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I fuckin did and it was awesome! I have been super inspired lately and began learning about astrophysics. What these people have done, what spacex is doing, and what awaits us in the very near future is so exciting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:54 PM
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Nasa is doing amazing things on mars!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 12:23 PM
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The core of feminism has always been this: that women should recognize our own selfworth. All other things fall in line from this. How we treat ourselves, who we let in our lives, how others treat us, etc. Women make up half the human race and are the entire reason humanity has come so far. Child bearing, rearing, support, encouragement, empowerment. How much have women given up so that men could have everything? But men, cultures, religions have still not fought for us. We still have to nag/fig…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 04:59 PM
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Yes i really appreciate them. I know its hard work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 07:08 PM
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There are subs such as banfemalehatesubs which can help with this, idnetifying places, and helping inform you how to report both to reddit and fbi
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:28 AM
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This is why i love fds. Thank you T.T the only place on ALL of reddit that is genuinely against rape
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 09:08 AM
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This is what bdsm is doing. It is literally empowering and normalizing murderous violence against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/21 01:24 AM
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Exactly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:21 PM
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We need her here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 03:20 PM
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And yet men will do absolutely nothing. One skater guy did though, skaters are awesome. One good thing coming out of this is that im noticing that women are starting to wake up. They are getting mad, using bad language, pointing out the uselessness of the avg guy and the cops. Even here on reddit women are starting to get more angry. Dont get sad. Dont get afraid. Get mad, harang the police, put this in peoples faces. Make everyone else (esp men) uncomfortable- bc why do we get assaulted while t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 01:03 PM
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I have been in constant squabbles with rape fetishists. Its super upsetting. Youre right, i have to keep in mind the types of people here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 12:02 AM
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I wish i could huge you right now. I am so sorry!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 08:31 PM
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I think we should be plain that just bc its a fantasy doesnt make it harmless. Rape shouldnt be something youre fantasizing about. Child rape, torturing people, whatever. Its not harmless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/21 12:54 AM
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How about "no" and "stop" instead of red light...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:14 PM
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Rape culture. Abuse and porn had everything to do with this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 07:12 PM
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Imma start saying all men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 06:29 PM
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NICE. Welcome women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:41 AM
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I want to scream this sometimes. People are shockingly, horrifyingly blasé about violence against women. I legit hate it. Thats why i cant care what dummies think. Thank god haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/21 01:22 PM
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Im really glad you found someone who treats you with the respect you deserve. I do think there are some out good ones out there :>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 01:32 AM
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I do think there are some good ones out there. Im so glad you got the king. You deserved it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:09 PM
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Many women i know who have devoted themselves to self improvement have found male therapists seriously, even dangerously lacking. Remember that therapy requires serious emotional intelligence. Men straight up statistically struggle with even basic emotional intelligence, much less advanced ei that being a therapist requires. Men often lack the personal growth, introspection, brutal honesty about self, and personal sacrifice required to be great at being therapists. Men struggle with delusional s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 11:02 PM
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NEVER go to a male therapist. Avoid pick mes but whatever you do, do not use a male therapist. They dumb as hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 09:42 PM
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No one wants a woman who-mutes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 08:36 AM
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Yeah i really appreciate his character. Hes a sensitive hero. I love that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 07:57 PM
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Huh! That is so odd considering she once told a guy that "men are better seen not heard". How wierd.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 05:22 PM
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I wonder if she knows about this sub. She should haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 02:13 PM
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Women still struggling to recognize our value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:44 PM
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Ok sounds good!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 05:51 PM
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Yup banned me for the same thing. But hateful misogynists and rapists are w e l c o m e
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:02 PM
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Yes yes let it out! Rant louder! Im listening sis! 👂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:01 PM
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Lib fems fear men and tiptoe around hurting their feelings with the truth. Im glad youre here on fds with us :>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:52 PM
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😆😆😆love this. Report me uglies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:58 PM
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Thankful for my dildo and vibrator. Get me off without hurting me or traumatizing me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:49 PM
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What were they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 02:47 PM
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This has to be a joke from a troll.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 04:21 PM
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Whats nice is we're draining these idiots from the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:56 PM
