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CULTURAL MISOGYNYdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:19 AM
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FDS HUMORdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:20 PM
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CULTURAL MISOGYNYdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:20 AM
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dzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:54 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?dzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/20 01:16 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 02:11 AM
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dzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 07:36 AM
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DISCUSSIONdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 02:16 AM
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SEEKING ADVICEdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:05 AM
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dzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/20 07:36 PM
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LVM LOGICdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:35 PM
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dzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 04:24 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:42 AM
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QUEEN SH*Tdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:45 AM
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dzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/20 01:05 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:37 AM
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BOOK REPORTdzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:03 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?dzgata/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:54 PM
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This is extremely unsettling. He needs to stop. Why can’t men just be fucking normal. Why. Why must it always be two extremes with them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 02:16 AM
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I wonder how she’ll react to all the stats on male depravity offered by the FBI. Are those actual men? Lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 07:47 PM
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I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m happy you experienced this kind of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 02:21 PM
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Exactly. We don’t need the man to do so, we want a man to do so. Very basic premise, but difficult to those with pea sized brains to process I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:20 PM
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Did she link the study? I’d like to save it Edit: found it Salter, M., Wong, T.W.K., Breckenridge, J., Scott, S., Cooper, S. & Peleg, N. (2021). Production and distribution of child sexual abuse material by parental figures. Trends & Issues in Crime and Criminal Justice. Australian Institute of Criminology.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 03:23 AM
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Aw I’m happy for you OP 🥰 he sounds good so far, I hope things only improve for you moving forward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:27 AM
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Someone mentioned that his comment and post history admit to abusing and harming women. So you’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:16 AM
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Lmao another scrote deflecting and making it about themselves. Imagine how the victims of male depravity feel scrote? Ya know, all women and girls who actively live in fear of danger from men in every aspect of life? Cope and perish.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/21 03:14 AM
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Start leaving big dirty work boots outside your front door. It’s a technique I learned about to make scrotes weary of trespassing. You seem to have done a lot already to keep yourself safe. Sorry you even have to go through this. Please inform your neighbors and the HOA if you have one. Also make reports to the police and try to get one down to tell him off. Document every interaction with evidence. And send that to a trusted friend or family member. If you have a male friend or family member ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:45 AM
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A MALE friend pointed you here? Wow. I’m pleasantly surprised.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:25 AM
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Communicating with a scrote is less effective than communicating with a brick wall.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:16 AM
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This isn’t petty. This is FAIR. He got what he deserved. Talk about malicious compliance. Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:11 AM
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Men are naturally much stronger and faster than women, on average. There are exceptions. However, we are not doing ourselves any favors by denying biological facts. This is where equity vs equality comes into play. When we don’t recognize the sheer overwhelming physical strength and speed men have in comparison to women, we are doing wrong by women. We need laws and morals to reflect the equity in society that we deserve. Furthermore, that does NOT mean that men are better. We are just different…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 06:05 AM
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Trust me I know the feel. They think that just because you’re very attractive and well dressed, it must mean we have rocks for brains. It’s annoying and now when men imply that, I block them or never go on another date again. We shouldn’t even humor their negging, ignore them, they don’t even deserve our response.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:16 AM
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They think it’s equivalent, that’s the problem. They constantly state that office labor exploitation is the exact same as prostitution exploitation. They’re sick and stupid, bad combo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:49 PM
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Women don’t even owe it to men to do the entirety of domestic labor even if he pays the bills. He should still do half of the domestic labor or pay for a maid service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 10:02 PM
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I know a guy who stopped talking to a girl after he watched her twitch and it was bc he thought she acted weird even though he found her attractive. But he’s a douche and didn’t deserve the girl tbh. It could be they just don’t vibe with you? It could be that you don’t look flattering on webcam due to quality, lighting, posture. Those factors make a big difference. Why don’t you stop telling guys about twitch, see them in person first, and then see if they react the same way. That may be a bit m…
/r/askFDS23/02/21 11:42 PM
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I had 3 friends I had to cut off over the years for that and let me tell you I do NOT regret it. It took such a toll on me to deal with that negativity despite making excuses for them that “oh they’re just insecure.” And they were all shitty friends who I’m sure shit talked me too behind my back. Seriously take advice from naive me and distance yourself. You’ll see how much better you feel without that in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:52 PM
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The key is it’s reciprocal. You both reach out randomly or rarely etc. I mean an unbalanced friendship is a red flag. I also am like that with a close friend of mine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:46 AM
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Get OUT NOW. And don’t let him know where you’ve gone. He will kill you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:47 AM
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Please If you have sources share, I’ve had a debate about this before and would love to save this info.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 01:44 AM
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If they shit talk anyone. Yes we are all guilty of it but there’s shit talking someone who absolutely wronged you with proof vs shit talking someone for no reason other than to be a cruel human They make shady comments about you or try to put you down in front of male counterparts. Huge sign of jealousy. If you’re the one initiating contact way more If they only seem to contact you when they need you, but it’s crickets when you need them They are commitment phobes. They ask YOU to hang out and t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 10:53 PM
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not me regretting my career path 👁👄👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:29 AM
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Sounds like she broke up with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:26 AM
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Honestly good, yes tell us this men! On the first call even, before the date! Please, show us the real you. Saves us time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 05:18 AM
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I love how I could only come up with two shows including singular male torture scenes. And they happen to be ones you mentioned. However, there are countless female torture scenes in countless of shows- so I wouldn’t even know where to start if someone asked me to guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:20 AM
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He said it’s “just different.” The difference being that women are sex objects who deserve abuse at the expense of the male gaze and orgasm. However, men are human beings worthy of dignity and respect! He couldn’t explain it bc he knew he’d expose himself for being the monster that he and so many other men like him truly are at heart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 02:18 AM
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He acted like he was special for working weekdays, like bitch we all work weekdays tf?? Even when they try to cover up for themselves they tell on themselves so easily. Rapists also tend to outright confess and still never get charged. Just like this guy has basically confessed to being shite and everyone is protecting him in the comments.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:41 PM
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They were not sane. I came across the same post. They were absolving him and blaming her for being part of a horrible subreddit (ours lmfao). Idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 11:27 PM
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And when you do know better (like here on FDS) they call you all kinds of bitches and other slurs. They just hate women and we will always be their scapegoats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:48 AM
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Slavery was never abolished anywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:47 AM
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Yeah if the vast majority of men weren’t weak we wouldn’t have these issues. Weak women usually don’t tend to harm anyone they just overextend themselves to get trampled on by men, it’s the weak men who do actively harm everyone around them ESPECIALLY women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:42 AM
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I said they must self discipline as well. That’s a choice meaning they weren’t born perfect or shitty. They had to make their own choices to do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:38 AM
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I think that absolves men and society by saying they were simply born bad/great... Men must be raised properly as children and self discipline to become HVM. Don’t let them off so easy. It’s Male socialization that fucks most men up. They’re sweet as young boys and society/family mold them into monsters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:19 AM
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This is what we like to hear!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 09:07 PM
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Emphasis on the uncaught. 97% of rapists in the US walk free due to lack of reporting and the failed justice system, according to the population reference bureau.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:16 AM
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How did autocorrect change roommate to husband? Weird huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 08:02 AM
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Interesting how all the men making these videos look butt ugly. No one was ever checking for them 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:58 AM
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We need to make our own women owned social medias + websites and boycott FB, INSTA- you name it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 07:49 AM
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23 with a 15 year old? I’m so sorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 06:44 AM
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Funny how he isn’t complimenting male models or thirsting over them to appreciate their hard work. I can’t believe this girl fell for this. She wins 🤡 of the year award
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:59 PM
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Calling women bitches will get you blocked. Surprise surprise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:36 PM
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This is very weird bc there’s millions of men who constantly abuse women and get away with it. Particularly famous men. And there’s more evidence Johnny Depp abused Amber Heard and the courts saw that evidence. My theory is Amber performed reactive abuse, meaning she got fed up with the long term abuse and started reacting back with similar medicine. And men don’t pay the majority of their checks for child support, they pay a measly hundred dollars or so even when they make bank which means the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:58 AM
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I started earlier but I would recommend to wait until 22/23
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 04:43 AM
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His forehead is huge, a decent canvas to tattoo “pathetic scrote”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:33 AM
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Their kids should be removed for this. Can you imagine them seeing that shit on her body? This is abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:32 AM
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Based queen. We Stan. Back talk? It’s quiet, ain’t no back talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:22 AM
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The French were the ones making things worse in our countries. Worry about your barbaric history and traditions and the crimes your people committed against innocents for centuries. We would happily live in our countries had your savage peoples/culture not come over and destroyed and stolen everything. Your people raped and murdered my people with impunity and you dare to speak. Keep us out of your mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:38 AM
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Interestingly she didn’t point out Christian or Jewish misogyny. This is blatantly targeting Muslims. The French were the savages torturing and massacring us for over 130 years and they dare to speak about the people they violate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:35 AM
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This man is laying down in her bed and has the most intimate access to her but left her for dead. Don’t ever sacrifice or give anything to these dudes. Don’t have sex with them and don’t do anything for them when dating. You’ll get this wonderful treatment back as a thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:32 PM
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He did not type the letter bc of handwriting. He typed it bc he didn’t want it to be used as evidence and matched to his handwriting. This way he can claim you typed and faked the letter. I hope you’re safe from this monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 08:29 PM
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Why do they think HVM means a man with a 6 figure salary? These dudes are so lost. Dude already has hopeless written across his forehead based on this lovely post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:36 PM
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Those women are based af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:50 AM
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Thank you for sharing! I’m glad you managed to figure it all out without this sub, sadly your situation is a rare one for women- especially without any guidance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 01:21 AM
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I’m allowed to comment but can I be labeled as a specialist since I’m a disciple on here?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 04:24 AM
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Uhh Christianity literally forbids this, damn she only follow the convenient and misogynistic rules in religion huh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 02:40 AM
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The difference is the men are the same except now they don’t even bring money to the table anymore. They do all of that and have women pay for it, literally and figuratively.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 12:30 AM
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We want equity not equality. They keep manipulating the equality goal on purpose, so let’s make sure it’s entirely clear.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 12:21 AM
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Ugh bitter feminists expect too much!!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 12:18 AM
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Lmfao when they see women that height and weight, they think they’re 110 pounds. When in reality they’d be underweight if that were the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 12:59 AM
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I’ve been semi lucky dating multiple guys who have everything on this list except for the “not a misogynist” part :))))) oh and like only two guys had good conversation skills. The rest thought they did but it was really just my huge personality making everything entertaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 12:48 AM
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Pathetic and delusional, a truly dangerous combination.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:41 AM
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You’re comparing the incomparable. Women fearing for our lives RIGHTFULLY. Not “even if they shouldn’t” or “irrationally.” Versus pathetic males being sad that they face rejection bc they’re broke busted and disgusting. It’s better for humanity that women stop procreating with you savage fucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/21 08:29 AM
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They screenshot random tweets and somehow say it’s FDS. Like the tweets were never posted on here they just find random tweets and say it’s us lmfaoo it’s insanely hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:09 AM
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Yep, too many women don’t recognize misogyny and their bad acting for what it is. I’ve never met a man who wasn’t a misogynist. Even the “good” men I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 11:14 PM
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I knew it was too good to be true for a man to give his friends moral advice lmfao. I was here thinking wow he’s a HVM, whole time it’s a sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 09:26 AM
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Oh my god. You’re so right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:11 AM
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Gentle men are the strongest men. They don’t try to scare their loved ones at all. And they are the type of men who will beat a scrote’s ass if they mess with you. The dogs who bark the loudest are the weakest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 05:08 AM
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In that case, don’t date rn. No decent man is dating rn trust me and it’s just irresponsible to meet strangers at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 04:13 AM
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I’m sorry, fucking what??????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 03:09 AM
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Men who want you to split the bill are the real misogynists. When will women realize this?? This means they do not value your labor and company. Holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:38 AM
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Men’s fucking audacity to pressure and coerce women into sex and then fucking judge them for having sex with them?????????? The absolute fucking gall. I’ve had a guy say the exact same thing to me. That he respected me for not sleeping with him like “other girls.” I regret not cussing him the fuck out. But I did cut him off. I’m so sick of their shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 04:37 AM
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Probably leeches off of her. Glad she dumped the scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 01:59 AM
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Welcome sis 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:53 AM
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And that, ladies, is how you checkmate a scrote!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:50 AM
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Men are holesexual and homoerotic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:46 AM
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Western men care a lot about virginity too. There’s tons of Reddit posts about white men breaking up with their gf bc they discovered she had sex before him or with more than one man. Male depravity surpasses all religions, ethnicities, races, cultures, etc. I know bc I’m Arab and I grew up in a diverse area in the west. These men are almost the same, just different flavors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:43 AM
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It’s so funny how annoyed scrotes get when we state our standards. The projection 🤭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 06:28 AM
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Came here to say this. Men KNOW ladies. They bank on the fact that most women think they’re innocent or oblivious. If you tried to do something to him without his consent he’d absolutely go off on you. Stop believing their lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:40 AM
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How would anyone feel like this is a sweet gesture I- no ma’am. No way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 09:58 PM
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I’m of a different opinion. Men will try it with almost any woman, HV or not. So the types of men who approach you isn’t a great indication at all. You can receive attention from all kinds of men from LV to HV. LV men who approach you are testing if you know your worth. Men know that many women have low standards and will be with just about most men tbh, so they simply shit test to see if they can bag an amazing woman who is unaware of her worth. The key is, HVW reject these men and do not give …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 07:11 AM
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You don’t have to fuck men to date them. I’ve dated plenty of men and didn’t fuck them. Scrotes mad. And even if she did fuck them all, why aren’t the men being slut shamed hmm? They just hate women period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:02 AM
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I love beards but they must be very short and groomed. I like the ones that you can see exactly what their chin and jaw looks like, which is exactly why the men I’ve dated have had nice faces even without the beard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 11:17 AM
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How dare they shame single mothers for being the parent who stayed. You’re loved and appreciated. Don’t let these worthless scrotes get to you, mama! ❤️🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 10:23 AM
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This post rings extremely true. I could think of tons of examples for each point you made. Very sad truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:24 AM
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Same, I dated many a men who were financially well off, handsome, paid for dates, physically fit, hygienic, etc. But ultimately they turned out to be straight trash. Those are all good traits I certainly expect from a man, but they need to be in addition to great character, morals, etc. (which you’ll be hard pressed to find in most men)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:22 AM
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He said he was mainly with women I think and he clearly never returned the favor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:19 AM
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Yep it’s definitely societal gaslighting that feeds into this. Little girls usually take no shit from anyone until they’re beaten down mentally and even physically to comply.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 06:12 AM
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Did he tell him off for being abusive to his wife as well? She’s not a gem for being so nasty to you, I suspect it was because she was jealous of the good treatment you receive from your partner. But like did no one comment on how nasty he was being?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 06:48 AM
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Not hypocritical Bc men are guaranteed to orgasm from sex, whereas women need foreplay and clit stimulation 99% of the time. It’s equity for him to eat you out without you doing it back. Also most men expect BJs without returning the favor, so don’t feel guilty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 12:13 AM
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It’s refreshing to read such stories about HVM existing. Thank you for sharing. Sometimes, after being on reddit, I just feel like the world only contains scrotes and there’s no point waiting for a HVM to appear. This gives me a bit of hope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:30 AM
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I love how passionate he got! We love to see it. It’s sad how it excites me to see men actually vocally defend women to their peers. It’s so rare smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/21 05:14 AM
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It should be this, but they usually call HVM simps for providing and respecting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:25 PM
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They usually don’t use it for those men though. They call any provider man a simp, Which simply isn’t true. Real simps scare me though 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:24 PM
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They want slaves who pay for them to be the master.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 11:06 PM
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It’s a survey asking men if they found it helpful and they’re saying yes. This means nothing besides the fact that they have no self awareness and are indeed scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/21 06:10 AM
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Yeah this sole tweet can only be seen as a possible green flag. Other than that, we have no clue about the true reality of this man and the relationship. He could be horrible or great, we have no way of knowing. Thanks for sharing your experience. That’s quite frightening tbh. Glad you made it out safely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 07:10 PM
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He could be a hardworking mechanic or construction person. They can be intelligent and know tons about their field that we may not know bc we pursued a different field etc. Educated doesn’t always mean intelligent either. I know a bunch of idiots from uni and people who didn’t pursue college who have a ton more common sense and true intellect. Of course we don’t know much about him or their relationship based on this post alone, but we do know he’s making an effort to try to understand papers th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:15 AM
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Can you notify me when you post the studies? I’d like to read and save them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 02:24 AM
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Stuff like this turns me off from the idea of marrying and having kids. It’ll truly take a rare man (that may not exist lmfao) to convince me to take that risk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 10:59 PM
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That’s why I will always have my own career and finances straight, whilst letting a man provide for me. So if he wants to pick up and leave or betray me, I’ll always have my own to fall back on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:30 PM
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Honestly that’s likely what will happen. Once I earn good income I don’t see a reason to clean again lmfao. I’ve never been the domestic type truly. (Also I was referring to hypothetical husband in my comment, I realize it may come across as though I’m already married haha.) It’s really weird when men expect women to service them with all this unpaid labor even when they can afford to hire a maid service. They just want to feel like they’ve dominated her in every capacity. Disgusting. Good for y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 09:26 AM
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I expect my husband to split the chores and he still must pay for the bills and dates. My emotional labor, beauty, feminine energy, and birthing his children is more than 50% of the relationship. I’m also down for us to get a maid service.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:48 AM
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The people in the YouTube comments are sympathizing with him and praising him. No mention of sympathy for the fucking wife who got stabbed by him. People fucking hate women and will go to the ends of the earth to coddle evil men and protect them. I’m so SICK of this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:08 AM
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Smell like broke in that post. Hope that woman finds someone better and discards this scrote or hopefully his cheap stingy ass removes himself from the equation. Also, ladies don’t EVER tell these men your income or your job until you have known him for a long time. Men who have good intentions will not ask those kinds of questions. The most they’ll ask is your field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:42 AM
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Imagine if men made posts like this. Cleaning their gf dildos. Or cleaning their gf apartments. It would never fucking happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 04:34 AM
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And if she doesn’t play along she’s a bitch and not the “cool girl” anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 09:07 AM
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This would be a funny gag gift randomly and ONCE, but this extra shit and on a special holiday for them is just... It’s also telling that the men of Reddit think this is great. To any sensible woman, that’s embarrassing on the wife’s part too. I’m just here like yikes, your husband has no respect for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:50 AM
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I wouldn’t be surprised if that was the only “gift” he got her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 07:40 AM
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Lmao yes to the Reddit thing. I’m so happy most guys I’ve dated didn’t even know wtf Reddit even is, I found this site on accident tbh. But yeah men on here are actually a whole other breed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 04:04 AM
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Firstly, never ask a man that question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:22 PM
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She didn’t even address men in any form and they’re big mad. Smells of envy to me. Proud of our sis for getting a new car. The scrotes probably mad they use their mom’s car bc they’re parasites.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:17 PM
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Worse than hate speech it’s actual violence against women in all aspects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 11:01 PM
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👑 you dropped this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 05:42 AM
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Can the mods formally contact him and send him information as sources? That would be wonderful. Maybe he’ll even write a piece on our female empowering subs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:34 AM
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Can confirm. I have done this to multiple men and the way they react is almost endearing tbh. But honestly I lose interest easily, so I end up fully leaving anyways. Also queen energy with “I’m tired of you” line 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 03:31 AM
6

Just like sharecropping and Jim Crow after slavery was abolished (well..not entirely abolished)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:06 PM
18

The comments are comforting HIM and blaming the wife. If a woman wrote that she’d be torn into. I’m so sick of society and their disgusting vitriolic attitude towards women. I hope every single commenter sympathizing and that demon get the worst karma ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:03 PM
2

I said you can say it in the beginning but don’t harp on and on about it and tell him throughout the relationship. They’ll make note of what you want. But I mean you can say it again later I guess but be smooth about it. You don’t want to come off as desperate or begging him. He’ll hear you the first time especially if he’s serious and will take notes (figuratively).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 07:07 PM
3

Can someone share this comment with the girl? Seriously she needs to see this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:36 AM
26

Can we have a trigger warning on these types of posts or NSFW?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:04 AM
17

Men do this to everything. They even ruined the love languages idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:41 PM
132

Which isn’t surprising bc women in their 30s have life experience and wisdom us 20 year olds don’t have. So clearly they’d have more advice to give. Are they dense?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:13 PM
52

not the nest!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 10:12 PM
38

Please inform her of the sub/handbook and tell her how the first warning was being with him that long (8 fucking years???!!!) and being dragged along 4 years after a clearly “stfu stop begging me” engagement
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 07:14 AM
55

This guy desperately needs to seek therapy and stop watching porn but we all know these scrotes and pickmes on reddit will feed into his delusion and tell him he’s perfectly fine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:15 AM
58

They know it’s cheating bc if you pull up monster cock videos and watch them and talk about how you love a huge cock, they’ll get really upset. They just don’t care about how women feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:40 PM
8

Wow he just stopped at 42, this is why we must be willing to leave a man no matter how deep into a marriage we get. They can do a complete 180 on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 10:31 PM
15

It isn’t enough for her to suffer alone. She must recruit more women so she feels less like a clown, baby just join the circus in that case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 06:29 PM
9

Fake orgasms?? Oh no baby, that ain’t gon work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 05:07 PM
45

That’s my kink, if they reject this idea- that is in fact kink shaming and a violation of human rights!! /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:20 AM
29

The more women do what this lovely lady did, men will no longer have their disgusting entitlement. The LEAST a man can do is pay for dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:15 AM
35

He left those porn tabs open purposefully, I think, as a come on to his son. Why tf wouldn’t he close them while asking for computer help? He’s a grade A perv and probably wants both his son and the gf. I can’t believe this shit is so common and yet no one thinks hmmm porn is fucking poisoning society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:03 PM
41

Pornsick limpdick fuckers. They need rehab and fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 05:06 AM
2

I knew a couple women who said this to me outright. My brain nearly imploded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:30 AM
56

Girls don’t mature faster they are literally harshly disciplined starting when they’re toddlers. Boys face almost no serious consequences and get away with almost everything. People raise their daughters like a soldier in the army and leave their boys to get raised by the streets. Even so, older men are always more mature and have an upper hand with manipulation bc of life experience etc. That’s exactly why they target much younger women, they admit this themselves. Younger women are just well d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 02:05 AM
65

Omg can someone give me the link I have to read the comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 12:06 AM
52

Oh yeah, they see rape victims and just about any woman unfortunate enough to be with them in any sexual capacity as “conquests.” They’re fucking sick. They even make music and podcasts about it with permanent proof and still get rewarded with no punishment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:37 PM
6

I bet if you did anything even 10% remotely similar to him, he’d be wailing over it. FUCK him. Go on and live your best life without a pornsick scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:34 PM
57

Hmm we have everything to lose by having sex with them and NOTHING to gain.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:28 PM
100

You know men confess their rape crimes like all the time and still don’t get punished for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:20 PM
11

This is why I don’t believe most men who make accusations of abuse against women. Literally all of the stories are like this, where they’re lying and they instead are the abuser. I see right through their bullshit each time. Women actually tell the truth and often don’t even speak up about abuse bc they’re deathly scared of the consequences, Men lie almost every time. I know it. You know it. THEY know it. But they’ll still gaslight us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:13 PM
3

