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Age play, is literally just pedophila and should never be justified, and therapists actually recommend against it as a way to cope because they will start seeking real situations after getting bored of age play. This is literally so disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 04:38 PM
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I graduated at 16. Not very uncommon lol. Also when I was 16 I wouldn’t date someone who was 18, but I see nothing wrong with dating a 21 yo at 18...that doesn’t mean I went through trauma or a 21 yo is a pedophile. Considering my body won’t change at all when I turn 19.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:58 PM
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Okay I’m pretty sure there’s a difference between an 18 year old who graduated 3 years ago and has lived on there own for three years, and an 18 year old who just graduated high school. Also considering I grew up with, in the same high school grade, and worked with the 21 year olds, doesn’t mean they’re grooming me lol. I understand what grooming is, that’s not what’s going on here. I also specifically asked what they thought about the comments saying I wasn’t in the same place as them and that’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:49 PM
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I honestly don’t see where you cross the line. Okay so it was weird for 18 and 21 is it weird for 19 and 22?? Is it weird for 20 and 23. What about 17 and 18? What if you were both dating prior to when you were even 18? Is 19 and 21 weird? What if they go to the same college/are in the same year? What if they both live on there own?...literally there’s nothing weird with it. Just because some predators are 21-22 and go after 18-19 year olds doesn’t mean every 21 year old is a predator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:07 PM
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Barley legal, while yes, still legal. Isn’t morally right. Now, 21 year old dating 18 year old is whatever even tho they would be “barley legal” but like a 41 year old man is clearly fetishizing teenagers. Also no adult wants to be with a teen unless they are a pedo and needs someone who’s easily manipulated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:15 AM
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That definitely feels like sarcasm tho.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:10 AM
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At first I was like, he’s gotta be like disabled or something, with the gum and coke sharing...nah just lvm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 01:09 AM
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Tbh both me and my boyfriend have made this mistake. I consider us both high value people, but I slipped up once, he noticed and stopped right away, same with me when I was in the mood, he said sure. We agreed that we would only have sex when we both want, not for the hell of it for the other. He won’t even let me give him a bj unless I’m in the mood too, even if I insist it’s fine. Sex with high value relationships is different. I’ve never regretted anything with him, in fact have been open to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:52 PM
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Exactly!! Some of these comments bellow are pissing me off. Sleep is extremely important for everyone, even if he works from home, even if she’s stressed at clinical, and asking her to get her stuff ready the night before is not a big deal. I’m sorry, but some of these comments seem like if it was a woman being annoyed her husband was waking her up, they’d call him a LVM. I can’t with this tbh, sleep is important and it’s shitty to wake anyone up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 03:08 PM
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Imma say it though, it’s extremely rude to turn on the lights and dig through shit while others are sleeping, my boyfriend gets up at 5 am too but try’s not to wake me up by moving his stuff to the hallway or spare room the night before. If he forgets he turns on a flashlight, apologizes and then doesn’t do it again for awhile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 12:59 PM
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Nothing. We are still dating. He’s a good person, we have a good relationships.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:05 PM
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I think it depends. Once my boyfriend went on a vacation with his family and surprised me with a FaceTime/movie date. It was super cute and nice since I missed him so much, and he cared enough to take time out of his family vacation for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:05 AM
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My brothers a marriage therapist, extremely against porn. He was ridiculed for it too in his department.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 06:13 PM
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Honestly, sounds like some pick me bitch I’ve met before. She screams “not all men” for their approval and attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:28 PM
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Innocent until proven guilty only works where criminals are actually held accountable for their actions. Not places where people are let off with a warning, with no prosecution, with no justice for victims. Not places where there’s pedophiles and rapists are politicians, presidents, police.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 03:27 PM
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So she was gang raped as a minor, and video taped and he’s mad at HER! What the fuck. These are the same type of men that watch those videos on porn hub too. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:47 PM
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This. My boyfriend was called gay a lot in high school cause he didn’t date any of the girls that liked him. He just has really high standards of the type of person not just their looks. HVM go for HVW.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:39 PM
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It’s not a sexual thing for me tho? And I said again, it’s in public, but no one around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:21 AM
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I mean, I’m fine with consenting to being sexualized. To us it’s like a “hey you look good”. I also consented so I don’t understand how it’s disrespectful. That’s just me tho idk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 12:10 AM
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I like when my boyfriend looks or slaps my butt in public, he never does it when people are around but just when it’s us. I’m also super insecure about my ass and it makes me feel better. That’s just me tho lol he asked before he ever started doing it. Edit: I’m already getting downvoted for liking when my boyfriend slaps my butt. Why? Could you explain?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:16 PM
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Honestly it’s be a cute gift, not an engagement ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:36 PM
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Exactly!!! Imagine having ED at 30 and thinking it’s normal because of your age. You’re not even supposed to get it till your 60s unless you have a medical condition.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:59 AM
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Imagine thinking that guys who jerk off to porn daily have low libidos
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:55 PM
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First of all it’s by psypost lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:55 PM
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I used to go to a park (not playground) that had benches, and running paths and stuff. I would stop at the benches for push-ups and stuff...but again...no where near children and I was not the only one. Some people would use the benches to stretch, others to do dips/hip thrusts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 03:53 PM
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Yeah and I’ll always shame men who do that, but I want to protect my child from being abused in that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 01:24 PM
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While, I think it’s not okay for an adult male to tell (sexually harass) Charlie Demilio (15 yo tik toker) to cover up because old men masturbate to it...I think it’s also important to not expose minors bodies while dancing. I think any clothing that isn’t too low cut, or too revealing of your butt is fine...but bikinis..nah. I’d never let me kid knowing there’s predators online. Of course I’d let her dress however she wants at school, with other kids, but online is so dangerous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 02:26 AM