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This has been a constant problem in the EU for a long time. The well bieng of victims has ALWAYS been less important. Literally, the EU is the number ONE place where child porn is used/sold. The eu, of all places. It pisses me off so much. Victims always considered last.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 06:40 AM
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Im proud of you for speaking up. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 04:52 PM
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Thank you for the follow up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:56 AM
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Let me guess: sexual abuse is rampant?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:49 AM
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We dont even know. No one knows....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:48 AM
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The constant objectification of women is bad enough and the inevitable comparison of your body to hers (along with the cheating aspect), But also hentai is absolutely FULL of sexual abuse and pedophilia. Its an absolute deal breaker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 09:47 AM
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Its ok :>
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:36 PM
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It an app that is for women to connect and be friends. But im not sure how it works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 04:18 PM
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Yeah how does giggle work!? We should all get in there and friend each other
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 11:02 AM
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Yeah, making me come is more important than his dick size. But if they can be judgey about womens bodies, we can be judgey about theirs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 05:56 PM
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🚨GROUP HUG!!!!!🚨 Forgive yourself, mommas. It was a mistake and we have ALL been there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:41 PM
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Dang! Great advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 02:22 PM
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Red flag for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:13 AM
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Despicable. DESPICABLE. Julie, if there was some way to support you, to hug you. You have been so brave. And feminists make me so proud. This is such a good example of why it is SO important that feminist, women-first type of women work our way into positions of power. We should be in leadership, we should be judges, we should be psychiatrists, we should be legislators. This world desperately needs women who put womens well being first in power. Because having no age of consent, low age would NE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 04:20 PM
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How are you today? ❤
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 06:56 PM
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I wish i could hug you! Keep your head up sis. You are lovable, he was just a fool. Take a deep breath and focus your mind on something else for a while like painting or walking. I hope you feel better soon.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:36 PM
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Kink and porn are blatant, unapologetic rape cultures.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 10:51 AM
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GOD that women is so FUCKING strong i am genuinely amazed by her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:15 AM
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I also want to say that if you, a woman, make a human mistake and send nudes - and some scrote violates you by sending/not deleting your pics it is not your fault. This sub just wants your health and wants you treated with the respect you deserve. LVM dont deserve you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:37 PM
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Porn is the most prolific form of rape culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:05 PM
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Im tired of this LVM for you u.u
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:56 PM
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Im sorry you went through that. Huuuuuugssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:51 PM
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So proud of you. My girl took the trash out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:47 PM
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We shouldnt make women feel bad for wanting to be sexy. I get what youre saying, its good advice. But this just plays into the same women hating bullshit that LVM propagate - to put the onus on women to manage mens behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:06 AM
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Yeeeeeesssssssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 02:51 AM
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Wow holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:22 AM
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Yes, the mods here are so amazing. I know it is hard, time consuming. I wish there was a more tangible way to show them our appreciation 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:17 AM
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It is absolutely necessary to have your own income, you own form of making money. Women across the planet have a lower quality of life they are dependent. It literally can make or break being self actualized, happy, and accomplishing your goals.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 01:53 PM
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Thank you for what you do. I know its not easy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:40 AM
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LOVE this hahahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 04:24 AM
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Girl im so glad youre free from that T . T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 05:34 PM
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hate them <3
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:24 PM
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Yeah, Im always genuinely surprised how men have no problem utterly identifying that men are cancerous. I think they don't think they (the individual) is, men in general are... Im like, how do you know for sure that you aren't the trash? Also, be gentle with yourself. You, like the rest of us, were raised in a patriarchal, man first culture. Many of us were not taught how to prioritize ourselves or guard against red flag men. Glad you got out of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 03:43 PM
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"That hurts"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:58 PM
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Why can't I be attracted to the gender that is attractive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 02:09 PM
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Our providers and protectors...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 04:02 PM
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Subbed. Thank god for them. They were major players in why subs promoting raping and torturing women and even sexualizing children were removed. Its a hard job. But those mods are so good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:12 AM
