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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 4 | Man tries to challenge my standards when I say walks are not datesFirst of all, you’re*** 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/21 09:48 PM |
| 43 | It's all about how they ~perceive~ usthey gotta mansplain again 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️ they can't be helped | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 01:36 PM |
| 3 | Women are attracted to money...“Women care about money” like a projection.... EVERYONE CARES ABOUT FUCKING MONEY AND MEN ARE OBBBSSEEESSSSED WITH MONEY | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 10:49 AM |
| 2 | On male Pick Me BehaviorYay i love this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 10:47 AM |
| 11 | Men’s HygieneMy first boyfriend literally traumatized me. I would literally cry and bawl because he never washed his face and I bought him skincare routine stuff so he could fucking wash his face. When I broke up with him after a year he negged me saying his next gf gave him bjs and I didn’t. Like, I wish I left earlier or I wish I never got with him in the first place but I physically couldn’t because he was homeless and would always appeal to my guilt. Like... men are fucking gross. Like washing the face b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 10:42 AM |
| 44 | The friend zone doesn't existHate to be that debbie downer but I fucking hate how we put these average guys on the throne when he says one thing that defends us and guys act like its the next best thing made since jordan peterson(who thinks he’s logical and deep by rephrasing a bunch of quotes from machiavelli tyvm) like thank you for pointing out the obvious 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ if this jokester was a woman she’d be labelled as salty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 10:32 AM |
| 3 | The “talking” stage and why it’s not flattering or beneficial to womenEXACTLY. I honestly hope the best for them, but i don’t want anything to do with them anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:58 AM |
| 23 | The “talking” stage and why it’s not flattering or beneficial to womenThank you for your kind words. Honestly, I laughed after he said that I had no ambition and said that if he was looking for ambition he should have been straight up with me 6 months ago and if I was a girl of ambition I would have stuck by his side and worked on being “ambitious” or whatever that means with him or left him 6 months ago to find someone who doesn’t care for ambition and he said he doesn’t know what he wants or looking for . I blocked him and we didn’t talk after that.😂 yeah it is … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 07:19 AM |
| 3 | What are your thoughts on a 4-5 year old relationship, no ring? Celebrity editionI love Taylor! I think she’s also a recovering pickme, but come on the media literally shits on her all the time! She has a thriving career and a younger hot boy toy. Who cares if they don’t get married she has a billion other suitors anyways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:58 AM |
| 126 | The “talking” stage and why it’s not flattering or beneficial to womenUgh honestly yeah. I “talked” to a guy who stringed me along for 6 months. He could literally do everything for you, be there for you and still stab you in the back. We were best friends, he was always there for me. I stopped having sex with him for 4 months (and he “respected”) and he still stuck by my side everyday and did nice things for me. We even dated for two weeks but he broke up with me saying he didn’t feel like we were compatible in the middle of our “situationship”. I gave him an ult… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 05:43 AM |
| 2 | Men get off on treating women like shitWooppsssssssssswooops kidding kidding i love men 😍❤️👍🏼 im straight 😜🎉🤑why would i ever hAte men??? 💅🏼🤷🏻♀️I love my dad and my brother i would never be a misANdRIsT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 12:21 AM |
| 6 | Having Pickme Dreams?Aww! Its okay! Maybe you were trying to seek closure from it. I remember Dr. Ramani , youtuber and clinical psychologist? dealing with narcissists talks about rumination as a way for our brains to process a situation that doesnt make sense... and that’s how i see it. You can continue thinking about him years after the break up cause thats just your brain processing and trying to seek closure but it doesn’t mean you’re pickme or still iN lOvE. Hope you well for your healing 😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:11 PM |
