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My hair is straight but same method could most likely apply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/21 10:41 AM
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You know, that might be where I messed up the hair rubbing... I will try it differently next hair wash lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:15 PM
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How do you get yours to not make your hair so static? I swear whenever I use mine it looks like someone rubbed a balloon on my head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 11:42 AM
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Lol I will admit, I'm vegetarian. I had to make boiled chicken recently. I googled because I literally had no idea how to do it. It's not that hard to Google
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 10:31 PM
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Tbh this was a culture shock for me. In my house growing up both parents cooked. My dad made and still does make, some bad ass meals. My mom as well, they periodically cook together. My dad has his own go to cookbook with his favorites marked. Same thing for my grandparents, they cooked together also. My ex who was low value, couldn't even make rice. His mom cooked, made their plates and everything. When she wasn't home they ate hotdogs and cereal. When I started dating a high value man, he cook…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/21 12:43 PM
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... I am pretty sure multiple women are just copying and pasting this. It's cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/21 02:10 AM
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Oh wow. You may have to tell your boss or put in other protection means. I had a man send me my address and say he's seen the inside of my house. I never give my number out anymore and have a burner number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 12:47 PM
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Make three left turns if you think someone is following you. Then you know for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:27 PM
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Andddddd this is why I don't date men with children. I want to be the center of attention for once.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 06:09 PM
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Having kids is a deal breaker for me. At this time in my life, I do not want that possible drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:42 PM
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Honestly can't stand her or her music. But these last two albums are good! She really has changed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:20 PM
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My ex used to do this. I would about puke every time man. It hurts so bad, now if I sense it coming. I just stop the whole situation. Out of all unusual sex acts. This is one I just don't get. Shit hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 01:40 PM
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The loop holes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 06:39 PM
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Yup. I asked my ex for evidence and he said there isn't any because he used Snapchat. Therefore, he didn't do anything wrong by texting prior to doing the full act
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:10 PM
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Lol!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 08:02 PM
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Lol waiittttt there are guys trying to date me?!? I'm just looking into a vast empty field 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:24 PM
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I'm so glad I am not alone in this!!! I hate dinner first dates. I was glad I had one that turned out amazing. But there were a lot that I was glad it was just coffee dates. Easy to get away. I went on a second date for a dinner date with someone. He talked about his ex so much. By the end he went in for the kids, got a hug and ghosted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:11 AM
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I kinda like the idea of a date in a book store. You can learn a lot from the genres someone reads. In addition, it opens for better conversations. I don't like sit down dinner dates on the first date. To me, those are more second date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:21 AM
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🚩"we have been together so long. We are practically husband and wife, that's good enough for me".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 11:59 AM
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Wow who cut those onions. I'm fiiiiinneeeee It wasn't just his actions that melted me, but the way he looked at her also. With so much love and care. That got me the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:07 PM
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I used to have two boys in my class that would put their hand on my seat right before sitting down. I was 16 and now at 27 I realized how wrong it was. This needs to be addressed more and end the catering to males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:13 PM
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I am pretty sure every guy is into that stuff though. A nonaverage man would be into reading, baking, cooking, and etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:35 PM
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Gah I hate that so much "yeah let's hang out", "let's go shopping". And nothing. I get so pissed off. I refusing to ask my friend to hang out any more because of that. Always has to help her mom or something. If she wants to see me, she can ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:19 PM
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I was that friend too. Never had it in return from the unfortunately. I am at the point I won't do anything big for anyone except my parents and sister.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:19 PM
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Yeahhhh same. I took myself on some great dates. But never had someone plan one for me. 😔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 11:54 AM
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I'm sorry Dave, your opinion isn't needed. ... Perfect time for a Space Odyssey Reference...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:27 AM
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Love this!! My dad will do the something similar too 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:37 PM
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Nudes. I had a male ask me for my Snapchat and asking when I am free to hang. I informed him of when I am not available, and that I do not provide my Snapchat information to people who I have not met. He unmatched me and I cackled 🤣. Never give out your Snapchat. And if they insist and unmatch. You know they were looking for only one things. Its my favorite way to filter men out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 09:35 PM
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Yes with a pre-nup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/20 01:48 PM
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Yeah I would have left him the minute I felt the need to buy myself a ring. My LTR ex of 8 year bought me a ring once. I was happy and ignored the comment "this will make you stop asking now". Should have dumped him then. Don't ignore the red flags! In new or long term relationships. I fully feel within the first 2-3 years of being in a relationship is when the discussion of marriage needs to happen. Followed by proposal. I think 2-3 years is a good time to determine if this is someone you want …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 01:34 PM
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Ugh idk. But nice to know I wasn't the only one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:37 PM
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Yup. Told my ex multiple times I didn't like something as it hurt. Proceeded to always do this. Or told him I like this and proceeded to not do this. Will say my new partner does listen to what I like and actually does it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:08 PM
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My dad raised four girls. He recognizes this everytime wd get our heart broken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 07:31 PM