While men who rape and murder us get no time or a couple months to a couple years. Maybe one decade if we’re lucky :))
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 08:15 PM
7

Wtaf?? They’re basically saying they want women oppressed. They have left us with no avenues on protecting ourselves. We need to start actively fighting these misogynistic laws. We need equity. I’m so sick of this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:25 PM
2

Don’t forget to block him babe, you deserve much better treatment! And you’re better off not dating guys until you’re 20 or older, trust me. Focus on school, hobbies, family, friends- whatever you have going for you now. Your teens and early twenties are about exploring life as a whole, it’ll just be a waste of time to even worry about a boy.
/r/askFDS28/12/20 07:23 PM
11

Well for me I expect a proposal by 1 to 1.5 years, then I’d probably wait another 1.5 years to actually have a wedding. So that should give me about 3 years total before I’m actually married to a man. There’s always a risk that a man will change up on you, but that can happen no matter what so you always have to be willing to leave even when married. However, the chances increase exponentially that a dude really doesn’t care about you or really want you in a meaningful way if he waits any longer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 07:07 PM
87

Her best option is purchasing a gun and learning how to shoot it. It’s come to that since the police and so called “protector men” do fuck all to protect women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 11:42 AM
184

Ah yes, the police who wait until the stalker rapes and murders you to still do nothing :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 10:57 AM
14

They do know how to stop, they CHOOSE not to stop. Men aren’t stupid. They just don’t care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:31 AM
86

I’d say a man who’s truly interested and invested will typically call you daily and you don’t have to speak for a long time necessarily, I prefer 30min to 1 hour phone calls daily. A man will want to check on how you’re doing often, if he goes without calling to check on you past 24 hours, that man doesn’t care if you live or die. It takes such little effort to communicate with someone, especially someone you really care for and see a future with. Men are excited and really want to talk to you, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:12 AM
263

And they dare speak down to us in a condescending tone. I’ve had a couple scrotes try to speak down to me and when I held my ground and spoke back firmly without even raising my voice, they accused me of yelling at them. And people around were like.. she’s not yelling dude. They’re so fucking annoying, I wish they’d just leave us alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:17 AM
64

Yep no one is gaslighting her into believing they’re all the same shade. The companies label them as different shades in accordance to the truth. Women aren’t stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:02 AM
659

He says that’s what tinder is for and that she’s dumb for assuming otherwise. And then says he can’t put that he wants hookups in his bio bc he won’t get matches. So which is it, scrote?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:00 AM
3

Is he not embarrazzeD??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:46 PM
14

not the jewels!! 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:43 PM
46

He did that on purpose so if she says “I thought you loved me” in the future, he’ll say “I nEvAr sAiD tHaT”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:25 PM
99

I really despise this love language bullshit. It’s a way for men to cop out yet again. You’re supposed to do all fucking 5 in any healthy relationship. They’re so manipulative and abusive, it’s nasty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:48 AM
147

The gaslighting in the comments. Omg. And the women talking about how it’s normal and their husbands never get them gifts or get them shitty ones so they gave up... but if a man posted a woman doing that to them, they’d drag her for filth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 04:20 AM
9

Well most men who refer to themselves as traditional are not really providers anyways, they’re abusive scrotes. A man who is a provider means he pays for dates and the bills and buys you gifts. This doesn’t mean you don’t have your own income and education. Also there’s not an allowance here, my dad provides even though my mom works. My mom has several degrees and is a teacher. However my dad pays for the bills, dates and buys her gifts. My mom’s name is on the house deed. My mom has full access…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:39 AM
20

Trust your gut.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:23 AM
32

Wtf is wrong with this chick? What do the two have to do with each other? A 5 dollar crappy gift is not going to make her feel better either. If it’s within his means to buy her expensive bags and she wants that, that’s great. A millionaire has a different spending capacity compared to a middle class man, and so their gifts will likely be different- obviously. AND men should put effort in all the other love languages. Women do NOT have to settle for straws. Ffs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:20 AM
127

He needs therapy, not a gf, rn. You don’t owe him that labor unless he’s paying you an hourly rate for therapy. The only way I’m doing significant emotional labor for a man is if he’s proven to actually love me, we are married and settled in our marriage- and he does the same for me when I need it. It’s easy to feel guilty for not doing the emotional labor for random men bc society constantly pressures women to feel obligated to do free unreciprocated labor for any and all men. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 02:16 AM
37

Yep. This is why if I ever speak too personally with a man too early on, I automatically disqualify him. I’m not taking a chance on if they’re genuinely good or being manipulative to get me to like them by catering their thoughts and opinions to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 10:55 PM
103

Wow this is so heartwarming. It’s so rare to see women gifted actually thoughtful gifts from men. Wishing her healing ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 05:14 AM
61

Same way you can’t reason with a Crackhead, you can’t reason with a porn addict and a pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:35 AM
77

This is bait for pickmes. He’ll receive responses like “I never ask anything from a man- I’ll be his slave and even pay him to be my master!! Pick me!!! Pick me!! Choose me!!! Love me!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 02:06 AM
33

Yep they’ll do anything except treat women with respect and work hard.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:52 PM
34

This is exactly why I don’t believe men’s pity stories. They lie like they breathe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:34 PM
25

kickhisassout2020
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 09:32 PM
10

He could have easily said “wimps.” Something ironic about using pussy as a derogatory insult, meaning weak, when childbirth literally proves the exact opposite.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:36 AM
28

They’d have to see women as human beings to understand that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:46 PM
35

Same. All men must be vetted thoroughly and equally, regardless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:28 PM
3

I think she just mentions it in passing. I watched this a couple weeks ago. But the scrotes listened to it all just to discredit it for that statement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:07 PM
1

The Porn Paradox
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:48 PM
27

OP do you mind sharing those papers here too? I’d like to save the links and read them as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 11:37 AM
32

You’re right, I just mentioned that part because usually people remember who I’m talking about when I bring up those terms- bc the news capitalized by mentioning he was on the Stanford swim team.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 10:39 AM
1

OMG MY LITTLE HEART. I LOVED Junie B Jones. My elementary school took us to a play based on that series. Seriously what if this played a role into why I’m a boss babe now??? Going to recommend every parent I meet to get these books for their children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:19 AM
56

There was a hugely popular subreddit called deadeyes that was for men masturbating to women being violated and raped. They specifically liked this content because the women would clearly dissociate and die inside and it was visible in their eyes. This is what the men were and are getting off to all the time. They enjoy women’s pain, suffering, and humiliation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:08 AM
114

Two of my friends reported their rapes to the police. They had evidence and confession from their rapists. And the police laughed and dismissed them. They never did an investigation and just waited for them to get tired and stop coming back. They don’t even test the vast majority of rape kits. That Stanford swimmer Rapist, Brock Turner, was caught on video and by two male witnesses raping a woman and he got 3 months in prison. And they act like the system is pit against men???? Or somehow in fav…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 08:02 AM
73

Why do people conveniently ignore that we live in a fucking patriarchy? When people can’t even understand this concept it’s time to end the conversation with them. Bc that explains why things are vastly different for men and women in this world. Why does everyone try to equate our experiences? Do they not see reality right in front of their eyes??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:59 AM
119

I shared a ted talk that mentioned this and scrotes attacked saying it’s an egregious lie to say porn addiction can lead to pedophilia. They were probably undercover pedos and got defensive Bc they saw their ugly soul’s reflection for a split second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:56 AM
260

A man told me that expecting a man with similar political opinions and morals was far too much. I- A rock sounds more appealing actually now that she mentions it 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:27 AM
149

They don’t even make money on that hellsite. I’ve heard these young girls make like 180 dollars a month. You could work at McDonald’s and get a far better salary without costing you so much. There is no payoff worth doing only fans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 03:24 AM
1

omg this girl is me!! Wtf we need to be friends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:47 AM
52

They also don’t want to date women of certain heights but complain. Tons of tall women I’ve known were willing to date shorter men but those short men insulted them etc. So it’s clearly hard for tall women to date. Plenty of women give short men chances. I’ll save my tears for important things that actually matter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:34 AM
28

Their pimps are probably running the accounts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:31 AM
48

Now she’s getting spoiled by her wealthy grandson. I love when good karma reaches women. She also created her own business as a single mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 02:26 AM
53

Reading men’s posts about FDS is the biggest mindfuck ever lmfao. They say we’re disgusting bc we get men to pay for all our dates and provide for us (whilst we work and maintain our own income). And then they say we are bitter femcels. I thought men didn’t want to invest in women they didn’t find attractive? So how is it that we have men willing to pay all the time. I’ve certainly had no problem dating plenty of men who never asked me to split. So, what is the truth?💀 it’s actually hilarious at…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:44 PM
73

They actually want a strong woman to destroy into a pickme. They enjoy the conquest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 08:42 PM
3

Act like you’re meeting a co-worker or friend. This helped me with dating anxiety when I first started dating. You’re not forced to like this person or impress them.
/r/askFDS22/12/20 07:51 AM
148

That woman is dense af. She’s defending him. She thinks he’s simply unaware and the commenters are saying he didn’t do it on purpose. Are these people FUCKING INSANE. People like that don’t deserve a chance on this planet. I hope they accidentally croak due to their fucking stupidity. Holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 04:11 AM
15

Link please?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:24 PM
4

Wishing you the best ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:19 PM
121

They’ll say anything for male approval.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 08:14 PM
58

Lmfaoo wtf?? I’m educated and ambitious and have always had men pay for dates and buy me gifts 💀 I’m really feminine and a feminist. Now what, pickme? She really thought she did something oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:10 AM
203

The more women don’t tolerate this bullshit, the more men overall will have to adjust. Many of them are like this bc unfortunately tons of women allow this sort of treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 01:42 AM
57

Capitalism thrives off of this sickness. Anything for profit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:41 AM
18

Stop it!! You’re speaking too logically ma’am- that’s not allowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 03:34 AM
4

The fact that sis even proposed is 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 05:53 AM
9

The gag is pickmes ain’t happy 🤭 That’s why they are big mad and constantly attack us for getting men to provide and pamper us 😴 They wish they had the self assurance and confidence to demand what they deserve in a relationship. I love this queen’s energy, she had me rolling over laughing 🤣 she said what she said!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/20 06:48 AM
77

Omg I’m dying. 🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:57 AM
67

They really think they did something 💀 If anything, us real feminists actually care about women who are active in this disgusting industry. We see them as humans worthy of respect and we want society to protect and take care of women so they don’t have to resort to these measures. They just make up acronyms like okay and? Lol idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 10:51 PM
15

Right!! And they were all v handsome. I do not date uglies. I think a lot of women haven’t learned how to harness the power of femininity. But when you do, you’ll have all kinds of men falling over for you. We need to bring back the art of seduction without sex again. Seriously, you don’t need to sleep w scrotes to deserve or receive great treatment!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:11 PM
13

They tend to think they’re mAtUrE... sis have all the seats lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:59 PM
24

Sis when you find out, let me know. There’s entire pages telling young women and girls to only date old wrinkly scrotes in order to pursue hypergamy... like I’ve only ever dated men between 1-7 years older (the vast majority being 2-3 years older as I prefer). And they’ve all paid for dates etc. why do people think you must date an old married man to get things paid for you?? I’ve had 24/25 year old men willing to buy me a car and they never got near my p*ssy. It’s possible. I didn’t accept bc m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 03:57 PM
55

Women aren’t rehabilitation centers for men- full stop
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:44 AM
11

I’m so sorry hun. Wishing you all the love your family didn’t give to you. ❤️ you deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:38 AM
206

Men consistently tell me how shocked they are that I’m so funny and smart... bc how can an attractive woman be funny and smart... I know so many beautiful funny intelligent women. why do people act like we’re so rare??? It’s rare for men to have even 1 of the three traits 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 04:35 AM
3

omg thank you to this queen for articulating this perfectly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 01:01 AM
43

You don’t understand, befriending a man is literally abusing him. How dare you not open your legs for any man who breathes in your direction. /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 03:26 AM
48

He went to work why wouldn’t he?? It’s not like she worked the same hours and does every single droplet of unpaid labor...oh wait... And people try to pass this shit off as “equality” fucking stupid fucks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 08:59 PM
20

Idk about that, they were marrying and raping little girls hundreds of years before the advent of the internet unfortunately
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 11:16 AM
13

They’ve gone full mask off lately haven’t they? They don’t even bother hiding their abusive tactics.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:34 AM
45

Marriage is too much of a commitment but a child isn’t.. who’s gonna tell her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 05:05 AM
14

sigh women just don’t ever win, do we.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:48 AM
79

What sub allowed women to actually speak the truth? This is Reddit?! It can’t be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 04:42 AM
10

Most of the people I know who were raped were raped by trusted male friends. It’s horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:07 PM
9

True. Yeah even if I don’t want kids in the future, still not paying for shit :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:03 PM
11

I hope he’s left sitting in his filth when he’s rotting in a nursing home.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:42 PM
29

THEY WANT US TO FEEL EMPATHY FOR RAPISTS AND NOT FOR RAPE VICTIMS. When is the apocalypse gonna happen fr
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:38 PM
23

People would bully the anti porn people on my campus. It’s disgusting how porn sick most people seem to be. Also, yeah he values his wrist over the millions of trafficked and raped kids/women in the porn industry. What a piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:37 PM
3

I never liked that page to begin with. Bunch of libfem shit, am I surprised? No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:34 PM
57

Until men can give birth I’m not fucking paying for shit. If a woman pays for anything in a relationship, that relationship is 80-20 or 90-10 not 50/50. A woman should save all of her money to protect herself should the man betray her, bc the likelihood is extremely high. Fuck ALL that other noise. Anyone who says otherwise is a pickme idc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:32 PM
135

A lot of Men only find rape and racism funny. Interesting how the only tweets and videos I’ve ever died laughing at have all been by girls/women, and they somehow managed to do it without being at the expense of someone’s trauma. But women are the unfunny ones lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:24 PM
16

Omg yes my photos look like they’re out of a magazine. I’m a libra so you KNOW I gotta stunt at any and all events. I hate OLD but guys have always asked me on proper dates and I feel like it’s bc they know I wouldn’t be caught dead walking with them in a fucking field or sitting at a basic coffee shop. Ew. Still not going back to OLD, I prefer a man who has the balls to approach me like a gentleman at a nice venue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:05 PM
15

What a great teaching moment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 06:58 PM
8

No, that’s settling. We want mutual great valuable love here. You’ll be miserable with a guy who loves you but you don’t even like him back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:51 AM
50

Girl, you already know the answer if you had to write this up. Clearly he’s not a HVM. He wants you to birth the child and also be responsible for it financially- alone. Throw him in the bin where he belongs. Good riddance. Just here to affirm your very valid feelings. RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 03:47 AM
24

Yeah meanwhile HVW have to go to war and have the skill set of a government spy to sift through all the waste and find one decent guy lmfao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 01:58 AM
63

He sounds like a decent guy. I just want to warn the ladies here that the likelihood you’ll find this type of man on OLD is slim to none. Be very cautious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:48 PM
20

I think it’s self love and strong boundaries. Men will fall extremely hard for a woman who doesn’t take shit from them. Ask me how I know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:51 PM
3

She’s with an actual parasite. I’m sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 06:43 PM
37

How do women date men like this? Like they’re giving you an actual preview of how life would be like living with them. Some women are just so dumb I literally can’t process it at this point. Every single man I’ve dated has been so clean and neat. It’s the bare minimum. Lord.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 07:02 AM
3

The scrotacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:12 AM
30

Call me crazy, but I think the right man for you won’t fuck your pH up at all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 01:11 AM
17

Is it okay if I bitchslap you? Yes, so empowering 😍 a real man!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:20 PM
25

Maybe bc when they see you, they see the alternative path their life could have taken if they hadn’t tied themselves to a scrote.
/r/askFDS07/12/20 06:03 AM
5

Ratched!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 12:28 AM
2

Hair extensions or wig
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:59 AM
2

In her hair extensions or wig I believe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:59 AM
2

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=twMrpJa95jU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 07:58 AM
9

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:35 PM
14

Unemployed and living off of his poor mother, who apparently lives life on easy mode by working & providing for his pathetic ass. The irony is palpable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 10:26 AM
70

And our sanctuary would be an island without men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 07:07 AM
4

Saving this, you’ve explained it well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:12 AM
18

Yeah on many occasions I got the highest exam scores and I graduated top of my class and people were consistently shocked. I asked a few of them (mainly guys) who were shocked as to why- they said they thought I was a “party girl.” Mind you I would go to lectures in sportswear and sit in the front. So this had nothing to do with dressing promiscuously or anything. Turns out they just meant they thought I was too pretty to be smart :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:22 AM
10

I’ve seen this story tons of times. Someone I dated accidentally revealed it was actually him who cheated on his ex when at first he told me she cheated on him 💀 You literally cannot trust them no matter what they say. It’s exhausting and I have no time for their lies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:45 AM
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For me it’s husband. Boyfriend doesn’t mean shit in my culture and honestly I don’t think it means shit in any culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 09:49 PM
53

The best way is to not use dating apps and to not ever initiate or pursue a man. If he must go out of his way to approach you in public or in your hobby or friend group- it’s much more likely that you are his type. Men generally will not brave rejection for a woman who is kinda his type but not fully. Ofc there’s exceptions like the weirdos on public transport or bars but you shouldn’t be accepting men from those places anyways (barring the most rare exception- ofc based on your sound judgement)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:16 PM
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I genuinely can’t seem to figure out how & at what point do men turn fucked up like this. Wtf is wrong with these mfkers seriously. They’re walking around this earth terrorizing random women. I was so creeped out reading your comment, like mom come get me I’m scared !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:09 PM
18

OP do you mind pasting your comment here, I couldn’t read it on your page since the scrotes removed it. I would like to save it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:10 AM
67

Lol he’s big mad you were catching on to him- good riddance. Block and delete so he can’t come crawling back. This may be a power move where he dumps you then comes back and renegotiates the relationship on his terms since he left you feeling guilty. I’ve read plenty of stories like that and yes they were cheating or being devious from the start.
/r/askFDS02/12/20 12:08 AM
3

Pre nup ladies and don’t marry broke men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:58 PM
7

Men complain they feel emasculated whilst expecting women to baby them- make it make sense 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:08 PM
5

She’s got it right. He’s a spineless coward with no respect for her. Hope she leaves him for good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 10:05 PM
23

This guy is a straight up LV misogynist. I can’t stand his videos. He makes like 2 common sense decent points, otherwise brings nothing to the table imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:36 AM
4

What season is this? I loved the witch season the most. But I haven’t seen all seasons
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 06:12 AM
10

https://www.iflscience.com/health-and-medicine/theres-a-really-creepy-reason-why-women-mainly-give-birth-lying-down-/ https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4235063/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 11:17 PM
21

Do you have studies I can save for when these porn sick dudes attack me for being against porn? I have a few sources but I would like more if possible
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 09:42 PM
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I saw an episode of Law and Order with that exact storyline- so it’s true. I’m not even surprised at this point. Worst case scenario with a female doctor is she’ll dismiss your symptoms or make a diagnostic error or be rude- which can happen with all doctors. At least you don’t have to fear her getting off to seeing you for a medical visit and imagining some sick porn rape scene. Especially when they have to insert objects into your vagina or rectum for checks. Or that she’s secretly recording y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:32 PM
64

Apparently the way women are forced to give birth on their back nowadays is all because a man had a fetish for watching women open their legs wide laying down on their back and giving birth. Before women would give birth squatting or on all fours bc it’s easier. But ofc women should suffer for male kinks :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:17 PM
62

!!! Plus the amount of horrific incidents with male physicians harming or not taking female patients seriously is insane. They’ll even rape a female coma patient. The dudes in my past pre med classes were the hugest perv psychopaths I’ve ever met. The few decent men I know ended up not pursuing medical school. I think the way the system is set up, it attracts the wrong kind of people into medicine unfortunately. Perhaps male doctors should be mainly restricted to male patients with some exceptio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:13 PM
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A woman recorded her surgery secretly and sued the male doctor bc he was ridiculing and sexualizing her throughout the procedure with his colleagues present. She had a gut feeling about something not being right with him. Another sign to listen to your gut instinct ladies. Watching that woman explain her story and share the audio made me never want to have a male doctor again. She was successful in court I believe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 08:05 PM
21

It wouldn’t be complete without pickmes to placate their egos lmfaooo they seriously can’t live without us but constantly talk about going their own way or some bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 07:09 PM
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I genuinely leave my phone on do not disturb most of the time. And the muting thing works too. And like you said, when you’re doing something don’t interrupt it for some dude who’s probably gonna turn out to be LV anyways. He wouldn’t do the same for you- remember that. Your time is precious, act like it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 04:35 AM
52

Babe he’s talking to someone else during that time. Next.
/r/askFDS26/11/20 05:11 AM
76

I figured out grocery stores by the time I learned how to read Bc the aisles are literally labeled with the items you’ll find there. I can’t understand what’s so difficult about that. I honestly think they just hate doing “womanly” duties. So they make it more difficult than it has to be. If they’re capable of working a job, surely they can handle navigating a grocery store. 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 03:23 AM
3

Does anyone know how to get a bot to download this from Reddit?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 10:40 PM
12

Welcome sis 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 07:27 AM
15

I am screaming!!! Jaksclkska
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:28 PM
264

The hatred I have for handmaidens is astronomical. You expect men to betray you but when women do it, it hurts that much more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:09 AM
13

I hate how men are constantly victimized. It’s like spitting in the face of all women ever. I reserve most of my empathy for women, bc society has none for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 05:24 AM
26

People who think Joe Rogan is an intellectual are so beyond stupid it’s not even worth discussing. The dude just panders to whoever is on his podcast and smokes weed and lifts weights. He says nothing remarkable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 04:24 AM
23

When men say what we feminists have been saying for hundreds of years, everyone laps it up. But when we say it, we’re irrational bitches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 01:15 AM
7

You simply can’t help stupid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:47 AM
28

I’d start recording interactions and getting proof of the ongoing abuse. It’ll be good for court when you divorce. I don’t have much knowledge or any experience with this situation, but I’d reach out to an organization or two for advice or financial assistance to make your exit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:45 AM
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I wouldn’t discuss any deep trauma with men. That’s the first weapon they’ll grab the minute they get even a little upset with you. I’d actually divulge info that seems deep and that I’m completely over, to see if they do ever weaponize it against me. If they do, it’s sure time to break up. I don’t think I’d reveal any deep stuff until years into a marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 02:43 AM
90

Women online keep telling them we all would be satisfied with a basket of dollar tree crap. Not all of us are pathetic doormats. I want quality gifts period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:27 AM
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This is based on America though. A lot of people aren’t from America in this subreddit. So it’s probably accurate from your standpoint but it doesn’t hold for other areas in the world.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:08 PM
9

Welcome! It’s tough at first but after a few months of taking in all of the valuable info here, it’ll become second nature to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:21 AM
9

I hate when women act like it’s quirky or cool to be like this. You’re basically showing your ass and saying you have no self esteem. Major yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:17 AM
7

This is true. I’ve seen some great HVM stories on FDS but the bad stories stick out so much more so it’s hard to remember the good cases.
/r/askFDS18/11/20 11:40 PM
2