| 85 | How to deal with mentally challenged LVMsLike no. My brother is fully disabled from birth and i love him and most of the times he is sweet. but sometimes he says outwardly misogynistic shit and ill start a fight. Like disability is disability and obviously that needs to be taken with compassion but does not warrant them a free pass to everything Like you dont have to start a fight with your coworker but if he is disrespectful towards you there is no need to tolerate it just because hes got issues. Treat him the same as all men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 47 | I deleted Tinder. This time for good, thanks to FDS.OMG YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!! Im so glad to hear this :) i downloaded tinder for the first time when i was 18 and it first came out and always bounced back on it when i was single till yikes... last year? Before i was 24??? And literally all i got from tinder is a shit ton of ptsd, funny stories about shit men so i can relate with other women about how shitty men can be, and years of my prime time i coulda used on levelling up myself 🤨 also i swear the same men be on it with the same profile pics like 4 … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 04:03 PM |
| 29 | Men harassing me and my dog?Ugh first of all sorry for your experience I always find men having to ruin everything fun 🥲 I honestly just walk faster like im really busy and just pretend to run/ jog and just give them a really weird face like this 😐(not outwardly disgusted or angry but that what the fuck are you doing, you’re so lame) kind of face and they usually feel a bit embarrassed and walk off or they’ll start up trying to talk at me like “what did i do??” I just say 😟 nothing and walk away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:54 PM |
| 73 | What does good sex even look like?This might be a tangent but also I’ve been with a man who was so fucking obsessed with trying to make me cum and I felt so much pressure like my body is not your ego booster k 😓 i think a good bed partner really needs to be focused on pleasing you. Not trying to “perform” but actually wanting to please you and genuinely enjoying themselves while they’re attuned to you.... and that takes EmPaThY but men are TOO lOgiCAl to have any 🤔 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:47 PM |
| 71 | "Men want to be judged on their intentions, not on their actions"Like the reason why men frame women to be chatty is because they are the biggest talkers- they can’t stand not running their mouths and not being the centre of attention for more than 5 minutes 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:44 PM |
| 11 | P&G survey shows that 31% of men say they do most of the chores — but just 2% of women agreed that their spouse took on most of the workNo words just yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 222 | Men may complain that reports of their lack of contribution to childcare have been exaggerated but science has the receiptsLiterally my dad is the best dad in the world according to my mom’s friends and family and she’s the luckiest person in the world to have such a kind and considerate husband but I have not been with him for more than 2 hours at a time | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:40 PM |
| 19 | Thank you!🥺 we love you too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 4 | What is your stance on your husband drinking during your pregnancy?If it bothers me, then he shouldn’t and if it genuinely does not bother me he should enjoy himself! But also he should always be watching for my reactions and prepare to sober the fuck up when my face turns from 😄 to 😓 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:38 PM |
| 23 | How do you avoid casual sex, especially when you are horny, single and wants to remain single?Yea while I agree with the comment above, I don’t agree with therapy being the be-all-end-all solution to well-being. I have had a therapist for the past 7 years, and had help from professionals and yes while I found them to be super super helpful (and still undergoing whenever i have the means to!)but in the end nothing is as healing as being surrounded by people who are stable and empathetic constantly and re-learning from those experiences that you’re not a fuck up, and you can do anything an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | What progress and solidarity looks like.Now : you’re not dramatic like other girls :) Me: (looks at him and does not respond) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:19 PM |
| 112 | How do you avoid casual sex, especially when you are horny, single and wants to remain single?I got me a nice vibrator and masterbate 😜 (this is coming from a person who used to hook up as a past time activity pre-covid) and also now i just avoid places where its easy to have casual sex / dont hang out with a guy one on one> like if i wanna get drunk and dance ill call up one of my girlfriends and wine and dine in and turn on some good music and dance! And also, its okay to still have urges i just accept them that theyll come and go! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 01:11 PM |
| 15 | Build a Bob anthemOh..... ohhhhhh nooooooooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 05:45 PM |
| 3 | FACT: MORE than 1 out of 4 men 30+ that are vehemently posting about women hitting the wall at 30 are literally BALDING noticeably!Honestly! One thing i learned is that ugly men also ugly on the inside 😥😥😥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 07:37 AM |
