where like, I am not career obsessed or money hungry. I get having a job is important, but doing all this work just to spend it all on me seems, idk, pointless?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 10:54 PM
3

I looove her analysis on celebs too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 10:31 AM
5

Well tbh that is part of the reason as to why my relationship failed. It got to nearly engagement and a part of me was like...you know what...i would be content having my own house and seeing you like twice to three times a week whilst still being committed and loyal... He wasn't happy with this arrangement obvs...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:55 AM
5

This is where I am failing I think. And uncertain where to find it. Most of my friends have gone quieter after finding men and settling down. Consequence of having pickme ex friends. The rest live remotely and I only see them a few times a year
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 03:59 AM
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So much wrong with this I dont know where to start. Being nice is not all there is to a relationship. Women shouldn't settle just for nice because it's standard for men to be assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/20 11:37 AM
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