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Vibrators and best friends (not together of course haha) will do better than LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 05:18 AM
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Thats too good
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:50 PM
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Thats right!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:50 PM
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Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:37 AM
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Wait, you suggested that the porn was the problem and they removed your comments??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:30 AM
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Thank you for sharing. I ll listen to this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:49 AM
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LOL amazing we need to create a whole "male proverbs" subreddit or tag haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 05:14 AM
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Hugs girl huuuuuuugs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 06:31 AM
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I hate the fact that we are promoting the torture and abuse of women. We, as women, are doing this. It has to stop. This is cruel and she has been a part of that. Part of a globe that already treats women like fucking shit. I seriously, seriously struggle with being kind to women like this while being so angry at the way they ally with this abusive, violent, cruelty towards women. Women are valuable and we cant even treat each other like we're valuable! We watch women get raped, beat up, abused …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:16 AM
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If a man doesnt make me come, i will dump him. This pussy has zero time for LVM, dollar store dick. If i dont come, he doesnt come (over). Its time to gives these scrotes the darwin award and flush them out of the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:07 AM
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thats right
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:33 AM
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Men are embarrassing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:31 AM
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Weak mothers make weak sons. While we cant have all of the answers, it is upon the parents to do w h a t e v e r is necessary to raise their son into an honorable man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 03:05 AM
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Im sorry youre going through this girl. Im sending a soft, warm hug to wrap around you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:16 PM
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Perfect hahaha!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:44 AM
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Im so glad youre here T . T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 03:27 AM
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She has great lyrics in this song "i aint lyin about nut just to make these niggas happy...it never happened if the dick wasnt snappin" So now unless a man makes me cum, i dont even count him. Like, not a part of my body count. Im still a virgin until a man makes me cum hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 07:32 AM
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I feel the same way. Welcome to the fam girl. We've got your back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:32 AM
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Its like a cult. The Cult of Pornography.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 04:31 AM
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You are amazing and bold! Imma try to be you! Is there anyway to see the comments? I would bask in them haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 02:11 PM
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Hahaha your family is eclectic! It sounds chaotic for sure. Overly religious people are very annoying and even seem to enjoy crossing boundaries 🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:19 PM
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She sounds annoying. Sorry about that girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:22 PM
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It is truly amazing how men can get away with the "my hormones!" And women are vilified if they said this. We live in a manbaby culture. The best we can do is hold people who think like this accountable - do not date or put up with manbabys/pickmes. Do no allow their bologna manbaby excuses.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:06 PM
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Saved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 01:18 AM
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Im so sorry girl. I have had similar feelings and it is so frustrating and sad and hurtful. You have every right to feel the way you do, but god i wish for your comfort and peace. Girl, i say this in love, please make seeing a therapist a priority. I know women who have experienced such intense trauma and by some incredible miracle are living wonderful, happy lives with fulfilling sex lives these days. There are trained trauma therapists who can care for you and guide you through this. It is jus…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:45 PM
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I will never understand how someone can be this stupid. Blaming mothers for grown men murdering people...scrotes are reaching like crazy, their arms must be so goddamn sore!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 08:20 AM
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Im so thankful! Fuck these damn prorapists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:00 AM
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Yup, i love having an orgasm every single time im aroused haha and getting cute in the mirror just for me and doing what i want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:59 AM
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Im glad that worked put for you, but this is not how it is for most women and women can invest in careers that are rewarding, open opportunities, and invest in a personal skill/trade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 06:51 AM
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I love you, seriously haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 04:26 PM
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Im so sorry for her. Thank you for being there for her. She'll come around eventually amd it will be so hard but she'll have good friends to love her through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 07:02 AM
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You are a fuckin boss. SO thankful youre here with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 06:03 AM
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Should fill the snoo with the names of all the hateful, prorape subreddits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:51 AM
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Any yelling, meanness, punching things, outbursts of anger, porn use = immediate dump, ineligible for dating. Any standards i would have for him, i have for myself in my own life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:56 PM
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I imagine it takes a moment for a woman who has poured her life into a man and had a child with him, to realize hes done something of this magnitude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:01 PM
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God, im so sorry sis. Totally embarrassing for him 😓😓
