male depravity has exponentially grown since lockdown. try and prove me wrong.

royaldetour · 2020-11-13T02:07:21+00:00

What do they think will come of this creepy behavior? You're going to jump in his truck and give him head bc he deigned to show interest? Tf. I'm mad on your behalf and good for you for calling him out. I hope he felt so embarrassed.

tauruspiscescancer · 2020-11-13T05:17:03+00:00

This exact fucking thing has been happening to me and my sister since we were kids. There's still this one lunatic who drives around the neighborhood (I don't live there anymore) in a white van doing an "unofficial neighborhood watch". He's just driving around creeping on girls and young women. I've heard he's been seen taking photos. Other men in the neighborhood defend him, and a lot of the women accept the lie that he's doing some kind of public service.

I grew up thinking I was paranoid or hallucinating. Of course I wasn't. Men were creeping on me. Driving past multiple times. Slowing down. Leering. They still do.

They feel entitled to intimidate and scare us, and it's their idea of fun.

It's an act of terrorism.

I hate them too.

mirodus · 2020-11-13T01:26:30+00:00

Gross! He’s basically a stalker and doesn’t get any social repercussions or shaming this is the kind of world we live in

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-11-13T05:25:06+00:00

If I ever become a millionaire I’m buying a town and making it women only. Men can come on a day pass if they get like 8 women to vouch for them, but they have to wear body cameras and a remote operated shock collar and leave when the street lights come on. Then I’m going to walk at night every night and enjoy the peace.

flowers4u · 2020-11-13T04:11:50+00:00

I’ve read this is a thing. Creeps have less people to creep on so it’s becoming more obvious or something

guccitechno · 2020-11-13T02:49:34+00:00

Thank you for screaming at his sleazy ass👏🏻. Maybe he will think twice next time

LevelTurbulent · 2020-11-13T13:47:57+00:00

I can't jog anymore. I live in a nice neighborhood and every time I try to jog, some car will pass me really slow, then pull over to the side of the road a little bit ahead of me and wait for me to pass. And every time I turn around and go home.

The first time it happened I wondered why the fuck anybody would do that. It was weird and creepy and I was pissed. But then it kept happening. With different cars every time! Like they're trying to grab me on my quiet street.

I can't even get a half mile from my house. I've talked to other women who have also stopped jogging because they're being harassed on the street.

I used to live in a shitty neighborhood and I was never afraid to jog. But since covid I can't jog in this nice, quiet neighborhood because men want to act like they're going to abduct me because either they want to abduct me or they think it's hilarious to terrorize women. And it's different men, not just one weirdo. That's the worst part to me. Multiple men have driven by me jogging and decided to terrorize me just for fun on the spur of the moment.

ShieldMaidenLagertha · 2020-11-13T05:22:04+00:00

Good for you for screaming! I realize that I listen to too many true crime podcasts, but you might have just saved yourself!

honeybeeroll · 2020-11-13T17:36:37+00:00

GIRL tell me about it, I haven't gone out much in months because outdoor dining only + some of my friends arent comfortable with that, but the few times I've passed by crowded restaurant areas? What the fuck is with the STARING? I also NEVER got bothered in my neighborhood until the pandemic. live in a v crowded area that people commute through, so everyone's super busy, nobody looks at you twice. I've been coming to this area for years before I lived here and again, the same, I can't remember being harassed ever here until the pandemic.

I'm glad you were able to scare that guy off. I feel like these things go either way. Either dudes get scared when you take your balls out of your purse and show them, or they get enraged cuz how dare a woman infringe upon my God given right to be a creep /s.

Your story reminded me, back in college a friend told me when she first got her license, she had just gotten to a stop sign and was maybe taking a couple secs longer than an experienced driver to check the road. Some jackass in a pick up came roaring up behind her out of no where. he started honking and yelling then. Well, he followed her through the stop sign, driving up along side her (when it was a 1 lane road) honking and screaming at her. Her window was open slightly that's why she heard him. She ignored him at first but this dude kept follow and screaming. So finally she screamed "leave me the fuck alone!!" and the guy looked scared and immediately backed off.