Are there any doctors, medical students, Or PAs here? Im working on a diagnostic case study for a class and the professor recommends getting a second opinion from a physician. I figured why not try here because I don’t know what other subreddit to go to lol. It won’t take much of your time I just want to verify my diagnosis and I have like 2 questions. I would really appreciate it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 08:03 PM
10

I think I may have to take a break from reddit. I encounter so much misogyny here on all subreddits except this one. I love this subreddit and it’s filled with nothing but the truth. But every time I read posts on here it reminds me of how shitty and fucked women have it in this world- yet we get blamed for our own oppression. I deleted tiktok bc I constantly was being inundated with the most misogynistic videos or comments on women’s videos from both men and handmaidens. I’m so fucking sick of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:41 PM
11

Men will manage to flip anything women do as us causing them to disrespect us somehow. They be like: “when a woman breathes near me she’s just causing me to lose any respect for her.” You can’t win with these scrotes. But yes don’t ever offer a thing to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 09:35 PM
92

Major shocker that women eventually get sick of all forms of abuse and indentured servitude/ slavery at some point. Who woulda thought?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:54 AM
24

Jim and Pam are the worst couple. No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 04:53 AM
3

I’ve been dreaming about buying islands for just women to live on and travel to, if we all make it big we can buy tons of islands and live out our matriarchy dreams.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:40 AM
76

They’ll sue for discrimination bc you’re only leasing to women. We’re dealing with depraved fucks, remember. They don’t want women to have women only spaces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:22 AM
44

And they claim the courts rule in favor of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 11:20 PM
109

These kind of men ruin the sweet innocence of little boys. Why tf is he sexualizing a child interacting with their teacher? And why is being nice considered a ploy? Oh yeah, grown men don’t see the ethical need to respect or be kind to women unless it’s a game to manipulate and use them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:43 PM
2

Y’all people have reported this as hate speech towards vulnerable communities I’m dying, the irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:04 PM
20

May we all have men who dote on us like your husband. It’s sad that it’s so rare. Wishing the best for your marriage ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/20 02:59 AM
3

Conservative men want women to be private property and liberal men want women to be public property. Women aren’t property. So I despise both. Independent all the way and I’m left leaning but there’s some bs rhetoric on the left as well that I believe is harmful to women tbh so excluding that, I’m fairly left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 03:47 AM
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We all had to make some mistakes to come to the conclusions that we have reached on this sub. I’m eternally grateful to the wonderful intelligent women who made this sub. I spent my life searching for women who could see the misogyny I see everywhere. The women who would finally give me a REAL answer and save me from the constant societal gaslighting I faced that was slowly turning me into the pickme I always hated. I got hurt several times bc I gave into the peer pressure. I began thinking I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:36 AM
116

This is true. Porn is simply a tool of misogyny/patriarchy. Men have always raped women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/20 04:11 AM
12

Reading the comments is disturbing the fuck out of me. I had no idea this was a thing, much less that it’s this COMMON. I’m at a loss for words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:44 PM
15

r/menwritingwomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:11 PM
17

She’s excited? The dude literally proved he manipulated the fuck out of her by pretending he was incapable of basic tasks. And he still does nothing for their baby. If it was the reverse they’d all be calling the woman a gold digger b****.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:22 PM
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Men (not on reddit) are usually the first to admit that most men are horrible. Even on twitter women constantly tweet it and rarely is there some sort of backlash. Because everyone knows it’s true. Reddit is a weird place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 07:05 AM
3

Online dating
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:27 AM
3

Don’t do it. OLD is 99% LVM and NVM. And it’s dangerous. Only date men who ask you out in person, bc that way you get a feeling of who they are and their hygiene and other important things to vet that you can never tell from OLD. It’s so much safer that way as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 04:26 AM
18

It’s a myth that courts rule against fathers. It’s simply because the fathers mostly never ask for any custody or half custody. If they did, they’d easily get it unless they’re fucked up. Most judges are male so this idea that the court system are in cahoots against men being fathers is a total scam lie.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:10 PM
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He shouldn’t be dating if he’s homeless, seems like there are priorities he’s missing out on. Oh yeah, men go on OLD to target women to fund their lives WAY more than the other way around. My friend used to work at a bank and she told me the amount of incidents where women sent money to strange men they barely knew or just started dating and then came to see if they could reverse it bc they were ghosted or played is WAY TOO HIGH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 08:02 PM
6

Leave immediately. Find some female roommates. This man doesn’t give a single fuck about you. He’s saving all his money to spend on things and women he prioritizes over you. No decent man will EVER have you struggle while he’s living it up. So he doesn’t wanna pay before marriage, how about sex huh? Why is he moving in before marriage? Why do you have to perform domestic and emotional labor before marriage? LEAVE. NOW.
/r/askFDS04/11/20 05:51 AM
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Lookup the sunk cost fallacy. It’s never too late to leave. In fact, you’ll only waste more time by staying. You have the strength to move on, I believe in you.
/r/askFDS04/11/20 05:46 AM
32

I’ve literally paid for my friends bday dinners and the douche won’t pay for yours? Yeah if you’re burning he wouldn’t piss on you to save your life. Good riddance, block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 10:15 PM
10

Tony Gaskins he’s a Christian dude I’m not a Christian but I take the good from his videos, he practically preaches FDS tbh and gives really good tips on how to deal with men and read through their bs. Sometimes he’ll say something misogynistic but for the most part I think he’s coming from a good place. I don’t think there’s a man alive who won’t be even a little misogynistic tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 09:28 PM
1

What did Seth Rogan do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 06:15 PM
38

This male YouTuber I follow literally admitted that the vast majority of men never actually genuinely love a woman in their life ever. It’s a very small percentage and he basically confirmed the conclusion I had previously reached.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:56 PM
59

He came to that conclusion but didn’t think therapy or cutting off porn would be a good start? Fucking hell I hate it here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:54 PM
73

Hi. Yeah can we get a women only planet started, asap?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 04:46 PM
24

Pickmes praise grown men like a mother does to her 4 year old child who presents a sloppy drawing to her. Pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:54 AM
83

Yep your value automatically declines exponentially if you ever pursue or initiate with a guy. You could be Beyoncé and because you approached them, you’re worthless to them now. It’s funny bc I’ve had multiple men literally admit this. A hot girl approaches them and they no longer perceive her as attractive or desirable in the slightest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:48 AM
18

This made me bust out laughing ty sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 01:43 AM
15

People who treat powerless animals and children poorly are scumbags. He’s a grade A scrote. There are men who won’t engage in behavior like that, so forget this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 12:29 AM
8

Idk if you know this but there’s a middle line between some trash flowers/card and a Gucci bag. And you’re gonna have a rough time wasting years on dudes who dgaf about you with that mentality that a year isn’t enough time to get someone a decent gift. This thread seriously is filled with pickmes.
/r/askFDS31/10/20 06:21 PM
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She says they’ve known each other for a year and they’re in a relationship this past week. I’m confused about this timeline. But if he knew her for a year and he actually likes her, he would get her a nice gift.
/r/askFDS31/10/20 05:37 AM
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Uh if he knew you for a year prior, that’s ridiculous. I’ve had guys I’ve known for much less time get me gifts for my bday. I’d be over him if I were you. If he’s not trying to impress you now what makes you think he’ll put in effort later?? You could tell him that you’re disappointed by the lack of effort on your birthday and see what he does, but I’d be eternally turned off by his cheapness and lack of effort. He shouldn’t have to be told.
/r/askFDS31/10/20 05:24 AM
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And 9 years?? No ma’am. Some people post the most slap crazy stuff on this subreddit calling these men HV. I can’t. Not to mention this dude literally doesn’t give a fuck about her getting raped. I didn’t read it because that’s a very triggering topic for me. I just read the very beginning. No HV man is going to discard a woman for getting raped.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 01:29 AM
2

someone on this sub said he didn’t marry her when they had kids, I guess he got married after having kids which is so not HV.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:26 AM
9

Pretty sure he didn’t marry the woman who gave birth to multiple of his kids. Don’t know if they’re married yet. So I don’t think he’s HV although he gives some good advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:08 AM
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Interesting perspective. I always thought it was a punishment to be a woman considering how awful we collectively have it here on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:35 AM
4

Will there be a new chat thread this week?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 05:30 PM
9

I have almond shaped eyes and the only ones I’ve tried are ardell faux mink Demi wispies. They’re affordable and drug store. There’s tutorials on YouTube for how to apply them. That’s how I learned. I only use them here and there (bc I’m lazy) but they’re lovelyyy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 10:10 PM
33

Men, hands down, never get over the woman who left him when he crossed a boundary or disrespected her. She will ALWAYS be the one who got away to them. Ask me how I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 07:49 PM
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I knew men had no clue when I wore falsies and dude thought they were my real lashes. I mean I have thick and long natural lashes but this time I had my natural PLUS falsies. I mean, come on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:12 PM
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I can see this happening to so many people. Kinda sad and hilarious at the same time. I mean I don’t want to have sex until marriage, but shit I’m no prude. I know dudes from my background want a girl who hasn’t even read the word “sex” before, like super sheltered type. Meanwhile he’s gone and fucked half the town. And then they get mad when this happens. I mean, you reap what you sow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 05:24 AM
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1-1.5 years is fine. Key to not becoming a forever gf or fiancé is limiting each stage to roughly 1-1.5 years. So 1-1.5 or 2 years to proposal, then 1 year to the wedding date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:56 PM
64

We always say this but some women are seriously delusional. It’s obvious. But these men are disgusting bc I know they heavily manipulate these women. It’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 03:48 AM
10

He sounds mad his manipulative psycho game didn’t pan out the way he had hoped. Clearly she dodged several bullets. I pray he doesn’t show up to her work to kill her. Terrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:27 AM
4

Fuck Ben Shapiro. He’s a scumbag. He’s incredibly sexist and a huge bigot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:36 AM
10

Hopefully he’ll rot in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:32 AM
15

Unfortunately I came across a girl like this in Highschool. She would give blowjobs to any guy who wanted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 06:18 AM
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You cannot know a man is HV until at least a year. Even then, the vetting doesn’t stop. When you label them early on, you’re attaching yourself to an outcome that is likely not going to happen. You’re hurting yourself and making the process more difficult. And that is not a negligent detail. He’s not HV if he’s a selfish lover. HV is a collection of good qualities, a man isn’t HV if he has a few good traits but just happens to neglect you entirely in one aspect. That’s LV. LV means they bring a …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:47 AM
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Girl don’t ever perform oral on a man who hasn’t done it for you. If you didn’t do it to begin with, you wouldn’t be in this position. Next time don’t do that. And he’s lame af, just because he’s an upgrade from your previous exes doesn’t mean he’s any good. Say your ex was the equivalent of McDonald’s, you just got an ihop meal and you’re acting like it’s Michelin 3 star quality. Want more for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/20 05:40 AM
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I’d say if he doesn’t bring up talk about marriage by 6 months to 1 year, he’s not interested. He should propose by year 1-2max. Wedding a year after that max. Don’t let these dudes waste 3 years of your life without making serious moves concerning their intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 02:49 AM
102

And you can see him recording her in the glass reflection!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 09:02 PM
9

So she’s letting us know he doesn’t give a flying fuck about her ? You don’t even open the door to someone who does that to you. He’ll continue to play her bc he can clearly see she’s a doormat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:13 PM
26

Redpill has been around for a long time and men all seem to know the same abuse and manipulation tactics- it just didn’t go by that name in particular. I mean just think about it, most men do the same shitty things to women- it’s not a coincidence. All patriarchal societies rely on this shit being spread and passed around to all men. It’s just that some refuse to take part in it despite the conditioning- although they seem to be quite rare...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:56 PM
33

r/menwritingwomen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:44 PM
3

It’s a joke about how rare it is to have a HV father lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:30 PM
3

This!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 09:01 PM
48

Woman: I hate men bc my father raped me since I was 3 and sold me to his friends so they could rape me. Man: I hate womenzz bc they want to receive some sort of benefit in a relationship instead of simply agreeing to be my slave. Spot the difference!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 08:58 PM
1

What’s it like being one of God’s favorites??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 05:42 AM
39

Lol right. We say don’t give oral to men who don’t reciprocate. It’s fine to give oral if he reciprocates AND ensures you actually orgasm every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:06 AM
26

Constantly dealing with misogyny is so ✨ exhausting ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 11:33 PM
21

It’s so clear he views her as a sex doll. It’s also beyond me why women put up with this shit. Society has failed women so fucking much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:46 PM
40

🥺❤️ May he Rest In Peace. And may your memories of him keep you warm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 08:49 AM
18

Ohmygod, wtf???? This is absolutely vile.
/r/askFDS19/10/20 04:19 AM
3

Uh the potential consequences of a child hitting a man who sexually targeted them are frightening to say the least. Men are, on average, a lot stronger than women. Unless you’re trained in some form of self defense or have a weapon, hitting them back may result in fatality. Also, many people freeze in moments of danger. I know I did when I was assaulted. My brain shut off for what seemed like a long period of time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 08:18 PM
54

Something tells me this girl was probably drugged and raped and this dude twisted it to make himself the victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:17 PM
169

Why would anyone want to marry someone who doesn’t want to marry them? Can pickmeisha be classified as a mental illness bc this level of delusion and desperation is NOT normal. Like holy fuck. And they turn like rabid animals on you when you point out the oddities in the way they view relationships. Imagine being married to a man who thinks he could’ve done better and just wasn’t able to find a better backup in time so he caves in and gets you a jolly rancher ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 08:12 PM
39

One of my friends was shamed by her man for not being able to squirt... Porn has done a number on men. I don’t think most women have ever squirted and idk if it’s biological or if most men suck that badly at sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:27 PM
5

Almost certain I have inattentive ADHD, I just have never told a medical provider my symptoms yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:24 PM
10

In that case you probably shouldn’t date rn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:23 AM
9

Men paying for meals is bare minimum. I wouldn’t assume he’s HV because of that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 02:00 AM
81

I’m not buying that men can’t hear our voices well. They just don’t care out of pure misogyny. It doesn’t make sense either. The most important voice to a male baby/child is their mother’s, so wouldn’t it be counterproductive if they didn’t register our voices effectively?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:57 AM
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Just because you quit on your business the first time around doesn’t mean you can’t try again! You live and learn, love. You still have so much more of life to live, so don’t be too hard on yourself for doing what you thought was best at the time. The important thing is you’re here now and you’ve learned so much and will not repeat the same mistakes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 01:54 AM
3

Next time use google voice or another fake number app. It makes things easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:34 AM
7

I’ve lost even more faith in humanity than I thought possible. They’ve gone ahead and invented fake mental illness to excuse scrote behavior. Men can NOT experience postpartum depression how fucking absurd. Why do they hijack and leech everything off of women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 01:00 AM
2

Wait until he finds out that men always pay for me when we go out and I don’t sleep with them 😯 lmao gratitude I’m dying. He wants a woman to act like a puppy for the bare minimum that a man provides? Perhaps they should get down and lick our toes for being blessed with our beauty and grace. How about that? I will simply thank my date for the gesture and keep it moving. It smell like BROKE in here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:51 AM
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Thank you for telling us your story. I’m wishing y’all the best 🥺❤️ Everyone who has an amazing relationship says that you just know when you meet your person. I still haven’t felt that yet (although I did once mistake butterflies and chemistry for it), but I’m going to hold out for it. And if I never have that feeling i don’t think I could actually follow through with marrying the person etc. It’s go big or go home for me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 10:21 PM
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Yep my mom continues to gaslight me to this day. She denies abuse. Most of my childhood memories are of me getting beaten or emotionally/spiritually/verbally abused. But, yeah totally, I just want to victimize myself. It’s hard bc she was also the only parent who I was close to bc my dad only paid the bills but never bothered to be a parent. So I love/hate my mom as a result. And I’ve been going back and forth about cutting her off but she has times where she’s really nice to me but she also has…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:05 PM
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How did you meet OP? I keep asking women married to HVM how they met and almost all say in person somehow, so I’m even more against OLD tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 06:55 PM
15

Unfortunately brain dead pickmes have essentially hijacked real feminism. Liberal feminism is what you’ve just described. Welcome to the realm of real feminists.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 05:01 AM
5

I’m willing to bet he’s racist af. He had to DELIBERATELY not learn the languages. How do women stay with these nutcases? I just don’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:44 AM
6

Send her that story
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:37 AM
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This sounds like what any addict would say. You telling me to stop snorting crack is abuse and manipulation!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:25 AM
20

I like how the pickme looks like she swallowed a ballsack, that detail is👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:22 AM
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It’s because when they cry they use it as a manipulation tool, that’s why they think sincere tears or pain is fake. A lot of scrotes only express sadness when manipulating a woman into taking more abuse and staying or forgiving them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 06:19 AM
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Yes, especially rich men. A thousand dollars ain’t a thing to them. They can wipe their booty crack with that much and won’t feel a sting of pain. Now I’m all for getting spoiled by a man, if he’s just giving you things, like why not? But it’s important to be level headed and realize this may be love bombing or a cover for his other faults etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 04:01 AM
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👁 👄 👁 Me confronting the idea that this is even possible. How did they meet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:10 AM
11

Where did you find him OP?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:10 AM
24

So people manage to give more credit to male animals than their female counterparts. The jokes write themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 01:09 AM
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Girl there’s people who think sushi and Indian food are disgusting and would much rather have a dry piece of unseasoned chicken for lunch instead. They’ll insult the flavors of other food and everything. Does that mean the quality of the food they dislike is bad? Nah they just have bad taste or different taste. I, for one, don’t care for people with bad taste disliking me. That’s how I reframe it.
/r/askFDS13/10/20 10:54 PM
13

Lord do for me what you’ve done for ModernDayOracle !!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/10/20 07:00 PM
32

That’s a huge glaring red flag. And you’ll feel incredibly foolish if you ever catch him cheating on you with one of his many “friends.” Id cut this off while you’re ahead.
/r/askFDS13/10/20 04:34 AM
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I’m sorry OP. But I need to emphasize that this was absolutely intentional and deliberate. This man is malicious. It was not a prank, it was a litmus test for your tolerance of abuse. I’m glad you failed his shitty ass test and kicked him to the curb. A prank would’ve been him pretending something happened to it, not destroying it. And even then, it would’ve been fucked up. He knew you for 4 years so he KNEW how much it meant to you. I guarantee if I met you and we were friends for just ONE mont…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:19 PM
4

I’m guessing this was made after your last post on this subreddit, but one of the mods defended what you were saying so idk why you’re mad?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 09:50 AM
2

The way I would drag my daughter out of there with the swiftness. Hell fucking no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:10 AM
2

It’s so interesting how everyone complains and gets very very angry when men serve women in any way even just the bare minimum, but this is completely and totally fine. If it was the other way around, he wouldn’t be too happy about it. He literally sees her as a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:08 AM
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Oh yeah just bring up equity for women, you’ll see the demon JUMP out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 06:57 PM
4

Right! I mean if he can’t even approach a woman to say hello properly, how tf can you expect anything out of him?? He’ll be too shy to defend you from a criminal or to confront a mechanic about charging too much etc. spinelesssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 05:23 AM
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Just 29 million? Yeah right. More like 1 billion. Especially based on the definition they use for modern slavery. Walk Free defines modern slavery "as the systematic removal of a person's freedom, where one person is exploited by another for personal or financial gain”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 10:23 PM
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He also calls her a great “girl” Idc what anyone has to say, using the word “girl” especially in THIS context to refer to a woman is incredibly fucking disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 03:43 AM
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He seems so boastful about the fact that she sucks his shrimp and swallows. This makes me never want to do that for a man. I’m convinced they only like it bc they see it as degrading a woman. I’d rather choke before I let a man view me in that light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/20 01:26 AM
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A lot of men only brush their teeth once a day but the smarter ones at least brush in the morning so people don’t have to suffer at work and such. This dude is particularly careless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 06:45 PM
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I reported a couple and it seems they’ve been removed. But I’m shocked they were upvoted so much. The newbies here REALLY haven’t read the handbook. They were saying women are basically useless and should feel ashamed if we don’t make financial contributions to bills and such. They said women can’t just bring “love” to a relationship and expect a man to provide for her. Like you call all the unpaid labor and expectations- “love.” They pissed me off so much. So basically standard shaming and deva…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 05:21 AM
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Oh God, she got the dick-itis. Dickmatized. Her man looks like he’s gonna chew her up and spit her out. Why is it submitting then? If it’s a discussion and compromise then...seem like he told her to come on air and humiliate herself. Oof
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:51 AM
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Mods there’s some comments that need cleaning ASAP on aisle 3. The pickmeishas are starting to infiltrate the threads.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:35 AM
10

You can be financially independent while a man pays for things. How is that concept hard to understand? Return to r/relationships for the scam 50/50 y’all want so badly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:31 AM
7

Can a mod get this girl’s comment removed unless y’all want this sub to get ran down by the Pickmeishas. Soon she’ll be begging us to fund men’s lifestyles for a crumb of dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:30 AM
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Girl, hush. Women bring so much to the table that isn’t necessarily monetary. We bring much more actually. And your failure to recognize that is sad. If we are only going to value financial aspects of the relationship then I’ll start charging men fees. Surrogacy fees. Nursing fees. Childrearing fees. Therapy fees. Beauty fees. Sex fees. Oh and reparations for the constant threat and violence we face from men. Also we pay much more for all feminine products or any products at all targeted toward …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:27 AM
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They were so salty about there being a nice guys sub that they made a nice girls one? LMFAOO if that doesn’t just show how pathetic men are on this site then idk what does. There is no such thing as a “nice” girl. Women don’t go cussing out random men and insulting them or raping/murdering them after facing rejection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 09:07 PM
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He started resenting her for not picking him earlier and wanted her to pay the price. Never underestimate a scrote and their fragile egos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 08:51 PM
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What we’re doing is leaving the table when we recognize a game is being played. God I mean shouldn’t they read the entire handbook and interview a mod or two before writing an article?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 06:00 PM
6

I bet he’s a sight for sore eyes and I’m sure she looks just fine but his rotting scrote eyes are malfunctioning.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:49 PM
12

35% ?? that sounds too good to be true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 05:25 PM
26

He just wants to lure you in to a “relationship” to just be like jk just so he could have a chance at hurting you. They’re fucking sick and twisted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:48 AM
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Seems like he came as an international student and was trying to see if you did too? I mean idk but it didn’t seem like he was being weird from my perspective at least. I tend to ask people what their origins are bc it’s interesting to me. I’ve had international students ask me if I also was an international student or if I grew up here bc I speak multiple languages so it’s always a shocker to some that I grew up in Canada.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 01:11 AM
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I agree with that. I just wanted to make it clear that we don’t all live by American standards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 10:11 PM
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This doesn’t apply to other cultures. Women from my background have always had the right to our own wage (untouched by our male family members or husband), divorce, property, inheritance etc for almost 1500 years. We also always have to receive a dowry of our choosing from said man and it can only be touched or spent by us and us alone. Therefore it was never a “purchase” or property transfer of the woman rather a gift and symbol of investment into the marriage. Disclaimer: some families were/ar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:38 PM
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Oh yeah God FORBID women tell men about our emotional problems. They start insulting us and saying we’re too clingy or something lmao. Women almost always resort to their female friends for emotional support. Since men rarely reciprocate, I just change the subject when they come crying to me. Unless they want to pay me an hourly rate for therapy. I’ve only had like two guys who actually let me pour out emotionally to them without feeling ashamed by them. It’s so rare for them to return the favor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 05:17 PM
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No one shames men for being emotional besides other men. Not my problem. Also proof that’s true is that every man I’ve spoken to has admitted the only people who provide them emotional support are their gf/wife and/or mother. I’ve had guys tell me more emotionally touching things that they didn’t tell their homeboys of decades. Also women are sick of being used as emotional shit wipes for them to manipulate. Doesn’t help that the main time they cry is fake crocodile tears in order to manipulate …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:51 PM
24