| 121 | FACT: MORE than 1 out of 4 men 30+ that are vehemently posting about women hitting the wall at 30 are literally BALDING noticeably!Omg i posted a comment about my ex balding and got MAD scrotes pretending to be a woman writing me a whole essay on how i shouldn’t discriminate against appearance 😂😂😂 okay alex calm down if i was discriminating i truly wouldn’t have dated my ex but now i will 😎😎😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 02:39 AM |
| 5 | How to spot a cheating manHey. Your story is so powerful and has been extremely enlightening for all of us. Thank you for your service by writing this and I really do hope the best for your future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 12:18 PM |
| 32 | When men call you overly emotionalHonestly when people say that now i just laugh cause they think that they’re lOgIcAL but clearly they’re not logical enough to think that saying that only makes them look emotionally dense tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:15 PM |
| 3 | I love how when you post on fds men always wanna individually message you to neg you 😂😂😂Could i please screenshot this? Thank you please speak out louder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:39 PM |
| 2 | I love how when you post on fds men always wanna individually message you to neg you 😂😂😂You’re right. Thanks for reminding me :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:30 PM |
| 3 | I love how when you post on fds men always wanna individually message you to neg you 😂😂😂Honestly, i didn’t think of responding- but i find it so annoying that men can also view our posts and always want to engage 😥 like ... you have the 90% of reddit community that are men oroented??? Is that not enough for them???? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:23 PM |
| 2 | I love how when you post on fds men always wanna individually message you to neg you 😂😂😂Girl! I am enjoying my new years 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ from now on i am just gonna block ofc!!! Im just not an avid poster so i thought it was interesting how i get msgs from men always being salty.... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 01:11 PM |
| 10 | Letting Go of Pickme Shame: Stop Individualizing Systemic Oppression, a.k.a. It's NOT Your FaultThank you. So eloquently said. I’m surprised this isn’t pinned to the top posts because this is so needed. So many people are dealing with their toxic shame and cringing at their old self- when in reality they should even be proud at the fact that they have come to a point where they could acknowledge a past self that is not identical to their current self. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 12:42 PM |
| 3 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereWho is letting this mans run his mouth....? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:15 AM |
| 3 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereHahaha! Okay! Blocks | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:13 AM |
| 16 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!If you have girls and guys that are pickmes and say that you’re shallow you can just nudge it off with indifference “it’s just a preference 🤷🏻♀️” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Mother-daughter relationships and how patriarchy shapes itWow this has easily been the most insightful reads in my life. Thank you so much for putting up this link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 02:09 PM |
| 8 | Scrotes do not know how to take a hint. For reference, this wasn't even a dating app so why would I give my number away to a stranger? Even if it was a dating app, I still wouldn't bother. What was he really expecting other than a block? Entitlement is on sale!Girl dont respond! U dont have to | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 01:39 PM |
| 216 | I've been dating a man for 2 months nowUh... i think ur mans need to be put still on suspicion usually men project their infidelity and blame their wife for cheating on them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 04:47 PM |
| 89 | My friend she wouldn’t mind being casually proposed to while doing dishes or taking out garbage - I hope I never get to this pointI absolutely love that its an ex 😂 yas throw the whole mans out dont let men run their mouth for more than 5 mins 🤫 they should be seen not heard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Hard to choose just one flair for this NVM...Throw the whole man out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Hi I just wanted to thank FDS for helping me with 5 years of on and off tinder addictionThank you for the kind words my friend. As to you. 🥺😍 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:42 PM |