Or another one, this was like more than 30 years ago my dad was sitting in his car in a parking lot. A car driven by a young woman was coming down an aisle, and another car driven by an older man cut through a parking space, out into the aisle, and hit her. The man gets out of his car and starts berating and shouting at this young woman saying it's her fault. She doesn't say anything, probably because shes scared being all alone in a lot with this angry man. My dad gets out of the car and says he saw the whole thing, the dude is as fault, he'll be a witness in court, etc. Shut the dude right the fuck up.

Makes me SO angry that these guys do this shit ONLY because they know we likely won't say anything OR because they know even if we do, they can overpower us, run us over/off the road, etc. Fucking disgusting that they get off on terrorizing women simply because they can.

redwineandsolitude · 2020-11-13T17:02:30+00:00

100% agree. I took a walk a few weeks ago and a truck (why is it always a truck?) full of guys (I think some kind of construction or maintenance workers) leered at me. It was hot as hell so I was wearing workout pants (which make my butt look great but now considering throwing them away). Honestly this pandemic sucks for women because working out outdoors is a way different experience. I went on a walk date in a park🤮this summer when it was also scorching hot and the LVM I was with encourages me to take my shirt off and just wear my sports bra. He didn’t understand why I would be hesitant to do that. This is why I’m looking forward to getting older and getting less attention from men.

purasangria · 2020-11-13T17:49:43+00:00

I was cycling once with a male friend who ran a stop sign. As I was stopped at the very stop sign that my stupid friend ran, a man in a car rolled down his window and yelled at me, “You should tell your friend to stop for stop signs.” I replied, “Why don’t you tell him yourself?” and then as I rode onward, the man tried to sideswipe me with his car, which likely would have resulted in serious injury to me, had he been successful.

Men are dangerous. If you can’t avoid random men, at least be prepared to record every interaction with them where conflict is likely.

Newwavesupport3657 · 2020-11-13T06:28:27+00:00

This made me so nervous reading! Glad you stood up for yourself and it worked!

God they’re gross... I had a man asking me if I wanted to “kick it with him” for $50. He was serious. Scared the crap out of me I walked away and called the police.

-sIm0n3 · 2020-11-13T19:25:03+00:00

I was walking in my neighborhood at about 8pm with a girl friend of mine when an SUV full of dudes pulled up and the back passenger flung the door open right in front of us. We were startled and stared at them with our mouths open, but then one guy said, “Oh she has a stick.” I’m almost 100% certain they were about to pick us off the street for trafficking or worse. THANK BUDDHA for my walking stick. I would’ve had to beat the bricks off those dusty men. I remember hearing doors on all sides open, they were ready to attack. The faces I could see in the car had the creepiest smirks. When they left we were like what in the f*ck was that about. Men are weird.

2020-11-13T22:36:21+00:00

yeah but how are men meant to know how to go up to women now!! it’s political correctness gone mad!! What do you mean I can’t follow a woman at night from my car

anon3325 · 2020-11-15T16:51:54+00:00

That’s incredibly scary, to be followed by a car three times. I’m glad you spoke up and scared them off. The audacity of men astounds me.

I was walking around my neighborhood about a month ago when a man at a stop light makes a big point to stare at me, and say just loud enough that I can hear, “I want to be balls deep in that a.” I immediately whip around and tell him to F* OFF (he sped off so fast like the coward he is). A bunch of people stared at me too but I was fuming. This man was middle aged and probably had a wife and kids, but he’s out here leering at a young girl. The DEPRAVITY is astronomical.

Oh and when I mentioned this incident to a few family members, one of their first questions was what I was wearing 😒🙄

Title	male depravity has exponentially grown since lockdown. try and prove me wrong.
Author	tauruspiscescancer
Upvotes	565
Comments	48
Date	November 13, 2020 1:07 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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