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:58 AM
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All you can do is laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:54 AM
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Prove it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:07 PM
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Yup my father is like this. Absolutely HVM. Randomly texts me how he is proud of me. Randomly drops by flowers to my mom bc they reminded him of her. Random love letters to his wife Im GENUINELY worried that he's the last one T . T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:49 PM
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They hate women there. Consider being banned as a badge of honor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:41 PM
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Way ahead of you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 06:38 AM
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Thank you so much for recognizing that. It was with many tears that i looked this cursed info up. I often want to find more, theres so many other research papers hidden within the ones i linked, all of it such valuable info. But its emotionally taxing and i hate having that in my search and having to wipe my computer history... T . T Thank you!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:32 AM
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Signed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:06 AM
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I think part of this is reminding women what they are worth. If you truly love yourself, recognize yourself as valuable, important, and worthy then you dont go seeking violence or encourage violence upon yourself. How do you treat things you think are valuable? How do you treat people you love? Treat yourself like this. Im not going to pretend to know the mindset of every person involved with things like this, im sure some are purely confident and love evil, but i honestly think many of the men …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:33 PM
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Yeah, ive had this debate so many times. He'll say something like "well theyre not actually raping people, lack of empathy doesnt mean theyre raping people" and then prolly try to rip up each source as "biased" (which is why i supply more than one). Also, ask him that if fantasizing about rape is no big deal, what about fantasizing about raping kids? If fantasies and porn are so harmless, why not promote porn about the FANTASY of raping kids? Fantasies of someone raping HIS kids? I push these pe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:53 PM
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If it makes you feel any better. There are many people who would never do that, never watch that. This sub is comforting to me in that way. We're in this together sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:27 PM
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Yup there was one i saw in my anger scrolling where they were masterbating to movies of women being sexually abused in war. From a movie that is about victims suffering. These people are evil.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:26 PM
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Just so you know, there is damn good evidence between rape and rape culture and rape porn: "A review of studies of attitudes to rape, found that six of the seven studies of people who had viewed pornography for less than one hour found that exposure to violent pornography had significant negative effects (reduced sympathy for victims, increased sense of the woman’s responsibility for the rape, and decreased punishments for the perpetrator)." http://www.socialcostsofpornography.com/Bridges_Pornog…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:25 PM
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I wish i had a solid answer for you. I dont want to come off as cruel about your lifestyle, i just want you to be happy. It may sound cliche. but i think thats one of the reasons i tend to be against these kinds of things. I wish you wouldn't define your worth by whether you are successful with women or not. You are a valuable person, whether women recognize that or not. And remeber that most men have not had much success with women in their life. Its not you - dating and relationships are hard.…
/r/askFDS30/06/20 09:47 AM
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I can't speak for everyone. But my best idea is treating both yourself and others as best as you can. To push someone to be the best that they can be - in how they see themselves and what they accomplish in life. I truly believe that humans need kind, firm, sensual love in order to be completely self actualized - even if its self love. I honestly dont think it is possible to be completely self actualized while being belittled, disrespected, and harmed by your most loved one. In other words, in a…
/r/askFDS30/06/20 09:32 AM
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Ok! Does that mean i would have to go into a pro rape subs and report each submission (like graphic imagea of women being rape)? I mean, ill do it. But damn thatll fuck me up. Also, can you inform me how to report to admins?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:19 PM
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Also, what can we do to get these subs banned?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 06:11 PM
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This is SO important. Those proposing this law fought so hard for so long for this. Thank God for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:08 AM
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Because they end up worthless losers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 08:07 AM
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Thank you for saying this. Enjoying watching women (anyone) be raped is evil and cruel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:56 AM
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The entire bdsm/porn movements have groomed us and gaslighted an entire nation into accepting evil like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:36 AM
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Im sorry sis. I hope you found home here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:35 AM
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Im so proud of you. Im so proud of us! Everyone is doing such a good job T ^ T
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 04:12 AM
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Yeah this whole thing about trying the be a "man" seems really overdone. How many women grow up thinking about trying to be a "woman"? Perhaps our devotiong to trying to align to a gender, instead of just pursuing our individual selves contributes to many of the things listed above. Women, i think, worked hard to separate ourselves from any "roles" and thusly have more diversity of women types, you know? Now not all of us are house wives with conservative beliefs, for example. Im just thinking o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 01:02 AM
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Hmm i dont know how much of this i believe. I also wonder how much is raised or natural. Thank you though! Seems interesting!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 11:45 PM
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Women are worthy of respect. Honor my boundaries and treat my experiences and desires with value or we cant be friends, much less partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 08:02 PM
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Someone help this rape victim, seriously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:25 PM