Don’t you know males are born with inherent built in knowledge about cars that us degenerate females cannot seem to unlock? /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:15 AM
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Wasn’t the song “obsessed with me” about that? I love her queen energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 02:13 AM
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I mean he’s clearly not very smart if he put that on a job screening personality test lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 01:06 AM
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Legendary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:20 AM
2

I saw a mod tag a user before. Also you could just dm her the link
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:39 PM
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Ah yes so when he inevitably screws her over there’s no proof or repercussions so he can be held accountable in the end. She’ll receive no benefits or defense from a lawyer for a fake marriage. Someone tag the OP so she can read sane responses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 10:34 PM
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I used to think being avoidant was bad. But honestly it’s probably a self defense mechanism for women. Maybe it’s your gut telling you that scrote isn’t for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:41 PM
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Bet he couldn’t build a simple table if his life depended on it. Which is a typical male gender role. And yet he calls women useless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:39 PM
10

Can you imagine a professor giving you an A in a class and then saying well do you want to take a Few exams maybe and do a couple of projects even though I gave you an A? The answer is no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:24 AM
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Yep most women in prison are there for defending themselves or getting retribution. They blame you for your suffering and for not fighting back but when you do you get more punished than the men who ruined you. This world hates women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 10:54 PM
8

Both are horrendous. There shouldn’t be a debate about it at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 06:10 PM
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Misandry doesn’t exist. Women almost always kill men bc they raped or abused them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:56 PM
4

What about wasp spray?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:50 PM
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Yep the reason she felt turned off from him is because she subconsciously knew his tears weren’t genuine rather they were manipulative. Why is he crying when he’s the one who shamed and verbally harassed her? She should be the one who’s hurt, not him. He’s victimizing himself when HE was the perpetrator.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 05:38 AM
18

I wonder if there are some FDS girlies on here from my area bc I need more empowered friends. What if we put fds on our bumble friend profiles or something? It’s not like general public people know anything about fds anyways. Or some sort of signal lol. My friends are cool but they just don’t resonate with me on certain things that I wish I could discuss with a friend. :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:09 AM
35

They’d probably steal your dirty panties or something sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:51 PM
33

Probably when he needs a free maid to wash his new batch of dirty clothes. She’ll probably hand wash them just for him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 11:48 PM
7

Yeah this is a disaster waiting to happen. He’s creepy af in both text screenshots you’ve shown this time and last time. And you’ve been on 7 dates in one month? Even when I was unemployed and out of school I didn’t have time nor did I want to go on dates with any dude more than 1 time a week. Also I noticed your post history about planning a trip of several days with this man I’m assuming, that’s really not a good idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:53 PM
16

This would still be creepy in French.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:45 PM
9

Wtf was the date plan? To sit in a field and stare at each other? Come on. This should’ve never been a thing to begin with. Read the handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:40 PM
93

Welp there goes the little bit in me that wants a relationship with a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 03:36 PM
19

Your bf is disrespecting you by announcing that sort of stuff. I would end things with him. No man who’s worth your time will ever do that. They’ll want you to feel special.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 08:43 AM
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Remember women no talk, women no opinions, women quiet and open legs cook food and take abuse Men smart men have opinion That’s how most of the world thinks :D I’ve literally answered questions completely correctly in class for the professor to say I was wrong only to accept the SAME answer from a male classmate. Just STEM things ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 07:03 AM
10

He probably stinks and doesn’t put in any effort to take care of his appearance. Oh and he probably is shitty and cheap and rude etc which is why she can’t stomach him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 04:32 AM
9

What in the pickme hell is this? Am I the only one who’d start being extremely dirty as revenge? If I told my husband to stop being messy about something and he ignored it, I’d start getting really nasty. I don’t play with disrespect. If he leaves his boxers on the ground, I’m leaving my period stained panties on his pillow and I would act fake innocent about it too for added measure. :) If he left his hairs in the sink after me asking for him to clean up, baby my hair is LONG. He’ll start findi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:59 PM
65

LVM’s biggest turn on is harming women in some way, shape, or form. Just like how rape is never about sex drive or attraction. They get turned on by your pain and damage. They live to see women suffer and cry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:51 PM
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Well I typically do so by bringing up some sort of story or dynamic of a couple or talk about my traditions back home or even about my parents’ my dynamic. Then I add on that I would like the same dynamic between my husband and I. Their reaction to that says everything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 07:04 PM
16

Men rape sheeps and donkeys in most rural areas around the world. The depravity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 10:09 PM
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They would never do that. The world loves and protects rapists and pedophiles. And if the victim is female, you can forget about them caring at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:44 PM
6

This!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:40 PM
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Uhhh you don’t have to choose one or the other. I will always keep my job or some source of income, I would take a break if I give birth for maternity leave and I would probably stick to part time for a while until my kids go to school or something but even while I’m working I don’t intend on paying bills etc. His money is our money and my money is my money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 05:38 PM
6

Me too please! Give me the tea sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 08:00 AM
8

I say yes and emphasize I’m not a liberal watered down patriarchy in a wig feminist.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:25 PM
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I don’t date bums period. Every man I speak to knows that they will be paying all the bills should I ever get married. I’m not even directing it at them but I make my standards very clear from the start by bringing it up casually in some way. Don’t ever settle for less. Idc if it’s a norm, I live by MY rules. Plus in most cultures it’s absolutely not a norm to split.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:06 PM
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Funny how it’s never discussed the other way around. Men don’t discuss ways to prevent their wives from cheating. How they should eat her pussy 3 times a day etc bc there’s tons of male competition out there. I mean that’s more realistic considering women have way more attention from men than the reverse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:02 PM
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They’ll call you a prostitute for expecting a man to provide for you but they don’t have a word for this type of man. Luckily we came up with one for them :) scrote She’s literally paying off his mortgage for property under HIS name only. She is paying him to be his bangmaid- make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:04 PM
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Men notice everything, especially about women. They notice small changes in tone, facial expressions, body language, even your eyes (e.g. they can tell if you’re feeling sad just by your eyes). They’re lying if they say they don’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:00 PM
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Almost 6 years to get married and a zoom wedding? That actually puts me off quite frankly. Seems like she thinks he’s her soulmate but he isn’t on the same page
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:47 PM
8

Yeah I mean there’s no way this could be written off as some unintentional mistake. This is deliberate and premeditated. I think OC is in denial big time about the person she married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 04:23 PM
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I love Noam Chomsky. He speaks the truth about so many issues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 08:27 AM
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Oh wow I thought it was coined as an expression bc it was part of Dutch culture, thanks for informing us. Now I wonder why this trend started 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:29 AM
12

Wtf he needs to be putting in equal amounts for your retirement as well. 100 a month but 2000 on himself? Otherwise he’ll have to start paying you for your work. Charge him the going rate for nannies and surrogates since he wants to play around. Men are so insulting they devalue women all the time. We need to charge them tax for looking at us even. I’m tired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 06:09 AM
24

How early on did you have a strong feeling he was the one for you? Were you calm the entire time or did you struggle with overthinking or any weird off feelings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 02:23 AM
7

One time I waited that long for a guy bc he accidentally requested his uber to the wrong location of the restaurant + his car was in the shop at the time so I felt bad. And he apologized profusely. But even then I felt so embarrassed waiting at the restaurant 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:58 AM
5

Kate spade doesn’t rust either and it doesn’t stain easily or have scratches yet my other designer purse was destroyed bc I was out in the rain with it ONCE. Now I get all my large bags from Kate Spade. I just need a white and brown one now but I didn’t like what they had on sale this season :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:02 AM
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She’s excited bc he doesn’t rage at her anymore when he’s angry and if he does, he apologizes? This is so pathetic I— I get so angry when I see shit like this bc these women are the types to shit on us for expecting more from men so I don’t really feel bad for them. You made your bed, now lay in it. Also her parents suck ass. At some point you need to grow tf up and make your own choices. She’s an adult with kids, wake up lady. I pray I never end up delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 11:51 PM
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They auto remove comments until they’re approved for any new members bc there’s men who try to crash the sub all the time, it’s nothing personal. We all had to go through it at the start. In the meantime make your comments and hopefully the mods can approve them, but they have thousands to approve so it can take a bit of time. You’re welcome here though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:08 PM
15

Wear your ugliest pair of period panties. Make sure the date ends by 10 pm latest and do NOT drink. Keep these rules in place for a long time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:41 PM
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Sounds like a sexual innuendo and for that I’d straight block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:54 PM
20

Just don’t have sex with him again for a long time. You made a mistake which doesn’t mean you have to commit to it and repeat it. And it’ll be a good test to see if he understands and respects the idea of consent. Or if he assumes sex one time means you’re now his personal thing at his beck and call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:53 PM
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Sensitive? It’s that he’s talking like a little boy from my 5th grade class a decade ago for me. Tf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:51 PM
16

Why do people constantly police how women approach men hurting them or fucking them over? Even when men wrong us we are responsible for cradling their itty bitty feelings. Fuck off. If you didn’t care to put thought into how to treat me and protect MY feelings, I’m also not gonna return the same courtesy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:23 AM
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If you have to say it, you ain’t it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:20 AM
90

This is why I’m dead set on not having sex with them. I’ll figure out chemistry and dick size with other strategies but I refuse to make a man cum before marriage. Most that’s happening is they can eat my pussy but that’s about it 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:04 AM
7

Please don’t room with men. Nothing good can come of it. And yes he’s a Scrote for your confirmation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 12:29 AM
19

It’s not. These people use any shitty cultural bs to denigrate women. It’s haram for anyone to cheat or watch porn, that’s what’s really forbidden in Islam. This pickmeisha is delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 10:20 PM
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I say this too. Even then I’m not gonna be making 3 meals a day lol I ain’t no damn robot. And I expect my man to cook for me often as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:53 PM
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I’ve had guys offer to cook for me and I’m just like there’s no way in hell I’m going anywhere near your apartment bro.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 09:52 PM
42

Make sure he pays for the abortion then block his ass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 08:35 AM
5

The sad thing is this will trap a lot of women 🤦🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:16 AM
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FDS says not to initiate dates and plans with men unless you’re in a long term committed relationship (even then it should be less than he does). You can show your interest in plenty of other ways that don’t require you to chase a man. OP could have been ghosted for any reason. The point is he could have communicated if he felt that way but he ghosted her. Stop making excuses for LVM.
/r/askFDS26/09/20 08:18 PM
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Men generally don’t go out of their way to treat women kindly unless they have some underlying motive which usually is trying to get in your pants. I only have male acquaintances now and I will never truly befriend a man again. I’ve seen it time and time again. They lowkey just want you the whole time and then they’ll get mad that you only ever saw them as a friend. Don’t confide in them ever. Treat them like a regular acquaintance and don’t provide them with tools to harm you later.
/r/askFDS26/09/20 06:39 PM
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Cuddling with a female friend is a huge fuck you to your face. He has absolutely no respect for you and he’s shown that by acting that way. Ask yourself do you really want to waste more time with a Scrote who thinks you’re a clown undeserving of respect? I surely wouldnt. He’s not a “feminist.” It’s almost impossible for most men to be real feminists. Run from men who self label as such. He’s dirty and watches porn and is a liar, yikes. END IT. You’ll feel even more stress free after. Trust me w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:36 PM
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Break up. Don’t have a discussion about it bc he’ll try to manipulate and justify the situation. Give a vague reason and just move on and cut contact completely if you can.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:32 PM
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Another point I feel is important is sometimes even without direct red flags we start to overthink about a guy. It takes up our mind deciding if we like the guy or you’re overthinking too much etc. But I’ve come to realize that a lot of the time overthinking is your gut in action. If you start wasting time overthinking about a guy and doubting him even without concrete proof, your gut is telling on him babe. I’d suggest running ASAP. This is advice to my future self as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:26 PM
36

Yes the charm is like a smokescreen for red flags. They’re sitting there but you can’t see shit bc the butterflies fog up your brain and mind. I just wanna know what the exact feeling is like when you meet the best guy for you. Like i don’t wanna be bored or feel nothing but I also don’t want a smokescreen of butterflies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:21 PM
24

I have to do this too. I write notes in my phone for me to reference back to when I start thinking I’ve made the wrong choice or considering forgiving a guy. I also send my friend voice notes of the things I’m concerned about with a particular guy and I go and relisten to them when I’ve finally reached a point of confusion on what to do. Then once I’ve made a decision to end things I make sure to write a letter to myself again in my notes addressing all the what if’s I know my overthinking anxio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 06:19 PM
7

He would be complaining if it was the reverse and the wife set this up for her husband. He would be saying his wife didn’t do enough for him and comparing them etc. Scrote. Do better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:47 AM
9

I just about SCREAMED. He sounds amazing. Good luck with the exams girl, you got this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:41 AM
77

Arguing with a dusty just makes you roll around in their shit. I’d just pay my half and block him immediately before the waiter even comes back with my receipt. Or you could just walk out, whatever feels right at the time lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:38 AM
40

I’m sorry but the tag you have killed me 😭😭😭 I hope you get off parole dear
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:21 PM
119

And it’s only accepted when men say it but if women say it, it’s worthless dog shit to them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 06:20 PM
23

Surprised she didn’t break up with him for the dirty ass living situation he presented to her. The post is just the icing on the cake.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 05:10 AM
85

Pickmeishas are straight up dangerous. I don’t advise them anymore, I take note and slowly fade away or just straight up cut them off. I only advise normal women who are just misguided.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 12:32 AM
62

If he didn’t plan something nice and get you a real gift, girl you better leave. I’m already sick of him after just reading this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:22 PM
31

A leaf blower is a regular gift he should give bc you needed it, NOT an anniversary or birthday gift wtf. We shouldn’t only receive gifts on major events but the ones we do receive on major events should be GREAT and something we WANT not a damn appliance tf. He sounds LV af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 07:21 PM
1

Girl, a coffee and a walk are both LV dates. He could say I would love to take you out sometime, can I have your number? But experience will teach you guys better than my advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 05:14 PM
32

Oh damn even the ones on the “relationship” oriented apps said that? Lol trash. I’m glad I gave up on OLD. I never had a single hookup when I used it but the dudes were trash for the most part. Probably bc they felt the way you described. I’ve had some guys ask me wtf I was even doing on dating apps as in I was too good to be on them and I was so confused. But since they think it’s for LVW who do sexwork now I guess I get it, even though it’s not right at all. Most women aren’t on apps for hooku…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:08 PM
2

Yep I’ve dated multiple men who fit that description and they were jerks so I ended things immediately. They did pay for everything and were pleasant to look at etc but that’s bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:25 PM
2

Run his pockets, sis!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:19 PM
7

My favorite flavor are the non violent emotional and verbal abusers 💕🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 09:17 PM
14

He wants to take you on a walk? Girl for that alone you should’ve declined imo. Otherwise good tips. But I’m not about to give my number to a man who said he would like to go for walks with me bc I’m not a dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:22 PM
13

There’s no such thing as bad press baby. I love when scrotes slander FDS, it makes people interested to see what’s up and then fall in love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 07:47 AM
93

Flip flops, I mean really?? And why not just tuck in the shirt into some nice dress pants. Atrocious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:17 PM
35

Sis, can we take him into a lab study his brain and make clones?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 08:00 PM
100

When men give birth that’s when I’ll go 50/50. Even if they split housework they ain’t getting a penny out of me. His money is our money and my money is my money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 07:56 PM
15

I HATE those femininity channels that basically tell you to lay down and get ran over by men. I only like the channels about feminine fashion. I tried watching Chloes channel that was recommended on here and she said if you have feminist views you can’t be feminine. Lol tf? And that you cant be appealing to HVM past 35. I mean I’m in my early twenties and I found that ridiculous. I know I’ll be stunting like many other women once I reach my thirties. I’m supremely feminine and my assertive and o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 11:13 PM
11

I’m sorry to hear that love. Truly. I recognize the amount of strength and willpower it takes to end a relationship with someone you love. You’re gonna feel a lot of pain and you’ll probably cry a lot and that’s okay. It’s human and it’s a testimony to how much of a loving person you are. It’ll take time to heal from this but you will heal. Just make sure you don’t feel weak or lesser than because you have these feelings or experience a great deal of grief. It’s normal. You’re strong for choosin…
/r/askFDS19/09/20 03:52 AM
11

You can only lead a horse to the water, you can’t make them drink it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 06:56 PM
10

the Fox and the grapes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:40 PM
7

It will definitely scare me if I ever experience it again. But also I don’t like feeling nothing either. I wonder how it’ll feel to meet the one for you. Would it be like a grounded sort of butterfly feeling. Or would it be boring. I hope it’s not boring but I also don’t wanna go crazy for a guy either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 12:48 AM
33

Lol I’m sure she’d be pissed if her friends got her something from the dollar store or a chicken nugget for her birthday but somehow it’s acceptable for a man to give you a piece of crap for a symbol of love and commitment. Make it make sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 05:13 PM
7

Maybe I made it seem easy in my post. But although I did cut it off that soon I went through insane emotional turmoil for the next month or two. He gaslit the fuck out of me and even though I stood up for myself when he did, it still hurt me incredibly that someone could be so cruel. Also didn’t help that he was a pretty cool person in all aspects except for the emotional avoidant shit. Situations like this will probably always hurt us and make us cry or give us a hard time. But what’s important…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:23 PM
15

I’m so happy for you OP. I honestly can barely believe that a man like this exists. Praying he remains this way and only improves down the line!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:17 PM
48

I’ve heard tons of women say that men have done this to them. Why is that? Why would they take the route of becoming mean instead of simply ending it. Scrote logic baffles me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 03:08 PM
16

Sis did you watch the entire replay of what happened between me and this jerk last year 😭 It was one of the few times I felt the anxious attachment in me come out. I’m typically secure but holy shit the avoidant in him that popped up a few months in hit me like a truck. Thankfully it took me just a week to pull the plug with him once he pulled the bait and switch. Ngl it took me another month or two to get past it fully but I NEVER want to feel that way again. And I did feel extreme butterflies …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 12:01 AM
7

And if you feel like having a weapon would make you sleep better, I would try that as well. But it’s up to you, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:57 PM
65

My ex friend sent me an email (lmao such a big libfem thing to do). She basically hates that I believe in real feminism and don’t engage or pander to the bullshit delusion that libfems spew. I skimmed her email and just started laughing. It was so ridiculous I just couldn’t. She was a friend for 10+ years. Now she’s effectively removed from my life. The tone of her email was incredibly patronizing and insulting. And frankly, I would’ve had trouble ending this friendship before FDS. But I literal…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:09 PM
35

If my man ever filmed doing something like this for social media clout I’d be so cringed out. I wouldn’t mind a video of his proposal or our engagement or wedding but this...smells off to me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 06:35 AM
41

Yeah like wtf is he gonna think if she gets pregnant or chronically ill. What if she loses her hair due to hormonal issues? Then he’s gonna discard her. He sounds absolutely vile. This post is yet another reason why I fear falling in love with men. They’re not worth it 99% of the time.
/r/askFDS16/09/20 06:01 AM
9

This 👏🏼
/r/askFDS16/09/20 05:59 AM
38

It doesn’t matter if he’s a bad texter or not. Clearly you want a man who communicates more in general. So he’s probably not the one for you sis. There’s plenty of men who will text you just fine and the ones really interested in you will want to call you at least once a day, even if it’s a short call to check in.
/r/askFDS16/09/20 05:55 AM
3

👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 03:33 AM
13

This is like the handmaidens whole storyline lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 04:25 AM
26

Well he didn’t lie. He’s a 20/80 kinda guy, she pays way more than him. He’s a gold digger scrote who leaches off of naive women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:11 PM
2

So he just wants to be the first to get the chance to ruin a young naive girl. Wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:51 AM
27

Hiking is a great way to get kidnapped and murdered by a Scrote. Don’t do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 01:50 AM
25

Wtf did I just read. That’s so disgusting. Either she’s super unobservant or he’s a grade A psychopath and amazing actor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 05:04 AM
29

There’s no such thing as too busy for a man who truly values you, as demonstrated above
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:52 PM
5

They don’t stop there. I’ve had several guys reverse their car and try to follow me while I was out walking/jogging and ignored their catcalls/beeps the first time around. It’s frightening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:48 PM
11

لا
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 04:45 PM
11

Is this some sick way of asserting dominance over people? By fucking pissing on the property that they’re paying their filthy asses to work on. Scrotes truly are the weakest link.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 01:28 PM
9

God this stings to read
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:35 AM
137

Men are literally obsessed with the idea of being called a simp. They’ll shit on you if it means their boys won’t call them a simp. It’s disturbing. Apparently women don’t deserve love and great effort.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:31 AM
19

They’re more concerned that she gets guys to be kind and do favors for her through flirting than the actual fact that grown men are pursuing a CHILD. I’m sick. She seems to hold her own. Big up to her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 04:25 PM
2

Wtf is a grown ass man doing messaging a teen. Do yourself a favor and Leave the trash where it belongs pls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 07:12 AM
2

Me too please! I’d love an app like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:47 AM
22

Deep voices make me tremble 💦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:31 AM
21

I didn’t even know those existed tbh lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:27 AM
7

EYE-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:27 AM
128

Lord I want to have a crygasm 😩😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:21 AM
40

Jeez, they have crazy eyes. The type to make you run the other direction after an initial glance. And people still try to convince us we can’t tell a lot about someone based on their eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:20 PM
54

Tinder is meant to be an app for whatever you personally seek. Whether it’s a hook up or relationship. I tried several dating apps in the past and Tinder was the main one I found relationship minded or friendly guys on (after tons of sifting through garbage 🙄) All dating apps suck. But Tinder was the best one of the bunch imo. And I never was on there for a hook up 🤷🏻‍♀️ I advise against using any after my experiences. It’s not worth being subjected to interact with the most NVM/LVM just for a 1…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 10:18 PM
30

Lmao right. I don’t normally envision myself cooking a big meal for a man bc for why? but this man deserves it 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:39 PM
9

!! This energy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:31 PM
39

You honored yourself by walking away and cutting contact. It’s completely normal to feel hurt or grieve a bond with a man. You’re not weak, you’re human. What’s important is you have the self respect and strength to choose you in the end. Good job!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 08:32 PM
20

It’s a shame bc I love her sound but the lyrics are🤢🤮 also I’m not surprised, she publicly posts her man choking her and shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 07:49 PM
2

Who needs birth control when you have posts like this to do the job just fine?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:46 PM
45

Be ready and willing to leave at any point should they disrespect or change up on you. Meaning 1 day in, months in, or even years in. You are your first priority.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:39 PM
33

Every time I think I’ve met the dumbest person alive, alas Reddit proves otherwise. Stupid takes itself out. I mean fucking hell. How is this not straight forward?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 09:38 PM
3