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I’m getting a prenup though. I love my boyfriend to death, but I simply do not want to be fucked over. Even tho I trust him with my life, we are young and people change. This was my idea too. Since I’m Pre-Med hopefully going to med school, I will be making 2-4 hundred thousand. He will hopefully be making a hundred thousand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:27 PM
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The average age in America kids watch porn is 9...so it’s not surprising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:53 PM
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Pretty sure she meant his therapist by his other comments. Also looks like she’s doing a pretty good job though. I’m a victim of COCSA too, but the fact she called her child a predator (true) got him into therapy, and is now trying to teach him how to be without her help so he doesn’t harm anyone while out of her care sounds like a damn good mom. I do not support putting children who have committed COCSA into foster care. They do not get help there, and have access to other children (former efc)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 02:10 AM
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Yes, this is the idea but it doesn’t actually work out that way. Look at New Zealand, Holland, and Germany. I of course, don’t think we should be sending sex workers to jail, but we need to be putting money into the marginalized groups (POC, Queer) to help build them a foundation to have the choice to choose a different path. For many, it’s the only work they have ever known, and are able to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:08 AM
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Sex work being empowering is just some misogynistic propaganda put out so men can feel better for wanting to pay for sex and legally degrade and rape women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 01:54 AM
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fathers introducing porn to young boys/girls is actually a form of sexual abuse but okay
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:03 PM
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I am so thankful you pointed this out. I feel dumb now, but I always wondered why me and my boyfriend have never had makeup sex, even after plenty of fights. I always thought it was weird, and we should try or whatever...now I just see he’s a genuine guy who doesn’t need to fuck to get his “frustrations” out on me and all we need to do is talk. I’ve never wanted makeup sex, but thought it was weird we didn’t have it. Definitely feel silly thinking that now but thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:36 PM
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I would rather be shot/killed than raped again. Her brother is disgusting and probably some rape apologist freak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:44 PM
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I compare it to people going to prison for watching child porn, obviously they’re not touching the child but it still hurts the child by supporting the industry and the offenders created the demand for it. If people didn’t watch violent porn, or liked watching women beaten and raped then there wouldn’t be videos of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:25 AM
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I mean, you are disgusting. You saw the conversations January 1st and didn’t do anything about it. I provided your whole post, what else would you like me to add? You intent on going to the police, what 6months late? How many children has he hurt in that time? Pedophiles don’t stop, and research shows they escalate nearing the end of getting caught. Why should we believe that you’ll go to the police now, after you’ve already waited a long time. Your child’s father is a PEDO and is grooming CHILD…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:55 PM
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Does hot girls wanted show any porn? I’ve always wanted to watch it, but porn triggers me but I also wanna educate myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:45 PM
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I can’t stand women like this, I’ve been in abusive relationships but I would NEVER stay with someone who’s grooming children. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:39 PM
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Now she’s saying she will give him 3 days which gives him time to cover his tracks, contrary to popular belief they can’t recover photos if deleted from iPhones and devices with privacy policies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 07:26 PM
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Yes I’m asking now! I remember it was also college aged guys in the study.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 12:33 PM
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While the porn in the 70s-90s was degrading, I still think it was way better than the porn we have now. Porn was just nude or semi-nude photos. Now we have videos of people having sex, violent videos, disgusting dehumanizing fetishes. My brothers a psychologist says that fetish behaviors are learned and porn does not elevate (violent) urges and actually encourages it. He says the best thing is therapy, and that looking at the content makes it worse. He even quoted studies about children becoming…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:47 AM
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Exactly! I literally love my boyfriend with my whole heart. I showed him this and he was like “oof incel thinks it’s his right to tell you about your body”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:17 PM
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I don’t normally respond. I thought it was super funny though, like damn some men really think like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 02:14 PM
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I think its a little bit of either assault or deception that he saw her bare breasts/half naked under the guise he was gay. Manipulated her into thinking it was okay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 11:09 PM
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I cut ties with that part of the family. I think it’s mostly because they’re all old 60-90s and sexual abuse to them was normal. All of them, or most had been sexually abused or raped. They don’t feel empathy for me, and said that even tho he did those things he’s still a good man, while my grandmother denies it I think it’s because she doesn’t want to think the man she spent her life would do something like that after she went through the same. I feel bad for them actually, growing up in a time…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:45 PM
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My whole family took me out of the will after a police investigation about the sexual abuse I faced from my grandfather as a child. They still say I made it up, even after the police got a confession of everything from him. My grandmother even watched it and denies it! So fucked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:03 PM
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Maybe it’s bc im young but I think timing really depends on financial ability/couple. My boyfriend and I both want to marry, but we both want to be in stable jobs before. We have already been dating 3 years. I guess it’s because I want us to have a really nice wedding, while he can afford a super nice ring we both can’t afford a wedding rn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:55 PM
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I think there is something more disgusting, men raping women and children is much worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 02:48 AM
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And glorify and get off to a movie about rape. Wtf. I have people.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 09:17 PM
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I would love like a $800 engagement ring and a more expensive wedding band. I just want it to be pretty and last awhile. I would rather have a super nice proposal than a expensive ring. Maybe not public, but have a videographer and photographer, somewhere pretty, maybe some fire works and celebratory stuff after.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 12:53 AM
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