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"My bf fantasizes about raping my daughter. She has been raped before. is it wierd that im a bit uncomfortable?" Have you tried talking to him about it? ....................................🧠⚰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:43 AM
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I hope this puts a chill in LVM bones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:45 AM
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I am so fucking proud of you, and impressed by you! You are so mature, really fleshing out your feelings (instead of rejecting them), creating lists to better understand yourself and establish rationality. And the way your brough it up to him was excellent. You deserve a man who really loves and respects you. I know that men can be honorable as my dad, i know, does not watch porn. Its a greeeeeen flag and a sign of a HVM. The only thing i would say is that i agree that going forward in trust is …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:44 AM
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Haha and the sound of squishing feet of squidwards haha!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:17 PM
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Oh no haha you'll find your guy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:03 PM
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It literally disgusts me. That girl is important, valuable. And already some scrote has violated her and another worthless scrote is trying to violate her again. And rape is EVIL, a violation of human rights, and cruel! not a "kink". I hope that girl hits up FDS and learns her worth v.v
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 08:45 PM
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Im not trying to fight. Its just a discussion, though i disagree - if youre open to that. I think youre right and prudent to warn women about the way men act and have been allowed to be. But, i was more angry with the idea that was posited in the post from the scrote in the video who made the case that violating women and attacking women is par the course of male behavior. Which you also said is the case (using admittedly good evidence). What im saying is the idea that men are born rapists, usin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:29 AM
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Most men have never committed sexual abuse, including throughout history. However, men are certainly prone to impulsive, selfish behavior. I do not think men are born rapists or have a rapist gene. If that is the case then men should not be allowed to care for children, women, or be in positions of power or authority. If they truly are so predisposed to being evil and doing evil then they should seriously not be trusted with the vulnerable or with power. Rape is truly a despicable and evil crime…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:05 AM
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Im trying not to hate them. I know and believe that what these people are saying is false. Men spread these lies to justify evil behavior. Its not a mans nature to be a rapist or abuser. But, i really struggle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:08 AM
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Im really struggling with genuinely hating men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 09:00 AM
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Im sorry sis. I wish i could take this away for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:05 PM
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Lol love your user name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 11:03 PM
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Extremely true LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:00 AM
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All men are THOTs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 09:31 PM
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Its a hard situation. Obv protect yourself first, but if you can just keep reaching out in love. I think that she will eventually dump a loser and recognize your help and how you valued her. She may not respond for a while, but you gotta stick to those values sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:18 PM
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I love this so much. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:14 PM
8

Wouldn't it be incredible to form some FDS coalition that brought together all of our skills, money, volunteer to serve women? To help pull women out of nightmares like this? Medusa could be our mascot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:59 PM
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Romina Ashrafi. You deserved love and hugs and long talks about making your dreams come true. You deserved a peaceful life giggling about cute boys and going to wild places of the world. Youll be missed. I pray you rest peacefully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:57 PM
8

Sis, Mohammed raped women and children, along with his armies...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:51 PM
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Im sorry for so many brainwashed women out there. If we ever see her again on reddit, we need to convince a sister to come to us because she is suffering. But you must know that will never be me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:39 AM
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Yup already signed. Thank you for spreading this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:19 PM
10

Im so glad that he didnt hurt you like that! Stay safe sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:44 AM
4

Grotesque
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:42 AM
4

Thank you for sharing this! I will read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:38 AM
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Bye. We need education for these people. Its one thing to ask for more information, another thing entirely to assume women or children are going to/should fight rape. Much of sexual assault is committed by men that women and girls trust and love. They often acquiesce because they want safety or are not sure how to react or are afraid. The fact that an adult judge assessing a rape case cant understand this shows a serious lack in basic sex/sexual violence education. Which is extremely detrimental…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:32 AM
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Im thankful you came here :]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:21 AM
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I love this! Another good idea is to give examples of each. Like when you say " i am smart" or "i am strong" write down a time when you were smart of strong. This way when crappy thoughts go to tear you down, you have "proof". This can also help you flesh out what you consider "smart" or "strong" or what understanding looks like for you. Regardless, this is awesome and i know every word is true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:40 AM
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Yeah i have never been a pick me. In fact, for the longest time i was baffled by peoples behaviors and what women allowed. I thought i was crazy! But, i spent more time with Jesus, took purposeful time writing out what i felt and why. Worked on (still working on) shedding things about me that dont bring me joy or make me better - and eventually found out that im right and theyre pickmes haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:53 AM
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This is a hard thing you're going through. My bff went through similar things even though her LVM at the time was physically abusing her. I think you can treat it like grieving. He was not good for you, but he did do some good for you and really its the good things you miss. Always keep his failures/ways he hurt you in your mind to be sure you never end up with him again. Write out your feelings, allow yourself to feel them. They are normal and understandable. But, dont wallow in them (its tempt…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:46 AM