I wrote a comment once on why I didn’t like “why men love bitches” and I totally agree with you. Spot on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:26 PM
16

You stand up for yourself by breaking up with him and blocking him. Or simply blocking. You’ve tried the communication route. He made a choice to disrespect you, choices have consequences. I’m sure if you were shitting on him he would have no qualms getting rid of you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:47 PM
53

The sickest joke of all is they spent centuries trying to convince us it is women who are inherently evil and initiated sin on earth lmfao Anyone with a single brain cell can tell that’s clearly not the case.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:47 PM
126

This gives me the vibes of when my mom would praise my brother for cleaning a single dish but would yell at me for simply existing ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:44 PM
95

To be clear, you should never send nudes ever. Not even to your husband. That shit is forever on the internet and can/will be used against you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:30 AM
100

I had a dude ask me for my snapchat 5 minutes into our convo bc he wanted to make sure I wasn’t a catfish. He was 27, why tf is a grown man on Snapchat is my question..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:35 AM
141

I’m buying those items with his card bc I’m a generous woman 💁🏻‍♀️🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 12:34 AM
3

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 08:00 PM
6

This convo made me bust out laughing 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 07:47 PM
52

That’s an improvement. However since I don’t know your financial details I can’t exactly praise this. I think in most circumstances men should be providers meaning they pay for all the bills period. Especially if they’re making more, no question about that. I wonder if/when you have your first kid, your husband will carry the next pregnancy 🤔 isn’t that what splitting is? Why do women have to split the main obligation that falls on the men, smells unfair to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:48 AM
20

They can’t even do that nowadays. These grown men somehow made it through college not learning basic grammar. I can’t. I literally ghost dudes who write to me with messed up grammar. Immediate turn off 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:38 AM
25

LVW degenerate pickmes are a plague. They will defend pedophiles and rapists till their last breath. I don’t think I’ve even seen men defend pedophiles and rapists as much as these nasty excuses for women. I saw the standwithsophie video on YouTube and the 9 year old girl told her grandmother that her moms bf molests her (and her mom watches her bf molest her) and the grandmother didn’t even care. I’m so outraged. There’s tons of stories of aunts and mothers hiding their pedophile brothers or so…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:00 AM
39

Ugh yes they want to pimp out these girls and have no respect for them. This is a way they can make money with zero effort. The girl will buy them gifts and pay for dates and bills using OF money. Liberal feminism is a disease. Holy fuck. Get away from these degenerates fr.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 11:47 PM
12

I don’t see the benefit of this relationship. If you don’t want a man with kids as your responsibility why waste time with him? Because if you ever do get married, your kids will become part of his responsibility and vice versa right? And he’s already trying to make decisions about your investments and properties without any real commitment. This whole arrangement is off to me. I’d end it Btw sounds like you’re living your best life! FDS has so many successful power move making women, I love it.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:46 PM
134

OP, I remember hearing frightening statistics that basically state from the FIRST shove or sign of physical aggression from a man, your chances of being murdered by them increases a shit ton. Please find a safe way to leave immediately and never see this sicko again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:19 PM
2

I once went on a date I didn’t want to go on and it was a waste of time. Don’t go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:53 PM
7

Omg this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:52 PM
52

Even when they’re physically good looking I don’t feel anything towards them anymore. I’m actually happy I’m like this now. It prevents crushes etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:20 PM
28

This is so true. I’ve seen male friends and acquaintances do this time after time. It’s exhausting to be a bystander. That’s why I distanced myself from most of them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 08:55 AM
3

I’m turned off just reading that. Cringe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:32 AM
24

What’s the line between paranoia and gut feeling...I’m so tired fam It seems like we just can never trust anyone tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 06:25 AM
43

I think volunteering is a green flag as long as it isn’t simply for some requirement for undergrad or grad school. Like if someone goes out of their way to volunteer with no direct benefits, that’s a great sign of character
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:26 PM
15

I always end up dating engineers oddly enough. They’re better than most dudes but still were LVM. But I’m sure there’s HVM engineers out there too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 07:24 PM
7

I’m sorry for your loss. You have experienced a love so rare, few women can say the same. Your husband truly knew what it means to be a man: honoring and protecting your wife and family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 07:18 AM
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American women are the pickme queens in my perception. I have never seen a group of women so bent on not only splitting the bills or paying ALL of them, but ALSO doing most or ALL of the domestic labor. At least other pickmes have the man provide or if they split the man does half the domestic labor or they’ll leave. I think it’s American pop culture and media that have poisoned the world regarding relationship dynamics. I’m starting to see men from other cultures thinking this splitting shit is…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:34 AM
38

God forbid the men in my culture start becoming this disgusting, cheap, and plain greedy. This isn’t a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:58 PM
42

That’s the opposite of equitable. He makes so much more than her so him paying for the entire rent is equity. Especially considering she probably does more domestic labor by default, which is almost always the case. Why are people so brainwashed into thinking women must pay to contribute or to be equitable in a relationship. Especially when the man makes so much more money. Perhaps if they both made 35,000 sure we can discuss how difficult it would be for him to pay for things alone but come on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 05:56 PM
13

Ohh I see where you’re coming from. I think so many women here have been brutally lied to and manipulated by several NVM that they tend to assume men are always at fault. I admit, at my most frustrated moments I definitely sway towards defending women and assuming the man in the situation is lying bc I’ve seen men brazenly lie so much for no reason. But it is important to recenter and realize that many people in general ain’t shit in this world lol. I’ve had a few bad experiences with toxic fema…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:36 PM
32

Damn really? I’ve always seen people on here encourage women to cut off toxic friendships, whether it’s a female or male friend- especially pickmeishas and LVW who drag you down. I’d prefer a HVM company over a nasty woman. It’s about low value vs high value in my eyes, male or female. But since this is a dating sub mainly for straight women, we usually focus on the abundance of toxic men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:25 PM
3

I haven’t been in that situation, but I want you to know I’m very proud of you. It takes a lot of inner strength to make tough life decisions, especially ones involving your heart and romantic life. If you can, try to reframe it as a fresh start to a new, better chapter of your life. I’m certainly happy you’ll be free and can focus your energy on you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 08:27 PM
6

My anger slowly became lack of hope and acceptance. I totally understand the rage you feel as soon as the blinders come off. I just keep telling myself what’s the point of being angry? It’s like trying to spite someone else by punching your own self in the face. This isn’t advice really but just how I try to deal with the reality. Maybe try to take breaks from reading or thinking about the shitty things men do to women will help. When you feel the anger come on try to watch a video or play music…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:50 PM
19

Guys think this sub is for women who want simps and to see just how far we can disrespect a man in a relationship. Genuinely baffled...I’ve personally never seen that advocated for here. I think most people would call out a poster for being abusive or nasty to their partner. All I’ve seen on here is women trying to find good men who actually prove their love with actions and effort rather than manipulation via empty words and promises.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 04:10 PM
7

Where was this comment made?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 07:25 AM
10

I’d rather sweep the ocean
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:56 PM
10

Your current husband sounds like a major upgrade. It’s sad tho, how basic decency that women provide is shocking to see from men. I’m so happy for you now and yet I feel sad that it’s so rare that it’s somehow praiseworthy. You deserved it the first time around. Thanks for taking the time to respond! And wishing your marriage continues to improve
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:33 PM
19

I literally want to physically gag when I see men wear basketball shorts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:18 PM
64

Most couples literally look like a bratz glam doll walking around with mr potato head
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:08 PM
12

Do you mind telling us the main ways in which the two men differed? Especially how your husband treats you now? I would appreciate it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:07 PM
18

The gentleman you met was his representative, this is the real him. Move on, luv. Block and delete time. I didn’t even have to read your post besides the title bc I’ve experienced it in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 06:00 PM
71

Men have literally told me that bc they don’t express their feelings to their male friends of decades even, they just pour it all out onto the women they date. You know bc women only exist to be the receiving end of trauma including sucking up their trauma but we don’t deserve good things apparently. They hate us but they would be absolutely nothing but dead men walking without women. We are a blessing 99% of them do not deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:57 PM
37

Why do men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:54 PM
3

I think at this point most men are covert or blatant narcs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 07:38 AM
7

OMGGGGG this is way too relatable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 05:29 AM
34

He’s looking for a sugar mama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:32 PM
18

No man with any decency would even mention that. It’s a given that the man pays.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:30 PM
50

Right. Throughout history men only pursue one woman at a time while she allows multiple men to court her. Even with arranged marriages, the woman meets several men in a week or months or years to single out who she likes best and each dude can only pursue one woman at a time until she either chooses to accept or deny a proposal. I think it’s natural for women to date multiple men and protect themselves whilst men should focus on one woman to prove his worth to her. Meaning he needs to pay up in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:28 PM
100

Lmfao wow a scrotes gotta scrote. I’m incredibly proud of this strong and intelligent young woman. Good for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 07:22 PM
9

Why do women voluntarily embarrass themselves all the time, I just...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:54 PM
5

I feel like men should even pay for the grooming we do. But Idk how to even approach getting them to do it, I feel like I’d just break up if a man doesn’t end up offering to pay for my nails and other stuff on his own. Or take you shopping or randomly send you money without you asking for it. It’s the least they can do. I’ve heard of men buying their gf a car (used If they’re not rich which is fine) and other stuff just to make sure the woman they love is taken care of and doesn’t have to stress…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 05:50 PM
12

I’d bet my life he wouldn’t feel selfish and would feel entitled to women doing that and more for him. What an assface jerkwad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 03:21 AM
2

I’m surprised bc I guess I’ve only ever seen old members denounce it, I guess I just didn’t come across those debates
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:30 PM
1

Hmm, ever since I’ve been here I’ve seen most people discourage FWB. I guess just don’t do it if you know you get emotionally attached and don’t give them relationship or husband benefits. But that kinda is contradictory to me... eh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 08:29 PM
8

It’s against my religion to ask about someone’s sexual past. And it’s encouraged actually for women to lie to protect themselves if need be, because no one should be asking to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:23 PM
9

FDS doesn’t support things like FWB or f buddies that’s why it’s not discussed much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:14 PM
31

There’s a difference between a boundary and limitation vs insulting female genitalia to excuse their dislike of cunnilingus. And I’m addressing men who expect oral but think it’s disgusting to reciprocate and will go out of their way to insult and demean women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 04:19 AM
5

What is “low trust” ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:04 AM
87

Dudes are pretty vocal about this even when you’re not dating or romantically involved with them. Like some dudes will casually say this in conversation. I would never let a dick near me until I was eaten out. And I’m trying to hold off until marriage. But if I do anything before marriage I’ll let a guy eat me out as a test for sexual compatibility lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:25 AM
19

Im sorry luv, they exist, truly!! Just keep dodging the scrotes and you’ll find one eventually.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:07 AM
78

Masculine men would love to be near and kiss on every inch of a woman’s body. Even if he doesn’t have a foot fetish, if sucking your toes turned you on- they would do it. Honestly only feminine dudes or guys who give off gay vibes find eating pussy disgusting in my observations. I think we’re getting on to something here...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 12:06 AM
17

You phrased it perfectly. It’s playing on their already prevalent homophobia.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:50 PM
42

It is a juvenile joke lol. I’d probably never do this tbh, I’m a pretty hasty blocker. But I saw a thing on tiktok about calling men weird for doing bad things and them getting offended which inspired this post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:49 PM
13

I don’t see how it is, it’s a joke about how they don’t like our genitalia just like how gay men don’t since they’re simply not attracted to women. Them taking it as an insult is more of an added effect if anything. But that’s my perception
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:47 PM
68

Truly they’ve created an eternal pit of endless depravity. I’m almost impressed. The bar indeed goes lower than you can humanly comprehend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:22 PM
323

I’d simply have to take my kidney back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:11 PM
16

Because some don’t want women to be clued in so they’re distractors. Whilst others actually are telling the truth, meaning no BODT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 09:39 PM
52

You’ve pretty much confirmed what I’ve been thinking. Once I have enough money and the career I want, I’ll be so fulfilled in life with travel and work and pampering myself that I’ll become so disinterested in men. They’d truly have to impress me to a whole different level for me to even want to engage with them. Meaning looks, character, personality etc. I find that the worse my situation is, I crave for companionship more bc I lack options in other aspects of life. However, I fight the urge an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:46 AM
23

Hun you need to leave him immediately. I looked through your post history and saw the comments on your r/relationships post. If everyone there told you there’s no choice but to leave, what would you expect from FDS? We’re usually harsher than average Reddit, so whatever he did to you must be so obscene I can’t imagine. I couldn’t see the details of your post bc it was removed but the commentary from other users was enough.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 05:36 AM
170

I’ve turned down loads of attractive men for being creepy so this idea makes me laugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 04:18 AM
18

Just because women with standards want their meal paid for doesn’t mean we’re out looking for a free meal. You clearly haven’t read the handbook. We can all perfectly well afford our own meals, if you’d like the reasoning as to why men should pay check the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:24 PM
1

Following
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 05:50 PM
61

Probably because she gets left with the cooking and cleaning when they do come over. What a petulant little scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:21 AM
6

If I get left on read for over a day I’m pretty much blocking them. Unless it was a natural end of a conversation then ehh. Men who like you simply won’t go more than a day without getting back to you. They’re afraid you’ll lose interest and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:29 AM
10

They do take note if you split or pay in full. They mark you as a dumb doormat they played. And boy are they excited to see just how much further they can demean you and what more they can rinse out of you. They’re predators. (Not an attack on you, but them, this is how they think)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:53 PM
12

This isn’t all that helpful but I have a spidey sense for big dick energy. Some guys have that swag and that air, plus the chemistry you feel with them. I think women don’t trust their intuition enough. I don’t want to have sex until marriage but I feel like I just get that sense for some reason. Think back on the guys you’ve been with who have been good vs bad at sex and reflect on how they acted and their behavioral patterns, how did you feel around them? Etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:53 AM
9

Did your ex husband change in the middle of your marriage? It always scares me to think they will change up after so many years. Or were you just tolerating his crap and overlooking red flags from the start bc society conditioned you that way? (As it has most of us to some degree or another)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:40 AM
55

This is why blocking them is the best route. It hurts them the most and saves you the wasted energy and time :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:29 PM
6

Do NOT sign any more papers, back out of that entirely. Do NOT marry this man. Break up. Your sexual past in no way affects your inherent value. That’s internalized misogyny afflicting you my dear. Don’t tell men your sexual history. Lie and say you’re a Virgin if you’d like. They lie all the time. Stop feeling like you owe it to these men to tell them everything. Omit or just lie. Seriously
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 08:08 AM
12

Wtf. You know I’ve always felt unease about OLD ever since I realized guys screenshot your pics and they can lie on you even if you never even spoke to them a day in your life. I regret ever being on those apps now. That’s extremely frightening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 07:32 AM
1

I’m honestly so happy for you and hope that he’s truly HV. Do you have any tips for how you found and guided the relationship with him? And did you have to hint at this or how did he proposition to buy you clothes. I would accept but I would never ask right out bc that’s not classy imo. Edit: oops just saw your other comment with the details lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 06:17 AM
71

Not to attack you but next time don’t tell dudes like this that’s your reason. Now he’s going to lie about having a child to the next woman :( that’s not your fault ofc. He shouldn’t lie, but I also tend to avoid direct reasons with guys bc I know how they work. Instead of finding a woman who likes X about them, they deceive unsuspecting women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:38 AM
14

Wait, what is deepfakes?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:30 AM
125

And the pickmeishas are the ones applauding him in the comments. Megan had to turn her comments off. I hate doormat women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 04:26 AM
57

This is it, except id replace romantic rejection with sexual rejection. Simply bc men aren’t interested in romance most of the time. They get angry at doing friendly things in a friendship with a woman who clearly stated they’re friends. Then they want sympathy for her not sucking his dick as his friend, instead she confides in him and treats him like a friend. SHOCKER. But they see this as her using them..and torturing them...and people actually legitimately sympathize with them for this. Heter…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 11:00 PM
4

That’s awesome! I’ve only had guys pay for dates (Bare minimum, and some even complain about prices at midrange locations??) I honestly dream of finding a man who actually buys me things like this. Why are most men so cheap :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:38 PM
30

If they say they’re 5’9 they’re 5’5. If they say they’re 6ft they’re 5’9/5’10. It’s a science at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:48 PM
30

It’s funny how it’s like this despite all of the terrible ones where they justify mens bullshit. Imagine if they actually made correct judgments for those times. I’m sure women would make up 5 total casesً of YTA.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:43 PM
99

Men tend to cheat on their wives with nannies. It’s actually disturbing how common it is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 04:24 AM
22

Girl, Jim was a dusty remember how dirty he was in philly bc Pam wasn’t cleaning up after him? Pam is a pickmeisha doormat too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:33 AM
9

Make sure you go to grad school far away from your parents then. My parents are religious and have conservative values but they’re fine with me moving out at any point once I can afford to or for grad school, whichever comes first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 12:17 AM
16

I can relate. My ex would get me snacks and drinks I liked randomly as small gifts. And he’d get me gift cards to sephora. Those are all gifts that won’t arouse suspicion from your family. I think you should clearly and firmly express that although you appreciate the gesture, you’d prefer he didn’t get you flowers and instead something to your liking that you can also take home. Observe his response to this and take note of it. If he is in any way rude or not understanding or willing to adjust t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 10:57 PM
51

Not even thinking about dating until we can go to restaurants and nice places again without masks etc. I’m not risking my health or my family’s health to meet LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:09 AM
52

“Not looking for anything serious, just a wife or something”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 05:08 AM
39

So he has a pet dog?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 04:27 AM
57

I’m so disgusted. It’s extremely obvious he sees her as a worthless sex doll. I sincerely hope she finds her self respect and esteem and runs for the hills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:19 AM
4

This is a mess and you came across badly. Let’s not pretend like you were moral here. Y’all both trashy for this. He’s more trashy bc he owed her loyalty but you’re trashy too because you KNEW he had a gf. You should’ve declined and blocked from the moment you knew he was in a relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 10:23 PM
6

Thank you for the reminder. Genuinely
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 01:35 AM
13

Do not initiate this, OP. You may choose to accept if he initiates but I repeat do NOT initiate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 12:00 AM
2

Hmm. That’s tough bc that falls into benefit of the doubt category and tbh I’ve had no luck giving men the benefit of the doubt when they don’t act right. There’s a small chance he hasn’t rescheduled yet bc he’s not sure what would be a good time. But there’s also a big chance he just doesn’t prioritize you tbh. So I’d detach completely and if you feel like going out with him you can but tread very carefully and absolutely no room for excuses if anything weird happens again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:51 PM
56

She said son but the response is about a girl? Wat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:19 PM
3

I feel like there are other ways to know that. And if I really was curious I’d ask him to show me his place on FaceTime or I’d visit with a friend or very briefly. I can tell if a guy is hygienic by being in his car. Also the way he dresses and grooms himself. Their personality type and character reveal that as well. I’ve never dated a dirty man before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:26 PM
13

Girl, read the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 08:21 AM
3

I’m actually a Libra! It’s funny how we had the same experience lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:44 AM
11

Not alone but that’s bc I don’t want to be tempted to have sex. But if you are fine having sex in a relationship then at least wait 6 months to see if he’s truly invested in you. Ideally I’d want to be engaged between 1-2 years. Married by 3 years max.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 07:43 AM
44

Firstly, I’m proud of you. You left when he made you uncomfortable and disrespected you. That’s more than most women bc of the socialization to appease men at our own expense. Secondly, next time don’t ever go to their apartment or a private space until you’re deep into the relationship. I am not going to unless I’m engaged/married personally. Dude is big mad. And he can fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 03:28 AM
11

I see nothing wrong with giving a bit of direction once they’ve already taken the initiative. The line you came up with sounds fine to me. And I recommend driving or taking an uber until you know a man well enough for him to pick you up. The key is he travels more than you but if there isn’t a place you want to visit next to you then I don’t see what’s wrong with that unless you’re talking about driving to HIM. That’s a no no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:56 PM
3

Dating for 8 years before marriage 😳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:46 PM
1

Be glad that it was 3 years and not 5 or 7 or 10. Be proud that you actually left bc some people stay forever. Any more time you spend regretting the time you wasted with him, is simply more time wasted. Now your time is for you and leveling up! Keep going!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:38 PM
24

You’ve pretty much explained exactly why I refuse to OLD anymore. I almost never actually meet people off of there. I’ve had a few dates when I would use it on and off and majority were nightmares. I had two decent dates out of it and they still sucked but they seemed good bc in comparison they did better than the others. And the only reason I did it was after I graduated uni and didn’t really naturally meet guys etc. Online dating also gave me so much anxiety bc guys can seem normal online and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:27 PM
4

He didn’t give you an explicit reason. And he didn’t set up an alternative. Block. I only give a pass if something dramatic happens. (Eg. car accident, illness, death of loved one) but it has to be realistic and he must profusely apologize and ask me if I’d be so kind as to accept a later date. If he’s even slightly nonchalant about canceling that means he’s playing you like a fiddle and doesn’t really care that much if your opinion of him sours bc of the cancellation. Men who want you will be a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 09:05 PM
9

I thought I would never be able to date again after my first love but i was totally wrong. I completely avoided dating men for 8 months post our breakup and allowed myself to completely feel through the pain and go through the stages of grief. The key to getting over someone is to accept the pain and let the healing happen over time. When you brush the pain aside and act like it didn’t happen or refuse to fully acknowledge it, it’ll never go away entirely. So feel through it as much as possible …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:58 PM
5

I attract way too many Scorpio men and they’re insane every single time. I don’t like Capricorn men they’re boring AF. And cancer men are too feminine for me. The worst guy I’ve dated was an Aquarius but he was also the best guy I dated. Adventurous and fun like me but emotionally distant and stunted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:20 PM
1

Triggered. They’re so fun tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 08:19 PM
15

willing to bet this man would pay more for a PlayStation than a wedding ring
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:20 AM
38

It’s also biological to take a shit and yet we somehow manage to do so in the privacy of bathrooms rather than when the urge hits us and popping a squat in the middle of the street :) Point being, we have a conscience and a brain that sets us apart from wild animals. Learn to use it scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 12:01 AM
10

We love to see it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:56 PM
45

Yas queen! You’re where I wanna be rn. I can’t wait to move out on my own, I just have to be patient and push through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:55 PM
15

I had a guy tell me he’s rare and an alpha bc he wants to provide for his wife and children...like sir that’s bare minimum. Sheesh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 07:52 AM
39

Women test men to see if they’re potential abusers, men test (rather manipulate) women to see how much they can abuse or take advantage of them. To them being naive and kind hearted is being a “ho.” Or her shockingly having sexual desires as well somehow makes her the dirty and uncouth one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:37 PM
61

He wants you to say you want to go to dinner so that he can say you invited him so you should pay :) I know a scrote tactic when I see one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:00 PM
17

You’re not being too sensitive. What you should do is make it clear you’re not comfortable with that statement and absolutely do not want to be nicknamed cardi. That’s enough for me to distance myself from a dude. Talking about sex appeal and comparing me to some random celebrity. Yuck. I’m turned off just reading that. If you still want to sus him out, clearly tell him what I stated initially and see how he reacts and treats you moving forward. If he displays any other sign I’d drop him permane…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:32 AM
6

If you go will it put him in jail? Because if he’s imprisoned you’ll be safer since he won’t be on the loose to stalk or attack you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 07:19 AM
1

Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 05:00 AM
1

Lol I guess I’m not a woman then 👽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:07 AM
6

Asks for permission to hug before even meeting you for the first time... Why didn’t he just ask to hug after y’all got to meet each other. It’s weird bc what if you change your mind after the fact. What if you found him creepy once you met but already said yes to a hug. That’s just odd, and tells me he lacks social skills. And it gives me weird vibes. Idk if it’s just me but..I’d be creeped out just at that. Trust your gut and keep being skeptical. Don’t let your guard even an inch down until 6 …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:03 AM
21

The minute I catch a whiff of a rude trashy MIL I’m leaving. Bc she will catch a fade with that mouth. On God. Absolutely not. I refuse to allow anyone to bring toxicity into my life. Also why is that bum having his parents pay, he doesn’t have his own damn money? Fuck no this is a mess
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 02:48 AM
8

Uh is it not possible to have police remove him immediately for trespassing? Idk how this all works but I’d be horrified as to the damage or theft he may do now that you’re not in the house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 01:07 AM
2

If you’ve been going on dates for a while, maybe he assumed you’re both set on the time and location? This needs more context tbh, like when did you last speak about the plans? Based on what you’ve said alone it could be taken either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 11:00 PM
19

This is a huge red flag. If I can’t look into a man’s eyes I KNOW he ain’t good news. Some people have warm kind eyes and some have dark empty ones. As much as people like to mock it, I truly believe someone’s eyes gives you a small glimpse into their soul.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 12:30 AM
10

Basically the only way to weed them out is to stand the test of time. That’s why we always reiterate that just Bc they seem HV for a few months doesn’t mean they actually are. Plenty can put up a good act for up to 6 months. I think the facade falls apart towards a year. I’m not claiming any man as HV until at least a year mark. Anything before that could very well be an act.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:30 PM
9

So many people are getting engaged during this pandemic. And not private engagements, they’re having gatherings in sites where corona rates are increasing... Anyways, I always wonder, should I be happy for them or is it going to be another miserable marriage that will end in divorce within 2-5 years time like the last set of marriages I’ve witnessed. Now that I see everything through an FDS lens, it becomes even more difficult to actually be happy for people when they get married. I think...are …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 10:40 PM
24

Guys this is a male troll account stop commenting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:27 AM
79

I genuinely don’t know where these men roam. I can’t even imagine a man being so thoughtful and sweet like this smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 06:03 PM
33

Why did he post a picture of Gollum on his dating profile? I guess he really likes LTR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:33 AM
58

Lmao my friend told me tequila goes straight to her clit 💀 I died
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 10:55 PM
3

Ah, perfect. That way they can rape women forced to join the service as well as indigenous little girls. More variety for them. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 07:20 AM
50

So you could have simply asked for my wig and I would’ve graciously handed it over. No need to snatch pls 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 11:06 PM
2

Just cutting the transportation costs with uber and the subway/train really saved my pockets. Not dating is awesome 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 10:53 PM
141

He’ll use this as his false victim story about how women are bitches. That’s why I find it incredibly hard to ever believe sob stories by men, almost always they lie about what THEY did to deserve said treatment. Like oh your ex was crazy? OHH but you forgot to mention you spent months gaslighting and manipulating her and she finally caught you red handed cheating. Hm. Sounds about right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 05:25 PM
8

Aw I’m happy for you! Where did you find this guy? I just like to poll and see if women tend to find HVM irl more so than online
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 08:09 PM
29

How can this dude (25m) not know the difference between weather/whether, your/you’re, and their/they’re/there. Claims to have a whole degree, something isn’t adding up here 🧐 I totally get it for immigrants or foreigners who learn English as a second or third + language. But this guy was born and raised in the us. I can’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:36 AM
118

Sadly plenty of women have fallen for fake gym plan schemes. Like I’ve had women approach me asking how I built my booty at the gym and I had to tell them that’s bc my genes distribute my fat and muscle to my butt. It can be slightly grown, but mainly toned at the gym. I’ve always had a big butt. You can’t go from flat pancake to bubble booty unless you get a BBL which is what all these lying gym influencers do most of the time!! Like don’t people see morbidly obese women with flat butts, that’s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 01:08 AM
8

https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/huvzj5/respect_yourself_first_queens_thank_you_fds/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf This other FDS poster left her husband for a few months and her husband did a 180. It’s not likely yours will too but I’d consult her for advice if you want to attempt ONCE to change the dynamic. Do not try more than once. If he doesn’t fix up, divorce is the only option left.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:30 PM
3

Sometimes I just sit there and think...wow if a woman was spoiled to the extent men constantly are, people would throw a fucking fit. They would be tying themselves to the cross to ensure women never received such good treatment. But this is the norm for men lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:30 AM
5

Not any more common than with non muslim men in my experiences. You’ll find men are relatively similar across cultures and religions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:17 AM
67

Every time a guy tried a red pill tactic on me they got blocked with the swiftness. There’s no way in hell any woman with an inkling of self esteem and attractiveness would fall for that crap. It’s laughable. The delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 08:04 AM
118

He could have just said: I really liked your bio, it was creative and well thought out! Instead he pits you against other women. Typical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:16 AM
31

I noticed that since FDS I’ve become even harsher towards men who fit my type to a T. I let my judgement get clouded the last time I was with my type, I refuse to repeat that mistake!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:14 AM
14

I think in that case he definitely should tell you the truth, if he had lied that would be a glaring red flag. He canceled for an important reason (the only acceptable reasons for canceling are: illness, accident, or death). He also informed you about his health history so you have information necessary to decide if you’d like to risk being with someone chronically ill or potentially chronically ill. Other than that, just keep vetting over time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:12 AM
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OMG I love it! But keep on your toes sis. Some men can play the charming part really really well. Keep an eye out and be observant and don’t undermine red flags bc of the gifts you’ve received. Remain vigilant but enjoy the good times ofc. I wouldn’t let my guard down an inch until at least 1-2 years (engagement and wedding time). Then I’d let my guard down to like 75% whilst married and every 5 years I’d lower it a notch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:08 AM
78

Because men aren’t torn apart for posting ugly ass pictures online. A woman will have one flaw in a pic and some morbidly obese neckbeard will have they audacity to insult her and spread the pic online pointing out one flaw. So women hyper focus on being perfect while plenty of men skate along being ugly and gross as per usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 05:04 AM
4

Guy #2 will be like “girls don’t like nice guys or to be complimented or spoiled they just want to be raped and abused by fuck boys” because you didn’t respond to him. He will never realize how fucking weird it is to message someone like that. Somethings not quite right in the brain department and clearly no social skills when they send messages like that. Holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:58 PM
86

Her own brother is a pedo and she supported him. This is no surprise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:42 PM
20

Men wouldn’t date bald women so I reserve my pity for other things.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:05 AM
56

If he wasn’t cheating he would have simply told his wife. I don’t buy it. Just because it’s a man doesn’t mean the husband isn’t getting some 🍆 on the side
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:53 PM
13

A man can provide for you in a marriage whilst you still make your own income. That’s what I plan to do. I’ll always have my own source of income but I expect my husband to foot the bills, as it’s my culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:05 PM
20

“My Greetings/regards to the girl/daughter of my country... how is everything?” And “What a sweet surprise this is (you are)” It makes more sense in Arabic lol but here’s the rough translations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:14 PM
13

Lol certain men would deem a cow with colored eyes and a blonde wig more beautiful than a Kim K lookalike. I wouldn’t take it personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:37 PM
5

I can translate if you’d like lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:35 PM
20

Instead of putting energy and effort into healing his marriage and treating his wife extremely well, he wants to dedicate that to cheating. Wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:33 PM
81

He couldn’t say “daughter,” I-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:31 PM
17

I’d say cut the porn completely and as long as sex is focused on both of your pleasure equally then you’d have a healthy sex life. Don’t do anything you feel pressured to do or that harms you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:30 PM
18

Why do people act like women who aren’t doormats are masculine? It’s insulting to femininity. A guy who’s intimidated by a woman with self respect, boundaries, and goals in life is a little b*tch. Masculine men aren’t intimidated by women who aren’t doormats. God, who came up with this crap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 06:28 PM
15

Oh god I know a guy who’s obsessed with his ex who treated him like actual dirt. I guess they want someone to treat them the way they feel inside. You deserve better than him! And no problem, we all need advice when our minds are clouded by feelings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 07:58 AM
46

This guy is playing you like a fiddle. You’re his teddy bear, darling. You’re there for comfort and support and tossed to the side when he doesn’t have an itch to scratch. I’m being harsh bc the reality is harsh. I’d stop interacting with him besides simple roommate interactions. And I’d start looking for a new living situation immediately. You wouldn’t even want to live with a man until at least engagement or marriage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:57 AM
42

This made my eyes water 🥺
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 05:29 AM
95

Yikes. RUN. Immediately. Like now. He seems like the type who would cheat to hurt your self esteem and boost his fragile ego. Spare yourself the future misery. Be grateful he showed you his true colors before marrying him (as a way to reframe this positively).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:36 AM
15

It seems like you’ve already run into issues with him so id say break up. You’ve stated he already knew you would dislike this, so clearly he has no respect for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:32 AM
16

It’s going to be even harder to leave the longer you stay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:32 AM
31

The gift is me accepting the proposal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 02:09 AM
46

Your bf is a weirdo. Who posts stuff like that on a public story, maybe if he sent it to you privately and y’all laughed at it but ...yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 01:21 AM
33

“Mature” or “good” when used to describe women essentially mean “doormat” or “pushover.” You know you’re doing something right if scrotes call you a bitch lol that translates to “you have self respect and boundaries”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 07:39 PM
99

He had to set age restrictions on his profile so clearly he doesn’t mind the gap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 06:02 AM
13

This dude doesn’t even remotely like your friend. Men can be romantic for their own pleasure but putting everything together I don’t have a good feeling about his intentions. Men who want you will not be looking to delay commitment and marriage. Especially not an Arab Muslim man. Seeing as he is set career wise as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 02:07 AM
85

I worked with a male ER physician who, I KID YOU NOT, is the walking + talking manifestation of this bio. He’s the first person I used the word braggart to describe. Do you know how intolerable you have to be for me to use that word on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 04:36 AM
120

Men can proudly exclaim they’ve slept with hundreds of women but let a woman sleep with 1 man and all hell breaks loose. Just proving time and time again that most of them don’t see women as humans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 03:18 AM
46

This happened to me and I just ended things bc I didn’t want to waste my time or his by just trying to figure out if I’ll ever be attracted to him. But to be fair, I was turned off mainly by his obsession with tattoos and stuff. To each their own.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:56 AM
35

Imagine you’re at work and your husband is sitting at home, HE should be making dinner or at the very least ordering in. I wish a man would come home from work before me and wait for me to make dinner. Lol, he can watch me eat my own food and drool. How selfish of him. Whoever returns from work first should at least get things started for both to cook together or just cook for their SO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 12:54 AM
23

Yes! I use google voice. It’s funny because when they call and you answer, it’s like a prison phone and tells you to press 1 if you’d like to speak.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:30 PM
122

The worst part is, these women will actually continue to make dinner even after being blatantly disrespected like this. I dare anyone to try me like this, they won’t eat a drop of my food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 11:29 PM
60

wow. This is exactly why every time I see a “happy” couple online I assume the worst. You never know what goes on behind closed doors.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 11:33 PM
17

Lol a guy who can afford to pay off 70K student loans most definitely will not trip over a ring and wedding. These scrotes love making up scenarios they will never reach simply bc they don’t have the brain capacity to make good money nor the character to be generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 09:24 PM
1

True that makes sense! I think I’ll do the same now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 07:08 AM
2

What do you guys make of that overused bio caption in OLD: “Not looking for anything serious, just a wife or something” I just want to know how and why so many dudes have the exact same line like ??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:44 AM
1

I’m conflicted on this bc I kinda like snooping to see what they’re like or who they follow or get a better idea of their appearance. I say I don’t have a snapchat so they don’t ask for that but I tend to give my IG but maybe I should delay that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:55 AM
31

Some people like premium steak, others would rather eat Five guys. Doesn’t make the premium steak any less delicious and better in quality. Some people like the color blue, doesn’t mean pink is a lesser color. You won’t be everyone’s type. And that’s a good thing! How dull would the world be if everyone had the same type. Don’t internalize rejection or disinterest. You’re not their cup of tea just like how some people aren’t your cup of tea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:21 AM
53

👁 👄 👁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 01:02 AM
33

If he likes to cook then he can pack a picnic. Trash excuse. Blockkk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 04:18 PM
26

The men I’ve known who smoke weed constantly talk extremely slow and are on their last brain cell. I had this 6’4 muscular hottie pursue me and I swear to god his weed habit turned me tf off. Such a shame. And he drank every day. Nopeeeeee bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:48 AM
43

It symbolizes weed basically. People who put that in their bios smoke weed constantly. It’s their personality trait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:35 AM
11

Remember there are billions of men and this group is only 80,000 people so far. I think we have a good chance. Especially with the vetting we do. But it’s always better to be single than with a LVM or worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:24 AM
16

Don’t let your crown fall queen 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:20 AM
42

420
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 06:18 AM
13

In addition to her being a stay at home mom, a 24/7 job with no pay. What a shitface. Hope she divorces him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 02:28 AM
15

A broken clock is right twice a day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 11:04 PM
8

That’s so true! My last entanglement (lol) was with a guy who was 5’6/5’7 and I NEVER thought I’d like a short guy. I prefer 5’10 to 6’0. But with him it was so different, I was immensely attracted to him. Yet I still generally do not like short men haha You’re right, if you have doubts or lingering thoughts that person just isn’t for you! Thanks for the reply. It makes me feel less guilty lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 10:53 PM
7

So I’m still working on my tendency to overly empathize and see the good in people. Don’t get me wrong, I’m far from a doormat and have low tolerance for disrespect etc. But oddly, I feel mean for disliking “superficial” things. For instance, even if a guy is super cool and a gentleman, I can’t help but get turned off by tattoos and earrings. I feel like it’s wrong for me to be judgmental but...is it? It’s probably just socialization making me feel this way but I just wanted to discuss with FDS …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 05:18 PM
15

If they don’t like me, they have bad taste 🙊 but seriously that’s a good way to reframe negative thinking into positive thinking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:13 AM
109

One thing a man told me is, if you’re in a man’s line of vision and he has the ability to approach you and doesn’t, he doesn’t want you badly enough. Nothing is stopping him from initiating a conversation with you. He’s a grown man. If he’s interested and available, he will approach at some point. Even shy men will not allow a chance to pass them. Notice how his colleagues haven’t had any trouble approaching you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 02:10 AM
47

Men can’t even distinguish between different shades of colors yet they’re “more visual” LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:18 AM
17

Reminds me of when guys in highschool would casually discuss masturbating and all of us girls would pretend like we didn’t know anything about that. Then my friends and I secretly admitted to each other that we all masturbate. We were so scared to even admit it to each other bc of societal judgement against women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 01:16 AM
100

This man should be looking for a job. He’s 32 years grown. Like wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:46 PM
86

And yet she’d still be bringing infinitely more to the table than this man. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 11:42 PM
1

Yeah I keep hearing shein has good stuff but I also hear the quality sucks. Honestly even expensive stores these days have shady quality. This is why I hate being a broke college student bc I have good taste but not the moniessss to back it up 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 09:33 PM
65

Honestly didn’t need to read the details. The title is enough. If a man doesn’t propose to you within 1-2 years, it’s a wrap. It means he doesn’t want you badly enough. Why can’t he work through problems while advancing the relationship, it’s bs. If you were offered a dream job, would you turn it away bc you have some personal issues to work on or whatever crap? Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:30 AM
5

Y’all can you help me find a dress really close to the one I have posted on my feed. The white button down one. I really really want a dress like that. Do y’all know good sites to buy cute feminine dresses at an affordable cost xo Here’s the dress: https://www.reddit.com/r/findfashion/comments/hhoryo/where_can_i_find_a_dress_exactly_like_this_what/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:26 AM
116

I wonder if his girlfriend he mentions in #6 is a kinkmeisha who approves of this or she’s totally unaware
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 06:04 AM
37

Sis! I only lasted one day on mindr too 💀 I only swiped right on 4 guys and then deleted. Ever since fds I see red flags in bios and pic types that I would doubt before but wasn’t sure about. I just wanna meet a guy naturally but it’s not like I can just find a headquarters where muslim guys roam since I live abroad lol Maybe I need to move to the Middle East when I’m done with school
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/20 01:11 AM
18

They tend to just ask how many dates I’ve been on before...as if that translates to bodycount somehow. Funny considering I don’t even kiss 99% of guys I’ve been on dates with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 07:15 PM
23

I’m in this comment and I don’t like it! Lol except my guy was just a narcissist and emotionally avoidant/dismissive. He revealed himself a couple months in, and it was incredibly hard for me but I ended it. It was the first time my mind was screaming no and my body and heart just didn’t want to let him go. Thankfully my mind prevailed. But post breakup was tough for a while. The chemistry was insane. The smell of his breath and natural scent were intoxicating to me. Even his touch was electrify…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:54 PM
9

Lol it always gives me a good laugh when people on reddit make assumptions about your personal life. To them I’m hostile and insufferable, yet somehow every man I meet tells me how charming I am (I guess it’s just a Libra thing 🤪 jk lmao)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:47 AM
31

Unpopular opinion: I only liked the first half of “why men like bitches” I stopped reading after the dumb fox section. It seemed to entirely contradict the first half’s premise. I really enjoyed the first half of the book but the idea of staying quiet and fixing up after a man to maintain his interest.. yikes. Or playing games to manipulate him into doing things you want. Like why on earth would I want to constantly strategize to make a man value me? He either does or doesn’t. He’s either mature…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:45 AM
51

The perfect response to this right before blocking 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:26 AM
60

Every girl in that show was a major pick me. Vanessa irked me the most though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 03:21 AM
28

Mento ewness luv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 11:46 PM
50

Lack of empathy is the biggest red flag ever. It shows he’s self centered and doesn’t care for others lived experiences. As long as he benefits, you and others do not matter. And porn is a huge red flag as well. The fact that you expressed your opinion about it and sent him plenty of information to digest, and he still doesn’t see why it’s wrong...yikes. You absolutely cannot compromise over moral issues. Definitely break up with him. No doubt about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:08 AM
73

You deal with gaslighting by choosing to not deal with it. Break up. Immediately. In fact, break up yesterday. This is all kinds of disrespectful and you shouldn’t put up with any of it. Delete and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:05 AM
74

I cringe at the thought of being with someone who’s more than 3 years older. Like I actually can’t fathom it. It disturbs me for some reason. The most I’ll go is 5 years and that’s honestly pushing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 08:03 AM
4

I really liked your original comment as well btw, I just didn’t reply immediately bc I had to step away from my phone. But you’re totally right, the LVW and LVM I’ve known really do play by a whole different set of rules. Seems like nowadays a lot of people don’t seem to care for decency and empathy. It’s cutthroat out here and unfortunately my experiences have made me very jaded about people in general. I miss the peace naive me had when I thought people were generally kind hearted, but I don’t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:42 AM
20

Yeah I’ve never gotten to the point where I’ve been like that with a man simply bc, if I have to demand something from someone, I don’t want it. And yes you’re right, in most cases women are very respectful with their wants and needs even after years of bullshit. But I’m not staying past the first time I explain what I want and he doesn’t deliver. Bye
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 07:35 AM
107

I bet she really thought she did something with the nail polish line. I bet it took all day for her single functional brain cell to come up with that. Everyone wants to attack women when they show the fuck up. But no one wants to talk about how many times she took the peaceful route till she was fed the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:15 AM
29

I’m gonna reread this so often. I really want to stop negative thinking patterns that I sometimes go through. The biggest one I’m having trouble with is dealing with resentment for the men who have disrespected me in my life. Despite me standing up for myself at every chance, it burns me to think these low lives had the audacity and lack of human decency to think they could even try disrespecting me. It’ll take time but it’s worth it to take the time to heal now and spend the rest of my life fre…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 06:10 AM
31

The two times I even bothered to respond to men simply saying Hi or Hello or how are you, the conversation was trash. I just unmatch immediately.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/07/20 03:48 AM
40

All I’m hearing is that he’s wasting his time harassing women and not building a house from scratch. Get to work! 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 02:24 AM
-6

All of the things you’ve stated actually don’t have basis in Islamic thought. No country actually practices sharia. Again, as we have seen throughout history, religions have been manipulated and weaponized to control uneducated masses. I wouldn’t be a Muslim if my research of my religion showed me anything you’re stating. However many governments are guilty of these things no doubt. But they simply are not following real Islamic teachings. What is the one thing in common here? Men and male viole…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 12:04 AM
14

Hmm, I personally don’t think degrees are necessarily better or worse than other alternatives. I’ve met plenty of twats with degrees and plenty of people without degrees who are far more intelligent. But if you feel like you can not communicate or discuss complex topics etc that’s a different ball game. You can decide to discuss some of the incompatibilities you want to work on with him if you’d like. From the post I don’t see any red flags etc. but idk your personal life or marriage. Only you c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:23 PM
8

Tell him you want to break up because you don’t see things working out between you two. You’re not compatible. Don’t give him the reasons if you’re certain you want to break up and move on, this only allows for him to make last chance appeals to manipulate you into staying longer only for him to keep stalling.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:11 PM
19

The highest rates of Femicide and domestic abuse are in Latin American Countries. Egypt has a large Christian and jewish population, the sexism runs deep throughout. I hate when people try to act like it’s an Islam problem. Islam orders that rapists and pedophiles get the death penalty with little to no proof, just testimony. Male violence and patriarchy are to blame. You’ll find women are treated like scum in most societies even the ones that give off the illusion that women are treated fairly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 08:10 PM
292

When men describe the type of woman they want they describe a slave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 02:04 AM
8

Start acting the way you do towards the men you don’t desire, towards the men you DO desire. Men can sniff out desperation. Confidence trumps looks almost always.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:24 PM
76

The girl reacting is the girl he’s speaking about I’m pretty sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:41 PM
59

I knew a girl like this and I faded her out of my life. She tried to put me down in front of two guys and Ofc I defended myself. She would always posts uplifting things on her social media but when we entered a restaurant together the first thing she said was how we were the best looking and all the girls inside were ugly. I was shocked to say the least. That was the last time I saw her. It’s becoming a struggle to find HVW to be friends with. Also knew a girl who said other girls think she trie…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 09:31 PM
151

“Men cause 6.1 million accidents per year and women cause 4.4 million per year (National Highway Safety Administration) “105.7 million licensed American women compared to 104.3 million men” So more women have drivers licenses and yet cause less accidents. Tell me more about how women are worse drivers than men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 05:13 AM
84

How is this choosing beggars lmfao? The lady literally is rich.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:36 AM
34

Tbh if a man can take the good from what he says and separate it from the ramblings then I wouldn’t mind it so much. But they almost always ignore the good stuff and take the ramblings and weaponize it against women somehow lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:10 PM
99

Jordan Peterson says like one correct thing for every 50 shitty things he says. His lectures are incoherent ramblings. Like wtf does he even say half the time, genuinely? Run for the hills. And oh wow one incident. What about the 99% of rape and abuse incidents that go unpunished? I wouldn’t even tire my brain cells trying to educate this ignorant bimbo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 11:02 PM
26