| 17 | even if you don’t like or agree with the themes in WAP, you can agree that society is always quick to comment on women’s sexuality and promiscuousness but won’t say shit about the violence and danger that we are subject to everyday.😔another projection men have made! Since they’re the real whores and cannot face the fact that they cannot live one day without the help of women in their lives. They get so sad and sensitive when one woman actually does them a favour to sexualize themselves....Like damn u were birthed from that stretched vagina theyre so delusional its so sad. Pray for them 🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:40 PM |
| 8 | Definitely how legitimate research studies are conductedOH SHIT I GOT THE SAME MESSAGE SOME SHADY SHIT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Hi I just wanted to thank FDS for helping me with 5 years of on and off tinder addictionRIGHT?! it's.a whole world scam that we were born into and it takes so much effort/ practice to unpack it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Hi I just wanted to thank FDS for helping me with 5 years of on and off tinder addictionthank you <3 i hope every single woman on earth gets to come to fds values | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Hi I just wanted to thank FDS for helping me with 5 years of on and off tinder addictionyAS i agree with my whole heart EVERYTHING you said and i think EVEN in the worst time of my life I will never forget How LOW i could go introducing men (who i thought were going to 'save me') into my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Hi I just wanted to thank FDS for helping me with 5 years of on and off tinder addictiongirl I have been in therapy for the past 6 years on and off (depending on whether I am insured or not)! I have always had issues with my mom since she had bpd, and my brother who is permanently disabled from birth and my dad who has been providing for our family (with i feel like undiagnosed adhd) woops I think my calculation went wrong but I am 24 right now. After I got trapped into a really abusive, and HOMELESS and THEIF(which i found out 3 years after our breakup?!) first ex I had started my… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 01:54 PM |
| 1 | Guy is calling me honey on tinder, is that a red flag?A guy on tinder is a red flag | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Don’t ask me if I can cook unless you’re prepared to replace my brakes and do an oil change on my car.Men go provide for me and build me a fucking house from scratch | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 03:42 PM |
| 31 | Note to selfYaaas i also owe myself an apology for treating myself like im average. If i dont exist the world doesnt either | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 09:06 AM |
| 8 | How long to wait for sex with someone new?Wait longer than it takes YOU to mean it and say “i love you” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 06:45 AM |
| 6 | Imagine relating a man providing for his family to women’s bodily autonomy like they’re even remotely the same thing. Real smooth brain hours.I will agree with her if the man has to go out and work and be sexually harrassed by their old saggy stinky supervisor who are 20 years older than him just to bring food on the table | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 06:43 AM |
| 9 | TeeheeLMAO MEEEE i swear 40% of my anxiety disappeared once i stopped dating | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 06:39 AM |
| 3 | This man is the only HVM I will agree onYessss girl i agree with you asian men are so full of shit and there’s a bunch of population called the copino in Philippines cause korean men go there to sleep with prostitutes and disappear after they impregnate them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:06 AM |
| 3 | This man is the only HVM I will agree onOmg really...??? I would personally say that asian men go to both extremes of being the most absolute disgusting small penised psychos (majority) and a smaaall number of men who are decent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:05 AM |
| 9 | This man is the only HVM I will agree onShe once said in an interview that she told her friends that she would marry her first love, and they all told her first love doesn’t last. They met at work when she was in her teenage years! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 03:04 AM |
| 129 | Stop letting men panic you into action.We need to rename this sub to /femaleWokeAndHappyAndNeverGoingBackStrategies yaaaas girl preach | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:44 PM |
| 20 | if that ain’t the truth. we need to start looking at cheating as the man’s defect and not what the woman was lacking.You know what they say once a cheater forever a cheater! We also need to stop making a “cheater” sound like he got game... and the one who got cheated on a victim like we need to reframe our wording to “cheaters cheat because they lack self awareness and are so lonely and sad people” so they can actually feel shamed for their actions | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:40 PM |