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Ugh my ex was like this!!! His mother worked 80hr weeks and still did his clothes. He would occasionally do his clothes. If I was staying over, she washed mine, which made me so uncomfortable. My parents didn't wash mine unless it was a small load, or emergency. He didn't know how to cook rice. His dad didn't even know how to cook. If the mom was given they only ate hot dogs. Hopefully she realizes she shouldn't have to put up with this man's bull crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:32 PM
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Haha honestly this is relatable. I call my mom or dad for the most random "how do I do this" questions. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 11:21 AM
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Inserts Brittany Spears cringe gif
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:03 PM
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My ex used to say "only you can make you upset. I didn't make you upset/ mad". When he would do certain things. He was very prone to breaking my stuff and saying it was my fault. But if I accidentally broke something of his, he would lash out at me. I think I may have had this reaction before towards him. A lot of red flags I missed until now. I am still working on apologizing to people when they upset me. My current casual partner has called me out on this multiple times, and told me I need to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 12:48 PM
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Love to admire them from afar. Myself and my entire family are extremely allergic to them unfortunately. But I do love buying yourself flowers and treating yourself!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:46 AM
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Or it was on sale. Nothing wrong with that. I will buy it if it's on sale and the only thing I can afford.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 07:37 PM
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Both that I have been with have. But I struggle with letting them make me for some reason. I have to literally give up all control and I can't 🤷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:29 PM
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From my understanding by following Mamma Doctor Jones, OBGYN. Since men create seaman which as we all know, goes inside another body. This has to be accounted for. The science just isn't there yet. It is technically easier/ "safer" for us to take birth control. We aren't producing something that can physically harm someone else. Until that science is there, this is what we have. It's not a scheme per say. More of a way to not create killer sperm. *Using safer as safe for both parties involved in…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:58 AM
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Haha yay!!! As long as you are okay with a Gemini. I know some people are hesitant 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 04:40 AM
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I kinda just want to be your friend right now so we can chat about astrology and tarot cards 😂 But I agree, men just are aggravating. A man that actually cares for you, will care about these items. My sister is married to a bug burly guy. She is the one who got me into all things personality tests and astrology. Her husband indulges her in all of this! And not just her husband but his sons too. One of them picked out all the perfect crystals for her and everything. So I don't think it's an all m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:45 PM
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When I saw my exes mom and aunt two months after him cheating on me and leaving me for his engaged co-worker. Their jaws dropped. I was still emotional, but they couldn't believe how good I looked. They still can't believe it when ever they see me. Looking at my photos from that relationship to now. It's shocking! Truly shocking. I look happy and not dead in the eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:11 AM
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Unlike those women who can't take a joke, I am one of the guys, fuck the haters. I will say that fuck the haters is such a mood for a redhead though. Like you arent wrong, that is our vibe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:31 PM
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Honestly, u have how I want to be proposed in my head all planned out. Now for them to understand the aesthetics I am going for v
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:01 PM
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Thank you! Yes, I cut out two super toxic ones last year. But these were surprising. It's just not easy sometimes it seems. I'm hoping to find travel groups for after COVID and make some that way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:57 AM
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Gosh! I'm so jealous of everyone on this post getting to spoil their best friend 🤣. Mine don't even check up on me or even respond to me just wanting to catch up with them. I am so happy for you though!!!! It will be a wonderful time 💜💜💜💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 01:09 AM
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Insert Anchorman gif "well that escalated quickly". Like what the crap is with that dude!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:49 PM
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Honestly though. Can I amazon prime that trash can?!? 😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:45 PM
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That awkward moment when as I female, I love a flat pillow. 😬😬😬 Now, a stiff and firm mattress. No, good bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:39 AM
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I love how the dog had a smug face. Like "yeah, I know you will pick me 😏".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:36 PM
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My Best friend flat out told her husband what she wants and basically said "get me what I want now and it will save money in the future when I need to upgrade to what I actually want". My friend is very very blunt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:53 AM
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Exactly! I hate how it's supposed to be such a hush hush thing. Like no! I already know my exact ring that I want. I have thought about this. It needs to fit her lifestyle and style. Not everyone likes the run of the mill princess cut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 02:15 AM
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I hate seeing these posts about rings. Yeah, they really need to have a ring to propose with. But they should really converse with you to determine the style you prefer. Or even better, know exactly what you like. Cut, size, diamond or not, and what price you are comfortable with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:34 AM
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Oh trust me I know! I just wish other women can learn about this manipulative tactic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:17 AM
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Exactly!! My ex blamed for his struggle in this department. I honestly felt horrible about myself, even worse when he cheated on me. He said "oh well she can make me you can't". Now months later, bitch it ain't my fault! Also realized he was horrible in bed 😂😂😂. I hope this woman saw what you wrote before it got removed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:59 PM
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I love that video!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:46 PM
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You sound like you have accomplished so much! This man has really brought you down in my perspective. He should be building you up, not tearing you down like what I have read. I hope the best for you
/r/RedPillWomen24/08/20 10:59 PM
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No idea. She never had cancer or anything, my mom was pretty healthy and fit. It just was something that happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:29 AM