I’d love to start a podcast omg. But I’d want to do it without my face showing bc NVM will stalk and kill women revealing the game.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 10:23 PM
62

Just incels and NVM circle jerking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:11 PM
140

Queen. I don’t see the problem. She set her standards, he said he didn’t like it so she saved both of their time by ending it. He can continue to date LVW and she can move on to date better men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 08:48 PM
12

Men are really sensitive and can’t take a joke at all and they say women are sensitive lmao. The last two times I joked with men, they got so angry it was totally unexpected. They can dish it out but can’t take it back yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:44 PM
5

I really want to have one for protection once I live on my own. Especially hearing all of the sex trafficking incidents going on, it’s scary af to be defenseless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:32 AM
118

Ugh I love her two piece outfit, where do they sell that type of stuff at
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:31 AM
60

It is a mere reflection of how they see themselves. They know you’re better than them and they want you to never realize it. It’s sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 04:30 AM
27

I know it for a fact. I’ve had men from my background tell me they’d drop their gf in a second to be with me. And they’ve been with the woman for years. Clearly I told them off and had I known their girlfriends I would warn them. It’s possible to find a man from outside your background who’s good. But it’s pretty clear if he didn’t propose by a year and it’s his culture to do so. You have to become very cognizant and informed about your partner’s cultural norms and once you find out you’re not b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 11:45 PM
207

We can’t even expect a man to have the same qualities as us otherwise our standards are too high. Beautiful women are constantly bullied into wanting ugly mediocre men. Bitch I want my looks match FUCK YOU. I take care of my body so it’s not asking too much to want a man who does that as well. Im working towards my career it’s not asking too much for a non broke bummy POS. I’m funny, it’s not asking too much to want a funny man. I’m not racist or a bigot etc so it’s not asking too much to want a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:48 PM
70

His negging is enough to remove him from your life entirely. And the fact that he’s not over his ex makes it clear you’re a rebound. He lost the intimacy and companionship of his relationship and now you’re the teddy bear he can throw around when he needs some comfort. Do not entertain him. And have you thought wtf is the plan? This dude didn’t properly ask you out and even if he did, he’s an international student what makes you think he’ll not throw you to the wind when he’s done with schooling…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 10:45 PM
9

I’d start leaving trimmed hair in his drinks and on his pillow. Slob.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 09:36 PM
2

You used my line!! Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:06 PM
43

How does it feel to be a chosen one lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 02:02 PM
9

Okcupid is frightening. A bunch of ugly old scrotes can message you at any time. They don’t take your filters seriously then wtf is the point of asking for them. I had it for less than a day and deleted it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 01:56 PM
1

I just saw your comment for some reason. Honestly I do have a list of things I’d want in a man but there’s things I’d compromise for if they’re superficial. I’m not willing to compromise on morals, character and how deeply they care for/respect me. I’ve given guys who weren’t my type chances before and they did me more dirty than the guys who I actually found really attractive lol. So idk. And I’m stuck bc I’m kinda annoyed that women are expected to compromise our standards but we bring so much…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:51 AM
20

Oh really? I just remember seeing him talking about a fiancé or something years ago when I first saw his trash content. Guess he never followed through.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 02:26 PM
65

I just know this guy has sex with his pickmeisha clients and cheats on his pickme wife all the time
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 08:31 AM
49

The second commenter is a rapist. That’s what rapists say about their victims all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:48 AM
23

You can tell his wife has no respect for him and I don’t blame her. Pretty sure she’s there for the money, chef, and lifestyle
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:45 AM
56

If I could return to my self esteem at 10 years old I’d be a millionaire by now lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/20 01:43 AM
6

Muzmatch only has ugly rejects on it. I haven’t seen one good looking man on there lol. Same can be said for other dating apps they’re all a sham filled with dusties
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:17 PM
3

I actually couldn’t do that bc the guy in question was in a different country at the time. It was during the summer. And the cuts weren’t deep they were very superficial. I freaked out but his tone in the messages made it clear he was doing it to force me to react so I called his bluff. I don’t want it to seem like I’m heartless lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 05:04 PM
5

Long distance relationship of 5 years? Babe please block this dude and live your life. PS- any man leaves me on read gets a swift block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 08:17 AM
15

I hate reading posts I can literally smell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:42 AM
47

A man tried it with me and literally sent an image of his arm sliced with cuts from top to bottom because I refused to talk to him. He told me he’d do worse. I told him to get therapy and never spoke to him again. He’s alive and fine. Called his bluff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:39 AM
2

This describes exactly the feeling with my ex. It was primal for sure. He was the first man I let hug and kiss me on the first date. I don’t let men touch me at all that soon. His smell was like a drug to me and his touch was electrifying. It was surreal. I thought that was the feeling everyone kept describing. I guess it just meant we’d have really good babies and that’s it lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 03:51 AM
9

Thank you for sharing. That was a really heartwarming story and I’m so sorry for your loss. May he Rest In Peace. I used to believe in the idea until I felt butterflies for the first time with my ex and I thought since I had never felt that way about any other guy before that he was the one. It turned into a toxic situation for me. I think he knew how engaged I was in him and he was avoidant and dismissive and gaslighted me a ton. After that scarring experience I’ve become so guarded and I’ve lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:41 PM
22

I do believe they know by 6 months but the story here is that he knew just by meeting her at a party but somehow didn’t know for his long term gf. I would never stay with someone longer than 1/2 years without a proposal but I’m speaking on this weird ass phenomenon of just knowing at first glance. Sounds like some princess bs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:12 PM
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They say women live in fairytales but men keep perpetuating the idea that they have to just know a woman is their wife in the first second of meeting her. Like buddy is that your head or your other head getting a blood rush that made you think she’s suddenly the ONE but the other woman you continuously strung along wasn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:55 PM
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Girl..you’re literally living my dream rn. Wishing y’all the best 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 03:51 AM
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Now I’ll no longer have a safe space to seek advice from fellow strong minded women :(. Is there some other forum website we could join? Is there a way we can compile all of the advice in the subreddit? Like is there a pdf? Or something Edit: Found a post with a compiled handbook: https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hccx6y/ive_compiled_the_whole_handbook_within_one_single/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 10:09 PM
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Idk if that’s common amongst Iranians in the Middle East. Probably in the states sure. Idk why I’m getting downvoted when I’m speaking straight facts. You did refer to the entire Middle East... not just Iranian Americans or those living in the west.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 09:13 PM
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I love how he just casually pushes all the blame onto women instead of addressing men lying, manipulating, and gaslighting women instead of simply saying they’re not interested. Bc men are SO SIMPLE. Yeah FUCK OFF. His post rings true but I don’t like his tone or shifting the blame onto women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:48 PM
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Girl what? This is not middle eastern culture lmao. People get married within 1-2 years max most of the time. Especially living together before marriage? That’s a big no for all religious groups across the Middle East
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:11 PM
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Men need to invest a lot in a woman and feel as though he has earned her love in order to truly love her and respect her. They admit this themselves. I know women who are child free and don’t do significantly more housework than their partner or any (bc a maid is paid to clean weekly) and yet they don’t pay a dime of their own on bills or dates. Women are the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 07:03 PM
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I only date men from my culture that’s why I don’t worry about convincing men, it’ll be tough to find an American or northern European man willing to do this bc that’s not their culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 06:32 PM
17

Same. My dad will get my mom a new phone and car before himself. Can’t accept anything less than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:26 AM
43

The fact that men feel comfortable saying things like this all the time shows that the world is a safe place for the scum of society aka pedophiles/rapists/abusers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:31 AM
28

Men pay for everything always. From the start of dating to throughout the marriage. Women pay back with the multiple forms of labor we are expected to give in relationships. And men paying for bills and dates will never amount to what women provide.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:28 AM
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It’s funny bc I don’t like any of those groups either 💀 the feeling is mutual 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 04:07 AM
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Omg in that case, keep getting your nails done sis. Lmao I assumed you were reaping 0 benefits from this situation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:44 PM
11

I hope you blocked him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:40 PM
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Men don’t deserve women. Hope my good sis has leveled up and realizes how naive it was for her to “understand” him so much. Benefit of the doubt and too much empathy for men always ends badly for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 10:38 PM
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Agreed. I’m one of the rare women who don’t care for flowers. I like stuff I can eat or use lol. Seems like a waste to have flowers just for them to wither and die in front of me over the next two days. But it’s the thought that counts! Edit: I’m not trying to say “I’m not like other girls” I just mean most women I know love flowers way more than me lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 01:05 AM
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Be careful that he may resent you for being more successful than him. He may take out his regret or anger at being a teacher out on you. I’ve heard of so many scenarios where men have done this. It’s sick. Keep your guard out. If he isn’t satisfied he should get the f up and do something about it. If he wants to make money like you he can go and apply for jobs or something. It’s not your responsibility to coddle his fragile ego.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:51 AM
13

A girl in the 2nd grade told them they were gross and had the cooties and ever since then they’ve made it their goal to destroy any woman in their path. I’m not even joking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 08:48 AM
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Ah yes, that’s the most traumatizing! When men are shitty upfront at the beginning I peace out right away. The problem is they’re fuxking psychos and will act amazing for a while and gaslight you when they flip the switch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 06:54 AM
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I literally quit OLD so quickly every time I get on there bc I swipe left on literally everyone. I’m convinced good quality guys don’t go on these apps. It’s a fright fest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 01:06 AM
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You did the right thing. Men only empathize when you literally force them to put themselves in the same situation. Now he’s more likely to really quit and never look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 05:20 PM
1

Does anyone have the pdf to why men love bitches. It’s the main book suggested here that I really wanna read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 02:28 AM
6

The two times I had my ass grabbed in public I was wearing a maxi dress and maxi skirt (long + flowing). Also I’ve been harassed much more when I have no makeup on and wearing casual clothes than when I get done up and glammed up. Basically whatever you do, men will bother you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 11:08 PM
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Yeah but those guys didn’t have private accounts lol, so it didn’t feel as weird if that makes sense
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:08 PM
1

But what if he wonders why I requested him? I don’t wanna seem like a stalker weirdo lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 10:57 PM
6

Is it weird to follow a guy randomly on Instagram if they’re private? I found this really handsome dude bc he was in a pic with another dude on an OLD app. His friend is not attractive so I didn’t swipe right obviously, but through his friend’s Instagram I found his Instagram LOL. And turns out we have mutual followers except I don’t know them well enough to wingman for me ygm. I would never pursue a man like ever. But I would follow someone and like a picture as a signal for them to shoot their…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:28 PM
17

Wow, he gets it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 08:21 PM
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Guess what, you can’t get played if you’re not a player in the game. So remove yourself from the situation and that’s it. It’s not a win to spend effort mirroring someone trashy, you’re literally wasting good energy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:55 PM
9

Yuck, major red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 09:50 PM
4

These are the type of men who think women aren’t funny lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 07:02 AM
3

The only guy I was in a real relationship with had all 4 and yet he still sucked in the end lmao, funny how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:59 AM
28

Anyone have a pdf to this book?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 06:50 AM
5

4 years and he never proposed but you’re living together? Yeah You should leave. Your gut is telling you this isn’t enough for you and I can clearly see it isn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 04:17 AM
21

*wise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:03 AM
38

Yikes. Run. This means if you’re faced with giving birth vs an abortion and it comes down to your life or the fetus’ life, he will pick the fetus. You don’t want that kind of a man making life choices for you when you’re unwell. I’m religious too but in my religion we believe a woman can abort if her health is at risk or if she is raped, no questions asked. So I go for guys who think this way. I think topics like this are non negotiable. He’s either on board or not. Don’t play with moral values …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 09:20 AM
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She’s almost there...wondering when it’ll click..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:21 AM
24

He’s literally bringing it up to make you more exposed or comfortable with the idea without asking you straight up. He wants for you to suggest it one day or get curious. Break up with the asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 06:07 PM
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Bruh I just came back to read the story in full and the fact that her husband didn’t beat the shit out of him for disrespecting his wife like that baffles me. I mean even a typical Scrote would fight him out of jealousy. She’s married to a weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 04:35 PM
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Don’t ever be with someone who insults you. I don’t care if the word is dumb, stupid, retarded, ugly etc. that’s a HUGE red flag and no sane man would dare insult you. Block and run for the hills + don’t look back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:55 PM
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“I’ll know when I see it” Don’t give them the steps to trick you for a few months.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 02:46 PM
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He’ll also use this as an excuse to secretly despise her. No man is that comfortable with casually discussing a woman’s past, especially not publicly. Then if he cheats he’ll use this as some sort of a justification. Wow I really have a degree in scrote logic at this point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:38 PM
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They’d rather spend all that money on terrorizing innocent people in the Middle East. The military budget in the USA is 760 billion which is unheard of globally. If they even used a fraction of that money they could provide the great services other places in the world have. It’s sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 10:12 PM
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Rapists and pedophiles should receive death penalty. There is no rehabilitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:02 PM
1

Rapists and pedophiles should receive death penalty. There is no rehabilitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:02 PM
1

Rapists and pedophiles should receive death penalty. There is no rehabilitation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 03:02 PM
10

You’re a genius ma’am. Truly a scholar. I’m more of a Straightforward gal but tbh it hasn’t worked so well in the past. I’d tell them the first time what I didn’t like and if they repeated it I would end things with them. Because idk if they would just change temporarily with dumb fox or would it be a real change? I just don’t know anymore tbh. Also you’ve given me the answer I’ve been looking for about the question on your past dating etc. how would you respond to such a question in person thou…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 08:32 AM
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Most people who attend ivy leagues are fucking idiots. They get in because of legacy and networking. And all their grades are inflated to maintain the rep of the universities. They are just elitist idiots under a facade of intelligence. Pick up any person who grew up in a ghetto anywhere on this planet and I guarantee that person would be far more intelligent than any of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:13 AM
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I’m starting to see FDS like sentiment on tik tok and Instagram. Women are slowly but surely waking tf up. Ladies post FDS like things for other women and men to see. If we each penetrate our own social circle, this will spread like rapid fire. There’s a reason that men have dominated the dating game recently. They discuss their strategies and shittiness in the literal and figurative “locker room.” I’ve had men tell me this. The sick bastards in football teams will even discuss how to beat a wom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:08 AM
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Yes but those women are bottom of the barrel, most decent men wouldn’t even look their way bc they can sniff out the desperation and nastiness. He’ll just keep watching dream girls from afar foaming at the mouth like a rabid dog.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:59 AM
1

How did you meet the two HVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:20 AM
32

Someone dm her about this group
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:18 AM
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Just block him. Next time use a google number there’s an app for it and it’s free. I use that now for giving a number to men I don’t know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:15 AM
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He’s a creep. Just bc he’s a doctor doesn’t make him HVM. Normal men do not say things like that especially not on the first date. The term sexy is so problematic when getting to know someone. I don’t want to be called sexy or anything of that nature by any man who isn’t in a full blown relationship or marriage with me. He could have asked you what do you think is the most “beautiful” feature about you after your eyes. He chose that word on purpose. Words mean everything. Your gut is right. Don’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:13 AM
3

How are you guys reading all these books during the pandemic? Are you ordering online? Because usually I borrow from the library and they’ve been shut down for the past few months during the pandemic :/
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:47 AM
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Blocking hurts the fragile male ego. I’ve noticed they get irrationally upset by it despite them doing something that caused the block in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:53 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/fqb9tv/how_to_figure_out_if_a_guy_watches_porn_or_not/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf I posted a similar question and it had many good responses
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:52 PM
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Yep I know a few guys who are virtue signaling with their videos at protests but I see right through it. So some people posting can be fakes whereas some others not posting can truly be contributing to the cause in other ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:54 AM
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Yeah I reported her first comment for misinformation and blocked her. But idk if the admins will take action bc it seems like a lot of people here hate Islam and I usually don’t even respond to their misinformation simply because I don’t have the energy or time to write out lengthy comments explaining to someone who doesn’t want to understand. They just want to hate and act bigoted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 07:17 AM
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You’re right. I’m blocking her too so I won’t have to see this ignorant crap anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:57 AM
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Sure you are hunny. And yet somehow CPAs don’t collect and perform data analysis on FGM do they? So let’s stick to your fake credentials and refer to the experts whom you still haven’t recognized. You being a CPA has nothing to do with literal world organizations dedicated to researching this topic. For someone who is so called college educated, you really do lack sense and reason. Something isn’t adding up here. You know when I have a medical issue I go to doctors but maybe I should visit an ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:44 AM
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There is no verse in the Quran addressing this topic at all. No verse telling people to mutilate girls. That’s why most Muslims do not perform any procedure on female genitalia. And I was referring to the hadith you chose that was poorly translated. It doesn’t approve of female genital MUTILATION. The context in Arabic refers to abnormalities. Fixing an abnormality that affects someone’s quality of life is not mutilation. If a girl is born with closed vagina, they should open it. If the clitoral…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:39 AM
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“FGM is associated with cultural ideals of femininity and modesty, which include the notion that girls are clean and beautiful after removal of body parts that are considered unclean, unfeminine or male. Though no religious scripts prescribe the practice, practitioners often believe the practice has religious support.” https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/female-genital-mutilation According to the Human Rights Watch organization: “FGM is practiced among some adherents of the Muslim, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:32 AM
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Aw you really thought you did something. That’s cute. But Girl you wouldn’t know what data analysis was if it slapped you on your face. Where is the data analysis you speak of, again you have yet to address literal world organizations that have collected data and performed extensive research on this topic. Your individual data analysis that is a figment of your imagination somehow discredits them? The delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:31 AM
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First of all I wasn’t the person who made that comment about literacy. You really can’t read or comprehend can you? Again you made wildly inaccurate assertions. You know nothing about how the hadith system works or anything about the Arabic language. Again, argue with the World Health Organization and the Human Rights watch. Animists and Christian East Africans perform the worst forms of FGM in addition to Muslims in the area. Historically this practice existed before the advent of Islam and Chr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 06:24 AM
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Listen to yourself, you sound foolish. Explain why most muslim countries do not practice FGM. Algeria is a very religious muslim country 99% muslim, but has no history of FGM. Also, literally World Healh Organization and Human rights Watch organization discredit your baseless point. Hmm should I believe you an ignorant bigot or literally fucking organizations that have spent how many dollars on research addressing this topic and even to fund stopping this practice. Hard decision to make..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:46 AM
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Lmfao girl just stop. Whipping out texts that the vast majority of Muslims deem as unreliable and are not even part of the Quran. Most muslim countries and Muslims do not perform any form of FGM and if they do it’s because of ancient cultural practices that existed there far before the advent of Islam, which is completely against Islamic belief. Anyways for those who believe in this particular narration it is referring to removing abnormalities, such as when some girls are born with a shut vagin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:41 AM
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False. FGM predates Islam and Christianity. The only muslim majority countries that perform this on a Large scale are Egypt ( which has a substantial Christian and jewish population who also partake in this), Sudan and Indonesia (which has the least brutal form of FGM). It is performed by all religious groups in those countries in addition to Christian majority or non Abrahamic groups (Eg. Animists) in Eastern Africa. The rest of the Middle East and North Africa do not practice FGM (exceptions c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:55 AM
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Yep. It’s mainly practiced in its most brutal forms in Eastern Africa. This horrible tradition is cultural so people of all religious groups or even those without a religious group perform it. The WHO website states that no religious scripture commands FGM, but some who perform it attempt to justify it with their respective religion. The worst types of FGM are infibulation and removal of the clitoris. It’s horrifying. I know a lady who had it forced upon her as a child and she made sure her daug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:52 AM
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Yep just had a debate about it with men who claim male circumcision is just as horrible. Literal NIH studies disprove this and state that many men report increased sensation and increased cleanliness after circumcision. Whether one agrees with male circumcision or not, it is simply NOT comparable to FGM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:50 AM
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Omg a psychological classification for pick me women! Finally! Also this brings Ghislaine Maxwell to mind, the lady who was Epstein’s second hand monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:45 AM
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I’m so sorry for her but no man could ever get past a history of porn. The type of men who knowingly date pornstars usually do so for some nefarious reasons. They do not love or respect her unfortunately. Her best bet is to quit porn, change location, and never ever reveal her past to any man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:44 AM
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A friend of mine used to work at a nursing home and she was sexually assaulted by some of the men there. To the point that a policy had to be made that a male worker would have to be present when a female worker was tending to a male resident. Disturbing tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:38 AM
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This idea that feminine men or “shy” guys are better than masculine men is a straight up lie. I find the former to be far worse usually. At least masculine f boys will pay for your meals and provide some form of tension or chemistry. The former are also what we call “nIcE gUyZ.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 12:35 AM
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I vote that we send this to any nice guy lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 09:49 PM
11

You did the right thing. Coming from someone who was in the same exact position as you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 04:06 PM
13

They really just be telling on themselves lmfao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:58 PM
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Maybe don’t throw his wife and daughter under the bus, it kind of makes it seem excusable to treat women in your family like shit but not those outside.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 02:27 AM
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The delusion. I’m actually scared of everyone’s freakish ideologies as of late. Everyone’s gone bonkers. So now it’s women’s job to allow men to unleash their crazy desires onto them otherwise we will suffer from their wrath? How about fuck no. She doesn’t think it’s problematic for the husband to cheat on his wife and destroy his family either. Her priorities are fucked. They also justify porn use bc if men didn’t watch porn then they’d just HAVE to rape us. Otherwise it’s our fault we got rape…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:57 AM
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Girl this is a nit-picky take imo, although I don’t agree that simply buying gifts is HV, I don’t think personal taste takes away from that. Perhaps she made it obvious to him that she prefers Dior jewelry. We don’t know the details nor do we know if he is HV or LV from this tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:54 AM
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I highly do not recommend for women to give their full name to a man who hasn’t proven himself. Remember they can stalk you or rape you. Men don’t face that same danger from women so women should absolutely have their full name and do their research to protect themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 03:45 AM
28

I don’t even want to know what this mans sweat and breath smell like. Yikes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:53 PM
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If women collectively started packing their damn bags instead of putting up with pathetic behavior, men would be forced to change. But as long as there’s plenty of pickmeishas around, they get the pussy and love they want for free so what incentive do they have to change? It’s a never ending cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:53 PM
13

Wait when did you book the trip to Mexico? I thought they would ban crossing the border during the pandemic? I thought we’d only really be able to travel in 2021.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:09 PM
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Good enough to live with and use but not good enough to marry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:58 AM
14

Men can’t handle a woman’s sexual history but it’s absolutely not because of the bullshit she said. It’s because they’re sexist. The delusion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 06:38 AM
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Pick mes are the worst. How are you throwing away your family for a man WHO BURNED YOUR HOUSE TO THE GROUND. Her son already seems HV from his ability to identify how this POS is irresponsible at such a young age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 01:25 AM
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I think his ego got hurt and he wanted to flip the switch and act like he was denying me. Like no scrote, in YOUR dreams would you be making contact with me. It’s just disappointing bc when I finally find someone who fits my taste they disappoint Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:17 AM
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For context: we were discussing a major soccer game feud that caused rivalry between our respective teams that we support. And ofc he had to somehow slide sexual talk in the middle in a 10 minute convo. You can’t even discuss sports with LVM. And his last response I left on read bc he missed the entire point. Like it doesn’t matter even if you were my neighbor, I don’t want to talk in that manner. What’s not clicking? What do y’all think? I’m still working on how to address men, sometimes I just…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 11:36 PM
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I’m sure he’d love it if the tables were turned. Dump this insensitive jackass. You’re not insecure, he’s a POS. Leave him. Now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 08:34 AM
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LMAO. Fr ladies, don’t waste your time with a LVM, your HVM is around the corner but how will y’all find each other if you’re preoccupied with trash! Let that man go, sis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 04:22 AM
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I unmatch when that happens. Like yes everyone loves a nice compliment but can we have a conversation?? Pls. And it just shows they’re empty headed tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:23 AM
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I just got so turned off by his shameless promoting of his book that’s ALWAYS 50% off like just change the price then my guy. Also, word? I never knew those things.. Well some things he says are true but it’s never good to put anyone on a pedestal or to not question what people say. Always think before you believe anyone is my motto.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:07 AM
33