| 44 | Stop calling Jason Momoa a HVM. He's lowest of the LVMS.THIS OMG THE AMOUNT OF PEOPLE CALLING HIM A HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 06:22 AM |
| 39 | I think this is supposed to be funny, but I’ve noticed a trend of women being incredibly desperate for a proposal on social media lately. Don’t be like this. You’re so much better than this.What the fuck. This is not what actual reality is like 😹 what benefits does being married give to women lol they really need to stop projecting their desperateness onto women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:41 AM |
| 29 | Scrotes really love being up on women's businessLeave 👏the 👏damn👏girl👏alone Regardless, She still thriving anyways with alvin and even if that dont work out there’s a 100000000000 hvm waiting up to date her or she can still live happy with a billion friends and family and money unlike this loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 05:33 AM |
| 7 | Porn continues to ruin everything and continues to exploit and objectify women’s bodiesWhat the shit?????? As soon as i was thinking “wow these men have no bounds” they just keep surprising me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:51 AM |
| 104 | Beyond red flags: Don’t settle for the bare minimumI keep thinking what the reactions would be like if he were a women “omg she is such a snob why can’t she just be pOsITiVe” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:38 AM |
| 51 | One of the top posts in the dating advice subreddit reddit. LVM are upset that women don't approach them! When will men understand that women want a confident man that puts in effort to date them.Omg what a clown! Doesn’t he know that the bar is already so low for men and he still can’t win at dating? 🤹♀️🎭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:29 AM |
| 94 | male depravity has exponentially grown since lockdown. try and prove me wrong.Gross! He’s basically a stalker and doesn’t get any social repercussions or shaming this is the kind of world we live in | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:26 AM |
| 6 | The kid doesn't have 'game', he's being a nice human being.Honestly its sorta fucked that dude has his whole face out in his tweet. I’d be embarrassed to be that sick | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/11/20 01:24 AM |
| 25 | Damn right sis 👸🏽💅🏿💅🏽💅🏻Damn... right? We all needed to hear this! The fact that we don’t even know our potentials and we’re wasting away our time building “potential” lvms....? Ya im staying single and building myself up tyvm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 11:07 AM |
| 3 | THIS is why we have FDS - at least he’s more honest about it than some men are. Gross!!What the actual fuck...? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 08:00 AM |
| 9 | How about neither?Or you dump them both and live your best life and find yourself a man that will build you 🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:58 AM |
| 14 | Oh Holy HellFirst of all the age difference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:56 AM |
| 49 | Girls who are mature for their age...Honestly I realized that being mature for your age is a sign of trauma. Parents who have been unequipped to regulate their own mood made the girls grow fast and have to take ownership to “survive” which ends up translating having to do the same for romantic relationships... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 07:53 AM |
| 1 | If a man brings this guy up on the first date, run for your f*cking life.I HONESTLY CANNOT I SWEAR TO GOD EVERY WHITE BOY I HAVE MET HAS SOMETHING MARVELOUS TO SAY ABOUT JORDAN PETERSON COME ON NOW HE HASNT SAID ANYTHING NEW OR AMAZING YALL JUST WANNA KISS ASS CAUSE HE IS WHITE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:19 AM |
| 2 | It's so real it's not even funny. LVM are vultures.I AM CACKLING AHSHFJDJEHAHAHA | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 06:16 AM |
| 3 | You love to see itYes! This is the kind of energy we need to see | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | It's Not That I Can't Find A Man To Love Me, I Can't Find A Man I LoveI honestly agree with this! Men have been always the one to judge and come up with a laundry list of what they want in a women it has taken them off the radar because the focus has shifted towards women . We NEED to get them as a collective and stop letting SCROTES run wild! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Truth from a QueenI remember my ex told me that he won’t commit because I’m not ambitious lol like and that was coming from a druggie like okay fuck off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:22 PM |
| 2 | My man wants to take care of me and it is such a change from all the LVM I’ve dated who expect me to “pull my weight”Aww! I hope that he really is the HVM | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 02:10 AM |
| 14 | Don't send nudes. EVER.What do you do if you have already sent them a long time ago? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 03:32 PM |
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