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In my family hitting 30 and not having a child is actually a nerve wracking time. My mom went into early menopause at 32. So for me personally, I do find it kinda stressful. Because I am not sure what the cards hold for me on this matter. Yes, all women are different. But with that added to possible PCOS as well. Everything needs to be taken with a grand of salt. I myself really would love to have children. Something I always wanted, because I truly want to be a mom. However, I flat out told my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 11:03 PM
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Lol my familes favorite movie is the Godfather 😂. So I am for sure going to watch it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:40 AM
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My parents are obsessed with this show! They used to watch it every Sunday morning. It's on my to watch list now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 04:13 AM
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I saw that this morning! I think I saw red while reading this! All the men I have ever been with stopped the minute that noticed something off with me. Reading this just appalled me! He kept going after she started crying. I hope she does something about this. God this man is just so sick!!! I honestly want to punch him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:50 AM
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Thank you so much 💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:51 AM
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You're welcome! If they aren't willing to compromise on items as well. Then you don't compromise for them. And never apologize for it 👸
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:25 AM
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There was a lot more then just that. I discovered how manipulative, mentally and emotionally abusive he was. He even said "I will never go back to if you start dating/sleeping with someone else". So yeah, it did take a lot of strength. I thought I was so in love with him and dependent. Honestly, my mom is who I have to thank for my healing. Ad well, my therapist and journal. I journaled my heart out. Every time I felt pain, I wrote. Oh I started running a crap ton too. Recognized my values and w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 12:24 AM
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I am so glad this ruined his life. As someone who was cheated on after an 8 year relationship. Left in bed while they went to go have sex with the other person. I understand the betrayal she felt so much. She gave up so much to support this man, accept his timeline of the relationship. For him to do this betrayal and then paint her in the bad light. Saying "he can't hold a job because of her blog". No, he can't hold a job because of that blogs truth. That blogs post shows he is a narcissist and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:25 PM
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That I gave up so much thinking it was the right thing to do. Compromised for him on everything, including marriage. Which I valued and wanted. But gave it up to make him happy. Or accepting he put his friends before me. I think it shocked me that there are men who will actually drop everything for you. That it's perfectly okay, to just say bye when I don't get my needs. I didn't realize these were red flags. Just thought it was a normal relationship struggle. I am so glad that I now know. It he…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:42 PM
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Oh my God... Men are like ferbies. You think they are off tucked away in the closet for days. Then at 1am they appear weeks later.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:46 PM
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My exes best friend probably. Man was truly LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:04 AM
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Lol so true! I like to show them to my mom to get her reaction. Always gold 👌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 03:26 AM
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Oh wow! I didn't even know that about Pierce Bronsan's first wife. He always appeared to be a gentle soul with great values. (this just increases me crush for him)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:39 PM
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Piece Bronson aged well too, in my opinion of course. I think for men. What you do in your youth shows when you are older. Idk if that makes sense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:44 PM
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My parents got married 6 months after starting to date. 36 years later they still act like the annoying newlyweds. My dad just knew he loved my mom! My dad always puts my mom first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:00 PM
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I just bought my first home. It's a town house but still a house. My mom is so proud. Out of four girls, I am the only one who has owned a home in their own name fully. I am single and putting my self first after a horrible relationship. My mom proudly told everyone her baby girl bought her own house. 😊. Yes, I'm lonely. But it's to be expected. I am finally learning about my self after an 8 year relationship from 17-26. He was very much a LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 04:02 AM
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He can shove it and tell me I can't have an attitude after having a fucked up period, for two weeks. So yes, I will have an attitude. I get migraines and extreme in insomnia during my period. It also increases my anxiety. So yes, I will have an attitude when a man thinks a period is a walk in the park.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:56 AM
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For real though. I just bought a house and he's still with his parents 💁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:59 PM
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So true!!!! It took me so long to realize it! I felt so guilty for months because that was his "reason" for cheating on me. So much better with out that weight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:10 PM
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Not even a culture thing. Just a cheap ass 😂.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:34 PM
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Ugh I hate cheaters. My lvm ex cheated one. When he told me he said "out of respect for her, he won't tell me who it was". It was his engaged co-worker. Then he said I wasn't allowed to say anything to her. This is great! Call out LVM and help fellow women out! I wish someone did for me v
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:26 PM
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Even with great teachings from a parent doesn't mean the kid will always follow. My parents raised all my sisters the same, yet two of them are assholes. You can teach all you want, but it's up to the one learning to absorb that information and put it forth. It's up to yourself to carry the flame.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 11:03 PM
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Yup, he was a weeny head honestly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 11:14 AM
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My ex always made me feel this way. But if I was busy or wanted to spend time with my parents. He would call me non stop until I answered. Now I freak out to text someone because of this. It was honestly mind blowing to watch him respond quickly to the girl he was cheating on me with. But yell and berate me for just calling to say have a great day. However, I have also learned to just leave people on unread or read. Until it's when I want to respond.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 04:08 AM
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Whelp, this superficial state signal meant something to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 10:35 PM
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My mom drilled this into our heads growing up. She raised four girls, told us we don't need men. But the men in our life have to be at our standard. A man is to walk on the outside of the curb. My ex never understood this when I would correct him. Annoyed me so much! He didn't see the big deal and why he needed to risk himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:59 PM
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I am here for that name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 01:40 PM
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