He just wanted a roommate to split 50/50 with and get maid bonuses and sex all for a free added bonus!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:25 PM
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Wtf.. I’ve not really bothered to read TRP posts, but wtf do they use as signs of that? FDS is not about harming any man, it’s about protecting women from men’s bs in dating and relationships. But anything women do out of self preservation is automatically demonized.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 03:22 PM
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Trust me men usually don’t have the tact to hide their shit. It comes out very quickly if you observe. I don’t like the dumb fox bc it gives men leeway into thinking you’re tolerating their shit and they can get away with it. But feel free to experiment. It’s just not my style to play dumb even just for strategy. My technique also helps the trash take itself out. LVM usually have big egos and can’t stand a woman sticking up for herself, their facade unravels quickly. Whereas if a man is good for…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:15 AM
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Women being avoidant with men seems like something they quite enjoy. Men are just...I’m tired fam
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 06:02 AM
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Don’t marry a man who isn’t okay with you having your assets protected and kept for yourself. Period.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:43 AM
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Maintain your personality that’s totally fine. The thing is when they show you ANY disrespect you must address it with a straight face and a steady/firm voice. For instance you can laugh and have a good time, but if he raises his voice at you or insults you in ANY way: You need to look him in the eye and address it. Address it ONCE and state that you will not tolerate such behavior and if he chooses to behave that way or speak to you in that manner then you’re happy to leave at any moment. This …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:07 AM
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Exactly. They know that means he doesn’t give a rat’s shit about her. And they’re right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 01:11 AM
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Don’t be a therapist for a man who wants to talk about his ex, who he most likely did dirty. And then when he’s done leaching off of your free therapy services, he’ll jump right back to her or someone else. I’ve seen this happen SO OFTEN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:22 AM
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I find that in life things always reveal themselves. Don’t stress yourself out about it. If he is lying, the truth will appear. Trust me. It always does. And just observe his behavior around his phone. Does he hide it quickly when you enter a room etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 12:06 AM
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Proof that he sees her as a sex doll and not a living breathing human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:01 PM
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It’s a no from me. I like a masculine provider. I want to be able to take a break from work at any point should I want to and stay at home. My father works full time and provides and he has a garden going. This sounds like he’s just chilling, ew. I couldn’t. But I don’t care about other people’s life choices. They can screw themselves over if they’d like. If she enjoys that, aight.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 11:11 AM
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Stop initiating. Start acting like he barely exists. Focus on your interests, hobbies, family, and friends. He should’ve proposed to you by 1-2 years. He’s getting complacent. Tell him where the door is for his hasty exit if he’s not gonna put in the work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 03:11 AM
2

Didn’t read- but sounds like the trash took itself out!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:55 AM
4

Do you know how deranged you have to be to plan this all out instead of simply approaching her when he first saw her and she caught his interest? This is insanity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:44 AM
47

Proud of you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 06:34 AM
7

True, I’d probably post a picture here and there. But nothing about my personal business or his information etc
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 01:22 AM
46

Don’t ever show your man on social media ladies. EVER. Some people have the Jezebal spirit like I heard someone on YouTube describe it lol. And evil eye/envy are real af. When I get married my social media will have a picture of me and my mans hands with our rings. Ain’t no one gonna be up in my business. Or if I do post us together, I will not be sharing his username and probably he won’t even have social media tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:59 PM
64

I know a guy who was absolutely clueless about his gfs majorly overdone lips from lip fillers. They can only detect colored eyeshadow on eyelids lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:56 PM
4

I’ve actually had a couple of guys from other subreddits dm me telling me they thought I was spot on with my commentary on FDS lol. So some logical men exist on reddit I guess lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:53 PM
15

They’re negging her so they’ll have a shot at dming or just to fuck w her self esteem lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:32 PM
27

His wife commented on the YouTube video so def not an incel!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:29 PM
4

Girl plenty of them already are doing it. Pickmeishas pay for their bills in addition to doing most of the house labor and child rearing. At least women who are “gold diggers” offer plenty of benefits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:22 AM
76

I genuinely wonder if any woman has ever secured a HVM despite sleeping with him early on. It’s kinda gross that men judge women for doing the SAME thing as them. Like sir...your penis had a role to play in all of this. It’s like a homeless person calling another homeless person broke. He’s somehow clean and the woman is worthless bc she had a desire as well? Make it make sense! But I agree with you. I’m not doing anything more than kissing until marriage tbh. Hopefully I can stick to my standar…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 07:30 AM
7

Old farts date young women to suck the life force out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:28 AM
7

The minute I sniff that a friend is a pickmeisha she gets the boot. I’ve had too many go arounds with their kind and it never ends well. If a person lacks self respect, there’s nothing stopping them from dragging you down for no reason.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:26 AM
15

Men can be some of the biggest gold diggers lol. It’s self deflection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:24 AM
7

Simple: I will be putting that all of my money is absolutely mine and mine alone even if the marriage should end in divorce- onto our marriage contract aka pre nup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:23 AM
30

The flashbacks im getting!! 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:21 AM
35

Once went on a date with a guy who said he was 5’10 and he was my height 💀 their scrotacity is endless
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:06 PM
15

It also says that rapists should be given the death penalty. But that’s conveniently left out 🙊 During the lifetime of the Prophet Muhammad, a rapist was punished based on only the testimony of the victim. Wa'il ibn Hujr reported that a woman publicly identified a man who had raped her. The people caught the man and brought him to the Prophet Muhammad. He told the woman to go—that she was not to be blamed—and ordered that the man be put to death. In another case, a woman brought her infant to th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:55 AM
19

Agreed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:11 AM
-26

Muslim here: honor killings don’t happen in most muslim countries. This is typical scrote behavior across all religions and cultures. There is nothing in Islam about murdering girls or women who have been raped or who have fornicated. Have you not seen the fathers in America and europe molesting, raping, and murdering their own daughters and other women?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 04:10 AM
46

There’s info on google about it. But essentially it’s a strategy to get abusive or annoying people off of your back. You act like you are the most boring individual in the world. Do not make facial expressions when they speak to you. Do not show emotions in your replies to them. Just act really dry in their presence. They get a kick out of reactions from people so if you don’t provide them with that, they’ll get tired eventually and leave you alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:44 PM
22

Grey rock them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 10:35 PM
242

Yes can we have more of these posts bc frankly it puts you in an abundance mindset the more you’re exposed to HVM and the less we’re constantly badgered with roaches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 03:32 PM
12

I would say call it out the first time, ask for clarity and directly say with class (no anger or sadness) how inappropriate that is and it speaks volumes of someone’s character. You have made it clear this behavior is unacceptable to you and that he should think before speaking and be respectful. If he repeats it after you called him out, that is time to delete/block and move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:16 AM
14

Shame! Shame! Shame! I love it. But also, I would’ve not swiped right or responded to a man with a shirtless photo. Speaks to his intentions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:13 AM
112

Play deaf to men’s flattery, instead observe their behavior and ask yourself “would someone behave this way if they truly were highly invested in someone they like/love/adore?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 07:11 AM
46

Ah yes! When a man is grieving a death in the family just suck his dick, that should do the job! He’ll forget they ever existed :D /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:26 AM
95

That’s how men perceive women who initiate lol. You could be the most attractive woman ever, but in the typical male mind bc they perceive you as desperate to chase them, they will default categorize you as LVW. The proof is in the pudding, I’ve seen this play out with multiple women and men before.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:15 AM
93

I think the guy in the video was actually criticizing those who say that. But I’ve never watched it, I just remember someone saying that somewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 08:39 PM
31

However a man who is invested in getting to know you most certainly will NOT take longer than a day to communicate with you. They will be making an effort to communicate especially via a phone call daily. Men don’t want to let the chance of your attention getting taken up by another man to happen so they will be on their A game. This doesn’t mean you’re babysitting each other, but this whole needing space is an excuse and manipulation LVM use all the time. The space thing applies more when you m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 05:57 PM
14

Wait what’s going on? I don’t get the last comment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:54 PM
3

Lmfao guilty! I basically say I can scratch up a few dishes, tbh it turns away the LVM that want you to be their maid and instead you get with the men who really know how to throw down in the kitchen. My ex made me several yummy meals 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:24 AM
54

Why tf would they downvote that? Idiots
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 06:19 AM
7

Girl my advice is to move out even if it’s against your culture. Your family will be upset for some time but they’ll come to peace with it. I know multiple women from various cultures where their family are against both their sons and daughters moving out until marriage, and the ones who did it anyways are the happiest now. And their families all came around with time. You’re feeling desperate rn bc he was an escape option from your family. But the truth is YOU are the only escape option. I fear…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 01:37 AM
17

My grandma had her last child at 46, completely healthy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 07:46 PM
7

Wtf is a TRP? I’ve been attacked on other subs for simply being a part of this one. Didn’t know me choosing to date with intention is equivalent to murder to these sickos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:53 PM
69

That Shan woman is a piece of work. Her own relationship is a testament of her idiocy lol. I couldn’t even watch the video. She’s an ultimate pick me. She’s the final boss of pick mes. Her bf, now husband, was given free reign to fuck anyone and everyone he wanted to “make sure” he wasn’t settling with her. Lmfao. She feels proud that he still wanted her after all of his experimentation, so she must be so special to be the chosen one. Sweetie he “chose” you bc he knows you have no standards and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:47 PM
5

Thank you for reinforcing the fact that they really aren’t so rare. I think after getting pummeled with LVM and NVM on this sub you start to have a scarcity mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 03:00 PM
3

There’s a strategy post on the handbook about how to deal with this if you would like to try
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 01:23 AM
28

The only possible way to get back with an ex is if you’re both equally at fault for the relationship not working out and you both changed for the better. Other than that, hell to the no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:55 PM
18

Does this happen after having sex? I’d recommend delaying intimacy of any kind as much as possible. You release oxytocin every time you’re intimate and it’s like a bonding drug addiction for many women. You don’t want to be attached to a LVM early on or triggering more anxiety over the thought of him leaving you or you having to leave him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:46 PM
64

clown to clown conversation
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 06:52 PM
15

Usually HVM who lead productive lives tend to ask women out in person at the gym, at the local cafe, restaurant etc. Yes all of the dusties on OLD exist IRL. But the HVM that exist IRL don’t tend to be on OLD apps, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 01:16 PM
48

If a man doesn’t respond to me in a day, he’s blocked lol. Zero tolerance policy. Men with good intentions who are truly interested in you and are not playing games will be contacting you several times a day. And not just that, you’ll be receiving a phone call daily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 10:01 AM
185

You’d be surprised (or not tbh). Men will be disgusted at women and break up with them over normal bodily functions. That’s why you should never look for closure with men ladies, their reasons are absolutely insane lol. I’ve had a man tell me they ghosted a girl they were dating because the bathroom had a slight smell after she used it (because women take dumps from time to time lmfao but ig they don’t know this???). Being “friends” with men has put me on game so much, I truly know how backwards…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:58 AM
157

I got 400 downvotes in an hour once when I commented saying that men abandon their children more often than women. Lol you can’t make this shit up. Like these scrotes say “facts don’t care about your feelings.” Like why are you so offended by the truth? Does the truth rattle your skull? They get angry enough to attack us but not angry enough to implement change that is actually causing people harm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 09:54 AM
25

Yeah one guy I dated had no luck OLD and he was handsome and muscular. These men really have no excuse of sending a hey as a message when they barely have enough people to message to begin with 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 05:54 AM
92

99% of men on OLD are LVM or NVM. I think I’m completely through with it. I’m actually preparing myself and strategizing on getting asked out on dates solely in person after this pandemic is over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:30 AM
8

If that’s what you want then more power to you. I think you’re on a good path.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 04:28 AM
36

This dude is not a HVM at all. It’s not a loss, but it is time to move on. It’s okay to experience emotional pain. Your feelings are valid. It is important that you end contact now and focus on yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 07:19 AM
11

You can have mental health issues in a relationship so long as you have it under control to an extent. Meaning you have sought therapy, medication, or whatever avenue that helps you live a lifestyle that is not harming the person you’d be in a relationship with. I have gone through depressive and anxiety ridden phases and I completely halted my dating life for a long period of time bc it’s my burden to bear and not to put onto someone else. Yes a bipolar person can be in a healthy loving relatio…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:20 AM
1

Coming from someone with secure attachment please do not engage in a relationship with anyone until you overcome your avoidant attachment style. You’re causing people unnecessary trauma and pain. Seek therapy and work on yourself until you’re healed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 06:08 AM
10

He “taught” her so many things. I absolutely despise men who tell me they are going to teach me about life. How presumptuous, pedantic, and balls to the wall insane do you have to be to say something like that to someone. Tf. I guarantee I’m more intelligent than your scrote for brains gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:43 AM
3

I can’t ever get through a video with this guy, he bothers me. Somethings not right about him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:14 AM
5

Am I the only one who doesn’t respond to basic messages? They have to say something interesting or ask a decent conversation starting question. I never respond to hey or how are you or good morning etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 02:08 AM
4

Honestly make sure your approach is one of reason and that you allow her to voice her opinions and questions without feeling shamed or forced into anything. People tend to reject beliefs that are presented in a negative or harsh manner no matter how true they may be. Work on exposing her to empowering content. Be cautious of the shows you let her watch at home from a young age. And offer her good books to read. Always remind her that her boundaries and her feelings are valid and not to be dismis…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:42 PM
15

Often we don’t realize that our natural gut instinct sets off for a reason not yet known to us. If your instinct is ringing alarm bells, I would trust it. Tread cautiously. I will always follow my gut instinct bc some women marry men who are secret pedophiles only to discover their pedophile stash 15 years into marriage. I’m simply not waiting to find the proof. I’m a huge believer that your gut instinct will always save you. A lot of people will try to disarm you and say you’re insecure or anxi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 05:37 PM
5

That’s awesome! How did you meet?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:24 AM
17

I’ve never given birth but id imagine him taking on a large load of the housework and chores would be a start. Probably he’s cooking most meals or ordering food in. He’ll make sure the home is tidy while you’re recovering. And he’ll do his part with feedings (like he’ll let you sleep while he feeds the baby a bottle of pumped milk or formula) as much as he can (if he’s working early in the morning and you’re staying at home it might not be too many overnight shifts for him but he’ll do his best)…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:18 AM
28

I get offended when ugly dusties approach me or try to force me to match with them on OLD apps. Like move scrote, look at you then look at me and ask yourself if it makes sense!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 04:03 AM
10

We love to see it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 03:39 AM
2

I’m teary eyed, this is so sweet. I genuinely wish you guys the best. And I hope he never changes up on you, other than to increase his value in your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:10 AM
2

I sincerely hope that this man is genuine and will continue to increase in value. Just make sure that you always have the inner strength to leave should he ever change up on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:06 AM
2

My ex drove 2 hours to pick me up and see me every weekend. He should be coming to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:13 AM
2

Lol I had a guy tell me he was surprised that I am a great conversationalist and intelligent. I asked him why. He straight up told me that because he deemed me as very attractive he didn’t expect that from me. As if that was a compliment. And it’s not the first time I’ve run into that. Apparently women can’t be intelligent and pretty/feminine??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:09 AM
2

Do not chase or pursue men. If they wanted to they would. If he doesn’t reach out to you that silence is your answer. He would probably reach out to you almost immediately after the date to let you know how great of a time he had and to set up another date. My ex called me an hour or two after our first date to tell me how great of a time he had and to set up our next date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:03 AM
10

As he reaches the appropriate age I would definitely educate him about the harmful effects of porn and casual sex and objectification of women. Even give him material to read with proof. I think if properly educated and not just forced in one particular direction, a reasonable person would choose the right thing. And it’s important you deliver this message before he starts following his friends and the trends online.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:07 PM
218

Does Reddit attract the most vile of men on this planet? I think I need to take a break from reading shit on this app. I’ve literally never encountered someone that selfish, holy fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:44 PM
9

Before quarantine men would send real messages. During quarantine I just got “hey” or a reaction to my pictures. I lasted a couple hours on there just to go ghost mode again. I’m not gonna start dating until this quarantine is over. It’s simply not worth it. And I hate FaceTiming or video chats, I don’t even do them with my friends lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:41 PM
108

I just..don’t get it. They’d rather that nasty cold shit over one person to love and experience life with? There’s literally no comparison. Mental fucking illness. Holy shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:37 PM
5

Preferably not cold, rather extremely hot/torturous/painful!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:34 PM
15

I’m putting in a clause especially for if he ever cheats on me. He will forfeit his property and money to me as well as guardianship of our children, should he EVER cheat. Since men cannot seem to be faithful without a knife to their throat. If he even considers it, he will start sweating at the mere thought of losing his entire livelihood :). To make it “fair” I’ll do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 09:30 PM
20

Do you know how depraved you have to be to not be willing to go without sex for a couple months? I could easily do that (seeing as I’m celibate) and without any masturbation. Shoot I could do that for a year+ with no sexual stimulation at all. Something is incredibly wrong with someone who is that reliant and dependent on sex or masturbation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 08:55 PM
43

I’ve tried to advise multiple men on wearing sunscreen and apparently it’s too feminine. I guess the Y chromosome has a secret gene blocking fucking UV rays. In that case, I wonder why they age like raisins 🤔. Something isn’t adding up here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:54 AM
35

It’s just so insulting to our intelligence that they think we won’t see right through their bs. Men who self proclaim as feminist are the worst. I’d much rather a guy who was simply upfront about his hatred for women tbh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:52 AM
3

He’s bad news op. Always trust your gut especially when it’s a nagging feeling. Id move on from him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 04:32 AM
4

If he’s a broke college student maybe it’s not a red flag. But if this dude makes a lot and won’t cover you whenever you go out with him, that’s cheap af. How would he be when it comes to marriage and children? Do you want to be nickeled and dimed? It’s up to you to set your standards. If that’s what gold digging is then I’m a gold digger I guess :) but men are soul diggers in that case. Their main job is to provide and in return they gain so many benefits from having a lovely woman around them.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:18 AM
80

Time is the most precious asset we have in life. I’m starting to really get tired of these pickmes they need to shut the fuck up. If they’re so concerned with being lapdogs for men perhaps they should follow the age old patriarchal rule and fucking stay silent. Dumb bird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:02 PM
10

This shit guy I dated tried to pull that on me and I ended it with quickness like you. The stupid fuck said he never celebrated his birthday and guess what I ended up seeing pics of him celebrating his birthday a few months later. These men lie like they breathe. Turds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 08:44 AM
12

She’s just made herself an open target to NVM, yikes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 04:33 AM
30

He’s taking hours to respond during a PANDEMIC. A man who is into you will not consistently take hours to reply. And I wouldn’t text men, I tell them I prefer calls. Texting is low effort and easy to hide LV behind texts. And he’s just getting you accustomed to waiting for his responses so you never expect fast replies. If you really like this dude, express what your standard is for communication. If he does not adjust to it, I’d toss him in the bin. And yes he likely is talking to multiple wome…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:34 AM
80

Furthermore you simply may not like every HVM either due to lack of compatibility. And there really is no true way of discovering if a man is HV until you’ve spent a year with them. It’s just the harsh truth. I think a lot of men we may think are HV really aren’t tbh. They put on a great act though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 01:32 AM
43

Most men are absolutely willing to pay for their gf if she’s their dream girl. Unfortunately they look like shit and so they’ll never get their dream girl, so they “settle” with another woman. Unfortunately women don’t realize this often enough. He doesn’t think YOU are worth it. But he would definitely have no issues paying for dates or financially supporting the woman he wants. Lesson is, never ever ever be with a man who doesn’t want you. At this point we have to accept that men lack empathy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:18 PM
11

Can I have my wig back PLEASE?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 09:10 PM
4

I posted FDS like things on my social media and a follower of mine told me to check out this subreddit. It was a god send. I’m so happy she reached out to me. Since then I’ve been putting other women on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:56 AM
5

Unfortunately I think she was always like this and it was a facade. She was spoiled by her parents and never received consequences for her actions, and to add to that she received lots of attention online from a young age. I think the combination of those factors led to her lack of character and standards. She has become empty and superficial. I’m just surprised that she doesn’t even expect a man to provide for her. Weird. I mean her mother was their personal servant for a month after she gave b…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:54 AM
4

Yes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:40 AM
11

He’s the only man to be honest about it. What he’s saying is exactly how men feel about the pickemeishas who forgive cheating. And I mean if you forgive someone for cheating you really don’t have self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:29 AM
33

He never paid for anything, the show did. No neck Ed lied about that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:25 AM
37

One YouTuber I used to like changed her entire face and body because her man kept talking about how much he loved Chantal Jeffries. They’re married now, she pays for everything and he continues to follow pornstars and insta models. They also had a baby and he does absolutely nothing but take pictures of him. I wonder what she gets out of that trash relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/05/20 03:21 AM
9

Fair enough, his comment was decent and I turned off mentally when I read that part lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 10:12 AM
244

I had an insecure rat laugh at me and tell me I sucked at singing. He said this when I was a teenager so I really internalized it. It took hundreds of people to tell me otherwise and literally praise me to get over that. His comment affected me so much that I even stopped singing in the shower or while walking around the house for over a year. Don’t let stank ass rat testicles put you down ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 10:11 AM
54

Tbh didn’t think he’s so insightful. Most women who say men are trash actually are intelligent lmao. Usually it’s pickmeishas who never say it and go on to call men kings etc. it’s a joke, it doesn’t reflect poorly on someone. Especially when said person has traumatic experiences with most of the men in their life and say that as a release. Even men say men are trash ffs. Especially good men will actively state that men are overwhelmingly not doing their part.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 10:08 AM
3

The girl commenting on the post is not the same woman in the picture. It’s a pickmeisha offering her worthless 2 cents on Twitter. Guarantee the woman in the picture ain’t doing all that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:54 AM
45

Glad to hear it! I personally can’t wait to get back out after this pandemic and find fellow HVW to befriend and network with. Honestly wish there was an easy way to find FDS women out there lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 05:26 AM
8

Yep I’ve heard all of that about a million times. Really don’t get it when people say men are the best chefs fucking lol. Yeah they stole the recipes and techniques from the women who were indentured servants in their family. Women have been doing the cooking for millennia and developed every single fucking cooking technique in the world. When women cook it is an obligation. But when men cook it is an art. That is a classic example of misogyny live and well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:35 AM
33

“No oral sex on her yet” does that mean he’s been receiving it 👁 Sad that bare minimum is “good” for men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/20 01:29 AM
6

Personally I’m not accepting a proposal until at least a year. Then I’d have a year gap between then and the actual marriage date. People reveal themselves within 12 months but not by 6 months most of the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 11:38 PM
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