4

Lets be friends! Ill dm you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 02:39 AM
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We need to figure out what will hurt their feelings/make them sick/angry/disturbed. Experiencing how they make us feel will help them learnnn??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:39 AM
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We need to start telling these fuckbois that we often fantasize about having sex with men with bigger penises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 12:58 AM
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Its so much to take in, huh? To think of that man like that, that situation, even seeing yourself a bit differently. It means so much to me that people validated you and cared for you. I pray for your peace of mind, peace in sleep, and regaining the security you once had. You are a woman and thusly a creature of resilience :] predisposed to overcome
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:08 AM
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Thats awesome! Taking the initiative, i love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 08:02 AM
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Thank you for allowing us to learn from your experiences and the wisdom you gained. I wish you hadnt experienced them, but what we can learn from you is invaluable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:12 AM
6

Have you read The Body Keeps Score? I would love to learn more about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:41 PM
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Also, this was a very incredible, rather in depth exploration to the link between traumatic experiences (sexual violence) and trauma seeking behavior: "Compulsive repetition of trauma is usually an unconscious process that, although it may provide a temporary sense of mastery or even pleasure, ultimately perpetuates chronic feelings of helplessness and a subjective sense of feeling bad or out of control. Gaining control over ones current life, rather than repeating trauma in action, mood, or som…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:17 PM
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Shes been raped multiple times. Stood around and watched a friend of hers be raped. Is surrounded by men and women who dont take rape seriously. And yet thinks this has nothing to do with kink culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:13 PM
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Wecantconsenttothis.uk - read the details of these womens deaths at your own discretion Literally a whole movement has been formed bc of men are raping and murdering and using the "kink" community to get away with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:06 PM
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I have a gf who i am helping release her pickmeisha ways and recognize her own worth. Its been energizing to see her realize her own value, forgive herself, and love herself even after a physically and emotionally abusive relationship. But, it took time. And it was hard for me. But one thing i will say i was proud of was that i never gave up on her. As for me and my journey (our journey leveling up), it has been strongly about cultivating my best self. And it was been a wonderful journey. Findin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 08:08 AM
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Good job girl! Imagine how peaceful your life is going to be without wondering about who he's seeing and always getting angry over him. Whew! Lets get all the girls together and love eachother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:12 AM
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Im so sorry for her too. Its not her fault, though i know she'll blame herself. I think there can also be legal recourse?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:10 AM
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Im thankful you joined :]
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:54 AM
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Also, Inuyasha is quite honoring to women. Besides Mirokus character, the series really treats women well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:57 AM
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Annihilation, Prometheus, Girl with the Dragon Tattoo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:56 AM
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The issue of sexual violence and sex trafficking is so difficult but there will never be an excuse for encouraging law enforcement to rape. I honestly wonder, do these law enforcement agencies consult organizations such a polaris for advice on how to move forward or rescue victims? Could it be possible to send willing sex workers among them instead of men as johns?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:42 AM
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Thank God for these dads who are such HVM. Your dad sounds beautiful and its such a blessing to have a man like that to set an example. My dad is also extremely HV and sometimes im almost mad that he's set such a high standard haha. My dad married a woman who came from a hard family and loved her daughter. He never missed a bday, never raised his voice. Always hugged, apologized, and made it a thing to tell me he loved me (all his kids) every day. He worked multiple jobs. When my mom went into f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:29 AM
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He sounds amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 04:40 PM
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I think part of forgiving oneself lies in valuing oneself. Like, its hard to forgive yourself when you still think youre dumb or worthless or beating yourself up or whatever. As a women starts loving herself and valuing herself and caring about herself, its easier to put the blame where it belongs. So maybe the first focus in forgiving yourself is loving yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:39 AM
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I wish we could also have petitions against other tube sites such as xhamster and efukt, among others. I know for a fact they host rape and especially efukt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 03:29 AM
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Lets be single together, cool colours! I love being single! Being single and not worrying about what men desire is literally so freeing. Enjoy work, enjoy friendships, try new things, go ride an elephant or see whales. Invest in your desires and hobbies! Im currently into terrariums and i couldnt also have a boyfriend as not killing plants is a 24/7 delimma! There is so much to do! So many people to meet, places to go, skills to accrue! Life is so fun and you dont have to be with a man to experi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:51 PM
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I dont desire marriage at all, haha! I love being single. I love my calm life and having a home with my girlfriends (no homo haha). I love my hobbies and little unfinished projects (so many! uwu), i love nap time whenever, i love my whole bed, i love going to hang out with my friends and then going home to be alone. I love my space, my anime, my Lovecraft books, and my video games all to myself. I love oinking on food without someone judging and working out without someone seeing my fat flopping…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 07:39 PM
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